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| 3 | CMV: Missing out on teen love as a male can be hugely detrimental in later years while courting a woman.Socially awkward girl next door is a myth. She wants Chad as much as the the hot girls. Guys are not struggling because they are going for hot girls, you are gaslighting men by saying this and it's disgusting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/23 09:09 PM |
| 13 | Did having a sibling of the oppostie gender make you more sympathetic of the struggles of the other gender?Two older sisters. One is a horrible person. A lazy, borderline malignant narcissist, a terrible liar, I don't consider her a sister anymore. Of course she never had a problem dating and has three children, only men need to be emotionally mature and have all their ducks in a row to have a love life. The other sister is a typical early millennial alpha boss babe, she's one of those rare women who has it all; successful career (works for the government in department of health) and four children wi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/23 03:09 PM |
| – | Women claiming to be 'Sapiosexual' often do so either inaccurately or as code for something else.Also known as short sighted Chad. Actual intelligence means very little to women. The higher your IQ as a man the less likely you have a partner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/23 12:14 PM |
| 2 | Modern dating is ruined, and it's not just because of the women, men are also to blameYou don't have the answers kiddo | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/23 06:31 PM |
| 4 | Just pay attention to herOne of the dumbest post I have ever read on here. The amount of attention you give a woman means very little. Guys like you who think you 'KNOW' something are smug and pathetic, you said nothing that hasn't been said a million times before and is not applicable for the vast majority of men. Sounds like your trying to sell a course. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/23 10:09 PM |
| 4 | What is your age and what age do you find most physically attractive in women?I'm 30 27-40 are most attractive to me. Before 27 often looks very young. With the type of women I am attracted to mid 30s is probably the prime but swag, confidence and sophistication really grows with some women as they age. The classical example is Monica Bellucci who I think peaked in her late 30s. While a more unexpected example is Caitriona Balfe who looked very young as a model throughout her 20s and not sexy, then some aging in her 30s actually enhanced some of her feature and I think sh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/23 01:16 PM |
| 1 | Guys who struggle with dating have you ever asked a female friend how to fix your looks?If only you were white. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/23 08:47 AM |
| 4 | CMV Most Men that get cheated on have themselves to blameLook at this nonsense. Tragic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/23 03:17 PM |
| 2 | Q4M, have you ever rejected a girl because she was too nice?No because women are generally not nice people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/23 07:41 AM |
| 2 | Male settling is as responsible for dead bedrooms as female settlingWomen are overrated. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/23 03:22 PM |
| -1 | Men seem to spend their energy convincing bitchy women to fuck/date them.All women are bitchy. There are no nice women, the homely average and nelow average women are just as bitchy. Terrible gaslighting. 3 out of 10 for effort. Sad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/23 04:39 PM |
| 2 | Whats ideal female body and face for you?I agree on Marilyn, although I prefer Katherine Hepburn, Lauren Bacall, Rita Hayworth, Marlene Dietrich, Hedy Lamarr and Ava Gardner from that golden age era. With Kim K, I think it's the influence. A man may not find her attractive but she's probably had an influence on the women he does find attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/23 06:35 PM |
| 1 | Whats ideal female body and face for you?LOL What do you mean ? Which ones ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/23 06:29 PM |
| 2 | Whats ideal female body and face for you?It's cool, your right should not have listed her that incident just wasn't on my mind when I read the question. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/23 06:04 PM |
| 5 | Whats ideal female body and face for you?Interesting. I have noticed that most men are not that bothered about facial beauty. For example, Christy Turlington said in her modelling prime she always got more attention from women than men. Carrie Anne Moss is another one I like but didn't list who women seem to find beautiful but I have never heard a man talk about her like that. I guess the average man is influenced by the potential attainability of a woman, most on my list would be very intimidating to most men including myself, I can b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/23 05:53 PM |
| 3 | Whats ideal female body and face for you?That's fair, I was just thinking in terms of physical beauty. If it was about behaviour, I wouldn't list Katy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/23 05:45 PM |
| 1 | Whats ideal female body and face for you?Yes I have always been relationship oriented, I knew casual sex wasn't for me by my early 20s, however I am very cynical about the whole dating these days. What's the correlation between appreciating real beauty and being relationship oriented? I was 50/50 about adding Katy but she has an unmistakable charisma that elevates her in my opinion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/23 05:26 PM |
| 6 | Whats ideal female body and face for you?There is no singular ideal but these are the women most attractive to me off the top of my head: Nicole Trunfio Monica Bellucci Stefania Ferrario Christy Turlington Gugu Mbatha Raw Penelope Cruz Caitriona Balfe Ai Tominaga Olga Kurylenko Catherine Zeta Jones Blanca Padilla Claudia Schiffer Katy Perry Elizabeth Debicki (Forgot to add her, so elegant) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/23 04:22 PM |
| 42 | Can we all agree that positive moral attributes such as kindness, sweetness, patience, and selflessness are not *sexually* attractive attributes for men?Murderers, Serial Killers and drug dealers have no problem with women. In the UK a 9 year old girl was killed by a notorious drug dealer. He was on the run for about a month before being turned in by an ex girlfriend. He has multiple kids. Everyone I know involved with crime has zero problems with finding casual sex or relationships. With regular guys it's a flip of a coin and then there are the many who get nothing and deal with it in silence. The big myth is that it is only mentally ill, low c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/23 04:54 AM |
| 1 | Why is being a tall woman a bad thing ? Why are man attracted to petite woman ?I'm very tall with a preference for tall women but living in a major city my whole life I don't come across enough tall women. I'm always startled when I see a women 6'0 tall and above without heels. Most men even tall men don't have the luxury of selecting for tall women, plus there are not enough of you to make hard filtering a sensible choice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/23 05:13 PM |
| 16 | Understanding Romance From A Male Perspective (Explaining The Disconnect)One of the best post I have ever read on this sub. Articulates the male pov brilliantly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/23 01:14 PM |
| 5 | Rejection in a twisted way is a good sign?Being a safe man is not a good thing, Christ who is raising you guys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/23 06:22 PM |
| 20 | New study finds men are leaving the workforce en masse, why work hard if you are not entitled to a wife nor children? This already happened in Japan by men turning into Hikkikomori and japanese economy is in the brink of collapse, men have left the plantation since theres nothing left for themThey don't care bro. If you could grant women a wish, most of them would ask for most men to disappear. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/23 05:00 PM |
| 28 | Modern day dating is basically a winner takes all market…It seems ALL women are like this, such that if one is not she sticks out like a sore thumb. It's really pathetic, makes it me want to shrug my shoulders when it comes to their issues, why should I care if you can't hold yourself or other women accountable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/23 11:57 PM |
| 99 | Modern day dating is basically a winner takes all market…Toxic Femininity is the elephant in the room but literally everything is the fault of men. It would enlightening if for once a woman could make a post or response on what women could do better but they actually seem incapable of this it's like a reflex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/23 11:34 PM |
| 1 | Why don't more young men learn how to validate their own masculinity instead of always depending on the stimuli of women, other men and society at large?Zero interest in Andrew Tate. I am from London and know people who know him personally, so have known he's a scumbag before he became internet famous. Usual blanket assumptions almost like a bot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/23 01:47 AM |
| 0 | Why don't more young men learn how to validate their own masculinity instead of always depending on the stimuli of women, other men and society at large?Male organizations and activities are criticized, banned and shamed. How would women do with no validation for their entire lives? Another bad faith post. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/23 12:40 AM |
| 2 | The AWALT Belief Hurts Men's ProgressionYes for myself, not for women, the juice is not worth the squeeze. As if you actually care about men's progression. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/23 06:35 PM |
