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ConversationDakiAge/r/seduction01/08/21 10:32 PM
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You should have banged her before dumping her :)
/r/seduction21/01/22 01:14 PM
-2

Like Bible or Quran. Girls love these books :)
/r/seduction19/01/22 05:46 AM
2

Geralt has a hot milf mother who can beat Superman, though. She is a sorcerer.
/r/seduction19/01/22 05:43 AM
2

You need to increase your self confidence.
/r/seduction17/01/22 05:34 AM
1

Don't answer to her and let it stay as "seen". Just move on.
/r/seduction16/01/22 07:57 PM
2

Keep fucking :)
/r/seduction15/01/22 09:33 PM
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Are you looking for a girl to marry or a girl to fuck? That's true for the first case but not much for the latter. She doesn't need to be that interested in me when things are casual.
/r/seduction14/01/22 08:33 PM
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I know, he explained that to me lol :)
/r/seduction12/01/22 04:03 PM
2

the title is very misleading :) Good job anyways.
/r/seduction12/01/22 06:40 AM
1

Wait, are you a lesbian?
/r/seduction12/01/22 06:30 AM
15

That's the way.
/r/seduction31/12/21 06:13 AM
12

She regretted rejecting you, I guess :)
/r/seduction31/12/21 06:13 AM
1

I am not asking for any advice. Just saying.
/r/seduction30/12/21 07:45 PM
2

Don't they make a huge deal of the age gap? I mean, they do in my country.
/r/seduction30/12/21 05:18 PM
16

I am 23 years old and girls still play games even AFTER asking them out.
/r/seduction30/12/21 05:15 PM
1

My observation is different. Girls love talkative and funny men. Self confidence is also important but that's it.
/r/seduction29/12/21 06:57 PM
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You need to change yourself and be a fun and self-confident man to hang out with.
/r/seduction28/12/21 12:46 PM
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I am too boring for this shit lol. I need to change. Thanks for your post. What are the things that girls find "fun" by the way?
/r/seduction28/12/21 11:15 AM
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Is this a question? Just approach to her and get her number. If she asks you why, just tell her that you find her cute.
/r/seduction26/12/21 04:16 PM
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She has a daughter so my advice would be moving on. She will never truly love you and use you for her loneliness and the well being of her daughter.
/r/seduction26/12/21 03:25 PM
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"They want to meet a man. But not just any man, a great man — a man who is confident, charming, fun, and interesting. A man who is non-needy, who is vulnerable, and who will honestly express himself to her." Not every girl desires that so men need to find girls who want something like this. There are girls who want especially needy and jealous men because they can control them however they want and they are loyal. "It’s because you didn’t give her that feeling. You didn’t make her spin and fall …
/r/seduction25/12/21 04:21 PM
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Come on, you are just a kid, don't worry. she horribly rejected me in front of her and my friends and my confidence plummeted It's her loss, not yours. At least now, you have your answer so you won't regret not asking for her number in the future. I missed too many opportunities in the past because of my fear and insecurities but I eventually got my lesson and I don't miss them anymore. You should do that too. i really thought she was perfect for me and i still want to be with her but idk what t…
/r/seduction23/12/21 02:47 PM
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Marriage isn't something good,mate. You are actually lucky that you aren't married.
/r/seduction23/12/21 06:13 AM
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Eventually, I asked for a date and they accepted. I wasn't asking if I was worthy, I was telling them WE are worthy of something more. That's the whole point of seduction. Good job.
/r/seduction20/12/21 05:56 AM
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Are you GitHub? Cause I want to open a new repository and commit forever" That's cute :)
/r/seduction19/12/21 07:54 PM
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I attended to college but I have a MIS degree rather than CS because of my shitty math. I am half self-taught because of this.
/r/seduction18/12/21 03:46 PM
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It's sad that our community is so small. I doubt if there are any female developers who also knows Pentest.
/r/seduction18/12/21 10:08 AM
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I have “penetration tester” in my bio for the same reason lol although I might change it to ethical hacker. Girls probably think like "this guy penetrates well" after reading your bio :) Nmap and metasploit ftw!
/r/seduction18/12/21 07:40 AM
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They might also be funny and/or talkative but that's it :)
/r/seduction18/12/21 07:36 AM
1

I am not really an ugly guy but If I have to guess, money and self confidence.
/r/seduction18/12/21 07:30 AM
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"Play around with that title if you want. Sometimes it works. Cyber security? Sounds fancy huh? 😂" Yeah, absolutely :) Something like "Hacker and Cyber Security Expert" would make girls go crazy :) "I also tried flat out lying when they ask. Baiting them to call bullshit. Just stupid stuff like "I'm a professional panhandler. Christmas was my busy season. I run a whole ring around town. We hire children from modeling agencies to increase our margins.". Do it with a serious face and change the su…
/r/seduction17/12/21 08:00 PM
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That must sound so cool among girls...
/r/seduction17/12/21 07:49 PM
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Damn, now I know why the girl in the pizza store rejected me years ago. she said "I like ugly men" for a reason (:
/r/seduction17/12/21 05:32 PM
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I use only "Software Developer" in my linkedin, Instagram and Tinder :)
/r/seduction17/12/21 05:15 PM
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I am currently only using Java :) I can also write things in languages like Python, PHP and Javascript though. I use Spring Boot for making APIs
/r/seduction17/12/21 04:43 PM
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What are u coding? I am a Junior Backend Developer.
/r/seduction17/12/21 04:33 PM
100

