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She’s probably getting the “I’m an adult” concept from him, too. The amount of creepy 30-50 year old men who have said “who cares, it’s legal” as a way of trying to lure me in… (I’m 19 now, was 18) is insanely high. He’s counting on her believing “legal” = “perfectly moral and fine” which this definitely isn’t.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 03:39 PM
22

Okay, thanks. It’s not something I had wanted - just something I kept seeing people talk about. It is pretty gross tbh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 03:37 PM
86

Sex outdoors isn’t normal? I’m not challenging you, I’m grateful for hearing this. Gotta do more reprogramming over here… I swear the list of sexual things I learned online that turn out to not be normal is constantly growing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 01:41 PM
53

So she cooks and cleans and he’s throwing temper tantrums, demanding all her attention, playing legos and… befriending 15 year olds and involving them in his arguments? No like seriously I knew someone who plays with giant legos, demands all his mommy’s attention, likes playing with a 15 year old boy & throws similar tantrums… this someone was 2 years old. At least one of his neighbor’s checked and then double checked on her (privately) in case of domestic violence. She’s the only good thing abo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 02:04 AM
69

4Chan usage is the biggest red flag you’re ever gonna get.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 02:15 PM
66

Well compared to no sex in his life it may have been 🤷‍♀️😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 04:14 PM
1

It’s the only part that can make him look good, so he’s reminding us over and over that he’s been doing things for his gf the entire time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 12:57 PM
237

Yup. And this is why I don’t play games with voice chat.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 12:44 PM
193

Why do I imagine him thinking she’s gonna be sitting in a tub full of blood or something 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 03:35 AM
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You can actually block that account to prevent those messages.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 01:58 PM
119

Could it be reported anyway, given her age? There’s no way she understands what she’s doing. Too young to understand what grooming and exploitation are while they’re happening. Every single one of those men messaging and friending her are pedophiles. This whole situation is just horrible. I guess the only thing I can do is hope her parents find the page before anything bad happens to her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 03:26 AM
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You could try r/femalelevelupstrategy (it’s like the non dating-focused version of FDS, same standards), maybe r/askFDS. I have felt this way (and seen girls posting about it) but I’m not really sure where it comes from besides a general desire to meet thinness standards.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 12:52 AM
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If you’re interested LR_today, here’s a compilation of comments from sex-buyers. Not sure if it’s the same one Lawless_Sapphistry read but it’s pretty eye opening. https://nordicmodelnow.org/myths-about-prostitution/myth-punters-care-about-the-women-they-buy/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/21 08:39 PM
75

Maybe they secretly like us? /s 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/21 08:35 PM
234

I think I originally found FDS from people bashing it on Reddit too. Also saw it on lists of controversial subs, which felt out of place to say little. You get a long list of disturbing and illegal porn category subs, groups responsible for terror, groups known for doxxing… and then… this place where we advise each other not to get coffee on a first date? Like what? 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/21 08:34 PM
44

Oh that’s true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/21 01:22 PM
230

That’s pretty creative. Although you run the risk of getting ultra-personal questions and inappropriate dares in return.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/21 02:26 AM
114

Can they? Technically it’s possible. But I’m gonna say no. They would have to genuinely change their own mind (you can’t do it for them) about what a relationship should be and what is enough for them. There’s always the risk of them getting nostalgic and wanting to have one more fling. I wouldn’t risk dating them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 10:53 PM
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It’s creepy honestly. At first it seems wholesome that he’d try to meet her standards but once she started avoiding him he needed to back off. And then finding out about the age gap… not really high value at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 10:48 PM
6

It’s less alarming than “trust me immediately and don’t bring boundaries to our relationship”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 10:45 PM
38

It’s the easiest thing in the world to claim to be an investor. I’m a self proclaimed Bitcoin investor - I got gifted $5 in it once. 😂😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 09:15 PM
193

