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| – | "No one owes you anything" is another battle women are going to loseExpecting sex in general != expecting effort from your partner lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/23 03:08 PM |
| 1 | CMV: The widely accepted misandrist rhetoric when it comes to dating needs to stopUsually I’m blue pill, but realistically if you’re doing in the situations that OP is describing (if it’s real), so in normal dating app scenarios, you don’t being on a dating app. You belong in therapy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/23 04:07 PM |
| 1 | Girls have zero empathy for guys and male lonliness.Like other people said- people jn general don’t have a lot of empathy for strangers or “men” as a concept. If this is the impression you get from friends then tell em to stop or get new friends. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/23 07:01 PM |
| 1 | Are people just more interested in women?!If people around you are like this either get them to improve or stop being friends with them. I know online stuff tends to be extreme but how are people ok with other people like this in their lives. I really don’t believe the average person is like the post describes. | /r/AllPillDebate | 12/11/23 12:46 AM |
| 1 | Men have women figured out and they are ANGRY about it, this is why they virtue signalcalling people npcs is the epitomy of npc responses | /r/AllPillDebate | 11/11/23 01:36 AM |
| -1 | Men have women figured out and they are ANGRY about it, this is why they virtue signalhe's literally calling people npcs which is the most npc thing ever. what else can i say | /r/AllPillDebate | 11/11/23 01:35 AM |
| 0 | Men have women figured out and they are ANGRY about it, this is why they virtue signalFunny you call other people NPCs when this is the 8th post in a row that who’s up in my feed from APD that’s the same lol | /r/AllPillDebate | 09/11/23 12:26 AM |
| 1 | Women's attraction is entirely based on availabilityFair enough Waiting on OC to give more deets | /r/AllPillDebate | 05/11/23 04:32 PM |
| 1 | Women's attraction is entirely based on availabilityI haven’t seen evidence for this. Most I found an article saying average male height for gen z is 5’9” How big was the party? | /r/AllPillDebate | 05/11/23 04:31 PM |
| 1 | Women's attraction is entirely based on availabilityYou American? 6ft percentile is 84 for Americans So 16% of men are 6ft and over. How big was the party? | /r/AllPillDebate | 04/11/23 10:52 PM |
| 2 | Women's attraction is entirely based on availabilityWhat parties are you going to that most people are above 6’ lol | /r/AllPillDebate | 04/11/23 06:19 PM |
| -8 | Why is there so much resistance against the blackpill?If blackpoll was (without getting into evopsych shit) just “base instant attraction is mostly based off of genetics + presentation”, nor one would bat an eye. Problem is everything else it’s associated with (hating women, saying base instant attraction is the only think that matters, prescribing looksmatching, saying personality doesn’t matter, etc). Even though these might not be actually part of the black pill it’s generally associated with the community. For me it’s personal lived experience. | /r/AllPillDebate | 01/11/23 07:54 AM |
| 1 | The gaslighting from women is insaneDamn almost like different groups of people are different Also r/nothowgirlswork afaik has posts of men explaining how vaginas work… | /r/AllPillDebate | 14/10/23 03:37 AM |
| -1 | Men should be able to get someone equally or even slightly less attractive than them, and most of them can’t. That’s a real problem.Yeah, because women need a man with more than a paycheck. | /r/AllPillDebate | 14/10/23 01:25 AM |
| 1 | Women don’t want men to have success in datingAh yes because women want to be alone | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/23 01:22 AM |
| 1 | Women say to look for signals to approach, yet there are no universal signals to approach a womanIkr it’s almost like different people are different or smtg | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/23 04:07 AM |
| 0 | Can't believe how someone can be non-blackpilled if they go to collegeI had none of the experiences described in this thread I also try not to let anecdotal shit color my judgement | /r/AllPillDebate | 07/10/23 03:43 PM |
| 1 | I feel like we have already lost a generation and there is nothing to do to fix that.You fix it by making men less insecure and so that they don’t get validation from how many women they fuck IMO best way for this is to have platonic female friends | /r/AllPillDebate | 23/09/23 03:31 AM |
| 1 | What do guys do if they want virgin women but cannot get them?That’s why men grew to be stronger Survival of the fittest baby | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/23 07:10 PM |
| 0 | The dinner club. Do you think it’s real on daring apps or imagined by salty people. If real, do you think it’s fair play or foul play.ONE BAD THING ONCE HORRIBLE PERSON GO TO JAIL | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/23 03:46 PM |
| 1 | What do guys do if they want virgin women but cannot get them?I would argue instead that evolution would make them take as many people as possible and kill every man they can. It’s the same reasoning | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/23 03:21 PM |
| 2 | What do guys do if they want virgin women but cannot get them?Source? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/23 09:08 AM |
| 1 | Are the Red Pill statistics true when it comes to mens struggles?Did you read what I said? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/23 04:41 AM |
| 0 | Are the Red Pill statistics true when it comes to mens struggles?So you’re paying your lawyer a bunch of money, and you’re not willing to have him at least ask for kids? Really points towards not wanting them And most divorces don’t go through lawyers. And men STILL don’t ask for kids. Again, what does that tell you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/23 02:58 PM |
