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There are women who are just open to this kind of conversation. I've met quite a few, but tbh, most of the time I have to tiptoe or I might face sexual harassment charges.
/r/seduction22/10/22 04:55 AM
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Well, no matter how "needy" you may seem, she can ignore those if she really likes you.
/r/seduction21/08/22 05:41 PM
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Don't be surprised. If the Alpha>Beta mindset is 100% true, then how come Beta Males get into relationships as much as, if not better than Alpha Males. You don't need a high self-esteem to be attractive, yes. Because women are attracted to your beauty, wealth, and your compatibility with each other (how you make them feel secure). Sometimes, a combination of these. Also, this is not just about Beta, Alpha, Sigma. It has something to do with attraction and compatibility, and not just a mindset. T…
/r/seduction21/08/22 05:21 PM
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Bc if she says I have to move on it will hurt a lot, so I rather let it rest for myself until I heal on my own. This is why in most of my interactions, I'm not looking for a long-term relationship unless me and the lady is already hanging out for long or she made me feel secure. The thing is if you wanna lighten your load, you're gonna have to vent out a lot, and when you vent out a lot, you're gonna get a lot of insecure thoughts running. When we were kids, a lot of us grew up feeling that way …
/r/seduction18/08/22 02:08 PM
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Have you told her your anger and frustration for what she did, though? You've been with her for quite a long time. So, I know it really sucks not getting over that girl. Personally, I rarely get into long-term and casual relationships that long. But, even a year long-relationship hurts like hell after a breakup. Please, message me again someday and tell us how you just forgot about her as time went on. How long have you went your separate ways, btw? ​ venting without an action to her part doesnt…
/r/seduction18/08/22 01:24 PM
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And she will just accept it and not be upset, she will go "ok,.is that everything you feel better?" Her reply is not your responsibility. Jesus! The point is for you to vent out and not to worry about her life. Your response above is too indicative of your attachment to her. ​ I can ask her to meet me, but there is not guarantee she will want to see me. ​ And even if she does, I don't want to know anything about her, if she is seein someone or has a new bf or whatever,.I rather not know. That's …
/r/seduction18/08/22 12:54 PM
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You probably have a lot of unspoken feelings for her. If you're still holding gurdges or even smaller negative feelings, please tell her. Let her know you have something important to tell her. If you have to write down everything you want to say, do it. Tell her how you are feeling right now, you can even tell her how you were feeling back then when you broke up. Even if it makes you look needy, because tbh, you're still needy of her because you made her have such a huge part of your life. You d…
/r/seduction18/08/22 08:45 AM
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When I meet/match with a woman I always try to sleep with them as quick as possible. Within this first or second date usually. There's nothing wrong with this. ​ I think I love bomb them. This is why you're going in circles. You're not being honest with your intentions. You're love-bombing them just to get laid right away. ​ You don't have to take it slow. You just gotta get out of that love-bombing bullshit.
/r/seduction17/08/22 11:59 PM
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It would be one thing if she told him ahead of time she wanted to bring a friend. Just bringing one without saying anything is a version of friend zoning. I agree with this. I usually state my boundaries if it's a big deal for me and if she tries to do this while I'm looking for something more intimate, then it'd be a pass for me until she does otherwise.
/r/seduction17/08/22 11:34 PM
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Hey there! I don't see anything wrong with you intrinsically. I still get ghosted every now and then, but, I tend to find at least 1/5 women I meet to stick around for a good while. I would cut off the loss if I was you. You're putting too much value on her while she's not reciprocating it. Not that everything has to be reciprocated, but you're kind of losing your sanity over her at this point. There's nothing wrong in thinking of her. You can even use that to convince yourself if she's still wo…
/r/seduction17/08/22 11:24 PM
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What's your nationality, btw?
/r/seduction17/08/22 11:09 PM
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Judging by this, you probably have a lot of money to spare. Then, go for it. ​ In my experience, I find foreign women easier to attract than local women. Also, the fact that most foreign women who come over are just more attractive. Maybe due to the fact that I look more European than Southeast-Asian.
