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This is an absolute waste of time against all of the average men that women wouldn't even fucking spit on. Absolute clown world confirmed.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 04:18 AM
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Oh God I hope so. Women are remarkably disappointing if this is what a high libido is.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 03:20 AM
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Can't wait, it's like the last Christmas present we're excited to open
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 03:15 AM
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I dont think there's anything I can do that will ever be enough for women. They will always want more out of men because they always want the best, and unless you're naturally gifted you won't be good enough. I mean sure, you can get into a relationship with enough work but there's no guarantee she just won't want to sleep with you if you make the slightest error. Such is.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 01:48 AM
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Because nobody really likes men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 09:04 PM
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Pleasing others has a direct correlation with happiness because nobody will give a shit about you if you don't. And we're primed as animals to really care about what others think as a form of survival. You can have all the esteem in the world and be completely miserable and alone if you don't align yourself with the status quo.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 08:56 PM
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You know what doesn't leave a sour taste in my mouth? Having positive romantic interactions with women. Feels pretty good to be honest. Yeah, so just give up everything you like just to be DB'ed in 4 years. Sick. I like cars, snowboarding and video games. Not exactly default things women like... Masculine hobby, masculine and sporty hobby, and video games are more or Less forgivable.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 09:08 PM
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No they arent.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 08:54 PM
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You're literally telling them to dress different, be fit and act like someone else. You're asking them to perform a role for others' sake. It's 'I'm changing because I want to please others who wouldn't give a shit about me otherwise'. Leaves a sour taste in my mouth, you just got lucky that the things you like are things women also like.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 08:54 PM
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You mean women?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 08:51 PM
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Do you think it sucks for them? Or are they just doing what they want to do with their life? Dating advice for men just boils down to 'do everything women want you to be doing'. Why even live at all if you're doing nothing for yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 08:36 PM
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Yep. If they change literally everything about themselves they'll be perfect.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 08:30 PM
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Unattractive is still unattractive. Ugly is functionally the same as being unremarkable if you can't attract anyone. And being an unremarkable man will get you very far. You are very much deluded by being a woman in this regard. Being mediocre is a death sentence.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 12:40 AM
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There is logic that the majority are ugly, because women consider most men unremarkable. And as this becomes normalized, more and more men will be deemed ugly and a smaller percentage will become dateable. Meanwhile men will keep killing themselves at an alarming rate. And women being fine with objectification is hilarious considering how much they claim they hate it. Rules for thee, not for me I reckon.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 10:32 PM
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I'm not back. Temporary fit, that's all
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 09:46 PM
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Their personhood plays second fiddle to your gluttony
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 09:17 PM
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As long as you still receive all the material wealth he provides, you'll stay with him
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 09:16 PM
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I'm talking to everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 08:47 PM
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Because the bar is always climbing higher and women's standards are always increasing. There is no room for the majority of men anymore, its all just trying to get as close to perfection as possible. Men aren't valued as people, they're becoming objects.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 08:46 PM
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You don't want a partner. You want a body who will sacrifice their time, energy and resources for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 08:31 PM
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What about the rest of them who aren't top percent?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 08:30 PM
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Those women are also more likely to cheat. To see you as lesser than because she's had much better sex with another guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 07:19 PM
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Where do women do this?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 01:27 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 10:56 AM
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Wait, do people actually respect Sneako?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 01:55 AM
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So you're saying men should be more masculine?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 01:54 AM
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Women who expect men to pay are being manipulators. Men should keep it fair and just say no, but there's simps and traditionalists who keep these women fed for free, and neither of them know any better.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 01:12 AM
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Women do. Be muscular, be masculine, be handsome, be generous, be funny, be Extroverted, be confident, be kind, be tall, be sexy, be good in bed, be rich, be charismatic, be amazing. I guess men are just dumb for not giving women what they want
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 01:09 AM
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Well, here's the thing; women take advantage of men's lust. Sex should be a mutual benefit, but women deduced long ago that men want it more, so they want to get paid on top of having mutually beneficial sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 01:06 AM
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No, because then the cost is worth the price of admission. Soft prostitution. What you're talking about is parasitic vampirism. No man would willingly pay for her meal just to enjoy her company in the moment, it's always with the opportunity of something more. If the woman said immediately that she's not going to see him ever again, why would he pay for her food?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 01:01 AM
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The issue is your standards would hit a brick wall. You could never bring yourself to fuck the women that the ogre men fuck. Women also have the entitlement of high standards. That would come to an end real fucking quick.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 12:52 AM
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No, one is being a host with the assumption of sex that both parties enjoy. The other is leeching sustenance from his paycheck. It's not comparable in the slightest.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 12:45 AM
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That's what all women think. You're riding off the high of the entitlements women get. Once you're actually a man it'll all come crashing down on you
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 12:43 AM
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No, because sex is a mutual benefit. Free meals are literally her being a parasite.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 12:12 AM
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Well, maybe in the next life you'll be reborn into an incel and finally get it. Here's hoping
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 12:11 AM
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It's not a lack of confidence, it's a numbers game. There will be a man that was better than you in every facet if her number is high enough. And eventually you will be compared to.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 01:41 PM
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The human race does not require intelligence to procreate
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 12:24 AM
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The benefits of not being pumped with testosterone
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 12:22 AM
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Vanity
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 12:16 AM
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Anyone can put on an IRL mask. Anyone can pass as pleasant if they want to
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 12:10 AM
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She's irredeemable. Leave it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 12:07 AM
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If you think you're at the finish line and you don't have your woman, you're not at the finish line.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 12:02 AM
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Testosterone is a hell of a drug
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 10:32 PM
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So let them stare when I walk in looking beautiful, because I'm a prize to be fought over but I'll be the judge who wins. Lol eew
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 06:08 PM
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If B means i get to be neurotypical as well, sure
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 12:10 AM
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Damn, both are upgrades
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 11:48 PM
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Pour one out for the tiny dick homies
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 11:12 PM
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That makes no sense. A man that does not want to commit but still wants sex has no bearing on a status of a woman whatsoever
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 05:16 AM
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Nope, literal bottom, bottom rung. Couldn't get lower
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 05:15 AM
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Ok so I looked up an inverted pyramid concept just for minecraft a week ago I found a design that was great, and it also made me want to freestyle design points on top of that. The best creative things are just jumping off points 💯👌
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 05:14 AM
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Are you sure you aren't gay or bi?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 04:35 AM
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Way ahead of you
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 04:33 AM
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I am sending you a challenge 🫡😤😤😤 Report back in 24 hours with your findings
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 03:33 AM
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If you want legal advice, talk to a lawyer. If you want good smut, talk to an enthusiast 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 02:11 AM
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While I have you on the horn What's your favorite dirty text subreddit? I've been reading r/edgingtalk and the kink doesn't hit me as hard, but it's the only good text based one I found so far. Any suggestions?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 01:35 AM
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Not everyone is the kind of nerd that customizes their reddit avatars
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 01:30 AM
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Nah, I'm in attractiveness camp and he's in status for some reason
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 01:18 AM
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Yeah it's pretty great that all of our money is contributing to Europeans' better QOL, ya know?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 01:00 AM
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Betrayed by biology, ad nauseum
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 12:33 AM
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Land of the free. Hallelujah
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 11:56 PM
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I think the only thing that'll help me at this point is mushrooms, but i simply don't have access to the stuff. What are your experiences with shrooms?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 11:28 PM
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Ok well the point is fixing neurodivergency isn't like a skincare routine. Chances are you're stuck with it for life, so take what you can get.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 11:23 PM
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I also find that type A aspect in people to be obnoxious. Then again I can grow a beard and get morning wood so T probably isn't a problem for me anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 11:16 PM
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Yeah but you already did the deed at that point. Walking away with money in the bank.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 11:14 PM
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Honestly half the time it just makes you sound unhinged. Idk if it's worth it, especially if there's a chance to just break out in a random fit of violence
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 11:12 PM
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Women will still sleep with you tho so 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 11:09 PM
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Aww thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 09:26 PM
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I'm not overly negative, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 09:00 PM
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It would be better at least
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 08:51 PM
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It cannot be over app. Has to be an in person coach or something. It would be a complete farce online
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 08:48 PM
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They become disingenuous as soon as money is involved. Hard pass.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 08:45 PM
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I've said it before, women love men with top percentile qualities.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 08:38 PM
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You also have to consider people who watch the Bachelorette or w/e are most likely super vapid
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 08:37 PM
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So what, the most conventionally attractive men get only mid results?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 08:31 PM
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...because of attraction. These are just hunk of meat sex objects, that's it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 08:30 PM
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Sure, there are exceptions to every rule
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 08:26 PM
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Because they all have the same handsome man qualities
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 08:21 PM
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Yeah, women don't date outside of their race that often. And the majority is white. It's just numbers.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 08:17 PM
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What
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 08:15 PM
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Yeah, it's a self fulfilling prophecy. Women say they're bad, so they believe it, then it just gets recycled over and over again. Women give men shit for having a high opinion of themselves, but having a low self opinion is a death sentence
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 08:15 PM
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Maybe he should be less positive. There's a point where it's just straight delusion
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 08:11 PM
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Oh, I guess all the single people are just terrible assholes then 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 08:08 PM
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Nah, ugly people still get left in the dirt for LTRs as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 08:02 PM
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He should rock an eyepatch. It would unironically be way sexier
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 07:56 PM
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Women let their preferences known. They definitely pursue the most fit and tallest men the most aggressively
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 07:54 PM
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There is a really big amount of overlap though, there is definitely a hierarchy of appearances and that is not up for debate. It's not like all women are attracted to a different, unique 20% all equally. There are still winners and losers.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 07:50 PM
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Oh. Then it's the overt displays of masculine aggression that's doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 07:47 PM
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If you have incredible status, like a rock star, sure. I don't think that's really applicable for the average guy though. Point is women want men in the top percentile of something, everything else is disposable.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 07:38 PM
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So you're mad the short guy is seen as the hottest?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 07:32 PM
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That's just hypergamy. Women also love the dominant male in those spaces. Chad is more appearance based.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 07:28 PM
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Fictional characters do not count. I don't think I need to explain why I think the general consensus is that Chad is mostly appearance based
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 07:26 PM
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No. Women don't flock to uggos.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 07:23 PM
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Whatever percentage of men have women flocking to them en masse.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 07:21 PM
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On a wide scale, no, it's not possible to cure them all. And nobody's really chomping at the bit to help them anyway. It's all on a case by case basis. Some will get better, some will stay the same, and some will get worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 07:13 PM
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Pushing it outwards is a coping mechanism, meaning they don't have the ability to take in all of that anger without threat of suicide. So, it would probably be better if they didn't have that anger at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 07:01 PM
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I think it's just how self hatred manifests. Not everyone can turn all of that anger inward without completely self destructing; some people need a conduit.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 06:44 PM
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Because you've put all the blame on yourself. Instead of flogging women, you self flagellate.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 06:34 PM
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Of course
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 06:21 PM
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Put him in a suit, tan him a bit and make him smile.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 06:04 PM
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I've always said it's still functionally ugly
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 06:01 PM
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Yeah, I think she's still a smokeshow, but I also think her age is starting to show a bit
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 05:51 PM
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True, there is a distinction. I think a lot of men mean she's mid to them, not mid in general. Or just mid compared to other celebs.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 05:44 PM
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Actually shit like that happens a lot. There's a lot of disagreement about which male celebrity is actually hot
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 05:36 PM
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Compared to women's standards, it's in the dirt
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 05:31 PM
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I'm not villifying them, I'm removing their halo. And I never actually said that prior bit. And if I did say something close, I was probably just being insecure and whingey.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 05:23 PM
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Women typically let sex die off. Sorry, it's just how it goes. You are an exception. And these men are saying their marriages are happy because they are happy aside from the poor sex. I can relate with this personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 05:19 PM
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It means he isn't getting enough. And with the way women's sexuality usually works, this isn't surprising.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 05:10 PM
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Some men are driven to cheat 🤷‍♂️ Either that or suffer a miserable marriage with a neglectful wife
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 05:09 PM
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You're focusing too much on fault here. For every action, there's an equal and opposite reaction. That's all. If you were being completely honest with yourself, you would know if you were actually being neglectful to his needs or not. And if you truly weren't, then there was nothing you could have done anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 05:09 PM
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top reason for male cheating is a neglectful wife
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 05:00 PM
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Sometimes people just grow apart as well. They become different people, in which case it's no one's fault. Point is women shouldn't be assumed to be faultless angels.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 05:00 PM
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Stats say over 50% still love their wife. Partially that, and partially due to the dating market being an absolute shitshow for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 04:53 PM
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👏👏👏👏
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 04:51 PM
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uh
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 04:50 PM
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Cheating is often brought out by a neglectful wife, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 04:39 PM
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Nothing happens in a vacuum. There's a strong possibility there's something she's doing or not doing that triggered a checking out.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 04:32 PM
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Just broke
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 08:21 PM
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Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 08:20 PM
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Lmao, you people are so terrified of the most harmless things, I swear
