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If they didn't 'get it on their own', its a cheat and is seen as usurping the natural order of things where he'd pound sand. There's an evolutionary basis behind this: intrinsic (genetics) > hard work/effort in life (not genetic) Can apply this to myriad of other things, like finances, physique, mental health, etc.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/12/25 05:12 AM
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Funny how quickly all of the male advocacy stuff gets thrown out the window. Heh.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/11/24 02:15 AM
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No bro, it's because he's too white and too male!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/11/24 03:12 AM
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This is what typically happens in spaces meant to analyze male issues within a healthy framework. Bring up the realities of racially marginalized men, and suddenly, everything goes out the window. I truly believe that the only solution is a space dedicated for black men to discuss our issues, rather than trying to be a part of a general one.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/11/24 07:49 AM
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It's a genius tactic (no it's not). They do this every 4 years. Send someone(s) out to shit on black men for not voting D enough despite us being their 2nd most reliable voting bloc.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/10/24 09:15 PM
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I still find it insane that their 2nd most reliable voting bloc, even moreso (percentage wise at least) than any other male demographic, is the one that they constantly shit on every 4 years. Great outreach strategy, love to see it.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/10/24 01:02 AM
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This is a common tactic when democrats pander to black people. "Here's some things that you might benefit from too!" Nothing new. Not like they have any intention of following through with the bare minimum here.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/10/24 07:29 PM
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Well said, it's a straight up biological and social fact. The concept of self worth is meaningless.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 06:59 AM
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Doesn't mean that we can't improve the life of people that have trouble maintaining relationships. I'm just stating what actually helps keep people alive. I guarantee that the vast majority of suicide victims felt worthless, and I guarantee that most people who seriously considered suicide at some point refrained from doing so because there was someone who would be devastated by their loss. In my personal case, sitting at a table with someone I paid to talk to me is the same thing as someone pay…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/04/23 07:09 PM
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I find it hilarious when the most common "solution" they give is "just go to therapy bro," as if paying someone who doesn't give a shit about you to pretend as if they give a shit about you is gonna solve your issues. The best solution is a positive and loving relationship, whether that's from your family, friends, or romantic partner. Humans are a social species. It is common sense that men raised in loving households are better off than those that are not. Unfortunately, not everyone has acces…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/04/23 04:32 PM
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Having to buy expensive pieces of fabric to signal how high status you are to be considered a human being worthy of companionship I see it as nothing more than basic evolutionary bio. That's the only way to rationalize it.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/04/23 01:50 AM
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I agree with you. Homo sapiens is a domestic species. Probably the only species to domesticate itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 04:53 AM
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Are that kind of guys really so desperate? Yes. Dead serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 01:33 AM
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Because they are desperate. The average dude has basically zero options in comparison to the average woman. Contrary to popular belief, men are also starved of affection and basic human kindness, and have no outlet to experience these things besides romantic relationships. Big Eddy from down the block is not gonna be picky once he realizes that the odds are stacked against him.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 10:57 PM
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I discussed with someone in another comment that confidence and personality matter once you pass the bare minimum looks threshold. Thanks for further proving that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 10:47 PM
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Yup, that's the bare minimum to be even considered as a potential partner. Personality and confidence only matter once you get past that stage.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 10:42 PM
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They will never describe "confidence" aside from vague nonsense. Nothing tangible or realistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 10:41 PM
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If he's physically unattractive to me, he's physically unattractive. But if someone is physically unattractive to me, nothing will change that. It's really that simple. I don't understand where all of this "women can literally smell confidence like its cologne bro" pseudoscience came from.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 10:39 PM
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No where did I mention that I had any specific interest in any race.......
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 08:44 PM
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And what alternative do you propose? lol This is the entire point of my post, but nobody is actually offering tangible solutions besides the vague personality nonsense that nobody outside of high school believes anymore. You're saying that it's a bad thing for men to make themselves more attractive to women, lest they become a school shooter. Wtaf???
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 07:58 AM
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I literally said that I am not a redpiller holy crap 🙄 Please read the post again.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 07:41 AM
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During high school, I actually thought that women would like me despite looking like Urkel. A lot of these dudes have people who are lying to them and saying crap like "just be yourself," which only results in them constantly failing. Someone has to tell them this stuff. We aren't born with the right answers, and nonsense from bluepillers gets in the way of that. The way you denigrate those on the spectrum is interesting....