| 1 | Are the Red Pill statistics true when it comes to mens struggles?Btw you commented twice lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/23 02:50 PM |
| -1 | Are the Red Pill statistics true when it comes to mens struggles?Alimony is 10% of divorces. It’s not a big deal that people think it is. If you don’t even bother to ask for the kids, then yeah sorry you didn’t want them. Like it takes 5 seconds in court. And it solves the child support shit | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/23 02:50 PM |
| 2 | Are the Red Pill statistics true when it comes to mens struggles?A lot of the time they are true but lack context. Like how 95% of women get custody of kids in court. Like yeah, it’s true, but it’s because men don’t ask for them. If you control for situations where both parents want the kid it’s about what you would want (50-50). There’s also a stat that people around here throw out a lot- that the more partners, the more cheating there is. And there’s 0 context for this. There’s no understanding of why that happens, which should be pretty fucking important. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/23 03:00 AM |
| 1 | Why don't we encourage men to stay virginal as much as we encourage women?I was asking you that as a philosophical question. Let me ask it more directly: I have a definition for something, and you have a definition for something. How do we resolve this? (I swear I’ll answer your question in due time. But I’m just trying to make a point about definitions) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/23 01:45 AM |
| – | Why don't we encourage men to stay virginal as much as we encourage women?That's your own definition of redpill. My definition of redpill includes the idea that women should be virgins. How do we resolve this? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/23 11:11 PM |
| – | Why don't we encourage men to stay virginal as much as we encourage women?Again, no true scotsman | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/23 09:14 PM |
| – | Why don't we encourage men to stay virginal as much as we encourage women?I mean that’s a no true Scotsman. When everyone in your movement cherishes virgin women and all the redpill content creators talk about low-to-no body count women being the best what does that tell you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/23 04:50 PM |
| – | Why don't we encourage men to stay virginal as much as we encourage women?Spin plates? So many red pillers say to go for virgin women. I mean what does that tell you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/23 04:42 PM |
| 1 | Why don't we encourage men to stay virginal as much as we encourage women?Redpill | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/23 05:45 AM |
| 1 | Why don't we encourage men to stay virginal as much as we encourage women?Redpoll? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/23 05:44 AM |
| -1 | Any man who can only attract fat women in the United States should seriously consider geomaxxing for one simple reasonThen tbh maybe you do deserve to be alone. Being an empty personality means your SO is probably gonna cheat on you anyways | /r/AllPillDebate | 09/09/23 10:24 PM |
| 1 | Any man who can only attract fat women in the United States should seriously consider geomaxxing for one simple reasonNot one of the above commenters commenter But yeah obviously but if original commenter meant that he should have said that | /r/AllPillDebate | 09/09/23 07:17 PM |
| 1 | Any man who can only attract fat women in the United States should seriously consider geomaxxing for one simple reasonLiterally ALL of those can be used to take advantage, especially if you’re going out with the explicit thought of “I’m going to use this to explicitly take advantage of these women” Like if a rich guy went to a poor neighborhood with the explicit intention of hooking up because he knew poor women would try to get with him to try to get out of their misery, and then he’s a POS | /r/AllPillDebate | 09/09/23 05:30 PM |
| -1 | Any man who can only attract fat women in the United States should seriously consider geomaxxing for one simple reasonBecause most men are horny motherfuckers? | /r/AllPillDebate | 09/09/23 05:24 PM |
| 1 | Question for incels: what would your ideal society look like?Fair enough now this sounds consistent to me Terrible but consistent lol | /r/AllPillDebate | 06/09/23 05:04 PM |
| 1 | Question for incels: what would your ideal society look like?Again, you have infinite power, so yeah, you can do this. That’s what I don’t understand. | /r/AllPillDebate | 06/09/23 04:44 PM |
| 1 | Question for incels: what would your ideal society look like?You have essentially infinite power you can change OF lol | /r/AllPillDebate | 06/09/23 06:15 AM |
| 1 | Question for incels: what would your ideal society look like?Would you answer my first question? And like PH does have stuff like pictures and self-stuff. So if you would advocate banning that kind of content I would understand | /r/AllPillDebate | 05/09/23 11:39 PM |
| 1 | Question for incels: what would your ideal society look like?Don’t remember if I asked this- so it would be fine if they accurately described what it is or put up sample photo? And how so? Isn’t it the same thing as the amateur content on PH? | /r/AllPillDebate | 05/09/23 09:26 PM |
| 1 | Question for incels: what would your ideal society look like?Ok, I understand that Then why not outlaw all porn too Because that’s the same thing as OF | /r/AllPillDebate | 05/09/23 07:36 PM |
| 1 | Question for incels: what would your ideal society look like?You can say the sec work industry is saturated, but then it makes no sense to ban OF when it’s literally the same percentage that you would want there to be prostitutes. Look, I have an issue with your entire system, but I’m taking it at face value because this entire thing is a hypothetical. But your system is illogical. You can’t say that 1-2% of the population being prostitutes is ok but OF isn’t when it’s literally less than 1% of the population being OF creators. It makes no sense. | /r/AllPillDebate | 05/09/23 04:15 PM |