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 08:18 PM
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Well, it's a gamble. Still beats the therapy you can't afford
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 08:14 PM
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Those books don't help for shit. Personal problems require personalized solutions.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 08:14 PM
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Nah, it is preferable to letting depression rot you to the brink of suicide
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 08:13 PM
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Because you probably never even tried therapy
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 08:11 PM
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There are male therapists you know
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 08:06 PM
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Do you know what therapy is?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 08:02 PM
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Yes, therapy is a privilege here
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 07:54 PM
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Pretty people make their own luck 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 07:53 PM
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Or that you were ugly, lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 07:52 PM
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When therapy is over $200 bucks a pop, pill theory is the next best thing
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 07:49 PM
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Maybe it's a jock thing, idk
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 07:48 PM
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I don't think either of those are true to life. Usually it's completely nonverbal between you and her
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 07:45 PM
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If you say so
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 07:40 PM
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Seems kinda ill advised to take a 2 year old on a hiking trip. But that's just me
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 07:35 PM
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I'm a 30 something. Be respectful. Also, I'm not prejudiced against older women 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 07:15 PM
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Send pics, I'll give you a true rate me
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 07:08 PM
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You also have the benefit of being above average. Sounds like a luxury of someone privileged, really
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 07:02 PM
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Just tell them that the Women are Wonderful effect is a proven psychological thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 07:00 PM
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You forgot about the pure men who just want a virginal wife
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 06:46 PM
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Cmon, you can't make a husband out of a (man)ho
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 06:38 PM
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Casual sex isn't a thing anymore?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 06:33 PM
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The funny part is she would never tell you that she settled. You'll be none the wiser regardless.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 06:32 PM
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Meh
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 06:19 PM
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If your insecurities are true, are they really insecurities at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 06:11 PM
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You wanna know what's funny? The more women don't settle, the more men have to settle because they're stuck with the best they can get or die alone. Women get what they want, and men stay quiet and nod.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 05:45 PM
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Happy* "All men live lives of quiet desperation"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 05:42 PM
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That's what's happening nowadays. Women don't settle, men stay single and everyone's stoked
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 05:42 PM
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Men settle for who they can get. So do women. Women have a tendency to not prioritize sex in LTRs, therefore its clear to them what can get settled for them. Especially if the vast majority of men in their league are sexless blobs, as I've heard countless times here. It makes a lot of sense when you really think about it
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 05:39 PM
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Bingo. The women settle.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 05:35 PM
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I remember stories from two different comedians about how women would be with them, then hearing from the grapevine they admitted they weren't attracted to them at all Also the whole dead bedroom thing
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 05:28 PM
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True or false: women are, on the whole, more viscerally attracted to the men they hook up with than the men they lock down for LTRs
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 05:16 PM
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What? Too honest?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 05:13 PM
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Nah, more like "Hey, so these guys were so much more attractive, I just had to make out with them on the spot"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 05:09 PM
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Right, because jobs are all over the place nowadays and companies absolutely do not punish job hoppers
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 05:08 PM
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Just be sure to tell the men you're not kissing about your sloppy makeouts with other guys and you're fine
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 05:04 PM
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Or his job can leave him too miserable and tired for him to pursue anything else
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 04:58 PM
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Yeah, if you're not acting masculine nobody will bother with you
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 04:00 PM
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Dude, you hacked the game. You don't need to impress women if you don't need women 🧠🧠🧠
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 03:52 PM
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No, I meant her reaction to you and the situation at hand
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 03:49 PM
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Regardless, that doesn't sound normal. It sounds like a dysfunctional attachment style
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 03:32 PM
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If she's fucking 5 guys at the same time, somethings up
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 03:19 PM
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Which is dumb because guns and knives don't give a duck about height
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 03:13 PM
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I think it's more of a knock at High N women, not women in general
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 03:10 PM
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Probably better to rule out those people anyway. Those women aren't looking for an equal partnership
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 01:41 AM
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Lies
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 01:08 AM
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Nah, the bar is rising. Men who don't care are getting left in the dust.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 10:41 PM
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Lmao I got banned for a week last time
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 09:12 PM
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You'd be putting the entire relationship in jeopardy. It's a no win.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 09:11 PM
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First off, I never said anything about plastic surgery Second, the fact that the richest man in the world goes after 'average' women proves that women's looks threshold are absolutely in the dirt.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 08:52 PM
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She bagged Bezos though 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 08:39 PM
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Eh. Doubt it
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 08:36 PM
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What? Where?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 08:33 PM
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Altering her appearance in any direction, not just plastic surgery.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 08:30 PM
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The difference is Margot robbie can alter her general appearance, men cannot sprout more inches
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 08:26 PM
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It just means you enjoy them less
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 08:05 PM
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There was one girl, but that was a whole can of worms. Depends on what kind of girl you vet for maybe
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 07:57 PM
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The women I've been with, it didn't matter how many orgasms were given. They still had control of when sex happened because they still didn't want it as much. Dunno what to tell you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 07:46 PM
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It's the lens with which one views life. It is what it is. The fact is, if you have to be convinced to eat a donut, versus a person who actively hunts donuts and eats a dozen a day, yeah, it'll look like you don't really enjoy them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 07:45 PM
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Nah, men by and large just have higher libido, even accounting for added stimulation
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 07:41 PM
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Men are also being required to have visual anesthetics as well, with even more rigorous standards than women are under
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 07:34 PM
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You could say that compared to men, women don't really enjoy sex
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 07:31 PM
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I don't like it. It's kinda breaching the contract of the man being the one who pulls the trigger on a lifetime commitment, when women are already predisposed to wanting it. When a man proposes, you know they're both locked and loaded.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 07:18 PM
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I wish we can block one user without getting banned. That's all.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 06:39 PM
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Well, at least she's fortunate enough to have a team of experts to usher her past the finish line
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 06:23 PM
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How would trauma impact her ability to lose weight?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 06:12 PM
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So a big ol fish doesn't think it's a juicy worm and bite it off No fish wants to eat up a tiny little acorn
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 12:24 AM
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I don't think antinatalists give a shit about future generations. And I'm pretty sure they don't think kids need to exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 12:23 AM
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That doesn't sound right but ok
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 12:14 AM
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I have no idea
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 12:01 AM
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So that would mean every girl I've gone out on a date with found me attractive? Seems unlikely but ok
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 11:42 PM
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And?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 11:06 PM
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Women are not going to orgasm if they're with a man they're not attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 11:05 PM
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Attraction fades.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 11:03 PM
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Marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 10:56 PM
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Yeet it, and if I can't do that then alt f4 from life
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 10:46 PM
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I don't think men and women are looking for the same things.. at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 08:51 PM
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https://youtu.be/3Y81L_CUV3M Do you want to be loved, or do you want to Be yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 08:48 PM
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I don't think it's wrong to admit feminine attraction is wildly different, or alien, to men on an inherent level.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 08:45 PM
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Feminism does not care about male perspectives. It seeks more power. That's it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 08:43 PM
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When it comes to sex and attraction, you are an alien species, yes
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 08:37 PM
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Men need to quantify themselves somehow, or else they can't receive effective advice. A 9 in appearance is going to have a drastically different experience from a 3. Same with every other category.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 08:35 PM
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No, I hadn't. Usually that just means taller or muscular.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 08:16 PM
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No, not everyone has the capability to boost themselves up to be amazing in 3 separate areas. That requires an incredible amount of time, money and effort. If I become anorexic and max out all my credit cards I can be amazing in 2 to 3 years too
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 07:59 PM
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Well no shit. Amazing men will always be amazing, and will get women because they are amazing.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 07:55 PM
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You're talking about a man in the top 15%. No shit he can woo you
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 07:49 PM
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Cool, glad to have it all spelled out.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 07:40 PM
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So women are allowed to be broke parasites, not men?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 07:33 PM
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Or they just settled because they can't do any better
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 06:53 PM
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So either you have the answer and won't tell me, or you're spitting bullshit
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 06:40 PM
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That still doesn't mean fat women actually want fat men. They're just.. together.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 06:32 PM
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You're saying fat people actually desire each other?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 06:18 PM
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Fat women don't want fat men
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 06:14 PM
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Yes, women settle because they can't get to the top 5%. Nothing new.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 01:51 AM
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women have so many options, it's so easy for them, they only want the top 5% of men Still told no lies but go off
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 01:30 AM
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Autism is a mental illness.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 12:06 AM
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Yes, all men are terrible #12730. Let's move on
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 12:02 AM
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I don't think asking for posts that aren't trashy is asking a lot. And I'm a man, I'm being put parallel to bad men. This isn't rocket science.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 09:34 PM
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This is not a tasteful precautionary post, this is yet another MAN BAD masturbation post that's indistinguishable from all the rest. And boy does it get fucking tiring having people put me as parallel to murderers, rapists, wife beaters, and the sole reason why evil exists at all. Ad nauseum.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 09:21 PM
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Honestly, I don't care. Take the stats that you love shocking yourself with and never speak to another man again for all I care. Live in fear and anger on internet forums for the rest of your pathetic life. I couldn't care less.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 09:01 PM
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That has no bearing on what I said at all
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 08:56 PM
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No one's forcing you to do anything. If you don't like men, do us all a favor and don't date them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 08:51 PM
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The after picture is sans makeup. I bet she'd clean up super nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 08:45 PM
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You can hate condoms more than you hate children
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 08:15 PM
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You're talking more along the lines of an affair. Cheating can happen in 15 minutes flat.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 08:00 PM
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Have you ever even been cheated on?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 07:50 PM
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You're expected to conform to what they want. Sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 07:05 PM
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Well the thing is you don't have that same pull towards sex, so you can't really relate 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 10:01 PM
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So because the sexuality is unlike your own, you find it repulsive?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 05:25 PM
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Why wouldn't you feel sympathy for that? Isn't that saying women don't like male sexuality?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 05:03 PM
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Hey, you said it
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 11:40 PM
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Psychologically healthv humans?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 10:02 PM
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You're still not grasping what non-existence is. You're framing it with a sense of loss, but non-existence means there's nothing to lose in the first place. It's the concept of Zero. And suffering isn't a maybe, it's guaranteed.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 10:01 PM
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Of course masculinity is a social construct, you're advising someone to make children masculine. That's the definition of social construct lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 09:18 PM
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Non-existence isn't some terrible banishment, it's a neutral action. Saving people from suffering doesn't seem to be a bad option.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 09:08 PM
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Even to abusive or negligent parents?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 09:03 PM
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Well at least one of us got a net gain
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 09:03 PM
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Why make people just so they can suffer? Seems cruel
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 09:01 PM
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Ok well there's no way you can be attentive to 6 kids so you're kinda just proving them right
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 08:54 PM
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He's trying to take advantage of you 😱
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 08:52 PM
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Filters / 10
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 08:44 PM
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Same. It's where my fabulous body dysmorphia comes from
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 08:44 PM
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On a slightly related tangent, while walking home from the park yesterday with 8 year old boychild, he stopped right outside our house and in all earnestness said "mom, my pronouns are he/him". We weren't even talking about anything related to gender or pronouns. I think I can hear Tucker Carlson screaming from here
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 07:29 PM
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Lmao ok
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 07:27 PM
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Our version of selection is the worse option though. It's way more labor intensive and more humiliating in general. Our selection is way less efficient, seeing as we just piss away effort most of the time for no benefit. Women have the luxury of sidestepping all of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 07:25 PM
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My point is that women's position to be the selectors enables much more control over dating as opposed to being a suitor. Men have expend much more energy and effort to get placed into an equal partnership.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 07:19 PM
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And that's fine. I'd be scared of a shifty guy walking alone at night as well. The problem is violent men are being smeared across the entire spectrum of men. All men are being held responsible for the 0.2%, and that's not fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 07:17 PM
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That doesn't have a consequence when the number that want my approval is so small. It's statistically not an issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 07:14 PM
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Walking alone at night? Sure. But I feel like there's this wholesale anger pointed at men just for being born male. That is not ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 07:10 PM
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Women also don't have 3 times the testosterone coursing in their veins. Women aren't going to be violent because it's not disposed to violence. I guarantee if women had that testosterone bump they'd be just as violent
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 07:01 PM
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What about the part where 0.2% of men are violent criminals?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 06:43 PM
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Nobody will be mad at your approach if you're hot enough As long as you're not a douchebag that is