Gold diggers can't really dig your gold if you don't let them .
/r/seduction17/12/21 04:32 PM
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I see tons of ugly men with girlfriends. You can still get girls as an ugly guy.
/r/seduction17/12/21 04:31 PM
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That's the way (:
/r/seduction17/12/21 04:31 PM
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Good job. Now invite her to drink coffee with you and ask her out.
/r/seduction08/12/21 09:51 AM
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I agree lol :)
/r/seduction24/11/21 02:27 PM
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You want him to get tattoos just for girls? :)
/r/seduction24/11/21 08:30 AM
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You should also do that for yourself,not because I said so. Girls will continue to use you if you don't do this.
/r/seduction13/11/21 05:44 PM
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She came over last night and although we didn’t have sex and she is still with her boyfriend we cuddled all night! Be a man, not a pillow for girls with boyfriends. You should give her an ultimatum of "choose me or your boyfriend".
/r/seduction13/11/21 05:17 PM
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Lmao then clearly he shouldn't be so bummed about not getting it? Why have sex in the first place then? Absolutely.
/r/seduction09/11/21 04:26 PM
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So what? Sex isn't everything.
/r/seduction09/11/21 02:23 PM
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Come on, he is just an amateur.
/r/seduction09/11/21 01:01 PM
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Still better than 50 and 6(muhammad and aisha)
/r/seduction08/11/21 03:25 PM
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Yeah, people want girls that they find attractive as friends... Don't be ridiculous.
/r/seduction07/11/21 06:09 AM
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Nobody said anything about elevating the friend to a sexual partner or girlfriend. You did when you said "you should be friends with girls that you find attractive". Nobody would be friends with a girl that he finds attractive unless he has a gf. Being friends with women makes you more attractive to other women. I didn't say the opposite.
/r/seduction06/11/21 05:52 PM
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I did. Making a move on her happened long after we’d drifted apart. I crossed paths with her, made a move, it failed, we parted ways. Later she married my friend. Good job. You don’t need to date everyone you find attractive. There are far more attractive women in the world than I could ever handle even if they were all throwing themselves at me. Of course but being friends with her is something else. Also having women in your life that you don’t date increases your attractiveness. I didn't say …
/r/seduction06/11/21 05:50 PM
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Female attention increases your sexual status regardless of whether it’s friendly. I didn't say that it doesn't. I agree being friendzoned isn’t great, but if you aren’t advancing/hoping then you’re a friend, not a friendzoned admirer. So you are saying that you don't advance or hope on dating with girls that you find attractive? That means you don't find them attractive and see them as your friend.
/r/seduction06/11/21 05:48 PM
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Of course :) I am not insecure unlike you guys. I can always find another girl to date with.
/r/seduction06/11/21 05:43 PM
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You guys don't know what you are talking about. If you be friends with girls that you find attractive, you can't "jump" from friendship to dating because you will get friendzoned. Also, I didn't say that you shouldn't be friends with girls. You should be friends with girls that you find ugly.
/r/seduction06/11/21 05:34 PM
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I’m 100% sure she sees me as a friend because I made moves on her afterward and she declined. Later married a friend of mine. Then leave her alone and move on I don’t see why you shouldn’t be friends with women you find attractive. Because you find her attractive and that means you can't date with her after being her friend. This is how you get friendzoned.
/r/seduction06/11/21 05:30 PM
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Bruh what. No way. Be friends with girls you find attractive. If someone can’t handle that, I’d say look either at how many dates you’re getting, or farther inward, the answer probably lies in your insecurities. It's not about "can't". People like you are the ones who get friendzoned by girls and get rejected and afterwards, come into this sub to cry about this. I can easily find people to date with thanks to my friends but it's people like you who can't. I actually see what you’re saying if you…
/r/seduction06/11/21 05:27 PM
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I see your problem now. You are insecure and you don't have self-confidence. You should handle this problem or you will continue losing at this dating business.
/r/seduction06/11/21 03:53 PM
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Having a female friend makes you more attractive in the eyes of other women. Even if sex is his only interest, that’s something to lose. The problem is, he finds her attractive so you shouldn't be friends with girls that you find attractive. Ugly girls(or girls that you find ugly) are the ones who you should be friends with. Also, you won't lose your chance to have sex with her by asking for that because you didn't even have a chance to begin with. Girls see their friends and their boyfriends di…
/r/seduction06/11/21 03:20 PM
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If she wants to cheat, she will cheat with or without you so that was an opportunity for you.
/r/seduction06/11/21 03:14 PM
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He has nothing to lose but everything to gain :)
/r/seduction06/11/21 01:28 PM
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Next time that she’s coming over, should I just ask straight her how she thinks about being friends with benefits? Do it :) https://youtu.be/ZXsQAXx_ao0
/r/seduction06/11/21 01:27 PM
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she literally like begged me to have sex with her at one point, but I said no cause she had a boyfriend You should have banged her back then.
/r/seduction06/11/21 08:30 AM
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I feel like I’m just that interaction I fucked up and exposed myself having feelings for her still. What do it do? You did nothing wrong. She sees you as a friend and nothing else so you should just move on and find someone else. She already has a boyfriend anyways.
/r/seduction06/11/21 08:28 AM
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Don't.
/r/seduction23/10/21 09:04 AM
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She’s slept over at my house more than 10 times but won’t have sex. And you allowed this? Seriously? Is your house a free hotel for girls?
/r/seduction20/10/21 11:06 AM
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I've seen plenty of fat, broke, ugly, dudes with no life direction whatsoever get laid. These don't make them losers. I have seen enough fit, rich, handsome but loser men. You can certainly get laid as a loser. No, you can't. I'm not saying it's easier or ideal, but to say it's not possible, is a lie. Do game long enough and you'll see it. I understand it's not what you want to hear, but it's true. You don't know shit about the game. Stop claiming things that you don't know shit about. Learning …
/r/seduction20/10/21 06:24 AM
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Be comfortable being completely and authentically you. I'm not saying be comfortable being a loser. However, if being a loser is something you truly resonate with and are happy with, there will still be girls that come into your life. We see it time and time again. Just fuck off. Our sub is for seduction and you can't do that as a loser. Losers can become men by improving themselves and trying to be the man that they want to be. If losers had any chance at dating with girls, this sub wouldn't ev…
/r/seduction19/10/21 11:08 PM
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I should go to philippines for vacation :)
/r/seduction19/10/21 03:46 PM
2

