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| 2 | Do women care about men's body count? (Just want your opinion)It's typically not about the number as much as the behaviors that lead to that number and what the woman is actually looking for. If she's looking for a one night stand or something casual, this usually doesn't matter. Now a very high number can be somewhat alarming if it's not paired with regular STD testing. And straight men typically are not on PREP or take std tests every 3 months like many gay men do. So if a straight man has a high body count a woman may worry about her health. If a woman … | /r/ExRedPill | 30/06/23 07:22 AM |
| 12 | A lot of women are writing off perfectly good men because they do not have a college degree.I've actually heard men are the ones rejecting women they feel are more educated or work more than them. There's also evidence to show those relationships are harder on women because she will try to make up for the imbalance of traditional gender roles by taking on more domestic labor. | /r/ExRedPill | 26/03/23 02:07 AM |
| 15 | Good looks are to dating, what being born wealthy is to your financial statusI have a sister who is 10/10. She looks like a mixture of a younger Gail Godot and a prettier Bella Hadid. The men she dates have money and are also 10/10, however they do not treat her well. Women who are 10s have to deal with the fact that men who are 10s have 80% of women after them. They cheat constantly. Are horrible in bed. Often have no social skills because being rich and attractive means they never had to develop any. And the fact that they go through women, is often the women's choice.… | /r/ExRedPill | 16/12/22 10:45 AM |
| 1 | Red pill teachings have made it impossible for me to trust my girlfriend. Seeking adviceI think it might be better to focus on the real reasons you sought out an ideology to confirm things you already wanted and believed. You should focus on learning to be more introspective about why you feel and want things. You should focus on understanding boundaries and needs, asking for what you want, vetting for compability, knowing your personal reg flags and deal breakers. It's also human to want things that contradict each other. Part of being an adult is make tough decisions about what p… | /r/ExRedPill | 25/11/22 11:18 PM |
| 1 | Is it normal to be treated worse and invisible by people? Speaking as a man.Looks can be involved here. People treat me nicely everywhere I go but I'm considered conventionally attractive. | /r/ExRedPill | 11/10/22 10:52 PM |
| 1 | Who came up with the idea that women like douchebags?I think it's the fact that there are many men who can not get access to sex or girlfriends while women simultaneously constantly complain about men romantically. So to that segment of men, women are both picky, and dating horrible men. So they conclude that women are picky about shallow things. In reality, most men are infused with patriarchal ideas, including men who internalized sexist concepts without realizing it, or ideas that are basically benevolent sexism. So most women who date period w… | /r/ExRedPill | 07/10/22 11:26 AM |
| 3 | Dealing with low self esteem and knowing when you are enoughPeople, generally, attract their equal. So I'd say you probably want to get yourself to a place where you're equal to the kind of women you want to attract. I'd say it's more important to think about the lifestyle you want. The one you'll be proud to share with someone. You'll find women at every point willing to be with you. | /r/ExRedPill | 06/10/22 03:04 AM |
| 0 | Does society (and most women) not understand, or even really care about male loneliness?I'm a trans man just like the one quoted in the link you shared. The experience resonates with me, and sidenote, I think cis men have a potential massive ally in trans men if they would realize it, since trans men have a very unique ability to criticize women's behavior towards men with surgical accuracy, the same way we can point out cis men's treatment of women. We've lived both experiences. One thing the trans guy said that I didn't really resonate with was the response I get from strange wom… | /r/ExRedPill | 26/09/22 02:33 PM |
| 3 | I thought I was becoming Bi *Trigger Warning*I don't know what the cause is, but i don't think you have to freak out about it. It's not really a big deal to talk to men and then be like nah I don't like it. Women get to try same sex whatever and no one cares so men should be able to as well, no matter what the reason for it ends up being. | /r/ExRedPill | 19/09/22 11:55 PM |
| 2 | The idea that men don't like overweight or ugly women is a misogynistic, misandrist Red Pill myth.The men who complain the most about "undesirable women" are talking about the women they date. They're dating women they don't like and are upset about it. The men who complain about overweight women, single mothers etc. These are the only women they have access to. They date them while hating them and dreaming about their preferences. They have children with women and sex with women who they project rage onto for not having the physical woman of his dreams. The low value men attracted to the ma… | /r/ExRedPill | 14/09/22 10:02 PM |
