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| 13 | What’s it like smashing a big girl?Gotta slay the dragon to get the princess…also dragons give da best top! lol but if she gotta cute face, everything’s proportional, and there’s legit connection, try and enjoy that shit. If things move forward, introduce her to a keto diet. | /r/seduction | 25/07/26 05:50 AM |
| 17 | It's easy as fuckSo many downvotes, but honestly, this blueprint matches mine at a high level. They don’t understand how easy it really is once you get over rejection and build some confidence. | /r/seduction | 28/01/26 08:10 PM |
| 2 | Do I Have to Pay Again?Bro, she’s from Mexico, these women are very traditional and far from feminist, so if you can’t afford it, you better just ask her straight up to come over and watch a movie or something. Maybe offer to cook 😂 | /r/seduction | 13/12/25 01:13 AM |
| 8 | I hired a dating coach after years of failing - Here’s the best flirting advice I gotEveryone reading, he’s right and we need to shut this guy down with our thumbs!! 👎 | /r/seduction | 12/12/25 06:21 AM |
| 1 | What are your best flirty questions or innuendos to spice up platonic date banter/convo once rapport is built?Hey, I salute you buddy, if it ain’t broke don’t fix it 🫡 | /r/seduction | 10/12/25 09:09 PM |
| 1 | What are your best flirty questions or innuendos to spice up platonic date banter/convo once rapport is built?I used to like to randomly ask, “I wonder how good of a kisser you are”. Just randomly say it and brush it off quickly by changing the subject like it’s no big deal. I feel it usually stays in their head and helps the odds of finding out later. Sometimes if get a “so how good am i” sort of response after missing. | /r/seduction | 10/12/25 06:20 AM |
| 1 | What are your best flirty questions or innuendos to spice up platonic date banter/convo once rapport is built?If this works for you, you’re just talk white and handsome. | /r/seduction | 10/12/25 06:17 AM |
| 1 | What do YOU do after first date to keep the ball rollingShe probably realized you’re a walking red flag 🚩. Why you so hostile to someone trying to help you out? | /r/seduction | 18/08/25 04:50 PM |
| – | Men need to wake up, women were never truly attracted to you like you thoughtI never said you’re “blaming” them, I’m saying you’re falsely categorizing them as this unemotionally attached being. Which sounds very sexist and misogynistic. Then go on to advocate celibacy in order to handle this truth. You’re just living in another reality I cannot relate to or support from my experience. If I had to imagine, and I apologize if I’m way off with my assumption, this is a result of multiple failed relationships where you ended up hurt the most, and possibly done dirty by all a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/25 03:42 AM |
| – | Men need to wake up, women were never truly attracted to you like you thoughtThis some extremist mind set shit to categorize half the population as sexual manipulators for survival. I’m sure there are some damaged and shallow women out there that fit this narrative, but from my experience, women are much more emotionally attached to a man than men are, they just take more time to get there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/25 07:13 PM |
| 1 | How to approach a group of girlsI like to walk up and politely apologies for interrupting and shake each of their hands, introducing myself, getting their names, and then repeat the names back before going on with whatever ideas for conversation I have in my head | /r/seduction | 20/07/25 07:06 AM |
| 1 | Mental fatigue from going to bars and clubs alone because friends are either unavailable or don’t have that much social energyTrader Joe’s | /r/seduction | 20/07/25 03:47 AM |
| 1 | How to go from talking in the club to making out?If you’re in the grove and smooth with it, just walk up, talk to them all, make em smile and then focus on the one you really like. | /r/seduction | 13/07/25 09:14 PM |
| 1 | How to go from talking in the club to making out?Chat them up, make em laugh, take charge and go for it. Confidence and fearlessness to a failure | /r/seduction | 13/07/25 07:21 AM |
| 2 | Wife goggles can definitely exist for some menYou’re thinking purely physical, attraction and sex can be much deeper than that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/25 05:43 PM |
| 13 | 2nd date - suggest we smoke a joint at my place then go for sushi. She asked to meet at restaurant.. step back or no?Yea probably the “my place part” got her. Shoulda went with walk through the park, smoke a j, get some food. | /r/seduction | 01/07/25 12:35 AM |
| 2 | 50 first dates, they all say no "spark"You have no game, no charm, no stimulation. Stop thinking sex and seduction. First be a fun good vibe individual they feel safe around. Then slowly escalate. Don’t talk about yourself, compliment the little things they put effort into. Be funny. Good luck. I’ve witnessed a no spark date before, it was cringe, it looked like a job interview. Avoid that at all costs. | /r/seduction | 26/06/25 02:57 PM |
| 12 | Going with a Photo Camera to the club for the girlsI’ve done it. It worked pretty great a few times as an opener at the club, but I think the key is you’re taking photos of you and your friends first. If you try to show up and just start snapping photos, it’s more likely to be creepy. For reference, it’s was a Fuji film x700, simple point and shoot. | /r/seduction | 26/06/25 12:51 PM |