| 9 | The AWALT Belief Hurts Men's ProgressionDon't see the point of these kind of post, it's over can't pull the wool over our eyes. Women have exposed who they really are all over social media, The Red Pill doesn't recruit men, men share notes on their experiences and find The RP. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/23 04:48 PM |
| 1 | A lot of red pilled dudes seem to think women are into bad guys, but they also forget if you're an average or ugly looking, fat neckbearded dude using asshole behavior to compensate for in the looks department, that will be just as off turning as being a shy timid nice guyYou really used the greatest player in the history of his sport as your example? Are you 12? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/23 01:24 PM |
| 3 | General idea of how modern Western woman engage in sexual activity95%. The lying is so pathetic, not fooling anyone. About 40% late millennials and gen z seem to really dislike condoms. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/23 11:34 PM |
| 8 | Women have a looks barrier for friends too.Men social circles particularly in big cities are very mixed | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/23 11:32 PM |
| 3 | Why do some ugly men think brooding makes them attractive, cool, and mysterious?I don't really see this, I feel like OP is setting up a red herring to express his agenda. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/23 11:30 PM |
| 7 | There are 50/50 male/female to hookup with each other but somehow there's a mass of men that are struggling but women are chilling. How does this make sense?The top men are SHARING women it's not rocket science | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/23 04:18 PM |
| – | Framing men as the ‘villains’ gets women no closer to better romantic relationshipsIf women like her (late millennial biracial London woman well known in leftist circles) are publishing articles like this in The Guardian maybe they are starting to see the limitations of this current version Feminism. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/22 11:32 AM |
| 12 | can you tell when a guy is nervous because he does not want to offend you?You haven't heard? Women are psychic and can read your intentions with a single glance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/22 01:40 AM |
| 1 | Why aging women are less choosy than young women: oestrus cycles.FACTS. Don't be fooled gentlemen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/22 12:46 AM |
| 5 | Far too many people believe that men not being able to acquire sex/relationships is a MORAL failing. This could not be further from the truth.One of the greatest post on this subreddit ever. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/22 05:23 AM |
| 16 | Redpillers 'focus on themselves' to get women, thus defeating the pointI agree, Gen Z and Late Millennial men have to take on the challenge of decentering women and developing a sense of self and purpose that has nothing to do with women. I have completely let go. It takes the weight of your back. I feel much happier not trying to attract women, not fantasizing, not thinking about them, not looking at them and trying to gain their attention. I wish them the best and support all of the gains they have made as they continue to flourish. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/22 08:10 PM |
| 1 | Men settle for me due to my tall height :(Glad you know of Kibbe. I'm a much taller guy who can never find the tall women but anyway soft dramatic can be incredibly beautiful and sensual, intimidating to some men true but you need to get that out of your head and own it. I'm sure you are aware of the many examples of soft dramatic women. Also are you clear on what YOU want in a guy? That is the most important thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/22 04:39 AM |
| 11 | Men settle for me due to my tall height :(You are not going to die alone because you are 5'11. Being 5'11 in any major western city should not be that big of an impediment. Might need to be more patient and put extra care into your style. Are you aware of Kibbe, you are probably a dramatic or flamboyant natural. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/22 04:20 AM |
| 1 | Who or what taught you to be a man?Yes, with more freedom we see women are just as human with all that entails. I think younger women are going to facing an unspoken dilemma, as they become more prominent, the feminine mystique declines. That mystique is the source of a lot of power. Think of a son's love of his mother, protection of sisters if he has them, that first crush that makes him feel alive in a different way. The facade of constant emotional availability was a blessing and curse. It handicapped women in the real world, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/22 12:36 AM |
| 2 | Who or what taught you to be a man?Being laughed at was eye opening. Her indifference taught me a lot, women can really go through the motions with you while caring very little beneath the surface. I even see this in my mother and sisters, as soon as I do something they don't approve of it's like they have a switch that says okay you are not important to me anymore. I don't hate or dislike women, I am quite liberal politically and would change very little if it was up to me in terms of the progress women have made in the last hal… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/22 05:34 PM |
| 2 | Who or what taught you to be a man?Is the emulation a intimacy of a different kind? Good question, I don't think so. I know this because he has become softer as he has aged and although he is still stoic, I sense a sadness in him that we can't be emotionally closer, he is much closer to my older siblings emotionally. I think I am an uncomfortable mirror for him. I had a uncle who died a few years ago who played a part in raising me, he was the complete opposites in personality to my father. He was warm, kind, lenient, optimistic,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/22 04:31 AM |
| 6 | What’s the female version of game?LOL excellent post, frustrating from a male POV but excellently written nonetheless. Do you write? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/22 08:07 PM |
| 4 | Who or what taught you to be a man?Thanks, great question. He was much younger when he had them, so I guess there was naturally more idealism. They were born in the 70s in the suburbs in a less competitive context a decade before the west launched itself into the neoliberal "greed is good" paradigm. I was born in the early 90s, a much more competitive world in an inner city with my parents relationship breaking down. I was very ill for most of my childhood and naturally very sensitive, so I think he overcompensated by being very … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/22 07:55 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Women are bad at detecting fake confidence, contrary to popular thoughtYou ain't heard bro, they have this incredible intuition. "Woman Know","Woman can tell". They can't tell anything, they don't have some special insight into any man. They only hurt themselves by upholding this myth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/22 07:18 PM |
| 4 | Who or what taught you to be a man?My Father and Grandfather were in the military and instilled certain traits in me. I would say my Father is naturally Red Pilled he has a very objective, unromantic view of people and relationships. Also observing my older siblings (I have 5, two sisters and three brothers) who are Gen X (I am late millennial). My brothers despite our Father are a bit naive and blue pilled, the oldest had a horrible divorce and paternity issue which destroyed his mental health. One of my sisters repeatedly ended… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/22 07:14 PM |
| 1 | "I had no clue he was a jerk. He tricked me!"That female intuition seems to go missing when they are actually attracted to a man. When the man is unattractive they have a super precise insight into his character, his past and his future, his morality. It's incredible, looking forward to the cognitive dissonance expressing itself again. I've said before women have a need to villainize unattractive men, if he's not invisible then he is somehow a malevolent figure in waiting. In this subreddit and other dating subreddits one of the most commo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/22 03:53 PM |
| 1 | I believe going to the gym is overrated for attracting womenBeing fit is definetly a plus but in these competitive cities being in shape is the norm, status is much harder to achieve. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/22 11:46 PM |
| 3 | I believe going to the gym is overrated for attracting womenVery overrated in cities like London/NYC/Paris definetly, muscle doesn't have any currency in these type of cities. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/22 06:22 PM |
| 1 | How can a male be a good man?No such thing. You are evil by default by virtue of being born a male. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/22 03:42 PM |
| 0 | Women should lie about their N-countDisgusting but not surprised, I just assume the worst now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/22 03:09 PM |
| 6 | Do any men here have height requirements for their female partners?I'm 6'5, I would feel awkward with any woman under 6'0. It's a quiet preference I don't shame average or short women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/22 01:30 AM |
| 3 | “Settling” may not be what you think it isYour wasting your time with this point of view. The cats out of the bag, late millennials and Gen Z young men don't believe you anymore, we know what we see. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/22 05:06 PM |
| 0 | What advice would you give to an attractive but socially awkward man?Become a drug dealer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/22 02:16 AM |
