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| 3 | Sisters, I beg you... please STOP posting screenshots from other subs, which offer no advice and only highlight disgusting bullshit that men do. WE KNOW these clowns exist. WE DON'T need to see it here all day every day. I feel like leaving this sub because of it. 😫I see where you’re coming from, and I agree, but I also think women new to this sub might find these posts, and the discussions they Host (which I think is the valuable part) very useful to open their eyes and widen their perspective. Maybe we could share them under a spoiler tag? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/22 08:19 PM |
| 6 | NVM is caught watching porn. Fiancée calls the wedding off and he’s worried about not getting the deposit back. Scrotes and pickmes come to his defense 🤡They don’t even try to hide it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/22 08:08 PM |
| 59 | I found this poem powerful…It would be off-putting as fuck, that I can be sure of! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/22 04:21 AM |
| 33 | Abusers wait to reveal his true colours until you’re baby trapped. Vet ruthlessly by enforcing your boundaries during courtship.You weren’t downvoted because “we’re white” and you “hit a nerve”, you were downvoted because you’re saying white women can’t call out the misogyny of men from other cultures, which is bullshit. The first oppression ever suffered by human beings, before religion was a thing, before people knew there were other ethnicities, and before there were economical classes, was because of our sex. Before being SA, you’re a woman, and it’s with women where your class solidarity should lie first. Because of… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/22 03:11 PM |
| 17 | Abusers wait to reveal his true colours until you’re baby trapped. Vet ruthlessly by enforcing your boundaries during courtship.I’m so sorry you’re in that position… I’d seriously consider just moving to another country. Hearing about lo the sexual violence in India makes me extremely terrified | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/22 02:58 PM |
| 271 | Male Postpartum (or, how women cannot be allowed to have anything br about us)It’s the same thing with “we’re pregnant”, and “male baby weight”. It’s so disrespectful and I hate it. Like, I know you’re “a team“ and all that, but the penis-holder over there isn’t growing anything in his body! His body won’t be permanently mutating, his hormones aren’t going nuts and he won’t be risking his life to push a melon out of his (nonexistent) vagina. Oh, and the “baby weight gain”, I’d bet my ass that, if a study was conducted, they’d find men get fatter during pregnancies because… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/22 10:31 AM |
| 36 | What common FDS advice or opinions do you disagree with and why?just a heads up: number 4 is against the rules of this sub. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/22 03:02 PM |
| 104 | Scrolling Reddit is downright depressing: women with no dignity or self-respectThe thing is from young we are gaslight by society as a whole. It is not easy to get to a place of dignity and self-respect when you do not have anyone to show you better. This is the key, it’s extremely important to remember that society brainwashes us to be complying, docile dolls, and the few of us who manage to break free from that are just lucky, because it could very much be us who’s posting about that abusive boyfriend and wondering why we’re not enough. I will criticize their actions fro… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/22 02:08 PM |
| 17 | Thought you Queens could do with a laugh ❤️Agree. Moreover, you can’t “reclaim” something that was never yours to begin with. I don’t know about the rest, but won’t be willingly comparing myself to an animal (sadly) used exclusively to breed and birth for other’s profit! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/22 01:11 AM |
| 69 | I could not find ONE comment saying she’s in the right. He expects her to come over on the first date but gets offended when she mentions him paying for tea. A $2 item. 🥴There was also lots of abuse, but yeah men don’t put any effort anymore… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/22 01:02 AM |
| 9 | Men want me to back down even when I am rightCongratulations and good luck, it‘s for the best 💜💜 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/22 10:41 PM |
| 60 | Thought you Queens could do with a laugh ❤️yass to the meme, naw to using “bitch” like this. It‘s a misogynistic insult and it needs to disappear. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/22 05:52 PM |
| 5 | Thoughts on a particular sort of female-perpetuated misogynyHmm... I seemed to misunderstand the part where the lady said she only wanted a son. However, the rest still stands and I hope your friend and her sister didn't pick up too much of that misogynistic BS Edit wait no I definitely did not reaf the first paragraph well enough lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/22 08:09 PM |
