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Question For MenDREADC0RSAIR/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/19 12:36 AM
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Question For MenDREADC0RSAIR/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/19 01:08 AM
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DiscussionDREADC0RSAIR/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/18 09:45 PM
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DREADC0RSAIR/r/ExRedPill19/08/19 10:24 PM
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Question For WomenDREADC0RSAIR/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 04:36 PM
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Question For WomenDREADC0RSAIR/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 06:23 AM
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DREADC0RSAIR/r/MGTOW29/07/19 09:08 AM
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Purge week!DREADC0RSAIR/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 04:59 AM
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Question For MenDREADC0RSAIR/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 12:40 AM
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DREADC0RSAIR/r/MGTOW10/10/18 07:47 PM
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All women are passive and feel entitled to men taking charge. If men are going to carry a relationship she needs to be hot enough to put up with her bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 07:24 PM
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But do you not see the issue here? Men acknowledging that risk is completely invalidated whenever its brought up. This parallel can be drawn to so many other atrocities women commit. Your comments especially are often skewed towards "women would never do anything wrong" as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 06:51 PM
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This sounds like a roundabout way of saying they get away with it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 06:37 PM
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This. Why the fuck do they want us to suffer like they did? They're lucky we don't burn this all to the ground like they deserve.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 06:08 PM
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Why do people pretend this doesn't happen? In my highschool-college years it was super common for girls to completely exaggerate sexual assault. This happened nearly every month. Maybe this is a newer generational thing? It was more common than when guys actually overstepped to literal rape. A guy can accidentally brush against a girl's ass and get accused.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 05:57 PM
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Was this ever really true? I've never actually seen a relationship succeed this way, only putting on a show just long enough to send him to the cleaners
/r/MGTOW224/07/21 06:10 AM
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This reminds me of a woman that tried to hook me up with her whore daughter and legitimately said "Just treat her like shit" I saw her again and asked me why I never called her daughter back and I told her I'm taking her advice lol
/r/MGTOW224/07/21 06:07 AM
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Ah, and how did society address those behaviors in your life? Society still pretends theyre perfect and wont let them be accountable for anything, try to criticize women anywhere else and watch how quickly you get shutdown for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 01:21 PM
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Yes yes and yes
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 07:55 PM
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The divorced men sub features these situations happening every day.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 08:49 PM

Where do i find my mother theresa complex honey
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 07:06 PM
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It's sad because you can see that they feel guilty but instead of just being better they need to justify their hypergamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 03:33 PM
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This is why men aren't dating or only using women for sex. They can't be depended on for anything. They don't actually emotionally support men which is why men keep saying relationships are one sided. Don't believe me? I can find other threads or you can make a Q4M on the subject.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 03:10 PM
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You say he as in singular but all men have experienced this. Women can't love men they don't respect, and women don't respect men that show authentic vulnerability.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 02:54 PM
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Heal how? Women dont emotionally support in relationships at all. Men will express this all the time about how being vulnerable blew up their relationships because they lost attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 12:14 PM
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I have never seen this my entire life but have watched my friends bang women who call their bf a pussy behind his back. Even here on PPD ive read countless complaints from chicks about men wanting another mommy for years. For every 1 girl that is nurturing there are 10,000 that abandoned their men for needing that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 12:11 PM
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I know an awful lot of girls begging to hang out with me because they "have no friends"
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 12:05 PM
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Ive never seen them enjoy doing those things, only complain about how emotionally laborious it is. Those are the type of men cheating women talk about right before they get railed by the cold sexual men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 09:48 PM
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Would you say they grow out of this fairly quickly?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 07:21 PM
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Do they really think like this? Most women I know shut down immediately at signs of weakness in men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 07:20 PM
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No i think the commenter meant that you dont value friendship with women. So you should seek to make a direct transaction of the last thing they have to offer. Like pay for play type deal. If its any consolation, women rarely like being friends with women too. There is just a surface level solidarity that is very shallow once you dig into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 07:16 PM
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Sometimes all the woman wants is sex lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 07:12 PM
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1. When did you first feel attracted to people or get a crush? As long as i can remember 2. When did you have your first romantic experience or relationship? First day of school a girl pointed to me and said I was her boyfriend, it only escalated from there in terms of degrees of attraction 3. When did you encounter pornography? Middle school from other students sharing photos of themselves and found online 4. When did you lose your virginity? 16 but experimented before this 5. When did you ente…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 07:03 PM
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I'm not as intellectual as some of the guys here, but is it possible that Issac Newton and Nikola Tesla were trained out of their instincts to consciously defect from the status quo like us. Have any of you been pranked by the shock gum toy before? Someone offers you a piece of gum and it shocks you when you pull it. That is what dating/communicating women feels similar to. A seemingly innocent offer only to send back negative stimulus for taking the offer. After countless attempts, the rational…
/r/MGTOW230/06/21 01:17 PM
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There was this rapper named King Von who died recently and his ex girlfriend Asian Doll has been profiting on his death for months. Its so sad to see because she was proud of fucking other rappers after they broke up and has no real remorse but to benefit from his tragedy.
/r/MGTOW230/06/21 10:58 AM
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How so? Dont they keep a tight ship?
/r/MGTOW230/06/21 10:11 AM
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Over my corporate life ive seen women destroy small and large companies from within. The pattern is usually join in right after the startup phase, Identify the simps, turn the simps against the resistors (rational men that cant be manipulated), Flirt and fuck the descision maker, get him to promote her or discredit him with sexism/allegations when they dont, At that point the men are infighting for dominance to be the decision maker(Alpha) they either implode or bleed out as talent leaves to sta…
/r/MGTOW229/06/21 06:35 PM
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Why was he important to you? Espicially when you feel you werent his first choice?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 12:35 PM
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What did you give him? Why did you do it?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 12:00 PM
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You're missing demographics. PPD is not real life. The vast majority of people in my social bubble are not like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 11:59 AM
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How is that different than any other type of girl. Grunge, career, nerdy, etc etc. All of them lack depth because they dont need to have that to attract men. When you look into it none of them are even serious about their interests, just dressing the part to attract the type of guy that is. Men will never be loved the same was because women dont love men, they love what they can do for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 06:57 AM
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Thank you, finally another dude that understands this at a higher level. I'm a 666 but to keep working to be attractive to a gender that truly doesnt give a fuck about you isa nightmare. No wonder men are dropping out and using drugs. Humanity is a brutal and depressing existence for a man. Were designed to only be motivated by the very beings that destroy our wellbeing. No wonder why men are killing themselves at record numbers.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 05:11 AM
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The more money and power you make the more value you have for women to use you for. You might not want to be a walking atm but women might see you as a jackpot to seduce
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 05:39 AM
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Well as someone around that age I can guarantee you that they are over pretending like it's not about resources/finances by then. The have's win and the have nots get monkey branched for the former.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 01:53 AM
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Sugar babies would love take them off your hands. Legalize it
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 01:50 AM
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Women like what men can do for them, older men have alot more financial capabilities to siphon off of. Just read and time a woman believes she's in love, it always starts with "he provides X thing" or "he's done X for me" it's never about the actual guy, it's always some external thing he gave to her. Older men have more access to those things
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 01:47 AM
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No one, like what they are doing now. Instead this way they understand the system and work towards a reward, vs figuring it out the hard way and feeling contempt towards women for being shallow.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 01:44 AM
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Myself and most men would love to believe otherwise, that's why we initiated the marriages in the first place. Meanwhile most women can't even send a simple text message first.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 01:36 AM
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This isn't about looking bad, it's that women cannot maintain relationships. Even lesbian relationships statistically don't last.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 01:10 AM
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Pretty women ≠ Sexy women, the types that are approached are appealing for sex because they are actively conveying that they are available for that. You're likely pretty just not portraying yourself as sex receptive
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 12:38 AM
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Women initiated divorce overwhelmingly despite being the cultural proponents of committed marriages. That's literally saying one thing yet wanting something else.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 12:07 AM
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Smv 10: Women literally get out of their cars to talk to me RMV 0: None of them want to be friends and use me for their weird sexual fantasies exclusively
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 10:06 PM
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I've never met you so you don't exist. Therefore, by your logic you're wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 10:03 PM
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Underweight, low testosterone, physically out of basic survival shape
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 09:22 PM
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Wait which country is this?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 05:17 PM
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You're glad? Seems to be a nightmare either way
/r/MGTOW229/05/21 04:07 PM
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Our healthcare is the best because there is actual motivation behind working harder. We do also have public options as well
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 03:59 PM
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I doubt this is a real man. It must be a troll. I reported him
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 03:53 PM
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That's dumb as fuck ngl
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 01:43 PM
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I didn't say that's we are looking for that in a partner. I said we are capable of appreciating their achievements. Like icing on a cake so to speak
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 01:36 PM
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We don't care about your achievements in life. If a guys cares about that, he's gay. Fellas, is it gay to proud of your Girl's W's?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 01:29 PM
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It doesn't always have to be a bother, sow his ripped pants or something idk
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 07:50 AM
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I'm not telling you to do anything. I meant that it's better than nothing
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 06:58 AM
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Status is still status, even when attached to a (ew!) woman EW women don't turn on men regardless of status
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 04:25 AM
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You edited your other comment. Again status doesn't increase her pool of compatible men. So a 7 isn't bumped up to a 8 once she gets the MBA title. Men would be attracted to her regardless. Men aim down in status because we know women are hypergamous. She isnt more desirable because of the achievement but her match would find value in her capabilities.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 04:20 AM
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The woman+status is probably way more interesting so yeah. That's the point I was making. But it's not because of the MBA title, it's about who she had to become to acquire it. Men can appreciate that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 04:12 AM
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Yes impressing her matters. Being attractive also matters
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 04:04 AM
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The MBA wasn't a requirement, being attracted to him is the requirement. If having an MBA means that she only dates college graduates, that means a lot of guys are eliminated, not that they wouldn't like her.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 04:01 AM
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I define love as a interconnected wellbeing of one person to another. Their joy, pain, emotions feel bonded to your own emotions. There isn't one way to do it but figure out what works
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 03:57 AM
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Why just have a high school graduate when you could have a Wharton MBA and all her connections? The Wharton MBA could be a bitch? That's a big dealbreaker.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 03:37 AM
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It's on the individual person to make their thing interesting to discuss but at least they're cool with it
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 03:35 AM
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Status/achievement doesn't increase a woman's pool of compatible men. If you're looking for a relationship that shouldn't matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 03:25 AM
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This is definitely something to appreciate. Since it's an art form, the gratification is delayed until after you're done so that's a bit of a drawback.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 01:27 AM
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Would you prefer dating a human partner or a identical sexbot programmed to only focus on you 24/7? No judgement, actually curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 01:14 AM
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Like what
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 01:04 AM
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We kinda do know. The lesbian domestic abuse stats are staggering.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 12:59 AM
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Women do more than their fair share of whining and complaining. And just because women are incapable of violence doesn't make them morally superior. If women were physically equal I guarantee women would be the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 12:52 AM
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Then why don’t they accept that women don’t want to fuck them? What you mean by not accepting it?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 12:25 AM
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My boyfriend is as “average” as it gets Would you tell him you think this? i wouldn’t even think of leaving him for anyone else ... & it’s not like other men don’t try Actions speak louder than words. I guess actual love is rare so it’s easier to find women that can be easily “stolen” by another dude with more status or money. I think many men here would agree with this lol But like i said, a woman who does that was never yours to begin with, she was never the one. I think many men here would ag…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 09:55 PM
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Fuck
/r/MGTOW26/05/21 05:40 PM
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r/Whooosh
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 02:32 PM
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I already had a ton of hookups before tinder so I wasn't too thirsty. But getting over 1k matches felt like I made my first million dollars or something haha
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 02:09 PM
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Stop being logical. You're only supposed to think in ways that benefit women's emotions
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 06:48 AM
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It does feel really good ngl lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 06:46 AM
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male friends Did you actually just call us 'MALE' ? How dehumanizing and sexist!! Lol disregard a field of red flags for a girl What are the red flags to look out for?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 06:43 AM
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Dating women will drive you crazy yes
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 06:10 AM
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Mind reading is literally what you expect out of men. Women need to develop communication for what they like and consent to..
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 06:08 AM
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I don't understand how that works bc 70% of americans are fat Them fightin words round these parts. Best you shut ur mouf while we get aur diabetus
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 11:26 PM
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Women putting any effort in at all conversation wise increases her value dramatically
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 04:22 PM
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Dating women is a insufferable so she has to be hot enough to put up with.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 03:39 PM
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Why did you end your relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 03:30 AM
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Just because you're tall enough to get on the rollercoaster it doesn't make the ride secure
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 02:25 AM
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It’s not that hard to find a relationship at all if you’re average looking, and even slightly below Yes. But how's it going so far in maintaining one?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 02:16 AM
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Understatement of the century
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 01:46 PM
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Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 01:35 PM
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I'm not saying they aren't deep, they just don't care about deep men. They crave excitement and being pandered to. Hence why men feel relationships are one sided efforts that feel like "monkey dances"
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 01:03 PM
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What women say they want and what they do deviates drastically. Hence the marriage rates
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 01:01 PM
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I was the president of my Anime club, there were a dozen chicks. 1 of them was actually like you, the rest were there to gossip and attract boys with only a vague interest in the subject. They didn't want to actually have the level of depth you and she had.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 12:50 PM
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Men use the word male & female in the appropriate academic context. Usually for the means of making objective observations.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 12:47 PM
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I don't mean it as rude statement, women just really don't care about what men have to say most of the time. They want simple masculine men who are easy to understand
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 12:41 PM
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Really? I find anything beyond surface level thinking and discussions too overbearing for most women. Like you even having the attention span to write this is RARE for a woman. I mean that with respect. Most women seem to have zero sum complexes, one moment can completely erode her attraction due to their subjective perception changing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 12:29 PM
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Behavioral decay
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 11:26 AM

Axe body spray is brought to you by RAID SHADOW LEGENDS
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 03:45 PM
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Literally Celestia Vega lol
/r/MGTOW21/05/21 02:06 PM
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Hoes mad 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 02:04 PM
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Men used to value marriage. Now we can't because women are never satisfied
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 03:10 AM
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I hope humanity breaks their psychological barriers towards acceptance of all kinds of people. This is my only subjective opinion towards it. I only provided the high level definition in my response. A women achieving her goals without man, is masculine, according to you People can leverage both masculine and feminine sides to achieve certain ends.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 10:09 AM
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I'm not imposing anything, on anyone. I hope humanity breaks their psychological barriers towards acceptance of all kinds of people. If we can't even have peace between us, when the Aliens come it's game over lol Edit: the pronouns I used might suggest differently though my b
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 09:47 AM
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Both genders have dual masculinity and femininity complexes with varying degrees in each
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 09:13 AM
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Women can be masculine.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 07:41 AM
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Masculinity: Willpower to fulfill his interest in his domain. Femininity: Seduction to fulfill her interest in her domain.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 02:55 AM
0

"My money is my money. His money is my money" Sincerely, -Career Women
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 08:48 AM
-1

Succubus is a term ladies like. You could put it that way too if you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 05:36 AM
-1

Women are monetary paracites that need a host to cling to for the long term as their youthful illusion fades.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 05:19 AM
-2

Refer to my first comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 04:04 AM
-5

No because it's not about the children. If it were, the family would be women's top concern but they are only out for themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 03:57 AM
2

My experience exactly put
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 03:52 AM
1

Women feel social and biological pressure to arrange their lives for long term value extraction from a dude, as opposed to their their spinster early 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 03:44 AM
3

Men as individuals are worthless to women. Unless he can exclusively provide a lifestyle 2X she could on her own, they arent interested in marriage either.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 01:31 PM
3

Valve Index, its the best.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 01:03 PM
-1

Men will be horny enough to take the bait by then. I guarantee it
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 12:40 PM
5

VR already is incredible. I recommend giving it a try.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 12:27 PM
4

Absolutely. It's not exclusive to women
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 12:38 AM
7

Yes because it increases the likelihood of infidelity. She might be a hot and awesome person but if she lacks the ability to maintain a relationship it's not smart to be romantically attached
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 12:10 AM
1

Women often dm me for nothing but sex. I should ask them why, but I wouldn't want to ruin whatever mental delusion they've created in their head about me that makes them fantasize. They don't want to build a relationship, they actually WANT pump and dump NSA sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 12:06 AM
5

Most of you are oblivious to actually dating a woman. You could have literally everything but without confidence none of it matters. He has likely watched lust disappear from countless female eyes as soon as they realize he's not a stud in character.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 05:57 PM
1

This is my typical approach yeah. But wondering if theres a efficient method to confronting it
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 07:00 AM
1

Then your particular point of how particularly pointless this question is also pointless in particular
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 06:46 AM
17

Why invalidate the risks? What do you gain from that?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 03:20 AM
2

So the men who lived and died protecting and providing for women did so in vain?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 12:57 AM
5

towards their oppressor? What? Men are oppressors?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/21 09:38 PM
1

So I wasn't the original commenter you replied to. Just thought I would chime in. Anyways it's vague because men are extremely easy to please. Basic affection and acknowledgement of his effort goes miles for men. Women can be loved regardless of her life path. The difference between men and women here is that men have *preferences while women have *requirements Edit: I need to do better expressing tone but I actually meant this in a good way. I've been attracted to all kinds of women and I'm sur…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/21 02:18 AM
1

Traits that make building a life with her a pleasantly worthwhile experience
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/21 01:38 AM
2

Definitely a huge factor, usually with the more inhibited types. This doesn't seem to be valid when expressed to women. They commonly regard men as manipulators regardless of why we can't perform to her standards. Oftentimes it's best to just ghost and save everyone the trouble.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 07:03 PM
4

That's just crazy to me. Is learning the hard way somehow... sane?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 10:15 AM
1

hold people back from dating? This would be one of the MANY circumstances holding people back yes
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 08:39 AM
3

This read to me as "I wish young people would be as irrational as we were"
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 07:09 AM
1

Easy bro, just busting balls on the last bit but the first statement is still accurate. It's just illogical. Do you also go to r/Childfree and complain about them discussing being child free?
/r/MGTOW228/04/21 09:31 PM
0

MGTOW subreddits are about WHY we go our own way, and our experiences related to that. If you want to talk about fisting your ass or whatever shit your into go to those subs.
/r/MGTOW228/04/21 09:50 AM
4

Never consciously, usually drunkenly.
/r/askTRP23/04/21 01:42 PM
1

1: Yes 2: No. Difficult but insightful experience. No ragrets
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 07:39 PM
1

I used to think girls dressed how they felt to express themselves. Realized it really was just an aesthetic to them so it doesn't catch my interest anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/21 12:21 AM
1

No but she does also want me to pimp her out if you're interested lol
/r/askTRP19/04/21 03:24 AM
5

My kind of psycho lol
/r/askTRP18/04/21 12:41 PM
18

She wants me to impregnate her then piss down her throat
/r/askTRP18/04/21 12:39 PM
1

Not to sounds like a prick but I literally get told I'm a catch quite often. Women often call me "Daddy" or overtly express interest immediately towards me It's rational in that I'm now 666, but women like me for their fantasies that they want me to fit in. If I don't roleplay and just be myself their attraction dissolves into apathy
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/21 08:56 PM
1

Fair enough
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 03:02 AM
1

considering this possible relationship not optimal as I would have to invest more than him, while I prefer when a man invests more.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/21 08:56 AM
1

We get hot hoping that maybe then, women would genuinely care about us. then we are rudely awakened when we realized that innately, they are solipsistic sociopaths still
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/21 08:54 AM
1

This is why I think all these guys in youtube comments and twitter trying to shame and tame modern women are fools. Women don't care, they couldn't find a fuck to give if their lives depended on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/21 08:50 AM
1

Not only are we a long way from the kind of sophisticated brain/computer interface able to completely replicate the sensation of something as nerve dense as genitalia, the premise of this post is based on bullshit "biological truth"isms. Oh my sweet summer child, Virtual Reality and haptics tech is already there on a consumer level. Men are biologically defenseless against flattery? This is straight up internalized sexism (I'm assuming you're a man, I sort of doubt the average cis het woman woul…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/21 08:39 AM
0

Civilization scaled prosperity until we gave women equality. They have power and now we are here. The issue will never change because women are too selfish to sacrifice or compromise.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/21 08:14 AM
1

Traps might be gay but they still make a pretty good sandwich lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 08:05 PM
1

This comment has way too many upvotes lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 02:11 PM
5

It's not zero sum, most women are aware to some degree of their position. They feign vulnerability to get what they want, that's what femininity is
/r/MGTOW228/02/21 06:25 PM
1

It doesn't have to be an issue of trust, if she wouldve been more transparent about that I'd have no problem with that. I have friends that are sex workers. None of this makes her a bad person. it was the deceptive red flags that led me to testing her in the first place. This wasn't out of the blue, nor was it pre meditated, I happened to be on my alt account and thought I would message her. Within 10 minutes ( literally a moment) she acted this way.
/r/MGTOW226/02/21 06:59 AM
1

It wasn't something I had to learn, or chase. I loved women too much, got my teeth kicked in emotionally, ignored them out of contempt, BOOM sex. The more I hated them the more of a challenge I was to tame
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 06:32 AM
3

Accurate
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 06:28 AM
-4

a third of women receiving free resources from men that advance their position in life? Where is the joke? That's a generously low statistic
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 06:24 AM
1

This shows tremendous trust issues, which is a major red flag. Ah yes, I have the issue here, not her lol
/r/MGTOW226/02/21 06:10 AM
1

Why would you ask on a alt account instead of talking directly to her about sexuality and your/her views of it? Because it was a test of integrity. She failed
/r/MGTOW224/02/21 04:52 PM
1

I didn't ask for them. I can Google big boob and a million results come up. I was looking for love
/r/MGTOW224/02/21 02:12 PM
0

Yeah they were, Still are actually I didn't miss much lol
/r/askTRP24/02/21 11:42 AM
1

I literally just messaged her under my shit posting account, spat a little game and bam, nudes
/r/MGTOW224/02/21 01:24 AM
17

I sacrificed women during my college years Making 6 figures a year while my friends are just now graduating
/r/askTRP24/02/21 01:15 AM
1

I didn't
/r/MGTOW223/02/21 10:41 PM
8

Maybe it could get her kicked out of the military but the thought of her salving away like that for life sounds fine to me haha. Maybe I'll wait until right before she retires so she'll get dishonorably discharged. That would be evil lol
/r/MGTOW223/02/21 03:32 AM
17

We need more glass half full guys like you man
/r/MGTOW223/02/21 03:28 AM
18

I like the way you think, not evil enough though lol
/r/MGTOW223/02/21 03:12 AM
10

Actually I didn't even have to fake a persona. But I'm 666, women are still gonna women
/r/MGTOW223/02/21 03:06 AM
16

Well she is a christian military officer, so sorry to say but women are still women
/r/MGTOW223/02/21 03:04 AM
82

It's fucked up but in a weird way I kind of feel better. I felt so guilty about being MGTOW when I was spending time with her, like all these years I was just being bitter. The perfect girl was always out there I just didn't let her in But it was an illusion. A mirror of what I wanted to see, except she didn't know I was onto that game for too long to be played
/r/MGTOW223/02/21 02:23 AM
1

I made 6 figures for the first time, I'm good. Not gonna spend a dime on a bitch tho
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 06:25 PM
3

The minority of women working was offset by the minority of men not. My grandmother still works too
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 01:41 AM
4

You are missing too many fundamental lessons to make any educated conclusions. You would gain much more by reading than debating here
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 01:17 AM
10

Please go take an economics course
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 01:11 AM
2

