DamselHasBeenBlessed Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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28	How to initiate sex without initiating sex...? Would it turn him off if you were sensual without necessarily being sexual? A hug that lasts a few seconds beyond casual, a kiss with just slightly parted lips, the stroke of his hand or wrist while he's driving... these are all very sensual, but sweet gestures that might get his attention without coming across as overly dominant.	/r/RedPillWomen	03/10/22 04:35 PM
5	Organising/ Scheduling I love traditional gender roles, as does my husband, who paid for literally every date. Still, no one wants to be stuck making all the plans. If he loves Italian food, plan a special night where you cook for him and watch The Godfather. If you love the zoo, buy tickets to the new exhibit in advance and ask him to go with you. If there's a movie you've both been anxious to see, remind him it comes out this weekend and ask if he wants to go. You don't have to plan everything, but I promise your ef…	/r/RedPillWomen	03/10/22 03:52 PM
23	When the good guy is also very sexual too early Are you sure this guy actually checks these boxes? This one he claims to have checked is pretty important to you and it seems obvious that his heart isn't in it. I live in the South and had similar issues when I was dating at 25. I had my own baggage, so I had to be really careful about the dealbreakers I set. At one time, I (5'5") insisted a man be 6' tall, have no facial hair, and be anything but redheaded. Once I realized I just needed the potential for physical attraction, I met my 5'8" red-…	/r/RedPillWomen	03/10/22 03:42 PM
15	What is the RPW stance on dating RP men? When I first told my husband about TRP, he was vaguely familiar with its existence and declared that "a real alpha doesn't need men on the internet to tell him he's alpha." That was basically exactly the response I wanted.	/r/RedPillWomen	03/10/22 02:06 PM
7	What is the RPW stance on dating RP men? TRP men seem to be pretty straightforward with women. They don't usually advocate tricking or manipulating a woman. MRP seems to be a way for unhappily married men to "handle" their wives.	/r/RedPillWomen	03/10/22 02:05 PM
7	When the good guy is also very sexual too early I don't know this man or his character, but your no should always be enough. Any man pressuring me would be a dealbreaker, but if you want to continue to pursue the relationship, stop getting physical alone. You can kiss in public at a street fair. You can't get naked.	/r/RedPillWomen	03/10/22 02:00 PM
8	When the good guy is also very sexual too early It's not just a red flag. It's the fact that you literally cannot truly know this man after two months.	/r/RedPillWomen	03/10/22 01:54 PM
29	When the good guy is also very sexual too early You say you're not looking for perfection, but waiting until marriage when neither of you are virgins is a pretty tall order. I disagree with the claim that men can't wait for some time to get to know a woman. My husband was far from virginal and waited eight months for me, after having decided he was done with the hookup scene about two years before we met. When we did have sex, we were already discussing marriage in hypotheticals. That said, what's your basis for believing this man was celibat…	/r/RedPillWomen	03/10/22 01:47 PM
4	How to GENTLY explore reversing the roles? Take advantage of the seated position. When he's on the couch, sit on his lap and take it from there, however far you're comfortable going. When I'm not seven months pregnant, I regularly do this with my husband, sometimes just to cuddle. It can be quite innocent and sweet or... not, depending on what you want.	/r/RedPillWomen	03/10/22 01:36 PM
43	What is the RPW stance on dating RP men? RP men typically have goals that don't coincide with those of RP women. Dating a man who views waiting for sex, commitment, and/or marriage and children negatively is a bad idea when those are precisely your goals. The two groups just acknowledge the same biological and social truths and use them to get their very different wants. They're still wildly different end games, though.	/r/RedPillWomen	03/10/22 04:34 AM
5	Negative association with cooking, how to nix and small kitchen appliances Cookbooks are one of the most well-stocked sections in libraries. I'd suggest looking for one targeting beginners. They have one-pot cookbooks (only requires a single pot) and those would require little to no space. Don't jump into appliances yet. They can get overwhelming.	/r/RedPillWomen	02/10/22 11:36 PM
4	Is it worth waiting for the chance of commitment? This isn't a change you can make for him. He's already decided how he feels about you.	/r/RedPillWomen	02/10/22 11:18 PM
1	Advice on what to do with a broken leg? Two months is very little time out of your life. That being said, it's silly to avoid people and pause your life because of a broken leg. I injured my back at 24, once I'd lost weight and completed my glow-up. I just limped on dates. No one cared. Ten years later, I have a wonderful husband to help me through any injuries or illnesses and vice versa.	/r/RedPillWomen	20/09/22 09:43 PM
11	How to accept the way you look? It's also worth noting that a pretty girl with low self-esteem can quickly become a chore.	/r/RedPillWomen	20/09/22 09:27 PM