| 1 | AF BB is the best dating strategy for men and womenTrash post | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/22 07:23 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Women’s inability to accept rejection will slowly destroy the viability of Online Dating.The empathetic sex apparently. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/22 11:23 PM |
| 0 | How do attractive women pick a man to commit to?Is he Tall & White? Check Does he have at least basic social skills? Everything after this is subject to each individual women's culture and subjective whims. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/22 11:21 PM |
| 2 | do women go sexless like men, or will she always find someone to have sex with?Let's agree to disagree. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 07:24 PM |
| 3 | do women go sexless like men, or will she always find someone to have sex with?I don't think it's conscious. I think these ambiguous 'don't ask don't tell' naturally develop with the most attractive men. Women know these men have options, they don't have to jump through the hoops the average man has to, so they become intimate with him hoping for a relationship. This is where 'the bar is on floor' thing comes from, it is on the floor for high status attractive men. They are offered sex with no resistance and he just has to do the bare minimum to get a relationship. These m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 06:51 PM |
| 2 | do women go sexless like men, or will she always find someone to have sex with?Many are women fucking the same man. So basically many women are in soft harems with the most desirable men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 06:21 PM |
| 3 | What do you believe are the underlying reasons behind the issues men face when dating? How can they be addressed by society as a whole?If a man wrote about a women like that in this sub he would be banned without warning disgusting double standard. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 01:49 PM |
| 7 | Can a man truly give up on sex and be happy ?Most men have a fragile identity that is only held together by the pursuit of women and mating, even incels if you pay attention their extreme opposition to women gives them a purpose and intensity that affirms their own being. To truly walk away, a man would have to find some transprsonal purpose e.g inventing something, complete devotion to a solitary art or take the path of self negation i.e monastic, ascetic approach to life getting rid of desire completely. Also happibess and joy are very d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/22 12:32 PM |
| 10 | Can a man truly give up on sex and be happy ?A minority of men can, most can't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/22 11:34 AM |
| 5 | What is something you wish your own sex would stop doing? Mega-ThreadStop trying to be a good guy, real man or whatever society has decided as appropriate. Let go of the need to be approved by women, deal with them as objectively as you can. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/22 04:42 PM |
| 1 | Do women actually prefer casual sex?Yeah right, every woman now repeats the same predictable scripts, all ego protection. I don't believe you, don't bother responding. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/22 11:29 PM |
| 1 | Do women actually prefer casual sex?Women can rarely lockdown the guys they really want but they prefer casual sex with those guys to relationships with the average and below. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/22 11:14 PM |
| 1 | Does status of your partner affects your perception of yourself?Status absolutely matters, everyone who says otherwise is lying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/22 11:31 PM |
| 2 | Study: despite the myth of woman being the “more empathetic gender”, evidence shows much of this is actually performativeWomen are not the fairer sex. You don't even need studies for this just observe what they do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/22 11:28 PM |
| 0 | Women do not love men or sex. There's nothing wrong with them, its just human nature.Excellent post. All true, won't even read the predictable denials. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/22 10:27 PM |
| 1 | Men can’t complain that women find them ugly when women spend so much time and money trying to appeal to menMods have no shame, if men continually posted these bad faith post, they would be banned without warning. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/22 06:41 PM |
| 51 | Why do women complain that men put low effort but also claim they are too desperate?The juice isn't worth the squeeze. The most attractive men don't have to put much effort. So women are experiencing two extremes, desperate men with no options and men living in abundance, who can always get what they want without much effort. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/22 12:47 PM |
| 5 | "Why do women care less about looks than men?"Women care about looks more than men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/22 04:12 PM |
| 2 | In Your Opinion, What Is The Ultimate Form Of Attraction?Number 2 & 3 are basically the same in the current climate, where women don't really need Betas anymore on an individual level. Number 1 is terrible, since women generally dislike men and these emotional relationships are always uneven in favor of the woman. So number 2, every sane man should strive for number 2 in this era, women have shown their true colors and 2 is what they really want. Yes, even the so called emotionally stable, quiet, library girl. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/22 07:44 AM |
| 1 | Some guys prefer to be marriage material, some girls prefer to be hookup materialGuys like yourself are progressive, evolved and enlightened until it all ends in tragedy. 'Love without borders' as Anthony Bourdain said. Sigh, people create their own problems. Think carefully about what you are doing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/22 10:24 PM |
| 1 | In general do men really get better with age and become more attractive to women?It's one of the things I vehemently disagree with the Red pill about. It's rooted in the fact that our fertility doesn't completely fall of a cliff as drastically as women's in middle age but it's also cope. Most men won't age very well, the attraction gained from status and accumalated wealth is very fragile there is always a wealthier, higher status man. There are young wealthy, higher status men. Women in the west don't really need your status and wealth as much as they did in the past anyway… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/22 01:04 PM |
| 1 | Most men that aren't having sex are otherwise fairly normal dudes, not women hating misogynists like reddit and society would lead you to believeFACTS | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/22 04:47 PM |
| 2 | Toxic fuckbois being a serious turn on for women.ALL women are drawn to toxic men, not just toxic and/or traumatized women. PPD women are going to give stock answers that suggest it is a very specific type of women, it's all of them. Yet they supposedly have this superpower intuition that can detect bad personalities and misogyny in unattractive men. So they hate unattractive men so much they have to preemptively villify them to justify their rejection of them, while the men who actually end up treating them badly get a pass until it's too lat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/22 01:54 PM |
| 23 | What Are Some Unconventional Methods Or Places To Find Someone To Date?Become a drug dealer and you will see a whole another world to the nature of women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/22 10:45 PM |
| 2 | Women do not have diverse tastes.Basically be white, have a minimum of 7.5 inches, 6'0 tall and low body fat. No hobbies, emotional intelligence or spirituality needed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/22 03:15 PM |
| 1 | Women do not have diverse tastes.You forgot the most important trait, WHITE. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/22 03:13 PM |
| 55 | If women are fed up with dating men, isn't it on the men to change?"lack of empathy, emotional immaturity, lack of accountability, and aggression or violence." None of these will stop you getting into relationships or getting laid. There is no right way to be a man in the current climate everything you do is wrong. Too nice, not nice enought, too emotional, too stoic, lack of aggression and masculinity, too masculine. Everything you do is a problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/22 10:58 PM |
| 75 | If your romantic frustrations are causing your sadness then YES, handling this part of your life WILL get rid of the sadnessThe truth is they would prefer for these men to cease to exist and stop making noise. Guys getting laid don't have to have a bunch of hobbies, be in therapy and have a connection to their higher self. Emotional intelligence has nothing to do with a man's dating success. STATUS & LOOKS. Self centered, amoral, antisocial men are doing just fine. It's just more gaslighting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/22 12:46 PM |
| 1 | CMV: There are far more “Amber Heard’s” out there than women let on.Exellent post, don't even have to read to know the ppd women willjust further prove your point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/22 07:15 AM |
| 1 | Dating spaces gaslight the absolutely living shit out of menYep it's pretty sick and twisted if you think about it. Like I say men are not naturally drawn to Red and Blackpill spaces, it's just that once you take an objective look at anything the truth stares you in the face. The gaslighting will most definetly continue on this post. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/22 06:52 AM |
| 3 | “it” factor can even the field tremendously regardless of status, genetics, money etc.Upvote for the Kurt Vonnegut reference. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/22 07:38 PM |
