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Thank you for this.
/r/RPChristians12/11/19 06:04 PM
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You're right and thank you and all the responses here. She lied to me about her past in the beginning now that she is totally "honest". I felt disgusting knowing that I believe her and that I gave her my virginity. It seems that I am the loser here. Turns out it was a relative and I do believe he pressured her, she just entered her teens at the time and she told me she was manipulated and said "OK." at times... ​ I'm letter her go, too much drama at this point.
/r/RPChristians06/06/19 01:12 PM
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It gets really messy, I believe it is one of the parents at this point. I will speak to her again and she will take an oath of honesty. I will get to the bottom of this, no way can I live knowing I know a sexual offender that is loose in our community. ​ I don't think she willingly participated in it, but if it is a family matter, it does make sense as to why she did not report it (not saying it was justified) but I will press further to see. ​ Thank you.
/r/RPChristians04/06/19 03:17 PM
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Thank you. yes I've read a lot of Augustine's writing and specifically his work "The city of God" and talked it to her because she thought she was unworthy and stained. In fact, when we fell in temptation I remember her saying "I feel clean". It hurts me as I write this because its painful to know someone did this to someone you care about, but I know God will bring justice and whatever was damaged He will restore. ​ I don't want to press anymore because of timing, she may fear that I think less…
/r/RPChristians31/05/19 07:13 PM
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Yes, I honestly cannot say the type of women she is to be honest. I had thought she was a caring and forgiving person until I found out she lied to me about texting and talking to other guys and flirting with them in front of my face--along with telling "white lies" to me about other things in the past. I don't understand why she would use it as bait, that is what concerns me. I only asked if the guy is still in her life, I don't need to know the name, she won't answer that. I asked if you can a…
/r/RPChristians31/05/19 06:02 PM
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Thank you for your heartfelt post. I agree I have talked to her in the way you presented in the latter. She agreed and said she found healing through my words. I write what I wrote because this took me for surprise, this whole time I took her word for it and we had a conversation about both our pasts and thought it was dealt with in Christ (her own words). ​ That aside, at this point I am ending the relationship because of separate reasons involved (lack of communication abroad, dishonesty and p…
/r/RPChristians31/05/19 05:38 PM
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Thank you, I don't know if that could be it. At this point I don't want answers I am just shocked she would use her own past as an ultimatum. We both had tearful talks about both our pasts so this just shocked me. I said we should work things out as we head into marriage and she told me "you don't work everything out before marriage"
/r/RPChristians31/05/19 05:30 PM
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She show signs that she believes and lives a fairly godly lifestyle (no parties, drinking, not promiscuous, goes to church, read bible and prays everyday) or so I thought, she seems to be a worldly christian and I say this because when we fell into sin, she was not convicted with what happened among other things as well. I felt terrible and told her we had to stop and put new boundaries.
/r/RPChristians31/05/19 05:29 PM
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Thank you and no I am not, I do apologize as I left out a lot of details for the sake of a summary.The way I phrased it was the way she told me. She told me quote and used the word "molested". I knew at the beginning and spent many nights and hours reading scripture and trying to show her that she is not damaged goods and she is pure in Christ. Most of my efforts were to change the way she thought of her self. ​ I was ready to marry her regardless of her past, I only bring this up now because sh…
/r/RPChristians31/05/19 05:24 PM
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Thank you, I felt really bad for almost saying it to her. She said if that’s the case then we can’t be dating then proceeds to tell me if we are not together, don’t ever dare ask her any questions about her past.
/r/RPChristians31/05/19 12:38 PM
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You are correct, we’re meeting up today to part ways because of other reasons involved but I am tired of living in fear because of things I’m seeing that I know isn’t ok. She doesn’t help me with any of my other goals other than supporting me physically (buying me food from time to time) and sometimes encouraging me to pursue my gifts...that’s it. One last thing though, you think these fears are all in my head? if so it means I could be imagining red flags. I’ve told my best bud about this and H…
/r/RPChristians31/05/19 12:36 PM
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we’re about equal I’m like a 9, she likes an 8.5
/r/RPChristians11/10/18 12:37 PM
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but what if you covered all 3 bases? Its hard for me to live with that and by extension if my future wife has done that as well, I have no right to deny her that same grace. I’d still prefer a virgin who hasnt done anything but now I cant look for that as I am no longer a “virgin who hasn’t done anything sexual”
/r/RPChristians11/10/18 12:36 PM
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This does relieve some guilt I have. We have done things, think everything except penetration. I just have this heavy feeling of explaining this ro my future wife. you are right though, she did emotionally cheat but her reason at the time was “we weren’t dating, we were friends” emotionally we were though by that I mean we were acting like a couple without the title, this was because her father was being difficult, long story but I had to get his permission. I didn’t break up with her because on…
/r/RPChristians11/10/18 12:07 PM
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I changed my mind. This is the best answer upon reflection. I was struggling with the other posts as I thought more about it, I really don’t see how that will enable me to reflect Jesus more if I apply the principle of “eye for an eye, tooth for a tooth” in the sensethat if she flirts with other guys, you do too. Thing is, she is naïve and she doesn’t know, however I feel there is something more to that than just naïveté, maybe something sinister Idk. Thank you, can you pm me to tell me more abo…
/r/RPChristians11/10/18 03:41 AM
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Wow. This is exactly what I needed to hear. Curious, can you tell me more. I have been given similar advice froms my non christian friends, doing this isn't morally wrong if I'm in a relationship right? I am ready to change all I know about what we call "dating" I see that I treat it like marriage emotionally. ​ I'm still in the process of redpill, so bear with my ignorance please.
/r/RPChristians11/10/18 01:52 AM
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Will take your advice, one of my bros said the same but I thought it was not Christlike to do so, will try.
/r/RPChristians11/10/18 01:33 AM
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My apologies, will fix as soon as possible was in a rush typing.
/r/RPChristians11/10/18 01:28 AM
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Thanks will do. However, if I do this, I cannot serisouly consider her a mate for marriage if I have other girls I am looking at, is that normal? I am still getting used to redpill, my experiences with my gf led me here ​ Lifting (check) Be friendly and flirt with other girls? won't that hurt my image and reputation?
/r/RPChristians11/10/18 01:21 AM
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Oh my gosh LOL! I'm crying.
/r/RPChristians09/10/18 08:07 PM
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