| 1 | Question for incels: what would your ideal society look like?wait why are you lumping in promiscuous women as a reason to ban OF? | /r/AllPillDebate | 05/09/23 02:20 PM |
| 1 | Question for incels: what would your ideal society look like?That’s literally the same chance it’ll be an OF person lmao | /r/AllPillDebate | 05/09/23 12:36 PM |
| 1 | Question for incels: what would your ideal society look like?Are you going to artificially limit the supply of prostitutes? | /r/AllPillDebate | 05/09/23 05:03 AM |
| 1 | Question for incels: what would your ideal society look like?Ok, and? Why does the number of people who do it matterv | /r/AllPillDebate | 04/09/23 08:22 PM |
| 1 | Question for incels: what would your ideal society look like?Do you not see the contradiction between not being ok with OF because it’s sexwork-lite and wanting to legalize prostitution? | /r/AllPillDebate | 04/09/23 05:08 PM |
| 2 | Question for incels: what would your ideal society look like?You literally said ban. Are you changing your position? And how is onlyfans then any different than porn or prostitution? You don’t think men don’t want some random creep to see their girlfriend on a porn site or have their GF getting railed by that guy? Also it’s impossible for most women to do stuff like OF. The demand isn’t that high. If it’s a dealbreaker for a man for their GF to do OF then let it be a dealbreaker | /r/AllPillDebate | 04/09/23 04:02 PM |
| 1 | Question for incels: what would your ideal society look like?Most OF iirc have at least somewhat public profiles. All you have to do if you think that is make them post a photo lol And I don’t get what’s wrong if they post stuff with their boyfriends There’s a lot of porn exactly like that too | /r/AllPillDebate | 04/09/23 12:08 PM |
| 1 | Question for incels: what would your ideal society look like?Why? Porn and onkyfans are pretty much the same??? | /r/AllPillDebate | 04/09/23 11:03 AM |
| 1 | Question for incels: what would your ideal society look like?Then they’re both prostitution? Why are you outlawing one version of a thing and not another | /r/AllPillDebate | 04/09/23 10:05 AM |
| 1 | Question for incels: what would your ideal society look like?Wait Why make prostitution legal and only fans illegal | /r/AllPillDebate | 04/09/23 02:46 AM |
| 1 | How are men supposed to meet women?Ask your female friends to set you up | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/23 02:08 PM |
| 1 | How are men supposed to meet women?Girls wanting to focus on education doesn’t mean they won’t date at all | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/23 02:06 PM |
| 1 | Q4M - an average looking girl is DESPERATE to date you. How do you feel about it?Desperation isnt? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/23 02:23 PM |
| 1 | It’s demoralizing how much height mattersLol Lmao even If this is your best counter argument have fun | /r/AllPillDebate | 11/08/23 08:06 PM |
| 1 | It’s demoralizing how much height mattersNo one apart from country governments have gone to the moon. If you can’t see how this hypothetical is ridiculous on its face then, well, L I guess | /r/AllPillDebate | 11/08/23 01:16 PM |
| 1 | It’s demoralizing how much height mattersPlease refer to my original comment where I said “obviously false or troll” Nothing you’ve said makes me think you’re an astronaut, especially since I don’t think they’re gonna be using Reddit. I literally gave you an alternative that I would find believable | /r/AllPillDebate | 11/08/23 12:06 PM |
| 1 | It’s demoralizing how much height mattersThen that would fall in the obviously troll/false category because it’s incredibly hard to get to the moon. If you told me you saw one through a telescope then that’s a different story. | /r/AllPillDebate | 11/08/23 11:47 AM |
| 1 | It’s demoralizing how much height mattersBut we could also live by positions that aren’t internally contradictory | /r/AllPillDebate | 11/08/23 11:37 AM |
| 1 | It’s demoralizing how much height mattersJust proved my point lmao You think it’s reasonable, I don’t, it’s not my lived experience, and the stuff I’ve read doesn’t absolve your position. There’s no way to resolve this using your logic. | /r/AllPillDebate | 10/08/23 07:29 PM |
| 1 | It’s demoralizing how much height mattersI think you’re thinking cultural enclave like those that are in the south, but most people in the Midwest have German/Scandinavian heritage. I guess without further clarification from OP we can’t know | /r/AllPillDebate | 10/08/23 01:07 PM |
| 1 | It’s demoralizing how much height mattersHeritage sounds like 4th+ gen american Kinda hard to be Influenced by something that far removed | /r/AllPillDebate | 10/08/23 12:50 PM |
| 1 | It’s demoralizing how much height mattersYou can literally say the same thing about all the guy stories on here lmao Either you trust all (except the most obviously false trolls) or none. You can’t only trust stories that confirm your priors and distrust those that don’t | /r/AllPillDebate | 10/08/23 12:49 PM |
| 1 | Age gap relationships end in divorceDid you even read what I said? You can give significantly better advice in the two statements I gave that a) don’t disparage an entire class of sex-likers and b) are far more useful because it’s actually getting specific with the traits you don’t want in a partner | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/23 12:57 AM |
| 1 | Age gap relationships end in divorceI don’t disagree that the research is there. But what did I say that was wrong? Was my relatively nuanced statement wrong? The facts? And I agree not everyone can tell. But again, doing blanket statements is bad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/23 12:51 AM |
| 1 | Q4M - an average looking girl is DESPERATE to date you. How do you feel about it?Just ignoring the red flags? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/23 12:39 AM |
