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It's generally a very good game to play. Also known as the question game. Deep conversation is needed for escelation. It's widely documented in some PUA literature.
/r/seduction21/10/24 04:55 PM
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I am from Europe and can confirm. Americans are by far the biggest sluts when in Europe on vacation. When I went to another country I'd say about 67% of exchange girls broke up with their LTR. More cheated. Be warned!
/r/askTRP18/02/19 07:05 AM
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Option 1 is that she is not that attracted to you and is making up the whole thing. But I don't think it's the case since girls usually love doing it. Why the fuck should you resent her just because your sperm tastes like shit and another guys doesn't? Try to fix the medical problem before making ultimatums. If that doesn't work you could think about dumping her if a relationship with her isn't worth it without blowjobs.
/r/askTRP23/06/18 12:56 PM
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I went there with friends several times and decided it was a good idea to incorporate it into my dates. Girls always have a good time playing some pool because it's something new/unique and it's a game. Perfect for breaking the initial awkward barrier in a chill way and even better if she cannot play pool since girls love a man who can instruct her. I think 2 is enough. You usually spend 1-2 hours in each anyway so 4 hours in total is enough. Timeframe from 7PM to 11PM.
/r/seduction21/06/18 04:03 PM
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Where are you from?
/r/seduction21/06/18 07:57 AM
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I first take her to a slightly secluded bar that has a lot of biliards tables. We play the game and talk and have fun for a few hours. Afterwards I take her to a more posh bar that is just 3 minutes from my place and talk to her. Quite optimal.
/r/seduction21/06/18 07:56 AM
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Don't for the love of god be insecure. I wouldn't even mention that you are concerned to her. I think you should join some activity where you interact with a lot of people aswell so then you two are even.
/r/seduction21/06/18 07:43 AM
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Geek term. Sexual market value. That's something that will attract hipster girls I think.
/r/seduction21/06/18 07:42 AM
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You really don't have a lot of time for seduction. So you have to build a lot of attraction really fast and also find the right girl (the one that will put out). I think you should try finding the ones that are open to having one night stands. If you have no moral qualms you can lie to them about being from somewhere or working for someone important just to raise SMV. You could say that you are the son of the owner of the camping company or something.
/r/seduction20/06/18 08:00 AM
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"Hey I feel like this is an interview... so please come over here so it can be more friendly."
/r/seduction19/06/18 10:10 AM
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Okay so my theory is that that the girls percieve you as someone who will not be loyal (which is true lol). I think in your scenario you should focus on 1 girl at a time to lower the risk of any bad reputation. So try to talk to her during the day or with her friends a little bit to build some trust. Also become friends with her friends and an acqaintance of the social circle. Then she will be less hesitant as a summer boyfriend situation is acceptable. But of course you can always find girls th…
/r/seduction19/06/18 08:13 AM
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Can you describe a specific scenario where you fail because of your problem?
/r/seduction18/06/18 02:33 PM
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This kind of environment is golden if you are in a leadership position. My advice would be to either ask her that since it's her first time/she's new in the area you should show her some of the best natural hotspots. Isolate and procceed to escalate in the forest. If she is hesitant even with this make a special trip with some of your closest confidants (you can even double date this way) and invite her to go with you. Girls just need an excuse. But to be honest saying that she's hooking up with…
/r/seduction13/06/18 09:41 AM
8

