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Everything in life costs something.. be it time, money, attention, etc. Love isn't free, nothing is. So Butters was correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 08:12 AM
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Lmao, did not expect to find that quote here.. its true though, we all pay one way or the other.. mainly in attentionspan
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 03:18 PM
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Im sorry but that is fucking funny
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 09:11 PM
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Then answer the question to the title..
/r/TheRedPill05/07/25 09:03 PM
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Ok.. so why russians? She liked hospital bombing assholes?
/r/TheRedPill05/07/25 08:59 PM
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Great post, been a while since I read one here.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/23 07:56 AM
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This is a great post
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 07:47 AM
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Agreed on all of it, can we stop talking about this idiot now please. The people that are the loudest and most obnoxious are best ignored in order to shut them up. This whole dont talk about fight club thing went out the window with those stupid conventions and rollo doing videos vomiting old stuff in order to make money.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 09:44 AM
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I'm having a sore throat today so it's hard to swallow, I'm sorry daddy.. Nothing wrong with agreeing with somebody, take some tea and try and relax for a change.
/r/TheRedPill19/10/20 09:27 AM
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this is a great reply, agreed on everything
/r/TheRedPill16/10/20 10:37 AM
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Allergic reaction I presume?
/r/TheRedPill04/03/20 09:52 AM
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If it is for a guy that spams 'approaches' for a living, that's pretty sad.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/20 02:24 PM
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You remind me of an old friend of mine, I was always pretty sure he had aspergers but he always denied it. His DNGAF attitude and directness got him looks with the ladies sometimes, but he could never notice it or do anything with it. Instead he kept complaining about his ex years after the breakup :D Long read, but interesting none the less. I think alot of people here including myself recognize at least some part of themselves in this. Like another friend of mine says, all men have autism.. al…
/r/TheRedPill26/09/19 09:00 AM
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I studied to become a teacher for a few years, you have to watch yourself give classes as part of the internship. It can be cringy to see your own nervous ticks and posture, but a great learning experience as well.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/19 08:56 AM
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Wow, something else besides 'should I kiss or fuck X girl'.. IMHO, yes they are all slaves to emotion. You don't find a good woman, you build one. And even then it never ends, reading this helped me answer your question
/r/askTRP13/08/19 10:04 AM
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Great post, thanks for sharing.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/19 08:58 AM
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Aye, but to expercience attraction you have to practice just like the magician in the example. And to actually feel cool, confident, etc you have to do this practice whilst being fearfull, overly analytical ( fake it till you make it ). I did the work, it took alot of me and I made an ass of myself plenty of times but in the end it got me there. Most guys aren't willing enough to do the work and practice the card trick 1000 times, so they are stuck at reading the theory..
/r/TheRedPill27/06/19 10:57 AM
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This is a fair point but something you have to grow towards. For me and for alot of guys trp, it's just like Rollo described. Before you can start a healty LTR you need to go through this phase to achieve a sense of abundance. If you have not experienced this, you get needy and beta as they call it here which ultimately turns her off.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/19 05:15 PM
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Nice read, sticking it out takes alot of patience sometimes.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/19 08:08 AM
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You do you, if you want an LTR go ahead and find a decent girl to start one with.
/r/askTRP08/04/19 10:42 AM
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^ this, I was in the same boat and this is what happend. I had an overflated ego since things were going so well, cheated, hurt her, stayed together cause I loved her.. and I started feeling worse by the day. Once her respect for you is gone, just end it and be done with it. She will always remember and it will ALWAYS come up somewhere.
/r/askTRP11/03/19 06:15 PM
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Now I gotta re-read pook again, I think I've been in this situation.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/19 08:46 AM
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If you're reading like an autistic idiot, then yes you're right. Always assume attraction -> always escalate AT FIRST and see where it goes is the way to go.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/18 10:45 PM
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lol, this made my day... thanks for the laugh :D
/r/TheRedPill29/12/18 10:40 PM
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Wow, some actual discussion here now.. wb IM
/r/TheRedPill29/11/18 10:15 PM
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still says quarantined, but it comes up in a search now apparently
/r/askTRP03/10/18 10:24 AM
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Surprised nobody asked, care to elaborate?
/r/TheRedPill20/09/18 10:20 AM
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Sounds like you felt the vibe pretty well, good job.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/18 12:09 PM
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If dating apps don't work, don't use them.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/18 07:44 AM
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Wow this struck home, I'm exactly in the same boat at the moment.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/18 09:52 AM
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Nice summary, agreed on everything.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/18 10:43 AM
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Good stuff, this entire thread really. Keep em coming man!
/r/TheRedPill11/08/18 10:35 AM
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Kind of a long example, but something like that yes. The book of pook describes it better, to be a sexual being or Don Juan as he liked to call it. It takes calibration and experience and it's not something that can be learned and applied easily for all women.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/18 03:22 PM
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Some good advice right here. Always be closing would be better worded as Always be sexual, at least for me. Reading it like an autist newbie when I first started out made me way too needy, because I misread it as 'go for the kill right now!' instead of planting that sexual seed in their mind like I do now.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/18 08:50 AM
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More like jaded women (miss)using the term for their own agenda, at least that's what I got out of the article. There is no such thing as a blue pilled woman.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/18 08:41 AM
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Great summary post, nothing new here but for the new guys very helpful.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/18 09:35 AM