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 07:03 AM
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The fact that it even preaches those basic things puts it a step up over bluepill advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 06:44 AM
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I don't think you read my post.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 06:31 AM
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I don't think you read my post.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 06:31 AM
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This attempt to punish people for interacting with each other outside of dating apps is insane. -Don't approach us! -So are you gonna approach? -NO! It's anti-social and harms more people than it helps.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 04:36 AM
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And until someone does, TRP will continue to be popular.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 03:14 AM
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No, my personality will affect the type of women that would be willing to stay in a relationship with me. My appearance would affect the type of women I attract. Women are not omniscient beings that can sense your personality from a mile away.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 02:47 AM
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one doesn't need trp to deliver the world's most obvious advice I responded to this point multiple times already. https://old.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/1261u6a/the_only_reason_the_concept_of_the_redpill_is/je7ic2w/?context=3 https://old.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/1261u6a/the_only_reason_the_concept_of_the_redpill_is/je7k7oq/?context=3
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 02:24 AM
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You're presuming stuff onto me rather than challenging the assertions I made regarding people who fail to provide alternatives to TRP and its advice. Please read some of the comments I made in this thread to better understand my perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 01:54 AM
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Exactly. Lie, gaslight, and dismiss all of your concerns, then shocked Pikachu face when someone seeks help from somewhere else.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 01:51 AM
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It's like I don't even have the bare minimum requirements for them to see me as a human being, let alone consider me as a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 01:46 AM
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I was making an example as to how having a great personality isn't a guaranteed way to attract women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 01:43 AM
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He looks exactly like Urkel with corrected posture, an outfit change, and contacts. lol alright, thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 01:00 AM
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I'm already working on my solution. And your presumption that I don't have hobbies is funny. I'm an avid birdwatcher and document various species insects, mainly bees. Unfortunately, that is not something that the vast majority of women will give af about, especially if I'm looking like Urkel. Be realistic. Urkel with a passion for bees - Corny and lame Broderick Hunter with a passion for bees - Oozes the positive qualities that women want and appeals to the female gaze. I volunteer at my local …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 12:46 AM
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I think you're kinda missing my point. And yes, women do swarm men who read lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 12:30 AM
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I don't think you read my post in its entirety. Sure, TRP results in misogyny, but who is offering a tangible alternative to men? That's the part that bothers me. I literally want someone to provide alternatives that produce real results! Hopefully I explained that in a way that made sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 12:19 AM
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Yeah, I don't think you're interested in discussing the points I made...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 12:16 AM
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I don't think you read my post in its entirety. The gender aspects of TRP is why someone needs to find a way to counter it while also preaching tangible solutions.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 12:11 AM
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Of course they aren't the only ones doing so, but once again, the "just be yourself crowd" is large, real, and certainly does not see it as a necessary step. And that part 100% applies to women as well. If it was this easy to understand, then the concepts of looksmaxing and subreddits like r/vindicta would not exist. Someone has to teach us these things, and nowadays, that someone is often online. Don't interpret it as me thinking this is a good thing. I find it unfortunate as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 12:10 AM
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Which is certainly unfortunate, and is why people need to preach tangible solutions if they want it to fade, since nobody else is doing that :(
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 12:05 AM
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Those are certainly valid, but this is where "I know he has a great personality 😍" stuff comes into play. Volunteering for 1,000 hours isn't gonna get dudes a girlfriend just like that, and women are not omniscient beings that can sense quality dudes out of thin air. Like c'mon, imagine joining a book club thinking to yourself, "yeah, they're definitely gonna love this. Imma walk out of this with a bomb ass personality 😈" No, reading books with some old ladies is nice, but women are not gonna sw…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 12:03 AM
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Ngl, I don't know jack about TRP besides the TRP besides the self improvement concepts (which is all I give af about), so anything else is out of my qualifications to discuss. But like I said, TRP seems like many men's introduction to self improvement stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 11:57 PM
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If that was true, then we wouldn't have the current relationship disparity between men and women :(
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 11:55 PM
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You'd be surprised at how many me think just being themselves is what women find attractive. I deadass thought that looking like Urkel was good enough. I needed someone to tell me otherwise, and I am not alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 11:54 PM
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I know, which is why I said bits and pieces. TRP is kinda like "baby's first steps for attracting women," in my case at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 11:52 PM
