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Any man that gropes ten and twelve year old girls on television loses my vote. Biden is scum. They all are at that level so kill your hero worship if you have it.
/r/MensRights06/05/20 06:56 AM
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I try to ignore bad or casual grammar and spelling these days, but holy hell that comment was a disgrace. It was painful to read. "People like you" comments do not advance discussions, they derail and annoy. "You're wrong" comments without detail are useless too. Stay in school.
/r/MensRights12/04/20 12:52 PM
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Don't get trapped in a false dichotomy. There are always more options. The whole world is not like your ex.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/20 05:34 PM
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Love exists. There's a big range out there of beliefs and values. Your pain will slowly fade. Not all of us are looking for nothing but sex partners.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/20 05:33 PM
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No, they are not all selfish liars. There are feminists saying the same shit about all men. I'm not sure what your backing is on every culture saying don't trust women. There's the feminism that's basically egalitarianism which is about mutual respect and rights. That's pretty much gone. Instead you have the 'men are the devil' and 'men and women are interchangeable camps. The truly nutter SJWs are in both camps while pretending to be egalitarian and the cognitive dissonance is audible.
/r/MensRights18/03/20 07:41 PM
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Help people with reduced opportunities! It should be more simple. The rich girls will be fine one way or the other. They will get sent to a fancy college and end up with a solid income with or without the camp. Sending a poor person, male or female, could be the only shot they have. I am a man that works in a female majority profession (like 95%+) . Still waiting for my hand up and my parade, and the tearful campaign to encourage males into this line of work. My bosses have almost all been women…
/r/MensRights18/03/20 03:31 PM
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A Karen at the grocery store couldn't understand why I was stocking up on bottled water at $3 a case. It was like a legitimate mystery to her. This is in a coronavirus risk area by the way. Just took everything for granted, it was unbelievable.
/r/MensRights06/03/20 07:02 PM
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"If you were me... you'd be good lookin.' "
/r/TheRedPill04/03/20 10:57 PM
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No that's not the definition.
/r/TheRedPill29/02/20 10:54 PM
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Calling something a conspiracy theory is practically meaningless now. Real conspiracies happen constantly on a small scale and the big ones are ongoing. If you think gangs, corruption, making secret plans, crime, and people lying are all made up, carry on. Otherwise knock it off.
/r/TheRedPill29/02/20 04:55 PM
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Thanks for the details. Transparency is good. If you allow hot potato subjects like the one you mention, critics get more ammo for their smears and rants. Tricky balance sometimes.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/20 07:29 PM
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I swear to gosh, design and functionality are getting worse.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/20 05:52 AM
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I think 'they' killed him
/r/TheRedPill28/02/20 05:48 AM
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Main feedback from me is keep drama and bickering off the main feed, if that's what is front and center. I don't necessarily mean setting a policy, more about setting a tone. I suggest a more self help angle, less focus on manipulation or being in a bad boy's club. I hope you find this constructive. I wouldn't bother typing this f I didn't want the site to grow. Are you going for a niche or a wide audience? Is a feature for your preference or the customer's preference? What might drive people aw…
/r/TheRedPill28/02/20 05:45 AM
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You did describe the US Government though, most governments really. The Nazis did their mass killings outside the country too.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/20 05:36 AM
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The Federal Government is a prop for the banking system
/r/TheRedPill28/02/20 05:33 AM
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Maybe this was the plan all along, just like how ads crept in. Thought control isn't just a cliche, it's a business.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/20 05:30 AM
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Don't be too proud of not helping.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/20 05:29 AM
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I agree, you make some excellent points. The social credit system is incremental. There was a day back in history when there was no such thing as a credit score, and another day before social media. Nudging is the right way to understand what's happening. The people you are talking about make plans decades in advance. There are adjustments and complications of course. For the average person struggling to pay attention for more than a few minutes, generational planning is alien thinking. Combine …
/r/TheRedPill28/02/20 05:26 AM
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"No one will fuck you if you call us out" is the implied threat. "We speak for all women so don't offend us."
/r/TheRedPill28/02/20 05:11 AM
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Posting 2/27/2020. Something is seriously wrong. My little post from this morning has no upvotes or comments. That's fine by me, whatever. The point is that little post with no attention is still sitting at the top of TRP. Top of hot, new, whatever. Simply because there aren't any other posts! And from two days back there are a bunch labeled (repost). Very little else. In a sub with ONE POINT SEVEN MILLION subscribers. I know subs less than half the size that are busy all day and all night with …
/r/TheRedPill28/02/20 04:57 AM
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Moral hazard and strictly out of bounds without full agreement. It's betrayal of someone who is supposed to come first, wounding at a deep level. You can't talk about morals on RedPill! Which I have a problem with. Guys talk about "enjoying the decline" in the process of adding to it. This is juvenile avoidance of responsibility while breaking hearts, lying, emotionally traumatizng. We talk about men and women are different, women are sensitive, then an "RP" believer and his,bros pumps and dumps…
/r/TheRedPill26/02/20 06:11 PM
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The referee was watching him closely
/r/MensRights24/02/20 06:29 AM
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The face that sailed a thousand simps
/r/MensRights24/02/20 06:23 AM
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Sexual assault, then battery, then you legally defended yourself. Call the media if the university is being crazy.
/r/MensRights24/02/20 02:36 AM
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/r/theredpill Stop focusing on crazy people wrecking shit and build your life up. Other people will want to come aling for the ride.
/r/MensRights19/02/20 01:08 PM
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OMG teenagers ground rails at a skate park. What is the world coming to?
/r/MensRights19/02/20 12:49 PM
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Thank you for more fully exploring these concepts instead of just repeating slogans like DGaF. This is useful material.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/20 01:39 AM
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Some gentlenen do
/r/MensRights14/01/20 11:05 AM
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Circumcision is big business. Something like a billion dollar industry by now. Remember the uproar over toddler ear piercings? Yet no concern over cosmetic infant genital surgery. It's beyond strange especially how hospitals hover around new parents like you have an extra plate of tater tots, trying to get a piece of your baby's penis. 'To sell. 'Don't you want to surgically alter your newborn son to look more like you?' Like wtf , yes it is fucking weird. FGM is usually much worse but boys have…
/r/MensRights10/01/20 09:13 PM
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My infant's body, my choice... Hmmm doesn't have the same ring to it.
/r/MensRights10/01/20 09:10 PM
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You lost everything except: yourself. Congratulations on hanging on through the worst and getting some upward momentum going.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/20 12:36 PM
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In my opinion, those particular agenda items would have been pushed through regardless of public support and votes.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/20 12:34 PM
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no one will have sex with you ever unless you publically support our beliefs It's just a bluff, guys. But you can still damage your reputation by arguing in the wrong ways. Experiences online style can affect your real life too. It's more masculine to maintain your beliefs without getting angry. By insulting you give up your dignity for the moment.
/r/MensRights08/01/20 11:48 PM
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Control. It's punishment for disagreeing with dogma or defending yourself. Social media encourages this behavior the most. The implication is that feminists hold the keys to pussy and hand them out to good little boys who behave and believe. Naughty boys get made fun of by the herd. If anything the opposite is true in practice since openly feminist men have a harder time being attractive in general. Women are attracted to masculinity not conformity.
/r/MensRights08/01/20 09:34 PM
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I secretly like kittens dawwww I'm having a lot of trouble in my life right now crickets
/r/MensRights08/01/20 09:15 PM
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The silver lining is you need a gold wrapper
/r/MensRights08/01/20 09:11 PM
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People embrace feminism for fear of offending, wanting to protect and please women, and not be rejected by the crowd. They have good slogans and PR, and elite support including the school curriculum. Feminists fear losing support and an open fair debate based on reason and facts is not their strong suit. RP encourages bravery and honest self reflection. The oligarchs do not want brave, honest, self disciplined people that could become rivals or disrupt their plans. They like fear, crowd psycholo…
/r/TheRedPill13/11/19 01:58 PM
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Fuck up your mind and your life will follow. Our culture is failing due to a lack of self discipline. And we fail ourselves without it.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/19 01:51 PM
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You know it would be a different story in the comments with a slutty disrespectful cunt of a husband humilating his poor wife in front of family
/r/TheRedPill13/11/19 01:47 PM
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Like it or not, you have to enforce LTR boundaries to stay in the LTR. Women be testin'. I had to jettison potential new friends several times for trying to step in. Good riddance though, if they won't respect your relationship they will not be a good friend.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/19 01:43 PM
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{Heretic Detected} {Initiate Protect Feels Protocol}
/r/TheRedPill13/11/19 01:36 PM
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Uber passenger rating: two stars Wifey rating: one star Marriage is over, pack it up. Poor schmuck. Most ethical person he knows, sure. Maybe one face looks ethical? The other face looks like Skeletor.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/19 01:30 PM
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Excellent comment. My life experience supports this. After years of rejection and bad relationships I finally hit rock bottom and decided to turn it around. Six months later, once I realized I literally had a date every other night, then ended up with two (full knowledge) girlfriends at once from that, it was a turning point. I had arrived, the itch was scratched, and I was okay settling down again. Drama happened, two partners became one LTR, then flip flopped who I stayed with... it was diffic…
/r/TheRedPill10/11/19 08:05 PM
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It really is about half what you carry and half how you carry it. There is something to be said for bulk as long as it's not the dreaded skinnyfat or potato show. If you look like you can win on the wrestling mats you can win a woman's lust.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/19 07:50 PM
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Hey no worries, never too late to start as they say. 25, you are in your physical prime so go for it.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/19 07:47 PM
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"my sophistry is logically right" Lol no, sophistry is rhetoric without logic. Like insulting people who disagree and point out flaws in your argument.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/19 12:41 AM
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Men can all understand the concept of nice hair, nice tits, nice legs, nice ass etc. on a woman. There's a broadly upheld general standard of appearance. Some men are baffled when those standards are turned on them. It's really not that complicated, but I do find value in breaking down why it works the way it does. Women are drawn to men's secondary sexual characteristics (just as we are to theirs.) Beards, deep voices, height, broad shoulders, muscles, package. They signal: this person is a mal…
/r/TheRedPill06/08/19 06:55 PM
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In the UFC a heavyweight fighter named Roy "Big Country" Nelson reportedly pissed off CEO Dana White for having a BIG OL' GUT and still winning his fights. That dude isn't the best ever but he knew how to maximize his bodyweight with both punches and grappling. 250+ lbs of hefty human laying on you is no joke. There are techniques involved as well but even just immobile mass on your chest makes your breathing very inefficient. Out of breath, and you're out of the fight.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/19 06:40 PM
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That wouldn't really be the place to discuss specific hobbies. The main point is not to stereotype or demonize large amounts of people as if they are one individual.
/r/MensRights05/08/19 11:16 PM
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You're not pure enough to have an opinion I guess.
/r/MensRights05/08/19 09:53 PM
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Haven't you heard, quietly working on hobbies is a threat now. Let me tell you about who you are! /s
/r/MensRights05/08/19 09:50 PM
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How dare you advocate rights for more than one gender! Haven't you heard about equality?
/r/MensRights05/08/19 09:49 PM
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Getting jobs these days is largely about acting enthusiastic about the position and company. Women want to earn your enthusiasm, or at least don't want it right away since it seems false, desperate, or needy. Both circumstances require confidence and not admitting weakness. But they're not the same.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/19 12:28 AM
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I do think shelter is a right, yeah. If you take away the right to homestead, upheld by state violence then you need to provide an alternative. There's more houses sitting empty than homeless people. Lots of other empty buildings too. Owing land you inherited and have never even seen is a very old scam on all of us. It's not like the building contractors are all filthy rich. It's the banks and big landowners. A hundred families or so control half the world's wealth and we throw away half our foi…
/r/MensRights13/07/19 12:03 PM
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Let's not get carried away lol. If you think a podcast pastor is objectively better than a real church experience, I doubt you understand religion. Kinda sounds like a "It's the latest new app" get rich quick scheme.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/19 01:27 AM
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You're advising people to do longterm damage to women so they can get off and feel an ego rush? How about no.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/19 01:17 AM
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They really don't. They like power, not the evil and manipulative methods some people choose to use like little scheming bitches.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/19 07:37 PM
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I went on a dinner date once that seemed to be going well in the conversation but there was a lack of chemistry. She straight up told me at the end she loved my confidence and might have been 'interested' but was at a low sex drive point in her monthly cycle. I don't think it was just a madeup excuse. Some women are consciously aware of their patterns.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/19 05:31 PM
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Mind = blown
/r/MensRights20/06/19 04:13 PM
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I am giving options. People can make their own choices.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/19 08:18 PM
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How dare you like pussy and have preferences
/r/TheRedPill18/06/19 12:18 AM
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We all start somewhere. Not everyone has amazing knees and joints or muscle tone. Gender is irrelavant here. This post is aimed more at beginners to intermediate level. I mentioned already the gym will give superior results and the free stuff won't take you to top level. I don't think every man needs to strive for a jacked body as a focus, but it is a great idea.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/19 12:17 AM
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Good idea. Pushups are grand but they aren't going to hit all those muscle groups properly. We can mix iy up with fist pushups though.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/19 12:14 AM
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Yeah some guys take it too far and feel like they have to be King Chad Alpha or be a failure. That smells like narcissistic ego to me. They talk about evolutionary psychology but refuse to have families. They talk shit about broken women and sluts on the CC while trying their best to take advantage of any sexual opportunity. There are people with no empathy or integrity giving advice for life when they really only know game, fitness, and career.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/19 09:07 PM
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"Be gay on demand or you're a bad person."
/r/TheRedPill17/06/19 06:48 PM
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Much better. The other post was a lot of "play mindgames with women, but be better at it then rhey are" which is not really conventional masculinity. This post is more about frame and setting goals. Women want a badass but also authenticity based on core principles.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/19 06:47 PM
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Men create assholes out of themselves and find or twist an ideology to match. Ok it's not really that simple and cultures encourage behavior. I'm just saying not to blame a website or book for our actions. RP or anything else can get a bit culty and there are rules here what we can criticize. You're right to take ideas with a grain of salt. Advice that works for one man fizzles for another. Sorry to hear about your situation. At least you are learning from it.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/19 06:34 PM
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Hey if someone has the money and will actually use the membership it's a great idea. Doubly so for sports and fight training. My main point was that you don't need much to get started. Overcoming inertia is hard so I wanted to bust some of the rationalization hamsters. Your advice is solid even if it's not always easy to follow.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/19 06:28 PM
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Saving money is delusional, TIL
/r/TheRedPill17/06/19 06:24 PM
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Yeah if there was one purchase to make I would tell guys to get a pair in the 15 to 30 pound range. Very versatile.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/19 06:22 PM
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Am I allowed to say honk or is that illegal hate speech
/r/TheRedPill17/06/19 06:19 PM
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Older guys do fine provided they actually do the work required. It's older women that have less options.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/19 06:18 PM
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This post has too much of: "here's a female mind-game that men should play" Male humans don't have more intrinsic value than female humans.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/19 05:57 PM
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"thinking that the stuff that they consume is what defines their personality, rather than the stuff they produce?" That's such a good point and highlights what's wrong with selfish modern society.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/19 05:31 PM
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Well... she turned me into a newt! 'A newt?' I got better...
/r/MensRights10/06/19 11:01 PM
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Eradicating extremists is extremist "Death to all fanatics!"
/r/MensRights10/06/19 10:57 PM
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Meanwhile Sexy Steve Strongjaw has sexy crabs with strong claws.
/r/MensRights10/06/19 10:43 PM
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For half the price of a convention ticket I will forward you all the sidebar material.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/19 01:52 PM
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Yeah I guess we should troll the internet like you instead of sitting in front of screens required to access the internet
/r/TheRedPill26/05/19 12:17 AM
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All true alphas agree with my political opinions
/r/TheRedPill26/05/19 12:15 AM
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Roosh has probably slept with more women than you've ever met, that's hilarious trying to call him an incel. Good to know politicians aren't to blame for anything? /s
/r/TheRedPill26/05/19 12:12 AM
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Ok please watch the Batwomen show trailer if you dare. If you can survive the cringe you will see the classic character that built the franchise being torn down and a clear agenda. Maybe it's 100% a profit grab to tell the core fanbase to fuck off but I doubt it. To be fair there is a core CW network demographic. Maybe they love tearing down icons and then complaining about not getting all the credit.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/19 09:33 PM
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So morals and prudent decisions look like weakness to you? WTF is that?
/r/TheRedPill25/05/19 02:36 AM
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That pattern is visible in comics, in Star Wars, and other media. I have heard the theory that pop culture is being made worse on purpose to fuel dissatisfaction and add fuel to the fire of culture wars. Fanboys are an easy nest to rile especially with the childhood hero attachment to these role model characters. The movies don't just suck, they spit on the beloved characters that built the franchise.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/19 11:56 AM
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Build your own domain. ​ The system is designed to extract financial and emotional energy from us as efficiently as it can. Big Brother doesn't really care about your problems, guys. We need to organize in the real world and make stuff.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/19 11:50 AM
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Good point about the point
/r/TheRedPill21/05/19 11:40 AM
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'Why destroy what you can steal?' Subversion is both method and message here.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/19 10:16 AM
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It's not a boy's treehouse and there are no secrets. The general point is that you're taking a risk explaining your strategies while in the process of using them. I talk about it anyway since I talk about everything, whatever I want. There's consequences for that choice just like their are consequences for silence. Human relationships don't need to be based on battle tactics. On the other hand, if you never think about goals and methods you aren't really leading.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/19 10:13 AM
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When you put it that way, it's pretty embarrassing. I expect any MRA or RP talking point to be met with the usual accusations of prejudice. Now critics can just point to this 21 event and say it's all incoherent. Men want to feel smart and strong and sexy. Will they do the work to make that happen? Or will they attach themselves to contradictory drivel and E-list celebrities? This is going to cause confusion.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/19 10:07 AM
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In the animal world the defiant masculinity comes from the banished juveniles and other challengers to the alpha. The alpha doesn't defy, because he is the authority in his realm. (I'm aware not all animals have this kind of system) We see defiant young people all the time. It's part of the differentiation process in a healthy family as a child learns about their own power and identity. When things go wrong that attitude of defiance and confrontation can continue for a very long time and be misa…
/r/TheRedPill21/05/19 09:53 AM
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Anyone who pays that much to be told what to think is a mark. They run this same trick in every college. If you pay for training, it should be about making something useful, not what to believe. You can read and introspect on your own time. When you pay for information, you have just invited in a sunk-cost fallacy and now need to defend your overpriced beliefs. What we really need are real life sustainable communities, not an expensive weekend of hot air.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/19 09:44 AM
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Shit, for $20 I would be happy to tell someone how they're fucking up
/r/TheRedPill21/05/19 09:38 AM
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Are you telling me I can't buy masculinity at the mall?
/r/TheRedPill21/05/19 09:37 AM
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Logic and critical thinking. If nothing else, know the definition of a valid argument and the more common fallacies.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/19 09:36 AM
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"I am too hardcore" says it all
/r/TheRedPill21/05/19 09:12 AM
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So if I look at stats and group A scores 10% higher on average at something, is it bigoted to believe that data? If I say 'black people are taller than asian people' (on average) or 'men are taller than women' are those hateful statements? I have said for decades that applying a fact or idea about a large group to an individual is a type of fallacy. But that doesn't stop patterns and tendencies from being real when you change the scale. Depending on you phrase it, I don't see the problem logical…
/r/MensRights20/05/19 08:00 PM
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More pushing of an amoral, anti-family culture of selfish hedonism and insecurity. By all means, go out and have fun, but there's no need to cruelly betray friends and lovers.
/r/MensRights18/05/19 08:48 PM
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Marvel has been pushing the whole Captain Marvel agitation agenda. I don't think it's just about making money.
/r/MensRights18/05/19 08:44 PM
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A comic book show isn't meant for you so no one can criticize it including lifelong Batman fans.
/r/MensRights18/05/19 08:43 PM
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Which is why our spirituality needs to move beyond shadows of ideas we have about temple legends and campfire stories in ancient times.
/r/MensRights17/05/19 07:18 AM
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School uniforms, military uniforms, work clothes, formal clothes. It's an epidemic. I know that sounds a little funny but it really is a widespread problem.
/r/MensRights17/05/19 07:16 AM
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Don't know Murray but Peterson and Shapiro seem fair minded enough to agree. Milo would say no just to be a dick and get a reaction.
/r/MensRights17/05/19 07:14 AM
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It's downright heroic to mass attack millions of people for being born the wrong way. Instigating feuds between categories of people is an expression of love and freedom. The perpetual 'underdog' can now do whatever they want until the end of time based on what categories they were born into. If people that look like you have power that means that you have that level of power too, right? And you're to blame for sharing characteristics with them, even if they're deceased. /s
/r/MensRights17/05/19 06:17 AM
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Insult to injury. That's really unfair and you have my sympathy. It's even worse coming from family. If there's any faint upside it's that you recognized it as wrong and still demonstrate confidence. Power and role are context dependent, I don't understand why that is such a difficult concept for people to grasp.
/r/MensRights17/05/19 05:44 AM
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As I was trying to say in another comment,my understanding is that prejudice is more about what expectations you have, racism is about who you hate, and bigotry is an expression of group hatred. It may seem like a quibble but to me it's an important difference. Prejudice is somewhat natural to our thinking since it is related to pattern recognition and basic functioning. If you're not prejudiced that tigers are dangerous, you might be lunch. Like it or not, being able to discern kin and tribe fr…
/r/MensRights17/05/19 05:41 AM
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As if Homeless Joe and CEO Jack share the same lifestyle and level of power because they look similar. It's plain idiocy.
/r/MensRights17/05/19 05:33 AM
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It's darkly hilarious when a transwoman smashes records in a female only league of sports. In MMA it's potentially dangerous. The same people that throw away biology books and say genders are interchangeable also say women are better, more deserving people.
/r/MensRights17/05/19 05:31 AM
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They would say a white man losing their job by not being PC enough, and getting evicted from their slumlord studio apartment to end up on the streets, has no right to complain about 'losing their privilege' to sleep in a bed.
/r/MensRights17/05/19 05:27 AM
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I would say what you described is prejudice, what makes it racism is loathing and hatred. If I look at statistics and make conclusions based on evidence, well it's not all equal numbers. If I calmly say white people score lower on test scores or make less money than Asians, it doesn't mean I'm racist against whites. If someone won't shut up about such things, or unfairly applies a generalization against an individual, then yeah, they're probably racist. For better or worse an element of prejudic…
/r/MensRights17/05/19 05:22 AM
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Stop oppressing everyone with your visible whiteness, you privileged honky! /s That's ridiculous and you have my sympathy. At least you know how to handle yourself. I get impatient around idiocy like that.
/r/MensRights17/05/19 05:19 AM
3