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So because you have issues with your mother you can't love another woman? I'm sorry but this is a load of bullshit. I love and have loved women, fully and completely. There is no shame in this, it's not beta to do so. Expecting their love in return in ways they can't give it back, that's the problem. A man can love a woman and a woman can love her man, but not in the way the man does. Hell it's in the sidebar, men and women in love.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/18 11:41 AM
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What a horrible song, makes my ears bleed to be honest. There are ALOT of songs with red pill truths in them, but I doubt it's worth discussing since you could pick basically ANY love song and make a point.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/18 12:26 PM
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Interesting story. Although there are no unicorns, for that time she must have been as close as you can get. And you lost her before it went sour, hence the perfect image of her that you retain. I'm sorry for your loss man. From the sound of it though, you're still dead inside. You need to learn to love yourself before you can love another again.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/18 12:19 PM
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Mine died 7 years ago, quite suddenly. It's still hard on me, loosing a parent should be. My advice would be, if you get stuff to share do it now. Tell him your appreciation, regrets, ask him for advice, get to know him fully. You'll regret it later if he dies suddenly, I barely talked to mine and I still regret this.
/r/askTRP27/06/18 08:19 AM
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The thing is don't be captain hindsight and knock yourself down over 'missing your chance'. Yeh you could have asked her out and you didn't, so you missed your window. So what, you were still thinking about your ex and weren't in the right mindset so it would have been a crappy attempt at dating anyway. Lots of women out there, work on your own mental frame first. If your oneïtus is still on your mind, do your own thing for a while.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/18 08:13 AM
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You should try writing erotic stories or something, you seem to be pretty good at it.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/18 01:00 PM
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this will go well
/r/TheRedPill19/06/18 09:12 AM
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You can't make it if you don't do those things first, if faking it works as a stepping stone why the hell not. I'm guessing if you always wear a mask, yes people will see through it. But for starting short interactions, nothing wrong with faking it a little. 'We all wear masks ' -Dr. Arthur Neuman
/r/TheRedPill12/06/18 08:28 AM
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This was an entertaining read, thanks for posting.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/18 01:27 PM
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Nice description of my ex gf :p
/r/TheRedPill07/04/18 08:03 PM
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First approach.. I walked over and said 'hi, hows it going..', then said 'so I guess we should get coffee sometimes'. I still laugh as I remember her 'what the fuck just happened' face. :D It has to be done dude. If you think she's worth having a conversation with, just go over and say hi. Don't expect to get in her pants on your first try, be realistic and for instance go for something like: I'll introduce myself, learn her name and make small talk for 5 minutes. Good luck.
/r/askTRP06/04/18 01:55 PM
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I think it's about 50% trying to workout and 50% gaining attention by wearing skimpy outfits.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/18 12:37 PM
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Depends on how they feel at the moment.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/18 12:24 PM
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My father died suddenly about 6 years ago, I was 24 at the time and fucking up my life. After having buried him something clicked inside, I had to become an actual man now instead of screwing around. I'm still working on it of course, and improving each day, but that event really opened my eyes at the time. It's why the sentence 'live your life as if your father was dead' really resonates with me, because it's true.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/18 03:52 PM
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Actually interested in her weird history now.. I'd like an update later OP
/r/TheRedPill21/02/18 02:54 PM
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I don‘t wanna hang out with her and act like everything is fine. - NateRobinsonIII You answered your own question.
/r/askTRP19/02/18 03:31 PM
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Not that many tbh, doesn't everybody suck when they first start out with something? Granted it was before I found trp using some tips from the seduction reddit. I wanted to understand women, how they think in order to figure out why I wasn't successful. I don't remember how but I found trp, read everything I could ( the rational male is a must read ) and it finally clicked. Once you get better at the game, understand women, take them off the pedestal and have gotten some plates it's different. B…
/r/TheRedPill16/02/18 02:16 PM
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Know your own shortcomings and work with what you've got. If anything acting 'aloof' is easy because you ARE actually aloof. Write down her birthday on a calendar, take texting with a grain of salt because it is just that.. texting. Use sticky notes for groceries, stuff like that. My memory is like Swiss cheese and although annoying sometimes it's just the way you are. Most importantly, get a girl that doesn't bore you easily. I know the feeling, most women are boring as hell sadly. Find one tha…
/r/askTRP16/02/18 09:42 AM
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So simply lift is your answer? I disagree, approaching is a skill and it takes time and effort to learn. To each his own but what worked for me was simply going out a lot and doing it. I approached over a hundred women in a couple of months, got shot down a lot and fucked it up myself plenty of times. Meditate, reflect, where did I go wrong, try again, repeat. Fake it till you make it, eventually I calibrated myself and I don't need to think about it anymore. It comes naturally, like driving a b…
/r/TheRedPill16/02/18 09:04 AM
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+1, this attitude changed my dating life for the better.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/18 09:39 AM
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not that kind of girl, lol.. the oneïtus is strong in this one. Milfs are awesome dude, just get laid already.
/r/askTRP30/01/18 09:48 AM
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As a former porn addict I did the three month nofap thing and it almost drove me insane. I recently came across an old post from a wellknown rp poster here , read parts 2 and 3 as well. A great read on why part of nofap works and how you should calibrate it to your own needs.
/r/askTRP30/01/18 09:42 AM
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It doesn't matter, the answer is in here. I tried escalating with a chick once on her couch, after fingering/kissing for an hour she just went to the bathroom and came back like nothing happened. I left shortly after.. you did well leaving. Best case she'll contact you again, worst case you'll be ghosted. It doesn't matter, you tried and that's what matters.
/r/askTRP30/01/18 09:34 AM
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Stop chasing this single girl and go out and date other women if it's bothering you this much. The fact you're posting about it is giving signals of oneïtus.
/r/askTRP30/01/18 09:29 AM
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You've beaten me to it..
/r/askTRP30/01/18 09:26 AM
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Am I the only one here who hates the texting part of seduction these days.. ? Just wondering, such a difference compared to ten years ago.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/18 09:05 AM
