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| 6 | Women approaching men should be the norm.Im a 4'11 man and get approached often. Happened a lot in school. Still happens nowadays but not before I started going to the bar and singing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/26 11:53 PM |
| 2 | How common are gangbangs actually?i didn't like choking and my ex wanted it all the time. i hated it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/25 11:07 PM |
| 2 | Infant Circumcision is Unnecessary and Harmfulyeah i get you. i would prefer having the choice be left open for me. and my own choice would be no. in regards to your situation, like i said he has that agency, but if it were me, I would never even consider it if i was already an adult. mine has no meaning, so its hard to look at others and see their meaning. but even with meaning, i still think its misguided and unnecessary. If I were a jew and still had skin, I would convert to anything else. This is something that shouldn't be done on an i… | /r/MensRights | 10/12/24 06:09 PM |
| 3 | Infant Circumcision is Unnecessary and Harmfulas a salvadoran american, i don't see religious conviction to give it any more meaning. but to me it gives it some personal agency that i was not afforded. either way its a choice that i wouldn't make for myself and see one inflicting it on themselves for reasons of religious conviction, or whatever personal conviction as someone wanting to willingly harm themselves. does it make a difference if someone did it just cuz they wanted to as an adult without religious conviction? I don't think his de… | /r/MensRights | 10/12/24 08:26 AM |
| 1 | Feminists call for "vulva diversity" but shame small dicks in mainstream mediaThere more than just shaming small dicks. A lot of shaming hurts both but for some reason it's much easier to show the shaming of men for many reasons | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/24 10:35 PM |
| 2 | Men should (and are) show less sympathy towards women's issues in dating and in generalNo | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/24 02:45 AM |
| 33 | Is The Left Dangerously Out Of Touch?i think the left and right are beyond men's and women's issues and only attempt ti make appeals to collect as many votes at each of their expense. I'd rather just fight to stop either from losing rights and protect men and women. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 17/11/24 01:47 AM |
| – | The reason there's not much support for men's rights (and there won't be)if its men holding over men, that just sounds like a patriarchy with hierarchy. The men held under rich men will still have hold over women within their social class. aside from that we can still work on treating people better in general. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/24 05:01 PM |
| 17 | Men arent hated for having preferences. Its when theyre being creepy assholes about it.i mean as a guy, I have heard other men blurt out things like this. we could be playing a game and someone is just like " I WaNT SoME fAT tIITieS ON My GIRlz" I can't go 5 mins online without someone talking about their preferences. You'd think it was from boys but holy shit. there are plenty of grown ass men just saying shit without discussion. it is rarer in real life but ive had moments with other guys. its weird. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/24 09:29 PM |
| 0 | Women uphold “toxic masculinity” more than men donah | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/24 04:49 AM |
| 1 | The fact that the majority of blue pillers not only downplay but outright deny that women have become delusional in their standards or that there is a serious issue in dating is a huge red flag and tells you they are not interested in an honest debatebruh if the standards changed so much and are too much, why am i getting tinder likes and meeting at 4"11"? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/24 07:21 AM |
| 2 | Normalize saying you have a big vagina instead of "size queen"there's a difference between some women being like i want big dick, vs all women shaming men. same thing with your example, there's a difference between some men saying women should have tight pussies vs all men shaming women for not having tight pussies. in all examples its bad. but its even worse to treat the all like they are all acting like the some. we also live in very prudish society that looks down at obscenity whether it be among women or men... so like where are you hearing women annou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/24 07:14 AM |
| 2 | The "more men/boys are becoming conservative" narrative is started to be a problem.idk i find myself to be pretty progressive, yet a lot of my friends are either conservative or right leaning in some way. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 06/10/24 05:35 AM |
| -1 | Positive male spaces that existBut the issue was talking about men not being able to set up their own safe spaces. Why would I talk about women fucking their own shit up when this is about men? You don't make any sense when, only men can be in male spaces, unless they are open and inclusive. But we aren't talking about the open and inclusive ones. The closed ones (perfectly fine being closed) are able to be abused by some men. With behavior that is toxic for people to do. You can be toxic in a male space with other men. But t… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 24/09/24 02:28 AM |
| -2 | Positive male spaces that existWell then that's just a mistake of my wording, how I understood how I was using my language was that I am saying we generally. But in assuming that I am not a bad guy or an ass, nor in assuming that you or a majority of men are, I can see how saying we like I did is problematic. I say it generally tho through affiliation. I get why such a nice seeming guy like you wouldn't wanna affiliate himself with toxicity. I think it's rather interesting to point out we in a negative tho, would you say the … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 24/09/24 02:12 AM |
| -6 | Positive male spaces that existYour rhetoric was ascribing toxicity to make interactions with males. not what i said. i am saying *some* men's toxic behavior ruins having safe spaces. nor am i giving any insinuation that just any male interaction is toxic. either you are making huge leaps and extrapolations or you are really fixed on the words "male" and "toxic" being used in the same sentence. You're putting the fault on men, because they're men, and you don't like "locker room talk". Listen there's nothing wrong with men ha… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 24/09/24 01:00 AM |
| -16 | Positive male spaces that existso like all i said was men fucked up before and you got that i would somehow be about men socializing like women... and then you wanna act all condescending and weird about it??? no where am i saying that men should socialize like women and it kinda just feels like you are demonizing women's behavior for like no reason. that or you have reasons, but like they don't seem that great. i said you don't make sense because you seem to be thinking a lil far off. like bruh but no yeah totally, guys need… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 24/09/24 12:25 AM |
| -21 | Positive male spaces that existthis makes no sense to me. but ok. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 24/09/24 12:14 AM |
| -42 | Positive male spaces that existmen already had safe spaces and we abused the fuck out of them from what i can tell. when we have spaces and we have men be cool and supportive of each other, its great, but then you get the "locker room talk" and shitty attitudes men often have among ourselves such as "oh you can't do this thing, well i can" and other self cannibalizing, toxic, and unnecessarily competitive or comparative behavior against ourselves even under united spaces. its all about having more money, prettier women, and y… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 24/09/24 12:09 AM |
| 3 | Do you believe circumcision is harming males?You're hijacking and it's just sad | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/24 03:41 PM |
| 2 | Do you believe circumcision is harming males?I wouldn't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/24 03:38 PM |
| 2 | Do you believe circumcision is harming males?I think doing it to children increases the harm becae if extra variable. Like why am I gonna put a baby through an elective surgical procedure when he is still an infant. Their penis isn't even fully developed and someone wants to inflict physical trauma that will traumatize the surrounding tissues. And their mental vulnerability at that age while also not being able to take the same anesthesia as adults nor being able to communicate a need for more pain management. I don't think the harm is min… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/24 03:36 PM |
| 6 | You don't cut body parts off a baby boy, to avoid cleaning them.I only see it as a negative modification. And any "positive" from it still comes from negative and that's unjustifiable as something to do to a human, let alone children and infants. | /r/MensRights | 17/07/24 08:16 AM |