| 1 | Age gap relationships end in divorceThey could also just enjoy sex a lot The bottom line is that blanket statements are bad. You could instead say “if you know they have a high body count, stay away if you cannot tell if they are mentally ill or abuse substances” Or, an even better statement IMO is stay away from dark triad/substance abusers because they in general are significantly more likely to cheat whether or not they have a high body count But let’s be real most of the time when people on Reddit say “high body count” they me… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/23 01:30 PM |
| 1 | Being called a "fuckboy" is the biggest compliment you can get as a manlol then he would have a high n count which is bad | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/23 12:55 PM |
| 1 | Being called a "fuckboy" is the biggest compliment you can get as a manYeah and we typically see that as bad lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/23 12:54 PM |
| 1 | Age gap relationships end in divorceDamn so if you find someone with a high body count and no mental illness/substance abuse it’s unlikely that there’s issues? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/23 12:40 PM |
| 1 | Where do you go after taking the Blackpill?Not just for taking BP but find a purpose in your life. | /r/AllPillDebate | 08/08/23 11:37 PM |
| 1 | I think people have unrealistic expectations of what a first date should beMost people did reproduce. It wasn’t only 20% of men reproducing. These are very clear stats | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/23 11:05 PM |
| 1 | Race has an effect on finding a partnerIdk why this is downvoted lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/23 10:57 PM |
| 1 | Race has an effect on finding a partnerNever heard of yellow fever? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/23 10:56 PM |
| 1 | Female women, what kind of man makes you feel lust?You can’t control it, and neither can they, no? So how is it not the same | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/23 10:56 PM |
| 1 | Age gap relationships end in divorceYou don’t know that. You have no idea if they are good wives or not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/23 10:55 PM |
| 0 | I think people have unrealistic expectations of what a first date should beLmao imagine thinking 80/20 That makes 0 sense. Otherwise the human race wouldn’t exist today | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/23 11:10 AM |
| 0 | Race has an effect on finding a partnerI mean the reverse happens as well Kinda funny tbh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/23 08:36 AM |
| 6 | Female women, what kind of man makes you feel lust?That’s like saying why find someone attractive lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/23 08:24 AM |
| 1 | I don’t understand the notion about men waiting until their thirties to be successful financially as well as at their “peak” and then date women in their upper teens or early twenties who are in their “peak”On top of that large age gaps tend to lead to breakups/divorce. No reason for men to do large age gaps if they lead to divorce | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/23 07:01 AM |
| 1 | Age gap relationships end in divorceIt could be that n>300 count women don’t like men with blue eyes for some fucking reason. In that case it wouldn’t matter if you have brown eyes and date a high n count women. You have no idea unless you find the cause. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/23 11:56 PM |
| 1 | Age gap relationships end in divorceIt’s literally the same thing as here Correlation doesn’t imply causation. Until you know the cause you can’t say shit about it. Like if driving had a 50% death rate you have to investigate rhe cause, not say “don’t drive cars” It could be that all of that death was on the highway and not in the city, so city driving was fine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/23 04:45 PM |
| 0 | Age gap relationships end in divorceI literally said correlation doesn’t imply causation. And there’s no evidence for this | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/23 04:42 PM |
| 12 | Age gap relationships end in divorceIt’s really funny that you’re talking about correlation vs causation but when I bring that up in relation to high n count women I’m told “it doesn’t matter!111!1 high n count women bad!11!” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/23 08:10 AM |
| 0 | I often hear women say "I have attractive male friends with awesome personalities, but I don't like them that way." If they're attractive, why aren't they attracted to them?I mean it’s probably the same for you too, no? Like have you ever just seen someone and been like Damn It’s the same thing here, as in its random. you can’t make yourself have that “it factor” for all women. Not original commenter and not a woman but this is how it’s been described to me and how my personal experiences have been | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/23 12:32 AM |
| 1 | Do you know any guys who are REALLY unsuccessful with women? What's their story?How was I supposed to know before he posted his comment? And you don’t need to be an incel because you are 4’2” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/23 07:04 AM |
| – | Do you know any guys who are REALLY unsuccessful with women? What's their story?Music professor isn’t holding you back IMO Height? Sure. But depression spiral forums aren’t where you should turn for help and support. I would say IRL friends are your best bet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/23 07:04 AM |
| 1 | Do you know any guys who are REALLY unsuccessful with women? What's their story?Women are capable of kindness. thinking they’re not is holding you back | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/23 07:01 AM |
| 3 | if withholding sex is not a good way to secure commitment, then what is?How so? That you need to return to monkey and be a tradwife? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/23 06:15 AM |
| – | Do you know any guys who are REALLY unsuccessful with women? What's their story?Bruh enough with the incel talking points plz | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/23 07:01 PM |