/r/seduction17/08/22 09:35 PM
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The easiest way to bypass all of this is to unequivocally make it clear to women that you offer no commitment, no security of any kind, especially monetary but also favor wise. You will not fix her car, help her get a job, take her to an expensive restaurant, etc. Only promise that you will have an adult fun filled night together and you can't promise anything beyond that except that you'd want to be invited back in her bed. Good idea
/r/seduction17/08/22 09:27 PM
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The other dudes have a point. How can you learn social skills if you don't socialize? When I was young I also spoke very awkwardly with stutters and in a fast-paced manner. I taught myself to relax and just speak my mind out as slowly as possible. Also, that self-deprecation stuff ain't gonna help. You wanna do it, so just do it. So, what if you used to be awkward?
/r/seduction17/08/22 09:13 PM
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If you're willing to wait and have a lot of money to see her, then go for it. Otherwise, you might as well seek foreign girls on vacation in your area or you get yourself a vacation.
/r/seduction17/08/22 09:10 PM
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Acting in ways that makes other people like you. There's basically nothing wrong with it, you'll want to have the other party's approval if you wanna have good interpersonal skills. However, if you need it, it probably means you don't have a high self-esteem. Also, the reason why a lot of people doesn't like "approval-seeking" is due to the fact that it's basically manipulation to do something in exchange for approval. It mostly comes down to your intentions, though. Might as well add that as lo…
/r/seduction17/08/22 09:08 PM
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Look, that's not my point. Obviously most of them are bullshitting, esp. with the "models I laid" BS they keep telling. But, their self-improvement writeup usually works. Self-improvement as in not getting stuck in a rut and not "go and do the same stuff I've been doing, get a 6-pack, big guns, 10k followers, etc." Seems like we're not reading the same stuff, I wouldn't classify those as self-improvement.
/r/seduction17/08/22 08:11 PM
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For a good night out, just have a good time. Make some new friends or whatever. But, if having a good night out for you means getting laid, then take your chance.
/r/seduction17/08/22 05:17 PM
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Just look up any self-improvement books/blogs/sites online and you're good. You can skip the pickup part since you don't need that shit anymore once you've improved yourself.
/r/seduction17/08/22 04:54 PM
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Yeah. And most of the time, if a woman is really attracted to you, then she wouldn't even look at the negatives in the interaction. Sometimes, they might even be the one to make the first move.
/r/seduction17/08/22 04:43 PM
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I had an ex who smelled like mildew or something. And that girl had yellowish soles that smelled like ass.
/r/seduction16/08/22 08:46 PM
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I don't smell that bad after I hit the gym, unless I was working out in a gym with awful hygiene. I live in the tropics, btw. I know a lot of Asians who bathe on a weekly basis, yet they smell good. Also met a few who had stinky armpits. Good thing we make a habit of bathing at least once daily. Although, I only bathe every two days unless I'm out socializing.
/r/seduction16/08/22 08:19 PM
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What? So, you're a girl who loves eating ass? Or you're a non-hetero male. Sorry for the lack of better wording. We have a term for "gay males" in my language, but I don't think there's one in English. EDIT: I also don't like fucking with women who smell of soap and shampoo. I prefer the smell of pussy and ass on my dick, unless I'm planning to go out after sex.
/r/seduction16/08/22 07:10 PM
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I guess I have a weird fascination with stinky butts. XD
/r/seduction16/08/22 06:16 PM
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I feel you, bro. TBH, there are scenarios I skip this. But, most of the time, when I'm making out with a woman at my place, I'd bring up this topic to spice things up.
/r/seduction16/08/22 03:38 PM
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By good sex scenes, I mean those from Shortbus, "Lust, Caution", Intimacy, Spread, and other "good" erotic movies.
/r/seduction16/08/22 01:39 PM
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I agree that feet are generally clean, depending on your partner's hygiene. So, you love your asses clean, then. Damn, I feel awful for eating shit and butt grime. IMO, ass smells good as it is. Never got myself to lick dirty feet, though.
