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| 39 | “Chads” and “Tyrones” are trash whose behavior should not be an example | DMD12345 | /r/ExRedPill | 04/12/23 05:15 PM | |
| 9 | “Status” and “social proof” are mostly bullshit concepts the red pill just loves to peddle | DMD12345 | /r/ExRedPill | 29/12/22 02:46 AM | |
| 7 | Starting to understand my “aura” more. | DMD12345 | /r/askTRP | 14/06/21 02:09 AM | |
| 4 | How to hold my frame even in tough times | DMD12345 | /r/askTRP | 22/04/21 01:59 AM | |
| 0 | I ain’t even wishing this bitch a happy birthday | DMD12345 | /r/askTRP | 20/05/21 05:36 AM |
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| 6 | Trying to avoid redpill menThe complaining about his ex, especially in the early stages of dating, and sending you content about holding women accountable is a major red flag. Check his Instagram following as well. | /r/ExRedPill | 15/09/24 10:01 AM |
| 10 | I don't believe that "every woman sleeps with chads"I don’t think that plan will work, but I wish you the best of luck | /r/ExRedPill | 29/07/24 03:28 AM |
| 9 | I don't believe that "every woman sleeps with chads"Ok…so what? Why are you looking at how attractive men are? you sure you’re not into guys? | /r/ExRedPill | 29/07/24 02:24 AM |
| 11 | I don't believe that "every woman sleeps with chads"Wow I have yet to meet these mythical men and learn their magical abilities to slay endless amounts of poon by just glancing at the ladies. Apparently they don’t even have to talk to the women or flirt with them, just glance right over and wink at them and the ladies panties come right off, that’s what you would think with the way incels describe it 🤣🤣🤣 | /r/ExRedPill | 28/07/24 11:13 PM |
| 28 | I don't believe that "every woman sleeps with chads"Who is this Chad dude? Sounds like a made up character by a 13 year old. | /r/ExRedPill | 28/07/24 09:17 PM |
| 5 | If a "praxiology" tells me what I should desire, it's garbage.“Praexology” is a made up word and field of study. If you use that word around any established PHD in Psychology, you will be laughed out of the room as soon as you start explaining it. Rollo’s entire theory and “research” is pseudoscience, cherry picked statistics, and cartoonishly ridiculous stereotypes of “modern women” being ultra promiscuous nymphos that screw anything with a dick between its legs. In short, the red pill is a bunch of bullshit, and Rollo’s book “The Rational Male” is anythi… | /r/ExRedPill | 06/05/24 12:14 PM |
| 3 | What's the nuance I'm missing on the criticism of incels telling women to lower their standards vs. people here telling men that are struggling to date to lower their standards.Looks do play a role I will admit, but women usually give men a little more leeway in the appearance department as long as the man they are talking to is not a slob. Even physically attractive men can dress (and smell) like slobs and destroy their chances with a woman they’re interested in. First impressions are hard to erase. | /r/ExRedPill | 01/05/24 11:04 PM |
| 13 | What's the nuance I'm missing on the criticism of incels telling women to lower their standards vs. people here telling men that are struggling to date to lower their standards.They apply high school stereotypes (nerd, jock, etc.) to grown adults’ dating lives. I’ve experienced the opposite, the more attractive people I’ve spoken to are more pleasant to interact with as well having better social and communication skills. The nastiest people I’ve met were actually not that attractive. | /r/ExRedPill | 01/05/24 10:25 AM |
| 26 | I can’t think about rp guys raising a childrenMany red pilled men are failed fathers and husbands or are in the process of failing to fulfill their household and family responsibilities. They’ll likely pass on the negativity, bitterness, and resentment towards their children and become abusive or a deadbeat. The cycle will likely continue with their children, who if boys, will grow up to become abusive or toxic. If girls, they will likely be resentful towards men and make bad choices in partners. | /r/ExRedPill | 19/04/24 04:06 PM |
| -1 | The Redpill Gurus Have Valuable AdviceDepends on what kind of advice you take from them. The common sense stuff like being confident, masculine, having a plan in life, looking presentable, staying fit and not being a doormat is generic advice you can find in any self help book. If you apply the toxic mind games and manipulation when it comes to their dating advice, then that relationship will become toxic and eventually fail. If the woman is an attractive, intelligent, and well adjusted one, she will see the manipulation games as a … | /r/ExRedPill | 03/04/24 04:27 PM |
| 7 | What are signs of a Man's high body count?There isn’t a sign in particular, but i guess a stereotypical behavior would be trying to be “smooth” right off the bat and escalating the sexual ladder quickly. But that isn’t to say all promiscuous men are like that. | /r/ExRedPill | 15/02/24 10:39 PM |