Well said. This is why I drifted away from the left wing. Angry, vengeful identity politics replaced class solidarity and simple ideas like opposing war and pollution. Lord knows I tried to fight it, but looking back it was a juggernaut powered by corporate money, dishonest academics and social engineering think thanks. So very liberal.
/r/MensRights17/05/19 05:15 AM
3

Probably on purpose. Political groups and ideologues will take a common sense idea and twist it beyond all recognition in an attempt to gain power. Look up the motte and bailey fallacy where they try to have it both ways, abusing the language and other people in the process.
/r/MensRights17/05/19 05:14 AM
1

Dogma counts as an education if it's from a college course or tumblr.
/r/MensRights17/05/19 05:12 AM
2

I no longer expect logically consistent principles from ideologues. They have wrapped up their personality and identity so tightly with a set of beliefs and symbols, reason flies out the window. Any disagreement with their concepts or agenda is experienced as a personal attack. I would feel sorry for them if they weren't such a blight.
/r/MensRights17/05/19 05:11 AM
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They can throw an intern under the bus, but that doesn't change the poisonous ideology of dividing us into sneering, warring camps.
/r/MensRights17/05/19 05:09 AM
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Telling people it's okay to be bigoted against certain groups is a garbage idea no matter how it's phrased. The blatant hypocrisy of in the same breath denouncing prejudice just makes it absurd
/r/MensRights17/05/19 05:07 AM
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Wrong Mastodon, lol. The one here is probably the creeps that were originally "We hunted the mastodon" mocking the concept that at any point in history men risked danger to feed and protect women and children.
/r/MensRights17/05/19 05:04 AM
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Of course 2+2 =5, duh, everyone knows it moron! Next sentence: Of course 2+2 =6, dummy! Only terrible people disagree. Gawds I despise this cowardly tactic.
/r/MensRights17/05/19 05:01 AM
2

In my opinion if you feel the need to lie you have no true frame
/r/TheRedPill26/02/19 04:42 PM
4

I have been saying AWALT to a doorknob all day and still haven't gotten laid
/r/TheRedPill26/02/19 04:08 PM
2

War strategy and chess strategy may be amoral on paper, but that doesn't mean destroying pieces has the same moral consequences as destroying human soldiers. You are responsible for your actions and how you treat people regardless of what a website or book says.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/19 03:12 AM
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Humblebrag anecdote to support your point. I made a gal come 5 times on a first date. Hoever thanks to a literal groin injury, nerves, and her bad body I didn't do as well on the actual fucking which was my second round, so to speak. Then I was going on about self development goals like being more attractive. I tried to suggest a future date and she shot me down on the spot. 'You got more out of that then I did.' Baffled me asked 'whaddabout about the 5 orgasms?' Her: 'yeah they were fine, but y…
/r/TheRedPill12/02/19 02:18 AM
1

In my opinion the jealousy card is overrated as a sustainable strategy. It's not a particularly nice method. There are ways to inspire lust and loyalty without preying on insecurities. On the other hand, dead bedrooms and too much complacency are a call to shake things up. Mild flirting can be okay. Taking it too far, cheating on your loved ones is a scum action, a so called Alpha doesn't need to sneak around and play mind games.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/19 01:59 AM
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Great post. I have noticed some more socially assertive people are close talkers. I used to step back because it made me uncomfortable, it's awkward. Now I maintain my space and don't give way so easily. It helps with confidence. If a dog or person can move you out of your position they will lose a bit of respect.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/19 01:21 AM
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Learning implies gaining knowledge, but applying that knowledge is more about willpower and discipline.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/02/19 11:17 PM
1

Excellent post
/r/MarriedRedPill09/02/19 11:16 PM
1

Yeah I was. I love talking about jiu-jitsuand hopefully this helps. One of the main concets is to stay calm, so you conserve your energy and can plan your next move. I used to semi-panic and gas myself out trying to muscle it. If someone is squeezing your neck or compressing your lungs on top and you waste your breath you're doomed. Pop a shoulder up so you can get at least one lung working okay. Try and get into positions that are easy or effortless for you to maintain, that constrict breathing…
/r/TheRedPill18/01/19 01:23 AM
2

Accept and understand the presence of your failings in order to fix them up, right? Otherwise you won't get at the root problems.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/19 12:40 AM
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Deliberate demonization of your critics is a very old tactic. 'Poisoning the well.'
/r/MensRights16/01/19 09:43 AM
1

I would definitely recommend the higher costed version of their options, which is still reasonably priced. The super cheap $ ones aren't really worth it.
/r/MensRights16/01/19 09:41 AM
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'Things just happen' is the reality of mediocre romantic comedy movies. I guess it's easier to learn about the world from the TV, than to seek out mentors or start your own projects. Look for real-world success and talk to the people who made it happen. ​ OP, my sympathies. I would suggest blazing a trail and maybe talking to some other people that are also frustrated with the social control. When the nags begin shaming and clucking, practice Amused MasteryTM anfd wave it away with a smile. You …
/r/TheRedPill16/01/19 09:33 AM
2

'You sound like such a sweet guy I'm sure you will make some lucky woman soooo happy someday.'
/r/TheRedPill16/01/19 08:39 AM
5

bustin’ made him feel good
/r/TheRedPill16/01/19 08:34 AM
1

Institutional gaslighting "it's crazy to be a man" ​ Yeah this is what equality looks like. I'm so glad feminism eradicated prejudice. /s
/r/TheRedPill16/01/19 07:46 AM
1

We have a few flavors of state media with extra steps.
/r/MensRights16/01/19 02:48 AM
1

The competition must be throwing a few parties at this point
/r/MensRights16/01/19 02:40 AM
5

Next level victimization goes beyond insults. It's coerced submission, forced agreement, on the sick path to loving your abuser. Totalitarians don't just want obedience: they want your mind to be colonized.
/r/MensRights15/01/19 10:20 PM
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'Don't be strong or weak, or you're terrible' Or y'all can fuck off with that lose / lose double-bind shite. It's a bully tactic.
/r/MensRights15/01/19 10:16 PM
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It's all about who says it, not what is said. This is why identity politics is so dangerous.
/r/MensRights15/01/19 10:15 PM
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It doesn't work anyways. Say all the right things and have fun orbiting.
/r/MensRights15/01/19 10:12 PM
1

The thing is, women giving me the eye never ask my politics.
/r/MensRights15/01/19 10:10 PM
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If you have no facial hair you can pass as gender neutral more easily
/r/TheRedPill15/01/19 09:50 PM
4

Dollar Shave Club, get the nicest razor version and it is still cheap. Free shipping with subscription I think.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/19 09:49 PM
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I called Proctor and Gamble headquarters. Before I even explained, they asked, "Is this about the Gillette commercial?" ​ LOL their phone lines are blowing up.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/19 09:42 PM
1

Febreze doesn't even clean, it just traps odor molecules with chemicals.
/r/MensRights15/01/19 09:00 PM
2

Neutogena T-SAL and related ones. Pricey though.
/r/MensRights15/01/19 08:58 PM
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I try not to shill but Dollar Shave Club has been great and way cheaper than $6 a razor cartridge. Even their best model, which is the way to go.
/r/MensRights15/01/19 06:26 PM
2

The just your turn phrase doesn't sound abundant to me, just defeatist. Same with AWALT. If anything those words reinforce anxieties.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/19 11:19 AM
1

It's great that a lot of people get the nuance and deeper interpretations. However, newcomers and (some of the gentlemen most in need of help) might read the phrases more literally and miss the point.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/19 11:13 AM
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This is pretty damn accurate
/r/askMRP10/01/19 10:16 AM
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I don't know how anyone can sit down and prepare to live a lie for 3 years, but here we are. Are you sure it's worth it? What will you tell your kids, that you were plotting this ambush of their mother in secret for their benefit?
/r/askMRP10/01/19 10:15 AM
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Hey, it worked for The Brady Bunch. In all seriousness refusing to sign relationship contracts involving the government is smart, offering a traditionalish ceremony is thoughtful. Too bad some commenters were so rude. I think some of the younger ones are overly afraid of respinsibilities and commitments.
/r/askMRP10/01/19 10:11 AM
1

You have a business partner, not a girlfriend.
/r/askMRP10/01/19 10:01 AM
1

Sounds like you're still judging yourself which will perpetuate the anxiety. Accept you are not He-Man or another impossible ideal, but you can become more effective anyways. Also be wary of splitting life into two colors, it's more complex than that thankfully. Be the hero of your own movie, instead of frustrated you aren't being asked to be an acrion hero.
/r/askMRP10/01/19 09:56 AM
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Not enough context why you're unhappy. I would add some meditation and nature walks to your week to keep you calm and your head clear. I like to charge in and try to fix things, but sometimes women need time to adjust and come back emotionally. Give it time and don't obsess about conversation rules or something. Pursue your own satisfaction without being selfish or lying and she may just come around. Don't expect perfection though, self-improvement doesn't always improve other people.
/r/askMRP10/01/19 09:52 AM
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If you want kids, hell no. If you want a stable companion, go for it... years later if the infatuation hasn't degraded into contempt and boredom. . Even then, legal marriage is a lot of financial chains to attach for not much benefit. 6 months is too soon to be considering. Concentrate on enjoying your life in the present, planning your furture without trying to lock it down with contracts.
/r/askMRP10/01/19 09:39 AM
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You sound plenty strong already and there is no magic amount of weight lifted that gets you respect or love. Your numbers aren't relevant. By all means keep lifting but that's not the issue here. You said it yourself, victim pukes. There are probably more subtle signs of insecurity she is picking up on. I know it's harf but try not to feel sorry for yourself, it's a bad way to heal. Perhaps a new hobby or income source would help you refocus. Or, take her out on more physical adventures.
/r/askMRP10/01/19 09:35 AM
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Sit down bars are safer bets. Places to 'go dance' are meat markets for flirting validation and casual sex. Take her out dancing and not to some shitty drunken club.
/r/askMRP10/01/19 09:31 AM
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Next time she gives a command or "allows" you like a child, try something like this: Walk up to her with a big grin, "oh, you think you're in charge?" then follow it up with physical teasing, manhandling and some spanks. Hopefully she will go with it and not have a 'how dare you' attitude, as if her son did sonething innappropriate.
/r/askMRP10/01/19 09:28 AM
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Eating healthy and exercising every other day does not add up to obese. I wonder if there is a secret binge stash or fast food habit. Emotional eating is no joke.
/r/askMRP10/01/19 09:22 AM
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I read some "criminal justice" study overviews and they support your point. Quick consequences matter more than severe punishments in reducing criminal behavior.
/r/askMRP10/01/19 09:14 AM
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Ok most of us say head for the hills with a quickness, but please don't act like a divorce is an easy decision, especially with dependant children. Divorces are messy, painful, and expensive. You still have to deal with the babymama ex. Not exactly something to be stoked about, even if it is the right decision.
/r/askMRP10/01/19 09:12 AM
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Oh that's great
/r/askMRP10/01/19 09:08 AM
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Darkly hilarious
/r/askMRP10/01/19 09:08 AM
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Wow that really sucks and wasn't fair to you.
/r/askMRP10/01/19 09:07 AM
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Lots of people have mental illness. It's a bitch. But if there is no treatment plan, no self-care plan, then there are no free passes and no excuses for drama tsunamis.
/r/askMRP10/01/19 09:05 AM
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Is it worth being with someone that acts like they don't love or respect you?
/r/askMRP10/01/19 09:03 AM
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Wow this is fucked. If it was really about other family members that would have been made clear immediately. So she warns / jokes / or rage posts about divorcing you in public, not so subtlely, then lies about it. Dude I'm sorry to say that looks really bad from my angle. Ask her if she can have an honest conversation without yelling or making excuses. Chances are she won't be willing or able to resolve this. I have posted things impulsively online but this is so far beyond respectful it's sad. …
/r/askMRP10/01/19 08:59 AM
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Motive is probably getting attention and validation. If you have no sex drive or jealousy this plan could work, otherwise you will just be wasting each other's time with a doomed plan. You miss each other but it's time to move on, huh. Go ahead and be penpals but don't pretend any romantic commitments will work out or be honored in this case.
/r/askMRP10/01/19 08:50 AM
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You make some good points, but I don't think driving away a protector / provider / companion makes sense as an evolutionary strategy. I think it is more a new mother's focus is hardwired on the newest baby by default. She sees the real world warts and wrinkles of an ordinary man, contrasted with the unconditional love for a baby overwhelming her body and feelings. Then if the father becomes whipped, weak, boring, or overbearing, and the relationship gets stale, there will then be new people to b…
/r/TheRedPill08/01/19 06:37 PM
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Quarantined to stop the spread of... information. Because Mama internet knows best which ideas are safe.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/12/18 08:14 PM
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Try laughing it off / not reacting / taking time for yourself. I know what you mean about getting exhausted, maybe you are getting drawn in to the drama and not really passing all the tests. Some games the only way to win is not to play. "I see you are frustrated. I'm going to go for a walk now, let me know later when you're not as upset." Might piss her off but don't be bluffing, calmly leave on your walk or errand. Make it work for you.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/18 04:45 AM
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If the Mods allow this sort of “theory” then RP can go to hell. Ones economic views don’t have to dictate the way they Mods can and should allow disagreement and disagreeable views, otherwise we can't really have an honest conversation. You have the ability to comment, downvote, even report if it actually breaks a rule. Asking for censorship of others is also asking for yourself to be silenced.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/18 04:46 AM
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I looked up mewing and it looks like the most practical and useful information I have gotten in some time. Completely in line with TRP self-improvement goals. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Hmf-pR7EryY Ironically you are creating your own Chad / virgin binary here? Is that deliberate? Upvoted for leather jacket with a scorpion on the back. ​ ​
/r/TheRedPill19/12/18 03:06 PM
1

You could look at the Gettier problem, is knowlege 'justified true belief' or do we need a better concept?
/r/TheRedPill05/12/18 04:51 PM
1

If we all stuck to a static "true self" there would be no self-improvement and therefore RedPill wouldn't make sense. You can change yourself for the better over time, you will change over your life regardless because time goes on. Discussing whether that's revealing a true self or changing a self is academic, just words in our minds.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/18 09:20 PM
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Hey very few of us would be here if we hadn't messed up our lives or romantic relationships at some point. Sounds like you learned a few lessons, so take those and move on. Being a leader is more context dependent than many here think. You don't have to define yourself this way or that way, just live your life and apply techniques when they make sense to. There is no point in calling yourself negative names and labels, you might live down to expectations.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/18 08:44 PM
2

Family visits every month or two is much different than a gathering almost every week. Draw the line somewhere.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/18 07:16 PM
1

Raw power exercised by flabby minds with no consistent standards is authoritarianism.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/18 06:37 PM
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Gotta love that circular self-reinforcing delusion that "all of us are hot because we're all friends." No. Find a sport or something, get outdoors. Ladies a lot of you look like a dump these days, no offense. It's not about spending a fortune on makeup and clothes, it's more about how healthy bodies move.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/18 03:32 PM
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Bonus lesson, learn how to tell an entertaining and engaging story, whether there is a point or not. Senior / endorsed contributors tend to have a higher rate of succeeding with this and I don't think it is an accident. Frame and game, boys. Not just for sex. ​ Make it fun and you have listeners, readers. ​ Good post OP.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/18 03:29 PM
2

What worked for me was tha tevery time I felt self pity, I had to go life or do pushups. Two birds, one stone. Building my discipline up was more important than the physical strength. Muscular arms and legs will offset a lot of other SMV deficiencies.
/r/TheRedPill17/10/18 09:05 PM
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Liars pretending to take the high road. Bad faith. It was a setup from the beginning.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/18 07:46 PM
1

When logic, reason, evidence and ethical principles are on your side you can defend your position with honor. It's time for TRP to admit morals and social politics are relevant to advocating a point of view and men having voices. I want us to maintain the high ground to stand out in stark contrast to backstabbing sore loser weasels.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/18 03:45 AM
2

My experiences as an activist bear this out. It is nothing new. Just 10x more blatant. Our whole society runs on who can be mean to who.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/18 03:20 AM
2

Research social engineering, guys.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/18 03:14 AM
4

The irony is that refusing to play women's head games actually attracts them. Most men don't understand this. That's why we should be studying frame and not getting caught up emotionally in outrage tests.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/18 03:13 AM
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I can verify this from personal experience
/r/TheRedPill06/10/18 03:07 AM
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But you're not allowed to say that! /s
/r/TheRedPill06/10/18 03:05 AM
2

Oh it's funny, finding amusement in absurdity helps keep me balanced.
/r/TheRedPill05/10/18 06:32 PM
2

A crab is the astrological symbol of Cancer. How appropriate. Icky tangent: Supposedly cancer was named as such because of the gross red boils filled with white cancer cells, resembling a cooked crab. The bucket crabs will drag you down only if you let them.
/r/TheRedPill05/10/18 06:31 PM
1

Politics is interested in you
/r/TheRedPill05/10/18 06:18 PM
1

Obey your boss at work, obey wifey at home. Ick.
/r/TheRedPill05/10/18 03:52 PM
50

Some of the admins run a brigade and harassment sub called TopMindsOfReddit
/r/TheRedPill04/10/18 08:28 PM
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I am an abuse victim and felt attacked and invalidated by the admin's actions TRP and related subs helped me turn my life around and understand some of the abuse and hostility I have suffered I am a free speech advocate and believe thought control and censorship are the tools of totalitarians I generally follow egalitarian principles and give just as much respect to my female colleagues and friends as males I believe people can learn from each other and work out their differences, but only when …
/r/TheRedPill04/10/18 07:31 PM
2

To be clear I am not knocking the plan, do what you do. It's unfortunate and ironic that apparently this is what it takes to have a free and open conversation about gender these days.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/18 09:19 PM
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As long as it says 0 subscribers it is quarantined.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/18 12:55 AM
3