| 4 | The idea that men don't like overweight or ugly women is a misogynistic, misandrist Red Pill myth.And those men would dump her in a second if they could get their dream porn woman. | /r/ExRedPill | 14/09/22 01:20 AM |
| 16 | The idea that men don't like overweight or ugly women is a misogynistic, misandrist Red Pill myth.Men date and have sex with women they don't like and aren't attracted to all the time. Just because a man is dating a woman doesn't mean he's good to her or even likes her. Most women have dated men who just see her as a mommy mcbangmaid. As far as men who are sexually attracted to women who are not conventional, they do it privately. Every fat woman I've ever known well had a story about a guy who was into bbws and told her not to tell anyone he had slept with her. Men who are trans attracted a… | /r/ExRedPill | 14/09/22 01:18 AM |
| 6 | Should men wait until their 30's ?The only reason anyone improves with age is if/when they gain maturity and experience along the way. Simply being older physically is not a benefit in any way. | /r/ExRedPill | 10/09/22 02:34 AM |
| 6 | Redpillers claiming that young (18-29) women are **sexually** attracted to men in their 50s/60s: are they really this fucking delusional???The post explicitly says "sexually attracted" not "attracted" | /r/ExRedPill | 03/09/22 05:42 PM |
| 22 | Redpillers claiming that young (18-29) women are **sexually** attracted to men in their 50s/60s: are they really this fucking delusional???Reminds me of Simon Cowell rating himself 11/10. | /r/ExRedPill | 03/09/22 05:41 PM |
| 3 | Red Pillers are not the traditional men they claim they are. Men, especially black men, NEED healthy traditionally male role models100% agree. | /r/ExRedPill | 30/08/22 03:39 AM |
| 1 | Best counter to: “A key that can open many locks is called a master key, but a lock that can be opened by many keys is a shitty lock.”Best counter is to say people are not objects, put your argument into actual sensical words and then I'll respond. We need to stop responding to bad arguments with anything other than "what the fuck are you talking about". | /r/ExRedPill | 02/08/22 10:42 PM |
| 3 | I keep referring myself as a beta male…I don't believe in beta/alpha. The whole premise of it was based on a book of captive wolves that the author latter said was totally wrong and he regrets writing it. The truth is, the whole theory was based on how the two lowest males in the pack act. They're equally insecure, and fighting for the just one above the bottom social standing. Men who constantly need to put down other men have low self esteem and are terrified of being on the bottom themselves. Actual human male leaders feel paterna… | /r/ExRedPill | 27/07/22 12:03 AM |
| 11 | “Women peak at 18, men peak at 50” does anyone else find this extremely creepy, delusional, and hypocritical?There are literally studies that say young mothers scream at their kids more, and react emotionally selfishly towards them, producing stupider less adjusted children. There's no benefit to making children mothers. Actual men of value want their counterpart. Someone just as educated, worldly, and experienced. | /r/ExRedPill | 29/06/22 05:26 AM |
| 7 | Fresh and Fit fanbase write off woman who was raped saying they don’t have time for a woman’s emotional baggage. Is this how the red pill community feel about rape or is it just that fanbase?Why does it matter what they think? Why do we insist upon seeing misogyny as more complicated than it is? When I'm deciding whether to take someone seriously or not, I watch them long enough to observe them formulate a premise. Then another. Then another. Then I compare them to see if they contradict each other. Does this form a cohesive worldview? When they explain something that is an area of my expertise, do they speak truthfully? Or do they lie in a way to manipulate those with lesser unders… | /r/ExRedPill | 04/06/22 04:47 AM |
| 2 | Does every woman have a high body count?I don't think most people have "high body counts" the average lifetime partners is like 7. | /r/ExRedPill | 03/06/22 04:19 AM |
| 15 | What do you think of Kyle Prue? Perhaps this is the only effective way to challenge TRP.While I personally love Kyle Prue, I feel like his content is more to give peace and validation to those who've suffered under patriarchy more than to help the oppressor side see the truth. I feel the best way to challenge the manosphere is for a man/men to rise up like a good version of Ben Shapiro, Joe Rogan or Jordan Peterson, who will steal the hearts of men, be their father figure, their talking head. Create a cult like following. I just don't see a lot of men who put the effort into leadin… | /r/ExRedPill | 01/06/22 02:08 AM |
