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One bad man represents all men but one bad woman only represents herself. It’s strange how y’all pick n choose when to enforce this argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 03:06 PM
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Been on here for 10 years with the same cherry picked argument btw
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 09:40 PM
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Funniest part, OP never shamed anyone for wanting a provider lol he just talking about the pressures of being a provider in today’s world. Idk why this ruffled peoples feathers.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 01:11 AM
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Great you can read! Now I know this might be challenging but read how he describes the topic. He is not talking about 100/0, he just talking about be the MAIN financial guy. Read slow and maybe 2x to get a better understanding. I know you got this!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 01:02 AM
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I meant to say “actual WOMEN” plural, because theres multiple women in the video, typo my fault. Typing with no data or stats to prove your point is a waste of time. Until you provide some sources to rebuttal mine, you’re just yapping to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 12:52 AM
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Yea… and under the topic are words we call “sentences” and OP explains his point very well if you actually took the time to read it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 12:43 AM
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So who is providing her the 20%?…sheesh
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 12:36 AM
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Again, personal argument. Do you know how they split the bills? Is it going 50/50? You dont know shit lol I can tell you right now since we wanna be personal, with my lady it’s 70/30 even when she works full time. Its a shame our presidential votes equate the same smh.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 12:30 AM
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Perfect! Thank you for letting us know you’re arguing from your own viewpoint not anything factual. Idk if you know but the world is bigger than your social circles which is why a topic like this was brought up. Open your ability to see others perspectives a lil more next time.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 12:25 AM
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You didnt want to click on my video that defends OP point but instead type paragraphs insisting I’m still wrong… the video goes against the your argument because it actual women telling us what they want lol but yea disregard and keep arguing because you speak for all women I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 12:19 AM
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You lead off with “very few women expect” with no stats, data or research just feelings and I rebuttaled. Im not arguing your salary nor have I ever said you claimed your salary to be normal, your the one the lead with it which makes it personal. None of the women in YOUR middle class.. never elobrated what “Your” meant, again that makes it personal. Are you speaking for yourself or a majority of women? I think its you that needs read better or figure out what your arguing about.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 12:10 AM
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Most women.. most PEOPLE dont make +100k. Anyways, Heres my proof for my argument, social media discourse. So you’re saying im “plain wrong” that she’s an outlier but im correct your average westerner is not earning 140k? Do you know what an outlier is? Because you’re contradicting yourself. Please show your proof about “most women”… If you got any.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 11:15 PM
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They always rather downvote than rebuttal lol I must be that good
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 10:57 PM
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Making 140k a year is not a normal salary either (no shade, congrats to you) so what you’re explaining is a personal and an outlier. Its normal for women to reject men that dont want to be providers. Ask a random woman about going 50/50 and watch her make a hypothetical about unfair roles. “Soft girl era” (wanting men to provide a “sift life”) still is a thing just rebranded.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 10:40 PM
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Good rebuttal on the fictional, I will give you that. But Im pushing OP’s last paragraph further by showing the obsession despite knowing the history. The serial killers he mentioned also received loved letters too while in PRISON for their crimes. The point being, there are women who will neglect violent histories in hopes to get the “love” (transactional, emotional, status or etc) they yearned for and will often look over weak men. There’s a reason why abusive men keep finding relationships wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 03:37 PM
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You’re relying on data that will never be gathered or studied when you can just look at real world examples. Why are women still obsessed with Chris Brown despite his history? Or predator fictional characters like Joe Goldberg on “You”? I think real world examples with social media engagement from mostly women proves OP point.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 01:40 PM
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The irony. An argument about accountability while actively dodging accountability. When its about women’s accountability the conversation becomes about everyone else (“people”). If we’re discussing women’s or men’s accountability, why can’t we stay on that topic without redirecting it?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 03:48 PM
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Its not just a tweet. Theres an article that conducted the analysis attached. In your own example women spend more time personal care/ sleeping too… This is why its important to understand context of your data, not only did it have no impact on my argument on “MODERN COUPLES” but it also shows women today complain far to much about “unpaid domestic labor” when the differences aren’t significant, as you claim its pretty much “equals out”.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 01:14 AM
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You are actually right on my data being taken in 2024, that I give you. But your examples still don’t reflect modern day couples, mine did, and claims that this is upward trending. Even in your latest example, as individuals, men spend more time on work/work related activities.. so whats your argument? I already saw you did a copy & paste elsewhere with no explanation. You need context. what are you arguing?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 11:42 PM
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Must have skipped the part where I said “NOW”… I bring up data that represents latest trends for married couples in 2026 and you present data taken years ago. Also your most recent only tracks women and men as individuals not household partners. You gotta review your evidence before sending it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 10:10 PM
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Lets just cut to the chase. Recent study’s show men on average do more now, therefore your argument is factually reversed. But yikes hoping for parental deaths… misery really loves company.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 05:17 PM
