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Assuming it's true, nobody that thinks like this should be allowed to procreate.
/r/MensRights31/05/24 10:03 AM
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It's like saying their subreddit contains information on how to become a terrorist. Nowadays anyone can claim anything they want, right?
/r/MensRights28/05/24 11:09 AM
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Go to Settings -> Profile Make sure that these options are disabled: Content visibility Active in communities visibility
/r/MensRights22/05/24 07:24 AM
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Take a look at the Wikipedia page: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Domestic_violence_against_men The page is full of information, read it carefully, you'll see how female on male violence is being kept hidden.
/r/MensRights22/05/24 07:12 AM
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I stopped acknowledging this rubbish. Nobody sound of mind would take it seriously. It's another attempt to provoke or just the product of a lunatic. In either case I would give these subjects no space on this subreddit.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/05/24 07:41 PM
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Do we really want the suicide rate to grow even between men and women? Is this what certain women consider progress? I wish this article became the testament to those that are fighting the 'patriarchy' so vehemently.
/r/MensRights20/05/24 10:49 AM
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Finding a lawyer should be top priority, don't let the thought sink in, just do it. Once you've done that, take your time to process the situation. If she's going to fight you in court, the next weeks/months will be stressful. You'll be in survival mode, but you don't really realize it until you're done. You might have a hard time coping with the aftermath, so get ready for that too. Usually after a stressful period of time you brain goes in power-saving mode. It's useful to have someone to help…
/r/Divorce_Men20/05/24 07:41 AM
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which the Catholic church generally supports The Church supports natural ways of birth control. Butker is stuck in the Old Testament (the 'spilled seed'), which doesn't represent the Church of Rome interpretation of the Divine Revelation.
/r/MensRights18/05/24 08:03 AM
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I've listened to his entire speech and to be honest, his idea of Catholicism is peculiar, to say the least. I'm not going to debate every single point, especially because I'm an atheist and there are better suited people to do that than I am, but I can share a couple of observations from the perspective of someone living in Italy, where the Vatican State is, and who's been raised as a Catholic for all his life. What he said resembled more like a bizarre crusade than a graduation speech. The most…
/r/MensRights18/05/24 07:21 AM
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Yes, exactly. The research shows how the stereotype has been weaponized against men by creating a distorted perception of masculinity which is what the mainstream is trying to sell to the people.
/r/MensRights17/05/24 11:03 PM
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There's a reason behind the term. The word 'feminist' is used and abused, it has almost lost its meaning. The term 'deminist' tries to focus on the madness of their ideas. After all, they like to put labels on men; I find approriate to acknowledge their qualities.
/r/MensRights17/05/24 11:57 AM
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Don't let them get under your skin, you can tell from their replies they have issues. The best is the one that says we men want to "guilt trap" women... ahahahah, it's so stupid I wonder if there's something working properly in that head of hers.
/r/MensRights17/05/24 11:36 AM
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Indeed. Which, coincidentally, fits perfectly in the current scenario: narcissist women want the upper hand and they use the 'feminism' as an excuse to push men in a weaker position.
/r/MensRights17/05/24 11:21 AM
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A lot of men are perfectly able to do all the chores nowadays, so what's her point? Oh wait, I know. She feels empowered when she says that she's not her husband's personal assistant... Rather than be with a 'female' like this, I'd buy a dog. Then again, 'females' like this tend to end up taking care of stray cats...
/r/MensRights16/05/24 10:24 AM
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Proof_Option already said it all. I just want to add that imho, you have a very high chance to win in court in case your insurance company doesn't come to reason.
/r/MensRights16/05/24 07:15 AM
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I spent seven years in court trying to get the custody of my son. I asked them to involve an expert who could decide which parent was best suited to care for him. Both the requests were denied. In the sentence they wrote that we had to prove the need for an expert and that young children should stay with their mother... There is no justice, no logic, no real interest in picking the best option for the kids. And they dare speaking about privileges of men...
/r/MensRights11/05/24 12:34 PM
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This is a great video: it shatters the current narrative, it addresses every aspect of the witch hunt, it tells the numbers and it also shows that men are making real progress. Most importantly, it doesn't forget to mention the tragic problem of men that commit suicide. Thanks for sharing, really.
/r/MensRights09/05/24 01:41 AM
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The social structure some women despise is what saves them from living under a bridge. They always have a fallback solution if things don't go as they planned which is to find a man who can provide for them. If things get sour for a man he can only find a comfortable new home in a cardbox. I wish I could see what a raging misandrist would do in a situation like this.
/r/MensRights07/05/24 02:06 PM
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Always remind yourself you deserve to be with someone who loves you. You'll eventually get over her and you'll be free to find the right person for you, if you so wish.
/r/Divorce_Men02/05/24 09:31 AM
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I'm baffled, to be honest. I understand the current narrative is shaping how news are told to the public, but to be so blatantly sexist is really appalling...
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/05/24 08:50 AM
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Your replies are of someone who've already made up his mind and is not particularly interested in hearing other's opinion. So I'll just say this: it should only be done if there's a medical reason behind.
/r/MensRights01/05/24 11:34 AM
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I would be blunt with her. I would talk with her privately and ask her why she "hates" you and where her anger comes from. She's bottling up a lot and in order to heal she needs to tell what she feels so that she can share the pain and visualize it.
/r/Divorce_Men30/04/24 07:14 AM
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Therapy is part of the process, but when the trauma is so big, you also need help from antidepressants. Have you ever talked with a psychiatrist?
/r/Divorce_Men30/04/24 07:03 AM
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Make an anonymous report to the police, tell them boys are spied while in the bathroom and sexually harassed for personal gratification of the school principal
/r/MensRights30/04/24 06:32 AM
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I did know some of the things you wrote, but nonetheless, thank you for sharing.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/04/24 11:59 PM
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People may agree or not on this: I believe we can only consider it love when the feeling is mutual, when there's an exchange between two human beings. Everything else can range from total obsession to simple interest.
/r/MensRights28/04/24 09:24 AM
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I don't like your attitude. You're too quick to judge people without taking the time to understand their position. The topic here is not what to do with that man, but what can be considered a fair/civil punishment and what is considered a medieval practice.
/r/MensRights28/04/24 09:19 AM
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I can understand that. I've spent most of my young life seeking someone I could relate to, instead I only managed to pass from a bad relation to another. You don't have to give up your feelings, just try focusing on yourself now, this will make the process of finding someone much easier. If it doesn't happen now, you'll have more chances later on. Also, what you call love is more like a crush. It's intense, it's painful, but it's not love. If a girl doesn't reciprocate she's just the wrong perso…
/r/MensRights28/04/24 09:14 AM
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I see no one here who's defending the rapist. Either you think that prisons should try to rehabilitate or you don't. In either case, there's no reason to justify this practice.
/r/MensRights28/04/24 09:01 AM
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My personal suggestion is to avoid dating apps. From a male point of view they're only the best way to get disillusioned if not entirely depressed. Women advertise themselves and are out there to cherry pick the best man (what they think is). You end up repeating the same tiring cycle of starting to chat with a girl who barely acknowledges you and that is already busy chatting with other men, over and over... Save your self-respect and confidence, one already gets enough kicks in the teeth in re…
/r/MensRights28/04/24 08:55 AM
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While chemical castration (given via antidepressants mainly) might be an acceptable treatment and it's reversible, physical castration has a huge impact on male body and once you've done it, there's no way back. Without testicles, the level of testosterone drops heavily and one starts to suffer from several conditions. Weight gain, loss of bone density, lack of motivation and energy, gynecomastia (breast growth) and so on... So, to answer your question, there's no rehabilitation at all, just mut…
/r/MensRights28/04/24 06:56 AM
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Respect. I've had a similar situation back when my son was little. I was even summoned to the local police station once, the captain just tried to console me... go figure. It's hard, really hard, especially when you feel like you're going to get physical at the next provocation. This is the violence perpetrated by women. It's subtle, invisible and it's so much more damaging... Never relent and best of luck.
/r/Divorce_Men28/04/24 06:44 AM
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Absolutely no mention of female genital mutilation (FGM) in any capacity. Not even as a comparison. Taken from their rules. Comparing the two things doesn't mean claiming that the circumstances around FGM are the same; still, they don't allow any discussion about it. So yes,that's why.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/04/24 06:19 AM
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That was an easy one. No matter what one has done in their life, humility is always the starting point. A pity one that has taught other people hasn't had the chance to learn the most important lesson in life.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/04/24 11:34 PM
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Another psychopath in disguise... On a side note, can we use a substitute for the word 'pussy'? She's UAF...
/r/MensRights27/04/24 07:14 AM
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she was crying so hard and said “ I don’t know why you don’t trust me all I do is work, go to school and go to dance practice. I’m always here at home”. Then when I confronted her while on the phone with her lover her whole time changed to monotone, and very cold I'm sorry to say this, but it sounds like she might have a BPD or an antisocial trait... has she ever been manipulative? Have you ever seen her emotional for someone getting hurt or suffering? There are many things she might have said o…
/r/Divorce_Men26/04/24 11:20 PM
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Divorce is made way to easy in our times. Both you and your kids would have suffered if you kept your relation going. Take your time to grieve, but know that you haven't lost your kids, you just need to keep being their dad. Focus on the quality time you'll spend with them. My son is 16, I remember thinking the same when I divorced. My ex wife even tried to turn my son against me... and failed... badly. And if you're feeling down, know that there are other dads here that will listen to you.
/r/Divorce_Men26/04/24 06:42 PM
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It never happened to me so far. Usually they just don't say thanks...
/r/MensRights26/04/24 12:27 PM
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I unsubbed because of that thread and because I can't stand anymore one mod and his "holier than thou" attitude towards posters. Their views on circumcision are hypocritical. The fact one can't say anything against feminism is a form of censorship. Also, posts do not appear right away, they need to be approved first, which is another way to filter what is aligned with their views and what is not. There's no discussion, either you agree with them or you're out. Just like feminist subreddits... Th…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/04/24 11:57 PM
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You've got too much anger inside and it's so much you need help to understand it and to let it pass through you. You won't be fine until you lose that huge baggage. If you can afford it, try therapy, you might also consider to ask a psychiatrist if meds could help you keep the rage at bay and be more relaxed. Rage leads to depression... don't underestimate it, for your sake, but also for your children.
/r/Divorce_Men24/04/24 06:26 PM
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They have to. The main pillar of pseudofeminism is the fact women can't do such things.
/r/MensRights24/04/24 11:43 AM
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I keep reading everywhere that the abuses are mainly committed by men... so what? We have ten times the testosterone level of women, we're built to propagate our DNA and there are 4 billion men on Earth. How many people, men and women, commit crimes? Do the math... I'm sick of reading justifications, women need to admit they're flawed too.
/r/MensRights24/04/24 08:25 AM
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Frustration does that. You've got two small children and while you're out for work, she's at home with them (yes, her dad watches the kids, but it's not the same thing as being in another place entirely). She's stressed. She needs some time off. I would suggest you to talk with her and discuss a different arrangement, if possible. I believe she doesn't really think that about your job. She sees you as the lucky one: less hours, far from the kids, that's all. Be strong and good luck.
/r/MensRights24/04/24 12:36 AM
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I wonder if the owner of the platform could pass the AI algorithm...
/r/MensRights22/04/24 04:08 PM
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Wear it with pride. You managed to make her mad. Imagine the damage you've done to her confidence...
/r/MensRights22/04/24 08:36 AM
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You can be the most stoic around here, but sooner or later they would get under your skin. The only way is to block/ignore. We need to realize that these people have a real mental retardation. It's not an insult, just a fact. There's not much you can do about it.
/r/MensRights20/04/24 09:30 AM
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Start recording everything she and her mother say to belittle you. Meanwhile find a lawyer. If you start the separation you can ask for shared custody and she can do nothing about it.
/r/Divorce_Men19/04/24 06:49 PM
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No, I mean real victims. They hate men and want them dead or emasculated. A woman who regrets having sex is just an idiot or a criminal (when she accuses a man of rape).
/r/MensRights19/04/24 05:37 PM
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Most of them are lesbian or victims of SA. They are vocal, yes, but also completely delusional. What they do or say is inconsequential if you look at the big picture.
/r/MensRights19/04/24 04:19 PM
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There's a huge difference between not wanting sex without feelings and being repulsed/disgusted by people seeking casual sex.
/r/MensRights19/04/24 08:34 AM
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I wouldn't beat myself up over someone who clearly has mental problems. She's disgusted by men who hit on her? Get over it...
/r/MensRights19/04/24 08:33 AM
