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When you're 18, you have to sign up for the selective service which allows you to be drafted into wars in order to obtain your driver's license, federal student aid, work for the government, and avoid prison time. Teen boys have had to do this for centuries - women do not have to do the same in order to gain those rights. Just one example.
/r/MensRights31/03/26 03:20 PM
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It isn't academic based. Per the NCES government websites, boys: Get higher national test scores in 7/13 tested subjects (54%), jumping to 9/13 (69%) if you exclude the two art subjects. Boys score higher in 22/32 tested AP subjects, including every single STEM. The only subjects girls outscore boys is in arts and foreign languages. In Indiana, boys in elementary and middle school score higher in 3/4 state mandates subjects for ILEARN (math, science, social studies) while girls score higher in r…
/r/MensRights17/03/26 05:12 PM
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I believe in Australia there was a study on the best schools. 6/10 were all boys schools, 2/10 all girls, and 2/10 coed. All boys schools are known for academic advancement BUT it truly does take away from functioning around girls, which is truly an important skill.
/r/MensRights15/03/26 06:04 PM
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As a bisexual boy, I've been so fetishized by girls in HS it was insane. Got stalkers, got grabbed sexually, and worse. But somehow that always ended up being my fault. They have zero accountability at all my friend.
/r/MensRights04/03/26 08:16 AM
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Ironically, the UN says it's a violation of human rights that it happens to females. But for boys? Nah, never a word.
/r/MensRights25/02/26 07:48 AM
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Father's Guidance is a well known entity that specifically helps fathers
/r/MensRights17/02/26 06:57 PM
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Very cool question. I don't think there's a lot of "Men's Rights" entities out there but there's many services directed towards me. There's charities for helping men with legal fees for getting kids taken away, help impoverished young men with money for clothes, etc. I personally am in the process of providing my own scholarships to boys at a specific college in Cameroon myself. So there's many out there that directly help men, but unlikely to be directly labeled as men's rights
/r/MensRights17/02/26 06:33 PM
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Said both sides conceded things they wanted to reach a deal. The fuck is there to concede?? I completely agree, they should be going after the max or much higher consequence. 3 years with good time and she'll be out in less than 2.
/r/MensRights16/01/26 06:21 PM
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Spot on and great intuitive thinking. I love to see it. We tend to replace those figures closest to us (mother and father or, in my case, mother) when they aren't fulfilling their role. Predators take advantage of that and sadly that led me not only to being taken advantage of by her, but fully exploited in a form of sex trafficking and child pornography that lasted until I was 16. We all have our own demons, but I find power in speaking about it rather than keeping silent. Especially when it ca…
/r/MensRights14/12/25 06:38 AM
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Completely understand. At 12 I had a relationship with a 28 year old woman and my mom allowed it, even flew me to Canada and let her stay in our apartment. I'm terribly sorry all this happened to you. My inbox is always open if you ever need to talk.
/r/MensRights13/12/25 10:55 PM
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Appreciate you 🙏
/r/MensRights22/11/25 05:55 PM
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Absolutely, there's a reason studies show single dads with full custody raise children in similar quality to households with both parents
/r/MensRights21/11/25 10:20 PM
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I've gotten death and rape threats from women for talking about my experience being trafficked/raped as a teen by an adult woman. So sorry that happened to you, but it doesn't surprise me at all.
/r/MensRights21/11/25 08:49 PM
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Mine began at age 13. Lots of family issues and a major accident left my dad hospitalized for a long time. Mom didn't care too much about me and my brother. I wanted a relationship and girls my age didn't seem as mature or serious as me and ended up finding a girl in a game I played (RuneScape). Turns out she was 30 and by that time I developed nonsexual feelings. She was in northeast Canada and I was in Indiana. This developed into intense sexual exploitation and lasted until I was 17. Lots and…
/r/MensRights03/05/25 10:10 PM
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Mine began at age 13. Lots of family issues and a major accident left my dad hospitalized for a long time. Mom didn't care too much about me and my brother. I wanted a relationship and girls my age didn't seem as mature or serious as me and ended up finding a girl in a game I played (RuneScape). Turns out she was 30 and by that time I developed nonsexual feelings. She was in northeast Canada and I was in Indiana. This developed into intense sexual exploitation and lasted until I was 17. Lots and…
/r/MensRights03/05/25 10:09 PM
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Wishful thinking, right?
/r/MensRights11/04/25 05:16 PM
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We have a school in Indiana called "Wabash College". It's a decent school with about 900 students. Ranked 47th in the country I do believe out of a ton of colleges. It's a big success around here and had been recently aiming at getting men into teaching. I see billboards pretty often. I would have no issue going there; however, I firmly wish both genders could work together and resolve our problems.
/r/MensRights11/04/25 05:10 PM
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As a Jew, Jesus all the way. Don't matter if you believe in him or not. The example he set is unprecedented. More recent times, Einstein of course. More modern times, LeBron James has done some great stuff for his community and a lot of kids can relate to him. Messi and Ronaldo both are extremely influential and have been positively outspoken. Dr. Ben Carson has some good stories as well. Lots and lots of success stories among men Zuckerberg and Bezos. Every man has a story even if you don't lik…
/r/MensRights08/04/25 11:33 PM
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I'm bi and I've had more acceptance from the right than the left. We are a pawn for the left to push their agenda. I don't want any special treatment and tend to be on the right myself.
