Dabeyer Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
27	A question about responding to public SA claims	Social Issues	Dabeyer	/r/MensRights	03/01/24 04:10 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
4	How might you respond to a post from a friend who said "we need to teach boys not to rape?" Serious Nothing wrong with saying what you wrote. The cheating and paternity fraud comment is sexist just against women just like the rape comment is sexist against men. Just point that out when you get pushback. I’m not left wing so I probably have more experience with unpopular opinions than most of you guys do. But, being an advocate for men’s rights/equal treatment is unpopular. It’s important for us to be comfortable saying unpopular opinions. Feminists might not want us to die but they’re fine wit…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	10/04/26 02:51 PM
43	Does not having sex disqualify me from the dating pool? I’m 23 and am waiting for marriage. There are a lot of people who would say yes to your question. Those are the people to avoid. Women who don’t care exist, women who think it’s a good thing you’ve said no also exist. (I’m a guy but I think it’s a good thing you said no) We’ll be fine, we just have to keep trying to find them. Just gotta keep working at it. Good luck brother! I’m here for you if you need it.	/r/MensRights	15/07/25 12:58 AM
113	Female teachers on how they treat male students. They have near unlimited discretion and almost no oversight. That’s literally not the question this teacher was asking. They framed it around men and women deliberately.	/r/MensRights	02/12/24 08:03 AM
78	Discriminated against just for being here “Why don’t right wingers participate on Reddit?” “Where are all the young men who vote for Trump? They’re nowhere on Reddit!” “Guys we just want an honest discussion, why won’t you talk to us?”	/r/MensRights	26/11/24 06:58 AM
2	Host of “The View” says men are useless I would kill myself before talking about my spouse like that in public	/r/MensRights	01/11/24 11:32 PM
2	Harrison Butker Controversy I’m Catholic so I’m biased. But, I felt like the speech wasn’t even controversial? At least for the feminist reasons. I don’t think he said that women need to be stay at home moms. Just that he was glad his wife chose to do that. And his message was that being a mother and wife was way more important than career success. Maybe I’m missing something but, who would disagree with that? Edit: I understand the abortion and Biden stuff, but that’s not what I’m seeing talking heads complaining about.	/r/MensRights	18/05/24 01:37 AM
2	Despair makes young US men more conservative ahead of US election, poll shows The first sentence is funny, “… particularly among American men, the only US population group to turn more conservative over the past decade.” As if US men aren’t half of the US lol	/r/MensRights	14/04/24 05:49 PM
16	Christianity dumping men I’m Catholic and still believe. My community treats me great and the church is one of the things that keeps me grounded and sane. My best experiences come from guys groups just meeting up trying to learn and generally talking/ joking. However… when I was being confirmed like 8 years ago my advisor told me something that clicked with me. That the church was becoming too culturally feminine for him and needed to change. The church was very apologetic and trying to be ‘hip and cool’ rather than jus…	/r/MensRights	12/04/24 05:35 PM
3	Remember that conservatives are not your friends. They want men to work until they die It’s actually the other way around, young conservatives (like me) want to do away with SS because we probably won’t get anything unless it changes. Boomers want to keep the system the same cause they are retiring.	/r/MensRights	13/03/24 06:24 PM
2	Remember that conservatives are not your friends. They want men to work until they die This is what Ben kinda wants	/r/MensRights	13/03/24 06:20 PM
13	“Just make a space for males” I feel like the only thing for that right now is sports, and women have been attacking men in sports for years and years now.	/r/MensRights	17/02/24 06:10 AM
5	Can any young guys in college explain how bad the dating scene is? Are most guys really virgins or not getting any action? There’s a reason everyone says ‘young men’ when they’re talking about this	/r/MensRights	10/02/24 04:19 PM
3	Worthless 20s are rough from what I hear. I’m 21 and experience most of what you do. In my experience, locking yourself in your house is the worst thing you can do. Just going outside, going to parks, going on walks, tending to yards is the best way to feel better about this. I started volunteering at a local cemetery a couple months ago, met so many good people there and invite them over to my house when I can. I realize that might be counterintuitive because everyone gives you a negative reaction when y…	/r/MensRights	29/01/24 07:04 PM
10	Are women taking over all the jobs? Oh yeah you’re completely right I’ve run into that trying to apply for scholarships, and have seen friends get refused because the company needs a woman. I just think that the societal trend is because of school 🤷‍♀️	/r/MensRights	28/01/24 07:48 PM
54	Are women taking over all the jobs? The problem is probably the school system. School is female focused and so men aren’t going to college, or are going and dropping out. Most of the jobs you’re talking about require college degrees, for good reason most of the time, so men can’t work them. There are still male dominated fields, trades and stem. Although stem is less and less men. But you don’t interact with those people all the time probably. Younger women are doing better than younger men right now, in a couple decades that’ll b…	/r/MensRights	28/01/24 07:42 PM
1	Is touching a girl while dating illegal Nah you did nothing wrong. Lucky you tho, your friends believe you and you won’t have to deal with any girls anymore. At least not until college lol	/r/MensRights	28/01/24 07:38 PM
4	First time I’ve ever seen something pro-male make it to the front page and it gets taken down by mods Bet that was like the most personal story about how awesome some dudes in their life are or some crap or how they make life better through the jobs they do	/r/MensRights	30/12/23 11:38 PM
1	I can't believe how much people don't care Absolutely am down. Do you wanna DM?	/r/MensRights	25/11/23 01:23 AM
4	I can't believe how much people don't care I hear you, but ultimately it’s up to you to establish a good support system around yourself. When I was in the worst spot in my life a couple of years ago my friends (all guys) were a huge help to me not ending it all. They were the best, I owe them a lot. My girlfriend of 4 years broke up with me. She “couldn’t continue to put up with my problems and I needed to get my shit together.” Don’t rely on women for help they don’t understand you and don’t care. Rely on the boys if possible	/r/MensRights	21/11/23 03:51 PM
19	My experience as "white privileged male" I’ve had a mostly similar experience to you. What’s with fake asking people out? Just leaves us paranoid. Luckily based little me said “no I don’t want to.” Lol	/r/MensRights	02/10/23 12:15 PM
41	Yes the Barbie movie was anti men When I went to watch it I was next a mom and daughter. After the movie the mom and daughter were talking about it (not really paying attention) but I caught the daughter saying something like “I feel bad for the Kens though they’re all homeless” and the mom responded with “What! You can’t feel bad for the Kens! You’re not a woman if you feel bad for the Kens!” If people are walking out thinking that like it’s clearly anti-men.	/r/MensRights	31/07/23 02:37 AM
15	Yes the Barbie movie was anti men I thought Oppenheimer was great! So refreshing to have a movie plot just be plot without a ton of anti-men normal Hollywood tropes	/r/MensRights	31/07/23 02:34 AM
194	Apparently age of consent changes depending on who's benefiting. The double standard is crazy bro. So you can show all old men your naked body online, but not date one of them. Aight And I think their age gap is gross but man I can’t stand these people’s minds	/r/MensRights	11/02/23 02:39 PM