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Dahka/r/seduction27/09/12 03:51 AM
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If you have this attitude down, then just keep swinging. Eventually you'll hit one out of the park. It's just a matter of time. You can't win them all, but in 10 years you're not going to remember the rejections, you'll just remember the girl.
/r/seduction27/09/12 05:55 PM
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You probably just need to get better. Might suck to hear it, but college should be an easy place to get girls, and if it isn't, it's a fantastic place to work on your skills, so just keep swinging.
/r/seduction27/09/12 11:17 AM
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Not 21, but from a part of the world where the legal age is 19. Bowling is unfortunately far away or I'd be up for it. As far as seeming like her gay friend, I already told her I was going to ask her out and that we were going to go on a date. I don't think I really have to worry about coming off as gay, I don't really care if I come off as bi, and in either case I think the more important factor is the kino.
/r/seduction27/09/12 11:12 AM
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Do your normal thing but with your lady friend with you and helping out?
/r/seduction27/09/12 05:36 AM
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amen brother
/r/seduction27/09/12 04:14 AM
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Keep them at a distance, don't become an emotional tampon, wait until they break up, and depending on your goal, move quickly or wait a bit then make a move.
/r/seduction27/09/12 04:04 AM
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This guy is saying the same thing as me, but he used lines and **** so I bow to his superior presentation skills.
/r/seduction27/09/12 04:03 AM
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You walk up and say hi, or ask some question that lets you start a conversation with her. Then you talk to her like you would any human being with a slight emphasis on being funny/interesting and making sure to touch her.
/r/seduction27/09/12 04:01 AM
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asking about her schedule doesn't make her time more important than your time, unless you literally have nothing planned but this girl. If you say "pick the day that is best for you", that's obviously a bad idea. If you say "I've got nothing for day x and day y, pick one and we're going out to do acivity z", that's just as good in my mind. If I ask you what days you're free, is your assumption that I am automatically going to be available for any day you answer? I doubt it. Like I'm not necessar…
/r/seduction27/09/12 03:57 AM
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Mind expanding on your stance a little? I'm rather fond of this line, and I've been using derivatives of it for a while without having seen this video. It's probably best not to be quite as meek as this guy is, but something like "Alright, which night are you coming out with me next week?" can potentially save a lot of time. Granted it's not quite as direct as "Hey, HB, [Date, time, location], be there be square", but it's also much less likely to backfire into a "oh you're busy ok well I'm only…
/r/seduction27/09/12 03:39 AM
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Basically. I don't really think about it, since I'm naturally a rather distant person. So I will generally just make sure that I'm throwing in the odd compliment and touch, and that's good enough. If she's interested, it works, if she isn't, it doesn't. Which is ultimately the truth for 95% of "game" anyways.
/r/seduction26/09/12 03:45 PM
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I don't kill time on ellipticals, so that's probably where my attitude comes from. It's not a big deal if it's between sets but if it's just to chat I'm probably not interested.
/r/seduction26/09/12 03:42 PM
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I don't know, but if you do it to me and it's not an emergency I will not be happy about it.
/r/seduction26/09/12 06:54 AM
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Don't think about it logically, that isn't the point. You know when you used to sit at home and think to yourself "**** does she like me? Does she not? I can't tell it's killing me"? You are trying to do that, but to her. It didn't make sense, looking back on it, but at the time, the irrationality of the situation was so far from being something you cared about, you couldn't see how dumb you were being.
/r/seduction26/09/12 06:50 AM
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No. You have to figure it out. There's no secret to "manning up". But if we can, you can bet that you can too.
/r/seduction26/09/12 05:46 AM
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“Well I think it’s a silly convention, if two people have a connection, it’s naturally going to lead where it will, dinner or no.” I think this was kind of a weak line. I'm also not really sure why you said this and then wouldn't agree that you thought you had a connection with her. You kind of picked a battle you weren't willing to fight, I guess. Or maybe it was one you already fought and didn't feel like revisiting? Based on your summary you were pretty much damned if you did damned if you di…
/r/seduction26/09/12 05:39 AM
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I think there is some wisdom here, but it must be taken with a large grain of "know who she is and what she wants". Also, moving "too quickly" is not as bad as moving "too slowly". That's always been my bottom line when I've had to stop myself to think about it.