| 1 | So what do men want women to say / do when they face continuous rejection?Morality has nothing to with a man being attractive or not. The vast majority of men are not going for supermodels, men learn their place in the hierarchy very early and brutally. You made your post as if you were offering some original insights, yet it's the same generic points regurgitated. It would be better if women just said nothing, ignored all this stuff and continued basking in the glory of their 100% morally perfect, beacons of virtue, immaculately groomed, chiseled 'boyfriends' and cha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/22 03:35 PM |
| 1 | So what do men want women to say / do when they face continuous rejection?Worst comment, the usual gaslighting rubbish. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/22 02:43 PM |
| 3 | Women don’t seem to listen to men here nor care about what they are saying. This is perhaps most evident in their continually responding to every complaint men make about dating by implying they only want sex, when a good number of men here want companionship.Give up on receiving empathy as a man, makes life much easier. If you are not winning you are treated as trash as a man but if you go all out and take on life with a by any means necessary attitude you are toxically masculine. You can't win. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/22 03:05 PM |
| 1 | Women don’t seem to listen to men here nor care about what they are saying. This is perhaps most evident in their continually responding to every complaint men make about dating by implying they only want sex, when a good number of men here want companionship.Give up on receiving empathy as a man, makes life much easier. If your not winning your are treated as trash as a man but if you go all out take on life with a by any means necessary attitude you are toxically masculine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/22 01:54 PM |
| 145 | What issues do you actually feel for women about?The safety issue, not knowing which male will be the unhinged violent one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/22 01:23 PM |
| 3 | Are women racist toward Asian men?You mean racist to everyone Non White. Sexual liberation basically unleashed another eugenics movement. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/22 02:28 PM |
| 3 | Some men need to accept the fact that if they want to date, they’ll have to BBNEVER. I would rather be crucified over an active volcano. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/22 02:16 PM |
| 6 | Women often like guys who treat them as disposableYet apparently they have this super intuition which makes them aware of the concealed evil nature of undesirable men. "Women can just tell" It seems they evolved to instinctively vilify sexually unsuccessful men to conceal their sexual strategy. So nice guys and incels mustautomatically be perceived as bad people. The mental gymnastics are incredble when you think about it. They justify sleeping with Chad immediately and making beta men wait for sex later in life by saying Chad is a dildo who th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/22 04:13 PM |
| 1 | Modern Dating and the Giffen ParadoxGreat post. "Price of the brick is going up". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/22 03:32 PM |
| 3 | when hope seems lost or when you have problems finding a significant other. love and compassion goes a long wayWhy do you enjoy hurting people? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/22 11:17 PM |
| 3 | What’s it like being invisible as a man?You don't wish me the best, you hate me. The horror. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/22 11:15 PM |
| 3 | when hope seems lost or when you have problems finding a significant other. love and compassion goes a long wayTrolling. Doing this to get a reaction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/22 09:48 PM |
| 1 | Do you know any womanizers who wear glasses?Less attractive. They know this but will lie and gaslight, I've have been wearing glasses since I was 17. Women are either neutral at best towards them or will be automatically repelled by you because of them. The whole guys look hotter with glasses thing is a myth, the guy they already think is hot what they are imagining, not the regular bespectaled man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/22 07:24 AM |
| 5 | Is creepy just code for unattractive/ugly?Dropping that Truth Bomb | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/22 06:55 AM |
| 4 | Do -good- girls fall for bad boys? Or do only people with issues attract and enable each other?Dark Triad men attract every kind of woman. It is a myth that they only attract damaged or insecure women, unless you want to say every woman is damaged and insecure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/22 12:41 PM |
| 26 | Being Good or nice is not the bare minimum. Don't keep saying that it is.You are 100% Spot on. Men are being gaslighted constantly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/22 11:17 AM |
| 4 | Q4M On a Scale of 1-10, how attractive does a woman have to be for you to approach?I Never approach. It has nothing to do with attractiveness but understanding the nature of women and how they are repulsed by the VAST majority of men. See the above, same applies online. 6.5/10 I am 6'4 low body fat, lean but non white. I've been Alpha Fucks for a few women but not consistently in the way a Chad is. In any given year I might meet 3 or 4 women who are openly attracted to me but I don't try anymore. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/22 10:24 PM |
| 71 | Why are some people content with sexlessness?My real thoughts on this especially for 1 would be considered Black Pill, so I will just say sometimes you reach a point where you are not angry at anyone and you just want a peace of mind. Life is not fair and if your sexlessness is enough of a crisis for you to dwell on it you are probably blessed in other ways you don't appreciate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/22 09:59 PM |
| 5 | The second you want to treat your girlfriend like a queen, is the second she’ll begin to resent youNever treat them like a queen. Men are the real romantics. You have to develop a ruthless pragmatism as a grown man or you will by taken for granted. It's unfortunate because I think men are actually evolved to naturally put women on a pedestal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/22 05:21 PM |
| 62 | Women say that the bar low for men? Is this really true?It's low for men she is attracted to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/22 01:51 AM |
| 13 | Isn't it weird a few men seem to have it so easy with women, while the rest of men talk about it as if it was mission impossible?Gaslighting in 3,2,1..... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/22 04:43 AM |
| 5 | Young women are overrated favoured by those without much experienceI agree the obsession with younger women is one I have never agreed with, nearly all the women I find attractive peak around mid 30s to 40s, only problem is fertility. Anything under 25 is a child to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/22 05:56 AM |
| 2 | So what's the solution for men below the top 20% attractiveness who can't find a relationship?Invent calculus or whatever the 21st century equivalent to that kind of achievement would be. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/22 04:30 AM |
| 4 | The one thing I noticed about men and women who seem to have alot of partners, and a paper trail of scorned loversI have the same observations. Prepare for the passionate denials. The more amoral you are the better you do, not only with insecure, toxic women but all women. Just agreeing with the OP moderators so don't suspend me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/22 11:22 PM |
| 1 | If TRP is true, then there is no point to dating IF you're looking for love. (It may be worth it in other ways, i.e sex)How is this black pill, is this really the level this sub has reached ? I can't describe how men come to similar conclusions through raw observation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/22 09:24 PM |
| 2 | Question for Women: Would you prefer a man who is likely to resist and taper your advances and feminine wiles, because he is self-restrained and serious minded, or would you prefer a man who easily and eagerly gives you his full attention every time you throw your charms?Post more in this subreddit, if you are indeed a woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/22 03:13 AM |
| 18 | My red pill view on the West Elm Caleb situation.lol the women are going to avoid this like the plague. A bunch of ther young men who will never really find the Red Pill, will adopt the adopt the same principles just by observing these kinds of scenarios. Women create the men that they complain about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/22 07:04 PM |
| 25 | Pete Davidson is proof most of you guys are wrong6'3 Caucasion celebrity, on TV almost every week all year and if he's not he's in a movie as the lead actor. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/22 05:21 AM |
| 14 | Who are some women that are universally desirable to men? On the other hand, who are “attractive” some women that virtually appeal to women?I have never met anyone who doesn't find Monica Bellucci beautiful. Also she had a late prime, I think she looked her best in her late 30s. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/21 01:49 AM |
| 3 | Who are some women that are universally desirable to men? On the other hand, who are “attractive” some women that virtually appeal to women?As a guy, I think Carrie Anne Moss is beautiful but she definitely appeals to women more, she doesn't exude sex. I think Christy Turlington the supermodel is the same she said she never got attention from men in her prime, mostly women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/21 01:32 AM |
