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Social IssuesDaSaw/r/MensRights19/02/19 05:22 AM
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21

Not vs. a woman, no. But a son who injured his abusive father, or a desperately poor man who'd had a really shitty turn of events drive him into crime and hurt someone trying to feed his baby or something, or something like that, would be sympathetically portrayed. The issue isn't so much male-female, but the power dynamic. Where it becomes male-female is the (largely incorrect) assumption that between men and women, power is always and everywhere in the man's hands.
/r/MensRights16/02/19 04:42 PM
1

Yeah, I do the same. Married once, the relationship was horribly abusive, got out. No good model of marriage from the parents, either. Figure it's best to stay out of that sort of thing entirely, use anime and VNs to take the edge off romantic deprivation, porn to take the edge off sexual deprivation.
/r/MensRights12/02/19 05:52 PM
1

True, but I think the evolutionary "idea" behind the "romantic chemical" is that it convinces us to attach ourselves intimately to someone who is otherwise a stranger. By the time we become tolerant to the chemical (and thus it stops working), we're already thoroughly integrated, with a child, and thus it's too late to turn back. But in our society, it's never too late, particularly for a woman. Birth control is a thing, meaning once the chemical stops working it's easy to leave, leaving one or …
/r/MensRights12/02/19 05:49 PM
1

Different people become sexually aware at different ages. For me, the idea of being competely non-sexual at 13 is just bizarre. But that's just because it is counter to my own experience.
/r/MensRights12/02/19 05:36 PM
-1

"Why do you call me good? Don't you know there is no one good but God?" People are only as good as their circumstances allow them to be. People can only make the choices they encounter. In any progressing civilization, absent specific institutional resistance to the phenomenon, access to opportunities will inexoribly be centralized in the hands of the few. As the rewards of right action are increasingly diverted from those who do to those who own or control, the incidence of right action will de…
/r/MensRights30/01/19 09:05 PM
5

Crucifixation or GTFO.
/r/MensRights07/12/18 03:15 PM
17

Women have never wanted me. The only one that said 'yes' was emotionally abusive and controlling. My mother is borderline narcissist, so I've never really had a good "model" of what a "good woman" is supposed to look like, in the first place. In the long run, I've gotten little more than pain and aggravation from the "dating" process. Meanwhile, I have managed to enjoy myself doing my own thing. I'm happiest when I'm not pursuing romance of any kind. I discharge my sexual appetites through porn …
/r/MGTOW13/11/18 09:39 PM
7

I spent my weekend making sourdough bread and playing Crusader Kings 2 while watching Star Trek: Deep Space Nine.
/r/MGTOW13/11/18 07:59 PM
1

This is why, after about a year of otherwise healthy and successful diet and exercise, I gave it up. I was thin, strong, and energetic (a little too energetic, actually, since my accustomed habits, social and otherwise, had few outlets for that energy). But I was also obsessed with food. The question of what to eat literally consumed almost every waking thought. I was physically comfortable, but spiritually frazzled. I'm now 40 years old, physically weak, pot-bellied like a motherfucker... and h…
/r/MensRights08/11/18 08:14 PM
1

It could be the fact that the rest of the Anglosphere is civilized and America is... not.
/r/MensRights08/11/18 08:08 PM
1

Ah, that would explain it. For a moment, I thought that was where I was, and was surprised by how reasonable the comments where. I still think MGTOW should be able to be a movement of indifference, rather than hostility and resentment. That's certainly my approach, which I have taken largely due to my inability to get my shit together sufficiently to actually support a household. But it seems the majority in the subreddit, including the mods, disagree rather strongly with that assessment. :-\
/r/MensRights02/11/18 02:48 AM
3

lol, I can see it now. Girls who just don't get drunk because they don't party like that being preferentially targeted by guys who are absolutely hammered, because that's the only way they can get the courage to even try.
/r/MensRights02/11/18 02:37 AM
1

Sure, don't address her obvious crippling sexual anxieties. Let's make them worse by crying "rape". I've known people who can't "dance" sober. They're being danceraped. I've known people who won't sing karaoke unless they're drunk. They're being songraped. Some dudes gotta top off on "liquid courage" before asking a girl out. Those guys are clearly being askraped. EDIT: Some people can't stand up for themselves unless drunk. Can't even interject. They're being butraped.
/r/MensRights02/11/18 02:23 AM
11