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 06:36 PM
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Not any where they wanted anything from me, no
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 06:28 PM
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No?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 06:22 PM
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Huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 06:15 PM
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Nah, it just sounds like horseshit
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 06:13 PM
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I think having an absence of female attention will eventually turn a portion of the male population gay over enough time
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 06:12 PM
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But they do.. nothing happens without their approval. That's control.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 06:10 PM
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You're coming here with the privilege of having no dating problems Of course that's what it's gonna look like to you
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 06:05 PM
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No, I'm not aware. In fact that sounds ridiculous
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 05:56 PM
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I don't blame him. Most men are punished by acts of vanity
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 05:52 PM
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I didn't mean cut like that, but thanks for sharing
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 05:33 PM
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Yeah, obviously if it's unsolicited it's not going to fly. At least if you're not already having sex
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 05:33 PM
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Yeah basically
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 05:27 PM
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I think the only way you could get away with sending nudes as a man was if you were cut and jacked. Anything otherwise would be an embarassment
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 05:22 PM
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Probably not, it's pretty rare to meet people getting treated for sex addiction
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 03:53 PM
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I never met a soul like that Oh well
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 03:36 PM
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Uh oh, did I hit a nerve
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 02:21 PM
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You've been to a sex addict support meeting? 👀
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 02:09 PM
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If a man is staying on top of his game, staying attractive, and fit for other women, why wouldn't his wife also be more attracted to him? 7 year itch. Old news is still old news, even in a fancier packaging.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 02:05 PM
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Yes, I'm aware
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 08:16 PM
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Brother, sexual assault is sexual assault. What do you want from me
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 08:00 PM
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Well it's different when you lay out the mechanics behind it
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 07:57 PM
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If I force myself upon a woman who wasn't attracted to my, why wouldn't I expect something terrible to happen?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 07:55 PM
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Oh, I guess that's where men and women differ
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 07:53 PM
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Lawsuit.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 07:51 PM
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What's the point if you already have the attraction?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 07:50 PM
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So why do men have to constantly improve where women do not
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 01:31 AM
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Women rule it with an iron fist, so yes
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 01:30 AM
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Desire creates value. Value creates desire. They are interchangeable at the end of the day.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 01:11 AM
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It's absolutely pass fail, and you're being disingenuous saying otherwise. No one desires ugly fat and broke.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 12:37 AM
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You say that with your misandrist attitude every single day
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 12:24 AM
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Why do you want a boyfriend? Men deserve to die, remember?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 12:16 AM
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🙂👆
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 12:14 AM
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There is still absolutely an element of being good enough. It's like saying there's a free trip to Birmingham, Alabama, versus Las Vegas. Nobody wants to go Birmingham, and saying otherwise is disingenuous.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 12:13 AM
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Can't get fat if you don't deserve food 🧠🧠🧠
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 11:41 PM
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They are absolutely determining a man's value. They aren't giving out a grade, they're giving a Pass or Fail. Either you are enough or you're not.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 11:29 PM
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Of course. Being mentally ill is an undesirable trait. Cast them into the fire and laugh as they twist and burn.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 10:59 PM
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I've been evaluated as a piece of shit, just like the other sexless men. The difference is that they turn their anger back on others, because that's just male nature to do so. The fact remains that all of them were told by everyone else how worthless they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 10:53 PM
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women are validated so often you don't even notice it. I'm just reacting to the feedback I get, including the feedback women like you give. It's simple logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 10:47 PM
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I never said everyone should like you back. But when nobody does, then you've got nothing but your evaluation to consider. The fact that you're a worthless no value piece of shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 10:42 PM
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As a woman you get enough successes and validation so you don't come to that conclusion. Men don't receive that sort of luxury.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 10:40 PM
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They absolutely do. Women determine if a man is low value or high value.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 10:39 PM
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You're being remarkably disingenous and I don't have the energy to fight back rn, so im letting you have it
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 10:38 PM
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CMV: Women determine what men are high value and which are low value based on how they date and pursue them
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 10:29 PM
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You're lying to yourself and you know it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 10:28 PM
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You're speaking out of a place of privilege. If you weren't rejected on a regular basis, you wouldn't feel great about it either. You'd feel like something was wrong with you. Like you were a defect. You get the privilege of that perspective because things work in your favor way more than they don't. It's called the Pygmalion effect.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 10:23 PM
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Of course it's his problem. It's a gift she gave to him, and now he has to deal with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 10:18 PM
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Women reject men way more often. Women have way higher standards for men. Women have a deadlock on casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 10:03 PM
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Like it or not, it's the nature of the game. If you want to rule the dating scene and have all this power, that's what you're going to get. You rule out men based on dozens of attributes, therefore you decide how much worth a man has. A rejection is telling a man to his face that he's worthless to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 09:47 PM
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Ok but women are way more cutthroat with it. Like it's not even comparable.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 09:38 PM
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It's not what you intended, but it's what he and a lot of men internalize. Because it's basically true. He isn't good enough for you, and a real man has success with women where he does not.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 09:37 PM
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They're the gatekeepers, they decide who is acceptable and who isnt
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 09:32 PM
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You basically told him you're not good enough, and that you're not even really a man. Thats what evwry rejection says.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 09:25 PM
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I think I'd rather die tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 06:17 PM
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You're saying I don't have to adapt to the world that was presented? Go get fucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 06:17 PM
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Most women aren't as dick crazy as you, it wouldn't catch on
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 06:05 PM
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No, you're just inventing things to be mad about. You're mad that nobody likes men wearing skirts. Go get a hobby
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 06:04 PM
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Alright, then piss and moan for the rest of your life. What do I care
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 05:56 PM
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Or maybe you just never succeed and you wasted all your time chasing something hopeless. This happens to plenty of people, nobody is exceptional.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 05:52 PM
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Men: don't like skirts PPD Women: <image> Lmao what a joke
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 05:49 PM
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Maybe you should live your dreams and start killing men
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 05:39 PM
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It is absolutely as scarce as it is. I've gone in years long dry spells.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 05:36 PM
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This is just no true Scotsmen. Cmon noq
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 05:34 PM
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Because nobody likes it when men wear skirts. Men or women. Literally nobody asked for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 05:33 PM
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Unisex means meant for both sexes. Why try to market clothing to men when they don't want it?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 05:33 PM
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That's not what I'm talking about If scarcity is real, why not act accordingly?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 05:31 PM
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Men don't like those things, that's why they aren't unisex 🤦‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 05:18 PM
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I don't think it's possible for women to love them any more than they already do
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 05:11 PM
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Eh, maybe he won't be so nice after rejection number 75
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 05:07 PM
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Why are you presuming a nice guy has a good, fulfilling life? I feel like you're just moving goalposts around.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 05:03 PM
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So they simply endure all the shitty things in their life
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 04:59 PM
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Why would a nice person be immune to anger and jealousy?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 04:58 PM
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Are real nice guys immune from dating problems?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 04:49 PM
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Eh, still seems shit no matter how you slice it
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 04:41 PM
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Good at sports? There you go. He'll coast for the rest of his life. Congratulations
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 04:28 PM
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That's how you end up being 40 with 8 cats.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 04:22 PM
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So either get a worse partner due to scarcity or get a worse partner due to league diving Neat
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 04:16 PM
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So the only way a man can have options is to date people significantly worse than him? Why even bother at that point?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 04:12 PM
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So all a man has to do is focus on women he doesn't want
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 04:08 PM
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Well, it's because nobody wants to see or hear the man do anything. Simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 04:03 PM
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So yesterday I asked how many men actually had an abundance of options, and the highest I got was I think 5% So why are we pushing abundance mentality again? If scarcity is what's going on, shouldn't we be acting accordingly?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 03:57 PM
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Just watch amateurs
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 03:55 PM
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What other things would women do?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 03:37 PM
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Looks have the power to get women to approach you. It is literally the end all be all most important factor.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 03:30 PM
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Everyone deserves equitable treatment. Anything less is a failure. The people who triumph life isn't fair diatribes are the ones taking advantage or exploiting this system.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 03:27 PM
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So people deserve unfair treatment? That's neat
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 03:08 PM
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His life is ruined whether he has custody or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 02:59 PM
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Everyone deserves equal outcome for equal input. I don't care about anything else beyond that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 02:55 PM
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Just jump off the freeway at that point
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 02:45 PM
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Easy dates and accessible casual sex for starters
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 02:32 PM
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Ok, well tell me how to stop all the simps and now we have some practical advice
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 02:30 PM
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Whatever treatment the average girl gets.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 02:00 PM
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So misandry is acceptable then? Is this person making excuses to be a misandrist?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 01:50 PM
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It's hard to say what you would compromise for if you don't have the person in front of you. But I wouldnt settle for a low libido partner again. The relationship just turns into an exercise of madness.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 01:26 PM
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Honestly I think most LTRs devolve into this kind of dynamic. There's a reason why the 'sex dries up' trope exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 01:15 PM
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If you say so
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 10:15 AM
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The hell it is lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 10:05 AM
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Shoutout to morning wood, I can't start my morning without you. Like, literally can't start it cause it's there every single damn morning.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 10:03 AM
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Women he is interested in dating don't mean anything if they aren't interested back
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 02:05 PM
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Q4W: What percentage of men do you think has an abundance of options in the dating game?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 01:40 PM
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It has nothing to do with being a low value loser. Women hate effeminate men, and worrying about consent within a relationship falls dead center in there. I've asked multiple times, and that is what I've come to understand. Women especially hate being denied for sex. They immediately take it personally. I was called gay by two women I had sex with because I didn't act like a pussy crazed man the way they had envisioned I should. Being effeminate in a sexual sense will damage your relationship wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 01:33 PM
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I don't think men can afford being mindful about consent within a relationship. Once you're perceived as unmasculine, the relationship will start to slowly sink.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 01:15 PM
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If the genders were reversed, would this be a bigger issue?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 01:02 PM
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Being attracted to women as a low value male just feels awful. You're constantly getting pulled towards people who want nothing more to do than to get away from you. You feel ashamed for having romantic or sexual thoughts about anyone, and you just can't turn it off. Being around women just feels terrible in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 10:33 AM
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But look they're so awkward around each other, isn't it so quirky and cute? Tbf I think nearly every depiction of flirting or chemistry depicted in media feels incredibly forced
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 10:27 AM
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It's how Redditors flirt
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 10:21 AM
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We're accepting donations, send it to me in private and I'll ensure it gets spread out to the rest of them
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 09:33 AM
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It's all relative. To a man it's like she isn't doing anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 12:36 AM
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This just sounds like the US in 10 years
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 12:35 AM
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What actually makes these women a good pick? Please tell me
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 12:30 AM
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Being both 7/10 and earning 65k a year is above average, and 5'8 is just slightly below average. The level of devotion is also above average. He, ironically, checks off too many boxes.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 03:01 PM
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You made man A too appealing to the average woman to highlight your point.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 02:54 PM
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As long as a strong majority can still find partners, you'll always be a loser. That's all there is to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 01:06 PM
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Attractive man can easily climb up the ladder in any spot on looks based charisma alone. It's not even a question.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 06:03 PM
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Being ugly means everyone treats you worse. Even your parents. Fucked species.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 11:04 PM
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I'd be surprised if any movie that has a geriatric 'famous' actor was better than mid nowadays
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 10:59 PM
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Yeah but really though
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 11:28 PM
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Be attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 11:26 PM
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I thought women wanted a man that earned more than them. Oh well, exception to the rule I suppose
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 08:44 PM
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Provider is just anyone that makes more and is willing to pay for more these days
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 08:39 PM
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Me? No. The woman looking for marriage is the one looking for a Capital P Provider. Ergo, lobster
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 08:34 PM
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"Are you going to pay for my lobster dinner?"
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 08:22 PM
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Where? Here. Ask any woman and they'll say more men are not attractive at all. Men have to put in way more effort to be attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 07:44 PM
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Women are also saying most men are sexless blobs. By the numbers an attractive man is way more scarce. All women have to do is slap makeup on and they're golden.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 07:38 PM
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You're using a fictional couple to illustrate your point The fucking hubris, lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 07:26 PM
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Lmao what
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 07:16 PM
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Basically this. Pussy privilege
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 06:57 PM
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You still have to be proactive in addition to being reactive.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 06:39 PM
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He told her to tell him as penance and she was all like psshhhh Couldn't have happened to a better person
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 06:24 PM
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That's what I'm saying..