/r/seduction16/08/22 01:35 PM
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It's okay man. BTW, did u try eating ass or licking feet while you're on it?
/r/seduction16/08/22 10:34 AM
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lick every crevice of their mouth Uhh. I don't think I've ever done this one, though. Although, I really love to get playful with saliva and breathing their breathes. Also breathing breathes is an aspect of Tantric Sex. You should try reading it, it will make sex more enjoyable, but it involves a lot of physical gymnastics and some things you may find disgusting. I've barely touched the surface on that one.
/r/seduction16/08/22 09:40 AM
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It was the book that kickstarted my inner-game work. It helped me on improving my interactions with people and my life in general. I might re-read it sometime, but most of Mark's advice is very general, so, as other people said, you might as well read other books along this one.
/r/seduction16/08/22 09:13 AM
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Oh shit.
/r/seduction16/08/22 08:59 AM
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I wouldn't do it if my partner has colds, though.
/r/seduction16/08/22 08:31 AM
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Nope. I've done this for real a lot of times. You not doing it doesn't mean others don't.
/r/seduction16/08/22 08:29 AM
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Exactly. That's why I learned playfulness and humor by my self, then applied it to women in general. I do it to my friends a lot in a non-sexual way, such as teasing and nagging.
/r/seduction16/08/22 06:05 AM
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If anything made me feel much worse, it was "acting". Trust me, you will have better quality sleep if you speak out your mind. If she leaves, then she left knowing you're not a pushover. If she stays, then you both get one step closer to respecting each other.
/r/seduction16/08/22 05:57 AM
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Jeez. You use condoms? You should have tried the other hole, but I'm guessing you're practicing safe sex.
/r/seduction15/08/22 09:14 PM
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As for me, I'm not fond of downplaying myself. I just tell people who I really am as accurately as possible. Unless, I'm genuinely not confident of that merit.
/r/seduction15/08/22 09:13 PM
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Being playful screens like-minded women. Who doesn't appreciate playful women, btw? Also, playfulness is probably the most reliable pretext to intimacy. It promotes touching and a more "closer" dynamic between both sides.
/r/seduction15/08/22 09:11 PM
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Thanks a lot for the support. :D
/r/seduction15/08/22 09:06 PM
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e yourself before you try to love somebody else. 1R Uhh. Yeah. It sounds pathetic. But, it kept my sanity for a year. I just got rid of it half an hour ago. It was hard letting it go, but for the sake of having a good relationship with more honesty, I just did it. I never really loved myself the past few years. Before this, I got my confidence from manipulating people and giving them a false image. Now, I'm letting go of this image I'm trying to project and just handle shit like a man.
/r/seduction15/08/22 09:00 PM
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Maaan. I love the humor of this sub.
/r/seduction15/08/22 08:51 PM
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Also, OP. Did you actually do a video call with her? You sure she wasn't catfishing?
/r/seduction15/08/22 08:51 PM
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Agree with the first half. This is why I stopped reading into PUA books and blogs. Other than the fact that it can get you in trouble unintentionally. Basically, instead of trying to hit on everyone, I'd look for a good body language to tell me to move in. Sometimes, women just happen to be the one making their move nowadays. So, there's that if you don't wanna do the heavy lifting. Thing is, you need a little bit of going against the flow to differentiate yourself from the average Joe as well.
/r/seduction15/08/22 08:48 PM
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Not sure exactly what this girls deal is, but she sounds like a waste of time. Man. Just when I thought I was the only bloke going through these kind of woman. She is a waste of time. OP gave her too many chances already.
/r/seduction15/08/22 08:42 PM
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she already ghosted me 3 times before so why should I bother messaging her back again after no response? You shouldn't. Have more respect for yourself. same thing also happened to me, some girl I've matched on dating apps and texted for quite a while. We never had a date since she keeps churning out too many excuses. Before I got rid of her, I told her to cut the act and how irritating she is getting.
/r/seduction15/08/22 08:40 PM
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If that's the case, then you ought to just take the lead. Learn to have a mouth fetish. LOL. Feel every bit of her oral flesh, feel every bit of her tongue, drink her saliva, bite her lips, breathe in the air she exhales and blow air for her to inhale. Make her drink your saliva, make her suck on your tongue.