Riddle me this. How can you have an open and honest discussion without free speech?
/r/TheRedPill03/10/18 12:54 AM
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Yep. Life is too short to waste trying to fix or accommodate fucked up people.
/r/MensRights03/10/18 12:08 AM
2

Hopefully other people will too. Our intellectual landscape is astroturf and plastic trees.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/18 11:40 PM
2

I think you meant false flag (blaming someone else for terrorism) or hoax (no one died). Black flag is usually an anarchist symbol.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/18 11:31 PM
2

Plenty of countries incrementally strip freedoms away each year. I would argue the ones that ban guns are usually the worst offenders.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/18 11:30 PM
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I haven't seen evidence yet that anyone died or even got shot at Pulse
/r/TheRedPill02/10/18 11:28 PM
2

If you want to get deep on social engineering research stuff like Tavistock Institute, Esalen Institute, Club of Rome, Royal Society, Project Mockingbird, and feminism's real birthplace, The Frankfurt School. Mentioning Frankfurt communists gets you auto-flagged or auto-banned from a lot of the feminist subreddits.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/18 11:27 PM
2

Kinda sad that to speak your mind you need a secret location and armed guards. I can understand how it has come to this, since all it takes is one misguided idiot pulling a fire alarm so he has a chance with all the lesbians.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/18 11:24 PM
1

I'm ready to start my Against Women's Rights group, because that wouldn't be sexist at all. /s You can speak up in real life when someone starts demonizing males or repeating faked statistics out of context. Get involved personally, get some new friends and help each other out. Men used to do projects together all the time outside of work.
/r/MensRights02/10/18 11:21 PM
1

Fortunately there would be no crime, unless a man got loose, since all females are sweet and innocent around the clock.
/r/MensRights02/10/18 11:01 PM
2

But, but, it's impossible for a woman to have any privileges /s
/r/MensRights02/10/18 10:58 PM
2

'I have no clean drinking water but at least men stopped showing they are attracted to me, that's a win'
/r/MensRights02/10/18 10:55 PM
1

I hope the bigots stay indoors, clutching their anal beads. Now if they could stop harassing people online that would be just swell.
/r/MensRights02/10/18 10:52 PM
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Yes, and some of us see the excesses encouraged by culture, and then make stereotypes and sweeping proclamations about gender issues throughout history. I say, be careful not to let the loudest and shrillest define a whole group. The representatives that some women decide they need to speak for their entire gender... leave something to be desired, that's for damn sure.
/r/MensRights02/10/18 10:50 PM
1

Your comments are gassy
/r/MensRights02/10/18 10:47 PM
1

"What would you do if the world was infested by scary goblins?" is their default mindset, huh
/r/MensRights02/10/18 10:43 PM
2

Really sorry to hear about your awful experiences. It is clear your have PTSD, as I do. Reading through forums and books about narcissists helped me understand some people will never have good values and will just invent reasons to justify their cruelty. Double bind, damned if you do, damned if you don't. Fake apologies: "I did nothing wrong and it was all just a joke, but I am sorry FOR YOUR FEELINGS. We're good now, I have decided." It's not comparable to being physically beat up or worse but …
/r/MensRights02/10/18 10:41 PM
2

The worst abuse I got was from males. However, the first time I was sexually assaulted was from a grown women in a pool when I was just a kid. I was told by the adults the groping must have been an accident each time. ​ I have been emotionally abused by many women, at school, in professional situations, relationships, friendships, you name it. I don't believe anyone is automatically innocent or guilty because of what's in their pants.
/r/MensRights02/10/18 09:32 PM
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Men can get erections even during dinner
/r/MensRights02/10/18 09:21 PM
5

Hey I really appreciate you clarifying what you meant and giving a context.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/18 08:58 PM
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> "But when it comes to LTR I pick women who see potential in me and help me grow. I prefer a woman who bet on me and help me win the race, instead of standing on the finish line and simply picking the winner." ​ Plenty of insight in this post, this part here is wisdom. ​ Calling women not worth anything is less than wise.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/18 07:37 PM
7

"Why didn't you ask me out?" =/= "I wished you would have fucked me"
/r/TheRedPill02/10/18 07:20 PM
14

Small businesses cannot do as they will, that privilege is reserved for larger companies.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/18 06:41 PM
3

Apparently I don't exist, no such thing as male abuse victims and I am one if the '0' subscribers. Eat a hairball, reddit. I guess y'all want me to keep sliding conservative? If this is the new "New Left" I'm out. Liberals were supposed to be about embracing freedom of choice and diversity, not mass shaming based on transparent bigotry. If I call myself a liberal or Democrat these days will people think I support a totalitarian thought control culture and corporate state? I thought that was supp…
/r/TheRedPill02/10/18 06:24 PM
1

I just want options at every level of escalation. Not have to threaten or use deadly force. I support the right to arms and self-defense, but within reason and not as a pretext to make a Wild West or Wild South.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/18 04:27 PM
1

I don't talk with people that try to speak for me, anymore.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/18 11:05 PM
0

"Afraid for your life" implies fear, right? Namecalling, oooh good one.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/18 11:05 PM
2

I did some research on the pictures thing before I gave up on casual fuck apps. Rewriting my bio 100 times was pointless. I will skip past the super obvious photo stuff like being in focus. Mix in full body shots that imply someone else took the picture. Action shots out in nature or at an activity are helpful. Friendly and smiling at the camera is on average less attractive than a man brooding or concentrating on something out of frame. I also suggest getting a beard going, to signify hey, I'm …
/r/TheRedPill24/09/18 11:03 PM
1

Feeling like your life is in danger sounds like a state of anxiety. Something to get your head out of, if you want true frame and confidence.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/18 10:47 PM
2

"Learn to fight" I still haven't done an article on this but I probably will. There is a world of difference between striking and grappling training in my opinion even though they are more similar to each other than they are to lifting. Wrestling gives you control and overall agility that striking will not give all on its own. Grappling works different muscle groups you guys probably aren't even aware of having. Having powerful fucking hips means you can powerfully fuck. Knowing technique to con…
/r/TheRedPill24/09/18 10:45 PM
1

My height changed the least out of all my characteristics but I dramatically increased my attractiveness over the years. Slouched over, anxious, and out of shape is not a good look even at 6' or over. Get those shoulder back, neck high, meet eye contact, it's a different world.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/18 10:35 PM
1

Somebody trying to punch you does not give you the moral or legal right to execute them on the spot. Not really interested in a debate on that one.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/18 10:31 PM
4

Try a psi-wheel made from paper or foil on a pin
/r/TheRedPill24/09/18 10:29 PM
31

Don't forget unwilling child support taken from men who actively want custody. Pay up or be thrown in debtor's prison, in 2018
/r/TheRedPill20/09/18 12:20 AM
5

"cannot be reasoned or compromised with" says the person encouraging censorship, grouping, guilt by association, and prejudice, without a trace of irony...
/r/TheRedPill13/09/18 09:14 PM
3

women like to rile themselves up like a discount ultimate warrior before they start swinging. Lol thank you Don't use your fists. The beauty of grappling training is the ability to make an attacker helpless without seriously hurting them. No one's going to be landing punches when they can't breathe or move.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/18 08:52 PM
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A punch with just arm strength, which is all most people know, will not do much. Put your shoulders, hips, legs behind it with technique and people go down much faster.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/18 08:43 PM
2

Her making most or all of the money does not prevent a court making the man in the divorce get messed over financially.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/18 06:44 PM
2

It's a fine rant. TRP isn't some social club or political party, just an internet forum. If you are just looking for a bunch of cool dudes to approve of you and your sexual victories, like you wished would have happened in high school or college, you haven't absorbed the main lessons or the purpose of the site. If you want to understand your life better you can apply the lessons and research that are relevant.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/18 05:59 PM
1

>"Never corner a chick's hamster." ​ I have made this mistake far too many times. Expecting some reasonable level headed response during an argument or complaint session. Nope.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/18 05:15 PM
6

"Validate my denial by living poorly"
/r/TheRedPill23/08/18 09:51 PM
3

This is fantastic. Kill your trust in conventional authority, study logic, fallacies, and critical thinking, and apply this guide: real skepticism.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/18 10:59 PM
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Well-intentioned doesn't mean good idea. "Oh hey, that minority person got a prestigious job in the face of adversity! Respect." OR "They probably got that job just because they're a minority." AA= artificial scarcity + divide and rule
/r/TheRedPill14/08/18 03:29 PM
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I know a lot of people didn't get the memo but the existence of the internet is not an excuse to dump garbage on our virtual lawns. Stop enabling. It's not helping anyone else to get random abuse and nonsense. I doubt that it is helping him either, this hobby of pissing off strangers. Why don't you please guide your friend into something more constructive? He wants to write Furry Monster Hunter fanfic, so be it.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/18 02:37 PM
1

Yeah not every witty comment will work. But if you go from 5/10 to 9/10 with practice, you have it made! If you get a reputation as funny, and people are used to seeing you make others laugh, it gets easier to get good results. At a stand-up comedy show, not everyone in the crowd understands the joke or find it all that funny. They've been caught up in a social energy wave. Thanks for the comment.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/18 02:27 PM
0

You can stay calm under adversity as well as be warm and friendly. They are not mutually exclusive. Maximizing both abilities, and maintaining a healthy body will make most men irresistible.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/18 04:05 PM
4

Ya gotta bootstrap it, as much as that phrase makes no sense literally. Fake it till you make it, learn to wrestle, go hiking on rough terrain, challenge yourself. Exercise is the antidote.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/18 04:03 PM
1

Personal experience supports this. Toxic masculinity is a "problematic" way (hah) to frame the concept. However, woman genuinely are repulsed by unstable fear-based behavior. They want to have a good time, have excitement raised while still feeling safe. You can't create that atmosphere by having a weak frame of getting pissy.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/18 04:02 PM
3

Everything they think the average man has, which turns out to be an underpaid job, disrespect, and lots of debt.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/18 09:55 PM
4

I used to get so upset by irrational bullshit and rejection. Now it's like, good riddance. Be my friend or not, otherwise buh-bye. I don't have the time or energy to be judged by phonies, and try to conform to their made up, self-serving standards.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/18 09:54 PM
2

I have researched narcissism. There is a subtype that is all about victim mentality, abusing sympathy to get attention and material aid.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/18 09:46 PM
1

More for the rest of us? Pisspoor competition helps a halfway confident man stand out.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/18 09:46 PM
3

People tend to reward strength and punish need... because deep down they want to lean on or use that strength for their own purposes. Hence ass kissing.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/18 09:23 PM
3

I wish I knew this stuff as a young man. Fuck the pedestal worship and validation games.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/18 09:20 PM
3

Tall gets you noticed, personality and fitness gets you laid. Work on what you can, accept the rest.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/18 09:16 PM
0

Great comment. It's not all about arms and shoulders. Mass pressing on top of lungs is no joke. Your real power to move a body comes from legs and back, torque, momentum, and technique. Still need grips though.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/18 08:15 PM
3

Technique can beat untrained size and strength. Trained big guy, good fucking luck.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/18 08:08 PM
2

Preventing a rape is heroic and brave, my man.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/18 08:05 PM
3

Sweep the leg! Or train grappling... lose your fears. Shoot, scoop, dump, mount. Even big guys need to breathe. Bind them with their clothes. People are covered in handles!
/r/TheRedPill10/08/18 08:01 PM
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Thanks for putting this together. I wrote about getting IOIs at a glance, which is fun, but not the same as escalations that actually lead to sex. After all, most of those enjoying the show are partnered up or just don't want to be bothered. They want to look and fantasize, nothing wrong with it. But there is a world of difference between getting checked out and getting head. I like that you specified times to back off. Seduction is not pressure. Understand active consent, guys. OP I have two an…
/r/TheRedPill06/08/18 02:13 AM
1

I get what you're saying. Well RP advocates an amoral sexual strategy as your best long term chance at happiness. That is a value system. Saying it can't be criticized reminds me of other ideologies I gave up on. Morality can be misused to control and manipulate. The same is true of most human activity.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/18 07:30 PM
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Not being able to discuss morality and how it relates to being a worthwhile man stifles the discussion. Yet you can talk about selfish manipulation and how great it is, as if that wasn't any kind of reflection of morals. Masculinity is direct.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/18 05:01 PM
3

Freeball if you want to and have something to show. Maybe one confused or annoyed look for every 100 lusty stares. Sorry prudes, you have been outvoted. Cock wins the election in a landslide.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/18 04:28 PM
1

I regret choosing words that frame it as a false dichotomy. (Not a strawman btw, a strawman presenting someone else's viewpoints in a demeaning and deliberately misleading way.) It's supposed to be a zippy little slogan for one article, not words to shape your whole life around. Phrasing like "to get pussy, don't be a pussy" sounded awkward. You don't have to choose between the two. If you want to maximize your chances at success with the vast majority of women there are any number of self-impro…
/r/TheRedPill25/07/18 02:11 PM
9

U don't C your eviction notice coming
/r/TheRedPill24/07/18 11:16 AM
1

Is it possible to learn these powers?
/r/TheRedPill24/07/18 09:43 AM
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We could care about the possible effects of the process on users.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/18 09:21 AM
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Long story short for me, no action on swipe apps, plenty elsewhere. I thought to myself, don't drop your money and hone my skills for the phone skank world... you guys if you develop your real world life you will meet plenty of interesting people.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/18 09:16 AM
2

please elaborate
/r/TheRedPill24/07/18 09:11 AM
2

Solid advice. The organization is useful, pleasing to the eye and the post is a good example of what it's describing. Here I'm using a writing technique called flattery to ingratiate myself with the OP and anyone that really liked the post. Nah, just kidding, it's honest praise. I hope you don't mind me chiming in. Contrast and irony is shown to keep reader's attention going. It's hard to pull off well. It's better to be clear than clever. I agree with the conversational writing style advice. Tr…
/r/TheRedPill24/07/18 09:07 AM
1

I use low risk methods over long periods of time. Combined with losing weight, yes it works. Pills and gadgets do have risks and often don't work. Nah, having a certain dick size has nothing to do with being a RP man or something. Just one of my goals.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/18 03:19 AM
2

Well said and thanks for posting. I agree. There's so many layers to all this stuff.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/18 07:28 PM
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You have the basic idea just fine. Remember every man will have a different understanding on how it applies to his life. Another aspect is the social presence. "Come on, let's go to the store." "But I want to fight about money!" "Lol, no. You need a spanking? Get your shoes on." Being able to withstand minor drama and stick to your plan with a cheerful smile. If I got mad and stayed home to fight, even if I "won" the fight by some definition, my mood and plan were disrupted. Loss of frame, weakn…
/r/TheRedPill22/07/18 03:27 PM
1

I don't gain fast necessarily. Been at it off and on for years. Part of the gain was from losing a lot of fat. Some of it was mental, something like self hypnosis and manifestation. Like try to believe you are healthier and hung, your body will slowly adjust.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/18 08:05 AM
1

Agreed, thanks for posting. Let's remember to be compassionate and open minded too! Not fuck to impress others.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/18 03:34 AM
1

Absolutely! Thanks for posting.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/18 03:29 AM
2

Ultimately these factors will just get you extra attention and pave the way for success. It's not the same as getting a date. You won't seal any kind of deal if you can't pass close inspection or fail at the social level. If you slounch hard on more than a couple categories you're disqualified to the 3/4 of borderline unfuckables. A 10/10 feature, confidence, and no abysmal scores gets you noticed and lusted after regardless of common physical preferences or a few deficiencies. If I said scars a…
/r/TheRedPill20/07/18 09:12 PM
2

My original post could have been more clear. This is dedicated to first impression IOIs from strangers mking snap judgements. Height and shoulders are like flashing lights on a sign catching the eye, face and style are like the pictures on that sign, and then your words are the words. If you are a 10/10 on one or two physical categories and have a un confident presence it could easily launch you into the upper tiers of SMV. Consider the competition these days! At that point, which factor scores …
/r/TheRedPill20/07/18 09:03 PM
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Honestly it worked for me. Yeah that included looking past appearance and long term goals so I could depedestal like you're saying. I suspended my standards to be open to new experience, and date women to fuck them and have fun instead of trying to impress the world what kind of "number" I can get. Even being highly visual I will still take an eager fuck over a stuck up mind in a perfect body. I went for a fun personality and eagerness to fuck. As soon as I expressed any kind of feelings most of…
/r/TheRedPill20/07/18 08:33 PM
3

Careful because you might just be triggering infatuation that peters out after a few months. Those are powerful words.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/18 08:22 PM
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Talk to me after kid #1 pops out, see how far you want to go with it. There is nothing wrong with starting a family on purpose. I wish you the best of luck on a difficult but necessary road. It will give you more purpose. If it's just spreading genetics, you can go to a sperm bank and take your chances there. No financial risks there, just a weird situation of probably not knowing your offspring.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/18 08:21 PM
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When I say earned I don't mean earned as in the sense of getting someone's approval for working or fulfilling an agreement. I mean developing your skills to the point that it changes your life. You have earned your own positive consequences and the results speak for themselves. No diplomas or merit badges or respectful nods needed. Maybe that's the only kind of earning there is, because everyone else's opinion is tainted by their own self-interest.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/18 08:16 PM
1

Hard to say, tuggin' off and on for a long time. I got more serious about it the last couple years as it was one of my self improvement goals. I don't have a strict regimen or anything like that.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/18 09:45 AM
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Once you realize you have been lied to, you have an opportunity to seek the truth. That can be more exciting than the usual distractions.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/18 08:49 AM
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I spent years as Captain Saveaho, the OG White Knight in real life when the internet was a wee baby. Waste of fucking energy. Once you're a shoulder, you won't ever be the next cock. Unless you are already fucking, then by all means be supportive and loving. But put that romance shit first nowadays and you will be led around like an ox with a ring through its nose. It sucks, but hey, once you figure that out you can move on and stop people pleasing.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/18 08:40 AM
1

Since there are so many conflicting expert sources, where should we start with our research in your opinion?
/r/TheRedPill20/07/18 08:33 AM
1

I figure a small bulge is better than nothing, but yeah you don't want to go too tight if you don't have the goods. Flaccid and erect are different. Girth matters far more for the bulge unless you're playing trouser snake.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/18 08:32 AM
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Mine did but it was minor compared to lifetime length gain. I know I grew in girth because I went from originally using normal condoms, to breaking them once I needed rubbers again years later. Realizing I had actually gained a condom size over time was a good day. I decided to keep going from there.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/18 08:28 AM
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Intermittent fasting was part of my weight loss strategy, it was very helpful. Calorie deficits are usually great provided you get ample macronutrients and micronutrients to rebuild muscle and maintain organs. I appreciate you guys injecting some studies into the converstaion.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/18 08:25 AM
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I know a guy who uses the rhythm method for birth control. Wanna know how many kids he has? Four. FOUR KIDS. FOUR CHILDREN. FOUR. DO YOU REALLY WANT FOUR CHILDREN HANGING AROUND YOU AT ALL TIMES? THAT ALL WANT EXPENSIVE THINGS LIKE ROOFS? 4444444444444444444444444444 4GETABOUT IT. Use rubbers until the snip.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/18 08:16 AM
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I respect existing relationships so I would back off. Can't talk morals so let's just say why create a drama dumpster fire when there are plenty of available women with less strings? She can dump him first and take a week off if she really wanted some, at least have some dignity about the branch swing.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/18 08:15 AM
1

My title was more in the sense that nothing will be handed to you, if you want to be sexy you have to go out and earn it with hard work. Just like any other goal. I tried to lay it out step by step to demonstrate being sexually appealing can be learned and developed.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/18 08:06 AM
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I don't have a dog in that fight, I was repeating information learned at my gym. Like anything, experienced teachers can be wrong. I would like to know a good source for the information one way or the other if you know of something.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/18 08:01 AM
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I can recognize all the "subtle" passive aggressive bitch moves because I used to do some of them, lol. Anytime a woman is bending over, sticking her ass out, rubbing her thighs together, or in any way spreading the legs, I can practically guarantee there is a hot guy in the room. Oops I dropped this penny. Better adjust the hem of my short dress. Lol, we see you, just like I can spot the eyes flicking downward. So tricky and clever! Yes, you women are all asexual except for your true love! Hah,…
/r/TheRedPill20/07/18 07:59 AM
1