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The irony is some men feel this way too. Both very deserving of staying single because when money comes in play yall gain a superiority complex over your potential partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 03:02 PM
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Is there any study to back this up or are you just regurgitating internet stories that likely never happened? I have seen great examples of sahd and theres studies that show single fathers are “better” . So where does your example stem from?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 01:33 PM
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No. Most women like men, they just dont like you. Better yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 10:46 PM
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“Men” “A man” “No, I talking about these specific group of men” “Many men say it” I stopped responding because you keep shifting the goal posts when the original attack was on a man YOU assumed couldn’t get an OF girl. Im telling you these women aren’t special. You making it sound like you personally got rejected lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 06:12 PM
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Me (a man): I’ve actually dated someone who did OF, they are ordinary people. You (not a man): “No. Men are only discussing porn celebrities (1%) they’ll never meet. Any man who says he wouldn’t date an OF creator is secretly talking about a millionaire influencer, not an ordinary 9-5 woman, because I’ve decided that’s what the narrative is.” It’s always funny when women explain to men what men really mean, then ignore men when they tell them what they mean. Back at ya, you hear how stupid that …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 07:23 PM
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Cricket sounds
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 02:51 AM
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Damn you lacking awareness and listing problems I personally cant relate to. When men say we dont wanna date OF girls, we aren’t thinking about well known adult stars, thats dumb. We are talking about women you might encounter. I have swiped before and found out they did OF. Its more common than you want to believe. I don’t think it’s stupid if a struggling man stuck to his principles and declined to date women who pop their pussy for the internet but hey thats just me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 11:05 PM
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You do know your average OF girl is just a regular woman? He aint talking about your top 1%’ers lol shit there were girls I went to community college with and they was doing OF on the side, its not a rarity. With your stance, you’d be surprised how much they complain about dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 09:22 PM
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Classic scramble argument. Lets recap: You stated and reiterated “this post is about MEN being just as picky as women”, your evidence was Tiktok. I clearly state we are picky but not to the same degree as women. I brought a survey (you ignored) and a study. You keep shifting the argument to REDPILL MEN this and that but your original statement never targeted Redpill men just men as a whole. Check your own grammar. So what is it, are you talking specifically about redpill men or men in general? I…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 08:04 PM
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People in that experiment can also bring that mindset other platforms too. Thats what your brain cant connect unfortunately. Who is this “men” you speak of? because I and plenty others here have never pretended to not be picky, we call it standards. Again, blanket generalization with no actual study to back up. Since you couldn’t provide actual empirical evidence, I assume you have no actual logical rebuttals left but feelings. I guess we will wait for your next horrendous post.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 06:18 PM
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You must not know how statistical studies work. And you clearly misread the evidence and your own argument. These claims show men are picky but aren’t “just as picky”.. thats why I previously said your argument is incoherent af. You dont know what you’re arguing about at this point. We are waiting for your academic research.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 05:07 PM
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Poll with majority of women agreeing and explaining why they are pickier And an actual research study. Peep the last sentence in the first paragraph.) Now where are your academics studies or polls? Tiktok is just laughable at this point. Let me find some crazy tiktok videos of women to justify my point further cuz there are PLENtY
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 04:11 PM
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Not everyone is redpill. You should have flared them specifically if you wanted to target them. Also your argument, like always, is incoherent af. There is an actual study on this, and polls. Your average woman will not agree with you. Just because you dont fit mens standards doesn’t mean you gotta complain and label them “picky” you sound bitter ngl.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 03:40 PM
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Her “proof” are not actually studies or research, its tiktok videos… tiktok videos are her evidence. Cant make this shit up smh
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 02:02 AM
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Who hurt you? Because you love blanket generalizations.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 01:46 PM
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The amount of men post you make is genuinely concerning at some points. Your obsession and yearning for mens attention should be studied. It was 5am PST when you posted this. Go to bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 01:41 PM
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You read all that evidence and still came to that conclusion?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 09:38 PM
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Harsh reality: Stop being judgmental and grow tf up. If you wanna believe all men are bad thats all you will find, the “bad”. Black people are represented poorly by the media, do you have resentment towards them? Or what about immigrants? They always get a bad representation on the media, but I bet you dont have resentment towards them. Im black but I dont resent white people or you, I resent racist. You can resent misogynist without resenting men as a whole. This is not rocket science, you eith…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 03:33 PM
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You under the “women are wonderful” effect. Look into if you’re actually serious about changing. You need to remove what feeds your prejudices. It simple, you judge people for their character not their genitals, race or religion.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 10:22 AM
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And male misogynist like you should never be around women. Ted Bundy energy on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 12:34 AM
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Because I have free will and Misandry doesn’t impact me like it does with you weaklings. Just turn the phone off and go touch grass 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 12:07 AM