| 40 | Thoughts on a particular sort of female-perpetuated misogynyOh, let me guess... She's "not like other women"? This is nothing new, it's the same old misogyny as always, justified by biological determinism. Remember the patriarchy is perpetuated by keeping women alienated, hating themselves and other women, so we don't develop class solidarity and unite and support each other. It's disgusting to me, honestly. At a societal scale, these women are accomplices in the exploitation of women worldwide. At least she didn't have a daughter that will give birth to… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/22 06:03 PM |
| 310 | How many of you ladies have found HVM since following FDS?Ironically, FDS+feminism made me realise I might not want to share my life with a man after all lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/22 01:36 AM |
| 53 | "Are you a feminist?" How do you answer this?It works sometimes, but i don't like to reinforce the idea that there are "several" kinds of feminism. Either you're for women's liberation or not, there's no middle ground. I get that the "radical" part is useful to explain feminism, but it's the only kind there is, because it goes to the root of our oppression. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/22 11:26 PM |
| 93 | "Are you a feminist?" How do you answer this?But beware, men shouldn't be calling themselves feminists. A man who understands the basic principles of feminism knows that the oppressors can't be a part of the oppressed group's liberation, but they can be an ally in their own lane. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/22 11:24 PM |
| 62 | "Are you a feminist?" How do you answer this?The issue is that that's not feminism. Feminism seeks women's liberation and justice, not equality, and not even equity. We will never achieve "equality" while the standard is still patriarchal, that's why abolition is a key principle of feminism. Also, lots of men weaponize "equality" against us, with the purpose of taking advantage of us, which is actually anti-FDS (i.e. "I always go 50/50 on dates because I believe in equality"). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/22 11:22 PM |
| 13 | I know most men can't help being facially hideous at times but it is a waste of testosterone when they're fat or skinnyfat and can't even groom themselvesOh yes maybe I was too blunt with the "If you care"... I was browsing the narc parents sub before commenting so the "fuck you dad" train of thought stuck lol But yeah, if he was able to solve that his life quality would increase immensely. Sorry about the insurance thing, though, it sucks so much to not be able to just go and get the healthcare you deserve. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/22 09:37 PM |
| 40 | I know most men can't help being facially hideous at times but it is a waste of testosterone when they're fat or skinnyfat and can't even groom themselvesIt's the physical and psychological stress, plus very low body fat that makes your body literally go into survival mode lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/22 09:31 PM |
| 30 | I know most men can't help being facially hideous at times but it is a waste of testosterone when they're fat or skinnyfat and can't even groom themselvesWhat makes it worse is that the constipation could reach a point where it's literally impossible to shit shat shit, so it has to be surgically removed. If you care, you could try to get him to go to the doctor, but yikes sis | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/22 09:29 PM |
| 111 | I know most men can't help being facially hideous at times but it is a waste of testosterone when they're fat or skinnyfat and can't even groom themselvesMy personal dealbreaker: those large, rigid, forward-protruding, Homer Simpson-like abdomens. Why? Because it's not just fat, it's also shit. Those men have such a poor digestion that the build-up of shit and gas in their colon causes their intestine to expand like that. It just exposes their lack of self-care, life skills and awareness, and it's also a risk factor for lots of health issues, including cancer. Their breath also literally smells like shit. 0/10 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/22 07:33 PM |
| 101 | I know most men can't help being facially hideous at times but it is a waste of testosterone when they're fat or skinnyfat and can't even groom themselvesMen literally have no excuse. This is they key point here. A fuller, curvier body with fat deposits is natural for women. We just go against the grain by dieting and exercising. When I was 19, I was a professional athlete and trained over 20 hours a week. I was the fittest and strongest I've ever been, with a BMI of 18.5 that caused me to literally lose my period... And I still had belly fat that made me immensely self-conscious. I retired due to health issues and though I kept exercising, I cou… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/22 07:29 PM |
| 32 | Let’s hear your clever responses to “How are you still single?!”"I have a blast by myself. I love my freedom, routine, life project and myself. To date a man, he'd have to prove he makes my life better than that, and so far, not one has even gotten close to the bar". Edit: Which is the actual reason men don't date, but is somehow sacrilegious for women to say it lmao. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/22 07:15 PM |