You couldn't explain it very well so let me sum that up: Everyone should see themselves as Brad Pitt so if a girl rejects you by saying something that she wouldn't say to Brad Pitt, just move on and find some other girl.
/r/seduction16/10/21 08:18 PM
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There are videos in YouTube for people like you to practice it: https://youtu.be/aZmlS7n7Re4
/r/seduction16/10/21 08:09 PM
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You must love the ducks very much :)
/r/seduction16/10/21 05:59 PM
1

There are conservative liberals. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Conservative_liberalism Germany's Christian liberal parties are great examples for that. I am a classical liberal and I support feminism too but not the feminism that today's girls support. The first wave of feminism was nice but today's fourth wave feminism is something else.
/r/seduction16/10/21 10:42 AM
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Your personality is a part of that game.
/r/seduction15/10/21 10:22 AM
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Liberalism is one thing and feminism is another :)
/r/seduction15/10/21 10:22 AM
0

Weird :)
/r/seduction15/10/21 10:21 AM
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Nonsense. I see lots of girls that date with ugly men so often.
/r/seduction15/10/21 10:21 AM
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It depends on the girl. Women make emotional attachments unlike us so having a good physique can help you getting girlfriends but not marriages or other serious things. Also, there are girls which care more about their boyfriends' personality rather than their physique so personality is also important.
/r/seduction15/10/21 10:20 AM
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"Women don’t play ‘hard to get" actually, some of them do but it's not really important because none of them deserves to get chased. "Mirror her behavior. Give short answers, use less eye contact and appear disinterested by looking elsewhere, limit your smiling." I do this to every girl that I like until I ask them out and it helps at getting their interest on me. anyways, my advice to you guys would be start valuing yourself and increase your self-esteem and self-confidence. if you do these thi…
/r/seduction15/10/21 09:39 AM
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For example I had a girl that I’m kinda flirting with ask me if I can quiz her for her exam and I of course said yeah. She’s gonna come over tonight but I just wanna make sure I didn’t do something too beta by accepting She might have asked that to you as an excuse to have sex with you so it's not something "beta". But, asking for people's opinions about these things is "beta". You would already know what is what if you were an "Alpha".
/r/seduction01/10/21 01:44 PM
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Not every girl will accept you just like you won't accept every girl. They might also have boyfriends or other expectations(like money).
/r/seduction30/09/21 02:15 PM
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Don't be needy and desperate towards her and trust in yourself. You should also care about yourself and your looks. Wear stylish clothes and be clean.
/r/seduction30/09/21 11:03 AM
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A professional :)
/r/seduction28/09/21 08:09 PM
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that's not how it works. it doesn't matter what you really want because a relationship is something mutual. you can't force her to do things.
/r/seduction28/09/21 05:30 PM
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Be calm and split the bill. If she tries to make you pay all of the bill, just walk away. I see lots of stupid Gold Diggers in r/dating_advice so beware. Also, have some self-confidence, mate. It's no big deal, it's just dinner.
/r/seduction28/09/21 05:19 PM
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Only do that if you get signals from one of them.
/r/seduction27/09/21 03:42 PM
1

