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ok fatty
/r/seduction07/05/14 10:07 PM
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Squeeze her buttocks next time you dance practice as a test to see how responsive she is
/r/seduction07/05/14 05:39 PM
-20

Sounds like a slut
/r/seduction07/05/14 05:38 PM
2

Convince yourself that no matter what happens, it's fucking OK
/r/seduction06/05/14 01:43 PM
2

"Decent looking guy".........if you were you would get some responses
/r/seduction06/05/14 01:35 PM
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Wait hold on OP, you said you are from Mumbai? Do people use Tinder there? Man I wish i could use my Tinder to match with girls there. My advice: DO NOT take any bathroom/mirror selfies. Pick pics that clearly show your face, make you look GOOD (a good face is the most important thing for tinder), pics with friends in a social setting, pics with a cool/adventurous background. No closet/mirror/bathroom selfies!
/r/seduction06/05/14 01:28 PM
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This happened to me before when I was a beta chump. I was waiting for my food at a take-out place and a BEAUTIFUL mixed/latino girl was standing there too. I could have sworn she glanced at me a few times but I was convincing myself there was no fucking way a girl as hot as her would look at me. We made eye contact one more time and then I was like fuck it... I'm gonna say SOMETHING to her. We both ended up speaking at the exact same time... Her: you have gorgeous eyes Me: are you black? ..... H…
/r/seduction06/05/14 01:20 PM
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So i'm assuming it doesn't work for you?
/r/seduction01/05/14 03:27 PM
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I've read the Game, and I used to frequent PUA forums back in the day... but not anymore. I know better now and I hate that term "pick up artist". What I really gained out of that stuff are some basic things that I did not realize before. Things that women find universally attractive like confidence, assertiveness, self-respect, body language, etc. I've learned things that are universally unattractive to girls like being needy, acting like a bitch, jealousy, insecurity, being too feminine, alway…
/r/seduction29/04/14 08:12 PM
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You invite one at a time in advance... either texting the girls most likely to respond first and going down, or the ones you want the most first. You just start doing this ahead of time so it gives you time to invite the next one as the last one denies or doesn't respond. I wouldn't say YOU NEED TO RSVP... just keep it relaxed. If more than one girl responds just pick one, if a girl responds after you pick someone else be like, too late bitch.
/r/seduction29/04/14 07:49 PM
-1

why are you trying to prove yourself to me?
/r/seduction29/04/14 06:04 PM
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You with you stylish ferdona hat and bearded neck will NEVER have a reputation as a player... so don't even worry about it
/r/seduction29/04/14 05:31 PM
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lol'd at "how's your week? :)" You sound like a pussy. But I was like that too when I was 19... and maybe girls your age prefer justin beiber boys instead of men, so keep at it. As far as you waiting 2 days to text back, and waiting for her to text you so you can "trap" her into answering your call... childish. Text her and call her exactly when you feel like it, don't become a tool with this PUA stuff
/r/seduction29/04/14 05:27 PM
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All women are different, just like any other human being... how a girl responds one way doesn't mean you'll get the same response out of other girls. Sometimes it looks good when you are being honest like that, sometimes it doesn't... depends more on how you say it. It's way better to say that you're nervous/shy if you don't seem nervous and come off very confident. If you are literally shaking when you say "I'm nervous" you will come off as a pussy... she may be nice to you and talk back, but y…
/r/seduction29/04/14 05:22 PM
2

please tell me more... is it legal in mexico? are the girls hawt?
/r/seduction29/04/14 05:16 PM
1

what wud a virgin like u know?
/r/seduction29/04/14 05:05 PM
-2

If u didn't fuck her already welcome to teh friendz zone my boy
/r/seduction29/04/14 05:05 PM
-8

lol at this loser beta giving me advice on tinder... lol
/r/seduction29/04/14 03:49 PM
3

Have you seen that guy's avi? It has nothing to do with that line
/r/seduction25/04/14 10:58 PM
1