| 12 | “Chemistry”... what is it?When Chad isn't autistic | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/21 06:03 PM |
| 6 | As a man it's better to be a "husband material" than having random short term encountersNice sarcasm. Upvote. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/21 07:40 PM |
| 33 | The world needs more voluntary celibate role modelsThe drive that men like Isaac Newton and Nikola Tesla had is not something you can summon artificially out of despair, that level of purpose and intellect is innate and unique. Telling men to turn of their sex drive is silly, there is nothing enlightened and evolved about your solution, I sense you are trying to convice yourself more tthan anything. What are these other important things incels should focus on ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/21 03:50 AM |
| 20 | Has the 80/20 rule turned into the 90/10 rule or 95/5 rule in recent years?How are you going to tell me about who has been in my life? We all went to the same school, he had already impregnated a few girls in and outside of our school. It was to the point that teachers had to bring in his mother to talk about his conduct he was that prolific and reckless. Whatever bro move along. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/21 12:45 AM |
| 58 | Has the 80/20 rule turned into the 90/10 rule or 95/5 rule in recent years?Yes, to keep it simple. It's an all you can eat buffet for a small percentage of men. The rest of us are shamed and censored for observing this phenomena and sharing our experience. I remember a girl telling me when I was 17, I would be a good guy to marry when we are in our 30s and thinking gee when she is 30 I finally get my shot, she was dating a guy who already had a triple digit body count at 18. Luckily the idealism was knocked out of me by my early 20s and I have become basically amoral n… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/21 12:23 AM |
| 5 | CMV: "Introversion" isn't what's unattractive to women. It's the traits commonly associated with those who are introverted.All of this is only relevant if you are not 6'0+, White and with low bodyfat. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/21 08:20 PM |
| 10 | Would increasing women's libido fix the dating market?Most women in the 21st century would rather die alone, gen z women on tik tok are basically open about this, it's not concealed anymore. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/21 01:38 AM |
| 12 | Would increasing women's libido fix the dating market?Chad's would just drop dead from exhaustion, then women would get mad again. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/21 12:59 AM |
| 3 | Men have more options for dating than women doA tall white man has near universal appeal among all women, every other type of man basically has to fit into some niche and hope for the best. The reverse is not true for women, all of you can get into some kind of relationship. Poor attempt at trolling, mods standards have dropped of a cliff, tut tut. /Thread | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/21 12:19 AM |
| 6 | Is there a "secret underworld" of sex going on all the time?"Is there a constant pretense among women having casual sex that they're "not really into it", and rarely partake, and likewise among high value men who keep their trysts on the down-low but are never more than a few days removed from one?" To keep it simple YES. A growing number of men are putting 2 & 2 together. Women have tried and failed to convince us that most of them are not have sex. However they have rising STD rates and now report more sexual activity than men. On the dating subreddits… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/21 07:18 PM |
| 23 | Is a balding man equivalent to an obese female in thr dating hierarchy?If you go bald, you have to be in shape and make the most of your bone structure, basically you have to be ON POINT, helps if your tall. I've seen bald men do well, sometimes guys who go bald earlier can develop a IDGAF attitude out of necessity which has a sort of appeal. Just my observations. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/21 09:44 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Women's choices do not make sense to men because most men do not understand women's sexuality.Damn you explained that really well, you have a knack of seeing things for what they are with your own original spin. Your youtube channel could become big if you share that knowledge in the right way. Have you heard of Wheat Waffles on youtube, he is sort of emerging as the consensus best most most balanced Black piller on youtube. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/21 09:07 AM |
| 9 | Observations on Male socialization vs Female socializationI have never attempted to sleep with any of my female childhood friends, but I see the angle you are coming from and won't engage in any negativity. Good luck. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/21 01:48 AM |
| 6 | Observations on Male socialization vs Female socializationNot accusing you, I just feel the average millennial woman on reddit has contempt for men like we are a defective sub species that needs to be corrected. I am surprised whenever a woman is not hostile towards me online or in meatspace. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/21 12:38 AM |
| 3 | Observations on Male socialization vs Female socializationYou don't hate men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/21 12:33 AM |
| 3 | Observations on Male socialization vs Female socializationOut of curiosity what have you learnt from your more consistent friendships with men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/21 12:29 AM |
| 5 | Observations on Male socialization vs Female socializationI had/have more female childhood friends because I was a sensitive, quiet boy in a tough environment so rejected for the most part by other young boys. However I noticed as we got older the friendships became more transactional and girls could be just as harsh as males. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/21 12:28 AM |
| 4 | Observations on Male socialization vs Female socializationDo women really want to be friends with men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/21 11:57 PM |
| 3 | Does anyone else find TV, the media and social media are harmful to people's perception of what's expected of appearance and what they believe they need to look to be attractive to other people?Due to the situation in afghanistan and social care reform it's probably not high on the agenda as parliament returns but, the push for more specific laws relating to harassment and approaching women has been discussed in the last few years. An autistic male was prosecuted last year at his university for asking a girl to be his friend. I have no reason to make this up, I don't have an angle or belong to a 'pill community' but the reality is clear, most young men are invisible at best or disgusti… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/21 11:08 PM |
| 6 | Does anyone else find TV, the media and social media are harmful to people's perception of what's expected of appearance and what they believe they need to look to be attractive to other people?Approaching women is basically a crime in the UK. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/21 10:52 PM |
| 2 | Does anyone else find TV, the media and social media are harmful to people's perception of what's expected of appearance and what they believe they need to look to be attractive to other people?Well let's agree to disagree. I hope my tone is not err condescending or rude, the question just triggered me to share my observations and experiences. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/21 10:49 PM |
| 7 | Does anyone else find TV, the media and social media are harmful to people's perception of what's expected of appearance and what they believe they need to look to be attractive to other people?The guys trying to pull every night are not the ones getting laid the most. The guys I am talking about don't have to work hard, women come to them I have seen it. Once you see it, you realize that all you were told about being yourself and kind, getting to know her don't really mean anything there is no going back. On the dating subreddit this dissonance is slowly being acknowledged by both genders. Women notoriously complain about horrible dates and being used for sex and the men complain abou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/21 10:43 PM |
| 7 | Does anyone else find TV, the media and social media are harmful to people's perception of what's expected of appearance and what they believe they need to look to be attractive to other people?They are. I've seen it, I had a flatmate who was one of those guys. Tall (same height as me but I am a dork), shredded, horrible to everyone, notoriously and unapologetically short tempered. Our bedrooms were next to each other for 2 years. He probably slept with close to about 60 women in that time, he stopped counting a long time ago. Throughout all of this he had a girlfriend he treated horribly, she was a hard working kind medical student. He became brazen about cheating and she took him bac… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/21 10:35 PM |
| 14 | Does anyone else find TV, the media and social media are harmful to people's perception of what's expected of appearance and what they believe they need to look to be attractive to other people?How do those men acquire such a reputation if they are not attractive and sleeping with enough women to have a negative reputation? If they are these big bad players who women don't really want how did they get so many women in the first place. Reading your post I think you have good intentions but you are struggling to accept the reality of what women are attracted to and you are invalidating the experiences of young men comparing notes around the west seeing the exact same thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/21 10:28 PM |