Go to a psychologist.
/r/seduction27/09/21 02:59 PM
1

I thought about going back and ordering something, but what the fuck do I say ? Say "Hi, I think you are cute, wanna hang out after your work is over?". You can also ask for her number but I prefer arranging dates directly.
/r/seduction27/09/21 01:06 PM
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I am happy with my belly but you are right. Physique is important for some girls :)
/r/seduction27/09/21 12:58 PM
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Yoga is also amazing for strength and flexibility. The average man in the West can barely touch their toes ffs. He is already going to a gym.
/r/seduction26/09/21 06:18 PM
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Men and women have both test and estrogen, yin and yang has a little of the other included, that polarity is actually what helps you be more attractive, when you can fully integrate/embrace both . And a man should be full of testosterone rather than estrogen because of this. Using creams which are made for women isn't it. If you actually look at the dudes that women were most attracted to, they embrace a certain type of expression. Rock stars, artist type, old school playas also had that flare..…
/r/seduction26/09/21 05:57 PM
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My skin care routine is amazing. Moisturize consistently, everywhere, including between the toes. I go to yoga 2-3 days a week, and embrace being beautiful and feminine at times. Dude, you are a man, not a woman.
/r/seduction26/09/21 05:37 PM
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Neither. You should just talk with them and that's all. Cold Approach isn't for getting girls.
/r/seduction26/09/21 02:00 PM
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Just hire a room from a hotel for that night.
/r/seduction25/09/21 06:39 PM
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what do you suggest?
/r/seduction25/09/21 09:23 AM
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You can invite her to your house for that night or arrange a date with her for tomorrow.
/r/seduction24/09/21 05:26 PM
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Just go to her and say hi. Talk with her for some time and ask her out.
/r/seduction22/09/21 03:34 PM
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Play with her emotions and be her bf. Invite her to your house and after you get what you want, dump her.
/r/seduction21/09/21 12:59 PM
1

You shouldn't have recorded your cold approaches. The guys that have beaten you were probably the bfs of the girls that you approached.
/r/seduction18/09/21 05:05 AM
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First of all, there is no such thing as "out of my league". Beautiful girls are no different than ugly girls so they are no better than you. You should do and say whatever you want and focus on having fun with her.
/r/seduction10/09/21 03:57 PM
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it's okay. She was honest to you and recommended another time for the second date. She has her own personal life, you know. Don't be a control freak.
/r/seduction10/09/21 02:20 PM
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Just go to her and say "hello".
/r/seduction09/09/21 01:42 PM
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beautiful women are no different than ugly women. I generally wait until they give me a signal and if they give it, I approach. If they reject my dating offers, I move on and find someone else. Beautiful girls are great.
/r/seduction09/09/21 12:28 PM
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Cold approach is good for overcoming your fears. You won't be able to approach anyone if you don't do cold approaches. AVOID ONLINE DATING. Kinda unrelated to this post, but just figured I'd put it out there. Avoid these cancerous apps like Tinder and Bumble. I disagree. There are men who are successful at using these apps and they get laid a lot. Don't talk to girls with a mentality of "I gotta get her number." Talk to them to become friends. Get to know them a bit. Then from there you can deci…
/r/seduction09/09/21 08:40 AM
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It means combing your hair, having showers every day and things like that. If you care about yourself, that means you also respect yourself.
/r/seduction08/09/21 05:26 PM
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she then responded that she has a boyfriend ( she told my friend she is single that night 🙄(like wtf happened ? Did she read a book about how to have a boyfriend in 2 days? Whatever) This is where you get friendzoned. She only wants your attention. You should move on.
/r/seduction07/09/21 09:56 PM
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You can approach them for overcoming your fear but after you do that, you shouldn't approach women if they don't give you a signal because that would be harassment.
/r/seduction05/09/21 07:48 PM
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True.
/r/seduction05/09/21 04:29 PM
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It doesn't really matter. She will accept it no matter what if she is interested in you.
/r/seduction05/09/21 04:26 PM
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That's the way :)
/r/seduction05/09/21 04:23 PM
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1-Always use your chance. 2-Fortune favors the bold(roman proverb). 3-Believe in yourself and do what you fear from.
/r/seduction04/09/21 08:13 PM
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if she doesn't care about you, that means you don't matter anything to her so you should move on.
/r/seduction04/09/21 08:10 PM
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Dicks aren't important :D
/r/seduction04/09/21 08:07 PM
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Don't be a coward :) You should overcome your social fears. She won't reject you and even if she does, you will at least have your answer unlike waiting for her until she finds someone else.
/r/seduction03/09/21 10:57 AM
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Just go for it. Say hi and introduce yourself to her. Ask her out and go for a coffee date with her or something like that.
/r/seduction03/09/21 10:49 AM
1

