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And why do you need a course from a socially awkward magician to go out and socialize?
/r/seduction22/09/24 08:17 PM
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None of this faking stuff works my man. You go and confront your fear and you no longer get have fear. Much better than faking it til some other guy comes in and takes the girl.
/r/seduction22/09/24 06:29 PM
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You don’t try to stop. You try to amplify it. Instead of trying to control your nerves, walk up to 10 attractive women and say something: “Hi, I’m Bob. I just wanted to tell you something. I’ve been really shy and nervous when talking to attractive women my entire life and today’s the day I decided to defeat this fear once and for all. So I just wanted to come up and tell you about that. Nice meeting you”. Then you can stay and have a conversation if you want to. Do it until your fear disappears…
/r/seduction22/09/24 05:53 PM
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😅
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 02:17 PM
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A full hour discussion Schopenhauer’s view on women? There goes my Sunday.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 02:14 PM
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It’s pretty obvious to me, but I see why you can’t see it in the heat of the moment. The problem is you want it too much, it being sex. So you give off the vibe that you are chasing sex as some trophy you need to win. Nothing is more of a turn off to a woman than a man chasing her sex. See, all you are focused on is “getting” the woman. But that’s wrong. That means you play the chaser role (pushy; trying to make things happen, needy) and she has no other option than to play the role of the pursu…
/r/seduction22/09/24 02:09 PM
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By not trying to put your paws all over here contrary to what 99.99% of retards here will tell you to do.
/r/seduction22/09/24 01:57 PM
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Oy vey
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 01:55 PM
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https://archive.nytimes.com/tierneylab.blogs.nytimes.com/2007/08/20/is-there-anything-good-about-men-and-other-tricky-questions/ Relevant Excerpt: Citing recent DNA research, Dr. Baumeister explained that today’s human population is descended from twice as many women as men. Maybe 80 percent of women reproduced, whereas only 40 percent of men did. “It would be shocking if these vastly different reproductive odds for men and women failed to produce some personality differences,” he said, and cont…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 01:04 PM
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It’s hot hobbies you are struggling with. Men and women relate to each other differently. Men relate to other men talking about cool stuff to do; things (cars, video games, guitars), achievements. Women relate through feelings, personal experiences and connecting with people. They don’t care that the two of you watch the same Netflix show, or that both of you happen to like the same college football team. That’s how guys relate to each other. Women care about how you are personally experiencing …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 01:00 PM
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You sound like those obese women who can’t put the fork down, blaming men for liking thin and in shape women who actually take care of themselves. Those obese women hate putting down the fork and hate that men out so much emphasis on physical looks and weight too. Your argument follows the exact same “logic”. At the end of the day, nature doesn’t give a fuck about your preferences. It only gives a fuck about what humans have been selecting for in mates for hundreds of thousands of years.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 12:51 PM
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Are you fucking retarded?
/r/seduction21/09/24 07:45 PM
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For those fools who text to “confirm” a date. The woman should be the one afraid that you won’t show up not the other way around. Once you get the true meaning of my statement above, you will win the game of dating.
/r/seduction21/09/24 07:43 PM
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It’s a bit more complex than that. The issue with the men who seek “advice” is that they have convinced themselves they NEED women in order to solve their problems. These guys can’t stand themselves, they can’t stand their own lives, they are admittedly miserable and lonely, so they think a WOMAN will solve all of this. But you need to think about this from the perspective of the woman. Why would any woman want a guy who can’t stand himself, who hates his own life (and himself), who can’t handle…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 07:40 PM
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Well, same idea. Look, at the end of the day, the more important you make women and dating in your life, the more they will elude you. Paradoxical, I know, but it is what it is. The issue is that your current mindset and approach telegraphs miles ahead of you that you are needy, desperate and undesirable. Otherwise, why would you feel the need to walk up to a complete stranger and ask for her number without knowing anything about her? Look, you will be better off on focusing on having more fun a…
/r/seduction20/09/24 10:58 PM
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It’s not about the where and how but about the who. Who does the meeting and approaching. Everything else is details.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 10:15 PM
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I don’t think it’s okay to use the “r” word anymore. It’s not cool. Oh…, oh you wrote “restart”, my bad! I don’t see well.
/r/seduction20/09/24 10:09 PM
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Quitting your job to focus on approaching is all I need to know for why you are getting rejected so much.
/r/seduction20/09/24 10:08 PM
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Anything Taylor swift.
/r/seduction20/09/24 10:04 PM
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The more you complain the more people will avoid you. Just be superficial and fluff and positive. In the background, develop a vision and a plan of what your life you want it to look like and execute it. It seems that you are directionless and that happens when you don’t have a vision.
/r/seduction20/09/24 10:03 PM
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You want to end up as a washed up pick up coach who tried to off himself twice (that we know of)?
/r/seduction20/09/24 10:48 AM
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Adderall.
/r/seduction20/09/24 10:46 AM
3

