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| 3 | Rejection is better than being ignored. | DajuanKev | /r/seduction | 15/06/19 02:28 AM | |
| 1 | Age gaps are stressful asf and I hate my self for it, because this is who I am. | Conversation | DajuanKev | /r/seduction | 02/06/20 08:17 PM |
| 1 | Has anyone had success with approaching women on bikes? Curious topic | DajuanKev | /r/seduction | 21/11/19 11:31 PM | |
| 0 | Post. | DajuanKev | /r/seduction | 09/06/19 05:38 AM |
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| 2 | Cold approached a Police WomanAgreed. Women in police pants look sexy. | /r/seduction | 04/07/22 01:49 PM |
| 4 | Is a 29 year old asking out an 18 year old waitress creepy?Don't let the naysayers tell you otherwise. If she's feeling you, go for it. Your literally doing nothing wrong. You aren't even being "weird" If she says no, you took the shot. If she says yes, it all was worth it. Don't live in regret not knowing. She most likely fs with you. | /r/seduction | 19/06/22 04:27 AM |
| 1 | Use this response if others try to shame you for dating a younger womanI wouldn't even be with her if it was so bad. I'd have been rejected. | /r/seduction | 01/06/22 11:01 PM |
| 2 | Cold Approach is BrutalThe thrill is amazing, I agree. Its only better for me when she makes me want to ask her to wait and slow her down. Like being hit with awe struck at first sight. But if you really want to keep approaching, expect to be stressed on some days. | /r/seduction | 02/05/22 02:50 PM |
| 0 | Cold Approach is BrutalYou've approached way too many girls, man. Don't approach just because of some validation. Be more selective and casual. If you approach over 60-70 girls, you will be noticed in a way you wouldn't want to be. For me, even over 20 approaches feel like a decrease in health and added stress. I'd take me at least 3-5 years to approach over 60 women. | /r/seduction | 02/05/22 02:36 PM |
| 1 | Does being in your late 20s or early 30s really limit your dating prospects as a guy?Honestly dude? Don't go acting like them bandwagon circle jerks. s** make me go lol | /r/seduction | 21/02/22 07:42 PM |
| 2 | Does being in your late 20s or early 30s really limit your dating prospects as a guy?Lol no, dude. This is biology. They looked hot asf and I approached. I always ask they age first and now I know. | /r/seduction | 21/02/22 04:13 PM |
| 1 | Does being in your late 20s or early 30s really limit your dating prospects as a guy?Bruh, facts 100%. I once approached 15-17's that just looked good to me and they likely looked at me as in they're gen. I'm also average height, short and was mistaken by some 13-15 year old dude as one of his bros. | /r/seduction | 21/02/22 02:21 PM |
| 1 | Struggling with girls in collegeThe "All the guys except 2-3 are invisible to them." sounds unrealistic man. There are obviously girls at the college for you, especially since it probably gets new transfer students every other day. | /r/seduction | 24/11/21 01:35 PM |
| 3 | Approaching women is fun af!That's the whole point of it. Approach and expect zero success. Just wait till you approach that one women with a different reaction. Exciting asf. You will probably back down. | /r/seduction | 12/08/21 12:42 PM |
| 1 | I accidently hit on a 16 year old todayYour cool, dude. Ignore the haters. You did nothing absolute. I'm right passed 29 and accidentally approached "younger" women all the time and they usually don't notice I'm older. Its not just about approaching. Its about HOW you approach that determine you. She was potentially flirtatious towards you first anyway, of course you would take it as inviting. This is what's attractive between a male and female. We're fated like this. Its being positive. What's fascinating, I'm a low key short dude, … | /r/seduction | 16/06/21 12:43 PM |
| 1 | To me, it feels like I can only approach a girl if we meet in a place where that's "socially acceptable", be it at a bar, work or school. How do you approach a girl who's just trying to mind her own business that you met at some random coffee shop?Huh? I approach women in the grocery store, etc as long as its day out, social and public. The grocery store is one of the best places since women are at they're most happy when they're shopping, usually. You can also go in public universities for amazing opportunities. Sometime it has to be situational since you probably won't get to see that specific girl again. You miss all the shots you don't take. Put yourself out there. Don't be needy or forceful and give yourself closure. C'mon, bro. Appr… | /r/seduction | 02/06/21 02:26 AM |
| 1 | Men in your mid-30s or older, where are you meeting single women?You can honestly still hang at open public universities and approach the young ladies there. Their cool and will blow you away. You still gotta blend in tho. Take care your body and fit. | /r/seduction | 06/05/21 02:10 PM |
| 3 | Women will respect your courageGirls used to approach me when I was in high school and I took them for granted. Now its my turn to approach them, not gettin' no younga. | /r/seduction | 27/04/21 01:52 AM |
| 1 | Speaking as a woman - Don’t forget you’re always coming off as horny.Takin' them notes. | /r/seduction | 13/04/21 05:31 PM |
| 3 | Who else is in their late 30s and still trying to learn how to be proficient at attracting women?I don't approach every women, man. She has to struck me as cute and beautiful and make me want to put in effort. I like average, to tho. S** Unhappily taken? Sounds scary, man. I don't want to have a girl and she's bored asf by me. One of my biggest fears is finding out my girl's been messing with another dude. | /r/seduction | 10/04/21 03:46 PM |
| 2 | Who else is in their late 30s and still trying to learn how to be proficient at attracting women?I know bro. They be married and ish tho. Lots of them in the gym usually a already have a mate. If they in sexy clothes like shorts, they can use it against you. I occasionally see cute asf cyclists I wish I could catch up to, but are dismissive asf. I'm just being real with you and lowering my expectations. | /r/seduction | 10/04/21 01:13 PM |
| 4 | Who else is in their late 30s and still trying to learn how to be proficient at attracting women?I feel you, dude. Your school run/years is the best time to get girls because you constantly see them. It becomes more difficult once you bypass school, you have to go out and chase them. I graduated in 2010 bro and it's like I forgot how to tell girls from women, younger girls look more like women these days and the common older women have kids or some ish. Hitting the gym and collage is one of the last hopes. | /r/seduction | 10/04/21 12:09 PM |
| 3 | Talk to pretty girls.That was badass, the homeless dude. He took his dignity and left. | /r/seduction | 21/11/20 01:44 PM |
| 1 | Age Doesn’t MatterOn point. One universal thing you need to do for fact, you gotta look fit and youthful. I'm short to average in height that can really benefit you. I approached girls and was blown away by their reactions, I honestly didn't know they could be completely younger, but my height is like still around 6-7 grade. A noticeable amount of young girls glance at my physique because, I actually lift and clean. Honestly, sometimes I feel immortalized. I'm 30. | /r/seduction | 23/10/20 02:06 PM |
| 3 | If you're shallow, and put a girl on a pedestal bc of her looks, you will be nervous and try too hard to impress her, then get rejected. If you're not shallow, but judge a girl for what is inside and not outside, your behavior and energy will be different, and your results will be much better.Glad I'm not the only one. Every women I approached I did wanted to kick it with at first glance, but I could also see my self being committed to them. Real shit. | /r/seduction | 03/10/20 03:07 AM |
| 6 | Approaching girls while they are in groups is actually way easier than when they are alone. As long as you understand the following...This post right here. I actually approached a girl with her group and it was cool once I excused my self. I agree that it is important to socialize with the group, but its also entirely one sided. Bruh, if a girl I'm attracted to approached me while I'm with my bros, I won't hope she tries to socializes with them because it'd be confusing. | /r/seduction | 25/09/20 06:35 PM |
| 3 | Approaching girls while they are in groups is actually way easier than when they are alone. As long as you understand the following...I'm sick of "You should be talking to the entire group" bs. Bruh, that's too damn much work. If I wanted to talk to the whole group, I'd just give out party invitations. I'm approaching that one girl because I'm in fact after that one girl while still being respectable to her group. F the rest. | /r/seduction | 25/09/20 03:47 PM |
| 1 | Just approach them.A lot of people don't see there's more to it than just approaching and succeeding. You also want to leave a lasting impression on the girl, keeping you linked. | /r/seduction | 24/09/20 12:27 PM |
| 5 | Just approach them.I'm happy I approached the girls I did, especially since it was pre covid. Been approaching heavy since 2015 and some are memorable as incredible. Their still really beneficial since their like blueprints now. | /r/seduction | 23/09/20 12:33 PM |