“Yes I’m real” The photo in question: isn’t especially good anyway 😂 Oh and absolutely I’d judge myself for sleeping with someone the first time we saw each other irl. It’s risky and reckless.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 06:58 PM
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It’s not cute, it would be heartbreaking to hear.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 02:07 PM
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I used to think my mom was old fashioned when she said to never date more than 2-3 years. But reading stories on here and of all these women dating for 10+ years… I get it now. If he can’t decide within 700ish days if he wants you as a partner, move on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 03:03 PM
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Loudly echoing throughout the break room, this grown man shouts into the phone “BABE where’s my fruit smiles, I always eat fruit smiles, what happened did you forget c’mon I always eat this for lunch?!” I feel like embarrassment alone would be punishment enough. I can’t imagine eating fruit snacks in front of my coworkers lol (I confess I’m insecure), let alone making a call telling someone they forgot to pack them for me. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 03:24 AM
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That just sounds like the gift card is the bonus, I wouldn’t be concerned unless he was just paying for himself or if this was the only reason he would go out. Funny coincidence though. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 01:23 PM
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The not all men part should be a given. Just like if you said you met a woman who didn’t eat fruit, you wouldn’t say “now I know not all women avoid fruit, but”. It’s just extra words to soften the sentence and be extra sensitive for the reader. And I think that’s why it’s so annoying to all of us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 02:36 AM
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It’s funny because paying for a date once a week being on one person while they date is a lot less of a burden than all the household work all the time for an entire marriage… 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 08:29 PM
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Those first screenshots… makes my blood boil. I can’t imagine how stressful that was for these 14 year old girls when dealing with someone they idolize. Manipulating them with the threat of not talking to them anymore or making him unhappy. This just hurts me to read. He’s 18, I hope he serves time for this. Disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 12:32 PM
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I get what she’s trying to say, and it would be perfect… for an acquaintanceship. She’s right that we shouldn’t base our entire self worth or mood on whether or not we receive text messages. And for very casual friends or acquaintances, a late response might not mean anything… But this is a romantic partner. It’s not as simple as “we both don’t like texting” clearly she’s sending messages and he’s not replying, or she formerly was, anyway. And that’s where I draw the line. If I’m dating someone,…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 02:57 AM
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Both this woman and the kids lost here. He intentionally pushed her to be attached to those kids (and them her), with the quick marriage, vows, and sudden full-time childcare. This woman did the right thing by leaving, but also I can’t blame her kids - they’re victims of this man’s manipulation and likely also a ton of lies about her. It’s their father’s fault, unquestionably. Unfortunately this woman is getting the brunt of it. A good example of why you shouldn’t do age gaps, rushed marriages &…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 11:42 PM
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Taking an offer of a free drink from a stranger is a massive risk. First, they could taint it. Second, they want our guard down and decision making impacted. Third, it creates deniability for them in the event of sexual assault “She was more than happy to drink with me, what do you mean what I did when she was drunk wasn’t consensual?” I’d be wary to accept a drink from a stranger, I’d rather buy my own.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 07:21 PM
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On his website it said it was his final year, too. If he did have a mental illness, he obviously had the skill to cope with it and pass through medical school. The fact that they’re both medical students is definitely not a coincidence. Did he target her as a way of hurting her specifically, or as a broad revenge against someone else? Just ugh all around.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 01:25 PM
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It’s deeply disturbing to me to know this killer was reading through our posts and comments, who knows how long. Men like him are the reason I deleted my old account and made this anonymous one. You can never be too careful, and the last thing any of us want is to be specifically targeted by one of these misogynists. It’s not just an online problem, the violence and hate they discuss online is being acted upon. If we’re going to speak up about it, we need to exercise extreme caution.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 02:02 AM
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“I hate it” “Basic fact” “Well I haven’t even seen it, but I hate it anyway” I feel like if you ever miss this guy, remembering this snippet of conversation will be enough to realize he’s intolerable. But let’s see… 🚩1 Killing the conversation as soon as you brought something up 🚩2 interrupting 🚩3 dismissal 🚩4 Blanket hatred for unfamiliar/new things 🚩5”I don’t like it therefore you can’t mentality” 🚩6refusal to accept being wrong 🚩7blame shifting 🚩8 manipulation - making her responsible for his…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 02:08 AM
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Her meals can be more than enough variety (assuming she gets in some other vitamins elsewhere) if she seasons it. I don’t really believe she’s never eating vegetables and such, probably just canned or homegrown. And clearly she’s got good survival skills and doesn’t need much if she intentionally survives on so little money. Idk but I’d love a partner who could save money and understood nutrition. 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 02:47 PM
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I would really want to know what he suggested, because he left that out. And the whole “has vanilla sex out of obligation” bothers me. Did she really want to have sex with you, or are you constantly coercing her and she finally draws the line when you suggest degrading things? Also the wording is kind of funny. “She’s beautiful” + “I’m a regular guy” = “we’re average” 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 01:32 PM
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I agree quora is equally bad. There’s a lot of narcissism there, a lot of baited questions, and somehow even more gaslighting on top of that. Also… the underworld will freeze over before I tolerate my partner frequently talking about how attractive the women he sees around us are. “Look at how sexy she is” “Yeah go date her pal, I ain’t doing this shit. Maybe she will?” 🤣🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 04:23 PM
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Oh if he doesn’t like how she looks at 33 with makeup… pal I got news for you. 33 without makeup doesn’t look like 17 without makeup. She’s clearly putting some effort to look nice for him despite not directly dressing for him, and he puts zero effort into looking nice for her yet he wants to control her anyway. I’m with PickmeishaExorcist above, it sounds like he’s actually just trying to keep other men from noticing her. He wants her to look less than she’s comfortable with - why? Jealousy, ma…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 02:20 PM
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So he is OPENLY a sociopathic predator. How lovely. Thankfully he’s 47 and his age alone is gonna keep a lot of young and naive girls away from him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 02:15 AM
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Ah yes. He’s so famous he’s always filming himself but don’t you dare do it! 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 03:49 AM
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The problem isn’t really the fact that he has anxiety, that’s a bit like sensationalism. It wouldn’t have been an issue if he said crowds make him anxious, or highway traffic, and etc. Or if after (or during) this incident he said “Well, my anxiety is out of hand right now, I can’t handle this yet, and I’ll have to work on that”. The big problem and dealbreaker is that he expects her to take care of him just like his exes did. And that is an unfair burden. I have anxiety. I also know a lot of te…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 03:40 AM
58

