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It depends on what statement is made, if it is something along the lines of “every female wants to cheat on you or leaves you the minute she sees a more attractive guy” or “95% of guys have absolutely zero chance with women” then I’m going to doubt them
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 10:39 AM
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People in relationships look for more than just looks, they are in it for other reasons as well. Or maybe they just have a type, and that could be more chubby girls
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 11:12 AM
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Your next comment was “is she ran through”
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 06:13 PM
10

You know that high libido does not have to mean many partners right?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 06:04 PM
3

Where is the link to the first study? Second study I get though, if a woman is attracted to her partner, it is easier to orgasm. Seems very logical
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 03:46 PM
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You keep adding stuff to the scenario, you are trying to bait the answer you want to hear to confirm your worldview. But no one agrees with this weird world view
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 12:21 PM
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No, I’d rather have both throughout the rest of my life. You can balance it all, 20’s are when you’re the most fit so enjoy it
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 12:18 PM
5

Most people care about body count, just not in the extent some people on PPD want you to believe
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 12:04 PM
5

It always seems weird to me when people say “he doesn’t deserve her” based on looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 11:31 AM
5

If you are mature, it doesn’t always need to get heated
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 11:32 AM
1

Risk taking behaviour, giving no fucks, confidence and assertiveness are all attractive traits
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 10:18 PM
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Not trying to diss you or anything, but these type of stories always seem so incredibly fake. I don’t know if it is just because it is the internet and especially reddit, or that the humble bragging always causes it. But maybe it is real, for all we know
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 10:15 PM
1

If you mean heirs to fortunes, royals, then yeah there are some men and women who are born with value
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 10:02 PM
1

Yes, being multiple men really is the hardest, you know how hard it is to live with 5 pair of arms?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 09:59 PM
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Yeah it depends on the hours working and the pay grade of course
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 11:03 AM
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You both work, you both should contribute to the household and with money. It doesn’t have to be equal. But both should compromise
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 10:51 AM
3

Well isn’t looks or at least what type of looks you are attracted to completely subjective
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 10:10 AM
1

If your reality is the internet, yeah you’re on the right track
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 08:34 PM
1

Yeah, and these “attractive traits” aren’t even seen in real assholes. Internet shut ins just perceive normal people as assholes
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 09:00 AM
2

But again, what you describe is not an asshole move, its banter, its being cheeky
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 07:55 AM
1

As I said, its a combination of things
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 10:42 PM
2

Except it isn’t being an asshole that is attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 10:42 PM
1

Enjoying eachothers company
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 09:24 PM
2

Of course, but most people, including women. Just don’t want it
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 09:24 PM
3

Pretty sure most women want to have NO draft, even for men
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 08:56 PM
10

Yeah but most guys that internet shut ins think are assholes, aren’t. I can guarantee you that an internet shut in whiteknight would think I’m an asshole
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 08:34 PM
2

Never met a man who said that men need to be drafted either
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 08:33 PM
28

Being the asshole doesn’t make you attractive though. The person I know who slays the most is a very kind guy. He just knows when to be cheeky. Thats the problem, most of these internet dwellers don’t know the difference with joking/being cheeky and being a genuine asshole
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 06:31 PM
6

Love is real, it is just not “meeting someones needs”. Its more than that
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 06:26 PM
3

No, thats not how it works lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 06:25 PM
1

How do you know that your vote wasn’t the deciding vote? What if everyone thought like you?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 06:18 PM
5

I’m in your walls
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 06:14 PM
1

Yeah I’m also an ESTP what about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 06:14 PM
1

Votes do matter though, vote for the party you want to win, not voting doesn’t help
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 06:13 PM
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Bruh imagine marrying someone who you don’t truly love
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 06:12 PM
2

But there is a difference between hard labour and breaking harsh conditions
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 04:06 PM
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No i meant, back breaking harsh conditions
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 01:58 PM
8

But isn’t this something, men also don’t actually want…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 01:51 PM
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Yeah, or decouple it from the gov’t
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 01:51 PM
4

Name an example, because I genuinely can’t think of one
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 01:33 PM
1

Hmmm, idk, seeing as a girl like that is clearly shallow, and wasn’t that good looking, only makes it funnier
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 01:08 PM
3

Completely depends on the situation, cops are an extension of the government, and the government can be very dangerous
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 01:02 PM
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Well I was the “unlucky guy” for a long time, but I never cared. But yeah, sometimes they go off with them, but again, we don’t care. The funniest anecdote was one girl approaching my friend, they went away. And later he told us that she said “why are all of your friends so ugly but you are hot” and we laughed our ass off
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 12:58 PM
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Yeah there is a split indeed, but the split is becoming less and less. Some have an easier time, some a bit harder. But we are never disenfranchised because it isn’t number 1 priority for any of us. We don’t go to clubs to pick up chicks, we go to have a good time.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 12:41 PM
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Most men here would kill to be in a relationship, most women on this sub don’t mind being alone
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 10:30 AM
1