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There is no single cheat code, but there are ways to take advantage of your inherent traits and do something with them. I was practically Steve Urkel in high school, which no women are gonna find attractive. Getting rid of the glasses and busting my ass in the gym isn't a cheat code, but it certainly increases my odds. The alternative would be to understand that everyone has different things they're into and try to become the kind of person who attracts the kind of people you're attracted to. Le…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 11:51 PM
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You'd be surprised at how many men that think just being themselves is what women find attractive. In fact, I'd say it's one of the big hurdles that all young men need to jump over as they get older.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 11:40 PM
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Going to the gym to get your body right, fixing up your wardrobe, getting your finances right, how to talk to women, stuff like that. I'm certainly not in the gym because I enjoy it lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 11:37 PM
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Yeah, you definitely lost the plot because I don't know where all of this is coming from. I'm not blaming anyone. Please find one sentence where I blamed parents, women, or even society. How about, life is rough and no one’s going to help you. Wtf. Alrighty then, that's why it's great that there are people who want to help. You're definitely taking this way too seriously...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 11:35 PM
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I think exposure to RPs creates an unconscious bias that comes out in ways you don’t realize. Oh, it certainly does, which is why I don't go deep into it aside from self improvement stuff. I have no interest in those "I need 7 virgin wives" type of dudes. In fact, my original post is basically telling those who oppose TRP that they need to cough up tangible solutions if they want it to fade away. Until they do that, TRP is here to stay, unfortunately.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 11:29 PM
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Well, nobody is gonna admit that they follow it irl, but I'm certain many dudes take bits and pieces of it and apply it to themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 11:22 PM
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Damn, you said it way better than I did. Tbh, I don't know much about TRP besides the self improvement aspect. It certainly wards off those feelings of "Am I crazy, is there something wrong with me?" I can't even begin to describe how it felt when I realized I was not the only one with these issues. It's just hard to bring them up IRL without feeling like you're gonna get clowned for it. The internet certainly has its flaws, but online anonymity has made it possible to express my vulnerabilities…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 11:22 PM
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"Later" as in once you get her attention and you two clearly have a mutual attraction. Not like once y'all are ready to get married or something lol. Anyways, I have no anger at women, so that doesn't apply to me. There isn't a single comment on this thread blaming anyone besides myself for my faults, so I'm not sure where that is coming from. This obsession with "the inside" and "just be you" is exhausting. We all know that literal felons and serial killers have success with women, and I can as…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 11:14 PM
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You're confusing the individuals with the ideology. You can talk about the dudes who don't do shit all you want, but if I didn't learn about TRP and how attraction is based on evolutionary bio, I would never have joined the gym and work on fixing my appearance lol. "Looksmaxing" has become very popular amongst men now, so I'm clearly not the only one. “If you were actually capable of being Redpilled, you wouldn’t need the RP in the first place” I don't know how much more times I have to say that…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 11:05 PM
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You're presuming a lot of stuff regarding my personal life but alright. But they sense the anger you have built up from years of exposure to the red pill sites. I already said I'm not a redpiller. I just use advice regarding self improvement, so the MGTOW and Tate stuff doesn't apply to me lol. You can’t fix the outside till you fix the inside. See, this is exactly why I made this post. It's like you ignored everything I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 10:55 PM
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This is exactly what I'm talking about. The shaming language does absolutely nothing, and saying that it is an internet niche also does nothing. Bro: it’s not your parents job to get you a girlfriend or laid and if you don’t have friends or mentors then that’s “not anyone else issue”. Exactly. Which is why young men who struggle with these things seek out people who can and will offer them help. Regardless if they are grifters or not, they still took the time to give these dudes who are lost and…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 10:49 PM
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the personality stuff can be done later. A lot of these dudes struggle to actually get in. I can personally attest that my personality is great. I'm witty and I'm great at listening and paying attention to others' social cues. The issue is that I don't fit the standards for what is considered a conventionally attractive black male in the US. You said: Red pill solutions will work to get women to speak to you That's literally my greatest hurdle, and I'm sure countless men will say the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 10:44 PM
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I'm not a redpiller, but learning about methods for self improvement and understanding what makes me undesirable has been eye-opening. Unfortunately, most parents fail to teach their sons these things, so they turn to the internet for these answers. Most men received the "just be yourself" and "just finish school and women will love you" type of advice while growing up, which obviously does nothing. This is why the redpill exists. I do agree that the dudes who just talk shit and don't do anythin…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 10:29 PM
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By cheat code, you mean changing something to make yourself more desirable to the opposite sex. How that could possibly be a bad thing, especially for men who struggle to get into relationships in the first place, is incredibly confusing to me. And you did not offer any alternatives for those who want to avoid "cheat codes," which is exactly why redpill gurus will not fade away. Imagine wanting to make it harder for yourself to get into a relationship lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 10:25 PM
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It gives men a sense of control over what happens in their lives. I can't sit here and pray a woman just falls into my lap. I have to change things about myself in order to get what I want, and that applies to almost every facet of life. I don't understand why people refuse to apply this concept to relationships. Maybe it has to do with the "she will love you for who you are" crap.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 10:10 PM
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