DRenaissanceMan Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	Best ways to spend money to improve your seduction YAY to #1 #4 and #5 - great investments in yourself as a person, and extreeeemely likely to pay dividends in your dating life #2 and #3 are mostly a waste of time. The odds of online dating are super stacked against 99% of guys. And even if you meet someone online, you need to meet them IRL, which is where #1 #4 #5 will help you.	/r/seduction	06/11/25 02:33 PM
3	The One Sequence to Rule Them All ^^^ what this person said! "even a “hi” is a good opener" You want a simple 3 step opener? Here ya go 1) hi 2) my name is Joe 3) what's your name? Opener - completed Now let's move on to the next step. Observe something about her. Say something situational. Either way, your opener is almost never the problem :)	/r/seduction	06/11/25 02:31 PM
4	Approach anxiety Three words Just. Do. It. the more you think about it (before doing it) the more you will talk yourself out of it the more you actually do it, even if you crash and burn, the more you will get used to it and realize that even the worst crash and burn does not actually affect your life negatively See someone you wanna approach? 3 second countdown, and start walking to that person, and then open your mouth and say the first thing that comes out. There is no other magic bullet. Good luck :)	/r/seduction	06/11/25 02:04 PM
3	How To Get Good At Sex (Aside From Having It)? OK let's work through this question... "good at sex" usually means your partner enjoys themselves. I'm going to assume you're a hetero male, so your partner is a girl. So... "good at sex" means, in this case, that your girl enjoys herself in bed with you As such, the person you need to be asking "how do I get good" is... HER :) Find out what she likes / dislikes What turns her on What she thinks about various sex acts What are her kinks etc Basically, do a market survey of your target market! An…	/r/seduction	06/11/25 01:35 PM
1	Familiar with any PUA coaches or dating coaches that help women get dates? That is where the audience is female, not necessarily the coach. Absolutely spot on! Seeing the lady's perspective will definitely help! Really good question, but too wide in scope to answer. Short version is that most women choose to lead without it looking like they are trying to lead, to use salsa lingo. If there are specific things you have in mind, feel free to ask. It's hard to talk about "what does game look like" cos it is so broad.	/r/seduction	02/09/25 08:20 PM
1	Familiar with any PUA coaches or dating coaches that help women get dates? That is where the audience is female, not necessarily the coach. I've coached women. What are you curious about?	/r/seduction	02/09/25 01:47 PM
3	Full blown got laid in the club [field report] I gotta ask ... what was the point of this post? Is there a learning lesson that you are trying to convey? Is this a "be happy for me cos I just got laid" post? Nothing wrong with feeling really happy that something good happened, and let's face it, a win is a win. But let's keep our focus on the bigger picture. Positive experiences and positive results are great, but the goal is to turn this into a repeatable process. In that spirit - * what can you (or we) can learn from this experience? * wha…	/r/seduction	02/09/25 03:47 AM
20	Nightclub. Girl flips the bird for absolutely no reason. "she is like no but not a hard no at all (I know the fucking difference)" You say you know the difference but your actions as seen in this post don't back up this claim. I'd start with this - no means no. "My question is, what the fuck is wrong with these girls?" If it is happening with multiple people, then logically speaking, the one common denominator is ... you. And also, if she's so pissed off like yelling in your face, then "I love you" joking or otherwise is an extremely poorly calibrated…	/r/seduction	28/08/25 03:39 AM
3	Idea: Seduction LLM It's better than nothing. But not by much. You're only practising what to say. Which is like 5% of the what you need to practice.	/r/seduction	22/08/25 12:49 AM
1	The girl at BK So ... she's very busy at work, she makes the effort to NOT make eye contact, etc. Translation: don't talk to her at work If you really want to talk to her, find a way to talk to her when she's not at work	/r/seduction	21/08/25 08:18 PM
2	Do you step up or check out when a woman has high standards? The key is to know yourself, be comfortable in who you are, and have a vision of what a better you would look like. When that happens... If those high standards align with your vision of what you consider to be a better version of yourself, then it will not be too much work. If those high standards do not align with your vision, then you won't even bother asking this question	/r/seduction	21/08/25 07:33 PM
1	How to Meet Women as a Emotionally Unavailable TechBro ? Start with therapy. Definitely definitely therapy 10000%. From what you wrote, you DEFINITELY have childhood trauma that is severely impacting your emotional expression, which in turn is impacting your ability to connect deeply with girls (and guys). Go weekly. Create a life outside of work that involves people, even if you don't interact with them. Get used to being around people. And while you're doing that, learn to make friends and create a social circle. In the long run, the social support …	/r/seduction	20/08/25 05:56 AM
3	On first dates that seem to go well, about how often are women inviting you back to their place? You should have a rough plan for the entire architecture of a date, something like this: - meet somewhere preferably close to your place - go get dinner/drinks/whatever - invite her back to YOUR place. Why your place? cos you are (hopefully) a smart boy who has already cleaned and prepped his place for company before going out. PRO TIP - ALWAYS assume that you will have company coming back to your place when you go out on a date or when you go out for the night. - when you get back to your place…	/r/seduction	19/08/25 05:42 PM
2	Cocky vs boastful IMO boastful is worse than being cocky cos people boast in order to mask their insecurities. AND being cocky is worse than having quiet confidence for the exact same reason, except that now you're better at masking the same insecurities.	/r/seduction	18/08/25 09:15 PM
1	I like to like A lil confused here... What exactly do you mean by "I just want her to like me"? As in, what do you mean by "like"? Be attracted to you? To think you're a good person?	/r/seduction	05/08/25 04:23 AM
1	Does loving yourself help with finding better quality women? Hell yes! Loving and appreciating yourself is absolutely critical. But also temper that with seeing and acknowledging where you could be better. However, "loving yourself" in itself doesn't help you meet women but it creates a really good foundation upon which you can build a skillset to meet women	/r/seduction	05/08/25 03:53 AM