Please go and date with Gold Diggers. Be a "strong" man unlike me :)
/r/seduction03/09/21 08:24 AM
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A girl who loves me and prefers me to her ex wouldn't. It's simple as that.
/r/seduction02/09/21 11:14 PM
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She can leave, I didn't say that she can't. It has nothing to do with getting emotional or butthurt. I can always find someone else. Why should I accept someone who leaves me for her ex?
/r/seduction02/09/21 09:52 PM
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it's cringe af. I agree with you completely.
/r/seduction02/09/21 05:39 PM
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you are still needy with that "whatever took you out of my life, come find me when it passes" bullshit. she returned back to you because of the incompetence of her ex, not for you. I wouldn't accept her back.
/r/seduction02/09/21 05:11 PM
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he wants to be popular and have lots of friends. you can't have that without being neutral and agreeable. you can't please everyone but if you try to do that, you will be popular.
/r/seduction02/09/21 02:52 PM
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Possibly.
/r/seduction02/09/21 02:03 PM
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Then improve your social skills by communicating a lot with other people. For likability, you need to be neutral at things in order to not offend anyone. You also need to be agreeable.
/r/seduction02/09/21 11:16 AM
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Ask it directly.
/r/seduction01/09/21 02:29 PM
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She said ”I don’t know If i can.” I answered with ”No worries, let me know another time”. You shouldn't have answered to that. What should I do from now on and until next time. I need solid advice! Move on and find someone else.
/r/seduction01/09/21 11:39 AM
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Don't ask for any of them. You should invite her to drink coffee with you or something like that directly. If she says "I don't have time for that" or some other shit, just move on.
/r/seduction01/09/21 08:35 AM
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By not chasing the girls and not playing that "long game". I directly get to the point so I never get friendzoned by girls.
/r/seduction01/09/21 07:02 AM
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Multiple - means they all can’t be shy at the same time. How do you know that they can't? OP means the shy girls, not the uninterested ones. So better if u work on yourself and improve things, rather than excusing your failures as “they’re just shy”. There is no such thing as "failure". You talk like a loser so read closely. Nobody loses anything when a girl rejects you and working on yourself won't make the girls date you. That "you should impress the girls" logic comes from your inner insecuri…
/r/seduction31/08/21 10:01 PM
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Your "there are no shy girls they are just not interested" claim is an excuse for not approaching to them. I prefer using my chance on everyone that I like because that's how you can overcome your fears.
/r/seduction31/08/21 09:18 PM
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That's not true. Some girls don't show their interests towards men openly so you can only make sure of that by asking them out. Also, if you think like that, you won't be able to ask any of the girls out because that's just an excuse.
/r/seduction31/08/21 09:05 PM
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It’s pretty sad because she was the one who showed interest first then when I showed interest in her distanced herself. I never show my interest towards the girls until I ask them out. You should do that too. I was starting to like her a lot and for this reason distanced myself from another girl who was clearly into me. This was your mistake. Always flirt with multiple women until you get one of them.
/r/seduction31/08/21 06:27 AM
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I am the complete opposite of you. I can say things like "wanna bang?" without any regrets.
/r/seduction30/08/21 09:11 PM
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Who cares what the others around you do. You are you so you are different than them. Getting laid isn't something that changes one's life. If that bothers you so much, then you can always hire an escort.
/r/seduction30/08/21 07:24 PM
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Ahahahah I love your ending :)
/r/seduction29/08/21 08:39 PM
1

Not in my country.
/r/seduction29/08/21 08:29 PM
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Ahahahahah that's awesome :) Good job :)
/r/seduction29/08/21 08:02 PM
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Question, is there a way to attract women even if you don't know any? You need to be handsome for that. Like when people talk about "attracting" girls, what do they mean? Being yourself and showing your self-confidence to them. Also, is it possible to get with late teen and early 20s girls to make up for the youth I never had!? You will never be able to make up for the youth that you never had but it's possible for you to date with young girls. Most of the girls prefer dating with older men.
/r/seduction29/08/21 07:49 PM
3

Seriously? You can even kiss her on the first date.
/r/seduction28/08/21 07:32 PM
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Just follow this sub and you will figure it out. "Nice guy" means you did things to impress her and didn't be yourself. for example, if she says "I like guys who listen to classical music" but you don't, you shouldn't say "I lıke it too". you shouldn't care about her but care about yourself. that's how you become a "bad guy" and have a "game".
/r/seduction24/08/21 11:24 AM
0

I disagree. It becomes permanent in time.
/r/seduction22/08/21 08:30 PM
4

I think it's because you fake your self-confidence. In order to make it permanent, you need to pep talk a lot with yourself. you can say "I am handsome and girls have no reason to feel attracted to me" and things like that. don't think about if it's true or not, always assume that it's true.
/r/seduction22/08/21 07:28 PM
1

Are you insecure? Why did your girlfriend's best friend bother you? Girls send kiss emojis to their gay friends too. if she cheats, she loses you, you don't lose her. You should trust in your girlfriend because if you don't, that means you are needy and desperate which implies that you are a loser. If she loves you, she won't dare to cheat on you.
/r/seduction22/08/21 09:14 AM
-1

I can't imagine a woman who also likes these things :)
/r/seduction21/08/21 06:43 AM
2

Do it! Just do it! Don't fear!
/r/seduction21/08/21 06:36 AM
4

she just laughed it off and friendzoned me You friendzoned yourself. She didn't do anything. What can I do to make her realize my true feelings for her? This is cringe af so I won't answer.
/r/seduction21/08/21 06:12 AM
1

you still can.
/r/seduction19/08/21 05:24 PM
2

Why do you have a gf? Because it's fun.
/r/seduction19/08/21 04:19 PM
1

follow this sub and read the posts. you can also read the book of "models" by mark manson. it's all about believing in yourself.
/r/seduction19/08/21 03:28 PM
1

"it works" doesn't mean it's everything. It's more just speaking too fast, acting nervous, and never finding a good way to curb those things That's not your personality, that's your insecurity.
/r/seduction19/08/21 03:14 PM
0

are you sure that it didn't work because of your personality? rejection is one thing and personality is another.
/r/seduction19/08/21 03:01 PM
2

heheheheh but I chose the second path ;) I don't really care about "love" because it doesn't exist. it's an illusion and a lie which is created by the women and for the women. girls didn't care about me when I was a loser so I will have my revenge :)
/r/seduction19/08/21 02:12 PM
1