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Again you need to look up “misandry” before you respond back because what you’re explaining is not it. None of these examples are acts of prejudice because they’re “men”. Ukraine war is about resources. Male suicide rates is mental health, a complex issue. Men dying in the workplace are accidents…. Why dont you look up misandry vs misogyny on google and see what it tells you, since you wanna tell people to look stuff up.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 11:19 PM
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You said “ A LOT of misogyny is equally avoidable” “A LOT” and now you’re back tracking again 🤣 Honestly id be easier to blame women than go jn circles but you’re not willing to admit what you truly want to say so I will leave it at that. Flawless victory.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 09:55 PM
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Yup I did, looks like I hit a nerve too lol Again you don’t know what misogyny is because it covers that too. Thats why I claim misandry is avoidable while misogyny is not, but you just wanna focus on the mean jokes tho lol and you’re trynna to convince me you hang around women?? 😭 And yes, your comprehension is trash. I dont know how many ways you need this answer. In this hypothetical did a majority of black people vote for him?… if yes they are responsible if not they aren’t responsible. But …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 09:42 PM
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Yup I did, looks like I hit a nerve too lol Again you don’t know what misogyny is because it covers that too. Thats why I claim misandry is avoidable while misogyny is not, but you just wanna focus on the mean jokes tho lol and you’re trynna to convince me you hang around women?? 😭 And yes, your comprehension is trash. I dont know how many ways you need this answer. In this hypothetical did a majority of black people vote for him?… if yes they are responsible if not they aren’t responsible. But …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 09:41 PM
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I can agree that misandry is wrong. But be realistic, how many men are killed do to misandry vs women killed to misogyny?? Thats why I stand on what I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 09:17 PM
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Hey Im being honest too, I just got back from Saturn a few days ago 😂 no here one cares about your personal life, this is a debate. Your argument is dumb but I understand. You believe women who lament of misogyny like for example sexual assault, not being able to get an abortion, gender pay gap, things that PHYSICALLY happened to them in your HEAD thats easily ignorable. Gotcha. Your again failing to prove you have basic reading comprehension.. follow the logic. if a majority of black people vot…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 09:15 PM
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Hey Im being honest too, I just got back from Saturn a few days ago 😂 no here one cares about your personal life, this is a debate. Your argument is dumb but I understand. You believe women who lament of misogyny like for example sexual assault, not being able to get an abortion, gender pay gap, things that PHYSICALLY happened to them in your HEAD thats easily ignorable. Gotcha. Your again failing to prove you have basic reading comprehension.. follow the logic. if a majority of black people vot…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 09:14 PM
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Yea right, and Im a Neurosurgeon but also professional mma fighter and an occasional astronaut on my part time, trust me Im from the internet 😭 We could dig but that be red herring lol Your original argument was about misogyny being equal to misandry because women can simply avoid it as you claim. You’re unknowingly arguing that men have it harder but failing to realize the irony that men also created the systems we have today. So I ask again who can you really blame? The person that creates the…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 08:26 PM
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You can just tell when someone uses chatGPT to respond lmaoo Its obvious you never talked to a woman so let’s wrap this up with a simple question that youll most likely avoid answering. Even though majority of the laws and appointed judicial officers were and are men, do you blame women for men being incarcerated more? You brought it up for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 06:56 PM
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Recap: you say oppression doesn’t exist in western culture. I said it does if racism and misogyny is still practiced. You think oppression is just jokes and people saying mean things. I listed systematic and social examples of modern day oppression, you brought up some bullshit. Black people getting incarcerated at higher rates is a from of OPPRESSION committed by white people. Your counter was men being more incarcerated than women… but now you avoid answering who is responsible for this system…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 06:35 PM
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cant answer the question, downvotes out of triggered feelings You brought up men being more incarcerated because of… men. Now im defending women from accountability because there supposedly responsible for MEN wanting to lock MEN up. Holy smokes you’re so ignorant. https://preview.redd.it/xa61ogwja44h1.jpeg?width=860&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=211d21772917fbc618fec64857d6b9c3e2b229ad
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 06:12 PM
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Quick answer doofus, who imposed that incarceration rule a man or a woman?? Jeez you dont think at all 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 06:03 PM
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Wow I cant convince you to be smarter than this. You think oppression is just jokes, which is why your called ignorant. My definition of oppression is actually real life statistics like black people getting incarcerated at higher rates than white people even though they commit the same crime, or how women have to keep guard up around strange men because they face sexual assault at higher rates than MEN (ONE reason why misogyny is NOT equal to misandry) , etc. Thats a ‘modern’ form of oppression …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 06:00 PM
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Idk some would say your inability to read and argue is more pathetic lol Do you even know what you’re arguing at this point? First it’s equatable, then it’s not equatable, and now it’s equatable again because the jokes hurt your feelings? Then you keep claiming oppression doesn’t exist in Western culture, and your evidence is, ‘I see people go to Starbucks and go on vacations.’ So are you claiming racism and misogyny (both forms of oppression) just don’t exist? Very bold and ignorant conclusion.…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 05:31 PM
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I know reading is a tough for you because my tag clearly say “purple pill man” 😂 You couldn’t even name one example that women imposed to systematically oppress men, your argument is they say jokes that hurt your lil feelings. You keep going back n forth saying you’re not equating anything then proceed to equate misandry and misogyny in your examples. You obviously never had a masculine figure in you’re life to tell you to man the fuck up lol All you’re doing is displaying privilege and complain…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 04:29 PM