How can you not see if a women wants zero sex or you have to initiate it CONSTANTLY. Ps: chad
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 10:29 AM
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I think it is the other way around, especially when looking at this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 10:27 AM
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Username checks out
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 10:03 AM
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This is a lot different than SA though. Because this is technically a choice, SA is not
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 09:57 AM
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I guess? I mean, half my friend group is virgin, other half is not. And we are younger. But we almost never “try to pick up girls” in the bar or clubs.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 09:17 AM
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Very different experience than me I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 09:16 AM
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Men who work hard can also have casual sex, granted, it’ll be less because they’re men. But they can still have it. The men who are working less are not seen as losers. Idk in which world you live but everyone just does at least something in uni
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 09:12 AM
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If a woman suddenly shows interest, but no sexual interest whatsoever, you’d know
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 09:06 AM
0

That must suck, I have a whole different experience from that
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 09:05 AM
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Oh yeah in my country it is a saying too, I think it is in almost every country lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 07:53 AM
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Isn’t that something that you see, even when not experienced. I’d get it if you’ve been sheltered your whole life, but if you’re live a normal life you notice it
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 07:48 AM
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The situation you talk about aren’t the norm though. In uni almost everyone is working hard and at the same time partying, even the “beta billy’s” It also isn’t that hard to find a woman who didn’t have sex with dozen of guys. Because again, it isn’t the norm. And why would you even marry someone who is not attracted to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 06:48 AM
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Okay, exceptions can be made
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 11:39 PM
2

When everyone, everyone jumps of the bridge into the water, are you just going to stand there? Even your mother who just said the saying is there in the water, you’re not going to jump?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 11:35 PM
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Everyone always talks about that, the fact that you bring it up even proves it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 11:31 PM
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Why though? Whats the reasoning behind this
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 11:30 PM
2

Bro 500? No way, at a certain point too much becomes too much
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 11:29 PM
2

But I wonder, why can’t you sexually explore with one partner, why do you need many
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 05:01 PM
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First one, a lot of people talk to themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 04:55 PM
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For relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 09:22 PM
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Too big of an age gap would be weird
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 09:12 PM
1

Okay good
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 08:36 PM
1

Did you know serial killers try to act as normal humans?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 08:27 PM
1

Wait how old are yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 08:26 PM
1

So how is stoic asshole a serial killer?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 08:01 PM
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So why do you take their advice to heart then
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 07:59 PM
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So you are just bullshitting in your comment… lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 07:49 PM
1

No blaming women for everything and thinking that only the chaddest of chads can have a wife is blackpill
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 07:48 PM
1

Idk, why do you think redpillers are right?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 07:48 PM
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Men aren’t hardwired to be non-monogamous
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 07:13 PM
1

Again, seems more like blackpill behaviour
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 07:12 PM
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I think you think of blackpillers, not red pillers
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 07:12 PM
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Ted Bundy is a serial killer, most red pillers not
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 07:11 PM
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I always thought it was an american thing, I live in the tallest country in the world and even for me (being reasonably far below the average) it isn’t a problem
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 06:45 PM
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Yeah sort of, but you made it yourself so 9/10 times it still tastes good
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 12:09 PM
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Freezer
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 12:07 PM
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And I see it in reverse too, the fact is, that only muscles won’t get you anywhere
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 12:04 PM
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The trick is to mealprep multiple meals, and rotate them throughout the week or 2 weeks
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 12:00 PM
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Idk if it was bragging though, more like “very surprising”
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 05:49 PM
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How though, how is that your conclusion. Only a 7 year difference and with someone who is in the same phase of life. Why does that suddenly mean they fuck 17 year olds
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 05:35 PM
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This person is 29, dating a 22 year old. Not really that big of a stretch
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 05:29 PM
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How is 22 even “ephebophile” they’re an adult for 4 years already, probably in the same phase of life or at least very close to eachother
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 05:20 PM
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Tbh, me as a man, I don’t even have a dream girl. Just standards that need to be met. If you fulfil those standards, then you’re good
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 05:16 PM
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If you are just dating, split the bill. If you are in a relationship, change it up, one pays this day and the other the other day
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 08:41 PM
3