/r/MensRights06/04/25 10:15 PM
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Many of us are finished with Western women. In my case, I chose a latina from El Salvador 😜. American women helped me realize that I'm bi and absolutely not attracted to them at all 🥲
/r/MensRights04/04/25 07:40 PM
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It's not a source to his figure, but this gives an idea of who generates more taxes. This only applies to the top 1% which in itself generates a significant portion of all tax: https://ifs.org.uk/sites/default/files/output_url_files/BN253-Characteristics-and-Incomes-Of-The-Top-1%252525.pdf?utm_source=chatgpt.com Do note this link is a download. If you dont want to read it all, it basically says men generate 83% of income tax in the UK when looking at the top 1%.
/r/MensRights20/03/25 07:51 PM
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As a medical student, it should be required.
/r/MensRights20/03/25 07:06 PM
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I dealt with sexual and physical abuse from ages 12 to 17 from my 30 year old "girlfriend". Here's how I deal with it: Learn to rely on yourself. You cannot live your life leaning on others. There's only one person in this world that will NEVER stab you in the back. It's not your mom, your dad, your brother, or your spouse: it is YOU. I take meditation and self care very seriously. I've been through self harming, suicidal thoughts, the whole works from this. There are times it's okay to lean on …
/r/MensRights18/03/25 08:21 PM
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I'm a medical student. Here's a quick summary of how it works - In the first 48 hours of life, the baby is strapped and harnessed into This. The child will scream and cry virtuously as they're restrained. Ever gotten an anesthetic shot in the mouth? That's what is next, except near his genitals. And yes, babies have pain receptors and feel this. The child's penis is then, quite literally, mutilated. There's nerves, veins, and arterioles that go to the foreskin so there's lots of healing to do. C…
/r/MensRights12/02/25 01:40 PM
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Appreciate you reaching out. The sexual assault occured in Canada, not the US. That's a hell of a point you got there. I will absolutely look into this. Thanks again!
/r/MensRights13/01/25 05:51 AM
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She had done this to several boys. I was in the USA, she in Canada and she fell within Canada's system. I'm not sure how many boys were involved but her sentence was 2.5 years. It was also lessened further as she claimed mental health issues. Her sentencing began roughly 10 years ago. I wasn't offered anything as a victim besides to testify in court.
/r/MensRights13/01/25 03:25 AM
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Wow. As a man who was raped and sexually assaulted for years as a young teen by my 28 year old "girlfriend", this is disheartening.
/r/MensRights12/01/25 09:43 PM
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Absolutely gorgeous brother. Props to you 👏
/r/MensRights04/01/25 05:29 PM
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Remember how women say "not all men but always a man"? Yeahhh... Doesn't hold up well, especially when you see the fact women are more violent and cause more child abuse than men (Link Here) and are proven to be more controlling and aggressive on relationships (Link Here). "They discovered that women were ‘significantly’ more likely to be verbally and physically aggressive to men than vice versa." Says it all.
/r/MensRights04/01/25 05:25 PM
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There's a Facebook group called "Going GHOST - MGTOW". It's thriving with around 12k people now and growing. Come join us!
/r/MensRights21/12/24 06:03 AM
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Support our Indian brothers and make it known we have their backs. We sadly cannot do much, but we can atleast outreach our support to them.
/r/MensRights12/12/24 12:35 AM
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I can't wait until the day men start protesting and making our voices heard in public.
/r/MensRights11/12/24 05:51 AM
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This is based on USA stats. I am a medical student who has taught in schools before. Most kids, both boys and girls, are doing terribly at school according to standardized test scores. In the USA, girls average a 3.2 and boys a 3.0 GPA. This is roughly a 2.3% gap (3.0 = 83% and 3.2 = 85.3%). This stat can be seen Here. This is easily explained by female teacher bias. It has been well documented teachers give higher grades to girls for the same work. I recommend digging deep into here. Here is on…
/r/MensRights11/12/24 05:23 AM
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I'm in the med field and there are scholarships for women in nursing. Women make up 87% of nurses. Men 13%. Let that sink in. We live in a society where we are focusing our efforts solely on women and girls. It is up to US men to change this. Those grants are made by private entities. We MEN need to focus on boys and men if we wish to counterbalance. I'm going to be an Oncologist and will focus heavily on outreaching to men and focusing on boys only scholarships. In fact, it's already in a test …
/r/MensRights07/12/24 10:22 PM
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This. If men rallied in DC like women do over abortion, our voices would be heard. The moment men start organizing events, I'll be there.
/r/MensRights07/12/24 07:56 AM
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Thanks man. Appreciate you
/r/MensRights05/12/24 05:06 PM
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Idk. Ask 12 year old me who was sexually assaulted by a 28 year old woman. It really isn't that hard. But judging by the amount of death threats by women from speaking out on here about my experience, they don't give a shit regardless.