| 1 | 𝕿𝖍𝖊 #1 𝕿𝖍𝖎𝖓𝖌 𝕿𝖍𝖆𝖙 𝕶𝖎𝖑𝖑𝖘 𝕬𝖙𝖙𝖗𝖆𝖈𝖙𝖎𝖔𝖓.I say this a lot, but I love this post. Self appreciation, win win. If an approach goes well, but the circumstances didn't match, the girl will most likely still remember you. | /r/seduction | 18/09/20 12:28 PM |
| 1 | dont overthink, just openI love the "You miss all the shots you don't take, make the best of the opportunity" approach. I love that I managed to approach women while they were eating, etc on college campuses because you highly likely won't see them again. Approaching women on the bike as they're bypassing you is one of the biggest obstacles tho. Them legs tho. | /r/seduction | 09/09/20 08:37 PM |
| 1 | Rejection.Some rejections can stick with you if you trip over your words. Worst rejections, bruh. | /r/seduction | 21/07/20 09:21 PM |
| 1 | Guys, how do you deal with competition ? (Girls opinion also wanted)There's nothing you can do. There will always be someone better than you just as you will eventually meet a more attractive girl. | /r/seduction | 09/07/20 12:43 AM |
| 1 | I’ve never had a girlfriend. Or a kiss.I'm late into 29 and still has yet to hold a girl by the waist, crazy. | /r/seduction | 08/07/20 07:09 PM |
| -2 | Cold approach from a girl's perspectiveI fully agree with you, miss. I honestly really do care about the women I approach, they really have no idea how much heart I would put into them if we're to be committed. I honestly have no intentions of making the women feel used. I just want to have fun. If the unintentional is to be suddenly felt by us, its because the heart is a fragile fragment. | /r/seduction | 25/06/20 10:39 PM |
| 1 | Treat women with respect, treat them like a human being, talk to them, don't pressure them - and it often plays out in your favor.True fact, I do approach women for all the "wrong" reasons, but in actuality, I'd marry them, bruh. I wouldn't use them either because I wouldn't expect them not to mess with another person. I just want to have casual fun, but if a woman grips me at the first sight of her divine aesthetic, I'd def try to work with it. | /r/seduction | 17/06/20 12:33 PM |
| 2 | How do bad boys/jerks approach?I literally agree. My sister is a prime example. | /r/seduction | 16/06/20 04:53 PM |
| 5 | disbelief someone is interested in meDon't just rush at her tho, you might not be ready. Let it adjust and then go see what's up. | /r/seduction | 14/06/20 03:40 AM |
| 1 | I went on a date , but I felt weird - like a pedo.Just end it. Your basically saying you like taller girls. | /r/seduction | 13/06/20 09:58 PM |
| 1 | How to really stop putting women on a pedestal?I relate, bruh. I approached Some women they made me feel unworthy asf. They were cool, but I had to turn my self down because I didn't felt like I earned it and to avoid being needy. Women can look unreasonably beautiful. | /r/seduction | 13/06/20 06:05 PM |
| 4 | If all you have to offer is sex to a woman you have no chanceI agree to this. I have yet to have a girlfriend, why I really want to experience holding a girl by her waist as we both can feel our heart beats. I just need that one thing and I'm good. | /r/seduction | 12/06/20 02:58 PM |
| 0 | Is 25 too old to game at college?You'd blend right in, dude. Take care yourself and your hygiene, hit the gym. University is woman, you won't inherently get in trouble as long as you aren't harassing the women. University is a high ground for dudes your age and older. | /r/seduction | 12/06/20 02:56 AM |
| 5 | "Shes not yours but your turn" makes me not want to do anything with a womanThat's the harsh reality, man. At 29 almost 30, I have yet to even have a girlfriend and its really fuckin with me. All I can really do is, workout. You gotta lower expectations and expect the bad ends and be proven wrong. | /r/seduction | 08/06/20 11:20 PM |
| 0 | Women Like Catching You Checking Them OutAnd your dumb and stupid. ✌️ Bye, Felicia. | /r/seduction | 08/06/20 03:06 AM |
| 2 | Women Like Catching You Checking Them OutI can agree with this. Respect to you, dude. Crazy I never thought of this. Haha Waving and saying hello is definitely a more positive outlook. I never see any of those women again tho since I rarely pass the street anymore where woman that heavily engage in this activity. My best friend doesn't live around there anymore. | /r/seduction | 07/06/20 09:03 PM |
| 1 | Women Like Catching You Checking Them OutShe's on a bike, bruh. She could easily get away if she wanted to. | /r/seduction | 07/06/20 08:13 PM |
| 1 | Women Like Catching You Checking Them OutThis post sums up how entitled people have it incredibly easy in the seduction field because dudes like me have to risk our reputation for this shit. The women I "approached" didn't look to be having a great day at all and I reached out to the woman as "Miss" I didn't even try to engage her in conversation because there was just no time. I approached because I wanted that small interaction and because she genuinely looked sexy as hell. The women could literally see me coming as I wanted her to f… | /r/seduction | 07/06/20 08:12 PM |
| 1 | Women Like Catching You Checking Them OutYour SO is really judgmental than anything. In my years of approaching, I'll tell you dude, that I'm not that type of dude. I just learned to be positive and read body language in my own way. Your SO, is entitled to her safety, but, no one is actually out to get her like that. Trust me. I did make some woman uncomfortable in my learning experience and I learned from it. ✌ | /r/seduction | 07/06/20 07:13 PM |
| 3 | Women Like Catching You Checking Them OutHopefully we're parallels, dude. I mostly check out women while their on their bikes and shit can get real. Them legs. I actually approached a women on a bike, I caught up to her, but I still kept my distance and she seen me coming, as if she wanted me to approach. I had to slightly yelled my call out to her to get her attention and the chemistry was strong, it was amazing. She didn't have a bf, but wasn't interested and replied so it doesn't matter. See ya. I went back to the bus stop and event… | /r/seduction | 07/06/20 04:08 PM |
| 2 | I don't understand,why do men think the only way to get a woman attracted to them is with money? It's not true.Money is an initial interest, case and point. lol | /r/seduction | 07/06/20 03:40 PM |
| 1 | One Year Cold Approach Challenge - Day 9 Progress Report (Most Adorable Girl)That's the real goal in the end. Since 2015, I have more memorable approaches than I could have wanted. My most recent, I was at my local city with a tourism attraction and I noticed a girl giving directions to some people. We kind of kept linking eyes and she had me struck. She was all over the place and aesthetically cute so. I made my way to her, I tripped on my words, but it was all good. I asked if she had a bf and she replied she had a girlfriend. I was still so allured so I replied, do I … | /r/seduction | 07/06/20 03:24 PM |
| 2 | My first cold approach today!Approaching isn't just about succeeding. A good approach can still be memorable that will keep you positive. Bruh, I have a lot of memorable approaches that I still cherish and are like blueprints. | /r/seduction | 05/06/20 02:02 AM |
| 1 | This community fucked me up. Fuck this place, just get out there and focus on being the best guy you can be and girls will come naturallyI totally agree. There isn't really a "How to" Seduction works in different ways for different people. This sub is only interesting after you actually had successful approaches. | /r/seduction | 19/05/20 12:01 PM |
| 1 | OvercomplicateIt isn't if she's young asf but has a women build. | /r/seduction | 01/05/20 04:12 PM |
| 1 | What's with this double standard of hot girls wanting to be treated as normal people while acting like dating less attractive guys is below them?Beauty is subjective. The less attractive guys probably weren't even attracted to them, only, they probably just wanted that one thing. | /r/seduction | 21/04/20 12:42 AM |
| -1 | Why you must tell the girl you like that you like herFun asf read, I agree 100%. Women want the dude to lead. | /r/seduction | 13/04/20 06:58 PM |
| 1 | Common traits in guys who suck with womenHolding a conversation is still hard asf tho. Also, most women I have recently approached were taken or disinterested. Then, I never see them again. I'm not looking to date "any" women bruh. Gotta have standards if I want self worth. | /r/seduction | 25/03/20 12:47 PM |
| 13 | Most girls only want your attentionI don't really get the op tho. I approached women that looked pissed or annoyed but blew my expectations after I approached them after fuckin it. Girls that seemed sweet I less recently approached, were cold and misleading. | /r/seduction | 22/03/20 01:29 PM |
| 1 | Girls choose you, you don't chose them. As a man, focus on being a better person, and stop chasing womenOh, ok. Now I get it. Haha Nah, I will never chase a girl in that instance then. | /r/seduction | 17/03/20 05:53 PM |