Start meditating. This will keep you rooted in the present and provide a good reset button for you. You will realise that it's all in your head. I recommend the "headspace" app.
/r/seduction25/05/18 09:16 AM
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Ask yourself what do you want? Do you just want someone really hot with which to have sex with? Do you want someone to be your life long partner and for you to support eachother in your careers, like Claire Underwood? In order to not be that intimidating and if you want the latter you should fish in your own pond, aka you should find a girl that's almost your equal in terms of family and business.
/r/seduction25/05/18 08:53 AM
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Extremely solid advice, especially this association thing.
/r/seduction19/05/18 04:19 AM
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I agree completely with this. Guys nowadays that use Tinder/Go to clubs have to realise that they're on a level playing field competing with EVERYONE. So even if you are good looking it's still harder for you since you have no added social value. By joining a student organization/fraternity/etc. you immensely add social value to your overall SMV which makes getting the hottest girls a lot easier and also builds important leadership and social skills. My question to OP is more regarding how to na…
/r/seduction18/05/18 09:34 AM
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You should find a hobby that enables you to progress and look like a veteran + will benifit you in the future. Try any sort of political organizations/debate clubs/exchange student organizations etc. So when a cute little girl tries to join you can be her "mentor" and "show her" around ;)
/r/seduction18/05/18 08:53 AM
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What everyone is saying about sexual vibes is true. For refference check out this one pickup artist ( https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5Bqa73nH3Z0 ) he has an amazingly goofy sexual vibe going.
/r/seduction18/05/18 08:46 AM
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LOOL. I only date X. That's the biggest lie a girl can say. Ultimately if you make her feel tingles she will date you even if you are a satan worshipper. To get out of this you first have to wait a while and then slowly tell her that you're not feeling the whole religion thing. If she is hard in love she could be successfully brainwashed.
/r/seduction09/05/18 08:16 AM
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If she's interested she will invest time into you to see if you can amplify her attraction towards you. If you succeed in this the chase will eventually end with you inside of her.
/r/seduction08/05/18 08:00 AM
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That requires you to develop your personality to a sufficient level. Contrary to popular belief... most people have a shit personality. In addition when girls say that they like a guy for his personality they mean that they like him for his "game" aka the way he talks to them/treats them like women. If you want to fuck a woman you have to let her know that covertly with your sexual energy.
/r/seduction08/05/18 07:54 AM
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You should only be "yourself" around girls if that self is even mildly appealing to them. Usual conversation with a girl you're courting starts with smalltalk and then evolves into a mix between showing her your life ambitions and philisophy (Which must be attractive) and you making covert sexual jokes about her. Continues like this until you reach whatever goal you have.
/r/seduction07/05/18 11:02 AM
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Maybe you also manage to hit their cervix? That shit hurts.
/r/askTRP24/04/18 09:27 AM
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if she likes you any random bullshit that isn't showing how clingy you are will work.
/r/askTRP24/04/18 09:15 AM
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Having sex is not rocket science. You simply stick it in her and make pelvic movements. What you should do is position your social context effectively as to maximise the chance of you getting laid. For example joining a fraternity/student organisation. Fake it till you make it all the way. Failing is good. Make all the mistake possible really. Make out with her nose for all I care.
/r/askTRP22/04/18 03:12 PM
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I suppose I just need more practice then.
/r/askTRP19/04/18 10:43 AM
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I can but it feels a bit forced and incongruent. False. I have no accent. Been speaking english since 2 y/o.
/r/askTRP19/04/18 08:56 AM
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Well theoretically yes. But it's much nicer to agree and amplify and gives her a lot more tingles. I'd say ignoring is reserved for when you don't know what to say.
/r/askTRP18/04/18 10:45 AM
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Maybe you are plan B and she's keeping you around just in case. ^
/r/askTRP18/04/18 10:38 AM
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To be honest there's no need to be alpha as fuck when texting someone. Just give her 50%-75% of her message lengths back and you should be good. Texting is ultimately the EASIEST part of game if you ask me. Just never go into extremes like texting her the bible or 1 word responses (sometimes it's okay but not too much consecutively).
/r/askTRP18/04/18 09:57 AM
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You should be yourself however that has to be an attractive person. Being insecure AF is also being yourself and will drive her away.
/r/seduction06/04/18 03:01 AM
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Game exists simply because a man talks differently to a woman than he talks to a platonic male friend.
/r/seduction06/04/18 02:59 AM
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Not sure what you mean. Going for the kiss without any prior escalation will likely result in you being denied. Rapport serves to distinguish you from the pack of guys she's used to, that and your general energy. So if you kiss a girl all night in the club but don't talk about your life/etc she will be unlikely to respond to a text. You slowly seem natural through a lot of experience on dates I believe. There is no magic cure.
/r/seduction04/04/18 08:33 AM
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I say you did good. Option 2 would be to get her to cheat on her BF if you just agreed and amplified.
/r/seduction04/04/18 08:20 AM
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Simple calculation: Is the fallout of people finding out about the relationship worth the relationship itself?
/r/askTRP03/04/18 10:05 AM
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Treat her like a child. Compare her to certain animals. Throw in some double entendres and you're good.
/r/askTRP03/04/18 09:59 AM
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I'm no expert on starting a business but I think it's rare for people to find some sort of niche in the market and fill it up (in a manner similar to facebook or the pc revolution). I heard most people just find a sector to focus on and make their service extra good or have some minor edge over their apponents or better marketing etc. As for your original question. How to live in the moment? You should start meditating. It's the ultimate tool that re-boots your brain and teaches you how to contr…
/r/askTRP01/04/18 08:24 AM
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Well since you are so young maybe you should be more low key. Invite her to a party/gathering of sorts and then isolate her there. After you're both talking having fun and laughing just go for the kiss and see how she responds.
/r/askTRP01/04/18 08:19 AM
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Jesus Christ someone should make a table of contents for that PDF file.
/r/askTRP30/03/18 06:42 PM
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You fuckers. I didn't mean to brag I swear. Otherwise solid advice.
/r/askTRP28/03/18 08:27 AM
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Check if she has some event she marked as "GOING" then approach her there?
/r/seduction24/03/18 06:27 PM
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They're not "average" if they do that believe me.
/r/seduction24/03/18 06:25 PM
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I used this just recently: "When you smile... you remind me of a squirrel.. that just found a nut." Any animal comparison is gold.