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Following this reasoning, we could say that every female who's not able to procreate should be sent to the front... someone might be ok with this proposal.
/r/MensRights19/04/24 08:27 AM
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Who cares? We're talking about men being massacred. I personally don't give a f. who's the bad guy, it's always a game of power and the price is paid by the little people...
/r/MensRights19/04/24 08:23 AM
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We already have the practical solution. Men need to accept that marriage is out of the question, never start something serious with a woman who's not economically independent and if you want to have kids, you need to accept the fact that your life could be ruined in a snap of a finger if your partner decides you're not worth her time.
/r/Divorce_Men19/04/24 08:12 AM
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The worst part is when she says she's disgusted by him (she doesn't use the word, but that's what she's feeling). I guess many of us here have experienced this situation with an ex... I'm sorry for him.
/r/Divorce_Men19/04/24 08:00 AM
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Never acted on it...... Sure.
/r/Divorce_Men19/04/24 06:33 AM
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Damaged goods. This type of woman is one the worst one man can get. I'm sorry for the kids tbh...
/r/MensRights18/04/24 08:14 AM
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Just a note to anyone who finds himself in the same situation: do not relent. Asking to erase your past, for whatever reason or trying to decide what you can or cannot keep (be it something saved on your hard disk or a collection of magazines and so on) is a way to control you. That's a huge red flag. I repeat, do not relent and take some time to think if about your relationship.
/r/MensRights16/04/24 06:29 AM
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I don't think there could have been a better way to handle the situation. I believe everyone here would agree with me when I say reading how you closed that chapter of your life brings joy to the heart.
/r/Divorce_Men16/04/24 06:18 AM
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This. Marriage is not a proof of love, it's a social convention. If she thinks that only by putting a ring around her finger you'll get committed, she's delusional. Don't let her coerce you into doing something that could potentially ruin your life.
/r/MensRights16/04/24 05:41 AM
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Well, let's assume the bear is tame. I would pick it over a woman any day. A bear would not steal my money A bear would not take away my son A bear woud not lie to me or try to manipulate me Also, a bear would not take me to court for alimony EDIT: a bear would not downvote me on Reddit because it's mad
/r/MensRights11/04/24 09:07 AM
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So utterly tragic to live believing the only purpose one human being can have must come from their job...
/r/MensRights13/03/24 02:10 PM
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I guess I know what you mean: you're wondering if she accused him to get rid of him and keep the lover. It sounds science-fiction, but unfortunately psychos work like this... I hope this is not the case though.
/r/MensRights12/03/24 01:58 PM
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I guess the first rule in this case is to set your pride aside. It's hard, but it's your strongest weapon as letting your pride win means losing your clarity. As other have already said, your wife is damaged goods. Love and trust always go along together, when one is missing, the other crumbles. Is there a strategy you can put in place, even a long-term one, to make sure she's got no leverage on your assets? If there is, the only way out is to play cool until you're free of her claws. Best to sp…
/r/MensRights12/03/24 01:53 PM
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Internet is a cesspit of trolls, manipulative sociopaths and problematic people in general looking for 5 minutes of fame. Posts such as this one should be considered baits. Someone makes them to cause a reaction. Besides, anyone idiot enough to believe what's written in it for real is not worth our attention.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/02/24 02:29 PM
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A "pure woman"? There's nothing pure on this planet. Besides, you never truly know a person. Don't fool yourself into believing there's a secret technique to scan women and find the ones who are not going to make your life miserable. There is none. People tell these stories even after years of marriage. You either stay single or you take your chances.
/r/MensRights18/02/24 05:37 PM
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I wonder how long this trend can last without some kind of reprisal. History teaches that any kind of civil oppression turns into social instability, sooner or later. We are already witnessing the steep turn towards the right-wing politics in Europe. I'm afraid for my son. What kind of society will he be living in once he's an adult? I feel angry, but most of all I feel powerless...
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/02/24 08:26 AM
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and 'using sarcasm' suggesting someone K*** themself He replied that person "could leave anytime", not exactly the same thing as suggesting to commit suicide, but I won't discuss semantics. He's been under pressure for years, the web is full of trolls, he probably thought that message was only meant to provoke him. It was a mistake on his side, but an understandable mistake. You are wrong, along with the 13 people who clicked thumbs down I gave no up or downvotes, I just wrote my thoughts about …
/r/MensRights27/01/24 08:01 AM
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You may be with or against JP, personally I don't agree with most of his ideas on society for instance. I am in no position to comment about policies, I'm not canadian, nor a psychologist, but I can clearly see how they are trying to mask a witch hunt with the poor excuse he "broke" the rules. The fact he's using his licence or not means nothing, what matters is he possesses the requirements to be a professional and as far as I know, he never lost these requirements. There are no other individua…
/r/MensRights26/01/24 09:49 AM
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This. I used to go to a small gym when I was around my twenties, there were a couple of women that were regular, one was a bodybuilder and was practically undistinguishable from the men, the other was there to chit-chat (she was good looking, but a lot creepy). Best training of my whole life. You could do your things start to finish with little to no wait between exercises.
/r/MensRights20/01/24 09:11 AM
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I'll be 45 in less than a month, I leave behind a divorce and a series of failed relationships. I've spent most of my life alone, so, to me, the choice of opting out came pretty naturally. But at my age it gets easier, for several reasons. It's been a few decades now that men have been self sufficient and don't need someone else to cook for them, wash and iron their clothes or start up the dishwasher. I've grown up in the 80s and I remember watching a lot of "coming of age" movies, a genre that …
/r/MensRights19/01/24 05:40 PM
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Some people would tell you that's because of patriarchy. Since the algorithm behind ChatGPT has been written by (cis white)men, all jokes about women would be gross and sexist. People like me though, would call that "mental onanism".
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/01/24 03:07 PM
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It doesn't surprise me one bit. It's awful, sexist and brainless, it validates feelings of resentment in those men unable to rationalize what's happening around us. Which, coincidentally, boosts the narrative on Incels and such.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/01/24 02:01 PM
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I agree about vitamin K, but what she says about circumcision is sacrusant. You know, and please people from US don't take it personally, american citizens tend to take for granted that anything happening in US is normal and widespread if not even absolutely right. Circumcision is emblematic, in fact US is the only country where circumcision is promoted as a necessary health practice. The truth is, it is not...
/r/MensRights18/01/24 11:50 AM
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Nobody has ever denied that men ruled the world and that women were slaves at some point in history. We all know there are countries were women are worth zilch, even today in 2024. The list proves absolutely nothing. Misandry doesn't exist for those men, so what? Are the other men invisible? Or maybe they don't have rights? How can they be so obtuse to not understand that you can't pick the entire world and expect to apply your (il)logic like there were no differences between countries, ethic gr…
/r/MensRights17/01/24 11:54 PM
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Trust me, if you are capable of this level of introspection you're safe. Like others said, avoid spending time in bad places on the web. In RL you can easily spot the bad apples. Once you do, you just ignore them like they don't exist.
/r/MensRights17/01/24 01:30 PM
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They're no different from the people who say: "all men/women are the same".
/r/MensRights16/01/24 10:07 AM
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I've seen a youtube video about this story: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z-rHqH4YV7s She's a dangerous psycho.
/r/MensRights16/01/24 10:02 AM
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This is a tricky topic, but it's a topic that needs to be addressed nonetheless. I've been pondering on this matter for a while. I've searched the web for articles talking about this from the point of view of trans-women and I won't hide the fact that some articles I've read really upset me. In particular, some think that this information should be kept hidden and that the partner doesn't need to know. After my divorce I've briefly tried to get back dating. My policy was to disclose on the first…
/r/MensRights16/01/24 09:42 AM
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Science has been telling for years that male and female brains have no substantial differences. I've read a post suggesting the fact women mature earlier should be taken in consideration, which is absurd, since this difference is only related to sexual/physical growth and not brain development. Also, women endure hormonal imbalances later, this is why men have usually problems with acne long before women. To cut is short, both sexes reach the same level of development at some point. The truth is…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/01/24 08:31 AM
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I like what I read. When I was told she was pregnant it was a shock for me, clearly. I thought about it and despite the fact I didn't want to put another person on this planet, I felt ready to be a dad. There can be no mistake, when you're ready, you know it. So I'm glad you have a clear idea of where you stand. Good luck, I wish you both happiness.
/r/MensRights15/01/24 06:09 AM
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I've seen a lot of bad suggestions and I'm pretty sure the result is you're even more confused. I've been trough the scenario you're trying to prevent and became a dad at 28, with a person I barely knew and with whom I've spent more time in court than the time we were in a relationship. You need to realise that no matter what you think to know about the other person, there are so many variables in life that could put you in the situation you're trying to avoid. The fact you're wondering about br…
/r/MensRights15/01/24 05:44 AM
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The condom has a huge impact on the sex life of a man. Women may have side effects with the pill, but unless they get dry or lose the libido, they can enjoy sex at its fullest. I know men who've been using condoms for their entire life because their partner doesn't want to use the pill or other methods. Women simply don't realize what's like to be a man and use that shitty device. We have one orgasm when we're lucky and most of us need to wait hours before being able to go again. A woman can org…
/r/MensRights14/01/24 02:33 AM
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almost all men have repeatedly been victims of battery but don’t report it Most of us don't even realize it's a form of violence. We grow up believing that men need to endure some level of physical abuse of any kind and since it's common between males to be rough with each other (for example when you play at young age or in sports when you're adult) when it's a woman that's being rough, we just take the hit. You start seeing the pattern if you had the misfortune to live with a psycho. They teach…
/r/MensRights14/01/24 02:13 AM
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The last place I want my child to be is where they're not wanted. Indeed. If a man doesn't care, good riddance. He just needs to pay the support; provided he's the biological father.
/r/MensRights14/01/24 01:48 AM
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It's illegal in every western country. And even if it wasn't, you can't use it in court. To test the DNA of a child, both parents need to agree on the test. Only the law can force them to let the child be tested in specific cases. Usually adults cannot be forced to submit to a DNA test, but in this case, the court always presumes the parent to be legally bound.
/r/MensRights13/01/24 02:42 PM
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This doesn't look like a court, it's more like a TV studio where people have fun rehearsing the scripts. At any rate, the fact he's been unfaithful to his wife shouldn't matter to anyone in that building other than that man. This is especially true for the judge who should only mind her job and the fact there's a child who needs support from someone. Having said that, for the moment men still have the right to make sure a child is biologically linked to them before being forced to pay. Looking a…
/r/MensRights13/01/24 02:21 PM
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I'm very sad (and angry tbh). You made the right call looking for a new job. I won't try to guess what's behind the situation, but one thing is certain, the place is becoming toxic for you. Best of luck in finding a new job where men are "allowed to exist"...
/r/MensRights12/01/24 11:32 AM
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Joint custody doesn't exempt you from paying for your children. I believe only very rare situations call for the exemption.
/r/MensRights12/01/24 08:22 AM
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It's the same here in Italy. I pay taxes on my overall income and I can't recover anything from the child support expenses.
/r/MensRights12/01/24 08:21 AM
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My lawyer once called it "parasitic income". This is a very tricky and complex topic. I'm sure many of us could tell a different story about it. I think everyone can agree that a parent is supposed to pay for their child, the problem is that more often than not, the parent that receives the check can really live on it if they have a job (which means they are not entitled to receive alimony) Also, it's pretty common that the parent who pays ends up in a very poor living condition. That's why so m…
/r/MensRights12/01/24 08:19 AM
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No matter what your agreements are, each parent pays for their child. What may change is the amount, based on several factors.
/r/MensRights12/01/24 08:03 AM
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We're saying the same thing. It isn't special, it's something two (or more...) people share.
/r/MensRights11/01/24 07:51 PM
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That's what happen when you keep looking for that 5% of men... Getting angry after a rejection and becoming aggressive is NOT a normal reaction. She really needs to reflect on the type of men she's after.
/r/MensRights11/01/24 01:06 PM
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That's what you've been taught and what gives women power. If men keep reasoning like you do, there's no way out. Sex is something you share, not something you exchange.
/r/MensRights11/01/24 12:58 PM
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Exactly. Sex is not a commodity. This is something we need to remind ourselves over and over. A woman who uses sex as a way to gain an advantage or who expects something in return for sex is simply delusional and should be treated like a pariah.
/r/MensRights11/01/24 09:19 AM
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The fact they're using the term "incel", in a document that talks about helping men, speaks volumes. It can't be taken seriously, but we can print it and use it as toilet paper.
/r/MensRights08/01/24 03:33 PM
8