| 13 | Red pill hypocrisy and circular logicYes the thinking is extremely black and white with no nuance, which is common in those with autism. | /r/ExRedPill | 02/02/24 02:33 AM |
| 14 | Red pill hypocrisy and circular logicRed pillers and black pillers seem to be on the spectrum | /r/ExRedPill | 02/02/24 01:45 AM |
| 26 | High dating standards are certainly a big reason for more people being single and/or lonelySo true, I’d rather have a woman with her own income and career that loves and respects me for the man I am instead of a woman who’s with me for convenience. Men that complain about women today having “too high standards” are usually boring, miserable people to be around. They want a woman to not work and be solely dependent on them, sounds like they want an overgrown child instead of a fully functioning adult. Usually men with that mentality want to leverage their resources and money over a wom… | /r/ExRedPill | 15/01/24 11:42 AM |
| 1 | The red pill says it's all about money, status, looks, and game. Is this true? What would you say are the top traits women ages 24-28 look for in a man when wanting a relationship?No women aren’t as picky with size as they say they are. As long as you don’t have a micropenis, an inability to get an erection, or some weird deformity that makes you unable to penetrate you will be fine. | /r/ExRedPill | 11/12/23 11:34 PM |
| 1 | “Chads” and “Tyrones” are trash whose behavior should not be an exampleYeah mostly women that are trashy, low-iq degenerates. I don’t know any attractive women who I associate with that would find any of the aforementioned characters in my post appealing. They wouldn’t even consider them for a fling. | /r/ExRedPill | 05/12/23 02:38 PM |
| 1 | “Chads” and “Tyrones” are trash whose behavior should not be an exampleI mean if you’re coming up with scenarios with made up characters to explain why you’re not getting laid or dating, then you need some serious therapy. | /r/ExRedPill | 05/12/23 04:28 AM |
| 1 | “Chads” and “Tyrones” are trash whose behavior should not be an exampleIt does differ, either way it’s ridiculous, overly exaggerated and fails to take in the individual nuances and preferences of people’s dating lives. | /r/ExRedPill | 05/12/23 02:43 AM |
| 2 | “Chads” and “Tyrones” are trash whose behavior should not be an exampleMany of these people that fit the mold of these fictional “Chads, “Tyrones,” and “Stacys” end up getting STD’s and/or unwanted pregnancies, as well as dealing with substance abuse, mental health issues, and financial problems as they get older. If they engage in illegal activities or associate with criminals, you can also add dead or in prison. They usually end up alone and aging like milk, and failing as parents if they have children. Red Pillers conveniently leave that part out. | /r/ExRedPill | 05/12/23 12:20 AM |
| 4 | “Chads” and “Tyrones” are trash whose behavior should not be an exampleWell said! | /r/ExRedPill | 04/12/23 11:33 PM |
| 6 | “Chads” and “Tyrones” are trash whose behavior should not be an exampleBecause this made up “Chad” or “Pookie” is a projection of their insecurities and how they would treat a woman and their children. | /r/ExRedPill | 04/12/23 09:07 PM |
| 0 | “Chads” and “Tyrones” are trash whose behavior should not be an exampleI may have been a bit harsh in my wording. But it is possible that people who are “low-quality” can reform themselves to be decent people after some self-reflection and much needed criticism. I was using the term to describe their behavior and conduct. | /r/ExRedPill | 04/12/23 09:05 PM |
| 2 | “Chads” and “Tyrones” are trash whose behavior should not be an example“Chad” is a made up character that is a projection of the red/black pillers insecurities, and in a way what they would do to a woman if they got one. The red pillers interpretation of this mythical man differs. In some scenarios he’s that attractive, successful stud with a chiseled physique and in others he’s the lowdown criminal bad boy. Basically, a complete caricature of what an “alpha male” is. | /r/ExRedPill | 04/12/23 09:00 PM |
| 4 | “Chads” and “Tyrones” are trash whose behavior should not be an exampleBy normal I meant well adjusted but yeah game’s a skill that can be learned. But to have what those guys had you need to have the right personality for it otherwise it can be draining. I know my limits when it comes to dating and work with them. While I can date a couple women at a time, the “revolving door” can be very time consuming and requires a ton of work. | /r/ExRedPill | 04/12/23 06:11 PM |
| 8 | “Chads” and “Tyrones” are trash whose behavior should not be an exampleI call those normal guys that are fun to be around. Cool dudes you can associate with and learn how to be successful with women, but you have put the ego aside, ask questions, and listen to what they say. | /r/ExRedPill | 04/12/23 05:53 PM |
| 15 | “Chads” and “Tyrones” are trash whose behavior should not be an exampleWell yeah, these characters red/black pillers make up are a projection of their insecurities. | /r/ExRedPill | 04/12/23 05:49 PM |