| 14 | You don't cut body parts off a baby boy, to avoid cleaning them.Can't really "regret" something when it wasn't your choice to begin with. I have deep feelings myself and I was done as a baby. Being forced into something is quite vile and abhorrent. So much wrong. | /r/MensRights | 17/07/24 08:12 AM |
| 1 | Women today are the ones slut shaming men and trying to control men's bodies.I actually just feel more slut shaming coming from both sides. Sorta feels like a "it can go both ways" kinda deal but for the bad. Now instead of men mainly slut shaming women, women are slut shaming men. Now everyone can sit shame everyone else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/24 12:10 PM |
| 2 | Men and women can never truly be equal because women get their rights from men.Men give both men and women right, but men being the one who gives right predominantly, we tend to only recognize rights for men then share them with others. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/24 11:41 AM |
| – | Men don't really want male issues to be solved , they want powerI'm a circumcised male and I care. I strongly dislike infant circumcision. Being circumcised, having had it done near birth, has given me no benefit in life in my eyes. Only negative. Some negative I can ignore. Cuz life. But I would never have wanted this for myself. I currently do not want to be. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/24 09:43 AM |
| 2 | Do TRULY average men actually struggle to date and have sex?I think you can be average and be any height. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/23 11:00 AM |
| -2 | Why do people get so offended if you even acknowledge misandry is real?Non of it is acceptable. I never made that a point. I'm saying to put it into context not to justify but to put relatively. However I'm still making the point that both are problematic | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 31/08/23 08:22 PM |
| -6 | Why do people get so offended if you even acknowledge misandry is real?We aren't just one thing. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 31/08/23 08:21 PM |
| -8 | Why do people get so offended if you even acknowledge misandry is real?It's just as mysandric for a woman to tell a man that mysandry doesn't exist as much as it is misogynistic for a man to tell a woman that misogyny doesn't exist. But then you have to put it into context. We are more so a patriarchy (at least how I've seen it but america is very open and there are pockets that have less or more). We do have more of a patriarchy problem but within a 0atriarchy you also have matriarchs so. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 30/08/23 09:29 PM |
| 1 | Men are not sexual savages, they have been taught they areI think that it's something that men can be, and they're usually taught or conditioned to be by society or from shitty dad's or just whoever else's influence. Sadly we also have all of human history and while women haven't been the best, have men? It's only till very recently that men and their expected tendencies have either been questioned or had any change. It also doesn't help with some men perpetuating whatever that were conditioned to be sexually. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/23 01:24 AM |
| 2 | Is the reason why single women are happier than single men because their celibacy is *mostly* a choice?I don't understand how you can come to a conclusion that I'm speaking from a place of privilege but ok. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/23 10:11 PM |
| 1 | Is the reason why single women are happier than single men because their celibacy is *mostly* a choice?I agree | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/23 10:05 PM |
| 2 | Is the reason why single women are happier than single men because their celibacy is *mostly* a choice?Again it just seems like men are desperate, and it allows women to have an easier time in picking out from those that are desperate. Men shouldn't give in to the desperation. (Which I am highly aware is easier said than done) It just saddens me that men are taught that the most fulfilling thing to them is finding pussy rather than appreciating the person they are with. And that's not to say that women's standards are unfair but so are some men's. But you also can't have no standards. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/23 10:04 PM |
| 1 | Is the reason why single women are happier than single men because their celibacy is *mostly* a choice?Well I know plenty of men including myself that also agree, you can just go out to fuck whoever, is the average man vs the average woman that disproportionate? It more so seems like men are falling behind on average. Everytime I see people discuss this, it goes from having dates to having sex and it jumps back and forth. Are we arguing about finding dates and connecting with someone or are we talking about just hooking up, casual sex? It seems pretty disingenuous. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/23 09:59 PM |
| 2 | Is the reason why single women are happier than single men because their celibacy is *mostly* a choice?The desperation | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/23 09:55 PM |
| 1 | Is the reason why single women are happier than single men because their celibacy is *mostly* a choice?I don't understand this whole being single is a choice for women but not for men rhetoric. It doesn't make any sense and just makes people come off desperate | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/23 05:40 PM |
| 2 | 'Liberal Woman' Goes Viral On TikTok For Saying It's Hard To Find 'Masculine' Man Who's Not ConservativeI don't think a "normal" man is conservative. But we live in America. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/23 03:16 PM |
| 8 | Question for women: Would you submit to a rich man?Just cuz you saw a few women (a substantial group even) that shouldn't speak for how most women would behave in a similar situation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/23 05:12 AM |
| 3 | Marriage in AmericaI think based off what you said that marriage still being an option for people is good, and that people shouldn't feel like they should just do it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/23 07:27 PM |
| 3 | CMV The main reason why Dating today is f*cked for Men is not because of feminism/equality. 90% of the damage comes from Online Dating.Lmao i don't think height makes people that undesirable, at least in the long run | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/23 04:30 PM |
| 1 | At what height is a manlet already a sub'hum@n?Not really. | /r/AllPillDebate | 28/04/23 03:58 PM |
| 1 | At what height is a manlet already a sub'hum@n?Lol, if we're looking at potential, i guess. If it's more about in the moment i just don't see it doing much on my side, especially since Ed Sheeran is a pop musician. I'm pretty sure pop musicians have a much better time in general than an educator or classically trained musician and that women wouldn't see much in them if they weren't already involving themselves in something that paid well. If anything, before i had a gf, i could see girls looking at people around and seeing me as someone wit… | /r/AllPillDebate | 28/04/23 03:39 PM |
| 0 | At what height is a manlet already a sub'hum@n?What status do I have? I don't see much status just being a musician. And having no money i don't think helped. I don't disagree with looks being important. | /r/AllPillDebate | 28/04/23 09:55 AM |
| 0 | At what height is a manlet already a sub'hum@n?Ok ngl, I'm a musician with great people skills too and i have never had a problem with girls. Ive only ever been approached by girls, and in my experience, being a social person in general is a big boost. Like yeah I may have good looks, not that I would say so myself, but that has done much less than actually being just a personable and friendly person. I say this while also having no money and even in college, girls would approach me. Edit: I'm 4'11" I do find it highly interesting that short… | /r/AllPillDebate | 28/04/23 08:29 AM |
| 1 | Introducing r/MalePsychologythe British Psychological Society has established a Male Psychology Section, and has published male positive guidelines for psychologists and therapists. These guidelines assert that gender is an important part of a person's identity, and is rooted in biology just as much as sexuality is I have a hard time with this because of how much I've heard of the UK just generally being transphobic. I'm male and my gender doesn't really mean much for my mental health personally. I would be more interested… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 23/04/23 05:19 PM |
| 2 | The “incel” slur is making it impossible for me to use the internetJust don't think of yourself as one, it's because you react to incel specifically. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 19/02/23 12:10 AM |
| 1 | Anti-Circumcision SelfiesAnd the argument for it is the medical benefits that derive from it, you know things that can actually be quantified Considering not all "benefits" are quantified or agreed upon and there are detriments that are also quantified, i don't see how you can say there is much of an argument for it. I'm sure the millions of men who are circucised don't feel sexually inadequate or robbed of the ability to get sexual gratification and as odd looking as the device often used is, most babies don't cry duri… | /r/MensRights | 16/02/23 05:07 AM |