Indeed. I'm very torn regarding his predicament. I've read pretty much every chat that was shared on the web and he was being creepy in all of them. The main problem is the fact that what he wrote was unsolicited. It's not like they gave him some kind of vibe he might have misread, he was clearly trying to groom them, Now, we can all agree there was no crime involved, but the guy is shady at best. Still, the fact they ruined his career and possibily his life, is something that needs to be addres…
/r/MensRights08/01/24 08:50 AM
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Italy. After 40 years of work, men can retire provided they're 65 while women just need to be 60.
/r/MensRights07/01/24 02:03 PM
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I think that happens in every western country. Here's it's five years. They say it's because women have to work more than men... I can't blame them, they're mentally stuck in the 19th century.
/r/MensRights07/01/24 09:55 AM
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I know it's hard to believe, but I experienced the worst feeling of loneliness during my marriage. Now I live alone, but it's different. I'm older and I've been dealing with some personal issues since the divorce. To be honest, I can't imagine my life with a woman anymore. Besides, I really only care for my son. I guess that after a while you get accustomed to it. Maybe it's sad, I don't know. But it is what it is... If you can go out easily, I'd suggest you to keep doing that. It won't take lon…
/r/MensRights06/01/24 09:06 PM
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True, from any angle you look at it, he was innocent. It was plain and simple slandering.
/r/MensRights06/01/24 04:22 PM
1