Losers can't become themselves. They try to mimic "alpha men" and they fail so that's why being yourself is important. you already become the guy that you want to be when you believe in yourself.
/r/seduction19/08/21 10:27 AM
3

I have a gf thanks to this sub and I am still here for the tips about seduction. Having a gf isn't the end of the road but the start of it.
/r/seduction19/08/21 09:42 AM
0

Because it assumes that everything about you is already attractive and fine which often isn’t the case. If you don't think that everything about you is attractive and fine, it means you are a loser.
/r/seduction19/08/21 09:40 AM
1

Losers of this sub have problems with that because they are insecure. Sadly, our sub has confident men AND losers both.
/r/seduction19/08/21 09:38 AM
1

Nonsense. it will always work because it's not about attractiveness but honesty and self-conidence. Your personality doesn't suck so there's no point in being insecure.
/r/seduction19/08/21 09:34 AM
5

it's better to ask girls who are around you more but I don't recommend doing it in gyms unless you know that she is interested in you.
/r/seduction17/08/21 09:15 PM
12

Dont know why it's their loss. Because he won't chase her and she won't be able to date with him.
/r/seduction17/08/21 01:15 PM
161

Congratulations. You should do that more and get used to asking girls out. It doesn't really matter if they reject you or not. It's their loss, not yours.
/r/seduction17/08/21 11:27 AM
9

This is the r/seduction sub, not r/losers sub. Stop being a loser.
/r/seduction17/08/21 07:39 AM
1

After that, I made around 10-12 approaches from different ages yet I kept getting rejected by all of'em. I used to go alone but I've never failed that hard as I did today, I won't lie on you guys that really felt sucks and got me really sad. Your mindset is the problem. You should approach to these girls for the thrill of it, not because you want to have a relationship with them. Rejection is a part of life, you can get rejected by your family or in your job applications too. Rejection means you…
/r/seduction17/08/21 07:03 AM
2

I didn't say anything as such.
/r/seduction16/08/21 06:34 PM
2

Thanks for your answer.
/r/seduction16/08/21 03:18 PM
3

Thanks for your answer :) That will help me a lot.
/r/seduction16/08/21 02:47 PM
6

I need things to speak with girls, not manipulating them. I can't always find topics to speak so that makes my conversations boring.
/r/seduction16/08/21 01:04 PM
1

She didn't want attention. She wanted you but you rejected her offers so she went for the other men. Women love men according to their emotions and interests. Having fun with girls bring good emotions so you should have accepted her dart offer and home invite.
/r/seduction16/08/21 01:02 PM
5

That's the spirit :)
/r/seduction16/08/21 12:22 PM
7

I am at the second step and I can't improve it. do you have any recommendations?
/r/seduction16/08/21 12:22 PM
2

Desperate women are the guaranteed ones but you can actually date with any girl that you want if you are good at "the game". You need to follow this sub in order to improve your game and date with girls that aren't desperate.
/r/seduction16/08/21 11:48 AM
4

What a stupid bullshit loser crap. Stop being a loser and see yourself as ugly and short. Tall and handsome guy unzipped her bra and nothing happened because he had the confidence to do that and he was already friends with her. You are neither a friend of her nor have confidence. I know girls who accept dating with ugly and short men because of their confidence. Some girls are desperate but they don't show that to outside. Also, women care about their interests more than the physical appearance …
/r/seduction16/08/21 11:23 AM
5

Dude, stop being a loser. Just leave her alone and find another girl.
/r/seduction15/08/21 09:43 PM
1

She is playing "hard to get". My girlfriend does that too. She says "that's not the case" when I confront her about it. You should tell her that she should stop playing games.
/r/seduction15/08/21 11:14 AM
2

The woman chooses so if you want to approach someone, you should have good eye contact with her. In order to be able to approach one of them, you need to increase your self-confidence and practice. For example, you should always speak with strangers and ask for directions or time. This will help you to get confidence to approach them.
/r/seduction14/08/21 05:49 AM
1

Good job. it looks like you know what you are doing :)
/r/seduction09/08/21 06:21 PM
2

Did you have eye contact with the girls before approaching them?
/r/seduction09/08/21 03:05 PM
0

It means "you don't look trustworthy to me" which is good. You should take it as a compliment and continue hanging out with her.
/r/seduction08/08/21 05:18 PM
26

Fake it 'till you make it.
/r/seduction07/08/21 01:06 PM
1

But still if you're really in to someone the way she seemed in to me you'd find the time Good reasoning. You should leave her alone and go for someone else.
/r/seduction06/08/21 06:07 PM
5

Making plans for the week after was your mistake. You should have arranged the second date as soon as possible. She was already hard to reach through text before the first date. This is also a problem. She wasn't interested in you as much as you are.
/r/seduction06/08/21 05:54 PM
4

Then go for it. It doesn't matter where you approach to her in that situation.
/r/seduction05/08/21 07:02 PM
2

It's not like that. It's more like you don't know how to play but you try to because of your friends. This lad in the video doesn't know shit about seduction but claims to.
/r/seduction04/08/21 08:21 PM
1

I must visit Las Vegas one day (:
/r/seduction04/08/21 06:26 PM
0

Good bot :)
/r/seduction04/08/21 03:29 PM
3

Just tell her to fuck off and find another girl.
/r/seduction04/08/21 03:27 PM
2

Would you like to fuck an obese gamer girl? No, you wouldn't but you would want to fuck her supermodel best friend. That's how they can be friends.
/r/seduction04/08/21 02:17 PM
1