| 2 | Girls choose you, you don't chose them. As a man, focus on being a better person, and stop chasing womenAdmittedly, I do chase girls because I know I won't see her again after that day. There are just some girls that really blow me away and not approaching them can be any miss opportunity. | /r/seduction | 17/03/20 03:05 PM |
| 1 | Girls choose you, you don't chose them. As a man, focus on being a better person, and stop chasing womenGuess I didn't think about it like that. I was going by who she chooses to have intercourse with. Ultimately if she doesn't want to open, no pleasure. | /r/seduction | 17/03/20 12:24 PM |
| 26 | Girls choose you, you don't chose them. As a man, focus on being a better person, and stop chasing womenJust because she doesn't approach, doesn't mean she isn't the chooser. You can approach and get literal rejected. | /r/seduction | 17/03/20 12:47 AM |
| 1 | Greatest tip you will ever hear.I'm so allured by girls/women, bruh. I'm currently a 29 year dude and I literally approach every one attractive to me, young, my age and older, I don't give af and I do it because I know my time on earth will be way less then how long I will be significantly absent. I workout and try to live a healthy life style to the best of my ability. I will Not! let a girl pass by with a sick body without speaking to her because this is my destiny and I gotta live it to the fullest. As of current, I seen ar… | /r/seduction | 11/03/20 01:26 PM |
| 1 | So a girl tried to put me in the friend zone yesterday…I'mma learn from this, bruh. | /r/seduction | 08/03/20 07:42 PM |
| 22 | What are some mistakes you made in your younger years?I had bad hygiene. Wasn't self aware and legit cringe. | /r/seduction | 15/02/20 12:48 PM |
| 3 | The regret is realI completely agree, man. The regret is immense because you will literally never know while believing you think you do. Truthfully, you will never know shit but then, you could have. The ladder is the absolutely worst and you will suffer for it. | /r/seduction | 29/01/20 01:56 AM |
| 5 | 3 Things To Remember When Approaching A GirlMy most recent rejection, the girl flat out told me NO as in no boyfriend and I backed away in case of. I still feel pretty good about it because she could have fibbed and say she did. I feel like there was more to it now. | /r/seduction | 16/01/20 02:09 PM |
| 2 | I Like To Watch My Girlfriend Use The Toilet, Is This Normal ? What do u guys think ?Fuck, deleted. | /r/seduction | 11/01/20 02:27 PM |
| 1 | How do I take girls off the "pedestal"?If you don't ever take the girl off the pedestal, someone will and you will see it. Then, you'll feel snagged asf. | /r/seduction | 08/01/20 06:11 PM |
| 1 | My #1 rule of seduction: Never fucking chaseYou approach them, get reception and then be casual. Don't DESPERATELY chase and leave them be. Approach multiple girls until something works. | /r/seduction | 20/12/19 02:30 PM |
| 3 | The Dark Side of Game: Part 1 - 'Taken Girls and infidelity'I relate to this so hard. I have basically no expectations for a good relationship. | /r/seduction | 05/12/19 02:18 PM |
| 2 | Why you self sabotageI rejected my self so many times, some women just really blew me away, my mind couldn't process them being interested in me. Disappointing a women is one of my biggest fears. I give them kudos for being emphatic tho. | /r/seduction | 05/12/19 02:14 PM |
| 1 | Those of you who look way younger than your age, what benefits do you experience?They won't notice the difference, bonus if she likes older guys anyway. It also really helps if you drink mostly water, take care yourself and avoid cigs at full cost. I believe being basically short heighted is also beneficial. Approached 16's, 17's, even 15's through my 26, 27, 28 years, I was blind sided because they all looked older but, nah. | /r/seduction | 04/12/19 11:21 PM |
| 2 | Can't drive, no money, and not very tall.Not knowing how to drive is really bothersome when you want to feel accomplished but still struggle financially. | /r/seduction | 04/12/19 07:29 AM |
| 1 | Guys get out of your house.Real shit. Honestly, there's nothing better than the thrill of it if not the ladder. I have some memorable asf approaches. | /r/seduction | 03/12/19 09:34 PM |
| 1 | Remember To Be Kind Towards WomenThe "Bad boy" is really, just don't be too nice and to make things fun. The "bad boy" is abused, which I can understand if this is the reason the girls can't help it because they don't want a "perfect guy" | /r/seduction | 03/12/19 03:55 PM |
| 5 | I don't like model girls, or the typical stereotype of hot girls.Its literally subjective and ridiculous. I hate the term 1's/10's since I can't stand the body types of most models, they look like those manikans you'd see posted in store open view windows. | /r/seduction | 02/12/19 11:19 PM |
| 1 | Is There an Age Limit for hooking up, one night stands or friends with benefits?Working out seems to help, I drink enough water. I'm basically average height/short so I somewhat blend in with today's generation. Half of the day, the girls don't realize we're generations apart, if I shave at least. | /r/seduction | 01/12/19 08:18 AM |
| 1 | Is There an Age Limit for hooking up, one night stands or friends with benefits?I haven't dated yet in my life, missed it in middle school even, high school. Your supposed to start the basics in 5th 6th grade or whatever. | /r/seduction | 01/12/19 08:15 AM |
| 2 | Is There an Age Limit for hooking up, one night stands or friends with benefits?I relate to how that "Too late" to get into this gets you. I'm 29 and is yet to even pass the basics. | /r/seduction | 01/12/19 02:10 AM |
| 1 | Lets have a discussion about something thats been bugging me: Unatractive GirlsThe girl, how your describing, has a beautiful soul. She's to be great on her own without us. | /r/seduction | 30/11/19 02:43 PM |
| 4 | [FR] You can approach women anywhere - 8 approaches in a grocery storeI approached so many women in Wal-Mart, its fun. | /r/seduction | 29/11/19 02:08 PM |
| 1 | Question mainly for black gamers - should I ever feel shame for approaching non-black women?Nah, if your genuine about it at least. I'm neutral on all women but wouldn't mind settling down with a black chick. | /r/seduction | 26/11/19 05:28 PM |
| 1 | How to overcome the fear of coming off as a creep?If your confident, it just depend on the women. Attraction is subjective. If you know what your doing and is a man about it, respectable to the women, there's no other way to go about it. | /r/seduction | 25/11/19 11:37 PM |
| 1 | Why is it so hard choosing between a brain dead hot girl and the perfect chick who is just average looking?!Apart of you want to experiment, its hard to beat that. The average girl is generally better for you but the hot girl is like that anime chick. | /r/seduction | 24/11/19 06:25 PM |
| 1 | [meta] I feel like way too many posts are deleted, and a lot of good content is lostThis sub ultimately needs more active mods. More active mods, we could see a vault where all deleted threads go. The mods can simply repost either thread. I would even suggest copy and paste anymore quality threads you run into and save them to a doc, then repost it. | /r/seduction | 22/11/19 02:33 PM |
| 1 | For a 27 years old guy, is it creepy to try to talk to an undergradute girls on campus?No it isn't. I recently done it, male 29. Just relax and have fun. | /r/seduction | 22/11/19 01:09 PM |
| 1 | Cold approached a girl with her friend at a library today- no regretsThat's what its really about, great reception. Not actually getting the women. | /r/seduction | 19/11/19 02:03 PM |
| 1 | It's not you, women just don't like to be approached in publicAs a dude, I probably won't see that women again I managed to see at that right place and excellent time. She could be a tourist, etc. I would need to be positive and ultimately take the risk. Also, appreciate how royal most women have it. If you were expected to approach, you would see how overwhelming it can be to process. Great empathy by the way. | /r/seduction | 14/11/19 03:01 PM |
| 1 | Rejection Isn’t Even that BadI have this odd comfort with even rejecting my self because I have this notion I don't want to see the girl turn from that innocent first impression to a suddenly cold b** I really want to be as casual as possible. | /r/seduction | 09/11/19 03:15 PM |
| 1 | Next time you see a pretty girl. Remind yourself these three thingsYour instincts will tell you. | /r/seduction | 22/10/19 01:12 PM |
| 1 | Anyone else too worried about the random people around hearing you try to pick up a girl?Its the best time to approach. Think about what the girl will possibly think of you otherwise. The women will think of her safety first and foremost. Gotta push through it. | /r/seduction | 19/10/19 03:51 PM |
| 1 | You don’t feel like game is evil or abusive or something like that?Before you touch the girl or whatever, just ask permission. My default hope is body building. | /r/seduction | 14/10/19 02:56 PM |
| 1 | You don’t feel like game is evil or abusive or something like that?I'd still reject my self, won't know what to do. If I'm attracted to the women and she is also, I won't process it. Basically, women only date guys as rich as celebrities. | /r/seduction | 14/10/19 01:26 PM |
