DOGSraisingCATS Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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4	FSW The study talks about a lot of things, including men feeling frustrated or helpless that their partner is in intense pain and can't do anything about it... and that's a bad thing? (Link and to the study in comments) Just show them the difference in research and funding for breast cancer vs prostate cancer. I'm not anti feminism that truly wants equality I'm anti this double standards fake feminism bullshit these extremists morons want...they're no different than misogynists. https://prostate.org.nz/2014/01/men-die-earlier-womens-health-gets-four-times-funding/	/r/FeminismStopsWhen	29/03/22 06:39 PM
3	Is it wrong to just want to be single? I get what yourse saying...I don't think either sex/gender should be expected to just suck it up but women are absolutely just as guilty of perpetuating toxic masculine norms as much as other men. So many women say they want an emotional and open man but what they really mean is they want you to be emotional and open towards their needs not expressing your own. At the end of the day I told her I'm not a therapist and I'm there for her but unloading all of that on me every week is not healthy for…	/r/Divorce_Men	02/02/22 03:15 PM
2	Is it wrong to just want to be single? Late to the game but man do I feel this. Was dating a girl who seemed great...until she started unloading all of her life problems multiple times a week on me. I'm very empathetic and would listen but it became so frequent that I was just getting fatigued by the constant negativity (she also had money issues which is a big red flag for me). I was having a rough week and needed some alone time and told her I was having empathy fatigue. She of course kept trying to unload more stuff on me and said…	/r/Divorce_Men	01/02/22 08:01 PM
1	FSW you can't make the simple human empathetic connection that people don't like being scapegoated constantly. Well yeah... because getting it would mean accepting responsibility for her actions and admitting she did something wrong.	/r/FeminismStopsWhen	01/02/22 11:31 AM
10	FSW you can't make the simple human empathetic connection that people don't like being scapegoated constantly. Dude...it's such a fucking victim complex, it's literally their identity. My ex had a "panic attack" when I calmly asked her that I try to be private about my relationships and if she could not over share as much to her and my friends the things in our relationship. Literally stopped talking, went to her room and buried herself in her bed for hours. These people just can't handle an ounce or criticism and they blame anxiety and PTSD for making mountains out of mole hills If it even remotely crit…	/r/FeminismStopsWhen	01/02/22 04:33 AM
1	I did the thing. One of my ex's tried to pull the "be a real man" shit and basically shut her down by saying: "I find it fucking hilarious that a woman is trying to tell me how to be a man like she has any fucking clue. Every trait of being a man in your eyes is all how they benefit you personally."	/r/Divorce_Men	16/12/21 09:40 AM
3	[deleted by user] This is why I tell people all the time that I'm not against the idea of trying to build a life with a single monogamous partner but I will never sign a legal marriage contract with the state(I live in a state with no common law marriage etc). It blows my mind how much power the state has over your personal lives when it comes to divorce. My parents are divorced and by law had to be separated for a year first before they could legally divorce.	/r/Divorce_Men	12/12/21 12:33 PM
2	25 Years and Ending it Today I know I'm 2 days late but I really appreciate people like you and your posts. I know it can't be easy reliving this while typing it out to share. I made a decision a few years back to never legally marry and people like you and what you share really help me keep strong in keeping my financial independence and life autonomy. I hope the best for you!	/r/Divorce_Men	12/12/21 12:10 PM
2	My STBX is going to ruin my new relationship before it actually has a chance With all do respect I'm not your therapist so you don't need to validate anything to me...but literally nearly every mental health expert and book on divorce or article written about dating post divorce talks about waiting before bringing another person into the situation you are in. I also don't need to know the entire situation...you have a mentally unstable co parent and former partner and still dealing with divorce proceedings. Bringing another person into this is selfish and to be presumptu…	/r/Divorce_Men	06/10/21 12:26 PM
3	My STBX is going to ruin my new relationship before it actually has a chance Dude, not to be mean but the only proof that we need to know you're not in a good place is the fact you needed to jump right into another relationship in the middle of a divorce. You haven't even come to terms with the emotional termoil of the last relationship because you're just replacing it with a new partner. Any therapist worth their money would tell you this isn't healthy and most likely will only end up hurting this new partner.	/r/Divorce_Men	06/10/21 10:07 AM
9	FSW "elemental magic" results in you telling others to be self-centered. Yeah as far as anecdotal experience...pretty much every major relationship I was in was with an incredibly lazy, non contributing, and selfish person who would never admit they were wrong or sorry and would never give back the amount of time, energy and finances I gave to the relationship...so idk where the fuck these "nurturing" women are that she's talking about.(example of this:I made an ex chicken noodle soup from scratch, when she was sick, and she still complained...when I was sick I had t…	/r/FeminismStopsWhen	24/09/21 08:57 PM