/r/MensRights05/12/24 08:21 AM
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Not sure what you're seeing. I've taught in a new school's as a sub and I see mostly highly motivated boys. SAT scores, AP scores , Gap in pay increasing, and many other numbers show boys are not that way you're perceiving. I'd argue it's quite the opposite based on what I've seen through teaching. In fact, in my state of Indiana, boys are testing, on average, better on every state test score besides reading from grade 3+ which you can see here. But I do agree with you. Parents actually parent g…
/r/MensRights04/12/24 06:16 PM
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Oh I know. The [platonic] bond between me and my best friend is unbreakable. I could conquer the world with my brother
/r/MensRights03/12/24 05:43 PM
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Oh absolutely. I think "platonic" was more of the word I was looking for - thanks. I feel the exact same way about mine.
/r/MensRights03/12/24 05:39 AM
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If they are going to de-center you from their lives, what stops you from re-centering men in yours? As a bi boy, go test your sexuality and test the feelings of brotherhood. There's a reason gay men have the lowest divorce rate. Strengthen your bond with each other instead.
/r/MensRights03/12/24 03:26 AM
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Here is a decent chart showing what you're talking about. Note that the height of the lines are not the IQ score, it is the # of people falling into the IQ range. Here is another one (2nd graph) showing the distribution of IQ averages. Yes it is very true although there's limitations to it. For instance, men average around 103 and women 100. 90% of women will fall around between an average IQ (90-110). The other 10% will fall at the extremities (5% <90 and 5% >110). This gives an overall average…
/r/MensRights01/12/24 08:19 PM
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I'm a med school student with a background in psychology. Women do perform a little better on emotional intelligence testings. The difference isn't stark but it does exist. Given an equal playing field in society, you would only see minor differences. Perhaps a slight evolutionary advantage. On the flip side, men have slightly higher IQ scores across various testings. The slight IQ advantage begins at around age 15. Here,boys%20develop%20a%20small%20IQ) is the study showing the differenfe betwee…
/r/MensRights01/12/24 08:47 AM
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Women often have zero sense of accountability. I see this in everyday life from when I taught to now in medical school. It's everywhere. I agree we should teach men to not harm women but this should be mutual: hold women equally accountable. As a man, I WANT accountability. I WANT to see where I do wrong and I WANT to be the best "me" that I can be. I very rarely ever see women that do.
/r/MensRights01/12/24 08:28 AM
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It is misunderstood in some ways. I'm a medical student going into Oncology and I think a lot of misunderstandings come from barriers men face getting care they need. We have excellent care but we can't force men to come see us. That's where the misunderstanding comes into play. I've made this a central point to my career in Oncology to help understand and break these barriers. A lot of the men who come on with cancers are older and have served in wars. It's understandable why many of these men …
/r/MensRights29/11/24 10:41 PM
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Medical student here. Just stopping by to say I appreciate the work you're doing. I'm going into Oncology and my career is centered on helping men get the help they need, break health barriers that men face, and make scholarships and opportunities to get boys into HEAL fields. Appreciate your work!
/r/MensRights28/11/24 08:33 AM
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Worry us? All this will do is support the r/thepassportbros movement. Join the train my man and find your girls abroad. We've been leaving Western women behind LONG before this 4b trash. Why do you think they swear off men in the first place? All the would-be men have found love abroad 😂
/r/MensRights28/11/24 08:22 AM
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Couldn't agree more. Atleast the information is out there. Whatever it takes to educate those willing to listen I suppose.
/r/MensRights27/11/24 05:45 AM
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Don't stoop to some of their levels, it isn't necessary. We can advocate the right way by banding together and making our voices heard in public. "Boycotting" is individualistic and doesn't link us together as we do it separately. Our voices need to be heard collectively and in public spaces. I know all of this is a depressing struggle but don't lower yourself to them.
/r/MensRights27/11/24 01:47 AM
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I was thinking the same thing
/r/MensRights26/11/24 04:31 PM
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Glad you found a home. Each of us here have a story. I'm a medical student and part of the reason I joined is to offer free & anonymous advice to men who have medical questions or problems. As always, my dm is open to anyone, anytime 💙
/r/MensRights26/11/24 12:58 AM
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I'm a medical student who has been in higher education for over 10 years. I have multiple degrees and certifications ranging from Bioloical and Physical Science to Elementary Education and Dementia Care. Women make up 58% of college students and are now more educated than men in the USA. In some European countries, this can be as high as 66% (Source). I've taught and have seen no programs to assist boys getting into HEAL fields and relatively weak push to go to college while girls have a massive…
/r/MensRights25/11/24 09:11 PM
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I'm a medical student and it's happening in our med schools too. But hey, girl power, am I right? Down with the patriarchy 😂
/r/MensRights23/11/24 05:31 AM
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Good for you for caring enough. That's a huge step and shows character. The first step is realizing no one is perfect, and that includes you. This means you will make mistakes and that's okay. It's how we learn and handle those mistakes. Men don't want respect, they need it. And I would make this synonymous to the way women need to be loved. I, as a man, cannot function without adequate respect in my household. Without it, my desire and motivation is siphoned. But when I'm filled with respect, I…
/r/MensRights21/11/24 09:29 AM
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Report the product. Go down to where it says "report incorrect item description" and it'll give you an option to report for offensive material. Do your part.