If it were just about sex, you would be right. But it's about much more than that
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 01:04 AM
3

Then who they aren't attracted to don't exist. They might as well just die
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 12:56 AM
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Because our resources are finite and women's love is fickle, even if you have money it makes more sense to protect it than to spend it impressing a girl. Dating the wrong one can have major opportunity costs.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 12:53 AM
15

Less jobs, an entire half of the population just entered to compete with us. And instead of "you go girl" we a denigrated for having power or worthless without it by society.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 12:46 AM
5

The first will suffice. Let's start with that buddy
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 10:41 AM
1

Lurk. More. Go outside. More
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 04:35 AM
1

You didn't make one News flash, although top 20 guys get to pay the subscription fee at a effort discount doesn't make it effortless.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 12:51 AM
1

No guy is so low that 0 women would ever give him a chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 11:30 PM
0

You can chase men all you want. I'm not stopping you
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 11:27 PM
1

I was uneducated and homeless, you just keep trying
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 11:21 PM
0

Speak for yourself, there are alot of other chicks willing to get with 4-7s
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 11:20 PM
1

then this would be the equivalent of a woman with pretty privilege telling average to below average women that they should never be open to pursuing a man and just let all the men come to them because men will pursue all women. Pretty women would just have a higher rate. Less pretty women would have a lower approach rate but that doesn't mean it'll never happen because they aren't as pretty. The rate is largely affected by their exposure to other singles
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 11:17 PM
2

What is the C word?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 08:58 PM
2

Top 20% is a preference, not a requirement.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 08:37 PM
1

in general In general men like most women so he can shoot his shot at the others until one does hit. One will eventually settle you personally I happen to be upper quartile so my rate of success would be higher.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 08:36 PM
1

Better candidates are scarce (20%) of men, then the others are compromised for down the list
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 08:33 PM
-1

That's the perfect analogy though. Sending a resume to all 300k and waiting for a response. Top 20% of men is their preference, not a requirement for all women
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 08:26 PM
0

If she is a bad deal, on to the next hoe.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 08:16 PM
1

Women are attracted to what men do for them, you have the choice to put effort into making any woman happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 08:08 PM
-1

This changes nothing though, he still has a million women to try for at any point of his personal development. And his success rate only increases the more he does.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 08:05 PM
-1

Me personally? Or in general for most men? Women seem to have a larger age range of guys
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 08:03 PM
0

So you don't have the option to game any woman you want?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 07:51 PM
2

Women compromise the longer it takes for her to get that top 20. Women still appreciate 4-7 guys attention while they're lonely. If you're a 3 or lower than women should not be on your priority list
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 07:50 PM
-1

If he likes most women there are billions left for him to try. One might crack. The difference for women is that they have to wait for whatever is best.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 07:47 PM
2

By the amount of dudes here butthurt by the fact that I even considered getting back at her, I don't think I'd recommend it to most
/r/askTRP11/02/21 02:20 PM
1

Well the idea was to make her feel bad not marry her lol Why are you here on RP if you're married
/r/askTRP11/02/21 05:51 AM
1

What are you telling me to watch out for? You married your wife
/r/askTRP11/02/21 05:20 AM
1

Literally
/r/askTRP11/02/21 05:13 AM
1

Now that votes are coming in for readers, this is sparking my interest way more than it was supposed to. I'm already doing nothing, I asked for ideas on something so why even comment to do nothing?
/r/askTRP11/02/21 05:12 AM
2

I read a book about a guy who did this called Diary Of a Oxygen Thief
/r/askTRP11/02/21 05:07 AM
1

I'm not defending some identity as a "Red Piller". I thought it was ironic how this story is a red pill to how women can be the same despite how they look. AWALT He said he went through the same thing. But then says I am not red pilled. I'm confused more than anything really. I was wondering if there was something funny I could do to get back at her, I haven't done anything but ignore her for years.
/r/askTRP11/02/21 05:02 AM
1

Pretty sure her spawn will be the antichrist. I don't wanna destroy the entire world here lol
/r/askTRP11/02/21 03:01 AM
1

The only time I spent over the past years was the 5 minutes it took to write this post.
/r/askTRP11/02/21 02:09 AM
1

I think you think I feel much more emotional than I actually do. This isn't some major issue to me. I don't think about this until she pokes for attention. And I also don't think you're considering the other guys in the situation. Do you not care about the dudes who got red pilled the hard way? If you answer questions on this sub it seems like you would. To ask for a funny way to get back at her for what she's done eliminates the lessons that I've learned? Uh...ok man.
/r/askTRP11/02/21 02:03 AM
-1

What? I told you about a AWALT story, and that after years of poking me I want to piss her off for fun. This is your assessment?
/r/askTRP11/02/21 01:46 AM
1

I spent the last 6 years not considering it. I was just opening up a conversation to see if maybe you guys DID something in your experience to fuck them over. If you don't have any ideas that's cool, but I didn't ask for your opinion about me bro
/r/askTRP11/02/21 01:42 AM
3

I'm aware that she is looking for satisfaction and I'm denying her of it. But it's not good enough. Her ability to be such a demon and get away with what she's done makes me want to destroy her mentally. This stings yeah, but what she's gonna end up doing is getting with some richer or bigger dude. That's how they handle it, making sure you know you're not enough. I'm probably not gonna do anything, but sometimes I wonder what could I do to make feel as worse as shes been to people
/r/askTRP11/02/21 01:29 AM
2

Yeah I've been ignoring her for years but she keeps up with it. I don't think it has to be anything to engage with her. I was thinking fucking a girl who looks just like her while she's around or fuck her mom or something lol (Edit: This last bit was obviously satire. )
/r/askTRP11/02/21 01:22 AM
-1

This is a non issue for me, just wondering if there were some way to humiliate her. She's actively trying to do it to me
/r/askTRP11/02/21 01:18 AM
2

Men aren't aiming for the stars, they honestly could settle for the bare minimum. Women can't be satisfied if they feel they have better options or opportunity in a social order where commiting to a man is obsolete.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/21 08:53 AM
1

There's a difference between having a history and being a promiscuous person. It's not a zero sum game where you can't attach to people because you had sex with others. Not all sex is derived from romantic love btw
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/21 12:10 PM
1

Lesbians have always been some of my best female friends
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/21 11:06 AM
1

Does that happen often to you? I have been hit on but never where I felt uncomfortable
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/21 10:44 AM
2

I don't think about getting raped if a gay guy is being nice to me. I have boundaries. I understand what you mean by a potential feeling of disgust though.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/21 10:28 AM
1

Huh? Why would that work?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/21 10:17 AM
4

Women aren't dumb, they are hyper emotional. The good feels really good, bad feels super bad, and disgust is very disgusting. Men become increasingly numb to this over logical brains. This is why women do things that seem immoral, irrational, of counter productive. They literally hormonally can't stand negative stimulus, and require a flow as high as possible over time. Their actions become painfully obvious when you consider that it's always for the pleasure of the immediate moment. They don't …
/r/askTRP28/01/21 09:50 AM
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Yo bro, to be honest I think you could use a direct conversation about how you internalized this with men. I suggest posting this in r/askmenover30 Accepting your failures and personal responsibility shows real growth, but that doesn't justify the actions your exes took against you. We are humans, not monsters. Morality exists no matter what our sexual instincts want. The emotional pain is memorized, but the action is in the past which no longer exists. Only NOW exists. When people say "Let it g…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/21 09:23 AM
1

A trooper wow. If you could increase your sex drive exponentially, would you? Or do feel more satisfied with control?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/21 03:04 AM
8

Ngl I think this is true, women act surprised when I actually try to get them off.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/21 03:02 AM
0

Or maybe guys who aren't porn addicted exists? As someone who had plenty of sex it doesn't seem that addictive to be such a freak about it
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/21 05:17 AM
7

Is this what people think being a guy is like? Every second we are horny and even a light touch turns us on? What weirdos are you people surrounding yourselves with
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/21 10:31 PM
0

Women don't mind being treated STOP RIGHT THERE. If there is any way women can be treated, you best believe that it's somehow objectifying or overwhelming in some capacity.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/21 10:06 PM
1

I have the feeling a female wrote this because they often use extreme examples (20f with 40m) to trigger emotional responses to make a point. Men attract younger women more than they do laterally or up the age range. This is because again, women are hypergamous. Older men are working with more wealth, maturity, and a pre defined lifestyle already set for them to extract from. Dating older guys was the norm and still is to a large degree. Usually from 3-10 years. Not to the extreme
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/21 09:56 PM
3

Women have to choose if their actions are for evolution of society or themselves. You cant just justify anything by picking and choosing which framework were working with. Single motherhood isn't good for evolution either.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 04:47 PM
3

I don't understand how you can see the erosion of that institution and recommend that men still bet their lives on women that clearly are incapable of loving men. You're basically telling us to walk in a trap. There is no reason to trust women
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/21 08:18 PM
6

Yes. Men basically built civilization for women. We don't need half of what women demand, we'd be happy with the bare minimum as long as we can be entertained. Men get careers for a stable environment for women and children. What's more interesting isnt just how one sided it is, but the fact that women have completely internalized our corporate slavery to provide as their imprisonment. They'd rather compete with men than cooperate with them for common goals.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/21 08:14 PM
3

More than half of marriages end of divorce, while most of the men that are even in one are put through misery. Playing your cards right is not being deluded by the romantic lie
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/21 08:05 PM
3

Yes, keep the girl that you will expend the majority of your scarce resources for so when she finishes you off with divorce in your 30s you'll be the example of what NOT to do for the kids you'll barely get to see.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/21 03:01 PM
1

It doesn't, but there is no point in being formally exclusive if you do intend to stay that way
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/21 02:57 PM
11

Looks aren't the only qualifying factor for men. But even if they looked good women don't like men inherently, only how he leverages his skills to meet her needs. Looks matter to men because women need to be hot to make putting up with them worth it
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/21 02:55 PM
1

Like what
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/21 02:35 PM
1

Red Pillers are telling the truth about women, if women attribute shame to their actions then it's on them to evaluate their behavior. Men were only "Traditional" because they were willing to sacrifice themselves for romance, women are incapable of that, and have demonstrated they are not worth it. Women act selfishly, so men act selfishly as well now.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/21 02:25 PM
2

Romance is based off of men being manipulated so for the greater scope it's what is sustainable
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/21 01:51 PM
3

I disagree. People who date when they are mature likely will approach it with a loving wonder vs an experienced jaded perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/21 10:03 AM
1

I think the word "inferior" is my only hang up about your comment. I suppose it's an inferior connection if it doesn't supercede conflicting life paths for the individual. By this I meant if you're a man and you want to live in the country near family while she wants to take a job in asia for her career, you can still love her while understanding that your lives are incompatible. If you love her, you care about her happiness enough to understand that and let her go. Assuming that you love yourse…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/21 07:47 AM
1

Inferior? Two people can't just want different things? I assume you're a man, because only men like women enough to compromise greatly. Women peace out if there is an expectation not being satisfied.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/21 06:44 AM
4

Fatality lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/21 06:17 PM
0

Whew, you really must not know what women are like towards men. This is a blessing for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/21 06:10 PM
3

Women deny and bargain with affection increasingly as the relationship goes on, I haven't been married but I presume it only gets worse since they have the security. It's one of the net benefits men receive on their end for association, so take away sex or make it a power game and this manifests. If the male libido was even a fraction lower on average men wouldnt even bother with women
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/21 06:04 PM
3

You do realize people are capable of loving another while also understanding an LTR wouldn't work? There can always be a connection but other variables like life choices can hinder the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/21 05:56 PM
1

For me 3 months. By then I can accurately measure if I can trust them and if we'd actually orient our lives to maintain a relationship. Which most women are incapable of
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/21 05:52 PM
4

Women's attraction dies off at key bonding moments anyway, like moving in together, marriage, and having a child. So it somewhat is already like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/21 05:49 PM
2

Likely due to women realizing that it's unlikely they'll get married again, especially after a certain age. Since they are the initiators, perhaps their strategy changed to something covert for fulfillment. Infidelity has never been easier to get away with, and I'm constantly meeting women who seem morally ineffected by it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/21 05:46 PM
2

What do you disagree with?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/21 07:31 AM
1

I think it's a simplistic means to explain humanity. I never use it really. Edit: I know what people mean by Alpha and Beta, but it's a limiting definition of imperatives/nature's
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/21 07:26 AM
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We must run in different circles, because all the men I have known do know they wanted all of this plus sex. Precisely Imagine your favorite pizza. No imagine being starving to the point where you'd literally eat anything. Eventually someone comes by with a pizza, but it's missing cheese and all your favorite toppings. You are starving, you don't know when the next pizza will come by but at this point you're willing to take ANYTHING. This is in direct contrast to women's analogy which involves e…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/21 07:25 AM
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I noticed. This is all very much common sense to me but lately posts about women liking assholes vs nice guys triggered this post.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/21 06:54 AM
1

Most men's sexuality is stronger than evaluating that part of the equation for their emotional needs. That's why after they have sex they often lose interest because they realize the girl never stimulated them emotionally in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/21 06:49 AM
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If your interest is sex this still applies. If you are her best OPTION, that means you are leveraging a strength that is powerful enough over all her other options.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/21 06:45 AM
1

For what end? Sex or relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/21 06:39 AM
2

Fuck woman that get weiner hard
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/21 06:13 AM
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The collective feminine complex still is playing guys for fools. Women have never been more happy. Their evolutionary survival trait is to feign vulnerability to manipulate male behavior. None of you are special just because you can fix their alternator, make them laugh, or get her to have sex with you. They make you FEEL special, like you're a solution to their grand unhappiness because you perform a task. It's an illusion, men delude themselves into thinking women actually need them when in re…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/21 12:54 AM
1

Tinder is theoretically unlimited opportunity in terms of starting new relationships, so why wouldn't men be drawn to that. It's more men than women because women don't need tinder as much.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/21 02:12 PM
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I have known a multitude of women who sent interest signals while in a relationship. Sometimes right even in front of their boyfriends which starts episodes of drama. I am going my own way but have 6 6 6 since I never stopped working on myself. So I have to explain to dudes all the time I don't want their girlfriend whenever they are feeling insecure. Women are more subtle and covert with their cheating though. They play the timing right by branch swinging when they have the second rope complete…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/21 07:47 AM
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I try not to think about relationships in general. Too complicated, many headache
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/21 09:58 AM
1

I hope this didn't come off as a bigger deal than it actually is. My life is no different, she is no different either. There's no bad blood, I was just giving a recent anecdote. Anyways, if guys waited for women to do anything for them civilization would've died out a long time ago
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/21 09:56 AM
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To fulfill a fetish is one, if you're a built guy and go to upscale fundraisers there are older ladies willing to pay. They have a certain comfortability and forwardness if you are looking to get some money
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/21 09:08 AM
1

I literally got an extra 600$ I didn't even need so it wouldn't have been any realized expense. If I take her it's not the money that would make me mad. I wouldn't care if we didn't fuck either. It's just that when you're a guy you naturally put your best foot forward, hoping maybe there will be reciprocity. I did come to my senses though. I don't need her, but it would be nice to feel like she cared.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/21 08:55 AM
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I've known her for years, I thought of her as a little sister until she wanted to fuck. The way she said it was direct, but I considered it to be us developing further. It was my fault for misinterpreting more from it. She said she loves me, but I think it was because it's what she wanted me to hear in the moment. Whenever I distance and doing well she magically reappears. I can tell that she's just looking for another adventure from me again from ques. But everytime one starts she vanishes. She…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/21 08:49 AM
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Well it's obvious she's only floating around to see if I can bring her some excitement. It's really a one way thing though, so I'm just not interested in being her temporary escape.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/21 08:28 AM
1

Funny, she seems to be the one getting more enjoyment out of it than me from the feedback I get. I should be charging her really lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/21 08:25 AM
1

It's not about the money, I would gladly pay given a different situation. She's not a bad person inherently, but she just not good to me.c
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/21 07:19 AM
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Although I have accepted women's nature a long time ago, and frequent these discussions, I find myself still indoctrinated by the effect. I went on a date the other night and was considering taking her on a trip with me next week. I was half way through with paying for her flight tickets, and then it hit me. "What the fuck am I doing? This girl doesn't give a shit about me!" I thought back to our entire conversation where I basically kept the entire thing going with her entertained. She doesn't …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/21 06:24 AM
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This is when you observe in a logical way. Most people are indoctrinated by a general standard of morality and social systems. You are right that the evolutionary side of things creates a behaviorally sinking environment. But we are still animals, men are going to impregnate women and women will manipulate her way to raiding the child to adulthood.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/21 05:04 AM
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Men are not attracted to what women do, they like them for who they are. If a woman is a compassionate companion to him, it doesn't matter if she is Tulsi Gabbard running for president or if she's the plain jane girl next door.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/21 04:54 AM
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Some female teachers I had were just irrationally mean to me . Moments that make me reflect and think "what the hell was wrong with those women to treat a kid that way". One of my teachers sent me out of class every day after lunch because I was "disruptive" but it didn't make sense because I was the most quiet dude in the grade. Another teacher didn't let me go to the nurse for fighting back my bully, even though I had a deep gash dripping blood from being pushed into a coat hangar. Another tea…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/21 04:47 AM
2

This
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/21 11:28 AM
1

Men realized society doesn't give a fuck about them so there is no reason to self sacrifice for society. And now it's a feedback loop of apathy
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 01:18 AM
3

Bitcoin, ignore everything else
/r/MGTOW05/01/21 07:25 AM
1

Do you have the gay or something? Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 04:40 PM
1

I meant knowing what buttons to press in the attraction game. It's dependent on the context
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 10:21 AM
1

I've got nothing to prove dude, I was looking for a connection. Sex comes a dime a dozen.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 06:51 AM
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If you're looking for sex: Temporarily mold your personality what the girl most desires If you're looking for a connection: Consider both sides of the equation. Are you right for her and where she's going? Is she right for you and your priorities? Overall advice, you're much better off dating outside of tinder
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 06:49 AM
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I barely even talked to 1% of the girls on there. I was already burned out from dating before I downloaded the app. I'm not thirsty to the point where I would fuck randoms, but if I was ever horny I had fuck buddies that I could look towards for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 06:14 AM
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Unfortunately there are guys out there that are low enough on the dominance hierarchy that their GFs would throw away a relationship if a 8+ just asked the right way. I'm sorry but I've seen it so much and I feel bad for those guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 06:09 AM
2

Give up
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 06:06 AM
1

Black women either love me or can't stand me lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 06:04 AM
2

This was mainline, greater Philadelphia area. I was swiping in alot of zones so it was a mix of city girls and the ones all the way out in the boonies of pennsyltucky
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 06:04 AM
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I wasn't counting the girls in my University that I fucked before having matched. But I'm not overly sexual. I really just wanted a solid girlfriend to fill in gap in my life
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 05:58 AM
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No but I grew up with absolutely no self esteem because the women in my life made me feel worthless, so I maxed in game and physicality because I never felt good enough. What I did was seek to understand them before I dated, so once I did it was like I had cheat codes
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 05:57 AM
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Holy shit you dodged a bullet. Made for a crazy story though. I don't want this to come off racist, but to my surprise it was often the asian girls that turned out to be extremely kinky.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 05:54 AM
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Went all the way is full intercourse. PIV sex Hooking up is a variety between kissing, fingering, bj, etc. Pretty much anything but PIV sex
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 05:51 AM
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The worst I think was the one where the girl didn't show up at all because she seemed cool over facetime. But the worst actual date date, was the one that went well but every conversation led back to getting drugs and eventually her asking me for money. It was depressing ngl
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 05:36 AM
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1: A little under 3 months 2: I went out with around 15 -20 of the one's I couldn't live without trying for, out of those only 2 girls I went all the way with but most just hooking up. 3: No but I'm glad you asked this because you understand that that it's a demographics game. Most guys have a type of girl that's interested in their type. However I'm the kind of guy who can fit in many different environments so I just got lucky by having that many pools to access. 4: If anything it's easier to c…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 05:20 AM
2

My sanity
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 05:01 AM
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How horrible women treat men they can't manipulate My own mother, sisters, and even grandmothers can't stand me because I absolutely don't give a fuck about their approval. I see through their power games by fishing you in with compliments then dig for a potential insecurity.
/r/askTRP16/12/20 12:50 AM
1

I have absolutely nothing against it, it takes a significantly close relationship for me to warm up to a sexual relationship too
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/20 04:29 AM
1

It's not a zero sum game. You don't have to be tom cruise just for sex
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/20 03:00 AM
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You don't have to be top tier, you just need to understand female attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/20 02:51 AM
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Masculinity is willpower to achieve certain ends. Criminals are the types where any means justify those specific ends, which is an attractive trait to women to use as leverage for her own imperative. They like "go getters" so to speak.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/20 01:38 AM
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Getting women isn't the crux of the inherent issue. Women have never been easier to bed. The pushback you're seeing is men finally understanding that women aren't the romantics they hoped them to be, in a world where admitting the truth gets you silenced.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/20 01:35 AM
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You kept projecting the way you love on to everyone else. Like sexuality, people can love differently on various frameworks.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/20 09:12 PM
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I am saying that that doesn't make sense as a definition of loving someone for who they are since it has has everything to do with your feelings for them and nothing to do with whether you have the faintest idea 'who they are' Who a person is can trigger a person's emotional feelings. You might not feel this way but others are capable of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/20 08:34 PM
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That would not be romantic love. I can love drugs, video games, or pron but that is not romantic love. Romance is connection of souls/animus beyond the physical interface. It goes beyond this dimension of time/space. Even if I were to travel to another galaxy or forward in time, my love for those in my life still actively exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/20 08:01 PM
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You're speaking from your own POV and expecting me to provide you evidence that you cannot seem to comprehend. I cannot make your happiness connect to another person's wellbeing unselfishly. What external evidence can I provide to illustrate that this type of relationship is possible?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/20 07:48 PM
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Oh my sweet summer child. You are much more than just your biological vessel. Romantic love transcends this.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/20 07:42 PM
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Again, just because YOU'RE incapable of doing this it doesn't mean we all are.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/20 07:40 PM
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There is a false equivalency in your analogy. This isn't a zero sum game. These pills are structures of beliefs to reach specific ends. Red pill invalidates romance for biological triggers, and blue pill invalidates biological trigger for romance. When I say success is determined on what you value it's exactly that. If you value purely physical/biological pleasure then red pill is a direct structure to reach that target. If you value romance blue pill is a structure that believes love will conqu…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/20 07:36 PM
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When your happiness is attached to someones happiness, you're connected, hence love. The reason why you and most women cannot grasp this is because much of your happiness is often in direct reaction to stimulus that is manually triggered. Hence "You get turned on by being wanted by a masculine man that is dominating you", which in turn explains why women often fall out of love "He just didn't do it for me anymore.". You love under active criteria being met. But believe it or not, it's possible t…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/20 07:26 PM
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Your comment is based on assumptions on specific situations. All I stated was that loving someone for who they are is possible. What concerns me is that you seem to WANT to believe someone's happiness cannot be attached to another person without a fixed preconception of the person.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/20 07:16 PM
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What I think most people understand it as is locking in focus on one particular partner to build a life with. Rather than "playing the field" and exploring sexual options.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/20 06:59 PM
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I think you're looking at it the wrong way. You choose your reality and how you interpret what takes place. "Blue Pillers" subscribe to a lifestyle of faith in romance, that's it. Red pillers subscribe to evolutionary sexuality to trigger response. One structure does not disengage the other from affecting consequences. What matters is what you value and how you use the realities of both to establish what you determine as success in relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/20 06:53 PM
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Okay what you need to understand is that my example was not that of romantic love but a broad example to express loving someone for who they are. Now when I spoke about how women love it was that of how women love romantically. Just to be clear. And loving that illusion is not loving someone 'for who they are'. This point within itself could digress into nothingness. Your interpretation of who someone is will always be biased due to your personal perception. Whether the feelings are requited or …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/20 06:38 PM
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I think you're projecting how you internalize this transaction but this isn't the case for everyone. I used to be a twitch streamer, and even when I stopped streaming there were people who still subscribed/donated and it was often because they just wanted to support me. Paying someone to continue please you by putting on an act is the definition of a transactional relationship, which is fine if that's what you want but it is absolutely not loving someone for who they are. I think it's interestin…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/20 06:17 PM
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Not romantic love, but it's loving someone for who they are
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/20 06:06 PM
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Well duh?? I'm not suggesting that this commenter shouldn't wait. I'm explaining to her that even if she does wait it could still inevitably lead to the male not valuing her company after he has sex. Waiting will not provide certainty but you're right that it increases the chances he'll stay.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/20 04:19 AM
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How does anything you stated conflict with my statement? What specifically isn't true?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/20 03:54 AM
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Yes of course. A quick example to illustrate this is the love viewers have for twitch streamers. Even if they don't get much direct interaction with them, many viewers feel a perceived attachment of the streamer with their happiness. That's love. Some so much as donate lots of money to exemplify their connection with that person. And that love is mostly from men to other men/women. The way this differentiates from how women love is that women only love men for what the man (that she respects) di…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/20 12:40 AM
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When women behave as if its men's responsibility to seduce them, this is what manifests. Women create physical illusions to be desired, men create illusions to gain sexual access. It's all how you interpret it. Although to be honest if the woman put in a fraction of the work men do to sustain relationships after sex that would drastically increase their chances of sustaining it. But women even feel like the guy should call her after a date (that he likely facilitated) In less wordy words, women …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/20 08:40 PM
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Why is it when a woman admits this there's no mass female vitriolic pushback? You're right, but so many women try to get away with this "Homemaker" freelunch status.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/20 06:57 PM