This kills me every time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 05:49 PM
1

I’m late but please me too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 04:49 PM
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It wouldn’t be such an issue if he came asking for advice for a daughter’s room or something… nope. He wanted to go specifically to the woman’s sub for a living room, despite the existence of an identical and active male sub. 😐 Why? Why unless he assumed women are naturally better at taking care of a home, or wants to use other women online to attract women irl? We don’t really wanna deal with that. Also… yeah beige everywhere 😬 It’s really hard to find female-only spaces online. I don’t mind sh…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 04:04 PM
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He has like… zero redeeming qualities though. I get it at first - he seemed like he was gonna graduate and get a good career - I see why she got into this. But now? No work, no household tasks, no accountability, no communication skills, and from the lack of mention I would assume he’s able bodied and capable of all of these. It is indeed childish to put up a chore chart or reward chart for an adult man. Because he’s 27 and he shouldn’t need one, not because she suggested it. It’s so weird that …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 02:28 AM
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ID checks would solve a specific massive problem though - it would effectively keep most minors from viewing the site. I’m all for ID checks, even if I’m still hoping for the outright end of online porn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 03:55 AM
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The fact is, it’s very easy to implement a real age gate for such massive companies. They could get in done in a month. They don’t want to. Why? Here’s the bad reasons: Most men don’t want others (their mom’s, wives, etc) knowing they watch porn - PH will lose traffic if it can’t be anonymous. 2 With all the disturbing content, these men don’t want to risk it being associated with them (an ID would do that) 3 PH is well aware that they have a large amount of underage users. And that an early por…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/21 05:34 PM
4

Good job! You’ve got a brighter future by staying away from him and other situationships.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/21 01:07 AM
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I think she’s saying it because people accuse women of gold-digging because the man normally pays for both of them. But the very fact that she’s not the one who offered the date in the first place should mean he’s at least paying for himself. Either way, she’s not being unreasonable at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 02:48 AM
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If the first part wasn’t awkward enough, it’s really inconsiderate to expect someone else (a stranger, at that) to drive you to a specific place that’s out of town. It sounds like he misses the restaurant and decided a date would be the best way to go there. It’s just so uncomfortable to read, idk how it could get more awkward in person. “Hi I like you but anyway I have no money and want to visit this restaurant Ilike that’s far so please drive us and pay for everything thanks.” 😳 And also… why …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 02:46 AM
342

I fail to see how “I drugged her for being annoying” is getting justified. That’s exactly what he did. It doesn’t matter if she truly was obnoxious and started blaring Baby Shark every time they got in the car together. He could have broken up with her. I agree with you, what he did is a literal crime. And imagine what worse things he will do if he’s comfortable bragging about this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/21 05:33 PM
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Did anyone else notice that he asked her if she wanted anything before telling her she couldn’t have it? It’s either A. He wanted her to magically figure out what she was allowed to order, or B. It was a trick from the start. But onto the main stuff… how is she a leech? There is no rent, and she pays for household necessities and clothes for him. He knew she was disabled and knew she was a student before she moved in. The way it’s written makes me think she does all of the cooking too. Also, if …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/21 02:00 PM
129

“I put the toilet paper on” “I put the toilet seat down” “I picked my dirty clothes up” er so could 7 year old me, what’s the sticker for? 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/21 04:17 PM
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I’m 99.9% sure it was intentional on his part - didn’t even bother saying he “forgot”. Also… how’d he get there if he didn’t have a ride home? At the least she does look ticked off, so I don’t think we have to worry about her accepting this crap in the future.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 11:43 PM
14