He's tall and approaches strong with a lot of confidence. He doesn't register as a nerd to the girls just because he's trying to dress like one
/r/seduction24/04/14 08:01 PM
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I don't believe in PUA nonsense. It has some solid fundamentals in building attraction but I don't do any routines, mind games, negs, memorize dialogue etc.. I have a good sense of what girls find attractive and what they don't so I try to act like myself keeping that in mind. I'm a sarcastic person / straight forward and that's how I act on tinder and in real life. Yea I'm a little more extreme on tinder but when I get positive replies like this what makes you think I'm going to start over and …
/r/seduction24/04/14 06:05 PM
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It's ok, I'm like that too sometimes. I find it easy to start with girls you don't find attractive (like fat girls... who should feel intimidated by you w/ your great body) to build up my confidence and move up form there. Sometimes when I go out I feel like a bitch for no reason. But I just push myself to talk to as many girls as I can, get rejected like 10 times in a row... and after a point I get so immune to the rejections that I become less of a bitch and my mindset is completely changed, t…
/r/seduction24/04/14 05:14 PM
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It's okay to have 1 selfie if your face looks really attractive in it. (a normal face, not a stupid try-hard face, or high angles like girls do). But don't take it inside a bathroom or next to your closet in your room. Better yet, get a photo timer app on your phone, set your phone up somewhere with a good background/setting and take like 20-30 pics until you find one that looks good lol. Try to have at least one or two pics in a social setting with friends, one with a scenic background as if yo…
/r/seduction24/04/14 05:01 PM
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I'm in Atlanta, but I get way more matches when I travel to places like NYC. Tinder is a good app to connect with random girls in different parts of the country and maybe keep them in the back pocket in case you visit again. I get a lot of brown girl matches too but I hate getting those because I'm all about the white girls atm. Off the top of my head I know NYC, Dallas and Houston (even Atlanta) has a big indian population. Personally I wouldn't move somewhere based on that criteria alone
/r/seduction24/04/14 04:44 PM
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I'm brown and i would say semi-attractive (to some), but not enough to make it easy
/r/seduction24/04/14 04:39 PM
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I understand, I find it harder to approach girls during the day too. But I noticed its actually much easier to approach during the day because girls don't expect it and they have their bitch shields down. You just have to not feel awkward yourself
/r/seduction24/04/14 04:36 PM
-1

When you say big boobs... does it come with a big belly too? and why are you bragging about sex when u know this place is full of neckbeard virgins who need help.
/r/seduction24/04/14 02:58 PM
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And there you have it folks, my field report of the day. Just closed a # with no kino
/r/seduction24/04/14 02:56 PM
2

I'm 25, good looking, have a great career, in amazing shape Man get the fuck outta here and stop being a little bitch.. you have everything you need to make it easy for you. What's the worst that can happen if you approach a girl? She rejects you?? What's the best thing that could happen? You meet a potential friend, a girlfriend, or a hookup.... if you have any brains at all you can see the risk vs reward ratio is completely in your favor
/r/seduction24/04/14 02:47 PM
6

what's your #?
/r/seduction24/04/14 02:37 PM
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what if i put my finger in your mouth?
/r/seduction24/04/14 02:32 PM
3

Stop being a little bitch and stop relying on alcohol to talk to girls.
/r/seduction24/04/14 02:28 PM
1

Don't think of them as "hotter girls"... they are just girls and there are billions of them. You have just as much to offer as they do, maybe not in looks but in other ways
/r/seduction24/04/14 02:27 PM
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90% of girls on Tinder are looking for cawk or a relationship. Most of them will say some BS like "I'm just here for fun" or "I'm trying to meet new people" but they just won't admit that they are thirsty. It's a very judgmental/superficial app that's purely based off looks so treat it that way when you get a match. With that said, it is pretty great. It's insanely popular so you will see a lot of girls, even super hot girls (especially in big cities) and I even saw girls I know personally which…
/r/seduction24/04/14 01:55 PM
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Damn, makes me feel sad for some reason. It also means there's a lot of amazing people out there but you will never meet them.
/r/seduction22/04/14 01:47 AM
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Good job, but next time don't even let yourself fall for a girl like this and let it negatively affect your life. Walk away as soon as you realize you are heading that route.
/r/seduction22/04/14 01:44 AM
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Me: “Do you have an estimated time for me to be ready by?” Her: “No I have to get this car thing done. I’m sorry. I’m just busy.” Me: “Wait so no estimated time? Or no hanging tonight?” I knew immediately you were sounding like a needy person, and she responds with "I'm sorry I feel overwhelmed". Just chill out man, like you said stop over analyzing everything. From reading these texts it feels to me that you are very anxious to hang out with her again, and I guarantee you that it looks the same…
/r/seduction21/04/14 03:39 PM
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just be fucking genuine , false compliments are ruining everything
/r/seduction21/04/14 03:26 PM
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Not bad, I like that ur aggressive and confident. lol @ you trying to go for a kiss during a regular conversation. i live in dallas too, holla if u want a wingman next wknd. edit - but I do have to say you start strong with a lot of confidence and then go into boring interview mode. And then it sounds like you go for a kiss while she is talking, sometimes too soon imo. When I do this kind of stuff I don't do it while we are having a boring "what school do you go to, etc" conversation first of al…
/r/seduction21/04/14 02:48 PM
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You can just use your iphone or s5. Don't take selfies or mirror shots.. make sure the camera is not in your hands. I usually ask someone to take a pic of me in a social setting. If you're at home or at some cool area outdoors get a timer app and set the phone somewhere and have it take like 20 photos of your in different positions. You'll find one that's good
/r/seduction21/04/14 02:45 PM
1