| 1 | Anti-Circumcision SelfiesImagine having your only argument against damage towards genitals not even address the damage toward the genitals and only talks about sperm. As if being able to make sperm still is an argument for it (more particularly for infants). | /r/MensRights | 16/02/23 04:55 AM |
| 1 | American women practicing circumcision. In the USA, it is usually OB-GYNs who perform circumcisions. Over 80% of them are female, meaning women are the ones doing most of the cutting, contrary to feminist lies about men being responsible for their own oppression.Just cuz women are participate in a part does not make this a matriarchy. Especially since men in this country want other men to be cut, not just women. If it was matriarchal i wouldn't be able to do what I can in this country. There are people who perpetuate this on both sides, i was done by a male doctor, others more likely by female, but that doesn't make this entire thing matriarchal. There are people who genuinely do it to cause harm and they are the main issue and then there are people who… | /r/MensRights | 30/11/22 12:53 AM |
| 1 | Why should men still be the ones to pursue?As a 4'11" male, I've never had to approach women. Men and women can choose to put themselves out there or just be approached. Either way should be fine | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/22 10:12 AM |
| 3 | Just a personal observation, I’m noticing more and more above average and good looking guys with chubby and overweight or below average girlsIf only people would stop treating a little tummy as the same as obese. Like we can be healthy with a little weight. I personally feel like there is either too much of a focus on all or nothing, being either really big or really slim. But then everything in between gets looked like the extreme | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/22 12:54 AM |
| 1 | Just a personal observation, I’m noticing more and more above average and good looking guys with chubby and overweight or below average girlsWow women having some fat just drops them from viewing potential for ya huh. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/22 12:50 AM |
| 1 | Why do you believe that men have an obligation to disclose their intentions to you?You ever hear about lying by omission. If someone asks you a question and respond, you can either tell them everything or tell them enough. But just because it's enough doesn't make it the whole truth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/22 03:48 AM |
| 1 | If women approached men more, would there be less men identifying as incels?Southern California. San Bernardino ish. Went to school in OC | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/22 04:39 AM |
| 3 | If women approached men more, would there be less men identifying as incels?I mean, as a 4'11" dude, i have only ever been approached by women. For incels i think the problem is that they they expect so much without wanting to try more in their part. I personally don't feel like I am putting in that much effort at all in my appearance and and I'm 4'11". l'm a height that I'm sure incels would think it be just plain impossible to have girls even look my way. Yet i have never even had to approach a girl in my life. Even after having a gf, girls still notice me and flirt w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/22 08:48 PM |
| 1 | Where did you get your opinions about women?Well I'd leave if i was a feminist | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/22 09:27 AM |
| 1 | Where did you get your opinions about women?Ngl i have never seen that word identitarian. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/22 11:40 PM |
| -1 | Where did you get your opinions about women?Personally i don't see feminism demonizing men, but how others utilize it is.. Once it turns to hating men, I don't see it as feminism anymore | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/22 11:39 PM |
| 1 | Where did you get your opinions about women?Imo those problems come from a lack of understanding what feminism is but i don't disagree with the messaging that ends up coming about. Why do women say equality but then also turn to say fuck men? Obviously not all feminists are like that either tho. Personally i never really 'felt' those sentiments but that's not to say I've never heard them. But i also feel like a lot of men are more... Sensitive against what some feminists say because they are misguided by others. It's just a mess tho overa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/22 11:36 PM |
| 0 | What is the male equivalent of daily sexual harassment as a child?That's not how that works. It's not flattering 'if I don't want it' It doesn't make you feel good unless it is something you wanted. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/22 10:13 PM |
| 1 | What is the male equivalent of daily sexual harassment as a child?I think I experienced a healthy version, older girls would always ALWAYS express how cute of a boy I was, but it was always just that I was such a cutie. I feel like with women and girls, it's a much more hawkish and gross feeling. I never felt whether those girls were looking at my body, it felt like they just looked at my face at worst. I think what women go through is just so much different tho. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/22 09:56 PM |
| 2 | What is the male equivalent of daily sexual harassment as a child?I can talk to girls just fine dude, where is this derision you speak of? I don't see how being ogled from a young age would make anyone feel good. Especially when it is unwanted. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/22 09:05 PM |
| 7 | American politicians may be ignorant of female anatomy but American doctors are ignorant of male anatomyThey not only are ignorant, but trivialize our anatomy and flesh. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 30/08/22 05:46 AM |
| 1 | Why cheating is now a good thingWeird | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 26/08/22 07:43 AM |
| 1 | The state is the problem between men and women.Wha? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/22 02:42 AM |
| 2 | The state is the problem between men and women.another reason why I don't take this page seriously | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/22 09:49 PM |
| 7 | The state is the problem between men and women.This is why I take nothing here seriously | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/22 09:46 PM |
| 2 | Male Circumcision Had Major Benefits and we Should Stop Pretending Like it Doesn’t.Yeah I'm definitely having problems When I’ve said that the sensitivity and sex and all that are wrong and have no basis in science I don't see why talking about sex and sensitivity dissolves or diminishes any other argument. In fact this just comes off to me as some sort of purity problem or some sort of prudishness. And like i have commented before, people bringing up issues with it through any sexual lense just shouldn't be looked down upon because sex and our penile sensitivity are real thin… | /r/MensRights | 06/07/22 10:44 PM |
| 7 | Male Circumcision Had Major Benefits and we Should Stop Pretending Like it Doesn’t.It's cuz psychologically they seem like something has been improved, bit physically their bodies aren't having it lol. Why would cutting off a part of the skin system that also uses the blood supply in conjunction (as a part not seperate from it) improve. It's like cutting a road and then putting more blockades between where you cut it off so that not only was the path damaged, but almost blocked off. Luckily there are other paths and it doesn't just completely ruin our blood flows. | /r/MensRights | 06/07/22 10:38 PM |
| 3 | Male Circumcision Had Major Benefits and we Should Stop Pretending Like it Doesn’t.Consent isn't the only issue, i would argue that others playing down and reducing other arguments is an issue not the arguments that those use to fight against something that has a multitude of problems. It only serves to reduce what problems there are. | /r/MensRights | 06/07/22 10:33 PM |
| 5 | Male Circumcision Had Major Benefits and we Should Stop Pretending Like it Doesn’t.Just cuz someone says there are benefits doesn't mean those benefits are large or "substantial" or in fact a benefit. Especially if the cons (not even just the risks) are much heavier than the superficial benefit. | /r/MensRights | 06/07/22 10:29 PM |
| 5 | Male Circumcision Had Major Benefits and we Should Stop Pretending Like it Doesn’t.Just cuz the studies exist does not mean they are making it absolute. No one has come to a consensus, that doesn't mean it doesn't reduce anything. | /r/MensRights | 06/07/22 10:27 PM |
| 6 | Male Circumcision Had Major Benefits and we Should Stop Pretending Like it Doesn’t.This | /r/MensRights | 06/07/22 10:25 PM |
| 6 | Male Circumcision Had Major Benefits and we Should Stop Pretending Like it Doesn’t.I read through that entire study and in no way does it claim what you have said and also only talks about young adults who just got the procedure... Are you saying this in good faith at all? Or did you not read the study you yourself provided? This just comes off to me as someone who is still trying to find ways to say that little was taken and removed from their body. The study you provide even says that it is unclear whether it affects it or not and they even say themselves that they would lik… | /r/MensRights | 06/07/22 10:23 PM |