If "lack of self-awareness" isn't on the symptom list, it should be. Heck, someone who is properly diagnosed and actually working on it could possibly work out, with some patience.
/r/MensRights26/10/18 07:37 PM
10

I'm tempted to update my long neglected profile simply to say "I dig flat chests. If that's been your deal-breaker with other guys, give me a try.
/r/MensRights26/10/18 07:36 PM
4

Depends on what group you're talking about, but for white dudes, 5'9" is solidly average.
/r/MensRights26/10/18 07:34 PM
1

Lost wages is more than just a fine.
/r/MensRights21/10/18 03:32 AM
-3

Jailing someone for a false accusation seems a bit much to me. That said, judges probably should consider the effects of an accusation when determining damages in a slander or libel suit. If her accusation reduces his ability to make a living, she can pay the difference.
/r/MensRights21/10/18 02:59 AM
1

Bot, I just want a picture of a gosh danged hotdog.
/r/MGTOW17/10/18 03:35 AM
5

In my troop, my scoutmaster and I had a good talk about what "A scout is reverent" can mean for an atheist (as I was at the time). At least for us, respect for each others beliefs was sufficient. As an adult, I would define that as "be serious about your beliefs, and respectful of others' beliefs".
/r/MensRights11/10/18 06:19 PM
1

Dude, this isn't redpill. It's mgtow.
/r/MGTOW10/10/18 03:22 PM
3

Not that I have a problem with an honest exchange of money for services, but there's nothing wrong with not fucking women.
/r/MGTOW09/10/18 09:52 PM
1

I now have you tagged "dog".
/r/MGTOW28/09/18 04:53 PM
6

It's definitely a compelling argument and a somewhat worrying phenomenon. My hope is that a community calling itself "MGTOW" would want to promote an independent lifestyle as a viable alternative to despair-induced hatred and violence. My expectation, on the other hand...
/r/MGTOW27/09/18 07:12 PM
1

Okay, I'll use smaller words for you. If black people are racist toward white people, the worst thing that happens is hurt feelings. If white people are racist toward black people, in sufficient numbers (and we definitely have sufficient numbers), it is genuinely harmful. If racism were consistent between the two races, white people might have to deal with it maybe once a week. Black people would have to deal with it multiple times a day. A white person would rarely be denied a job by a black em…
/r/MensRights27/09/18 02:26 AM
1

I'd be willing to bet the numbers become considerably more equal if you control for geo-cultural origin. Remember, the places where their ancestors first slaved and then sharecropped (before the feds paid the landowners to kick them off of the land in the name of soil conservation) are also the places where most whites have pretty much exactly the same problems (as well as some of the same virtues).
/r/MensRights26/09/18 05:58 PM
-10

No, you can be racist toward a white person, it just doesn't fucking matter. Unlike white racism, which has very real consequences, not merely emotional (seriously, if you're going to get upset about a black person talking shit about white people, you're a red snowflake), but socioeconomic. And in an unacceptably large number of cases in certain areas, it's even a matter of life and death.
/r/MensRights26/09/18 05:55 PM
4

How many women are willing to marry Pedophiles and sex offender men? You'd be surprised. :-\
/r/MGTOW13/09/18 05:50 PM
1

That bundle of nerves is there from birth, or perhaps before. Once I stumbled across it, I was like a research monkey that had found the coke lever.
/r/MGTOW04/09/18 07:42 PM
1

Was that unclear?
/r/MGTOW03/09/18 07:49 PM
2

Yeah, I'm completely the opposite. I figured it out when I was like, two (at the oldest), and while I've read that a lot of little boys figure it out around that age, most forget after a while I don't resume until they've hit puberty. I never forgot. I never stopped. And I didn't have religious parents or anything telling me to stop (just to keep it private, since 4 yo me didn't know any better). For me, it was a daily habit for literally as long as I can remember. In my teens and my early twent…
/r/MGTOW03/09/18 06:15 PM
7

Hmm, maybe you can answer a question for me I've long been curious about, but haven't been able to answer for myself. I've noticed that, if I don't fap for more than a week or so, that my prostate starts to feel "overfull". Like, it becomes hypersensitive, as does my perception when it comes to women. I fap soon after to relieve both the internal and perceptual pressure. I can derive a great deal of pleasure from it if I can find the time and privacy to take my time about it; otherwise, it's jus…
/r/MGTOW03/09/18 05:54 PM
4