| 1 | I don’t need a pickup line. I need a man who knows when not to speak.Here’s something hard to hear. That’s your lack of confidence talking, which is why she ain’t responding. | /r/seduction | 04/06/25 01:26 AM |
| 1 | I hunt Gold Diggers with a Prank Bank App and I don't feel badSounds efficient for company trip setting | /r/seduction | 10/04/25 01:18 AM |
| 6 | Most promiscuous city you've been to?Cordoba has the best pizza I’ve ever had. Unfortunately it looks like that place has closed down, but I’m sure you’ll still find some good pizza as this town is surrounded by farmland. Enjoy! | /r/seduction | 28/01/25 07:17 AM |
| 28 | Full text-game breakdown - 18-year old blonde girl from TinderThat’s not true, the banter and build up technique works in my mid 30s too | /r/seduction | 27/01/25 12:09 AM |
| 1 | How to talk about sex in a way turns a woman on?Your uncles advise is suicidal. Don’t say that. But one thing I like to say when it feels like there’s no opening for physical touch or escalation is say very tongue in cheek like, “I wonder if your a good kisser”. Say this confidently, put a smile on and smoothly transition the conversation away from that. It should stay on her mind and could give the opening you’re looking for if she’s into you. My 2¢. | /r/seduction | 12/01/25 02:56 AM |
| 1 | I see people here saying women are rooting for you, just approach. But ive also seen the darker side of women. Some women i approached used me to brag in their social circle in a negative way. One woman even said to me ‘not if my life depended on it”It’s called, playing hard to get dude, you’re suppose to think to yourself, “challenge accepted 😎” | /r/seduction | 11/08/22 09:17 PM |
| 3 | Some of you guys have no idea how cool or nice some of these girls are that you see on the street who you are afraid to approach!My favorite one is “hi I’m dru, extends hand what’s your name?” If they’re not stuck up and smile back with a name, follow up with a compliment like their eyebrows, hair, accessories. Something they put thought and time into. You’ll then have a few more minutes of their attention and after that it’s all adlib and vibes. | /r/seduction | 15/07/22 07:24 PM |
| 15 | Some of you guys have no idea how cool or nice some of these girls are that you see on the street who you are afraid to approach!I remember once seeing this girl at the bar and she is one you could definitely categorize as having resting bitch face syndrome. So much so I had to go up and let her know. That was my opener and she actually agreed and said she gets that a lot. Chatted her up for a couple minutes and she turned out to be really chill. We started playing beer pong until a girl in my party I was with started acting out and we had to leave, last thing she said to me was “good luck with that”. I regret leaving wit… | /r/seduction | 15/07/22 09:00 AM |
| 7 | How do I not give this a fuck?Bring a hot date | /r/seduction | 24/06/22 07:56 PM |
| 2 | What’s the longest FWB you’ve kept around?Not gonna lie, this sounds like a good read 🧐📖 | /r/seduction | 18/05/22 06:52 PM |
| 7 | How do you initiate touching on a date?Can’t be scared, you’re only holding yourself back. You’d be surprised how comfortable women are with you placing your hand on their leg. But here’s one of my favorites. When you guys are walking ask if they want to count shoulders. If they don’t say no(sometimes they’ll ask “what’s that?”), then count from your outer shoulder to their outer shoulder with your inside hand and leave your arms around them when you’re done. | /r/seduction | 17/05/22 06:31 AM |
| 15 | How do you initiate touching on a date?Drive stick, and if they don’t know how, then grab their hand and put it on the stick and show them how to shift through the gears with your hand over theirs. | /r/seduction | 17/05/22 06:28 AM |
| 1 | Would you pursue a "fuckgirl"?If you’re on here asking, you ain’t ready for someone like her | /r/seduction | 10/05/22 03:28 AM |
| 1 | Daily reminder that a woman who is interested in you, will make it easy for you.This is a good post. That last paragraph is great advice to recall in these sort of situations. I think we tend to do this because we don’t have a roster like they do. I think it’s a mix of not having other options on the line to distract from the reject and wanting what you can’t have. Human nature is a fickle bitch. | /r/seduction | 06/05/22 05:40 PM |
| 3 | I'm not sure if I should get it on with this girlThere’s a lot of family friend woman I wish I slept with but didn’t due to some “don’t shit where I eat” rule. I regret all of them. We don’t even see each other anymore as much as we used too. If she wants it, give it to her. | /r/seduction | 06/05/22 12:18 AM |
| 1 | Saw this cute girl in college and approached herNo it’s not, that’s you cock blocking yourself | /r/seduction | 05/05/22 04:47 PM |
| 171 | How do some guys make girls obsessed with them?Y’all sound young. I’m guessing he flirts well enough to build the sexual tension, lays down some good dick that gets them to orgasm, and then leaves them wanting more. Moving in to another one so fast just adds to the desire as most people want what they can’t have. | /r/seduction | 22/04/22 05:26 PM |