You haven’t made them comfortable enough. You guys really need to stop with this escalating all the time, putting your hands on them. Just relax and give them space to feel comfortable around you otherwise you are like every other horny bastard.
/r/seduction20/09/24 10:46 AM
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Just do what women do. If they bring up sex say “Why are you bringing up sex so early? I don’t know you that well yet.” Tell them “I don’t know if I want to sleep with you. Once I get to know you, I might not want to sleep with you at all.”
/r/seduction20/09/24 10:45 AM
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You have to choose between pity pussy and your self respect. Most men choose pity pussy, just FYI.
/r/seduction20/09/24 10:42 AM
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I thought it was all about looks. Why wouldn’t a woman date a 20 year old in his physical prime?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 10:29 AM
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So let me get this straight. You improved your looks and social skills and it worked for you, but it won’t work for other guys? Mmmmkay
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 10:26 AM
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Wow you should charge money for this type of advice.
/r/seduction19/09/24 11:40 PM
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I just saw a weird guy bother a group of Eastern European tourists in my local grocery store, trying to get a number. It was weird. He kept following them around. Firstly; don’t be that weird guy who goes to the mall to pick up girls. It’s weird and creepy. Instead, be the guy who is busy with stuff and has a purpose and is always walking with a purpose and direction. Maybe you need to go to the mall to buy new socks. While you are walking maybe you spot a hot lady. Then you can stop and say “hi…
/r/seduction19/09/24 11:39 PM
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You are fast forwarding too much. First of all, it starts by where you go to meet girls. If you want casual or ONS, you are not going to go to the library or book store to meet women. You go to a lounge or club after hours where women go to show off and take a guy home to fuck. Get it? You need to know your hunting area. If you meet a girl at one of those places, start bringing up sex relatively quickly. Not as in “wanna fuck?”, but be more sexual “fuck, there all these hot women here but I can’…
/r/seduction19/09/24 11:35 PM
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Start with chubby and frumpy ones and work your way up. Especially if you are virgin.
/r/seduction19/09/24 04:45 PM
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Yep, I certainly have a problem with that although I have improved a lot. It comes down to you creating our own interpersonal reality without realizing it. See, if you see women as being hostile, as being out to get you, to shit test you, to pick at your flaws, or being stupid and liking stupid Taylor Swift instead of heavy metal, etc., then subconsciously you will expect this type of treatment from them. So you try to preempt it by being mean and judgmental to them and in doing so, you create a…
/r/seduction19/09/24 04:42 PM
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If they can play make believe dressing in a Spider-Man costume, they can play make believe acting and dressing like a grown up man.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 04:36 PM
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You’d be surprised how little guys actually have tried. If relationships and sex were really so crucial and important to them, then they would invest in stuff like braces to fix their teeth, plastic surgery to fix facial flaws, chin implants, steroids to build muscle, tattoos, tanning salons, trendy haircuts and fashionable clothes. They would also be dedicated to socializing a lot more and going out to places that might spike their anxiety like bars or clubs. Instead, they half assedly try some…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 02:10 PM
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You are assuming that I’m assuming. But I understand why you would assume that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 11:42 AM
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I have many times. Literally no one provides any detail other than “I said I tried everything and I don’t feel like talking about it.” Tells me all I need to know.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 11:38 AM
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Notice how guys who say “I’ve tried everything” never offer any details.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 11:26 AM
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Exactly! I’ve tried nothing and I’m all out of ideas. Copying the same dating profile on Tinder and Bumble doesn’t count as I’VE TRIED EVERYTHING.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 11:14 AM
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Actually it’s mostly “I’ve tried nothing and I’m all out of ideas.”
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 11:04 AM
1