Maybe I mis-typed, I meant a blazer combined with jeans was too far for my personal taste. A suit is indeed a powerful thing. It indicates wealth, taste, and a good suit will shape the body nicely with optical tricks. I got plenty of swagger in my underwear though hoss, that's like easy mode for me just as a suit is easy mode for you.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/18 07:54 AM
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I don't think porn is harmless so your comment is appreciated. Just saying don't knock frequent masturbation unless you're using it for lame reasons. But I'm on the hypersexual side and maybe my preference isn't right for everyone.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/18 07:49 AM
1

Absolutely! There are short guys with game that get as much or more attention than me. Height can't be changed too much without serious physical training, but hair, shoes, hats can be used to bump up the appearance a bit. Owning your body, really living in it, filling it with vitality and positive energy will matter a lot more than worrying about numbers on a ruler. I have seen plenty of guys taller than me that don't move well and are just awkward in their bodies. I feel sympathy because contra…
/r/TheRedPill20/07/18 07:13 AM
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Never said to stop caring. Stop caring about their stupid opinions that you are only guessing at, yes. Be selfish and don't care aboutthem as people, no that's not me. This post was kept in line with where I agree with RedPill philosophy, after testing it personally, out of respect for the guidelines and focus here. That doesn't mean I agree with the whole ideology that goes along with the techniques. I still say we should be discussing the values of what we do. But that's not permitted. Otherwi…
/r/TheRedPill20/07/18 07:02 AM
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Thanks. You are absolutely right there, most women are fine with you being in the upper 50%, below that it's a tough sell in this superficial world. 7 to 8 is not too big for most gals, and the range for fantasy preference. But a stunt cock or bodice ripper dick is not necessarily the same dick they want in a relationship. And girth is more important than extra length. A big dick on a shy feminine straight man will likely stay dry unless they are going after the rare FemDommes or something. You …
/r/TheRedPill20/07/18 06:56 AM
2

Fitness shows in body fat percentage most obviously. Some health symptoms are obvious, like wheezing and gasping is not going to be attractive. Other stuff is subtle like skin flush and pheromones and not even going to consciously register. That's part of the whole point, these factors are "under the hood" and people just generalize it as a feeling of attractive or not. I'm breaking it down into categories in an effort to analyze attraction on a detailed level, and then use that information to o…
/r/TheRedPill20/07/18 06:48 AM
2

Welp I like to write sassy. In all seriousness I meant you are unlikely to find heterosexual relations without displays of confidence and masculinity. I do not share the view that sex and impressing women is the end all be all of existence. It does not need to be anyone's goal. IOIs became a silly hobby after I reached certain inner goals and proved certain points. While I'm wasting time strutting at the store, and college kids are swiping like mad on their phones, some other person is really ge…
/r/TheRedPill20/07/18 06:38 AM
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I agree. Limp dick means take a breather, or switch tactics. Tell her to suck you while you spank her for allowing it to go soft, if you think you can pull that off. I disagree about porn but too much booze, drugs, or masturbating the same day can mess you up. I fucked some less than desirable girls in my recovery as long as they were fun and wanted a piece quickly. Yes it totally works to get on the swing of things and activate that pre-approval thing women do. They know when you are getting la…
/r/TheRedPill19/07/18 08:58 PM
2

Down here on earth we have to compromise and set boundaries when people act shitty. I'm so happy that you're absolutely perfect for one another, never quarrel, and never ever attempt to change eachother's behavior. *snicker* Any reprimand or withdrawal whatsoever is the action of a mean little manipulative tiny man chauvanist teensy weensy sad dumdum oppressor!!! ANYTHING GOES! is the rule at the Burrito household? Which one is the Captain? Can I come visit and repaint all your furniture? /s Who…
/r/TheRedPill19/07/18 08:20 PM
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"literally says treat people like dogs" Where? Quote it or kindly apologize for making shit up. I suppose no one ever trained you with positive and negative reinforcement? How did you learn to type bullshit on the internet then? Ah yes, the dreaded "be appreciative for kindness and withdraw attention from shitty behavior." What exactly would you have us do? Do you not give any feedback? Being completely passive might count as ignoring so watch out!
/r/TheRedPill19/07/18 08:15 PM
0

This is a crucial thing to remember and what I needed to read today, thank you. Well said.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/18 08:00 PM
2

You can take the BluePill out of the Matrix but you can't take the Matrix out of the BluePill? Hah, j/k I don't box people into polarized categories. But I will use RP terms here. You are on this council, but we do not grant you the rank of Master. Number one armchair guess is internalized beta mentality, plus an unrecognized anxiety disorder. Hopefully you are eating healthy and getting physical exercise. A crush you had for years and finally got a FWB deal going with is not a plate. A plate is…
/r/TheRedPill19/07/18 07:38 PM
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Hah, great comment and insights. They all pretend and hint, even the ones that act tough. Please notice me! But only wanting real attention from that 10-20% of the more attractive men, in most cases. Unattractive or awkward men giving the same attention are deemed "creeps" and equated with stalkers and consent violators. But every now and then, a gal makes it so obvious she will be masturbating to me later I'm tempted to do more than preen. But being aloof and unavailable is part of my act and w…
/r/TheRedPill19/07/18 06:56 PM
2

There might be more going on here. Leveraging attractiveness to a 9 or 10 as a jealousy play. IMO since Russia has been fucked over so hard from within and outside, the culture has degraded to selfishness and a prostitution mentality. The majority of Russians I have met in America were rude or cold. So your odds are higher of encountering blatant disrespect. Probably the nice and polite Russians keep to themselves so you only notice the more abrasive ones. If you meant born and raised in the US …
/r/TheRedPill19/07/18 02:34 PM
3

Why is that evident to you?
/r/TheRedPill16/07/18 08:41 PM
17

Alphas in animal species generally don't go around attacking other alphas. They sit on their hoard of food and pussy. The champion disciplines but doesn't seek out trouble. He already won. Throne is cozy. Who instigates? Juevenile challengers that want the nest. What do we call them? I cunt remember.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/18 08:30 PM
1

I'm glad! I fluctuate between 55 and 70 lbs down from my worst, depending on diet and exercise that week. I couldn't afford training all the time so I incorporated grappling and dance motions into walking around town. Also roll around at home. I would not advise you to start scouting around for prospects and hitting on women. You are still in an LTR, and a marriage! Casual organic flirting should be fine. I'm suggesting that you become the option. Then you don't need to go fishing, the fish swim…
/r/TheRedPill15/07/18 04:45 AM
2

I lost about 40 lbs. and still got betrayed. Do it for yourself, not her. Learning a combat art, some grappling, is the fastest way to reclaim masculinity I know. Find strength you thought impossible. Get beat up, exhausted, come back and do it again. High protein, high vegetable diet, weight will drop off on its own. If she doesn't come around it's not meant to be. Become a beast. A controlled weapon. When half the women on town want a piece, so will she. Or if it's too late, then you have opti…
/r/TheRedPill15/07/18 12:45 AM
2

It's moderation all the way down.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/18 05:38 AM
1

That just makes you yet another phony liar, not a man that stands for something.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/17 02:23 PM
1

I think they are saying you can get satisfaction, not necessarily success. Nonsense like "The Secret" has been debunked, but there's a lot to be said for shifting your perceptions and attitudes in a radical way.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/17 04:33 AM
1

Ok now you lost me. Rationality was involved in almost every part of the computer you type on. Tesla? Modern day science baffled? "He found he could increase the distance at which he could light a lamp by using a receiving LC circuit tuned to resonance with the transmitter's LC circuit.using resonant inductive coupling. Tesla failed to make a commercial product out of his findings but the resonant inductive coupling used is now a familiar technology used throughout electronics and is currently b…
/r/TheRedPill15/06/17 04:27 AM
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How does Mussolini's cock taste?
/r/PussyPassDenied25/01/17 12:51 AM
9

What I'm seeing the most is support for brutality against women protesters. This is not the place for me apparently. Not one laugh, and a lot of disturbing posts and comments. Basically Trumpsville.
/r/PussyPassDenied24/01/17 10:09 PM
1

That's a really dangerous attitude to adopt. I guess you're comfortable following orders from armed enforcers no matter what. If you think violence is an appropriate response to protest, you are a perfect fascist lackey.
/r/PussyPassDenied24/01/17 10:06 PM
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Hillary is corrupt, but I have no patience left for Trump supporters.
/r/MensRights23/08/16 05:25 AM
-1

Sorry that your career picking lettuce for $4 an hour was stolen from you.
/r/MensRights23/08/16 01:01 AM
-1

I guess you're in favor of nuclear war and assassinating political rivals? Or is it the small government principles of wasting billions of taxpayer dollars deporting field hands and maids that you like?
/r/MensRights22/08/16 10:23 PM
1

I'd have to agree. False flag trolls saying "all women are cunts" should be kicked out, but otherwise there are a ton of different viewpoints that should not be deleted. /r/egalitarianism is good too. /r/FeMRAdebates is interesting but contentious.
/r/MensRights22/08/16 10:21 PM
1

If you say so
/r/MensRights22/08/16 09:53 PM
1

From what I understand, the feminist cultural takeover has been much more successful in the UK and other areas in northwest Europe. I just want the discussion to be fact based, rather than fighting a propaganda war. If videos like these can start the conversation, I guess it's worth it.
/r/MensRights22/08/16 05:45 PM
1

I suppose. The whole thing was a bit too click-baity for me. It's laughable that anyone would think some group is immune from prejudice, hatred, or discrimination.
/r/MensRights22/08/16 05:57 AM
2

He had the training, he had the prayers, he had the vitamins, he had a very rich ally.
/r/MensRights20/08/16 04:18 AM
1

Our society is weird. A millionaire is awarded millions of dollars in damages. Regular people harmed by the same company's bullshit get nothing. At least a terrible scourge of the internet is all but dead.
/r/MensRights20/08/16 04:16 AM
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This data is useless, it doesn't prove anything. This is clickbait, not science. If this was run hundreds of times in different areas you would have something.
/r/MensRights20/08/16 04:04 AM
2

Yes, that's the same mentality. My ex is always the victim in any conflict. At an emotional level admitting fault opens her up to deep depression and self loathing. It's a defense mechanism to deny and bicker so she doesn't have to examine her actions.
/r/MensRights19/08/16 07:35 PM
1

Hoooo boy. I hate to break it to you, but Molyneux is a crank. He has said that anyone that doesn't support his version of libertarianism should be ruthlessly cut out of your life. He says any kind of taxation is essentially armed robbery, while demanding donations from his followers. His therapist wife was even professionally censured for telling clients to abandon their families. Steven uses hypnotic speech rhythms and is a borderline cult leader. Watch out!
/r/MensRights12/08/16 04:59 PM
2

Any of you cowardly downvoters care to explain yourselves?
/r/MensRights12/08/16 09:19 AM
1

My heroines! Paglia was a huge influence on me two decades ago. She encouraged women to use common sense, own their sexuality, and learn safety techniques instead of demonizing men. She was really ahead of her time.
/r/MensRights12/08/16 08:12 AM
2

My dad and I were talking about when women wear tight t-shirts with images or writing across the bust. "Pardon me while I get my reading glasses," says my old man. Hilarious.
/r/MensRights12/08/16 08:09 AM
1

I'm gonna have to pass on more specifics. I need to stop dwelling on past problems and move on. I brought my own share of problems to the marriage. It would have been way easier to be a good husband without all the nagging, complaining, yelling, interrupting, and blame.
/r/MensRights12/08/16 08:06 AM
2

They've been trained that way by feminism. They think complaining is a form of strength, and being a victim is high status.
/r/MensRights11/08/16 09:35 PM
1

Trump will say anything to pander. There's no consistent philosophy except satisfying his own ego and greed.
/r/MensRights11/08/16 06:13 PM
3

Here's one. My soon to be ex-wife liked to fly off the handle, with yelling, criticisms, accusations, etc. I would do my best to calmly respond and explain myself, or try to set a boundary. Her response? "I DON'T WANT TO ARGUE" followed by the silent treatment. Early in our relationship she wanted to hit me on the shoulder. I told her no, I have been hit by both of my previous girlfriends, and I was done with that. She insisted. I asked her how it would feel if I hit her back. She was horrified,…
/r/MensRights11/08/16 06:06 PM
6

Nobody is entitled to be the best in the world. No one is forcing anyone to give up a safe career to be an Olympian (at least not in the United States, with the exception of a few crazy parents). No one is forcing people to prefer Men's basketball to Women's basketball. Equality is about equal rights, responsiblities, and opportunities, not forcing equal outcomes.
/r/MensRights11/08/16 05:45 PM
1

Rape and other abuse within the military is a serious and underenforced problem, for both genders.
/r/MensRights11/08/16 05:41 PM
2

We're pathologizing normal kid behavior into something horrific. "OH MY GOD THAT KINDERGARTENER KISSED A GIRL ON THE CHEEK!" Cooties will be the new STD I guess.
/r/MensRights09/08/16 02:06 AM
1

OP, don't follow this terrible advice, and end up in jail.
/r/MensRights08/08/16 11:06 AM
1

His rights are to get a lawyer and show them all the electronic communications that incriminate Mz. Crazy.
/r/MensRights08/08/16 11:05 AM
8

That article didn't list a single example. Very lazy, sloppy journalism.
/r/MensRights08/08/16 10:29 AM
1

In other news, water is wet.
/r/MensRights08/08/16 10:26 AM
5

I want to be a beautiful princess, but if you find me attractive I'll scream!
/r/MensRights08/08/16 10:24 AM
2

Let's throw more men in jail and destroy civil rights. That should make the world a paradise.
/r/MensRights29/07/16 07:00 AM
5

Selfish and entitled, eh?
/r/MensRights29/07/16 06:56 AM
1

I like you.
/r/MensRights25/04/16 09:01 AM
3

I'M ETHAN BRADBURY
/r/MensRights18/04/16 04:01 AM
1

A Clinton / Wall Street presidency?
/r/MensRights18/04/16 03:57 AM
1

What do I look like, Daddy Toiletbucks? My bathroom bills are through the roof!
/r/MensRights14/04/16 03:24 PM
3

I would have no problem making women's restrooms bigger. It's not strictly equal, but the genders are not identical. I can use a urinal and be out of there in a minute. I don't need to fix my makeup, gossip, or whatnot. The solution of opening up only one bathroom to both genders is clearly sexist though.
/r/MensRights13/04/16 05:22 PM
5

The mother counts for nothing? 50% =/= 0%
/r/MensRights13/04/16 04:57 PM
3

"Yes officer. I was just trying to do my job, asking questions in my locker room office, and she took off her bra right in front of me! Arrest her! I was so harassed and traumatized, I need counseling. Fortunately I can get some help from the one group that believes in equality, feminism."
/r/MensRights13/04/16 04:53 PM
6

Whoops. I looked it up again. The Scientology one exists, but it is called Narcanon. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Narconon
/r/MensRights11/04/16 09:27 PM
2

According to Wikipedia and many other sources, NarAnon is a Scientology front.
/r/MensRights11/04/16 08:58 PM
1

Surely you must be joking. Cat got your conscience?
/r/MensRights08/03/16 06:25 AM
8

As annoying as Clinton is, I don't look forward to having a reckless, inexperienced, trash talking boor in charge of the most powerful military in history. Voting for a billionaire is absolutely not voting against the establishment. Trump cannot be trusted. He is a better liar and more charming than Clinton, but much more dangerous to democracy, the economy, and world peace.
/r/MensRights07/03/16 10:33 PM
4

"He has almost certainly had the same advice and information that every male candidate gets about the need to be constantly mindful about coming across like a chauvinist or a bully when on a debate stage facing a female competition." They're telling us that Presidential candidates need to significantly alter their behavior when in the presence of a woman. Is that what equality looks like? Is this the end of gender roles? More rules for men, huh. Look, I believe in being a gentleman. We need to s…
/r/MensRights07/03/16 10:30 PM
5

CNN pundits were talking about it 10 minutes after the debate.
/r/MensRights07/03/16 09:12 AM
16

TIL saying "excuse me" is more rude than interrupting.
/r/MensRights07/03/16 05:01 AM
3

From personal experience, the more visibly feminist I was, the less women were interested in dating me. This was in a heavily liberal scene too.
/r/MensRights06/03/16 02:14 AM
1

All men are the same person and all women are the same other person, with the same goals and views that are universal to your gender. Remember when Carly said to make all abortions free?
/r/MensRights06/03/16 02:12 AM
1

In my experience talking to internet anarchists, most of them actually want to claim power instead of abolishing it. Getting rid of the government without also getting rid of accumulated fortunes is a recipe for disaster.
/r/MensRights06/03/16 02:00 AM
2

He's a professional jimmy rustler, not a leader. He's clever but obnoxious, and doesn't seem to have a lot of intellectual integrity. When pressed on a point he distracts or makes fun of the topic instead of ever admitting fault.
/r/MensRights06/03/16 01:54 AM
2

It's almost as if males and females have different bone structures.
/r/MensRights12/02/16 02:13 PM
3

Hold up. Scott Adams said this was a troll post, designed to tweak the noses of both feminists and MRAs. Don't take any of this at face value.
/r/MensRights19/01/16 06:30 AM
2

Thanks, that was better analysis than the article had.
/r/MensRights16/12/15 10:00 PM
0

So it's fine for you to act like a condescending prick, but when someone else is rude, it's evidence that all leftists everywhere are dumb. Got it. My experience is that people who think in such broadly insulting terms usually aren't very bright. Maybe you're an exception and your baseless stereotyping is an aberration. Better to call people dumb than persuade thrm, right? I give you a taste of your own attitude and you cry foul. My problem is with you, not conservatism or anything else like tha…
/r/MensRights16/12/15 09:24 PM
1

You started it, dickface. Don't act all put upon, piece of shit. If you act like a jerk people will respond in kind. You are the only one in the world to use Liberal with a capital L, just to be argumentative. If you think it's impossible to have a conversation with me because I'm so Liberal, check out my comment score on this sub, dumbass. Go fuck yourself.
/r/MensRights16/12/15 08:48 PM
1

You have demonstrated intelligence, you may enter.
/r/MensRights16/12/15 01:18 PM
0

You're nothing more than an asshole stirring up drama. What does that say about the groups you identify with? I know it's easy to think in sweeping generalizations but that doesn't make it a good idea. Fuck off, chumley. Derp.
/r/MensRights16/12/15 01:17 PM
0

Don't blame your poor communication skills on anyone else. Something cannot be both A and not A.
/r/MensRights16/12/15 10:54 AM
3

Soon every adult can get legally stoned, give it ten years. First we changed the culture, then the laws catch up later.
/r/MensRights16/12/15 06:19 AM
0

Those additions in bold are a bit of a stretch. The origins of a movement or an idea do not necessarily correspond with the modern incarnations. For example, tough guy warmonger Christians, they don't turn the other cheek when hit.
/r/MensRights16/12/15 06:17 AM
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If it is illiberal, does it make sense to call it liberal? Glad we agree.
/r/MensRights16/12/15 06:15 AM
1

True story: A friend was seduced by a babysitter as a minor teenager. I think she poked holes in the condom, I can't remember. In any case she got pregnant, gave birth, the court gave her full custody, and even though it was a statutory rape put my friend on the hook for monthly child support for 18 years. He just got done paying the bills for a child he was almost never allowed to see.
/r/MensRights16/12/15 03:45 AM
2

Pretty sick, isn't it: the attempt to abuse the state's power to lock a human in a cage out of bigotry and spite.
/r/MensRights16/12/15 03:37 AM
1

I like this list. I am inclined to think that a formal, single issue MRA group or agenda will not have much success in the present climate. However, if you frame problems as part of larger human rights abuses, you can get far more support. More support means more success in helping men and boys. Most major problems in the world are not gendered, just presented that way. We should stop arguing who has it worst and start helping all exploited people.
/r/MensRights16/12/15 03:34 AM
1

Yes. Dignity and respect matter. I call upon all of you to drop the casual slurs like bitchs, clams, sluts, cunts, dykes, etc. You hurt your cause's reputation any time you use those words to disparage someone else. Use generic insult terms, or better yet attack behavior and ideas instead of people.
/r/MensRights16/12/15 03:28 AM
7