/r/seduction24/03/18 06:08 PM
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You hooked up with two girls in a month and you're complaining? Dude check out /r/ForeverAlone. Your problems are completely trivial. My advice is to go do some class and meet new friends that way. Some manly activity prefferably.
/r/seduction24/03/18 06:01 PM
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College parties have a more select social circle and you can leverage your social status more + easier to approach since it's a "closed" space with people that have something in common.
/r/seduction24/03/18 05:59 PM
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Be flirty with her. Don't talk to her about the emotions you feel. You need to have an air of mystique around you. Invite her to chill with you and some friends. DO NOT invite her on some official date. When you're hanging out and you've been talking to her and laughing try to isolate her by some stupid excuse "hey let's go see the view from that area". Then you should really just go for the kiss and see her reaction. You shouldn't talk about relationships, she's the one that has to initiate tha…
/r/seduction22/03/18 11:50 AM
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Just message her something to which she will likely respond. Either a good tease or just a statement (don't ask questions). Then set up a sober meet up.
/r/seduction22/03/18 11:46 AM
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Don't read it like it's the bible. Think about everything you read logically. The parts about vulnerability are contradictory I believe.
/r/seduction22/03/18 08:40 AM
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Ultimately it's such a small aspect that it doesn't matter that much at this point.
/r/seduction20/03/18 11:01 AM
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You gave us no context you asshat.
/r/seduction20/03/18 10:52 AM
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Well it depends on your life philosophy doesn't it.
/r/askTRP19/03/18 07:10 PM
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You're still in the awkward middle ground and since they know you from before you cannot transition higher. The uncanny valley is real.
/r/askTRP19/03/18 12:25 PM
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A top tier man has the freedom to decide weather to be compassionate or not.
/r/askTRP19/03/18 12:10 PM
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To be honest your description of what you say doesn't scream beta provider. Just sounds like someone that's really clever. You just need to frame it better. My passion has always been X. Finally I graduated X but I thought there's soo many more interesting things to do so I opted for the pHD. Do people with doctorates get paid a lot or what? I don't get the instant beta bucks association.
/r/askTRP19/03/18 12:04 PM
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Protip: If you get a cold or any light ilness DON'T go googling around for STD symptoms. It will just fuck with your head.
/r/askTRP19/03/18 11:14 AM
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Ask her to have dinner someplace instead so you can have your way with her.
/r/seduction19/03/18 11:12 AM
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What makes one addicted to a person is a constant rollercoaster of emotions. You need to basically giver her that. So okay now you had sex time to chill for a few days and then contact her and set up another meetup and have more hot sex. You can be /a bit/ nice to her since she did put out and you have the upper hand. Keep it at 30% nice 70% playfull still.
/r/seduction19/03/18 08:52 AM
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Tbh I didn't mean have a discussion with her. Sit her down to give the situation more gravity then tell her the facts and not even respond to her bullshit excuses afterwards.
/r/askTRP14/03/18 04:32 PM
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She's the child. I suggested that he give her a lecture.
/r/askTRP14/03/18 11:37 AM
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Have a talk with her and make it clear why it's not appropriate to joke about that. Somewhat as you would with a child misbehaving.
/r/askTRP14/03/18 09:17 AM
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Sidebar. Regarding the attraction process you have to be prepared for her to stop liking you at a moments notice and move on. Off topic a really good suggestion is to start meditating.
/r/seduction08/03/18 03:49 PM
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Hot babe 6 male? haha. I think starting low and moving up is a good strategy. It helps build skill and mastery go for it! Only idiots wait for that perfect girl.
/r/seduction08/03/18 02:34 PM
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You answered your own question. Unless she is super valuable as a friend cut contact.
/r/seduction26/02/18 09:04 PM
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Solid points. No idea why you're getting downvoted m8. Unless you are lieing about cuba.
/r/seduction26/02/18 08:42 PM
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Where do you live? This isn't true for every place. For example in Italy ( and I assume to a lesser extent France and Spain ) the men are usually really aggressive and if a (foreign) girl stands alone at a bar for more than 10 seconds she will get someone talking to her. Latin cultures are just like that. As a consequence the local girls are more difficult.
/r/seduction26/02/18 01:56 PM
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if summer: really cool balcony where we can chill if winter: really nice view of the winter mountains from my balcony
/r/askTRP23/02/18 10:44 AM
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It's cool. But you should've somehow gotten her number instead of giving her yours since girls usually don't call dudes first unless you're super elite.
/r/askTRP23/02/18 10:39 AM
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Micro-transactions are always a pain in the ass tbh. I agree on round sharing, if the girl is half decent she should agree to that without trouble.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/18 08:08 PM
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To be honest I think "don't buy her a drink" is overrated. She was already extremely into you when she arrived. Not every girl is a retarded "omg buy us all drinks pls" bimbo. In Europe I've practically never met one. For newbies it's better to just fill the typical male role and just buy her a drink if she already agreed to go on a date with you.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/18 07:56 PM
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you shouldve written it on her face with your cum m9
/r/askTRP19/02/18 09:43 AM
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haha that's hilarious. you should have written something on her like: "men only value me for my pussy".
/r/askTRP19/02/18 09:38 AM
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you could have made her apologise on the spot if you had that kind of leverage. if not ignoring is golden. I'm curious though, what exactly did she say?
/r/askTRP19/02/18 09:28 AM
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I think he is more of an exception than the general statistic. Naturals that get laid often don't post on seddit.
/r/seduction19/02/18 09:12 AM
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What you say is probably true as to his reasoning. But ultimately not everyone will make it and we can't save everyone. Taking away the means of mass shootings is ultimately easier.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/18 06:51 AM
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It just isn't 100% on physical attraction. It's a combination of status * looks * game. So in your head women and men have the same mechanisms of being attracted just that women have more options so they choose the hottest guy? Realise that this isn't the case.
/r/askTRP16/02/18 01:13 PM
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To be honest the perception of you that women have is both a blessing and a curse. Unlike men, whoose scoring of a woman depends solely on her physical attributes before taking into account personality, women's perception of men change through how men make them "feel" by talking to them. Which means that men can punch above their weight looks wise. In this regard men can also get lucky by saying the right shit to the right women at the right time and puch way above their weight. Of course it wou…
/r/askTRP16/02/18 11:59 AM
1