Giving the highest and unwarranted benefit of the doubt it’s probably white ribbon and black/brown ribbon wrapped around whatever is keeping the ring together… not a wedding ring, that’s for sure, more like a kid’s craft. Now… not giving benefit of the doubt… is that onions and a raisin, is that a pebble and a slug, is it wrapped up and wet paper towel with a clump of coal? 😂 I can understand sentimental things in place of actual rings but I fail to see how this can be sentimental. It’s not even…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 02:09 PM
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It’s so confusing, too. Imagine throwing someone out for doing your laundry rather than: A. Doing it yourself like every other adult B. Asking them not to touch your clothes Then I reread it again and again and it seems the problem is that she’s asking him to wash his clothes again. I can’t even.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 02:54 AM
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He drove off a MOUNTAIN and only broke his back? Yeah I doubt that somehow. 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 05:42 PM
8

Gah but it’s not even hard to make breakfast or lunch, no cooking required. Just put a pop tart in a toaster and push a button or pour some cereal. Put a few pieces of meat and pre-sliced cheese between already sliced bread and you’ve got lunch… oh good grief. As for dinner… like literally a crock pot, or following the steps printed on every pasta box and dumping sauce in. Or ramen noodles, which is also on the box. This just somehow infuriates me, how do you get to 27 and… ahhh nvm. I’m sorry f…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 05:13 PM
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19 and ngl I’d be interested in him haha. No suggestion of situation-ships, no mentions of abusive kinks, no nonsense, has good teeth and therefore probably good hygiene, he’s productive and wants to keep working… yeah he’s one of the better ones. It seems so out of place to be on an online profile though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 01:17 PM
51

That’s a good point. Setting boundaries is the beginning of self esteem.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 02:10 PM
39

“Why do 18 year olds date 25 year olds” welllllll grooming. And the fact that they’re fresh out of high school with no life experience and may be lonely or come from broken circumstances. Certainly not because teens are always attracted to men 7 years older over their peers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 01:20 AM
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And paid for it, too. Not only are there millions of porn videos, a great deal of them are free. What he did was so deliberate, of course he feels slimy afterwards. It’s repulsive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 12:36 AM
85

So basically a weird 25 year old met a kid acting like a kid and liked that behavior. Yuck yuck yuck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 01:12 AM
2

Wow you really dissected that well. I didn’t even catch the narwhal thing, how messed up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 04:00 AM
38

The abuse of emojis makes this feel like a kid writing rather than an adult male on a dating site. Despite that, he’s looking for an extra member in his open relationship but wants class and zero-drama? That’s not how that works. And maybe it’s just my opinion but trying to hook up with a married person who doesn’t value commitment doesn’t seem confident, intelligent or emotionally mature to me. It’s risky to me to have sex with someone who’s currently having sex with someone else - and maybe mo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 03:50 AM
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“Hi, fill out way too much information and meet my exact standards and don’t you dare lie once because I WILL check through… MySpace.” Because of course everyone’s greatest fear is being rejected by this dude. It’s referred to as a service again at the bottom. Ah crap, my ears are pierced 2/16 of an inch, guess I’m getting rejected. Anywhooo. 🤷‍♀️ Also… we? Was this a group pamphlet they all borrowed? Lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 03:38 AM
60

There’s nothing classist about wanting a financially stable partner. Being able to provide for yourself is a staple of adulthood. It’s standard expectations for a partner to hold a self-sufficient job. An adult who isn’t trying to be self sufficient and independent is a dating concern.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 12:21 AM
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“F27” & “M39” - Knew immediately it was gonna be bad. I wish I could call this girl and just talk because no, football is not a culturally significant thing. Not say, significant enough to abandon your partner overnight in the hospital and then throw a tantrum for being texted during the game. He’s acting like he missed his child’s graduation or his Grandmother’s last day on earth - actual significant things, and she’s the one who thinks she’s in the wrong? He prioritized a football game over he…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 10:49 PM
10

Please don’t ever think you’re doing anything wrong, they’re using that as a chance to get near you. It’s so messed up, especially the touching. Like another commenter mentioned, a female gym would be ideal. Or maybe work out equipment at home. I’m not so sure how to avoid them approaching while in the gym, you could try quieter hours though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 10:34 PM
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He’s 30 and doesn’t know what tampons are for? No way am I buying that. He knew where it went, he definitely knows what it does. More of a red siren than a red flag. It’s like a tantrum for not getting sex from her, with zero concern for her health.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 05:16 PM
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