May I suggest an alternate interpretation. In generally, people expect from others what they would do in a similar position. If you see someone shrieking (without evidence) that someone stole from them, you're probably watching someone who has stolen in the past (or would steal and knows it). If you see someone freaking out about someone spreading rumors about them (again, without evidence), you're seeing someone who likely does the same. If you're seeing someone who seems painfully naive about …
/r/MGTOW03/09/18 03:42 PM
3

Silly supermen wanting something like a stable family life...
/r/MGTOW03/09/18 03:29 PM
46

Expecting to get a girlfriend because you're a nice guy is like expecting a job or, worse, a promotion, because you're a nice guy. It doesn't work that way. Being nice can make any relationship easier, but it isn't the foundation of one.
/r/MGTOW03/09/18 03:27 PM
49

Correction: Never be a nice guy for the sake of getting pussy. But seriously, you want to be MGTOW, you need to stop worrying about pussy, step up your masturbation game, and be proud of it. None of this... "not getting laid" shaming bullshit. (Also, no pornshaming the ladies;' they perform an honest service for honest pay.) (Hmm. What would be the semantic distaff counterpart to "slut shaming"?)
/r/MGTOW03/09/18 03:24 PM
4

Nope. I just don't think that killing people in the name of "efficiency" is okay. Efficiency is for manufacturing of goods, not for when lives are at stake. EDIT: And may I say that accusation is precisely the sort of thing that leads me to believe this place is at least as much a den of misogyny as a bastion of masculine independence.
/r/MGTOW03/09/18 03:20 PM
2

This isn't widgets we're talking about here. You skimp on QC and sell someone a bad widget, you waste someones time because they gotta return it and get another one. You rush through medicine, people die. Sure, in a crisis situation, triage is necessary, but if the normal rate isn't sufficient to see everyone that needs to be seen, the solution is more doctors, not faster doctors. Judging by what I've read from you so far, I see you as a monster.
/r/MGTOW03/09/18 03:08 PM
15

It isn't efficiency when it's the wrong diagnosis, which is quite possible if the doctor is rushing through the visit.
/r/MGTOW03/09/18 03:10 AM
38

Eh, doctors trying to see too many patients in too short a period of time is a problem. Purely anecdotal, I know, but in my experience female medical professionals are doing a better job, precisely because they are not rushed. Last male doc I saw basically scolded me, threw a prescription at me, and tossed me out of his office. If anything, the problem is the sexism that says men should be prioritizing speed and quantity over quality.
/r/MGTOW03/09/18 02:32 AM
11

The whole scenario is ludicrous. Like, beyond even an unreasonable difference of opinion.
/r/MGTOW03/09/18 12:55 AM
-11

You may be right in general, but I would hardly consider male circumcision in particular a source of "suffering". One and done pain when you're too young too even form a memory of the event, and then you would never know the difference unless someone told you about it. I know this, because I didn't even know foreskins were a thing until I read about it on the Internet. I certainly have never had any sense that anything was missing. It upsets me when I read about hospitals that proceed despite pa…
/r/MensRights29/08/18 05:40 PM
1

Do you have any particular basis for emphasizing the overpresence of the female over the absence of the male?
/r/MGTOW18/08/18 03:32 PM
10

Sample size may be too small.
/r/MGTOW18/08/18 03:32 PM
1

Depends where you are.
/r/MensRights10/07/18 09:06 PM
-1

Turning into?
/r/MensRights12/06/18 04:36 PM
1

On top of this, the ever greater centralization of wealth (read: control over opportunities) makes the competition ever worse. It's like we went from a race in which there was a first, second, and third place, and that was it, to a race in which you have prizes for the winners... plus bears to eat the guys in back.
/r/MGTOW08/06/18 02:27 AM
7

Women: We need more men who don't cheat. Me: Right over here! Women: Revision: We need more men who don't cheat but totally could if they wanted to.
/r/MensRights06/06/18 06:19 PM
1

Promoting the notion of maleness, itself, as a positive identity?
/r/MensRights01/06/18 02:22 AM
-3

Mainly. Occasionally something good comes across, which is why I stick around--well, that, and to downvote particularly egregious examples of pointless misogyny (a pretty common thing on this sub). That said, manly scented candles is interesting.
/r/MensRights01/06/18 01:19 AM
19

I think the point is that you buy them, and light them, *without* her permission.
/r/MensRights01/06/18 01:16 AM
2