Give me a break. Cultural standards set the background for laws to made, changed, and enforced.
/r/MensRights16/12/15 03:05 AM
11

Including bench presses, right? In the 90s I had a male high school teacher flat out tell us that women were superior to men. His reasoning was almost 100% anecdotal, like some lady that swam the English channel.
/r/MensRights16/12/15 03:02 AM
0

Please don't call dogmatic would-be totalitarians liberal or left wing. Concepts like enlightenment values, class struggle, and protecting the commons have nothing to do with clowns promoting prejudice and hatred.
/r/MensRights16/12/15 03:01 AM
1

Some animals are more equal than others.
/r/MensRights15/12/15 12:07 PM
1

Are you sure?
/r/MensRights24/11/15 01:12 PM
0

There is a huge difference between supremacist positions and simply being confident that your opinions are correct.
/r/MensRights24/11/15 04:10 AM
1

The poletariat must rise up against the bourgeoilean!
/r/MensRights05/11/15 02:59 AM
3

I'm really sorry to hear that. I hope that having your story read and understood will offer you a small amount of healing. At least this is all in your past and you have your whole life ahead of you to make a better future.
/r/MensRights31/10/15 04:54 AM
1

About 70% of America is white, so it would be odd if they weren't the majority of any particular group that doesn't put ethnicity at the forefront.
/r/MensRights31/10/15 12:16 AM
3

The effectiveness or popularity of a movement is an absurd way to measure if the movement is worthwhile or has legitimate criticisms of the prevailing culture. The abolitionists were ignored, mocked, beaten, etc., and eventually they won. Slavery is now viewed as an abomination by 99% of people in the Western world. Feminism itself started as a small group of radicals. By contrast think of the successful political and military takeovers within history. Are we to believe the American Revolutionar…
/r/MensRights31/10/15 12:11 AM
7

What were you going through?
/r/MensRights31/10/15 12:04 AM
2

The VA sucks, but neglect and bureaucratic incompetence does not add up to a hate crime.
/r/MensRights22/10/15 01:02 AM
1

Metal doesn't have to melt to bend or collapse. Other materials in a building can burn hotter than jet fuel.
/r/MensRights22/10/15 01:00 AM
3

For all the yellow ribbon, hooah, flag waving, support the troops rhetoric that gets flung around, we take really shitty care of our vets.
/r/MensRights22/10/15 12:58 AM
2

Thank you!
/r/MensRights22/10/15 12:16 AM
1

Dogma in, dogma out.
/r/MensRights19/10/15 10:05 PM
0

The double standards is the last thing mentioned and seems like an afterthought. A celebrity can't expect to get away with making a career out of becoming a sex object and then acting horrified when people want to see them naked and fap. Now if someone gets hacked, sure the law should be involved at the victim's discretion, but does a bare penis or tits need to become a national issue?
/r/MensRights19/10/15 09:44 PM
3

I see both genetic and cultural factors at play in the "difference between male and female." Traditionalists taught women to "protect their virtue." Purity mattered. For the Western countries, the Bible viewed women as virtual property of either their father or their husband, and a women or girl that wasn't a virgin or faithful to her husband was seen as devalued property. I think that has a lot to do with the impulse to secure a genetic legacy and not "waste" resources on raising children that …
/r/MensRights19/10/15 09:35 PM
5

That reason is cultural puritanism, which is strongly encouraged by most religions.
/r/MensRights17/10/15 07:20 PM
-1

Maybe they don't want to deal with getting a rash of shit from hyped up ideologues. Not everyone is brave enough to stand up for common sense.
/r/MensRights17/10/15 07:14 PM
13

The fire alarm mission was a success. Bring water balloons and meet me at the treehouse. Girls only.
/r/MensRights06/10/15 07:28 AM
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Let's go ahead and waste the time of the fire department and police, on taxpayer dime, meanwhile making the rest of the area less safe. For what? An attempt at censoring discussions?
/r/MensRights06/10/15 07:26 AM
2

Many people experience shifts in sexuality throughout their lifetimes. Culture and life events play roles in that process. Genes give a baseline and predispositions which vary from person to person, but anything can happen. I can't believe everyone's sexuality is set in stone from the moment of conception.
/r/MensRights06/10/15 02:55 AM
2

Capitalist values say people are worthless without jobs. Christianity says people are worthless without Jesus. Modern feminism says men are worthless if they aren't serving women somehow. Yes, this is oversimplified, but the dominant cultural themes of the US need to be examined and challenged. We are seeing the tragic results of a catastrophic lack of empathy.
/r/MensRights06/10/15 02:50 AM
0

Are you aiming at readers that oppose plutocracy but don't identify as leftist or liberal? Do you see where I am going with this?
/r/MensRights03/10/15 10:39 PM
0

I largely agree with your perspective, but the needless insults were a turnoff. Don't insult your readers.
/r/MensRights03/10/15 06:19 PM
1

Being smart does not make you always correct. Many geniuses have ideological blind spots. Beliefs are based on emotions and past experience as much or more than reason. For any given plot, the less people know, the better.
/r/MensRights03/10/15 06:03 PM
1

The article says that women are bad at tests, and then uses test results as a placeholder for intelligence. I found this article to be slanted and misleading. Differences amongst geniuses are not very relevant to what we can say about the general population.
/r/MensRights03/10/15 05:20 PM
1

Don't forget to mention comment deletions and bans...
/r/MensRights03/10/15 03:56 PM
3

Sweet, now if you could just follow me around and cite sources for my other claims that would be really awesome. Thanks.
/r/MensRights01/10/15 08:32 PM
1

I hesitate to call pandering reductionism brilliant, but I can't deny that stereotypes are effective.
/r/MensRights29/09/15 07:22 PM
-1

For what it's worth: I don't see much value in most political labels. Saying "I am a feminist" could mean anything from supporting true equality to believing that males should be exterminated. There is almost as much of a range within the MRM if you include the ultra chauvanist fringe wackos. Calling yourself an MRA won't help you persuade the vast majority of feminists or neutral fence sitters. Many internet feminists are openly hostile to the very concept of an MRA thanks to a successful well …
/r/MensRights29/09/15 07:12 PM
1

Don't worry about that accuser. The difference between a reasonable person and an ideologue is that reasonable people willingly engage in criticism of their beliefs.
/r/MensRights29/09/15 06:54 PM
12

Rail thin and tall has been the look for a long time in women's fashion. Most straight men prefer a curvier figure, emphasizing secondary sex characteristics like waist to hip ratio, round butt, and large breasts. Playboy, Maxim, GQ and Penthouse are good representations of what US men commonly find sexy. As trends and tastes shift through the years so do the appearances of the models, but still within that fit but curvy range. I don't think that fashion is aimed at men. It's a way for women to …
/r/MensRights29/09/15 06:51 PM
3

What is up with creating a very specific character, and then acting as if the world is overrun with clones of this person? This barely even qualifies as anecdotal evidence, since this profile is based on a first impression of a stranger mixed with imagination and projections. Yet, people will go to that blog and think they learned something about the way the world works. This isn't innocent fun because the character is being set up as the "new enemy." We don't need to have the same dogmatic view…
/r/MensRights29/09/15 11:38 AM
1

Nah, most of the reddit anarchists and socialists have gone full SJW and most of them are way into Marx.
/r/MensRights29/09/15 11:27 AM
1

Turns out it's that crazy manhood "professor" trolling and stirring up crap again. He just told me to kill myself on another thread. I looked up some "debates" and it's beyond pathetic, just constant interrupting, insulting, distortions, and emotinal flooding. I've met toddlers with more maturity and decorum. He fancies himself some kind of PUA guru. Ugghhhhh.
/r/MensRights29/09/15 10:46 AM
3

Ok, you've proved what an awful excuse for a person you are, and everyone hates you. Now what?
/r/MensRights29/09/15 09:30 AM
1

Sock puppet
/r/MensRights29/09/15 06:12 AM
1

Sock puppet
/r/MensRights29/09/15 06:12 AM
2

Redditor for one hour. Hi sock. Get a fucking life.
/r/MensRights29/09/15 06:09 AM
1

Wow I guess you don't care about how many newborns would die?
/r/MensRights29/09/15 06:06 AM
2

You're not making any sense. Try to form a coherent comment relevant to what I posted. Edit: another sock puppet. This crazy "professor" has multiple new accounts created today posting the same nonsensical bullshit.
/r/MensRights29/09/15 05:57 AM
2

Cool. Hope to see you over there, we could use more posts and comments. I think the vast majority of people in the modern west do support legal equality of opportunity (but not forced equality of outcome). They generally do not have the motivation or vocabulary to call themselves egalitarian or join a cause. Bit of a tangent, but legal equality of opportunity is not true equality of opportunity, for example poor schools and crime ridden neighborhoods compared to elite private schools and old mon…
/r/MensRights29/09/15 01:35 AM
1

Feminism is not based on utilitarianism. Also the kind of utilitarianism you are describing is a viewpoint I have never heard someone hold. Your conclusion (majority always takes precedence) does not follow from the base premise of utilitarianism. I lean utilitarian but I am a firm believer in individual rights as a balance against the tyranny of the majority.
/r/MensRights29/09/15 01:13 AM
2

$500 is incredibly low for a speaker's fee. They are usually at least several thousand dollars at colleges. The Clintons charge six figures. Get a grip and apologize.
/r/MensRights29/09/15 01:08 AM
2

Come join us over in /r/egalitarianism. We support equal rights, respect, and responsibility, without the baggage that comes with gender advocacy
/r/MensRights29/09/15 01:00 AM
4

Oh come on. Lust and seeking an affair are completely different things.
/r/MensRights25/08/15 09:49 PM
1

I think the reasoning goes as follows: A man hurt me. Men are dangerous. I don't feel safe around men. Don't let men near me or I won't feel safe. Now swap in an ethnicity or other category for men and see what happens. Encouraging prejudice against a whole group is a terrible way to help a victim of violence recover. Every psychologist I've read says aversions should be treated with exposure. Instead, these shelters think segregation is helpful.
/r/MensRights23/08/15 08:42 PM
5

This was a solid post but I don't think TRP philosophy is egalitarian. It embraces gender roles wholeheartedly. Many of the posts are dismissive towards women and rely on gross generalizations. Evolutionary Psychology is a very important tool for understanding human drives, but it can be twisted and slanted to serve a narrative.
/r/MensRights23/08/15 08:28 PM
2

Ideological purity or bust!
/r/MensRights02/08/15 12:57 PM
7

You sound like a defeated Nazi slave owner. /s
/r/MensRights02/08/15 12:44 PM
14

Authoritarian scum like them are obsessed with control and will silence any opposition they find. I just got banned from /r/Anarchism, and the first reason cited was too many upvotes in /r/MensRights. So, even the most supposedly anti-authoritarian group has its share of control freaks that don't want the narrative being clouded by different opinions. Rather than address issues point by point, and treat others as individuals, some people think in terms of good guys and bad guys, often defined by…
/r/MensRights02/08/15 12:43 PM
3

Confidence is usually the most important factor in dating success regardless of tactics or philosophy. Some of the basic seduction stuff like joking banter, posture, and good timing with touches does work. However, you don't need to believe any of the RP dogma to use those techniques. Courtship has been around for countless centuries, it's not like some blogger finally cracked the one true way to get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/15 08:25 AM
5

Yeah, I saw a bait post on facebook about how awful MRA villains were twirling their moustaches and writing the wrong kind of Mad Max commentary. Anyone that critiques feminism in any way is The Enemy, an aggregate mass treated as essentially one person with the same set of beliefs and actions. It was basically just a post of insults (including all the comments), a void of meaningful content. I just refrained from commenting altogether. No need to get dogpiled again for explaining simple facts.
/r/MensRights18/05/15 07:39 AM
6

Any social movement nowadays has a mixture of worthwhile content and pure insanity. When you appeal to huge numbers of people you're bound to attract both geniuses and dumbasses. Honestly is it worth digging through academic journals that only a handful of people have access to, compared to addressing bad ideas with mass appeal? The world is responding to social media at an increasing pace. Just so you're clear, I am an egalitarian humanist, and an ex-feminist. Feel free to summarize anyone you …
/r/MensRights19/03/15 02:56 AM
9

By not contributing to online discussion, for whatever reason, they let the movement get hijacked by the worst elements. No one can prove what the ratio of sensible people to extremists actually is, especially because those judgments are partly subjective. I didn't take a position on that ratio in any case. I commented on the appearance of feminism on the internet, which includes the ban-happy group-thinkers right here on reddit. A lot of the crazies are in college or fresh out of it, so I don't…
/r/MensRights19/03/15 01:54 AM
6

When idiots overstate their case, it makes their whole cause look bad. I don't see the moderate "silent majority" feminists taking any action to reign in the crazies. That gives the impression that the vocal extremists are the bulk of the movement. Resorting to denial of facts, shaming, and censorship tactics has tainted otherwise sensible ideas, and empowered hatred and delusion.
/r/MensRights19/03/15 01:27 AM
1

This happened to me too, just over a longer period and without the initial "poisoning the well" phase of reading lies about MRAs. I call myself an egalitarian humanist.
/r/MensRights17/03/15 09:19 AM
11

As far as I know that is almost word for word a Hilary Clinton quote. Apparently she thinks it is worse to grieve than to be killed...
/r/MensRights16/03/15 05:43 PM
14

Karen Straughan has a good video lecture on this. She even talks about how some of the suffragettes were terrorists, with a bomb threat.
/r/MensRights16/03/15 05:41 PM
1

Well I'm an egalitarian, which I think you call yourself too. That means anyone struggling for fairness and equal rights is my ally, and anyone inciting prejudice needs to be corrected. In my opinion I find more of the former in this sub, and more of the latter in feminist subs. Feminism has gotten increasingly dogmatic, biased, and out of touch with reality, as I see it. You are welcome to your own opinion, just look up the facts first. Also check out /r/FeMRAdebates.
/r/MensRights14/03/15 04:41 PM
13

When people disagree you make generalizations about a group? Is that productive?
/r/MensRights14/03/15 11:12 AM
13

Voting usd to be restricted to only land owning white males. Then they opened up voting to white male veterans. Something like a dozen years later all white people could vote. Civil rights didn't happen until 1965. It's worth looking up the details for yourself.
/r/MensRights14/03/15 11:07 AM
3

Everyone knows facts aren't real.
/r/MensRights01/03/15 04:51 PM
6

I think with the women using weapons it is most often kitchen tools like knives or frying pans, grabbed in a moment of panic or rage.
/r/MensRights15/02/15 08:39 AM
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I think a strike made out of anger counts, even if it is a weak hit. Fake outrage over a teasing joke doesn't count.
/r/MensRights15/02/15 08:00 AM
7

Men do cause more injuries more often, but women are more likely to use a weapon or poison. . I'm too lazy to lookup where I read that.
/r/MensRights15/02/15 07:59 AM
1

Time to sue for libel / slander. Destroying someone's reputation based on lies is not harmless, nor legal.
/r/MensRights10/02/15 12:51 PM
15

The truth is out there.
/r/MensRights10/02/15 12:34 PM
-2

But even quite reasonable and pleasant women get aggressive when I don’t have anything to contribute to their list of crimes committed by the patriarchy. Trololololololo
/r/MensRights10/02/15 12:32 PM
4

Trashytown, Florida.
/r/MensRights07/01/15 10:51 AM
2

Can you link some examples?
/r/MensRights30/12/14 08:43 PM
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Also, what about the risk of a false rape accusation? That falls disproportionately on men, especially if we follow the twisted reasoning presented.
/r/MensRights30/12/14 08:42 PM
14

You have to be 100% sure that the woman won't regret it a week later. Since this is impossible, all sex with a woman is rape according to that definition. I guess the lesbians are out of luck too.
/r/MensRights30/12/14 08:40 PM
1

English as a second language?
/r/MensRights30/12/14 08:37 PM
2

People falsely ascribing a characteristic to themselves does not disprove the existence of the characteristic.
/r/MensRights30/12/14 08:21 PM
2

That's a heartwrenching story. My condolences brother. This is why I fight so hard against stereotyping and prejudice.
/r/MensRights30/12/14 08:17 PM
3

Why don't you show us how?
/r/MensRights21/12/14 07:01 AM
0

That seems like a contradiction, if there is a justification that we are supposed to accept then why try to say it's rare?
/r/MensRights21/12/14 06:58 AM
3

As if men should get none of the credit for when things go right and all of the blame for problems. Seems legit.
/r/MensRights21/12/14 06:56 AM
1

Yes people need to take into account a.margin of error. When no margin is listed I usually assume a margin of 1-5%. I'm not a math expert but it is alarming how little people seem to know about statistics and what makes a good study. Stats can be misleading or presented out of context. Be skeptical when numbers are used in service of a political agenda.
/r/MensRights21/12/14 06:53 AM
1

In some sense voting D or R is a sign of apathy because we are too afraid of the bad guy winning to vote for the party or candidate we actually want.
/r/MensRights20/12/14 01:29 PM
3

Political parties are about power and control, not supporting the best ideas.
/r/MensRights20/12/14 01:26 PM
13

Meanwhile they insist on women only "safe spaces" because we all know men are undesirable and dangerous.
/r/MensRights20/12/14 01:23 PM
1

Many people use the terms leftist, liberal, and progressive interchangeably. I'd argue there's no one true definition of any of these words any more.
/r/MensRights18/12/14 12:55 PM
1

When the same behavior is considered heroic for one group and horrific for a rival group... yeah, I'm going to go ahead and call that bias bordering on delusion.
/r/MensRights18/12/14 12:51 PM
1

Let's start with an picture of an example of bigotry, then follow it up with a mockery of anyone who thinks that kind of bigotry exists. Makes sense.
/r/MensRights18/12/14 12:47 PM
1

Gaslighting is an attempt at rewriting history, usually to erase or whitewash actions of an abuser, or to invent / exaggerate a grievance. I've read books on narcissism and psychopathy that discuss this concept.
/r/MensRights11/12/14 12:02 PM
5

Let's just remove all the complexity and nuance from life, shall we? Don't trust your social instincts and experiences, this blog author knows the Truth behind every interaction. No women has ever overreacted. All men are cynical manipulators. All bad behavior should not only be called out but screamed about, unless it's a woman's behavior, in which case she is entitled to express all of her emotions in whatever way she wants. Did I miss anything? /s
/r/MensRights11/12/14 11:58 AM
-1

There's just not enough evidence to know what happened. The analysis and speculation is interesting, but let's not jump to conclusions. Being falsely accused of rape is horrendous, but being falsely accused of being a false accuser doesn't sound fun either. It's often a good idea to suspend belief when facing inconclusive circumstances.
/r/MensRights11/12/14 11:49 AM
1

To some people, males will always be acceptable victims. After all, tradition dictates that "men can take it." Good thing feminism is fighting so hard for men and to stop restrictive gender roles. /s
/r/MensRights11/12/14 05:32 AM
1

Toxic masculinity is an attempt at gender essentialism, defining violence as a male trait.
/r/MensRights10/12/14 12:18 PM
2

While looking up the motte and bailey concept I stumbled across this great deconstruction of SJW tactics. It may be old news to some but I thought it was a great read.
/r/MensRights10/12/14 10:11 AM
2

There's also differences between liberal, classical liberal, neoliberal, progressive, etc., and that's just for dictionary definitions. Each individual will have a somewhat different understanding of what it means to be liberal.
/r/MensRights10/12/14 08:11 AM
1

Skinheads have power in certain police departments, although you'll most likely see a crew cut / buzzcut instead of a bald dome.
/r/MensRights10/12/14 08:03 AM
1

wtfbbqskullsfortheskullthronedfnjmtdwqipsdkasfksdlf
/r/MensRights10/12/14 08:02 AM
5

It's logically impossible for two people to simultaneously rape each other, yet here we are with this law.
/r/MensRights08/12/14 11:37 PM
2

These aren't criminal proceedings, these are people playacting pretending like they're a court. You can't get locked up but could get expelled from a university.
/r/MensRights08/12/14 11:33 PM
2

America got safer and terrified at the same time.
/r/MensRights08/12/14 11:30 PM
-3

The military has never been interested in fairness. It wants effectiveness. They want to minimize risks. It seems more prudent that women and men be in separate combat units. It's not fair to fuck around with social experiments and high hopes when lives are at stake. Romantic and sexual relationships can strengthen a combat unit, but only if you have the specific culture to support it, like ancient Greek phalanxes. I can't support how the Spartans abused their boys, but it was commonplace for pa…
/r/MensRights06/12/14 01:05 PM
4