| 5 | Does anyone else find TV, the media and social media are harmful to people's perception of what's expected of appearance and what they believe they need to look to be attractive to other people?I see what you are saying but it doesn't matter if a guy wants only one woman, if another attractive guy has a soft harem of multiple women. Often women don't know they are sharing a guy with many women, so it's not very serious for him while his partners think they are really going to be chosen. Scaled across a large population this pattern in the current dating market makes option very scarce for most men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/21 10:23 PM |
| 1 | Productive recreation is critical for the 'average' guy to succeed in the mating marketI usually like your posts but you got this one badly wrong. This hustle culture, productive grift is another trap. You tried but you don't have the answers. This is a very Jordan Peterson like approach to solving the 21st century 'male problem'. The issue is that that 'males' don't exist in a vacuum, nobody of any demographic or identity exist in a vacuum. We all live in a multitude of symbiotic relationships e.g. men and women, the individual and the collective, straight and queer....... This s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/21 04:32 PM |
| 5 | Who are some female celebrities you find to be absolutely stunning?Sara Croce - Google her, arguably the prettiest woman alive. Blanca Padilla Yasmeen Ghauri (90s Supermodel) Monica Bellucci Neri Oxman (Brains & Beauty) Iman - Bowie's widow, very beautiful and elegant Eva Green - Maybe not a classic beauty but very alluring Lindsay Ellingson - Maybe not a head turner compared to the other Victoria Secrets models of her era but a natural beauty. Nicole Kidman before the fillers, injections and surgeries Christy Turlington Heather Stewart Whyte - Alongside Christ… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/21 07:40 PM |
| 1 | Does competition for women play a role in racial and ethnic tensions?I think it has played a very big role in the distant past, not so much today. White men have nothing to worry about (I'm not white), the most attractive white women are only attracted to you, the most attractive women of all other ethnic minorities are at least open to white men, it's very rare to hear a woman say "no white men". I think what white men are struggling with is the decrease in immediate subservience, they are still seen as the apex for most women but they have to work a bit harder … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/20 11:11 PM |
| 8 | Discussion: Would women appreciate it if men looked at them less?Only Chad gets to take a look. I've learned to always keep my eyes to myself, have headphones and a book to read on public transport. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/20 03:14 PM |
| 1 | Men who want marriage/are married, what role do you think you and your wife should play?There are no day to day contributions I expect, that I won't do myself. I'm a germaphobe so I will clean up after myself everyday and I would expect her to do the same. I enjoy cooking, so don't expect any contributions there. I don't expect sex. If I can't arouse her desire naturally, then I just have to accept that or move on. In any house/apartment I live in I cover all bills, rent, mortgage etc. I don't expect help. If she's shrewd and caring enough to put money aside for investment and luxu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/20 08:10 PM |
| 1 | most of so called beta guys just lack passion. a passive man can clearly have passion and be super attractiveLack of passion is not what turns a man into a beta or incel. "Passion" only becomes important if you don't have the right jawline, general bone structure and height. Women think they want to be treated like a queen but respond more to indifference and casual contempt. If a guy wants advice to cut the chase and attract women. Become amoral, sell narcotics, never make a single woman your priority. This is irresistible for low and high value women (false dichotomy btw) despite what women say. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/20 08:58 PM |
| 1 | Do you feel that people need to "learn to be happy by themselves"? Is this good advice to give to people?“I think everybody should get rich and famous and do everything they ever dreamed of so they can see that it's not the answer.” This quote attributed to Jim Carrey comes to mind. However, it is a platitude especially when the advice is directed towards a man, people don't want to hear it or deal with it. MGTOW would be a much more powerful movement if it was underground and silent, rather MGTOW's try to operate in the open and instinctively receive disgust from men who can't relate and women as … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/20 05:08 PM |
| 4 | CMV: Since Women Are The Gatekeepers of Sex Before And After Marriage, and Initiate Dovorce More Than Men, Women Too Contol CommitmentI agree with this, men controlling commitment died decades ago. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/20 06:51 PM |
| 6 | Women who got past her 20's without settling down don't deserve the hate they get.Is it childish when men do the same? Peter Pan syndrome? Are women entitled to a ring and white picket fence when they want it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/20 06:47 PM |
| 3 | CMV: It’s easy to make a girl fall for you.Women don't require some extensive rule book, that is correct. However, you don't have the answers. The approach you listed may work sometimes, after a woman has already decided she is receptive to your advances, your PUA "you can get any girl you want fellas, if you do xyz is outdated by about 7/8 years at this point". Men are seeing the game for what it is and women are completely free and encouraged to be receptive to men who trigger their hypergamous instincts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/20 08:43 PM |
| 1 | Q4BP: What does a healthy society do w its young women?I've given up. I don't think egalitarianism is really possible, we should give in to every need of the modern female, pass every law to appease them. The paradigm seems to be shifting, it's clear that most women have contempt and disgust for most men, men should retreat and help women settle into their new roles as our overlords. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/20 06:14 PM |
| 3 | Are most women even attracted to men?Hmmmmm, in my humble opinion the most interesting take in the thread, not sure if I agree, but I've never looked at it this way. So tall thin baby faced men provoke the most visceral responses in women? Would these K Pop stars be attractive, if they were accountants? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/20 06:05 PM |
| 1 | Men are poopoo and women are peeThis subreddit is becoming more bizarre every week. I think we are becoming too familiar with each other in reddit land. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/20 07:40 AM |
| 6 | Q4 men - do your significant others actually serve as therapists? not a shit postMen would have an easier time if they accepted as a priori, that women collectively dislike men, they have no interest in your problems. If you have a big wallet, some status and the right dick you might be useful. On an instinctive emotional level they don't care. The whole emotional labour thing is garbage since women themselves are emotionally immature and don't understand their own feelings. The best way to deal with women is to find a subtle balance between playfulness and stoicism. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/20 06:02 AM |
| 3 | Do guys want a "Pick Me" girl?'Pick Me's' are rare, there is no incentive for the modern women to be accomodating to a man. Any sane man will observe that it is usually a mask. There is no get out of jail free card for men dealing with women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/20 01:27 AM |
| 3 | Men have the option to play into a rigged dating game or die alone.There is no 'right' path as a man today, everything you do will will be wrong. At best you may become an accessory or stand in to a woman's fantasy, at worst completely invisible and in between where most of the male reside, reviled and hated in various shades regardless of what you do. Be your best self for you and your own integrity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/19 06:00 AM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: How have your views on romance changed over the years?Real romance exist. As a guy I have experienced it twice, a connection that is natural, smooth and beyond the games. I remember the first time I met both of them, the feeling of warmth, acceptance and camarderie, they were both inexperienced for their age so didn't have that layer of cynicism that most adults eventually develop. One of those relationships ended because I had to move away for work, the other ended because of class differences - UMC privately educated woman from a political family… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/19 07:54 PM |
| 0 | Some Men Have Dead Bedrooms or Get no Sex Because They Don't Care about Women's Sexual PleasureIs there any scenario in life, let alone relationships, where women are responsible? Seriously. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/19 04:08 PM |
| 53 | Being (or not being) nice has nothing to do with getting laid. Niceness, as a whole, has nothing not do at all.Take any man struggling with dating. Make him a drug dealer; calculating, machivellian, intolerant and confrontational towards men and women etc very quickly all his problems with women will erode. He will quickly develop a little harem, it will be unstable but at least one woman will always be hooked and these won't be the stereotypical low class or low value women. I know drug dealers banging lawyers, models, teachers of all classes and race. The abusive man always seems to have a long list of… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/19 11:39 PM |