Why shouldn’t you show full transparency?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 09:38 PM
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Why do you think honesty isn’t the best?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 09:01 PM
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Nah full honesty of both is the best
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 08:42 PM
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So yeah, this is actually a good thing so women don’t get roped into a fake relationship or just quick sex if they don’t want to. Whats the bad idea behind this?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 08:27 PM
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Except, most men don’t do that
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 01:06 PM
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Yeah but you talk as if it is okay for people to pull that shit, which is not. You have a weird fantasy about men better than you
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 11:30 AM
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It is literal definition of value to these people, a product
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 11:25 AM
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Seems like a weird fantasy about men you have there
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 11:12 AM
2

Cheating makes one automatically low value
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 11:10 AM
4

And did you know that you can completely ignore that?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 08:32 AM
1

Yeah but if you use game and according to the OP “faking it” then it has no use
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 07:50 PM
2

High is different for everyone, some users here think 1 is too high so keep that in mind
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 07:41 PM
1

Yeah but mostly ONS, then game is perfect to use
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 07:39 PM
1

Best? Probably strawberry, raspberry, watermelon or pineapple Worst? From what I’ve eaten pomelo
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 07:14 PM
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Yes, and that's still useless advice whereas OP is presenting good advice. You really do need to specifically befriend Chad type men like OP is saying because there are lots of bitch made men everywhere you go. It really isn’t useless though, finding a social circle is always good, friends are needed in life. But to befriend “chad type friends” you first need to be likeable yourself. No one wants to befriend a loser. Befriend higher ranking men at a BJJ/MMA gym is sound advice if you can swing i…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 07:11 PM
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The advice has always been “get a social circle, be social, make friends”
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 03:15 PM
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Yeah, which I find unfair indeed
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 10:07 AM
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I completely disagree with those words, because they are derogatory, and shouldn’t be said. But promiscuous is just what people are if they have a large body count
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 10:01 AM
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How is having the chance at a good relationship, worse than not having a chance at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 09:49 AM
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You mean that for example a woman having a body count of 50 makes her promiscuous but a man having the same body count does not? How does that make sense? They have both been promiscuous
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 09:46 AM
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Honestly, people should just date whoever they want and don’t give a fuck about what other people think about your preferences
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 09:31 AM
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But the word promiscuous isn’t derogatory, the other words though, jeez
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 09:30 AM
3

Some things on your list don’t really matter for attracting people and some actually do. I believe for men, money and talent isn’t really a requirement, status is iffy but also not really needed And for women, humor, and confidence is more needed + status is again iffy. (Also with the shaming part, it really just is a very small percentage that say that, especially for the fat and promiscuous women)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 09:17 AM
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Yeah thats why I said people, because I think it is kinda a general thing
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 09:44 AM
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I mean, caring to such an extreme degree is RP, but it isn’t weird to care that you don’t want someone who has been with 100 people for example
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 09:09 AM
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Mate it is a fact that you can’t check the hymen to see if a woman is a virgin because it doesn’t work 100% of the time
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 08:59 AM
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Well that can happen, what I experienced in the past, is thinking “he looks like a dick and gets so many women, must be because he is a dick” but then actually becoming friends with them and they aren’t a dick at all. I feel that is what mostly happens
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 10:45 AM
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And if she is satisfied, then you have nothing to worry about, don’t make it a self-fulfilling prophecy. See it as this, imagine 1/6th of the relationship is about sex, and 1/4th of sex is about satisfaction, and 1/6th of satisfaction is penetration. Then only 1/144th of the relationship is “big dick” (if my calculations are right lol)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 10:20 AM
1

And are you sure nobody liked this guy? Or did you think that because you don’t like the guy. And maybe this person is nice to the women around him.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 09:57 AM
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If she is fully satisfied, sex doesn’t need to “be better” because she isn’t missing anything + relationships are more than just sex
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 09:56 AM
1

Yeah but you don’t seem to understand that “big dick” isn’t everything. If you can be honest with eachother and she is satisfied, then she won’t randomly want to go for a “bigger dick”
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 09:51 AM
1

Again, it is how you use it, and the foreplay you use beforehand Edit: and c’mon, not every woman is going to leave you “because she needs a bigger dick” and it certainly isn’t the main thing they look for
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 09:41 AM
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Thats why you shouldn’t lower your standards because other people say it. Just don’t complain when you for example can’t find anyone if your standards are unrealistic
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 09:40 AM
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Yeah, it isn’t the norm and it is weird af. Especially because 6 years could make such a difference in life experience. (Dating an older guy in 20’s is way different than dating an older guy being in HS)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 09:37 AM
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Thickness is what counts the most, not length per say. And it is definitely about how you use it + foreplay, then you’re golden
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 09:27 AM
2

So what happened?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 09:26 AM
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Man, just keep trying and please vet well, you’ll see that you’ll get way more quality people in your life if you vet more.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 09:25 AM
2

