DaisyTheBarbarian Archive

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1	CMV: It's ok to break up or divorce, even if nothing is going wrong Are they? I didn't know this was such a common reason for dudes to divorce their wives 🤷🏼‍♀️ Either way, I'd also disagree with anyone telling him that he's a liar and should never get married, too. Other people may have their own opinions and voice them, and that's their right.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/02/25 03:56 AM
–	CMV: It's ok to break up or divorce, even if nothing is going wrong Of course that's not the "goal" 😂 not many people go into a marriage rubbing their hands in glee at the thought of costing both of them thousands of dollars during the sad and frustrating process of breaking up. But shit happens, people change, people grow and not always in the same direction, sometimes there's too much pain to work through, etc. It's not about being able to divorce on a literal whim, it's about the freedom to choose happiness if you've realized you can't find it with the person…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/02/25 01:50 AM
–	CMV: It's ok to break up or divorce, even if nothing is going wrong Marriage is meant to be a partnership where you go through struggles together, including unhappy. I know you're not the same commenter as before but I'll say it again: That's just your perspective Some people marry for life, others marry for while they're happy and on the same page and those are both valid options. You don't get to tell someone else what marriage means to them, you only get to say what it means to you and hopefully find someone who aligns with you. Everyone else gets to make the…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/02/25 12:45 AM
–	CMV: It's ok to break up or divorce, even if nothing is going wrong I mean, that's just your perspective. It's a legal contract and ethical contract, sure, and contracts can end. It was still "ethical" as long as no one cheated or abused the other, etc, imo. There are all types of people in the world, not all of them see "divorce" and read "liar". Social norms change from person to person, place to place, and from time to time. Kinda silly to tell someone not to get married. Ever. just because they don't adhere to your personal values.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/02/25 10:15 PM
–	The manosphere does not care about men's issues: Trump screws over men What you're describing isn't even a top 3 reason why the election went the way it did according to the actual surveys. Bro, I wasn't trying to address anything beyond what I directly quoted from you. I'm not putting lipstick on any pigs, just simply pointing out that no one is saying that the manosphere influenced anyone outside of a small subset of dudes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/01/25 05:38 AM
–	The manosphere does not care about men's issues: Trump screws over men 53% of White women voted for Trump. Were they pulled in by "the manosphere?" Don't be silly. Different people require different strategies. Women had the whole "Cottage core, bake bread at home, trad wife, "easy life", soft girl vibes, yada yada" shtick thrown at them. Many also had conservative values that they'd been raised in and stayed in. Women would of course have different messaging. So would various minority groups have their own, catered messaging. And older white men, and younger white…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/01/25 02:46 AM
1	What are some negative habits/ traits that are commonly attributed to women that you actually feel is valid ? Alzheimers or trolling? Bro... She used the "royal you" or "general you" and it's clear as day. Google the term if you don't understand what that means, but she wasn't referring to YOU. How would you be here talking to her if you blew yourself up? 🤣 You're an insufferable person who overestimates his (morelikely her) ability to engange into argument and draw correct conclusions. (Sic) Oh the irony	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/01/25 09:13 PM
12	There are lots of women who will counterintuitively RAISE their standards in the face of nonsuccess in dating Sure, an ugly women might not be "conceited or entitled", she may instead be bitter, angry, and abusive. Dating an ugly woman doesn't guarantee a good personality, just like it doesn't for men. There are other negative personality traits than just those you associate with pretty people.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/01/25 08:29 PM
1	Perhaps women no longer being attractive to men as they get older is a good thing. I think you're right that they'll find her attractive but I disagree that literally all men will want a relationship with a woman young enough to be their daughter. You think it's all men ?	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/01/25 06:23 AM
1	Perhaps women no longer being attractive to men as they get older is a good thing. That isn't the point that anyone is arguing, so cool, I guess.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/01/25 05:12 AM
3	When You’re On a Date with a Woman, She Usually Has 3 Other Guys Already Lmao!! "Sold my sexuality" by being cool with me not wearing a ring in front of other men?? 😂😂😂 First of all, it isn't his to sell, and secondly that isn't what selling sexuality looks like. My behavior didn't change a single bit, I wasn't flirting or accepting numbers, I was literally doing my job in an ugly uniform but without a ring on. "Sold my sexuality" 😂 You're hilarious.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/01/25 05:11 AM
5	When You’re On a Date with a Woman, She Usually Has 3 Other Guys Already If I do something my husband is aware of and approves of in order to secure more resources for us and our family then I'll do what, exactly, when it comes to maximizing dating options? Date multiple men at the same time? Does the same premise apply to a man who makes choices in his work life to maximize resources for his family?	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/01/25 12:09 AM
5	Perhaps women no longer being attractive to men as they get older is a good thing. it'd mean he'd have to become a dad at 22 for her to qualify as her daughter, which for today's world is fantasy land. The fact that more people today are choosing to wait to have kids doesn't change the fact that they're old enough to have a kid, thus old enough to be someone's parent.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/01/25 10:40 PM
8	When You’re On a Date with a Woman, She Usually Has 3 Other Guys Already That has literally nothing to do with dating, though. That's just a woman trying to maximize her tips, and as a former tipped employee I promise you dudes who are in relationships do what they need to maximize their own tips as well. That's the game. My husband was well aware that I didn't wear my ring at work and since he'd also been a tipped employee he more than got it. I was there to maximize my own profits, not date my customers behind my husband's back 🙄	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/01/25 09:19 PM
2	Women end up hating the Men they create. My genetics are absolutely nothing special, both of my parents struggled with their weight and so have I at various points in my life. My point was that there are things you can do at home to workout and also that it doesn't have to be all or nothing. You're telling me it's literally impossible for you to maintain a medium level of fitness, though? It's just gym bro or full blown potato for you? That seems odd to me, but I'm sorry that's your reality, bro.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/01/25 03:57 AM
3	Women end up hating the Men they create. I'm not a gym bro, I'm just a lady with some dumbbells who works out sometimes in my free time. I manage to maintain a decent level of muscle tone without it being a giant time sink. It doesn't have to be "gym bro or pudge" with nothing in the middle.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/01/25 03:06 AM
0	The big problem with telling survivors of abuse to “pick better”. No one asked you to, not saying anything at all is always an option on the table.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/01/25 08:47 AM
1	The big problem with telling survivors of abuse to “pick better”. Why? Why would humans have already figured it out? Is poverty solved somewhere? We already know that lifting people out of poverty lowers the crime rate, we know education helps with poverty, we know free breakfast and lunch help with education, and I could go on. Why aren't we flooding crime ridden neighborhoods with funding and community support that's proven to work? We also know that education, vocational training and access to housing and transportation for criminals helps with recidivism, …	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/01/25 08:19 AM
3	The big problem with telling survivors of abuse to “pick better”. I don't think any reasonable person would have an issue with anything you've said, pretty spot on imo as someone who grew up around abusers and who was raised by one. The issue though was with the phrase "Choose better", which is dismissive and unhelpful. "Seek therapy" would be more helpful and we all know how folks feel about that phrase 😂 But yes, people who were raised in abusive situations need to heal and learn how to avoid those relationships, absolutely. For their own safety. But I also …	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/01/25 08:02 AM
7	The big problem with telling survivors of abuse to “pick better”. The abusers I knew were clean-cut, nerdy, church going, soccer coaching, mild mannered, well respected men in their circles. Every last one. Not a tattoo in sight beyond the odd navy tat and no one suspected them of being abusers. My mom thought she was marrying an incredibly safe dude, and her family approved, too. She didn't find out about his anger issues and controlling, jealous nature until my older brother was about 18 months and she wasn't able to keep a perfect looking house at all times…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/01/25 06:39 AM
–	How can a man not feel worse when he realizes that his girlfriend/wife behaves more restrictedly and less passionately with him than with her past partners? Perhaps she could become more passionate with him. What does this look like, specifically? Doing acts she's no longer comfortable with or enjoys? Doing acts they already enjoy together more frequently than she enjoys to "make up" for the lack of activities she doesn't enjoy? Yelling louder during sex so it's "more passionate"? Be specific as to what "more passionate" means, then explain how this isn't the husband punishing the wife for her past by expecting her to go outside of her comfort and e…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/01/25 06:30 PM
–	Society has given women a free pass for their standards while condemning men for theirs omphaloskeptic take Are you fucking kidding me? I'd never seen this word so I had to Google it, and of course I googled the part that was new to me first, "Omphalos" - navel. It's NAVEL GAZING??? You rolled out this incredible looking word to tell him he's navel gazing?? 😂 I'm having a rough week and this genuinely brought me some joy, it was a fun little moment for me, thank you. I know I'm being a giant nerd, and this comment may be removed for being "contentless", I'm okay with it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/12/24 09:09 PM
2	Q4W: If a man is unwilling to get into a physical fight for you, is he not a real man to you ? You're saying that a woman wearing revealing clothing is causing a fight? Explain.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/12/24 07:24 PM
1	Women should not have to threaten to break up to get her boyfriend/husband to care about what she says. You got nothing I am not the one who made a claim. I am not trying to "have" anything other than your evidence to back up your claim. I have been quite clear that I am simply requesting information, I am not sure what you could possibly expect me to "have". Only blue pillers are allowed to talk like this on here Because only red pillers make such ridiculous claims while refusing to provide a scrap of evidence to back them up. Deal with it 😎	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/24 03:29 PM
1	Women should not have to threaten to break up to get her boyfriend/husband to care about what she says. Way too long; didn't read: You have no source at all for your claim that thousands of women daily go after men who are admitted rapists and pedophiles. Not a single shred. You must have heard it somewhere? Seen it somewhere? Perhaps you're right, it's impossible for you to have a source you can show me, since the source is your own ass.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/24 06:53 AM