I take one of my dick instead
/r/seduction21/04/14 02:40 PM
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I'm sorry but you are completely clueless. None of those lines are meant to be serious at all. You would say it in a way that lets her know immediately that you are not being serious, or rude, or threatening.. It should feel like you are being playful and just having fun. The fact that you are taking the words so literally shows that you have no idea how to do that. The point is not to come off as an asshole. It's much better than going "oh.. u have a bf? ok, sorry" derp, but that's my opinion. …
/r/seduction14/04/14 01:59 PM
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I don't see how what I said was rude or something a tool would say. It's not negative at all
/r/seduction14/04/14 11:15 AM
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That's ok, I hate you too
/r/seduction14/04/14 10:59 AM
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I don't think there is a pre-requisite for approaching girls like there is for calculus, so your analogy doesn't really apply imo. It is certainly not looks and it's not like OP is mentally handicapped and unable to socially interact. Also i'm not telling him to approach instead of going to the gym/therapy. He asked if he should be approaching now while going through self-improvement or hold off til after. I don't see any issue with him starting now, it would be worse for him to wait and expect …
/r/seduction14/04/14 10:51 AM
2

it's all about delivery ;)
/r/seduction14/04/14 04:25 AM
2

Maybe that wasn't the right word to use. But I would rather walk away saying something else besides 'he's a lucky guy'
/r/seduction14/04/14 01:27 AM
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Don't ever say something lame like "ohh he's a lucky man!" ...i mean she just rejected you why are you complimenting her? where does this get you? Say something like, "oh and is he bigger than me?" "well good thing he's not your husband" , "i have one too but you don't see me bringing him up" ...you will probably end the convo if she has a bf, but at least leave with some dignity
/r/seduction13/04/14 11:40 PM
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i'm not giving serious advice.. OP is asking how to get girls to check him out. All that really comes down to is looks.
/r/seduction13/04/14 10:57 PM
0

That and maybe plastic surgery depending on your facial aesthetics. If you want girls to check you out, you just need to be hot
/r/seduction13/04/14 09:36 PM
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I find that it's better to allow these silences to happen once in a while instead of worrying about it and constantly trying to fill the void. I like to be a situational talker, like let the conversation be driven from what's around me, from things I find out about the girl, etc so I can talk about what I want to talk about and ask her things I genuinely want to know. If they have a certain interest, hobby or something they are passionate about I talk about that too. I don't like to rely on a 'o…
/r/seduction13/04/14 09:21 PM
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Completely disagree with the top comment form Alexbass96, so much that I felt like responding and I sincerely hope you read my response. You need to start approaching now. No matter what skill you develop in life practice will make you better. This cannot apply more to approaching strangers and putting yourself in uncomfortable situations (like talking to a random hot girl)... the more you do it the better you will become, there is no way around that. You need to get over the thought that reject…
/r/seduction13/04/14 08:54 PM
1

What kind of neg? If it's a neg about their appearance you are basically gambling because some girls will react more negatively than others. I prefer a humorous/playful opener that might at the least crack a smile from them--ie. "Damn girl you make me wanna knit matching sweaters for the both of us"
/r/seduction13/04/14 08:44 PM
2

