DaSnailinac Archive

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6	Am I dealing with a manipulative player? Bail, you can do better. Giving guys like this attention, good or bad, only feeds into his behavior. The only way you won’t play his game is by -bailing-. If he was a genuinely good guy and sincere about you, he wouldn’t be pulling this. I’ve dealt with a lot of this “player” nonsense before I met my boyfriend. Either I would bail on them, or if they caught me in an off mood, turn the tables on them (Don’t do it. It feels gratifying at first, but it’s a jading experience down the road). Players …	/r/RedPillWomen	18/08/20 04:43 PM
2	Do women shame each other for making effort? Insecure women tear each other down. They feel threatened by what they perceive to be better than them, so to defend their sense of self, they have to tear it down and make themselves feel better.	/r/RedPillWomen	15/08/20 06:10 PM
-2	Wearing heels without shaving legs? I can’t shave because I have -very- sensitive skin (Slight pressure from a razor causes irritation and cuts. It’s like a horror movie), and nair doesn’t work. My only saving grace is that my hair is white (But thick. My parents though combining German, Danish, Scottish, and Armenian was smart) I wear hosiery and trim with scissors every now and then. Outside of low SMV or incredibly, incredibly shallow men, I haven’t noticed men to focus on leg hair. Armpit, facial, and stomach hair is a differe…	/r/RedPillWomen	15/08/20 06:03 PM
15	Thoughts on having a lady roommate living with a couple. Your gut feeling is usually the right feeling. She may develop some kind of attachment for him and try to seduce him, or grow jealous of what you have. My experience with deeply insecure women is that they latch on to those they envy. They want what they have and try to snatch it away from them. Observe how she acts around you. Figure out what her baseline behavior is (How she is when she’s relaxed) and go from there. Huge warning flags from my experience are - Is she becoming increasingly invas…	/r/RedPillWomen	15/08/20 05:44 PM
5	Do you think women live life on easy mode/tutorial mode, like many red pillers claim? With who? It’s not showing up properly Edit - Ah, okay, I see it. Why female testing was banned wasn’t because of variables, but because of worries on potential effects on the female reproductive system (Eg Unintentionally making them sterile or birth defects if the woman is pregnant or whether or not the drug could linger in the system and cause birth defects) Men and women have their own unique variables, and one doesn’t necessarily have more than the other. It would be effective to do a separ…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/20 04:40 PM
10	Do you think women live life on easy mode/tutorial mode, like many red pillers claim? It’s not that men are specifically tested on (Like they actively seek out only men), men are more likely to participate in studies (Along with elderly women). However, in 1977 the FDA did issue guidelines banning women of childbearing age. It wasn’t rescinded until 1993. Despite it being rescinded, women are still reluctant to participate in medical trials, and that’s not something that can necessarily be changed via policy. Men do make up a large part of the homeless population, but women are m…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/20 04:15 PM
1	CMV: Subs like these are toxic and bad for people's self-image and view of the world I like hair on a man. When I was younger, I didn’t, but the older I grew the more I came to like it. Now I have a hard time dating hairless men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/05/20 07:10 PM
1	Is it possible to be a feminist and RP? It depends on what kind of feminism you ascribe to. I’m somewhat of a feminist and it’d be silly not to acknowledge that as women, we have a different set of struggles than men. For me, it’s about empowering and supporting women. I do disagree with things like casual sex being liberating and man-hating, -but- I do understand, again, that we have an inherently different experience and men do have certain “privileges” than women. I come from a mixed background (Broadly European, Assyrian, and Turk…	/r/RedPillWomen	17/05/20 03:53 PM
5	I'm 23 years old and have never cooked a damn thing in my life Slow cookers are a god-send. 99% of people aren’t experts, or even that good at something the first time they do it. Cooking is the same way. It takes time, and honestly, use recipes for technique. Season to your taste/palette. Start off cooking 1-2 times a week and gradually increase it. It’s good that you recognize the problems that you’re having, and seeking out help and admitting you have a problem are some of the hardest steps to take. Change takes time. Be kinder to yourself and focus on t…	/r/RedPillWomen	06/04/20 04:25 AM
3	My husband is sick and I feel helpless. Any and all advice appreciate. Make sure he’s eating yogurt with probiotics and taking a probiotic supplement. Anti-biotics wreak havoc on your GI system and do stress your body out. Hopefully he’s on antibiotics because he has a bacterial infection (Some Doctors have prescribed antibiotics for viruses. Not a good idea) Make sure he eats food that is easy to digest (Simple carbs, soups) so his body isn’t diverting too much energy into the digestion process. Do what you can to break his fever and keep him cool (Gazspacho is a …	/r/RedPillWomen	09/03/20 11:02 PM
6	Extreme cold feet about marriage Not all men want to cheat. Being sexually attracted to someone isn’t something we can control, but how we act on it is. My parents have been married for over 30 years and my father has never cheated (He’s a professor, too. He’s had the opportunity, but never took it). Adulterous people are people that are weak of character. If your husband leaves you because you grew old, then he was with you for the wrong reasons. My mother put on weight after she had breast cancer, but my father never left her…	/r/RedPillWomen	08/03/20 11:34 PM
1	Why do RPW seek LTRs while RPM spin plates? Natural birth rates of women (Large sex-selective abortion occurrences disregarded, like what happened with China) have historically been lower than birth rates for men and still are. Not only that, but mother mortality rates during birth made women quite a scarce commodity. Having multiple wives was something only accessible by the wealthy or leaders of a society. The theory behind how monogamy developed stems from pre-civilization. Males would compete over the few women in their group and end …	/r/RedPillWomen	19/02/20 12:59 AM
1	Can I learn to embrace femininity after a lifetime of fighting it? How much do I need to change to attract the kind of man I want? I understand how you feel. I was treated the same way growing up. There is a saying that might give you some insight. “The man is the head of the family, the woman is the neck.” Manly men want to be the decision makers/wear the pants, but it doesn’t mean you have to relinquish control. If he respects you, he’ll ask for your input and take it into consideration. However, masculine men aren’t the type to relinquish control in a relationship. If you want to be the primary decision maker, a more sub…	/r/RedPillWomen	18/02/20 11:39 PM