2	Women are indifferent to Most men You have PERSONAL EXPERIENCE with the women who decided the Hapsburg marriages?? Well then, I didn't realize I was in the presence of a real life vampire 🦇. I'll concede to your personal knowledge of events from before the year 1700.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/24 06:49 AM
1	Influencers like Andrew Tate isn't radicalizing young men, the dating and economic conditions and general misandry are That's crazy because I have definitely seen other women offer the same advice when Tate etc come up, but perhaps we frequent different subs or different posts on those subs. It was a woman telling another woman that inspired me to start recommending it too, so from my perspective it's weird you've never seen that. Personally I ignore most of the discussion of Tate and the Manosphere outside of this subreddit, actually, usually I avoid it on this subreddit too, so no, I won't be scrolling through…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/24 06:06 AM
–	Women are indifferent to Most men Way too long, didn't read: You have no source for your claimed historical knowledge. Got it 👍🏼 I already knew that part.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/24 05:41 AM
1	Q4W: What would you do if your male friend or partner told you he had some manosphere beliefs? Actually I read through the rest of y'all's conversation, saw her giving reasons for calling her husband "broke", saw that they were similar to my own reasons and scrolled back up to leave my take at what I felt was the relevant point in the conversation. Your assumptions about me are cute though. Also by this time you already KNOW that her reasons are similar to my own, you already know she just goes about starting that conversation in a different way by her tongue-in-cheek flair. So why are yo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/24 06:03 AM
1	Q4W: What would you do if your male friend or partner told you he had some manosphere beliefs? No kidding. My points still stand. You assume that it's feminist women humiliating their husbands behind their backs and I wanted to add my voice to the counter perspective. If you don't want to engage with me that's fine, but this is an open and public debate forum. You're not exactly having private conversations and other people may add their own take and perspective on your comments.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/24 05:37 AM
1	Women are indifferent to Most men You ignored my entire point that for the women incels it quickly became a safety issue when they would "give these men a chance". OF COURSE the incels dudes don't mind giving any woman a chance, their odds of getting harassed or hurt are far lower than a woman who admits to strangers online that she's desperate and perhaps even vulnerably so. These are not two people dealing with the same concerns, and the concerns you're talking about are in direct response to the harm done by enough incel men …	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/24 05:31 AM
1	Influencers like Andrew Tate isn't radicalizing young men, the dating and economic conditions and general misandry are This feels like a false dichotomy. "Wholesome and supportive" can include lighting a fire under one's ass, and there's no reason it couldn't. Maybe support each other by lighting a fire under each other's asses for wholesome causes, whatever tweaks y'all need to make it work for you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/24 05:15 AM
0	Women are indifferent to Most men It's not my responsibility to back up your claim or prove a negative. You made a few specific claims, and I'd like to see your source(s) if you have any. If you don't have one you just say so, it takes far less effort than the shift in the burden you just tried to to.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/24 05:08 AM
1	Influencers like Andrew Tate isn't radicalizing young men, the dating and economic conditions and general misandry are What I had to say about it was this: I do and have given that same advice to women and I practice it myself, I'm not sure why you're assuming otherwise?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/24 05:04 AM
1	Influencers like Andrew Tate isn't radicalizing young men, the dating and economic conditions and general misandry are I do and have given that same advice to women and I practice it myself, I'm not sure why you're assuming otherwise?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/24 05:03 AM
0	Q4W: What would you do if your male friend or partner told you he had some manosphere beliefs? My husband has seen mine, he not only knows but he's encouraged me, told me extra things I should mention. I've talked openly about our body struggles, mental health issues, financial struggles and/or situation, personal issues, you name it. I talk about them because as the other lady said, the guys in here have a warped view of what kind of love is available to them. I want a wider set of men to know that they are worthy of love, and he supports his "part" in that. My husband is secure AF in ou…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/24 01:20 AM
2	Women are indifferent to Most men If this were the case, why are there so few overweight, unattractive, or older women who post about feeling invisible to men. I've seen the posts where it does come up, though, and being invisible to men is generally regarded as a good thing that they're thrilled to have finally achieved. People don't tend to post on the internet about the absence of an irritant. And the rare women who claim to never receive any attention are often just ignoring the attention they do get. I've never been on a fo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/24 07:35 AM
4	Women are indifferent to Most men Do they have the life you wanted, happily married to a highly virtuous and moral partner like who you were trying to be?	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/24 06:55 AM
5	Women are indifferent to Most men Can I get a source for the women being the decision makers in these cousin marriages? And that the women, specifically, are the ones who wanted cousin marriages to keep the family wealth concentrated. Did the men object, or were they just as happy to keep the family wealth? Why were these noble lords unable to marry against the wishes of their female relatives?	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/24 06:30 AM
4	Influencers like Andrew Tate isn't radicalizing young men, the dating and economic conditions and general misandry are I didn't say that apathy towards men isn't real, I said that engaging in content that pushes that apathy and justifies it only perpetuates the content. Every time you engage with that content you're giving it views, you're telling the algorithm to show not only YOU more content like that, but people who watch other similar content like a shared hobby. I'm saying stop doing that and instead give that time, energy, and algorithm boost to wholesome creators. You asked how young boys are supposed to…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/24 05:50 AM
1	Influencers like Andrew Tate isn't radicalizing young men, the dating and economic conditions and general misandry are Bro I've been married almost 20 years, I have been with my husband through his treatment resistant depression, his childhood trauma, his PTSD, his social anxiety, a few hospital worthy sicknesses and injuries, heavy weight gain, ED, and the loss of our daughter. I have seen him ugly cry more times than I can count, and never thought any less of him for it. I'm talking about snot running down his face, heaving sobs, and I have held him and loved him through all of it, just as he's held me. And ye…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/24 05:18 AM
1	Influencers like Andrew Tate isn't radicalizing young men, the dating and economic conditions and general misandry are Again, so convenient that you found The One True interpretation, the one true theory. I bet it feels euphoric.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/24 05:05 AM
–	Influencers like Andrew Tate isn't radicalizing young men, the dating and economic conditions and general misandry are Yep, I'm a native english speaker, and since you can't understand this concept even after it's been explained to you it's extra hilarious that you tried to throw that particular shade at me. ✌🏼	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/24 05:04 AM
2	Influencers like Andrew Tate isn't radicalizing young men, the dating and economic conditions and general misandry are I love when you guys think you can lie to women about women and we will take you seriously 😂 You know how people say that they have a subreddit that's a place where they love learning about topics unfamiliar to them, that they really trust because the users seem very well read and knowledgeable, until a topic THEY are knowledgeable in comes up and they realize the sheer number of other commenters are just making shit up, and eating up each other's bullshit? That's how you sound to women right no…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/24 02:09 AM
1	Influencers like Andrew Tate isn't radicalizing young men, the dating and economic conditions and general misandry are It's always so convenient when a religion, cult, or whatever you wanna call The Red Pill magically only believes all the true things, and nothing but the true things and definitely always knows the correct way to interpret all the data, even the conflicting stuff. It's so simple that way.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/24 01:27 AM
–	Influencers like Andrew Tate isn't radicalizing young men, the dating and economic conditions and general misandry are That is not what the Appeal to Common Sense fallacy is. Saying something is common sense and doesn't need a whole ass pill is not the same as saying, "Of course X is true, that's just common sense."	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/24 01:22 AM
–	Influencers like Andrew Tate isn't radicalizing young men, the dating and economic conditions and general misandry are I think you may have misunderstood their analogy, friend. I don't think they were being that literal, of course men have also been at the bottom rungs of society and everywhere in between. Look deeper.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/24 12:09 AM
–	Influencers like Andrew Tate isn't radicalizing young men, the dating and economic conditions and general misandry are And there it goes again, a man has a complaint (that he doesn't see positive male related content and comments) He's given a solution (seek out positive dude related content and comment sections, remove toxic content creators from your feed until it's populated with the wholesome and supportive content you're seeking) And he complains some more, but now the anger is directed at the person who took time to try and offer a suggestion. The algorithm will show you more what you engage with, and as y…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/24 09:59 PM
1	"Bar for men is on the floor" - Is this a real statement or just a tongue in cheek phrase meant to aggravate men? men swipe without looking, but despite that ugly women get 1000s of options. You're not the same guy telling me I need to "think logically", right?? It's BECAUSE so many men swipe without looking that ugly women get an amount of options. Let's follow a straight logical line, I beg of you. I said I've watched men step on their own dicks and cock block themselves by being inconsiderate and stupid, what does ugly women getting 1000s of matches have to do with that? I have myself done these experime…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/24 11:05 PM
1	"Bar for men is on the floor" - Is this a real statement or just a tongue in cheek phrase meant to aggravate men? I didn't see that my other unread reply was from you as well, I'll reply when I've read the other one.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/24 09:49 PM
1	"Bar for men is on the floor" - Is this a real statement or just a tongue in cheek phrase meant to aggravate men? Sure, I'll let you skip answering anything of substance that I said and pivot to this question, I'll just assume that means I've at least given you something to think about. I'm not sure what else you want me to say, though, I've already listed physical traits that weren't a deal breaker so this request for more information while ignoring the meat of my reply definitely feels like you going on search of a "gotcha" and a distraction, but do you want to hear about their personalities next? That wo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/24 09:48 PM