I don't think you understand, when a guy reaches climax his sexual tension clears. If her company feels like more trouble than the climax was worth he leave regardless if he waited hours or months. Women should work on being better people to want to spend time with so that it doesn't feel like a net loss doing so. When men are expected to carry a relationship he's not even sure he values yet this is what happens. Leaving after sex means "Sex with her isn't good enough to justify the expense of m…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/20 06:50 PM
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Men tell women what they want to hear. On reddit they have the freedom to be honest
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/20 11:48 PM
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Of course single women look like approachable "damsels in distress" that's what they evolved to do. Everything about them is an illusion to make men want to protect, provision, and procreate with them. Every guy that does something for a woman thinks he's the unique macho man, and doesn't realize there are million others catering to her too.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/20 11:41 PM
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Men are just islands for women to anchor on and loot as much resources to make it to the next island
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/20 11:37 PM
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Just because women are more emotionally interfaced doesn't mean they have more compassion. Being able to comprehend another person's emotions is different than feeling a visceral urge to respond. Men defend people when they are being attacked, women ignore or save themselves. .
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/20 11:33 PM
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"Yeah make yourself so horny you'll beg to monkey dance" haha
/r/askTRP23/07/20 01:20 AM
2

Protect this woman at all costs
/r/PussyPassDenied22/07/20 01:39 AM
1

You should take a long.... hard.... deep.... reconsideration of your sexuality if you find so few men attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 07:42 PM
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I would guess they would use corresponding subreddits to talk about other topics. Like idk, talking about fishing in r/fishing posting their doggos in r/aww you know like normal human beans
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 02:48 PM
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I just think Reddit is odd with all these groups talking about their subjects
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 02:39 PM
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r/whooosh
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 02:33 PM
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Oh wow, you mean you can pop in a sub for a short moment and go back to your life? You must be like, uber unique. No way no one else does that. All we humans do is spend our entire lives inside of one sub, every second of every day, no other hobbies, no other sub's for those hobbies, no jobs, no responsibilities. We pick a sub and sell our souls to it. I wish I was you, you must be so unique and happy
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 02:24 PM
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For someone so productive, you seem to know a lot about all of these subreddits. You probably have no life since all you do is browse these sub's all day to make bold assessments about them. Unless I'm wrong... unless maybe you can use Reddit, AND have a life outside of it??? Nah impossible
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 02:14 PM
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women not being worth it why is 90% of what you guys do still woman centered? For people not having Children why is 90% of what r/Childfree post about is not having children? Reddit is weird yo, its like people in subs talk about their subjects.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 02:06 PM
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Hmm, weird, a sub about why men arent dating women talk about why they aren't dating women? Strange how the topic of women come up and why they are opting out of dating them 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 01:57 PM
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One would think that the r/Starwars sub about star wars would be more productive and start their own galactic war against each other. But no instead they sit there and talk about starwars, why they love it, their thoughts opinions etc! They are comparable to other groups that congregate with their principals and why they came to their conclusions. Those star wars people must be so miserable talking about star wars! Reeee
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 01:48 PM
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A sub about why men are going their own way has posts about why men are going their own way? Blasphemy!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 01:36 PM
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Well reddit won't use their life issues and insecurities against them later on so BOOM take that wahmen haha
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 01:33 PM
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https://tenor.com/bfkTP.gif
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 01:31 PM
1

You admit to this? Respect
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 01:25 PM
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Yeah I was mgtow for three years, didnt even know it. my ex girlfriend that cheated on me got mad and made a huge Facebook post about me for not taking her back. I searched the internet for "Why are women so selfish?" That rabbit hole led to there
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 01:19 PM
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Do you sit on PPD 24/7 365? Or do you go do other shit and occasionally respond to the posts that pull up in your feed like a normal human being in all the other subs? You taking the time to shame them for responding to posts on there is so comically meta. Especially when they have nothing to do with you lol very ironic.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 01:14 PM
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Hey das me! Look mom I'm famous
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 12:54 PM
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They believe there is a decline in "COMPATIBLE men. They have no shortage of guys they don't want. But the guys they can't have don't want them, nor has a reason to even commit
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 12:45 PM
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Why do you believe women on masse think of that differently? I've been weighing over if I should answer this question for you, but I really don't want to red pill other men. Its such a happier world when you believe this so I hope the women in your life preserve your worldview.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 09:32 PM
2

Would you say that when you love a woman her happiness becomes entangled with yours? There are different forms of love obviously, but a degree of your fulfillment is linked with her?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 05:44 AM
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I don't date women because being their best friend actually doesn't work. No need to warn them, me declaring I don't fuck with them anymore actually leads to them not leaving me alone. I hope you manage to talk some sense into them though, but having sense seems like a rare occurrence for the fairer sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 01:23 AM
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This was me 7 years ago too, you may not realize it now but your early realization will be catalyst towards a great road ahead. Do what you put your mind to and don't let women and their behavior distract you. You can't be manipulated by sex, you have a destiny ahead of you kid. Cheers
/r/MGTOW14/07/20 10:18 PM
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Try to enjoy the decline, lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/20 10:13 PM
1

I think the difference between how you (PP) and me (Black) internalize the reality of relationships between men and women is that you still value the "prize" of a relationship. When I simply can't based on the understanding of what relationships are and how they biologically work. You look at it as a challenge to be conquered, I see dating women as a one sided expense in time and resources. I have all the options in the world on who I'd want to focus that distraction on, but dating is an impedim…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/20 10:00 PM
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, I'm a biracial child of immigrants This would've been my second guess. They are the next in line to continue valuing marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/20 09:45 PM
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Well stated, I absolutely agree. A relationship will not happen if the guy isn't incentivized to take charge, and luckily for women sex is pretty much enough for most men. I know this because I have options, so most women to me are like "Meh" because they don't contribute to the relationship or differentiate themselves in any meaningful way. For every girl I met I know at least 2-3 exact clones of her, same name, style, attitude etc. But to win and find love there has to be something about her t…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/20 09:37 PM
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Women's idea of love is often completely different than a man's idea. Its when men meet performative expectations that they love him, they love him for what he does and provides not him as an individual. You could very much be different than that average, but you learn this quick as a guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/20 09:29 PM
1

As far as I know these are all first time marriages Ah there's our mismatch. I know a lot of older couples who've been through the ringer, and religion is basically dead here. The Christian churches I went to destroyed more marriages than created them. Our lives are like the polar opposite. Also gonna go ahead and assume you're white, your community tends to actually have a degree of faith in love still.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/20 09:26 PM
1

Hmm, strange how the guys who are emotionally distant are the ones actually ending up in relationships. Maybe that means... it works?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/20 09:14 PM
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Yes because you realize as a that you have to really LOVE a woman to meet her demands consistently and not wanna blow your head off with a shotgun, while simultaneously understanding that love will never be reciprocated.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/20 08:47 PM
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To this day I still don't know anyone that has gotten divorced. No way you go outside, or you must be in the 1 percent of rural Arkansas with a graduating class of like 30 kids or something. I've never even seen a successful marriage outside of 2 in my entire life and one of them are lesbians. Hundreds of couples over my nearly 30 years and the red pill is right 9/10.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/20 08:38 PM
1

They are only interested because you are distant. Its a shit test. Do let them manipulate you
/r/askTRP29/12/19 03:42 AM
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Women are lazy and indecisive, it just means she wants you to think for her and decide what you both do and speak about.
/r/askTRP24/12/19 07:34 AM
8

I love the replies to this tweet. Men reminding women of our worth and not simping for a crumb of pussy. The funny thing is, the women are replying to them telling them they aren't worth shit. They're using shaming tactics and being antagonistic going against their very interest of being chased. Why would we chase people that don't value us? We aren't illogical and slaves to our emotions like them so this tactic doesn't work. The world is waking up brothers!
/r/MGTOW16/12/19 08:32 PM
1

I would kms
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 05:34 PM
1

Men don't shame the women they like. Don't value those opinions Although you are always responsible for the choices you make
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 05:31 PM
2

Well I answered it, we could still be friends but there is no point in being exclusive so no.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 05:28 PM
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See Alcohol prohibition, war on drugs, etc
/r/MGTOW09/12/19 05:26 PM
4

Hashtag #Banporn is trending on twitter
/r/MGTOW09/12/19 05:25 PM
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Their ability to justify it astounds me. They are either really dumb or extremely deceptive
/r/MGTOW09/12/19 05:24 PM
2

Why would we have to be exclusive to each other then? We could very well still be friends and hang out occasionally without labels
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 05:21 PM
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Conservative women would love that. Isn't it funny how gym rat dudes are often gay when they are the most physically compatible? Its almost as if our very biology is telling us they aren't suitable mates
/r/MGTOW09/12/19 05:02 PM
4

There's a reason people get this way after living enough life
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 02:03 PM
16

"You have resources that I can see myself extracting from you for a longer period of time."
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 02:01 PM
1

Narcissistic Hypocritical, often illogical in financial and life decisions Chasing her teenage years Cannot hold a relationship or picture making anyone happy but herself Basically the stereotypical woman guys talk about here
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 01:59 PM
2

People tend to have children by accident
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 01:53 PM
1

Men and women tend to like different things and not value what the other's interests are as much. Although, this paired with the female social proclivity of expecting men to entertain you can make them come off as uninteresting. Women don't have to try to be interesting to mate so on average they won't be. This only makes women who try even a little bit more appealing.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 01:51 PM
2

I didn't, but I'm sure many do. My friend's gf is a 6 at best, cheated on him and they're still together. It just matters on how much the guy is willing to put up with.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 06:50 AM
2

Now that I think about it you're right, I know a lot of sluts with husbands too.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 06:31 AM
2

You sound out of touch but ok
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 05:04 AM
2

Guys who fuck tons of women don't care, normal guys avoid sluts
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 05:01 AM
2

And yet guys are bad for avoiding high n-counts, typical
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 04:54 AM
8

I think many men believe "Why work this hard when she's eventually going to trade up for someone who worked longer anyways" and throw in the towel. Because it's true, you'll never be the best, but she's only satisfied by the best. So its a waiting game for her to leave you. Guys are watching women bounce from dude to dude and don't see the point in being a stepping stone.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 04:52 AM
8

Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 04:37 AM
2

I love how we compare ourselves to wolves with the Alpha Beta mindset yet wolves mate for life. Women mate with their best option
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 04:34 AM
3

Because women harbor feelings for other guys they fucked or want to. I've fallen in love with women who emotionally justified monkey branching back to other guys or cheating on me outright. Fool me once, shame on me. Fool me 7 (literally) times fuck off
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 04:27 AM
1

Nope at least not me
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 04:24 AM
3

I honestly would date anyone I felt loved me, understands me, and has both of our best interests at heart. If this happens to be someone who went through a sex change I'm perfectly willing to comprimise in the name of love
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 04:22 AM
3

Atta boy
/r/MGTOW24/11/19 08:40 AM
2

You wouldn't give your grandma a kiss if she wanted one?? What kind of monster are you?
/r/MGTOW15/11/19 11:09 AM
3

Oh God you'll learn kid, but whatever try to have fun in naive land. It's probably the least averse you'll ever be
/r/MGTOW14/11/19 01:05 AM
1

Not sure if you'd upload it for free, but Inkitt is a cool site.
/r/MGTOW25/10/19 09:43 PM
0

Damn I can't wait to see them rationalize themselves out of this one lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/19 04:41 AM

If you look into the story Chris admits that they used to hit EACH other. He was on something that night (coke I think) and she got him angry to which he responded in anger. No one should be violent to their partner but when you play stupid games you win stupid prizes.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/10/19 04:01 PM
17

Women aren't even interested in the culture and history of the places they travel, they just do it to show off on instagram.
/r/MGTOW17/10/19 09:51 PM
1

I got 99 problems and a bitch ain't one
/r/MGTOW11/10/19 12:56 AM
2

2 texts, Fuck..... You
/r/MGTOW05/10/19 03:35 AM
1

You're doing well. Why not thrill seek to find your passion. Go skiing, paragliding, mountain climbing etc. Working isn't the meaning of life, appreciating existence is.
/r/askTRP29/09/19 03:10 PM
1

Wanna meet up so your mouth can say that to my fists?
/r/askTRP21/08/19 07:00 AM
2

You did not provide an actual consensus post that this is what MGTOW as a group promotes all women are less intelligent, all men are better at everything or call all women scum You're trying to argue with me about the content of Gender Critical BECAUSE THATS WHAT WE WERE TALKING ABOUT BEFORE YOU INTERJECTED WITH NONSENSE, THE COMPARISON BETWEEN THE TWO. I'm so glad you're shutting up though because you provide 0 insight whatsoever. Learn basic comprehension while you're gone. Bye bye
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/19 06:14 AM
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Did you read any of these posts? Are you for real 1st one was deleted by either the mods or the user himself, guys in the comments even told him to delete it or change the "All women are whores" title 2nd is obviously a cartoon and not a literal representation of ALL women or All vaginas. And women don't like man sluts either, women here even said they don't 3rd A former pretty woman got fat, all he said was she hit the wall. Not that she was an abomination of a person. How is this worse than to…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/19 05:56 AM
7

I've been on the MGTOW sub for awhile and I've never seen them say all women are less intelligent, all men are better at everything or call all women scum. Care to provide at least 1 example? I ask this because every time I do, no one can provide me that. Let's do a quick top posts for the week check r/MGTOW One post about how they dont hate women but aviod them because of their behavior, A few ACTUAL deceptive behaviors clearly shown in some men's lives on video and in screenshots, a few jokes …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/19 05:32 AM
1

I always liked Lana Del Rey though. I always thought she was a great artist and liked that old school aesthetic. I didn't realize how much she brainwashed a whole generation though haha. But maybe she was more a reflection of the times because now all the girls are into Billie Ellish which is less sexy and romantic and more angsty and dark.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 06:30 PM
5

Yeah true, it turns me off because when someone says a family name my brain thinks of that person in the family then I try not to think about it but end up thinking more then my brain shuts down all sex drive whatsoever Oh how it sucks to be neurotic
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 05:46 PM
3

It's not about you being her actual dad its about having control over them. Those girls want to be commanded and respond with "Yes Daddy" or "Please daddy" another similar kink would be the "Master" kink but daddy is more modern and casual. But yeah, not literally a dad thing haha
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 04:59 PM
2

How do religious people feel about this?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 04:52 PM
3

That's revolting, the word mom will make my dick go limp even if I was overdosing on Viagra
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 04:50 PM
3

Omg dude you called it! Every girl I knew that was into it was the mazy star, Lana Del Rey, dream pop tumblr culture girl. Literally all of them that's so weird
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 04:45 PM
2

I've been waiting for this conversation for so long. Why is this so fucking common, like 1/3 ladies I've been with had this kink I don't really get it. Its not the weirdest kink out there I've experienced worse but it's so common that it's strange to me. I mean its not about actual incest. Its usually associated with control, girls who like that want to be completely dominated, told or forced into submission. They basically want direct instructions and respond with "Yes Daddy" or "Please Daddy" …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 04:43 PM
1

I don't really get why this is pushed in the media at all. 99% of my guy friends got attached and pussy whipped the minute they had sex with a girl. I've legitimatly seen more ladies open to fucking around with random guys on spring break and other things than I've seen guys. I can only count on one hand how many guys I know that actually spin plates successfully and enjoy it excluding drug induced flings. But I know dozens of women who've blown through dozens of guys just for fun. Doesn't matte…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 04:32 PM
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True femininism isn't the antithesis of MGTOW. Can we stop comparing these. One is about rights one is about staving off relationships with females. We need to stop acting like they are comparable its apples and oranges
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 04:25 PM
1

What kind of fresh hell is this? Honestly I hate passionless sex. And my celebrity crush right now would be Natalia Dyer. Since she's so smol and young looking option 2 would feel extra weird and I'd feel like I'd be violating her. She's just too pretty and pure looking I probably couldn't bring myself to it. But, get me a handle of Titos and I wouldn't even remember 3. So that'll probably be it, out of sake for Natalia and it would probably be more enjoyable overall I guess. Still though, wtf d…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 04:19 PM
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Why is when any guy makes a point here, the rhetoric is "Men are bad too" it's a non sequitur and it's getting really annoying. That doesn't change the fact that women can be bad, it doesn't change the fact that they face less repercussions for them, it doesn't change the fact theat the courts are leveled in their favor. A handful of Ass hole women agreeing with hypergamy again doesn’t make it true. It just make these women ass holes. They are acting hypergamously, when a woman dates up the soci…
/r/ExRedPill20/08/19 03:13 PM
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I hope you're not talking about me because I'm not a troll nor do I think all women consciously act this way. This phenomenon can't be ignored as its so common to men across the world. There are a lot more people who know women act this way then deny its existence. My question is what are the expill thoughts on women who are actively promoting and indulging in hypergamy
/r/ExRedPill20/08/19 03:48 AM
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This is too vague, I addressed this and half the red pill guys agree with you and the other half doesn't
/r/askTRP20/08/19 03:29 AM
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First, people deny hypergamy because they don’t like hearing ill of women. Period. Yeah I noticed, maybe this post is a lost cause Even though I recognize that hypergamy exists, I can still report that I have not personally found the women I’ve been with to be disloyal. This is survivalship bias . Before I graduated high school I've been falsely accused twice (both turned out okay thank god) cheated on twice (one with a rich guy and once with a instagram famous dude) monkey branched from a ton, …
/r/ExRedPill20/08/19 03:21 AM
1

Are you still dating at all? How are you handling all of this?
/r/ExRedPill20/08/19 03:11 AM
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. So just know “YouTube” isn’t a good source. These are real women making these videos, commenting, sharing and promoting these values. Secondly yes there are shallow women, because women are people and people can be shallow. However that doesn’t mean hypergamy is real. "These women act and promote hypergamy, but that doesn't mean it's real" Wut ? There are plenty of women who make their own money and find their own security. I know because I am one of them I'm not saying that women don't make t…
/r/ExRedPill20/08/19 03:09 AM
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Are you contending that all women are hypergamous or just that the concept exists? Hypergamy exists whether its a conscious intention or not Is the argument that these are the women being honest about a phenomenon This an observation, not a debate. Women do this if you want to believe it or not. Not a quantifiable number because it is often done deceptivly but it's true nonetheless
/r/ExRedPill20/08/19 02:57 AM
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Never said women never dealt with their own issues, you completely missed the point. The point is that your perspective is different and doesn't make our reality warped because you share different experiences. You dismissed the men that had issues and I was simply reminding you that many of the horror stories that men have are valid. Your comment other than that was fine, you just came off as insensitive to men is all. Edit: just realized you aren't even the original commenter. You still missed …
/r/ExRedPill20/08/19 12:28 AM
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I'm a woman and it deeply hurts me to read TRP, but that's because I know how wrong they are and it outrages me that they can sit around smugly justifying their warped view of reality But it's not warped reality for us, thats our actual environment. Before I even graduated I was falsely accused twice, cheated on twice, monkey branched from a few, lied to a ton, and non of them ever acted to please me, only stayed because I pleased them. Not to mention what my friends went through and my own Fath…
/r/ExRedPill19/08/19 09:30 PM
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Wait so you're a woman that's different than most of your group yet peddle rhetoric that all Men going their own way is the same? Seems kinda hypocritical to me. Anyways, MGTOW and Red Pill doesn't mean AWALT literally, its that its so common and all women are capable of being that way with no repercussions from society anymore. Being slutty used to be frowned upon, like cheating, monkey branching, falsely accusing etc, but now we live in a society where even if women act in these ways she'll be…
/r/ExRedPill19/08/19 09:15 PM
1

It is always time and effort better spent developing new, fresh, prospective women than it will ever be in attempting to reconstruct a failed relationship I agree with this, it's just some other red pillers that suggest saving hoes that I don't agree with If you have abundance, you won’t even consider “fixing” these girls because you know you can just find multiple girls who will fill your checklist of desirable qualities. It's actually pretty crazy because when I was blue pilled I used to do an…
/r/askTRP19/08/19 08:49 PM
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You can't change a girls character Yeah that's what I was thinking We at TRP aren't trying to change a chick. We just live our lives and focus on our lives. It are the girls that change for us because they want to fit into our lives. It seems well and good for some things, like if she was a SJW and you teach her why its toxic to think that way. But if her whole personality was predicated on myself it seems I would be dating a chameleon, not a unicorn. We never implied or asked she had to. Take i…
/r/askTRP19/08/19 08:40 PM
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Never in my life have I spun plates or pumped and dumped on purpose, but there were a handful of times I've hooked up with someone and immediately regretted it after learning their history or true personality. I think this is common for a lot of other dudes too. You meet someone, act on impulses and soon realize you aren't compatible for the long term.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/19 06:56 PM
1

Have fun licking up crusted up cum from the last dude 😂
/r/askTRP19/08/19 10:44 AM
1

Take your rules back to 1955
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 05:47 PM
3

Damage makes men go their own way, or pump and dump without investing emotions
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 02:45 AM
1