You guys really need to focus more on what makes a guy attractive to women and develop those attributes instead of trying to come up with seduction/pua techniques to trick a girl into liking you. If I was interested in a girl, I wouldn't "act disinterested" to "increase value" and play mind tricks with her... this is highschool shit and if you're under 21 then by all means go ahead. I would actually talk to her.. see if she's worth it, if she's even slightly interested, hit on her and subconscio…
/r/seduction13/04/14 08:27 PM
-7

You sound a little upset that I was able to summarize your entire post without reading it.
/r/seduction13/04/14 08:23 PM
-6

Just read TLDR, is that whole passage really just about you kissing a girl? lol Either way, nice. ;)
/r/seduction13/04/14 06:34 PM
3

Don't listen to the top voted (happy)jerk in the replies. Here's my takeaway: You did not get a lapdance, yet you still got her #, went on a date and made out with her. Mad respect man. At least this shows that she definitely likes you (she even said she had a crush on you?!) and not just trying to hustle you like most strippers do. I've had a thing for strippers too and even if it's a short and open relationship I would not mind dating one myself. When you go back home you need to go on another…
/r/seduction13/04/14 04:26 PM
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Analyzing every little detail is what girls do, NOT guys. When you text your best friend (guy) do you re-read your text multiple times and analyze the shit out of making the best text possible before you send it?? Of course not. You have confidence in yourself and your friend's ability to receive your text in a positive way. Do the same with girls, don't waste brain power over analyzing BS
/r/seduction13/04/14 04:08 PM
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I said "TL;DR" because I did not read the post. I think some people were confused and thought I tried to summarize OP's post.
/r/seduction13/04/14 03:49 AM
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Practice talking to as many random people as you can. Girls, guys, strangers, homeless people, etc. There's no trick to becoming 'fun' but it starts with confidence. Everyone has their own sense of humor and style of fun and after you gain the confidence you will start to focus on entertaining yourself and having fun and less on what other people are thinking. Watch some simplepickup videos on youtube
/r/seduction12/04/14 11:41 PM
1

You haven't truly accepted this if you say you become "quieter than usual", sounds like seeing other girls give him more attention makes you a bit insecure. Think about advantages you got over him, no one's perfect, do you have a better sense of humor? Play your other strengths besides looks. Be confident, fun and funny. If you get quite you become the boring beta boy. Instead be the life of the party, let the strangers feel like you are the leader. That's hella attractive too. Use your friend's…
/r/seduction12/04/14 10:46 PM
2

Lol at her driving. Lol at not inviting her up. Lol at the idea of texting her and admitting you "screwed up". Please don't do that. You like her a lot? Tell it to her face not thru some fucking text. Act normal, go on another date and this time tell her to go in the parking lot cuz she's not leaving til you offer her a drink upstairs.
/r/seduction12/04/14 10:05 PM
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TL;DR It's not "don't give a shit about them", it's about not being needy/desperate/easy/insecure. There's a huge difference. Of course they want you to "give a shit about them"
/r/seduction12/04/14 09:12 PM
1

"So _____ ... I'm gonna be gone for a while. Let me get your number so I can flirt with you thru text like a normal person." Say it with full confidence, say "let me" not "can I"...even if she says no it makes you look attractive because you have balls
/r/seduction11/04/14 07:19 PM
1

Best response yet. Thank you for this. You are absolutely right, even if it's true thinking about this will fuck with my head and bring down my confidence. Good find those girls who want the brown D ;)
/r/seduction11/04/14 07:14 PM
2

Did you know these girls for a while? You got friendzoned. You didn't escalate or bring up any kind of sexual attraction early on, they saw you as a friend and now it's too late. You gotta plant the seeds early
/r/seduction11/04/14 07:11 PM
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This. Dear god don't respond to your own question or call them out about it.... makes you look like a pussy and it'll get you nowhere. Just think of you being in their shoes: When someone messages you, you obviously see the message or the notification. Now if you don't find that person attractive or just don't want to talk to them for whatever reason, why would you message them back? Also, consider that since she is a GIRL, she is getting at LEAST 10 other messages form different dudes. Unless s…
/r/seduction11/04/14 06:42 PM
2

yeah i guess, fuck!
/r/seduction11/04/14 03:33 PM
6

Approached 50 girls at the bar last night. Success: 0 Failed: 50
/r/seduction11/04/14 03:32 PM
1

Confidence is sexy. Insecurity ruins everything. Rejection is common. Believe it and you will do fine
/r/seduction11/04/14 03:20 PM
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