| 1 | You don’t feel like game is evil or abusive or something like that?Interesting topic. I do feel like this occasionally. If she's wearing short shorts to list, I feel like there's no purpose behind the approach. I'm also basically addicted to rejecting my self for the women because oddly I feel like a hero. | /r/seduction | 14/10/19 01:02 PM |
| 1 | The Power Of Making Positive AssumptionsA recent approach, she was honest and said (No) she didn't have a boyfriend. Aside from how she said it tho, I still feel like there was potentially more to it. I feel.. decent because I was constantly hit with the bf excuse, but my more recent approach was different. Its good to analyze. | /r/seduction | 13/10/19 04:47 AM |
| 1 | UK teen facing jail after he touched a girl whilst trying to befriend herMan I'm glad I don't live in the UK. On the side note tho, I wouldn't have touched the girl. Lesson learned, bud. | /r/seduction | 10/10/19 06:30 PM |
| 1 | I was initially attracted to this community because it taught “I’m not good enough” was just a limiting belief that kept you from a good dating life. But after approaching hundreds of girls & getting rejected countless times, I feel like maybe that belief was right all along. Anyone else feel this?Its the women, bruh. Just keep approach because we won't be young forever. Otherwise when a yes does happen, you won't know how to process it. | /r/seduction | 07/10/19 12:50 PM |
| -1 | Just do it alreadyI mean, yeah. Approach and take it like a man. | /r/seduction | 06/10/19 03:48 PM |
| 1 | I'm full of regret. Do not be like me.I'm still flopping. Competing with car owners is a bitch. | /r/seduction | 29/09/19 09:53 PM |
| 2 | What to do when almost all girls are in groups?It can be very tense, I relate to you, man. I approached a girl out with her besties once for the first time and she was more empathy then anything. I never tried or was inherently able to again since because the humiliation feels high. | /r/seduction | 29/09/19 04:26 PM |
| 4 | How are guys so scared of talking to women?Its the same case as how some rejections can be brutal, they will f with you. A women on her worst days can make you feel "surreal" and physically unacceptable. Women ARE great, but also unpredictable. | /r/seduction | 22/09/19 06:46 PM |
| 1 | Can we please ban marketers?This sub NEEDS more mods. | /r/seduction | 20/09/19 02:29 AM |
| 1 | Saw a girl whoes exactly my type and did the approachI know. Just go in, man, ignoring the worst possibility that could happen. Some rejections still hurt as shit tho. | /r/seduction | 19/09/19 01:36 PM |
| 13 | The best way to kill your chances with a girl is becoming overly excited about it too quickly. Learn to tame your excitement and stay level-headed. Never psyche yourself out too much too early on.For a newbie, it can become surreal when your suddenly shown interest. You don't really know how to process why you even got to that point anymore so your just left sort of shocked. | /r/seduction | 11/09/19 04:12 PM |
| 1 | How to regain confidence and stop thinking I’m creepy?I mean, just take a break from approaching and just talk to bros. Give it about a month and you should be good. Also, be a dick over the process. Ignore women if they smile at you, etc to reverse it. | /r/seduction | 06/09/19 02:46 PM |
| 3 | How do I get older women (age 30 to 40's) to take me seriously?Don't be stuck with that mystery man, its brutal. Also always make sure the environment is good. I think approaching while other people are around is one of the best opportunities. Its intense, but wins you the bravery card and the girl is likely to remember you. Experience. | /r/seduction | 02/09/19 06:58 PM |
| 1 | How do I get older women (age 30 to 40's) to take me seriously?Its smarter to start now and then you will have some mastery of it by 30. I know I want to. If you hear the "Work on improving your self" from other posts, ignore that shit. Time is the real obstacle. If you see a nice older women, approach because you probably won't see that women again. | /r/seduction | 02/09/19 05:18 PM |
| 0 | Checking girls outWomen occasionally smile at me, but I don't smile back because I don't know how to. I only know how to smile basically when I laugh. When I smile by force, I feel weird, like a threat as if my smile is unnatural. | /r/seduction | 02/09/19 04:40 PM |
| 7 | How do I get older women (age 30 to 40's) to take me seriously?You kind of responded to your question regarding how those women perceived you. Just keep approaching older women and eventually you will see them at a better pace. You already stepped into the man field and the women will see that. | /r/seduction | 02/09/19 03:42 PM |
| 1 | Approaching is enough to call an interaction a successful one.Interactions are amazing, its like the woman has to give you something for effort. Something about those small interactions, she has yet to even know you, but she's still responsive for whatever reason. Your worthy in some capacity. | /r/seduction | 01/09/19 05:51 AM |
| 1 | Holy shit. All I had to do was approach.Nah. Don't really get hopeless until actually rejected. | /r/seduction | 21/08/19 04:46 PM |
| 0 | Overcoming Age ObjectionI gave you an upvote, my dude. Yup, its just about having fun, enjoying life to the fullest. If she has a women body, see if she's down. Who the hell really wants a serious relationship?! | /r/seduction | 10/08/19 05:29 PM |
| 1 | 28 year old guy gets busted getting head from a 48 year old woman on a plane 😂😂 my guy was running gameI'm jealous asf. | /r/seduction | 06/08/19 05:51 PM |
| 2 | I'm 35 but look 25. What are the benefits and how can I use them in dating?You probably got a baby face. Haha Just be energetic. Don't let age bother you. | /r/seduction | 31/07/19 02:14 PM |
| 1 | What age is too old to game college age girls.If you have a baby face, you should be alright. Also, workout, bruh. | /r/seduction | 27/07/19 03:46 AM |
| 2 | My neighbour (52F) mimicked a blow job at me (M25). She is married and really hot. Help. What do I do?Shit. I'd feel bad for who she's married to since it a mess with me. | /r/seduction | 21/07/19 03:48 AM |
| 1 | I don't enjoy being a jerk with girls, but it gets me results.The op is some shit. Its been reversed for me, but I can relate to you. I guess it depend on the person, voice, etc. | /r/seduction | 18/07/19 01:05 AM |
| 1 | Guys who looks very young for your age, whats your experience?I'm late 20s but have approached significantly younger girls who looked older and they seem to have taken it, I was in the same generation as them. It feels pretty great sometimes. I'm basically short so.. yeah. | /r/seduction | 10/07/19 02:54 AM |
| 2 | Guys who looks very young for your age, whats your experience?Ignore the bandwagon trolls, man. As long as you aren't out to hurt the women, you aren't inherently in the wrong. Its about having fun and a lot of 16-17's have women bodies anyway. | /r/seduction | 10/07/19 02:50 AM |
| 1 | The Power Of Making Positive AssumptionsWhy does the op feel like a familiar instinct? Haha | /r/seduction | 07/07/19 03:36 AM |
| 1 | How do I stop freaking out once I know that girls are into me?Its due to when you can't see pass expectations. When your used to rejection, you can't see the unreal. | /r/seduction | 28/06/19 04:09 PM |
| 3 | Why are hotter girls nicer than average-above average looking girls when cold approaching?We have exactly the same experiences and its absolutely mind blowing, in a positive way. Girls I thought I liked from a distance, once I was up close to them, they rejected me, but I realized I wasn't attracted to them. Girls I actually was attracted to, plot twist unfold. Or the empathy was great. | /r/seduction | 24/06/19 12:56 AM |
| 1 | What’s the deal with women you keep catching looking at you then being kinda bitchy and tight lipped when you approach?Those women end up bitter and used up quicker than they realize, not that all women do. If she's harsh now, she'll want you eventually as you've become desired by other women. | /r/seduction | 23/06/19 11:30 PM |
| 2 | How to hit on a 10/10 girl ?There is no 10/10. Attraction is subjective. I'm usually not into models at all or tall chicks as they wouldn't be into me. It only depends on what you like. | /r/seduction | 18/06/19 06:13 PM |
| 1 | Saved myself from an awkward attempt at conversation by being straightforward.Haha | /r/seduction | 18/06/19 01:53 AM |
| 1 | You have to look like a fool in some cases.It has the whole dignity appeal behind it. | /r/seduction | 16/06/19 02:29 PM |
| 4 | Don't Be Like MeIts ok, dude. A lot of girls attractive to you are almost never single anyway. | /r/seduction | 16/06/19 04:03 AM |
| 1 | Game isn’t needed if she’s attracted to you.Attraction is just a benefit by default. It really helps to back it and have spice. Don't be attractive and lazy. Liveliness is sexy. | /r/seduction | 13/06/19 04:45 PM |
| 1 | Any older guys here? 30's or 40'sGive me hope, this thread. | /r/seduction | 13/06/19 04:42 PM |
| 1 | Read the ‘50th law’ by Robert Greene and 50 cent. This book is instrumental to explaining fear and how you can deal with any fears you haveFear will even potentially cause unsure-ness, the girl already know what she wants so you have to at least show progression. | /r/seduction | 10/06/19 03:38 PM |
