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What am I going to have more children for, if I can’t afford them…..and for them to be poorer than I am currently. What does a high rise of poor people do? Increase crime rate and keep rich people rich, that’s all.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 12:30 PM
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Read it out: who are we raising the fertility for? Us or a generation that screwed us up and tries to keep screwing us over? Whose life is it going to improve - ours ? No and we know that. They destroyed the climate and want to maintain their standards of living, as they don’t have much to live. We’re going to be left poor and with the destruction of nature they created. Say we going to have more children. Are they gonna going to be less poor than current young people? Likely no. We’ll create an…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 12:28 PM
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Well, she is tied with ropes while they aren’t. Might be one of the reasons? Also, do you know what they do to prebubescent girls in that area, to avoid being sexually abused? I can see why women get more empathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 12:11 PM
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Do tell, why should women not have high standards? Mating or even the pleasure of sexual act is a privilege, not a fundamental need for survival, at the end of the day.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 12:00 PM
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It still fucking does, since children are naturally more inclined to their mother and she will be spending more time tending to their needs. Someone has to bring more money, as a result.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 11:59 AM
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TRP is 100% hypocritical in everything preaching. But point that out and you’re the worst of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 11:50 AM
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Yes, so?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 11:49 AM
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Under what rock do you people live to not realise that?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 12:58 PM
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No, we actually do wish to be invisible, which basically means: be excluded from all the harassment or abuse from men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 10:24 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 09:41 PM
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Sure, we do.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 09:24 PM
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I have high standards all the time - I don’t waste time on all types of labels used to justify not being serious. Life is too short for muddy labels (casual, exclusive, FWB). I either want to be in a relationship with you or not. When you leave the decision to the body (hormones, sexual arousal) you basically act like a child who doesn’t really know to control his own body and is pissing him/erself.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 06:41 PM
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I don’t mind the concept of the pills, I mind extremist using a concept and denaturing it to describe ALL individuals. Transforming an idea into an ideology is never safe or sane.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 06:40 PM
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Yes, circumcision is an important matter for BOTH genders. Unfortunately, it’s being disregarded by both genders at the same time: western women don’t care about the men’s circumcision AND western men don’t care about women’s mutilation in growing countries. Women’s sexual mutilation is so much worse, if we’re being realist. It’s basically torture to prevent sexual abuse by other men. Besides burning the genitalia of GIRLS that have not even reached puberty, in some cases women have their whole …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 06:34 PM
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I mean, it’s child logic, isn’t it?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 06:32 PM
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And yes, it is. You don’t have to go through a test of maturity in your tribe or community, you don’t need a dowry (in some places means he has to pay for the whole wedding, example), you don’t need to confront her father to get her hand, your lord won’t be sleeping with her in your wedding night etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 06:29 PM
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Be tall and above average
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 07:03 AM
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No. I only got one life and I shall protect myself as I see fit.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 07:43 AM
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Another fat woman would accept those flaws if the personality is on point?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 10:02 PM
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While there are some general rules for objective attraction, most times attraction is subjective. The point is whom you want to respond to you, be realistic in expectations.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 09:54 PM
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Here we go again… People in general will treat us better given how much we contribute to their desires coming to fruition. A boss will treat better the employe that works most for the least pay, pets will treat better the owner that respond better to their needs. Even parents will favor the child that responds better to them, compared to a more independent / rebellious one.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 09:48 PM
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How many times did a man act like the damn father,men in general pretend to be, and watch his kids while she did the chores? And I mean not just as a nanny but actively being a father and teaching them how to human?! You can’t behave like a nanny at home and pretend intimacy whenever you like.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 09:36 PM
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Agreed, as long as you also focus on your children as well. Up until these days I wished my own mother chose her own children over her own comfort, that way she would’ve chose to leave her abusive husband. Instead, she remained and expected us to endure or put up with his narcissism.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 09:33 PM