Grow a majestic beard.
/r/seduction16/02/18 11:44 AM
1

Try the shit Daniel from daygame ignition pulls. "Hey I really like your coat" "Thank you" "yeah I think you look like an eskimo". Half compliments are golden.
/r/seduction16/02/18 08:52 AM
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She's the one with the issues if she can't take a stranger just casually saying good morning to her. ^
/r/askTRP16/02/18 08:38 AM
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ignore it and continue lifting + maybe apply dread game
/r/askTRP16/02/18 08:34 AM
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"Fishing for compliments huh"
/r/askTRP15/02/18 11:53 AM
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Dude... she was sending you pictures of her tits. Honestly you should've just awkwardly kissed her at anyone of your encounters and you would be banging on the street in broad daylight.
/r/askTRP15/02/18 11:46 AM
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To me it just sounds like all you should've done is ignored the fuck out of the dude. He sounds pretty much more autistic than you and isn't a natural alpha lol.
/r/askTRP15/02/18 11:40 AM
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Sparring one on one is one of the most intimate experiences a person can do. You get to know your apponent and his way of thinking while being under constant pressure and you also bond while doing it. You also finally understand the psychology aspect of human interaction... 8 times out of 10 the fighter who has a better psychological grasp on himself will beat his apponent. And you become ready to deal with dangerous situations if they occur, but most of the time the sheer confidence you exude w…
/r/askTRP15/02/18 11:32 AM
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Never been. Ultimately if you are motivated enough you can boot camp yourself, albeit it may be difficult with some things.
/r/seduction13/02/18 08:55 AM
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Calling is a great option too. Hardly anyone has balls to do that.
/r/seduction13/02/18 08:53 AM
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I recommend taking a sports class. Boxing or MMA works great. As you spar with people you will bond immensely and in turn you can invite them out.
/r/seduction13/02/18 08:53 AM
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You sound really like Goofy to me. The black dog character from Disney movies. Ooooh yeeah. Just... try to chill and try to steer the conversation into either modern art (nude), body paint (nude), art porn(nude). Like first paint her hand and make a print.. then put it on her cheek/neck/ear/nose/etc. . Afterwards she should be laughing already and suggest that you make a print of her ass etc.
/r/seduction13/02/18 08:44 AM
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I know... I won a competition for the most not cute person in town. Now I'm thinking of trying for the national level but I need to find a coach.
/r/seduction13/02/18 08:36 AM
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Somewhat unrelated dude, but can you not freaking blatantly insult anyone that opposes your plan or has a counter argument? You pulled that shit so many times on this thread. "Have you ever experienced...?" + "34 y/o fedex driver". Frankly it just screams insecurity. TRP is about not giving a fuck what (random) people think and you seem like you're trying to save face over the internet by insulting people or some bullcrap.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/18 01:32 PM
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To be honest. Aggressively pushing thoughts away will do you no good. I recommend you do activities that stimulate your hormones/brain instead. These include: -Sports -Having sex -Hanging out_with_friends I also recommend that you get into meditating. It helps you keep in the present moment and teaches you how to objectively realise the present situation with the power of mindfulness.
/r/seduction12/02/18 10:32 AM
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To be honest is going out every day and tipping this hard really worth it for the odd bimbo every week? I think it's better to WORK at a popular club and get /money/ then appear like everyone knows you when you actually go out. You don't get alcohol poisoning and you get the girl. Or join some sort of student organization that organises parties for foreign students.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/18 10:24 AM
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Bowling + youtube at your place?
/r/seduction12/02/18 10:13 AM
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She's badly damaged. STAY AWAY!!!! This can only end badly. She may actually be attracted to you or not, but what remains is that she wants someone to marry her and care for her but it's just waaay easier to find someone without baggage like her than to fix a broken woman.
/r/seduction12/02/18 10:12 AM
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Ultimately you can say a lot of stupid shit to open and it will work if she fancies you even a tiny bit. Why not just ask her about something she's wearing or what kind of phone she has etc. or even the freaking time.
/r/seduction12/02/18 10:08 AM
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"International" is always good. Full of horny exchange students for sure. :3 Could you describe how you go about approaching a girl on the dance floor in Japan?
/r/seduction07/02/18 06:00 PM
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Are you Japanese? How prevelant is hook up culture there? I heard that in Japan pick up is on the level of middle school romances. Everyone is just too scared to act.
/r/seduction07/02/18 12:59 PM
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I recommend you get into meditation. Mainly because it teaches you mindfullness, which is the concept of focusing on the present moment and clearing your mind of bad thoughts. You can develop a habit of doing it for just 10 minutes a day which is enough to drastically change your life. The main thing I've conciously learnt from it is how to keep focus and look at a situation objectively. I recommend using a guided meditation phone app to remind you when to start each day. Smiling mind is a free …
/r/seduction07/02/18 10:57 AM
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You want to get her to invest in you emotionally. Make out with her for 20 seconds then have a 30-60 sec conversation. Then make out with her for 40 seconds and have a conversation again, build rapport + be playfull in your convos. After that the second step is to get her outside, you can have an easy excuse for that like "Hey i'm feeling hot let's go outside and chill". There you can talk to her more and get her to invest, you can also make out more. Ask her if she wants to go watch you get a b…
/r/seduction07/02/18 10:44 AM
1