–	Young men are turning to right wing and manosphere ideologies due to being shut down and treated terrible in mainstream/progressive spaces, not from being brainwashed by "Redpill gurus" or "right-wing media". women not having the right to vote until 1965 I believe you may be mixing up two different facts, women could definitely vote before 1965, you may be thinking of some other right ?	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/24 05:35 PM
1	"Bar for men is on the floor" - Is this a real statement or just a tongue in cheek phrase meant to aggravate men? Oh god, is that the OKCupid "data" again or is this a new one? If it's the OKCupid data then this article breaks that date down and disagrees with your assessment that women are shallow based on that data, it says the opposite, actually. So when your friend says she is average and seeking average looking men, she is still seeking men who are better looking than 80% of men in her age group. My bro, I say she's average looking, and I say I've seen her tinder matches, and I say I've seen the guys I…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/24 08:24 AM
–	"Bar for men is on the floor" - Is this a real statement or just a tongue in cheek phrase meant to aggravate men? Usually it's been dudes wanting repeated hookups who are generally inconsiderate of her time and energy, like changing or cancelling plans, being late, smelling bad, not making an effort to get her off. The ones who don't even make it to a meetup are harder to criticize because they could have just not been interested, or found a better match, but for those guys it was usually too complicated trying to nail down a meetup , like multiple re-scheduling. But basically just making it more effort tha…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/24 07:50 AM
–	"Bar for men is on the floor" - Is this a real statement or just a tongue in cheek phrase meant to aggravate men? I mean, sure, largely that's when I see the bar being on the floor it's because that man cleared the bar while being such a mess of a person. But a man can exhibit bad behavior before he's in a relationship and still get into one if the "right" woman chooses to look past it. But yeah, usually the bar is revealed after the relationship starts and the woman puts up with the behavior. Looks are subjective, so it's weirder and more shallow to put a "bar" for what other people like, and I generally s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/24 07:09 AM
1	"Bar for men is on the floor" - Is this a real statement or just a tongue in cheek phrase meant to aggravate men? I get that it's easier to think that I'm lying, but lying isn't how I'm interested in operating. I'm interested in honest conversations with strangers on the internet so we can all learn from each other's perspectives. Or try to anyway, I know I'm not always perfect at that myself, lol. Anyway, your experience isn't invalidated because my friends'experience exists. You both can exist in the same world. I don't think you're lying, I'm sure your perspective is valid. I wish you could make space fo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/24 07:00 AM
1	Women should not have to threaten to break up to get her boyfriend/husband to care about what she says. So you have nothing to back up your claim. Thank you for confirming it once again. You can make excuses for why, but the fact is you're making a claim out of your ass and then pretending that it's universal knowledge. Where did I claim that? No, everyone does know about them You, in this very reply where you accuse me of being "so emotional I'm resorting to insults" for saying you're claiming it's universal knowledge then immediately confirm that what I said was accurate. If everyone knows about…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/24 06:55 AM
-4	"Bar for men is on the floor" - Is this a real statement or just a tongue in cheek phrase meant to aggravate men? I have a friend who is into casual sex and hookups and regularly seeks them out... Watching men both in OLD and irl shoot themselves in the foot for no damn reason is sometimes frustrating for me and I'm not even the one trying to get laid 😂 This woman is average looks, healthy weight, dresses cute, fun to be around, and going for dudes who are her looks match or lower and these dudes will just, as you say, step on their own dicks and then be shocked Pikachu when she moves on to someone else. I …	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/12/24 05:00 PM
0	"Bar for men is on the floor" - Is this a real statement or just a tongue in cheek phrase meant to aggravate men? Yeah there's no bar for looks, you fuck any guy whether he's old, ugly, fat, right? No one is saying women don't have a bar for looks, we're saying that isn't the bar there being referred to when we talk about a bar that is on the floor.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/12/24 04:42 PM
1	Women should not have to threaten to break up to get her boyfriend/husband to care about what she says. Why would you be banned for linking a study or an article that shows data backing up your argument? ... Oh, is your "source" just some asshole on YouTube who also won't show his real sources? 🤣 "Everyone" does not know about them, clearly, since you keep having to tell people how "illiterate" they are on the topic, and your attempt to put the burden of proof onto others by pretending you have some universal knowledge that "everyone knows" but will also get you banned is as hilarious as it is pat…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/24 12:16 AM
1	Women should not have to threaten to break up to get her boyfriend/husband to care about what she says. Oh I'm sorry, you seem to not understand how a debate works. You see, when you make a very specific claim like you did it's on you to prove your own point, not on me to try and disprove a negative. So, can I see a source for, "Thousands of women, daily, who are choosing men who openly admit to being rapists and pedophiles or would you like to tell everyone you made that claim to that you can't actually back it up ?	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/12/24 11:15 PM
1	Women should not have to threaten to break up to get her boyfriend/husband to care about what she says. Can I get a source for "Thousands of women daily, who are choosing men who openly admit to being rapists and pedophiles"? You've said it repeatedly and keep insisting anyone who disagrees is simply uninformed so you must have actual evidence you're basing this on, and I'd love to see it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/12/24 09:23 PM
1	Women with at least one son: Did having a son make you more sympathetic to men's issues and more disturbed by the prevalence of mainstream open misandry? Alright man, it was fun, but I'm done arguing with you over why I think the scales in this blame game are tipped towards the fathers in this incredibly narrow set of circumstances. In my opinion I've been more than generous in the amount of time I've spent coddling your unwillingness to read my comments beyond looking for something to fight over. For some reason you want to waste both of our time because you need me to say that a woman who capitulates to her husband's wishes is equally as culpab…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/24 02:00 AM
2	Women with at least one son: Did having a son make you more sympathetic to men's issues and more disturbed by the prevalence of mainstream open misandry? Hi OP 😊 you aren't who I was talking about, I promise. I was very specifically trying to explain why it can be possible for a woman to have "the final say" and yet it be her husband's "fault" for the decision (imo), that reason being if the husband pushed and pressured for that decision. It's an incredibly narrow set of circumstances, and I definitely was not trying to say it was the norm... In fact I'm not even the one who brought it up in the first place, I started out by simply explaining som…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/24 07:42 AM
1	Women with at least one son: Did having a son make you more sympathetic to men's issues and more disturbed by the prevalence of mainstream open misandry? My "goal" is for men who pressure their wives to agree to cut their sons dick to instead change their minds and stop arguing for their sons to have their dicks cut. My "goal" is for men to talk about the benefits of an intact dick and advocate for changing this cultural norm so that other men will stop pressuring their wives to cut their sons dicks. My "goal" is for the conversation to change from blaming the pressured women to blaming the man doing the pressuring. My "goal" is to find the most …	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/24 09:16 PM
1	Women with at least one son: Did having a son make you more sympathetic to men's issues and more disturbed by the prevalence of mainstream open misandry? My answer includes nuance that your framing doesn't allow for so forgive me if this reply feels like a dodge to you: I again remind you, we are talking about cases where the husband is the one who wants the procedure done and pressures the wife to go along. The discussion was that he should not do that and that men should instead take the responsibility of advocating for their sons to keep their foreskin. But you are SO DESPERATE to give some blame to the wife that here we are yet again 🙄 I am a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/24 08:09 PM
1	Women with at least one son: Did having a son make you more sympathetic to men's issues and more disturbed by the prevalence of mainstream open misandry? Please see the edit to my last reply, I think we may have lost the full context of the conversation and that may be our main point of contention. I agree, women ARE full human beings equal to men, and men are just as capable as women of changing past wrongs against them by advocating for themselves and changing the cultural norms that hurt them. In fact, men who took the time to advocate for their right to stay intact are why I'm against male genital mutilation today! (I was raised cult-like Chr…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/24 07:22 PM
1	Women with at least one son: Did having a son make you more sympathetic to men's issues and more disturbed by the prevalence of mainstream open misandry? Bro I have told you why I disagree, it is my original comment. If it makes you feel better I can add in that mom is also dealing with immense body, brain, and hormone changes, she's exhausted, she is in no fit state to argue with her husband who she is heavily dependent on at this current vulnerable time for her. If MEN want to break this cycle then MEN need to take some fucking responsibility and be the ones to advocate for it, not expect random women to damage their relationships with the MEN …	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/24 07:01 PM
2	Women with at least one son: Did having a son make you more sympathetic to men's issues and more disturbed by the prevalence of mainstream open misandry? Lol, sorry, on this subreddit it's hard to tell, and I tend to assume the worst. And honestly I was just trying to quickly go through my replies last night so I wasn't paying that much attention to evaluate any deeper sarcasm. I take the L on that, my bad, you're good 😊 I hope you're having a lovely Thanksgiving (assuming you're in the US, but have a good one regardless)	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/24 06:48 PM
1	Women with at least one son: Did having a son make you more sympathetic to men's issues and more disturbed by the prevalence of mainstream open misandry? I did explain my idea. I said it isn't reasonable to expect a woman to override her husband in this instance and that the push needs to come from men in order to be effective, and I explained why. If you're unable to comprehend my very simple explanation then I'm not here to spoon feed you. Would it make you feel any better if I told you that women are largely as responsible for female genital mutilation as guys are for male genital mutilation, and for the same reasons?	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/24 06:25 AM