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Paranoia is among the only methods a woman can survive, given a man can kill her with a single punch. There are so many things a woman can have done against her will, more than a man will ever. That paranoia is a TAUGHT mechanism: she has seen women in danger when she grew up - her male relatives, the partner of a woman she knew…all these she witnessed and learnt.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 09:29 PM
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Well, of course. Shall we mention how middle aged men are more likely to take longer to inseminate + higher chance for a child with defects. Red Pilled twats will not agree, though
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 09:21 PM
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So what?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 09:18 PM
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They dcking do!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 12:32 PM
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Sometimes I wonder how long some things took for people (here) to realize, when they could easily perceived and understood logically.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 06:36 PM
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Too unpredictable in this economy, I would be too troubled thinking about the economic prospects. I also chose my current workplace specifically for the manageable schedule, so I would have more free time for myself. No way in hell I would fill those hours with more work. I prefer doing everything by compromise.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 10:53 PM
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Women had always had “high standards” when they have the freedom of choice! When they were forced to settle, well, they were “forced”. There are cultures that allow the bride to be literally kidnapped and forced to marry her captor, in some cases she is a minor so forced by family to marry.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 10:43 PM
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Sweet summer child. “Social” men are just as prone to “damage” as more reserved ones are.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 10:38 PM
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Have their cake and ear it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 12:06 PM
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Have you ever read some history?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 11:03 AM
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And who will be raising those kids, since the man will be like a grandpa - running around with the kid once in a while?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 10:10 AM
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And took you so long to realize rich men don’t care about poor men?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 09:46 AM
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Turkey is not a “semi traditionalist” country man, it’s full traditionalist in “european terms”. Especially the further one goes away from the European side.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 10:16 PM
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The men that struggle with dating are those not meant to be “mating”, in rough terms, to begin with. They’d be dying of illness, war or just live with their parents. Same goes to women, not all of them used to get married or go to a nunnery. They’d be caring for the other children in family or for aging family members, if there would be no famine or too much war. I think it is fine, not all of us are meant to have a partner or children. It’s the way of nature, at the end of the day. Technology a…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 10:08 PM
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They start feeling “getting old” , literally, and develop a more serious mindset on settling down?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 11:48 AM
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I am, do those women say he will be more attractive to/for THEM? Or just any other woman in general? Who does the man actually want?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 11:46 AM
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The image is illustrative not meant to note THE exact physical aspect. I do not mind some percentage of body fat, but I do want the specific body TYPE / skeleton shape( thats what I meant mostly).
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 02:08 PM
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<image> Leave tall men (1,75+) with this built to me and give the rest to other women. Give all the remaining frog shaped or testosterone built men to the other women. This is THE best type of built - ectomorph body. Can’t change my mind, I specifically married him for this aspect.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 01:55 PM
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There are enlisted women, mate. Now, that the number does not satisfy your burning passion against women, it’s a different matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 09:53 PM
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Have you seen SOME men be content with “equality”? Otherwise there’d be little to no RP traction.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 04:47 PM
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Well, therapy too expensive these days…and porn not expensive enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 01:43 PM
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Women want to be treated like the one men choose to marry and commit to. And that’s the issue, they aren’t chosen. Move on. If it repeats, choose another niche or league. Still repeating? Get a sperm donnor and raise the kids communally with other women as some tribes still do. ✌🏻 Life too short to cry about men. Use them as sex satisfaction or unpaid therapists, just the way they do vice versa. Then get the sperm of the top for kids. ✌🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 01:39 PM
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Oh, we know men are not slobs, they actively choose to not participate in what they are criticised for.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 01:36 PM
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Dude, is FEMinisn not HUMANism. Women are at the core and the purpose, there is little or no place for men, get over that. It’s time men create their own social representation and get over relying on the other gender to do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 01:34 PM
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His patience and kindness towards me or the illness I am dealing with. Also, his dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 01:33 PM
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That’s your own conclusion, my what I wrote.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 01:31 PM