| 9 | “Chads” and “Tyrones” are trash whose behavior should not be an exampleExactly what I thought, it’s simple projection. Also they like to portray “Chad” or “Tyrone” as unemployed and living a criminal lifestyle, yet somehow despite being a total lowlife, he manages to get a harem of hotties. At that point it’s like, dude stop playing Grand Theft Auto and get out there and talk to women in person 🤣🤣 | /r/ExRedPill | 04/12/23 05:48 PM |
| 6 | The red pill says it's all about money, status, looks, and game. Is this true? What would you say are the top traits women ages 24-28 look for in a man when wanting a relationship?Exactly! Men that do well with women, whether casual or long term get rejected plenty of times, they just brush it off and move on. They don’t get phased by rejection because they understand not every woman they talk to is gonna be attracted to them. | /r/ExRedPill | 03/12/23 12:41 AM |
| 3 | The red pill says it's all about money, status, looks, and game. Is this true? What would you say are the top traits women ages 24-28 look for in a man when wanting a relationship?No…it’s called firsthand experience | /r/ExRedPill | 02/12/23 11:37 PM |
| 23 | The red pill says it's all about money, status, looks, and game. Is this true? What would you say are the top traits women ages 24-28 look for in a man when wanting a relationship?Looks and game. Most men aren’t 6’ millionaires with 6”cocks that have a ton of status and most women I met won’t hold out their whole lives for the mythical man that checks all 4 boxes perfectly. If you look presentable, have decent social skills, as well as emotional intelligence, and aren’t an unemployed bum living in a cardboard box, you’ll be fine with a lot of women you come across. And yes, these women can be attractive ones as well. | /r/ExRedPill | 02/12/23 08:01 PM |
| 2 | Can high promiscuity damage you psychically ?As long as you’re careful and don’t get any STD’s or engage in any extreme hardcore kinks you should be fine lol | /r/ExRedPill | 23/10/23 07:16 PM |
| 1 | Do men really get better with age? Aren't you more likely trying to dodge the creepy label than be a stud with younger women?Yeah younger women will easily have a fling with an attractive man in his 30’s given he’s also fun to be around and not so uptight, which is a problem many older single men run into. money doesn’t even have to be part of the equation. Trying to go long term however is usually a hard sell to do, usually for the reason you mentioned, the woman’s fear of judgement from family and friends because of the age gap. | /r/ExRedPill | 01/08/23 01:09 AM |
| 8 | Do men really get better with age? Aren't you more likely trying to dodge the creepy label than be a stud with younger women?Agreed. If the guy looks like a slob and is boring to be around then him getting younger women, let alone any woman that is decently attractive, is completely out of the question. Unless he decides to lead with his wallet, which in that case he’s setting himself up to be used for his resources, which will result in a very miserable experience. | /r/ExRedPill | 01/08/23 12:11 AM |
| 8 | Do men really get better with age? Aren't you more likely trying to dodge the creepy label than be a stud with younger women?Depends. If a man keeps up his appearance (exercising, dressing well, and keep up his grooming) then it would be possible for a man in his 30’s (likely early 30’s that is) to get with women in their early-mid twenties. But once a man hits his mid-late 30’s-early 40s, women in their mid-late twenties is usually the youngest he’ll be able to pull. Most women in their early twenties will not want to be with a man that much older than them, as they will most likely feel the expectations that man wil… | /r/ExRedPill | 31/07/23 10:56 PM |
| 2 | RP claims women live life on easy modeNo they don’t, when a woman goes out with her friends red pillers have no idea how many douchebags and creeps that approach her, and she has to be polite when rejecting them because she has no idea how they will react. They could end up stalking her when she’s on her way home and possibly raping or murdering her. That doesn’t sound like living life on easy mode. | /r/ExRedPill | 16/07/23 01:21 AM |
| 3 | I would love for Matt cross too become just like Kevin samuels 😈Matt Cross isn’t even worth spending the energy to wish him ill will, he may be an idiot that has horrible, resentful views on women and gives equally bad dating advice, but I don’t think he should drop dead. Now if he got smacked by a chick on camera that would be hilarious and well-deserved. | /r/ExRedPill | 04/07/23 03:36 AM |
| 3 | Rejecting modern dating advice for men and choosing honest vulnerabilityBeing vulnerable takes way more strength than being closed off. When a man is vulnerable, he is authentic, relatable, and it adds a personality and character to him. Which will be the ultimate factor in a woman being sexually attracted to him. A closed off man isn’t relatable and usually comes across as robotic and creepy. | /r/ExRedPill | 12/06/23 12:20 AM |