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Well written and very entertaining, thanks for sharing.
/r/TheRedPill24/01/18 10:09 PM
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Great post, sums it up nicely
/r/TheRedPill23/01/18 09:57 PM
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haha, np.. look, I fucked things up a few times for escalating too fast. It's a tool for newbies and it worked for me alot, but it's a tool none the less and it takes calibration. From the sounds of it you like the girl above average and she feels the same.. the basics remain, escalate and game her. Don't overthink, do and keep it FUN but try and calibrate a little. Is she shy/really into you/whatever.. do the same, but maybe a bee bit slower and seduce her a bit more before actually going for t…
/r/askTRP12/01/18 10:07 PM
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Jesus christ.. I need answers
/r/askTRP12/01/18 09:05 PM
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Good job for recognizing your problem with escalation.. now with your question, for somebody who's mentioned multiple times his 'idgaf' attitude.. if you had one you wouldn't be here. Stop overthinking things is, that's imo your main issue. Have FUN, first of all.. and push as far as you can go ( yes that includes sex ). You will fail, horribly.. but that's part of the process.. If you think you should have kissed her, you're too late.. if you think you should have done Y or X.. you should have …
/r/askTRP12/01/18 09:03 PM
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I had the exact same feeling reading it a year and a half ago.. I'm doing much better now, but it's good to reread it again after all this time. The anger phase is real.. the gym was a great place to be to let it out.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/18 08:01 PM
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there is no mixed message
/r/askTRP09/01/18 09:16 AM
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this
/r/askTRP09/01/18 08:50 AM
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So go around asking people.. 'what do you desire?' whilst giving them the fuck me eyes?
/r/TheRedPill09/01/18 08:34 AM
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This was very entertaining to read, thanks OP
/r/TheRedPill08/01/18 10:40 AM
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Buy a shovel and enjoy digging your grave
/r/askTRP27/12/17 11:21 AM
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You're kind of contradicting yourself there.. You're a very stoic guy, yet you feel vulnerable/overly invested and outcome dependent.. Take some shrooms, put on some good music and figure out what you WANT from her. I'm no expert but it sounds like you're projecting the unicorn image on her, if there is one thing I've learned here concerning relationships is that when you put her on a pedestal you've already lost.
/r/askTRP25/12/17 10:44 AM
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With low social skills I wouldn't try and game any women. Hop around, find a place you like with the right vibe/friendly bartender. And then just talk to people, the other solo guy next to you.. the bartenders, everybody including women but don't go out with the intent on getting laid. Go out on a quiet night, when the music isn't too loud and there aren't too many people. Get to know the bartender first, they will be your friends. Have a beer or two and if you're bored, go back home. If you had…
/r/askTRP25/12/17 10:26 AM
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great post, sums it up nicely
/r/askTRP20/12/17 01:12 PM
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Advice for people starting out.. I'd say reflect on your actions, use the escalation ladder at the start and climb up a level. When you feel like you're stuck, meditate/reflect and try again. Read the rational male and improve yourself whilst working on your game. Lift, find hobbies/new friends and enjoy life. Keep it simple. You'll find yourself different once you get out of the anger phase.
/r/askTRP20/12/17 01:04 PM
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You should be proud of yourself instead of posting about your 'mistakes': -you didn't orbit much but went after other women, perfect.. -you wanted to get out and you did it, good on you.. -you noticed you stopped lifting and you cleaned up your act, good on you.. -you noticed you still have feelings for her and that it's better to work on yourself first, excellent.. So where is this mistake? Most men here have trouble with abundance, it's a hard thing to reach and the easiest to lose when in an …
/r/TheRedPill14/12/17 10:51 AM
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Well, interesting to read at least.. don't see anything debunking the AF/BB concept though, which is pretty much confirmed by everybody here.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/17 02:08 PM
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ah I remember this.. I stopped caring. For younger chicks I went the 'get laid from real life interaction' or get ghosted by shitty text game. Older women ( 30+ ) with less options are way easier and more pleasant to have a conversation with imo. Guess what I'm trying to say is, if they are interested they WILL ignore the other guys and text you back. Just don't act too needy or follow silly x hour reply rules. Turn off your phone, put it on silent ( works wonders ) and DO stuff, text them whene…
/r/askTRP05/12/17 10:11 PM
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Most interesting read of my day, thanks for the clarification :)
/r/TheRedPill30/11/17 03:19 PM
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So you're getting blackmailed into a relationship? Take some responsibility already and end it, if not for yourself do it for the kid who you clearly don't like that much. Tell your boss and take whatever comes your way. Being alpha ( being a man ) isn't fucking every bimbo that comes your way, it's taking responsibility for your actions and facing the hardships. Learn from your mistakes, improve, soldier on. You know what to do..
/r/TheRedPill29/11/17 11:21 AM
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looks fake as hell to me, dude sounds gay as well..
/r/TheRedPill20/11/17 12:46 PM
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This, the medium is the message. The fact she doesn't want to meet up in person IS the message.
/r/askTRP06/11/17 10:47 AM
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You pretty much answered your own question already. You nexted the class princess, she's probably calling you an asshole or w/e. People tend to believe women, I know I did before I took the pill. Classic case of don't shit where you eat.
/r/askTRP04/11/17 10:05 PM
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They have a conga line of guys texting them to hang out, you're not on top of their list. Next and move on, just assume they are fucking somebody else if they are 'too busy'. It's usually the case.
/r/askTRP04/11/17 09:55 PM
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Could be my imagination, but I could have sworn my voice sounded deeper when I did nofap and worked out more. I assume testosteron is linked to the sound of your voice, hence the whole puberty voice thing? Work on that, the voice might follow.
/r/askTRP04/11/17 09:47 PM
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This is a nice way to look at it. Building them up is a slow progress though, losing them is easy. Keeping that balance in a positive is why a healthy LTR needs what they call 'frame' here.
/r/askTRP25/10/17 09:55 AM
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Great post, thanks for sharing. Any more information on how your girl changed you for the better? I'm curious, she sounds like a great person.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/17 08:57 AM
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Ah, I see how you're giving it a go then. Alot can happen in 4 months though, just keep it in the back of your mind a little. As for fighting, texting, etc. Why does it bother you so much? I'd say give her a call now and then and keep texting to a minimum, you can't portray emotions through text and that's how women work. If she's giving you shit don't respond to it much, you can't change her emotional state if she's not there next to you. Ignore or reply professionally, if she's acting like a c…