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I would date an amputee that CAN afford a PROPER prosthetic and periodic medical screenings. I highly doubt those soldiers, freshly out of war can. Let alone the prosthetic is not just the issue, their mental condition ain’t good either. I would NOT date a man with WAR PTSD, unless some years has passed since his draft and he has been medicated and saw therapy. What those men need is a nurse not a girlfriend, dude. And your thread is stupid at best, you know it as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 01:22 PM
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Well, women that do not want their money might not be attractive to them, ironically.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 06:41 PM
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Boring. Next
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 06:29 PM
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None are attractive. Next
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 06:14 PM
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Women have the same power they got in real life: they go for the man they find attractive, have chance to be accepted or rejected; similarly, in real life, most men would sleep with them and give their accept.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 06:10 PM
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Wall for what? Having children vs simple sx ? Two separate matters and two separate “walls”.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 06:02 PM
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Yeah, no! 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 05:12 PM
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I never mentioned financial exchange, mate. If men try to gain their way “in”, at least they could have a big 🍆 and be good in bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 10:34 PM
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I don’t get what you’re writing. Say again?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 07:53 PM
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Because: he is smoll AND he is not as good as he thinks. I’d say of he tries to take advantage, at least accomplish those mentioned above!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 02:24 PM
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The “unequal division of household chores” in large part arises from status No, it arises from mindset, communication and willingness to compromise. I think at this point it’s well known that a major cause of the “uneven distribution of household labor” is greater female neuroticism Based on what source? Having guests over. The husband thinks that it’s okay as long as the house is reasonably clean and tidy There is a difference between “tidy” and “clean”. wife insists that every last corner must…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 02:20 PM
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Yeah, no. No such thing as friendship between genders. At least in my case, I either despised men or I wanted something more than friendship.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 09:10 AM
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Why should we mate to sustain a generation that fucked like bunnies, polluted as they wanted…with no regards for the future? Let them see the consequences of their policies
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 08:36 AM
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Men tend to be more honest and direct with why they rejected the woman. No, they’re not. They’ll say whatever gets her off his head. They’ll directly say that it’s because she’s too tall, too masculine, and looking like they (the woman) could beat him up. Might be just an excuse not even the truth. They’ll say things like “you just give off friend vibes”... How is that not direct? She is not into you enough to want more. Granted, the guy was not conventionally attractive. So, he knew this before…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 03:23 AM
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Its not wrong, I just find the act unattractive
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 05:01 PM
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Not all men with traits mentioned have high Testosterone. My husband has better physical frame - cheekbones and jaw, low fat body, than his Extraverted brother. Same goes for their older brother, who has strongest leadership role / desire among them. And he’s Introverted and far from what you mentioned physically (average Testosterone). The example of what we see online as “high testosterone” are just infections and powders. 🤣 What you mentioned for physical traits is genetic mist of the time an…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 04:58 PM
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Women pursue men they are attracted to 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 04:56 PM
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I told husband before hand, if he ain’t contributing to household chores, its like I’m still celibate. I’ll be doing just my laundry and cooking just for me. If he wants me to be SATW, he needs to be making my current salary ON TOP of what he’s already making. I don’t mind being one, though I still want the same life style as we currently have (I pay for my hobbies, therapy and medication from own salary). He either makes more money so I could be SATW or he contributes to chores.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 04:53 PM
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I’m 1,5m tall. Now, guess how difficult is to snatch me compared to 99% of men taller than me. I wouldn’t need to be “lured”. So yeah….. We’re not saying men are NOT victims at ALL, we’re saying that biologically we’re at a more disadvantage than they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 06:48 AM
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It does.p
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 06:46 AM
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Feminity was, for centuries, for rich women, that do not have to work the land or the fields day by day, season by season. Wasn’t till long ago that women could legally own their own fcking children, for god’s sake. Femininity is largely considered inferior to Masculinity and there are no good reasons for women to embrace femininity Because feminity is passive and survival is anything but being passive. And regardless of how much men bark on this sub, women in most countries of the world still h…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 06:40 AM