| 3 | Male Circumcision Had Major Benefits and we Should Stop Pretending Like it Doesn’t.But it's not true because cutting it comes with its own list of ailments that people just don't know how to recognize because they treat everything about it as if it's the same as any other penis | /r/MensRights | 06/07/22 10:17 PM |
| 1 | Circumcised men after hearing women lost bodily autonomy last weekHmm well I only do because of how uneven it is. Parts of the pain are only like a 1 or 2 on good days when nothing is happening, but if there's any sort of bad texture in contact with my inner skin it just hurts and having a chronic 4 on top of other pains is just unnecessary, and the difference in how much skin I have on each side is very heavy, like one side has a shit ton of slack that I can pull up to my glans do that side has some mobility, the other side is like drum tight when erect. But … | /r/MensRights | 02/07/22 02:45 AM |
| 2 | Circumcised men after hearing women lost bodily autonomy last weekI literally have no idea where you got cottons swabs and alcohol to clean skin folds... Like seriously where even? Alcohol would literally irritate all the skin that it touches, it would feel like it's burning. This is more so the case with the inside cuz it's all internal flesh. Why would anyone in the right mind think to try to clean their dick that way for anything? | /r/MensRights | 01/07/22 10:15 AM |
| 2 | Circumcised men after hearing women lost bodily autonomy last weekThere is a difference being happy with it vs trying to teeter over how it could possibly be a detriment to yourself, i wish being cut meant anything good to me but it doesn't | /r/MensRights | 30/06/22 10:23 PM |
| 3 | Circumcised men after hearing women lost bodily autonomy last weekWhat kinda of gaslighting work shop have you been through?? Im cut and i have issues with it, i grew up thinking i was normal, thinking all the pain and discomfort was normal. When I'm reality i should have never experienced any pain or discomfort. I hated feeling my head rub against my underwear, i hate looking at it as a child because i would get anxiety over it even tho i didn't know exactly why, i hate going through puberty i hate the physical sensations i do receive from just letting it exi… | /r/MensRights | 30/06/22 10:21 PM |
| 9 | Circumcised men after hearing women lost bodily autonomy last weekShame on you for reducing skin on a person as something that they don't need, when it's something on them that inherently has nothing wrong. Shame on you for thinking that anyone is making fun of an issue for drawing parallels. The thought that this makes fun of abortion is pathetic | /r/MensRights | 29/06/22 06:50 AM |
| 18 | Circumcised men after hearing women lost bodily autonomy last weekYou are disgusting | /r/MensRights | 29/06/22 03:10 AM |
| 13 | Circumcised men after hearing women lost bodily autonomy last weekI don't have a recollection of it but I have a reminder as scar every day. Imagine not even knowing what it is as a child but then finding out much later as an adult. I'd rather not have it done at all. Feeling my penis against everything growing up was so fucking annoying and painful. And it multiplied into puberty. At least as an adult you can prep yourself and make the choice, I think my parents making the decision for an infant was a terrible decision done without much care and the results a… | /r/MensRights | 29/06/22 01:19 AM |
| 28 | Circumcised men after hearing women lost bodily autonomy last weekGetting it done as an adult is overall less traumatic, and not remembering doesn't mean anything good | /r/MensRights | 28/06/22 10:55 PM |
| 13 | Circumcised men after hearing women lost bodily autonomy last weekClean cut is something that shouldn't be used when talking about being cut. | /r/MensRights | 28/06/22 10:54 PM |
| 13 | Circumcised men after hearing women lost bodily autonomy last weekThis idea that one side needs to feel the same shit is the exact bullshit i saw people trying to fight in the 2010s, how about instead of feeling like one side needs to feel the same shit (neither does) we instead focus on preventing rights from being gradually taken away from people | /r/MensRights | 28/06/22 10:53 PM |
| -10 | Circumcised men after hearing women lost bodily autonomy last weekKill babies 🤣🤣🤣 | /r/MensRights | 28/06/22 10:51 PM |
| 1 | Why are men being blamed for the overturn of Roe v. Wade when recent surveys show that the majority of men AND women are pro-choice?The majority of our population does not translate to our representatives. If we didn't have representatives i would understand, but like who is in the supreme court? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 28/06/22 10:10 PM |
| 25 | An underlining, under-reported, and understated issue that has an impact on dating, bonding, and men's sexual health that tends to be ignored and played down.As a circumcised male, I wholly oppose circumcision on infant males. The only exception is medical necessity. Routine infant circumcision is one of the most damaging forms of MGM in its current state, it is not just the same procedure even within a state. Damn this practice, damn those that perpetuate it. My body was fine the way it was, doctors don't do enough to prevent harm and instead push it. I thought that what I felt from my penis normal for years before reading about the topic and issues… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 27/06/22 08:38 PM |
| -5 | Roe vs Wade has been Overturned; If we truly believe in Human Rights, we must support a Women’s Right to ChooseLol and if their choice is to not get preggo by not having sex with you? | /r/MensRights | 25/06/22 04:19 AM |
| 2 | The only way to success with womenNot every actor, fireman musician or artist makes much money. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/22 03:45 AM |
| 1 | Toxic MasculinityAgain I've never heard or seen the term used to describe anti social behaviour. If anything it describes behaviour that doesn't help with men dealing with those antisocial behaviors and may even help perpetuate them. Not the antisocial behavior or mental ailments themselves. | /r/MensRights | 16/06/22 10:32 PM |
| 1 | Toxic MasculinityBeing a man and qualities of men are not the same thing. You can be a man and literally be feminine. Be a man and be only somewhat masculine. Being a man physically is not being masculine. Behaviors from toxic masculinity are not universal in masculinity. Literally don't know what you are talking about with what your point is because there are toxic feminine traits and behaviour. Without saying all of femininity is toxic by the way. We're looking at chunks of it not the whole thing, but some chu… | /r/MensRights | 16/06/22 06:22 PM |
| 1 | Toxic MasculinityI don't think the comparison is a good one. Especially when from my perspective, female hysteria was used as a way to literally say "one has problem cuz woman" while the other one is saying that behaviour is bad and is being perpetuated through masculinity and what people think is tied to their masculinity not because of simply being a man. | /r/MensRights | 16/06/22 06:08 PM |
| 1 | Toxic MasculinityI wish I used twitter dude. I can understand frustration with how the term is used and abused tho. Also what about fake science? I don't think it's useless because I read and watched a lot about toxic masculinity. But like it honestly just feels like people here read "toxic masculinity" as if it is saying masculinity as a whole is toxic like it's saying masculinity is toxic... But then what about a term such as positive masculinity. Like is a negative term next to the word masculinity that hurtf… | /r/MensRights | 16/06/22 06:05 PM |
| -1 | Toxic MasculinityWell I personally thought that it was just toxic traits that individuals would tie to their own sense of masculinity. Never once thought it meant anything about masculinity as a whole being bad. | /r/MensRights | 16/06/22 03:55 PM |
| 1 | Toxic MasculinityIt literally doesn't make sense to me, especially the part where it's somehow being used to say that things are just in men's heads. The female hysteria comparison just doesn't add up to me. | /r/MensRights | 16/06/22 03:48 PM |
| 2 | Toxic MasculinityYeah i have never read toxic masculinity as being something akin to female hysteria, I've never seen anything about it that refers to to these issues as just problems in men's heads. This entire post just seems like it's at people who just use the word for wrong contexts or just people who straight up use the word maliciously. | /r/MensRights | 16/06/22 03:45 PM |
| 1 | Toxic MasculinityI've never heard any of this about toxic masculinity. | /r/MensRights | 16/06/22 03:42 PM |
| 0 | Toxic MasculinityYeah suppressing emotions and being able to be control them are not the same. There's a difference between someone who has learned how to control and manage their emotions in a healthy beneficial way vs shutting your emotions and hurting yourself in the process. Did you read what i wrote? I don't understand your point with being proud, like in the west i have seen so much pride for just being 9ne of the boys wtf? Not did iention simple pride as a bad thing?? I literally said you can have pride i… | /r/MensRights | 16/06/22 03:39 PM |