/r/MensRights19/11/24 04:55 AM
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Absolutely not. I'm a medical student and have faced a series of discrimination just getting into med school as a white male (my Asian male colleagues have had it worse). I've shifted my primary medical focus to Oncology and Men's outreach as a result and am in the process of making scholarships for boys only. Part of what I do is outreach on here. My chat is always open for men for free medical advice or to chat. I can't believe how many men have reached out to me with mental health that is aff…
/r/MensRights17/11/24 11:07 PM
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Whichever side supports equality
/r/MensRights17/11/24 10:07 PM
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One day men are going to say they've had enough of this shit. And I'll be glad I'm on the side that has countless eons of military experience protecting countries.
/r/MensRights17/11/24 06:35 AM
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Funny thing is, the majority of voters (55%) were female. If they all voted for Harris, they would've overridden male votes. Turns out, 44% of them voted Trump (58%, a majority, of white women did). Funny how they hold us accountable for something wrong yet not women. That's literally the essence of women personified - they CANNOT hold their own selves accountable.
/r/MensRights13/11/24 06:37 PM
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I'm so sorry you deal with this. I was molested and sexually assaulted by a woman in her 30s when I was 13 and has a big impact on me even today. I've regularly dealt with harassment that I cope with. Just know you aren't alone and my chat is always open
/r/MensRights09/11/24 05:12 AM
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Couldn't agree more. I'm a med student and have my chat always open for any problems any man has. We're here for you
/r/MensRights08/11/24 03:32 AM
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Let them hate. It was both men and women who got Trump elected. Whether they hate us or not: Trump won and no amount of their hate will change that. Personally, I just laugh at them
/r/MensRights06/11/24 08:41 AM
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I'm a medical student going into Oncology. There's some medical journals that suggest vasectomies increase the risk of some cancers. Even a miniscule risk increase is enough to cause tens of thousands of new cancers. Both procedures have risks and I believe both should be done by the individual, free of outside influences.
/r/MensRights03/11/24 02:12 AM
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Let them blame us. That means if they want to change this, they have to listen to us, our problems, and he'll solve their problems. Men don't commit for various social reasons - all of which the government and society will need to target I'd they want to keep their population steady. Seems we hold the power in this circumstance - I'm cool with that.
/r/MensRights30/10/24 05:22 PM
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https://www.dolanzimmerman.com/domestic-violence-statistics/ I like to bring up stats like that where there's evidence women are just as much or more violent than men. Lesbian relationships prove this where some studies suggest a near majority of lesbian women have been sxually abused or experiences violence by other women. It's far from always a man.
/r/MensRights29/10/24 11:15 PM
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In psychology we'd probably call that "Gender Role Conflict". Even in Western countries, there are huge subsets of women who believe men are supposed to do traditional roles which include much of what you say. Many men do not agree with it. There's an expected role that isn't assumed - pretty much the definition of gender role conflict. In some countries, this expectation is forced by society - both from men and women. Just as many countries subjugate women (Afghanistan), there are many countrie…
/r/MensRights29/10/24 06:28 PM
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I've gotten to the point I try not to associate with certain people unless I have to. I also questioned and tested my sexuality which I felt liberated after doing so. I suggested you do both as well.
/r/MensRights27/10/24 07:16 PM
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Yooo this is freaking awesome. Props to you guys! Can't wait to get my scholarship opportunity for boys rolling. If we all do what we can, we can make a difference!
/r/MensRights25/10/24 11:20 PM
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😂😂😂
/r/MensRights25/10/24 08:07 PM
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Medical school and undergrad. I've seen countless women's only scholarships and my school had an office for women. There was no such service for men and no male only scholarships at my school. Medical school is the same: there are grants for women only in the medical field but not men. Men also have to have a slightly higher MCAT compared to women. This highlights a common problem, where some schools have over 100 female only scholarships versus a couple for males. You can see this here. Time to…
/r/MensRights24/10/24 05:35 PM
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I was in a relationship when I was 12 with a 30 year old woman (I'm in USA and she was in Canada). I met her and it turned to hell. The sexual abuse was intense and got very physical. This went on for almost 4 years as I was groomed into believing all that was happening was normal. Now I've got pics of me as a child nude on the web even at the age I am now (28).