Each couple should handle this aspect of their life and choose which solution is best for them. If the woman suffers because of the pill there are other methods, like the IUD (unfortunately the IUD is not recommended if the woman has never had a baby before) and others. Condoms are the best method for casual sex, but in a relationship they considerably lower the quality of the experience. In any case I was talking about the fact that pseudofeminists consider the risk of pregnancy as something th…
/r/MensRights06/01/24 12:40 PM
2

Using condoms make little difference for a woman, so we already know how this is going to end, they will keep nagging us because we need to be the ones who take responsibility. The fact some of us lose the erection and get a lower sensibility or the fact that sex gets interrupted and less spontaneous are a male problem after all...
/r/MensRights06/01/24 11:31 AM
1

For what is worth, if I could switch off the instinct a few animals have and prevent them from raping, I would. That could be a starting point to fix this mess between men and women.
/r/MensRights05/01/24 11:47 PM
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I'm not that pessimistic, I think most don't want to be lonely and settle I guess it's all about one's age and past experiences. I've had enough of a certain type of woman and after trying dating apps several times, I'm done with them too. My mental health is in shambles and I've been trying to fix it for years. I'm investing all my energies on my son and couldn't care less about relationships. I feel lonely from time to time, but as soon as the idea of living with a woman pops up in my mind, I …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/01/24 11:40 PM
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I share your feeling. On paper it's a tool to make dating safer, but as we all can see, it's has become a magnet for women with mental problems...
/r/MensRights05/01/24 08:02 PM
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My ex wife did that. At the time I let her (I had nothing to hide). I've always been faithful, even because if the relationship doesn't work I end it. I don't fuck around. Now though, I'd put a huge red X on a woman that asks me to check my phone. If she does, she's dead to me... I've learned my lesson.
/r/MensRights05/01/24 05:17 PM
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I would never ever go out or even talk with a woman who needs to use these groups. These subjects show signs of paranoia and are likely to become stalkers. All damaged goods to avoid at all costs.
/r/MensRights05/01/24 12:33 PM
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I wouldn't call it demonization, it's more like a generalization. I agree though that a woman who's got many male friends has got nothing to do with woke/pseudo-feminists.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/01/24 10:43 AM
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You don't think it's a tiny bit hypocritical to ask for equal representation of the sexes and then creating an office of sole women?
/r/MensRights05/01/24 10:21 AM
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"You're not interested in me, you must be gay" It happens so frequently it's embarrassing. Matthew Hussey explains it well, most women think that "chads" and "tyrones", 5% of male population, are what a man's supposed to be. The rest of the male population is malfunctioning...
/r/MensRights05/01/24 09:39 AM
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Either you do something against the law or you don't. If the men there committed a crime, they should be reported to the police. What you are all doing is a violation of the privacy of men who are not committing any crime. Most often than not you arbitrarily decide that a man doesn't deserve to go out with different women because you feel so entitled you don't even consider the possibility that he's not finding the right person. So you all gang up on those men and ruin their life just because in…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/01/24 06:10 PM
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If there's someone after you, they might be trying to push you to act on impulse. Which is a classic. I know it's hard, I've been a hothead in the past and I know that what happened to you gets under your skin. You've got to stay put and wait. In the meanwhile consult your friend and collect any information that could help you later.
/r/MensRights04/01/24 12:56 PM
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I've experienced both types of abuse, but I must say that psychological one is the worst. One of my exes stalked me for months after we broke up. She used to send me messages telling me she was going to kill herself if I didn't answer the phone. She waited outside of my place of work and my house, followed me when I was going home or for a walk... She was extremely jealous, I remember her fits of rage when she thought I was looking at another woman. It was extremely embarassing because no matter…
/r/MensRights04/01/24 10:31 AM
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I already feel uncomfortable looking at her... for different reasons.
/r/MensRights04/01/24 09:37 AM
0

You should have mentioned that this thread was personal.
/r/MensRights03/01/24 07:24 PM
0