/r/seduction26/09/12 05:22 AM
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I don't actively think about it, but I do tend to try to change up what I wear. I don't have Mon/Tue/Wed/Thur/Fri outfit, I kind of have a couple sets of pants and twice as many shirts and I mix and match as I see fit when I'm clothing myself in the AM. If I know for a fact that I'll be around a prospect I'm particularly interested in, I'll probably wear whatever's nicest that I have clean and matching well. The decision takes about 30 seconds longer than it normally would. I don't usually think…
/r/seduction26/09/12 04:21 AM
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The most alpha response is to say (1) "ok" and stop talking to her, or (2) to say "ok" and keep in touch with her but distance her from where she is now in your life. Both scenarios involve dating/sleeping with other women and not thinking about her as a sexual prospect again. I don't really think there's a verbal response to that that qualifies as alpha and will get you anywhere. Best to treat her as a lost cause and move on.
/r/seduction26/09/12 03:17 AM
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This is probably the best bet. My only worry would be that it could be interpreted as a touch passive-aggressive, but at this point you're better off going all in and getting something out of her than trying to play safe and getting nothing.
/r/seduction26/09/12 01:43 AM
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this is the difference between giving compliments and giving AWAY compliments.
/r/seduction25/09/12 04:18 AM
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Depends on the girl, really. I'd steer clear in general, since you're more likely to find someone put off by the though of you sleeping with other women than you are at finding someone turned on by it. Anti-slut defences and all that. Still, it happens, I wouldn't stop talking to girls because of a hickey or two.
/r/seduction24/09/12 10:30 PM
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I don't think you really know what you want, and until you do, it's going to be more or less impossible to tell you what the best course of action is.
/r/seduction24/09/12 05:29 AM
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Giving compliments is not a bad thing. Giving them away is. Flattery will only get you so far. I'm not saying you should never say positive things about a girl. I'm saying, with reference to my own experiences and with a girl chiming in to agree with me, that using a complement to get a conversation started with someone is a good way to get yourself added, in her mind at that moment in time, to a group of people that probably didn't end up getting anywhere with her. I'm not saying it won't work …
/r/seduction24/09/12 05:25 AM
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This is much better.
/r/seduction24/09/12 04:44 AM
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basically this they're forced to make up for their not-top-calibre looks by being more aggressive.
/r/seduction24/09/12 03:16 AM
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They don't have more chances, they just say stuff like that more. My point is just the type of person who throws complements away like that isn't generally the most desirable person. When I talk to hot girls, generally they play it more cautiously and don't come out and say stuff like that. It's the same reason why I don't like lines to the effect of "you were really cute so I had to come over and say hi". Hi is the most important part of that sentence. Just saying "hi" accomplishes the exact sa…
/r/seduction24/09/12 02:37 AM
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sure, it gets attention, but is it the kind of attention you want? The girls I get the most complements from are generally the ones I'm least interested in. They tend to be less attractive and less interesting to talk to. And very often they will lead with some type of complement. Just something to keep in mind.
/r/seduction23/09/12 09:14 PM
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Not a terrible line but I would never go up to someone with something like that. Giving away complements is generally a bad idea. I'd rather opt for something like "hi".
/r/seduction23/09/12 08:52 PM
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Startling her with it is probably a bad idea, but making it seem like a premeditated "coup de grace" is also a bad idea. Honestly, it'll depend on the person/circumstance. My best advice is to gauge her attraction and look for an opportunity to not-so-subtly get into her personal space. As far as the guy talking about "the look", you KNOW what "the look" is on her face, do something like that but more masculine. It's not exactly rocket science, you just need to non-verbally communicate a great d…
/r/seduction22/09/12 05:09 AM
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As soon as possible within the window wherein she well accept is probably a better way to say this, but yeah, basically.
/r/seduction22/09/12 05:06 AM
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I'd probably just say "Never said I was humble" or something to that effect. But, like other people have said, if you get called for this you probably did something wrong.
/r/seduction22/09/12 05:05 AM
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