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 06:15 PM
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Does it really? All women have to do is wear makeup and they're good. The fact that the bar is way lower to be an attractive woman is a factor
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 06:11 PM
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But I'm asking which takes more time and effort, and then there's factors out of the person's control as well. A short man is by definition less attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 06:07 PM
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True or false: it takes more effort to be an attractive man than it does an attractive woman
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 05:40 PM
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Never met a man who turned down a nice slice of cake 🤤👌
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 10:07 PM
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My retirement plan is a shotgun 😎🤙
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 10:06 PM
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https://youtu.be/Hm2kgIdnSI4 Shoutout to my favorite niche philosophy YouTube, who happened to also touch on the Jonah Hill controversy (yeah its more like baiting something topical, but it's a good video and his videos are good so watch it)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 10:04 PM
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Tell him all about your time at PPD
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 06:51 PM
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"Now you say something"
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 06:47 PM
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There was at least a thinly veiled, half assed attempt to try to not be outright nasty
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 04:31 PM
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At this point you're just calling people losers
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 04:23 PM
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Lmao and women say they are not attracted to the minority of men What a crock of shit
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 01:51 AM
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I never said it was abusive, I said it was manipulative and controlling.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 01:28 AM
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Yikes
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 01:24 AM
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Sure it is. You're withholding affection for your benefit and his detriment. Your putting your own needs above his.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 01:17 AM
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It's manipulation within the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 01:03 AM
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That sounds like a miserable person to be in a relationship with. Someone very comfortable controlling you with her sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 12:37 AM
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There's a man in it
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 12:34 AM
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Dog, the entire relationship is in the hands of the lower libido partner. The sex they want to have dictates everything. If she doesn't want to work on that, and many don't, oh well. Get fucked, loser.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 11:26 PM
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Ok, the caveat is if you marry a Chad that won't be an issue. There you go.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 11:12 PM
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You can post sassy gifs all day, your lack of words speaks for itself nerd
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 11:08 PM
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No. Women hate autistic men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 11:07 PM
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Lmao I'm not wrong tho
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 11:05 PM
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The moral of the story is never marry
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 11:01 PM
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Because now men need to fulfill way more of her wants because she can just fuck off, be single and catch dick whenever she pleases.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 10:38 PM
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Pff, no. It had the opposite effect. Now that women earn their own money they don't need men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 10:32 PM
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Standards men need to clear for relationships and hookups
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 10:29 PM
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It fluctuates. The newest thing is sensual asmr. Before that it was mutual masturbation.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 10:21 PM
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You have so few standards to live up to, just take this one on the chin and move on
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 10:16 PM
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They're more entitled and their standards skyrocketed. The difference between this social media is that it's still anonymous. It's not the vapid posturing or gross comparisons that Facebook and Instagram are.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 08:54 PM
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Oh dang, I looked at my health insurance and mental health services has been covered this whole time, I just knew jack shit about health insurance lingo
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 08:51 PM
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The attitude Also the social media addictions is a big eew
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 08:14 PM
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What does a bad personality mean though
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 07:05 PM
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Do you really want to see your grandma talk about Raid: Shadow Legends though?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 08:46 PM
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I'm really good at Dark Souls Where are my bitches at
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 08:23 PM
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Scientists have discovered a cure for death, but this technology has been co opted by corporations. So while you have brought your loved ones back to life, they not only spout off advertisements every 15 minutes, but also report all of your intimate life details to 3rd parties.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 08:05 PM
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I was told to be myself, and I was fine just the way I am. Kids are very easy to scam
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 07:48 PM
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I don't like being pigeonholed into the masculine role in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 07:02 PM
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I just find it funny how women treat marital sex like a chore lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 06:46 PM
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You'll understand when you're dating in your 30's
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 06:43 PM
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They'll still cling to exclusivity while denying their partner for sex. Relationships are possessive by definition.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 06:41 PM
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You don't really know what you're missing if you've never had it. The world is a much colder place, but that's just the way it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 06:33 PM
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That does not sound very feminist of you
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 06:31 PM
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An actual unpopular opinion that's also sub relevant: https://www.reddit.com/r/unpopularopinion/comments/14wom09/you_cant_rarelynever_have_sex_with_your_partner/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android_app&utm_name=androidcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=2
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 06:19 PM
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Hot asshole wins over average and nice every single day
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 05:25 PM
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At this point I wouldn't even be surprised
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 05:21 PM
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It's because both externalized and internalized shame. Men can't be vulnerable around other men, and nobody wants to be the first guy that tries to cross that barrier.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 05:09 PM
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I just call it like i see it
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 04:52 PM
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I feel like you're already alpha widowed despite never actually being with an alpha. It's an impressive feat.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 04:50 PM
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Who the hell wants kids
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 04:49 PM
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No, not capital P Poor people.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 12:08 PM
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They would still act cold as fuck, let's be real If men swung from the gallows at every accusation that would not suddenly make them want to be nice to us
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 11:47 AM
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I don't think most Americans can afford traveling and holidays anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 11:35 AM
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I'm not having kids for both of those reasons, but also because it seems like a colossal pain in the ass and if I don't actually want to be a father, I probably shouldn't be.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 11:35 AM
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Everything has a cost
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 09:22 PM
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They will expect their man to surpass them, and will be entitled by seeing themselves as high value.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 09:02 PM
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Stupidly high maintenance. Pass.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 08:32 PM
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You're still the same loser in a fancier wrapping paper.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 10:59 PM
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Unless it just doesn't give you confidence
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 10:53 PM
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The work would be different for each person some people need to Socialise more some need to lose weight and get better style some need more confidence some need to move away from where they live now. Let's be honest, it's all of the above for most of them. And the daunting aspect of having to do everything makes them feel helpless.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 10:25 PM
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Men just have their morality tested more often. Maybe you can say more instinctual, but that's a really hard thing to parse out.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 10:24 PM
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Slaves also add value to whatever they're working on. Doesn't mean they get esteem in return.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 08:53 PM
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You get treated better by being taller, looking good and having muscles by everyone. And flirting is basically focused charisma, which is also valued by everyone. Anything else?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 08:22 PM
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What are you smoking? The qualities that are required to date run completely parallel to how much your family, colleagues and society value you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 08:12 PM
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Stab them or something, idc
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 05:31 PM
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It literally doesn't matter. The dozens and dozens of rejections means your one time being nice is an absolute drop in the bucket.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 05:02 PM
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Women select for every trait that makes a man have value in the world. If no women select you, then congratulations, it's a reflection of how society sees you; worthless
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 01:09 PM
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How does the far left normalize hyper sexualization?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 12:00 AM
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What you're saying is lice act like lice no matter where they are. I'm saying lice issues are curbed by keeping your areas clean. If your location allows lice to flourish, it'll be worse off than one that doesn't. I suppose that's all I got
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 11:06 PM
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Nah, a populations density holding such beliefs holds immense sway over its culture. If misogyny is accepted by 90% of males, stating so in broad daylight and enacting policies that reflect that become acceptable. If it's held by 60%, those factors are lessened and if the percentage is lessened further, then so are the effects on society. Majority rules for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 10:58 PM
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The point is that some societies are worse than others for certain groups of people. No matter what the reason is, those out groups are still going to suffer the tide of their society
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 10:52 PM
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Russia has always been a shithole though It's like complaining about women's rights in Afghanistan
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 10:46 PM
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If there's a premium service it advertises, it's absolutely overrating you
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 09:56 PM
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Because it always boils down to her not caring enough. She will never give a shit about your satisfaction if it means she gets what she wants, and she'll twist the knife however she sees fit to get what she wants. So it's either tolerate it or be single.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 09:43 PM
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"OK, I'll do that. Sure."
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 09:09 PM
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Thats what happens with men in marriages "Not tonight honey" "Not tonight honey" "Not tonight honey"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 08:49 PM
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It would be because he just doesn't want to do it right now Which happens nearly every time you ask
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 08:42 PM
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You were supposed to be older than 16 to use the site You're grounded
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 08:39 PM
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Yes, of course
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 08:33 PM
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13 year old don't know Jack shit about existentialism and neither do you
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 08:32 PM
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I think the best art is always subversive in some way. Which probably means I should appreciate avant garde and abstract art even more, but it physically hurts to look at them 25 paintings in a row
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 08:16 PM
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This seems interesting Cheers
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 08:15 PM
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The fuck is wrong with you
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 07:47 PM
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That just has gross nationalism vibes to it. I wouldn't consider it an honor if the establishment decided to make my country look fantastic, I'd consider it a paycheck. At that point you're just another arm of propoganda.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 07:47 PM
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You've never stepped foot inside of a bar in your life, I don't wanna hear it
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 07:41 PM
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Went to the local art museum today. It was nice, but the bulk of their works were avant garde and abstract stuff. At least the stuff I toured through, I got a voucher for a free visit so I figured I'd split up the trip Art tier list goes S: Landscapes A: Dynamic portraits with people doing shit B: Regular portraits C: Avant Garde/High Concept D: Abstract shit
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 07:38 PM
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Did you photoshop yourself into someone else's group photo
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 07:31 PM
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Lmao that hypergamy just bleeds through dunnit I feel so bad for young men in this country I swear
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 07:31 PM
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Being a dude the bar alone = 🤮 Being a girl at the bar alone = 😇
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 07:14 PM
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I'd probably just move us away, if you follow us like a lost puppy dog thats on you
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 03:09 AM
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Are you ok?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 03:07 AM
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No, you should get what you deserve. Everything else is horseshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 03:02 AM
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You can also be dumb as bricks and get way more money than you deserve. Society should strive for higher educated people as a whole. If dumber people outearn the smarter ones, it's indicative of a large societal issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 03:00 AM
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That just seems spiteful. The higher educated should get more money.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 02:52 AM
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Nah, the worst thing I'll do is ask if her boyfriend treats her well when he's not about, and if she says yes ill leave it at that. If a man starts hitting on my girl I'll tell him she's taken and leave it at that. Nothing else needs to be done
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 02:41 AM
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God punts a lot of people into hell tho lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 02:27 AM
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She legit got dollar signs in her eyes like in the cartoons 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 10:44 PM
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I'd kick in a few hundo. A pretty good value at that rate.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 10:25 PM
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Aww that's sweet
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 10:24 PM
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Exactly why below average guys should stop trying 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 09:33 PM
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At what point do we blame women for going after men who treat them as lessers then?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 06:27 PM
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So I'm expected to sacrifice for no gain whatsoever
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 05:41 PM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 04:46 PM
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Yes. It's not a should you or shouldn't you question, if treating women as equals gives you worse results, then why bother?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 04:38 PM
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Why even live at all if your entire lifestyle is already written out for you? Why not just get a lobotomy at that rate?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 04:26 PM
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The question of 'should you' do something is irrelevant if it doesn't get results.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 01:49 PM
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Being horny and being lonely throw two very large wrenches into this idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 11:00 AM
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Don't play games
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 12:53 AM
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Like i said, they'd get next to zero dates if they increase their standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 12:44 AM
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I mean, yeah, they'll get less dates. They put their standards to zero and get one date every 2 to 3 months maybe, increasing your standards will mean you get maybe 2 dates a year
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 12:37 AM
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Why are you allowed to openly avoid a permaban?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 09:21 PM
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It's actually pretty crazy how quickly this flipped. But back in the 70s men were able to be completely mediocre and have general success, and now women today are allowed to be completely mediocre and have that same great success. Wild.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 08:54 PM
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Lmao like a ragdoll, jeez
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 08:32 PM
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Does that mean you have to be ordered around the entire time? Sounds exhausting
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 08:28 PM
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tl:dr; being an amazing person makes other people like you more Amazing concept 10/10
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 05:25 PM
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It's a simultaneous push pull relationship. Men are pushed towards women due to biology and pushed away by people that would exploit that biology for personal gain. Which is what a lot of relationships really boil down to.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 01:17 PM
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No. Behind every self loather was someone who was punished for liking who they were.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 12:50 PM
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Meh. Self love is just masturbation.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 12:17 PM
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And here is the advice that nobody ever wants to hear: if you dislike yourself, people will generally follow your lead and dislike you too. If you really like and admire yourself, people will generally follow your lead and like you and admire you too. That's not advice, thats just proving the self hater right. Everyone hates me, might as well keep hating myself
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 12:11 PM
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If you can't listen I'm not gonna bother
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 01:40 AM
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Literally didn't say that but ok
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 01:34 AM
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Well then the feelings mutual
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 01:32 AM
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It's the general you, as in your gender makes men hate themselves Don't take it personally
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 01:30 AM
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Banned for blocking an annoying person
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 01:27 AM
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Women make men hate themselves 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 01:23 AM
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Born again self deceivers
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 01:17 AM
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Hadn't done an Oklahoma smash, that's on the dockett
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 11:04 PM
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The problem is you can't verify that the people the woman denied wouldn't also be capricious and violent. It's that plausible deniability that keeps this whole gravy train a movin
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 10:58 PM
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God damn, smash burgers on a cast iron skillet are such a simple joy. The technique is so simple and there's so little ingredients but the outcome is so remarkable.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 10:50 PM
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Well, the rulebook is pretty fucking huge ngl