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Actually I take back what I said about responding because your ignorance is starting to get entertaining. First you said it equally avoidable but now you claim you’re not equating anything?? You can acknowledge that misogyny (a main driver in gender based discrimination) exists in western culture but you dont consider that a form of oppression?? Uh oh the foundation of your lame argument is cracking lol at least you’re self aware that you got a thick head.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 03:58 PM
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Its not avoidable its enforced by law and society. You cant get that through your head because you dont understand the concept of oppression. Misandry is sexism, and the logic is correct. Hatred only breeds hatred but you’re trying to equate the two and that’s simply not true and an idiotic take given the history. Imma wait to respond until you give me laws or systems created by women to oppress men because you’re arguing from an emotional perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 03:10 PM
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Its not really avoidable if we still live under patriarchy now is it?? Misogyny is a systemic issues, its literally in our LAWS created by MEN to limit women’s freedom. Cant say the same vice versa. Misandry is a reaction to misogyny and a majority of the time takes place online. If you let those “jokes” or “opinions” from some stranger you’ll never meet impact your view on women as a whole then you’re a weak minded loser.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 02:33 PM
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Uhh you do know what misandry is right? How can it be misandry when MEN not only created war but this system too? Idk if you know what it means.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 02:27 PM
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Yea it exist but lets be real, misandry is 100% avoidable, misogyny is not, so its annoying when grown men complain about something they choose to deal with. Misandry only has power if you give it attention. Scrolling and blocking is an option.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 06:25 AM
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Technically it’s “straight” sex… but personally and statistically idk many men thats sexual attracted to women built like “Lebron James” and vice verse as described in your example, why I brought up “random externalities”.. your arguing points that had nothing to do with the original comment. You got your eyes set on a “gotcha moment” but you trying too hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 05:45 PM
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Judging by how pressed you were the last time and how often you comment on here and I stand with my conclusion. As for this post, he is explaining it you perfectly but you keep creating random externalities to win an argument. And believe it or not, words do have established definitions. Straight traditionally refers to attraction between men and women, typically understood as cisgender men being attracted to cisgender women and vice versa, while attractions outside of that are categorized diffe…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 05:11 PM
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A while ago I remembered you commented at me saying its 1000% percent ok to reject a trans woman for being trans then ran away from the debate.. but here you are pressing this man for his preference for not wanting to date a trans woman? What changed?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 04:36 PM
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Im not the OP……….. There really TRULY is no hope for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 03:14 PM
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Is that not YOU that saying “ You literally proving OP right”??? Your comment is targeted at me, dimwit unless you woulda said “OP literally proving HIM right”. An apology for coming at me is a lot easier than doubling down own your clownery. Learn how to write.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 03:09 PM
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Now mr. smart guy, point to the class where I specifically shame (like you claimed) the guy for not wanting transwomen? Your ignorance is lowkey entertaining.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 03:03 PM
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First I’m shaming someone (you couldn’t prove)? Now im another person who is responsible for a statement I didnt make?.. you dont know wtf is going on this thread, so I suggest you read before ever responding again.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 02:57 PM
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You must not know what “literally” in this context means. He can be a jackass but still be entitled to his preferences too. You also agreed that rejection is “1000%” justified but he was an ass about it. So we are both in agreement, you just shifted the argument to his attitude when that was never my main argument to begin with. 100% of the cases in my original rebuttal are not represented by the lone example OP picked. Do the research.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 07:36 AM
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Thats literally what he did.. walked up and eliminated the option he didn’t want *preference*. You’re triggered and searching for something deeper in a shallow area. Yea he was a jackass about it but he made his choice, if you gotta issue about how he walked, talked m, or acted talk to him! Simple
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 06:08 AM
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Ok.. sounds like you need to have a discussion with the dude that popped the balloon, idk what you’ll get from me because im not here to argue whether it was disrespectful or not. Im not the one who popped or defending how he went about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 05:30 AM
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I see you and OP are fixated on the “disrespect” of the pop instead of the originating topic “preference”. Im not here to argue nor disagree with that opinion, so idk why this is the central focus. Also, no one is owed a “respectful” rejection, you enter the dating game knowing the risk lol take it on the chin and move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 05:20 AM
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You can literally type this in a google search and see the discourses/podcast topics on this, but you’re choosing not to do the research and argue instead. Your experience is not the universal experience. Obviously some people care to a certain degree and if you let their judgement impact you then its on you. People judge, theres no argument against that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 04:04 AM
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Is there anywhere that indicates I gave af on who you or anyone dates? No one cares or is impressed you “claim” to date a lot of women. The op argument is to admit your preference and mine is can you be accepting without judgement. Its a simple rebuttal and if you dont care that much you dont need to comment. End of story.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 03:34 AM
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I think you got op and me mixed up… You said “you” so who did I shame and call a bigot? Quote me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 03:27 AM