| 1 | Women Admitting That Their Promiscuous Pasts Prevent Them From Enjoying Sex With Their HusbandsNo, but it’s correlated with that because going through multiple relationships is one way of figuring out what you like. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/23 06:38 PM |
| 1 | Women Admitting That Their Promiscuous Pasts Prevent Them From Enjoying Sex With Their HusbandsKnowing the cause is extremely important. What if it’s because “whores” always end up divorcing men with blue eyes? The he. The prescription would change. It would no longer be “don’t marry ‘whores’ “. It would be “don’t marry ‘whores’ if you have blue eyes.” Obviously this is a ridiculous example but I’m trying to explain that unless you do various studies to control for variables, one variable controlled doesn’t mean anything. Knowing how to have sex and knowing what you want in a partner make… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/23 08:17 AM |
| 1 | Women Admitting That Their Promiscuous Pasts Prevent Them From Enjoying Sex With Their HusbandsI don’t think you are interpreting the statistics well. Controlling one of the variables doesn’t do anything. Men tend to get skin cancer more. But men also tend to work outside jobs. So without showing that men tend to get skin cancer more than women regardless of other confounding variables, you cannot show causation. (Comment to be continued) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/23 11:36 PM |
| -1 | Women Admitting That Their Promiscuous Pasts Prevent Them From Enjoying Sex With Their HusbandsThat shows correlation, not causation. That could be entirely driven by the fact virgins don’t know what good sex is. You have no idea what it’s driven by unless causafion is shown | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/23 11:17 PM |
| 0 | Women Admitting That Their Promiscuous Pasts Prevent Them From Enjoying Sex With Their HusbandsGot any evidence? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/23 06:05 PM |
| -2 | Women Admitting That Their Promiscuous Pasts Prevent Them From Enjoying Sex With Their HusbandsIt just means that they expect better. Cheating is sometimes a symptom of a bad relationship. I haven’t seen evidence that women that become promiscuous cheat in their early relationships, so IMO it’s a function of a relationship being unsatisfying but that’s an unqualified opinion lol. Until I see evidence to the contrary, I’m not going to say being promiscuous causes cheating. Correlation != causation | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/23 09:59 AM |
| 1 | Women Admitting That Their Promiscuous Pasts Prevent Them From Enjoying Sex With Their HusbandsAnd knowing what you want is bad cuz… ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/23 12:32 AM |
| 2 | How often do you see relationships where the man is significantly more attractive than the woman?I saw some stuff about meth/heroin but didn’t super understand. Never knew any junkes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/23 12:17 AM |
| 2 | Q4M: how would you treat women if you were your ideal self?Same as current. I try to act the best I can 100% of the time Couple of side notes. My appearance has no affect on my actions, just acts as a “negative” probability of success in my head, mostly to temper expectations. I find very few women attractive enough for me to even be interested (not talking just physically. I like what I like vOv), so I’m not rly into hookup culture or anything like that. Sex to me is smtg I want to do with a life partner, but I only hold that view very personally. Idc … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/23 12:24 AM |
| – | I am NOT seeing "average" men having sex "all the time"When will anyone ever look at data instead of anecdotes? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/23 05:47 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWell i think the best thing you can try is getting comfortable talking to her about this stuff Yeah, it’s embarrassing, but being able to talk to your friends (no matter the gender) about girls or what’s going on in your life (as long as it’s not her becoming your therapist lol, it’s a balance lol) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/23 06:11 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadTalk to your bf then? Alternatively Does ur bf know ur clueless lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/23 03:11 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadHow often do you talk to some of these people? Do you have any indication of their intentions? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/23 10:53 AM |
| 1 | How often are women marrying men they have little sexual desire for (or far little compared to other guys they’ve been with)? Are they cognizant of the long term effects of such decisions?I found one article from ny post saying women cheat more that didn’t actually vote research. Do you have evidence to suggest that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/23 01:56 AM |
| 1 | How often are women marrying men they have little sexual desire for (or far little compared to other guys they’ve been with)? Are they cognizant of the long term effects of such decisions?I mean Man cheat more than women- does that count? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/23 06:02 PM |
| 1 | Men overly fixated on women's sex lives have other issuesI mean if I play a game a lot it’s very different playing with randos when compared to my friends, and different again with my SO. It’s the same for sex. I agree on you that it’s perhaps a caution sign, but it’s not an outright red flag. Someone might have hooked up a lot in the past and no longer does. Or just did for a while cuz sex is fun. Or did it because they were so desperate to get into a relationship that they tried fucking every guy to try to get them to date em. Some of these are fine… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/23 02:51 AM |