| 2 | How can I cure this toxic idea (Table, Restourant.)Well a man that’s a pushover isn’t attractive either. It’s possible for a man to be strong but also caring, kind, and considering the needs and wants of others. It’s all about balance and nuance. A real man is a lover to his woman, but a warrior when the situation calls for it. | /r/ExRedPill | 03/06/23 12:02 AM |
| 4 | Are most women really attracted to dominant "alpha males"?Women that are of decent character and quality like men who are confident and are able to socially interact with others in a decent manner. Men that call themselves “alpha males” tend to be obnoxious douchebags that really don’t do all that well with attractive women, that shit may have worked in high school, but a grown ass man in his 30’s behaving like that? Most people would think he’s a clown. | /r/ExRedPill | 02/05/23 07:56 PM |
| 1 | Are most women really attracted to dominant "alpha males"?Women that are of decent character and quality like men who are confident and are able to socially interact with others in a decent manner. Men that call themselves “alpha males” tend to be obnoxious douchebags that really don’t do all that well with attractive women, that shit may have worked in high school, but a grown ass man in his 30’s behaving like that? Most people would think he’s a clown. | /r/ExRedPill | 02/05/23 07:56 PM |
| 12 | Men who were Red Pill, but are not anymore, what was the single most important, hard lesson you learned that led to you leaving?That I whiffed on a lot of opportunities with women because of “muh masculinity” when it’s actually way more masculine to show emotional depth and interest in a woman. | /r/ExRedPill | 28/04/23 09:59 PM |
| 1 | Hey guysLate response but sure, John Anthony Lifestyle is probably the best out there. Honorable mentions are Mr. Locario, Miles Cunningham, Kazaggin, and Mr. 1950. While all those guys sell programs, you shouldn’t need to purchase them, their free content alone is extremely helpful. | /r/ExRedPill | 09/04/23 11:52 PM |
| 3 | How do I stop chasing women for validation?3 is an important one that gets overlooked. Many men think they need to be “hard” to get women. While being strong emotionally and mentally is important to have a success with women and everything else in life, being a total hardass that doesn’t express any empathy is a complete turnoff to women who are high quality. They won’t be able to relate to the guy and will possibly think he’s a creepy psychopath. | /r/ExRedPill | 09/04/23 04:19 PM |
| 7 | Hey guysIt was hard to come to terms with at first, but then I realized following the red pill ideology was doing nothing to make my life better. I started listening to actual dating coaches that have good experiences with women and associating with men who are successful with women and it quickly dismantled all the red pill garbage I was taking as gospel. | /r/ExRedPill | 12/03/23 11:19 PM |
| 5 | How low is the female sex drive compared to the male one?Watch Mr. Locario, YouTube how to attract women without using your looks. He’s pretty spot on. | /r/ExRedPill | 15/02/23 05:17 PM |
| 17 | How low is the female sex drive compared to the male one?Women love sex just as much, if not more than men. besides physical attraction, there’s more buttons to push when it comes to turning them on. Women may be initially attracted to a man’s looks, but it’s his behavior and personality that will ultimately determine if she finds him sexually attractive. This is why you’ll often see average looking men with very attractive women. | /r/ExRedPill | 15/02/23 04:35 PM |
| 3 | I hate men dating cultureIf cold approach ain’t your thing, the best thing to do is get involved in activities were women will be around. While doing something you enjoy, this gives you an automatic conversation starter and women tend to be more socially receptive at these events, as usually alcohol isn’t being consumed and men who start conversations with them tend to less likely be the kind that just want to jump in bed with them and have a one and done. Randomly approaching women while they’re out and about takes a c… | /r/ExRedPill | 08/02/23 11:37 PM |
| 9 | What makes women attracted to the Red Pill?You can be a traditionally masculine man married to a traditional woman with family values without the toxicity of the red pill. A man who follows the red pill’s teachings to the T will more than likely break up that traditional household he longs for, and then he’ll blame “hypergamy”, “female nature” or whatever other goofy shit the red pill loves to use to shift the blame to the woman so they don’t take accountability. | /r/ExRedPill | 01/02/23 02:24 PM |
| 6 | I unsubscribed from all redpill YouTube channels like the33secrets and better bachelor and strong successful male etc I’m going too keep that up and challenge there teachings:I unsubscribed from all that crap and haven’t looked back. Once you challenge their beliefs and start talking to women in real life, the red pill talking points fall apart very quickly. | /r/ExRedPill | 31/01/23 10:36 PM |