I think she's using the word differently. Many outside the Mens Rights Movement believe incels are just misogynists who have horrific personalities but claim the reason they can't get laid is because there's something wrong with women, and/or that there's something wrong with a society in which sex is not an entitlement.
/r/MGTOW04/05/18 05:44 PM
2

Jesus.
/r/MGTOW04/05/18 05:40 PM
3

tl;dr: She got cheated on and wants to believe the problem is general to men, and not specific to her own poor judgment.
/r/MGTOW29/04/18 05:04 PM
2

In other words, only men can be held responsible for what they do when drunk. Or aren't they typically both drunk in such situations?
/r/MensRights17/04/18 04:52 PM
3

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/r/MensRights29/03/18 02:45 AM
2

Every sperm is sacred.
/r/MGTOW21/03/18 07:08 PM
6

Reminds me of a video where a husband tried to prank his wife by buying a ticket with the previous draw's numbers on it and running a tape of the previous draw at the usual time. Her response: she told him that yay! They can afford a divorce now! Hits him like a ton of bricks. He just stands there gaping like a fish, as she's like, "come on, neither of us is happy, why shouldn't we do this? He lowers himself carefully into a sitting position, clearly devastated by this. She lets him twist a bit …
/r/MGTOW21/03/18 05:46 PM
1

I like the idea of a community of men who have passed up marriage and family and are glad to have done so, but the community has always been a misogynistic circle-jerk. That said, I don't blame them. I'm honestly not sure it's actually possible to be happy outside the context of something like family, and our current system of law and custom puts men entirely at the mercy of women where this is concerned. Some men feel powerless under this model. Men who feel powerless can be dangerous, which ma…
/r/MGTOW14/03/18 08:17 PM
5

Makes me think of that episode of ST:TNG, in which Guinan and Worf talk about whether or not Klingons laugh. Worf, in response to Guinan telling him she's never seen him laugh, says "Klingons do not laugh". Guinan responds by pointing out that no, Worf, that's just you.
/r/MensRights10/03/18 04:14 PM
6

I see it as more the ability to put emotions aside when the situation warrants it, and deal with them later (once a crisis has passed). Some people fall apart in a crisis. Some people do not. At least in Western society (cannot comment on societies outside my own), boys have been heavily pressured to develop this skill, while girls have been anywhere from allowed not to develop it, to actively discouraged from developing it.
/r/MensRights10/03/18 04:11 PM
2

I'm honestly not sure this is fair. If it was as easy for us as it is for them, our dicks would probably put the most dedicated spelunkers to shame.
/r/MGTOW25/09/17 12:47 PM
5

Makes me think of early colonial Virginia. The landowners of the colony wanted to enjoy the same status as medieval European landowners. Those medieval landowners got their position by being the protectors during a period of extraordinarily brutal anarchy... or so their descendants liked to imagine (the reality was that they themselves were often the robbers). That wasn't the position of the colonial landowner, so in order to simulate that condition they actually paid Native Americans to brutali…
/r/MGTOW23/07/17 03:24 PM
1

I don't care for the tone of the article, but this does make for an interesting experiment with interesting results. I'd say it was worth doing.
/r/MensRights03/07/17 09:28 PM
3

lol. Translation: "Hey Redpillers, we consider your movement so toxic that we will actively direct you to our competitors. No, your money is not good enough. Don't let the door hit your ass on the way out."
/r/MensRights07/05/17 06:12 PM
2

I take it you've read the opinion?
/r/MensRights08/03/17 03:35 AM
1

In this case, it may be less about sex than class.
/r/MensRights08/03/17 03:33 AM
3

See what I'm talking about?
/r/MensRights01/02/17 12:34 AM
2

Many men like and prefer small breasts. Well aware. At least a few men believe this preference to be some sort of abomination.
/r/MensRights31/01/17 11:12 PM
6

All the fucking time. It's part of why people were so eager to stay in Afghanistan, rather than just getting Bid Laden and getting the fuck out. Gotta protect those girls on the way to school.
/r/MensRights31/01/17 06:29 PM
8

Depends on the local culture. I've been in places where if I admit I'm into a girl who happens to have a particularly small rack, I've been shamed for it. I've been in other places where its no big deal. Some people think their preferences are objective truths, while others are more like "Whatever floats your boat, man."
/r/MensRights31/01/17 06:19 PM
0

True, but I find myself wondering if they chose her specifically for this. (Obviously, I don't know the context, I just know I've seen substantially more athletic women than her.)
/r/MensRights29/09/16 08:50 PM
-1