| 761 | This is why you don't get an OnlyFans. Men that you know will happily buy the nudes to wank over you, and then go on right ahead to use that fact to stop you from getting a job. Male 'feminists' are evil, do NOT believe them when they say they are supportive of 'sex workers'.Men don't support women in the sex industry, they support their "right" to keep objectifying and sexualizing us. Disgusting misogynist... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/22 07:01 PM |
| 9 | This is so true. Adam Sandler and his minions after him in entertainment is why men are so delusional and lonely. They rely on fantasy that's fed to them through media, MGTOW and RP that's not going to happen.Entertainment is just a playground for male fantasies lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/22 06:46 PM |
| 2 | This is so true. Adam Sandler and his minions after him in entertainment is why men are so delusional and lonely. They rely on fantasy that's fed to them through media, MGTOW and RP that's not going to happen.Oh my god that movie is just golden! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/22 06:44 PM |
| 30 | This is so true. Adam Sandler and his minions after him in entertainment is why men are so delusional and lonely. They rely on fantasy that's fed to them through media, MGTOW and RP that's not going to happen.Yeah, she did! Her reasoning what that it would feel unfair that Harry got to be the chosen one and also “got” the main girl, so she came up with the canon pairings as a solution to that, but then realized it was dumb lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/22 03:14 PM |
| 148 | This is so true. Adam Sandler and his minions after him in entertainment is why men are so delusional and lonely. They rely on fantasy that's fed to them through media, MGTOW and RP that's not going to happen.It's not a coincidence. Mainstream media is full of ugly/dumb/old man & pretty/smart/young wife couples, and it's just propaganda to brainwash us, to burn into our minds that men have the right to be picky and choose a woman to "marry well", while women have to settle, and that men have the right to be imperfect, and mess up, while we have to put up with it. Just to point out some examples that come to mind: Homer & Marge Simpson Fry & Leela - Futurama Jake Peralta & Amy Santiago - Brooklyn 99 C… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/22 08:34 AM |
| 44 | Episode infinity on "Men Who Tell On Themselves"Oof… Don’t even get me started on this one! I’m Latina, and its so fucking infuriating to know latinas are seen as the whores of the world… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/22 05:30 AM |
| 40 | I'm sick of Eurocentric beauty standardsMen don't like women, they like the caricature of women media and porn has sold them. Don't fall for it. Any man who has comments like these about a woman's appearance isn't worth a second of your time, but there are "better" men who actually like women and won't push this crap onto you. I don't remember exactly what it was called, and I couldn't find it after a quick google search, but i remember reading about the TalCo (Escape the Corset) Feminist movement from South Corea and I found out just… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/22 06:04 PM |
| 14 | you're not toxic.This is just beautiful… We’re all in this together, we’ve been through the same shit and want to be happy, successful and fulfilled. Even though males don’t think we deserve it. Let’s get that freedom! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/22 10:53 PM |
| 8 | A story from a recovering pickme & libfem. Embarrassed to tell my friends what happened to me and do not have family I can talk about this with. Hoping to find support here.Saving the post to comment later, but for now… Congratulations on getting out of there, on realizing you were trapped in the libfem swamp, and on starting this journey to become a better person. Don’t be so hard on yourself. What happened to you has happened to lots of us (that’s why we’re here), but what’s important is that, for the most part, you’re ok, and open to growth. I believe you will find lots of support and wisdom here, so welcome and good luck! 🥰 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/22 05:00 PM |
| 78 | The Euphoria ConversationThat show is so wrong, on so many levels… I got to watch about 5 episodes before dropping the whole thing. The fact that ADULT MEN are screenwriting rape, abuse and sexual activity between MINORS is deeply disturbing to me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/22 04:21 PM |
| 9 | A breakdown of Jason Mamoa's red flags now that he and Lisa Bonet announced their divorceYeah, it’s almost as we were at the very bottom of some mysterious social hierarchy… 👀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/22 01:48 PM |
| 14 | I know there are creative types here. Shall we use this as a writing prompt?It’s because when we sexualize men, we still think of them as people, as human beings who happen to be sexy. When men sexualize women, they stop think about us as human beings. They objectivize us, turning us into things they’d do things to, things to look at, even things to buy. That puts us in danger, because if we’re things, entitled men, who are entitled because our society makes them that way, could just “take” us, That’s the key difference, and that’s why a woman looking at a hot guy and a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/22 01:44 PM |