This is the last time I will frame this. In this theoretical situation he checks all the boxes, tall, smart, wealthy attractive, aggressive whatever you want. The only deal is that he is pursuing you for a relationship FIRST. He's not a virgin, hes not an asexual, hes a good man who wants you to be his LTR. You just happen to be the first. You already said earlier that if you happened to be attracted to man who just so happened to never had an LTR, it wouldn't particularly be a deal breaker for …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 02:40 AM
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A guy who thinks with his dick doesn't love you, he just wants pussy. And he can get that from plenty of women from all around there's no reason to commit to you. If he made the conscious decision to be with you over all his options with the intention of building a life together that relationship is more likely to succeed. The truth is, I know women prefer experienced men. Sometimes I think half the reason why some women like me now is only because I have status from all the other gorgeous women…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 02:27 AM
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I didn't make this personal. I dont even know you so why would I care what your preferences are. It just seems that yourself and other women are shooting yourself in the foot by only wanting guys who have experience in dumping other LTRs. Nothing is to stop you from being another one of them. Atlas said even if this guy checked all the other boxes, if he didn't game other women he's unattractive based on that alone. It seems that this is another one of those female preferences that leaves the gu…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 02:05 AM
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No one said you had to do that, just because he hasn't been in a serious relationship doesn't mean he cant attract women or form secure bonds.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 01:45 AM
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If you are a man that doesn't think with his dick, something is wrong with you. Got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 01:42 AM
1

Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 01:35 AM
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Are you forgetting that in this situation he wants you? You turned him on enough for him to desire to be with you instead of the rest. If you find that unattractive it only encourages men to fuck around and prioritize you less, you realize this?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 01:28 AM
3

People who love each other for the first time dont picture or want to be together forever? (At least with that intention)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 01:26 AM
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I dont even think our experiences even matter I would rather be with someone more idealistic with less trauma and baggage vs just another guy she'll fling with for a couple years before she monkey branches to the next one but to each their own
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 01:24 AM
2

People strive for their first love to be their last. Not a trial or stepping stone
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 01:19 AM
1

The kind of man who doesn't prioritize it. Many women here said that men shouldn't be hypocritical, if he wants a low N women he shouldn't expect her to accept his high N status. Men who actually intend to be with their lovers for a lifetime would be more conservative in who he chooses.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 01:16 AM
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"Feelings" is vague. Not everyone is apathetic about their exes but that doesn't mean they're in love with them. Idk ive seen a lot of people breakup, date other people, fuck on the side or get back together again. That's what happened to Miley Cyrus and Liam Hemsworth. Both dated a ton of people, thought they loved each other the most, called it off, dated other people, got together again and married, and now they are divorcing. Imagine being Liam's other woman during all that mess. This type o…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 01:13 AM
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Men and women who aren't emotionally stunted move on from their past relationships. Uh idk about this one chief. In my environment people have relationship drama over previous relationships all the time. I've seen it cause a lot of fights and breakups. If he was still in love with an ex it would be pretty obvious. How could you actually tell if he's trying to keep it away from you? People pretend and hide their feelings all the time Your comments are making me think you either didn't grow up in …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 01:04 AM
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Most people move on from past relationships. I would argue that most people still have some feelings deep down for previous LTRs, from experience and what I've observed. The thing you don't seem to understand is the vast majority of people in Western countries have at least one serious relationship by their teens or early twenties. I've seen a lot of relationships come and go before the early twenties and I could only count on one hand how many people ive seen in real LONG term relationships. Ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 12:51 AM
2

Are you saying it's impossible to be intelligent and Alpha? Because if you are there's no more to discuss.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 12:29 AM
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It would be best if both parties were the least damaged as possible. You should strive for any love to be your last one.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 12:26 AM
2

Okay, say we are only talking guys who spent the time sleeping around. Are you saying that you'd rather a guy who had a few LTRs that he could potentially still have feelings for? Or a few random hookups he could have barely remembered?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 12:21 AM
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But those people are having ONS/ short term flings, so it does apply. Its pretty much every senior girl in college, lots of baggage from past fucks and flings while they were busy earning a degree. By that logic most guys should be hesitant to those girls now even. that's a legitimate excuse for not being able to hold down a relationship But there are plenty of reasons why people aren't in LTRs though. It seems like more of red flag if they had exes they still could love vs not having any. As I …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 12:15 AM
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I didn't say that you should desire to be, but why would that deter you from being with someone? It would also probably be at the advantage of you to be the first one that a man commits fully to. He's less bitter and damaged as the ladies like to call it. I dont really understand how I'm meeting and am attracted to this man, but let's assume I am, it's not some deal breaker That settles it
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 12:05 AM
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What if he wasn't sleeping around? What if he had priorities that made him choose to be single for an extended period of time like a scientist or computer engineer or neurosurgeon or something. Are you saying that if a guy checked all your boxes but hasn't had an LTR before you, you would let him go? Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/19 11:58 PM
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I still dont understand how that is naive though? What if he got deployed right after high school and spent years doing tours overseas? Or what if he was busy building a business or focusing on work and school in college and couldn't afford to think about dating? I'm not saying you should specifically target men who haven't been in LTRs but if he checked all the other boxes why is that a deal breaker?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/19 11:54 PM
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I'm not saying you should particularly target men that has never been in a relationship. You're older so that would be quite rare and peculiar. But what if he simply hasn't found anyone he liked enough to settle down with before you? If this guy checked all the boxes you'd really let him go because he hasn't been in a ltr before? Its like the job experience loop. You need 2+ years experience to enter a job that you can't qualify for because you lack experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/19 11:48 PM
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Couldn't I say a lady that has been in a few long relationships is a red flag because she could never commit either? What if he never liked anyone enough before you?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/19 11:41 PM
2

Wait so you wouldn't want to be his first love? How does that make any sense
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/19 11:24 PM
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introspective and intelligent "high beta" personality. What? Having a brain isn't beta.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/19 11:22 PM
2

Do you think all women are the problem, or is it just the vast majority to you? It's not that every single woman is inherently evil, we simply live in a culture that promotes their hedonistic and toxic ways without reprecussions. They lack a culture that instills discipline into them so that's why they oversexualize themselves, falsely accuse, and ride the cock carousel. Good women all over see other women capitalize on this system and fall into the same trap of taking advantage. What do you thi…
/r/MGTOW12/08/19 04:22 PM
2

That's trashy as fuck
/r/MGTOW12/08/19 03:48 PM
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The biggest moment was a compounding force between many situations clashed into one. My ex girlfriend told her little sister to tell the police that I gave her drugs to get a lighter sentence. This happened literally on my birthday and I went to jail for two weeks for something I didn't do. There was a girl that I was seeing at the time, and I was with her the whole day. It was actually impossible for me to commit the crime when we weren't even in school for the majority of the day. She was my o…
/r/MGTOW11/08/19 08:07 PM
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I think he has a girlfriend he let's leech off him
/r/MGTOW11/08/19 07:43 PM
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We are in the same boat brother, but these college girls have been fucking around since high school. I remember when I all logically clicked for me when I was 17. Didn't need the red pill, just observed my reality of women fucking anything that gave them the slightest bit of attention. Sometimes I think it's a shame it has to be this way. Other times I think maybe I can find a virtuous girl with values but ive seen too many wallflowers transform to sluts at the drop of a hat. They were never our…
/r/MGTOW11/08/19 07:40 PM
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How can you smoke weed and not feel a deep introspective need to go take care of your children. I'd be so anxious as to how they are doing if I left them like that and was smoking. Do women actually have souls?
/r/PussyPassDenied11/08/19 07:29 PM
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Women are dominating the oppression olympics
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/19 07:20 PM
1

I technically went mgtow at 17. Three girls asked me to prom and I turned them all down, I got fed up early.
/r/MGTOW11/08/19 05:09 AM
2

There's something deeply wrong about men affirming antimen rhetoric
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/19 12:02 AM
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None of them are valid, you're wrong and contradict your own points all throughout this whole post. Your analysis of the state of men sounds like femcel wrote it. Go outside and talk to real men and you'll see that the world isn't nearly as grim as you proclaim.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 11:45 PM
3

It fustrates me because youre complaining about the lack of unity between men when you're the one sowing discord by shaming men. It's so antithetical to the solution of your thesis and makes you come off as an ass. How about you do something constructive instead of make a slam piece against your own brothers.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 11:35 PM
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Idk what is so hard to understand about this. Clearly these men have better things to do if they aren't thinking with their dicks 24/7
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 09:05 PM
2

Exactly, OP seems to have an ego he wants stroked
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 08:08 PM
1

Humanity has always been this way, instead of killing more feminine men as we did in the past, we accept them as a whole. So men aren't afraid to express feelings they always felt, and it reflects upon your environment.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 08:05 PM
0

What the hell has PPD devolved to? I don't understand how things can simultaneously be falling apart, and normal for typical guys at the same time. How can the majority of women be fearful of rape and complain about the patriarchy grouping up against them, yet men are all pussies who can't unite? You're just shaming and fearmongering problems that don't exist. There are the 5 main reasons why modern (Western) men lack any type of cohesion: If men lacked cohesion, society wouldn't even exist. It'…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 07:48 PM
4

Using logic and cost/benefit analysis isn't bitterness
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 05:45 AM
0

Bingo.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 09:35 PM
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You do know that the women who are fucking around in their 20s are the same women who are in their 30s right? Why wait to be with someone unsufferable when they are older and damaged vs dating someone younger. All the risks are the same except you get a prettier woman with less baggage.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/19 10:53 PM
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Theres no way I can honestly answer this without sounding like a douchebag
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/19 10:48 PM
0

Women are relentlessly bombarded with increasingly unobtainable images of female perfection. THATS what tells women how "good enough" they are This is what I don't understand, why do women even value those images in the first place. No one is directly telling them "You must look like Hailey Bieber" or whatever Instagram chicks they follow. So why do they even give a fuck about what those girls they don't even know look like?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/19 11:55 AM
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I really don't think people here understand what masculinity and femininity actually is. Masculine isn't "doing stuff" feminine isn't sitting on your ass accepting handouts from men. I'm gonna write a post about this.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/19 09:30 PM
2

Isn't this what people with common sense are supposed to do in the first place
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/19 09:26 PM
2

Edited, thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/19 03:45 PM
2

Thats why you gotta go to the amateur section where real couples post their sex highlights. Much more natural, intense, and authentic pleasure. Not that you need to watch porn haha
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/19 07:30 PM
3

Men can be that way too you're right.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/19 07:26 PM
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It's not just Tinder, but they are just so obsessed with social media and mindless consumerism. Literally all they do, besides their careers, is Netflix, getting drunk, and taking photos for Instagram. No genuine intellectual curiosity. They're just on fucking autopilot as they mindlessly rape the planet. Sadly true more often than not. Maybe males are just too different than females to be compatible anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/19 06:25 PM
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No I wouldn't ask for it, anal seems kinda uncomfortable idk how you do it haha
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/19 05:35 PM
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No girl has ever straight up asked me for anal. You kinda just do it in the heat of the moment. But no, anal isn't worth taking it in the pooper for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/19 05:19 PM
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I've seen a lot of breakups happen because she "Wants time to see what's out there" which is code for getting dicked down by a bunch of dudes. This is a reasonable fear to have.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/19 05:13 PM
1

how is it for you now if you're in your 20s? Pretty shit romantically, pretty good if youre looking to get laid by a different girl every night. Thot culture is consuming my college town. Have you learnt about your likes/dislikes along the way? Sorted out your own internal problems? Yeah, I realized that I actually like a woman with values instead of the one's that are getting trains ran on them by my friends. Have you ever intentionally taken breaks from dating, and for how long? Taking a break…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/19 05:06 PM
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But she literally asked me to fuck her. I had only met her that same semester and we literally didn't hang out 1 on 1 before this... I've been in your exact same situation twice before. She wasn't looking for a boyfriend, or someone to be there emotionally. She was looking for a fuck to get her mind off her Ex. That's it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/19 04:44 PM
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Yes it's true, being too nice won't get her primed for the bedroom. But I think this mostly has to do with the fact that many women are insecure in that guys actually like them, when a dude is super nice it can come off as inauthentic. They are thinking he's either just being nice to get in my pants or they don't feel they deserve someone that's head over heels for them One of my acquaintances broke up with her boyfriend after he cheated. That same week, she straight up asked to fuck. I agreed, …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/19 04:36 PM
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This is how it typically goes
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/19 04:15 PM
10

You're the one making bold claims, not me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 11:42 PM
2

Appreciate it comrade. Maybe I'll entertain this for a little while longer
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 10:40 PM
2

Honestly, I've been meaning to leave PPD for so long but I feel too much pressure to correct some of the nonsensical takes people have on here. Might be a lost cause though.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 10:30 PM
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So that means you do care. There are men that care but for every guy that does there's about 3 other guys still willing to fuck her anyway. Most guys dont have a Madonna-Whore complex. You couldn't possibly quantify that. But again, there's all kinds of men. . Sounds like bullshit. Guys with a Madonna-Whore complex are the same guys bemoan how the good girls dont put out. Do you actually want a discussion or are you solely here to argue claims that no one is making?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 10:19 PM
7

The projection is strong today, did everyone wake up on the wrong side of the bed this morning?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 10:07 PM
5

Who's us? Because I doubt most women want a Red Pilled guy I'm talking about men. But if she meets a cuck that actually finds it attractive that she's gotten plowed through by a bunch of dudes more power to her. Again, we don't care. So would you prefer she gives it up to NO ONE? I don't care what women do. Even if we told them we want long term committed monogamy they will still do whatever they want anyway. But I would recommend being with people she wants to build a future with as opposed to …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 10:02 PM
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We don't care, if you want to be slut during your twenties go for it. Just don't come crawling back to us when you're 30 and expect us to sacrifice anything for you. If you give yourself up easy for everyone, your value diminishes. Also no one is promoting getting married at twenty, if anything they promote not getting married at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 09:30 PM
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In what world is submitting your assets and getting on your knees to do it manly? You're literally selling yourself to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 09:25 PM
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Yes, because her career is the foundation of her life. If her career makes us incompatible for whatever reason it's not worth our time to date each other knowing we'll separate. However, if we already had a bond id be more flexible in making it work.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 09:22 PM
1

Bright, Passionate, Opinionated, Ladylike, Decency, not conceited
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 09:14 PM
1

If I were divorced I'd be upgrading my wife in terms of youth and looks, guaranteed. I have no desire to, but I'm still damn desireable with half my stuff and my kids are old enough that I'm not on the hook that much longer. Divorced I win. This is the best case scenario. Life tends to throw wrenches at you when you aren't looking, but fair enough. MGTOW types are like dragons over the horde. Do you mean protecting over their things? Things they earned and value. Money isn't a goal its a tool, i…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 05:14 PM
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Aw how cute. Might not be so cute if she decides to use all those side pieces of yours as evidence if she decides to divorce rape you. Then you lose the kids and wealth. But hey, at least you're happy right! For now...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 04:31 PM
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I have an abundance of all these things I've got a career. I've got money. I've got status. I've got respect. I've even got side chicks Do you know why I have it? Because I focus on these instead of getting a wife to leech all of it off me. People can want different things rejecting the status quo and still be happy. It's all about their individual priorities.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 03:53 PM
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Thank you for saying this. Fathers parent in different ways, just because he isn't babying them their whole lives doesn't mean he isn't contributing in different ways. I don't want to trigger the feminists but there's many skills a father teaches that a woman never could.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 03:45 PM
2

It is if you don't like playing ball and would rather do something else
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 03:38 PM
5

I mean I get it but is it that hard to treat men like human beings?
/r/MGTOW02/08/19 02:00 PM
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Women hate doing literally anything, they call being a empathic human an "Emotional burden". they say that "Men need to chase because they are the man". they say "Men need to set the direction because they are supposed to be the leader". They say men need to pay the majority because they are supposed to be the " provider" The whole "I take away reason and accountability" joke is so popular because it's true more often than not. If you put any accountability or expectation on a woman, she'll eith…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 12:21 AM
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Do I even bother mentioning that Men don't only care about sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 03:43 PM
2

The agreement to maintain the relationship, from a female perspective, is like a promise a junkie makes to stop using. It is made in good faith, but her biology isn't capable of supporting her word. This is well expressed. I can't tell you how many times a woman told me "I love you" and I knew at heart it wasn't enough for anything sustainable because of her very nature. I've literally been with women who cheated or monkey branched straight to me and they expected some form of commitment like I'…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 02:30 PM
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What the hell is wrong with you people of course Men love their kids. This is ridiculous
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 02:21 PM
5

This is a disgusting assumption. I can't believe the Mods allow this
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 02:16 PM
1

What is a AFC?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 06:47 AM
1

well supercalifragilisticexpialidocious
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 03:58 AM
1

News Flash, it's not all about looks. This is a very small list anyways I'd wager you arent showing your face on youtube though :)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 02:35 AM
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Not giving a fuck is fine, being an asshole to others only creates enemies in your environment. Having people be indifferent to you doesn't mean much, but having people hate you is dangerous. I've seen people killed over very petty things
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 01:51 AM
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Its not really that fun to pretend to be a dick all the time if you actually have a soul
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 12:39 AM
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I'll share some particular women I'd marry, but no one is "Perfect" that is a myth Prepper Princess https://www.youtube.com/user/amberstorck Tulsi Gabbard https://www.youtube.com/user/VoteTulsi Ashley Elisa https://www.youtube.com/user/ashkid888 Anna Akana https://www.youtube.com/user/AnnaAkana (Maybe on this one haha) Christine Riccio https://www.youtube.com/user/polandbananasBOOKS Katie https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCyFUl1BHR7rN6549LGa2e5Q Teal Swan https://www.youtube.com/user/TheSpiritual…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/19 10:06 PM
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I loved that film but never thought it illustrated what sexual dynamics are like that for everyone. Perhaps maybe the ultra rich that live a more hedonistic lifestyle in private. Everyone's relationship has varying degrees of that it's not one size fits all.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/19 09:45 PM
2

I was just thinking the same thing
/r/MGTOW31/07/19 04:54 PM
2

Nope not worth the risk of losing my career
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/19 06:12 AM
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Because you actually got a life instead of dwelling over it
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/19 05:50 AM
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Bingo
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/19 05:07 PM
1

If you met someone you really liked now, would you jump into another LTR just as long if not longer?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/19 04:08 PM
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I really couldn't imagine being with one person for 12 years. How do you cohabitate without wanting to kill each other after a while haha
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/19 04:05 PM
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Yeah i noticed that too. My family actually took in a couple foster kids here and there i think people like that are unsung heroes. And if you think about it it is kind of selfish to bring life into a collapsing world.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/19 03:59 PM
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Ideally that's how you'd want it to be, sex with your best friend and lover is the best kind of sex. Sure beats having it with randos
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/19 03:57 PM
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I've tried casual sex but I personally can't get into it if I have no passion for the person whatsoever. She could be a 10/10 but if I don't connect with her consciously it doesn't work for me. I'm not a no sex before marriage kind of guy but I am a no sex without passion kind of guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/19 03:37 PM
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I definitely pretend to be alot more idealistic and positive in person than what is really going through my head. I feel like people need it sometimes because it's so easy to spiral into constant negativity and pessimism. I think if you sat these other guys down and asked them what is wrong with the world they'd have their own take, but being a positive figure supersedes that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/19 03:31 PM
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What do you think society expects from your gender as a whole? I don't really care about what society wants, society is littered with too many idiots. What is expected from you on a first date? If i like a lady enough to take her out I'd make sure we have a good time for both of our sakes but if she has expectations going in that's going to be a pass from me. What is expected from you in a LTR? Continuing to do all the things that drew us together in the first place. Do you feel your expectation…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/19 03:26 PM
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Don't say "Red Pillers" just say "Some guys" Anyways, some guys don't like being rejected from sex after knowing she's active because they feel like they are getting shit deal. They are wineing and dining her when other guys got her for free. They see relationships purely as sexual transactions.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/19 03:09 PM
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Couldn't you make the same exact argument about women? Where are all these men begging to be saved anyway? I literally have never spoken to anyone on Reddit who matches your description so im going to need statistical evidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/19 02:58 PM
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Here are my new pill ideas Rainbow Pill: You didn't see the benefit in dating the opposite sex because you were gay all this time unbeknownst to you. Green Pill: Promoting adoption and dedicating one's life to loving humanitarian efforts White Pill: All of this is stupid and we should all just have open relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/19 07:52 AM
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Savage lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/19 07:42 AM
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But the difference is that RP does not discourage you from spinning plates and being an asshole. This, this is where you are wrong on a fundamental level. The Red Pill is simply THE TRUTH about the commonalities in the sexual and relationship marketplace. All that guidebook stuff isn't what the red pill is, it's their reaction to the information gathered. Some people react to the red pill with a response of being an ass, some respond by going their own way, some respond by still being a good guy…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/19 11:06 PM
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It’s funny that you say you disagree I'm not saying I disagree, her thesis is just incorrect. I think what you two are getting to is "Why would a red pilled woman self sacrifice for the male imperative?" First, I want to clarify something again. There is a difference between "Being red pilled" and using a "Red Pilled strategy in dating". Just because a man might be aware of common parasitic natures in women, that doesn't mean he is going to spin plates and be an asshole. Red Pilled Women are sim…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/19 10:11 PM
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Red Pills are hideous truths about society. TRP in dating within itself is the hideous truth about the true female/male sexual nature. People who frequent TRP sub promote a strategy in gaming women without losing much. But it isn't because they are trying to get over women it's a defense mechanism in not letting them hurt you emotionally and financially as they often do. You're right in that it serves the male imperative but that's because the female imperative is offensively leeching off men, T…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/19 08:00 PM
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Oh no, RPW actually care about contributing to the happiness of the men they love! We can't have this cause men will go for the relationships with actual affection and intimacy over our pay for pussy, trick method. STOP THESE RED PILL WOMEN WHO WANT FUNCTIONAL RELATIONSHIPS! REEEEE
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/19 07:34 PM
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The fact that you see nothing wrong with this really speaks to how fucked up dating is at the moment. No longer is it about creating a life with someone you love but the resources you can extract from him. You'd probably have a lot more to relate with someone you grew up with, but you wouldn't know that since all you want is the money and status.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/19 07:28 PM
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I literally saved a girl's life once and the next week she gave me hundred shit tests at once, just dumb things like "I bet you can't pick me up?" And "You don't seem dominant since you aren't into cars and sports?" This all would be fine I guess if we didn't know each other but literally the week prior to this picked her up and walked her up two flights of stairs to the parking lot and took her to the hospital. I also played football and baseball when we were in high school so these shit tests …
/r/MGTOW28/07/19 07:00 PM
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I've accepted it long ago, but I wonder what's really going through their heads where they can't comprehend contributing equally to someone they supposedly love, like, and care about. They seem aware enough in knowing they don't want to, but somehow they still expect us to want to be with them. Why would we want to do that? And why do they think that we should want to in the first place? It all seems so nonsensical to me.
/r/MGTOW26/07/19 10:09 PM
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I dont think women like this intends to kill anyone, they dont care about men that die out.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 12:30 AM
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Well this is going to be interesting.... *sips drink
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 11:28 PM
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That's so retarded
/r/MGTOW24/07/19 06:22 PM
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MGTOW doesn't have to recruit, we simply just sit and watch more men arrive
/r/MGTOW24/07/19 05:58 PM
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My strategy is expecting them to inevitably cheat and planning accordingly
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 08:59 PM
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I think I might move to London once I have things figured out. Not sure if London women like American dudes though haha
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/19 11:23 PM
1