"I was fighting Nazis in ww2 when one of them got a lucky shot across the face before I killed him."
/r/seduction06/02/18 09:18 AM
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Good for you man, let loose just be carefull not to lose anything along the way.
/r/seduction06/02/18 09:16 AM
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What you wrote makes no sense. You WANT to hook up with her? But you feel BAD if you do? So you do nothing? How to get over anything: Exposure therapy. Go to a club tonight and compliment 10 different women. Go ask girls for the time, then when she says it tell her that she looks cute then leave.
/r/seduction05/02/18 01:20 PM
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tbh if I were you I would cancel the lunch date. It offers 0 opportunity to escalate. Go have a drink with her or play pool some time in the evening. For a lunch date to turn into another date it basically needs to be absolutely perfect. When a girl gets to know you more in a /safe/ non escalating context her misterious image of you which is her main attraction point will vanish and unless your vibe is absolutely spot on she will likely move on.
/r/seduction05/02/18 10:30 AM
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I'm looking at this from the Chad's perspective. Why was he scared off by the guy that watched them grind on the dance floor? Did he fear the relentless beta warrior?
/r/TheRedPill29/01/18 12:07 PM
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I meant subtle by inviting her to do a date activity and just escalate physically from that. The way you phrased it it sounded like you were gonna just confess to her randomly in the afternoon. If you do confess do it from a position of power at least. Girls friendzone like crazy if you don't act man.
/r/seduction05/01/18 02:20 PM
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It's highly likely that you've been friendzoned. Also this isn't some anime that's not how you start relationships with people. You should be more subtle about it.
/r/seduction05/01/18 12:46 PM
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Lol but jokes on him if he agreed to a LDR with her. Those things almost always crash and burn. What works is imagining some chad having an easy one night stand on your unicorn and pumping and dumping her because he didn't think she was that special. And the reality is that she's probably just some normal girl and not even that interesting.
/r/seduction05/01/18 12:35 PM
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dude, doomsday plan should be to just get a mail order bride from Ukraine or something. I think the male wall starts at 50-60?
/r/seduction03/01/18 09:29 AM
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You should've just invited her over and been "no fucks given" about it I think. By denying her you showed some insecurity. Besides... you don't have sex with your mouth ;)
/r/seduction03/01/18 09:18 AM
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I think it might be usefull only when she asks what you do or about hobbies or something else to show high value but it must absolutely look authentic and non needy. It's just a better idea to develop killer improvisation skills I believe, since seduction is very situational.
/r/seduction03/01/18 09:10 AM
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Ultimately the image that a girl last got from you when you were with her is the thing she will feel when you first speak to her online. But if you talk too much bullshit she will lose attraction. So the best you can do is make a few witty jokes then arrange to meet somewhere.
/r/seduction03/01/18 09:00 AM
2

I enjoy LTRs and want to eventually have children and settle. ^
/r/askTRP22/12/17 12:25 PM
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What you did was retarded. What did you gain from the whole interaction? In the gym he completely out-ranks you and could potentially sabotage any future things you might try in the gym (like picking up women). Was that small establishing dominance worth it?
/r/askTRP22/12/17 10:59 AM
1

Women in Italy are significantly harder to game than elsewhere in Europe. More of a slut shaming culture thing.
/r/GEOTRP17/09/17 02:59 PM
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I think this isn't necessarely saying she wants to fuck other guys or become a stripper but it may mean that she wants to do kinkier things in the bedroom. Maybe she is getting bored with sex? Or she might be just curious.
/r/askTRP13/09/17 01:38 PM
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Give a hint to one of them that you are sexually interested in her friend. Or many hints as high school girls are dumb. By hint I mean subtle things like talking more to her friend than her. You shouls be-friend her somehow aswell.
/r/askTRP13/09/17 04:49 AM
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Will you regret it on your death bed if you don't sleep with random girls? Shouldn't you rather utilise the awesome relationship you have to reach your true potential? At the end of the day all sex is is just hormones and chemical reactions and utterly pointless except for pair bonding and creating offspring. You should stick to what you have untill you have a good reason to either dump her or replace her with someone who can help you towards your life goal.
/r/askTRP12/09/17 06:13 PM
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Is he in the top 10% of guys and can easily switch? I think guys are really impressed when they see a girl trying to self improve as most of them are lazy af in a relationship.
/r/askTRP12/09/17 06:27 AM
2

Well. First ask yourself if you are willing to risk losing him only because of your pride. Would it be worse to live with him but losing your pride or without him but self improved/with pride?
/r/askTRP12/09/17 06:13 AM
2

Response:"Yeah...as long as she cooks and cleans and takes the kids to school I woun't punish her often." Over the top ftw.
/r/askTRP11/09/17 05:37 PM
1

Aside all the stuff people said it can also be for validation and a result of low self esteem.
/r/askTRP11/09/17 05:35 PM
1