| 26 | A breakdown of Jason Mamoa's red flags now that he and Lisa Bonet announced their divorceZendaya and Tom Holland are dating since they were together in Spider-Man: no way home. She has no relation with Jason Momoa, but the comment I replied to was talking about how we shouldn’t idealize celebrity couples, and especially the men (such as Jason and Tom) because we don’t know them in real life and most have said or done some sexist things in public. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/22 05:18 PM |
| 42 | A breakdown of Jason Mamoa's red flags now that he and Lisa Bonet announced their divorceYeah, I totally get your point, but what I was trying to get at was that, precisely, he shouldn’t have been admitting that shit publicly like a badge of honor! At the very least, he should’ve followed up with a “you know, teenagers can be pretty dumb sometimes” or anything that indicated that he acknowledges his behavior was wrong, but he didn’t, because he doesn’t think that. I do disagree with the “hill to die on“ part though, because, as feminists, we should call out the normalization of acti… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/22 05:09 PM |
| 42 | A breakdown of Jason Mamoa's red flags now that he and Lisa Bonet announced their divorceliterally had to be babysat by the cast on pressers so he didn't spoil the plotlines Nooo but that’s SO CUTE! He’s a soft marshmallow and needs to be protected! /s Yikes on babying grown men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/22 05:02 PM |
| 269 | I know there are creative types here. Shall we use this as a writing prompt?What’s sad is that this will never be a true equivalent, because men just aren’t sexualized and objectified as we are by society, so at most they’ll find it funny, like we do now, because they know it’s not a thing and they’re safe, the protagonists, creators and consumers. However, the belittlement, dismissal and dehumanization we feel when we read those cartoonish descriptions of what men think a woman is, they will never know how it feels. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/22 04:27 PM |
| 211 | What I hate most about reddit.Ugh I absolutely agree. I was on Instagram right now and I saw a post by the official account of a MOBA game I play, asking “who would be -x female character’s- best support?” The top comment was “your sister in a thong” Things like these just make me want to never leave my home. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/22 04:14 PM |
| 80 | A breakdown of Jason Mamoa's red flags now that he and Lisa Bonet announced their divorceIt’s all a media stunt. Tom is pretty sexist, and zendaya has been a sexy media puppet since she was a teen. Not a good combo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/22 12:47 PM |
| 174 | A breakdown of Jason Mamoa's red flags now that he and Lisa Bonet announced their divorceThere’s an interview of Tom Holland where he says this: From 14 to 17 was hard. Since I did ballet, people thought I was gay. So what if I’m gay? I’m not gay, but what does it matter? For me, doing ballet was an opportunity to spend two hours a day in a studio with 30 girls in thighs Miss me with that misogynistic bullshit, honestly. It’s one thing to be a hormonal teenager, socialized in masculinity, and think that, but a completely different one when you affirm that idea as a grown, public man… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/22 12:45 PM |
| 45 | Why do they keep romanticizing “toxic love” ?You drank WHAT | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/22 03:08 AM |
| 1 | Just found this on tumblr. They call us ‘femcels’ for having high standards and help each other while incels hate and k*ll women.Oh my goodness i read it again and see it now lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/22 11:37 AM |
| 6 | Just found this on tumblr. They call us ‘femcels’ for having high standards and help each other while incels hate and k*ll women.This HAS to be a fucking joke... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/22 05:42 AM |
| 43 | Currently viral on social media, please do not be a man’s free ATM!! Libfem behaviour is NOT empowering to women, it literally only benefits the man while draining your bank account, health and energy."Feminine urges" always mean harmful/stupid sexist stereotypes. Today I saw a post about the "feminine urge" of "wearing lingerie and dancing like a stripper when you're home alone" lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/21 05:23 AM |
| 15 | Men will do anything for sex (except actually put in effort): A refresher course on the DENNIS systemOh my god this is fucking awful... And this was on TV???? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/21 03:53 PM |
| 17 | Child preaching the good, FDS wordI'm 25 and my classmates started referencing porn around 5th grade. My guess is that the age of exposure is, sadly, way less nowadays... I've also read some horrific cases in India where little boys RAPE little girls "because they saw it on the internet" so yeah, the world has gone down the drain in that regard. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/21 03:25 AM |