Since when do you get “rewarded” for being an asshole? And if you’ve seen it irl, can you give an example?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 08:41 AM
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The pool of being charismatic and nice is way larger than you think
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 06:25 AM
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In their 20’s is a lot different than in high school though
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 06:24 AM
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Look, the thing about your post is, that it looks like you think only the quiet and reserved guy can be the nice guy, which obviously isn’t true
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 11:19 PM
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Thats the thing, no one is complaining about not giving boring people a chance, absolutely no one
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 11:10 PM
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I am a guy, and I can tell you, if someone (man, woman, whatever) isn’t even slightly interesting the first date then people will get disinterested. They won’t give you a chance because you won’t show your best side
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 10:37 PM
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Netherlands, land of the giants
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 10:15 PM
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“Seem boring” is a lot different than “being boring” But if you date, and you don’t show your interests, then on a surface level you’ll always “be boring
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 10:04 PM
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Exactly, and if you don’t have that exitedness, then you’re bad traits are going to show even more
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 10:03 PM
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Hmm yeah the average in my country is higher
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 10:02 PM
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Hmmm I’d say “tall girls” are in the 5’8 to 6’2 length
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 09:02 PM
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The nice but boring guys are never going to be interesting, because they are boring
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 09:01 PM
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But answer my other question, what age range are you talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 08:40 PM
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And if you had that scale, it would still mean women have a factor that makes them more attracted to you. Bro the factor for men is beauty, are you now going to claim men aren’t actually attracted to women, but just their body?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 08:37 PM
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“Taller girls” “5’6 to 5’10 range”, bro those are normal height girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 08:33 PM
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Again, in what reality are you living where this is the biggest factor? And also, what age range (that may be why our experience differs greatly)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 08:13 PM
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Again, your article in its abstract already explains it is a factor, not the only thing women are attracted too. It just isn’t the only thing women are attracted too, but if that has been your experience with women, maybe try to vet more
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 07:38 PM
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It certainly is, let’s say the scales are 1/1.000.000 for men. Women would be 1.000/1.000.000 this is a bigger factor, but it is not “the only thing they are attracted too” I’m sorry that that is your experience with women
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 07:35 PM
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And again, it being more of a factor =/= mean women are only attracted to money.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 07:26 PM
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Tall girls get comparatively wayyy less attention than shorter girls, and get clowned on by men. Education? Definitely, especially for LTR’s. But it is mostly a factor of “same situation” Career indeed LTR’s. Fashion sense, yep Assets, maybe less, but still needed (no one wants that broke girl) Confidence the same And social status definitely, the stories I’ve heard from other men and even sometimes catch myself doing is just almost not talk about the women who are very low ranking on the social…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 07:25 PM
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Hmm, I have a way different experience, but alas, its all anecdotal
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 06:58 PM
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Or just, not reading the articles older than 10 years old like you are supposed to do. Which most of the time refute half of their articles
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 06:55 PM
1

So 1 person here does it…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 06:53 PM
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I just find the whole post weird? As if it is trying to say “women don’t actually like men they just want your money” which obviously isn’t true. It just is a factor (and mostly for older women, never have I seen a college aged women complain about a man having too little money)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 06:51 PM
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So the last article, you say “women aren’t attracted to men, but to money/power” which the article in its abstract already doesn’t say/ almost refutes. Income is a more defining factor for attractiveness, but this does not mean women aren’t attracted to men. That would be saying that men are attracted to beauty, but not to women Edit: also, look up the same type of article with why men have sex, you’d probably also come up with many more different things than “love”
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 06:46 PM
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Let’s just say it would be pretty weird if you somehow date a highschooler as 30 year old working at a law firm
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 06:39 PM
0

Toxic masculinity certainly exists, it is just that nowadays many normal masculine things are seen as toxic
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 06:32 PM
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Oh, you mean the guys who are sociable and chill with everyone? The guys who are fun to be with? Not the quiet “nice” guy in the corner.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 06:31 PM
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Being “nice” is the bare minimum
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 06:29 PM
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But in general, social, personable people tend to not whine on the internet about it OR don’t struggle that hard
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 06:22 PM
1

Of course, who honestly puts money at #1. Those things are way lower on the ranking
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 06:17 PM
1

Pretty sure this happens the same way for men…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 04:17 PM
9

No absolutely not, for desperate men maybe. But for most if not all self respecting men, these are a factor
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 02:55 PM
2

Dating just isn’t fair, both men and women have different standards and get judged differently. And it’ll never change…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 02:51 PM
3

Height, education, career, fashion sense, assets, confidence and social status are also important for a womans attractiveness though
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 02:44 PM
1

Doesn’t matter, they still had done a sexual act, why should it matter if something went inside or not. Would still mean a “lack of self control”
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 02:40 PM
1