| 0 | Men overly fixated on women's sex lives have other issuesBody count doesn’t mean shit imo. I am personally conservative when it comes to sex (I don’t hook up) but I don’t have an issue dating someone who has hooked up a lot. The REAL red flag is a lot of long real relationships (exclusive dating). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/23 11:18 PM |
| 1 | CMV: The most obvious reason why modern dating is broken is because women have too many options because of the internet.Ah ok. Different comments then. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/23 08:10 PM |
| 1 | CMV: The most obvious reason why modern dating is broken is because women have too many options because of the internet.If you have evidence for that that would be great. I’ve personally seen far more anti-incel stuff than anti-MGTOW. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/23 12:55 PM |
| 0 | CMV: The most obvious reason why modern dating is broken is because women have too many options because of the internet.So none, just anecdotes. Ok. I asked for evidence because my experience has been the exact opposite. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/23 12:47 PM |
| 1 | CMV: The most obvious reason why modern dating is broken is because women have too many options because of the internet.Are you talking about financial leave or yasuo? I was taking about financial leave | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/23 12:43 PM |
| 1 | CMV: The most obvious reason why modern dating is broken is because women have too many options because of the internet.The existence of some women like this doesn’t mean they are all it generally like this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/23 12:40 PM |
| 0 | CMV: The most obvious reason why modern dating is broken is because women have too many options because of the internet.What does that have to do with misogyny in MGTOW? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/23 04:36 AM |
| 0 | CMV: The most obvious reason why modern dating is broken is because women have too many options because of the internet.Cool read! Thanks Thing is I don’t see this as disproving OC, perhaps altering it though. OC said men are competing against women being alone- perhaps would have been better to say ALSO competing against women being alone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/23 03:42 AM |
| 1 | CMV: The most obvious reason why modern dating is broken is because women have too many options because of the internet.Dating standards were going up before the internet because women were going to school and making more money. Men need more than just a paycheck nowadays | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/23 03:37 AM |
| 0 | CMV: The most obvious reason why modern dating is broken is because women have too many options because of the internet.I’m guessing a lot of the misogynistic takes they have wouldn’t get on your radar? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/23 03:30 AM |
| 0 | CMV: The most obvious reason why modern dating is broken is because women have too many options because of the internet.Fully don’t believe that. Pandora’s box has been opened. Now that women can work and have birth control their expectations will forever be higher | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/23 12:16 AM |
| 1 | CMV: The most obvious reason why modern dating is broken is because women have too many options because of the internet.Evidence for this? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/23 11:38 PM |
| 1 | Men, how long is waiting for sex too long?If there wasn’t racism, I would say that, but there is racism, so I can’t trust anyone saying “I don’t like x skin color, but I’m not racist” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/23 10:45 PM |
| 1 | Men, how long is waiting for sex too long?Agree it’s dumb, but would say these are fundamentally different things. Look-based attraction != race based attraction | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/23 02:20 AM |
| 1 | Men, how long is waiting for sex too long?Yeah, and I can judge them based off of what people tell me What, if someone says they don’t date x race women, I can’t call em dumb for it? Saying this view you have is reductive | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/23 12:25 AM |
| 1 | Men, how long is waiting for sex too long?That’s an incredibly reductive view. I ate snail once, doesn’t mean I’m snail eating minded. Your statement is meaningless. With your logic, doing something means you are something-minded, and since it’s so easy to be something-minded, you’re essentially everything minded. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/23 05:56 PM |
| 1 | Men, how long is waiting for sex too long?Doing something once doesn’t mean you’re sex minded | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/23 04:33 PM |
| 1 | Men, how long is waiting for sex too long?If we didn’t want more we would still be in caves fucking like rabbits There’s more to life than just sex. Oh also, women are far more likely to be ok not being in a relationship than men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/23 04:29 PM |
| 1 | Men, how long is waiting for sex too long?We aren’t apes anymore people want more than just sex | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/23 04:25 PM |
| 1 | Men, how long is waiting for sex too long?I counter that this way of seeing relationships will leave you wholly unhappy and jaded | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/23 02:47 PM |
| -7 | Men, how long is waiting for sex too long?Nothing wrong with a high average | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/23 02:45 PM |
| 2 | I think we need to relook at what the “ average man” actually isAmerica already had a culture of going to the doctor to give you pills to fix your problem. No one wants to put in the work to actually improve. We wouldn’t have this issue if we did. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/22 05:08 AM |
| 1 | I think we need to relook at what the “ average man” actually isPhysical health is far easier to remediate than mental health. And you didn’t even really address anything I said, just taking shots at my perceived acceptance of fat acceptance (which is wrong btw) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/22 05:05 AM |