| 13 | This shit is complete suicide fuel. Cant tell me this isnt how most modern women areThe only men that believe this video are ones that are too scared to approach women in real life and rely solely on dating apps to get laid. | /r/ExRedPill | 20/01/23 10:05 PM |
| 4 | Worst Redpill creatorHis book belongs in the “fiction” section. | /r/ExRedPill | 20/01/23 08:25 PM |
| 31 | Worst Redpill creatorThe piece of shit that’s responsible for starting this toxic garbage, Rollo Tommassi. His work isn’t only toxic garbage, but he’s also a despicable piece of shit excuse of a man. | /r/ExRedPill | 19/01/23 03:41 PM |
| 2 | What is the single most toxic or abusive piece of advice that Red Pill teaches its followers to do to women directly?I’m 31 and I’ve dated women considerably younger than me (youngest was 22) but I did not use toxic manipulation tactics to “win” them over. I was more mature than guys their age and they were looking for a guy with a little more experience so we clicked based off of that. There’s nothing wrong with dating younger women, but as with everything it needs to be a healthy relationship and there’s pros and cons associated with it as well. Edit: Since I got downvoted, I’ll add that they must be of cons… | /r/ExRedPill | 19/01/23 12:20 PM |
| 6 | Normal, healthy relationships shouldn't require strategizingYeah it can work, but the person doing the manipulating has it as part of his personality. Red pillers try to become this cringey caricature of a “player” or a “bad boy” which women see right through that. | /r/ExRedPill | 17/01/23 01:42 PM |
| 8 | Normal, healthy relationships shouldn't require strategizingI agree with this. While it is good to date around to discover what you like and your preferences, the stupid games and “tactics” usually end up backfiring if the woman is an attractive, intelligent, and well-adjusted one. It’s best to just be upfront with what you want and expect. Texting games like making her wait for a couple hours/days because you need to look busy are cheap manipulation tactics and most women pick up on that right away. Same with the “playing it cool” and not acting too int… | /r/ExRedPill | 17/01/23 04:45 AM |
| 7 | I don't understand why people would want to quit being redpilled.Because it’s toxic and ends up making most men who follow it bitter and becoming resentful towards women. | /r/ExRedPill | 17/01/23 03:17 AM |
| 3 | Stumbled upon this quote: “Women will never care about, or love a man in the way that he will care about her. This is a fundamental, inherent difference between men and women.” What truth is there to this?Men that follow the red pill philosophy are emotionally unavailable and resort to manipulative behavior to keep a woman on her toes. They’re also very disagreeable and confrontational, making it very difficult for a woman to remain in her feminine mindset and be a teammate to him, as a red pilled man is all about his ego and not a team player himself. Red pillers thinking tends be very black and white and they don’t take other people’s preferences, situations, and perspectives into consideration… | /r/ExRedPill | 15/01/23 01:11 AM |
| 2 | Stumbled upon this quote: “Women will never care about, or love a man in the way that he will care about her. This is a fundamental, inherent difference between men and women.” What truth is there to this?I do not subscribe to the AWALT ideology either as that is a very toxic way of thinking as well. I might be a little biased as when I’m with women I prefer to be in the lead, I’m also emotionally available and not an unfeeling robot. | /r/ExRedPill | 14/01/23 07:44 PM |
| 1 | Stumbled upon this quote: “Women will never care about, or love a man in the way that he will care about her. This is a fundamental, inherent difference between men and women.” What truth is there to this?You misread what I meant- Lead as in being decisive, confident, being able to properly manage emotions and stressful situations etc. I did not mean a man using manipulation, violence, and coercion to get a woman to submit. Of course the above qualities are important for the woman to have as well, but if the man becomes insecure, indecisive, keeps losing control of his emotions or is unable to manage stressful situations, it is more than likely the woman will eventually lose respect and leave him… | /r/ExRedPill | 14/01/23 03:26 PM |
| 1 | Stumbled upon this quote: “Women will never care about, or love a man in the way that he will care about her. This is a fundamental, inherent difference between men and women.” What truth is there to this?I just read the whole article, to put it in laymen’s terms the writer of the article is basically admitting he’s a fucking loser that doesn’t know how to properly lead a woman to get her to stay around. | /r/ExRedPill | 14/01/23 12:07 PM |
| 1 | Are narcissistic and/or richer people living better lives?He sounds like an Andrew Tate wannabe lol | /r/ExRedPill | 13/01/23 02:58 AM |