| 1 | Guys who lack experience with women should shallow their pride and date ugly/fat chicksThey want Chads and can get some non commital sex, which they prefer to dating the guys who you would think of as being their natural counterpart. In the modern landscape there is no woman a man won't take, they have way more value than the average guy. You think you understand but you don't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/19 06:25 PM |
| 3 | There is no true love.There is a ONE, a soul mate, essence twin. However, it's not what people think. From our myopic modern perspective we are conditioned to believe that this soul mate is meant to be the actual person we are meant to form a relationship with. The soul mate can actually be a sibling, friend, enemy etc. It's someone who simply is of a similar essence to you and on a similar evolutionary path. The ONE might be a stranger who is in your life briefly to teach you something about yourself, maybe an artis… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/19 04:23 PM |
| 5 | Do you think women or men are worse off by being single?Men. Women don't really care about men. Even when a man hates a women or a woman it comes from an unbalanced reverence for the feminine. It is a rare man that can have live a quality productive lives without women, although increasingly many feel they have no choice but to try. Women will do plenty of surface complaining, may even lash out but beneath the surface the fact they have the wombs and the emotionally self efficient sisterhood means they will usually be fine in the long run. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/19 02:04 PM |
| 2 | Q4W: Is “sexy-ugly” a thing?Sexy Ugly doesn't exist without fame. So dishonest. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/19 08:42 AM |
| 2 | I’m alpha widowed. The guy I’m obsessed with doesn’t even respect me. I want to change that.More and more incentive everyday for guys to become the second guy. Sad. | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/12/19 04:55 PM |
| 13 | Do most women marry men that they are not physically attracted to?The only honest post by a woman thus far. Upvote for you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/19 12:25 PM |
| 4 | Is womens body or face more important? Or equally important?Face & Bone Structure > Body | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/19 11:54 PM |
| 1 | Women are oversaturating themselvesTHIS IS WHO WOMEN ARE ACCEPT IT. The combination of technology with our moral collective degradation, where every feminine whim must be catered to, simply presents female nature as it really is unfettered and proud. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/19 03:27 PM |
| 7 | Have you guys watched this video? A Pick Up artist, a feminist man and a mens rights activist are the panel in a talk show hosted by a woman and audience full of women.The Ross Jeffries dude is way ahead of his time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/19 03:15 PM |
| 9 | What are the negatives of being Chad or Stacy?Stacy has too many options and is in a catch 22. Does she bang the alphas, cash in with a millionaire, or settle with the regular guy who will respect her. She's unlikely to find all of this in one guy, this probably contributes to her neurosis. Being a Chad is overrated, they are accessories to signal status to other women. They are also used to garner sympathy, call your former Chad situationship a fuckboy, say he was emotionally abusive get your social media points, move on to the next Chad i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/19 11:31 AM |
| 1 | TRP Is Proof Positive That Any Faith In Men Is MisplacedOne of the most pathetic post I've seen on this subreddit. Straight garbage, just oozing solipsism and narcissism. It's actually women like you who are the biggest detriment to women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/19 09:07 AM |
| 2 | Women both insist that men are better off paying for dates and encourage other women to take advantage of men who pay for dates. Is getting 'fleeced' just an unavoidable part of dating?Chad doesn't pay. Here are some case studies r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/19 08:03 AM |
| 6 | [CMV] in 2019 the sexual marketplace is a "Fair Game" since there's transparency of informationI agree with most these but in 2019 men are not gatekeepers of anything. Men being gatekeepers of relationships died with the rise of social media and online dating. The only power men have is to walk away, even Chad is just an accessory to the contemporary women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/19 06:49 PM |
| 13 | Do men prefer the '' Cool Girl"By getting to know yourself and discovering your own authentic individuality. | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/11/19 10:47 PM |
| 1 | In your opinion when do womens looks peak?21/22 without makeup for the average woman. However certain women have the right combination of bone structure and fat/body composition to peak in their 30s. Women who looked peaked in their 30s; Monica Bellucci, Halle Berry, Nicole Kidman | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/19 10:24 PM |
| 1 | Has being aware of RP made you less happy with the idea of helping women or paying for dates, etc.?Best post in thread by far. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/19 05:45 PM |
| 37 | Why should women care about the sexual and dating issues of men?Every demographic can play the why should I care about your issues game, where does it end at some point it becomes detrimental to everyone. I feel we have reached a collective crescendo of pure self interest in the modern west, but we will learn the hard way that the only way foward is cooperation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/19 05:33 PM |
| 2 | Fashionable clothing is more important for guys than girl (per attracting the opposite sex)You just need a new wardrobe bro. White dress shirt and selvedge jeans bro. The ladies love the classic look. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/19 08:52 PM |
| 1 | Q4A Do you think r/love is a breath of fresh air, or filled with naive peopleWe are all living with some kind of delusion, it is somewhat necessary. The line between reality and fantasy is blurred, yet the dance between the two arguably makes life worth living. In other words, holding onto the idea of love is high risk, high reward - the latter because heightened feelings of bliss have a real physiological basis as hormonal changes are induced by such states, yet we risk falling into despair and cynicism as losing love or not being able to find love forces us to do the t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/19 07:17 PM |
| 6 | Do ugly/plain men with ugly/plain gfs not count in red pillers eyes?The girl isn't ugly lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/19 09:24 AM |
| 2 | What makes a man a cuck to you?It's as simple this. If you worship at the alter of women and put their needs over your own integrity you are a cuck. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/19 06:45 AM |
| 11 | Q4M: what’s being an asshole to you?Being entitled, sarcastic, aloof. Literally telling a girl to get on her knees soon after I met her, she complied to my surprise. I'm 6'4 but really skinny with thick glasses, think Napoleon Dynamite with a bad attitude, definetly not some Chad Don Juan. She is now a born again christian attorney, married to a young scandinavian preacher. She still likes my posts on facebook, couldn't make this up. The myth is that it is only insecure, low value women who respond to such behaviour. All women res… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/19 06:27 AM |
| 2 | Guys, how would you live your life if you were an ugly woman?Lead the Anarchist movement. Become a Robespierre/Cromwell type figure. We need a revolution. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/19 06:12 AM |
| 1 | To a lot of people marriage still means complete and total commitment, and anyone who thinks it’s worthless is the outlier.Groundbreaking insight. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/19 12:22 PM |
| -2 | Spending time around hippies has made me doubt that hypergamy is the cause of increased male celibacy. (long-ish)LOL you initiated the convo. Hilarious, so transparent. It gets better child, life is a marathon. I'm going to give you an upvote for your self esteem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/19 12:08 PM |
| -3 | Spending time around hippies has made me doubt that hypergamy is the cause of increased male celibacy. (long-ish)*complaining NO FAP over here friend, only been using reddit for a few months. My only post is on a Paul Thomas Anderson film, I just reply to BS when I see it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/19 12:06 PM |
| 19 | Spending time around hippies has made me doubt that hypergamy is the cause of increased male celibacy. (long-ish)Just go outside bro | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/19 11:51 AM |
| 1 | What is it about most men that makes them undesirable to women?LOL, the mental gymnastics and lies in this thread. If you are not at least white, 6'4, lean, with a chiseled jawline you are considered undesirable. The rules for grooming and behaviour don't really apply to these guys. For everyone who doesn't fit such criteria you must be a gentlement, respectful, shower 3 times a day, initiate contact, pay for the date..... just for the possibility of being a provider or companion. Don't believe them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/19 04:51 AM |
| 13 | Q4W: If you were a man, how would you go about finding a relationship? Do you think you would be successful or would it be too difficult?If most women woke up one morning as a man, they would jump of the nearest cliff. They wouldn't be able to handle a single day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/19 04:00 AM |