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Can you explain? A generic statement with no follow up isn’t really a debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 02:28 AM
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I never said what he did was good or bad. Thats subjective and not the argument. Your one example doesn’t negate the point but only proved it because you disliked him owning up to his type, respectfully or disrespectfully. Some of y’all still have issues with preferences and you’re showing it now cherry picking examples.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 02:05 AM
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Dude had a type and owned up to it. You seem to not like that. Looks like you just proved my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 01:53 AM
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Its funny Man say they dont want to date big women “he is fat phobic” Man say they dont wanna date trans women “he is trans phobic” Man say they dont wanna date older women “ he is a predator” Man say they dont wanna date ugly women “he is shallow and ugly too” Man say they dont wanna date dark skin or black women “he hates black women” So men can tell yall what they want and history has shown they’ll get shamed for it. So the real question, can yall be accepting of preferences? Actions online p…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 01:08 AM
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Force is NOT the only factor. I think we have two different understandings of ‘entitlement’. Men and women can act manipulatively to get what they want because they feel entitled, zero force needed.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 07:11 PM
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Its not by force but through guilt. I have had situations where women felt entitled to my body and my other relations when we both established FWB. Just because you dont see it doesn’t mean men dont experience it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 03:56 PM
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No. “Survival of the fittest” DEFINES natural selection… something that’s been happening before “man” existed.. what was your end goal with this take?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 04:53 PM
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Your perspective on 20-29 year olds is that they deserve a different level of accountability because you dont consider them “grown”. Thats you giving them a pass. You keep bringing age as an excuse. But again, we highly doubt if Meg cheated at 30 you would be on here berating women to hold her accountable because your history here doesn’t prove such capabilities. Your hypocrisy just got exposed.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 03:04 PM
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Ok… you expect me to believe a hypothetical from a stranger? Actions > words.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 04:28 AM
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Age was a factor you brought up. I’m asking, where was this same energy when she did the same things or worse? Your defense is that she was in her 20s (late 20s, pushing 30, btw). But I know that if she did the same things now in her 30s, women like yourself would still defend her the way you are now. Just saying you cant expect men to hold others accountable or expect them to care about bad behavior when you’re actively not doing the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 04:05 AM
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So from what you’re saying, people can cheat, lie, and be abusive in their 20s (grown adults btw) without accountability as long as they improve later but once someone is in their 30s, that’s when accountability matters? Sounds like a goal post being moved.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 03:40 AM
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Where was this energy when Meg cheated on Pardi or slept with her friends man or when her domestic violence record got exposed?? Expecting men to hold others accountable when your doing the exact opposite lol selective anger is always comedic
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 03:12 AM
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Boom. Right on the money.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 10:33 PM
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Your data isn’t wrong, it’s just not relevant. Get that through your head. If the argument were about population ratios, then sure, cite sources but that was never the argument. What you’re actually saying is: ‘I’m single and will always be single because there are more men than women.’ That’s not a fact, it’s a personal conclusion. Data doesn’t win an argument when the argument itself is opinion based and has nothing to do with the original claim. Arguing just to argue doesnt get you anywhere, …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 09:07 PM
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I just like many others on here are talking from personal experiences. Stuff we went through and seen first hand. Real life experiences. Your main argument is data that has nothing to do with my claim or experience. It only reflects on population (which you did not thoroughly review yourself 😂).. but I guess in your head, you got me beat lmaoo ok
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 08:31 PM
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Oh man I can tell reading might be difficult for you.. Dont worry, I got you
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 08:01 PM
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Bud, you need to learn what “irrelevant” means before you respond again…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 07:48 PM
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My argument: “theres an abundance of people to date, so there will always be someone to out there, just try harder” Your argument: “ there are more men than women” Yea… you really disproved me lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 07:41 PM
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It disproved nothing. Your stats only bring up population but it doesn’t take into account societal context. The data you presented, how many men and women are looking for relationships? Or What about same sex relationships? You know men don’t only have to date women right? The argument is OP disagreeing that “theres always someone out there for everyone” You and Op dont have hope and thats ok, but your experience wont be the same as mine or anyone else’s so stop preaching and enjoy being alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 07:28 PM
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What claim? Never said there was more men than women so what are you arguing? If you’re trying to tell me 1 man cant get 1 woman out of out of billions thats a SKILL ISSUE. Especially if the ratio you presented was “504 are men (50.4%) and 496 are women (49.6%)” still a very small margin.. your argument is irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 07:06 PM
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You dont need to bring stats to justify you staying single.. this is pretty sad ngl
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 06:57 PM
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Wait.. I got a better source than your “I stay online and have no real life experience” How about put yourself out there a see how it works. Sounds like you give up after the first rejection.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 06:49 PM
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There are over +6 billion people on this earth. Trust me, no matter how poor, short, smelly, ugly you are, theres always someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 05:59 PM