So you go to college, but don’t know about a little thing called punctuation?
/r/seduction19/09/24 11:02 AM
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lol. Are you like serious?
/r/seduction19/09/24 10:59 AM
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But it’s a losing strategy, because you are making her sex the prize. 1/15 is pretty bad. The numbers speak for themselves.
/r/seduction19/09/24 10:58 AM
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No thanks
/r/seduction19/09/24 12:36 AM
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It doesn’t matter what we tell losers. They will scoff at any advice anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 12:35 AM
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It feels robotic because you are refusing to accept that this is the only way to get over your anxiety. But be my guest and keep trying to avoid the cure. It’s obviously not a big enough problem for you if you are not willing to do what needs to be done.
/r/seduction19/09/24 12:10 AM
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Not sure what you expected. The only way to defeat social anxiety is to do the thing that makes you anxious. I guess you are wanting some magic cure
/r/seduction18/09/24 11:56 PM
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Well, you make eye contact tact by making eye contact and you practice until you are not anxious about anymore.
/r/seduction18/09/24 11:16 PM
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Just smile and say hello. If she keeps eye contact and says hi back, you can always backtrack and talk to her. If not, just keep going.
/r/seduction18/09/24 11:15 PM
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You are wrong. I actually hate the entire concept of “game”, because most guys use it as cope to not work on their looks or lifestyle or social skills. You can’t fake being an attractive guy. You can’t go out and pretend to be cool, while in the back of your mind you know that you live in a shitty apartment with a pile of dirty dishes and sheets you haven’t changed in months. And that the last time you got laid was with a hooker in Las Vegas, 5 years ago. If you want to be successful, you need t…
/r/seduction18/09/24 09:22 PM
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Going out alone is not the problem. The problem is feeling ashamed of going out by yourself and having to make up stories to make yourself seem like you are not weird.
/r/seduction18/09/24 09:16 PM
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Lol, if your goal is to “close”, which I understand it’s chasing sex with them at the end of the night, I can see why you are struggling.
/r/seduction18/09/24 07:58 PM
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You are fine. You were pulling away and she was chasing. Next time you see her, just tease her about how hard she was trying to get you in bed all night and that her feminine charm didn’t work on you. Most very attractive women are not used to men playing hard to get with them.
/r/seduction18/09/24 11:03 AM
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Neediness is a universal turn off.
/r/seduction18/09/24 02:38 AM
0