| 1 | Would you respect a woman who wanted to be your forever girlfriend OR a girl who is totally fine being your plate/side-piece for life?Forever girlfriend, it's more impressive since deep down behind the narcissism most modern women know they are terrible partners. They naturally default to being a plate/side piece because it requires less personal responsibility and if anything goes wrong they can gain sympathy and do the tired 'look what the man did to me' act. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/19 02:40 AM |
| 4 | Q4A: Do you think the "you should have picked better" blame women receive when the guy turns out to be a deadbeat, bad father or otherwise a loser is generally fair and correct?Female intution suddenly goes missing, when it's time to take responsibility for their choices. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/19 02:37 AM |
| 6 | (Q4MEN) What do you expect women to bring to the table for LTR?Nothing. I have lost all expectation towards women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/19 04:25 AM |
| 1 | Why Doesn't TRP Have More Advice to Women?Women would not listen anyway. Why waste time? Whatever decision a woman makes she wonders if the opposite would be more beneficial for her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/19 09:19 AM |
| 12 | Are guys more attracted to above average but still ‘normal’ looking girls over mega hotties?In 2019 it doesn't matter. The sense that the male should be lucky to even breathe the same air and share the presence of even an average women means men should just brazenly go for the hottest women according to their own taste. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/19 09:15 AM |
| 4 | Are guys more attracted to above average but still ‘normal’ looking girls over mega hotties?she is a 6 at best way too short, plain average face...... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/19 09:13 AM |
| 3 | Are guys more attracted to above average but still ‘normal’ looking girls over mega hotties?'regular guys' are told to stay on their level Women: You don't deserve a hot women, approach women at your level. Men: Ok. Approaches women who he thinks are realistically attainable. Women: Only athletes and celebrities approach me (Men with unlimited options, since they are desirable unlike the icky regular guys), I just want to be treated like I am special a bit difficult with the man who can literally have anyone. Hot, young pretty women are abundant, high valued males are rare and treated … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/19 09:12 AM |
| 1 | Who in this sub would really like to go back to the time when women couldn’t support themselves and were second class citizens?I disagree with you but you made me actually LOL | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/19 03:15 AM |
| 5 | To what extent does the modern SMP damage women?Smiling and 'you go girl' on the surface, chaos internally. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/19 05:37 PM |
| 2 | To what extent does the modern SMP damage women?It is real, no reason for women not to indulge in Chad in 2019. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/19 05:34 PM |
| 2 | If woman are so selfish during romantic relationships, why are they less likely to leave a sick spouse and more likely to donate organs to a spouse?A bit of a leap from self importance to evil. General observations and tendencies can be useful, I don't have a problem when women apply them to men. So are you really telling me you look at every single male as a individual without being cognizant to general patterns. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/19 07:23 AM |
| 2 | If woman are so selfish during romantic relationships, why are they less likely to leave a sick spouse and more likely to donate organs to a spouse?I'm not a red pilled guy, I don't really believe in pills. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/19 07:02 AM |
| 2 | If woman are so selfish during romantic relationships, why are they less likely to leave a sick spouse and more likely to donate organs to a spouse?1 - When women really put their eggs all in one basket so to speak (they rarely do in today's world) it's hard for them to turn back. They stop being a wife really in that situation and the mothering, nurturing instinct kicks in. They need to make their investment in their man count, the pressure of such situations often bring the best out of women and forces them to embrace the inner feminine which they have been taught to hate and repress. 2 - A more cynical view, women are so solipsitic and c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/19 06:42 AM |
| 1 | People reccomend a women should get married during her peak years in order to secure the best guy and therefore have more happiness, however I dont believe this will end in her being happy.There is nothing a women can do to be happy, incessant disatisfaction is either her nature or enabled conditioning. There is no correct path, a women will always believe she has missed out on something. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/19 04:08 AM |
| 1 | Are you happy with the current dating culture?Everyone thing happens for a reason, not in the sense that everything will work out and be happy and easy but humans can always make use of whatever existant paradigm. The reality of civilization is the eternal dance between chaos and order, we are I believe at the denoument of a decadent period, where up is down, left is right. There is an extreme death drive you see it in the popular music, films everyone wants to escape, we are cognizant of our excesses and how they are effecting the planet (… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/19 04:04 AM |
| 4 | The reason so many women think men have out of control egosMost men are actually humble because being a male is humbling. However, due to the burden of performance and the fact you become a pariah if you are stagnating or suffering, men learn to build themselves up because an outwardly struggling man is treated like a leper by everyone. Also projection women are the truly ego crazy sex, the world completely revolves around their needs and perception, but self analysis and responsibility are antithetical to the female imperative so they have to project t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/19 03:53 AM |
| 4 | Personality v.s. Look(isms) of men?Looks are everything. Society wanted to believe there was something more noble and englightening about women's attraction but that veil is eroding. If you pass a certain threshold physically your jokes are funnier, your interest are fascinating. Don't be gaslighted, bamboozled into believing otherwise. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/19 03:46 AM |
| 13 | Are you happy with the current dating culture?You nailed it, men are in a catch 22. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/19 04:40 PM |
| 2 | Regulation not RepressionI don't find men to be any less emotionally intelligent than women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/19 02:07 AM |
| 5 | Why is talent so undervalued by RP communities as a way of attracting women?Delusional, women don't care about talent. If they do it's temporary and fragile. Jeremy Meeks just needed a mugshot to change his life and end up with billionaire heirs and supermodels, just on the strength of his jawline and light eyes. Maybe 30 years ago talent was more impressive but with social media women are exposed to so much that it's hard to impress. You are a great piano player in your town, ok well there is a much better piano player an hour away who is also better looking than you. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/19 01:43 AM |
| 1 | People reccomend a women should get married during her peak years in order to secure the best guy and therefore have more happiness, however I dont believe this will end in her being happy.Tragic | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/19 04:56 AM |
| 1 | Who are alphas?You win. These small victories are important. Build on this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/19 05:10 AM |
| 1 | Who are alphas?Being respectful to women is a neutral act and doesn't guarantee anything. Of the population of men getting laid there is no strict division between men who respect women getting laid and men who treat women like objects, in today's climate it's a chaotic grey area. I will say however that treating women like a sex object, being amoral almost guarantees mating oppurtunities (I am not condoning it). Being a nice respectful man gives you an unthreatning, acceptable presence, a platform to build up… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/19 05:00 AM |
| 2 | Who are alphas?Lol sigh, typical boring stock response. I made an admittedly offhand comment based on a general macro observation on the modern dating scene, you replied with a personal comment to someone you know nothing about. Who is the imbecile friend? Either your really young or another maldeveloped so called adult who needs an outlet to lash out. Women: All men care about is sex!, why is sex so important? Man: Disagrees with women about anything. Women:OMG! Incel, virgin loser..... Do better, I believe i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/19 04:40 AM |
| 2 | Who are alphas?Alpha is simply a man who due to the right genetics and natural hormonal balance is able to reproduce without much effort i.e. courting, providing resources, being a productive person. Being a responsible, productive leader, a pillar of the community is more a high beta thing because your value is contingent on those things. The Alpha is embraced just for existing. Jeremy Meeks will spend his whole life mating with all types of women beautiful and/or high status (not the low quality, low self es… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/19 04:21 AM |
| 1 | Who are alphas?You might have a talent for writing fantasy fiction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/19 04:07 AM |
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