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… I never said “men think” anywhere. I honestly believe you’re responding with assumptions before you actually read anything smh. And you expect people to take you seriously? Im done with you lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 03:14 PM
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You and the other one think im debating on behalf of men. I never claimed nor stated that. Again, reading comprehension.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 12:53 AM
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Idk how a simple rebuttal turned into an “agenda”.. You’re giving me wayyy too much credit here.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 12:29 AM
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Idk what you on but im not having sex with whatever hypothetical demon your projecting on me lol Have a good day!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 08:20 PM
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FWB’s. Its plural.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 08:10 PM
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Mam, you’re the one asking internet strangers if casual sex partners can get pregnant like they dont know about safe sex and other preventative measures. Reddit is the last place you need to be on, honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 08:03 PM
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For a woman FWB is worse… but that wasnt the topic. Were you not asking a mans perspective of the risk of being a husband??? Looks like you’re losing track of what you started. I would ease on the gifs and do some reviewing lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 08:00 PM
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Arguing is form of convincing lmaoo…..
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 07:22 PM
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Wow then it sounds like you’re wasting time on here because who are you trying to convince? Lol And for the record, I was speaking from my perspective and those that see through the same lenz, “speaking for all men” was a conclusion you drew. But Like it or not, I spoke and they upvoted lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 07:17 PM
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Comments here say otherwise but have a nice day lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 07:10 PM
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Thats your reading comprehension. Cant help you with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 07:06 PM
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Oh shit everyone! Her husband agrees with her lmao I guess thats a wrap.. there goes my argument lol damn shame
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 07:05 PM
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Who am I seeking approval from?? Are we reading the same response??
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 07:02 PM
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If you had basic sexual education you wouldn’t need someone to answer this for you. Just sayin.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 06:53 PM
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sigh if only modern adult relationships were exactly as you describe, but thats not the reality a lot of guys live in. Its more cost effective to stay single vs being in a relationship nowadays as a guy. If you want marriage, you really have to find the right one.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 06:51 PM
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POV as a woman ≠ POV as a man. Hope that helps you in your future debates here 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 06:42 PM
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Risking assets and sanity over a marriage is waaaaayyy worse than risking a meaningless encounter with a stranger. Lol You can keep trying but until you tell us the benefits of marriage over FWB you really got no argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 06:24 PM
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… after reading my response, thats the question you came up with? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 06:09 PM
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Look up “Im just a girl” and itll explain how modern women are still yearning for traditional men. And Idk what hypotheticals you’re playing at but if you’re smart with sex you wont catch an STI or get someone pregnant. It’s common sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 06:07 PM
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The risk of becoming a husband is bearing financial and leadership burdens with limited protection if the marriage fails. Cant get that with casual/Fwb situations.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 05:57 PM
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The vocab OP use takes us back and forth. One part you think she is talking about men she experienced, then she talks about men on here, then back to real life. In the end, its still subjective generalization. I stand by what I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 06:44 PM
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I know what OP is talking about and its the same regurgitated shit I been seeing on here. I been here long enough to know some of yall really need therapy or real life experiences not the internet. Op wants it be boy vs girl, im here to refute and claim everyone has standards/shallow etc
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 06:24 PM
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Lol why do you think im responding? Your presenting something that clearly a projection and I clapped back… sheesh we dont have to debate if you cant read.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 04:47 PM
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Been on here long enough to know when someone is projecting vs being genuine with curiosity. Standards will never go away and you gotta get over it just like every other mature adult. Venting is cool but if you expect population to change and fit your comfort your delulu. Choose who chooses you or choose no one. Its easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 04:33 PM
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Everyone has standards. Insecure people who dont meet those standards get upset. Just because one man says it doesn’t mean they all move the same way. Its not rocket science. You need to let go whoever hurt you and find healing asap.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 04:13 PM
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Check the verbs OP uses to explain the man vs the woman. Even when we reject yall advances, you’re somehow still the victim and we are the villains.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 04:33 PM
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Ok, good for you 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 04:25 PM
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I skimmed but get what he is saying. Its one person highlighting/exposing thousands of people hypocrisy. So, n≠Bonnie Blue, n=critics, which is a sufficient sample size the generalize the avg woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 05:55 AM
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https://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=bird
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 05:53 PM
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This is why men say women are less logical because where tf is this conclusion coming from? Your feelings??