| 17 | Information to withhold initiallyI think I saw this on a "job interview tips" post, but applies perfectly in this situation: "Knowledge is power, do NOT volunteer information" Which means, during the initial stages of dating/getting to know a man, there are some things that will not add on to that relationship, make it better or increase success probabilities if you say them, but that could pose an opportunity for him to harm you in the short or long run. Let's say you've encountered a LVM, but he's masking well and you haven't… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/21 02:07 AM |
| 41 | "3 thing we were taught that we should not teach our girls: Virginity as a value; Marriage as goal; Maternity as destiny"Latina here: our countries are sexist as fuck and there's still a long way to go to be free from this bullshit, but I guess baby steps count too :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/21 01:47 AM |
| 43 | SOS girl wherever you are please come find us 😔✊OH MY FUCKING GOD… He just *knew*! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/21 01:33 PM |
| 114 | He Could Have Drowned HerOh, but we all know a certain sector won't let us have that... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/21 01:49 AM |
| 5 | Lingerie is NOT a giftIt's been hard work, honestly, but oddly rewarding... Had I known about FDS when we first started going out it wouldn't have lasted, because he had several behaviours that would be considered LV flags. However, after I discovered FDS in 2019 I've been learning and applying it to our relationship, and he's been pretty receptive and open. He's actually positively changed and grown a lot during these 3 years, has gotten rid of bad habits, worked on his self-esteem and confidence issues, and started… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/21 06:17 PM |
| 83 | Lingerie is NOT a giftMy boyfriend bought me a set of thongs a while ago... He has a friend that had starting selling women's underwear as a side gig, and he wanted to support her, while also gifting me something. He showed me her insta profile, I chose the ones I liked and he bought them. Now, the thing is I don't really wear that kind of underwear in my daily life, I only wear them while dancing (I'm a Tahitian dancer), and I'm completely against the concept of "sexy lingerie". "Sexy" is in the eye of the beholder,… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/21 01:32 AM |
| 164 | It baffles me why men who complain about FDS think they are the type of men we want in the first place. Male biological delusion is realWe'll rather be celibate and die single than waste time on them. This is a whole mood lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/21 07:23 PM |
| 58 | The Incels are DeCLaRiNg WaR on Us Again 🙄😒Lmao I noticed that too 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/21 03:56 PM |
| 70 | The Incels are DeCLaRiNg WaR on Us Again 🙄😒If they put all that time and energy into bettering themselves, they wouldn't have that "involuntary celibacy" problem 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/21 03:55 PM |
| 72 | If you say "I pay for my own dinner so that I don't owe the man anything" then you are admitting that you believe women are obligated to sleep with a man if he spends money on her.Sometimes it just pays to keep yourself safe, regardless of what you or he “should do” in terms of the rules. I completely agree with this, our safety is the ultimate concern. I'm not going to risk it all the time, just to feel like I'm a "better" FDSer. If it's necessary to laugh+evade, tell a man he's "right", or pay my share of the bill so I can avoid a dangerous situation, I'll do it. I can't afford to put myself in danger, especially when, in my country, legal protections for women in situa… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/21 04:02 AM |
| 149 | If you say "I pay for my own dinner so that I don't owe the man anything" then you are admitting that you believe women are obligated to sleep with a man if he spends money on her.As the other girls have said, I, too, used to split bills so that I wasn't "indebted" to men. I didn't think that women owed men sex, it was a measure of protection, because I knew most men do think that. The reasoning was, if they didn't pay for the whole date, then they wouldn't have an excuse to feel entitled to a kiss (or more), and I would have full rights to say "no", because I didn't owe them anything. Of course, there was an element of guilt to it. Keep in mind that we start doing this s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/21 03:55 AM |
| 35 | Dr. Jess just out there spewing straight facts as usual.Also they have the opportunity and duty of breaking the gender stereotypes in their family, from things like an equal mental and workload, to more subtle things like never interpreting their wife when she's talking, so that girls don't grow up thinking that mansplaining is natural... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/21 12:52 PM |