I'm not blaming, if a woman's fat, ugly and annoying, I'm pretty sure she wasn't much difference the day she married.
/r/MensRights03/01/24 06:04 PM
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I would ask myself why those men picked a partner like the ones you described. In the end maybe those couples are better this way.
/r/MensRights03/01/24 11:00 AM
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In case you're wondering, they're called "Baci Perugina". Regarding your situation, be strong and know there are people here who will support you when you need to talk. Best of luck.
/r/MensRights03/01/24 12:43 AM
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Let's face it, there will always be the "next guy" who's going to yap happily while she brings him around on a leash. But at least, sharing awareness about these subjects can give us more chances to stay far away.
/r/MensRights02/01/24 09:07 AM
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You've pretty much summed up my worries about the future. Men withdrawal from society is in fact already happening, we often talk about it on men's rights. I guess we can only wait and see where this madness is going to take us.
/r/MensRights02/01/24 08:45 AM
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The fact you can't empathize with men abused by these groups tells a lot about you.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/01/24 06:41 AM
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It's a good thing these "women" make such posts. It's like wearing a t-shirt that warns men they're damaged goods. Then again, she doesn't really need that to keep men away...
/r/MensRights02/01/24 06:15 AM
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Check my reply to denisc9918....
/r/MensRights02/01/24 05:54 AM
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Lucky for me and can do more than just get a woman pregnant My statement is clearly referring to the biological role of men. I thought it was obvious enough I didn't need to specify... Apparently I was wrong.
/r/MensRights02/01/24 05:52 AM
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Prenups aren't valid everywhere in the world and I've heard some of your courts take them in consideration very loosely. In any case, you should start asking yourself what you want. Do you feel the need to marry? Are you being pushed into it? Is marriage something that carries any kind of meaning to you? I've read some good advice here, but never ever base your decision on the belief that the other person will remain the same forever. I've heard so many times men saying: "She loves me, she'll ne…
/r/MensRights02/01/24 01:56 AM
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I don't know the exact numbers, but I can confirm we have a very low birthrate. Italy is a peculiar country, in a way we are still under the influence of the Vatican which means the average woman grows with a confusing education about sex. Things are changing, not entirely in a good way, young people are less inclined to be interested in matters of religion, but this doesn't mean they have a better approach to sex. The real problem though comes from our huge debt which forces every government to…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/01/24 12:18 AM
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I agree, but things are changing rapidly and the man-haters are excited by this prospect. If this will be allowed, we're going to see lesbian couples with children with their DNA. The research has been going on for several years now. Just to give you an idea: https://www.nbcnews.com/feature/nbc-out/could-same-sex-couples-soon-conceive-child-both-their-dna-n836876
/r/MensRights01/01/24 10:32 PM
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I know. The problem is we won't be able to do much if laws permit this kind of artificial insemination.
/r/MensRights01/01/24 10:23 PM
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The point is being able to inseminate an egg cell with a sperm cell both containing female DNA. So far we've only been able to substitute the DNA of an egg cell producing a clone of the donor.
/r/MensRights01/01/24 09:55 PM
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We need to accept the cold truth. Medical research is working on combining DNA extracted from female cells with stem cells and then making these cells specialize to turn into sperm cells. Once they reach that goal, we'll be de facto useless. I don't know what will happen then, how society will handle a huge change in the balance between the sexes such as this one.
/r/MensRights01/01/24 09:42 PM
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I've got a personal judging method to tell a person worth talking to from an idiot. The former is willing to doubt everything. The latter is one of those you've mentioned.
/r/MensRights01/01/24 05:26 PM
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Wentz claims that Singler made allegations of both domestic violence and child abuse against him, which a Larimer County court found unsubstantiated, with Wentz deemed not a threat to the kids. The tense battle had continued well into 2023, however, as Singler obtained a Temporary Protection Order in El Paso County against Wentz after she alleged he brandished a knife at her. Singler filed another emergency motion in county court on November 17 to try and restrict Wentz's parenting time based on…
/r/MensRights01/01/24 03:58 PM
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Suggesting that religious women are less likely to divorce is pretty funny. Religious women are more likely to make your life miserable if you don't completelyt stick to their ideals. Also, statistically, religious women are more likely to sexually deprive their husbands (this blog page explains this behaviour in details)
/r/MensRights01/01/24 03:34 PM
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Barbie should teach a lot about capitalist methods to create a profit from the exploitation of masses gullibility.
/r/MensRights01/01/24 03:08 PM
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The "probably" is redundant. Suicide rates are vastly superior in male population, this factor is maliciously kept out of the equation (and it's not the only one). The data was cherry-picked to show the result they wanted to obtain.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/01/24 02:47 PM
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I can't pay for sex. Going with an escort would make me feel really bad. Even casual sex doesn't work with me. I need to be involved sentimentally to feel fulfilled and enjoy sex. I know that some men are perfectly satisfied having sex with no strings attached, in a way I envy them.
/r/MensRights25/12/23 06:22 PM
1

What sort of documentation are you looking for? I would gladly translate if it could be useful.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/12/23 11:03 AM
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Family laws here in Italy are a joke. Fathers have no rights and mothers basically decide which arrangement suits them best. Then the court emits the sentence... If your ex decides to make your life miserable, she just needs to snap her fingers. She doesn't want you to see your children? No problem... nobody will do anything unless you spend years being humiliated in front of a judge to ask for the bare minimum: aka being able to spend time with your children, go on vacation with them and so on.…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/12/23 07:24 PM
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Don't tell this to the pseudo-feminists, but females of the human species have evolved to make the breasts and the genitals be more visible since humans have started to walk on two feet. A woman's body is built to attract males and no matter what pseudo-feminists say, it won't change this simple truth.
/r/MensRights12/12/23 08:40 AM
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That sentence is so shameful that should be used as the main proof to show the world how little men count in our society.
/r/MensRights12/12/23 08:12 AM
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No one deserves a baby. This phrase should be engraved on a plaque and hanged on the walls of every nursery of the world.
/r/MensRights12/12/23 08:05 AM
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Men behave the same, they too care about what people think. But I wasn't talking about random women, those are question for a friend or someone that feel safe talking with you about those topics. Also, it's common to be in a public place and hear women talk between them. If they feel nobody care about what they are saying or simply don't think someone can listen, they do talk about these topics and are pretty forward about it. But there's a huge difference between laughing about "dicks" with the…
/r/MensRights11/12/23 07:26 PM
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Ask any woman what they think when they see a handsome man, very few of them will mention something sexual. There are differences between how male and female brains express sexuality. We get aroused mostly from what we see, they get aroused mostly from what they feel. Some women believe we can simply learn to cage our sexual drive and experience it like they do... It doesn't work like this.
/r/MensRights10/12/23 07:54 PM
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I don’t plan on living a sex free life any longer. If you think about it, once you get past a certain age, you're not obsessed by sex anymore. You've had your share of good and bad sex and you can look at it from a detached point of view. So, in a way, the problem is not the lack of sex per se, rather the fact your wife, the woman that should love you, doesn't get turned on by you. This, imho, is the thing that hits you the most in the stomach. Suggesting to get a divorce is the worst thing you …
/r/MensRights07/11/23 07:10 PM
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Please, find a psychiatrist as soon as possible. You're depressed and you can't win this without a healthy mind. Don't be afraid to take meds, external factors have had an effect on your psyche and now you need to find a new balance. Once you start getting better, everything gets easier to handle, despite the situation. Trust the people who've been there, don't be afraid to ask for help.
/r/MensRights13/10/23 10:11 AM
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These are typical behaviours of people with antisocial disorders. You need some time to pull yourself together again. The wounds are too fresh. If you can, even in the presence of social workers, don't stop seeing your children. They will be your strength on the long run, but only if you will keep being there for them...
/r/MensRights12/10/23 01:34 PM
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Can we sticky this please?
/r/MensRights10/10/23 11:53 AM
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Respect.
/r/MensRights08/08/23 09:04 PM
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You're OT and are posting with a dummy account. What are you looking for?
/r/MensRights24/07/23 07:50 AM
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I live in Italy, I've fought hard in court, for seven years, to ask for the custody of my son. 99% of cases, like mine, end up with the same result here. On the ruling, the judge wrote that he was young and "needed" his mother... Telling the court his mother was not the best choice (to put it mildly) and asking for a thorough analysis of both parents was no use, the court told us that we had to prove the necessity of calling experts... People who spread the lie that fathers who ask for custody c…
/r/MensRights22/07/23 05:59 AM
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We often fail to tell a woman with high sex drive from a psychopath, who uses sex as a tool to obtain something, or simply cannot help herself from being promiscuous. A woman who craves for sex should always raise an alarm in a man, no matter what. The moment you recognize one of the typical behaviours of people with antisocial or narcissistic personality, you've got to make yourself scarce. A healthy woman with a healthy sex drive is a treasure.
/r/MensRights21/07/23 09:49 PM
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The man must... Else he's not worthy. ... Men should stop using dating apps. Best thing we can do is to stop looking for a partner altogether. Women turned relationships into a one-way exchange. They take, we give. Thanks, but no thanks.
/r/MensRights18/07/23 03:25 PM
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Sure, the same patriarchy that allows you to write slogans.
/r/MensRights17/07/23 06:24 AM
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There's no need. When a person cannot distinguish the past from the present and is unable to steer from its personal dogmas, everything it says can be considered plain propaganda.
/r/MensRights17/07/23 06:21 AM
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If she really cared for her children, she would let them live with the father so that they could keep their life style. She, on the other hand, should go get a job like any other human being.
/r/MensRights07/07/23 07:20 AM
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Too many OT comments and the thread gets locked. So, again, he's made pay for something he hasn't done; and they called the subreddit "LegalAdviceUK"... I would take the moderation from that person, since he/she's not clearly capable of handling it.
/r/MensRights24/05/23 12:26 PM
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Not really, she must be sick or quite perverse. You don't come up with "a jumbo genital" by chance. She sounds more like a sexually frustrated woman suffering from paranoia. In any case, damaged goods.
/r/MensRights18/05/23 02:01 PM
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Society and its laws take everything from you, you are the living proof. You are entitled to send everything to hell and just dedicate yourself doing what you like and what makes you feel good. Forget about everything else. Give a hug to your dogs on my behalf...
/r/MensRights18/05/23 11:23 AM
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I can see people believing the lies, human history has been built upon the ability of few people to deceive the masses... The problem is about the people claiming it's possible to have a natural body like that. My suggestion to these people is to stop putting false information on the internet...
/r/MensRights12/05/23 11:46 PM
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Exactly. Ok, beauty is subjective, but only so much.
/r/MensRights28/04/23 07:39 AM
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Hopefully that makes sense even though it shouldn’t make sense lol To me? Of course, since I go around proselytizing people with the very exact message. Unfortunately I keep seeing men that jump into the void because "she's different"... It's sad, it's painful. Eventually I can only give them my shoulder to cry on...
/r/MensRights15/04/23 03:41 PM
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But yours is a particular situation. I'm sure you would agree that there's a high percentage of men that endure the failure of a marriage (and its consequences) for very different reasons. Only have a child with someone you know deeply for awhile and that you know wants to be a mother and has motherly qualities. A very sound suggestion of course. I have to add though that sometimes you find yourself in a situation you were not looking for. Maybe you've heard stories about women that say they tak…
/r/MensRights15/04/23 03:23 PM
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Ok, I'm happy for you. But I was talking from the point of view of the majority of fathers. Also, the more you earn, the higher the check, at least around here.
/r/MensRights15/04/23 03:07 PM
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Something must be different, because I've started reading news about this not many years ago, at least from several countries in Europe. I'm sure here in Italy there are no laws about civil unions, only proposals.
/r/MensRights15/04/23 03:04 PM
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Maybe on paper. If a court asked you to pay three quarters of your income for taking care of your "baby mother" would you still consider different the two situations? Here in Italy there's no WIC, one colleague of mine ends the month with barely enough money to eat. But even if he could get back the money for groceries, he would still be in a dire situation. And before you say that in US is totally different, I've read similar story coming from your countrymen.
/r/MensRights15/04/23 02:59 PM
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Having children with a woman with low or no income is the same thing as being married, because the support for your child gets pumped up to permit the mother to care for him/her.
/r/MensRights15/04/23 02:43 PM
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Countries where the number of marriages has plummeted in the last decade, have proposed alternatives for giving women their parasitic alimonies. Most of the proposals starts from the assumption that living together is the same thing as being married, so it's reason enough to force the man to open the wallet. I'm not super informed about this topic, it might be possible some countries (maybe Spain for example) have already laws in place to handle these situations.
/r/MensRights15/04/23 02:41 PM
1