I couldn't watch past the door part. This video is strawman ridiculous. She may lack the strength, but the world may never know, because her form is absolute shit. She "runs like a girl", as they put it, and I can't help but that is a thing that is learned, and could be unlearned.
/r/MensRights29/09/16 07:45 PM
21

Eh, depends on the culture. When I was growing up, dudes would hit each other in the shoulder just for kicks. And I used to enjoy it when girls would do this. Probably the most fun time was when I was razzing this girl (we were buds, did it to each other all the time), she predictably tries to sock me into the shoulder, but I turned it into a twirl and a dip, and she's just looking around like "what the fuck just happened?"
/r/MensRights28/09/16 06:17 PM
1

Words have different connotations in different regional dialects. Perhaps in the non-American parts of the Anglosphere, a charge of "rape" on a woman would be regarded not as a more severe charge than unlawful sexual connection, but rather as a physically impossible charge.
/r/MensRights13/09/16 03:00 PM
14

If you ain't got six figures and eight inches you ain't shit.
/r/MensRights31/05/16 11:55 PM
19

At a university? Unless the backlash against PC intellectual conformism is starting to get some legs, this will almost certainly be rejected, and maybe even provoke some sort of disciplinary action.
/r/MensRights14/05/16 10:44 PM
2

I get your point, and maybe if the police aren't equipped the handle such situations, the police aren't necessarily the people you want to talk to about it. But the kind of people that get involved in abusive relationships (as I did) are the kind of people that lose sight of how they should be properly treated (or simply were never treated properly in the first place), so it can be very difficult to get perspective. Having a resource like this generally available, advertising it in places like t…
/r/MensRights27/04/16 12:50 AM
11

I don't know about that, honestly. The abuser I married (and divorced 2-3 year later after some counseling) was someone I picked out of a crowd and fell for hard at a young age, and maintained those feelings for a good decade before she agreed to marry me. Weirdly enough, the qualities that attracted me to her were the very qualities I left her over. She had an intensity to her that I had no idea what it would look like when it turned on me, nor did I see the red flag in the way she regarded and…
/r/MensRights27/04/16 12:43 AM
1

I think the poster campaign is maybe less about trying to convince the rapists not to rape, than it is to trying to convince the non-rapists to pay attention. It's easy to believe we live in this civilized era where bad things happen only rarely in places far away from ourselves. It's shocking when you realize how much of that stuff is still going on behind closed doors, and how readily others will attempt to justify it, given the cloak of anonymity. For me, it was racism. I honestly believed th…
/r/MensRights07/01/16 03:43 PM
1

Nothing. It does, however, conform to the strong undercurrent of misogyny that befouls the men's rights movement every bit as much as misandry does feminism.
/r/MensRights02/01/16 03:35 PM
-1

It isn't one monolithic organization; it's many such organizations. You fail at divide and conquer.
/r/MensRights22/12/15 12:14 AM
1

Has anybody noticed how common it is for people to regard a movement as a monolithic entity, instead of recognizing that it's composed in individuals who may differ in their attitudes?
/r/MensRights20/12/15 08:32 PM
9

That, and she might persist in trying to generate false memories of molestation.
/r/MensRights20/12/15 08:25 PM
1

I went through the same thing after my divorce. Porn and masturbation was only partially satisfying, for the first six months or so. After that, they were fully satisfying. Sex is an addiction. It can take a while for the cravings to go down... but they do go down.
/r/MGTOW01/12/15 03:24 PM
2

If you were truly MGTOW, you wouldn't give a shit. Quit crying.
/r/MGTOW01/12/15 03:20 PM
9

I'm guessing there are details that aren't in the article. We'd at least have to see the content and frequency of the "debate" posts to know what's really going on. I'm guessing he took it further that he should have. I don't agree that warrants a 6 month sentence, regardless of the topic. Let's try not to be like the mindless anti-racists who lose their minds over an article titled "man arrested for being black" that leaves out the fact that the dude shot, like, five or six cops.
/r/MensRights01/12/15 03:13 PM
2

Thank you for posting this. I distinctly remember that one of the reasons some people were frothing at the mouth to attack Afghanistan was to ensure their girls can go to school. It's posts like the one you replied to that make me hesitant to identify with the Men's Rights movement. I agree there are problems, but there's just too many knee-jerk misogynistic asshats in this movement. No better than the idiot wing of the Feminist movement.
/r/MensRights29/11/15 05:34 AM
13