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 05:50 PM
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Nah just having a hard time comprehending how broke and lame yall sound. No person wants to put money in and get nothing return. You must be real delulu to believe otherwise. Get off the internet bird.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 02:53 AM
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Rage bait post for sure because no one in real life is this much of a bird brain…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 10:17 PM
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Husbands have a day-to-day role too, so I dont get the disagreement… Most traditional scenarios they work full time, clock out, then clock back into parent/“man of house” mode when they’re not making money. Idk what examples you had growing up but thats the typical role of a father.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 05:33 PM
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Husbands have a day-to-day role too, so I dont get the disagreement… Most traditional scenarios they work full time, clock out, then clock back into parent mode when they don’t work. Idk what examples you had growing up but thats the typical role of a father.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 05:31 PM
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Well I cant agree nor disagree with you because I dont know wtf you’re talking about. But I hope you have an ok day.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 10:37 PM
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Look I was just here to answer a question. Please look up the definition of projecting. I cant go back n forth with you if you cant read to comprehend. No where did I blame anyone, I explained how the pursuit typically works, and answered your question on why they not approaching “average women” like you claim yourself to be. Also look up “dating down” since you dont want to believe other’s perspectives. Good luck out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 06:33 PM
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Op this comment is literally you projecting… tf you want me to do? Set up a meeting will all men and tell them to start approaching you more? You need to cope and focus on who likes you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 05:57 PM
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Trust me, its not the pursuit you think it is. Yes men want to experience them but they do want to commit for the long term? Most likely not. Now as for your attractiveness comment. You need to cope. You’re “average men” dont necessarily pursue “average women” and doesn’t HAVE TO, just like your average women doesn’t pursue broke men. Men and women have different values in dating. Men typically places value on beauty first, so yes the supper attractive lady will get more attention than your aver…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 05:51 PM
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…you know an overwhelming amount of women voted for Trump too. Weak/scared people are easy to manipulate.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 10:13 PM
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If you want to learn how to fish, learn from the fishermen not the fish.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 02:40 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 12:51 AM
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She never confessed. Also, “Before some of yall get off topic, this example is purely based on false accusations only.”
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 12:40 AM
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You have an obsession with this narrative that men cant feel good or have a “prime” because of you feel that way, no proof or logic. Its getting odd and undebatable
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 01:59 PM
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my comment was a counter attack on her “99%” generalization. Also where is the reach? I never stated “ All women” so there is no generalizing on my part. There can be women that warn others of grooming behavior, and there can be those that are bitter because they can’t compete with younger women. And to very clear, dating 17 year old is weird and not part of my example. More like men in there 30’s dating +21 year olds.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 08:00 PM
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99% is a big over exaggeration and shows you rely on subjectivity for your arguments. This can easily be disassembled with a quotes from bitter old women complaining that men in there 30’s are predatory for dating younger women. We see it all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 02:07 PM
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Quote you for what? Im comparing your statement to cliche example. The “I never hit a man and never seen..” means you’re minizing OP experience. Thats all.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 07:55 PM
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Ohh the cliche “I personally never seen it happen therefore it doesn’t happen. It must be your issue”. Another reason why its hard for male victims to speak from their perspective of DV.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 04:00 PM
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Yes, im responding to what you posted lol you made an ignorant generalization about men based on what you seen on a subreddit… First you’re talking about “men” now its the “men” in your specific made up scenario. What you said does reflect your mental view on men, if you didnt believe it then you wouldn’t have wrote it, so idk why your backpedaling and watering down your stance, thats your opinion and your personality on full display. Tell any random man “men hate women with baggage because they…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 04:46 PM
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You made a hasty generalization. Im taking what you said verbatim. Men hate women who have baggage because they didnt get with them first, as you state. Which is not only wrong but very delusional and narcissistic. You’re the problem because your dragging your trauma to the next innocent fella. Hope that helps.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 05:00 AM
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Ahhh shut up and go heal lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 12:03 AM
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I know, its hard to comprehend that you are the problem. Might sound foreign, but have you ever heard of “accountability”? Crazy word but easy concept, you should look it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 11:59 PM
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Post removed for circle jerk content lol better luck next time 🙂‍↕️😭
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 11:55 PM
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Same, we are here for debates, not this childish stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 04:31 PM
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Naahh we just dont want to deal with your shit, simple as that. Heal before you start dating and stop putting that responsibility on your next partner, its unfair. Think about, its not because we want you first (very narcissistic way of thinking btw), Who the hell wants to deal with someone who inflicts their trauma on to them?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 03:26 PM
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If this is your outlook on dating please stay faaaaaaar away from people you’re interested in.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 05:09 PM