Luckily vetting exists!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 01:16 PM
2

Why though, that logic is just so backwards
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 11:07 AM
3

So weird that these type of people don’t want to have sex with people they want to be with. Or was it that they don’t want to immediately have sex with these people
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 10:56 AM
2

Because both aren’t the guys here
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 10:49 AM
1

I never got this, why are you a cuck if you have/want a daughter? Or is it just a joke
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 10:09 AM
1

Huh, yeah thats weird then, maybe you’ll find your niche, maybe not. Idk
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 05:41 PM
1

I mean, not to be a dick, but did you actually interact with people?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 05:05 PM
1

Damn bro, haven’t you had any social activities organized by the college in the first week? Or workgroups?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 04:40 PM
1

Or in the dating phase not give a fuck, but this option is pretty hard
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 04:34 PM
5

One of the big reasons, the other being: not attractive, no hobbies, isn’t willing to lower standards
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 04:32 PM
3

Oh I thought failed tests or something
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 04:31 PM
1

They’re not going to give an answer because they don’t have any probably
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 04:22 PM
1

What L’s did you take
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 04:20 PM
1

Not that hard to live without a girlfriend though… keep up king
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 04:16 PM
2

I think their mentality is “I conquered something unconquerable”
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 04:15 PM
3

No but honestly, because I’ve seen it multiple times now and I am curious to whatever happened that has completely destroyed your view of women
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 03:44 PM
3

Reddit is a cespool of hate
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 03:38 PM
6

Honestly bro, how many women have you been betrayed by? Or was it one very hard betrayal
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 03:36 PM
1

Just so weird, maybe its the american college experience but I haven’t seen it in all the time i’ve been to university now. Just now, for the first time I’m seeing a bit of IDpol.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 03:36 PM
1

Yep, these are the unrealistic standards for some men on this sub, and it is also exactly the reason they never fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 03:25 PM
2

Most of these accusations are true, sometimes they are just unfair or not worded correctly. Sometimes sexual assault gets inflated to rape, sometimes both had drunk sex, don’t remember, and then the man is at fault for some reason
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 03:21 PM
1

The problem most of the time is that it doesn’t get reported though
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 03:00 PM
2

Bro really thinks every woman is out to get them
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 02:53 PM
2

17
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 02:53 PM
1

The woman in real life doesn’t represent everyone and is an exaggeration
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 02:18 PM
2

But “just sex” is never “just sex” It is more than the movements
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 12:29 PM
1

In real life, you can consider body counts, no one stops you
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 12:28 PM
4

No one is telling you to lower your standards, you do that yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 11:38 AM
5

For most people it isn’t only about the act of sex, its about being intimate, love, for some even conquest. Prostitution doesn’t have anything of that, you just buy sex
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 11:35 AM
1

Thats why I said, it is fine to have standards and you don’t have to apologise for them. Just don’t go screaming about whores once a woman isn’t a virgin anymore because that is just a dick move
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 10:57 AM
1

Yeah no, you can also just, not be a dick
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 10:39 AM
1

I am fairly certain I’ve seen both happen, both got clowned at behind the back at first because it was just in their own friend circle. But once they began irritating other people, they got clowned, the man and the woman. Because no one likes someone with an ego inflated like an airship
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 10:35 AM
1

No look the thing is, it isn’t wrong to say “I prefer virgin women”, nothing wrong with that because it is a preference. What is wrong is saying “I prefer virgin women because if they’ve fucked another man they’re whores”
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 10:34 AM
4

Men shittalk women all the time, especially in such a situation. And no, not all women would gas her up, 95% would talk behind her back and only her friends gas her up. Also, if a man did that, no one would call him out, just like what happens with women. And IF they do get laughed at, its by both genders, and this happens to women too
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 10:10 AM
2

You just went out of your way to call them that, you are literally a prime example
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 09:47 AM
5

How would the men talk to each other? Indeed, talking shit about her. What would women do? Some yass her (her friends) others would shit on her.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 09:28 AM
4

Yeah because this totally doesn’t happen if the genders reverse
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 08:01 AM
3

What you are seeing is the online world here. If you spend most of your time in the real world, you won’t get as delusional
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 07:58 AM
4

No the thing is, you can have that preference. But most people who have that preference go out of their way to call women sluts or whores for sleeping with more than 3 people.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 07:56 AM
0

Yesterday I saw someone who said “if she is a virgin a relationship will go smoother, no bagage from past relationships and no wants she got in the past relationship” Which sounded very manipulative
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 07:55 AM
0

You keep your standards high, in the real world people aren’t so fast to absolutely bash you for it. And standards are standards, they aren’t going to make sense to some people
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 07:54 AM
1

And you care what some girl on a video says?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 07:51 AM
2