| 5 | Hey everyone!!Not everything those groups say is wrong. You were probably attracted to them in the first place because they rung true in some way to you. Most women want someone bigger than themselves. Not all. but most. It's just biology and you can't change what you're attracted to. Go after what you want, not what you think you should or shouldn't. There is nothing wrong with wanting a tall boyfriend who makes as much as you or more. Everyone has a right to their preferences. | /r/ExRedPill | 01/06/22 01:51 AM |
| 1 | Rant: the Johnny Vs. Amber situation annoys the fk out of meI don't understand your "projecting" comment because i 100% agree with everything you said after it, which is an explaination of why a woman might have "cool girl syndrome" and doesn't disagree with anything I've said at all. | /r/ExRedPill | 30/05/22 01:50 AM |
| 1 | What do you think of guys who believe girls are turned on by creepiness and aggression like randomly choking, rape or forcing make out(RSDTyler/Julien fans)?A woman "changing their mind well after she consented" rarely happens when the consent is genuine and free from duress. The idea that even a sizable minority of women could wake up in a foul mood one morning and go "hmm, I think I'm gonna falsely accuse my boyfriend of rape" is a manosphere lie you need to forget. It doesn't happen. You should be more worried about getting eaten by a shark. This conversation is not about consenting to who it's a conversation about consenting to what; primarily v… | /r/ExRedPill | 29/05/22 05:32 PM |
| 0 | What do you think of guys who believe girls are turned on by creepiness and aggression like randomly choking, rape or forcing make out(RSDTyler/Julien fans)?What I mean, is that when a man is trying to determine a woman's consent, because a critical mass of women have internalized patriarchy to the point where they acquiescence to sex acts they do not want, where their agency has been compromised, a man can not tell the difference between them and you therefore, the ability for men and women to truly consent to each other as a whole, has been compromised. Men can't tell the difference between your willing consent and agency, and a woman whose been t… | /r/ExRedPill | 29/05/22 05:26 PM |
| 0 | What do you think of guys who believe girls are turned on by creepiness and aggression like randomly choking, rape or forcing make out(RSDTyler/Julien fans)?it’s an extreme reach to say women can’t consent to sex so long as there is patriarchy. Hmm, that's why I said they can't really consent as in, it's impossible to have consent exist in a situation where patriarchy does not exist. That's been lost to us probably forever. The very need for men to be cognizant that many women have been trained by patriarchy to have trouble saying no, means that real idealized consensual situations don't exist. You're setting up a straw man argument by saying that m… | /r/ExRedPill | 29/05/22 05:19 PM |
| -7 | What do you think of guys who believe girls are turned on by creepiness and aggression like randomly choking, rape or forcing make out(RSDTyler/Julien fans)?How do I explain this... Men need to understand in a patriarchy that they need to work very hard to make sure they have consent from women. People have no problem understanding that enslaved American women could not consent to relationships with white men, yet I've never seen it brought up that in a patriarchy women can't really consent to men. There's such a massive power embalance built into society via patriarchy, that I truly don't believe any woman can ever really consent to sex with men. I… | /r/ExRedPill | 29/05/22 01:20 PM |
| 10 | Rant: the Johnny Vs. Amber situation annoys the fk out of meYes I see a lot of women doing it too. I see it as an extension of "cool girl syndrome" the kinds of women who are constantly trying to show men they "aren't like other girls". | /r/ExRedPill | 29/05/22 01:28 AM |
| 25 | Rant: the Johnny Vs. Amber situation annoys the fk out of meI agree with you. Just because Heard is a worse person doesn't mean Depp isn't terrible himself. He is terribly charismatic as well, so I think people are glammered by that fact and are overlooking his transgressions. I've dated an addict, and it's horrific. It's a terrible disease and it makes people the absolute worst versions of themselves. There's a reason he was attracted to someone that toxic. I do also have concerns about how patriarchy will react to this. Heard receives 100s of death thr… | /r/ExRedPill | 28/05/22 11:50 PM |
| 22 | "Women don't desire stable guys and only go for them in their thirties"Whenever men describe unstable women in their early 20s not wanting them, I always wonder, why is that a bad thing?? | /r/ExRedPill | 28/05/22 11:41 PM |
| 1 | How can I stop feeling resentment and jealousy towards women?Part of the problem is that the manosphere distorts the female experience greatly. Women have many of the same problems socializing and making friends as men do, and that can be regardless of appearance. That's one thing I hate about the manosphere. It alienates men and women from each other. It pits them against each other. For women, also living in a patriarchy means that even when they do have something of value, they're often targeted by men and exploited for it. Or they're seen as rivals by… | /r/ExRedPill | 28/05/22 11:25 AM |