| 36 | So I have came to terms with my old pickme self and the type of men I shouldn't date, but I don't know what qualities to seek. What helped you curate the qualities you look for?There are posts in the "handbook" section about LV/HV traits, so you could start looking at those. I guess some minimum requirements would be treating you with respect, on equal footing, progressing with the relationship at an adequate speed, involving you in his personal life and asking for your input in important decisions, being thoughtful and empathetic, actively pursuing an equal division of emotional, financial and physical workload in the relationship or household, and not being into porn… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/21 12:13 AM |
| 101 | Sadly trueBelieve all sexual assault survivors! (Except the ones who were drunk, sent mixed signals, were partying, wore revealing clothes or are known hoes) Just cultural misogyny 🤷🏻♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/21 11:04 PM |
| 4 | I found my underwear in my brothers room, I am seriously paranoid & starting to think the worst. Just Why. Perversion needs to stop invading my life.Oh my God... This is really awful. If you ever find out what happened, we'll be here for you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/21 04:22 PM |
| 28 | I found my underwear in my brothers room, I am seriously paranoid & starting to think the worst. Just Why. Perversion needs to stop invading my life.This cannot possibly have a reasonable explanation, besides the girlfriend alibi. He's either using them to masturbate, or wearing them because he's autogynephilic (and most likely masturbating). Look it up, autogynephilia is so fucking disgusting I can't cope with it.... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/21 06:22 AM |
| 36 | I found my underwear in my brothers room, I am seriously paranoid & starting to think the worst. Just Why. Perversion needs to stop invading my life.That's not good, actually. That would mean he's autogynephilic, which is a whole different mess. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/21 06:20 AM |
| 115 | There are no safe spacesThis is why women only spaces are so important. Yet they're being taken from us at an alarming rate... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/21 05:39 AM |
| 28 | Guys on Bumble are the epitome of passive.I'd like to think that, since they know women are way more wary of men in OLD these days, they do that to give us more control of the situation so we feel safer... But it's more likely that it's just laziness... And the "ummm" dude sounded creepy 😥 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/21 05:37 AM |
| 234 | A personal realization: why losers leave during cancer.That, and the fact that men have been socialised to expect the woman to bear all the mental and emotional workload in the relationship, and couldn't reciprocate if their lives depended on it 🤷🏻♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/21 02:32 AM |
| 12 | JOHN MEEHAN FROM "DIRTY JOHN" WAS A HOBOSEXUAL. So many people hate FDS because we warn women about hobosexuals. Women have every right to protect ourselves from men who want to use and exploit us.No, of course! I agree 100%. The distinction I'm making is between deserving love, and being entitled to it. Just like when we say something like "you deserve to be loved, regardless of your body size", and don't imply that everyone has to love you, just that body size should not be an impediment, while poor people aren't entitled to a romantic relationship, being poor should not be an impediment for that. Does it make sense? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/21 01:51 AM |
| 89 | What's something that always bothered you/felt weird while growing up, but you could never place why until you realized it was misogyny?The first first thing I noticed was when I was 6 years old, and had just started school. For context, I'm from Chile, and we speak Spanish. Spanish is a gendered language, where the forms of the words depend on if the subjects you're talking to or about are female or male. For example, a boy is a niñO, and a girl is a niñA, and the same thing with virtually every word that exists in our language (doctor/doctora, profesor/profesora, autor/autora). However, there's a catch. When you're referring t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/21 01:42 AM |
| 49 | UPDATE: I got a job! (From: "I'm an escort and camgirl. The FDS Podcast made me realize I need to quit")I will light a candle for you tonight. Your story has made me so glad, you can't even imagine! It might seem weird, since we're just strangers on the internet, but it makes me so happy to see a sister get out of the "sex work" trap and move on to an empowered, fulfilling life. I hope everything goes smoothly, and if you ever have a rough day, or feel like looking back, remember what you felt today, and why you're doing it 💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/21 01:19 AM |