9	Sad because it's true Don't you love this catch 22...you work a job that requires a lot of time of you but if you take a job that takes less responsibility you'll probably hear about how you're not making enough money...story as old as time.	/r/Divorce_Men	10/08/21 09:41 PM
6	(29M, 27F) - My wife has moved in with her family, and demanded I make changes in order to get her back home. Married 4 years. We have no kids, no assets.. she works part time, and I’m full time, making 100k. I feel so lonely, but i’m tired of trying to fight to bring her home. I need guidance.. You're lonely because of her... remember this. The loneliness you are feeling is because of purposful and malicious actions by her to manipulate you to do what she wants. This is not a partner...this is a fucking parasite and you will learn this when you "combine your bank account". Don't do it and get out now.	/r/Divorce_Men	05/08/21 10:32 AM
4	full moons [euphemism], fridays and either side of a holiday - This is when divorces flare up Gonna be honest...if you're guiding your life, decisions and the interpretation of people's personalities based on ridiculous astrology concepts...I'm gonna assume you're a bit immature and nuts.	/r/Divorce_Men	23/07/21 09:44 AM
3	Women who appreciate you. I mean dude...you're the one talking about doing sex tourism in underdeveloped countries...you're not in a place to criticize.	/r/Divorce_Men	22/07/21 11:57 AM
5	(29M) - I’m wondering if it’s time to go ahead and leave my spouse (28F). I’m so sick and tired of arguing with this lady, and being incompatible. I literally feel my blood pressure rising during every conversation we have. I have a decent number of incredible female friends...that being said the amount of women I have met who consider themselves feminist but still expect men to pay for everything and take care of them financially is kinda gross. All the benefits with none of the responsibility.	/r/Divorce_Men	22/07/21 11:55 AM
9	I keep having second thoughts but my gut is telling me that I’m doing the right thing… This exactly. She's saying to not get stuck in the past because she sounds incapable of taking responsibility or accountability for her actions and this is just a way to avoid apologizing. Trust your gut OP, no relationship is worth the stress and you'll see once your energy and income is there to build your life up and not take care of someone who seems to be unable to take care of herself, the stress will decrease and you'll be happier.	/r/Divorce_Men	22/07/21 11:49 AM
0	Life after divorce. Why the fuck are you bringing up gay people and their movement? Get this bigoted shit out of here	/r/Divorce_Men	14/07/21 10:27 AM
0	Roommates Did you even read my comment? I never said you weren't entitled to divorce this person for whatever reason you want. If you're in a dead bedroom marriage you're absolutely entitled to end the marriage. My problem is how you stated that you need sex but she doesn't and that you're entitled to it from her. Maybe you just need to work on the way you phrase things or write them out but that is clearly how it was represented in your original post. There's a big difference between manipulating and wit…	/r/Divorce_Men	13/06/21 03:49 PM
-5	Roommates Is that what you got from this.. are you fucking kidding me? He literally said I need sex but she doesn't and is feeling entitled to her giving him sex. I understand this sub Reddit is about men who are being put through emotionally abusive divorces but that doesn't mean that everyone who posts here is not the problem and that it's always the wife. I read this and clearly see someone who feels entitled to sex and is the abusive one. Where in the hell did you even get that she was manipulating hi…	/r/Divorce_Men	13/06/21 03:32 PM
-4	Roommates I'm sorry but you're not entitled to sex from anyone and might be a mistake of my interpretation but the way you worded this makes you sound kinda awful...	/r/Divorce_Men	13/06/21 11:05 AM
2	Thought you might get a kick out of this. You do realize a lot of states are one party consent right? I'm in NC and I can record whomever I please...they literally tell you to do this when in abusive situations, especially with work related harassment. Let me add to my previous comment... research if your state is one party consent and then start recording. I get your reply but you're incredibly wrong in a lot of ways. It is very wise to record situations when it is legally viable to.	/r/Divorce_Men	12/06/21 10:47 PM
5	Thought you might get a kick out of this. Start recording everything she says to you...it'll be real funny if you catch her admitting to lying about you being abusive etc and you play it for a judge. Edit: because of the dude below me...make sure it's a one party consent state first...and then record if it is. Happy?	/r/Divorce_Men	12/06/21 06:11 PM
4	The things you find continues Yeah I saw the first post of this and thought this seems very much like abusive tactics. We only know so much information but this is not healthy and I try to sympathize with the men and their shitty situations but with this being the second post of her private text messages ...I have 0 sympathy for him and all of it for her.	/r/Divorce_Men	08/06/21 03:48 PM
3	My wife wants a divorce.. Listen to this... unfortunately when she asks for the open marriage she only did that because she has someone in mind already (who she may have already cheated with). She wants to test out the new guy while keeping you on a leash. Get a lawyer asap.	/r/Divorce_Men	08/06/21 09:29 AM