| 14 | So, what's worse, having no value, no attention from women, or being desired, but for shallow reasons?If you've gone down a reverse sexism path, there's really nothing I can say to you. You'll continue to alienate yourself from women by being bitter and hateful towards them all the while blaming them for your alienation, bitterness and hatred. | /r/ExRedPill | 26/05/22 06:16 PM |
| 32 | The more I lurk on female subseddits, the more I lose empathy towards women and believe in the Red PillGay man here. Gay men do NOT find more men attractive. Gay men are extremly looks oriented and shallow. They may have sex with one if they're desperate, but gay men are notorious for only dating their physical equal unless there's money involved. | /r/ExRedPill | 25/05/22 07:55 PM |
| 1 | Confidence isn't attractive in itselfI think the problem is you're framing it as "attractive" when a better question is asking if it's effective. I think all things being equal, confidence will improve someone's odds of doing anything. Especially because we're a highly social society, but it takes a while to actually learn what a person is really like. It takes time to evaluate someone's competence, their character and their skills. So often we will make presumptions about a person influenced by our impressions of them. If someone … | /r/ExRedPill | 19/05/22 08:52 AM |
| 22 | What are some good ways for a guy whose not used to seeing himself as sexually attractive to get sexual validation?Men really just don't get attention like that even when they're attractive. Usually only exceptionally attractive men get actual obvious female attention. And that's because most women will not reveal an interest in your appearance that quickly, they won't tip their cards unless they evaluate your looks as so exceptional that they're willing to risk it. I'd say the best way is to have female friendships. Platonic friendships. Women compliment each other and boost each other's feelings about thei… | /r/ExRedPill | 19/05/22 08:38 AM |
| -1 | I have trouble accepting a womans sexual pastDo guys seriously not do what a woman says in bed? I find it hard to believe. I thought guys want to please their partner so they can come back for more. Yes. I read a study that said only about 5% of men actually do not care about their partners reactions. However it's very important to understand that for most men, their feelings about being a good sexual partner are more important than whether they actually are a good sexual partner. For example, I had a partner who would pride himself on mak… | /r/ExRedPill | 18/05/22 06:43 PM |
| 3 | I have trouble accepting a womans sexual pastI think you would benefit from seeing the most likely reality of her sexual experiences. The woman I am seeing is also 20 and she has had 8 sexual partners in the past, 6 of which have been hookups and 2 being serious relationships. 60% of women do not have an orgasm from a hook up. Most men are bad at sex. And women define "bad sex" differently from men. For men, bad sex is "boring" or "not that pleasurable" for women, "bad sex" is painful, scary or leaves unpleasant emotions. Again. Most men a… | /r/ExRedPill | 18/05/22 04:01 AM |
| 8 | I’VE BEEN NOTIFIED TO WARN PEOPLE THAT WHAT I HAVE TO SAY MAY NOT INTEREST THEM, AND THAT THIS IS A LENGTHY POST. SO IN ORDER TO POTENTIALLY NOT WASTE 5 minutes of your life….. warning.As a trans man, I plan on creating such a podcast. As someone whose lived as female and male, and dated men as a woman, woman as a man and men as a man. I have a nearly 360 degree view of gender relations. The only one I don't know is dating woman as a woman. That's my blind spot. I understand women because I've lived their experience and I've dated men. I understand men because I've lived their experience and dated women. Because i appear as a man, men listen to me. I have the benefit of giving… | /r/ExRedPill | 15/05/22 03:16 PM |
| 2 | Thought: People who really listen rarely say it.I've definitely spent an ungodly amount of time thinking about beliefs and their logical soundness to have some confidence. I find my weak spots are usually around experiences I don't have personal experience with. So I listen to others a lot as well. I'll do a lot of listening. Listening to people's perspectives is like getting qaulity second hand experience. The more data I feed my brain the better opinions it's going to create based on that data. | /r/ExRedPill | 15/05/22 04:40 AM |
| 2 | Thought: People who really listen rarely say it.Yes, most people who we usually think of as "having to be right" just want to "win" debates with people. Other people really want the right facts and beliefs in their head or it will torture them to know there are loose ends, contradictions. Your brain will run over them obsessively like a popcorn kernel stuck in your gums until it's resolved and your belief system once again is uniform. | /r/ExRedPill | 15/05/22 04:29 AM |