| 0 | Post.The title is mostly irrelevant since you can make it out of whatever I written in the op. I don't make women my world, I'm a picky b* and extremely late to seduction with still currently no actual experiences. I just want to at least figure out the basics before I age too much. And funnily tho, I even seen attractive women and didn't bother to approach, after reception even. | /r/seduction | 09/06/19 04:08 PM |
| 1 | It’s Friday night. What is your excuse for not going out?It literally rained off and on so I'm in. | /r/seduction | 08/06/19 03:46 AM |
| 1 | This Is the Core of Seduction of All Time.So in other words, just show effort? | /r/seduction | 04/06/19 09:14 PM |
| 1 | Police: "you harass girls!", got a fine of €100 and criminal recordI relate to you, man. It just makes you want to hate all of existence with already seeing couples. We're the aliens. | /r/seduction | 04/06/19 02:15 AM |
| 2 | You know you’re making enough approaches when your brain can’t fathom why you wouldn’t be doing it.The possibilities and potentially new memories. These benefits I'm now established with since I started approaching. | /r/seduction | 02/06/19 10:31 PM |
| 1 | How should older men get younger girlfriends?The dude that dissed you was literally a drama fanatic. It wasn't weird that you asked out a 21 when you were 28 because you were in your 20s, to. I'm 28 but approached 15's, 16's, 17's I thought were older and interestingly, they didn't make a big deal out of it since I'm averagely short I guess and have a baby face. | /r/seduction | 02/06/19 04:31 PM |
| 1 | Sexually escalating and seducing a woman feels completely wrong (hard to explain). How do I get over these feelings?100% relatable. Sometimes I feel aggressive, like a threat and I hate it. I actually feel better when I'm rejected, oddly rather than when the approach is positive because I feel a type of guilty I can't put into words. | /r/seduction | 02/06/19 03:02 PM |
| 1 | If you could become famous, and not "need" to pick-up women for the rest of your life, would you?I would choose to be famous because then I won't need to put in much effort to seduce the girls I actually want. | /r/seduction | 30/05/19 05:29 PM |
| 1 | The "I have a boyfriend" lie...The "I have a boyfriend" is tricky. I would leave it, to. It could be so many different signs. | /r/seduction | 28/05/19 09:41 PM |
| 1 | Is it bad if all I care about is looks with girls?We all do to certain extends. Its like a fetish. | /r/seduction | 27/05/19 11:03 PM |
| 2 | Does anybody else not find online game their thing?Online seduction is myth level, bruh. Most people who know their attractive don't use it. | /r/seduction | 19/05/19 03:39 PM |
| 3 | How do you seduce a women of older age.I like older women, to. Something about them, I have a teacher fetish. | /r/seduction | 17/05/19 07:56 PM |
| 5 | Really want to just stop wanting a girlfriendYour just 16 my dude. Your bound to get girls by collage. I'm 28 and feel exactly like you right now. | /r/seduction | 17/05/19 01:46 PM |
| 0 | Learn to observe firstI'm sorry for not being as intelligent as you. That's just me giving my own advice. | /r/seduction | 16/05/19 01:36 PM |
| -2 | Learn to observe firstI agree with this. Its also like you get to know the person before you approach. | /r/seduction | 16/05/19 03:06 AM |
| 1 | Black Pick Up Artist Picking Up Asian Girls Effortlessly (+ Daygame Infield )Edited. Double posted. | /r/seduction | 15/05/19 02:44 PM |
| 1 | Black Pick Up Artist Picking Up Asian Girls Effortlessly (+ Daygame Infield )I don't get why we should even treat them like untouchable beings. Many Asians don't have body for me. Their cute tho. Black girls, brown latina and those brown arab indian lookalike women FTW. | /r/seduction | 15/05/19 02:44 PM |
| 1 | Im tired of playing the game. Why can’t I just be myself.Even if you didn't have other things going for you, DON'T make the girl your first priority. Also, learn how to flirt. You can hint to a women you want a marathon or some shit like that. Use clever wording. Be creative. | /r/seduction | 14/05/19 01:21 AM |
| 1 | Im tired of playing the game. Why can’t I just be myself.Um, your post makes me to believe you just may be in fact overdoing it. The point, IS to be yourself with confidence. (Don't) be needy. Have other shit going for you. Don't make her your first priority. Just have fun and things will develop. | /r/seduction | 13/05/19 04:08 PM |
| 1 | it sucks being a old virgin but im improving lolStart approaching them. Trust me dude. Your social anxiety will decrease faster. | /r/seduction | 13/05/19 03:01 PM |
| 2 | it sucks being a old virgin but im improving lolWait, when did you actually start approaching? I'm also 28 but I begin approaching at 25. My approach anxiety has since dropped to 0%. | /r/seduction | 13/05/19 01:39 PM |
| 1 | is part of being a man, in game, rocking your own imperfections?My most imperfection is I can still slip on my words but I definitely improved since 2015. | /r/seduction | 10/05/19 01:26 PM |
| 2 | STOP!!!!!Real shit. | /r/seduction | 09/05/19 10:22 PM |
| 6 | STOP!!!!!Fact of this sub. I just follow my instincts. | /r/seduction | 09/05/19 07:07 PM |
| 2 | The only thing worse than rejection is silenceIt.. is. A response has a type of warmth to it. | /r/seduction | 05/05/19 09:05 PM |
| 0 | 1000+ approaches, lots of instant rejections, how to stay motivated?Hormones, gripping her waist and that general thrill keep me motivated. I don't see it lasting but I'm enjoying it for what it is. | /r/seduction | 04/05/19 06:30 PM |
| 1 | Depressed feeling when I see beautiful women.Them and age gaps make me feel nonexistent, I'm 28 with constant missed opportunity memories. I'm late to this now and most women I approached were taken or claimed to be. | /r/seduction | 02/05/19 02:29 PM |
| 3 | What is a creep?It can be summed up with really just one word. Neediness, lack of self awareness and not doing shit about it. | /r/seduction | 26/04/19 04:11 PM |
| 2 | If you think a girl is 'Out Of Your League'Go up to them, don't expect you can convince them, don't let their disapproval hurt you. Just be confident and don't give af. | /r/seduction | 26/04/19 03:19 PM |
| 2 | Learn to walkI'm 28 and still legitimately walk since I have no license so I can appreciate it. | /r/seduction | 25/04/19 02:44 AM |
| 2 | Why is confidence so attractive to women?You don't give a fuck. Its also an equivalent to some bad boy qualities, which enough girls admittedly or un-admittedly like. | /r/seduction | 24/04/19 11:18 PM |
| 1 | Depressed and feeling like an incelEarly 20s is still really young dude. You will really feel in trouble once you hit late 20s because by then, a good portion of women are single mothers, etc. | /r/seduction | 22/04/19 03:49 PM |
| 1 | Depressed and feeling like an incelHaha You have yet to even touch the peak of your 20s. | /r/seduction | 22/04/19 02:06 AM |
| 1 | At 10 years old : "at 14 I will have a girlfriend like older guys"I can see myself right where your at since I'm 28. Haha I consider keeping my self fit my only real hope. | /r/seduction | 19/04/19 11:34 PM |
| -1 | Starting to feel like 'game' = be brave and go for it!!Bruh, where did the "currently all about young, tall, muscly black, etc rapper looking guys" analogy come from? A college women won't take a guy who talks with rapper slang seriously, at least not the ones who know their 10s or the like. | /r/seduction | 18/04/19 12:46 PM |
| 1 | Dont chase girls they will comeFACT OF THE ** DAY! Also, the chance of never seeing the girl again is extremely highly likely. Me and one of my bros even discussed it. | /r/seduction | 15/04/19 04:16 PM |
| 1 | Rejected a girl and now I feel like an assholeAccept her apology, bro. Wtf. You probably even got into better shape since then. Don't be a crybaby about it. | /r/seduction | 14/04/19 11:19 PM |
| 4 | Got ditched and feeling like shit.Don't worry about her, man. Eventually she will come to you once she realizes you forgot about her existence. Do the reverse. | /r/seduction | 13/04/19 02:35 AM |
| 1 | [FR] I have approached 15 girls this week on campus.Sometimes this backfire for me tho because the girl completely exceeds my expectations and in the end I reject my self whatever the signal may be. Haha | /r/seduction | 12/04/19 01:50 PM |
| 2 | Asked a beautiful girl out at my gymI agree with this. Otherwise you never know. | /r/seduction | 08/04/19 05:45 PM |
| 1 | I'm really starting to lose hopeYou will legitimately feel like this by your late 20s, bruh. | /r/seduction | 07/04/19 07:08 PM |
| 2 | For the love of mankind please don’t be a needy personBruh, the more needy you act out, the more the girl will reject your existence. Its simple. Otherwise, your mentally fucked up. | /r/seduction | 06/04/19 04:47 PM |
| 2 | When a Girl says she has a boyfriend...Not just that, It feels good. The women will highly possibly wonder about it through the rest of the day. | /r/seduction | 04/04/19 02:16 PM |