Using? You are using us for sex AND everything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 11:25 PM
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They see it as an advantage to be needy and attached to getting their validation from women. They believe the needier they are, the more motivated they would be to get a woman. Except that neediness always backfires.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 07:16 PM
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Because you believe there is an advantage to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 07:14 PM
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No ur not
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 07:12 PM
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lol, the males of most animals don’t look nicer because they are meant to attract females. They look the way they do to deter other male competitors or predators. Even peacocks who are thought to just have fancy feathers to look nice, they actually evolved that plumage so they can appear larger and more menacing especially when a female is laying eggs. In humans, men look for certain physical indicators of fertility. Skin, hair and nail health. Hip to waist ratio. Breast, butt and hips shape, yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 07:07 PM
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I get the sentiment of your posts and I agree even if I disagree with some of your individual statements. What you are describing here is a cognitive fallacy that was first identified by the famed Dr. Albert Ellis, father of Rational Emotive Behavioral Therapy. He called this fallacy, very eloquently may I add, MUSTerbation. The idea that things/people/situations/the world MUST BE or SHOULD BE a certain way that we want it to and that if it is not, than that’s absolutely terrible and unacceptabl…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 06:34 PM
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I am telling you HOW TO start attracting women. Women are attracted to men who know what they want and go after it. They want confident and strong men. When you figure out what you want and resolve to go after it, you develop confidence and you show you know what you want. That’s attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 04:53 PM
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Okie dokie then. Let us know if we can help with anything else.
/r/seduction17/09/24 04:36 PM
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Women complain about all kinds of things. Here is the best piece of advice you will ever get: stop giving a fuck about what women say or think. Focus only on what you want and discard anything that is not what you want. You have to be brutal and relentless. Even if you want a LtR relationships you still need to decide what woman you want it, what her qualities are, etc. Irs like hiring candidates for a job. You don’t tell them: you are hired. You tell them: we will see if you are the right perso…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 04:23 PM
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I wouldn’t say you are looking for long term. It’s actually kind of desperate and puts too much pressure. The beginning stages of dating should be all about having fun and escape. Don’t talk about kids, the future, marriage, getting serious, etc. That just scares people off. Just say that you are looking to meet new people and get to know them without expectations and to see what happens. Keep it light, keep it superifical, don’t have deep and serious conversations.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 04:01 PM
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Go on a lot of dates even with women you are not crazy about. Just get exposed to female energy and learn everything about them. You are not obliged to propose marriage to a woman just because you took her out a couple of times.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 03:45 PM
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Some things are the way they are because they are. Sitting there and wishing things were different from the way they are is just hitting your head against the wall. But be my guest.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 03:00 PM
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Well, you are the one asking out. Don’t you think you should use your power of choice to filter the women that you want? Oh, I forget. Men are the victims and have no choice, so we have to settle for whatever scraps we are thrown.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 02:44 PM
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As I said, a man’s behavior is much more important than merely his “looks”. If women wanted to”looks”, they’d go fuck other women. Women are certainly better looking than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 11:49 AM
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I just think you have zero understanding of women. If a woman has to take the lead in the dance and dip you and twirl you, why does she need you? Why does she need a man? She can go home and break out her vibrator instead. Women are attracted to men who take charge and lead. The same way men are attracted to women with certain physical attributes. If a woman doesn’t have those, why does he need her? He can go home and jerk off to PornHub.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 11:08 AM
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You are overselling yourself honey. Most men just want a warm, moist hole attached to the least annoying person they can find.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 10:58 AM
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Bullshit. I have never gotten a woman by trying to impress her. You are just spouting usual socially brainwashed bullshit. It costs nothing to a man to say “I want to take you out. Give me your number and I will call you tomorrow to arrange something”. This is not impressing or pursuing or chasing. This is literally ME doing YOU favor, because I certainly don’t take out any regular bitch out.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 10:56 AM
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Let me guess? OP you are another perpetual virgin who is passing himself as an “expert” on female behavior and dating although your only experience with women is looking at them on a phone screen?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 10:50 AM
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Quick question - have you ever been on a date? Have you ever had a girlfriend? Or are you one of those perpetual virgins who is continuously theorizing what it is like to date a woman and try to pass themselves as experts on female behavior although they have only every observed a naked woman through a phone screen?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 10:49 AM
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You are over complicating things. If I was a hiring manager and I had two candidates, one who has a nice resume with experience in the type of work I’m looking to hire and another guy with a blank resume, I’m probably hiring the first guy. The second guy can get a job but he will have to start with a low pay and doing less important work. But if a guy who is 30 shows up and he hasn’t worked a day in his life, ain’t no chance I’m hiring him ever, because I will always think “wtf is wrong with him…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 10:46 AM
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Just start being honest with women. Tell them “I’m trying to figure out how to make a move, but I can’t think of anything. Can you help me out?”. Or “I know we didn’t meet on a dating app, so I want to make sure you know I asked you out because I find you very attractive ”. If you can’t speak your mind around women, then you are a pussy.
/r/seduction17/09/24 10:44 AM
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I literally saw a guy yesterday who looked like the Comic Book store guy from the Simpson on a date with a girl with Down’s Syndrome, so everything is possible. I’ve seen people in wheelchairs with partners. I’ve seen very unattractive couples together, etc. Bar some extreme physical disability, I will say that since you are alive today, your ancestors procreated successfully from present times all the way back to the beginning of life on earth (think about it). So no, I don’t believe that there…
/r/seduction17/09/24 10:35 AM
1