| -4 | Toxic MasculinityI don't know things like forcing other boys to endure pain, pushing things to be more masculine when they don't have to be, unecessary aggression, societal pressure to repress emotion and downplay trauma (not exclusive to masculinity but for some it is), excessive pride in being male (not saying to not have any, this is all relative to the individual cuz you can have pride in being a male but having pride where one is putting it above things then it starts becoming what we'd like to call toxic b… | /r/MensRights | 16/06/22 03:31 AM |
| -10 | Toxic MasculinityPersonally I have never even seen this used in ways that direct it toward antisocial behaviour. I don't see how pointing out toxicity within behaviour is bad or negative, especially because within my circles toxic masculinity has been brought up and lead to talking about toxic femininity as well. Maybe the use of the term has been used out of it's proper context or something but that may be due to less awareness, is there anything that shows it that you have as reference, anything i could look u… | /r/MensRights | 16/06/22 01:11 AM |
| -27 | Toxic MasculinityI never read the term as if it was saying ALL of masculinity is toxic, but that there are toxic traits pushed in through masculinity. It's saying some qualities are harmful. Not all. | /r/MensRights | 15/06/22 06:46 PM |
| 6 | Toxic MasculinityWhat is a matriarchy and patriarchy? | /r/MensRights | 15/06/22 06:41 PM |
| -4 | Toxic MasculinityHow is this even down voted? Just to add, it can be internalized even amongst progressive women. | /r/MensRights | 15/06/22 06:40 PM |
| -17 | Toxic MasculinityWhen people talk about toxic masculinity, generally they don't encompass ALL of masculinity with it. If someone is, feel free to point out their bs but like honestly this is ridiculous. | /r/MensRights | 15/06/22 06:37 PM |
| 2 | American women practicing circumcision. In the USA, it is usually OB-GYNs who perform circumcisions. Over 80% of them are female, meaning women are the ones doing most of the cutting, contrary to feminist lies about men being responsible for their own oppression.Quit treating foreskin as if it automatically comes with problems because they very much do not | /r/MensRights | 11/06/22 08:20 PM |
| 1 | American women practicing circumcision. In the USA, it is usually OB-GYNs who perform circumcisions. Over 80% of them are female, meaning women are the ones doing most of the cutting, contrary to feminist lies about men being responsible for their own oppression.Ob-gyns are actually involved with circumcision if it is due to be performed sooner after birth. Literally just looked up who performs circumcision and even google says they do. | /r/MensRights | 11/06/22 08:18 PM |
| 1 | Guys, why are you so easily influenced by sex?How often does an individual think of the propagation of the species? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/22 12:15 AM |
| 2 | Guys, why are you so easily influenced by sex?Don't forget about people like you but who don't want kids. Celibate but looking just for a partner, no sex, no kids nor any want of motherly qualities. Just a decent partner that will work with their own goals as well | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/22 04:13 AM |
| 3 | Guys, why are you so easily influenced by sex?I think that the sensitivity of our penis plays a large role as to why men gravitate toward sex so easily biologically, and the sensation from it is such a good feeling that it can literally affect how we think about ourselves. Along with social conditioning from those around us and ideas about what love and sex and how we handle those feelings all play a role psychologically. It depends on a lot of stuff how everyone manages the feeling they get to how they were brought up about it psychologica… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/22 01:20 AM |
| 2 | Women love "high value men", but it's not actually that hard to be oneI just hope people will see that things are more superficial, that these things people think are a must for men aren't solid for everyone. I don't expect to be attractive to everyone but i hope people see that as someone who doesn't even put themselves out there even just for minor attention, that these things just don't matter to everyone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/22 01:12 AM |
| 2 | Women love "high value men", but it's not actually that hard to be oneSee being a 4'11"an who has done nothing but attracting attention from women, all those things help, yet there are people who would tell me that my height makes me unattractive over these qualities | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/22 11:38 PM |
| 8 | American women practicing circumcision. In the USA, it is usually OB-GYNs who perform circumcisions. Over 80% of them are female, meaning women are the ones doing most of the cutting, contrary to feminist lies about men being responsible for their own oppression.This I think is a tad bit misguided, not every circumcision is religious. And they do push it. Not all or everytime. But many do. I know people who were cut comply because their mom's didn't care or wanted it. And I was cut because my dad thought it as a tradition regardless of religion. And just because men hold the religion and powers within it, doesn't mean that they remove all of the societal and social influence women hold. Overall id say it's enforced by men ourselves tho, religion is the … | /r/MensRights | 03/05/22 10:36 PM |
| -1 | American women practicing circumcision. In the USA, it is usually OB-GYNs who perform circumcisions. Over 80% of them are female, meaning women are the ones doing most of the cutting, contrary to feminist lies about men being responsible for their own oppression.How is this downvoted | /r/MensRights | 03/05/22 10:29 PM |
| -1 | American women practicing circumcision. In the USA, it is usually OB-GYNs who perform circumcisions. Over 80% of them are female, meaning women are the ones doing most of the cutting, contrary to feminist lies about men being responsible for their own oppression.Yeah it's not. | /r/MensRights | 03/05/22 10:28 PM |
| 7 | Empathy has a genetic component, men have lower empathy on average, but the genetic component is not responsible for men having lower average empathy. What then?Why are people making it seem as if their conclusion is that men "are" less empathetic like as if it's some determinant thing... All i see is that they find men to be lower in empathy on average. Obviously this comes down to social conditioning and exposure. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 23/02/22 01:17 AM |
| 0 | Is FemaleDatingStrategy, ironically, conservative?That's why my girl asked me out and didn't care if the man initiated in her life. She would even like the idea of being the breadwinner. I still would wanna support but she's mega adamant about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/21 10:44 PM |
| 1 | Am I the only one who notices that gender roles are more rigid for men than are for women?Men who become professional artists are not seen as 'doing feminine things', they're seen as doing frivolous things, non-essential. And well, historically, non-essential things are the province of the rich and the bourgeois, theater, playing music instruments for entertainment and not a military march, making pottery for fun and not to have cookware at all or to survive selling them. Writing without knowing if you'll even sell your writing but being able to live on your wealth. I have met plenty… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 30/11/21 03:22 AM |
| 1 | Am I the only one who notices that gender roles are more rigid for men than are for women?Are gender roles based on a male perspective of how either should be, a female perspective of how either should be, or more of a perspective that can be shared by both but influence each other? Like are these things perpetuated for men and women by men for men, or by women for for women, or how either generally influence each other? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 30/11/21 03:12 AM |
| 0 | This talks about Misandry pretty well and points at a bunch of thingsIt's different when you look at more than one thing. Look at what's happening currently... There are patriarchal religions, namely Islam and whatever other main abrahamic religions and their own sub branches. In most of them, everyone is taught that women are the cause of sin... Now aside from that, even through law, women were oppressed till recently. But the attitudes toward women still trickle down. And their are still regions that heavily skew toward men over women socially. Even my gf, she'… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 18/11/21 12:34 AM |
| 2 | This talks about Misandry pretty well and points at a bunch of thingsI don't think hereditary disadvantage is what I'm addressing, more so people saying "I didn't do this so why am I getting shit for it." When people can literally say the same thing for slavery. I'm not saying that these issues are equivalent to slavery. Its like how one person can ruin it for everyone else. Obviously it's kinda shitty but men and women do it. "Oh I had a girlfriend who threw shit and constantly made her friends hate me. Why are women so crazy" "I heard some guys gang raped a gir… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 13/11/21 10:46 AM |