/r/MensRights22/10/24 04:10 PM
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First, let me thank you for the work you've done with at risk boys. That's an amazing commitment you made and I feel like you are owed respect for doing so. I have the utmost respect for this. I think telling a bit of my story will best answer your questions. I was "at risk" from middle school onward. My mother turned my against my dad, cheated on him, and left him after a near death accident that left him hospitalized. My mom would eventually go on to abandon me, at which I became homeless in m…
/r/MensRights22/10/24 03:36 PM
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Yep, there's several studies on this. Male teachers are a different breed and seem to engage both genders more. https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-1324905/amp/Pupils-make-effort-male-teachers-seen-fair.html Even girls tend to agree. We have a solution to our problem (more male teachers, less feminism) but the problem is that enticing men into a field that doesn't pay well is almost impossible. Very few men are going to accept 41k/yr after spending 4 years in college. T…
/r/MensRights22/10/24 02:26 PM
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Appreciate the data! Those are excellent sources
/r/MensRights21/10/24 10:00 PM
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No you're definitely right, I'm pretty sure this is a worldwide phenomenon. In the cesspool we call education, girls simply fare better in terms of grading while boys in testing. This is only true for the US - in the UK boys are struggling with both - and in Japan it is the opposite. What impact this actually has is questionable. Look at Estonia. It has the largest college gap in the world in favor of women where 35% of college grads are male. Yes, 35 PERCENT. Yet, they have the largest pay gap …
/r/MensRights21/10/24 09:59 PM
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Absolutely agree. Many of the boys are interested in subjects not even thought about. I've had boys wanting anatomy books in 4th grade, some wanting astronomy books, and even a kid wanting to learn about the immune system. I find many boys disengage when the story has no purpose. Many want facts. While I get you need to have fictional stories, there's usually no options givens outside of those fictional, fantasy books. Boys often don't want fantasy and many teachers struggle to realize this and …
/r/MensRights21/10/24 03:46 PM
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I find it odd because I've been sexually assaulted as a pre teen by a 30 year old woman for years. I have a very strong reinforced fear of women in many ways but I never would think all women are like this. It is also sad because men who have dealt with this are swept under the rug and dismissed. Some women tend to have a problem with accountability and don't realize the underreported numbers of men. In terms of child abuse, women actuslly outnumber men by around 10%, as can be seen Here. But th…
/r/MensRights21/10/24 02:37 PM
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I've taught various grades so I feel like I have some legitimate input here. I'm also a medical student with a background in psychology. Very few kids are actuslly doing good in school. We need to focus less on who is doing better because the majority are failing tests. When I say very few, I mean it - it's so worrisome how bad our kids of both genders are doing in school. We are averaging 40% state testing pass rates in reading, 35% in math, 55% in social studies, and even worse in science. In …
/r/MensRights21/10/24 02:16 PM
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Why would you want to spend 4+ years in a place where THIS exists?
/r/MensRights18/10/24 10:54 PM
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"Actually, women aren’t even commenting. It’s just men that are commenting. In a positive way." Sounds about right. They tend to disappear when we show, with evidence, the problems men face. Just like in reality, many women struggle with accountability. We need to support our brothers through this and stand together ✊️
/r/MensRights18/10/24 05:27 PM
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"Actually, women aren’t even commenting. It’s just men that are commenting. In a positive way." Sounds about right. They tend to disappear when we show, with evidence, the problems men face. Just like in reality, many women struggle with accountability. We need to support our brothers through this and stand together ✊️
/r/MensRights18/10/24 05:27 PM
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"Actually, women aren’t even commenting. It’s just men that are commenting. In a positive way." Sounds about right. They tend to disappear when we show, with evidence, the problems men face. Just like in reality, many women struggle with accountability. We need to support our brothers through this and stand together ✊️
/r/MensRights18/10/24 05:24 PM
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Just so other boys know they aren't alone: I was groomed and taken advantage of sexuslly by a 30 year old woman when I was 12 years old. She was my "girlfriend" for a long duration and took me a long time to realize what was going on. Looking back, I can't change what happened. Looking forward, I can at least speak up about it and let other boys know: you aren't alone.
/r/MensRights17/10/24 08:15 PM
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As much as I hate to say it, we men have to do better - when are we going to start protesting over issues our boys face? I know we face backlash but we've got to do better than just posting on reddit.
/r/MensRights15/10/24 05:26 PM
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I'm a skilled boxer and this is the way I see it: If a weak man chose to hit a strong man, would he get a pass for being weak or would women say he deserved it? Okay, now let's apply that to women. If a woman hits a man, does she get a pass just because she's weaker? Neither would in my book. If a woman knowingly hits a man who is stronger than her and expects to not be hit back, that's cowardice and entitlement. If a woman hits me, I'm sitting her ass down. Don't want to get hit? Don't hit me. …
/r/MensRights07/10/24 11:25 PM
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Bullied by both. I'd say by girls was slightly worse but not by much. My main problems have been stalling and harassment.