| 4 | I get more women when I act perverted.Its because at least you made your intentions known. Most or some dudes just sit like pigeons. | /r/seduction | 04/04/19 02:12 PM |
| -1 | Stealing girls from other guysIn a way, I kind of wish I had the ability to steal a girl if she's already taken because I know its bound to happen to me anyway. | /r/seduction | 01/04/19 07:24 PM |
| 1 | How do you guys manage frustration and desperation, especially after failure?You just have to go in there not expecting to succeed. Its more impacting once you do succeed. | /r/seduction | 30/03/19 01:32 PM |
| 1 | When does approaching ever workYour op is brilliantly written for that type of scenario. Approaches work when you least expect them to. Either the woman is taken, she isn't or you have sick "I don't give a fuckness." | /r/seduction | 28/03/19 04:03 PM |
| 1 | Here's an idea: be grateful for rejectionIf I "liked" the girl, I would remove my self from her life completely. If she sees me and speak, its as if I'm in a rush at that time. Its badass to completely leave the girl be. | /r/seduction | 27/03/19 12:11 AM |
| 2 | The girl I liked ended up getting with someone else.There probably isn't much you can do but let it heal. Leave the girl alone tho. | /r/seduction | 24/03/19 03:45 PM |
| 1 | Lessons Learned From 17 ApproachesI learnt that shit, to. Haha The girls I thought were attractive, completely dismissed me once I could see I wasn't even attracted to them anymore up close while girls that stayed legitimate, exchanged strong reception. Like, basically EVERY girl I actually liked. Still blows me away. | /r/seduction | 20/03/19 08:20 PM |
| 4 | How I overcame approach anxietyI'll tell you dudes, reading tips about it won't help you overcome it. You have to actually go out and approach and break the illusion. | /r/seduction | 20/03/19 02:48 AM |
| 0 | What are the worst rejections you guys have ever had?The worst rejections I actually had were during my middle school youth. Its as if I passed strong prejudice, so I don't experience harsh rejections anymore. | /r/seduction | 17/03/19 08:34 PM |
| 1 | I was falsely accused of rape. I’ve been proven innocent but I don’t know how to get back to where I was.Just take a break. That's what your body is telling you. | /r/seduction | 17/03/19 07:19 PM |
| 2 | Is walking away from friendzone the way to go?Yes, definitely. Fuck her. Your even likely to get the girl if you ditch her then legitimately staying friends. | /r/seduction | 13/03/19 07:11 PM |
| 1 | The REAL Problem with Men today...It will happen when you least expect it to. I still have difficulties approaching girls in groups or if it look like she's with family. | /r/seduction | 12/03/19 05:06 PM |
| 16 | The REAL Problem with Men today...This dude absolutely blew me away because I killed my fear of approach at 25. | /r/seduction | 11/03/19 11:02 PM |
| 1 | The responses feel so sad here. Everyone responding feels they are bugging women, and that they shouldn't be approaching.I try to analyze the setting, make sure she isn't where she could be seemly uncomfortable, etc. | /r/seduction | 09/03/19 02:16 AM |
| 1 | Has anyone else notices once you decide to stop chasing girls and truly have an abundance mindset your dick just has a gravatatioal pull?I think I get this thread. Haha | /r/seduction | 07/03/19 03:50 PM |
| 3 | Fear of girlsYou fear that they have the power to potentially judge you, you don't want to screw up the approach and vice versa. Here's 2 options for you, bruh: Rise above it or let it hold you back that potentially will leave you with a bigger regret because you didn't at least put in the effort to even approach. There's absolutely 0 closure. Screwing up the approach WILL! suck but you gotta start to improve. | /r/seduction | 02/03/19 05:07 PM |
| 1 | Approaching hot girls when starting.That's how I started. Its like a confidence booster even if you really like the girl. A lot of girls I consider "attractive" blew me away, to. Haha | /r/seduction | 01/03/19 09:02 PM |
| -1 | Trust your fucking gutNo such thing as ugly, bruh. Beauty is subjective. "Unattractive" chicks usually have legit bodies, to. | /r/seduction | 01/03/19 08:55 PM |
| 1 | Should I only cold approach younger girls?Its a complicated scenario. I can relate to you tho. I'm basically short to where I was even mistaken to be way younger then I am like part of the current generation of adolescents, I'm 28. This also got me attention in returned from girls 15-17. I even accidentally approached girls that were 11 and 13 but looked older, both retuning reception I also basically got a pass for. Most women my age or older I approached were cool about it but are almost always traditionally taken. Just keep a shave a… | /r/seduction | 27/02/19 04:12 PM |
| 1 | I feel too much emphasis is put on 'not making mistakes' in this sub.This is fact of the day. As long as you put in effort, that's the only real matter. | /r/seduction | 27/02/19 03:58 PM |
| 4 | Dating is a fucking joke when you are a short guy in collegeI'm basically short, to. Most of the women I approached manage to be the same height as me, that's the only time I have reception. I do get the sense they might prefer a taller dude tho. Definitely don't approach a taller women. | /r/seduction | 25/02/19 07:42 PM |
| 2 | I dont go to school or have a job, is it possible to get a girlfriend?Its generally unlikely but you could be one in the rarity. | /r/seduction | 25/02/19 05:29 AM |
| 20 | 35 Reasons Why You Should Stop Worrying & Just Be A Man Who Hits On GirlsI like the title of the post alone. That's what I do because its cope worthy. | /r/seduction | 24/02/19 03:27 AM |
| 2 | What is the general rule for women with boyfriends?All I can say is, just flatter them and leave it. | /r/seduction | 23/02/19 10:26 PM |
| 1 | People making fun of me approaching girlsThey sound like some bunch of dicks that need to be Almighty Pushed to fuck. Just tell them to fuck off, eat a dick, bye Felicia, etc. | /r/seduction | 20/02/19 06:28 PM |
| 1 | Is 25 years too old ?Some 16s literally look like women, bruh. I can agree with 15 and below tho. I feel as if I'm stepping out of the boundary. Haha | /r/seduction | 20/02/19 03:16 PM |
| 1 | Cutest rejection everThere's bound to be some "positive" rejections, that's why your post holds merit. | /r/seduction | 18/02/19 05:35 AM |
| 1 | Every time I try approaching a girl, it doesn't get any easier.Nah, it gets tricky. A lot of women are taken or claim to be. | /r/seduction | 14/02/19 04:24 PM |
| 1 | Does anyone feel like a Loser here? Is Game actually a skill set?Haki is a technique from the popular anime, One Piece. Haha Observation haki is one of the most advance forms of it that lets the user slightly see into the future. I like to reverse it into real life situations, if a girl looks pissed, keep your distance, etc. Psychology is a word for it. | /r/seduction | 13/02/19 05:07 PM |
| 0 | Does anyone feel like a Loser here? Is Game actually a skill set?Nah, most of it is bs. Imagine if a women found out the guy she's with, looked up info of how to pick up women. She's feel less than a person. I don't like reading about this shit. I only do because its interesting when I approach and communicate with a women that has nothing to do with all these "How to" videos and realize I never needed to. Just go in with your own instincts and observation haki. Haha | /r/seduction | 13/02/19 03:20 PM |
| 1 | Don't Chase!Eh, this is for specific people. Sometimes, you HAVE to chase in order to be noticed. | /r/seduction | 12/02/19 11:31 PM |
| 3 | Got rejected brutallyBrutal rejections WILL happen, its a fact. Just remember that there are women that will blow you away with reception. Its all good. | /r/seduction | 11/02/19 03:52 PM |
| 1 | Being liked only by big women and gay malesI know what its like. Being liked by overweight girls, its like you don't know what to do, know what to say to keep them for going ballistic. I just go with it until I know its clear she's really into it and just act like I'm not aware. | /r/seduction | 10/02/19 03:21 PM |
| 1 | Any other dude find tall girls mega hot?Taller girls intimidate me in the sense, she wants a taller dude. My main priority is slightly shorter or the same height anyway tho. | /r/seduction | 09/02/19 11:42 PM |
| 1 | Females at the club randomly sipping my drink?That's weird asf. Report them to the staff next time, its cooler. | /r/seduction | 09/02/19 04:12 PM |
| 2 | Sums up my struggle with external validation and needinessBruh, I relate to this sh!t so incredibly hard. | /r/seduction | 07/02/19 03:41 PM |
| 2 | Do girls ever make a move for guys, or do guys have to do ALL the work while woman sit back and do nothing?Exactly. Take my up vote. | /r/seduction | 07/02/19 03:40 PM |
| 2 | Cant get this random girl outta my headWhen you go back to the university/party, don't make it as "Damn, gotta get to the girl" Just generally have fun and when you naturally get close to the girl, approach. | /r/seduction | 07/02/19 03:38 PM |
| 1 | Cant get this random girl outta my headGo back to the university man. Just don't center it around the girl and you should be alright. See if you can get a signal out to the girl and when she catches it, go talk bruh. The more you attend the party and don't talk to the girl, the weirder you'll seem to the girl. | /r/seduction | 07/02/19 04:25 AM |