I'm not sure what your point is, rape is already a huge problem for both genders in the military.
/r/MensRights06/12/14 12:58 PM
1

I can't agree, considering the exaggerated huge round eyes and skin colors chosen. Japan likes to mix and match styles and seems to have a thing for European settings, much like many anime fans are white westerners. I guess it depends on the show or game, Samurai Champloo is clearly set in Japan, while Attack on Titan seems like Germany or France.
/r/MensRights06/12/14 12:45 PM
1

The creator has an active kickstarter for a new game. Edit: Link to the Thimbleweed Park kickstarter.
/r/MensRights06/12/14 12:38 PM
1

That's touching on a larger cultural issue, identifying light with good and safety, with darkness representing evil and danger. It makes sense when you think about day and night, or clarity versus obscurity. This gets all tangled up when you mix skin color or race into the equation.
/r/MensRights06/12/14 12:34 PM
5

Chris Rock got his wish because there are 7,000 Tyler Perry movies.
/r/MensRights06/12/14 12:30 PM
-1

He was the stinkiest turd in the Transformers toilet bowl.
/r/MensRights28/11/14 06:45 AM
1

Only trouble with that is anyone can say they are on a side, even if their only objective is to cause trouble. I want nothing to do with trolls that just attack people and make them feel unsafe.
/r/MensRights16/11/14 07:41 PM
1

Thanks!
/r/MensRights16/11/14 08:01 AM
-1

I do know about both kinds of attack. You're right, doxxing is worse because it is terrifying and dangerous to the victim in a way that shutting down a website is not.
/r/MensRights16/11/14 07:57 AM
5

Yeah those kinds of threats and sadistic photoshops are a form of psychological torture and need to stop. To draw a parallel, it's like when there is a large angry protest over a real issue, and then career criminals take advantage of the chaos to break windows, fight with people, and loot. It discredits the original protest and brings in guilt by association.
/r/MensRights16/11/14 07:56 AM
3

That's hilarious, thanks.
/r/MensRights16/11/14 07:53 AM
6

Feminism has become so broad (heh) that some sides demand all men must be feminists (see the other shirt scandal in the UK) while other feminists demand that men must GTFO. It gets fatiguing trying to please all sides and then being told you're not welcome after all. There's a double danger involved in identity politics. If you identify too strongly with an advocacy group, you'll lose your objectivity, react emotionally, and eventually become brittle or shrill. On the other hand, if no one speak…
/r/MensRights16/11/14 12:46 AM
6

I've never called myself an MRA, but as a person who believes in fairness I call myself an egalitarian. Unfortunately there's very little action on /r/egalitarianism, and the feminist subreddits shamelessly censor contrasting opinions, so I spend my time on this sub.
/r/MensRights16/11/14 12:25 AM
9

When prominent feminists make a name for themselves pulling some stunt in the name of feminists, and are not condemned but cheered on by the vast majority of mainstream feminists, it does say something about the movement. I don't need to qualify every statement I make to the point of saying"of course there are exceptions" over and over. I appreciate nuance and accuracy but this dissection of a comment is getting a bit absurd.
/r/MensRights16/11/14 12:04 AM
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How do you get from me citing actual examples of bad behavior to saying I'm claiming all self-described feminists act a certain way? If you have to put words in someone's mouth you've lost whatever argument you're trying to make. These were examples of activists doing something deliberately and consciously in the name of feminism, and making their movement look ridiculous in the process. You brought up some unrelated, hypothetical rape / assault and pinned that on the MRA. That's a really obnoxi…
/r/MensRights15/11/14 11:38 PM
2

True. There seems to be a lot of doxxing on both sides of the gender wars but I should have phrased ny comment more precisely.
/r/MensRights15/11/14 11:33 PM
19

Being banned from feminist subreddits for reasonable comments is practically a rite of passage around here. It's happened to me. /r/FeMRAdebates is worth looking at. They don't wield the banhammer arbitrarily, but are very strict about deleting comments that don't follow the rules.
/r/MensRights15/11/14 10:51 PM
100

Doxxing is awful, but for what it's worth "she started it." Aria Richards eavesdropped on a personal conversation in a public place, took pictures of the guys that were making harmless jokes, posted the picture on the internet, and smeared their reputations. Both of them got fired as a result. Considering her job was public relations in the tech sector, the backlash did not go over well. *Edit: I should have said, "attacks such as doxxing and hacking are awful..." **Edit again for clarity.
/r/MensRights15/11/14 10:32 PM
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Where to begin? You're new here and the first thing you do is essentially accuse everyone on this sub of being rape apologists. That's exactly the kind of ignorant nonsense this group is fighting. You can't get to domestic abuse being okay directly from the egalitarian principles the MRA is founded on. You can get to "men are terrible and we should be afraid of them" directly from modern internet / campus feminism. It's not just teenagers on Twitter and Tumblr. Look up the actual words of second…
/r/MensRights15/11/14 10:18 PM
0

Even in couples without kids, a non working partner can be a huge help with chores, massages, and emotional support. Sometimes they paid the bills while the other partner went to school. Few people are successful entirely on their own. I hate how money obsessed America has become. There is still a lot of injustice in family court, and alimony is pretty questionable, but splitting assets evenly makes sense to me.
/r/MensRights15/11/14 07:41 PM
2

Yes, the idea that only monetary contributions help the family or "count" is offensive and shallow. Once you get married it's no longer your money. It's the family's money. If you don't like that, don't get married. Leave raising kids to people that know how to share and compromise.
/r/MensRights15/11/14 07:36 PM
138

I think the gate suffix is amusing. We had donglegate, elevatorgate, other examples of feminists flipping out over trivial issues.
/r/MensRights15/11/14 07:30 PM
45

Well played, you should add a NSFW tag though.
/r/MensRights15/11/14 06:47 PM
6

My suggestion is to call yourself an egalitarian, it conveys the idea of equal opportunity and respect without the baggage of gender tribalism.
/r/MensRights15/11/14 12:42 PM
4

Insane ramblings, wheee. Schizophrenia?
/r/MensRights15/11/14 10:48 AM
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I believe in results. Isn't one of the main points of this sub to improve men's lives? There's something to be said for charm, and getting to know someone before condemning them. We know women are more likely to be sensitive about their weight than men are about their height. Getting all self righteous and looking to be offended is something I detest about modern feminism, so I'm not going to celebrate that here.
/r/MensRights15/11/14 09:28 AM
1

Stop appropriating shitlordkin culture!
/r/MensRights15/11/14 05:59 AM
9

[slowclap] Some people see gender itself as some kind of bogeymen. Like, all women must be masculine and all men must be feminine or it's oppression. Stop trying to be the fucking culture police, people. Just don't buy what you don't enjoy, or better yet, make an alternative that lives up to your ideals. This constant tearing down of culture because it doesn't fit a narrow political narrative is not productive. Freedom has to mean something.
/r/MensRights15/11/14 04:59 AM
10

So much of the recent internet SJW crap reminds me of bullying I saw and experienced growing up. "Oh, you play games and like science, what's wrong with you, you must hate women. Nerd!" Now this guy wearing a loud, goofy shirt is more noteworthy than an unprecedented scientific breakthrough? Guess what, people are different, they can choose to marry or not, date who they want, wear what they want, like the things they like, joke around how they want. Embrace real diversity! Stop the shaming. Don…
/r/MensRights15/11/14 04:53 AM
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I guess it was more important to prove a point than get a date? Don't throw yourself on the altar of activism.
/r/MensRights15/11/14 03:44 AM
0

Do you have a source for that, that isn't a butt?
/r/MensRights15/11/14 03:42 AM
1

I agree completely. There will always be hateful morons to chastise, but the important legal battles for women were won long ago.
/r/MensRights15/11/14 03:38 AM
3

The main problem I have with the internet version of social justice is that it constantly seeks to generalize. Men are like this, woman are like that, whites are always oppressors, etc. No. The world is complex. Individuals are much more than a collection of demographics. Assuming that because a person looks a certain way that they are a certain way is the definition of prejudice. Fighting fire with fire is stupid. We'll never end bigotry by simply changing the targets of hate and fear. I see th…
/r/MensRights15/11/14 01:50 AM
0

That's only true for the cultural west, like the US and Europe.
/r/MensRights14/11/14 11:42 PM
14

Radfems need to do some research. Originally in Old English, man meant person. Wer meant male adult / husband and wifman meant female adult / wife. I'm not an etymology or dead language expert, but I can look stuff up. http://en.m.wiktionary.org/wiki/man#Old_English
/r/MensRights14/11/14 11:29 PM
5

It's okay to point out differences between groups of people, if it's factual and respectful. It's not okay to use those differences to attack one of those groups. That's prejudice. Men on average being most physically attracted to 21 year olds is not "immature." Another example: white people mentioning hair color is somehow terrible, but black people mentioning dreads is legit. WTF?
/r/MensRights14/11/14 09:26 PM
6

You don't get it, shitlord. Showing armed men with perfect bodies in skin tight outfits is just fine, while showing a woman like that is incredibly offensive. It's not my job to educate you why double standards are liberating.
/r/MensRights14/11/14 09:19 PM
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Show women as powerful. Don't show women as powerful. Show women as powerful. Don't show women as powerful. Show women as powerful. Don't show women as powerful. Confused?
/r/MensRights14/11/14 09:13 PM
16

Being a spouse or parent doesn't disqualify anyone from being an evil fuck.
/r/MensRights09/11/14 03:23 AM
1

Too much work. I just sit on it.
/r/MensRights05/11/14 05:27 AM
1

So was it okay for Dave Foley's crazy ex wife to get 17 grand a month too? I'm not a gender partisan, and I don't have sympathy for people that want to be rich but end up well off. Alimony is usually bullshit, and child support is supposed to cover the child's actual needs. Halle Berry is free to give as much extra money as she wants, but the courts forcing an obscene sum from anyone is wrong.
/r/MensRights04/11/14 04:52 AM
5

A quick search confirms that child support is not taxable income. http://divorcesupport.about.com/od/childsupportresources/f/childsupp_tax.htm
/r/MensRights03/11/14 10:19 PM
-1

Give me a break, talk to us about needs instead of wants.
/r/MensRights03/11/14 10:02 PM
1

I'm aware, I do see the irony. Not being able to see your child and paying a small fortune for their upkeep is a problem that disproportionately affects men. I had a friend that was seduced by his babysitter, who poked holes in the condom, and then he was on the hook for payments for 18 years starting when he was a teenager.
/r/MensRights03/11/14 09:55 PM
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$16,000 /month is ridiculous regardless of gender. Kids don't cost that much. $192,000 a year just for a kid or two? Please. If the child was used to a certain lifestyle before a breakup, too bad, sorry kid, life sucks sometimes. Do you have a nice place to live, plenty of food, toys, gadgets, doctor's visits, trips to the zoo and museums? Your life is materially far better than 99% of the rest of the world. As for a sneak attack battery, the attacker guy should be in jail. That shouldn't affect…
/r/MensRights03/11/14 09:26 PM
34

One has a right to be safe, not to feel safe.
/r/MensRights03/11/14 09:19 PM
2

It is absurd, but not unprecedented. Coke owns a shade of red and Pepsi a shade of blue. It's only relevant in the case of competition / customer confusion. It's pretty scummy for one charity to sue another when they ostensibly have the same goal.
/r/MensRights03/11/14 05:43 PM
1

The phrase "...women have been held back in business" doesn't work, because it is implying that some person or group is actively and specifically stopping women from succeeding. Business is a constant and sometimes cruel competition. Failure is common, about 9/10 companies go belly up within a year or two.
/r/MensRights03/11/14 07:23 AM
3

Ironically, within the US there has never been a more peaceful time, and women have more options and respect than ever. There will always be bigots and criminals, but cherry picking examples while ignoring trends is just foolish.
/r/MensRights03/11/14 06:13 AM
1

You're not allowed to enjoy things you like, because I have this huge bag of criticisms. I don't feel welcome in Victoria's Secret so there must be a conspiracy to oppress all men. /s
/r/MensRights03/11/14 06:09 AM
2

May as well pick on an easier target, even if it makes your claims incoherent. Go ahead and condemn a group that's already picked on instead of actual oppressors that can hurt you.
/r/MensRights03/11/14 06:05 AM
5

Prejudice is bad except when I do it!
/r/MensRights03/11/14 06:02 AM
1

It's the same shit I grew up with in the 80's and 90's. D&D will make you worship Satan, comics are for little kids, video games lead to school shootings. This hateful bullshit needs to go, whether Pat Robertson said it or some clueless self promoting gender warrior, it's a subtle form of bigotry. I had to stop giving a shit if the popular kids and older generation approved of my hobbies, and decided to live with integrity. I don't see Sarkeesian going after My Little Pony for not having enough …
/r/MensRights03/11/14 05:40 AM
4

Is there violence against women in games? Yes, it exists. So what. There is a hundred times more violence against male characters. If you want to condemn violence against innocent non-combatants, well, it's your choice to not play a game like Hitman, or to stealth your way through, or to only shoot guards, whatever. We don't need to cry to the developers that they included too many options in their product.
/r/MensRights03/11/14 05:31 AM
2

The market crashes were not caused by too much government interference... quite the opposite.
/r/MensRights01/11/14 10:25 PM
2

All we have left is this fucking lembas bread.
/r/MensRights01/11/14 03:43 AM
1

Women tend to be attracted to success and strength, not evil itself.
/r/MensRights31/10/14 05:31 PM
1

That's a good point. Maybe the difference is that narcissists aren't aware of the harm they are doing, or just don't care, where psychopaths are more sadistic and deliberate in their actions. In any case, treating a human like an object to be used up and discarded is the basis of evil.
/r/MensRights31/10/14 05:30 PM
0

I don't find slavery, genocide, and child rape morally acceptable because it was more common in the ancient world. You're entitled to your opinion though.
/r/MensRights31/10/14 04:05 PM
2

Thanks. I've studied psychopathy and narcissism, and I think they are closely related if not identical collections of traits. In my view a psychopath is just an extreme narcissist. So, I don't see the concept of a dark triad as a necessary distinction. It's unfortunate and a bit sick that our culture glorifies such people. I view mental health disorders on a spectrum so you can have a lot or a little of a trait or condition.
/r/MensRights31/10/14 04:11 AM
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Hey, that's some smart analysis. Regarding DV and rape: I think it's very close to 50/50. The studies I've read show men at 40-45% of victims of DV (One was cited in the UK Guardian.) Some studies show lesbian couples as having the highest rate for violence, and women being slightly more frequent as abusers in relationships where the violence wasn't mutual. Throw in +/- 5% margin of error and men's reluctance to report, and you're looking at very close to equal stats. For rape, if you include "m…
/r/MensRights31/10/14 02:00 AM
1

Honestly, I've almost never voted for a Republican, but I do like the old fashioned ideal of voting for the best candidate regardless of party. Don't expect a political candidate to issue a public statement that will anger over half of their "base." They have to win primaries as well as general elections. Sadly, principles take a backseat to perceptions in politics.
/r/MensRights31/10/14 01:50 AM
1

What's a "rich dark triad"?
/r/MensRights31/10/14 01:43 AM
5

I'm reminded of my favorite bible verse, from Numbers: "14 Moses was angry with the officers of the army—the commanders of thousands and commanders of hundreds—who returned from the battle. 15 “Have you allowed all the women to live?” he asked them. 16 “They were the ones who followed Balaam’s advice and enticed the Israelites to be unfaithful to the Lord in the Peor incident, so that a plague struck the Lord’s people. 17 Now kill all the boys. And kill every woman who has slept with a man, 18 b…
/r/MensRights31/10/14 01:38 AM
3

The Susan G. Komen Foundation owns the pink ribbon and even the shade of pink used. They're terrible all around. They barely even help cancer research. Here's my comprehensive investigative report.
/r/MensRights31/10/14 01:17 AM
0

An idea doesn't need to be correct to be popular. Do you need examples?
/r/MensRights30/10/14 02:54 PM
1

People that don't reckon with evolution's impact on human behavior are fools. Activists that want to fix human nature are often dangerously misguided. We can reduce real threats like violence and rampant exploitation without having a tightly controlled, uptight society.
/r/MensRights29/10/14 08:36 PM
1

All Republicans believe in liberty and small government. All Democrats believe in helping the working class. /s
/r/MensRights29/10/14 08:32 PM
7

Don't forget white knights that act like bullies when their social status is on the line. I'm left-wing as fuck but all these pushy liberal litmus tests are starting to sicken me.
/r/MensRights29/10/14 08:14 PM
1

slowclap
/r/MensRights29/10/14 12:10 PM
17

"...the SWAT team was involved in a shooting, and our subject is now deceased."
/r/MensRights27/10/14 08:12 AM
10

On average, men have significantly higher testosterone. High testosterone in young men, which peaks about 17-24, has linked both to achievement (given opportunity) and violence (given abusive conditions).
/r/MensRights25/10/14 09:21 PM
-5

You have to take consent into account . If the players are having fun with flirty ass grabbing, then there is no problem. If someone gives a stern look or says no then it's wrong for any gender to pursue touching.
/r/MensRights25/10/14 09:17 PM
1

Some of this is very old hate. All through the 80's and 90's we heard that games made you violent, D&D was from the devil, etc. Columbine was blamed on gaming and the wrong kind of music. There's no solid study that shows gaming is linked to violence, but the same shaming and fear remains. Why do people not get that just because you can be classified as part of a group, it does not make you responsible for the actions of those who share that category. All this stereotyping is absurdly shallow.
/r/MensRights23/10/14 06:59 PM
1

You forgot "points," "web," "weird," and "didn't," and "Post." If you're going to correct someone, go all the way. ;)
/r/MensRights22/10/14 11:59 PM
1

The Dude abides.
/r/MensRights22/10/14 12:20 PM
1

I use a simple test, replace men with black people then see how it sounds. Black tears, get rid of all blacks, blacks should bow down. Don't worry, it's all jokes, so it can't possibly be bigotry! Don't say "not all blacks" because all white people are afraid!
/r/MensRights21/10/14 10:29 PM
1

It's still defining people as a collection of group demographics they fit, as opposed to individuals with unique experiences. Statistics don't translate to the individual level, especially when you are cherry picking numbers in a biased way.
/r/MensRights21/10/14 10:07 PM
20

From the comment policy: "We also won’t publish comments that are aggressive, sexist, racist or in any other way discriminatory or derogatory." Are you f'ing kidding me?
/r/MensRights21/10/14 11:11 AM
0

Alienation and fragmenting communities aren't desirable pursuits. We should learn to get along with people that are different.
/r/MensRights21/10/14 10:38 AM
2

From the intro paragraph, no it does not hit the mark. Is your plan to make MRAs associated with murderous thoughts and cynical manipulation?
/r/MensRights19/10/14 10:41 PM
3

That was fantastic. Women must be allowed to speak, as long as they agree with me. Men must be allowed not to speak. I feel like we're reaching a tipping point where a lot of people are seeing through the distortions, lies, and bully tactics of modern feminism.
/r/MensRights19/10/14 10:33 PM
12

What a bunch of horseshit. "I want to support equality but I just can't." Anybody should be socially allowed to express desire or admiration for someone in a lighthearted way, assuming they respect relationship boundaries. Humans are sexual. Let's get over it please. Objectification? People are used like objects around the clock in the workplace. Sexual fantasies should be taken as a compliment, ideally. You can't diminish someone's value as a person just by wanting to hump them.
/r/MensRights19/10/14 10:24 PM
2

They must be handing out lots of mining and trash collection jobs to women, right?
/r/MensRights19/10/14 10:13 PM
36

Truly disgusting. "Gee, thanks for sharing your stories, it makes me feel better about beating the shit out of my lover." In this case it's not just random feminists celebrating violence, but the editors of Jezebel! You gotta love the comments. Since there aren't any battered men's shelters, therefore no men are abused. Impeccable reasoning.
/r/MensRights19/10/14 10:11 PM
1

It's nice to see that even Muslims are embracing biblical values! /s (Look up the Midianites in Numbers)
/r/MensRights19/10/14 09:59 PM
2