1	Women with at least one son: Did having a son make you more sympathetic to men's issues and more disturbed by the prevalence of mainstream open misandry? That was truly relevant and helpful to the discussion, thank you so much for taking the time. 💜	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/24 04:22 AM
0	Women with at least one son: Did having a son make you more sympathetic to men's issues and more disturbed by the prevalence of mainstream open misandry? Please re-read my comment, the answer is already there.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/24 04:21 AM
2	Women with at least one son: Did having a son make you more sympathetic to men's issues and more disturbed by the prevalence of mainstream open misandry? Yeah cuz mom doesn't have a penis, so if her penis-having spouse says, "This is the right way to have a penis." The mom is likely to defer to the person she thinks has more relevant experience. Especially if he makes the case that he's backed by the religious and/or medical community, that's a lot to overcome based on what is going to be considered "feels" by her husband. Dads have to recommend keeping their boys intact in order to break this cycle.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/24 09:51 PM
1	Have you or any woman you know ever rejected someone for being a virgin? If she rejected him for not having a relationship in 10 years she is gonna reject a virgin for the same reason Yeah, if she rejected the bro with rusty relationship skills then she's gonna reject the guy with no relationship skills for a similar reason, but that reason is not that he's a virgin.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/11/24 04:34 PM
–	Modern feminism and online dating have destroyed dating; absolutely nothing to do with TRP, which is simply an acknowledgment of reality. No one is "letting" people in the country, that hyperbole conjures up an image of an open door with a welcoming hand waving people past a gate. Most people in the country illegally have overstayed their visa, meaning they came here legally and then simply didn't leave when they were supposed to. Then you have people sneaking past the border, note that they are sneaking so as to not get caught. They will not be welcomed with open arms if they are caught and they know it, not by any administration…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/11/24 01:33 AM
3	Common misconception: The fourth wave of feminism didn't descend into men-hating. Feminism was a men-hating movement from the beginning. There's a difference between saying that fixing the problems of men isn't the goal or focus of feminism and saying that feminist don't care about men. Those are not even related to each other. My local animal rescue doesn't have a mission of fixing men's issues either, but I wouldn't say that it's because the workers there don't care about men, that would be silly. I would say that my local rescue is focused on a particular problem and that if a separate problem exists a different group would be…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/11/24 05:31 PM
8	Common misconception: The fourth wave of feminism didn't descend into men-hating. Feminism was a men-hating movement from the beginning. You said women were being homemakers to pass the time like it was some cute little hobby they were lazily engaging in while men did "Real Work" cuz work is "hard". Bro. Men and women were working, women just got paid and respected far less for their work. An average "homemaker" was not only taking care of her own home and kids, she was taking in laundry for money, (laundry wasn't just throwing clothes in the washer, I might remind you, it was physically demanding work), she was taking in mending…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/11/24 05:18 PM
3	The Dating Curve With All Things Equal is Just Harder for Men So when you pick a partner you go in at complete random, making sure you're not looking for any particular positive traits, to ensure that you're not making a woman work for your love? When we date someone we're choosing to add someone into our life, of course we're going to look for someone who adds something of value to our life. We then may go on to build bonds that allow us to overlook a loss in "value", but no one with any sense is going into dating someone without having standards, without…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/11/24 08:06 PM
1	The Dating Curve With All Things Equal is Just Harder for Men Wait, you complain that women don't go for the bottom 80% of men... But when it's pointed out to you that men in the bottom 80% are already getting married and that women still message men they don't find super attractive you still complain but now it's for women being willing to date those men because you've decided to ascribe a bad motivation to the women who date them. Am I getting that right?	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/11/24 07:40 PM
-3	Infantilizing women in age gaps relationships is inherently misogynistic. Right... People give advice because the other party might not know all the information and know what's a good option for them, especially when that party is a freshly minted adult. You may think I'm being obtuse or pedantic, but I'm being serious, and people giving that information in a manner that is patronizing doesn't change or diminish the good advice that says the same thing but for a slightly different and more accurate reason. Don't throw the baby out with the bathwater, as they say. I as…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/11/24 06:05 AM
18	Infantilizing women in age gaps relationships is inherently misogynistic. We (society at large) feel the need to look out for lots of people, though We give advice to men and women, young and old, cuz we're looking out for them, we give advice to college students, coworkers, friends, parents, renters, homeowners, fellow hobbyists, people in all kinds of relationship situations, people making all kinds of decisions, you name it someone is giving advice about it because they're looking out for a fellow adult. Why is this the one time it's infantilizing? Or is all advice…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/11/24 11:28 PM
1	Do you think the left wing will try to appeal to young men in the future? Is it? I thought it was, "If you don't want to do your share of the housework then at least hire a cleaner so neither of you is doing it instead of relying on your wife to pick up your slack."	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/11/24 09:12 PM
2	Should housework be split 50/50 if both parters are working full time? I think it's reasonable to sit down and discuss how to ease resentment, which would of course fall under your suggestion of discussing reasonable expectations and whatnot. I agree that you can't "force" your partner to do something they don't want to, but at the same time if partner 1 is happily going about their life leaving messes behind for someone else to come across and clean, especially knowing the other partner will be negatively affected both in their mood and in their time lost, that be…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/11/24 07:56 PM
3	Should housework be split 50/50 if both parters are working full time? Oh I like you 😂 "How much they cause" is such a great way of putting it. Assuming they both work full-time, of course. But that should still definitely be factored in regardless of the work equation.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/11/24 04:52 PM
9	Should housework be split 50/50 if both parters are working full time? In my experience the person who doesn't value cleanliness as much is often actively messy on top of not wanting to clean as often, so does the messier partner also have an obligation to be less messy in their day-to-day in exchange for essentially always having the cleaning done for them?	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/11/24 04:48 PM
3	Should housework be split 50/50 if both parters are working full time? He did, as did she in her own home when she lived alone. One of the benefits of living with another person is sharing the load and splitting chores according to what someone is good at and who is more willing to do a particular chore. So don't worry, in this scenario she isn't being taken advantage of, they're both benefitting from splitting the load that they previously carried alone.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/11/24 04:36 PM
3	US Women Avoiding Sex With Men (likely) Has Nothing To Do With Pregnancy Those are the women you can file under "ignores red flags", which they mentioned. Thanks for trying tho, I guess.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/11/24 12:48 PM
3	900↑ for "Most men will never understand what it's like to be denied personhood." Feminists, let's discuss I don't know why special circumstances were carved out for those women, perhaps you can link me some information about them and we can find out. Special circumstances, however, still don't negate the reality for all the other women at the time. Do you deny that women needed a special amendment to the constitution to vote just over 100 years ago? What was the purpose of that amendment if women had no problem voting since the 1700s?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/11/24 04:14 AM
3	900↑ for "Most men will never understand what it's like to be denied personhood." Feminists, let's discuss What does women voting to deny personhood to other women have to do with the question? Women can deny women personhood as well, this is not new.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/24 07:22 PM
6	900↑ for "Most men will never understand what it's like to be denied personhood." Feminists, let's discuss It was never illegal for women to... vote. You're telling me there was a whole constitutional amendment for NOTHING?? Seems like such a wasted effort when women could just show up and cast a ballot. Wonder why they felt the need. Maybe you're not the one to talk about half truths.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/24 07:12 PM
1	Men; if you were a woman, would you be a trad wife, or would you aim to be a “modern woman”. I am sorry for your experience, I hope you've found someone who treats you well, or at bare minimum I hope you've found peace since then. I don't know your particular situation, but I'm loathe to agree to blame you. Emotionally abusive relationships can be quite a chemical and emotional rollercoaster that our brains don't always do the best jobs of navigating safely, especially if you didn't have people on your side telling you she was toxic and unreasonable. Regardless of your personal situatio…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/24 10:47 PM
2	Men; if you were a woman, would you be a trad wife, or would you aim to be a “modern woman”. Because most men are willing to provide for a woman they find worthy and most women would never provide for a man. But if a man could find such a woman do you think it would be a good choice for him? The only thing keeping you from being a stay at home dad is lack of a provider woman? No. But I think most human can vet properly if they want to. Is it your opinion that anyone who finds themselves in a relationship they don't want to stay in for the rest of their lives simply failed to vet properl…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/24 10:28 PM
9	Men; if you were a woman, would you be a trad wife, or would you aim to be a “modern woman”. Why do you think it's a better decision for a woman than it is for a man? Do you think women have built-in lie detectors and crystal balls that men lack? Are women uniquely skilled at sniffing out character flaws?	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/24 05:21 PM
13	Men; if you were a woman, would you be a trad wife, or would you aim to be a “modern woman”. Said as you shift the responsibility for abusing a woman away from the man who abused her and onto the woman he abused 🙄 But sure, it's women who can't accept responsibility for their actions, sure buddy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/24 05:11 PM
1	The most common argument against financial abortion is easily refuted. What remains is mostly misandry I've always said this would also be in the benefit of women and it should absolutely be legal to opt out before abortion window runs out. Like a month or so What happens if she can't find the guy before the window closes? What happens if she won't find the guy til after the window closes? I'm very open to financial abortion, I just wanna think of as many potential issues as possible.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/24 06:03 AM