| 1 | How did you find or stumble across red pill / red pill content?I was feeling down in the dumps because my dating life sucked and I wanted to stop being a pussy, instead of talking to my dad and having an honest conversation with him I went on YouTube and typed in “alpha male” and Alpha Male Strategies was the first result that popped up, I started watching him and down the rabbit hole I went. Then I stumbled upon The 33secrets, Darius M, Entrepreneurs in Cars, and other grifters that prey on vulnerable men and make them bitter and resentful towards women. | /r/ExRedPill | 12/01/23 02:19 AM |
| 3 | Are narcissistic and/or richer people living better lives?Most narcissists that I’ve dealt with are very miserable people. They’re entirely dependent on validation from external sources (such as in person attention from others, IG likes, snap story views etc.), they have no actual confidence and put up a front of false bravado or an exaggerated view of their abilities but once that delusion is shattered, they sulk and think of ways to get even instead of self reflecting and improving themselves. Doesn’t sound like too happy of an existence if you ask m… | /r/ExRedPill | 10/01/23 03:11 PM |
| 6 | What do you guys think about "redpilled women"?Sadly. The men who believe “women hit the wall at 30” tend to be the types that prey on women with low self esteem so they can abuse them without pushback. | /r/ExRedPill | 10/01/23 12:53 PM |
| 10 | What do you guys think about "redpilled women"?Most of them are grifters, women that are genuine believers in conservative values and traditional gender roles do not become content creators to coddle the egos of broken men. They create content to guide women who align with their beliefs, only grifters would put out content with the attitude of “Aww it’s ok Mr. Traditional man, there’s women out there for you that are traditional, now listen to my 2 hour podcast coddling you and telling you that everything is gonna be ok.” The men that watch … | /r/ExRedPill | 10/01/23 12:08 PM |
| 6 | What do you guys think about "redpilled women"?Ones with very low self esteem | /r/ExRedPill | 10/01/23 12:00 PM |
| 8 | Found this on PurplePillDebate... JesusHe’s basically calling out all the people who identify as a certain group or pill in the manosphere on their sanctimonious, hypocritical bullshit. | /r/ExRedPill | 09/01/23 04:32 PM |
| 30 | A lot of red pilled dudes seem to think women are into bad guys, but they also forget if you're an average or ugly looking, fat neckbearded dude using asshole behavior to compensate for in the looks department, that will be just as off turning as being a shy timid nice guyBeing a rude, repulsive and unpleasant asshole in general is a turn off to most women, regardless of how the man looks. Sure stand your ground and don’t be afraid to be who you are, but do it in a way that’s socially acceptable. | /r/ExRedPill | 07/01/23 01:07 PM |
| 12 | Do you really "choose" who you date?Partially true, of course if you’re a regular, everyday man working a regular, everyday job it’s extremely unlikely you’d be able to date a supermodel like Emily Ratijowski (not sure if I spelled her name right). But that doesn’t mean you can’t have options with women that you actually find attractive, as long as you’re decently dressed and in good shape, present yourself well, have things going for you in life, and have decent social/flirting skills you should be able to get women you actually … | /r/ExRedPill | 07/01/23 01:01 PM |
| 3 | I wanted too say I love this community and what it stands for and everyone in it helping each other out. The redpill is toxic garbage nonsense! Thank you everyoneTo his credit, at least he admitted that he fucked up. But for a guy that bashes “modern women” for cheating on their boyfriends/husbands, he certainly didn’t set a good example himself. | /r/ExRedPill | 06/01/23 11:25 PM |
| 3 | I wanted too say I love this community and what it stands for and everyone in it helping each other out. The redpill is toxic garbage nonsense! Thank you everyoneMatt Cross is a real piece of shit. Comes across as a resentful, woman hating asshole. He’s also incredibly hypocritical, he quotes the Bible in his videos a lot, yet when he got a girlfriend he ended up cheating on her 2 months later. Real stand up dude right there. | /r/ExRedPill | 06/01/23 11:04 PM |
| 5 | "if you dont approach or escalate as a guy your pretty much screwed"Most guys don’t approach women anymore. Confidently approaching and not being a weirdo about it sets your apart from 99% of guys out there. | /r/ExRedPill | 03/01/23 02:07 PM |
| 1 | How do I tell a friend I'm no longer Redpill?They literally will talk over you and not let you finish | /r/ExRedPill | 01/01/23 05:25 PM |