| 5 | What are some examples of female privilege?You really cherry picked responses for each one, to confirm your bias. Good job 😉 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/22 08:03 PM |
| 1 | How should I go about ending my nearly three year long dry spell?This is definitely true. My confidence and comfortability around women has skyrocketed once I finished school and started making good money. Before that I was like a dog chasing a car. | /r/seduction | 21/04/22 05:23 AM |
| 3 | I approached a group of women for the first timeHey that just means you like what I like | /r/seduction | 08/04/22 09:27 PM |
| 1 | Going on dates with women has made me realize how invisible I am. Is this a woman thing or do I just look uninteresting?You gotta make the first move. You will get rejected but you have to find your confidence and develop a game plan. This comes with experience. So just go out there and do your best. You’ll realize based on the look of the women what sort of approach gives you a better success rate. My go to move is to give them a compliment on a feature they took time on. Such as their hair, a shirt, or accessory they’re wearing(my favorite is eyebrows). Then introduce yourself, ask their name, ask their sign, a… | /r/seduction | 08/04/22 08:43 PM |
| 2 | Why do men become possessive?Evolution wise, it’s to make sure the bloodline remains his bloodline. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/22 05:00 AM |
| 3 | How much can young people having less sex be attributed to porn?The OA is amazing! But they cancelled it 😭 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/22 03:08 AM |
| 1 | With almost 30 percent of Gen z women turning to Only Fans to make money, the odds that some men will have to settle for a partner who is in sex work or used to be is probable. What are your thoughts and are we going to find a way to look past it?😑 what’s with this subreddit, are you all a bunch of insecure teenage boys? Edit: Ok, sorry for coming off so aggressive. It’s just infuriating how this subreddit is an echo chamber for pointing at the women for your dating issues. In this particular case. You have to go with what your comfortable with. Disregard the percentage you posted. In general if you feel uncomfortable with it, move on. But if you can look past that, get to know the person and if there’s a genuine connection then go with … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/22 10:11 PM |
| 1 | CMV: The biggest misandrists I see online are menThere’s a difference between a boy and a man, and it’s not determined by age. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/22 09:41 PM |
| 1 | There’s no reason why a woman shouldn’t be promiscuous nowadays if they want toThis subreddit, I’ve learned after reading many post from here the last few weeks, is full of insecure, unaccountable, and immature men. They blame all their lack of retaining a women’s attention on the women and not themselves. Don’t try and reason with them, this is how they cope with their shortcomings. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/22 05:11 AM |
| 4 | Girl I asked out canceled a minute before the date but offered me her friend..The friend looks cute, woulda been worth the meet and drink. I would have maturely poked into the insecurity to catfish and reassure her confidence. But yea that’s a red flag for sure. | /r/seduction | 22/03/22 05:01 AM |
| 4 | Being promiscuous after you have children is not morally okNah theres a balance to that too. Is this by chance supported from any religious believes? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/22 04:21 AM |
| 32 | Being promiscuous after you have children is not morally okThis subreddit is full of men with zero confidence, zero capability to accept rejection, and zero accountability. I see way to many post here about excuses to why they ain’t getting a girl. It’s annoyingly pathetic the kind of shit that gets posted here. Constantly looking outwards with their problems. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/22 04:20 AM |
| 1 | approaching two girls and a guy went mehWouldn’t hurt to try, especially if you think she was into you. | /r/seduction | 20/03/22 08:10 PM |
| 1 | Have you ever told someone you loved them, even though you didn’t mean it?Yea I did this to my ex when I was younger. I’d get drunk and call her in the middle of the night and tell her I loved her. She’d tell me “shut up your drunk” but let me babble on for about 20 minutes before hanging up. We hooked up later and then after she started calling me to vent bout shit and called me her lover boy. It was at this moment I realized the damage I had done. I explained to her I didn’t love her like that and she went off on me for leading her on. Felt like shit afterwards. | /r/seduction | 17/03/22 04:19 AM |
| 7 | Question for men and woman: what careers do you view as a redflag or dealbreaker in the opposite gender when it comes to datingHappy not to see engineer or part time dj on here 😅 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/22 02:27 AM |
| 1 | "Visceral" attraction is not necessary for a good LTRStill hit tho | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/22 12:40 AM |
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