They are attracted for however long you provide for them, the minute you dont you'll be disposed of.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/19 07:17 PM
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Do you guys have to turn everything into oppression olympics? I mean would it kill you to just admit we have our shit to deal with too? Women who are engaged in making a relationship work absolutely have their shit to deal with. I was only mentioning that we take on the burdens you mentioned as well and it wasn't exclusive to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/19 02:37 AM
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Men have to deal with these issues (with the exception of pregnancy and the changes it makes to your body.) AND All the issues you mentioned men have. Simple breakdown But Women’s burdens IMO are trusting him not to ghost after sex, Men deal with women ghosting them all the time. I've been on dates and nights out with women that we're fun in the moment but afterwards I never hear from her. For all kinds of reasons. Being ghosted, whether before or after sex never feels good for people who became…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/19 02:10 AM
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But Women’s burdens IMO are trusting him not to ghost after sex, being on a biological time table and having non committal men waste your time by lying to you, having to be attractive and stay attractive indefinitely, emotional maintenance without reciprocation or appreciation All these things men have to deal with too though. And often.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/19 01:26 AM
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But would you be there for your man if these situations happened to him?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/19 07:06 PM
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Yea someone else mentioned it my mistake
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 07:09 PM
1

Its not 1% bro these chicks are getting ran through like crazy lately. I dont want to think of all the nut busted on her face while I'm kissing it thats nasty.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 07:01 PM
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Yeah youre right I changed it haha
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 06:57 PM
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My grandparents were together for 10 years before marriage and their parents were together for a little less than that and both couples died loving each other. My dad only waited 3 years on one of his marriages and by the 2nd year of it she did a complete 180 on all of us. From the sounds of things youre most likely older than me so it must be due to your generation, but in mine people give up or flip within a moments notice. The bonds just aren't as strong. I think id need at least 3 years befo…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 06:43 PM
1

Jesus, you were only together for 3 years when you got married and it actually worked...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 06:31 PM
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Honestly, as a libertarian centrist I feel this 100%
/r/MGTOW18/07/19 02:26 AM
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Touché. Although I would add for guys it's more about being fed women are equal but also fed that youre expected to take care of them. I think all the expectations for both genders are stupid anyway people should/will do what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/19 10:34 PM
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Is it really that hard to make your own money AND have some class and decency?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/19 10:22 PM
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I love history actually, I just think you need to be careful with what youre incinuating. So that people dont get the wrong idea
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/19 03:07 PM
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I dont think it's inherently natural to come out of the womb with the desire of raping women and conquering villages. Masculinity can aid in leading men towards this in life but war is much more complicated than that. Masculinity is derived from willpower, not direct violence.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/19 03:03 PM
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Dude, I get where you're going with the whole "Women dont want real equality" bit but what the fuck dude There is something inside men that just wants to be violent and it tells us to be violent to weak men. If there's something inside you screaming to be violent to others you need to get some psychological help. Men feel competitive through masculinity and sometimes thats through physical pursuits but the well adjusted dont just go wailing on each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/19 02:37 PM
1

Username doesn't seem to check out, you have a good amount of common sense
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/19 02:19 PM
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Dropping a whole dump of links with complete non-sequitur arguments doesn't make any sense lady. Married people are generally healthier and happier. People who are happier, healthier, and wealthier tend to get married you mean. There is evidence that marriage literally decreases criminal behavior in men Because he has a family to take care of? This doesn't directly benefit him. Single men are more likely to suffer from mental illness and they're the largest group of homeless people. Yeah because…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/19 02:11 PM
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Why do you think your parents worked out and what is the direct difference between them and newer couples?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/19 09:25 AM

Women can be pleased in bed believe me...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/19 09:20 AM
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My mom straight up told me that men pay women in money, shelter, and gifts for relationships. I told her that itd be way more affordable to just order a prostitute since it's the same thing. She told me the reason why it's illegal is because everyone would devolve to that eventually. I guess I kind of got lucky with my mom's brutal honesty
/r/MGTOW16/07/19 10:11 PM
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Well played hahaha
/r/MGTOW16/07/19 10:09 PM
1

Or just don't date. That one is boring though. Nothing boring about doing anything you want when you want, having a fat wallet, and no one nagging you when you aren't doing a monkey dance for them. I sleep so peacefully at night knowing that no one is cheating on me. It's satisfying
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 09:53 PM
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I agree, I wish I could brainwash myself to completely trust like that. After seeing what I have seen, I can't fool myself anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 09:48 PM
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I'm not comfortable with holding up my end of the bargain when the other person isn't. Existentially uncomfortable. Damn straight If you told me there were 4 apples in front of me and 3 were poisoned, I'd rather starve. If you told me to jump from a plane with a parachute that only works 30% of the time (In parallel to marriage rates) I just wouldn't jump. Cheating isn't the only devil you have to be aware of, and as you said it's impossible to know who will flip on you. One thing I do know from…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 09:30 PM
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Chang Thunderwang lol 😆
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/07/19 04:10 PM
2

I don't understand how most people don't get this. It's common sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/19 05:45 PM
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The worst feeling for a woman is feeling like you are more invested in a man than he is in you. And vice versa, the race to see who cares the least continues
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/19 05:32 PM
3

There's something off about a person that specifically attempts to have sex with as many people as possible...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/19 09:55 PM
1

If you can't beta bux than you gotta Alpha fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/19 06:36 PM
6

Because who has the time to make serious money and deal with relationship drama?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/19 06:32 PM
3

Meh, for every pretty lady there's a dude tired of fucking her
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/19 06:31 PM
2

Yeap, A woman is only as loyal as her options. I've seen some average girls lock down betas early on because they are simply too lazy to doll themselves up all the time and play hot and cold with chads. You can see that they aren't satisfied but are doing it for the benefits he brings her like a place to stay, free rides to and from work, etc Funny thing is, those guys think dudes like me who don't let someone leech off my wealth makes me the "Gay" one despite me even hooking up with their girlf…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 06:13 PM
2

Reread the last part of my comment, it'll never completely crash because there will always be idiots like my cousin who insists on hitting it raw because you can't beat the feeling. He's smaller but just as good looking at me you's think were twins but his dumb ass has 3 kids and now is marrying their baby momma. I see this cycle all the time, a dude gets a whiff of pussy and gets addicted, he turns beta and eventually takes care of her.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 06:07 PM
3

Because it's fucking common sense at this point
/r/askTRP08/07/19 06:07 AM
1

Good grief...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 02:23 AM
2

Would you agree that there are a few woman still worth a relationship but that society seems to ingrain values into young women that aren't appealing to a man that wants a LTR but has the option to be selective? I would agree for the most part. However, I'm not sure if it's society beating "Be a slut not a housewife" into their heads rather their sexuality is progressively being unchained by values that used to limit it. Some women go to the extreme and some to a lesser degree. Without proper st…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/19 10:55 PM
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Honestly you make a point. I got really lucky with my genetics but worked super hard to be a valuable man. For guys like us (Which is more common than most people here realize) investing into women at my age 18-25 just makes no logical sense whatsoever when they run through dudes like crazy. It'd be nice to meet someone who excites me and enjoy their company but it is tough to find ladies that aren't hive brained that think watching the office and eating food are character traits. To be honest w…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/19 07:27 PM
4

Someone before referred to me as black pilled before. Not sure what pill this is but early on it kind of clicked how people get blinded by the honeymoon phase of "love", eventually get bored and unsatisfied of each other, break up and fuck other people. So all those sweet words and promises basically meant nothing. It all seems rather pointless in the grand scheme of things. At least to me. People keep building reasons to justify fucking through different pills with different approaches to it. W…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 01:12 PM
2

Not a perfect anology but I understand what you mean. When a person has the skills and experience employeers seek them out. I get plenty job offers in my email in the industry I work in, but I only "give" my time to companies I want to work with.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/19 06:42 PM
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I think this comment covers it thank you. So while perhaps a woman isnt giving anything in a literal sense, a guy can get quite an affirmation from the encounter that the woman I meant the act of sex literally and that appears to be where the disconnect is. I don't mean to toot my own horn here, but the only times I have sex personally, is when the woman desires me just as much if not more. So I don't look it as something I need to bend over backwards and beg and plead for. But for the guys that…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/19 06:25 PM
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But just because a woman might want it less often over time it doesn't change the fact that it's an act between both parties. What is the difference between "Having sex" with each other, and "Giving sex" to him?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/19 06:17 PM
1

I know what you meant but maybe didn't address that part enough sorry. It is the responsibility of both parties to make sure the other is having a pleasurable time. I was saying that if a guy fucks for only his pleasure, I don't even define that as sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/19 06:08 PM
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This happens very often, its what red pills men. If men made that same analysis (which they do) they'll deem these women as sociopathic and wouldn't want them to be clingy. Unfortunately for these men, they still feel attracted at a biological level. So that's where the "wanting a little bit but not too clingly" derives from.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/19 06:03 PM
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Never heard of a girl on top, I take it? She is still being penetrated just from a different position. If the guy is flaccid and doesn't want to its still not going to happen. But you understand what I mean though Some men are not very good at making sure they are pleasing their partner, as long as they bust a nut. Undoubtedly you are correct, but is it even "sex" at that point. If she doesn't want it and its not pleasurable it sounds like she's on the cusp of being sexually assaulted. But that'…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/19 05:58 PM
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So what do you want? For this guy to treat you as a partner while you fuck other people? I thought you said you didn't want to lose him, don't you value him as a boyfriend?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/19 05:51 PM
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I could argue that, Men provide the sex. We do the penetration and the physical work to make it happen. If the man doesn't want to have sex its not going to happen. There are plenty of women in deadbedrooms too. But as I said before, real sex is an act between two people. We provide it to each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/19 05:49 PM
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Maybe men are genuinely afraid of clinginess, because to red pillers that intimacy is only really there to manipulate his actions. And emotions like that are an addictive drug. It's a strange feeling to have a girl pretend to be clingy and love you then cheat or monkey branch right away, it changes men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/19 05:45 PM
1

I hate that relationships are this game of who cares less. I'm ultra competitive, I win at everything I do. If that's the game it'll push guys like me to not giving a single fuck at all, why would we want to create relationship out of that if we don't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/19 05:40 PM
1

Why do you hate it? Do you not want to be exclusive?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/19 05:37 PM
85

So true, It's odd to say but I actually wish we lived in times where women had class. If the tradeoff would be me being the provider I think itd be a fair trade for an actual life partner but they don't value themselves, others, or sustaining relationships
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/07/19 06:33 PM
7

Who cares what women want
/r/askTRP02/07/19 03:40 PM
1

Being intiatily attracted to women then being turned off after getting to know them is a daily thing for me
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 12:57 PM
1

Isn't it funny how people here love to call out MGTOW but never mention actual subs dedicated to bashing women like r/Nicegirls and r/Whereareallthegoodmen
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 11:45 AM
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"Yeah I looked at the mgtow sub and saw it was just a bunch of men bashing women." You mean pointing out injustices from women, they fuck up by false accusing men, cheating on them, monkey branching, divorce raping, taking their children, etc and the posts that make this clear as to why men make the decision "Why aren't they talking about actually going their way and different purposes and stuff?" Maybe go to the fucking subs for different subject matters you muppet, that isn't what the subject …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 11:26 AM
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Quiet, more like afraid of saying something stupid lol. I feel this
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/19 03:26 AM
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In a world full of disgusting hoes, I'm the pariah for actually thinking sex should mean something. If you casually fuck a lot of people, it means sex with you is not special at all. It's just something easy like tying your shoes or wiping your ass. Just about everyone can do it, so it doesn't mean anything. Dude are we like, the same person?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/19 03:19 AM
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I don't date anymore so I think my number one problem is not giving a fuck about her, whatever she thinks or whatever she does. Unfortunately, that appears as me playing hard to get which makes women more interested, all until they finally realize after me not calling them after months on end I used to be neurotic like you OP, after awhile you'll overthink so much you'll eventually not care because you expect them to burn you or fuck you over, so you don't get your hopes up in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/19 12:02 AM
2

I don't think it's online dating, but we as a society keep developing and creating stuff that makes life easier. We basically have everything we could ever want at our fingertips, or have it delivered to us. Now we have to work harder just to have healthy human bodies. I don't want a girlfriend but i also don't feel comfortable being fat. I think a lot of people are that way. Being a fatass makes people insecure and no one wants to be insecure, that's all it is really
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/19 08:28 PM
1

I pity men who are still extremely blue pilled like that. They are in for a rude awakening
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/19 08:19 PM
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Game typically always works for short term Money works for however long you have it Even then, higher degrees of either two can get her to cheat
/r/MGTOW30/06/19 08:12 PM
2

There's many reasons I don't date romantically anymore, her being a slut is simply one of them. But I don't judge them for who they are especially if their honest about it. And I see nothing wrong with being friends with them. No big deal imo
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/19 08:05 PM
2

And you may just not have many friends. You're one lady on Reddit you don't account for the majority. I know women like you who live completely outside of the dark sex world but trust me its a big club, you're just not in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/19 07:56 PM
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I know a lot of ordinary women who appeared to be classy in college but got trains run on them and/or orgies. I really don't think women like to be honest about these things. Most of them are sluts deep down but don't want to appear that way for status reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/19 07:32 PM
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I have a friend named Gabe who is shorter/smaller than me but over compensates everywhere else and one of my girlfriends cheated on me with him still. He just got super fit, worked on his game and got a nice hair cut. I think its all a matter of working with what you got.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/19 07:28 PM
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I got traumatized by too many women at too young of an age, i was fed up at 17 and have been gmow since. I even went to prom alone even though 3 girls asked me. The first 2 years made sense, i had options but knew why i was single. 3-4 years i felt that isolated feeling a little, went on a few dates, they were all either thots or sjws or crazy so it was a constant reminder After 4 years i really just don't care anymore, i only hang out with women if they happen to be in the group I'm with. If yo…
/r/MGTOW30/06/19 02:36 AM
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I wonder how many girls her age stop taking birth control for this very purpose
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/06/19 01:52 AM
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I 100% percent agree with you OP and appreciate another single guy that is rational in his way of thinking like this. Instead of doing the MGTOW circle jerk, I'm going to lay out my thoughts as to why I think we think differently than the cult of couples that reside here. First, this all starts at early childhood. Something I've noticed about the people who still try is that they usually come from a stable household of secure attachment and wealth. They see what their parents have and receive lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/19 07:51 PM
1

As a "Tyrone" these are the white girls I avoid like the plague
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/06/19 01:37 PM
1

You really shouldn't live together in the first place
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/19 08:26 PM
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I don't know how many times i have to say this but MEN START OUT BLUE PILLED. Women red pill men. No guy dates a girl and expects her to monkey branch to a new guy, we don't expect them to cheat, we don't expect them to shit test and play games. Women do this all the time. I don't care you think women are wonderful, they are not. Sometimes they can be, but subconsciously they are still women. The feminine imperative is attracting/attraction every lady acts like they are nicest catch in the world…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/19 07:38 PM
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people who are pretentious enough to think the way they are is the only legitimate and right way He never espoused his beliefs on others he just disagrees with the "Fun" in playing mind games. Hence the "I" s in his comment. You can disagree with him but it's a little early to name call. Why not try convincing him instead of bashing, that's how a discussion works. I swear if a guy called lady retarded on here he'd of been banned on the spot
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/19 09:12 AM
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"Oh no, someone who thinks different than I do, quick let's shame him!"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/19 08:58 AM
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I think it was the simple fact that in relationships you aren't teammates in life. I thought everything would be mutual, I carry where she can't and she carries where I can't. But it's not like that at all, you have to play games to keep her excited, you're expected to carry everything and she leaves the minute someone more convenient comes along. She's never yours, its only your turn
/r/askTRP25/06/19 08:42 AM
1

I find it funny how people pretend to be loyal and committed to one person but once the going gets tough they go and fuck other people anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/19 01:03 AM
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Dating is all around easy if you actually like the person, if it feels like lobour than its only going to get worse down the line.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/19 08:42 PM
1

I'm gonna go with the popular advice women give to pretty much every issue guys have with them. Marry the right person. Don't marry someone who is with you because you're hot or have money but because the connection is so strong the both of you couldn't imagine being apart. That way, when you're older you'll become so comfortable there would be no reason for any of you to cheat because you value the relationship you already have.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/19 08:35 PM
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Her story does make sense for sure. Occams razor and all. But if you have the type of relationship where she explains things to you but you're not sure to believe her or not, you're in for a toxic ride my dude.
/r/askTRP22/06/19 07:07 PM
1

Aye if you're buying! Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/19 12:20 AM
2

Appreciate it man
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/19 09:41 PM
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That was my first thought when i started dating "I'm just choosing the wrong ones" so i went with the safest and secure connections i could find. I really hate to make women seem monolithic but the definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results. The results ended the same no matter what type of girl she was. At the end of the day, id rather be friends with a lady than have any expectations of her. I've been doing that for around 5 years and I've neve…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/19 09:21 PM
1

There was this moment in my life that I just snapped. The moment that broke me was when a girlfriend of mine wouldn't go to court to tell the judge the truth on my whereabouts on the day of an alleged crime. It shouldn't have been a big deal because I had multiple witnesses. But I took her out to lunch when this all happened. She acted like she was concerned a little but just didn't care enough to help. We had been friends for 3 years before this and she was the closest person I've ever had in m…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/19 09:09 PM
2

Being nice isn't particularly a sexy trait in which elicits a response of being turned on. But being nice is a fundamental skill for creating interpersonal skills and survival. It's necessary to be nice, but being nice isn't what will get you laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/19 08:08 PM
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I wouldn't date either if she was a bitch. And occupation doesn't have much to do with compatibility. Assuming the CEO would have personality traits and interests similar to most in her field I would likely have much more to connect with intellectually. Other than that its not exactly enough info
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/19 11:45 PM
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I can tell you that as an "Alpha" (I never refer myself as one in person because its kinda cringe to me) I value hooking up way less than guys who are late bloomers and never got the chance to do it as much. It's one reason I don't call myself a PUA or a red pilled because after you hookup with people you eventually realize how pointless it all is. I'm not even sure why people even feel so validated from hooking up if so many people give it up easily after a drink or two. The only hooking up tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/19 10:20 AM
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Well stated
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/19 05:50 PM
4

Why not cut the shit and just pay a whore? Fucking this If women see it as I have to compete for little crumbs of her affection than I'd either get it over with by paying upfront for a hookup or not see her at all. Why should I even want to take out a girl with a selfish psyche like that?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/19 05:35 PM
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No, He's saying that learning women aren't so wonderful afterall deincentivizes him to actually put up with them to chase in the first place. The magic is gone
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/19 06:57 PM
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When people are asking this question, they aren't really asking "Can a man and woman just be friends?" They are really asking "Can a man and woman continually get close without becoming intimate?" If the friendship held a high propinquity and the two were sexuality compatible there's definetly a lower chance they won't hook up at some point.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/19 06:49 PM
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I don't agree BP has not been burned, in many circumstances they have. More divorced Men than Women go on to remarry, and they generally do it faster. You say this as if the people who keep trying (and failing) are making this decision logically. Many people are addicted steady sex or are too afraid of being alone are willing to delude themselves and rationalize why they should be in a relationship. The difference is when you get burned you learn to let it go The definition of insanity is repeat…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/19 06:38 PM
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Sounds like not many people here have dealt with even your most trusted confidantes turning on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/19 04:20 PM
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I've always had a deeper satisfaction in being right when people turn out to be untrustworthy rather than actually trusting them. When people fuck me over I get a sense of relief knowing their true intentions, rather than being naive.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/19 04:13 PM
2

It's easy to laugh at the injustices you're not subject to This
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/19 01:45 AM
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TIL Atlas is a cheesesteak loving Philly crack head like me
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/19 09:39 PM
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If she has a high n-count there's a higher chance that she'll Monkey branch to another dick, cheat, have an STD/STI, running into past guys she's fucked and dealing with those awkward moments, family and friends will consider this dishonorable for both of us, Desensitized to the bonding of sex etc. Not to mention the fact that I'm spending money and time for dates when she practically would give it up for free for anyone else. Cost to benefit wise its just not efficient. Here's the honest truth …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/19 07:22 PM
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I don't assume exclusivity but if i know you're fucking other dudes I will put you in the mental category of women reserved for sluts, thots, and quick fucks as opposed to girlfriend material.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/19 09:56 PM
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For the second time, there is nothing wrong with getting things done. That isnt what I said or even what I was referring to in my original comment. You thought I was speaking about men being complacent through depression but I was referring to her saying saying that men should get over the fact that women expect more than they're willing to give and we are not equals. Anyways, again, theyre plenty of successful high functioning depressed people. And I agree that people should always work towards…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/19 06:14 PM
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Heh my bad I probably would have gotten more if you put it in quotations, or if I actually heard the sarcasm in your voice. Its tough for me to pick up in texts. And granted, there are a lot of people here who would seriously comment Like if all MGTOW are actually losers So I'm quick to defend. Again my B
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/19 05:50 PM
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Oh nothing, you can be a very high functioning depressive. But just because you take action doesn't mean you'll feel chipper doing it. It's pretty tough to entertain when you feel low all the time on a deep biological and existential level.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/19 05:47 PM
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You said Like if MGTOW men are actually losers I didn't take that as a disagreement, but sorry if I misunderstood
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/19 05:44 PM
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We stay with relative unemployed "Losers" all the time. The status and wealth never mattered to us, we just wanted the friend, companionship, and sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/19 05:07 PM

How can you lose at relationships you choose not to play? I'm sure that yes there are single men who are single because they are a "loser" but there are plenty of successful bachelor's who simply choose not to go with LTR's or marriages, its one of the reasons they can be successful in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/19 05:02 PM
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This type of thing happens to many if not most men. Can you really blame them for adapting to how they've been treated?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/19 12:41 AM
7

So like "You're right, but get over it." 🤗
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/19 12:35 AM
3

My housecarl Lydia is smoking hot and sworn to protect my life, I'm good
/r/MGTOW26/05/19 02:01 PM
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So I have a 7.5 not so huge to me but most of the pleasure I've been able to give was through fingering and clit play if you master that you're golden
/r/askTRP25/05/19 03:10 AM
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I don't think its immoral to be intially attracted to things like looks, status, wealth or whatever. That's not superficial. I think loving someone based solely on those factors is the problem. Simple as that. Edit: what if your son lost his job, you'd still love him right? What if your aunt stopped wearing makeup, you'd still love her. Both reasons being that who they are and what they mean to you outweigh that. You love the person. That's where the foundation of these relationships should be, …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/19 12:08 AM
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I know the feel, tough to get over it. Sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/19 08:49 PM
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It’s kind of sad that how meaningful sex is for you is more dependent on her history with other men, than your history with her. If she tells you "it's all YOURS baby" "I'm YOUR little slut" "I love YOU" but you consciously know she has said the same things to dozens of other dudes, would it not carry less weight?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/19 08:48 PM
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My mistake then, its just that I personally see "Pumping and dumping" as an asshole trait, and with the comment before yours it was associated that way. When you were saying you got emotionally pumped and dumped I thought that's what you meant, when to me it seemed like the emotions just fizzled out. My bad
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/19 08:44 PM
1

This is what I don't understand, why is this romance breaking down? What is happening to us to make us like this?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/19 08:41 PM
1

Are you entitled to him continuing to like you though? Maybe you misinterpreted how he felt, maybe his feelings changed. I don't see why this makes him a bad person for simply not wanting to continue to date you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/19 08:36 PM
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the rise of men who need sex to be special is weird to me Maybe men aren't unemotional sociopaths? it's maddening to hearing men(on this sub) say they don't want to hit the gym and develop a more normal personality Who ever said this ever? because they want be loved for who they are instead a "fake" them .......that logic is retarded What is wrong with wanted to be loved for your personality? Instead of superficial things like money, and status. Those things can be attractive sure, but having so…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/19 08:29 PM
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Meaningful sex = Intimate sex that includes passion and a myriad of bonding emotions This doesn't seem that hard to understand, is she just laying there star fishing and looking away? Or is she engaging, looking you in the eyes, telling you how much she loves it/you. Not all sex has to be this way, but can you really blame us for preferring the latter? Also, some men might find sex with women of high N count less meaningful because if he knows that she fucks plenty of dudes her emotions and or s…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/19 08:12 PM
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I mean it's a pretty common thing in the red pill community for some reason. I just don't see what the big deal is with having a flower or a name on her skin. Is there any particular reason why you don't like it or is it just because? What if she had a scar or something, would that turn you off too? Genuinely curious
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/19 02:44 PM
7