| 6 | Thought: People who really listen rarely say it.Yes it's true. I remember when I was 6 years old I was looking through a coffee table art book while sitting on my uncles lap. There was a nude painting in it. I said "ew!" He said "The naked human body isn't gross, it's beautiful." I said "No! It's ew!". But it changed my mind. Most people don't change their mind on the spot. Sometimes I think people say things that expose a blind spot or a chink in your armor of your belief system, and it bothers you enough to investigate further. I also think… | /r/ExRedPill | 15/05/22 03:34 AM |
| 20 | Your real age matters more than looking a certain age.It's true. Young people don't wanna date people old enough to be their parents even if they look "great for their age". I don't know why the redpill goalpost is woman children though. The benefit of being older is partially being able to date someone whose also mature and experienced. | /r/ExRedPill | 12/05/22 01:12 AM |
| 2 | ExRedPill's Purpose - Bashing incels or rehabilitation?I find individual men sometimes have more positive outlooks on masculinity. Mainly in mentors that I've found. But there really isn't a cohesive movement. There really isn't a single famous man that I can think of that routinely puts out content about masculinity, lifestyle, dating etc. That isn't in some way attached to patriarchy and toxic masculinity. Even if it's completely unintentional. For example I follow F.D. Signifier on YouTube. Yet in one of his videos, he blamed black women for the … | /r/ExRedPill | 04/05/22 04:21 AM |
| 7 | ExRedPill's Purpose - Bashing incels or rehabilitation?This sub seems hollow to me. It criticizes the ways men have organized movements and their ideologies without offering any replacement. And women can't do it. Men and women are not the same. Women can't lead a men's movement anymore than a man could leads a woman's movement. There might be little tips and tricks here an there. But there is no male movement right now that isn't somehow in support of patriarchy and toxic masculinity. Regardless of whether it's conforming to it, or resentful of it. | /r/ExRedPill | 03/05/22 12:40 PM |
| 0 | does this proves looks don't matter? he owns multi casinos and a multi billionaireIt just proves that you have to literally be a billionaire in order to have an equal exchange with young beautiful women. Even then, he might have some access to her, but how much? Amber Heard called Johnny Depp an old fat man. Not much of an ego boost if your young fling insults you. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/04/22 03:58 AM |
| 1 | We learn how to behave based on reactions. What happens when you don't receive reaction?Hmm. I see extremist male groups like I see extremist racist groups. They typically don't have opinions that are that different than the norm. They just dial them up and act on them. All men have incell and redpill concepts in them. All people do. For example most men think they can earn sex. It's just the ones who can't get any that turn extreme. Most men have problems with understanding consent, seeing it as something to overcome verses something to make sure they have. Some men just have more… | /r/ExRedPill | 26/04/22 02:39 AM |
| 19 | The Wall is a jokeWomen have massive value at any age. And I've personally noticed, men usually aren't very good at telling women's ages either. I'm in my 30s and men routinely think I'm a decade younger or more. They seem more preoccupied by the idea of me being barely legal than me actually looking like I was a child 2 years ago. | /r/ExRedPill | 23/04/22 02:16 AM |
| 15 | The meaninglessness of the term "hypergamy".What's funny to me is the idea that a man or men plural can decide what a high value man is. Women decide what a high value man is, the same way men decide what a high value woman is; by consistently choosing those partners a preference. | /r/ExRedPill | 12/04/22 07:07 PM |
| 2 | Is living with parents one of the most repulsive traits to have?No. Especially not during these times. Having your own place does enhance your datability however. Dating a person is an experience. And part of that is where you spend most of your time with them. | /r/ExRedPill | 09/04/22 02:04 PM |
| 3 | What's your take on balding ?The things we think make ourselves attractive aren't always what makes us attractive. My hair is thinner than it's ever been and I get the most attention I've ever gotten. I also have a beard that's gotten thicker as my hair has thinned out. This beard has gotten me so much attention. It was a style choice when I did it, but I'm now remiss to ever shave it. | /r/ExRedPill | 06/04/22 12:36 AM |