It’s like fighting for sand on the beach.
/r/seduction17/09/24 10:32 AM
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So you are sitting around waiting for Princess Charming to come galloping on her white horse in her shining armor and put a glass slipper on your foot?
/r/seduction17/09/24 12:40 AM
1

I think you should have been texting her daily and having multi hour phone conversations.
/r/seduction16/09/24 10:29 PM
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You guys need to make up your minds. Are women constantly approached or are men too scared to talk to women? Which one is it, because it can’t be both.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 08:33 PM
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In what world whomever gets approached has all the power? The passive one who is sitting there hoping to be approached has the power? Sure! It’s like if the same logic was used to win wars: “Let’s just station our troops right here and hope the enemy comes right to where they are and engage so we can win”.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 07:00 PM
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So what do you have control over? And how do you explain the gazillions of people that have wives and are still unhappy? Oh wait. You can’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 01:06 PM
-1

Oh….cool! I guess you can show me a study that replicates evidence for the existence of God?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 01:03 PM
2

Most men yearn for a prison cell with regular meals 3X a day rather than the freedom of the wild.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 12:37 PM
2

Yayyy! Let’s quote a totally non religious, weirdly non culty and totally unbiased “institute” called the Institute for Family Studies.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 12:35 PM
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You are misunderstanding the point of OP. He/she is not arguing that love or having a partner is bad or has disadvantages. It does not. OP is arguing that attaching your happiness to whether you have a partner or not is bad and disadvantageous.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 12:34 PM
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You have actually learned to be unhappy by withholding happiness until you either make others pleased with you or you achieve some arbitrary goal in life. Thats what childhood and our educational system is all about. Making peoples happiness conditional.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 12:32 PM
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I’ve never seen a group of men being so attached to the very thing that is the cause of their misery. Except maybe Trump voters.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 12:31 PM
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I think people mostly refer to openers. It doesn’t matter if you say “excuse me” or “hi”, etc. Of course, what you say matters to a great extent. But usually what you say is a reflection of who you are. So if you are very unsure of yourself, you may say stuff like “hey, maybe we can grab a cup of coffee one of these days”. Seemingly innocent comment, but if you read between the lines, it is clear that the person saying this is afraid to come out right and ask the girl out. He is leaving it up to…
/r/seduction16/09/24 12:28 PM
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What is the point of conversation if I’m not running game so I can get laid? What is the point of life if you are not getting sex out of it?
/r/seduction16/09/24 10:53 AM
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You lost me when you said you put your hands on them.
/r/seduction16/09/24 10:45 AM
0

Why would I want to talk to people especially women unless I’m getting sex out of it?
/r/seduction16/09/24 10:44 AM
1

Sure bro you are a real player
/r/seduction16/09/24 09:12 AM
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A BIT of a nice guy here?
/r/seduction16/09/24 01:07 AM
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Lipo, bbl, breast augmentation, Botox, fillers and lots of makeup.
/r/seduction16/09/24 01:05 AM
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So is OP, so he’s in good company.
/r/seduction16/09/24 01:04 AM
1

Honestly you sound extremely needy and thats why she is "ghosting you". And thinking she owes you constant attention and texting just because you had sex is the height of neediness and desperation.
/r/seduction16/09/24 01:03 AM
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There is letting go of attachment and then there is giving up. Letting go and giving yourself permission to be okay and happy without a woman is very different than giving up and lamenting your misfortune. One involves acceptance the other one involves loss of self esteem. When people say “when you are not looking or when you are expecting it the least is when love will most likely find you” they are not saying become a depressed hermit who never speaks to women and has cut off his balls. They a…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 01:01 AM
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So here is the actual problem. It starts way before getting rejected. Think of it as two sides of the same coin. On one side, you have all that women mean to you and what getting a woman means about you. This is the meaning you give to things. For example “women bring happiness, being able to get a girl to make out with me and go home me means I’m the man, if enough hot girls like me, I will be a total stud and all my friends will be envious”. And the other side of this coin is the flip side of …
/r/seduction15/09/24 02:07 PM
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Sure. And your theories are almost always going to be completely wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 12:43 PM
-9