/r/seduction15/08/22 08:35 PM
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Just be touchy. Otherwise, if she declines, then you're probably in the friend zone. Which is okay, if you just honestly wanna be friends. But, you obviously wanna be more than that. When you talk, just touch her arms, shoulders, head, butt, etc.
/r/seduction15/08/22 08:31 PM
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Yup! I was about to ask for a citation. I'm sure I've read the same content somewhere.
/r/seduction15/08/22 08:28 PM
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Let's be real here. Rejections suck. Sometimes, women just can't reject us outright, they end up ghosting us or doing something stupid to make us feel stupid. The person above has a point, though. You can improve yourself. Even then, you will still get rejected 'cause that's just how it is. But, on the brighter side, you'd have improved yourself and increased your options. You also have a point when you said your self-esteem will still be controlled by others. I do have a Featured Album of women…
/r/seduction15/08/22 08:20 PM
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This. Many of the best experiences I had happened because our initial meeting was in person. Also, college libraries are okay. I've also met quite a handful of good-quality women at school, esp. during classes.
/r/seduction15/08/22 08:08 PM
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Me too. It was after almost 2 years of not getting a date and texting "bad-quality"/incompatible women. Found this girl on social media and asked her out. After a while, she agreed to come over to my place, turned out that she was just cock-teasing me.
/r/seduction15/08/22 08:05 PM
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Good point. If she says she's okay with it, then it's probably on her if she gets to have a good time or not.
/r/seduction15/08/22 07:39 PM
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You've known her for a month, I think that's more than enough. If that woman doesn't even like you, she would have cut you off right away. And you also probably opened up a lot of your lives to each other. If that's a huge part of your life, then you should probably give her a taste of what she's getting into. As the other person said, otherwise, you should cut expectations.
/r/seduction15/08/22 07:37 PM
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I usually do a different approach. Although, I normally talk about sex with women I like, I usually reserve it for women I trust (screen them) just to avoid a sexual harassment kind of scenario. You'll be surprised at how most women are very open to make out even after 10 mins into approaching them. I made out with a pretty girl right after I walked her out for food. She was sucking on my vape before that and that got me feeling horny. What I do is talk about sex like it's normal. Tease women ho…
/r/seduction15/08/22 07:28 PM
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Jeez! This one made my day.
/r/seduction15/08/22 07:16 PM
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Not my story, but my niece stumbled upon my cousin and her partner into it once and he was apparently eating her ass as my niece recalled. I also stubmled upon my maid doing it with her husband back when I was 4. I was feeling kinda "poopy" and I opened the door only to see them into it. It was shocking for me at that age,
/r/seduction15/08/22 05:39 PM
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Ahh. Can't talk seduction without the outcome. My latest experience was funny af. I also went limp. We were on it for more than an hour and I had to call it quits. I swear I could have made it go hard agin but I was having cramps all over the body, esp. my legs. I told her I my dick was already worn out like an old tire. This one is subjective. I was into it with a woman my age years ago. She had really big titties and they felt kinda rubbery to me. Not to mention they smelled like she rubbed he…
/r/seduction15/08/22 03:54 PM
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Just talk to women. Just do it. Chances are you're already talking to women, just not the women you think highly of. Thing is, there's no one-size-fits-all how to. If there's one, it's just to talk to them. You can be dishonest, honest depending on the results you want.
/r/seduction15/08/22 03:09 PM
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Also the peace of mind of saying what we wanted to say and sleeping with less overthinking.
/r/seduction11/08/22 05:33 AM
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For making conversations, it's okay for me. But, I find myself playing less games with bad-quality women if I get straight to the point.
/r/seduction11/08/22 04:00 AM
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So, I've been reading the book on Radical Honesty (not a book on seduction, mind you). I'm learning more and more to dissociate people's version of me between what I really am (the one typing this message now) and it's been a deeper interpretation of the books on honesty and self-esteem I've been looking for.