Hold up, it is not government's responsibility or right to stop undesirable speech. Other than that I agree.
/r/MensRights19/10/14 08:09 PM
1

These hateful thoughts are not new. Look up Andrea Dworkin, Catherine MacKinnon, Valerie Salanis.
/r/MensRights19/10/14 08:07 PM
2

That's a shame her dad was a necrophiliac torturer that raped her mom to steal her magic chakra juju. So much crazy on display! Parthenogenesis? Men are merely helpers? Energy theft? Consent is meaningless? Wooo, the comments are priceless.
/r/MensRights19/10/14 08:03 PM
2

Um, I've seen way too many racial slurs to consider 4chan liberal.
/r/MensRights19/10/14 07:50 PM
0

Eh, I hate gotcha titles. The article was making good points, I probably could have written the same stuff so I lost interest.
/r/MensRights19/10/14 07:46 PM
1

Your audience will be mixed, so use facts, stories, analogies, humor, everything.
/r/MensRights19/10/14 07:39 PM
0

Well said! If I jump in on FB condemning the threat but also saying that it doesn't reflect on larger groups, it will be another shitstorm. I'm choosing to bow out and just "unfollow" certain people.
/r/MensRights15/10/14 08:21 AM
3

Yeah that's been close to my experience debating gender issues on reddit and facebook. /r/FeMRAdebates would be an exception.
/r/MensRights15/10/14 08:18 AM
-1

Inflicting fear on someone is a problem in and of itself. We should be skeptical of claims, yes, but also consider the emotions of the targets.
/r/MensRights15/10/14 06:32 AM
2

Yes, actually. In the past I've been very outspoken about questioning religion, and now somewhat distanced from my fervently theistic family members. We generally don't talk about that issue anymore, and I don't snap if someone says "God bless you" or something. There are times I choose to let things go and times I choose to be bluntly honest. Watching your mouth is the blessing and curse of civilization and maintaining relationships. I've burned some bridges debating feminism and not sure I wan…
/r/MensRights15/10/14 06:31 AM
7

A threat is a threat, regardless if it is anonymous or not. Why would someone identify themselves and make an easy target for law enforcement? Online harassment sometimes takes a very dark turn and escalates into stalking, doxxing, and attempts at psychological torture.
/r/MensRights15/10/14 06:06 AM
2

Yeah, two ex-girlfriends with that same sexist attitude both escalated from talking about this in the abstract to hitting me on the shoulder in anger. I hope it doesn't happen to OP.
/r/MensRights15/10/14 05:55 AM
2

...unless that bouncer was a woman.
/r/MensRights15/10/14 05:53 AM
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Poe's law strikes! I thought this was real because it echoed the writings of prominent 2nd wave feminists like MacKinnon and Dworkin.
/r/MensRights15/10/14 05:51 AM
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I admit that all my opponents are deluded idiots. I'll give you that.
/r/MensRights15/10/14 05:45 AM
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Death threats are a big deal whether or not actual violence follows. No one should be terrorized, no matter how wrong they are.
/r/MensRights15/10/14 05:41 AM
1

Some of my friends are already mobilizing to lay this at the feet of MRAs, gamers, or even all men. It's not worth debating them anymore, there's just too much emotional fallout from questioning feminism and no one seems persuadable. Feminists as a group didn't take responsibility for the death threats against the AVFM men's rights conference in Detroit, so I don't know if there's a point calling my friends out on their hypocrisy.
/r/MensRights15/10/14 05:37 AM
1

From the same group that brought us #yesallwomen (are victims / afraid of men) as a wonderful enlightened ray of sunshine, and considers the tag #notallmen (are violent rapists) as worthy of mockery.
/r/MensRights15/10/14 05:29 AM
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Over 90% of workplace injuries, including fatalities are suffered by men. Men have a much higher rate for suicide. There are many more homeless men than women. Look around the links on the sidebar and you can find many more examples and evidence.
/r/MensRights15/10/14 05:23 AM
3

"I'm sorry!"
/r/MensRights15/10/14 05:09 AM
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That's why I said "most." There have been cases of severing the entire glans, dying from infection, dying from bleeding out. It's disgusting that medical professionals pressure new parents (who are often sleep deprived and in shock) to get an unnecessary, painful, and risky cosmetic surgery on their newborn. If it's wrong and stupid to "dock" a dog's ears, why does our culture encourage nonconsensual infant genital trimming? I lay this at the doors of religion and traditionalism. <sup>*</sup> <s…
/r/MensRights14/10/14 12:27 AM
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I am strongly opposed to circumcision, but you can still have a normal sex life in most cases, where female circumcision makes sex painful or impossible. There is a difference.
/r/MensRights14/10/14 12:14 AM
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That was disturbing and sad. All their happiness evaporated.
/r/MensRights14/10/14 12:10 AM
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I'd like to give a shout out to /r/FeMRAdebates. It's purpose is for intelligent discussion between rival gender activists, plus egalitarians. It is heavily moderated so check out the rules before posting.
/r/MensRights14/10/14 12:02 AM
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Heh, I wouldn't go that far. I just believe in intellectual integrity, and that means every belief system and claim is open to question.
/r/MensRights06/10/14 07:11 AM
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Fighting to improve lives in foreign countries counts as cultural imperialism but trying to transform society for your own ends is justice.
/r/MensRights06/10/14 05:10 AM
1

Are you pure? If not, get out.
/r/MensRights06/10/14 04:53 AM
3

Recently I asked a feminist, "don't you want to understand your conservative opponents, so you can persuade them better?" Her response was a "joke" about spraying conservatives with mace. I'm actually mostly left wing but getting appalled with the juvenile tactics we're seeing.
/r/MensRights06/10/14 04:51 AM
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Men have an easier time getting leadership positions and higher paying jobs. They don't get harassed or disrespected as often. I think that it all balances out on the whole, especially since there aren't that many great jobs to go around.
/r/MensRights03/10/14 12:06 PM
1

So sorry to hear that. Your life will get back to normal soon.
/r/MensRights03/10/14 12:02 PM
3

Who are you? I can't remember.
/r/MensRights03/10/14 11:37 AM
1

For children, it's the game of life itself, my friend. Your genes want to replicate themselves. For a spouse, ideally it's about having a partner, ally, friend and lover rolled into one. It's up to the individual couple to make it work well.
/r/MensRights27/09/14 08:36 AM
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I'm in full agreement. Free education has worked spectacularly for countries like Germany. These group based scholarships are divisive, despite good intentions.
/r/MensRights26/09/14 08:49 PM
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I don't think it's because there are 51% of women that women's causes get more attention. Karen Straughan has a good video on how we have instincts to protect women, and for good evolutionary reasons. There's also culture and history to consider but that's a complicated topic.
/r/MensRights26/09/14 07:05 PM
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On the one hand I support freedom of speech and the ability to donate one's money as they see fit. On the other hand, demographics tribalism like a lot of these scholarships really bothers me. Class is an issue that affects us all, but everyone's so distracted fighting for their identity as a member of a race, a gender, a sexuality, political party, and a religion to cooperate.
/r/MensRights26/09/14 07:02 PM
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You're generalizing too much about family cause and effect here. There are "nice guys" that come out of sexist homes and entitled assholes that come out of gender balanced homes. Do you know of any research that backs up what you are saying?
/r/MensRights26/09/14 10:05 AM
5

This wank conversation seems... circular.
/r/MensRights26/09/14 09:03 AM
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Of course she was. Male drivers are terrifying brutes. My roommate was perfectly safe walking home with me, or probably even alone, but she wanted to avoid the rain. She later turned out to be crazy. A few key stories: She spent over $30 on fabric to cover my thrift store furniture and then demanded I pay her the money. She confiscated the mail box keys, we later found out she had adult materials she was embarrassed about. She was verbally abusive. She started a fight with another roommate then …
/r/MensRights24/09/14 08:57 AM
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California. I'd prefer not to be more specific.
/r/MensRights23/09/14 09:47 PM
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This remind me of a story from college. My roommate and I were going to walk home from campus. She says, "oh, it looks like it's going to rain, I'm going to call the safe ride service." I questioned her rationale, but it was her choice to call. They show up and let her on board. I try to get in behind her and am denied. I said, "look, we're going to the exact same place." I was told that the service was for women only, no exceptions. So, I walked home by myself in pouring rain.
/r/MensRights23/09/14 06:53 AM
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Yeah I guess you're right, if the goal was to portray women as weak as helpless instead of strong and capable.
/r/MensRights22/09/14 11:01 PM
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She sounded like she was about to burst into tears at any moment, which was distracting. I would think a trained actor and international star would have more stage presence. It is a step forward for a prominent feminist to examine how the movement is being perceived and try to figure out why.
/r/MensRights22/09/14 07:59 PM
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"It’s supposed to prove that female victims of domestic violence receive sympathy and protection while male victims are scorned and humiliated." (Cue scorning of male victims) "By uncritically deploying statistics..." Instead, use cherry picked statistics from multiple countries! "...and universalising..." We can't "universalize" the problem because demonization and stereotypes are awesome! "...men need to take responsibility both individually and collectively for male violence towards women." C…
/r/MensRights18/09/14 09:58 AM
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When someone was raised with abuse it means we should have compassion for them, it does not excuse their actions. I'd like to see free therapy programs offered, especially for parents, but the government would rather spend our money on fighter planes and bank bailouts.
/r/MensRights18/09/14 09:45 AM
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It's not a mystery, it's evolutionary psychology. Our genes will, uh, find a way. They'll replicate themselves if they can. Survive and reproduce, the two laws of organic life.
/r/MensRights18/09/14 09:41 AM
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That's a no win situation. Badmouthing the other parent is bad for kids and so generally a rotten thing to do, but when you're dealing with a psychopath people need to be warned not to trust that person. It sounds like a limited version of the truth was the best compromise you could come up with. Being raised by a person with bad values and no empathy is horrible so maybe it's for the best the housekeeper was more of a mom to your kids than your ex. I wish you the best, that sounds like a lot of…
/r/MensRights18/09/14 09:39 AM
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Learn to have some fucking compassion for someone sharing their personal story of pain and missed opportunities.
/r/MensRights18/09/14 09:33 AM
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It's another article that treats a group containing millions of diverse people as a single fucked up individual. It's awesome to judge a group based on the worst offenses of a handful, eh?
/r/MensRights18/09/14 08:45 AM
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For a normal breakup, it's better to be classy and communicate in person. When leaving someone who threatens, hits, and abuses, your physical and emotional safety is far more important than social conventions and politeness.
/r/MensRights18/09/14 08:40 AM
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You aren't going to change this person. There's nothing to gain by sticking around to be a victim. All you can do is protect yourself.
/r/MensRights18/09/14 08:37 AM
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You can handle a breakup, even if it takes time. Can you handle being with someone who doesn't treat you with love or respect? Can you handle being threatened? Can you handle being with someone that spreads lies about you to turn friends against you?
/r/MensRights18/09/14 08:36 AM
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Wouldn't it be nice if a source was provided when statistics are used? 1 in 12 people will disagree with my comment.
/r/MensRights17/09/14 08:14 PM
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This made me sick to my stomach. As if circumcision wasn't bad enough, the extra risks of amputation on a helpless infant are disgusting.
/r/MensRights17/09/14 07:38 PM
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The SPLC did not call the MRM a hate group. That's blatant misinformation. They did call attention to specific examples of hate, but hatred exists within feminism as well. That teacher's name sounded Latino to me, not white, but in any case so what? If is highly offensive to question someone's abilities or character based on race and gender. Knock it off. The author reveals her bigotry plainly.
/r/MensRights19/08/14 09:49 PM
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A site filled with fight videos and other trashy content.
/r/MensRights16/08/14 05:43 AM
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Well said. However, labeling yourself as an activist for just one demographic (MRA, feminist, black power, whatever) is not going to encourage a thoughtful dialogue and tends to encourage bias. Every group has specific problems it faces, but we have a lot more in common as humans, so I think the most ethical approach is to be inclusive. When you take up a banner for just one segment of the population it leads to tribalism and bickering. The silent majority needs to get off its ass and start deno…
/r/MensRights13/08/14 03:10 PM
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I want people to be honest and thoughtful. I also want a minimum level of courtesy and respect shown to others, including ideological opponents. I'm not saying you do this, but name calling and accusations aren't necessary to get one's point across. Some ideas are offensive by their very nature. Being truthful isn't an excuse for bile and bigotry.
/r/MensRights13/08/14 03:02 PM
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where there's an attempt to police discussion based on offensiveness there are human beings who are offended. FTFY. Let's have some respect for people with different opinions and feelings without having to label them as intolerant or "the enemy." There are a lot of good reasons to be civil, even though civility is dying on the internet. Are you the type of person that throws around racial slurs because you think having a big mouth is more important than getting along with others? Even if you don…
/r/MensRights13/08/14 12:15 PM
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To me feminism no longer means egalitarian, so I dropped that label. Since feminism now fights for women as a class whether they need it or not they end up reinforcing a lot of old cliches and gender roles, like the example you cited.
/r/MensRights13/08/14 10:11 AM
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A stressor is not the same as a singular or even primary cause of an event.
/r/MensRights13/08/14 10:08 AM
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Trouble is relative. His mansion was worth 15 to 22 million. That's far more resources than we'll ever have. He wasn't about to be out on the streets scavenging cigarette butts and soda cans.
/r/MensRights13/08/14 10:06 AM
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OMG I got so much shit for calling out my friends on Facebook over that issue. That's when I realized modern feminism had gotten out of control and turned into an excuse to be biased and close minded. People had read one hit piece on Jezebel about MRAs and thought they were experts. Otherwise rational and cool people turned into assholes when I questioned demonization tactics and dogma. In regards to the current post, some good points are being made but tread fucking lightly when trying to polit…
/r/MensRights13/08/14 09:53 AM
1

NAFALT! Just every last one you come across...
/r/MensRights12/08/14 02:13 AM
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That makes sense. First ladies get more than enough perks, so I don't feel bad for them for a second. It's also rather ridiculous for Limbaugh or whoever to scream about communism whenever a prominent Democrat goes on vacation. These aren't important issues.
/r/MensRights07/08/14 10:33 AM
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We vote for the package deal, potential first ladies are judged and criticized during election seasons.
/r/MensRights07/08/14 04:55 AM
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I like the phrase "your rights end at the start of my nose." That was not Jay Mohr, but a stand in. I think the "misunderstanding" was deliberate and underhanded, but then again some people are incredibly poor listeners. I just can't stand to hear public figures make blatant fallacies then act like they won the debate.
/r/MensRights03/08/14 11:20 AM
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Clever little slide. "There's no such thing as fighting words," okay fine, followed by talking about a women throwing blows as if it's in the same category as rude words or burning a meal. Glib scumbag, so disingenuous.
/r/MensRights03/08/14 05:31 AM
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The thrill of surviving hazards and being successful at violence are not social constructs... we evolved this way. The world used to be a much more dangerous place. Ever since civilization took root, it allowed for technical and social development that more than doubled the average lifespan. Fantasy violence, hunting and questing fill a need, and this need is usually greater when you have more testosterone. Cultural messages are added to the biological framework. In the savage world it makes sen…
/r/MensRights26/07/14 03:14 AM
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I don't believe in excluding "outsiders" from essentially public online discussions, based on demographics beyond their control. Moderating trolls is one thing, suppressing dissent is another. "Sorry, only white transsexual Christians are allowed to reply to me. Please direct your hate towards everyone else not in my chosen group."
/r/MensRights22/07/14 11:41 PM
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They weren't saying not to resort to insults, just to select their targets based on gender. That's raw sexism. Clinging to being condescending to skeptics isn't helping either.
/r/MensRights22/07/14 10:43 PM
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Crony capitalism is an inevitable result of the "free" market. Power begets power. Advantages accumulate over time.
/r/MensRights22/07/14 10:39 PM
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A) Women shouldn't have to live in fear. B) All women should fear all men. Hmmm, looks like modern feminism wants us to believe both those statements.
/r/MensRights18/07/14 09:17 PM
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The word feminism seems to have lost meaning since no one can seem to agree on what it stands for. Them, they accuse each other of being misinformed idiots, as if being smug means that you're always correct. Feminism is either a movement for equality or a movement for women's supremacy, or something in between. You can't have it both ways. If it's truly about equality call it egalitarianism or humanism, because a word named after one gender can't possibly encompass all issues of fairness.
/r/MensRights12/07/14 05:52 AM
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Yeah, one word invalidates the viewpoints of fifteen different people at once. It's magic.
/r/MensRights12/07/14 05:49 AM
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The internet has become a place where if you dare to disagree, someone will call you stupid (or worse) within a few hours. Civility is losing. I admit I've sworn or insulted a few trolls and aggressive types but I never throw the first punch. It's sad and frustrating that people have lost so much respect for each other and don't care about having a diversity of viewpoints.
/r/MensRights12/07/14 05:48 AM
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I love how "derailing" is really just code for "disagreeing."
/r/MensRights12/07/14 05:28 AM
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She sounds like she has severe narcissism. Everything's about her. Look up NPD.
/r/MensRights12/07/14 02:01 AM
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Here's the problem with this notallmen meme bullshit. A: "Not all black people are criminals. #YesAllWhites was demonizing us." B: "Shut the fuck up you racist trash! Stop defending them! You're derailing white voices! Your role here is to listen to my grievances and then feel ashamed."
/r/MensRights11/07/14 04:40 PM
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That's nice but you're still expected to leave a tip.
/r/MensRights11/07/14 04:09 PM
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I sympathize. I ran into money problems and emotional troubles and washed out of computer science courses, and never finished college. However, there are some great tutorials on the web, and I know a friend that is a SDE at a major tech firm and he is self taught. Try starting with something relatively simple but practical like Javascript. Webmonkey was a great resource for learning stuff like that.
/r/MensRights11/07/14 04:07 PM
1

That honestly sounds like discrimination at that point.
/r/MensRights11/07/14 04:02 PM
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If the immigrants were paid a decent wage, their spending would drive consumer demand and lead to more jobs in the long run.
/r/MensRights11/07/14 03:56 PM
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That's grounds for a lawsuit if he has any proof.
/r/MensRights11/07/14 03:52 PM
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Excellent point. I saw a good analogy on here once, "burglary culture." If only we explained to everyone that stealing is wrong, we would live in a theft free utopia. There's a perfectionist attitude happening with many activists. If the world isn't just so, then everyone should feel constantly depressed, angry, and afraid. I doubt that approach will end any problems, but it sure makes people bitter.
/r/MensRights11/07/14 03:10 PM
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You do see characters that promote violence against women, but they are always the villains. They almost always get a comeuppance, from a severe beating to being murdered by the hero.
/r/MensRights11/07/14 03:05 PM
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Double standards are totally a responsible message.
/r/MensRights11/07/14 03:00 PM
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I agree with that sentiment, but I draw the line when the creators want to censor who can "enjoy" the exhibit, and used taxpayer money to build their pile of shit. Coming up next, enjoy my publically financed "Dark Skin is Scary House of Horrors", only open to whites (octaroons are allowed on Wednesdays).
/r/MensRights10/07/14 05:35 AM
2

Think of it this way: how can someone justify involuntary cosmetic surgery that damages a baby?
/r/MensRights08/07/14 01:06 PM
1

Hatred is not a substitute for a movement. It will just drag you all down and spoil progress towards the decent goals.
/r/MensRights07/07/14 11:20 PM
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It's been my experience that anyone that feels the need to tell me what my own beliefs are is either dull, heavily biased, or both. You're not worth talking to.
/r/MensRights07/07/14 11:18 PM
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Fucking christ you're lazy. It took me five seconds to google Zionism. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Zionism
/r/MensRights07/07/14 11:01 PM
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I was talking about the security donations. I just find the whole thing suspicious now that I've looked into it more, after defending AVFM etc. previously. An honest person is not likely to start name calling as soon as people make inquiries.
/r/MensRights07/07/14 08:26 PM
1

You still have to explain how "x is not x". Do you know what a generalization is?
/r/MensRights07/07/14 08:20 PM
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Nope. When more people who have heard if your group hate you than know what you are about, that's a PR failure.
/r/MensRights07/07/14 08:17 PM
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I studied history. Google Palestinian and you'll get all the evidence you want, pick a source.
/r/MensRights07/07/14 08:13 PM
1