I somewhat agree with this... but it sounds way too black and white and something 4chan /pol/ people would say.
/r/askTRP11/09/17 06:15 AM
2

Thing is... I think you might've hit a nerve with that. Whatever "honest talk" you give her will be interpreted by her as hamstering. Don't try saying that shes not fat and so on. She will believe the opposite. Feel out the waters. Ask out + abundance mentality
/r/askTRP10/09/17 07:15 PM
2

Tell her that that if she doesn't date you now you will kill her whole family with knives. Works 100%.
/r/askTRP10/09/17 07:12 PM
2

Haha you really did fuck up OP. What was her reaction to you saying that? Was she sad about it? Still what you did is a LOOT better than being too friendly and getting friendzoned. This could be salvageable or not but it depends on how into you she was.
/r/askTRP10/09/17 05:35 PM
2

r/askmen is a complete smokeshow. Talking? Actions speak louder than words. Words are cheap.
/r/askTRP10/09/17 05:22 PM
1

Of course. But it might be easier for you to bag HB8 or HB9 in this case rather than her. God speed!
/r/askTRP10/09/17 04:57 PM
2

She is used to you being her beta orbiter. Unless you increase your SMV very drastically she won't notice you. Lol she has a "beta boyfriend" aswell. My advice is to try to hit on other girls and see what her reaction is.
/r/askTRP10/09/17 05:49 AM
2

It's pretty straight forward if she accuses you of inser random negative thing here. Just say something that goes with her story. For example if you tell her you study some STEM field and she asks if you're a nerd who studies a lot you should mention how today you've already studied 8 hours but still need to complete the quota of 16 then make a funny nerd noise. Sarcastic tone of voice works aswell.
/r/askTRP08/09/17 07:00 PM
2

Shit test means agree and amplify or dismiss completely and joke. Usually the first one is nicer. Read the sidebar pls ------>
/r/askTRP08/09/17 06:49 PM
1

Best of luck to you man. I can't imagine what being with someone like that for 29 years must feel like. Hopefully you will find peace. Cheers.
/r/askTRP08/09/17 11:10 AM
3

Girl: to be a baby? You: today mommy bought me a new blue bottle because I'm a big boy now. Or someshit like that.
/r/askTRP08/09/17 08:39 AM
1

Holy shit man. That's some serious baggage. Well at least you learned a loooot from it all. Like not to trust broken bitches bitches and to always trust your gut feeling.
/r/askTRP08/09/17 08:29 AM
1

Haunted? How so?
/r/askTRP08/09/17 07:46 AM
1

I had a similar experience only much much worse. The point remains that she's an adult and adults should be able to handle emotional pain without resorting to the things she did. Did you know before the breakup that she could've done something like this? No? Well even if you did why should she stand in the way of your happyness? I think it was all an unfortunate twist of faith. There are a lot of factors in play that you also probably didn't tell us about because they're so small but ultimately …
/r/askTRP08/09/17 06:19 AM
1

Amen to that. I had a similar experience although the difference was that the girl wasn't really good at manipulating so I bailed. But I too was seduced by the vast ammount of good sex and kept ignoring red flags. Cheers!
/r/askTRP08/09/17 06:03 AM
1

An interesting one is cognitive sciences if you have it. It involves aspects of medicine,computer science, psychology and sociology and pedagology (raising kids). I'm not sure how usefull it is but apparently the people who do it here in Europe find jobs.
/r/askTRP07/09/17 06:11 AM
3

I don't know... maybe get a prostitute first and then try shagging your friend? Just in case it's just the dry spell.
/r/askTRP07/09/17 05:51 AM
2

I still can't comprehend what kind of lunacy this is. Parents make you pay rent at 23? Sure it makes you contribute to the household more but it seems kind of counter-productive as you are all the same family anyway and you want your children to succeed and not suck money out of them. It must be an Anglo thing. Otherwise solid post.
/r/askTRP04/09/17 06:03 AM
5

Italy is particularly vicious - they fuck tourists like on a factory belt. What everyone else is saying here is true.
/r/askTRP31/08/17 05:09 AM
2

An ex. plate of mine did not have a phone and she was fucking crazy. It happens.
/r/askTRP29/08/17 04:11 PM
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You need to give us more context. Does she seem like the sort of girl that doesn't have a phone?
/r/askTRP29/08/17 12:04 PM
1

Wait - you're from Italy and you're having trouble in Belgium? Isn't the seduction scene in Italy so god damn impossibly brutal that if you grew up there you're obviously a game expert? Di dove sei?
/r/GEOTRP29/08/17 06:27 AM
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Indeed it's weird. I may just be good looking or something but it wasn't always like this. In italy where game is super tight I couldn't pull for shit. Coming back home the standard is more lax.
/r/askTRP27/08/17 01:43 PM
1

Thanks for the link. Will put it in practice soon.
/r/askTRP27/08/17 01:40 PM
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So you obviously need someone to tell you TO LEAVE HER NOW. Ignore her. She's negatively effecting your life. You cannot fix a broken relationship. Whatever value she might give you - sex of whatever is not worth it. You will easily find someone better than her in a couple of months. Just don't contact her at all and don't let her contact you and seduce you with the prospect of sex for another relationship. Masturbate and forget. Self improve. Lift!
/r/TheRedPill19/08/17 08:05 PM
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What's her background? Age? Education? Etc. Is she more physically attractive than you? How much money do you have? Etc. Is she a very rational person?
/r/TheRedPill16/08/17 08:55 AM
1