It looks like this century brought a lot of grief... People pick strife over peace. On every field possible.
/r/MensRights13/04/23 08:14 PM
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Which is the same thing I've been doing with my son. And it worked. I wish men and women could find a common ground instead of hating each other...
/r/MensRights12/04/23 05:36 PM
1

In Italy we use to leave a tip when we go out to eat at the restaurant. It's not something expected, but it's appreciated.
/r/MensRights12/04/23 05:32 PM
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Yes... this. I know many don't agree about what you wrote on feminism, but I do. It's been perverted through the years and it's now become a war without boundaries... Men need to stop putting women on a pedestal for existing and very soon Every male baby should be given a dog tag with this phrase engraved on it. Kudos to you.
/r/MensRights12/04/23 05:29 PM
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Not really. She defines men's attraction for girls with pigtails as disgusting. How many times have you heard/read that men are only interested in sex, that men are all rapists, the men are beasts...? You don't actually need to use the exact words to say something.
/r/MensRights12/04/23 05:24 PM
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You're bringing solid explanations to the table, scientifically solid I mean. But PFs will still call you a misogynistic pig. And they'll do this with the conviction they're being coherent with their idea of equality.
/r/MensRights12/04/23 04:07 PM
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You know, I read a post such as yours and I wonder if the PFs that are reading right now have some nails left after all the biting.
/r/MensRights12/04/23 03:12 PM
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Of course, and by the way, they are not doing it for us. I'll go back grunting in my pigsty now...
/r/MensRights12/04/23 03:01 PM
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Good for you, I subscribe everything you said. I made similar choices with friends. When you feel you're not tuned on the same frequency, it's better to say your goodbyes. After all, having different opinions is a good thing, but being hurt by those opinions is not.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/04/23 02:57 PM
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I agree. It's a turn down for me... a bad one too.
/r/MensRights12/04/23 02:50 PM
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Nah... I mostly lean to the left. It's all about people and their interests. Having children makes you no more a parent than having a piano makes you a pianist (Michael Levine) If you don't behave like a leftist, you're no leftist. My 2 cents.
/r/MensRights12/04/23 02:48 PM
1

Look at it this way: we've been sold the "feminism" movement as something that wanted equality, same rights between men and women. So, when I use the term "pseudofeminists", I'm talking about those women that are going in the opposite direction and are proposing a model of society were men are considered lesser beings.
/r/MensRights12/04/23 01:59 PM
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It's only the mid attractive women who resent male attention Of course. Human behaviours always have an explanation. These PFs movements are the result of female frustration misdirected against men. I'm an example: I'm bitter because of the discrimination fathers receive in court. Still, I work on myself to separate bad women from good ones without bashing blindly on every woman.
/r/MensRights12/04/23 01:34 PM
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Finally: People suck Men or women, makes no difference.
/r/MensRights12/04/23 12:59 PM
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That's how it works, but if you say this you're an incel in their eyes.
/r/MensRights12/04/23 12:58 PM
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I agree, but you're mixing apples and oranges. The problem you mentioned affects humanity. You're not ranting about a group of people, your rant is directed against a system that erases our identity. The subject of the thread never said to be a PF, true, but she's judging the men because they are men. They are attracted to her and she feels they're only tipping her because of that, not because she's "good" at serving. So what? She plays the victim, as if this behaviour is taking something from h…
/r/MensRights12/04/23 12:56 PM
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Well, consider how many women would define her behaviour contradictory. For instance, many ex wives exploit their ex husbands. But it's indeniable there are also many ex wives who don't do this and consider it vile. If I had to use your reasoning I could simply say: the situation grants me these options and I'm adapting. To reiterate a couple of points: believing your own gender is right and dismissing the other as inferior and then asking for equality is hypocrite accusing the men of being pigs…
/r/MensRights12/04/23 12:33 PM
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Indeed. I guess everyone of us could tell a story about it. The problem of generalizing is making nuances disappear, turning different point of views into a single opinion, just to make your theory sound right.
/r/MensRights12/04/23 12:16 PM
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Let me say every human being should embrace the exchange of ideas. The main problem on this century and the PFs agenda is the corruption of this mechanism. It's become a weapon and a source of grief. I personally suffer because of it. But going back to the topic: it makes sense, that's what she's doing and that's why I'm calling her a hypocrite. I can understand one needs money to live, but if you trample on your own beliefs because it's easier exploiting the situation than living by them, at th…
/r/MensRights12/04/23 12:10 PM
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It looks like we're not understanding each other. I'll try to rephrase: you criticize a behaviour in men you fuel that behaviour because you gain something That's not practicing what you preach. You're just spitting in the dish you're eating from.
/r/MensRights12/04/23 11:48 AM
2

Of course, but PFs consider you a dangerous pig anyway. They just think men fantasies are wrong.
/r/MensRights12/04/23 11:44 AM
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I wouldn't call inductive reasoning assuming she's a PF when she speaks and reasons like one. How would she practice what she preaches? What did she preach? You don't feel like preaching when you call something disgusting? Aren't you judging something you consider bad? It looks like your grasping at straws... don't take it personally though.
/r/MensRights12/04/23 11:43 AM
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I can confirm her pockets would be empty and dusty.
/r/MensRights12/04/23 11:40 AM
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One thing is to describe a trend you don't like. Another is calling men behaviour disgusting... Again, I wouldn't object to exploiting the situation, I'm pointing out the hypocrisy of the pseudofeminists. Also, I wouldn't consider it an "opinion of one waitress" when there's a tik tok trend about such exploitation.
/r/MensRights12/04/23 11:39 AM
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I can tell you how I behave to treat everyone equally: I don't judge someone for his/her sex, I don't use inductive reasoning to describe how an entire gender works and I try to follow what I consider right and avoid what I consider wrong. Practice what you preach or be tagged as a hypocrite. Would you deny she's considering men below her? It doesn't fall into the "treating equally and fairly" behaviour in my opinion. She's obviously berating men, if you don't notice this I don't know what to te…
/r/MensRights12/04/23 11:34 AM
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that is the EXACT purpose of make-up too Yes, you hit the nail.
/r/MensRights12/04/23 11:21 AM
5

I believe you missed the point. I don't have any kind of problem with flaunting your own femininity. The problem is the hypocrisy behind her exploitation of a normal human interaction and her 'holier than thou' attitude when she condemns it.
/r/MensRights12/04/23 11:18 AM
1

Yes, I agree. They do this to get votes... They should have realized by now it doesn't work so well.
/r/MensRights12/04/23 11:12 AM
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There's so much hypocrisy in their behaviour that if it was sugar we would all die from diabetes. It's the thing that hits me most about PFs rants, the fact no one of them admits this.
/r/MensRights12/04/23 11:08 AM
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Well said. She will never change. Men need to learn how to detect these type of women. My fear is that with the actual trend, the number of men who yield to this manipulation is going to increase...
/r/MensRights12/04/23 10:48 AM
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Bigotry is the least of their problem. They're totally disconnected from reality... and they believe to be in the right.
/r/MensRights12/04/23 10:27 AM
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Absolutely. I just want you to know I'm not from US, so it's possible not everything will apply to your friend's situation. Showing he's got a plan is a good start. If he's going for the 50/50 custody, he should present a schedule he considers fair and that's compatible with everyone's commitments. It's paramount to let the judge know how much he cares, so offering to mantain a routine with his son is a good thing, this includes staying overnight, there's no reason not to, unless the mother is b…
/r/MensRights11/04/23 10:02 PM
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What people can't/won't see is the fact left isn't against men at all. Woke left is a corruption of what left ideals stand for. This is happening everywhere in the west (I'm not from US). This is why I don't bring politics into the discussion, there's no left or right, we have a single common enemy which is the army of pseudofeminists that have, so far, been pushing their agenda so well that no country is immune from their madness. Don't waste energies on arguments about politics, we all need to…
/r/MensRights11/04/23 04:10 PM
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This is the same situation that happened to my son and me. In western countries the 50/50 custody is generally the outcome of these ordeals. If the two parents live far away from each other, it will never happen though. It devolves into a 90/10 in favor of the parent the child is living with and there's nothing you can do about it. Regardless, if your friend feels ready and up to the task, he should be asking for the only custody. In my case I considered the mother unfit to raise our son. Still,…
/r/MensRights11/04/23 01:58 PM
3