| 6 | Shower Thought: Female hypergamy is necessary in order for human society to avoid devolving into an IdiocracySince males have controlled females for the most part of history since the bronze age, women have been selected for being docile and beautiful and then men have been selected for being sociopathic. I think men are terrified of the reverse happening. We would need just a couple generations of women choosing the men they actually want to wipe out ugly or sociopathic men. | /r/ExRedPill | 05/04/22 11:51 AM |
| 8 | Do I have to appeal to the female gaze?I had a friend who said if society didn't make her, she'd let her period blood run down her legs. | /r/ExRedPill | 01/04/22 12:52 AM |
| 9 | Do older men really find younger women attractive or try to get with them?How do they not get grossed out though? Women under 25 seem like actual children to me. I get disgusted when I see them in porn even though they're technically adults. | /r/ExRedPill | 29/03/22 11:00 PM |
| 1 | Bullies are happier, have more sex appeal, says study. So science seem to confirm that RPs ideal masculinity is a good strategy and possibly just human nature... so what's your response?Yeah it was pretty "water is wet" | /r/ExRedPill | 28/03/22 02:10 AM |
| 3 | Bullies are happier, have more sex appeal, says study. So science seem to confirm that RPs ideal masculinity is a good strategy and possibly just human nature... so what's your response?It's better to go to the original study and not trust these click bait articles made to grab your attention. https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/10.1177/0886260515593546 I can't find the full study for free, but there's so key points to note in the abstract. First, these are children not adults that were studied. And both male and female children. It was also just 135 children and all from the same very specific area. The results showed that bullies were more popular at school and had less poor men… | /r/ExRedPill | 27/03/22 05:32 PM |
| 3 | How much do you care about sex ?This is incredibly true. The chances of a one night stand caring about his partner's pleasure is very rare. So putting all the effort into vetting him and making sure he's not a creep or violent just to be subjected to painful, uncomfortable or mediocre sex has very little pay off. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/03/22 01:29 PM |
| 6 | How much do you care about sex ?I'm a trans man, and I think what unfortunate or fortunate about being female bodied, is that I truly believe the female body is built for incredible sex experiences. However, sex can also be extremely uncomfortable, painful or just not that pleasurable if the partner isn't doing it right. Males just don't have that kind of set up. They're gonna get off probably every time. I feel like meh sex for men is leagues above meh sex for women. So that's probably why it's not a top priority. | /r/ExRedPill | 26/03/22 10:00 PM |
| 1 | Sitting on the fence 49 yo male living in a very leftist city & state, starting to dislike wokeness & political correctness, tell me why the red pill is wrong & bad for me ??I know your first problem. You don't wanna do the work. You can't find an education in a comment section. Go to a gender studies class at a community College if you don't know where to start. | /r/ExRedPill | 21/03/22 05:44 AM |
| 0 | Sorry, but I hated that Red Pillers constantly grilled me over their own distrust all the time.I loooove when men talk to me about everything they're going through and how they're feeling. It takes so much pressure off me to grill you over what's wrong so I can quickly fix the problem What problems exactly? Because it's your job to work on 50% of relationship problems. It's not your job to work on someone's mental illness or character flaws. That's none of your business. And trying to play therapist is wrong. You're not qualified. It's enabling someone not to get help. And it's creating a… | /r/ExRedPill | 19/03/22 11:17 AM |
| 0 | What do you think of sh*ttesting?I never said women shittest the way the manosphere says. I said they take normal casual cute banter and call it "shittesting". Regardless. Even if some people don't tease and banter, that's not my point. My point is the manosphere takes anything normal that women and men do and squeeze it through a male supremacist lense. I also am a gay trans man and have 7 sisters and many female friends and I've witnessed playful banter between emerging couples countless times. You've never experienced playfu… | /r/ExRedPill | 06/03/22 07:04 PM |
| 2 | What do you think of sh*ttesting?Downvotes but no counter arguments? I'm disappointed. I'd love to know why you disagree with what I posted. You're not giving me a chance to know why I'm wrong. | /r/ExRedPill | 06/03/22 05:26 PM |
| -7 | What do you think of sh*ttesting?I think a lot of what the manosphere says makes sense. It's just squeezed through a patriarchal male supremacist lens. Shit tests are real. But it's more like playful teasing banter and it's the same thing as "negging". And people do it to each other when they're courting. It's a good sign. For example, a girl told me "wow you're old" when my age came up at a mutal friend gathering. That told me two things. She had put me in a category in her head where she was evaluating me as a potential roman… | /r/ExRedPill | 06/03/22 05:04 PM |