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It's not mens fault that modern dating is awful Oh, no. Its not men mostly wanting relationships instead of chasing casual things. Dating apps and social media Men aren't advocates for this. There are 3x men on dating apps as women are. 😂 Men are more likely to DM women on social media, send unsolicited genitalia pictures…but they are “NoT pRoMoTiNg aNyTHinG”. Their actions are, dude. most men aren't going to accuse themselves of being evil. Of course, how are they going to admit anything that p…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 08:41 PM
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So, you think your sister’s situation is as traumatic as you trying to get women OUTTA your league?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 08:08 AM
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We're both probably 7.5-8/10 or thereabouts. So, you both look like potential models. How in the sweet Jesus world is that average? ** A lot of them** are revolting pigs, arrogant fuck boys and general weirdos but there were somegood guys as well So, she doesn’t really have a “ridiculously easy time”, huh? she doesn't want to lead them on or get date raped. So, your mysoginistic arse is not having to deal with the potential of that type of abuse. I have to bust my ass making interesting dating p…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 08:07 AM
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So, you both look like potential models, but “AvERaGe”?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 07:59 AM
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You did nothing, psychos will psycho!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 12:42 PM
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Hard to believe without proof.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 07:38 PM
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Educate children, girls especially where to call if they are in danger. Growing up, I had no one to educate me on the matter, no school course. Even these days, the matter is not being taken seriously. Police don’t take domestic violence seriously, they send the victim back home. We have barely have any anti domestic violence commercials, even those a few years. I am an older Zoomer, idi0t. What I talk about happened less than 15 years ago. If you say you’re a feminist, you’re made fun of, in my…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 07:37 PM
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Well, my female relatives did go through domestic violence, myself has gone through murder attempt. But, tell me about the uselessness of feminism or how good life is for women living outside North American / Western Europe. To quote a trashy brit: “Take your bloody fingers off the keyboard, sometimes.” America is not the whole world.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 07:21 PM
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“A principle I stand on” “a principle ME stands on” Sounds to YOU, not my thing how you perceive it. Cheers
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 11:16 AM
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Did I write “a principle WE” or a principle “I”….? Then think about getting heated again.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 11:06 AM
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No, mate
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 06:44 PM
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No, my experience. Single women are happier than marriage. I come from a culture where the woman is still responsible for most
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 04:29 PM
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Because at some point there will be one thought about attraction between them. It goes against the definition of “platonic”.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 02:16 PM
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No, I can’t. I see men through the lens of attraction - I either find them attractive or I find them repulsive. There is nothing platonic about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 02:15 PM
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Platonic is the absence of ANY sign of sexual attraction, though?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 02:14 PM
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You wished. Single women are overall happier than married woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 02:13 PM
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Yeah, no. Let men have male friends, women have female friends. Men and women can’t be friends, as rude as I seem, that’s a principle I stabd on.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 11:24 AM
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No. I am a serial monogamy type
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 03:51 AM
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Are we talking about the same reality? I read at least one post a week on this app, about women being either the only one employed (while he sits his arse playing video games) or making more (supporting him through his career). And, YES, women being employed, doing the chores and caring for the kids, IS being the provider in modern terme. Through this POV, many women are
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 03:49 AM
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/r/menwritingwomen basically?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 03:44 AM
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Because women make men’s life better, more than the vice versa. Duh For example: men that are taken are more likely to visit a doctor, thus being healthier, compared to celibates.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 03:41 AM
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Of course it is, just not for the man but the wealth itself. 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 03:40 AM
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Yeah, really. ‘cause when they were married off by their families, they had much of a say in the choice, especially if they were married off right after they got their first period. Or we talk about the women that were sexually abused and then forced to marry their aggressor ?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 03:34 AM
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Or maybe men can just take care of their own children instead of “baby sitting” them?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 03:33 AM
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No, they are not. They can be taught, while looks can’t. Also, every culture has different sets of “social skills”, we can’t just generalise.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 03:31 AM
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Why should women change once they hit 30? Do men change as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 04:05 AM
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