Whether its true or not, this article demonstrates one thing. In the past, women were advised not to be alone with a man she didn't know well because of the possibility of rape. Now, men are advised not to be alone with a woman he doesn't know well because of the possibility of a false rape charge. Neither sex can safely be alone with the other now. Sex equality achieved.
/r/MensRights04/11/15 09:24 PM
6

Great men are rarely good; good men are rarely great.
/r/MGTOW26/10/15 06:22 AM
1

lol, does Jeph know about this?
/r/MensRights17/10/15 09:14 PM
3

Upvoted because it's a legitimate response, even if I do disagree with it. What I would like to see is false accusation becoming a crime in itself. Say someone accuses someone of a crime that has a three year sentence. Say defense doesn't merely manage to establish reasonable doubt as to the guilt of the accused, but also manages to prove, beyond a reasonable doubt, that the accusation was knowingly false. In this case, the accuser (and/or possibly the prosecutor) would be convicted of conspirac…
/r/MensRights11/10/15 11:49 PM
7

No, people actually paying for their crimes is revenge. See, an enlightened, civilized society never actually punishes anyone for what they do. It doesn't have to, because 100% rehabilitation is possible, and because people are and ought to be civilized, there shouldn't be any problem with the trust of victims in the legal system being undermined. </s>
/r/MensRights11/10/15 11:35 PM
4

I too have left society for the most part, outside the necessary paycheck excursions. But having been through a very very very very very bad marriage (and a liberating divorce), I now appreciate the soltitude. Do I want to watch a film? I watch it. Do I want to read a book? I read it. Do I want to play a game? I play it. Do I want to go somewhere? I go there. Do I want to buy something? I buy it. Do I have the itch to write something within my areas of interest? I write it. Now. When I want to. …
/r/MensRights04/10/15 12:38 AM
3

Nodoby knows that word.
/r/MensRights23/08/15 05:09 PM
2

I wont't assume that my needs are the same as yours. And I thank you for that.
/r/MensRights21/08/15 02:59 AM
8

Depends on where you've been. I had my own brother pulling this shit on me recently. I don't think he even knew what he was doing. I haven't had sex in over a decade (since the divorce). I'm okay with that. And you'd be surprised how many people I meet that see that as just plain unnatural.
/r/MensRights20/08/15 01:28 PM
3

Oh, fuck you. You know I didn't mean it that way.
/r/MensRights20/08/15 01:26 PM
1

If she takes it that far, I'd start working on #3.
/r/MensRights20/08/15 07:18 AM
4

I'm not seeing the feminist angle here. To me this feels more like a plain old censorship issue... she was shocked by seeing R rated content in a school. Perhaps she shouldn't have been, and needs to put on her big girl pants and realize she's entering the adult world, but I'm not seeing feminism here.
/r/MensRights20/08/15 07:13 AM
28

Nuuu... having a dick implies consent... apparently. Upvoted, with gusto (and the downvoter should be ashamed of himself). I think one major aspect of any aspect of any "mens' rights" program I'm interested in being a part of is the right to be as we are, and not as society expects and demands. That means it's perfectly okay to not be "constantly after the pussy" and have no interest in getting laid for the sake of getting laid. I'm getting tired of living in a world where gays can get married, …
/r/MensRights20/08/15 06:57 AM
5

I wouldn't appreciate it.
/r/MensRights20/08/15 06:53 AM
4

lol, I like that. A man with an appreciation for female competence/combat skill, and that's perfectly okay.
/r/MensRights20/08/15 06:51 AM
7

When I saw this was posted in /r/MensRights, I was expecting to find that the kid had been returned to his mother's custody instead of being given to his father. But his dad was there. I don't really see the Mens' Rights issue here.
/r/MensRights19/08/15 01:12 PM
1

To be fair, there are men who can't bond deeply with men the way other men do. I am one of them.
/r/MensRights15/08/15 03:38 AM
0