| 1 | This talks about Misandry pretty well and points at a bunch of thingsI see, but that doesn't mean that women still didn't experience things by men. and that their descendants aren't dealing with shit because of it. I'm not necessarily trying to compare them, I'm just saying the logic is similar. I know this is anecdotal but like my gf even learned to be afraid of men because of the other men directly in her family. And the fear mongering of men from even her own dad, let alone the other women in her family doing it. Obviously she doesn't hate men but that shit wa… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 13/11/21 10:34 AM |
| -5 | This talks about Misandry pretty well and points at a bunch of thingsThis is really bad imo, you could use this same logic on slavery and it's just like cmon. It's not about whether they were the ones that did it because there are people that are affected by it years later. Like I get it they didn't have anything to do with it but they are still affected. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 12/11/21 07:02 PM |
| -4 | Who is “men”?Did I say women didn't? People perpetuate things based around what they learned themselves from the past. Gender roles emerged from the interactions between both genders along with culture, that doesn't mean that men or women can't be accountable for how they themselves perpetuate said gender roles. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 26/10/21 10:48 PM |
| -19 | Who is “men”?Men from our past have passed on things that we still do today. Now at this point in time men learned these behaviors are bad but not all. I have no problem with saying men because it's used generally and doesn't include men who don't perpetuate those bad habits, whatever may be pointed out. Obviously things shouldn't be set to blame ALL men for it but unless someone says all men then eh. As a man I see other men do some dumb shit. Women should own up to bad things too whether done by man or wom… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 26/10/21 06:35 PM |
| 1 | As a leftist, do you sometimes feel internalized guilt about caring about men's issues?Like issues involving men and the court, social bias against men, violence against men, circumcision, idk. When I say that I mean like substantial to me, but if something is considered substantial to me it's not because it's minor, it's just not brought to my attention. Now whether the other person thinks it's substantial or not is another issue, especially because what could be considered substantial to someone is subjective regardless of whether the issue is real big or something small. I like… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 22/10/21 02:54 PM |
| 7 | What women say they want in a partner and what they actually want are two different thingsLiterally using terms like alpha and beta when those things cannot be pinned down to human social behavior 🙃 I did read it by the way | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/21 01:54 AM |
| 11 | What women say they want in a partner and what they actually want are two different thingsThis is based off of dumb shit from wolves, where they classify things on their own parameters... nothing in this proves anything in the first place 🤣🤣🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/21 01:51 AM |
| 4 | What women say they want in a partner and what they actually want are two different thingsYou can literally have men who can be rich but shit with women, men who are generally poor who just get girls. You can also have non dominant or not so physically intimidating men who might just have good looks. You don't have to have this fantasy that you have to be all these things in order to be popular with women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/21 01:45 AM |
| 5 | What women say they want in a partner and what they actually want are two different thingsLOLOL tell me what is an alpha male, and how does a term that was lazily used to describe wolves apply to how women view men 🤣🤣🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/21 01:17 AM |
| 1 | As a leftist, do you sometimes feel internalized guilt about caring about men's issues?Honestly not at all... I have been able to talk about things with both men and women, however I do see a larger focus on women's issues but if the issue on the man's side is substantial, even the women around will listen or discuss about it. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 22/10/21 01:06 AM |
| 3 | "Men don't value their emotions, they are emotional whores." - A lovely example of why so many men are "emotionally distant" with women.I think people in general din be like trauma dumping... like regardless of if you are male or female, it can be a lot for others. People in general should learn how to handle the emotion of their partners... or just other people rather than being like "not my problem" | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 19/10/21 06:31 AM |
| 1 | "You're an incel 'cause you're an obese neckbeard." Meanwhile at the incel meetup:This makes no sense... and I'm nowhere near being an incel... Yeah a lot of men are taught shitty things from traditional times and a lot of men feel a lot of pressure from women. My thing is... if you really want a partner as a guy, then the guy has to put effort into how they look and how they act toward her... it's not like women should straight up just be with a man... and seeing as how men are taught very little by their parents about respecting and treating women like people, it really get… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 11:39 PM |
| 1 | I wanted to take a moment to deconstruct these comments. How they confirm our distaste towards ideas like "toxic masculinity" and the feminist approach to men's issues.Looking outside the United States, there are plenty of male dominated cultures... just look at most of the middle east, it's so obvious that men have shaped their culture. Or the religious in America who also hold higher power in their hierarchy based off of what the Bible feeds them. Or Asian male attitudes toward women. Or, from my own experience, machismo attitudes throughout Central and South America. Culture can shape people but people also shape the culture as a collective, it's like a cyc… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 07/09/21 11:45 AM |
| 8 | I wanted to take a moment to deconstruct these comments. How they confirm our distaste towards ideas like "toxic masculinity" and the feminist approach to men's issues.Yeah that makes a lot of sense, it's really behaviors that aren't inherent to masculinity. That opened up a lot to think about it. I still think that are some men that don't want to acknowledge that some behavior that they do is bad but we shouldn't tie it directly to their masculinity. So how should it be looked at then? Are there simply behaviors that men do that are toxic but not linked to their masculinity? Are there behaviors driven by masculinity or are there behaviors driven by what is de… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 04/09/21 09:46 AM |
| 6 | I wanted to take a moment to deconstruct these comments. How they confirm our distaste towards ideas like "toxic masculinity" and the feminist approach to men's issues.Oh I see what you mean, society as a whole is the issue. Yeah how men are shown as like the main culprit is definitely biased as there should be work done in both sides. It's sad how men are depicted like they are the only source of the social problems we face today. Men do have a lot of influence on the world still so it's not like we don't have our issues, but we shouldn't all be generalized for all the assholes out there that actually do the things we would consider toxic. It's not really tox… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 04/09/21 09:34 AM |
| -2 | I wanted to take a moment to deconstruct these comments. How they confirm our distaste towards ideas like "toxic masculinity" and the feminist approach to men's issues.Oh I see what you are saying, I still think the term has its merits but I can also see it being muddied and giving very large misconceptions about masculinity and the such, my thing is that the term is more nuanced, and people react to things pretty negatively whether it has good intentions or not. Idk if I'd say it is a slur as much as people perceive it as a slur or a threat to their own masculinity. Which I can understand too because of how some use it itself in a ahem toxic manner Thanks for… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 04/09/21 09:22 AM |
| 3 | I wanted to take a moment to deconstruct these comments. How they confirm our distaste towards ideas like "toxic masculinity" and the feminist approach to men's issues.No what is that? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 04/09/21 07:19 AM |
| 6 | I wanted to take a moment to deconstruct these comments. How they confirm our distaste towards ideas like "toxic masculinity" and the feminist approach to men's issues.That's far from the truth but even if that were the case....so? I meant to say you shouldn't be passive in regards to men treating other men badly. I don't think any person should treat another person badly be it man or woman to another man or woman or whomever. men are treated as disposable and I guess we are but like a human life is a human life in my eyes, we should still strive to treat men as a human life that has value to live. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 04/09/21 05:52 AM |
