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| -1 | Question for MRPs who refuse to cheatI didn't cheat in either of my two marriages. After exiting marriage #2, I'm done with monogamy from my side. I've had my loyalty used as a weapon and am no longer giving anyone that loaded gun any more. This only works if it is agreed to or at least understood by your SO. | /r/askMRP | 18/12/25 01:00 PM |
| 2 | Wife mad because I "destroying her dreams" and "her life"She's pissed off at you in general. The house is the outlet. Solve the real problem or split another debt in divorce after she now hates the dream house you had to buy for her. BTDT. | /r/askMRP | 16/11/24 03:29 PM |
| 6 | How to make Alpha your default state?Much practice. Be who you want to be. Get outside your comfort zone. Fall on you ass a few times. Get up, brush yourself off, learn something from the experience. Repeat. 22 years ago when I first started practicing law, I was nervous covering a simple hearing. Now, a trial is no different than a meeting. | /r/askMRP | 04/10/24 12:30 AM |
| 1 | Any advice for how to read the sidebar with a degree of privacy?Most of the sidebar is on Kindle and Audible. Create a second Amazon account for Kindle so that your wife doesn't see the library if you share accounts. My business account makes me appear to be a men's consultant. Do the same for Audible. Listen on the way to work. Read on your iPad while you are watching TV and she is screwing around on Facebook. | /r/askMRP | 19/01/24 06:53 PM |
| 3 | Why is ilybinilwy so impossible to come back from?It means that she has no emotional connection with you anymore and you are a placeholder paycheck until Chad comes long. Most likely, he’s already balls deep in her ass right now. And, that was probably off limits to you, as was everything else. Could you come back? Maybe. Probably not. Why would you want to? If you get to where you can overcome the years of build up hamster wheel bullshit floating around in her head, you will truly be a high value male. Eliminating the fallacy of sunk costs and… | /r/askMRP | 27/12/23 03:50 AM |
| 2 | How to behave when one is sickGet some friends here. Being Indian is not an excuse. My best friend is an Indian anesthesiologist that just turned 70. He emigrated here in his 30s. I just helped him through his divorce. His kids are 12, 14, and 16. His wife, a highly-manipulative Indian nurse (sounds like your wife), gave him hell for years. He was afraid of what would happen with the kids. We got him a phenomenal settlement that focuses the visitation on the kids education. They had a big cultural difference. She is from Ker… | /r/askMRP | 20/11/23 12:28 AM |
| 1 | Victim Puke - I need helpThe only thing you have control over is you and your reactions to disappointment. I’m on the same journey with my temper and anger issues. View the world the way it is, rather than the way you want it to be. At least you don’t have a dead bedroom. Most else in your situation do. Re-establish frame by taking charge. You are high income. Hire a nanny and a tutor if she can’t hack it. She is your oldest teenager. Get out of the house more. Consider going back into the office rather than working fro… | /r/askMRP | 19/11/23 04:25 AM |
| 1 | One year field reportMe too. Same as that guy. She never cheated with somebody else, but forgot "to have and to hold" comes before "forsaking all others" for many years. I was more beta than you, I think. Always there through the trials and tribulations. I have bent over backwards to do what I thought she wanted. Or, what I was raised to think I was supposed to do. To answer his question, I'm not sure whether the relationship is fucked or fixable. I'm to the point of not really caring one way or the other. Not there… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 08/11/23 04:36 AM |
| 33 | Not seeing purpose in working from homeYour issue is what you do, not where you do it. I am an attorney and my name is one of the ones on the door, so I am free to come and go as I please. During Covid, I mostly worked from home because nobody else was going into the office and court was all on Zoom/Teams. I didn't see the point in spending an hour in the truck each day to sit in an empty office suite. I don't like working from home and went in once a week or so anyway, but adjusted. I never had an issue with purpose. My practice is … | /r/askMRP | 23/09/23 01:34 PM |
| 11 | Having trouble getting over wife’s sexual past.You really can't slut shame her for banging two dudes after the second date when you banged it out in the bar bathroom on the first date. You got a serious case of oneitis after that and are where you are. Own it. It was good when the pussy flowed freely. Now, not so much. Her hamster wheel is telling her to try and goad you into getting your shit together. The revelation of the multiple guys in the context reminiscing about the "good ol' days" is designed to make you jealous. If you were her, w… | /r/askMRP | 13/08/23 03:45 AM |
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