/r/askTRP04/10/17 02:45 PM
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Long distant relationship is where this went wrong imo.
/r/askTRP04/10/17 02:07 PM
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Wow, this pretty much sums up this entire generation of young women.
/r/askTRP04/10/17 02:01 PM
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this
/r/askTRP04/10/17 01:57 PM
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It's ok to love a woman you know, but 'oneitis' is never acceptable. Catch it early and kill it with fire. Keep flirting with other women, keep dating if you're not exclusive. Stop dating others if you don't care anymore, fall in love if you want, but never before you're 100% sure she loves you back and you've banged plenty of times. I've made this mistake a couple of times, I think every man has made this mistake. I try and go drinking with a good friend of mine at least once a week to keep up …
/r/askTRP04/10/17 01:56 PM
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I'm dutch so the image of the 'hot blonde next door girl' you see all the time here, I'd rate that as a 7. A really hot one that browses through her phone bored at the bar, trying to pick what chad she wants to get boned from I'd rate an 8. 9's are personal, the only one I managed to get a date with had a kickass body, cute face and long dark hair ( rare here, she had italian blood ). 10's don't exist for me. It's personal, if you google you get something like this: http://www.returnofkings.com/…
/r/askTRP04/10/17 01:47 PM
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Nice way to handle it, good job :)
/r/MarriedRedPill02/10/17 10:42 AM
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hotness isn't bitchyness, a 6 can be way more bitchy then a 8 or a 9. 7's are usually hard work cause they get the most attention of all. But who am I, I only met a 9 once in my life..
/r/askTRP02/10/17 09:58 AM
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Meditate/reflect on what went well and where it went wrong. Go out again, try something different. Heck it took me alot of sidebar reading material and 100+ rejections before I 'got it'.. Nobody said it would be easy dude.
/r/askTRP02/10/17 09:54 AM
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I've read it, it had some good pointers but I need to reread it soon. Take from it what you will, I didn't connect with Manson's models very much. It's a book, an opinion, take from it what you will and make it your own. No big deal if you don't connect with everything.
/r/askTRP02/10/17 09:41 AM
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it's out there, google young padawan
/r/askTRP14/09/17 05:53 PM
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A+, I need to put this on my wall somehow..
/r/askTRP26/08/17 10:32 AM
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I think we all become our father somewhat, more or less.. even as we try our hardest to be a better man. I'm not really getting this post either, if the point is to forgive him I already did when I buried him.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/17 09:57 AM
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Sure, for context: She's in her forties but looks thirty, so she's still in the market somewhat. Single mom, since she decided to get pregnant at 30 even though the relationship with her autistic ex was run down in the ground. She ditched the ex shortly after getting pregnant. Her reason being 'I wanted a kid' and actually saying this as if raising a kid alone for the sole reason of 'wanting something' is a thing to be proud of. Some examples from the top of my head: -keeps asking where the good…
/r/askTRP12/08/17 01:58 PM
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Whilst growing up oblivious, they taught me nothing. After having my eyes opened though, one of my sisters is a great example of Awalt and I have fun listening to her hamster rants sometimes. Everything is textbook rp, it's awesome.
/r/askTRP12/08/17 12:05 PM
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In what way exactly?
/r/askTRP08/08/17 01:07 PM
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It is depressing at first yes, it gets better. The thought still comes up sometimes, let it pass in meditation. The iron rule for me was woman don't want a man's love, they want a man to love. It's okay to love a woman, every man has/does. Just keep it to yourself and love yourself first. Learning it's okay to fall in love again was a big hurdle for me at first, you'll get there again.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/17 01:00 PM
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Don't djerk off for at least a week, take some kamagra. Have fun.
/r/askTRP04/08/17 09:02 AM
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Yup, everywhere. Especially listening to popular pop songs again and actually 'getting' what the women are singing now. Funny how alot of lyrics from woman are about af/bb and lyrics from men are usually beta 'why don't you love me' kinda crap.
/r/askTRP04/08/17 08:54 AM
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Interesting, noticed the same thing. Written well imo
/r/askTRP04/08/17 08:53 AM
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It's part of the must-read sidebar material, so go ahead and read it already. As for opinion, some stuff I agreed with..some stuff I didn't agree with. I can't remember it well since it's been a while, but I think it was mostly about 'being honest emotionally'. The way I took it in was to contradict the nice guy inside of you. If you're talking to a chick and you're stuck at just talking.. be honest and ask yourself, wtf do you want. Do you want to just talk to her or do you want to fuck her. An…
/r/askTRP25/07/17 01:00 PM
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Maybe this would work with the gf as well.. will try it out, thanks
/r/MarriedRedPill20/07/17 04:34 AM
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It's worth a shot to try both, I did. I guess many guys that want to try dating again, like me over a year ago, will start out with the online dating thing since you keep hearing it works. X found his gf on tinder, isn't it wonderful? I tried them all, with my old shitty pictures and obviously didn't have much success. Had a couple of dates though, so wasn't all bad but the time investment wasn't worth the flaking, ghosting, etc and I did not understood why. I told myself, screw this and started…
/r/TheRedPill17/07/17 09:12 AM
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Sums it up pretty nicely imo..
/r/TheRedPill16/07/17 02:41 AM
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Fun read, need to look into taoism more it seems.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/17 10:40 AM
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I smiled whilst reading this, nice job. It may sound a little harsh but you trusted your gut and handled it great imo.
/r/askTRP12/07/17 08:50 PM
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Why the hell are you going out for dinner as a first date..
/r/askTRP04/07/17 10:25 AM
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Isn't this basic sidebar stuff you're re-posting?
/r/TheRedPill30/06/17 11:55 AM
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Wow, great read. Stuff like this should be a mustread for every guy getting married/in an LTR. I'm not married but I read this sub now and then since I'm in an LTR again and the usual ' lift, spin plates' advice on the regular sub doesn't fit 100% anymore. Stuff like this keeps me clear minded, thanks for posting.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/06/17 09:48 AM
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This is a great reply
/r/askTRP27/06/17 10:23 AM
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No, start lifting. Peck deck ftw
/r/askTRP27/06/17 09:53 AM
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You should have stopped texting after she told you 'she really likes so far but..' it's obvious she was banging other people, everybody is. She wasn't interested anymore and/or she found somebody that fucks better, simple as that. If you feel the needy need to keep texting ( I've been there ), just delete her number. Seeing more people will prevent stuff like this all together.
/r/askTRP23/06/17 12:25 PM
3