One of the reasons I keep telling people that politics should be kept out, as much as possible, from the topic of men's rights. We all fight for the same cause.
/r/MensRights11/04/23 01:21 PM
1

I've just noticed the /s My bad....
/r/MensRights30/03/23 08:20 AM
1

Either you didn't read the article until the end or you're not seeing it complete. You can also use Google and see what she said from other sources. I linked the original interview.
/r/MensRights30/03/23 06:35 AM
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The full quote is: "I’m so sorry to say this—men think with their dicks. And they’re just not that advanced.” She added, “Like a woman would be like" Use the search function of your browser...
/r/MensRights30/03/23 06:24 AM
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The fact I'm not offended by her means nothing. I'm a nobody, whereas her words carry a weight, especially on young women. She's only fueling the resentment without a valid reason if not her superficiality.
/r/MensRights29/03/23 06:08 PM
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If you happen to have some time to waste, look for her past interviews. I consider this a rant, because she's been complaining for a while now. EDIT: let me also add that if she was a random girl saying the same generalizations about men I wouldn't mind one bit, but she's got female followers who feel "empowered" by her opinions.
/r/MensRights29/03/23 05:28 PM
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It depends on which kind of connection you're missing. It also depends on the age of the couple. At my age one should be able to know what he/she wants, but the most important thing is being able to look inside yourself; starting a relationship without being self aware is a recipe for disaster. So, going back to the topic at hand, if a partner thought of me as someone who only wants her for sex, she would definitely be misguided and I would be someone who doesn't read people very well...
/r/MensRights29/03/23 01:51 PM
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To be honest, I wouldn't ever have such a doubt. It would definitely be her fault. Mine fault would be being her partner. How a man perceives sex during his life changes through the years... I'm 44, sex is the last of my problem nowadays.
/r/MensRights29/03/23 01:33 PM
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If you're referring to me, the only problem I would have, pursuing a girl like her, is being a huge hypocrite.
/r/MensRights29/03/23 01:09 PM
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Yes, I read the article and I was commenting on the statement between the double quotes. Since nigerian christians are of Protestant faith, and it's mentioned "catholic majority", it's obvious the author is talking about italian, not nigerian people. Granted, written like this is quite ambiguous.
/r/MensRights29/03/23 09:13 AM
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Yes, I've been told it's not even necessary for phimosis. So I agree with you.
/r/MensRights28/03/23 04:07 PM
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I stand corrected. Well, it looks like there are no good reasons then... I'm pleased to see so many men against this. It's something new for us to talk about such topics. I feel this is a good sign for us and the Cause.
/r/MensRights28/03/23 04:02 PM
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"but it is not a popular practice among Italy's Roman Catholic majority" Only italian jews practice circumcision. And there are few cases of phimosis that require it. So apart from religious or medical reasons, nobody in Italy gets cut. It's an abuse, pure and simple.
/r/MensRights28/03/23 12:03 PM
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Actually there's not much difference regarding libido/sex drive. Our only, huge, problem is the fact our need for sex piles up, theirs does not. On average, if a man practices abstinence, just after a week or so all the nasty things start to happen: you orgasm during the night, you get erections all the wrong moments and so on... Sex for men is a physical relief, while women can switch it with other things that give them satisfaction (aka things that produce endorfins) like a hobby, spending tim…
/r/MensRights20/03/23 07:28 AM
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Indeed. I often hear men (or women) claiming that some sex acts are exclusive of homo-bisexuals. For example: "if you do this you're gay". That's one reason why some people just don't understand what sex orientation is. It all comes down to who you feel attracted to, not what you do/like during sex.
/r/MensRights18/03/23 06:48 PM
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When I say "we deprived" I'm referring to their point of view. They see us as the reason why women are forced into marriage/relationship with men (again, just to be clear, it's said from their point of view, not mine). this sounds like you made stuff up or worst Maybe if you take it out of its context. What I was talking about in the post mentioned, is a specific situation in which a woman who've been abused in her life, also happens to be a lesbian and starts hating all men because of what happ…
/r/MensRights18/03/23 06:11 PM
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You know, to me the problem with being called a homophobe is all about wondering if I really sound like one. I wouldn't like that one bit. I realized he's very young, I've got a son around his age so I kind of understand his point of view. He was born and is living in a time where certain topics can't be discussed without creating a ruckus. The line between expressing an opinion and being offensive is very thin. Thanks for the food for thought, dude. I guess one way to fight for men's rights is …
/r/MensRights18/03/23 04:50 PM
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Thanks for your testimony. Actually it's part of the reason why I wrote this thread. I'm not sure someone who believes that homosexuality and bisexuality are something perfectly normal can become homophobic because of the ramblings of some crazy individuals. Personally, they only give me one more reason to believe sexual orientations are part of what we are.
/r/MensRights18/03/23 03:02 PM
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It's the perverse mechanism of projecting one's own beliefs on others. When one thinks to hold the only truth, everything that strays from it it's evil or wrong. Each of us is tempted to see the world through our ideas and beliefs, but the only way to coexist in a society is to accept there are a plethora of different points of view. We must make the effort to understand them without turning the other person into a catalyst for our frustrations.
/r/MensRights18/03/23 02:55 PM
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My parents taught me everything I needed to know in order to be independent. During my marriage I did pretty much everything. She used to load the washing machine, but never emptied it when it finished, so I had to put clothes to dry before going to bed, if I wanted to avoid them smelling of mold. Regardless of each of our personal stories, most men I know are perfectly capable of doing chores and split the work equally with their partners. I keep reading/hearing this tale about the majority of …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/03/23 07:22 AM
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Attempting suicide it's a cry for help. People who "try" don't want to succed. Who decides to end it, doesn't look back.
/r/MensRights05/03/23 01:49 AM
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https://www.istat.it/it/files//2017/09/suicidi_2_inglese.pdf The infographics show the ratio in Italy (data was taken in 2015): 77.9% men and 22.1% women These are facts, we're talking of dead people, unlike what happens with some other alleged events that pseudofeminists like to blow out of proportion...
/r/MensRights05/03/23 01:41 AM
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And it's something people underestimate or see like a temporary oddity...
/r/MensRights03/03/23 06:16 AM
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Hear hear. I fully agree... We can't get to their level. If we do, we lose.
/r/MensRights03/03/23 04:18 AM
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I'm asking to prove me that racism has the same treatment that woke-movements have. It's you that has been telling that there's no difference between racism and the extremists agenda.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/03/23 08:33 PM
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Show me which forum/social network endorses the use of racism in discussions. Point me out to a politician who tells their electors that is fine if they hate and kill someone who's got the skin of a different colour. Let me know if you have heard of any company which changed its books, or cereal boxes or anything they sell to cater the beliefs of someone who thinks races exist... Then I'll admit this is the proper place to talk about racism.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/03/23 04:41 PM
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Yes, I have and it's something that should be discussed on another thread. By saying that those pseudofeminists are not part of any political group I'm not endorsing right wing ideology, I'm defining how dangerous and chaotic is their movement. They have no place in civil society, they're actually its antithesis. They preach nihilism and blind hatred.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/03/23 04:16 PM
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When we talk about what the extremists are after, we are talking about half the population. They make no distinction whatsoever. No quality the male individual may possess gives him the right to be saved from the original sin. This is why you can't compare them to the right wing people. You can despise the right wing ideology, but you can't say they want to erase the entire male population. Right wing discriminate about your status, the extremists discriminate about the entire gender.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/03/23 03:25 PM
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These are 2019 statistics from UN. Men do use birth control and would be willing to use better methods if they were available: https://www.un.org/development/desa/pd/sites/www.un.org.development.desa.pd/files/files/documents/2020/Jan/un_2019_contraceptiveusebymethod_databooklet.pdf Neither men nor women fancy condoms when in a stable relation. Still, the percentage of condom users is very high.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/03/23 08:42 AM
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So many men are desperate for appreciation. It's clear that the ones supporting the MRW-pseudofeminism are only doing it to be accepted by women and obtain their "favours". It's pitiful and sad, but it's a natural behaviour between animals. Fortunately the majority of men is not like this.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/03/23 08:33 AM
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The statistics are not a matter of opinion. They can try to mask them with that "attempted" BS, but the truth is the lowest ratio of suicides is 3 to 1 for men and it can reach 10 to 1 in some countries. Anyone stating something different is simply a liar.
/r/MensRights01/03/23 08:27 AM
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This. Excluding situations in which the difference between the two is evident, a partner like his wife will never be satisfied. The problem is not about how they split the chores, it's about her frustration regarding the relationship, she's fed up and tries to justify the feeling with other unrelated things.
/r/MensRights01/03/23 08:22 AM
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The OP wrote something else. He's just said that sex should be an exchange, not something you trade for goods or privileges. Some women have this twisted idea that sex is some kind of privilege that men can only obtain through sweat and blood. All women who feel this way only deserve social oblivion.
/r/MensRights01/03/23 08:16 AM
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I can't agree. Not even right wing people apply such logics to society. I consider these masses as extremists at best, but most of them have serious mental issues. We live in a time that requires political unity against this cultural drift. The fact they call themselves "feminists" is just another way to blow smoke. No matter what you think about feminism (which I consider an ideal that has been buried a long time ago), their positions are getting everyday more similar to terrorism.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/03/23 08:08 AM
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I'm left, the people we're fighting against are neither left nor right, they're just extremists.
/r/MensRights28/02/23 03:04 AM
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This. Man, I'm sorry beyond words for your story, especially for your children....
/r/MensRights28/02/23 03:00 AM
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Well, it's a norm nowadays. I've seen plenty of mockery of men in the media, but the right way to address the issue is to remind ourselves that men learned to do anything related to household chores while it looks like many women start their adult life without being able to take care of themselves. It's odd, but makes sense, since women see these things as something that was considered their responsability and that made them "slave" of men. So it's pretty normal for them to give less importance …
/r/MensRights27/02/23 08:21 AM
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Of course, but you can reach that goal only by increasing the online support first. Who would be willing to endorse the movement with so little partecipation online? Nowadays it's all about followers and such... sadly.
/r/MensRights27/02/23 07:55 AM
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I think it was a loss when boys were no longer introduced to sex through a more mature woman in a controlled environment If you refer to prostitution, I think it wouldn't be the best choice. I believe though that setting up specific sexual courses tailored for men only could be very beneficial. Boys have to hear in a reassuring way that what they feel is not wrong. They must be taught how to express their emotions and wishes. And, why not, they need to be taught how to defend themselves from pre…
/r/MensRights27/02/23 07:50 AM
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The theory of "parental alienation" has been disputed too much. It's lost weight and gets dismissed almost everywhere. What many mothers do is real though. I would support the condemnation of those actions and support some kind of punishment that could affect the mother, but not the child.
/r/MensRights27/02/23 07:40 AM
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I agree with everyone, my position is sort of a mix between intervention and passive resistance. I think we should try to strengthen our position with collaborations. There are other subreddits and forums, it could be useful to have an exchange of subscribers. If you take a look at how many people visit feminist subreddit, you'll realize how easier is for them to spread their ideas and to be heard. Also, bringing our presence on other media, like youtube, would help a lot. Our goal should be to …
/r/MensRights27/02/23 07:35 AM
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The author of the article claims it's a problem related to education... of men. Not even once she tries to involve women in the picture. But who is educating these men? Most teachers are women, so maybe, at least during the life time spent studying, women should be considered part of the problem? Then again, do we really want to believe that so many men are taught to be emotionless loners? And even if we take that theory for granted, how can we forget that the interaction with the other sex must…
/r/MensRights27/02/23 06:26 AM
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It's a known fact that porn causes acid rains and tsunamis.
/r/MensRights26/02/23 09:30 PM
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Everyone have already told you it's not rape. I just want to add she's a psycho, she tried to manipulate you and since she lost control over you she's now trying to destroy you. I'd go to the authorities and denounce her for stalking. Meanwhile consult a lawyer.
/r/MensRights26/02/23 07:48 AM
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I've always been transparent with my son, but there are things that happened when he was very little I don't want him to hear. So if the topic comes up I explain him that's unfair to involve him and that once he's older I'll tell everything. My suggestion is to tell the truth and explain that at the moment it's better she knows only about his existence.
/r/MensRights26/02/23 07:37 AM
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A woman sure of herself doesn't give a damn about porn. Unless she's either a religious bigot or a repentant ex-pornstar. One could also think that if the husband is watching porn, probably there's not much activity under the sheets... which is usually a problem on the female side.
/r/MensRights26/02/23 07:23 AM
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Yes, I agree. But it's not something we can achieve easily. The state should be involved to guarantee that the mother is able to support the child, help her in case she's not fully independent and find a family for the child if she can't care for him/her.
/r/MensRights26/02/23 03:56 AM
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I guess we're saying the same thing. I mean, I support the freedom of choice for women. On the other hand, if the woman decides to carry on with the pregnancy, if she doesn't want to get an abortion, and then decided to give the baby up for adoption, the father should be allowed to recognize the child.
/r/MensRights26/02/23 03:38 AM
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Are we talking about hetero feminists or lesbian feminists? Because the former should know better... If it's the latter, well... it makes sense they don't know shit about how our precious works.
/r/MensRights26/02/23 03:03 AM
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I can't agree on this one. It's a very difficult topic, but we should all understand that women own their body, nobody else does. And I perfectly know that men always lose if the woman decides to end the pregnancy. I'm a father and I often think about a situation like this, it bring tears to my eyes... Sometimes women carry the pregnancy to completion and then give their baby up for adoption. In some countries (like mine) the father can't do anything about it. If the mother doesn't consent, the …
/r/MensRights26/02/23 02:57 AM
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You've just started all the alarms around here...
/r/MensRights26/02/23 02:41 AM
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C'mon.... this is absolutely not true. The number of people you've had sex with doesn't make you a cheater or a faithful partner. It's her mental stability that decides how long your relationship will last...
/r/MensRights26/02/23 02:36 AM
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It happens more often than not. I can't tell how many times I've heard female colleagues whining because their husbands want to have sex. On average, one time per week is already too much...
/r/MensRights26/02/23 02:27 AM
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I failed to explain what I mean. Let's move on,
/r/MensRights25/02/23 10:18 PM
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Again, I understand. It's frustrating to acknowledge the general situation and it's impossible not to compare our behaviour with the behaviour of others. It's the same for me: the fact that I've been kicked in the teeth, doesn't make me do the same to the next guy. I'm not wired this way. I try to make things right, to make something good out of something bad. But each person is different, with their own story, their own suffering. I get you don't want to read more negativity, but you can't get …
/r/MensRights25/02/23 11:04 AM
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I agree, but you need to understand the frustration that the anti-men campaign is creating in all of us. My divorce broke me. I spent a long period of my life full of resentment against the female world. Now I'm handling it, but I had to pay a huge price in terms of mental health... I'm one of those fathers that fought to have custody, it was denied: "the mother is the best candidate because reasons"... But the request came from the knowledge she was not suited to be the custodian. Now my son ha…