3	CMV: You don't have to be conceited or a bad person to love yourself and your appearance regardless of what other people think I think her use of "living" was auto corrected too, either way she also says "lovable" in the next sentence, and she answered the spirit of your reply regardless. Do you have an answer ?	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/10/24 04:58 PM
1	People who hate feminism don't have a viable alternative You declared that they already presume equality exists, but you also tended to give one word dismissive answers to people who proposed other systems, so I'm not sure where you got that idea when you didn't even engage long enough to hear them out. One dude even disagreed and said he did not think things were already equal he just had a different way of getting to equality and you dismissed him again the same way.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/10/24 04:44 PM
1	People who hate feminism don't have a viable alternative You declared that they already presume equality exists, but you also tended to give one word dismissive answers to people who proposed other systems, so I'm not sure where you got that idea when you didn't even engage long enough to hear them out. One dude even disagreed and said he did not think things were already equal he just had a different way of getting to equality and you dismissed him again the same way.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/10/24 04:41 PM
0	People who hate feminism don't have a viable alternative Jesus those stats are grim... Can I see a source? It just seems unfathomable to me that could be accurate, but I'm open to being proven wrong.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/10/24 04:29 PM
5	What is a show of submission a woman can give to a man ? Lol I love how people are so quick to make value judgements about strangers based off so little information. This isn't an example from my own life, I'm sorry you cannot differentiate fiction from reality. Bro, can you read? I said it sounds like we listened to the same shitty BDSM podcast, based on what I said was an oddly specific scenario that was in the first episode of the podcast I was referring to, not your own personal life. I said it twice, even, at the beginning and the end of my comme…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/10/24 08:54 PM
4	What is a show of submission a woman can give to a man ? A small example; the man takes what you perceive is a wrong way, taking an extra 5 minutes to get to your destination. Instead of attempting to correct him, you keep your opinion to yourself and thank him for driving. Your oddly specific example reminds me of the last time I heard that same oddly specific example: A rather gender essentialist podcast (Man=Dom, Woman=Sub, treated as if that's the only combination available and the natural state of things) Now, when MY Dom/husband heard that story…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/10/24 06:14 PM
3	THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD Absolutely, except that this bro would be laughed out of any serious BDSM dynamic by any experienced sub in a heartbeat. One-sided overly strict contracts without input from the sub or consideration of the subs needs don't tend to go over well. Even in the BDSM world this guy would be a giant red flag. I say this as someone living that BDSM trad life myself, this is a no-go. A joke. An insult.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/10/24 05:12 PM
11	This is the wrong way to teach about empathy. I'm not seeing the tie to "feminism" here ? Are these people from some kind of feminist think-tank or is any idiot who interacts with people and comes away praising the girls even if it's for anti-feminist reasons like teaching girls to accept gross things with a polite smile just chucked under the feminist label now? I saw no feminism here, I saw excessive "politeness" and nonsense. Not everything that makes a comparison between the genders is feminist, even if the girls "win". I agree that it'…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/10/24 06:41 PM
2	How would you react if a guy you slept with told you afterwards that you were his first? The sad reality is that you are a unicorn for thinking this This is possibly true, I have a somewhat unusual background and I'm not neurotypical. I can't help that though, it's my answer. Idk feels kinda infantilizing ya know? Oh totally! I more meant I'd pay more attention to his face to notice concern or if he's feeling unsure than that I'd like, stop all activity and make sure he's really really okay with this or something 😂 Just like I would keep an extra eye out for any newbie to an activit…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/10/24 11:55 PM
1	The fact that the majority of blue pillers not only downplay but outright deny that women have become delusional in their standards or that there is a serious issue in dating is a huge red flag and tells you they are not interested in an honest debate wanna try giving an actual argument that doesn’t rely on you making an assumption that’s wrong? I did. That would be the entire rest of the comment where I explained that yours was naive. I dgaf if you did in fact grow up in an abusive situation, you still managed to come out of it with a warped perspective on how abuse works. You said the idea that a HUSBAND wouldn't defend his wife from domestic violence is insane ... Sir, where is the violence coming from then??	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/10/24 07:36 PM
22	How would you react if a guy you slept with told you afterwards that you were his first? (This is written assuming bro was kind and pleasant, generally, if not exactly skilled for obvious reasons) I guess I'd be a little surprised, mostly cuz I'd be generally looking for someone 35+ (I'm 38) so I imagine most people have been laid at least once by that age range. I might be vaguely curious about how his life went based on that, but in a neutral manner, and I was going to want to know all that eventually. I might ask if it was a choice to wait so long, and if so what made him feel re…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/10/24 05:53 AM
3	The fact that the majority of blue pillers not only downplay but outright deny that women have become delusional in their standards or that there is a serious issue in dating is a huge red flag and tells you they are not interested in an honest debate that sons didn’t defend their mothers... Oh man, lmao, bro... Have you ever experienced living under domestic violence? Cuz it really comes off that you haven't. The son starts off a baby, a baby is defending no one, as the son grows up he sees his father beat his mother, this makes beating his mom normalized to some degree, the son may also become a victim of abuse, and he will be too small and weak to do anything to protect himself, let alone his mother. Those scars run deep, that fear sticks …	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/10/24 06:29 PM
3	Normalize saying you have a big vagina instead of "size queen" Bro not all women LIKE being stretched, she is one of the more rare women who DO like being stretched. An average woman doesn't get stretched by an average penis, for an average woman to get that stretch she has to go up a size to achieve the size mismatch that causes a stretch. How is this so hard?	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/10/24 04:40 PM
6	Q4A: Women are praised for being in the same situation that would be "normal" or "derogatory" for men. Why? I'm gonna disagree with you and say that "strangers" is exactly the safe place to talk about dudes having sex toys. It makes the conversation less personal which lowers internal defenses to new ideas, which allows the right messaging to passively normalize dudes having toys. A person you're close to who might reject you and humiliate you is a risk, a stranger is someone who you'll never speak to again and whose judgement you can ignore, and it'd be cool if when you're actually taking the risk, t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/10/24 03:14 AM
3	"Most men are bad/selfish in bed" You're thinking about this too personally. It's a sensory issue, be that taste, texture, both, maybe some germ/general ick feelings because it's a bodily fluid, but it's not personal. It's not that they're grossed out by their PARTNERS cum (personal) they're grossed out by cum (period). Next we have to remember that not everyone has the same opinions or associations or experiences, etc. One man may feel neutral or disgusted towards feet and another man may have a whole foot fetish and how can yo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/10/24 10:05 PM
1	Modern women want conservative masculine men but who are politically liberal, to go along with their other long list of demands. but both things usually get disproved Do they? How? Who disproves it? What's their methodology?	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/09/24 01:05 AM
4	As a man with mental illness, you are worse off in the current datingmarket then a woman with the same issues. We're "just quirky" til we're in a relationship and they realize the quirks come with downsides, misunderstandings, shutdowns, meltdowns, info-dumping, trouble with emotional regulation, burnout, sensory issues that can complicate sex (and life, honestly), executive dysfunction that impacts the relationship, etc etc Oh yeah and sometimes we don't get the "cute quirky" autism, sometimes we get the "she's ... Off" autism and we get friend-zoned hard and often. My autistic husband had a stronger, l…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/24 03:18 PM
1	The people at the top of the patriarchy are men, but that does not mean they have the best interests of their fellow men at heart. That of course depends on how we define "equal peers", I'm not saying that women view men and women as identical or anything, but young women today didn't grow up under the laws and social structures that caused men to be viewed as "oppressors", and that's what I'm speaking to. We can quibble over how much heavy lifting "increasingly" and "mostly" are doing, but I don't think you can disagree that women no longer live their lives essentially going as property of one man to another, for instance.…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/09/24 03:24 AM
2	The people at the top of the patriarchy are men, but that does not mean they have the best interests of their fellow men at heart. Absolutely! 👍🏻 People are allowed to go through their toxic era if it's what they need for a minute to fuel some personal growth, and yes I extend that to men, but they're doing themself a disservice if they shut themselves off from more balanced and understanding perspectives, they can become trapped in a hateful cycle that ends up self perpetuating, isolating a person from wholesome influences of the opposite gender because smart wholesome people avoid toxic people. Now, not everyone is built …	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/09/24 03:09 AM
2	The people at the top of the patriarchy are men, but that does not mean they have the best interests of their fellow men at heart. The irony... This doesn't sound like a threat to you at all? Like an unfair ultimatum? Did you read the comment thread before writing this? I said that I'm encouraged and excited by the focus on men and their issues I'm seeing around me, the positive attention and support I'm seeing building for men in feminist and female centered spaces... And you're telling me that women wouldn't have welcomed the same energy from men back in their struggles?? What?? What you interpreted as a threat was me ask…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/09/24 02:59 AM
2	The people at the top of the patriarchy are men, but that does not mean they have the best interests of their fellow men at heart. That said, time continues to march on and fewer men and women have that level of oppression in their living memory every day, hopefully that trend is allowed to continue and a lot of our collective baggage dies off. Progress is not always linear, neat, or perfectly fair all at times, unfortunately, and we can't erase the mistakes made in the past but we can try to do better in the future and correct the harm done in the meantime. It's all any of us can do, given our lack of a time machine. What …	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/24 07:06 PM