| 2 | What’s the best size?Sure but that guy had literally no idea what he was talking about, otherwise he should have been more specific. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/22 05:04 AM |
| 5 | What are common ways men and women shoot themselves in the foot?Ohhh yeah I just end up telling them I’m a non-binary prostitute and they fuck off Why is it called pig slaughtering though | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/22 05:02 AM |
| 1 | What are common ways men and women shoot themselves in the foot?What I was trying to say is that I don’t understand how it develops psychologically not that it doesn’t exist to be clear That sucks I hope it gets better | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/22 05:01 AM |
| 1 | I think we need to relook at what the “ average man” actually isIn the rest of the world I see a couple of strong correlations. I haven’t seen any studies though being poor fat shaming high walkability/exercise culture Last one is highly preferable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/22 04:59 AM |
| 1 | I think we need to relook at what the “ average man” actually isTo be clear: government sponsored healthcare would make the problem worse. You need the incentives tied with that (ie taxing sugar, fast food, etc) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/22 04:58 AM |
| 0 | What are common ways men and women shoot themselves in the foot?Just because there are times of extreme attraction doesn’t mean that’s the only kind. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/22 04:57 AM |
| 11 | I don’t see anything wrong with pumping and dumping a womanLadies and gentlemen, the fuckzone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/22 04:53 AM |
| 3 | What are common ways men and women shoot themselves in the foot?ty | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/22 10:56 PM |
| 0 | What are common ways men and women shoot themselves in the foot?Like I said, exposure effect is real. Limiting what you think is incredibly dumb. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/22 10:56 PM |
| 3 | What are common ways men and women shoot themselves in the foot?ty | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/22 10:55 PM |
| 2 | I think we need to relook at what the “ average man” actually isnah people were fat before the fat acceptance movement. It's because people aren't taught to take some initiative and have discipline. Combined with the above issues, we're fucked. To be clear I'm not some "pull yourself up by the bootstraps" person. If all of the additives and bullshit in food got removed we'd see a massive change. Also, there's a reason that fat shaming cultures have terrible mental health issues and body issues. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/22 10:01 PM |
| 0 | I think we need to relook at what the “ average man” actually isJust saw that comment it was really funny. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/22 09:59 PM |
| 2 | What are common ways men and women shoot themselves in the foot?ah ty didn't make that connection highly agree OLD is a cancer on this planet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/22 09:56 PM |
| 3 | What are common ways men and women shoot themselves in the foot?Like Are you saying old guard RPers believed this? Like the exposure effect is real so not sure what this means. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/22 09:55 PM |
| -2 | What are common ways men and women shoot themselves in the foot?Nah Just shallow | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/22 09:40 PM |
| 4 | What are common ways men and women shoot themselves in the foot?What scams??? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/22 09:40 PM |
| 3 | What are common ways men and women shoot themselves in the foot?M4W? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/22 09:38 PM |
| 2 | What are common ways men and women shoot themselves in the foot?Old? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/22 09:35 PM |
| 2 | What are common ways men and women shoot themselves in the foot?Wdym | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/22 09:35 PM |
| 8 | What are common ways men and women shoot themselves in the foot?Tbh I don’t get the second one. Like that was me which is what pushed to be extremely communicative. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/22 09:34 PM |
| 1 | What are common ways men and women shoot themselves in the foot?Link to comment? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/22 09:33 PM |
| 2 | What’s the best size?how are they "super flawed and misleading" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/22 08:47 PM |
| 10 | What’s the best size?above 6.5 is in the 97th/98th percentile so... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/22 08:45 PM |
| -6 | Dating spaces gaslight the absolutely living shit out of menDamn who knew that people have experiences and change 🤔 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/22 06:08 PM |
| 6 | The Andrew Tate phenomenon shows that the mainstream responds very positively to "pill" ideas, but they are artificially suppressed by Western media companies100% I can’t believe people just let themselves be slaves to social media so easily | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/22 04:43 AM |
| 1 | Would you wait to have sex until a relationship is formed?Just talk to her. There are so many BS reasons people don’t communicate. Just do it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/22 11:21 PM |
| 5 | Would you wait to have sex until a relationship is formed?Platonic making out? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/22 11:18 PM |
| 4 | Would you wait to have sex until a relationship is formed?Cuz he still wants to bone on the side | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/22 11:17 PM |