6	Not ready for remarriage. Help It hasn't even been a year since she has been divorced and you barely a year. I'm not a relationship/marriage expert but it doesn't take one to see how terrible of an idea this is. She is also essentially giving you an ultimatum that if you don't marry now you don't have a future. Do you really think a relationship that is based out of some strange necessity and intense timeline is bound for success? You both need time to heal and that takes different amount for everyone but I can't in anyway se…	/r/Divorce_Men	26/05/21 08:34 AM
2	I don't know how I can be friends It comes to a moment where their apolgies are only for themselves to validate their behavior...it has nothing to do with you. My last relationship was like this and after the emotional abuse and worst sexual experience of my life I went through, I see no positive reason to forgive this person. I don't need to be angry but I also don't need someone like that even remotely a part of my life. I appreciate all the stories you guys share. It helps me stay grounded in my decision to never sign a marri…	/r/Divorce_Men	25/05/21 03:18 PM
2	From love to contempt I know this is horrible what you are going through but I want to thank you for sharing... This happened almost exactly in my past relationship (luckily didn't last more than a year or get to marriage) This really validates my feelings that I wasn't crazy or that I was the main problem, especially reading comments of other people who went through the same thing. Try to be strong and know you're not the issue. You have everything you could the best you could and I hope you find someone deserving o…	/r/Divorce_Men	08/05/21 06:29 PM
47	Gang Death by snoo snoo... respect	/r/PussyPassDenied	12/04/21 04:08 PM
6	Get a load of audacity of this bitch Did I stutter, boy?	/r/PussyPassDenied	14/03/21 11:26 PM
12	Get a load of audacity of this bitch Continue...zips pants	/r/PussyPassDenied	14/03/21 11:13 PM
5	Google being sexist. Imagine the outrage if the genders were reversed I love how you get down voted for stating facts. Pussy pass definitely exists but so does the dick pass. Yeah...women have it so much better, we all know it's men who get forced into marriages when you're a child, constantly harassed, followed for blocks, gang raped and then possibly murdered after being gang raped ..ahh gosh must be sooo nice to be a woman in India... how dare a group who weren't allowed to essentially get an education, have jobs or autonomy be chosen in an already male dominat…	/r/PussyPass	21/02/21 02:25 PM
0	Not Today Please, you and everyone else who says shit like this wouldn't do a damn thing. It's so pathetic people like you who want to resort to violence for the smallest things....just try walking away, it works wonders.	/r/PussyPassDenied	01/05/20 05:48 PM
-24	Not Today I mean, as he should. You can't just punch someone in the face for yelling at you... regardless of gender. That girl is absolutely horrible but laws are laws...it would have been shitty if she was hitting him and he still was arrested for defending himself but he absolutely escalated that situation. Edit: Your misogyny doesn't trump facts...wtf is wrong with you idiots?	/r/PussyPassDenied	01/05/20 01:03 PM
2	Amber Heard domestically abused her ex husband and framed him for assault causing him to lose films. Sign this petition to remove her from Aquaman 2 She's about as good as Megan fox...meaning she's hot and we ignore the fact that isn't a very good actress. Difference is that being hot shouldn't excuse you from abuse and lying about it	/r/PussyPassDenied	05/02/20 05:29 PM
11	Moderator calls out double standards. 🏳️‍🌈 Not even 7am where I'm at and I'm already pretty confident this is going to be the stupidest comment I'll see today...	/r/PussyPassDenied	31/10/19 10:49 AM
-8	What an absolute unit! Oh, so you're basing this on your feeeelings and anecdotal evidence. Well I'll do the same... my friends are liberal and I guarantee they could out hunt, farm, camp and out fish your dumbass. I mean, how do you even have time to learn how to survive? Aren't you too busy sucking Russian penis?	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	11/10/19 11:20 AM
3	What an absolute unit! I dont think I brought up anything about mgtow? I actually support a lot of mgtow views(never signing marriage contracts etc)...I just hate the bullshit about leftists that gets thrown on that sub, as if conservative views aren't all about getting married to some traditional girl and having a traditional life style...mgtow is pretty contrary to conservative beliefs but somehow a bunch of douche bags keep posting nonsense on there that is overly political and incel driven . You can protect yourse…	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	10/10/19 10:25 PM
-13	What an absolute unit! So only conservatives know how to fish, farm or hunt? Have you ever been to a sustainable meat and/or organic produce farm? I can guarantee you they don't support conservative ideals... Also I wanted to ask a conservative...how does Ukraine, China and Russia's dick taste?	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	10/10/19 09:38 PM
-20	What an absolute unit! So only conservatives know how to fish, farm or hunt? Have you ever been to a sustainable meat and/or organic produce farm? I can guarantee you they don't support conservative ideals... Also I wanted to ask a conservative...how does Ukraine China and Russia's dick taste?	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	10/10/19 09:38 PM
1	She doesn't understand why her match rate has suddenly gone down after she turned 30. Or quickly become poor because they fake being rich with 10s of thousands in credit card debt	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	28/09/19 07:45 PM
45	X-post from r/trashy I don't think I've ever hated and loved someone so equally at the same time... Well besides my mother	/r/PussyPassDenied	19/09/19 07:13 PM