/r/seduction11/08/22 03:19 AM
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I'm actually having a blast reading Radical Honesty. It's a good read for people who don't want to overload themselves.
/r/seduction10/08/22 06:13 PM
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*bro fist
/r/seduction10/08/22 04:32 PM
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Thanks! I haven't done that before. I'm actually a bit of a diehard of my own clothing. It's not that I wear only one type of clothes, but I don't bother dressing for my "market", unless I'm applying for a job. Other than that, I dress for utility. Thanks for the wisdom, btw. :)
/r/seduction10/08/22 03:12 PM
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I did the same thing before. :D I was out on a trip in Thailand with the class. I had a few friends with me. I flirted with a cute Vietnamese girl and she was repulsive to me at first. But, back then I was also hanging out with a cute Malaysian to even care. After a couple days, we were riding this minibus off to some temple and my friend's entitled girlfriend (she was playing on him) made me stand up. I was starting to get pissed when a cute Vietnamese asked me to sit beside her. We talked for …
/r/seduction10/08/22 03:07 PM
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Not really with seduction, but more on the demographics side of things. I know we can't seduce people who are not attracted to us, but this misinterpretation is making it hard for people to relate and get attracted to me.
/r/seduction10/08/22 02:56 PM
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Thanks for the boost. There's this saying that keeps going in my head: "The version of me you created in your mind is not my responsibility." I resonate with it, but I gotta be honest that it shook me quite a handful of times already. Not really the kind of people to try to impress people, but it seems like I tend to get misunderstood as some of my acquaintances said.
/r/seduction10/08/22 02:33 PM
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Me too. It seems like whenever I'm with a friend, they either think I'm occupied and not bother with showing body language to me or they think I'm just trying to impress a friend. The thing I love about being a loner is that people invite me to their circles more often than I would expect. Unless, they're the kind of people who keep to themselves.
/r/seduction10/08/22 02:12 PM
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Trust is my love language. :) It's something that's really difficult to have nowadays since a lot of people get traumatized more often now that even dating and relationships can be instantaneous. People talk about having "game" is just being honest, but most of the time our authentic "game" is not the same as the "game" PUA books want us to have.
/r/seduction10/08/22 02:06 PM
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Creates unshakeable foundations for relationships I'm still working on building a long-term relationship at this point. :) ​ Attracts powerful peers and shakes off those who are a detriment to you. For real. Took me quite a while to decide which friend should stay in my life.
/r/seduction10/08/22 02:00 PM
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TBH, you can still opt for quantity. But having too much without looking at the quality of our "mates" take up a lot of time. Having quantity is okay if you want short-term non-monogamous flings.
/r/seduction10/08/22 01:36 PM
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About half in person. I talk to women every now and then and it's usually easier in person. But, I also pick women on Social Media, just facebook, every now and then. Dating Apps are awful in my country lots of women who pretend to be just trying the dating app, saying things like "I'm just looking for friends".
/r/seduction10/08/22 12:15 PM
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Yeah. I did. The part I was ashamed the most, but I'm now very proud of, is my homebody, nerdy side. Also, living in a hispanic culture, we were told to live a macho lifestyle. Growing up I was a bad boy kind of dude (according to my religious schools) until one day I just loved the comfort of gaming in my home. I was told I'd miss out on a lot of good stuff in life doing that. So, I pretended I loved partying for around 5 years. I hid the part of myself who loves aliens and other "creepy" stuff…
/r/seduction10/08/22 08:35 AM
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Uhhh. Thanks for the info, I guess? You're kind of right. I enforced formulas based on my past experiences. That's a good eye. I really appreciate it. I happened to be reading a book on honesty and it's tackling the way we fool ourselves into holding onto values that may be no longer true/applicable on our current phase in life.