4	SOLUTION: Men get to ask for a DNA test as long as the GF/wife gets to randomly check his phone/tablet/computer and check that’s he not abusing the child. The people in this thread who are proposing a mandatory DNA database are being hyperbolic. They don't actually want a database they want certain men to realize that if 90% of a population knows the paternity and doesn't need a test then maybe mandatory testing is silly. They're just trying to turn it around a bit to make a point, much like the OP	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/24 03:38 PM
4	SOLUTION: Men get to ask for a DNA test as long as the GF/wife gets to randomly check his phone/tablet/computer and check that’s he not abusing the child. Yes, paternity fraud only affects men, good job Finding out that the person you're depending on to raise a child together is betraying you is genderless, however. Do women not have the right to know that the person they're depending on to raise a child with, during an incredibly vulnerable time of her life no less, isn't betraying her? If he gets his fears explored so that he isn't exploited for his time, effort, and labor, why shouldn't hers be? She risked her life and body carrying his child, …	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/24 03:29 PM
5	The people at the top of the patriarchy are men, but that does not mean they have the best interests of their fellow men at heart. Maybe try reading it a second time. I addressed that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/24 07:36 AM
3	The people at the top of the patriarchy are men, but that does not mean they have the best interests of their fellow men at heart. I'm gonna be honest and say I don't know how to find his demographic gender breakdown, but if he previously hadn't been purposely reaching out to men, and now is, then I can see how he'd have to build that audience, I guess we'll see how he does but really he was just the first person who popped in my head 😂 I'm not here to defend or advocate, I just making an observation. is SO political that it automatically turns most men off Weird, I know a lot of very political dudes. I definitely know more…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/24 07:29 AM
3	The people at the top of the patriarchy are men, but that does not mean they have the best interests of their fellow men at heart. Bro women were being oppressed in their own homes by their own fathers and husbands, at work by their bosses, and of course, by the laws of their own country. No one made that up. That did in fact have to be fought against, and in the US that fight goes all the way back to Abigail Adams writing her husband and begging him and his colleagues to remember the women who had helped in the revolution and to give them the vote. My grandmother was a grandmother before the national law said she had the r…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/24 07:04 AM
2	Modern women want conservative masculine men but who are politically liberal, to go along with their other long list of demands. You're telling me that Asian men need support, and I don't disagree, but what I asked was in what way standards have been lowered for women and how that lowering was evil. You don't have to tell me that racism exists or that Asian/South Asian men in particular are struggling in a multitude of ways, you don't have to convince me much of any group of men are suffering in some way or another, I believe you. Lots of guys have it rough in various ways out there. That isn't what I asked.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/24 06:34 AM
7	The people at the top of the patriarchy are men, but that does not mean they have the best interests of their fellow men at heart. As usual, some people will cry when they're ignored and then still complain when they're given attention 🤷🏼‍♀️ Do you want more people to be supportive of men's issues or not? Do you want more positive messaging for men or not? Do you want more compassionate outlooks on men coming from more places or not? Do you want women to have more sympathy for men or not? Do you want leftists to behave in a way that is more welcome and accepting of men or not? Because it sounds like you don't for some reaso…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/24 04:36 AM
3	High earning women don’t intimidate men from dating them Remember, women initiate 80% of divorces and that number goes up to 90% if she has a degree. Can I see your sources, please? That isn't how I remember those stats but perhaps you have new data.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/24 04:15 AM
2	Modern women want conservative masculine men but who are politically liberal, to go along with their other long list of demands. That's crazy cuz every woman I know (self included) says she's gotten more secure with age. We've learned our self worth, what we actually want in life, how to express boundaries calmly (sometimes we even have to learn one then the other 😂 that middle stage can be messy) anyway, we went through person growth, is my point. But then, some people have a growth mindset and others don't, some people want to learn and grow from their mistakes and others don't. I personally don't give my time to people…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/24 02:02 AM
3	The people at the top of the patriarchy are men, but that does not mean they have the best interests of their fellow men at heart. As someone who considers themself a feminist I could not agree with you more. Every word. Beautifully stated. The patriarchy uses us against each other and ourselves, and most men are absolutely hurt in the process. I hope we're about to see a shift to a more balanced progress soon with solid messaging for men that speaks to them in positive ways, and a focus on keeping men and boys from falling behind, or being left behind. I think it's starting, I'm hearing more and more progressives/feminists…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/24 01:45 AM
–	Modern women want conservative masculine men but who are politically liberal, to go along with their other long list of demands. Policies that undo the harmful policies that blocked women and people of color from positions, opening them up, supporting that change as it becomes solidified in our culture and benefitting from the diversity of ideas, hmm, I wouldn't call that "lowering of standards" or "evil". I'd say that's RAISING the standards. Showing up as a white man with a solid handshake and a standard issue college degree isn't enough anymore. Companies have decided that a diverse workforce strengthens them as a whol…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/24 09:12 PM
–	Modern women want conservative masculine men but who are politically liberal, to go along with their other long list of demands. The list of unfortunate correlates of high conscientiousness goes on, including rigidity, inflexibility, unwillingness to learn new skills, and an unhealthy focus on following rules. Interesting and not the least shocking. Most people I know who are big on being the one who plans things track with the article and it's often a form of taking control, be that in a big negative "controlling" way or an anxiety driven need to have control of the situation (or both)	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/24 04:26 PM
–	Modern women want conservative masculine men but who are politically liberal, to go along with their other long list of demands. The list of unfortunate correlates of high conscientiousness goes on, including rigidity, inflexibility, unwillingness to learn new skills, and an unhealthy focus on following rules. Interesting and not the least shocking. Most people I know who are big on being the one who plans things track with the article and it's often a form of taking control, be that in a big negative "controlling" way or an anxiety driven need to have control of the situation (or both)	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/24 04:26 PM
–	Modern women want conservative masculine men but who are politically liberal, to go along with their other long list of demands. What standards were lowered for women and why is it evil to lower them?	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/24 04:14 PM
–	Modern women want conservative masculine men but who are politically liberal, to go along with their other long list of demands. There are many damaged and insecure people, of course many of them will be women, that doesn't change the fact that a person seeking and/or putting up with toxic behavior is doing so because of past damage, and not some gendered trait. It's an explanation of their behavior and a warning to stay away from those particular women, not a dismissal of the idea they exist.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/24 03:52 PM
60	How do Red Pill Men feel when their girlfriend calls them out on their game? Quietly get your important stuff together and leave when he isn't home, without telling him. You can leave a note saying it over if it's that important. Don't confront, don't play games, this man tricked and lied to you for NINE YEARS, do not think that when he's on the cusp of losing that investment he won't be capable of violence. If you have to go back to get more stuff or whatever do not go alone. Bring a friend or family member. Safety first, then healing. 💛	/r/ExRedPill	22/09/24 07:34 AM
6	Most of the advice here just tells men to NOT be proactive in finding a girlfriend Yes, people have friends sometimes and friends sometimes say nice things about each other and validate each other. What does this have to do with the conversation tho?	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/24 07:53 PM
1	Why Do Women Think Their Feelings Matter More Than The Truth? Women assume a random non-threatening man is a default predator worse than a bear Women assume human men are capable of (capable, not prone to) great violence, torture and rape lasting for days, weeks, months, years. Bears tend to be incapable of such targeted and extended malice, they're just hungry and you are in their grocery aisle (the woods). Bears are predictable and have no other motivation besides food and safety. That is why some women choose the bear. If they're in the woods they presu…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/24 05:39 PM
16	Why Do Women Think Their Feelings Matter More Than The Truth? All you've known? That's awful! You must be getting accused of abusing people constantly 🫤 How many times do you think you've been accused of abusing someone? How did you prove your innocence? I can't say that's related to you being a dude in America tho, most dudes I know aren't getting accused of anything that bad and definitely not on a constant basis.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/24 03:28 AM
10	Why did so many Modern women decide they don't want kids? And getting charged with murder after your miscarriage. And the fact that domestic violence including murder goes up significantly during pregnancy There are just so many reasons to not take the risk, I can't fathom other people not understanding someone not wanting to take on all that risk! Hell even for men there are tons of risks involved in becoming a parent, enough that some men opt out, and they get to skip all the bodily shit. I'm honestly surprised women don't opt out more often, lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/09/24 10:48 PM
5	Why did so many Modern women decide they don't want kids? We aren't talking about women who decide they do want kids (or are willing to have them) we're talking about women who don't. I have already conceded to your very obvious point that occasionally people change their minds, that is not the discussion. Many women decide they don't want kids and stick to it, the fact that other women change their minds has nothing to do with any of this. We're talking about the women who don't want kids and who never change their minds, which is the subject of the e…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/09/24 10:45 PM
7	Why did so many Modern women decide they don't want kids? Sure, people do change their mind, and sometimes they don't. If a woman says she doesn't want kids and then sticks to it then she is not "denying her dude fun and fulfillment" just because he does change his mind. That's a him problem. Don't marry someone assuming they'll change their mind, it's a foolish game.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/09/24 08:57 PM
7	Why did so many Modern women decide they don't want kids? If you’re married and your guy wants kids, what woman says no? I'm gonna say probably the woman who made it clear from the beginning that she didn't want kids? What guy is marrying a woman without having like 10 different "If/when/should we have kids" discussions? You wanna know something worse than missing out on something fun and fulfilling? Pick a random body related thing or two from the list I posted, whatever random thing is probably worse than "The woman I chose to marry and asked no ques…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/09/24 07:49 PM