This is something I still don't get about the manosphere, what is so wrong about tattoos?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/19 02:36 PM
2

I don't mean soul in some religious way. It's the basic controller of our bodies. When your family member dies, you won't miss their physical body or brain, you'll miss who they were and what they meant to you. It's what makes our personalities, interests, and desires. Soul is the only term I know for this.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/19 02:32 PM
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I never said that beauty is what you are. I don't know if you're arguing against me so I won't give the full schtick or get all "Woo woo" on you. But loving a person for their soul is what I mean in this context. Soul being the controller of our vessels, what makes us who we are and what we do in first place. If you want to be an artist, or CEO, or marine biologist that's great, but it's why you want to do it is important. There are many women who are in certain positions in life and don't even …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/19 02:22 PM
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Well you should either get your eyes checked or learn how to fucking read then. To put it simply, its loving the character not the status and belongings of them. Accolades and achievements are great, not saying that women should orient their life around obtaining them, but being a quality loyal person is what makes us want to stay. You could've graduated from MIT, earned a million followers on instagram, or have a billion dollars, but non of that matters, especially if you're a bitch.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/19 02:05 PM
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First of all this isn't a CMV, so this comment isn't an argument against OP, its merely a comment of my thoughts on the subject. The common argument is that those qualities matter in a female companion to men, but it doesn't make it a more noble or genuine love. I didn't argue that loving people for their status, travel experience, or materialistic possessions were inherently bad behaviors, or that loving a man for these value garners a love less strong than a mans love for her. I pointed out th…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/19 01:57 PM
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I can't speak for ALL men but myself and most men love a woman for who she is. Doesn't matter if she's successful Doesn't matter if she's seen the world Doesn't matter if she's instafamous Give us a woman who is nice, we can build a good friendship with, and has a sex drive and we're good. The fact that status, and all these experiences come into question for women is one of the reasons men go MGTOW. I'm successful but I know there are other men are more successful than me, if these are the reas…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/19 04:27 AM
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This is so fucking nuts dude, I give up with this shit.
/r/MGTOW21/05/19 09:59 PM
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Wow i got smack dab in middle, 80% avoidant. Definetly describes me as a MGTOW, I'd rather just be alone to expect anything of a partner or have one expect too much of me. I don't feel necessarily broken though
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/19 01:30 AM
1

If I do harder drugs I socialize very little to avoid looking stupid. Being sloppy in unattractive on me
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/19 11:47 PM
1

Literally this was my exact reaction when I heard about the sex strike
/r/MGTOW14/05/19 07:12 PM
1

Doesn't sound very familial to me
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/19 12:02 AM
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No I get why it works. But one thing I dont get about the married people here is if you have to hold "Frame" for it to flourish, if you have to live apart for her to stay attracted, if you have to refrain from being friendly to make it less boring, and if women's contentment is guaranteed to nosedive much faster then men, if men are biologically made to spread genes to multiple women, why even try in the first place? Even if you want to scratch that itch why not just be friends that fuck occasio…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/19 04:21 PM
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Just because you're a conservative woman it doesn't mean you aren't capable of waking up one day and doing all the horrible shit that most women do. AWALT is treating every woman like a loaded gun, even when it doesn't appear that way, you don't point it at your self.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/19 11:21 AM
0

Maybe this is my possessive neurotic man speaking but I'm really getting the feeling women want this so they can cheat easier
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/19 11:15 AM
1

NOOOOOOO, you won't take me alive! *cuts off penis
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/19 02:41 AM
3

With all do respect, fuck that
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/19 01:48 AM
6

Brutal but true, give in or go your own way. At least we have a choice
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/19 01:21 AM
1

Well I don't think you're a loser, looked at your post history and saw that you play SWTOR. Sounds like you at least have good taste. Off topic but do you still play? I've been meaning to get into it but I'm not sure if it's still the good MMO for noobs
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/19 06:53 PM
2

Yep, marriage is a raw deal so for any man still looking to roll the dice the vetting time is most important. My grandparents knew each other for 30 years before getting married. If I am somehow swayed enough by a lady I think I'll need at least half that time. Doubt it'll ever happen though haha
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/19 06:41 PM
1

Well for myself and many other guys at first you start out blue pilled. You want to be someone's hero or knight in shining armor so the first person that seems even somewhat compatible to that and your attracted to, you become really possessive and attached. A lot of guys find the first remotely compatible person and go all or nothing on that, its usually the women with all the options at her fingertips. After a few heartbreaks the strategy definetly changes. What sucks is that women for the mos…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/19 04:15 PM
2

I have more than one because I'm a moderator for a few sub's on my main, and my main is my full name (which was stupid of me admittingly) didn't want to make this side of me public. You're probably not a loser though, I pretty much got to where I am out of happy accidents and boredom. I never even worked out to get fit I just did sports that interests me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/19 03:59 PM
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This is just one Alt reddit account I have. I run a business, market my two novels that I wrote, run a web forum of my own, write screenplays, play piano, rec basketball, use my batting and rowing machine drink with friends and sometimes I still do flirt when I'm bored enough. It doesn't make a difference to me whether you believe it or not. But you asked a question and I answered it
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/19 03:54 PM
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Then remind me again what you're doing on this board. This is a valid question. I often wonder why so many people who are married and are in relationships are here too. Why would they even worry about dating. Anyways to answer it, I think this board fills the void of the absence of a relationship for me. I'm definetly not looking to date, because after learning how it works it seemed rather pointless to me. But I enjoy seeing other people's perspectives even though many people here seem somewhat…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/19 03:13 PM
1

Well duhh but this isn't the only reason
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/19 02:30 PM
3

I hate to call myself a Chad but as someone who attracting women came effortlessly to, I don't think it's something you can control. A lot of times I've been with women who at face value, appeared to be good choices. Whether they were pretty, had a good career going for them, had lots of friends or anything like that. But when you have options, you start to notice the nuances and red flags more. You're always looking for the deepest, best connection you can find and its tough to decern who the b…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/19 02:02 PM
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I matched with 1.1K so I hear you. But the problem for us is that every girl is pretty much the same, no personality, expects you to entertain her with nothing in return. And the ones with the slightest bit of edge has so many cocks thrown at her its not even worth getting your hopes up. Then there are the crazies who look exactly like the sane ones so you can't tell until the red flags pop up. Most of them don't even have an intention to meet up they just swipe for validation and ego. Even thou…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/19 01:48 AM
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I wouldnt go that far, but 100% agree on the porn addiction. Thanks to the internet, alot of guys prefer becoming incels (not to say they're 100% at fault for the addiction). Saying guys don't date BECAUSE of porn would be like saying guys don't eat out at restaurants because of food videos on the internet. Masturbation is no where as stimulating as sex. That's why incels whine in the first place, if porn was good enough no man anywhere would jump through hoops to bed a woman. Get a grip.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/19 03:41 PM
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To put it in stupid terms. If I can choose between five cookies while ones poisoned, and you can choose between 2 cookies, while ones poisoned, we both have every right to complain about foregoing eating any cookies because we're waiting to figure out which one is poisoned. It's not suddenly playing the victim because I got more cookies to chose from. We both got bad cookies, we both can be hesitant, and we both can complain. Hey that's a pretty good way to put it. Humans suck all around 🙃
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/19 03:30 PM
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No I don't think for certain that she won't be, I just know there's a higher chance she won't be. Hedging risks and all. Also I don't think any women are inherently "loyal" to their man, only their kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/19 07:23 PM
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If she was overly sexual I would be more worried leaving her alone if I had a work trip or was deployed. I'd probably trust her less
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/19 06:53 PM
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Or maybe, I dunno, guys get attached to the girl he has sex with?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/19 05:34 PM
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I think engagement is a huge part of why I'm this way. If she isn't engaged, it feels like I'm just putting my penis into sex doll. Emotional engagement is the ideal. Admittingly, some girls are sluts that love sex so much that they can seem just as engaged as a lover does, but sluts turn me off because I cant stop thinking about the fact that they've done this with many other people and all the sweet words they say are basically lies. Although I am much more neurotic than the average man. I kno…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/19 05:31 PM
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I'm one of those weird guys that need emotional connection to have sex. Meaningless sex just feels so pointless and alien to me. I need to have passion for my partner in order for it to be enjoyable. I need to be able to look them in the eye and understand that its a special moment between the two of us. That they care about this as much as I do. I see no point in being intimate if there is no emotion at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/19 04:59 PM
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In my experience women only offer to pay for the cheapest things, the wallet seems to disappear when the tab is over 30$ Actually, 2 weeks ago I went on a date to a place she wanted to go to so badly. I had no idea it was so expensive. When the check came she just kind of awkwardly looked at me so I assumed she expected me to pick up the 150$ tab I had no clue that was coming for me. She ordered all the drinks while all I got was water. But after we head inside a Starbucks to grab a coffee and a…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/19 04:51 PM
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You sound a little bitter here. This is a huge exaggeration and definetly not true at all (in the western world). Bitter about what exactly? It was a point to express how men have self control over sexual urges. (Albeit an extreme one in your defense) But it doesn't matter to me who has sex and who doesn't, it's THEIR CHOICE. I am not sure if following a list of steps will guarantee you sex I'm not talking about a literal list of steps, I never said that either. I'm talking about the sequence of…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/19 06:38 AM
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If men don't have self control, why aren't all men mindlessly ripping the pants off women in the streets 24/7 and raping them? We don't always act on or instincts. I didn't say Men don't want to have sex, I said out of the 30% that arent, those men choose not to take the steps in order to have sex with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/19 06:23 AM
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I doubt that most men chooce to never have sex. This wasn't the statement I made.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/19 06:10 AM
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How are they delusional exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/19 05:57 AM
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Obviously you haven't seen your fair share of hideous couples, but you're free to think what you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/19 05:49 AM
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I usually don't respond to many people on PPD because they find sport in shaming men who aren't having sex but this time I'll bite. Firstly, not everyone is a sex fiend. Yes we find a primordial drive within us to have sex, but not everyone in a slave to their drives. Its self control. I'm sure that Men who are in relationships find other women attractive yes? But they choose not to sex with with them. Some people choose not to act on those drive during certain periods of their lives. It doesn't…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/19 05:08 AM
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In his defense, for a lot of people its by choice. Why does everyone NEED to be having sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/19 03:50 AM
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Pussy is boring as hell too once you get enough of it
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/19 11:58 PM
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Go on YouTube and look up, Dating and Dating culture videos. Scroll down to the comments and just take a look at what men have to say about the culture. You'll see why they are checking out.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/19 03:46 PM
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I feel the same way, despite saying I'm done with dating. Why do men feel this way?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/19 02:35 PM
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Hey appreciate this big time
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/19 04:46 PM
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A mom takes care of her baby when its sick, by definition you're babying him
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/19 09:32 PM
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By all means take the SIMPs, I sure do hope we don't get any "Where have all the good men gone?" In the future...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/19 09:04 PM
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Wrong at Man: *kills self Society: 😯 More like Man: *kills self Society: 😴
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/19 08:12 PM
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What emotional labor are women even tired of? Yes men go through things but we are the ones who logically think through our problems. If anything, when a man is upset he needs time alone to think, it's basically common sense at this point. So where is this all this labor coming from? Aren't women the ones always saying they need us to listen to their problems? I don't understand
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/19 07:50 PM
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I don't think men see it as expection, its a common human indulgence that most people enjoy. It's not like women dont like sex too, so when your partner doesn't want to takes part anymore its easy to feeling like something must be wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/19 07:46 PM
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You know I talk to many women, maybe it's more of a young 18-26 thing but this sentiment is very common. He did also say not all women
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/19 07:42 PM
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If they don't want to do anything I don't think they are looking for relationship. Maybe a sugar daddy, fuck buddy, or something else but those women aren't looking for partners
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/19 06:18 PM
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This is too real man
/r/MGTOW04/05/19 03:09 PM
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most girls dont get into those relationships knowing they'll be treated like crap. The bad boy (or bad girl) starts off fun and nice AND THEN they become manipulative psychotic jerks. Lilith, this is the same thing good men do, they like girls who appear to be nice and have a little edge to them and fall into the same trap. Think about this before you make another comment telling us to "Just pick better women"
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/19 04:33 AM
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I don't think some of these women even know the difference between masculine and feminine
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/19 04:58 AM
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I don't even know what a Tradcon is, maybe that's a good thing
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/19 07:52 PM
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Who ever said this ever????
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/19 04:29 PM
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This reminds me of that Scooby doo movie when the gang switched bodies and Fred (in Daphne's body) goes "Hey I'm a girl... I get to look at myself nakeeed." Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/19 02:13 PM
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Oh no, I get aggressively forward women all the time. But usually they are the ones who send up red flags, dated way too many crazy chicks to take unnecessary risks
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/19 10:03 PM
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There are many reasons some guys won't want to date you They very well could be insecure (which is fine) Some guys find thots gross Some guys will feel that its dishonorable that he's dating a former whore (other people will talk behind his back) You're more likely to cheat than low n-count women Cost to benefit wise, he's better off just paying you straight up for sex instead of jumping through hoops to make you want to have sex with him, its cheaper too There are also reasons that guys would w…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/19 07:11 PM
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Yeap almost wrote a long comment about it but you made it short and sweet
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/19 06:53 PM
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Obviously. What does this have to do with Red or Blue pill though?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/19 06:51 PM
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I accept that overwhelming options are overwhelming, but given the choice, I’d rather pick from a flood as a opposed to a trickle. Fair point
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/19 06:50 PM
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What people seem to forget is that attractive guys do very well on tinder too. Before I deleted it I had hundreds nearly thousands of matches, so the playing field is still even. Plus just because you have matches it doesn't mean that you'll find a relationship with those you matched with, its just a counter for people who find you attractive. You have no idea the intentions of matches until you speak to them, just like in person.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/19 02:12 PM
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As a good looking young guy this can really be a problem, because woman want you for sex This, I was falling in love with this girl. After years of friendship she one day asks "Do you think we could fuck and keep it just sex without a relationship or anything?" I just remember my brain taking a few seconds more to process it. I'm attractive enough for you to have sex with, and we get along enough to hang out but you don't want any form of commitment? Just meaningless sex? What is wrong with me? …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/19 07:58 PM
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Its mostly feminist stuff that promotes women as being equal and strong instead of the reality of passivity and submissivness but I'll give a couple Kim Possible (She was the hero but dated an average boy named Ron) Mr. And Ms. Smith (They were both equals in their relationship, same spy job and she was very assertive rather than submissive) Many Anime's (Usually in romance anime the male protagonist is a dorky dude who just happens to attract busty peppy girls, its a common trope) I may edit in…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/19 04:51 PM
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What part of what I said was flawed? Educate me, or at least quote what I said so I can elaborate.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/19 04:39 PM
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Come on bro use common sense. Most heterosexual women are likely to prefer masculine dudes its not that hard to believe. Doesn't mean they all are but they still want them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/19 04:33 PM
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This is where the older guys get it wrong, just because young people aren't having as much sex as the generations did before us it doesn't mean that we are degenerates and can't be well adjusted. If anything, its saving a lot of people from STDs (Heard of that coachella fiasco recently?) Children born out of wedlock (A lot less orphans and fucked up people in the world) and meaningless sex (Which stunts peoples ability to pair bond anyway) Not saying that porn doesn't have its negatives, I just …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/19 04:21 PM
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I'm not a huge porn guy because oddly enough for me when I watch it I get a even bigger urge to go out and fuck chicks. Its a FOMO feeling for me but everyone is different. Besides the point just thought I'd mention Anyways, what does it matter if people are addicted to it? I mean it doesn't hurt anyone by choosing to have sex with yourself instead of other people. The only difference between a person in a relationship vs someone not in one is that the couples are just addicted to each other. Wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/19 03:59 PM
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Rekt lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/19 03:43 PM
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All very impractical, but honestly men having the options to control their urges and keep themselves preoccupied is a gift.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/19 03:34 PM
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I'm exactly one of the disillusioned guys he's talking about. Grew up thinking that a relationship between a man and woman were completely equal. They can do anything we can so I thought it was half and half. Dated women, realized that as a man you're the one expected to put all the will in the relationship and "Chase" her. You're supposed to make her feel protected and girly. Despite all the female strength that was pushed to us in the media, it didn't translate to relationships. Women want to …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/19 03:10 PM
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You got lucky, the majority of women don't like your type
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/19 02:57 PM
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I wish we weren't sold the lie in the first place, I'd be way less depressed
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/19 01:12 AM
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Um because "seeming creepy" gets men put in jail these days????
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/19 01:00 AM
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One of the greatest annoyances that females can do is judge and femsplain what masculinity is and what you should be doing as a man. When I hear a woman doing this I imagine strangling them to death with my bare hands just to show how masculine I can get. Not that I'd do it though
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/19 11:22 PM
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You can't take a friend and then try to create sexual attraction where it's not already there. Whoever told you this, lied. With the right words and circumstances you defiantly can go from "just friends" to fucking. I hate this friendzone crap.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/19 04:58 PM
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For the first time ever I agree with you Lilith, at least I want to. But women seem to lose sexual attraction when you are being friendly and arent playing this stoic mysterious unemotional character. I think I can be both assertive and friendly in a relationship but many women only want their boyfriend/husband to serve the function as provider and sexual partner and nothing else. I've been on dates where women would give me weird looks and stares for actually trying to have conversations outsid…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/19 04:50 PM
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Came here to reread another comment and just saw this, hell no I'm not gonna dox my red pill/mgtow account. Not sure why I got down voted Edit: Maybe it's cause some of you folks don't believe me? PM me if you really want to see what I look like. 6'2 Tyrone
/r/askTRP23/04/19 01:44 PM
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A million times this. It appears to me that women give up sex to everyone like the world is ending, trade up like their old loves never existed, and find it inconceivable when we don't actually want them. Like my ex cheated on me, and threw a temper tantrum when I broke up with her?? Another ex literally left me, fucked half our college basketball team then got mad when I didn't want to talk to her anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/19 01:39 PM
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OP how did you get your twitter to be AMOLED like this?
/r/MGTOW22/04/19 11:27 PM
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Funny thing is I'm all these traits. I think because I was always successful with them I got to know their true nature way too early on. Many guys take whatever girl they can get and fight tooth and nail to keep her but I realized how little that effort matters. She's never yours its only your turn
/r/askTRP21/04/19 01:00 PM
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If I were to give you an analogy, it would be playing a game and restarting it every time, like a game of league. Make sure you’re the challenger at all times and she’s noob you carry. She can obviously duo with someone else but after getting to know her play style you Guys are able to be in sync. You’re gonna have wins and losses and while you guys both grow you realize what you want and so do they. You see, I get this but when I see it I can't help but to feel like I'm being held back. "Carryi…
/r/askTRP21/04/19 12:46 PM
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As someone who is attractive and dominant and stole women from other attractive dominant men, I don't particularly believe its that simple.
/r/askTRP21/04/19 12:13 PM
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What does she bring to your life?
/r/askTRP21/04/19 12:10 PM
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Smh
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/19 11:38 AM
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Most girls are sluts anyway why pay for it?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/19 07:11 AM
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Congratulations, you're a functioning male human with heterosexual desires. Jokes aside, its natural man. Its not your fault that you born in age where women are self serving hypergamous psychopaths. Either pump and dump or go your own way. The choice is always yours
/r/askTRP20/04/19 03:12 PM
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If you cant tell when a woman has all that on, you need to step outside and talk to women other than your mom. There are many women who make these artificial alterations their identity and refuse to leave the house or take pictures without them. Surely you know this as a woman. If you're all natural than I completely respect that too, but many women aren't. Cool, but most men don't want barbie dolls.If you do, that's fine, but don't act like it's unfair. I didn't act like its unfair, I literally…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/19 02:37 PM
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I'm not sure if I disagree here, but one thing I can't get over is the fact that the barrier to entry for women to be attractive is much lower than a man's. Its not particularly their fault that men are attracted to them easier, but consider the fact that Women have makeup, creams, masks, push up bra's, hair extensions, implants. They are praised for being skinny, they are praised for being thick. They have so many options to artificially enhance themselves. If those options weren't available, t…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/19 10:18 PM
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Incel is a self-describing term that means something specific and it's much more than just "involuntary celibate" Involuntary Celibates are simply people who want to date but can't due to whatever ailment or issue they have. There are incels who are malicious, but every guy who can't land a date isn't some evil dude. If relationship aren't for you, good deal! Move on! There is a bit of a selection bias here. Because you talk in dating spaces you're exoposed to men who voice their opinion on the …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/19 09:50 PM
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You do know you're essentially saying "If you never had sex before you're a piece of shit." And "If you decide relationships aren't for you it means you never had sex." What purpose does this hate serve?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/19 09:33 PM
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This is shauntpetro haha he's a streamer too (sometimes I guess) but he's just trolling probably
/r/MGTOW19/04/19 02:51 PM
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Depends on what you're looking for. If a relationship is your dig then I would really recommend not using tinder for that. You're better off going to a convention or meet up for your interests and rolling the dice there. But if you want to network, and gain exposure to more people in your area, its not bad. You can meet some interesting people who aren't too far away on there. I just wouldnt recommend having high expectations.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/19 05:35 PM
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I got 1000+ matches on tinder with only 1 photo and 1 sentence in my bio. I didn't put my employment status, or do anything overtly Alpha or pretentious. I would call myself an 8, (9 on my dressed up, dehydrated from the gym days) and I think the reason why I'm attractive to women is because I look approachable. Not too hot where I make ordinary people anxious but not so ugly or repulsive that people hate looking at. Being slightly above average is the sweet spot in my opinion. The quality of th…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/19 05:25 PM
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If you don't care about men go ahead and proceed to be a dyke. We don't want you anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/19 09:34 PM
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Are you autistic? women, me as a woman, decide how much we are worth. You can say you're worth a billion dollars but that doesn't mean that a sucker is going to pay up. You decide your worth to yourself, but thots are worth less to men. please, sit down boi. sit yo ass down. Do you think this makes your points any more valid? we dont wanna buy a pig. we only want the wiener. Finally some honesty, surprising coming from a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/19 09:22 PM
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Thank you for reexplaining what should be obvious OP. Of course you're getting blowback from the ladies here because they think they should be able to do anything without repercussions. Our society no longer promotes the classy lady culture so I think we are too far gone.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/19 07:16 PM
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News flash: you don't get to decide women's value to men. The sexual marketplace does, and if every girl is amateur porn star on instagram, thotting away her youth to every guy in the neighborhood, and monkey branching dudes left and right, we tend to value these women less. No reason to buy the cow when it gives free milk to everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/19 06:58 PM
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I don't know what to even ask for at this point. All I wanted was to not be fucked over but not in today's day and age.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/19 11:48 PM
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I don't believe men are hypergamous for these simple reasons 1: Men don't date for the sole reason that a girl is better than him, whether its genetically or financially. Men date a girl because he has a primordial drive to care for someone. 2: Men are the possessive ones. We are the ones who set the stage and invest the most work into relationships, the woman is typically just a benefactor of our success and charm. If men were these horn dog animals we would never work for relationships in the …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/19 05:17 PM
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Huge difference between, "That hoe knows her way around a cock!" And "She's my light, my sun, my angel, I want to be with her forever! I need to marry her!" @ Ladies, choose wisely as to which one YOU want to be
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/19 08:54 PM
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People really shouldnt take rejection so personally, you can be a great person but that doesn't mean that certain relationships are destined to happen. Some things just aren't meant to be
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/19 01:21 PM
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As an American man I can say this is true, but only because people (including many women) easily misinterpret things as gay these days. There was a girl I was hanging out with last weekend and she asked if I was gay because I never talked about sports or cars??? Not only that but another girl asked if I was gay because I was wearing one of those long overcoats so she must have thought I was into fashion or something. Its like everything you do that's not stereotypically masculine you automatical…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/19 08:45 PM
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We don't have to ignore reality just because it hurts someon's feelings. The truth is, many if not most women do play an emotional victim card to get themselves out of trouble.
/r/PussyPassDenied10/04/19 08:02 PM
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I tend to think men not being controlled by sex is a good thing
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/19 01:35 PM
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I know you mean well man but you aren't going to get women to admit their faults, they typically don't do that
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/19 01:31 PM
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Most gay men are born with a higher connection to the divine feminine, so their mind structure is based around attracting and visual aspects.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 10:47 PM
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Finally, someone with some sense
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 07:56 PM
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Yeah both sexes have negative experiences then perpetuate the problem by treating future relationships badly or not trying at all. Its risky to be all in on one person these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 07:56 PM
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The women on this sub seem very out of touch with how most women act in person. They are far more slutty these days, most of them I meet only want a FWB's situation not a relationship. It's the guys that try to lock them down. What world do you guys live in?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 07:53 PM
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Yeah there's nothing wrong with sluts, but don't blame us for not wanting to date them
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 07:50 PM
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Have you noticed the trend in relationships where "The one who cares the least, wins"? This is that setimate in action. Young guys that get many girls don't commit because they've been around women enough to understand their true nature. We understand we are great, but we understand as soon as we aren't good enough or someone better comes along, its over. Young attractive men usually are blackpilled to the point of they know they aren't attractive unless they provide value, but no matter what no…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 07:46 PM
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I'm right with you brother. Way I see it is I hit double digits years ago so I'm in absolutely no rush to chase a girl down and force her off the CC just to put up with her attitude and wreck my wallet in the process. Rather just save up for that new Tesla 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/19 07:55 PM
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Women know deep down what they really want, sometimes they'll even admit it if they can get away with it. But for the most part, they won't tell you because they understand that it'll make them look superficial and demanding. But it's hard to wanna blow a guy that's a loser or emotional, so the way I see it is you have to choose from the beginning. "Is this a girl I want to be friends with?" or "is this a girl I'll potentially fuck?" When you act according to that model there's no loss in expect…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/19 07:42 PM
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Just because testosterone levels on average may be lower that doesn't eliminate men's primordial drive to have sex with a woman. These men aren't completely celibate now, we just don't need sex because there are so many other options now. This is good because women defiantly don't need sex as much as we do naturally, its why they can demand so much in the first place. It evens the playing field. A man not succumbing to the whims of a woman and doing anything he can to bed her is a free man.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/19 07:21 PM
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Wow, you just summed up all my issues in a short paragraph as a young dude. I still have sex, but the magic of romance left years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/19 07:10 PM
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Thus sub isn't for someone looking for a long term relationship, this sub is filled with people who observes female nature for what it is and play the game with as little risk and most reward as possible.
/r/askTRP07/04/19 07:53 AM
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Depends on how desperate you are. I personally wanted to back off on the drama inducing antics. If you don't care about him and you wouldn't mind her turning around and doing that to you then why not? As long as fucking her is that much of a benefit to you.
/r/askTRP06/04/19 04:57 PM
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We get bored of the good shit we already have and complain about the shit we dont. So we feel a compulsion to make life more comfortable, thus creating stuff like houses, cars, organized civilization etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/19 07:43 AM
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This happened, haven't you had fights as a kid? I grew up in a poor area so maybe that's why
/r/MGTOW03/04/19 02:41 AM
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Men are stupid that's why, for whatever reason we still love you guys despite women detesting the majority of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/19 08:14 PM
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This
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/19 07:58 PM
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I completely agree with you OP. The old way is just too impractical, but people who want to preserve this institution are blinded by love. Just read some of the comments here they are either in a fantasy or want protect their own self interest of the almost guaranteed payday they'll get in the end. People aren't rational usually, they form their beliefs based on what they want, and the facts and clauses that support that. I know you mean well, but people don't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/19 07:41 PM
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The first defended my honor was to express that I fought back The second defended my honor was to express that I still finished school that day. I typed this in a one off, relax dude.
/r/MGTOW02/04/19 04:30 PM
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What doesn't kill you makes you stronger
/r/MGTOW02/04/19 02:19 PM
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Calvin is in prison now, I have no clue what happened to gabby though can't find her anywhere.
/r/MGTOW02/04/19 02:03 PM
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Too bad I didn't learn then, I had to get it beat into my head that girls aren't princesses for years after. I thought I'd share thus one though
/r/MGTOW02/04/19 05:46 AM
1