/r/seduction10/08/22 06:21 AM
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It's okay to be weird nowadays, though. We've moved past the point where being weird attracts negative attention. At least in Asia being weird is normalized in many scenarios. Not that I haven't experienced mental gymnastics ever again. I still experience those and I still get rejected, ghosted, etc. But, I rarely get lied to and played on. I've noticed that people only respect others who they can't pull down (people who have social status). It's really hard to be humble in most scenarios since …
/r/seduction10/08/22 06:14 AM
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Why do you bind yourself with formulas and rules? Which part said I do, though? Honesty is not a formula and a rule. There's no one way to do honesty. I've done manipulative things (I still do out of bad habit every now and then) and tbh, it gets me the high. But, the hit to my sanity is just not worth it. Two amalgamized scenarios I experienced where I used manipulation: Woman was genuinely interested in me. I used manipulative tactics and she smarts up and realizes I'm being an ass. Woman was …
/r/seduction10/08/22 06:05 AM
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Of course some women don't consent to it. Some will just come along and let me do it. I just tell them to come over and if they can't they'd do it the other day same week. When she's at my place, I'd just escalate any way I can and talk about sex to refresh her fantasies then I'd proceed with the escalation. If she doesn't wanna take off her pants, then I'd stop with whatever I'm doing, easy peasy and ask her if she wants to come home. Otherwise, I'd just assure her not to worry and ram it in. T…
/r/seduction10/08/22 05:56 AM
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Yeah. It was a steep climb otw to where I am now. I had to break some of my values. I had always been assertive, buy I don't think I've mastered assertiveness and composure as much as I can now.
/r/seduction10/08/22 05:51 AM
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Actually, I'm trying to read his first book just as a refresher before I dive deeper. It'll be a looong week.
/r/seduction10/08/22 05:47 AM
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I'm still discovering more lies I've been telling myself. At first I was like "No way! Without my "game" I would turn back to my loser days." And by loser days, I meant being treated worse than what people call "Beta males". I could say I got to that point when I started my paradigm shift, but there were fewer burdens and I felt more alive. Also, it kind of depends on the demographics I live in. I no longer live in a city that's been known to have a lot of pretentious idiots, and it has improved…
/r/seduction10/08/22 05:46 AM
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Not really. But, I live in a Hispanicized country and we tend to have a macho mentality when it comes to being honest and vulnerable. It's a topic for another day, but the way I was raised by older men involved very little honesty and more on showing off a particular quality we may or may not have already had. In other words, it was more about developing oneself for women instead of being the end-goal.
/r/seduction09/08/22 08:05 PM
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Not yet. I'm looking him up. It's great to know more about honesty. I still hide a huge chunk of myself unintentionally and it's great to find out that I'm still discovering more lies that I told myself over the years.
/r/seduction09/08/22 08:01 PM
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Thanks. I was low confidence and I still am. Thanks for the info, though. I would appreciate if you helped me in this regard. For years, I'd been dealing with either aggressive males or manipulative females. SRSLY, I'd appreciate if you had a better solution.
/r/seduction09/08/22 07:04 PM
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For me it just made me happier in general. I'm getting laid more since I tend to be honest that I'm really into it. Also, the fact that I'm not pursuing/attracting dishonest women who'd use sex to bait me over as her lapdog.
/r/seduction09/08/22 06:59 PM
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Need your grandma to know that you’ve fucked hot chicks in the past? Yeah. So, I can convince her to get down with me.
/r/seduction09/08/22 06:56 PM
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Just to add. I don't get laid 100% of the time. In fact, I rarely get laid. But, I'm less likely to pursue and attract bad-quality women now that I'm being honest with everybody, including myself.
/r/seduction09/08/22 06:50 PM
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Not yet! Thanks for the heads up! I'm up for a good read, anyway.
/r/seduction09/08/22 06:46 PM
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I thought I missed out High School 'cause I was either a gangbanger looking for trouble or a wimp trying to do good. During my 1st year in HS, I was really awkward, having grown up from a prude, religious Christian School. Even then, I lost my virginity early on, though I didn't count it in 'cause I was feeling really guilty doing premarital sex at 11. Being a gangbanger meant I was gonna get kicked out of most opportunities, being a wimp meant I was pussying out. I dreamed of joining a gang and…
/r/seduction24/07/21 06:37 PM
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