/r/MensRights25/02/23 10:07 AM
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There is, several laboratories offer kits to get samples at home, but you can't use the result in court.
/r/MensRights25/02/23 09:43 AM
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I agree, I have been too cryptic. What I want to convey is their dream society is a dystopian patriarchy, where the pseudofeminists play the part of the men of the last century and make the male population relive the life of the women of the time (a life they probably only read about from dusty books).
/r/MensRights24/02/23 11:06 PM
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I consider myself lucky. In my early teens I developed a strong idiosyncrasy against those girls who basked in their ability to charm. I couldn't suffer their smugness, as if the world itself was orbiting around them. Maybe I was just feeling below them, like the fox who couldn't reach the grapes, still, I gave myself an immunity that got very useful later on in my life... Learning to ignore that kind of woman is paramount to get the balance back on track. Try it, it gives a good amount of satis…
/r/MensRights24/02/23 10:17 PM
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Fine by me, we found one... Guess that we can safely say the use of "mostly" is another device of obfuscation.
/r/MensRights24/02/23 09:49 PM
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So we can say exactly the opposite: men have mostly the same rights as women
/r/MensRights24/02/23 08:19 PM
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The goal of the thread I have in mind is to put some people in front of the cold truth. Not that I believe it will come to something by all means, but still, it's a small pebble I'm going to drop on the ground... The term is built from the latin word "pater" and gathers a lot from the role of "pater familias" which was the foundation of roman society. The pseudofeminists claim that our society is dominated by males and the first consequence of this is that females are discriminated and devaluate…
/r/MensRights24/02/23 06:36 PM
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Let me try to put it under a different perspective. If I'm not mistaken, the actual number of people (unfortunately there are a lot of men, or at least one half of them) that belong to this group is small and they can be considered a small minority. The big part of society is still populated by individuals who: either don't give a shit about such ideals they don't understand them or they are explicitly againt them We need to focus on the big picture. This small minority is sure capable of captur…
/r/MensRights24/02/23 05:08 PM
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...from a time when women didn't have the same legal rights as men, to now when they mostly do When they mostly do? I could be misinformed on the matter, can someone please tell me at least one law actually enforced in western societies that gives an advantage to men at the expense of women?
/r/MensRights24/02/23 04:50 PM
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The women I knew who did those sorts of things were crazy af [Imgur](https://i.imgur.com/L57Tejv.gifv)
/r/MensRights24/02/23 03:43 PM
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You can feel ready, you can also trust your partner with your life, still life can make happen any kind of shit. Pardon my French.
/r/MensRights24/02/23 02:32 PM
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I appreciate your point of view on the matter and I share your conclusions
/r/MensRights24/02/23 02:25 PM
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What I meant is that the child will still have a (biological) father. Whether the mother could identify him or not it's another matter...
/r/MensRights24/02/23 02:22 PM
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Someone wrote in the thread: I raised my kids with the maxim that "You can do anything you want as long as you're willing to pay the consequences. Result: upvotes and pats on the back I replied that if you kill someone, it's the victim who pays for the consequences of your action. Result: downvote and silence Is it so hard to admit you've done something wrong and stupid? How can you teach a child such BS and think it's proper education?
/r/MensRights24/02/23 11:19 AM
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Patriarchy: we don’t live in patriarchy so we shouldn’t engage in any debate based on patriarchy theory, it’s a point based on a false premise. I think we do actually. I'm pondering to write a thread on this. There's only a small detail: it's not how they love to depict it.
/r/MensRights24/02/23 10:51 AM
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aims at make a child fatherless Children usually are not born under a cauliflower... Once they recognized the child though This is sacrosanct. You take full responsibility and rightly so.
/r/MensRights24/02/23 10:33 AM
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Take a look at my reply to @shit-zen-giggles I would add you should be really careful. A person that tells you "I love you" out of the blue, without any previous interaction, is dangerous.
/r/MensRights24/02/23 08:53 AM
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This. At any rate, anything he tells her not-work-related, should better be told outside the perimeter of his workplace. What the two do outside it's their own damn business.
/r/MensRights24/02/23 08:49 AM
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This is true for other nations too (Italy for instance). The mother can simply forbid you to know if the child is yours or not and if you go to court, you've got to prove there is a concrete risk you're not the biological father. Paternity test should be mandatory or at least it should be given the father the right to request it without the mother consent AND knowledge.
/r/MensRights24/02/23 08:47 AM
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It is deeply saddening to watch a man unable to justify the worth of his own identity the constant pressures of being told by society that you have power without actually having the power to change society Read a book or something, I don’t know. Just don’t burden me with the responsibility of educating you This isn’t about you! So either get with it or get out of the fucking way If you can’t escape hate and discrimination for being a straight, white man, what can you do? not only is the straight…
/r/MensRights24/02/23 08:34 AM
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Looks even worse. It sounds like an insemination assembly line...
/r/MensRights24/02/23 08:27 AM
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This is actually a good news. Imagine the reaction of the pseudofeminists, they would have turned her death into a martyrdom...
/r/MensRights24/02/23 08:23 AM
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You forgot she's also a sociopath. To realize she got a free pass is the most infuriating thing. Anyway, as someone has pointed out, this happened in 2017.
/r/MensRights24/02/23 08:15 AM
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Thanks, I appreciate your testimony. It's all so disgustingly hypocritical to pretend they're the good ones. Be strong and keep fighting.
/r/MensRights24/02/23 07:32 AM
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idolatry based on an inherent talent that the rest of us weren't born with This. I share this sentiment, it makes athletes look like cattles at the market... No thanks. It's meaningless to have a competition with subjects that not only have already a genetic advantage, but they're also pumped with chemicals they could fly to the moon... One more reason to be strict and keep them inside a narrow biological range.
/r/MensRights24/02/23 07:29 AM
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If its something someone not living in US can understand, I'm more than interested.
/r/MensRights24/02/23 01:03 AM
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I think that all athletes, regardless of sex and gender, should be tested and required to be inside specific biological thresholds. This would be fair for everyone and guarantee that having, for example, different hormonal levels or an abnormal muscle mass would disqualify the person from the competition.
/r/MensRights24/02/23 12:46 AM
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I can't believe a feminist woman told you that... They're always radiating this holier-than-thou aura... This is why I consider those people to be outside of civil politics. They've got nothing to do with the left ideals (or right ideals for that matter) I'm sorry you had to endure that...
/r/MensRights24/02/23 12:35 AM
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There are some posts I would consider borderline here, but the level of hate the other subreddit shows is really worrisome, you can't compare the two. I couldn't define what they do in any other way than "ganging up". Here you can get stern replies, but there, everything you say gets dismissed as male propaganda; when you're lucky enough to not get laughed at and insulted. There is not even a tiny hint of willingness to have a civil exchange. They brandish the truth upon the male who's nothing b…
/r/MensRights23/02/23 11:25 PM
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I can't exclude the possibility. Unfortunately we've got to take the numbers as they're shown. I can tell you though that the Italian news always mention the mental problems refrain when they talk about mothers. The most popular is the postpartum depression. I think it's unnecessary to mention how they picture the men when they are the perpetrators.
/r/MensRights22/02/23 06:11 PM
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Sure, I've got two. This is the website of our official national department of statistics, Istat: https://www.istat.it/it/archivio?page=1&customTags=Omicidi I've linked you the section regarding the homicides in Italy. The website shows you the graphs of widest interest, but you can download the data with all the specifics so you can create your own graphs. The numbers were taken from this website (the source is Istat): https://www.agi.it/cronaca/news/2022-06-15/quanti-figlicidi-italia-numeri-17…
/r/MensRights22/02/23 01:05 PM
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Some numbers from Italy: - Since 2010, 268 children were killed by their parents. - 39,7% aged 0 to 5, 16,2% aged 6 to 11 - 151 (56,8%) victims were male, 117 (43,7%) were female - Overally, 64,2% of murders were committed by men, 35,8 by women - In the range 0 to 5, 57,5% were committed by women, 42,5% by men In conclusion, there is a difference from US, but when you look at the most vulnerable age (0-5) , the mothers kill their child more often than fathers. If you notice, the percentage is ve…
/r/MensRights22/02/23 12:12 PM
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Most of divorces that end up in court present situations like that. My ex-wife told the judge my son was having panic attacks when he was supposed to be with me... I was lucky she didn't try the abuse card... very lucky. Once she sent her lawyer a photo of my son with a bruise though, I guess her lawyer told her she risked passing for someone who wanted to blame the father at any cost, so she decided to desist, at the end.
/r/MensRights22/02/23 11:36 AM
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A lesbian who hates men is the worst kind of them all. They've got a visceral hatred. Literature says that it comes from abuses they suffered during young age at the hands of men. But while listening to them or seeing them in action against men is enraging, I also pity them a lot...
/r/MensRights22/02/23 11:30 AM
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Going without sex, while I can understand that for most people it isn't ideal, will not kill you in the same way This caught my attention... Men and women haven't the same sex drive. The level of hormones is different. Women have normally one tenth of the level of testosterone of men and testosterone has a huge effect on sex drive. Also, the menstrual cycle has a direct effect on women desire for sex. In men, the desire for sex is usually constant which means they are normally always ready to go…
/r/MensRights22/02/23 02:26 AM
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I wasn't implying you weren't civil. "No Man is an Island" is valid for both men and women by the way. I would also like to add that this "war" between the sexes is being manipulated exactly to serve those "someones" you were mentioning. I'm sure you don't want, like me, to play their game if you can avoid it.
/r/MensRights20/02/23 02:47 PM
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C'mon... this is pointless. She wasn't provoking. Arguing over these things helps no one and definitely doesn't create a good environment for the dialogue. Let's be civil please.
/r/MensRights20/02/23 07:34 AM
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I'm concerned for my son. It's an ugly world already, if it comes to that I won't let him be consumed by this madness. We'll find a country that's willing to welcome us and that's not involved in the conflict.
/r/MensRights19/02/23 06:01 PM
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Not at all, they can't change, especially when they're adult. It's not something you can cure. ​ Punishing a psychopath means preventing him/her to do more harm to society. EDIT: grammar
/r/MensRights18/02/23 02:45 PM
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I understand what you're trying to say, but you're mixing mental problems with antisocial behaviours. A psychopath is not mentally ill. They have no empathy, no remorse, they play with people to reach their goals, no matter what. I wish you'll never experience it first hand...
/r/MensRights18/02/23 02:39 PM
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I realize it's a difficult topic, but there's one fact we can't forget: accusing a man of rape means destroying his life and often the lives of the people around him (children included). This is a crime and can't be left unpunished...
/r/MensRights18/02/23 01:54 PM
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I read that one and was wondering if it's serious or she's being mocked... I really hope for the latter.
/r/MensRights18/02/23 01:49 PM
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I truly don't need women in my life to be happy now. Everyone should reach this conclusion, but to do that you first need to experience the bad side of being in a couple. I think it's pretty normal in the beginning to idealize how relationships work, but sooner or later you end up in a situation that opens your eyes. It's an experience that allows you to put down the rose tinted glasses and see the world for what it is. And then you realize that everything that's being said about men has been bl…
/r/MensRights18/02/23 12:47 PM
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That's the sad truth. We lose the war against numbers just because we still need to learn how to communicate our issues, tell about our stories, let the world know the hidden side of our existence. We are also taught to suck it up and to never complain about difficulties. It's a chain very hard to break that can lead to a life of suffering and loneliness.
/r/MensRights18/02/23 12:06 PM
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My bad... that's even worse, I bet the daughters miss their dad and want to be with him.
/r/MensRights17/02/23 10:57 PM
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Well, she said she's sorry... it's all forgiven.
/r/MensRights17/02/23 08:34 PM
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Nice story, but we're talking about real life here. You can't simply put your feelings for your child into the freezer and forget about them. ​ Joe might want to consider a vasectomy, he appears to have shitty choices in women, well from the post. You never really know who's the person in front of you. Don't judge someone in a situation like this, it can happen to anyone unlucky enough to meet a psychopath...
/r/MensRights17/02/23 08:29 PM
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I don't think he did. When both parents start filing complaints against each others, they both look unstable. From what I read, the father is fighting to protect his son from the mother who's likely a psycho... It's a mess of a situation and I'm so very sorry for the father and his son... I know what it means and it's ugly.
/r/MensRights17/02/23 08:24 PM
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During the peak of the #metoo idiocracy, I read a lot of these stories from the POV of women. It's too hard for them to understand those behaviours are not an exclusive of men, women can be as vengeful (remember the "Hell has no fury like a woman scorned"?). The difference here is that usually women have their way effortlessly. They're simply accustomed to get a "yes". And since most of them have it easy, the ones that don't, are even more frustrated... and prone to do worse things to men.
/r/MensRights16/02/23 10:55 PM
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It might be a perverted form of politics, but something we all need to fight (left and right)
/r/MensRights16/02/23 11:08 AM
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Believe me, politics has nothing to do here. This is extremism (together with serious mental problems) in its purest form.
/r/MensRights16/02/23 11:06 AM
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I dream a world where males never glance at females, nor interact with them unless it's necessary to. Imagine the bliss...
/r/MensRights16/02/23 11:02 AM
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My suggestion is really simple: do the best thing for your daughter.
/r/MensRights12/02/23 02:41 AM
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Even in Europe doctors acknowledge the medical good that can come from male circumcision You're spreading fake info. It's actually the opposite. Had your fun with trolling?
/r/MensRights12/02/23 02:21 AM
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To get a vasectomy you need surgery. To swallow a pill you need a glass of water. Not to mention that it also helps with irregular cycle. Personally I would never ask a partner to get a tubal ligation. I would hope the partner would give me the same treatment by not asking to get the cut. Worst case scenario one can buy condoms.....
/r/MensRights12/02/23 02:14 AM
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When a couple with children splits without reaching an agreement, the legal system should verify which parent is best suited to take care for them. Being a father or being a mother shouldn't be a factor in this decision. It's 2023 and too many people still think that pregnancy is some kind of magic/miracle that creates an unbreakable bond between the child and the mother... The truth is that there are mothers who couldn't care less about their child or feel nothing for the creature growing insid…
/r/MensRights10/02/23 10:11 PM
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I'm talking about real unhappiness, not boredom or not knowing what to do saturday night. Suicides number shows the effect of society, of its pressure, on men. Men do talk about their feelings with other men, but I was talking about how much we talk about how women feel, in movies, on social networks, in the news... while nobody cares about the very same important part of our life in men. Regarding your comment on modern societies, you're oversimplifying. Thanks for the graph. I'd argue that wha…
/r/MensRights10/02/23 12:54 PM
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because female happiness is at all time low and lower than men's Numbers tell quite the opposite. Suicides in male population are 3 to 7 times higher than women's. And men feelings have always been something not worth talking about. Let's say that happiness is something very rare in this life. For men it's quite rougher though. EDIT: fixed the ratio...
/r/MensRights10/02/23 11:15 AM
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The feminist movement is long dead. This happened when the feminists themselves started a diaspora of huge proportion. It's true what older women say: feminism has always wanted equality between the sexes. Nowadays there's such an entropy in our society that most of the voices come out as distorted noise. But one thing is clear, equality is not the target anymore for the so-called "feminists". I strongly believe that men, at least in the western part of the world, have been working hard in the l…
/r/MensRights10/02/23 10:18 AM
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