Heheheheh it's normal then (: It will work until the girls mature. There's no such thing as "hard" after you get rid of your fears. You should cold approach and talk with the strangers more. Current girlfriend of mine calls me "maniac" because of my self-confidence (:
/r/seduction04/08/21 12:37 PM
5

Ahahahah he might be (:
/r/seduction04/08/21 12:30 PM
3

A better way would be "I am looking for x item, can you show me where that is?" and when she shows u that, ask her out. that paper thing is cringe. you aren't a high school student.
/r/seduction04/08/21 12:26 PM
0

The next day I left her a voice message apologizing for being so pushy and putting her into an uncomfortable situation. Wrong choice. You did it because you felt like doing that in that moment. You have nothing to apologize. You didn't rape her or something. So now I have a date coming up with her, I know she's interested in me, but she says she wants to take things slow. What should me strategy be for this dinner date? Just talk with her and build rapport. You can try to Kiss her at the end of …
/r/seduction04/08/21 10:33 AM
54

I agree with everything that you say but the guy in the video made lots of mistakes. He didn't build rapport with her and tried too hard to be "mysterious". What the fuck is "stripper name"? He also said "I don't want your name" to her which is disgusting. That's not how you cold approach.
/r/seduction04/08/21 09:51 AM
0

I asked her out and she gave me her Instagram. We still talk from there.
/r/seduction04/08/21 08:46 AM
1

I prefer going for girls that are interested in me but you can't do that if you don't get rid of your fears. In order to get rid of them just like I did, cold approach is good. Talking with strangers help a lot.
/r/seduction03/08/21 11:40 PM
1

That's the spirit (: These are all learning experiences for you. Girls don't really have any reason to not like you except things like they might already have a bf or something like that.
/r/seduction03/08/21 11:34 PM
1

If a girl flakes you, that means she isn't interested so it's her loss, not yours. You are already awesome by yourself.
/r/seduction03/08/21 11:21 PM
1

Stop caring about what other people think. If you don't change your nature, you will get your ass fucked by bitches because of your "nature". You are you and you are the best. You are different than the others so start being yourself.
/r/seduction03/08/21 11:17 PM
6

This is the r/seduction sub, not r/feminism or r/simp.
/r/seduction03/08/21 11:07 PM
-2

You won't lose your job because she already wants you. I had a similar situation with a cashier girl who hit on me every time that I visit her supermarket. I went for it and she is my gf now. You can even get promoted just because you are fucking her :D Go for it and don't fear.
/r/seduction03/08/21 11:04 PM
3

You don't get it. "You are a nice guy" means you accept and/or agree with everything that she asks/says to you which implies self-confidence issues. You are a person just like her and you are no less "valuable" than her. You shouldn't try to impress her in dates and just be yourself. For example, lf she says "I like swimming" and you hate it, you shouldn't say "I like it too" for the sake of agreeing with her or some other stupid shit.
/r/seduction03/08/21 08:23 PM
3

Height is a matter of preference for women so it's no different than building muscles. It's a bonus rather than a reason. Self-confidence > all
/r/seduction03/08/21 08:07 PM
1

It probably works because of centuries long observations. horoscopes are so damn old.
/r/seduction03/08/21 03:12 PM
1

-_-
/r/seduction02/08/21 12:47 AM
1

-_-
/r/seduction02/08/21 12:47 AM
1

I get it now. This answered my question. Thank you (: I tried to not look very needy in our first date and she looked a little bit sad because of this but according to your answer, it looks like I did well (:
/r/seduction02/08/21 12:47 AM
1

I have a question for you. I know that cancers want a lot of love but I fear that if I show too much love to her(a cancer like you), she will dump me and find someone else. Is this true or not?
/r/seduction02/08/21 12:31 AM
1

That's what he said, not me (: As you get further along, you can also follow his/her ascendant/rising sign. That might give some more info about him/her because this is still true for one of the girls that I mentioned. She is a Crab but her ascendant sign is Leo and she sometimes behaves like a Leo.
/r/seduction01/08/21 10:49 PM
1

Of course that zodiac signs aren't always true but they are useful. Both of the girls that I mentioned have similar personalities to their zodiac signs.
/r/seduction01/08/21 10:43 PM
2

Being the "approacher" really makes things easier for everyone.
/r/seduction31/07/21 08:00 PM
14

They do understand the girls better than us.
/r/seduction31/07/21 07:06 PM
10

wait, are you a lesbian? (: It's nice to see a lesbian seducer in this sub (:
/r/seduction31/07/21 06:57 PM
3

Physical Appearance means nothing. You can still find girls as a guy who looks like Shrek. There are girls who are hopeless at dating with men because of the lack of self-confidence of them. Most of the today's men can't hold a girl's arm or ask them out because they are cowards but if you ask them out, they will accept. Self-Confidence > Everything
/r/seduction31/07/21 09:21 AM
1

That intention gives you confidence so that's how you can approach to girls without getting shy. You can think of it as a "hack" for self-confidence but there are also lots of different ways to increase your self confidence. Practice and self-inquiries also help. You should know yourself and trust yourself in order to be able to believe in yourself.
/r/seduction29/07/21 05:57 PM
2