| 5 | Do girls ever make a move for guys, or do guys have to do ALL the work while woman sit back and do nothing?The whole thing is fucked up. The girls that go back to that "ugly" guy are more likely to be just as used under their own possible influence to the guy. I'll take your advice tho. | /r/seduction | 06/02/19 06:17 PM |
| 1 | A girl NOT rejecting me from the initial opener ironically throws me off...Exactly. I just still approach because, Its like I need something. I like the concept of girls. They have supposedly softer bodies, cute voices and sh!t. | /r/seduction | 06/02/19 05:04 PM |
| 51 | Do girls ever make a move for guys, or do guys have to do ALL the work while woman sit back and do nothing?Girls in fact make moves, bud. Its just so rare that at the same time, the rarity is an illusion. Girls are supposedly always "friendly" so its unnoticeable when they do when she could in fact be displaying a "liking" to the guy. | /r/seduction | 06/02/19 04:38 PM |
| 1 | A girl NOT rejecting me from the initial opener ironically throws me off...I'm 28 with no girlfriend experience and after so many approaches, now the thought of being in a relationship feels alien to me. I even rejected my self a few times because of this. I know once I get a number, I will feel freaked out like I won't know what to do. I ultimately feel relived when a women is taken now. | /r/seduction | 06/02/19 03:54 AM |
| 2 | Holy shit I’m fucking terrible with womenThis is unbelievably accurate. There are small positives by every interaction that will come back and hit you. | /r/seduction | 02/02/19 03:51 PM |
| 2 | Is checking out girls really bad?Like what some users stated, it depends on how you do it. I would never smile because it doesn't work for me. I look at women with a chill, neutral face as I can really get caught up in the moment. Haha Gotta go all out if that's the last time I see her. | /r/seduction | 31/01/19 10:29 PM |
| 1 | After years of trying I finally approached a girl...annnddd...nothing bad happened!Yeah man. Women are people to but mixed with higher beings. Haha | /r/seduction | 31/01/19 04:44 PM |
| 1 | FUCKING EYE CONTACTI seen so many of these topics. Haha Its practically written in stone. Eye contact IS great. I prefer glances across distances tho. | /r/seduction | 29/01/19 03:44 PM |
| 4 | How to stop putting attractive girls on a pedestal?Hit the nail. There is completely no such thing as a dude out of a girl's league. | /r/seduction | 24/01/19 02:14 PM |
| 3 | A reminder why you should approach every women you’re attracted toQuality post of the day from this sub. I'm aware of all this. Haha It can be intense but you feel incredible after you breakthrough it. | /r/seduction | 23/01/19 03:54 AM |
| 1 | Any tips for a 40 year old guy?Its all good, man. I'm like you, to. I'm whatever about it and have a complex philosophy. If she's down, cool. If not, its no pressure. I'm 28 but if she looks good, that's how it is and I'm a picky dude. I'd date a 18 year or 17 year old when she's already close to 18 anyway. Women reach adulthood at that age so I don't even see what all the dramatic is about. | /r/seduction | 18/01/19 11:14 PM |
| 1 | After weeks of lurking, I feel like everyone here is suffering one thing that is holding them back: overthinking.Overthinking can be interesting tho. It depends on if you can handle it. It can add to a mind blowing approach that exceeds your expectations. | /r/seduction | 09/01/19 05:25 PM |
| 3 | The Main Reason You Get Nervous Around WomenI don't want to be judged in the worst way possible. I approached her so she's in my epitome demographic. It may not be that all the time but by default, I do have way too much to lose. I rather be cool about it and reject my self. | /r/seduction | 06/01/19 11:54 PM |
| 1 | How often are you guys “talking” to girls on a daily basis?I actually still approach but haven't legitimately talked to a girl since I was 26. I'm 28 now. | /r/seduction | 05/01/19 06:21 PM |
| 3 | Is not giving a fuck attractive?I like this definition more. | /r/seduction | 05/01/19 04:43 PM |
| 1 | Don't be afraid of beautiful women.Nah. You just happen to be one of the "mythical" guys she'd date. Beauty is subject because beautiful women are just unobtainable. | /r/seduction | 02/01/19 04:56 PM |
| 0 | How To Stop Being Needy. Why Neediness Is The Mother Of All F*ck Ups And How To Avoid That Mind SetI'm good. I got instincts. | /r/seduction | 28/12/18 04:10 PM |
| 2 | Doing what feels right to youWhen I go up to girls, I ask if she's single or isn't because that's what my instincts know and it must have some merit since the girls were receptive. | /r/seduction | 24/12/18 03:29 PM |
| 1 | A message for guys who think they have "nothing to offer" womenI like your positive outlook but a women or girl is definitely expecting me to be driving at 28. Haha | /r/seduction | 24/12/18 01:04 AM |
| 2 | Why seduction is so hardHaha I can say tho, a lot of the male characters, I can completely feel for in the story and they have to be "around" the girls. Hahaha I have the lore of it written so its brilliant. My female characters are unique asf but still realistic so if you decide to write for them, they don't need to be "well written" You can have them do sh!t you like girls to do that's supposed to bother you and the effect should reverse into killing your anxiety approach. | /r/seduction | 23/12/18 03:32 PM |
| 3 | Why seduction is so hardI actually don't have a job at all yet, man. Haha But I do workout. Money is a general benefit, not just to possibly impress the women. As far as overcoming social anxiety, you may have to overcome it your own way. How I did it, I was 25 and I already had wrote short stories that feature strong female aid, writing for female characters. As ridiculous as it may sound. It turned out to be a incredible technique. | /r/seduction | 22/12/18 03:57 PM |
| 4 | Why seduction is so hardThe op is hilariously accurate. I'm actually out there approaching tho. Just, they exceed my expectations and then I'm intimidated by the small glimpse that they might possibly want me and I suddenly don't know what to do. Haha I only approach girls I really like, so it can be critical and, I reject my self. Hopefully I can break from it since I defeated social anxiety. | /r/seduction | 22/12/18 02:53 AM |
| 1 | My friend got asked out by my crush and it hurtsI didn't even need to read the op. Remove the girl from your life, man. Show her you don't need her and she might come around. She could even have the potential to be how you didn't originally imagine how she would be. GET OUTTA THERE NOW Bro! | /r/seduction | 20/12/18 08:10 PM |
| 3 | Am I alone in this?As much as I don't EVER want my possible girl to cheat, its completely inevitable. I agree with this post. Someone is better than someone to someone. | /r/seduction | 20/12/18 01:06 AM |
| 1 | Got rejected to formal by this girl I've been crushing on for a while. So I went solo and danced with 3 different girls in the dance floor.She realized she never mattered to you like that, man. | /r/seduction | 17/12/18 05:59 PM |
| 1 | Almost 37 and I have never approached a girl in my lifeWait, so all of your girlfriends approached you? | /r/seduction | 17/12/18 01:53 AM |
| 1 | Fear of RejectionI think this will potentially make us no yet experiencers more jealous then give us hope, man. Haha I appreciate the wisdom but he could be just lucky. | /r/seduction | 17/12/18 01:50 AM |
| 1 | Fear of Rejection? Is this really true, bruh haha | /r/seduction | 17/12/18 12:47 AM |
| 1 | I don't do cold approaches. Here is why...I can't really identify the difference between either way. I just approach a girl I like. Eye contact feels good but can be just as if not a set up for. | /r/seduction | 15/12/18 02:49 PM |
| 1 | Attract a lot of girls but Im still a virgin, need advice!The op is still hard to believe, man. Haha You should have left out "Attract a lot of girls" You sound like a prince charming dude to me. | /r/seduction | 15/12/18 02:39 PM |
| 6 | If I meet a girl that I really like, I automatically think I'm not good enough for herAye. I just end up shit testing my self. When she says "why?" with a smile, I freeze and just thank her for being cool about it and part. It happened, bruh. Completely blows my expectations. its like at that sudden realization, I'm scared of girls all over again. Haha | /r/seduction | 14/12/18 04:43 PM |
| 1 | Forget about the rules. Just find some true confidence in yourself.I like this. I use the same routine. I like to approach ultimately based on my intelligence and use my supposedly balanced lack of as a cool unawareness. | /r/seduction | 14/12/18 02:23 PM |
| 36 | If I meet a girl that I really like, I automatically think I'm not good enough for herI'm exactly like this. Bruh I analyzed that shit so hard. Its because you feel like basically triples of other guys are approaching the girl as your texting. I even usually reject my self for the girl. | /r/seduction | 14/12/18 02:15 PM |