You can say both? And you get just as much shit from both genders for both statements? In which world can’t you say both, not this one
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 07:51 AM
6

Guns aren’t necessary for a free society, and I would definitely not call the US one of the freest countries because it has guns. Also, yeah its exactly the same with contraceptives, but I wouldn’t expect less of a hypocrite
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 09:29 PM
4

Ah so conservatives wanting to ban contraceptives is the same thing then right? Also, no one, and I mean no one. Is advocating for banning people for misgendering (and social media is a lot different than real life). But yeah I do agree with your “misinformation” bit
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 09:14 PM
4

Yeah but there is a difference in restricting objects and people (also, which “liberal” is against free speech?)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 08:50 PM
4

Honestly though, this is kinda a both sides issue, and i’d rather stick with the side that doesn’t want to restrict peoples rights
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 08:49 PM
11

Thats because liberals are non-inclusive to people who try to restrict rights of other people…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 08:05 PM
10

That is a low bar, have some respect for yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 08:03 PM
10

Because incels (men and women) don’t like to go outside, most of them don’t like that kind of environment
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 08:02 PM
1

That is possible indeed
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 05:56 PM
1

No it isn’t immature, it is his standards, everyones standards are valid
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 05:12 PM
1

It really doesn’t, the numbers online are way skewed compared to irl
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 05:02 PM
1

Dating is hypocritical
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 04:02 PM
4

Yeah one is talking about height and the other about body count
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 03:03 PM
1

I guess we are just fundamentally the opposite lol, take care and thanks for explaining!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 02:58 PM
2

So I am not the only one who did that, nice
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 02:52 PM
6

Anyone who disagrees with me
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 02:51 PM
2

generally speaking less sexual and emotional baggage that she will bring into relationship. I get the sexual part, but emotional? Who said that for every body you have you had to be in a relationship? Because if every body comes with a new relationship then that is a much bigger red flag. None of the "This should work like that because that's how it worked with my other boyfriend." or "I don't do that because my other boyfriend did this". I mean, thats just how life works right? You want for you…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 02:37 PM
0

Based beyond belief
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 02:27 PM
2

I’m not a woman but can I ask why though? Because I myself never got why it would make someone more attractive. For myself only a high bodycount (for example 20 yo but 30 bodies) is unattractive, but having a body count of for example 5 wouldn’t make them unattractive
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 02:24 PM
2

Huh, I’ve never seen this in this sub, only either “i’m a virgin” or “i’m not a virgin”
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 02:21 PM
3

You can get STD’s with ONS or get a girl pregnant, no “chad” would want that
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 02:19 PM
3

You can’t be serious right? That would turn anyone off because it takes you out of the mood like that
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 02:18 PM
3

Have you seen people actually say this on this forum?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 02:13 PM
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The thing is, you are saying it like it is illegal to say? Which it isn’t. If people don’t like your opinion, fuck them. A plethora of men hate the “I only date tall guys” opinion and are very vocal about it. Not every opinion you have or preference is going to be accepted by people, but you just need to get over yourself and stop caring about what others think
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 02:01 PM
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Maybe because it is a very weird thing to say suddenly? Also, facebook, really? If you are just talking with your peers, and someone doesn’t like what you say, you just tell them this: “Its my preference, since when can’t you have preferences anymore” and say something about their preference
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 01:54 PM
8

In what reality do you live that you can’t say “i prefer virgin women”
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 01:37 PM
12

I haven’t downvoted you? But idk, I don’t really care what others think of my standards
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 01:36 PM
21

Since when can you not do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 12:54 PM
103

Or just, you can date anyone who you want and you can reject anyone for whatever reason you want, like in the real world
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 12:09 PM
2

I hope you’re being sarcastic
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 08:57 AM
2

Imagine going to this subreddit for advice
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 08:38 AM
1

Because the other option is better, I mean, a little fat isn’t wrong, small butt or boobs is dateable. But….
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 08:16 PM
1

No its about half and half
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 07:23 PM
1

No, because me and my peers are gen Z
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 06:45 PM
1

Thats weird, because If I am walking on the street, look at myself, look at friend and family. I see many couples with men either below 6” or not that beautiful, or not both
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 04:19 PM
1

Initial attraction is only about looks, the rest comes after
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 02:47 PM
1

Since when does initial attraction not exist anymore?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 02:35 PM
1

(They suck in bed themselves)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 12:58 PM
1

This doesn’t happen. Great sex is great sex, it won’t destroy your relationship. Why would you lose respect of your partner after great sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 12:58 PM
2

Lets just say that for some reason, parents don’t always give the best advice. I mean, what can I do with “it’ll come on your path”
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 12:54 PM
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Yeah that’s it. Men are way more visual, so it is logical that men find women “attractive” a lot quicker
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 10:15 AM
1