So 3 boring videos about how looks is everything? With online dating crap yes, in real life.. no
/r/askTRP23/06/17 11:10 AM
1

Great post, nicely written as well
/r/TheRedPill21/06/17 11:24 AM
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You matched.. wow, good luck with that
/r/askTRP18/06/17 12:05 PM
2

Pretty good comparison... same as money basically, it doesn't make you happy in a sense but it sucks if you're short on it.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/17 11:40 AM
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haha, welcome to the club.. You'll learn to embrace the new demon inside of you eventually, at least I did. Controlling the demon is hard though..
/r/askTRP17/06/17 10:22 AM
1

That last sentence is absolutely correct. My biggest fear was living, not dieing.. so it's hard to relate when I had to sort out of my life in a very different way I guess.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/17 12:43 PM
1

I used to be the same, read all the material here and get to work out. Work out, try nofap if you're addicted to porn, get out and hit on girls and get rejected alot.. it'll toughen you up. What's this about a demon exactly?
/r/askTRP13/06/17 12:02 PM
1

Nice little FR, easy to read and gets to the point. Congrats on getting laid
/r/TheRedPill13/06/17 11:52 AM
1

Euhm you didn't exactly answer my question, or I'm missing the point.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/17 12:50 PM
1

You didn't answer my question, your insecurity doesn't matter here. Are you in love with the quy?
/r/askTRP10/06/17 01:24 PM
1

wow this got derailed pretty quickly.. Meditating is what you make it to be, so leave the bullshit aside please.. For me, if I'm stressed I do this: I just relax on my couch, close my eyes, put some relaxing music on and focus on my breathing whilst visualizing myself standing on a rock in the middle of the ocean. Your thoughts are the water/waves crashing and parting on the rock.. I am the rock, unperturbed and everlasting. Emotions and thoughts come and go, it does not matter for I am still he…
/r/TheRedPill10/06/17 01:22 PM
1

Just wondering, why the obsession exactly?
/r/TheRedPill10/06/17 01:13 PM
4

So basically just meditate.. yes it works, especially if you overthink things like me.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/17 10:23 AM
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And why exactly are you not nexting him if you don't enjoy having sex with him? You do know it's easy to get laid as a woman right? If you want an answer to your question, some friendly tips never hurt anyone but telling him he sucks at having sex is impossible to say without 'hurting feelings'.
/r/askTRP05/06/17 02:05 PM
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Easier to assume there's always another guy, there usually is..
/r/askTRP05/06/17 02:02 PM
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Sounds like he's being needy, high SMV aside there's his answer. Tell him to let her be for now and go after other women, but from the sound of it he's indeed 'in too deep'..
/r/askTRP05/06/17 01:49 PM
2