| 0 | Teenage girls annoy me so much...Yeah it will fuck with you. Its like when I was in high school in the 2000s, I don't remember them being developed like this. I was actually walking yesterday and sort of met an older dude, I'm 28 but he looked by passed his 30s. He was cool asf and mentioned his girl doing bullshit things in the convo. He brought up how girls like to set us up in the worst way, also stating there is a specific place where these young women are heavily active, the older dudes who also go there shouldn't risk the… | /r/seduction | 13/12/18 02:43 PM |
| 2 | Why do guys like older women?Fully developed bodies and hips, bruh. Teacher fetish and shit like that. | /r/seduction | 12/12/18 03:21 PM |
| 1 | How to Give Less Fucks and Get More GirlsI don't keep my hair faded because I have a Mohawk that looks badass after awhile. It works as a sort of strategy because I save money but I definitely keep it washed. I have the proof a lot of women being receptive of my past approaches/the women didn't worry about it because I'm already a generally hygienic and potentially fit dude. | /r/seduction | 12/12/18 03:10 PM |
| 1 | Negativity on this subYour username, man. I see it. Haha Smash Bros is a killer distraction from girls. | /r/seduction | 11/12/18 11:52 PM |
| 3 | Holy fucking christ i'm lonelyEvery girl I approached are either already taken, not interested or possibly just straight rejecting me. | /r/seduction | 11/12/18 02:38 PM |
| 1 | A list of things I would tell my younger selfI like the last where you ended it off at. When I got up to a women, I traditionally want to know rather if she's single or isn't because that's just how my instincts tell me to go about the possibility. | /r/seduction | 09/12/18 12:00 AM |
| 1 | [ADVICE] As long as you approach her, it's a successIts nice to see a post that directly reference my take. I always feel like I'm forcing the girl if I ask for contacts but managed to make memorable asf approaches, even if when was the only time I got to see them. | /r/seduction | 06/12/18 03:52 PM |
| 2 | I always get frustrated/jealous when a girl i like meets other guys. And the i stop pursuing her. What to do instead?I just literally had the same experience and at the same time, I felt good about it because I had the will to say fuck it. | /r/seduction | 05/12/18 01:27 PM |
| 1 | I don’t know how guys handle rejection so easily. I got rejected all night at club and feel like crap.I relate to you. Your words sums me up exactly, just I'm 28 now. Not much time left and so little free women or so they claim which makes things far more difficult. | /r/seduction | 02/12/18 05:23 PM |
| 1 | Approaching girls everyday day 4Eh, the number close wasn't really a rejection. She gave you contacts for a reason. If her and her bf break up, your the next option. | /r/seduction | 01/12/18 07:13 PM |
| 3 | It's the girls I didn't get that I miss the most. -- How to deal with the regret of lost or missed opportunities in the past?I have so many miss opportunities, like you. It can really be soul crushing but what's helping me possibly move beyond them, approach new women. That's seriously your only benefit. | /r/seduction | 01/12/18 12:17 AM |
| 2 | Today I succeeded beyond my expectations!It feels incredible, I know the feeling. If you already confident, nothing else can go wrong once your contacted. | /r/seduction | 28/11/18 03:04 AM |
| 1 | How to approach any girl with zero fear whatsoeverThat's a good explanation but polite rejections are invincible. Haha | /r/seduction | 24/11/18 03:17 PM |
| 1 | How to approach any girl with zero fear whatsoeverA homeless person I would have no interest in approaching. I Only approach girls I like and if she judges me or claim to be taken, I can't do shit about it. Girls are a completely different case. Not ignoring your guide to success but the injury of rejection is a very complicated thing. | /r/seduction | 22/11/18 07:14 PM |
| 1 | How to approach any girl with zero fear whatsoeverGirls can be terrifying to approach because they really have the power to judge you. You can even end up mind boggled by whatever negative thing they say about you to where, you'd feel like its an unbeatable fact. Its just a really bad feeling and sometimes you have to constantly fight to ignore the shit. A male traditionally approaching has everything to lose. | /r/seduction | 22/11/18 07:00 PM |
| 2 | never-ending painI potentially hate girls, to. They have way more power that they may realize and some will wear shit that fucks with your urges. Its like your basically set up to be the next with having uncontrollable hormones. We're ultimately responsible for the approach, like puppets. | /r/seduction | 20/11/18 08:47 PM |
| 1 | I finally did something.Incredible, dude. | /r/seduction | 17/11/18 04:19 PM |
| -2 | How do you avoid the friendzone with women you'd see regularly (volunteering, meetup groups etc) without being known as a creep?I believe you. I'm 28. I won't lie, I seen some sick younger girls, they look fresher and captivating. They have those qualities that they lose as they age. I have a thing for older women, to but signaling a younger girl is just as fascinating. | /r/seduction | 13/11/18 11:20 PM |
| 4 | How do you avoid the friendzone with women you'd see regularly (volunteering, meetup groups etc) without being known as a creep?What?! Are you serious?! This dude is in his core 30s and banging decades younger girls? I'm not attempting to downplay the guy. I'm jealous as hell and desperate for hope. Not that I want to go that route but I feel like its already too late for me. | /r/seduction | 13/11/18 09:53 PM |
| 4 | I'm a virgin, and a bit afraid of finally having sex. Is there a way to learn how to be good besides, y'know, doing it?I cannot comprehend sex either. Hahaha Like, how does it even begin? You start kissing? You just go right to it? I imagine you enter the room and time immediately skips to both already banging. | /r/seduction | 12/11/18 04:57 PM |
| 1 | Women are uncomfortable around me, what do I do?Dude, from the positives you written, its impossible to be under that title. The OP sounds unrealistic as f. | /r/seduction | 11/11/18 09:10 PM |
| 1 | Guy following girl around in school as approach?Don't do it, man. There's a limit I think you've passed. Its no where near worth it. Either you can reach her or you can't. | /r/seduction | 09/11/18 09:40 PM |
| 1 | I think I got hit on by a cougarI know that feeling, man. Her sudden interest in you is overwhelming and possibly even unbelievable. You'll naturally own through it anyway. | /r/seduction | 09/11/18 05:32 PM |
| 1 | Im 33 years old. Someone tell me it isnt too lateBeing fit really does drastically increase your hope. Your better off with a fit look in the long run, you look youthful and energetic. | /r/seduction | 09/11/18 05:20 PM |
| 3 | I did it.This sub would be way more interesting. Haha | /r/seduction | 09/11/18 03:16 PM |
| 1 | ***7 Things Men Do That Turns Women Off***Gotta have that comedy. I feel like when I approach a girl, they will yell for security. Haha | /r/seduction | 08/11/18 01:47 PM |
| 1 | ***7 Things Men Do That Turns Women Off***I don't smile, I can admit to it. Haha I can't just instantly smile. It has to come by its self like when I laugh. Also, I rather keep my distance and the women as comfortable as possible until she gives me a positive signal. | /r/seduction | 08/11/18 04:06 AM |
| 1 | How can I use money to attract women?Your post is deep. I feel like this when I go into "out of solutions" mode. | /r/seduction | 07/11/18 03:43 PM |
| 1 | Opening girls by themselves late at night?I agree with this. | /r/seduction | 07/11/18 02:27 AM |
| 1 | ‘I don’t get that creepy vibe from you’Its a compliment, bruh. She basically gave you the pass to a possible relationship. | /r/seduction | 06/11/18 02:59 PM |
| 0 | I will be approaching 100 hot girls to find the answer to an age old question about attraction and report the results to you guys.Haha I can feel the intensity. I'm right there with you, dude. | /r/seduction | 06/11/18 02:55 PM |
| 2 | The difference between going out to get laid and going out to practiceThe OP is creatively written but I don't understand it. Game? I don't know that shit. I just go out with my self and dignity. | /r/seduction | 05/11/18 06:49 PM |
| 1 | There's No Way Around It: 'Good Game' Is Essential For A Successful MarriageI'll stick to this notion. I can't stand hearing the concept "game" and why the word is constantly used over confidence and self awareness. | /r/seduction | 05/11/18 03:28 PM |
| 1 | I went out solo last night. It sucked. But I thought of you guys.It does suck but that's the point. Your actually out there building potential. I'm out there with you, dude. | /r/seduction | 05/11/18 03:56 AM |
| 1 | There is no such thing as "the right moment". It's a myth. You have to make the moment - please readGreat message. You definitely have to take what you can get in certain scenarios like these. I once had to approach a women while she was eating, the greatest risk ever. The approach is still extremely memorable to this day. | /r/seduction | 04/11/18 09:47 PM |
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