It's a good thing I'm so numb to emotions I feel nothing anymore. It would be so depressing to actually hold "frame" 24/7.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/19 05:33 PM
2

Whoooosh
/r/askTRP31/03/19 02:17 PM
18

Men saving their own wallets
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/19 02:13 PM
6

So after she messaged you, what happened next? You ignore her? Tell her dude? Interested. I just straight up ignored her like I do to all my exes that did me dirty in the past. And I have to admit its tough to have the willpower to not hate fuck the shit out of them but out of respect for myself I think it's for the best. I'd also be giving them exactly what they want which would be fueling their entitled princess mentality even more. I've grown to not be angry at ladies for being this way durin…
/r/MGTOW29/03/19 11:30 AM
3

Most of them appear to be nice daisys at first, some guys just trigger their dark sides for whatever reason. I tried to be the best boyfriend I could be but young girls in their 20s are loose cannons. I read this sub and sometimes think "Maybe I could try again" then I go outside and I'm blasted with red pills. Maybe it's my environment, maybe I'm just a magnet for corrupted devils with pretty faces, who knows. But I'm just burned out from that game, for now. Edit: You know I think that nice dai…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 06:42 PM
2

This As a man, I've had tons of relationships. The first 5 or so ended with me being cheated on, lied to, or stolen from. Admittingly, I ended the last couple before my history could repeat itself. Partially from recognizing similar red flags from the past, partially from fear of getting destroyed emotionally again. I've been in love, but it never felt good enough to be worth the risk of being hurt again. Kind of like heroin, im sure that yeah it must feel great but its not worth the time, money…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 06:33 PM
4

Aye man thanks for the silver, and yeah after it happened I unfollowed all the twitch thots that I used to throw validation to. I'll give Bwana a watch when I get the chance. Cheers!
/r/MGTOW27/03/19 06:26 AM
2

Fucking this
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/19 03:38 AM
2

I didn't say you defended women, but there are littany of posts exposing female behavior and hyper gamy and whatnot, with similar questions of "if women are like this, why should I trust/date/spend time with them?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/19 03:30 AM
1

Maybe some women that actually have some compassion could answer? Instead of the ones who don't care?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/19 03:27 AM
2

No I'm just generally curious. Don't get me wrong I understand that it can be nauseating to defend women over and over again, but what I don't understand is if you don't care why even respond? Not just you but the other comments too. I wonder if the roles were reversed and if it were a girl that was distrustful of men, would we tell her "no one cares about you"? probably not. And if this is how women respond to men that are apprehensive towards them, what example does that set for women. It woul…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/19 03:24 AM
2

If you don't care, why reply?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/19 03:06 AM
1

By all means go out with your former traditional mindset, forget the red pill. It's probably just your testosterone releasing in the brain to find a mate despite their clear behavior but hey, sometimes we have to get our teeth kicked in to remember why we found trp in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 07:50 PM
1

Because some people have emotions? Some people want to protect them? Some people are traumatized by the shitty things that happened in the past. People who were devastated will probably more than likely want to avoid that same devastation again.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 07:44 PM
1

HA, anecdotes of love is pretty much the only thing saving this sub from going completely Red Pilled.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/19 11:14 AM
2

You type out your laughing? Weird
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/19 12:07 AM
2

Interesting choice in dynamics. If you don't mind me asking, how does that work in your relationship? What do you connect on other than sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/19 12:06 AM
0

This tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/19 04:08 PM
2

*deep facepalm
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/19 06:06 AM
13

I just think it's a shame that we live in a world where this is something grown men have to worry about. The likelihood that something negative would come out of it is low, but if it did it would compromise everything. A man (especially one with responsibilities) can't afford that kind of mistake in his life these days. All it takes is one misclick and your life could be down the drain. I wouldn't call it an overreaction, teachers aren't allowed to exchange numbers with students because it's ina…
/r/MGTOW27/02/19 07:31 AM
1

Thanks for sharing this, just went through his content and I feel a little better now. Truth is, because of my parents I became naturally cold and self reliant because I knew I shouldn't depend on others. In turn that made me attractive to girls, so when I got them around I fell into a beta mode where I wanted to depend on their love for my happiness, which then drove them away. When I realized this and saw the pattern, I began to resent the very fabric of their being, they weren't in it for me,…
/r/askTRP22/02/19 07:09 PM
3

I don't want to though, how do I fix my subconscious?
/r/askTRP22/02/19 09:19 AM
4

Most definitely, I'm pretty much a walking failed abortion to her. I tried to compensate by being hyper productive with sports, school, accolades etc I wanted to feel like I was worth loving. But eventually I just fucked off and stopped caring about how people felt about me
/r/askTRP22/02/19 09:13 AM
1

If you think you're actually going to get women to acknowledge their subconscious behavior you're wasting your time. They will never accept it
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/19 07:22 AM
1

Even if your romantically successful female behavior will inevitably take place, TRP isn't some woman hating ideology its the gathering of statistical evidence into an analysis of typical female behavior. You can 10/10 but that won't change her
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/19 07:18 AM
2

Damn straight!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/19 11:04 AM
2

I wonder where these fears come from? Oh wait, its women perpetually treating men like dog shit then wondering why it's mutually returned
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/19 10:49 PM
2

I think some of these guys really need to get their teeth kicked in to understand what is happening to them. OP doesn't even realize he's falling for the same trap many men have fallen for before.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/19 01:07 AM
3

Yep
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/19 04:10 AM
2

I like bigger women as well, I just hate the fact that they are so judgemental on bigger guys. You have to be a Greek statue to attract most ladies these days...
/r/MGTOW11/02/19 03:02 AM
1

I swear people on this sub are androids if they haven't noticed this trend
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 11:17 PM
3

I'm a dude and I did a ton of volunteering for an animal shelter to keep myself busy. Good times
/r/MGTOW09/02/19 10:57 PM
1

Or I dunno, maybe he wants to know his commitment to her will be returned when the going gets tough. But no that can't be it, because all we care about is pumping and dumping, it's not like we form attachments or connections to our ladies. No men don't have feelings at all
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 07:48 AM
1

This is a late response sorry, but no I didn't mean drinking with your friends is only what stupid people do. But you aren't exactly gaining too much from attending those to which someone who hasn't been to one missed out on some life milestone. I've been to a few, I just never thought it was a big deal. Parties with friends are usually a lot better than partying with a bunch of college randos in my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 03:52 AM
1

No offense taken, and I've actually been wondering the same thing. I've had sex a ton of times but I never liked it so much that I felt it was worth putting up with women for. I always saw sex as kind of like a sport I guess. After I lost that Disney mentality of love and learned how the world works I just sort of lost the type of attraction that would make a guy do anything and everything to bed a woman. I'm defiantly not attracted to men either so maybe I'm Asexual?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 11:22 PM
1

What is even the point of an STR? Why would I commit any time or money for a partnership that won't last anyways. It's a waste
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 11:00 PM
1

Why is it an insult if they openly make decisions that make them less attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 10:22 PM
11

Why would anyone even want to date a woman if they're so superficial like this? I mean nothing wrong with grooming yourself and looking good, but if you have to have this stoic complex to you and act like you don't even like her to turn her on what is even the point? I mean if you're looking for a quick fuck whatever I guess but its like they don't want a partner they want an accessory to their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 09:31 PM
16

It's sad because if it was a good deal and women could properly fall in line like they are supposed to, we wouldn't even have this issue. But no way am I going to be committed my all to a girl who had her legs open to plenty of guys before me.
/r/MGTOW31/01/19 11:02 PM
1

Coming from someone who has a bit of abundance I'd agree. You really have to be somewhat bluepilled or have a degree of oneitis or you'll never want put all your chips into one relationship, I'll never be capable of loving someone at full capacity because what ever itch they can't strach for me I'll find another lady in line to do it. It isn't the only reason I can fall in love again, (hyper gamy, and women only loving what you provide are major ones as well) but namely this abundance of women h…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/19 11:03 PM
2

With ladies, they don't directly "Hit on you" that's still the guy's job these days. They'll just hover around you, promote and laugh extremely hard at what you say, and kinda just take indirect jabs like "I love your jacket" or something like that. Its probably happened to a lot of guys but they haven't recognized what their intentions were.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/19 01:39 AM
2

*For you
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/19 11:34 PM
1

Try to write your comment again but replace baseball, martial arts, archery, shooting, playing pool, cross country With.. video games, streamed TV, watching YouTube, going on Facebook, using Snapchat, watching porn, Ect. But you don't have to replace it, both of these lists could be made into one. It doesnt have to be one or the other. I stated the other activities so that we could have a broader view of things people enjoy outsude of that, and its not even exclusive to everything on both of sho…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/19 10:22 PM
1

Sex itself can be more than, putting your dick in and thrusting but that's up to the people who are engaging in that. It sounds like the disconnect here is that you're pairing sex with connection when I believe that they are too separate things. It kills me that relationships between Men and Women aren't working out, these interpersonal relations that TRP observes is an issue. I think the act of sex itself is overvalued, not these relationships. Also, we used WOW as an example but maybe it'd sou…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/19 09:42 PM
4

Yeah people are probably going to less parties because there's more options vs that being the only thing to do. Which is great, the less self destructive behavior in the wake of being socially active the better. These parties are really overappreciated, it really is a game of destroying your liver as much as you can, standing around and seeing who can draw the most attention to them self acting a fool. It's actually a bit moronic. The type of person who likes any mental stimulation whatsoever pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/19 09:18 PM
2

Nah, girls will still fuck fat dudes. The ones on the top are getting extremely choosy while the bottom 65% are becoming way easier. Men just aren't willing to put in the man hours for sex when there are more things to do out there. If there weren't video games, films, porn, or other activities like back in the day guys would probably get bored enough to want to go out and fuck but these are new times. Hypergamy is a huge part of this too but most men have the willpower somewhere in them to get …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/19 09:02 PM
8

As someone who's knocked boots a ton of times, I'm not sure this is accurate. At most parties, young people still get extremely drunk and go wild on each other. I think there's less sex now because back in the day all there was to do was have sex and worry about that social game. We just have more options now, and that's not a bad thing. Less children born out of wedlock, less STDs, and less drama in people's lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/19 08:51 PM
5

Dude if you're even remotely good looking and step out of your house a girl will hit on you in some fashion. The part that is unsettling is their unconscious hypergamous behavior, it doesn't even matter how hot you are because if someone better comes along or if you're down on your luck she jumps ship.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/19 08:42 PM
3

It's not bad to help people feel better or something but if you aren't her boyfriend you shouldn't act like one. If you care enough to maintain a friendship then it wouldn't hurt to do so but it's your responsibility to know where the boundaries lie. I've been in your situation a few times though, and while I don't want to say men and women can't be friends, it was always easier to keep those friendships at an arms length to avoid drama and so that no one gets the wrong idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/19 11:22 PM
5

Either leave her alone and don't lead her on or buck up and go in fully. If you keep flirting back you'll be sending mixed signals. If you decided you only want to be friends, act accordingly, but understand that she won't wait around forever. Nothing wrong with not wanting to date her though.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/19 11:08 PM
3

Exactly, romance/relationships just aren't for everyone. These are comments from women so of course it benefits them in some way but it's not a requirement to have purpose in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/19 01:56 PM
10

There is so much more to life than romance. Like literally doing anything else...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/19 05:49 AM
8

Yes, shut up and take my money if you can make this happen. I'd be so much more efficient without these distracting hormones.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/19 03:37 AM
1

Dude, as soon as you see her next time, walk forward looking at her without breaking eye contact, grab her just above the hips and pull her close. Tell her something along the lines of "You're gorgeous" or whatever authentic trait you like about her And then fucking kiss her bro
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/19 02:56 AM
5

I think I'll find a flying pig before I find a woman who is actually willing to provide half of everything I do, sounds like you either aren't analyzing your situation accurately or you got pretty lucky. Good luck though, hope you can keep it up
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/19 02:30 AM
6

Maybe you're willing to compete to become a woman's caretaker but for others they can't find any logical reason to do that. If relationships aren't based on unconditional love and it is a transaction, we'd want to get a good deal. But the transaction is trading time and money for someone who will trade you when someone else is able to provide higher levels of that. Why would we take on that liability? Why would we want to compete with other men to become a woman's caretaker.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/19 02:25 AM
2

There was a a few studies shared on here that found that women who are sexually active with many different partners throughout life are neurochemically unable to form bonds as strong as those that weren't exposed as much. If you're really that interested I could try to find it again but it's not necessarily unbelievable. And I also want to note that when I say "Whore" I don't mean it negatively towards them, women are free to do whatever they want. I went to plenty of college parties, and I can …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/19 02:00 AM
2

Do you think apart if growing up is not being disgusted by women who have done freaky things with other guys? I met the girl of my dreams but found out that she was flirting with me in a relationship. Not only that but she'd eat out his ass, give him foot jobs, let him cum inside and outside of her etc. It all just turned me off really, and made me less trusting of her because not only does she hit on other guys in a relationship, she shares her bedroom activities with the public. When you get o…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/19 01:44 AM
3

Not the person you were talking to, but I understand your point and yes its quite paradoxical. I bowed out if dating completely because of how the system works, but nothing will change the fact that myself and other guys with any amount of self respect won't jump through hoops for a whore. Why would we? Unless there was that 1 in a million type connection there is not reason to invest time and resources. If dating were completely even for sides maybe more would be willing to give it a shot, but …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/19 01:36 AM
6

Men just wants a woman that would love him no matter what, the same way he loves her. The system feels so ridiculously backwards, you wanna treat her like she's the world to you but she'll only want you if you're this stoic standoffish asshole. And you try to find that balance between being good to her and not being a beta, but sometimes it's tough to keep up that facade. You either have to have a lot of endurance of character to keep it "Fresh" or hope to god she wont leave you when she really …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/19 04:25 AM
1

Women are passive mostly, they won't even consider you as a prospect unless you know what to say to turn her on, or you're so good looking you could nothing at all and she'll still want to fuck you. Sometimes women don't even want you to directly flirt with them because it's too forward. There are alot of variables but if you can't provide the looks or the words that make her feel naughty, you're practically invisible to her
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/19 10:42 PM
2

I'm not transphobic or anything but vagina is pretty rad
/r/MGTOW213/01/19 12:02 PM
1

Guys, there will always be a supply of men willing to pay up time, effort, and money for consistent sex. Espically the men who lack any purpose but fulfilling that desire like an addiction. Marriage isn't gonna collapse.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/19 11:59 AM
31

Condoms, and even then still pull out my friend
/r/askTRP12/01/19 06:20 PM
3

I know I'm the minority but I find intelligent working women very attractive, especially when she's passionate about what she does, but for some men this comes at an expense. Men don't like dealing with women as equals in one setting and also be expected to treat them as princesses (or Queen a or whatever you wanna call it) in another. Not only this, but with a working woman you're still expected to out do her in some degree or she won't respect you or the relationship. A working woman would gen…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/19 04:41 PM
1

I swear this sub continually turns me off from dating little by little everyday
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/19 04:19 PM
1

This life is so fucking depressing
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/19 12:53 AM
3

Last year this girl told me that I'm not masculine because I don't talk about sports or care about cars. I literally said "No bitch, I tell you what masculinity is, shut the fuck up and suck this dick." It was a half hearted blowjob but she learned a lesson
/r/MGTOW11/01/19 12:24 AM
1

Romance is a scam
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/19 10:07 PM
1

Yeah some women seem to have this notion that we aren't attracted to intelligence but they couldn't be more wrong. I literally get so turned on by a woman with a sense of wit and knows what she's talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/19 02:07 PM
2

Why would you want to bring a life in this corrupted existence, so selfish
/r/MGTOW10/01/19 12:16 PM
1

These answers go to show that women can't even comprehend how a man loves a woman. No matter though, they are just proving TRP theory over and over exposing themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 08:26 PM
16

She didn't leave you...... Yet. Never forget
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 08:14 AM
1

Yes! I don't mind being a leader, I'm used to being on the top and helping others through conflicts. I just don't want to feel like I'm somehow being toxic because I'm a guy. I don't want to be afraid to even talk to a woman the wrong way and get reported for it. I wish ladies would either buckle up and take ownership or fall in line, but they wanna pick and choose where they want to be equal and its confusing!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 02:33 AM
5

I'm on the 'Chad' spectrum and I'm not afraid to promote men's rights
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 01:21 AM
1

If you were in a relationship with the person you should probably inform them that you'd want to take your own path, but if you only been on a couple dates with the person you don't owe them anything
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 01:15 AM
-2

Thank you man, thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/19 08:54 PM
3

Omfg yes, they call it being a "Foodie" like could you be anymore boring? And it'd be great if that interest translated into actual cooking skills but all they know how to make is toast with avocado smushed all over it and ramen noodles.
/r/MGTOW07/01/19 08:44 PM
1

I would say that a lot of guys IN RELATIONSHIPS are slaves to pussy yeah. My friend's gf even cheated on him and he still stayed with her. It's a shame what some men will put up with for it, especially when they think they can't do better. You won't catch me doing that though
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/19 11:16 AM
1

Yeah when they whisper those sweet nothings like "you're the best guy I could ever have" and "I want us to be together forever" I'm just like yeah right hoe, suuuuure
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/19 11:13 AM
1

Divorce court is different, we are trying our best to make our case so that we don't get financially ass blasted by the same woman we've been paying for already. Women fight dirty in the courtroom
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/19 11:06 AM
1

So even when its the woman's fault, its the man's fault 😂 Why the fuck are guys still putting up with this
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/19 11:03 AM
1

I give up bro
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/19 10:33 AM
1

I don't hate women, but I hate how they put on this show of virtue when they are pigs just the same
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/19 10:29 AM
3

Okay but how many oh those guys were going through personal issues but are told, "No girl wants to be your mommy" so they bottle everything inside and find it hard to even be that attention giving boyfriend? We can't be perfect all the time but as soon as we aren't the woman is bad mouthing him to all her friends in a groupchat who'll only tell her she can do better. But no, we are supposed to eat shit and suck it up 110% of the time because thats what a "Man" is.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/19 10:12 AM
1

Maybe I'm an anomaly, but I've been getting better looking every year and people are really taking notice
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/19 04:52 AM
1

How does women improve a man's life?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/19 10:19 PM
1

I swear the more knowledgable I get when it comes to this the less I want to participate.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/19 07:08 PM
1

Not gonna lie that's actually pretty awesome Hahaha wish she was my teacher
/r/MGTOW03/01/19 07:48 AM
3

Okay, appreciate the advice but I'm not positive that I can agree with you here. A relationship is very much an investment of time, finances, and even emotion. If a relationship were merely only an agreement that "We will only have sex with each other." It wouldnt have any meaning would it? Admittingly, it'd be much easier for everyone if it were that way but that's not how it works. Men only have a finite amount of resources so we have to be selective with what we do with them, so we essentiall…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 05:11 AM
1

