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No fucking way. Super gross in all ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 09:35 PM
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No it shouldn’t. That’s nasty.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 09:31 PM
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Nah.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 06:42 AM
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A lot of gross things happen a lot of the time. Doesn’t make it not gross. “Sugar dating” while in another relationship? Nasty. That’s incredibly… to use an overused word, narcissistic. I’m just not going to have a fruitful conversation with someone who thinks that’s an acceptable way to live life. Have fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 02:47 PM
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Yep. Having kids later in (relatively) life is not great for the parents or the kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 11:42 AM
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That last part is really gross. Regarding the bulk of your comment, no, women are not encouraged(certainly not always encouraged) to go for broke men. That sounds like some oversimplified strawman shit. From the male point of view, it’s valuable to be with a woman who will be his companion even if you’re broke, if that’s the case that she is with him for his character. She may enjoy and appreciate a lifestyle he provides, but she’s with him for love. But it doesn’t sound like that’s your thing l…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 11:38 AM
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Is that supposed to say “I am now happily re-married”?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 01:02 AM
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O damn. Yeah. I moved to southern MI from the desert southwest some years ago… everybody here is fucking fat and I worry for my kids. Like… the girls may look good now, but look at their moms for a clue where they’ll be in twenty years :I
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 06:18 PM
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Interesting. Is there information to back that up, or your observation? I mean, I think I’d be very interested to see what a purely sexual relationship would be like, it sounds fun for a while - but as a long term thing it doesn’t sound appealing to me. And “most men” that I know would say more or less the same. Now… I am not young and not in the dating market - just here for the curiosity. But I’m a man, so qualified on some level :p
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 12:31 PM
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I can definitely see how that would make an impact, a strong and negative one, especially if you were young/didn’t know anything about how some men can be. Seems like you were in a pretty rough state too. Something like that would definitely shape your perspective. Ugh. Outside of that - if you’re set on “we’re supposed to love the soul” without valuing physical attraction, your future partner is going to have a whole lot of confusion and possibly resentment when the fun of the new relationship …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 12:22 PM
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So… “on a more or less even level with” means “more than?” If it were the case that more men stayed in bad/loveless long term relationships because the sex was good, rather than staying in passionless long term relationships because love was there - I’d agree. But it’s not the case. Hence sexual attraction is very important but not more important. We stay for the love and try to revive the sex life - not the other way around.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 11:42 AM
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Yep. I had been trying to define the difference between “type” and “fetish”, and you spelled it out nicely. It’s “I think your freckles are way cute and I like how your red hair shines in the sun”(two things I tell my wife often) vs “I’ve always wanted to bone a redhead; you must be a freak in bed like they say!” or worse “I thought Asian women were supposed to be submissive”
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 11:34 AM
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Feeling sexually attractive to our partners is on a more or less even level with feeling loved. It’s difficult and conflicted to have one without the other, long-term. Much of what a man in a passionless marriage will struggle with is a longing to feel wanted by his partner - who he knows loves them… but to him, she does not completely love him, and he won’t leave because who wants to throw away love and a lifetime together just because of sex? It’s seen as shameful and shallow.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 11:29 AM
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