To be fair, there are a LOT of men for whom before a woman can be friends with him, she first has to deal with the fact that he wants to sleep with her.
/r/MensRights14/08/15 04:38 AM
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There is a very big difference between reading about a thing and actually experiencing it.
/r/MensRights14/08/15 04:37 AM
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I want to say I agree with /u/LettersFormWords, and extend his point. In the past, women were routinely and institutionally discriminated against, and so having a movement specific to advancing their interests made sense. I don't see this kind of routine and institutional discrimination today; not in the mainstream, anyway. Today, gender expectation problems are about equal on both sides (as Ms. Vincent discovered during her experiment). To continue to call the gender equality movement "feminist…
/r/MensRights14/08/15 04:33 AM
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They would have to use female bouncers to avoid media drama... but then you'd have people wanting to hang around to just watch the bouncers. :p
/r/MensRights09/08/15 05:01 PM
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Not necessarily. A legal trade could be used as a front for an illegal trade. The solution, I think, is not to keep it illegal, but to put the legal trade under substantial monitoring and regulation, at least until the illegal trade has been substantially reduced.
/r/MensRights02/08/15 09:35 PM
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In this particular case, the answer is simple. Add to section 1a (law here: (http://www.legislature.mi.gov/(S(duotr2zahzdr4rciupp2ira2))/mileg.aspx?page=GetObject&objectname=mcl-750-520e) the provision "and the person could reasonably have been expected to know this" or something of the sort. I was going to rant about him pleading guilty to the charge... but the fact is, he is guilty. The law makes no provision for whether or not he was mislead as to her age, which is the primary stupid part.
/r/MensRights01/08/15 10:04 PM
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What kind of parents raise a daughter who thinks it's okay to lie to men about their age Her mom is probably 39, and has been for the last decade or so. :p
/r/MensRights01/08/15 10:02 PM
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All you have to do is imagine a man behaving similarly. The other man might punch him in the face, which would likely be a minor misdemeanor, at best. Men know this; thus, we limit ourselves when dealing with other men... or at least, the intelligent ones do. But make the other person a woman, and suddenly, it goes from a broken nose and a minor misdemeanor, to a broken nose and... I don't know what else. Certainly the consequences go well beyond the criminal justice system.
/r/MensRights05/07/15 07:25 PM
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Or female news reporters/politicians they disagree with.
/r/MensRights07/06/15 10:47 PM
3

Just came here to say, MGTOW is actually pretty awesome.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/15 01:51 PM
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Old women have no way of threatening our egos, and are closest in age to our mothers. A man can set off rivalry instincts; a young woman, the need to posture. Only an older woman can offer succor without us feeling like we're either subjecting ourselves to the dominance of another male, or demeaning ourselves before a "potential" mate. (Not really, but instinct and reason don't always communicate with each other very well.)
/r/MensRights27/02/15 03:32 AM
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Truth is contextual. What's true one minute in one situation is not true the next in a different context. A lot of sex stuff is like this. Classic hypergamy. http://youtu.be/O6kRqnfsBEc
/r/TheRedPill29/01/15 01:57 AM
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Female equivalent of "bros before hoes"?
/r/TheRedPill29/01/15 01:53 AM
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Honest men are extremely rare. Honest women are, so far as I can tell, nonexistent.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/15 01:52 AM
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I admit I am new here. I don't fully understand the terminology yet. I just posted that for the pun.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/15 01:12 AM
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So what would the even earlier version of marriage be when parents and/or matchmakers told people who they were going to marry, and that was that? The beta version? (har har)
/r/TheRedPill28/01/15 02:57 PM
2