Not a woman but what do you think should be changed?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 10:10 AM
2

Then cheating would still be the wrong move to do, especially if the marriage isn’t over for the woman. If you mutually agree that its over, but you’ll stick for the children, then thats another story
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 08:31 AM
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You never “deserve” to cheat. The best option if you’re incompatible is leave. But not cheat. Cheating is just a dick move
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 07:37 AM
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You need to do stuff for your partner, love them, care for them, do little things. And most of these go automatically because you like them that much. But could still be seen as transactional
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 03:03 PM
10

If you talk relationship wise, every relationship is transactional
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 02:24 PM
3

So, a chad is someone who can date a woman? Damn, being chad isn’t that rare I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 11:16 AM
2

They’ll just say the reason is you are six foot, thats why you get relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 11:13 AM
9

You really think it works like that every single time
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 07:46 AM
1

Depends on how old you are I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 05:21 PM
1

Bruh if your wife acts like that, leave
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 12:52 PM
2

Why not have just something in between, someone that wants to do stuff for you but also can be independent?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 06:52 AM
6

Pretty sure that that is still colorist, because it is the exact same thing
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 06:50 AM
3

Looks is the first thing they see and is a make or break situation, looks is the most important
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 06:48 AM
2

Why link a nonsense article then that doesn’t prove anything
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 06:36 PM
7

OP, you constantly say things like “this thread is for men in general not you” but just see that most men on this thread don’t agree with you
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 06:31 PM
1

There isn’t even a link to a study, at least not that I see
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 06:30 PM
1

I trust any person to be a person. And even good people can be tempted. That's why she won't be my girlfriend, if she places herself in situations where temptation is expected. If it is part of what you do, (so going to parties etc.) I wont stop your hobbies, because I have the exact same hobbies. What do you think will happen if your girlfriend bumps into her celebrity crush while having that girl's holiday to miami? Nothing, I trust her to not do anything What if that guy thinks she's attracti…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 02:45 PM
1

If you don’t trust your gf not to cheat, why are you in a relationship with them? I trust my gf, so I don’t care
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 02:10 PM
-1

The same thing that happens on a Lad vacation in Mallorca, partying. But normal people can still stay loyal when having a partner, I know I did
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 12:18 PM
5

But what does that have to do with a “girls trip to miami”
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 11:00 PM
3

Idk, it feels more like that the older people are the ones complaining the most on this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 08:04 PM
1

That’s really sad, but good that she said that, those people are the ones you DONT want to date
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 05:50 PM
2

NEVER ask this sub for relationship advice. Actually, NEVER ask reddit for advice
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 04:53 PM
2

I think the whole “maidenless” thing came from Elden Ring.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 03:01 PM
15

Unfortunately, you are maidenless
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 02:44 PM
1

Indeed, because who would want to be with someone you detest
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 08:12 PM
1

Yep, so this “beta bux” thing isn’t common as you say it is
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 04:36 PM
1

Nope, every date I went on was okay with it, my current girlfriend too
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 03:20 PM
1

And how do you explain constant splitting the bills, and students under 185 dating then?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 02:48 PM
1

Kid named punchable:
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 01:33 PM
2

Because unlike what this sub thinks, height isn’t that important. The time I was on tinder, I was never asked my height, I was never turned down because of height, and I never had my height in my bio. I have never seen a woman who had “must be 6 ft” in their bio. Only thing I saw very rarely was their own height
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 07:21 AM
1

So why do so many people below 185 still date and fuck?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 07:15 AM
1

Lol “either people can debate it or realise its a fact” Yes of course some women bodyshame, but it isn’t “hardwired” in them as you say
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 07:14 AM
6

Classic PPD
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 07:04 AM
1

Yeah age isn’t required either, but that one is very recommended, height not
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 06:59 AM
1

For some people this sounds boring, for some this sounds interesting. Go for the people who find these things interesting. And you probably won’t find them in a nightclub
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 07:55 AM
3

Someone who doesn’t win a competition
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 07:42 AM
6

Nope, because boring isn’t “reliable”. Boring is boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 07:40 AM
2

The whole post is a clown post
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 07:39 AM
1

If you aren’t in a country that has a draft, then no, you don’t get any benefits just because you have a penis
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 07:38 AM
1

You can easily be genuinely nice without being boring to many people
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 07:30 AM
1

But this “men need to try 100x harder” is also just plain wrong. Yes they need to try harder, but not nearly as hard as you are saying
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 08:26 PM
2

Yeah actually most people I know (men) aren’t a virgin. You are just in a visual circle regarding sex as a man
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 05:52 PM
1