| 3 | How do I tell a friend I'm no longer Redpill?It’s funny how RP’s say their opponents resort to name calling and ad hominem attacks when they’re challenging them. Yet when you call out and challenge an red piller using facts that are actually backed up by statistics, and your own real world interactions with women to debunk their pseudoscience, they resort to name calling and ad hominem attacks. What a joke the RP community is. I can’t take grown ass men who follow the red pill seriously. Bunch of clowns who are bitter and resentful towards… | /r/ExRedPill | 01/01/23 05:22 PM |
| 5 | How do I tell a friend I'm no longer Redpill?Challenging their views is like telling a 5 year old kid that Santa isn’t real. 99.9% of red pilled men have very fragile egos and fall back on that so they can be coddled like the fragile little boys they are. | /r/ExRedPill | 01/01/23 01:31 AM |
| 7 | How do I tell a friend I'm no longer Redpill?These “red pill” guys are some of the most unhinged individuals I’ve ever seen whenever their views are challenged. So much for them preaching to be “calm, cool, and collected.” | /r/ExRedPill | 01/01/23 12:16 AM |
| 33 | How do I tell a friend I'm no longer Redpill?“Hey man, so I started talking to girls in person and realized that they’re human just like us, they have all different personalities, preferences in the guys they date, what they want out of life, and most of them are pretty normal and actually very pleasant to talk to if you’re not a douchebag, even the hot ones! What a ground breaking discovery!” -that’s exactly how I felt when I left the red pill. | /r/ExRedPill | 31/12/22 03:31 PM |
| 12 | Has anybody been able to help a redpiller out of their red pill views?I don’t even bother to help, most red pillers need to learn the hard way that their views are stupid and backwards. They apply the most extreme scenarios to normal, everyday people, interactions, situations, relationships, dating life etc. and it causes them to behave in a way that’s insufferable. | /r/ExRedPill | 30/12/22 07:28 PM |
| 2 | “Status” and “social proof” are mostly bullshit concepts the red pill just loves to peddleI agree. “Demonstrating value” is something that can be slipped into the conversation instead of overtly showing it off like you’re at a talent show. | /r/ExRedPill | 30/12/22 02:43 AM |
| 1 | Sexual Market ValueHe really is. Listen to him on some of the fresh and fit podcasts, he manipulates women so they question where they stand in his life and instead of telling them what they’re doing wrong, he’ll withhold affection and sex from them and he’ll tell them he’s fucking other girls. He sounds like a total psychopath. He’ll also bring up an issue men today are dealing with and take it so far to the extreme that he applies the exception to the norm, young men hear this and begin to feel apprehensive towa… | /r/ExRedPill | 30/12/22 12:51 AM |
| 1 | Sexual Market ValueI’ve been warning people about Tate for months….he’s a fraud and a scumbag, one of his sites basically admitted that he has the girls fully submit to him through psychological manipulation. He has many instances of being a hypocrite as well, he tells his viewers not to date or hookup with 25 year old girls because they’re “old and have been through too many men” to make good partners….yet he fucks 25 year old girls regularly, whether it’s consented or not remains to be seen. If he’s found guilty… | /r/ExRedPill | 30/12/22 12:40 AM |
| 5 | “Status” and “social proof” are mostly bullshit concepts the red pill just loves to peddleDemonstrating your value should be shown through your actions and how you carry yourself. If a guy is going out of his way to impress a woman, then it’ll likely backfire, attraction is a much smoother process that what a PUA might tell his clients. | /r/ExRedPill | 29/12/22 05:22 PM |
| 16 | Sexual Market ValueWhat the fuck is a sexual market? Is that like a place where people, usually women are kept in cages and sold for sex? Viewing dating as a marketplace is so dehumanizing and disgusting, whether it’s casual or long term. I’ve found my best experiences where when I placed no expectations on the outcome and enjoyed spending time with a woman on a moment by moment basis. I wasn’t showing off my “status” or “social proof”or any of that bullshit. | /r/ExRedPill | 29/12/22 12:35 AM |
| 1 | Fresh & Fit is NONSENSEIndeed it is. They’re also terrible human beings and liars as well. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/12/22 01:01 AM |
| 7 | I am too deep into the redpill/manosphere.Andrew Tate will talk about an issue that’s very true for men and dating today. The problem is that he goes to the extreme and applies it as the norm and will dig his heels in, then double, triple and quadruple down when he’s challenged, he knows the statistics and so-called “truths” he’s speaking and greatly exaggerated and skewed, but since he has an agenda to push he’ll refuse to take a step back and see where his “beliefs” are wrong. That’s basically the entire red-pill philosophy in a nutsh… | /r/ExRedPill | 26/12/22 06:58 PM |
