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Dances_With_Waves/r/MarriedRedPill24/09/23 02:16 PM
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Thank you for that reminder. Another commenter pointed this out and you are correct, that would have been a better place for it.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/09/23 04:57 PM
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The original studies were done decades ago. I would imagine that there is a portion of this that is biological (hence the historical Napoleon example another commenter mentioned), but my own conjecture is that it is also trending due to the decline in women's dependence upon men for financial security in our society. Many women divorce post-childbearing and live quite comfortable lives off of alimony or their own careers.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/09/23 03:46 PM
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Knowing how and why to avoid this is different than a discussion on why it is. About those songs though...I am with you, I skip so many songs now because they grate on my soul...this is what our society considers a "hit": I know that I can't find nobody else as good as you I need you to stay, need you to stay, hey Any song that has the line "I can't live without you" should be banned.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/09/23 03:41 PM
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Ahh shit, you are right about where I posted this. The studies are the author's own and a generalization of his findings across numerous cultures. He specifically sites this as a result of his mate retention studies: https://psycnet.apa.org/record/1997-03015-008
/r/MarriedRedPill24/09/23 03:30 PM
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Love the red pill bible study. This is the type of insight we need from the pulpits today!
/r/MarriedRedPill24/09/23 03:07 PM
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Wow, a lot of strong reactions in the comments here. While I agree that measuring so much by her response is akin to being within her frame, this is a reddit for married people, presumably wanting to be married, and relationships are between two people. Measuring everything by your wife's responses is denying the importance of your own mission. Measuring everything only by your own frame can neglect the fact that you are in a partnership and a thin line to steamrolling and being an ass. You are …
/r/MarriedRedPill24/09/23 03:00 PM
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Crazy how true this is. Almost any girl in their 20s who flirts with me (44) has an absent father or at least parents divorced.
/r/seduction22/08/23 03:58 PM
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Yup, I'm 44 now and since turning 40 have lost about 80lbs of fat and gained muscle and started dressing well and went from being invisible to girls to getting second glances and flirty conversations with women in their 20s. I was shocked at how much age didn't matter. Being somewhat attractive is table stakes, and having the approach confidence that many men lack is a superpower. The crazy thing is that girls in their 20s are way easier to approach than women in their 30s, who are either marrie…
/r/seduction22/08/23 03:56 PM
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