Yes, and it isn’t that hard as you think
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 05:22 PM
1

It is not extremely hard to get sex as a man
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 04:58 PM
1

No indeed, because it isn’t that hard to get sex
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 04:52 PM
3

It is just as gross
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 04:30 PM
2

On tinder it definitely isn’t
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 03:26 PM
2

That is the crux with the whole BB thing, why would anyone settle for someone who is not attractive to them?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 02:57 PM
3

Rough and dominant is exciting, you can still be the “sweet boyfriend” while being exciting
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 02:47 PM
9

If your girl is still on tinder in your relationship, something is fundamentally wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 09:06 AM
5

I think it becomes a problem when in conversation and you complain about it. “I want a virgin girl but all women are whores” That kind of thing
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 08:03 AM
7

So, everyone in a relationship, as a guy you are above average?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 07:58 AM
1

Yeah then its okay I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 06:52 AM
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For some of them, it does. They think that sex will make their life that much better
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 06:52 AM
8

It doesn’t mean that though, except if you think that everyone is a supermodel who is more attractive than you
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 06:51 AM
2

I just hope that you don’t care if people call you “incel” or “insecure loser” for making comments like this. Because if it did you might be a bit of a hypocrite
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 05:56 AM
1

Actually, preferences don’t need an explanation, doesn’t matter what the preference is
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 05:53 AM
2

Doesn’t matter, if you slept with 100 women, you are still the equivalent of a woman who has slept with 100 men
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 05:51 AM
2

It’s selfishness to have standards?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 05:47 AM
10

Looks is what everyone is attracted to ar first sight, it is very important
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 05:43 AM
28

With these kind of posts its almost always sex
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 05:41 AM
1

May I ask, why not just say you didn’t feel the connection instead of making excuses?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 05:35 AM
4

If the woman was bored, then the guy was boring, simple as
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 05:34 AM
2

Why do you fill in your height in your profile then? I never see height requirements in womens profiles
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 05:16 AM
1

Yeah true, anecdotes do mean shit. But it is just so weird to me hearing people say “people wont see you as a man if you’re under [insert height here]” because i personally haven’t seen it happen
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 10:06 PM
1

Yeah some ugly dudes get sex from ugly women, thats how it works. But since when did we get on the “ugly dudes” subject?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 09:46 PM
1

Oh yeah also fucking. So not this “gay friend” dynamic you are talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 09:27 PM
1

I am 5’8”, plenty of female friends, attention from women in an “interested” way. And never get that weird behaviour from women that this sub talks about. (The ick? Treated as subhuman or something?)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 08:50 PM
10

Exactly, also never met a woman who was like “no you’re too short” (and I am 5’8”, which according to this sub is “over”)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 07:39 PM
4

Maybe it isn’t your looks, but your personality, the way you carry yourself, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 07:16 PM
34

Realise first that in the real world, being below 6” isn’t as bad as it is portrayed on this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 07:13 PM
5

Any fight about preferences doesn’t matter, every preference is valid. Who is someone to tell who you should love
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 01:21 PM
2

Nah indeed I am going to do what feels good, but not planning on “settling down” because I am still young, but having someone to spend time with isn’t bad
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 05:52 PM
2

I could and wanted it, but now I have someone that I feel a genuine connection to
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 05:19 PM
1

Oh okay lol not that many, 11, and I am 20. I slept with them because I could
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 05:13 PM
1

Yeah? Well at least idk if it is your definition of lots but yeah I guess?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 05:00 PM
1

Except I do, and already did, doesn’t change my feelings
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 04:26 PM
2

I mean, I still have all those “love” feelings, just for the right one. I can distinguish sex from love, it isn’t that hard
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 03:57 PM
2

At least for me, being a man, it is the deep connection, making eachother laugh, trusting eachother, making eachother happy and making eachother feel good physically
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 02:02 PM
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Oh it wasn’t about that. Just about the other guy instantly going to the worst or shallow situation
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 12:59 PM
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Okay, I am a couple that “splits bills”. And we are both students, no one here has a “shared account” or anything
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 11:12 AM
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Huh? What even is that sentence? Splitting the bills means even pay, you know that right?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 10:54 AM
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Oof, so how do you explain people who split the bills?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 10:44 AM
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Is this an opinion who hasn’t ever had any female, or male friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 10:43 AM
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3 whole hours on the phone? Bruh an hour is already hard for me
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 10:31 AM
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/s?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 10:29 AM
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Bruh what, just instantly going for the worst option
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 10:29 AM
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What does it matter, the post talks about women in general. What does it matter if you pull many average women (which by reading this post seems impossible)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 07:43 AM
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Yeah true, every time I visit this sub and see these complaints I think “maybe I am a chad”
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 07:41 AM
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