/r/MensRights05/10/24 11:08 PM
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Ive taught before and have a degree in education and am also a medical student with a strong background in psychology. Girls DO get slightly higher grades and they average a 3.2 vs a 3.0 GPA. This is equivalent to an 85.3% for girls vs an 83% for boys - really not much different. The reason for this is debatable and likely due to biases. The real difference where boys shine is test results. In Indiana, boys outscore girls in Math, Science, and Social Studies while girls outscore boys in reading.…
/r/MensRights05/10/24 06:59 PM
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Ive taught before and have a degree in education and am also a medical student with a strong background in psychology. Girls DO get slightly higher grades and they average a 3.2 vs a 3.0 GPA. This is equivalent to an 85.3% for girls vs an 83% for boys - really not much different. The reason for this is debatable and likely due to biases. The real difference where boys shine is test results. In Indiana, boys outscore girls in Math, Science, and Social Studies while girls outscore boys in reading.…
/r/MensRights05/10/24 06:59 PM
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Damn lol 😆
/r/MensRights05/10/24 05:08 PM
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"Patriarchy" at its finest
/r/MensRights04/10/24 09:08 PM
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Ah yes a 3 year jail sentence. That's straight up mental
/r/MensRights04/10/24 08:45 PM
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Ive taught before and have a degree in education and am also a medical student with a strong background in psychology. Girls simply get slightly higher grades and they average a 3.2 vs a 3.0 GPA. This is equivalent to an 85.3% for girls vs an 83% for boys - really not much different. The real difference where boys shine is test results. In Indiana, boys outscore girls in Math, Science, and Social Studies while girls outscore boys in reading. You can see those results here. In AP courses, girls a…
/r/MensRights04/10/24 02:47 PM
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My state (Indiana) is the opposite. I've also taught and have a degree in education. In Indiana, boys outperform girls on average in Math, Science, and Social Studies as you can see here. Girls only outperform in reading. Boys also scores higher on average on SAT, perform equally well on ACT, and score higher on a majority of AP test results, including every single STEM subject. The only subjects girls outperformed were language and art based by small amounts as can be seen here. This just shows…
/r/MensRights04/10/24 02:36 PM
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As someone who has been in the classroom a lot, it's not as simple as girls are more compliant. I've dealt with more physical altercations between girls and bullying between girls more so than I have boys. Girls also make annoying Tik tok videos in the middle of class (middle school onward). Boys will get on games when they aren't supposed to and be sneaky about it. Overall compliance where when I say to stop doing something and they follow through? Neither really does. The stereotype that girls…
/r/MensRights04/10/24 02:24 PM
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Men literally go to war with brothers they don't even know and invade and defend countries. It doesn't surprise me men can navigate a marriage better together versus two women.
/r/MensRights02/10/24 03:00 AM
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It's demoralizing. But free speech is necessary to realize the type of people we are surrounded by. Imagine having no free speech thinking there's no issues. I'd rather have the facts out in the open and understand other's perspectives than live in a false reality. Even though it's demoralizing sometimes, I like being able to be there for my brothers who are struggling and use my medical knowledge to help get rid of some of the bias that floats around.
/r/MensRights01/10/24 08:44 PM
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Beautiful citations. Thanks
/r/MensRights01/10/24 06:04 PM
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Calling men dumb because some men cannot see the difference between 2 colors.. how ridiculous. Men normally have lower number of cone cells that allow them to see color, there's nothing wrong with not being able to distinguish 2 similar colors. Men also have more rod cells which allow them to see better in the dark. How stupid would it be to claim women are dumb because they can't see in the dark as well... smh
/r/MensRights28/09/24 04:52 PM
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Thanks man. I appreciate you!
/r/MensRights28/09/24 01:43 AM
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I appreciate your words, I really do. Part of forgiveness for me is helping others. With what's going on in the world, it's hard to keep that mindset sadly. But I believe I can help men out by being an Oncologist that targets men and use extra income to target boys to get them into HEAL fields. I can't go back and change my past, but maybe I can be a difference for those men/boys going through similar problems.
/r/MensRights28/09/24 01:39 AM
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All good 😂
/r/MensRights27/09/24 11:30 PM
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I'm bi lol
/r/MensRights27/09/24 11:20 PM
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The number one thing you can do is self-actualize. Be the best YOU that YOU can be. Realize your potential and be someone who genuinely cares for other's wellbeing. I highly recommend looking into humanistic psychology and studying self-actualization. It's made me a changed man. This sets you up to rely on yourself and be independent. I understand your struggle. I was raped and sexually abused as a 12 year old by my 30 year old girlfriend. I was abandoned by my mother and became homeless as a te…
/r/MensRights27/09/24 10:26 PM
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Coddled? Shit. I was sexually abused and raped by my 30 year old "girlfriend" when I was 12. My mother abandoned me in my senior year of high school and I became homeless. Teachers ignored my cried for help even when I told them I was being raped. Seen plenty of boys like me with similar circumstances get no help. Meanwhile, the girls got all the help they needed. Boys as a whole aren't coddled. But I will say my experiences allowed me to reach my potential and I'm now in medical school. I belie…
/r/MensRights27/09/24 09:55 PM
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Love what you're doing. Never stop my man. Keep it up
/r/MensRights27/09/24 08:01 AM
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I sub a lot while in medical school. I can tell you without a shadow of a doubt that boys are treated more harsh. Boys will get called out for anything. Talking too loud, off task, etc. I've seen those same teacher let girls get away with so much shit it's unreal. I've seen girls make dance videos for tiktok in class while the boys can't even have their phones out. The double standards among teachers are ridiculous. I can see the frustration in their eyes. These are boys who are genuinely intell…
/r/MensRights26/09/24 06:30 PM
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You hit it spot on. Which is a reason I'm in medical school now and not a teacher.