Saying "the leftists" followed by something negative isn't generalizing? Explain that one. The conservatives are...
/r/MensRights07/07/14 08:10 PM
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The question is not why a feminist would care, but if a reasonable person smells something fishy. Based on Elam's aggression and secrecy, something stinks.
/r/MensRights07/07/14 08:03 PM
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Fuck you right back. I am not trolling, this is sincere. Do you have anything worthwhile to contribute to the discussion?
/r/MensRights07/07/14 08:01 PM
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I don't think it is any more wise to generalize about leftists than it is to stereotype conservatives.
/r/MensRights07/07/14 08:00 PM
1

What's your evidence for that?
/r/MensRights07/07/14 07:58 PM
2

So you're saying everything is fine because AVFM is essentially a business? One person with secret records is not accountable. Last I checked businesses didn't go begging for charity. If I am to donate money I'd rather feed the hungry than pay the rent of a loudmouth on the internet.
/r/MensRights07/07/14 07:57 PM
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Nope, try again. Paul Elam told me to go fuck myself a few hours ago. You can read it for yourself.
/r/MensRights07/07/14 12:00 PM
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Funny, I just got called a Patriarch and banned by againstmensrights a few hours ago. Ideology is a hell of a drug. Not all criticism can be deflected by assuming it is your opponents out to get you. That site he made Register-Her was doxxing people, which is a shameful tactic of intimidation and incitement. I believe in due process.
/r/MensRights07/07/14 11:59 AM
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Prove it is all bullshit then if it is so flimsy.
/r/MensRights07/07/14 11:57 AM
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He's a leader whether I like it or not. Professional activists are less likely to be objective since their income relies on getting attention and donations.
/r/MensRights07/07/14 11:56 AM
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If you guys really don't care how the movement is perceived, then I don't understand how you plan to spread ideas to more than a handful of people.
/r/MensRights07/07/14 11:53 AM
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Go fuck yourself too, Paul. I'm letting you know what I heard today. If you want to make it personal and act like an asshole so be it. If you can't respond to criticism without lashing out and insulting others, then you are a terrible leader for any movement. I regret ever standing up for you.
/r/MensRights07/07/14 09:49 AM
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Honestly I don't trust enough, nor am I in a position to give, not to I consider MRM to be my top charity objective. Here's why I care. Credibility. I don't want to see common sense ideas and fairness take a hit because of the appearance of misdeeds. Now with some people, the mere mention of your name and that I support some of your ideas, is enough to get me downvoted and banned on reddit. Some of them will always be close minded, abut others more neutral can be persuaded. Don't give ammunition…
/r/MensRights07/07/14 08:10 AM
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We want more transparency than a reddit post. Where is the money being held? How is it safe from being tampered with? You don't automatically have the trust of everyone. You accused someone asking reasonable questions of lying, which is a huge red flag to go on the defensive so quickly.
/r/MensRights07/07/14 06:50 AM
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Many feminists are convinced that Paul Elam is pocketing some or all of the money. I just got through discussing this on againstmensrights, and got downvoted then banned no matter how reasonable I tried to be. Since AVFM is not a non-profit there really needs to be some transparency here.
/r/MensRights07/07/14 06:47 AM
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Wow, I upvoted you at first, then retracted it and stopped reading after you kept insulting me and jumping to conclusions. Fuck off if you can't keep it civil.
/r/MensRights07/07/14 05:14 AM
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Yeah, I hear what you're saying. While I was glad to see the 1% meme make national news, it's bit misleading because the doctors, athletes, lawyers, entertainers, and lucky randoms that comprise the bulk of the 1% don't call the shots. It's really more like the 0.1% or even the 0.01% that I have a problem with, which are almost all executives, investors, and financiers. Oversimplification is all too common even amongst people I agree with.
/r/MensRights07/07/14 05:12 AM
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There's no one Jews or one Muslims. There are many diverse views and lives being led. That's why I was careful to say "Zionist Jews." I do agree that the British, and then the US screwed things up royally for the region by drawing borders selfishly instead of honoring cultural traditions, history, tribal boundaries, etc. That's still no excuse for near apartheid like conditions in Gaza and the West Bank. I pick on Israel specifically out of the Middle East because it seems to gets a free pass in…
/r/MensRights07/07/14 03:50 AM
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"We suffered, now you have to." Further injustice doesn't undo the past. The winners of WW1 put Germany in a no win situation and caused things like hyperinflation. Hitler exploited this suffering and used the victim mentality as one of his psychological weapons. Next up, Zionists in Israel try to punish the Arab world, playing the victim card whenever they are questioned. Since the US government supports Israel, and does despicable things in that part of the world, parts of the Arab world attac…
/r/MensRights07/07/14 12:57 AM
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I don't think that the current environment is truly diverse in the way I want, since little boys are taught that running around and play-acting violence is terrible, when more often than not it is a natural and healthy outlet. Education to me isn't just about how good of grades you get, it's if you come out of there a well-rounded person that balances skepticism with an open mind.
/r/MensRights07/07/14 12:48 AM
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Great find. I'm used to seeing HuffPO being knee-jerk on gender issues so this is refreshing.
/r/MensRights06/07/14 11:44 PM
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It's based on supply and demand, in my perspective. Men tend to have lust more frequently, less taboos about casual sex even in 2014, and face more stigmas for not getting sex. It's a combination of biology and gender roles. I encourage people to embrace an active fantasy life, with or without partners, so sex becomes less of a need and more something to do for fun and bonding.
/r/MensRights06/07/14 10:10 PM
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I don't find the idea of mutilating genitals funny, or artistic. Imagine the outrage if the haunted house was specifically about bashing on and dismembering females.
/r/MensRights06/07/14 09:40 PM
1

Few people are willing to be the "bad guy" since they feel guilty for causing someone else to suffer by rejecting them. Protecting feelings is an impulse for decency, however if you are dishonest or vague you will do way more psychological harm in the long run. It's best to be firm but gentle, and direct. Even with that approach some people will cling on to hopeful fantasies.
/r/MensRights06/07/14 09:38 PM
1

Sexuality is a human need, not on the same level as food or air, but people still have cravings. That's okay. The mind will tell people they deserve what they want, that's how we are structured. We'll rationalize if it helps us fulfill those cravings. The trouble is for sex, you can be led on for years and not know that you're being tricked by a carrot on a stick.
/r/MensRights06/07/14 09:35 PM
2

You're absolutely not alone! Don't let shrill, judgmental ideologues define your world.
/r/MensRights06/07/14 09:32 PM
1

O I got into a debate on AskWomen about this. The people were a bit rabid saying that "Nice Guys" were all terrible people trying to use someone for sex, and probable rapists looking for a chance, but there was no concern that the manipulation might be mutual or one-sided in the women's favor. I left disgusted. Most sane women want a balanced man, who is confident and brave in public but has a more sensitive side as well. You don't need to be rich to date, but having a job is important to the va…
/r/MensRights06/07/14 09:31 PM
1

It's written into domestic violence laws, which you can find with some simple searches. Look up "primary aggressor", it is defined by gender instead of facts. Do you require further evidence?
/r/MensRights06/07/14 09:20 PM
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I'm against segregation, so both male only and female only institutions are suspicious relics. People learn best in an atmosphere of true diversity, which means having to deal with people fundamentally different than they are. It's also best to let groups represent themselves instead of being taught about them. I'm strongly against hazing, bullying, and "initiation rituals" which sound like creepy indoctrination. If the opposite sex is a distraction, too bad, life is full of distractions and peo…
/r/MensRights06/07/14 09:16 PM
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Is demanding about $25,000 and jumping through hoops something that can be ignored? Are threats of violence something that should be ignored?
/r/MensRights06/07/14 08:45 PM
1

This image is making the rounds on facebook, twitter, and tumbler. The person that made that comment is a friend, who a few weeks ago said that "90% of men support rape culture whether they realize it or not." I was confused where she got that number until I realized that 90% of men are straight... Yikes.
/r/MensRights06/07/14 08:39 PM
1

The Wikipedia entry is chilling: http://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rape_in_Egypt
/r/MensRights06/07/14 03:04 PM
1

Some people think feminism means egalitarianism, and some people think it means empowering women, with no regard for actual equality. Since these two concepts are contradictory, and millions of people all have different ideas about what feminism really means, you will see a lot of confusion out there.
/r/MensRights06/07/14 12:33 PM
7

Listen, ya gotta stop treating people as individuals, but rather look at them as examples of categories. Focusing on things like gender and ethnicity every waking moment is the only way to stop prejudice. /s
/r/MensRights06/07/14 12:25 PM
2

I don't know, I've heard some pretty awful things about Egypt, including women being raped by mobs in broad daylight.
/r/MensRights06/07/14 12:17 PM
2

That would be telling.
/r/MensRights22/06/14 07:26 PM
3

You... are number 6.
/r/MensRights22/06/14 06:16 PM
3

Stop mansplaining. /s
/r/MensRights22/06/14 05:59 PM
5

Okay you have a dozen posts on here all essentially saying the same thing, filled with typos and bad grammar. Learn to spell and use punctuation properly if you want to communicate effectively.
/r/MensRights22/06/14 05:54 PM
5

Saying "all racism is institutional racism" is like saying "all sandwiches are peanut butter and jelly sandwiches."
/r/MensRights22/06/14 05:48 PM
1

If you can't make a case without making up what other people are saying you're a waste of time to talk to.
/r/MensRights18/06/14 03:14 PM
1

Some of society does feel that way, and it's up to us that care to push morality and compassion on others with less empathy, while still respecting their ability to live their own lives. I would lean libertarian / anarchist except that there is so much exploitation in the world I think a state is necessary to protect and help those in need. Unfortunately the state usually gets co-opted by the powerful. I don't have all the answers.
/r/MensRights17/06/14 10:41 PM
2

I addressed this in other replies.
/r/MensRights17/06/14 06:34 PM
2

Fair enough. "Real" in this case means "what I prefer" with a shaming undertone.
/r/MensRights17/06/14 04:36 PM
4

From what I've heard, this was 4chan trolls reacting to some SJWs insulting them. "Apparently" isn't good enough, you need some evidence to lay the prank at the doorstep of this subreddit or MRAs in general.
/r/MensRights17/06/14 04:34 PM
2

This sounds like grounds for a Supreme Court case, related to equal protection. I wonder if there are any related lawsuits making their way through lower courts.
/r/MensRights17/06/14 04:11 PM
18

People do what they have incentive to do. There are plenty of polite, moral gentlemen that get overlooked for not being attractive, assertive, or powerful enough.
/r/MensRights17/06/14 04:06 PM
7

We all owe decency to fellow humans, especially ones within our community or immediate vicinity. A family and society raised each one of us and enabled us to survive. Gender should have nothing to do with this decency. Imagine someone about to fall off a cliff, rescue them because they are a human like yourself. By extension some people need more help and might have been discriminated against, to continue the analogy they might not have the training and quality climbing gear your family provided…
/r/MensRights17/06/14 04:04 PM
1

Most of those items are fine, on both lists, as a kind of decent person checklist. Other than items that specifically relate to reproduction I see no reason to tie moral values into gender, and everyone needs to knock it off. "A real white person would"... "A real handicapped person would..." Yeah. It's great to have moral standards, and we are allowed to discuss and disagree, but they should be separate from demographic categories.
/r/MensRights17/06/14 03:24 PM
6

I guess it is better to stop saying "real man" entirely. "Man" could then just mean "an adult who was born a male" but then you have to worry about trans folk with or without surgery. I just want words to have definite meanings without accounting for every possible contingency and grey area, but maybe that just won't happen with such a thorny issue as gender.
/r/MensRights17/06/14 03:06 PM
3

If eunuchs, trans and hermaphrodites are included then "real man" would be completely absurd. A real man with a vagina? I'm fine with ditching the phrase entirely but the word man by itself should keep some kind of meaning.
/r/MensRights17/06/14 02:47 PM
10

No true redditor would say such things!
/r/MensRights17/06/14 02:36 PM
35

I am really tired of the "real man" comments. It's a cheap rhetorical trick, the phrase means anything the speaker wants. It's an expression almost exclusively used to shame men. You never hear about what a "real women" would or would not do. How about this definition: An adult with male genitalia and no female genitalia.
/r/MensRights17/06/14 10:30 AM
2

Don't you know big guys are also immune to bullets, knives, and chemicals? No one should feel sympathy for males because we don't have pain receptors and never ever get injured.
/r/MensRights16/06/14 06:04 AM
1

WTF? How does objecting to being assaulted and hospitalized make you some sort of coward? My sympathies. The idea that just because someone is muscular / big / male then they are somehow invincible is absurd.
/r/MensRights16/06/14 06:02 AM
1

It's Orwellian to use denial as evidence of wrongdoing.
/r/MensRights16/06/14 05:46 AM
1

What's next? "Tell your 3 year old son he is a potential rapist." Uggghhh.
/r/MensRights16/06/14 05:44 AM
13

Propaganda... Investigating the truth isn't important to some people.
/r/MensRights15/06/14 08:57 PM
48

Karen, I'd like to take this opportunity to thank you for helping to open my eyes about how much feminism had gone off the rails, and confirm that men didn't all have it easy. I thought of myself as a feminist for a long time, and took flak for it, but I always preferred the sex-positive / personal responsibility / skeptical perspective of someone like Camille Paglia. I knew there were hateful radfems like Solanis, MacKinnon, and Dworkin, but considered them rare relics of the past. Unfortunatel…
/r/MensRights15/06/14 05:53 PM
3

Not everyone can afford help. Without insurance most shrinks want something like $100 an hour. Who has the pocket money for something like that?
/r/MensRights13/06/14 09:00 AM
5

Up until recently the vast majority of humans were oppressed, by callous leaders and systems of control. It doesn't matter much that the vast majority of tyrants were male because the vast majority of men were victimized about as much as the women.
/r/MensRights13/06/14 02:44 AM
3

The patriarchy exists all right... in Saudi Arabia.
/r/MensRights13/06/14 02:40 AM
6

If there are no cultural reasons behind suicide then why aren't the numbers close to 50/50? Something like over 80% of the homeless are men, men lose big in divorce, are trained to suppress emotion, have a harder time getting sympathy, etc. There are services designed to specifically help women but none that I know of specifically for men. Are these factors irrelevant to the suicide rates in your view?
/r/MensRights13/06/14 02:39 AM
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Israel is a democracy with aspirations to fascism. A country based on an ethnic/religious identity is chilling to me. Making everyone join the military is a perfect way to indoctrinate a populace. Not that the rest of the middle east is any better...
/r/MensRights13/06/14 02:34 AM
3

You could try your luck in places like /r/egalitarian.
/r/MensRights13/06/14 02:30 AM
7

Funny how a named fallacy (Apex) is a central component of feminist theory. Attack it and encounter more fallacies, like ad hominem, poisoning the well and straw man. We desperately need logic and critical thinking taught to everyone, starting in middle school.
/r/MensRights13/06/14 02:26 AM
2

Nah, I'm pretty sure they want a nice climate controlled office. So do I to be honest.
/r/MensRights13/06/14 01:48 AM
1

Again you are putting words into my mouth, so once again I am not interested in continuing the discussion.
/r/MensRights12/06/14 04:13 PM
1

That's not what I'm saying at all. It sounds like you have both sides of the debate covered in your own head, have fun with that.
/r/MensRights12/06/14 06:09 AM
0

Let's just hope the MRM doesn't turn into nothing more than a gender swapped version of feminism. I want real diversity, which means people are free to pick and choose amongst cultural attitudes without being either persecuted or ignored. Men and women should be free to raise kids or risk their lives as they see fit without some advocacy group screaming "you're doing it wrong!"
/r/MensRights12/06/14 03:55 AM
4

TRP encourages gender roles and propagates gender stereotypes, while MRAs generally just want real equality and mutual respect. Both groups distrust feminist theory and fight demonization of males.
/r/MensRights11/06/14 10:00 PM
2

Go hang out with some lions and see if lecturing them helps keep you safe. There have always been dangerous people to worry about. Psychopaths don't care about fairness or morals any more than the lions do.
/r/MensRights11/06/14 09:49 PM
5

We're never going to empower all women by scolding all men, but that doesn't stop feminists from trying. It shouldn't be too much to ask to judge people by their actions rather than their genitals, ethnicity and clothes. At one point prejudice might have been a useful survival mechanism, but now it is the mark of willful ignorance and sloppy thinking. Feminists don't realize that they are discrediting their own legitimate issues by acting self righteous and pretending that men have it easy.
/r/MensRights11/06/14 09:46 PM
7

Theredpill pushes the view that men should embrace traditional gender roles, while making generalizations. Feminism is diverse but mostly sees gender roles as a threat, and encourages women to be more masculine and men to be more feminine. /r/mensrights seems like a more egalitarian compromise, saying men can act masculine or not, but in any case men's needs are important and often being ignored by a callous society. The idea that redpill = MRA = misogyny is laughably ignorant, but a common view…
/r/MensRights11/06/14 09:33 PM
1

Not all jobs are work.
/r/MensRights11/06/14 03:40 AM
6

Everything has to be framed as "Oh yeah? Women had it worse so your point doesn't matter." That's not exactly conducive to intelligent discourse.
/r/MensRights10/06/14 10:39 AM
4

Yeah there are several tasks in my household considered man's chores, which I do 99% of, but no chores that are exclusively female. I'm not complaining though because we have our own workload balance figured out. Ask not what your relationship can do for you, but what you can do for the relationship... but that only works out when both partners have a similar attitude and spirit of cooperation.
/r/MensRights10/06/14 10:35 AM
2

Lying with math. My partner and I shop for food together, where are we in that pretend 30-70 split? How about giving us the actual data and information about the study? Is that too challenging for Time readers? I can cherry pick data points out of context too, yet that doesn't magically make me a journalist.
/r/MensRights10/06/14 10:27 AM
2

There will never be a true mainstream movement that only promotes one gender, race, sexuality, etc. We should be willing to acknowledge the particular problems that each demographic faces and not turn a blind eye. At the same time we should treat the people in our lives as individuals rather than representations of a category.
/r/MensRights10/06/14 10:05 AM
3

I just read a feminist FAQ from 2007 where they stated that men's issues should be addressed by men in "men's spaces." When anyone tries to do that they get shamed and called misogynists, reactionaries, and rape apologists.
/r/MensRights10/06/14 09:59 AM
1

Not only do municipalities ignore the needy, now some of them want to force regular people to do the same? It's heartless. Sure if you had a well stocked soup kitchen every few blocks you could discourage citizens from unlicensed efforts, but that's hardly the case. Our society throws away far more food than there are hungry mouths to feed. There are many more empty buildings than homeless people. Something is seriously wrong here.
/r/MensRights10/06/14 09:52 AM
2

Yeah I was actually thinking of communism/socialism when I wrote that.
/r/MensRights10/08/13 09:31 PM
2

My shallowness amounts to: I like the scenes where the hotness is naked, and if the rest of the show isn't worthwhile, skip ahead. Life's too short. Meanwhile, for the stuff I actually like I can appreciate and discuss it on several levels. It's sad that girls are encouraged / allowed more than boys to be vapid parasites or ornaments, when they could be so much more.
/r/MensRights09/08/13 10:40 PM
6

Thank you for demonstrating the difference with personal experience. This whole "fake geek" thing is a brand new phenomenon, since when I grew up no one would ever dream of pretending to be in a (at the time) despised category. Now that video games and comic book movies are mainstream times have changed. I do understand the irritation at poseurs and the desire to expose them, however I worry that there could be a slide into subculture tribalism.
/r/MensRights09/08/13 10:36 PM
2

I don't think you understood my comment in the way I intended. Humanism is a value system and skepticism is a method of arriving at knowledge which has implied values. Skeptics and humanists are far more likely to be athiests than theists and vice versa. one cannot worship an all powerful god as the center of importance and also put human happiness as the center of importance. One cannot trust and distrust dogma in equal measures. A+ may be skeptics in name only, but I don't know enough to say. …
/r/MensRights09/08/13 10:10 PM
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Humanism and skepticism are much more important than atheism. There is a humanist skeptic community but not a true atheist community since a lack of one kind of belief is not the same as sharing common values.
/r/MensRights09/08/13 08:07 PM
3

They want you to accept them for who they are, but won't accept if your sexual preferences and turn-ons don't match what they are offering.
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