Are you a man or a woman? Why are you asking this here anyway?
/r/askTRP05/06/17 01:47 PM
1

ha, gotta remember that one :)
/r/TheRedPill05/06/17 01:28 PM
2

People have the ability to turn their neck and look at you during doggy you know :p There's also lots of other positions you can use obviously. There's just something primal about it all.
/r/askTRP04/06/17 01:00 PM
1

lost interest or she's fucking somebody else, basically every texting rejection ever.
/r/askTRP04/06/17 12:37 PM
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I like it, but I prefer the pussy for obvious reasons. There's just something 'dirty' about the whole thing and the look on a woman's face whilst being totally submissive is a huge turn on. Just try it out, remember to use lube and take it easy the first time. Make sure she cleans herself as well.
/r/askTRP04/06/17 12:03 PM
1

Excellent post..
/r/askTRP03/06/17 10:31 AM
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For me self improvement is becoming the best man you can be, and being sexual is a big aspect of that.. Instead of the other way around. But who cares anyway, why does this discussion keep popping up?
/r/TheRedPill01/06/17 01:03 PM
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hell hath no fury like a woman scorned..
/r/TheRedPill13/05/17 12:35 PM
1

great post, best of luck m8
/r/TheRedPill30/04/17 06:20 PM
1

This sounds about right.. It's fun if you experience this yourself a couple of times. Hard to learn/fake it till you make it though.
/r/askTRP28/04/17 10:27 AM
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Jesus christ dude, besides the ton of people here telling you the obvious you keep hamstering away. You know the truth, now go deal with it. Your watch has ended, go talk to other women.
/r/askTRP20/04/17 03:28 PM
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haha, this made me laugh.. thanks
/r/TheRedPill20/04/17 08:39 AM
2

Good luck on your journey dude
/r/TheRedPill19/04/17 10:06 AM
1

I have 3 sisters: one is married with kids ( christian background, she's unhappy I think but the religion part keeps her there ), the other is a single mother and the youngest is a bi/lesbian in a happy relationship with another woman now. I get along best with the single mom one, but she confirmed every last bit of theory on this sub tbh.. I only just noticed it since I took the pill. She's 44 now but eats healthy so she can pass as 35 still, sad thing is this is keeping her in the CC. From ref…
/r/askTRP17/04/17 01:53 PM
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You can be the best man around, you'd still be human with emotions. It's okay to let it out now and then instead of bottling it all up, as long as you're back to your old self and don't make a habit out of it. Just don't cry in front of women, they tend to dislike it..
/r/askTRP17/04/17 01:44 PM
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Lol, 2 days.. I had to live with mine for 2,3 months, some guys have to endure it even longer.. stop complaining.
/r/askTRP17/04/17 01:38 PM
1

Good luck brother, the first time is the hardest.
/r/askTRP15/04/17 10:52 AM
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I found this place somehow through seduction and nofap, because I was looking for some tips. My dating life sucked and I got out of an 8 year long unhappy LTR. I couldn't figure out what my problem was and I was having a bad dry spell. I tried some basic flirting techniques ( what they call PUA I guess ) and it became my pet project to get better with women. Their stuff doesn't cover why it works though and why I couldn't get past some hurdles, found this sub and finally it 'clicked'. I think al…
/r/askTRP15/04/17 10:45 AM
1

Talk to him, you will regret it otherwise. My father died about 6 years ago of a heart attack suddenly. We didn't have the best relationship but I forgave him for a lot of crap after I buried him. Be the better man and at least try and talk to him while he is still alive.
/r/askTRP12/04/17 10:31 AM
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https://youtu.be/-UJ9K8lMxPA Best way to 'create' them imo.
/r/askTRP12/04/17 10:28 AM
1