/r/MensRights26/09/24 05:48 PM
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I've taught in school systems and I can tell you boys are held accountable to a higher degree than girls. When a boy is on their phone or talking too loud, it is immediately stopped. I've seen girls make dance videos in class with the same teacher that stopped the boys from even having their phone out. I've seen more physical fights between girls so far (not by far, but still a majority) and they always get less trouble. The boys who get in trouble usually show a greater amount of respect and to…
/r/MensRights26/09/24 04:53 PM
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It seems to be men have become passive. Women are strong because they stick together. I believe men need to do the same thing. We've fought wars on a global scale together - we can change this. Resist and fight back every chance you get.
/r/MensRights26/09/24 02:11 AM
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Jesus... I'm a dude who will literally be saving these women from cancer (oncologist). The lack of respect from women seriously makes me consider rechoosing a career. 80% of us are male in my field, cancer care wouldn't exist without us. How sad these women are too blind by their own hate .
/r/MensRights25/09/24 10:51 PM
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Though I'm a medical student now, I have taught in multiple grade levels. I can say from experience (I'm someone who loves educating girls) that girls are, on average, more of a handful for me and cause me more problems in the class - atleast in elementary and middle school. Accountability is low where other teachers will call out boys but not girls for similar behavior. There's an obvious bias from mostly female teachers for the girls. Boys are disruptive as well but usually they settle down th…
/r/MensRights25/09/24 04:57 PM
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Perfect
/r/MensRights23/09/24 04:38 AM
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That's... actually beautiful. We men need to step up and do things like this more. I LOVE it.
/r/MensRights22/09/24 11:49 PM
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Women have such an advantage that puts them far higher than their male counterparts in education. This study alone shows how 92% of all single sex scholarships are female. Look at the University of Phoenix: Females have 106 scholarship options while men have 2... TWO. Most schools have 30+ for women and none for men. Combine this with studies that show teachers are biased against boys. It's amazing men are still progressing as they are.
/r/MensRights22/09/24 11:20 PM
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Medium is notorious for practically saying hate speech against men. I'd stay away from there completely if I were you. It's not worth it
/r/MensRights19/09/24 06:47 AM
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Do not read or contribute to "Medium" in any way. They are notorious for straight up hate speech towards men. Stay away.
/r/MensRights19/09/24 06:44 AM
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It's alright to feel the way you do. But let's look back to World War 2. Life was bleak for so many people. People gased. Killed. Tortured beyond belief. And then all these men rushed to Europe to fight. We had teens and underage boys signing up and faking their ages. Man... are boys awesome or what? We changed the course of the world. We saved the world - as we have on so many occasions. And we will again. We make this world run. Every facet of the world men keep it going. Oil, electricity, roa…
/r/MensRights19/09/24 06:41 AM
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And I'll be on the front lines to ensure this happens as an Oncologst who focuses on Men's Health! If we all do our part, we can make this a reality. I'm a medical student who provides free medical advice to men. Simply send me a dm and I'll be glad to help
/r/MensRights19/09/24 06:30 AM
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Yeah, pretty messed up. We've had instances where the oncologist gets so caught up in the emotions of the job that they've left in the middle of work and took their own life. I'd lie if I said the amount of male hate hasn't gotten to me. I'm literally dedicating my life to these people. You just gotta put your head down and keep chugging along I guess. It's a bleak career to have for all the male hate that goes on out there. Even saving women's lives and sacrificing your own mental health isn't …
/r/MensRights18/09/24 06:05 PM
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yawn. I'm in the field of Oncology, which is nearly 78% male. About 20,000 of us. Last I heard, 53% of all cancers are women. 2 million new cancer cases in the US per year, so about 1 million women treated to the best of our ability. With a survival rate of 68%, we save nearly 700,000 women per year alone. That's 2,000 per day in women alone. In one single male dominated profession. And they're worried about a handful of cases against women? Shit... they need to come visit Oncology and they'll s…
/r/MensRights18/09/24 07:00 AM
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I'm a medical student as well. There's so much stigma around overall health for men. I'm going into Oncology and focus on outreaching men. I've helped many men on reddit with advice and suggestions via private messaging. Men simply need a little extra help to get going sometimes. So many men are used to putting others first and begin thinking and stigmatizing thinking about themselves. But you and I, as future physicians, can be the change we want to see. We do not rely on women's opinions to be…
/r/MensRights18/09/24 01:42 AM
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Appreciate what you do. We need more men like you. I'm a medical student in the process of creating scholarships for boys and men only to get them into HEAL careers. We can make a huge difference if more men donate to causes like you're doing!
/r/MensRights18/09/24 01:36 AM
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Here's a good example of why men get paid more in my field of study (Oncology): Oncologists set their own hours in many ways and accept the amount of clients they want. Men generally accept more and spend longer hours at the hospital and that's based off of what multiple male and female oncologists have said. The men are also more ambitious in a career sense. They are not only oncologists but also do more research, seminars, and other "side hustles". Not that the women do not, just the men do mo…
/r/MensRights16/09/24 05:49 PM
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Sounds similar to my case when I was 12 with a 30 year old woman, except Skype was what was used and not Discord. Anyone who has kids should be very aware of how prominent this is, especially on apps like Roblox. Any parents out there should monitor what's going on often and have a talk with their kid about it so that what happened to me can never happen to them.