–	I don't understand what the blue pill is even supposed to be about If you were just describing how red pill frames themselves then I apologize for assuming you believe it too. But I will once again say that it's impossible for me or anyone else to provide "blue pill framing", because blue pill framing does not exist. The blue pill does not exist. The blue pill has no opinions on anything, thus I cannot describe them. If you don't believe in the red pill then I wasn't insulting you, I was insulting the red pill and the idea that it is "awareness", and for more t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/09/24 11:27 AM
151	Why did so many Modern women decide they don't want kids? I mean, there are all kinds of reasons Mental health Trauma history (such as not wanting to continue a cycle of abuse and also not knowing how to stop it) Medical history (Be that history that means a pregnancy would be extra risky, or a medical condition one doesn't want to pass on) The fact that pregnancy and childbirth can kill you The fact that pregnancy can leave you with chronic medical conditions for the rest of your life, such as diabetes Pregnancy causes many body and brain changes that…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/09/24 11:17 AM
–	I don't understand what the blue pill is even supposed to be about You know, I almost mentioned that there are tons of people who are "blue pill" by default having not even ever heard of pills in the first place, but that seemed to be superfluous to the conversation as well as just kind of obvious from the context in the rest of my comment so I just left that out. But yes, absolutely, tons and tons of people, the vast majority even, are blue pilled just by virtue of never hearing about this shit in the first place. Which is just yet another reason why it's dumb…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/09/24 10:07 PM
12	I don't understand what the blue pill is even supposed to be about You would think, given the color coding, and our understanding of how colors mix, lol But the blue pill doesn't exist. To be blue pill one simply rejects the red pill. That's it. No additional beliefs required. Some people flair as purple because they somewhat agree with red pill, some people are trying to avoid the extra rudeness that sometimes comes with a blue pill flair, sometimes people's arguments are dismissed outright because of blue pill flair, so purple can ease conversation. Sometimes…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/09/24 04:25 PM
1	What Do You Think Of Chris Williamson? Ohhhh, Chad only disagrees with red pill if he's a dumb Chad, of course! How convenient. Edit: The blue pilled Chads I'm referring to described themselves as still single and still out on the dating market, btw. So, not married to their highschool sweethearts. Maybe they're just too stupid to understand their own experiences though 🤷🏼‍♀️	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/24 05:10 PM
7	What Do You Think Of Chris Williamson? I've always heard that Chad is blue pilled, not red pilled, because his good looks, charm, and easy success change the game for him in such a way that he doesn't understand how it is for normal guys. I've seen self described blue pilled chads told that in this subreddit many times. Now you're telling me he's red pilled from seeing so much female nature. It's like, Schrodinger's Chad Pill Chad is whatever pill is needed in the moment	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/24 03:43 AM
1	Why do (some) women monopolize being pampered as something only women are entitled to in a relationship? You've definitely got nuggets of truth in there People tend to like other people who have a solid sense of self and the ability to assert that, yes, definitely. You could even say women value it more than men and we could have a whole discussion about why that might be, but that's for another day. And there are also people out there who love a wishy washy person because they can walk all over that person. A healthy individual will value their partner being a whole and confident person, they'll s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/09/24 03:45 PM
18	I believe women have a personal motivation to lie about their desires What would be the point in any reply from a woman? A counter argument would just be a lie, right? A woman trying to protect the image of women, yada yada So our only option is to agree, which women don't seem to be agreeing with you, plus that isn't much of of a debate, and how could you trust that she wasn't just lying to virtue signal to men, anyway? What is the point in a woman replying to this thread?	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/09/24 09:28 PM
–	Ladies, how come your tastes in fiction, contradict what you say you want irl? What is that truth? And why don't women simply live it?	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/09/24 03:25 PM
–	Ladies, how come your tastes in fiction, contradict what you say you want irl? That is not the same thing as enjoying fantasy romance and I think you know that. You're taking a common fantasy that people enjoy in the privacy and non-reality of their minds and trying to conflate it with irl choices that some people make and that other people then ascribe motivations to. These are two different conversations.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/09/24 02:39 PM
–	Ladies, how come your tastes in fiction, contradict what you say you want irl? Up until the point that you realized that women are just as capable as men of having unrealistic, unhealthy, wild romantic fantasies and will also sometimes settle for a safe and reliable reality? Interesting.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/09/24 04:57 AM
–	since women want innocent men to self blame and be responsible for the actions of the bad men they date, Should innocent men micromanage and control womens action in order to stop them from dating bad men even if it is against their will? Okay, I'll keep an eye out for women claiming that bad men are always so obvious to spot that it's akin to them wearing a sign around their necks and I'll correct them, too 🤷🏼‍♀️ women are allowed to be wrong, even in this subreddit. I'm not sure why you thought that was a counter argument.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/09/24 10:56 PM
–	since women want innocent men to self blame and be responsible for the actions of the bad men they date, Should innocent men micromanage and control womens action in order to stop them from dating bad men even if it is against their will? Huh? You think the feminist movement is about blaming innocent men for the actions of bad men? I think maybe you need to do some reading. Bell Hooks might be a good start.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/09/24 06:32 PM
–	since women want innocent men to self blame and be responsible for the actions of the bad men they date, Should innocent men micromanage and control womens action in order to stop them from dating bad men even if it is against their will? Bro, bad men don't walk around with a sign around their necks. They exist like normal people, they have family, friends, jobs even. She was asking the OP, who has advocated for men to vet other men to protect women from "bad men", how HE (and other men) would be able to tell the difference, not disputing that bad men exist at all. If you can't be bothered to read the comment thoroughly why bother replying?	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/09/24 06:31 PM
3	Being a woman in your late thirties or forties is not the handicap it used to be. I’ve noticed they’re dating more and more young attractive men He didn't call it a midlife crisis tho, he called it a "mid whore phase" which is much more specific as to the actions and choices of the person. "Midlife crisis" can be dating around, it can also be buying a new car or moving to an island or a host of other things. "Mid whore phase" is very specific, and the word choices make it sound gendered as well, and using "whore phase" rather than "life crisis" also changes the whole tone, so let's not pretend that the word choice was the neutral and gen…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/24 03:31 PM
2	THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD we will never get anywhere because what men and women want are fundamentally different men want to dominate their wife/family and just silently get women to compromise and serve them I'm going to disagree and say that we'll never "get anywhere" while we pretend that emotionally damaged behavior is inherent to men and completely absent from women. While we pretend that the upbringing and the culture people were raised in was their fault. While we pretend that good men who are supportive and equal…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/24 07:41 PM
6	Men are shamed for basically having sexual desires But no matter how you slice it the sex is bad and whoever wants it is eeeeevil, and predatory. In America we've got some of both, some "Women are pure, except when they're Jezebels!" kinda shit that's probably left over from the puritans that started things. Not a lot of nuance. For anyone. Not for dudes either. I guess men have more boxes, but not necessarily better ones. In the puritanical model. Religious, cultural, or some of both, it's not a helpful way of looking at people, imo.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/09/24 07:53 PM
46	Men are shamed for basically having sexual desires This didn't start in modern times or by "women" tho. Women being sexually pure, chaste, modest, yada yada was a religiously led ideal that women were told they were born to fit and shamed and shunned for not fitting. That's where you get things like the sexual revolution and women being like, "No way, I'm not pure, I like sex, I wanna fuck" and women have been shamed for that honesty ever since. Our sexuality is labeled a "pure" and it's been a decades long fight to change that because that suck…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/09/24 03:35 PM
1	Why are girls misleading on what tinder profiles are attractive Dude it sounds like you're dealing with so much shit right now, I'm sorry! I hope your mom feels better soon, and that you find a girl who loves you for you and who doesn't fuck with your head 💛	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/24 06:36 PM
1	Why are girls misleading on what tinder profiles are attractive How common it is can come down to things like your area and the people you hang around, unfortunately. If you're hanging around people with parents who didn't teach emotional intelligence and good values you're going to see bad behavior more often. Poverty, culture, availability of good role models (which can happen in any culture or class), these things will all effect what quality of people are around you. That isn't me blaming you, we can't really help where we live a lot of the time, especia…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/24 06:31 PM
1	Why are girls misleading on what tinder profiles are attractive Bro sometimes people just aren't the one for you. Maybe y'all just aren't as compatible as you thought. It's okay. It doesn't mean it's a reflection on you, it doesn't mean you suddenly have reasons to be hella insecure about yourself or doubt that an entire half of the population are actually sane and reasonable people. Your girlfriend is... Off. Even if not like deeply off, she sounds like she's off for you and that's all that matters. Don't let this rip you apart, just calmly separate yoursel…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/24 03:47 PM
2	Why are girls misleading on what tinder profiles are attractive Bro sometimes people just aren't the one for you. Maybe y'all just aren't as compatible as you thought. It's okay. It doesn't mean it's a reflection on you, it doesn't mean you suddenly have reasons to be hella insecure about yourself or doubt that an entire half of the population are actually sane and reasonable people. Your girlfriend is... Off. Even if not like deeply off, she sounds like she's off for you and that's all that matters. Don't let this rip you apart, just calmly separate yoursel…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/24 03:45 PM