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 09:17 PM
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My point is that your entire premise is horseshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 08:50 PM
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Exactly. Women can fuck up 20 different ways and still be absolutely fine. There are no consequences anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 08:28 PM
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The issue is they'll do it in a sneaky way and never outright say they want to turn you into something exclusive, so they can act all offended when you say something like this while they keep running their game.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 08:22 PM
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"He's using me", said the tool. Ugh.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 08:04 PM
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I've said it before, the wall is a myth, body count doesn't matter because you can just lie and fat women still get love. Women can fuck up 20 different ways and still find dozens of men that will love them. It doesn't matter, stop trying out stupid revenge fantasies, women will always be on top of the 21st century dating game.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 07:59 PM
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A woman wouldn’t want “courtship and princess treatment” from you if you didn’t present yourself that way Thats straight up not true. I've had women keep attempting to be a girlfriend after I told them I'm not interested in it. And I bet that happens tenfold to Chad's as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 07:54 PM
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Nah, let's just not do that
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 07:50 PM
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Nah, we shouldn't stretch out definitions.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 07:46 PM
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In summary, don't date single mothers
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 07:10 PM
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That's not what hypergamy means
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 06:36 PM
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So as long as those problems are being felt by the Filthy Poors, it's all good?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 05:43 PM
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Of course. I love cooking and having actual cooking skill is a marvel to behold
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 05:29 PM
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Have you ever had depression?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 04:40 PM
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Nice
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 03:38 PM
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The other team has a tendency to bring tire irons out onto the court and aim for the kneecaps as well I don't really blame anyone for ducking out of the game anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 09:38 AM
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Honestly would rather just have the blow job, but if you wanted to watch the grisly affair who would say no
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 11:40 PM
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I can't imagine a more embarrassing scene then a man at full mast just wearing a t-shirt waiting for his hot pocket to cool down so he can fuck it As long as he isn't hungry afterwards it could be worse
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 11:14 PM
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Have you never burned your mouth on one? The pain you would have if you fucked a molten hot pocket center would be indescribable
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 10:41 PM
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You don't want to fuck a hot pocket Or was that a euphamism
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 10:35 PM
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Pig pilled 100%
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 09:22 PM
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Cue the 8 Mile theme
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 08:43 PM
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That's why I said more, and not all. Dude still hit it raw at the end of the day. Women still have the final say, regardless of what the father wants. It's her decision to yield to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 08:42 PM
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I mean, I get where they're coming from. Building a family is generally more constructive than banging multiple women and possibly making single mothers. It's just a shame that men's desires don't really fit terribly well in the society we've built.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 08:36 PM
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If women have the final say on the child's existence, they earned more responsibility by happenstance.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 08:33 PM
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Men's sexuality is seen as hedonistic and wanton, while women's is seen as pure and monogamous. Sleeping around is ironically seen as a destructive act.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 08:31 PM
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Or she decided to keep it and the father had absolutely no say. That's a possibility as well
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 08:16 PM
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She saw her life flash before her eyes and got sent on a mission from God to find a Chad
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 07:52 PM
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Can still easily talk himself out of sex
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 07:39 PM
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I'm not good at describing things like this, dunno what to tell you. She is not attractive at all though.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 07:30 PM
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It's hard to put into words, but to try to explain a gut instinct, I'd say the jawline, eyebrows and nose are all masculine
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 07:19 PM
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Man face
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 07:16 PM
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Lol men that don't try hard in bed are not good lovers. Following your instincts are a good way to just thoughtlessly pump and last for 2 minutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 06:13 PM
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Leave me for something better
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 05:40 PM
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I'd be concerned that she would want to branch swing to a man that earns more than her.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 05:29 PM
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Yep
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 05:20 PM
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I think she's just expressing a natural disgust at the thought of it
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 05:15 PM
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Are you comparing fat people to terrorists? Jesus you people are such snowflakes lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 05:00 PM
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Because it is. You people jerk each other off with how much you think others are beneath you, and it's unsightly behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 04:54 PM
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Done and done
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 06:51 PM
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I think it would be fine if the rest of society adjusted to this overabundance of undesirable men, but it hasn't. Men struggling with women are still seen as losers, prostitution is still illegal, sex tourism is still seen as creepy, etc. Women were given freedom and now they're stomping the proverbial trash down in the trash can with the shiny new boots they just got.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 06:08 PM
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There are people that have to be told this, yes. Why is this so difficult to understand
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 01:37 AM
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It's completely true though. People that have to be told they will suffer eternal damnation if they don't have a basic sense of empathy are completely sociopathic. And we have to sit next to and deal with these people on a day to day basis.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 01:17 AM
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Wouldn't that justify slavery?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 01:10 AM
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People that have to be told not to kill, rape and destroy the lives of others by a sky daddy instead of their own sense of morals are legitimately terrifying. For how awful religion is, it at least keeps these fucking savage monsters in check.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 01:09 AM
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Dont you see how fucked up it is to value life only as far as how useful they are to our lives?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 01:07 AM
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We both know what's up
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 12:48 AM
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We both know why you swiped left. The tall men had demerits against them that the shorter man didn't. The shorter man who is also taller than you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 12:41 AM
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You are putting a lot of words on the table and are providing very little evidence to counter what I had to say. All fluff and no stuff. It's fine for you to prefer pretty men who are taller than you, just fucking admit it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 12:35 AM
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I didn't even get that far into their profile. I got their first names; ages; and then heights first as I scrolled, at which point other areas of compatibility didn't matter. You judged them on their outer appearance and found them wanting. This is what women do. Yeah... the vast majority of women are. You think this proves anything? It proves "my" point that women will accept shorter men as long as they are shorter than them. Women still wildly care about height, but there are stipulations
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 12:15 AM
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Bitch what did I tell you about taking testosterone
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 12:11 AM
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I've always said, women work on a demerit system The two taller men must have been lacking in areas that the short man excelled in Plus it's guaranteed this woman is shorter than 5'7" Nothing terribly surprising
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 12:08 AM
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Men can be emotional* -Women
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 11:49 PM
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Also weird that they begrudgingly kissed during glass clinking, and were basically apart the entire reception
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 12:07 AM
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Just got done with a wedding Big takeaway is the father daughter dance is weird, but the mother son dance is capital W weird
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 12:05 AM
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Ok well if you have something to say do it in DMs, put up or shut up
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 02:28 AM
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I seen it on my short stint in there. Sort by New for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 07:00 PM
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This is a stupid dichotomy though, not all men are supermodels and dorks. Average men can easily drop points by losing their hair
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 05:26 PM
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You still have to be attractive before you lose your hair. If you aren't, congrats now you look worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 05:22 PM
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Attractive people are great, breaking news 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 05:13 PM
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Another triumph of US gun law 🫡
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 05:04 PM
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Several takeaways from visiting r/amiugly Looking at Hot posts vs New posts and wow women get so much more validation than men do, it's like planets apart. Being critical about your appearance makes you seem very endearing and relatable I'll probably end up taking a spin at it at some point on an alt account to see if anything useful shakes out
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 04:20 PM
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I don't think you know how sex works
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 04:15 PM
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racism makes sense -Potoricco
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 03:59 PM
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Hey man, if they made BC for men I woulda taken it in a heartbeat
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 03:57 PM
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The craving usually isn't this bad, I think it might be because I ate like dogshit yesterday. The only actual dieting I'm adhering to is drinking less and trying to eat better on most days, along with the 16 hour fasts. Good news, I can eat in 8 minutes
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 03:52 PM
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Good news: dropped 7 pounds since my workout effort started Bad news: fasting is annoying and I want to eat something 😫
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 03:39 PM
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Meh, men do that as well. We all want the attention women get without considering the extra attention she gets from weirdos.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 01:34 PM
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Plenty of men don't get enough sex though
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 01:28 PM
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Plenty of women don't have this issue. And there's no point in being validated about having sex if you... get no sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 01:24 PM
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Oh yeah, slight hiccup in the plan
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 01:06 PM
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So did a lot of these fellas
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 01:01 PM
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As if she wouldn't smash the big red LIE button 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 12:58 PM
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It's not great. But if you want kids, you kind of have a duty to yourself to read a little bit of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 12:52 PM
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Appearance is also a very large factor in first impressions, coincidentally 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 12:20 AM
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Everyone should clap, he found an enthusiastic partner that loves sex. He found a unicorn 🎉🎉
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 05:33 PM
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Don't get me wrong, I'm more than ready to start wheeling out guillotines But whenever there's highly publicized 'X people are trapped doing Y', there's usually a big push to rescue them regardless of status.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 04:35 PM
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As long as red pill is the only group giving struggling men sound, practical advice, it may be the case
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 03:45 PM
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Psh. If you aren't gonna swing what's even the point
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 03:21 PM
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Doesn't matter if it's rape or not, if he never finds out there's no difference in the outcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 02:14 PM
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I meant birthed. Women decide whether to keep it or leave it, even if it was presumed they didn't want a child beforehand. Even if she pokes holes in the condoms or lies about being on BC.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 02:08 PM
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I didn't say that. I said women have the choice to conceive or abort, and men have no say in that decision at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 02:05 PM
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It's still a consensual act between two willing parties. You can't put the onus all on one person if that's the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 02:01 PM
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No, they skyrocketed.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 01:41 PM
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Their standards have absolutely skyrocketed.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 01:40 PM
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Fat people are still having kids so 🤷‍♂️ And good for them. Fat people deserve happiness and the joys of parenthood just as much as fit people.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 01:31 PM
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It's still miserable being at the mercy of a gender whose standards has skyrocketed within the past 10 years, regardless of context.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 01:24 PM
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We are in a civilization, not in nature ya fuckin weirdo
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 01:18 PM
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It was the creepy way you said it
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 01:15 PM
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Nice to see some good ol eugenics in the daily chat
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 01:13 PM
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If men do not get a say on whether a child they conceived is born or not and the woman has absolute say, wouldn't deadbeating be the only way for a man to regain control of his life?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 12:52 PM
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Oh shit, I guess we have to listen to the women that can communicate then. Oh well.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 12:23 PM
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Christians have absolutely nothing if they couldn't judge others. Be nicer to the guy
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 01:59 PM
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Women want the sex the man is offering. What you're offering is a pale imitation of the real thing, and charging money no less. So basically what you're offering is the 'we got sex at home'.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 01:21 AM
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You're not doing it for the sake of sex, you want a business transaction. It ain't the same
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 01:14 AM
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You're manipulating men sexually for monetary gain It's the same
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 01:08 AM
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Basically the same thing
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 01:05 AM
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Just work the streets at this rate
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 12:53 AM
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You name it
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 12:53 AM
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Oh my God relax. This is life affirming, not life denying. I will be fine without a whore.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 11:43 PM
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Sometimes you have to internalize what it means to not exist to appreciate what you have
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 11:39 PM
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😩👌
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 11:24 PM
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I'll try mostly anything once But I'm not looking for someone super feminine anyway. You gotta be able to hold your own and not fold like a leaf in some respect
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 11:02 PM
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So? That can be a vibe
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 10:49 PM
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Tattoos are rad my dude
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 10:43 PM
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Not interested in STDs or condom sex
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 09:49 PM
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Yeah, why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 09:36 PM
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No matter how shitty things are, how shitty things have been, and how much I missed out on, I forget sometimes that if circumstances were a little different I wouldn't be here right now. Will I ever sleep with an attractive, young woman in my lifetime? Probably not. Will I meet anyone who will have enthusiastic sex with me on a regular basis? Probably not. But I came into this world with nothing and I'll leave with nothing, so as far as I'm concerned I'm playing with house money. The house might…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 09:30 PM
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Attractive young women are for the top men anyway, always was the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 09:00 PM
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You're wigging out over something so incredibly small. If you can't look past something so small, then how invested are you really in what people here have to say?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 05:28 PM
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It's an internet forum, lighten up
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 05:25 PM
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Tradcon-posting, nothing to see here
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 04:49 PM
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Wtf is this shit
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 04:45 PM
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Being bitter is exhausting, jeez
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 03:28 PM
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Lmao, she's already up to 5 men while he's on his first But yeah, dating as a woman is just as hard 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 02:55 PM
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Mm hm
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 02:52 PM
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What about your man right now? Is he an uggo?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 02:47 PM
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You're not going to fuck an uggo, let's be real
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 02:44 PM
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Still gets stomped by good appearance 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 02:41 PM
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Besides, it still doesn't make the acquisition to a gf any easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 02:36 PM
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Don't women overwhelmingly lead divorce initiations?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 02:34 PM
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They still have a demerit system, and you can't negotiate attraction. It's not as forgiving as you think.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 02:28 PM
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No I meant for men, it's most important to look good
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 02:22 PM
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Looks are still most important for men. There's no use having a shining personality if they aren't turned on by them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 02:19 PM
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I don't think men want to resort to any of that, but they feel like they have to
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 02:14 PM
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If women are opting out and men are still in the market, then it's going to cause more lopsidedness
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 02:07 PM
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Wouldn't that just make competition for women more fierce?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 02:00 PM
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Because they don't see themselves as disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 01:53 PM
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You're misunderstanding the sentiment. Penetration is still desirable in intercourse, but you only need tongue and fingers to achieve female orgasm.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 01:50 PM
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But there are women that also date multiple men..