Oh my god! If she lied about her age this is a serious fucking issue. RUUUUUUUN! She also probably has a deformed world view. She will eat him alive...
/r/TheRedPill16/08/17 06:04 AM
3

True story. I myself was on studying abroad on an exchange program for 1 year and as I first met people there a lot of exchange program girls already had boyfriends at home. Maybe as much as 60% of them. So when they first told me that I was disappointed and thought it couldn't work out. But roughly 1-2 months in about 80% of them cheated or broke up with their SO's. One girl even set up an open relationship (LOL) with her SO's that would allow them (her) to fuck whoever they (she) wanted. I mys…
/r/TheRedPill09/08/17 02:54 PM
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GET THE FUCK OUT NOOOOOW! This chick has serious problems, she lied to you to conceal her imperfections. Who knows about what else she's capable of lying? Is this the first red flag you noticed?
/r/TheRedPill14/07/17 02:20 PM
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Maybe he was just being sarcastic? Fuck him again and make both of your lives happier pls. :)
/r/askTRP22/12/16 04:49 PM
1

Thanks for the rundown man. Thing is I thought I had already won at this point and had my guard down because of it.
/r/askTRP28/09/16 04:35 PM
1

How did you achieve little to no approach anxiety? I've been following GLLs program for a while but have only reached 50% of it.
/r/seduction02/06/16 06:56 AM
2

Lunch is a bad idea because there's no excuse to escelate and further your courtship. Sure it's better than not seeing her for 5 years but you should probably set up something more nightly, go for a drink or what not (if you can drink in your country legally that is).~~~~
/r/seduction01/06/16 01:00 PM
1

I like that you have the balls to be direct af, but doing something like that in an university where you study isn't the smartest thing to do since you could get a bad reputation. You clearly aren't afraid to approach, take 10 mins to talk to a girl and build some minor rapport before going for the number, your success rate will be higher. Cheers!
/r/seduction01/06/16 12:54 PM
1

Thanks I actually needed that reminder! The real point is to have fun afterall. I'll totally go for it, if they don't have fun it's their problem.
/r/askTRP27/04/16 11:19 AM
2

From Europe here. On most of my dates after I say the obligatory "I got this!" when the cheque arrives the girls usually offer to pay half and I let them. Is this just an European thing? Note that I never do the dinner date thing as I'm young as fuck. Drinks only pls.
/r/TheRedPill06/02/16 09:22 PM
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I'm from a small town in Europe(Slovenia) and people aren't really strict with alcohol... it's also a youth area of town where plenty of people hang. I normally jokingly ask that they need to make it up to me and take me out for a drink. So it's not all that "hello kind madame would you be so kind as to indulge in alcohol consumption in the company of yours truly".
/r/askTRP14/10/15 06:38 PM
1

Fuck your ex. focus on fresh pussy. Ex will realise you're a hot commodity.
/r/askTRP14/10/15 01:48 PM
1

I speak Italian and I approve that PDF. Good stuff m8.
/r/seduction16/09/15 12:46 PM
1

Well if you don't act on a girl wanting you she'll eventually stop being like that. You have to be like crack... their addiciton.
/r/seduction16/09/15 12:33 PM
1

If you're physically better looking than her by a looooot you can get away with being really really nice :) - her prince Charming.
/r/seduction13/09/15 03:28 PM
1

Try estacy if you really must try a drug to achieve a more confident feeling. It's not that addicting and it makes you euphoric and heightens your sense of connection with others - meaning you feel sorry for the people around you and just want to help everyone out. Altruism at it's best. :) You feel like a saint among men. PS. A friend told me it's like that, I never tried it. ;)
/r/seduction04/09/15 11:52 AM
1

No. If she sends you paragraphs and roleplays with you and if your conversation is sexualized and fun she's into you. You should meet her IRL ASAP to F-close.
/r/seduction02/09/15 03:35 PM
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That's a bad angle - let me help you choose a better one ;)
/r/seduction01/09/15 07:23 PM
1

To be honest it just takes a lot of in field experience. No magic formula for it.
/r/seduction25/08/15 11:42 AM
1

Well new girl sends me walls of text regarding a few regular topics + we're roleplaying a sex scenario on some boat atm with each person adding something to the story. I respond with about 1/2 of her walls. IK IK TRP says to only text for logistics but I'm away so I might aswell build some rapport. Conversation is very sexualized - I have a feeling she doesn't have that much experience(if any).
/r/askTRP24/08/15 05:44 PM
2

Hey pretty mamma - you're pretty, I'm pretty - what do ya say we both go home and stare at eachother.
/r/seduction24/08/15 07:23 AM
9

I think you failed a shit test there - when he asked you if you liked her you should have agreed and amplified. Yeah, I've been writting poems to her since I was 7 and had her in my mind the whole of high school hell I even got her name tattoed on my left nipple. My heart is now crushed!
/r/seduction24/08/15 07:01 AM
3