| 5 | I am too deep into the redpill/manosphere.As a man who hates making himself vulnerable and carries himself with a stoic, hard exterior, I agree 100% with the vulnerability aspect. It’s needed if you want any type of real connection with another human, whether it be a man or a woman. Carrying yourself around with the “hard as nails” exterior 24/7/365 is a very exhausting act to do and if you do not at least show some type of ability to express emotion and get that sour look off your face every once in awhile, people will think you’re eit… | /r/ExRedPill | 26/12/22 06:27 PM |
| 5 | I am too deep into the redpill/manosphere.There are some dating coaches that are pretty good. Mr. Locario, Miles Cunningham, Mr. 1950, Kazaggin, and Steve Williams all give sound advice and give plenty of good counter arguments to the red pill, they also give advice for you to become a man who carries himself confidently and authentically. What they teach is not just about getting laid, it’s about becoming the man you want to be so you can attract the women you want and develop the skillset to keep them around, instead of diving into th… | /r/ExRedPill | 26/12/22 06:18 PM |
| 14 | Attacking a man because of the medicine he takes is literally a part of toxic masculinity.Sneako is such a clown. He started out ok but when he began hanging out with Andrew Tate and appearing on Fresh and Fit, he went off the deep end. | /r/ExRedPill | 19/12/22 09:01 PM |
| 1 | Its It just me or are girls increasingly turning to Onlyfans and the like?It’s a vocal minority of them. But yes it has become the norm because simps are enabling them. | /r/askTRP | 02/06/21 02:20 AM |
| 1 | In LTR, how to handle expenses with dates and what not?50/50 split, if she don’t like that then kick her to the curb. | /r/askTRP | 28/05/21 03:58 PM |
| 1 | Why do girls put 0 effort in, it pisses me off.If you get no effort in return, then dump the bitch. There’s better options other there, abundance mentality is key here. It’s a hard change to shift from scarcity to abundance but you will get there, trust me, I struggle with it too but what keeps me optimistic is us men have a longer sexual prime then women do. Once you’re in your 30’s (if you aren’t already) established and in decent shape, you’ll be able to pick up younger girls easily. | /r/askTRP | 18/05/21 03:05 AM |
| 1 | Will guys ever stop being slaves to pussy?Just came back to this thread. Great mindset to have, if you have the “I’m good enough” mentality and a backbone, you just beat out a good amount of your competition, such as the men that rely mostly on their looks and/or money to get laid. You don’t even need to make a huge amount money or look like a male model to hook up with a chick, just be a man and make her feel a range of emotions when you’re talking with her. Keep things interesting and don’t be afraid to challenge her. | /r/askTRP | 10/05/21 11:08 PM |
| 11 | Will guys ever stop being slaves to pussy?A purge. | /r/askTRP | 06/05/21 06:34 AM |
| 1 | Why do I primarily Match only with fat girls ?Tinder is a waste of time for most people, I know successful, decent looking dudes with a high smv and good profile and they still struggle with it. | /r/askTRP | 28/04/21 08:45 AM |
| 1 | Wow, you really can't show any emotional weakness at all, can you?I’m very sorry to hear that, prayers for your mother. Honestly This is more on her, not you. Pick your head up, be alongside your mother and that bitch can kick rocks. Also screen them more carefully, next time a girl tells you to open up and you’re going through a difficult time just say along the lines of “Things have been rough at home lately, so Ive been focusing on that.” Simple, cool and collected but also shows some vulnerability without getting gushy. Then stop texting her and if she car… | /r/askTRP | 24/04/21 01:07 AM |
| 1 | How to hold my frame even in tough timesOne thing I’ve noticed is as soon as I’m tired, that’s when the negative thoughts creep in. And that’s when I know it’s time for bed because nothing good can come of just staying up and letting my thoughts run wild. | /r/askTRP | 23/04/21 03:19 AM |
| 1 | How to hold my frame even in tough timesI cut down on my IG following a lot, I especially focused on the IG bikini/lingerie models. No more liking girls pictures that could give a shit less about me. Because a dude following tons of female models on IG looks like a subservient little simp that can’t get a girl. So that’s a little challenge I did and I feel good. I also unfriended a bunch of busted up single moms and former party hoes on Facebook looking to now settle down because their pussy is worthless, not that I’m attracted to tha… | /r/askTRP | 22/04/21 07:27 AM |
| 2 | How to hold my frame even in tough timesExcellent read! I absolutely love the code of Bushido too, as I’d rather die than live life as a failure. Challenging the negative thoughts or just saying “STOP!” To myself has been a help. It’s a tough habit to break but I’m gonna do it. I never want to go back into that deep hole of doubting myself and thinking negatively, I CAN do this and I CAN be successful. | /r/askTRP | 22/04/21 06:34 AM |
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