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 01:49 PM
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. I distinctly remember a post on r/sex where a man says he has absolutely no problem with orally and digitally pleasing his girlfriend, but won't do the penetration for some reason, whether because he cannot or doesn't feel comfortable There's a difference between being disgusted or put off from penetration and just having a small penis.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 01:46 PM
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If this statement is true: Men assume a woman to be attractive, and are more forgiving of negative traits. Women assume men to be unattractive and try and find the cracks between all the positive traits Wouldn't it also stand to reason that because of this, the majority of men have to date down and the majority of women date up?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 01:45 PM
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You can't override a disgust instinct just because it would be more convenient to have a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 01:40 PM
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I didn't mean species in a literal sense. But a career/hobby focused man's motivation is fundamentally different to a love/sex focused man.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 01:19 PM
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The difference is the boys that do care about acquiring love and sex and never getting it versus the ones that don't. You're talking about two different species here.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 01:13 PM
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What do you mean I have to drink 3 liters of water a day to be hydrated??? I hate it here
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 02:09 AM
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The reason Westerners have trouble dealing with this is because, like you implied, they aren't "happy" doing them, they aren't "happy" being expected to do something that needs to be done vs just doing whatever they want all the time. It's rampant toddler-esque narcissism and entitlement mentality. Having agency and not bending to the will of others is now toddleresque narcissism and entitlement? What's the point of having free will at all then? Why not just give my life to the state and become …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 05:35 PM
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How is this everyone should just lie and do their best to play the game and get what they want 🤧 double standards only matter if the opposite gender knows. get what you want outta the dating game. it’s a numbers game. play to win 😤 Protecting anyone other than your self interest
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 05:15 PM
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You're not protecting the one you love, you're pulling on strings for your own benefit.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 05:04 PM
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Great, then we agree
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 05:02 PM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 05:01 PM
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The life sucks shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 04:57 PM
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I'd rather be single than act like a manipulative pile of refuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 04:56 PM
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That sounds like a horrible way to find a life partner but ok
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 04:51 PM
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What about the people that aren't happier in the 'natural bonds of gender roles'? Do they just eat shit?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 04:49 PM
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We're you neglectful tho
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 04:16 AM
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Hey, that's at least some progress
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 04:06 AM
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been an issue all my life, ain't getting easier as I get older
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 04:05 AM
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It ain't easy being cheesy
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 03:42 AM
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Another Saturday night not getting laid. I wonder how the pickings are at the dive bar after midnight
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 03:34 AM
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Yeah, that's not bad either. Off topic though, dunno where that came from
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 02:02 PM
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That's your barometer for quality of life? Really? Yall are ridiculous, truly
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 02:01 PM
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Nothing says "I'm so disgusting I will literally pay people to love me" like a sugar daddy
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 01:27 PM
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Lol 'fine', ok Jan
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 01:23 PM
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Funny how normies don't have to go through all that extra effort
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 01:49 AM
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When its every girl though? Idk dog
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 12:59 AM
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My brother in christ, the women run from these men like a zombie plague. Ain't gonna help em
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 12:33 AM
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Lmao so muscley steroids would he overkill
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 11:54 PM
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Hey, that's how I lost my virginity
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 11:53 PM
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Women stay away from low tier men, low tier men can't figure out women as a result and stay low tier.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 11:43 PM
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Dog, women fake it and lie all the time. You're presuming all men have this masterclass in experience with women when that's just not the case. If she's lying about her level of satisfaction, she is at fault. Full stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 02:04 PM
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Why would he know she isn't enjoying it? If she acts like she enjoys it and doesn't complain, shouldn't he take her at her word?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 01:52 PM
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It's not her fault at all for marrying someone she has no attraction to either?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 01:47 PM
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Because women are not wildly attracted to the average man. The average man can go their entire lives without finding anyone who is wildly attracted to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 01:43 PM
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Wow, flipping beta buxx to be the man's fault is an impressive feat
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 11:08 AM
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Hey, if you were a small dicked man you'd be pretty angry too
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 09:40 PM
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Lmao ok
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 09:34 PM
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She'd still fuck him though
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 09:07 PM
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Don't have to leave your partner to cheat
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 08:54 PM
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My moneys on simple mod favoritism
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 08:52 PM
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I'm keeping mine out of pure laziness
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 08:50 PM
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What is this bullshit, mod abuse
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 07:16 PM
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Got grease burned working at a pizza place. Wasn't too bad though.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 07:09 PM
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Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 06:37 PM
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I just have no interest in the woe is me dialogue. If men can't be afforded such a luxury, then it's only fair women are not either.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 06:11 PM
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What do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 06:00 PM
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If you were able to delude yourself, congratulations. I'm not going to try to trick myself under the pretense that 'it would be nice if I had it'. As long as you're found wanting, you aren't worth shit to anyone. Why would you be an exception to that rule?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 05:53 PM
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Who cares if they're unloved? Tell them to pick themselves up by their bootstraps and put in the work if they want love. Nobody is owed affection, you have to earn it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 05:40 PM
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Just tell them to work harder. It's their own fault if they can't get anyone to love them. They must be toxic or mentally ill if they can't get any attention from the opposite sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 05:34 PM
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If you want to say killed, go ahead. Nobody's gonna judge you
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 05:29 PM
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Sounds like they have to fix their personalities. Nobody's entitled to relationships, sweeeeetie
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 05:22 PM
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Thats what it means to not be a protected demographic. Nobody protects you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 05:03 PM
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A little on the money for an awareness movement for men gets overshadowed by something far more popular, eh?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 05:00 PM
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Self hatred does not occur within a vacuum. Other people inject it into you. The message is a constant 'you're not good enough', something both men and women are happy to tell you. Why would anyone not hate themselves when all of the outside world is telling you how you should? Are you really going to deny all of the overwhelming evidence?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 04:37 PM
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It's women's demands for what they want to see in men that push men to hate themselves. That would still persist even if feminism was the dominant mode.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 03:40 PM
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They're perfectly happy being mediocre partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 03:22 PM
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So they don't care
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 03:15 PM
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Why can't normal women give a shit about how they have sex? Is it because they don't have to care?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 03:02 PM
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Ah right, the dancing monkey routine. Fair
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 03:00 PM
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Tldr for the video: women love enforcing male gender roles via mate selection, and men need to be amazing in all facets of life to be successful at dating
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 02:46 PM
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I feel like at this rate you should just get 'sex is not a need' tattooed on your body somewhere
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 02:13 PM
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If the rhetoric continues to ramp up, it's always on the table
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 02:09 PM
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Only if the carpets match the drapes
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 01:59 PM
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Give it 3 years
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 01:18 PM
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Being asked a 'would you' question is not the same as actually getting hit on by an attractive man.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 10:03 PM
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Pff Of course they would say that. Social conditioning from whorish behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 09:31 PM
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Yes, you endured it with the presumption that it would continue. I'm talking about no hope for future sex at all, ever
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 09:05 PM
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I've already noted how women see men differently. Most men are seen as sexless blobs to them. Many women here have admitted so. You're also discounting all of the women who do go for raw physicality because the male is a specimen. It absolutely happens all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 08:57 PM
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En fuegooooo
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 08:28 PM
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Roasted his ass, damn
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 08:22 PM
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Men are being offered mental health support?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 07:37 PM
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But sex isn't 'needed' in the relationship, right? If you stopped having sex you'd still be together, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 07:23 PM
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I feel bad for your spouse then
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 07:18 PM
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Changing yourself is still suffering. All options lead to suffering
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 07:17 PM
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All the choices are ass though
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 07:06 PM
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Women find the grand majority of men to be sexless nothings. Add to the small minority they do find attractive that at least half of those men are conventionally attractive to and beloved by most women, and the average man's chances plummet even further Women don't find men hot, they find the best men hot. They settle for the rest.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 07:06 PM
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Are you fucking kidding Do you know how much harder you have to work as a man getting into a relationship? What a goddamn joke lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 06:59 PM
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Men put up with a lot of that shit cause they know it doesn't really get better for them. That's partly why the divorce initiators are so skewed, which nobody talks about
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 06:52 PM
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Domestic/emotional service, obviously You mean that thing that women here constantly complain about doing? And they stop being a motivation when women stop ending up their part of the bargain/stops being a motivating factor altogether
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 06:49 PM
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Women really are terrified of men who consider sex a need, huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 06:45 PM
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Or maybe you're just a mediocre worker.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 06:40 PM
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Lmao what service Both women and men are souring on parenting And with sex, sometimes you're better off taking a chance out in the field than with a woman that's already tired of you
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 06:36 PM
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Every month*
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 06:35 PM
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This has real 'some of you will die and that's a sacrifice I am willing to make' vibes
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 06:24 PM
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Don't want kids, argument is moot
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 05:21 PM
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Because it means women are precious and men are expendable. My life is worth less than yours by default. Why wouldn't I be upset?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 05:12 PM
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Big talk for someone nobody expects to ever put themselves in harms way for any reason whatsoever The absolute privilege dripping from women these days..