| 2 | I wanted to take a moment to deconstruct these comments. How they confirm our distaste towards ideas like "toxic masculinity" and the feminist approach to men's issues.Like I said just cuz it links some aspects doesn't mean it describes all of masculinity as being toxic. I don't care about what feminism says but I've also never read that from anything I've read about or heard about feminism, I've talked with girls my age about it before and have had no problem discussing it with them. I don't think you should say so to men treating other men badly, and I don't think any gender should be treated badly whether the perpetrator is any gender either. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 04/09/21 05:19 AM |
| 2 | I wanted to take a moment to deconstruct these comments. How they confirm our distaste towards ideas like "toxic masculinity" and the feminist approach to men's issues.No I'm not saying that at all, nor did I say not to empathize with the men. I'm not trying to pose logic like that because. Everyone should get sympathy... duh. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 04/09/21 05:10 AM |
| -1 | I wanted to take a moment to deconstruct these comments. How they confirm our distaste towards ideas like "toxic masculinity" and the feminist approach to men's issues.Well a small example is something like men shouldn't cry. That has bubbled up to men shouldn't appear to show weakness, like sadness or anxiety or fear or whatever. Or just even emotion. Yeah suppression of emotions "Don't complain about it" Some I've experienced is being told I'm gay (not being heteronormative) for having long hair, anything that may make you seem feminine. There's bullying that is driven just by this in multiple situations. Men shouldn't look down on other men for being less m… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 04/09/21 04:56 AM |
| 12 | I wanted to take a moment to deconstruct these comments. How they confirm our distaste towards ideas like "toxic masculinity" and the feminist approach to men's issues.Yeah I get what you mean with that, because there are women who will use their influence to harm men | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 04/09/21 04:19 AM |
| 4 | I wanted to take a moment to deconstruct these comments. How they confirm our distaste towards ideas like "toxic masculinity" and the feminist approach to men's issues.Me and my gf have talked about toxic femininity though. I know it's just us, but we def saw that masculinity was highlighted so much more. So nit everyone is closed off from that. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 04/09/21 04:12 AM |
| -1 | I wanted to take a moment to deconstruct these comments. How they confirm our distaste towards ideas like "toxic masculinity" and the feminist approach to men's issues.Why not just teach people to associate with toxic behaviors rather than reacting and being like "not all masculinity is toxic." I think the irony if it becoming toxic itself is funny though haha | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 04/09/21 04:10 AM |
| 8 | I wanted to take a moment to deconstruct these comments. How they confirm our distaste towards ideas like "toxic masculinity" and the feminist approach to men's issues.I'm not saying it never happens and ai personally do acknowledge it, all I'm I'm saying is that the phrase gets used with mixed definitions by people and that some are too generalized. And I meant to say men get treated badly by men too. Women def mistreat men, but men and women do. We can work together to end both right? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 04/09/21 04:06 AM |
| -1 | I wanted to take a moment to deconstruct these comments. How they confirm our distaste towards ideas like "toxic masculinity" and the feminist approach to men's issues.I get that I wish it easn't a thing but the way people treat things and generalize doesn't help 😔 | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 04/09/21 04:02 AM |
| -7 | I wanted to take a moment to deconstruct these comments. How they confirm our distaste towards ideas like "toxic masculinity" and the feminist approach to men's issues.Well I would rather say toxic aspects of masculinity... it's literally meant to talk about toxic aspects. I'm not the one saying it is like that that's just what I've come to understand, there are some people and feminists that do mean to capture all of masculinity in it, which is stupid. What I'm saying is that we should be able to recognize the things that really are toxic vs normal and healthy behavior. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 04/09/21 04:01 AM |
| -20 | I wanted to take a moment to deconstruct these comments. How they confirm our distaste towards ideas like "toxic masculinity" and the feminist approach to men's issues.See my problem with this is that while men have been treated badly too (by women), it seems to me that men were treated badly... by other men too. When I learned about toxic masculinity, I tried seeing what it describes. And what a lot of people seem to think is that when someone says toxic masculinity, they think that encompasses ALL of masculinity, which it doesn't. Masculinity has different ways of being expressed, so many! But they can be muddled by things that we would be able to deem toxic… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 04/09/21 03:07 AM |
| 1 | Even though women are valued more for their looks in society, being ugly affects your dating prospects more as a man than a womanWell no because several came to me because I was short lol. And it's not like they randomly did, generally I got to know them. Not all but several of those girls liked that I was short and preferred me being short vs the other guys that talked to them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/21 01:41 AM |
| 1 | Even though women are valued more for their looks in society, being ugly affects your dating prospects more as a man than a womanIdk I guess it's just anecdotal, I've only ever been approached by women and they were all taller than me, with me being at 4'11" haha. My current gf is 5'4" almost 5'5". And they all were ok that I was shorter. I've had comments made toward me even though I'm short by women. Now that doesn't mean that women don't want or go after only tall men. But there are women out there for more than height. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/21 08:03 AM |
| 0 | Even though women are valued more for their looks in society, being ugly affects your dating prospects more as a man than a womanThe one I don't agree with is being short. While a lot of girls care about height, there are plenty that would want their man to be short or be ok with him being short. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/21 02:15 AM |
| -1 | Biden uses "Latinx" as a gender neutral variant of "Latino" Actual Latinos are upsetI don't think it changes a whole culture just to say latinx 🤣🤣🤣 | /r/AntiFeminists | 25/06/21 06:14 PM |
| 1 | I hate that I am circumsisedActually you can get an infection still, but also infections don't need to be prevented like this. There's medicine for a reason. And circumcision can lead to its own problems down the line too. I thought cut guys couldn't get yeast infections... boy was I wrong | /r/MensRights | 20/06/21 08:33 AM |
| 2 | Do people serious talk like this in public or just behind the screenDude not everyone has the same experience in life. I'm a cut guy who has a decent cut, high and somewhat loose, I still feel pleasure, I even think pretty greatly. But this doesn't just come down to thinking that uncut guys experience this bliss that cut guys will never experience. Some people who receive an aesthetically decent cut do experience a greater loss of sensation than others. Not everyone does but it's not black or white. And you can't deny that the loss of tissue alters or changes pe… | /r/AntiFeminists | 18/06/21 03:32 AM |
| 5 | CMV: Men are still expected to honor societal contracts while women are taught full hedonismAs a lefty, I would disagree, fuck gender norms on both sides | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/21 06:17 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Men are still expected to honor societal contracts while women are taught full hedonismI can agree that men are told or expected to do more for women, but that's about it. Otherwise men and women can pretty much do whatever. There's a lot of burden I see on women though more so than men. Burden vs expectation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/21 06:14 PM |
| 2 | If a woman is allowed to define a man loving her as him buying her flowers, taking her out to restaurants, spending quality time with her, then a man is allowed to define a woman loving him as cooking, cleaning, and fucking.Lmao is physical touch to you anything more or less than fucking? 🤣🤣🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/21 01:20 AM |
| 26 | If a woman is allowed to define a man loving her as him buying her flowers, taking her out to restaurants, spending quality time with her, then a man is allowed to define a woman loving him as cooking, cleaning, and fucking.This | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/21 01:15 AM |