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Lmaoo thats your best example? A man who got sympathy when people believed he was innocent, but became the most hated when found guilty. I can tell reading comprehension isnt your best skill, so I’ll leave you here.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 01:39 AM
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You said he was lying, I posted an example. I asked, what man has been provided a platform to share his grief on children he left for dead? Or any similar situation and you have came up with nothing. Take your time dude and don’t rush to response. Im looking for a real debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 01:28 AM
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Idk. Do you even know what you’re talking about now? You’re moving away from the topic that I just presented evidence for lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 01:21 AM
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Of course there will be some that hold her accountable and some that wont. Humans are not a monolith. But she got an opportunity to present herself and plead her grief on a platform. Now think recently, what man had the privilege of doing this? Thats a pure example of sympathy, is it not?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 01:15 AM
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All you had to do was ask. Gambling while her kids are freezing. I aint gotta explain much, but she received profound amounts of sympathy and was found partying a weeks after. Now that an example has been provided what’s your next argument?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 12:53 AM
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I didn’t downvote anything. I debate and your statement has flaws. Maybe you just have a bad argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 12:20 AM
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Twilight series centers around thousand year old vampire men pursuing romantic relationships with high school girls…. Thats just one example too 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 12:10 AM
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Yea bad example… Edwards was 23 and she was 38. He was very vocal about not wanting another baby and she completely disregarded his request for her own monetary gain. Now she rumored to ask for 500k lifetime payments after blowing 100k in a couple months for a “baby”. She is a predator. As for your argument, if a man is telling you he doesn’t want a kid, DONT HAVE ONE WITH HIM. Let him pay for his consequences and move on with your life. Accountability starts with your clothes on.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 03:08 PM
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Its post like this that make me feel sorry that some of you never had witnessed or experienced a happy marriage. All of these arguments are blanket generalizations and based on feelings. If you believe “All men” or “All women” you need serious inner searching.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 02:43 PM
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Bingo 🎯
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 02:58 PM
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Ok then what happens? Bitter people stay bitter and you live your life with the one you chose. Sometimes you gotta shut out all that noise and just live your life. Miserable people are gonna complain regardless.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 02:46 PM
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You’re gonna realize insecure people (men and women) hate preferences they dont qualify for. Its not just a “woman” thing, immature people just dont want the short end of the stick. Trust me, you did not need an hour podcast to tell you that when you can step outside and experience this yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 02:39 PM
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You never heard about women faking FWB/ casual situations in hopes that a real relationship will blossom? You can literally look this up online. There’s discussions and memes all about it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 01:31 AM
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Maybe you’re right, but really, why do you care? Most of these men aren’t considered attractive to Western women. You have no interest in them, so why be worried if the bro takes more of the men you don’t like out of your pool? Wouldn’t that be beneficial?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 02:07 AM
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Your dating problems are 100% YOUR dating problems. If you always getting dumped or cheated on, its a possibility your the issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 02:42 AM
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“They show us whats going on” is also firsthand real information… you cant convince me or others if we seen it with our own pupils too. You’re not reading so this argument is pointless.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 03:05 PM
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You keep going back to sex and he didn’t mention that at all.. and taking a look at your profile.... who hurt you?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 02:18 PM
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“100% of you” your focusing on those that need it, im focusing on those that abuse it. But good luck with projected arguments, sure that’ll get you far in a real debate lol 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 01:33 PM
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..It might be hard to believe this but men can have women friends or sisters too. They show us whats going on 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 09:51 PM
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Helps women stay in a box and avoid accountability themselves. Literally their names are anonymous and are ALWAYS the victim in their failed relationships. Good luck competing for that “Dream man” lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 03:50 PM
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…so women dont have group chats? Talk about hypocrite huh
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 03:05 PM
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Says the one defending an anonymous gossip group chat. These jokes are writing themselves 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 02:54 PM
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You speak like you belong in this category of “too good for average men” when in reality you’re probably just as average as the next. The problem with dating to today is that everyone standards and ego increased due to yall being so highly impressionable, making the breakups harder for yall to cope with. Now enters the tea app, where a bunch of bitter people gather in the guise of security and protection. It’s immaturity and we hope yall dont grow from jt so you’re easier to avoid.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 02:40 PM
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We for sure do, its just unfortunate that 100% of you are not using it for that functionality. Ive seen innocent men get dragged and bullied anonymously for their for looks, hygiene and finances. The app turned cruel.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 06:37 AM
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….defamation has entered the building.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 06:31 AM
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Welcome to modern society. Everyone gets to pick and choose what they fight for, argue, and what double standards benefit them. After realizing this it was a lot easier unsubscribing from these gender wars.
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