/r/MensRights16/09/24 04:52 PM
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I have multiple degrees in science (Biological science, Physical science, Biology, and Chemistry). I am also a medical student who researches psychology and will be a cancer doctor. Males and females have evolved alongside one another for millions of years. Our physiology is literally interwoven to compliment each other. For instance, research "genetic imprinting" to understand how important males are and how we've evolved alongside one another. Sperm doesn't just contain half the DNA for a chil…
/r/MensRights13/09/24 10:46 PM
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Based on results I've studied in Indiana, Utah, and Colorado the trend remains the same. I'm not the biggest fan of standardized testing but it shows the capabilities of the students. In this case, it highlights that boys are not behind on material and knowledge - they are behind in the race to end teacher bias.
/r/MensRights13/09/24 01:58 PM
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The number of faces that light up when they see me, a man, walk in as their teacher in elementary school is so nice.
/r/MensRights13/09/24 12:19 AM
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Girls get better grades. That's a fact. Teacher bias exist and are preferred on average. However unbiased test scores show who knows what. Here's my states scores: Indiana State Scores. You can see ALL schools in Indiana and compare them by gender in their excel sheet. To summarize, Boys, on average, outscore Girls in 3 out of 4 standardized tests. Girls outperform in reading. Boys outperform in science, math, and social studies from grades 3 to high school. Girls do outnumber boys in AP (advanc…
/r/MensRights12/09/24 11:53 PM
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This is very well said. I like to take a humanistic approach to this personally. I think when we better ourselves we create a better path for a partner to help fill the void. Your story shows a series of steps you took to bettering yourself and I believe you set a good example for us men in here. Thanks for your input
/r/MensRights09/09/24 07:21 AM
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It definitely is but there's not much ground behind it when so many men are forced to go into the military or be denied access to the same resources and opportunities women have without having to do the same service. We have a long way to go
/r/MensRights06/09/24 10:35 PM
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Definitely! And they are out there. Hard to find sometimes, but they exist. We can only educate by creating awareness. The more we talk, the more that is heard
/r/MensRights06/09/24 10:32 PM
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Good lord man. I was sexually abused as a 13 year old by a 30 year old "girlfriend" so I truly feel for these boys. From my experience it's so hard to talk about. Boys have no sense of ability to speak up because no one tells us it's okay to. Couple this with the fact I've seen TEACHERS with a mug that says "Boy tears" laughing on Tiktok about problems boys have, we are literally forced to supress it. With the recent events involving female teachers in the US, I wouldn't be surprised if it's jus…
/r/MensRights05/09/24 02:08 AM
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It's not super prevalent but a lot of the issue came in Organic Chemistry where the a group of girls would be loud asf and complain/disrupt and not take it seriously non stop. I can't say it's common but the few times in classed that it did, it was all from the women
/r/MensRights05/09/24 12:19 AM
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Well said. Women ARE great. But feminism has got to go.
/r/MensRights04/09/24 10:22 PM
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I came from homelessness. Mom turned me against my dad as a teen. He left. Mom abandoned me for drugs when I was 16. I spent my final year of high school homeless. Ranked 530/532. Watched everyone around me (mostly girls) get all the help they need. It sucked. But eventually I said no more. I put my big boy boots on and pulled myself up by my bootstraps. Started Community College and used loans to invest. I learned the stock market to the point I made enough to buy my first house out of homeless…
/r/MensRights04/09/24 07:41 PM
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Absolutely. There's a worrying amount of violence and drug usage in the lesbian community and it really shows in my part of the med field.
/r/MensRights04/09/24 05:20 PM
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I'm a med student and part of my field of study is psychology. The gap in rates of domestic violence is shown to closing where 40% of the perpetrators are women now. However this doesn't take into account one of the worst medical phenomenon in the med field: men do not report. Whether it is symptoms or abuse, men simply don't report much. And I feel for men because the men who have these problems are usually older and they've likely served in a war or two. This is one of my biggest focuses in th…
/r/MensRights04/09/24 04:53 PM
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This right here. Boys are not pushed by parents to be orderly which makes them turn work in less. Turning in work is NOT part of the quality of work and shouldn't affect the grade. There are other ways of getting kids to turn in work - taking away points is not one of them and one thing I never do. Talking to their coach or other teachers they like makes a HUGE difference. In reality, the average high school boy has a 3.0 gpa and girls a 3.2. That's like a boy getting an 83% while a girl gets an…
/r/MensRights04/09/24 04:27 PM
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Been in higher education for 10 years straight now (med student). Most women were fine but the only disruptions in class in my undergrad were women. Can't think of a single instance of men disrupting the class; however, I can think of many instances where women did.
/r/MensRights04/09/24 04:17 PM
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This is actually a very important study. I have a degree in education and regularly teach although I'm going to med school. Based on my experiences in a variety of grades, girls behavior is, on average, worse than the boys. The boys who misbehave usually do so in a way that disrupts the class so it seems worse. But is talking too loud really worse than making TikTok videos that feature you and two other girls twerking? I kid you not. Every. Single. Class. Has this happen. Boys are generally more…
/r/MensRights04/09/24 07:02 AM
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