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 05:05 PM
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So verbal abuse is preferable to none at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 05:03 PM
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So are men expected to throw their lives away for their partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 04:56 PM
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This just reads like a poster whose dad called them a f*g on a regular basis.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 04:54 PM
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I mean, really it's his fault for not taking a swing at him immediately and getting braid damage from getting his ass beat as a response. You can't maintain a woman's attraction unless you're a ruthlessly violent person.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 03:40 PM
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You're talking to someone who hS had suicidal ideation many times and was never violent towards anyone else or abused drugs, so idk man. Maybe you're the one that doesn't go outside.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 06:27 PM
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Also consider that if it's perceived that women need more help, then men will receive less help in response. The narrative of patriarchy is that men are doing better by default, so people are actually motivated to strip resources away from men to give to women. If men are seen as stronger, they will be told to deal with problems on their own, thus less resources will be granted. The reverse would be true for women as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 05:29 PM
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How?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 05:25 PM
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So any man who sleeps with a non virginal women is cucked by default, and men who only sleep with virginal women are more moral and have better values by default?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 05:24 PM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 05:13 PM
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Does having a virginity fetish make you a better man to be with?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 05:11 PM
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That's how resources work. You can't manifest resources, they're simply exchanged. Even emotional support is a resource.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 05:08 PM
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It's zero sum. When women have it better, men have it worse. We're already seeing the effects of it on higher education statistics and dating statistics. You can't just magically make benefits appear, they have to be taken from somewhere. So men lose while women gain.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 04:57 PM
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Because feminists are the ones opposing patriarchy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 04:53 PM
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Regardless of if the patriarchy sucks, feminists have not put forward a structure that's more beneficial to men, because they're simply not interested in it. If it's patriarchy vs feminism, men lose in both scenarios.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 04:38 PM
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You're labeling all men who contemplate suicide as violent, abusive addicts. That's the dumbest shit imaginable.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 03:49 PM
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Lmao convenience store elitism
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 03:29 PM
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Cool. Can't wait for the next anti suicide campaign: "Suck it up ya fuckin pussies"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 03:17 PM
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You're not a man. Come back to me when you have 4 times the testosterone and then you can make a judgment.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 03:11 PM
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So what you're saying is male suicide victims all get what's coming to them, yeah?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 02:49 PM
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I don't want to be vindictive, but it is highly validating when a woman transitions and discovers being a man isn't all it's cracked up to be. And it goes to show how little women actually know about the male experience
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 05:41 PM
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The fact that they care about appearance just as much as men do? This is fairly recent.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 02:12 PM
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Its a fairly recent concept to be talked about in the open. There's going to be some growing pains about women being vocal with superficiality.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 01:35 PM
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😩👌
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 01:33 PM
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Kinda like how girls practice making out at sleepovers
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 01:24 PM
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Women have to allow you to practice it, which is pretty rare in general
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 01:06 PM
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Well, once you get absolute zero validation for your entire life getting treated like a sex object sounds pretty good sometimes
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 12:28 AM
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🙏🙏
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 12:17 AM
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Back off it's mine
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 12:14 AM
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Believe it or not, still preferable to the absolute deafening silence men get
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 12:14 AM
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Me
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 12:05 AM
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But if they stopped with the false accusations, then what else do they want the left to say? What can the left give these men that the right simply cant?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 07:58 PM
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Yeah, you gave me something they don't want to hear
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 07:52 PM
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I guess I'm just confused about what these men expect to hear from the left, and not just what they don't want to hear
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 07:44 PM
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You're just proving them right. Is it that hard to see?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 07:07 PM
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If your reaction to being accused of misogyny is to be misogynistic, idk what to tell you dude. The left has utterly failed our young men. The right just tells men what they want to hear. The left tells men nothing at all. Who gives a shit. Do what you want to do. Forge your own path.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 07:00 PM
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Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 10:03 PM
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diapers aren't fun Hey, don't kink shame
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 09:58 PM
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Lol see that isn't advice you can act upon though for dating success. That's the big issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 09:37 PM
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I don't really agree to this, but i'll let it slide because I am curious about something. Do you think most men would prefer a toxic relationship with tons of kinky sex over a happy, chill relationship that has normal amounts of sex? A surprising amount will want the former. It also depends on what you mean by normal, and if the relationship can actually sustain the normal amount of sex, which a lot don't. His life will almost always improve and get easier. That's why relationship discussions in…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 09:28 PM
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Then do the people who rail against red pill have practical advice or solutions?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 09:03 PM
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Does blue pill even offer practical advice for men? Serious question
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 09:00 PM
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Women want an LTR, they don't need it. Men need sex more than women need LTRs.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 08:17 PM
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No, it was exaggerated to illustrate a point. But if you were to guess who's going to have a birthday party with: Little Mermaid themed plates + napkins and a bounce house It would probably be a little girl
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 08:12 PM
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And women may not care about periods of celibacy. I’ve gone like ~2 years without sex (in adulthood, after becoming sexually actively) quite happily. And men absolutely care. That's why women hold so much more power. Women have something men need, and men have nothing women need.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 08:10 PM
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Lol I thought you hated vaginas
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 08:07 PM
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Women have way more dating power. Waaaaaay more dating power. And their access to casual sex means there won't be potential months or years before the next romp in bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 08:05 PM
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With that logic why not just go back to using diapers? There's no age limit on adult diapers
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 08:02 PM
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In that case, the power is in whoever has the higher SMV (usually the woman) or whoever is less invested in an LTR. Whoever has less to lose when the relationship ends, wins.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 08:00 PM
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Something that a 6 year old wouldn't do. But I'm just being a crank, do whatever you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 07:56 PM
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I would agree that it may be easier for most women to find a casual sexual partner than it may be for most men. However, I also don’t believe women have all the sexual power. This dictates all relationships, because it shuts the door on men who would prefer it but don't have access to it. As far as sexual power goes, the person who has the lower libido has the sexual power, and that's usually women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 07:52 PM
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You can, but can you do it with some dignity? Damn
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 07:49 PM
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Being against porn because you're a woman and it doesn't affect you in the slightest: 😂🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 07:47 PM
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How old are you again?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 07:46 PM
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They have the time, money and freedom to behave however they want and access whoever they want. And they choose to be dumb assholes 95% of the time. You don't pay attention to the rich men who don't turn out to be dumb assholes, now do you? Because they don't make headlines, the dumb assholes do. Cmon now
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 07:40 PM
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No, I'm fucking dumb and said tying tubes when I meant to say get snipped. I'm a man. A very dumb man.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 07:31 PM
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It's because I am male and I'm fucking with you
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 07:26 PM
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Yep, I've been larping as a male this whole time. You got me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 07:22 PM
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Good catch.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 07:21 PM
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I doubt RP claims women solely care about looks. Women obviously have a shitton of standards men have to fulfill.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 07:11 PM
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Woman blames men for something being inflicted upon men. Boy howdy if I had a nickel
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 07:09 PM
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It's what the opposite sex values. Men value appearance and sex, women value usefulness.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 06:59 PM
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Fat people just live rent free in your head, lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 06:11 PM
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Yeap.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 06:05 PM
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I'm still perplexed lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 06:00 PM
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Lol what?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 05:54 PM
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Hell yeah, congrats. I'm looking into getting my tubes tied
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 05:52 PM
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Pussy game was too fire, couldn't pull out in time
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 05:27 PM
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Nice guys really do finish last 🥲
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 05:22 PM
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First time I've heard of it
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 05:09 PM
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One man do bad thing How come every man is like man who do bad thing
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 05:07 PM
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Attraction is strange. You love someone, but something is pulling you away from them at the same time. Your love becomes a great source of conflict you can't talk about, so you build up this horrible dichotomy in you; either endure what you cannot endure, or leave and be alone without your loved one. I think cheating in a lot of instances is a way to find a happy medium; you can give your partner your best while also enduring her worst. Not to say it isn't misguided or inappropriate, but I think…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 05:04 PM
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Ah fuck, I have an avoidant attachment style
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 02:55 PM
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Men have less options by virtue of not being the selectors. Therefore, the quality of women is more difficult to control.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 05:15 PM
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Murder is sexy. Gotcha.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 03:18 PM
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Willingness to kill others makes you sexy, apparently
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 03:16 PM
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Nah. He's saying men aren't allowed to have negative traits and women are, basically.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 03:13 PM
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It's a man being jealous of women having easy access to options, period. No matter what her circumstance is.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 03:09 PM
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Telling someone to go be gay is in bad faith. Obviously
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 03:03 PM
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A common theme from the women here today is 'Gender roles foe thee, but not for me'.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 03:02 PM
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Women are incapable of being abusers as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 02:59 PM
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Something something gender roles
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 02:57 PM
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Meh
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 02:32 PM
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Something something gender roles
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 02:23 PM
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Why would I want to go on a date with anyone that hates men
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 02:13 PM
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A Chad will entertain a number waaaaay lower than a 10/10 woman would.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 01:54 PM
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What point?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 01:47 PM
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If I'm poor enough, yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 01:43 PM
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Even in pro-choice areas, if she insists in keeping it, then she can sue for child support. I think I would legit jump off a building if that happened
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 01:38 PM
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Oh. Well just tell her to get an abortion, problem solved
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 01:31 PM
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explain that a man not financially supporting the child he conceived Men are conceiving children now?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 01:26 PM
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So the autistic man was functioning at a high enough level to get women. wow who would have thought
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 01:13 PM
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What is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 12:29 PM
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Hatefucking is for psychos ngl 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 12:26 PM
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Minigame: Let's count how many times 'Dad bod' is used in the replies.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 12:15 PM
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I genuinely feel bad for autistic guys. Women already run away from them, and now they have to get experience talking with them just to get on everyone else's ground floor starting area.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 11:07 AM
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They should be getting a 'he might beat the shit out of me one day' vibe
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 10:45 AM
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If these nerds were able to create interstellar travel then their pussy game must be weak as hell
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 01:52 AM
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Kinda like the women that expect their man to only have eyes for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 09:43 PM
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Are you asking ugly people to just out themselves?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 09:42 PM
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See? Feminism was never about equality. It was about power acquisition and putting men down
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 07:36 PM
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I still think it's a symptom. Losers aren't having women friends and they still end up dateless. Mixed group friends are more well adjusted people. Women don't tolerate spergy men
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 07:25 PM
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You're saying people don't date in high school?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 07:15 PM
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I'm talking about during the selection process, not fluctuating attraction in an LTR
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 06:45 PM
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Q4All: How true is the statement "If your partner isn't lusting after you, you're being settled for"?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 06:35 PM
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Well yeah, a woman wont be friends with a lower tier man at that age. This mixed gender group is a symptom of success, not a cause.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 06:26 PM
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Well I imagine every woman has at least one exception to the rule
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 06:25 PM
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Lol cmon now, this is getting silly If you can't explain how the attraction is different yet equal, then you're just being disingenuous.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 05:56 PM
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Even if the degree of attraction is different, it doesn't make her attraction for her boyfriend any less real. Different's a funny way of spelling lesser than.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 05:48 PM
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Literally what I experienced dating Don't know what to tell you
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 05:25 PM
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Women here will say that most men in their day to day are sexless NPC blobs. They are not attracted to the vast majority of men, only a small minority; the best men. This 'all or nothing' thinking develops when men see what they see in the dating market; ravenous lust for the few, lukewarm passivity for you. It doesn't just arrive out of thin air, it's what things are like for a man. You're simply using extreme hyperbole to make your stance more credible, but women are much more capricious in th…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 05:10 PM
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Lol it happens Sometimes you catch others in a bitch mood, and sometimes you're the bitch
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 04:47 PM
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I bet you'd love it if your spouse simply settled for you, never really found you attractive and slowly dialed back the sexuality in the relationship as it went on. Men see how women really act like around people they're actually attracted to and it's frankly depressing.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 04:42 PM
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I finally started dropping weight since i started exercising a month ago. Down 4 pounds now.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 11:32 AM
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We don't give a shit about the hypergamy aspect. We do give a shit about women grabbing our cash by the fistful and running out the door
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 09:41 PM
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Lmao it's what your goofy ass woulda done God bless women enforced gender norms
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 09:27 PM
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All I'm hearing is women will abuse the legal system to rob your ass blind, so always make her sign a pre nup.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 09:26 PM
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Lmao he was burning the women on Bumble and you took offense to that, eh?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 09:22 PM
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So what should he have done? Yelled back? Take off his shirt and flex his alpha male muscles?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 09:03 PM
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So the moral here is don't marry poor women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 08:57 PM
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The difference is one affects lifestyle during the relationship, the other is getting fuckin robbed after she leaves it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 08:50 PM
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You gotta admit RP has its fair share of gender role affirming dudebros playing off of male insecurity
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 08:48 PM
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So the moral here is don't marry poor girls?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 08:47 PM
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That ol chestnut of non Chad's being viewed as sexless NPC blobs. That's always a PPD classic hit
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 08:26 PM
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Damn, ruthless
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 08:12 PM
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Q4W: what is the most insignificant, petty thing a man has done to disqualify himself as a potential partner in your eyes?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 08:06 PM
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Yeah, I don't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 07:59 PM
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So you want misandrists
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 07:46 PM
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Did they unveil a sex doll yet
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 07:00 PM
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Easy, they don't consider non elite men to be people.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 06:50 PM
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any dick will illicit feelings and preferences, those are just extreme examples.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 06:12 PM
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I'm sure if you get your cervix punched hard enough by a whopper or feel nothing with an acorn, you'll figure out what you don't want quick enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 05:48 PM
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Wouldn't it only take one size you're not a fan of to develop a preference?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 05:38 PM
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If close to 100% of all breeding is hetero by its very nature, then why would gay people exist at all
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 04:42 PM
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That is strictly impulse control, not budgeting. Run far away from anyone like that
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 04:30 PM
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That's not how homosexuality works