What an awful woman. You shouldn't have spent your time with her.
/r/seduction17/07/21 03:52 PM
11

Absolutely. She will care for the well being of her child rather than you so her priority won't be you. Her ex-husband will always be a problem for you too.
/r/seduction17/07/21 03:51 PM
3

Alpha male lol :)
/r/seduction17/07/21 08:07 AM
1

Ask yourself questions like "who am I and What am I?" These kinds of questions help a lot to get confident. Know who you are and what you are.
/r/seduction16/07/21 10:44 PM
9

These people don't have self-confidence so they think bad things will happen if they talk with girls. I was like them until i grew up my balls.
/r/seduction13/07/21 01:44 PM
18

come on, talking with strangers isn't a crime. cold approach isn't sexual harassment.
/r/seduction13/07/21 01:40 PM
58

You think too much. Don't think, just do it. You don't also have to mention that to her.
/r/seduction07/07/21 03:44 PM
12

You don't try to hold your buddies' hands and Kiss them. That's how it differs from friendship. Grow some balls and go for it. As for your question, if you aren't interested in a girl, you can use her for practice but that's it. Don't play with the girls' emotions.
/r/seduction06/07/21 10:03 AM
1

He even became the president of USA (:
/r/seduction03/07/21 09:15 AM
-3

8 might cause/mean sexual assault so i disagree with that. you should have said "only do this to your girlfriend" or something like that.
/r/seduction02/07/21 08:52 PM
57

instagram is a place for emotional masturbation for them so forget about it. if you want to find a girl, you must do that face to face.
/r/seduction02/07/21 06:04 PM
2

Everything is obvious so why should he waste his time with "getting her number"? Been there, done that...
/r/seduction01/07/21 11:06 PM
1

not really. I should have asked her out when I had the chance.
/r/seduction01/07/21 09:03 PM
23

This isn't the u/programmerseduction sub (: Php objects are unnecessary (:
/r/seduction01/07/21 06:51 PM
-4

He doesn't have enough self-confidence to do that. He literally invented lots of excuses to answer your questions.
/r/seduction01/07/21 06:49 PM
-8

You guys were looking at each other for weeks so you should have directly asked her out. You also speak like a loser so have some self-confidence.
/r/seduction01/07/21 06:47 PM
1

That's nice to hear (: I did cold approach to a girl some days ago and we talked. She actually gave me her insta but she didn't get online nor saw my messages so nothing happened.
/r/seduction30/06/21 11:29 PM
0

hire an escort lol (:
/r/seduction30/06/21 09:11 PM
1

You are da real mvp.
/r/seduction26/06/21 06:13 AM
1

Who says so? That's what people who got friendzoned would say. She expected you to make it official in your first date.
/r/seduction25/06/21 01:42 PM
-2

You seriously went on 5 dates with a girl and didn't become her bf? That's your problem. She probably got bored from you and thought "it doesn't go anywhere". You shouldn't also show your interest towards the girls that you like because girls generally chase Boys who doesn't care about them. You care too much about the girls that you like so they think "this boy is already in my pocket".
/r/seduction25/06/21 01:17 PM
2

Ahahahah basically this...
/r/seduction25/06/21 11:05 AM
1

Ask her about "what time is it?" This always gets the girl's attention.
/r/seduction23/06/21 01:16 PM
1

That's what the OP was thinking before talking with her (:
/r/seduction22/06/21 07:50 AM
2

Go to a brothel lol (:
/r/seduction20/06/21 02:47 PM
3

That quote is from Stalin,though :)
/r/seduction17/06/21 10:24 PM
1

That's a good advice.
/r/seduction16/06/21 04:16 PM
2

let's hope that we both find a woman like that :)
/r/seduction15/06/21 11:45 AM
2

I can't really be friends with girls(at least close friends) because of the lack of common interests and I am an introvert but I understand what you mean. You are right.
/r/seduction15/06/21 10:06 AM
1

oh now I get it. it's very logical. I didn't ask them out when I asked for their numbers so that might have shown me as a creep. thank you,my friend.
/r/seduction09/06/21 09:03 PM
1

thank you :)
/r/seduction09/06/21 06:38 PM
1

The only thing that I did was talking with them.
/r/seduction09/06/21 04:44 PM
1

ignoring isn't really a good approach. A better approach would be making lots of friends and improving your social skills.
/r/seduction09/06/21 11:58 AM
2

That's a good advice thank you (: Do you have any other advices for building rapport like what should I say to meet with a woman that I don't know?
/r/seduction09/06/21 11:54 AM
1

How do you start a conversion with a girl that you don't know?
/r/seduction09/06/21 11:47 AM
0

Asking for her number might be problematic. I know girls who gave me fake numbers.
/r/seduction09/06/21 11:43 AM
2

ahahahahah that's the way! :)
/r/MGTOW215/01/21 04:45 PM
-7

in my opinion,you should give her a chance but it's your own choice. you might regret if you divorce her without giving her a chance so think thoroughly.
/r/MGTOW210/01/21 08:58 PM
-15

You should talk with her and tell her what you feel and think about this.
/r/MGTOW210/01/21 08:26 PM
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