If there was no electronics women wouldn't have overinflated ego's and would be less trouble anyway. Both sides would probably be less privy to the fact that the majority of relationships don't work out, and would be so bored they'd resort to drinking and fucking anyway. But if you asked me if I could go back in time when life was simple and the radio was playing Frank Sinatra love songs and the quality of life was generally less exciting, I'd rather be here in the now. We have knowledge of thei…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 02:10 AM
1

Damn I really needed to hear this
/r/askTRP24/12/18 05:10 AM
7

Don't we both want to feel desired at the end of the day? Its what it all boils down to
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/18 07:00 PM
2

How about we abolish makeup and see if this statement still holds up
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/18 09:23 PM
2

So what else you wanna do talk about the weather?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/18 11:12 AM
0

Not that any woman would ever admit this of course. Thank god I had this information before i made this mistake like my Dad. He was the perfect man and got financially murdered by his ex wives now baby momma. He's now a wage slave with severe depression after loosing two houses all his kids and life, all for women who said they wanted security and be together forever. Damn shame
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/18 06:36 PM
1

My grandparents dated 25 years before getting married, they never even thought they would tie the knot. Eventually they did and went on another 30-40 years until they passed. If my girl wouldn't be with me unless I spent loads of money on a pointless rock and superficial wedding than I wouldn't want to be with her anyway. Y'all are over here screaming "Commitment!" "Security!" Yet women are the ones who most often initiate divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/18 06:07 PM
1

I can do whatever the tf I want if this were some dude half the size of her ladies would be screenshoting and giggling in their group chats
/r/MGTOW12/12/18 10:36 AM
1

Simple answer, a submissive woman is one that simply respects her man. Example, if you're giving your boyfriend a hard time about his choices and calling him demeaning names, that'd be the opposite. However, this doesn't mean we want a mind slave that has no purpose except pleasing us. We just want a partner that respects us.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/18 06:58 PM
1

I am a person that values loyalty over everything in relationships, but these days no one is loyal so I'm at the point where I'm just like might as well embrace it ya know
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/18 02:08 AM
4

Yeah I wrote a post about my experience with the app. Like yourself, I know what ladies are into so I got over 1000 matches. I'm convinced women are actually stupid from my time on there, literally had girls hit me up first, I'll reply, and they never get back to me. Its like they love wasting time. Check out the top posts in r/tinderstories most of them are nightmares
/r/MGTOW10/12/18 01:48 AM
4

I was naturally red pilled. Always thought there was something wrong with me for noticing patterns and thinking logically. It's a shame because some guys would call me gay for not chasing and simping to women, but then there girlfriends fucked me anyways. When I found trp it wasn't really a feeling of realization, but rather recognition of what I always knew. Knowing that there are others who understand what I do made me feel less alien to society. I'd say either is fine, but it's nice to have a…
/r/askTRP10/12/18 01:40 AM
2

Get a nice VR setup with a flashlight and your good
/r/MGTOW10/12/18 01:24 AM
1

But there isn't a guarantee that won't happen already though, women leave their husbands and take the kids all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/18 11:05 PM
1

You'll defiantly find a woman I'm sure of it, but can you ever really guarantee lifelong relationship's like that? You're on this sub so I'm sure you know your fair share about hyper gamy and have seen plenty of other relationships fail. What gives you faith in that dream?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/18 10:43 PM
0

Why dumpster fire? What could go wrong that isn't already a problem in this quasi monogamous system already?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/18 10:30 PM
1

Yeah, I've had a few threesomes and orgys with friends and that made us all closer together in a way. At least a lot closer than friends who were in couples. If we made sex appear to be less of something only couples can do I think people would be a lot better off. Jealousy is inevitable anyways, might as numb the pain with a friend with benefits
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/18 10:22 PM
1

Do you feel that we could handle the alternative in this day in age? A lot of people are pretty promiscuous already
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/18 10:16 PM
0

It appears to be impractical as all. After having had a few relationships, being up close and personal with how my sisters, mother, and other ladies find and follow their feelings, I don't understand how people can have enough faith to expect relationships to work out, we are bound to our desires so why not act upon them? Wouldn't people be happier just going with the flow rather than selling yourself on a dream?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/18 10:11 PM
2

But is monogamy the answer for our time? It all feels unnatural and a bit forced. Divorce rates are high (and that doesn't even count the unhappy marriages) Women are beginning to out earn men so there desire to pair bond them is low. Is socially accepted promiscuity really that bad? Because we already have to accept the fact that relationships aren't forever already if you look at it statistically, and after a certain age you aren't gonna find anyone who hasn't had their fair share of canoodlin…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/18 10:05 PM
0

I feel like single motherhood is inevitable really, we have a government that assists them paired with a social environment that basically tells them that they don't need no man. Hell, my dad took in another family when the kids were children to the point where they called him dad and his wife still left him out of no where. As a guy you can never trust that she won't up and leave and take the kids anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/18 09:59 PM
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Yeah it's like people don't want to connect the dots AWALT
/r/MGTOW08/12/18 08:30 PM
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I mean, if you spent your life sucking up to women just to have them turn around and do some pretty fucked up things wouldn't that make you feel differently towards them? It would be natural to lose that fairytale feeling once you learn that they aren't perfect
/r/askTRP08/12/18 08:12 PM
2

Yeah that last sentence was meant to sum up the point you made there. I was just trying my best to keep the points short but you are defiantly correct
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/18 12:57 AM
1

I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/18 12:32 AM
4

Well in a world where single men feel stigmatized for being single I imagine that it'd be inevitable for some sort of uprising to happen. Its a push against the norm, whilst also serving as a support group (kinda like AA) for emotionally damaged men. There are support groups for everything these days, no big deal
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/18 12:14 AM
1

What would you define as "Effort" vs just something you'd want to do for/with your partner because you love them?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/18 12:09 AM
2

Huge bond fan here. I once went on a date with 2 ladies at once (How I pulled this off I still don't know) and saw Spectre two days early in theater all to ourselves. They wanted sexy time in the theater but I was more into the film and explaining all the homages to the classics. Went home after and had the best threesome in my life At that moment, I became bond
/r/MGTOW29/11/18 11:09 PM
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That's because you haven't witnessed the utter hipocracy of some of the attention seeking girls that do it. Sometimes it literally may be a guy talking or asking a question to the wrong girl on the wrong day then he gets hit with a charge. Because for people who were falsely accused, it usually is a "Came out of nowhere" unbelievable type situation. Where those guys have it wrong is exactly where some women have it wrong, the majority of people aren't out to get you. You really could go your who…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/18 03:04 PM
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As I said before, I think it's wrong to neglect either side. Sexual assault does happen, False accusations of sexual assault does happen. Women are allowed to be apprehensive to men. Men are allowed to be apprehensive to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/18 02:50 PM
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Guy who gets nervous around women here, wasn't always that way. But after meeting ladies who shit talk on every ex they had, falsely accuse men of crimes that weren't committed, smile in your face and stab you in the back, I don't exactly have that feeling of wonder around them. Just extreme caution
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/18 02:40 PM
1

I'd just try to fornicate with all the hot lesbians that I didn't have access to before, like ruby rose haha
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/18 02:34 PM
18

As someone who was falsely accused before, it is a legitimate fear to have. I think it's wrong for either side to neglect the other, but I've seen way more men falsely accused than actually assaulting someone in my experience. Your experience might be different, but that doesn't mean it never happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/18 02:27 PM
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Just wanted to say that false accusations DOES HAPPEN, it's not nearly as rare as you all think. I was falsely accused by a girl who was like a little sister to me, never even thought about touching her and before I know it I'm getting odd stares from everyone I knew. Its emotionslly traumatizing to have people hear that and turn on you for something you wouldn't have done. I was also falsely accused again but that girl was just spreading things through people I knew on Facebook, luckily my frie…
/r/MGTOW28/11/18 04:49 PM
51

Maybe its because of my MGTOW posts, but I don't post about hating women. I usually ask questions related to guy stuff
/r/MGTOW15/11/18 08:17 PM
126

I asked why was I banned, their response "Piss off MRA trash!" This is coming from their mods
/r/MGTOW15/11/18 08:15 PM
2

MGTOW is what you make of it. Though I admit there are a few Intel's in there that have found a safe haven, its not limited to the sub or whatever your opinion of it is. Its Men Going Their Own Way, making the choice of what they commit to instead of blindly succumbing to the whims of women.
/r/askTRP15/11/18 06:36 AM
5

Username checks out haha
/r/MGTOW06/11/18 11:41 PM
3

Notch dropping the ultimate red pill
/r/MGTOW05/11/18 05:07 PM
2

Eporner, they've got 4K videos
/r/MGTOW05/11/18 08:24 AM
1

Go ahead, date her. Commit if you want. Its your life. Some people really need to get their teeth kicked in to truly understand the female nature and how it's biologically supposed to make you feel that head over heels feeling. Its simple neurochemistry. But take the knowledge that you've acquired from this sub with you. It will protect you from the red flags and the succubuses. Stay safe, and always put yourself first
/r/MGTOW03/11/18 11:37 PM
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I agree 100% but this female behavior is mostly happening within the subconscious. They literally can't comprehend that they are doing these things because they believe they are good, and they will do everything to even fool themselves. They aren't even intelligent or even determined enough to be menacingly evil. For this very reason it's not worth putting energy towards hating them because it's their very nature.
/r/MGTOW03/11/18 06:26 PM
1

I was in your exact position, trust me a girl like this WILL BE TROUBLE. Even if you don't put your dick in crazy it'll still bite you in the ass later. You need to let go of mentally unstable people in your life PERIOD. They will only drag you down
/r/MGTOW25/10/18 06:00 PM
2

Every time Sir Manalot comments I learn something
/r/MGTOW25/10/18 05:47 PM
2

You've gotta be fucking kidding me
/r/MGTOW25/10/18 05:03 PM
1

This sucks because after I met her at an event a couple years back she was definitely my Hollywood crush. Then she cheated on Rob and I realized that she's just like all the others AWALT
/r/MGTOW22/10/18 08:07 PM
11

Damn I guess I'm fucked either way
/r/MGTOW21/10/18 06:11 PM
27

Guys MGTOW is EXPONENTIALLY bigger than this sub. I've been GMOW for years and only found a sub for it a couple months ago. I know dozens of guys doing a similar thing
/r/MGTOW21/10/18 05:01 PM
3

I just threw up in my mouth a little
/r/MGTOW19/10/18 03:32 PM
3

*Sorts by controversial
/r/MGTOW17/10/18 03:37 PM
1

How'd the two of you meet? What made you guys attracted to each other? And what was the exact moment you decided you wanted to tie the knot?
/r/MGTOW16/10/18 11:58 PM
1

I suppose another way to frame the question would be, "How do I have sex without thinking" Honestly i probably didnt have to add the first two paragraphs but I think it shows the proper context of my situation. But it seems the disconnect is that "Pure raw unemotional gene spreading desire" isn't within me. Maybe something is wrong with me? Not really sure. But I can't get in the zone without those thoughts that I mentioned in that last paragraph. Short example She'll say, "Oh this is the best s…
/r/askTRP15/10/18 04:16 AM
31

Nothing disgusts me more than a gold digger
/r/MGTOW14/10/18 01:59 PM
3

I've been GMOW for 4 years but only knew there was a sub for it a few months ago. Trust me, MGTOW is exponentially bigger than this
/r/MGTOW11/10/18 05:57 PM
18

This was literally the worse thing about the dating game to me. I've met girls who straight up told me "I like you because you don't like me." They actually get off by me giving them little to no attention. I'm no white knight, but i'd rather us both pursue each other rather than pretending i have no interest.
/r/MGTOW11/10/18 05:39 PM
15

Jeez the comments are tragic, can't even get it in even if you are their slave
/r/MGTOW10/10/18 06:19 AM
10

Honestly, I'm not sure if I blame women or blame modern media/literature/film for instilling the concept of romance between us. There's no hapilliy ever after, it all comes down to the checkbook
/r/MGTOW08/10/18 07:37 PM
8

This isn't a copypasta, but the fact that you assumed it was even speaks more for how common this is
/r/MGTOW08/10/18 07:21 PM
26

My mom is a immigrant, she lived here for over a decade but her English vocabulary isn't as developed enough to hide bitter truths. She always just says how it is in the rawest way possible. Growing up with that was tough, but as you can see, it has taught me quite a bit as to how their brains work
/r/MGTOW08/10/18 06:48 PM
3

I don't understand how my father, who has 2 different baby mamma's, and was divorced by two single mothers (despite taking in their kid's as his own) can still chase after them. How am I even related to that idiot
/r/MGTOW07/10/18 07:51 PM
6

I literally hit a pipe before reading this and reached enlightenment
/r/MGTOW04/10/18 08:48 PM
2

Bless you brother
/r/MGTOW03/10/18 07:36 PM
8

I spent a few hours last Sunday to call and check up on family member's. I used to always have a new girl with me anytime i'd see them, all until I went my own way. Convo with Grandmother: "You listen here baby, you need to focus on yourself. These girls out here today are nothing like us when we were younger. All they want is your money, stay away" Convo with Father: "When you gonna get a girlfriend? Don't you know love is the most ultimate feeling in the world? (Yes my father said this) You sh…
/r/MGTOW03/10/18 02:41 PM
1

I went to my senior prom alone, its no big deal because everyone hangs out together anyway. I even hitchhiked on a limo back home and got head from a girl in a bathroom that night. It's only a problem if you let it be, dont be afraid to own it
/r/MGTOW01/10/18 09:32 PM
6

Ahh, this is a getting to be a common problem for RedPillers. I'm going to do a in depth post about this eventually, but you need to have what I call the "James Bond" mentality. There's no problem with having a little fun with women, but she can never ever be your number 1 priority. Stay busy, Stay Diligent, and tap into that deep Alpha when you're around her. Don't disrespect her but treat her as your accessory for sex. It's what they want deep down. A little after sex cuddle won't hurt but DO …
/r/MGTOW30/09/18 06:17 PM
2

I'm going to write an extensive post on this soon, but you've gotta take the "Bond" mentality in life. Be diligent about yourself and your work and treat women like they are your temporary sex toy for when you wanna get the poison out. It's what they want when they are younger as its a huge turn on for them. It's a backwards system, as its be much easier if everyone were to pair bond but the faster you stop romanticizing them the more fun and less stress you'll have in this world.
/r/MGTOW27/09/18 07:31 PM
1

I've been heavily considering this lately, did you get one yourself? Have you noticed any changes?
/r/MGTOW21/09/18 11:05 PM
1

Are you telling me that if your daughter turned 16 you'd let her start selling nude photos of herself? That will inevitably follow her for the rest of her life. I can't control what people do but where I come from this isn't particularly lady like behavior. Maybe this is a sign of me getting old but what has become of us?
/r/MGTOW12/09/18 01:21 AM
3

I only have friends from where I grew up and college, though I do notice a correlation of women offering this "service" and having tinder accounts But these girls are so young, a part of me actually feels sympathy for them. Some people might not care about girls doing this and I'm no saint, but our morals are drastically changing. I don't believe its safe for society to just blindly accept these changes without addressing them
/r/MGTOW11/09/18 09:06 PM
23

Think about all the little 11 - 12 year old girls out there being impressed by these girls. It's almost normal to post assshots, and sell nudes now. My snap chat feed is turning from a bunch of girls partying to "Venmo me $ for my nudes" casually
/r/MGTOW11/09/18 03:25 PM
2

If we are being honest I suppose you could call them dead weight. The guys in question literally work all day, drive their girlfriends from place o place and fuck. It's odd because they are slaves, unable to go out when they want, spend when they want, or breathe. Even when I have conversations with them its like I'm not talking to them directly, but the girl that they are a slave for. I can't even confide in them anymore because they'll tell their girlfriend's and their girlfriend's will spew e…
/r/MGTOW02/09/18 08:11 PM
1

Maybe I'll pay for some lessons and then try to teach my friends. Most dudes are super blue pilled these days so getting out of the house will be a challenge, but maybe I can show them pussy isn't the only thing in life
/r/MGTOW02/09/18 08:00 PM
1

I've actually been into Fishing lately, I was thinking of moving over to hunting game but I don't know any guys around me that are into that sort of stuff.
/r/MGTOW02/09/18 07:51 PM
2

I went from about 6 ft to 6'2 oddly enough. But I started MGTOW in my teens. 2 inches might not seem like a bit deal but its definitely noticeable.
/r/MGTOW02/09/18 07:47 PM
4

I actually kicked the booze for about a month and a half so far. Tough part is without it I'd rather not go out anyway, since everyone my age goes out to drink, fuck, or both.
/r/MGTOW02/09/18 07:45 PM
14

I'm at the point where I just avoid my mother at all costs. I love her to death but it's women like her that is wrong with society. I have to accept that she'll never truly grasp it either.
/r/MGTOW02/09/18 07:04 PM
1

What if you met a girl like that though, would you be willing to give it a shot?
/r/MGTOW30/08/18 07:55 PM
1

Back in the day relationships weren't exactly equal, it was two individuals making up for the shortcomings of the other. Man=Provider Woman=Caretaker I think this is where the problem lies, defining the equality of a relationship.
/r/MGTOW30/08/18 07:52 PM
1

The last two girls I dated were virgins and I think this is a common misconception. Virgins may show less sexual promiscuity on paper but I think it's only half the story. We have to start looking at WHY they are virgins. I've met a whole lot more girls complaining about the fact that they were celibate than girls doing it for moral fortitude. The last girl that I dated was a virgin because she doesn't know how to get a guy hard, she's pretty but just plain awkward. You probably have met the typ…
/r/MGTOW30/08/18 07:45 PM
1

That doesn't seem too extremely uncommon, if a girl with all those traits approached you, would you at least give it a try?
/r/MGTOW30/08/18 07:30 PM
1

I think the terms could be used interchangeably but how about requirements. What would a woman be REQUIRED to do to keep you in a relationship?
/r/MGTOW30/08/18 07:29 PM
0

Trust me brother, I understand where you are coming from 100% I've written many posts here and made the same points recently. Here's a look at one of my latest arguements in defense for us https://www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/99buzw/serious_former_incels_of_reddit_what_brought_you/e4o2eix?utm_source=reddit-android What I'm trying to pinpoint exactly is what could a woman do to be a good example for other women going forward. (Maybe I'm trying to go about solving this too logically) Alot o…
/r/MGTOW30/08/18 07:20 PM
1

Are you a virgin? If she has sex with you does that mean she doesn't respect herself?
/r/MGTOW30/08/18 07:12 PM
1

Okay let me rephrase. For a long term relationship what would you epect in a ideal scenario? For you personally Would it only be trust and loyalty? Would all the bills have to be split 50/50? Etc
/r/MGTOW30/08/18 06:43 PM
1

What if she offered to take you out for a date and pay for it, would you at least show up?
/r/MGTOW30/08/18 06:37 PM
1

What if you met a girl with all those features and she took an interest to you, would you feel that it's worth trying?
/r/MGTOW30/08/18 06:33 PM
1

Could you elaborate?
/r/MGTOW30/08/18 06:31 PM
1

Why?
/r/MGTOW30/08/18 06:31 PM
1

I did a study before on Tinder, I concluded that it wasn't worth our time because of all the effort we have to put in for the little effort they do. It seems to be a common theme for average/above average guys So I've been working on something new. I want to pinpoint exactly what women would have to do in order for the common man to feel like the juice is actually worth the squeeze. Men are natural born providers so I don't expect any extravagant answers, just looking for a bare minimum
/r/MGTOW30/08/18 06:30 PM
4

Its like they can't comprehend that young women are more attractive than them. They feel rejected so their immediate reaction is to paint him as a evil misogynist taking advantage of women.
/r/MGTOW19/08/18 10:21 PM
1

Like myself, there were already a large amount of men who were aware of the horrible cost to benefit in relationships. I've been going my own way for 4 years now but only recently found out that there was an online movement tied to it. It doesn't take that much to connect the dots when you already have had a ton of relationships and you can see the patterns, but for 80% who don't have that luxury most of them will take almost anything they can get, which ultimately traps them and leads to their …
/r/MGTOW10/08/18 04:32 PM
3

Hey man you too. Make a couple little notes to log your experiences too if you can. Sometimes women can hypnotize you into forgetting these things.
/r/MGTOW07/08/18 08:02 PM
3

Im not trying to stroke my ego but it's tough being a Chad and being MGTOW. Volcels like us have to deal with girls trapping us with different attraction tactics. After a few years and a little success it gets even harder. I can't hide that I'm doing well for myself so they swarm like flies. i take a look at this when the temptation is growing strong
/r/MGTOW07/08/18 07:58 PM
3

Bingo. In all these situations the woman in question argued that they weren't responsible. And oftentimes the world forgave them for things that would get a guy put in jail.
/r/MGTOW07/08/18 07:29 PM
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This is why i cant with twitter man, the amount of guys defending her makes me feel like society is too far gone. What's next, looking at a person for too long is rape?
/r/MGTOW02/08/18 07:20 PM
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This might have been the final nail in the coffin of relationships for me. Oftentimes when dealing with a woman they dont even realize what they do wrong because they are so spoiled by everyone in thier lives. If you cant communicate how you feel and need space from your partner its now deemed as emotionally abusive? I give up
/r/MGTOW02/08/18 07:16 PM
2

Get ze fuck out of there
/r/MGTOW01/08/18 06:39 PM
4

While I don't want to blame all women, I have noticed that the majority of all women has had a hand to play in most of my friendships ending with other men. For an example, I had a friend that I only knew for a year and a half or so. We were basically the same person but slightly different (he likes Slayer I like Kreator, both into gaming etc) His girlfriend and I had a thing before they met and throughout their relationship, she'd always come to me for advice and help where my friend fell short…
/r/MGTOW01/08/18 06:10 PM
3

As a "Chad" in his twenties I think you couldn't have stated this more perfectly. Truth is, there's a bunch of girls hitting me up. But after going through a life of girls cheating, falsely accusing of rape, and other malicious behaviors, I've just lost my energy for them. I wish I could forget everything and go back to when I believed girls were these beautiful and good princesses like I used to. But after my life it feels like I can see through them before they can even get a word in. The juic…
/r/MGTOW22/07/18 07:16 PM
7

You're right. Most of the women that I actually do go further with are the girls that I met in real life. And I have gotten lucky a handful of times. But there's a disproportionate amount of girls with no real intention of meeting up on the app. This was only an experiment.
/r/MGTOW07/07/18 02:02 PM
1

I have 1k matches but I've definitely messaged less than 160 of them
/r/MGTOW07/07/18 01:48 PM
6

I have had sex within this month even, but very rarely are they from Tinder. I'm also going from highest to lowest in terms of attractiveness (Since they do it to us why not return the favor) haha. So i tend to message the 9s and 10s more and I'm leaving all the other girls to side. I'm positive I could find one of the girls on the lower end of the spectrum and get her in the sheets within the day but why would I do that? I have girls that I met through experience that show some real intention t…
/r/MGTOW07/07/18 01:26 PM
3

You said "Mate" so I think you're from Europe. I know from experience that girls from there are different than the girls here in the states. They seem a little less prudish there and more willing to have a good time around guys. At least without acting as if we are some subordinate species. I have absolutely no trouble with girls in real life and luckily I have a backlog of numbers I can shift through if things ever get lonely. And yeah I get lucky occasionally. But there's a disproportionate am…
/r/MGTOW07/07/18 01:08 PM
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