DaikonSubstantial120 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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2	Where do you draw the line on favors for your ex-wife? Don’t OVER THINK IT. I would simply take each situation as it arises. If you are free and you are not doing anything than why not? However, if you have something on or thinking about doing something else than NO you cant pick them up when it is her time.	/r/Divorce_Men	27/02/23 06:17 AM
0	Did your wife’s friends turn her against you? There is no doubt peer group pressure exists. What I think you will find is your wife may of already had an opinion of which her friend was supportive. It would be a very immature person who got talked into a divorce, don’t you think?	/r/Divorce_Men	27/02/23 06:15 AM
1	What is divorce? A man's perspective. I agree divorce is the opportunity to fulfil your potential. Plenty of divorce kids thrive and some dive all depends on so many things. Better to be divorced than in a loveless relationship.	/r/Divorce_Men	25/02/23 08:43 PM
3	Question - anybody experience all this too? She has made it absolutely clear what her thoughts about you and the marriage are. you cannot be confused as to what she is saying. There is no silver bullet here , as you have enabled her to get to this stage over many years, by simply not standing up for yourself and ultimately her losing respect for you. While you accept your new circumstances can I urge you to get individual therapy to work on you becoming a stronger individual who loves and respects themselves. Hopefully with time you get t…	/r/Divorce_Men	21/02/23 04:55 AM
5	Wife’s 39 weeks pregnant and now wants a divorce. I can say one thing - begging and being emotionally needy will only make her disrespect you more given her current state of mind. Has she clearly explained why she wants to divorce?	/r/Divorce_Men	21/02/23 04:06 AM
-3	Divorced men over 50 why us? Sorry did not mean to offend	/r/Divorce_Men	13/02/23 11:19 AM
1	"it'll get better" Your question to her was leading with the chin! What did you honestly expect her to say?	/r/Divorce_Men	13/02/23 06:29 AM
2	What happened? She certainly played you that is for sure and you did not have the strength or the smarts to stop it. Hopefully you can learn from this that maintaining your dignity will go along way in recovering. Maybe get some therapy to understand why you allowed yourself to get abused , work on your codependency and self love. Things will improve if you make an effort to improve yourself.	/r/Divorce_Men	13/02/23 06:04 AM
-14	Divorced men over 50 why us? It is unusual a person gets totally blindsided in a separation. It can happen but highly unlikely. It takes a lot of work to keep a relationship going , and takes courage to address red flags and maintain healthy boundaries. Being lazy, enabling poor behaviours and not addressing issues IMMEDIATELY are relationship killers. Some People put more effort in supporting their football team than working on their relationships.	/r/Divorce_Men	13/02/23 06:01 AM
6	Marriage, what a joke! While I understand where you are coming from , it is so important to know your partner before committing. Don’t ignore red flags in a relationship and you need the courage to enforce healthy boundaries. People spend more time on researching to buying a second hand car than in their future partners. Obviously Nothing is guaranteed in life , but if you put in the work to find a truely compatible partner the chances are you will find one.	/r/Divorce_Men	13/02/23 05:56 AM
1	Recently divorced 33m 6 months ago 6 months is not long at all. You are simply not ready. When you are first comfortable in being single you will then be ready. Get therapy to help you through the process	/r/Divorce_Men	13/01/23 04:12 AM
1	After 7 years and a 2 year old, wife wants divorce. You seemed to have put her on a pedestal and as a result she lost respect for you. By you doing everything and not allowing her to stand up in the marriage you enabled her to treat you poorly. Remember for the future, that the woman is an equal in a marriage, not something for you to fawn over and save. That simply breeds disrespect. They are not weaker but as strong as you. You are not a bad person at all, but stop being a night in shinning armour but an equal partner .	/r/Divorce_Men	06/09/22 07:17 AM
1	Divorce in Australia That’s is not true. Yes divorce is a financial transaction. Document everything and never ever lose your temper. The family courts are fare	/r/Divorce_Men	06/09/22 07:14 AM
1	How did you catch her? If you have a joint phone account check phone records for a common number, place a VR in her car if your state allows it.	/r/Divorce_Men	31/08/22 03:46 AM
1	Wife wants a divorce I am so sorry for you. Unfortunately whenever there is an imbalance in the marriage where one partner loses themselves trying to please the other, you get this. One person grows and loses respect for the other. I think you need to start working on you and who you really are. At the moment you are an appendage to her, which makes you unattractive in her current mindset. Who knows once she sees you becoming an independent and individual person she may see you in a different light. You did get toge…	/r/Divorce_Men	31/08/22 03:43 AM