this would work
/r/askTRP12/04/17 10:25 AM
1

Cats are awesome and it's nice to have 'somebody' waiting when you come home. Low maintenance as well, just give them food, attention and change the litter box every two days.
/r/askTRP09/04/17 09:00 AM
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Lmao, what a question. I own cats because I want to own cats and I don't have the time for a dog. Not because I want to get laid because of them.. Be wary with getting a long haired one though... cleaning up the hair is a nightmare
/r/askTRP08/04/17 09:55 AM
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I do think abundance mentality is crucial for a proper LTR though. I was listening to a song on the radio the other day with a lyric that went 'before I fall in love I'm preparing to leave her'. It never struck a cord until now.. If you're not preparing to walk away if things turn sour, you haven't changed. For me the rule 'a woman doesn't want your love, but a man she can love' was/is the hardest.
/r/askTRP05/04/17 12:30 PM
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It's the hardest part actually.. keep improving, keep escalating, keep lifting, keep meditating.
/r/askTRP05/04/17 12:26 PM
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Don't beat yourself up over it, ask the chick out whenever you're in the same situation.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/17 12:19 PM
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Well if it's just talking to people, don't focus too much on approaching a hot girl and just try and talk to people as a goal. Talk to the waiter/countergirl ( shes has no choice but to be friendly ), talk to a stranger sitting on a bench, etc. It can as silly as asking the time or where the library is, things like that. Once that's easy, try asking women stuff/directions. Keep going from there, that's how I'd approach it anyway. I don't really do what they call daygame though, but flirting is a…
/r/TheRedPill04/04/17 12:39 PM
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At least you went and did it, give yourself some credit for that. If the bar sucks, drink up your beer and look around. Heck, barhopping alone can be fun. Don't focus on pickup and just go out and talk to people. Getting over approach anxiety is hard as fuck, I know. Just do the babysteps.. go out alone, check. Talk to at least 3 people, check. Talk to ten people, check. As soon as you find some bar or bars you like, get to know the bartender(s), check. Flirt with a girl, check. Flirt with multi…
/r/TheRedPill03/04/17 11:57 AM
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Be sure to pick a bar you feel comfortable in, look around and talk to the bartenders untill you find one you can connect somewhat with.. Having a bar where you can walk around a little helps alot, nothing worse being stuck in a corner somewhere all night.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/17 11:50 AM
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Keep at it, it gets easier. Good job! Don't worry about 'closing', heck I've been rejected about 150+ times when I learned to get over my approach anxiety. Eventually you stop caring.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/17 11:49 AM
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It's hard the first time, it gets easier each time. Congrats on doing it, I'm guessing 90% of guys are too afraid to even try it. I still find having a fun friend that does his own thing as well alot more fun. Try a solo vacation if you think you're ready for it, going to a bar alone then is easy as pie after that.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/17 01:46 PM
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Didn't you post this in asktrp earlier where it belongs?
/r/TheRedPill01/04/17 04:48 AM
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Escalate and find out
/r/askTRP31/03/17 10:42 AM
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Thank you mods, post quality has been slipping alot again lately
/r/TheRedPill31/03/17 10:20 AM
2

Yeh, texting her for 3 months was pretty dumb.. but don't worry, you're not alone. Heck my sorry ass fell in the same trap about a year ago. I wouldn't talk to her much, don't ignore her but don't orbit either. She sounds like oneïtus for now. Talk to ten other women ;) She's not worth your time anymore. Keep improving, you'll get there.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/17 10:14 AM
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Do we really need a post about 'don't pay all her shit'?
/r/TheRedPill31/03/17 10:08 AM
1

Get rid of tinder, it's a waste of time.
/r/askTRP27/03/17 05:05 PM
1

Drink coffee, escalate.. read the sidebar if you want to know how
/r/askTRP27/03/17 05:03 PM
1

I was addicted to porn and masturbation, did the 3 months nofap thing to get rid of it and it worked. It was a coping mechanism since my teenage years, feel like shit -> masturbate to porn. Little did I know it killed my libido and I turned to shit because of it. My testosterone level is stable now and I can masturbate although sparingly. If you're addicted like I was, try nofap. If not it's not as important and it isn't the holy grail like some people say it is. I had a dry streak in my third m…
/r/askTRP26/03/17 03:56 PM
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I've fucked a couple of escorts, started out with one to get out of my dryspell with nofap ( was driving me insane ) and tried a couple more for fun after that. They were always older then what I expected and the cash wasn't really worth the 15 minutes quickie tbh. It does help you separate sex from love, which I needed to do when I turned my life around. Try one, no shame in it since women have been doing it since the dawn of time. For me though it wasn't very satisfying, the lack of kissing an…
/r/askTRP26/03/17 09:40 AM
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Sounds like a classic case of oneïtus, we've all been there. Work on yourself, delete her number in case you haven't done so already. Date other women, it'll pass.
/r/askTRP24/03/17 03:00 PM
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When I first started reading about womanese, there was something about adding 'right now' or 'with you' behind the sentence. If she's telling you she doesn't want sex, she's telling you she doesn't want sex with you. Especially if she's telling you she wants to talk to other guys. Sounds pretty obvious dude, your turn is finished. Move on and game other women, there's millions of the silly creatures.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/17 10:45 AM
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You sound very pissed off, I suggest you let it go.. she doesn't owe you anything. Expecting ANYTHING at all from a woman makes them run for the hills in my experience. Are you still in the anger phase by any chance?
/r/TheRedPill24/03/17 10:35 AM
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I'm turning 30 in 3 months and I'm looking forward to it thanks to this sub, it really did change my life for the better. Fear is normal, facing your fears and overcoming them is what it's like to be a man.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/17 01:22 PM
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Sounds you're on the right track already man, keep doing fun stuff and try and pick up some new hobbies. They'll come eventually. This anxiety thing sounds more like the problem. Best of luck dude, you're not alone out there who's struggling :)
/r/askTRP18/03/17 03:50 AM
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I do both, but I try and get them to my place with a nice 'let me make you dinner at my place' by the second date usually. If we made out already or they're really into me, I can skip the coffee bullshit usually.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/17 12:03 PM
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I'm a 50/50 introvert myself so I understand, I spend months alone before I discovered red pill and wondered why the hell I sucked at dating. You sound like you're on the right path already. I never did the extreme monkmode thing but I did nofap for 3 months, read all the sidebar stuff and just started doing things. What kind of people do you actually enjoy hanging out with then? And how are your old friends boring exactly?
/r/askTRP15/03/17 11:56 AM
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It varies of course, but instead of playing video games all day and staying in the house I just try and do stuff. Take walks, grab a coffee somewhere and talk to the staff. See your friends and family more, stuff like that. From the sound of it you're already quite social, but you find people boring? Sounds pretty simple, you're hanging out with the wrong people. I love to drink though, maybe that's got something to do with it :p
/r/askTRP12/03/17 12:57 PM
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Start new hobbies, like sports or dance classes ( working on salsa myself now ). Go out alone on vacation or in your hometown and talk to random people, bartenders. I've met some fun people this way. Go to parties, again talk to people you don't know. It's hard at first but it gets alot easier, all the while improving your own smv ( meditation, lifting ) If you got some skeletons in your closet, try some drugs. Xtc did wonders for me. I still feel lonely sometimes, but I've never been more socia…
/r/askTRP09/03/17 11:58 AM
2