Very interesting! Yet, you often comment like you are the definitive expert on women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 11:09 PM
0

Yeah it’s the women and not the guy that this happens to all the time.
/r/seduction14/09/24 07:37 PM
1

That’s a whole lotta words to say “I have tried nothing and I’m all out of ideas”
/r/seduction14/09/24 07:36 PM
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Wow, so you started taking care of your body and now women care more about you then when you were a fat depressed loser? Must me some black magic. Ask your mom if she’s recently sacrificed any chickens to help out her son.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 04:14 PM
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It is very simple but the concept that is required to make it happen is the exact opposite of everything you have been taught about women, so you will resist using it. Here is what dating and sex is all about: “People NEVER want what they CAN get and ONLY want what they CANNOT get”. Understand that the nice polite guy, who desperately wants a girl to love him and makes himself available to her at all times is what she CAN get. And thus, she’s not that interested. But the guy who doesn’t have tim…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 11:52 AM
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Firstly, Maslow hierarchy is total BS. It’s nothing more than a theory just like most things on psychology and sociology. And it’s actually one of the worst offenders when it comes to making men unattractive. Yes, it you believe that love and intimacy are the most important need and you happened to lack those things, all you will be focusing on is the lack. Being by incomplete and needing a woman to make you complete. All this neediness delivers the exact same result according to the universal l…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 11:23 AM
1

Do you look like a typical nerdy/dorky Asian guy with a pocket calculator?
/r/seduction14/09/24 11:10 AM
1

Stop being an excuser. You want to get to know her, so you text her: “Hey, it’s Bob from the cafe. Let’s go out and get to know each other better”.
/r/seduction14/09/24 11:09 AM
0

Are you asking if you can be a loser in real life, but pretend you are super cool and have it together on dating apps?
/r/seduction14/09/24 01:33 AM
0

Have you tried getting out of your car?
/r/seduction13/09/24 07:37 PM
6

So she came out with you because you did something interesting and NOT because you are interesting?
/r/seduction13/09/24 12:57 PM
2

No, no, no. You still live in this world where the most important thing is to “get” the girl. Whatever it takes. Jump through hoops, kiss ass, do the right behaviors. That’s why you are struggling. Because your frame is “I have to prove that I am worthy of her”. 99% of men live in this world with you. You are all the same, competing over who has more money, more social status, etc. But for you woman=prize. You just have to figure out how to get her so it may as well be luck. There is only one wa…
/r/seduction13/09/24 10:32 AM
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Look up Chase Hughes and his profiling videos. Everyone wears a mask and people have different needs. For example, that gym girl who is wears by a baggy shirt but super tight leggings, who for some reason keeps tucking her tee in her pants but only on the back, is thirsty for attention. The stronger the behavior someone exhibits, the greater their fear of the opposite. So the attention seekers greatest fear is being completely ignored and overlooked.
/r/seduction13/09/24 01:28 AM
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So you let complete stranger’s opinion of you be more important than your own opinion of you? You, the person who has know yourself your entire life VS a random chick who has know you all of 3 seconds? It’s actually not her opinion you should worry about. It’s your opinion of you that you should worry about. A rejection would bother someone who has high self esteem as much as a random person who tries to let a dog and the dog moves away from him. The random person would laugh it off, because his…
/r/seduction12/09/24 11:48 PM
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Trying to manage anxiety is always a mistake. The quickest way to get rid of it is to lean into the thing that makes you anxious. Once you face your fears, you will discover the monster is toothless.
/r/seduction12/09/24 08:53 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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