| 2 | JOHN MEEHAN FROM "DIRTY JOHN" WAS A HOBOSEXUAL. So many people hate FDS because we warn women about hobosexuals. Women have every right to protect ourselves from men who want to use and exploit us.I agree with your post, but there's just one thing I'd phrase differently. "But poor men deserve love too!" Haha no the fuck they don't. NOBODY is owed love regardless of sex or income level. Everyone is deserving of love, in whatever form, unless we do something really bad, because we're human beings. That's kinda the whole motivation behind charities, and it just rubbed me the wrong way precisely because I've been volunteering at different organisations for a long time. I know you meant it in … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/21 01:14 AM |
| 1 | Want kids but dread raising them?This was crossposted to a certain sub that thinks people need a "red pill" for FDS, and the scrotes are saying they "feel bad for any son born to us", and that "tHaT's HaTe sPeEcH" Why do they try so hard to prove our point? 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/21 08:09 PM |
| 319 | This reminds me of the slug storyI bet he wants her to go into shock so he can "save" her, and then have her think that he keeps her safe 🙄🙄🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/21 05:52 AM |
| 19 | Once again, All of Reddit vs. FDSOmg that's awful! Can't anything be done about it? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/21 03:30 AM |
| 2 | (kinda) Red flags for dog ownersher cage Her WHAT | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/21 10:17 PM |
| 3 | (kinda) Red flags for dog ownersOmg I just commented this! I wholeheartedly agree, and the closest example I have is my dad 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/21 10:15 PM |
| 12 | (kinda) Red flags for dog ownersWhen they love dogs, but hate cats. In my experience, 100% of the time that means he's a controlling asshole. They'll usually say things like "dogs are just so loyal" and "cats are too independent", which proves they don't know what consent means and expect women to be subservient to them 🤷🏻♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/21 10:14 PM |
| 36 | Too little too late. I know him but not his wife, and all I could do was shrug and say "you go sis". Hope he really learned that lesson. He earned this.I'm VERY skeptical about people who overdshare like that on social media. It would take A LOT to make a LVM change, and he has to wholeheartedly want it and know the fucked up, which of course rarely happens... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/21 11:11 PM |
| 43 | Scrotes are literally cancer. Always get the Pap smear.I got Chlamydia when I was 20, from a guy 8-9 years older than me. I thought he liked me and that we were going to be together (classic 🙄), when in reality he was literally hiding me from his friends and just using me for free sex. I didn't tell him because I was young and very hurt, and I didn't want to "embarrass" myself like that (funny, because since he was the one that was carrying an STD he should have been embarrassed, not me). Then, months later, he got a girlfriend and I felt really bad… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/21 09:17 PM |
| 9 | Posted on FDS a few months ago during a breakup. We broke up. I bought my own house and took possession this weekOmg I feel genuinely happy for you!! Keep levelling up and live your best life, sis! 💜 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/21 02:40 PM |
| 10 | “Women nowadays base majority of their feminism on their desire to be like men”That's my life motto tbh. Everyday I wake up and think of at least one way I can make men uncomfortable 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/21 02:27 AM |
| 10 | “Women nowadays base majority of their feminism on their desire to be like men”It just makes me so sad, because it's young teens who are getting sucked into this lie, and ultimately damned to a life of upholding their own oppression and perpetuating misogyny 😔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/21 02:25 AM |
| 7 | “Women nowadays base majority of their feminism on their desire to be like men”Because you can't ✨k i n k s h a m e✨ them!! 😡😡😤😤🔥🔥 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/21 02:20 AM |
| 3 | 'Russian Woman' Eurovision Entry offends men to the point where they want to ban the songHow can they get so close, yet not get it lmao 🤦🏻♀️ Then they say "patriarchy doesn't exist", demand proof that it, in fact, does exist, and when you do it, they hit you with the good ol' "BuT mEn ArE dRaFtEd" 🙄 Male ego really is something else... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/21 08:33 PM |
| 6 | 'Russian Woman' Eurovision Entry offends men to the point where they want to ban the songOh, this remindse a lot about the male outrage in South Korea about the book "Kim Ji Young, born in 1982". Those LV scrotes cried at the supposed "misandry" in the book, and even tried to cancel a K-pop idol who said she'd read it, writing things like "how could you do this to us" and "this is the most horrible treason" in her social media. The kicker? It's not even a "feminist" book, the protagonist isn't an activist or a TalCo ("escape the corset", please read about it) practitioner. The book … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/21 06:34 PM |