Excellent post, connects well with no more mr nice guy as well I think. At least back when I read it the epiphany I had that I was primarily raised by my mother and without a real father figure, that really opened my eyes for the first time.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/17 12:17 PM
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If you really want to face your demons, try something better like xtc or shrooms. Do it with somebody you trust and at home though, not in a club or something. But yes, getting high can reveal your true self. With weed, not really.. just laughing and being tired and slow as hell..
/r/askTRP18/02/17 09:22 AM
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I did it a couple of times to get back into dating, before I found the rp. It's a good exercise in talking to women, definitely.. just don't expect anything. In my limited experience, younger women ( 18-25 ) are more fun to talk too and are in for the fun of it. I had a speeddating thing once where it was mostly nearing the wall, post wall women ( 27-35 ) and it felt more like a job interview. Wouldn't recommend it.. In the end I think I got like one date out of it, but I acted pretty beta then.…
/r/askTRP27/01/17 03:59 AM
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I've noticed the crackdown, it's appreciated.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/17 02:56 PM
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wow, great reply. I made the same mistake a while back as OP, dropped plating and focused on her for the most part for a couple of weeks. Was gunning for a ltr, since she seemed different. Of course I turned into a beta pussy and she had 'doubts' whilst she was all over me a week before. Thanks again, great pov.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/17 11:12 AM
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I did the 3 month reboot thing and as a former porn/fap addict it worked for me. I found nofap before the rp, but I started after swallowing the pill. It was very hard but it worked for me. I feel more energetic, less anxious, need less sleep and actually got a normal working libido again. I'm back to normal now so I jack off sometimes, but maybe once in 2 weeks if I'm not getting laid. Try it if you were like me, sad and depressed.. fapping your frustration away and thus keeping you from feelin…
/r/TheRedPill04/01/17 11:25 AM
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Haha, god this hits home hard. I've had exactly the same thing, I flirt like a mofo but escalating it fast enough didn't work for me for some reason. It got me thinking and it made me realize I approached everybody, but I didn't really care about it at all. I think I've approached over a 100 women these past 2 months, but I actually liked only a handful. It fixed my AA but didn't get me laid, cause women poke through it after 5 minutes of 'small talk'. Try asking yourself this question, which wo…
/r/askTRP01/12/16 10:42 AM
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haha, is that from a well known video or something?
/r/TheRedPill01/12/16 09:37 AM
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Depends on the age of the women, I've been to a couple that were alot of fun and I've been to one where it was all women around 30 nearing the wall, shittesting the hell out of the conversation. Good way to get back into talking to women though, no harm in trying?
/r/askTRP24/11/16 01:14 PM
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thx, had a good laugh
/r/seduction24/09/16 12:16 PM
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Since I've started nofap I don't have the urge to game at all anymore tbh.. You will have more energy to go out and actually do stuff, read more and improve yourself. Instead of wasting dopamine on a quick level fix. Start nofap, focus on yourself and go out.
/r/askTRP22/09/16 09:34 AM
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I normally don't post on this sub, but for this one I had too. My ex of 7/5 years had borderline, I figured it out years ago but I didn't end it. She threatened to kill herself, shit like that. Once she freaked out completely, tried to choke me and later on holding a pair of scissors threatening to cut my dick off. I ended it a year ago but I've found my balls again only recently, trying to get back into dating and failing miserably I found reddit, seduction, nofap and eventually the red pill. I…
/r/TheRedPill07/09/16 01:21 PM
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this
/r/seduction23/08/16 07:07 AM
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There is a popular college bar where I go sometimes, incredibly crowded and very very loud music so it's all about body language. I've experienced this same problem, besides the obvious grind any more tips guys?
/r/seduction31/07/16 07:32 PM
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haha I hear ya man, as an older male (29) that only recently got a smartphone I'm still learning the ropes of the whole whatsapp culture these days. Basically like you said, she already said yes and you expect her to be there. Stop worrying and go out, do stuff to take your mind off of her. I know you're craving to talk to her, but she's busy with other stuff so it would only come over as needy/annoying. Just let it be and talk for real on wednesday, just text her about the time/place.
/r/seduction31/07/16 06:11 PM
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Agreed, more people should do this.
/r/seduction31/07/16 05:46 PM
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Hm, guess I'm the first one to reply. Stop texting, just stop it. Did you set a time/place? If not, just text here the details on wednesday. Learning the texting game is pretty fun trust me, but confusing as hell at first. If she doesn't reply ( in my humble opinion ) she's either doing real life stuff, texting others ( including guys from tinder ) or playing the game. Either 3 options don't include talking to you, so just let it go. Either she'll show up or flake on you, after which you need to…
/r/seduction31/07/16 05:45 PM
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