I would recommend Hamlet - although it's not really about relationships it has proof of hypergamy in it with the wife of the previous king marrying his brother, the new king Claudius. Kind of an Alpha vs Alpha mentality going on too. Hamlet's also pretty beta at first with Opehelia but then he starts ignoring her and giving her tingles. Oh and don't forget Hamlets famous quote:"Frailty, thy name is woman."
/r/TheRedPill20/08/15 07:49 AM
2

Agree with Turlast! Fuck those limits right in the pussy! Your situation of adaptation doesn't mean SHIT! Just imagine for example the hardships of being in a foreign country in a time of war and famine, unable to speak the language, psychologically fucked up from 2 years of war in the mountains with Russians. That's a pretty hopeless situation if you ask me yet humans survived that. You can't be telling me that just because you missed oh say 10 formative years that you can't be a normal human b…
/r/seduction19/08/15 07:15 AM
1

Hi, although I'm taller I was in similar shoes as you about 12 months ago. But I have great news, there's a program online that can help you sistematically kill your approach anxiety - one step at a time. http://www.goodlookingloser.com/entry/approach-anxiety-program/approach-anxiety-program-week-1-1 For example the first drill to do is just ask 5 girls for the time. It starts off slow and makes you realise that girls are just human afterall and that most people don't react toxically to you. I s…
/r/seduction18/08/15 06:55 PM
1

Well if you notice she's talking to some guy for waaay to long just drop by and say "hi" - joke around with him and gently let him know she's taken. Dominating the conversation is key.
/r/seduction18/08/15 11:23 AM
2

Your biggest concern should be showing your girlfriend that you can compete with all those club assholes that will try hitting on her. Not in dancing but in being "alpha" in general. You shouldn't be too clingy - try to talk to other people while there as much as possible. Tease your girlfriend and be playfull. Cock block guys who try to approach her.
/r/seduction18/08/15 07:00 AM
1

Lel - so we should do extensive research on every single woman beforehand too make sure not too somehow wreck the low confidence of that 2-6% of the population that has low self esteem and is also attractive?
/r/seduction18/08/15 06:51 AM
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I'm guessing you lost frame - when she started getting all turned off you should have started joking about it. You screwed up if you told her in all seriousness about /r/seduction - that's like a girl telling a guy that her boobs are fake.
/r/seduction17/08/15 09:05 AM
2

Not sure what you're on about. I think anyone can become socially skillfull with practice. If you're building rapport you could, but it's best not to keep the conversation too serious and focus more on light topics. Well if it takes you more than 2 seconds to think of an answer to her shit test you might aswell ignore it or change subject.
/r/seduction17/08/15 08:39 AM
2

Ask questions and don't give a shit. If she's interested in you she'll start to ask you questions back. So if you ask something and her response is like... yeah I did that when I was X in Y because Z you can then either ask a question regarding topic X,Y or Z. Also try to avoid conversation breakers like changing subjects suddenly for example if she says:"Yesterday I was at the hair salon and there was this funny man with a toupey(no idea how it's spelled srry) standing next to me and I just cou…
/r/seduction16/08/15 04:27 PM
2

I feel sympathy for you and your predicament and think that the ones who did that to you should be jailed however you can usually spot who has low self esteem and who's just even subconciously fishing for validation. Blonde bimbo with 1k+ facebook friends who gets 200+ likes on selfies vs reserved school girl who hangs with 1-2 close friends on a daily basis and is pretty selective to who she talks to.
/r/seduction16/08/15 11:32 AM
0

Umm... standard shit test - she wants your validation. Call her out on it. Oooh you - you're fishing for compliments aren't you? How dare you! Or something like that.
/r/seduction16/08/15 10:16 AM
1

I have to say I used to think about what people will remember me by on my funeral but honestly. I don't see the point in being "remembered" and find that it's just another source of validation even after death. What drives me in life is the need to find out about myself - finding out how good I can become and if I can reach my maximum potential as a human I will die happily even if it's in a ditch in a nuclear wasteland being eaten by worms and forgotten forever.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/15 12:25 PM
1

True - they're quite similar. Only thing I really found new was the .NET framework.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/15 06:42 AM
1

I agree with your first point OP. Just recently I managed to get a job working for an independent software developer in c# a language I never programmed in or had much experience with. We did however learn Java and I basically lied stating that we learned C#. He wanted to see some of my work so I basically re-made my semester project in c# for him. White lies ftw!
/r/TheRedPill12/08/15 05:27 PM
1

Yeah, although at the end he gets oneitis again. And settles for a girl with a low partner count??? Also women are sometimes portrayed as better than life in Gantz(Like how Reika sticks around).
/r/TheRedPill10/08/15 06:49 AM
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Some non beta mangas for you folks: Shamo,Ichi the Killer,Homonculus,Strain,Sanctuary,Heat,Lord...and maybe more. Death Note for the dark triad factor? Warning: Some are very fucked up.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/15 05:46 PM
1

Why aren't Korean feminists cracking down on this?
/r/TheRedPill08/08/15 11:37 AM
1

Good reply! Honestly yes I don't have anyone better at the moment--- since my main source of girls is through social circles and hobbies. I really don't have the balls to cold approach randomly on the street. I'll try to escalate on this one and hopefully see where it goes.
/r/askTRP16/02/15 08:00 PM
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The existing plate comes from a very conservative background (strict catholic parents) so I doubt she'd be down for a threesome just yet ;)
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