| 2 | I like who I am but it feels like women can'tI don't think women mind more introverted men. I think there are many negative traits associated with introvertedness and positive traits associated with extrovertedness that aren't necessarily true. For example, women really like a man who would protect her in a dangerous situation, for example you're walking out of a restaurant at night and a scary drunk man starts heckling her. An introverted man is just as likely as an extroverted man to protect her, but there's this idea that extroverted me… | /r/ExRedPill | 05/03/22 05:01 PM |
| 3 | How to let go of the “high value” or smv thinking?True, but 75k is much more achievable lol I'll calculate what the real 2022+ adjusted number is once I've hit it. Achievable goals. | /r/ExRedPill | 04/02/22 01:13 AM |
| 7 | How to let go of the “high value” or smv thinking?See I think when you ask individuals what they mean by "high value" you're going to get achievable answers for the most part. I think RP ideology can lead to a lot of despair because a lot of what's put on a pedestal is either unachievable by most men, or impossible. And rarely do their conversions talk about things like, knowing how to clean a bathroom, or knowing how to do your laundry. | /r/ExRedPill | 03/02/22 01:44 AM |
| 4 | How to let go of the “high value” or smv thinking?I understand financial trouble. I think part of coming from an impoverished background is not feeling good enough for someone because you're not good enough for yourself. And while women rate men more harshly, they tend to not prioritize looks as much as men do, at least offline, online dating is very shallow since looks are the only thing people can communicate online. I think you should try to work on getting yourself to a place financially where you feel you value yourself. You don't have to … | /r/ExRedPill | 02/02/22 10:47 PM |
| 23 | How to let go of the “high value” or smv thinking?I think it's better to look at rp as a warped sense of reality verses a completely incorrect one. I think what one person considers "high value" is subjective. There isn't this exact formula that will make you a hvm to every person. For example, most people date within their own socioeconomic class and education level, and level of attractiveness. Most people will attract their equal. And if one has a little bit more of something, then they compromise with someone who has a little bit more of th… | /r/ExRedPill | 02/02/22 10:08 PM |
| 16 | Red Piller Here - Why Should I Quit?My main issue with all men's movements, is they're pretty blind to patriarchy, it's damages, and the way that even accurate observations are pushed through the lense of patriarchy and male supremacy. I could go on about it for hours, but I'd rather film a podcast episode than type it out for a single person. | /r/ExRedPill | 02/02/22 04:01 AM |
| 3 | On hybristophilia and handsome criminalsI read somewhere that said people most likely to be attracted to sociopaths, are; also sociopaths, and interestingly, women with no romantic or sexual experience whatsoever. So it seems like male sociopathic traits are idealized and marketed to women in general, who then figure out by trial and error that those traits are not aligned with their values, but sociopathic women remain attracted to sociopathic traits after being with a sociopath. | /r/ExRedPill | 01/02/22 04:28 PM |
| 3 | Red pilled men are the beta males they complain aboutThe structure of the military and actually being exposed to combat are not the same things. I bet I'd be misunderstood on that one. And great for you. But the majority of young men I come across need other males to socialize with for their mental and emotional health. Also, why are you in this sub if you don't need or crave male interaction lol if you're ex red pill then you do crave it. | /r/ExRedPill | 30/01/22 01:25 PM |
| 6 | Red pilled men are the beta males they complain aboutBecause I'm into martial arts, I've been around a lot of men who could literally kill someone with their bare hands. But they tend to be peace keepers. They know how to calm other men down. They know how to de-escalate. They mentor and care about other men. In comparison, men who tear other men down, obsess over comparing themselves, stress about their status constantly, start sounding like men without a pack. Lone wolves terrified of other lone wolves. Or men in dysfunctional packs where they'r… | /r/ExRedPill | 30/01/22 06:12 AM |
| 4 | About Artificial WombThis exactly. Even if we had the technology in 2022, it would be prohibitively expensive and only available to the most elite men. Wealthy men already have the ability to pay a surrogate and buy eggs from a fertility clinic. It's just extremely expensive. Replacing what a woman can give a man has an enormous price tag. And artificial wombs would not change that. Even in that scenario, they would still rely on women giving them eggs. While technology has made some strides to creating embryos with… | /r/ExRedPill | 26/01/22 04:10 PM |