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 04:28 PM
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Well, for your information, people fall in love due to a chemical reaction in their brains that compels them to breed and pair bond. It's nothing special, sweetie.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 04:21 PM
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I'm not saying otherwise. I'm at least self aware enough for that. I'm also self aware enough to be petty on a subforum
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 03:49 PM
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Listen, you kept insisting on having the last word, and I took that personally
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 03:46 PM
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I think getting unsolicited, bad advice in a condescending, smarmy tone has gotta be up there on PPD experiences
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 03:42 PM
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Sounds like your conscience is speaking up 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 03:38 PM
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Scale.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 02:47 PM
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That's not what I said, is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 02:44 PM
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I know it's counterproductive, but being her personal lapdog isn't doing it either so it's like wtf
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 02:40 PM
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That's such a relatable mood though. Sometimes you just get machine gunned with Honey Do's all day, meanwhile she hasn't touched you in a month
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 02:36 PM
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Coulda fooled me
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 02:33 PM
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You'd think so, wouldn't you
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 02:18 PM
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The trick is they have to be horny for you
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 02:13 PM
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Who cares, we're all going to die anyway. Same difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 02:04 PM
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Suppose free will is overrated then. Who knew
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 01:59 PM
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Is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 01:58 PM
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Sell your soul for some pussy, I suppose
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 01:55 PM
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Either be a slave to your comfort zone or a slave to everyone else's expectations. There's no winning.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 01:52 PM
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I feel like men have done a much better job emphasizing with women in these past 10-15 years than ever before, but women haven't really returned the favor.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 11:53 AM
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He completely bailed on the moral argument and just want 'big pharma bad' and 'me no like taxes'. Nothing inter3sting to rebut my guy
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 12:29 AM
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Funny how the right only cares about big corporations profiteering and the evidence of science when it's being wielded against a minority group 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 10:55 PM
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So if we raise the age of gender affirming surgery to 18, all of this huffing and puffing goes away?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 10:45 PM
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So the survival group is whiny men and overbearing, aggressive women Save a shotgun shell for me
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 10:37 PM
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Gender affirming surgery for children is incredibly rare, the right just uses it as a point of contention because it's a easy win. Sleazy tactics as usual
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 10:36 PM
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If the women consent to the fights, why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 10:21 PM
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Freak nasty
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 10:20 PM
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If girls don't check the throne for traps yall deserve to get dunked like a cookie in milk
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 09:49 PM
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Hey, pastas straight till it gets wet enough 😘😜
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 11:54 PM
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Could you?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 10:03 PM
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Imagine how many men would choose to be single if they knew they could get pussy like women can get dick, lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 09:20 PM
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Are you hitting on me
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 09:05 PM
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Move to North Dakota, where the only thing lower than their GDP is their standards
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 09:05 PM
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Nothing like a good spitroast
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 09:02 PM
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No, the person who says DURRR is the one that looks stupid, not the person they're trying to represent
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 12:03 PM
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Just sounds like someone scared of their own emotions
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 11:57 AM
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What did I tell you about using DURRR to get your point across?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 11:56 AM
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The difference is any girl can nail a Chad
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 08:11 PM
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Male prostitute
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 08:08 PM
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Lmao nice profile
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 08:03 PM
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The games are fun to go to, but I can't sit through watching a game on TV for the life of me
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 08:00 PM
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🤐
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 07:59 PM
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It's a divine sign to tell you not to waste your life on sportsball
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 07:49 PM
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Hey, if it works. Sometimes I have to internally scream at myself to get shit done
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 07:42 PM
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Rather not say. But it's a dumb limbo between white and blue collar
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 07:42 PM
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Nah. Basically everyone here is stir crazy rn And I'm turning over every rock for shit to do, believe me
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 07:38 PM
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Too much free time at work. AMA
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 07:33 PM
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reactionary There's a reason why people consider this a negative. Cause it dumb as hell
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 07:28 PM
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Is there anything Chad can't do
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 07:21 PM
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Every girl dreams of nailing Chad 🌠
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 07:15 PM
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You were born into this world with nothing, and you'll leave this world with nothing. You have literally nothing to lose, everything you do is profit. Just do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 07:14 PM
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Yeah, that and your haircut/facial hair situation. Don't forget a nice scent too.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 06:58 PM
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That stuff is silly though. The only thing I would have in common with those men is a set of genitals. Taking pride in accomplishments you didn't do is ick
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 06:53 PM
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What about clothes? Do you look like you earn 6 figures when you go out?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 06:51 PM
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Wtf are you doing man Invest that money in your body and wardrobe
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 06:44 PM
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That's the whole crux of the issue. Rainbow branding = hissy fit
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 06:40 PM
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I don't fuckin know, I had to read it 6 times and apparently I still got it wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 06:24 PM
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Probably not. 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 05:55 PM
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Still rooted in homophobia regardless. I can recognize that corporations are trying to cash in without being so sensitive that I throw a hissy fit about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 05:48 PM
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She's saying the fact that he's playing video games turns her on, not anything about just not caring. Silly shit
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 05:43 PM
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This is still wildly divorced from mainstream reality
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 05:40 PM
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Just wear a rubber ass, who gives a shit
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 05:34 PM
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Meh. I'd still be ok with just denouncing it
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 05:15 PM
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Lol that came across more aggressive than I meant it to
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 05:14 PM
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It was a q4w Its pretty damn obvious what turns dudes on
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 05:09 PM
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Honestly I think that would be considered more shameful than being recorded having sex
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 05:07 PM
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Pff, men don't care
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 05:02 PM
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If you know what you're doing the odds of pregnancy are incredibly low.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 04:40 PM
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Still scary though. I wonder if there were other symptoms that were simply overlooked during pregnancy
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 04:32 PM
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I don't understand, can't you tell when you stop having you period? Wth
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 04:26 PM
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Q4W: what's the number one thing your partner does/can do to get you in the mood? Bonus points for simplicity
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 04:08 PM
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Why? Marriage is just a piece of paper. And if a couple is together just because they have to and it's a pain in the ass to separate, is that really a good relationship to begin with?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 03:35 PM
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Well, some women have to settle
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 01:02 AM
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It's a ceremony more for your parents than for you
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 01:01 AM
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I mean, I don't wholly disagree. But her superficial preferences will affect whether or not you can "be attractive" and her interests will affect how effectively you can "be interesting." That's a part of controlling what you can and leaving behind what you can't. Women will still want all of those qualities, it's whether you fit the bill in her head.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 10:13 PM
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Bitch look for yourself, I'm pretty sure i got banned for ripping into it
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 09:58 PM
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Dunno. But it was definitely more of a free for all.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 09:47 PM
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Honestly the discord is basically that, last i checked
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 09:41 PM
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It's called an observation, lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 09:41 PM
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They don't have enough. Acquiring all of that is the challenge.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 09:30 PM
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My advice is to devote your time in college to find people with shared interests and work on your social skills. That should be your number one priority. Hopefully everything will fall into place a little easier after that
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 09:25 PM
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Ok, I'm going to share with you the magic formula to attract any woman you want*. You ready? -Be attractive -Be confident -Be funny -Pay for everything -Be interesting/interested Bada Bing bada boom, you can now attract nearly anyone you want. The only variables are the things you can't control, like her superficial preferences and shared interests.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 09:21 PM
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Wait til purge
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 09:02 PM
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What women find attractive is by and large the same. A cluster of 2 dozen or so qualities, that men either do or don't have control over, in variance from woman to woman. So, men should control for all qualities they can search for. Ergo, the 'all women are the same' sentiment.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 09:00 PM
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So that would make you a high schooler? 18?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 08:49 PM
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I've found that the sooner I accepted the things I couldn't change about myself, the quicker I can move on to the things I could change. Know what I'm sayin?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 08:49 PM
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Depends on the term crush. If its just following my genitals, I crush on so many women. If they're in my daily routine, average girls will have a higher chance of getting crushed on. But these crushes are nothing more than passing fancies, nothing to hang a hat on. Actual, emotional, I Love You crushes? Only a few of those, and those stopped in my mid 20s. Life experience put and end to that shit real quick.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 08:45 PM
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What's stopping you from working on your social skills and appearance?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 08:38 PM
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What do you think contributes to you being an incl?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 08:31 PM
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People prefer monogamy, on the whole. They get hurt when their partner isn't monogamous while they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 08:30 PM
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No content incels either, amirite Badum tshhhh
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 08:27 PM
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They don't care, so I don't care. All I can do is wait for them to downsize me whenever they see fjt
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 08:15 PM
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My bosses have said maybe one thing in relation to my job performance, and it was when I was screwing something up that couldn't be ignored. I don't think they see me as human
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 08:08 PM
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Anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 08:03 PM
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Alright then, what's your B count?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 07:30 PM
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What's your N count
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 07:17 PM
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That's not a question
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 06:50 PM
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I don't care what anyone says, horseradish is lit
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 05:36 PM
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You're disguising bitching people out as advice. It's disingenuous.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 04:50 PM
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Through the powers of observation, of course
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 11:34 PM
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Keeping humanity in the garbage can for millenia upon millenia
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 09:48 PM
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Spoilers, in the long run no amount of success you achieve will actually matter anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 09:21 PM
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But why? Just because animals are compelled to do so?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 09:02 PM
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Meh. Still basic af
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 08:56 PM
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But the biological perspective is for dopes who have nothing better going on. Our intelligence gifts us with so much raw potential and beauty, and if your big contribution was squirting goo into a womb then why even bother?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 08:45 PM
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Passing genes is a dumb metric of success anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 08:34 PM
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Doesn't seem all that necessary tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 08:08 PM
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Don't think it'd make a difference
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 08:04 PM
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Maybe you should run a poll on the sub and see for yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 08:00 PM
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Meh. I'd rather have the Leo package
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 07:56 PM
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Dog, he fucks whoever he wants and is rich beyond words
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 07:49 PM
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You're being over the top confrontational for no reason other than showmanship. I told you what my definition of what a fetus was. I did not say I supported abortions until date of birth, you're making that mental leap to make your own position stronger. It's still a fetus, I just think 3rd trimester abortions are unnecessary.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 07:29 PM
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Literally not what I said. Any of that. If the baby can survive outside of the womb, it ceases being a fetus. I'm not even going to entertain most of the ridiculous things you've said because you're being silly to make a point. I found banning 3rd trimester abortions to be an acceptable compromise, but apparently that wasn't good enough
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 07:11 PM
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When it leaves the womb. Easiest way to define it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 06:56 PM
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I bet he touched you with that hand Unacceptable
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 06:47 PM
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Basically, yeah. I wanted more tangible ways to track my progress.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 06:23 PM
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If you shrunk right now you'd be able to pinpoint those benefits real quick
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 05:59 PM
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dont hang with awful bitches who laugh at men being vulnerable, hate on short guys, No, it's just quiet disgust
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 05:56 PM
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You still reap the social benefits of height/boobs
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 05:49 PM
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Where did you get this definition from? Common sense, lmao Fetuses are called fetuses and not babies or people because they are distinct entities. By definition, they are not people. The fact is, being anti abortion means compelling birth, which is a fucked up, disgusting practice. I don't care if there's some pedantic dictionary definition that gets in the way, it's still fucked up.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 05:23 PM
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Exactly. Humans have the capability to live outside of an embryonic sac. Fetuses can't. Therefore...
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 05:12 PM
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Still not a person.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 05:10 PM
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Ok, cool. Fetuses still aren't people.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 05:07 PM
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Fetuses aren't people
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 05:03 PM
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Eh. Evolution is perfectly happy with letting 'defectives' die off. Not terribly practical for everyday people.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 04:07 PM
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That's probably why people do it in the first place, I guess I wasn't putting much thought into why I was taking the pictures at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 04:06 PM
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Insecurity can be equally as crippling as it is helpful, that's the issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 04:00 PM
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I took shirtless photos for body comparisons in the months to come after working out, and now I just have this fat guy in my picture previews that I have to look at all day
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 03:56 PM
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Ugh, that's so disrespectful no matter who it is. Somebody needed to reign the side chatter in.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 03:56 PM
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The true Podcaster Pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 03:22 PM
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Internalizing that being shorter requires more effort to compensate on your part, while simultaneously not becoming bitter or insecure, is a tough tightrope to cross sometimes. All it could take is one bad day to nosedive straight into despair, and all you can do is take some deep breaths, sit up, dust yourself off and stand back up to try again.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 03:19 PM
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Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 02:06 PM
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Why is that? Aren't female lives worth protecting over male lives?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 02:04 PM
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Would you call yourself a female supremacist?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 02:00 PM
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Give it 10 years, leg lengthening will be mandatory 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 01:53 PM
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Clearly it's going great already.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 01:51 PM
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Alright, well ignore the problem and see how that shakes out for you
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 01:48 PM
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Gotta take the bad with the good. If we just ignore them, they'll all become bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 01:46 PM
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Woman recognizes beauty standards being toxic, instead of advocating lowering the beauty standars endorses men to undergo risky life altering surgery in the name of equality Feminism, everyone
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 01:41 PM
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When you start out dating, part of the process is just an up and down frank appraisal of what kind of resources they can extract. Is it everything? No. But it is a core aspect of LTRs.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 06:00 PM
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My point was that every quality a woman selects for in a man is for her own benefit, not some magical affirmation about how wonderful you are as a person. It's just self servicing, nothing more, nothing less.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 04:51 PM
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You didn't address my point at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 02:27 PM
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Women only give a shit about personal accomplishments and cool hobbies as for for as it serves them. The men in their life is reduced to a money dispenser and status symbol. So you're not missing much.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 02:24 PM
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