4	Why are girls misleading on what tinder profiles are attractive I feel like maybe you don't understand the difference between white lies and the idea that a person doesn't have to state every thought that pops in their head out loud. You also leave no room for nuance and the fact that life and partner/dating choices aren't always straightforward or perfectly logical. You got hung up on the one lady and her "Olympic athletes vs runners" thing, and told her she's lying and settling because she said she finds Olympic athlete bodies intimidating and like he migh…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/24 03:30 PM
-1	"Learning to read the room" is a way for women to retain plausible deniability on their part I don’t have any other use for a woman than to fuck her. Well that's quite the illuminating statement Do you think a woman friend will do any of that for her male friends? Especially when paired with this one 😂 you don't have any other use for a woman besides that you can fuck her, but you wanna know if a woman friend would pick you up from a bar at 3am?? Why would she, if she knows you? (And yes, I have done similar favors for my male friends to what they've done for me, many many times) Most p…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/24 04:27 PM
0	"Learning to read the room" is a way for women to retain plausible deniability on their part Sometimes when I don't understand how something works and I don't want to break it I walk away. He can "not understand how consent works" but still not risk any actions that would violate it until he figures that out. (But I agree that this conversation isn't about consent as much as reading a situation generally)	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/24 04:04 PM
0	"Learning to read the room" is a way for women to retain plausible deniability on their part Why? What happens if they don't lie?	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/24 03:55 PM
–	Do you at least recognize being told you're dangerous just because you're a man is wrong? And those attitudes are affected by real world violence that people face, which is what the commenter was addressing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/24 07:21 PM
–	Do you at least recognize being told you're dangerous just because you're a man is wrong? Change moves slowly, my friend. Victims are still blamed. Look at this very thread, people are talking about what victims are wearing and who they're wrongly trusting. How can you blame women for taking the "accountability" they're told they must take in order to get sympathy and avoid blame for their own assaults and rapes? It's women taking responsibility like they're told to 🤷🏼 I don't know what else you want from them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/24 07:10 PM
–	The normalization of having your first kid at 35+ is going to decimate birth rates even more, lead to increase autism rates and make things worse for the following generations In conclusion, as shown in multiple geographic regions, increases in ASD was not only limited to advancing paternal or maternal age alone but also to differences parental age including younger or older similarly aged parents as well as disparately aged parents. From the article. Since I know most people won't read it they can at least have the conclusion, lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/24 02:48 PM
–	The normalization of having your first kid at 35+ is going to decimate birth rates even more, lead to increase autism rates and make things worse for the following generations No one has been banking on getting their social security since like, the early 2000s at best. The message that SS will be depleted by the time we're old has been drilled into us for 2 decades. I'd rather people have the lives they want (to the best of their abilities) and we have space for the immigrants that are coming anyway. Hell I bet the immigrants can even pay into SS	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/24 02:43 PM
–	The normalization of having your first kid at 35+ is going to decimate birth rates even more, lead to increase autism rates and make things worse for the following generations They actually cost you a tiny, tiny amount in taxes. If you really wanna be mad about where your taxes go look at military spending and waste 😂 And those kids will grow up to pay back all they "used" and more. Kids are an investment, that's why the country invests in their education, so they can pay it back and then some when they grow up. But of course what you're really mad about is that other people are getting laid and you're not. To hell with the fact that those kids will keep the world tur…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/24 02:36 PM
–	The normalization of having your first kid at 35+ is going to decimate birth rates even more, lead to increase autism rates and make things worse for the following generations giving more power and money to the government to fix a problem that the government started and maintain is amazing. Which problem are you referring to that the government started and maintains, specifically? Public schools, for instance, brought us for the first time in history a widely educated public, where all kids, not just rich, middle class, or lucky, have access to a proper education. Literacy rates are bananas compared to any other time in history. This sets children of all backgrounds u…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/24 02:31 PM
–	The normalization of having your first kid at 35+ is going to decimate birth rates even more, lead to increase autism rates and make things worse for the following generations A phone tends to cost slightly less than a child, and yes, people will of course use the extra cash to buy a device that is practically a necessity in the modern era. They pay their bills and go on the occasional vacation with that extra cash, too. Cuz people only get one life to live and most people would rather enjoy it somewhat than be in poverty their entire lives so that other people can feel better about the birth rates.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/24 02:09 PM
1	If women are allowed to divorce their husbands for wanting paternity test, then this guy is justified in leaving his wife for wanting to look at his phone We all have our personal biases to get over, and a new crop of young people who are still working on theirs (hopefully) pops up every day. So yeah, even as people age and grow (and sometimes don't grow), new young people who haven't thought through how similar their own actions are to something they despise in someone else are gonna come up. You'll never not see this, regardless of gender. That's just people and their personal biases (which they should absolutely be working on, imo) but you shou…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/08/24 04:46 PM
9	If women are allowed to divorce their husbands for wanting paternity test, then this guy is justified in leaving his wife for wanting to look at his phone They call both an accusation of cheating. One person is just under the influence of pregnancy hormones to some degree. I'm sorry he doesn't have pregnancy hormones influencing his thoughts, I guess? "The moment a man wants DNA proof you haven't allowed another mans sperm in your vagina people wanna call it an accusation of cheating" 😂😂😂 ("Switched at Birth" is decades old, kids. There's all kinds of cool technology and protocol keeping babies with their proper parents now. There has been for at …	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/08/24 04:16 PM
1	In your opinion how do we bring the sexes back together? Neither of these platforms is named "Reddit" and that is what you've claimed. The level to which I am informed is irrelevant, just inform me and I will be informed. I've damn near been begging you to. For the last time: If your claim is so ordinary and information is so very available it should be trivially easy for you to back up your claim with some proof. Specific proof of the specific claims you've made. I have been waiting for days though, so I can only conclude that your evidence does not …	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/24 03:03 PM
–	Question for “traditional” men: Do you recognize that traditional gender roles put women at a disadvantage? If so, does this bother you? Or conversely, do you like the power imbalance? The discussion isn't about "success" it's about financial security. Let's assume 2 people are married for 25 years: Person 1 works full time and has a career. They have some level of financial security from this alone. But they also have: their training and job knowledge is (or should be) up to date, their connections are viable and recent, health insurance from their company, they've been contributing to their retirement and Social Security (in the US), they likely have promotions under their b…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/24 04:45 PM
–	Question for “traditional” men: Do you recognize that traditional gender roles put women at a disadvantage? If so, does this bother you? Or conversely, do you like the power imbalance? Okay? People lie. Including during divorce proceedings. Are you saying nothing ever actually happens? What's your point here? Men lie about cheating, too. But a man who has been cheated on should still be believed and not blamed for his divorce. Imo. Maybe you think they're all lying, tho?	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/24 04:06 PM
–	Question for “traditional” men: Do you recognize that traditional gender roles put women at a disadvantage? If so, does this bother you? Or conversely, do you like the power imbalance? LOL divorce still has plenty of downsides 😂 The longer the marriage and more co-mingled the lives and assets are the more complicated and annoying it is to split. There are still downsides. I mean, think of couples who have children if no other "downsides" pop into mind. That should suffice. Plenty of couple stay together "for the children" so clearly they think splitting up while having kids under their roof is a downside. Like... What was that statement? Lmao Also I wonder why it's always the …	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/24 04:01 PM
5	In your opinion how do we bring the sexes back together? So you make wild claims, insult me when I seek clarity and a source, put the burden of proof on me, all because some other people were apparently frustrating to you in the past? I guess? Because I don't know what other reason you have to think that if you supply evidence of your claims I'll dodge them. In a subreddit labeled with "Debate" in the title no less, and you can't do debate 101 and back up a single claim when challenged 😂 Is that how this subreddit operates? People just spouting shit a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/24 07:12 AM
5	In your opinion how do we bring the sexes back together? If it's so out in the open then it should be trivially easy to show me, so I'm confused why you don't just shut me up by giving me what I'm asking for, which, in case you forgot, is evidence that you aren't talking out of your ass when you tell me that "the government" has "shadow banned" random subreddits. Why should I believe the extraordinary claim (government interference) over the ordinary claim (a social media platform acting in what they've determined is their best interests and taking ac…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/24 03:55 AM
5	In your opinion how do we bring the sexes back together? Okay, but ... You just saying that someone could do something isn't giving me any evidence that they have. Let alone on the specific platforms and against the specific groups you claim they have. So I'm asking how you're so sure beyond, "Because these subreddits shut down and the government is theoretically capable of influencing this." Give me something solid. Please. I want to learn.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/24 11:37 PM
–	In your opinion how do we bring the sexes back together? Multiple platforms over the last decade, including reddit... The government shut down Red Pill subreddits? ... That's a more sensible reason than a social media company limiting their liability? Okay 👍🏼 Don't play dumb. It only wasted my time and demeans yourself. You said the government shadow banned you. How am I playing dumb? I don't know your life 😂 How do you know the government shadow banned you (or anyone else) and not whatever media platform you were using? What's your evidence?	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/24 11:28 PM
–	In your opinion how do we bring the sexes back together? The government shadow banned you?? From where? 🤔	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/24 06:52 PM