Personally, I think the reason we don't fear attack is because deep down inside, at what might genuinely be described as a "genetic" level, we understand that we are expendable. The species could quite easily get along without the vast majority of us. The female is the primary reproductive unit, and while having the exclusive material support of a male is advantageous at the intraspecies level, interspecies competition requires only enough males to inseminate the female population. It is to the …
/r/MensRights27/01/15 05:12 AM
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No, what she's doing here is advocating the legitimacy of the female mating strategy, and demonizing any male countermeasure to that strategy. (Female strategy: mate with a hottie for the genes, settle down with a boring dude for the money and dedication. Male strategy: mate with as many as possible, and jealously guard the paternity of those few offspring you are actively participating in the raising of. Marriage: cease fire agreement between the sexes.)
/r/MensRights18/01/15 02:05 AM
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Fascinating. Sort of a "don't ask, don't tell" policy with regard to adultary. So long as a woman is sufficiently discreet she doesn't create any additional evidence, she can get away with it. This is France, after all. Their libertine approach to sex has long been a bone of contention in the Anglo-French rivalry.
/r/MensRights17/01/15 10:40 PM
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I would think that when they hurl the word "slut", its because they believe they have been harmed by the other person's use of their sexuality. Whether or not their complaint is legitimate is another matter, of course.
/r/MensRights17/01/15 10:36 PM
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This isn't just women. Most debate, whether against men or women, is a waste of time if you're actually trying to convince your opponent. Among friends who can be trusted as a sounding board, it can be useful, but even then, you're unlikely to convince anyone who ha reached a level of conviction where they're actually willing to debate you... and if they don't have that kind of conviction, they're probably not interested in developing it, either for your ideas or theirs. Debate is less for the b…
/r/TheRedPill13/01/15 03:02 AM
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Hey, so long as you know what you're dealing with, smurfettes can be fun.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/15 01:16 AM
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Kill a child, the cost is a certain past difficulty. Emotionally damage a child, the cost is an uncertain future difficulty.
/r/MensRights23/12/14 03:10 PM
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Question: Do you intend to stop the oat sowing once you settle down? Do you expect to be able to?
/r/TheRedPill20/12/14 02:49 AM
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The only thing I was able to find about Goldberg and Biden is that they happened to be on the same train one day.
/r/MensRights16/12/14 05:09 AM
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I'm pretty sure highway cops know whats up when they see a man and a woman fighting on the side of the road. I was in a similar situation, and had no trouble with the cops.
/r/MensRights16/12/14 05:01 AM
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Actually, the writer points out that the police did observe "innocent until proven guilty"; the issue was his family and friends.
/r/MensRights30/11/14 01:57 AM
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I'm guessing you live in the North Eastern U.S.?
/r/TheRedPill26/11/14 05:48 AM
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"And I think we need to address fundamental questions around identity and the impression that the constant stream of negative images about men is leaving on boys." This is what I worry about. I suffered from "white guilt" for years on account of my early school experiences. I'm already noticing fallout that appears to be "male guilt" related among people less than a decade younger than me, and I can only imagine how its going to be for those who grew up in the current environment.
/r/MensRights14/11/14 02:52 PM
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But what it really comes down to, to me, is that women should be able to drink however much they want, whenever they want... lol, its like they don't realize dudes can also end up in bad situations by drinking too much.
/r/MensRights18/10/14 10:34 PM
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I'd be more interested in how common they actually are.
/r/MensRights15/10/14 01:25 AM
1

A wording mistake, I assume. The rest of the article suggests that for the most part, rape isn't on every man's agenda.
/r/MensRights12/10/14 12:58 AM
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I'm not sure where this fits in the discussion, but I've always harbored the dark suspicion that what women who enjoy the "gray area" really want is for men to relieve them of responsibility for their own sexual impulses. Many women are shamed for wanting sex, and thus that border between seduction and rape is a place where they can safely enjoy themselves.
/r/MensRights12/10/14 12:18 AM
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She starts out telling us that all men are rapists I didn't get that from the article.
/r/MensRights12/10/14 12:15 AM
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Heh, I skipped to the end first to make sure I wasn't being memed. Good story.
/r/MensRights16/08/14 05:07 PM
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A man's best option is to just leave her... but if you were watching it as a child, he was already deep into to. Just be glad he was the one taking it. In his absence, she would probably have turned on you.
/r/MensRights16/08/14 05:01 PM
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I think that, in general, people expect from others what they themselves would do in the other's place.
/r/MensRights16/08/14 04:56 PM
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She probably meand "you're just like my father".
/r/MensRights16/08/14 04:54 PM
1

Desperation? The sex is really really good? Both of these, probably. Rage issues and awesome sex can go together.
/r/MensRights16/08/14 04:52 PM
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You'd be surprised what you can survive. I was in a situation much like his... only I've got this slow burn temper that can get really out of control when I've been backed into a corner for too long. Beat the crap out of her, on a regular basis. We had a routine. She would accuse me of cheating on her three times a day (morning, after work, before bed). (Which is ridiculous, because I can't even get a girlfriend if I want to.) I would flip out on her and toss her around, hit her, and such once e…
/r/MensRights16/08/14 04:45 PM
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Having been there myself, I speculate he's a loser that doesn't think he can do better. The smart thing to do would be to answer her question with "because you're a bitch, now get out before I call the police." And then call the police, because she's not going to get out. But he can't do that, because he "loves" her. If there's one message MRAs need to promote, it's "alone is better than this."
/r/MensRights16/08/14 04:31 PM
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By this logic, a labor strike is violence.
/r/MensRights13/08/14 01:23 PM
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Washington.
/r/MensRights09/07/14 06:59 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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