| 3 | Am I Wrong to be mad at my single mother for raising me without a dad and doing such a poor job?It's not wrong. I desperately want a baby. I'm almost 33. And the only men I have access to are ones who hook up with me. No one wants a relationship. Or if they do, I'm just playing house while they're still acting single. I can't do that to a baby. I can't make one of these losers a father. I'm making sacrifices for a baby that doesn't exist by not bringing him here as much as I want him. I guess you never hear about the people making that choice, because well, their line ended. | /r/ExRedPill | 25/01/22 05:51 PM |
| 10 | I lose respect for girls with high bodycounts.Sounds more like you have a problem respecting the men she's having sex with. Because you view her selection of men as poor. Shouldn't you be looking down on men for fucking socks, not for the women fucking humans? I also really don't see how wanting to feel the walls of your vagina give you incredible sensations of euphoria more intense than an orgasm means you don't have respect for yourself. I would think a woman who is having sex she doesn't want to have has no respect for herself. But a wom… | /r/ExRedPill | 18/01/22 11:50 PM |
| 16 | Why are single red pill men angry at single mothers?This is the reason. Low value men prioritize convenience above all else in a relationship. Lvm don't even want to put above minimum work into raising their own children. A woman who comes with another man's children seems like an outrageous ask of a man who sees women as there to serve him, with him putting in the least amount of effort possible. I think low value men get especially angry at women they perceive as low value, because these are often the women they have available to them. Men who … | /r/ExRedPill | 18/01/22 08:24 AM |
| 5 | Why we do struggle to admit that looks matter a lot for men?I disagree. I think the number one trait men look for is convenience. Looks are the number one thing they care about, but a critical mass of men will date women who come to them easily. Many men are in relationships with women who are not their type. If someone isn't your type, if they gain a little weight, or you don't like their haircut, you might become completely disinterested in their looks. And, you'll always be glancing over her shoulders for your preference. I think because looks are so … | /r/ExRedPill | 18/01/22 07:50 AM |
| 3 | You don’t know most women /vent postHis content is complete garbage. Have you watched any of Chrissie's content on YouTube? I can't recommend her content enough to young black women. Her colorism and level up content is some of the best takes I've ever heard. | /r/ExRedPill | 14/01/22 02:17 AM |
| 2 | Why do people say men have it easier than women??Where did you come up with that hierarchy?? White supremacy. Europeans can also be considered immigrants as well It's a rough hierarchy because that's all that's needed to address your confusion on why some women have it better than you. If I listed every intersectional identity it would be both time consuming and unnecessary. I don't really think your comments are in good faith either. Because you claim to understand intersectionality because you're saying I'm not being intersectional enough, y… | /r/ExRedPill | 08/01/22 05:19 PM |
| 1 | Why do people say men have it easier than women??You have it worse than white women only. Not women of color. You're confusing the pecking order. It's white men, white women, Asian men, Asian women, black men, black women, immigrant men, immigrant women. | /r/ExRedPill | 08/01/22 04:52 PM |
| -5 | So what is it that women want, and how am I supposed to achieve it?You seem committed to misunderstand me, but just in case anyone else is listening. It works because women are getting mixed signals. When a man negs, he's sending mixed positive and negative signals. He's sending positive signals that he doesn't think he's beneath her, like fawning over someone indicates. He's making her think of him. But, but! He's also slipping in overly negative messages as well. Mixed signals work better than no or bad signals. Because negging AS I CLEARLY SAID IF YOU HAD CA… | /r/ExRedPill | 04/01/22 10:04 PM |
| -9 | So what is it that women want, and how am I supposed to achieve it?I feel like the information I could post on that question is too much to type out lol The short answer, is I don't think those movements are entirely wrong. I'll pick out an example to you. So the concept of negging. So, it works. Which is something women really don't like. Because from the angle of women, it's manipulation. They don't want to think that the philosophy of women liking aggressive dominant men is true. And men are confronted by women saying it's manipulative and the data that it j… | /r/ExRedPill | 04/01/22 08:50 PM |
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