| 6 | To the poster and the 3000 men and pickmes who liked the post.. who's going to tell them that it isn't the 1950s anymore? (Explanation in the comments)I don't find anything wrong with femininity in itself, I just hate the definition that has been made by men. To be giving, but to never expect to receive. But this is actually it, this is why we should all reject the concept of "femininity", because it's man-made and imposed on us since birth. Femininity is being subservient, caring, empathetic, submissive, pretty, cute, young and a long etc... Liking skirts and dresses isn't "feminine", it's just liking skirts and dresses. Liking pink, cutesy s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/21 06:21 PM |
| 110 | “Women nowadays base majority of their feminism on their desire to be like men”That's the opium of liberal feminism... Because it doesn't tackle the actual root of our oppression, they need to give those women something to make them feel like they're making "progress" in the equally and freedom field, by equating women to men and marketing the same old oppresion as empowering. Men sexually exploit us through prostitution and trafficking? Nah, girl, sex work is empowering!! Yo get to be your own boss and charge for having a good time 😜🙈 Men are addicted to porn and it's aff… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/21 05:48 PM |
| 43 | My country is breeding ground for LVMAs a Latina, I feel you so fucking hard. Half of the men here are "anti-feminist" trash and the other are self-proclaimed "feminists" who see nothing wrong with women being slandered, abused, raped and murdered, but will 100% support "sex-work", pornography, BDSM and males who identify with femininity taking over women's spaces. Disgusting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/21 11:25 PM |
| 2 | Anyone else see a problem with a 4 year old making her mom PROUD for decorating their faces with make up?So fucking sad. At just FOUR years old, that little girl is already assimilating that: Women have to be pretty Being pretty gets you approval A woman's worth depends on her appearance Makeup makes you pretty It's natural for women to wear makeup And what's worse, she's going to grow up thinking that wearing makeup and sexualising herself is empowering... When the fuck are we doing to stop perpetuating the idea of "being pretty", wasting time and money chasing unattainable ideals, and start focus… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/21 11:19 PM |
| 17 | Girls did you read the shocking news about Lady Gaga?Thank you so much for this. In my country, the year before the pandemic, we got to know the case of Antonia Barra (21) a girl who was raped by a rich dude, Martin Pradenas (28), who targeted her at a party and then took her elsewhere. After realising what had happened, she got the support of her family and friends and filed a report to the police. However, that's where her real hell begun. She was harassed to exhaustion by Martin's family, friends and lawyer, her story questioned and her reputat… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/21 11:04 PM |
| 21 | Physical Red FlagsI'm a college student right now, and dependent of my parents, as are most guys my age, so I think some of my standards right now are more relaxed than the standards I'd be enforcing if I was a "fully adult", independent woman, looking to date independent adult men. Still, some things I just can't compromise on are: Bad hygiene. Not being able to afford braces or having a broken nose is one thing, but bad breath, unkempt facial hair or that smell in the area behind the ears is a deal-breaker. Bei… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/21 06:04 PM |
| 2 | Female friendships and misogynistic propagandaMen have actively engaged in cultural genocide towards women, for millennia. And yet they think we should worship them... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/21 09:24 PM |
| 14 | How would anyone consider these red flags?Oh, sounds like an acute case of MISOGYNY, what a surprise lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/21 07:23 PM |
| 4 | Proud of myselfYassss!!! This was a huge thing, you should celebrate by treating yourself to a nice place that guy couldn't bother to take you to lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/21 02:37 PM |
| 10 | All the pick me’s in the comments agree.. meanwhile I can’t be bothered to raise a grown man. NextI want my men like I want my baked goods... Fresh out of the oven, from a nice place and wrapped in elegant packaging 👌🏼 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/20 05:59 PM |
| 15 | When men ruminate on gender roles and marriage 🙄The last name change thing is not done in South America, so I've always been weirded out by it. Why do women do it? It's literally a form of possesiveness and loss of identity! (Edited for clarity) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/20 11:13 AM |
| 21 | Why are fat and ugly men the most shallow?It's pure misogyny. They hate women for being so "mean, slutty and shallow", which in turn is a projection of their hatred towards themselves. They're frustrated because "good girls won't give them a chance", so they act like they weren't that good to begin with, as s coping mechanism. Twisted and gross. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/20 06:20 AM |
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