DMNK392 Archive

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1	Avoidant attachment style - what's helped me and what I've been doing I think victimizing is never a good thing. Anxious types (and I‘m myself one) who play the victim probably don‘t look for their own issues with closeness and instead blame everything on their „cold“ partners, saying they make them feel and act like this. This is bullshit in my opinion. As I believe that neither the Anxious’ nor the Avoidant‘s way of dealing with their fear of closeness is healthy for themselves, not to mention fulfilling. I think, if an Avoidant and Anxious really care for each …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/05/20 07:35 AM
1	Avoidant attachment style - what's helped me and what I've been doing Unfortunately the article was deleted so I don‘t know what #1 said. What I believe, and I am Anxious, currently working on becoming more and more Secure, is that both, the Avoidant and the Anxious, shouldn‘t weeding out each other from the dating pool. Now, don‘t get me wrong, if an Anxious person acts extremely needy and impulsive because of their unwarranted anxiety, this is someone that only makes an Avoidant‘s life unnecessary difficult (but also pretty much everyone‘s, even Secure‘s). On th…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/05/20 07:22 AM