| 1 | “When men sleep around no one cares, in fact, it’s almost applauded. Yet when women sleep around, she’s considered promiscuous and shamed for it.” Sorry ladies, it’s not the same thing, no matter how much you want it to beTbh it might be true but the point is we should get to a point where both are treated equally… idk I know some people think we can do that now and that’s dumb but ya know, it’s a goal | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/22 08:17 PM |
| 1 | For those who hook up/have casual sex often with different partnersIn this day and age if you’re spouting untruths I assume stupidity, because the alternative would be malice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/22 06:33 PM |
| 1 | For those who hook up/have casual sex often with different partnersBecause he’s by definition incorrect? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/22 11:32 PM |
| 0 | For those who hook up/have casual sex often with different partnersWell then op is not the smartest. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/22 01:36 PM |
| 3 | For those who hook up/have casual sex often with different partnersMaybe I’m misunderstanding but how? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/22 05:00 AM |
| 1 | Ladies, what is the biggest thing that the men on this sub get wrong about women?Ty Hadn’t heard of it phrased that way. Makes a WHOLE lot of sense | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/22 12:57 AM |
| – | Ladies, what is the biggest thing that the men on this sub get wrong about women?meat market mentalitiy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/22 10:25 PM |
| 1 | How the Match Group Destroyed DatingSomething to add on top of what others have said: Talk to women normally (ie non romantically). Eventually if you’re good enough friends you can ask them to introduce you to someone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/22 12:28 PM |
| 3 | How the Match Group Destroyed DatingThen what is? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/22 12:21 PM |
| 1 | Women here on PPD recognize the leverage they have in dating but when TRP tells men how to tip the scales back into their favor they shame/shun it.Ty | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/22 12:01 PM |
| 7 | The reason that the disparity in sexual privilege between men and women is so obfuscated not because there's any real doubt about it, but because of the solutions it impliesPeople don’t realize how much suburbs have fucked our society | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/22 01:08 PM |
| 2 | The reason that the disparity in sexual privilege between men and women is so obfuscated not because there's any real doubt about it, but because of the solutions it impliesSuburbanization everyone! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/22 01:05 PM |
| 2 | The reason that the disparity in sexual privilege between men and women is so obfuscated not because there's any real doubt about it, but because of the solutions it impliesIf you don’t have actual evidence then this is just dumb. There’s no secret plot. I’ve seen this debates and you’re going to pull together disparate quotes and sources to pull together a story, when they would have nothing to do with each other. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/22 01:05 PM |
| 2 | The reason that the disparity in sexual privilege between men and women is so obfuscated not because there's any real doubt about it, but because of the solutions it impliesI’ve heard it as leading a horse to water colloquially, even though that’s a completely different saying. But I really like “shortstop.” People should be completely fine if there’s not a known solution out there. Because the new status quo is definitely better for women than 60 years ago, so we can definitely improve for men too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/22 01:01 PM |
| 1 | Women here on PPD recognize the leverage they have in dating but when TRP tells men how to tip the scales back into their favor they shame/shun it.Got proof? I personally haven’t seen it, nor have I seen data to back that claim up | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/22 09:21 AM |
| 3 | Women here on PPD recognize the leverage they have in dating but when TRP tells men how to tip the scales back into their favor they shame/shun it.What’s enm | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/22 09:19 AM |
| 4 | [Q4W] Do women get as upset if there are all women at a party like guys do if its a sausageparty?Isn’t sausage party for when there’s a party that was meant for all and only guys showed up? If so why are people talking about guys/girls night out Not the same thing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/22 12:03 AM |
| 1 | I see a lot of "call outs" where women wish men would share their emotions more, and now men are pushing back saying when they do, it's weaponized against them. What's the healthy balance?Fair enough Usually tho I see a lot of hate lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/22 04:07 PM |
| 1 | I see a lot of "call outs" where women wish men would share their emotions more, and now men are pushing back saying when they do, it's weaponized against them. What's the healthy balance?This is why I only make misanthropic jokes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/22 02:35 PM |
| 1 | I see a lot of "call outs" where women wish men would share their emotions more, and now men are pushing back saying when they do, it's weaponized against them. What's the healthy balance?Nothing wrong with being SAHM | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/22 02:33 PM |
| 4 | Conflicting desires about wanting women with ‘standards’I love your flair | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/22 01:57 PM |
| 2 | If we had absolutely perfect data on sex and relationships, what are the sorts of things we would discover about people?Just because it was good for the guy doesn't mean it was good for the girl And as you can see the ones with bad sexual chemistry didn't work out | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/22 06:41 PM |
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