| 2 | Men are constantly told by society that they are disposable, not needed anymore and women can do it all.Lol no need to tell me haha | /r/MensRights | 01/05/21 11:21 PM |
| 2 | Men are constantly told by society that they are disposable, not needed anymore and women can do it all.Yes, I actually believe that men AND women have their issues and some of those issues are even shared between the sexes. Not all but some. I don't think men should reject everything that feminism holds, obviously except for the crazy radical stuff that some push against men. In my eyes just cuz one side seems unfavorable to you doesn't mean you should ban together against it. We should be working to answer why it's a problem and fix it without trying to put so much blame on either side, dependin… | /r/MensRights | 01/05/21 10:01 PM |
| 2 | I hate that I am circumsisedObviously the head is gonna retain its sensitivity after circumcision because nothing from the head has been cut off. But it's sensitivity lowers over time due to keratinization because it's now exposed to the friction from everyday life. And since it is a preventative, I would say there are other preventative routes that one can take throughout their life that isn't circumcision. I don't think there is enough justification to say that it is necessary at birth unless there was already some sort … | /r/MensRights | 29/04/21 01:00 AM |
| 2 | I hate that I am circumsisedThat or you haven't noticed anything that is substantial enough to you in which case you may be lucky. | /r/MensRights | 28/04/21 09:26 PM |
| 4 | I hate that I am circumsisedAs someone who is circumcised, statistics do not directly translate to real life... especially in america where we have some of the highest STD rates in the world and while being one of the nations that cuts the most... but also, no a cut dick doesn't work the same as an uncut due to how the foreskin functions both during whenever, but also when having sex. If you think 'put dick in vagina then cum' is all the function of a penis then sure, but the foreskin's role during sex and outside of sex i… | /r/MensRights | 28/04/21 09:17 PM |
| 2 | I hate that I am circumsisedI don't use lube but after 2 years of sex without lube, I personally feel like it would only make things better. And my gf gets plenty wet but it doesn't help with initially penetrating. Unless I spit on my dick or can get enough of hers on mine before going in (and it being outside doesn't help with it drying quickly), otherwise it's a slow process. And feeling pain while your gf is also going "oh, ahh, mm," can be quite a turn off, at least for me. And she still enjoys it... | /r/MensRights | 28/04/21 09:04 PM |
| 2 | I hate that I am circumsisedLol I don't use lube, but I would, mostly because even though I generally have no big problems, I still feel pulling when entering my partner and if that gets to tight, then it hurts me more than my partner. And knowing how to be gentle while not jabbing into her vagina. Still causes me issues though. Nothing that's like life threatening but issues that do get in the way of things. | /r/MensRights | 28/04/21 08:58 PM |
| 2 | I hate that I am circumsisedSorry my assumption is that you are generally telling people not to ruminate on something when we are talking about it and raising awareness. Especially on a subreddit about the subject just seems a little tone deaf to me, and political change is being attempted so why not help with the awareness instead of telling other people to not dawdle over something that they are actively trying to bring attention to? I don't mean to be mean, but like, don't tell people not to "ruminate" on a sub about it… | /r/MensRights | 28/04/21 08:53 PM |
| 2 | I hate that I am circumsisedSee at the least I'm personally not trying to categorize all circuimcision into the same window because I don't think getting cut as an adult is as comparable (or simply just not the same) with getting cut as a child. And I mean this mainly with the timing and experience of it all. You got cut as an adult because of phimosis. This means that it would have been beneficial for you to remove. But because you were an adult (I know 16 isn't necessarily an adult but you have developed considerably and… | /r/MensRights | 28/04/21 08:21 PM |
| 2 | I hate that I am circumsisedI think RIC is more impactful on sexual development and should not be done on children, especially at birth. This should be done much later for anyone. Sexual sensitivity isn't just affected whether you are botched or not either. | /r/MensRights | 27/04/21 06:35 PM |
| 7 | I hate that I am circumsisedI would understand this if something that ended up injuring me, left me with like less of a limb, was conscious and knew about it all happening. In this case I would be fucking sad for a bit and try to learn how to move on because I know it was out of my control. But that eon't mean I wouldn't miss the part that was lost, and if it is something more vital, I would be stupid to not have a negative reaction to losing something But this is different in my eyes, because this was done when we didn't … | /r/MensRights | 27/04/21 06:31 PM |
| 1 | Q4All: When it comes to casual sex, why does it seem like people are living in two different worlds?Even if it's looks, there are things you can do to make yourself look good haha, it's not that hard | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/21 01:49 PM |
| 1 | Q4All: When it comes to casual sex, why does it seem like people are living in two different worlds?I'm 4'11" and don't consider myself deformed and I know I can find a girl in a day or two to bang, so def the social thing haha | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/21 10:50 AM |
| 2 | Men who don’t value friendships with women also don’t value relationships. They just want sex.Nice assumptions brah 🤣🤣🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/21 03:45 AM |
| 1 | Why are most men never taught how to attract women?There some stuff that is taught from friends and family, it's not entirely figuring it out | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/21 03:17 AM |
| 2 | Why are most men never taught how to attract women?Yeah from my perspective, men are almost taught and depicted that in order to even attain a women, let a lone an attractive one, you need to have money and or status. Personally I think those things will win over any women, but if you are an ass then that woman will see through it. Even if it's asinine amounts of money. Now attracting a woman I think is overcomplicated by so many men because of money. If you are a good guy, you have some direction, any woman would like to be with you, and looks … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/21 03:14 AM |
| 2 | Q4M: Would you date a woman who is taller than you?I'm 4'11 and my gf is 5'4... Either way every woman i have met save for maybe a few have been taller so yes... Almost automatically. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/21 09:54 PM |
| 10 | Unrealistic expectations of sex is a bigger problem than the "rise of sexlessness".I didn't have sex till I was 19, nor did I seek it out before. I waited till college and even then I'm in a monogamous relationship, and have been since. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/21 06:12 AM |
| 1 | Do you want to be the “ pretty “one in your relationships ?She means that the general ideal of what she finds attractive isn't necessarily what she finds attractive or ideal. Like, just cuz there is a beauty standard doesn't mean that everyone on the opposite side of who it may present to will find it attractive. I.e. the ideal male height is like 6'1" or whatever, meanwhile, my girlfriend is attracted to me and I'm 4'11" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/21 03:11 AM |
| 2 | Do you want to be the “ pretty “one in your relationships ?Honestly why should people be judging the visual dynamic of two people. If two people with differing attractiveness wanna be together who am I to say whether one is the pretty one or the ugly one in the relationship. And if a woman or man really thinks that they should be the pretty or better looking one in the relationship, they should get their priorities checked. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/21 03:05 AM |
| -1 | Kindness, and Respect are not sexually attractive to womenBeing kind and respectful in a relationship might be, but for those not interested in a relationship at the moment, why would they? Not all women are the same. Not every woman has the same attitude towards who they are attracted too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/21 12:12 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: Why do you buy more expensive pink shit and then complain that the patriarchy made you do it?I stan | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/21 01:46 AM |
| 1 | Dating Advice for a Very Short (4'11) Guy Starting at Unilol I don't think its all too bad, I'm still super short but life is still nice, if you ever meet anyone that is short, treat them as you would anyone else, we don't bite UwU | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/20 12:21 PM |
| 5 | Dating Advice for a Very Short (4'11) Guy Starting at UniYou know, just because you are 4'11", it does not mean you are not gonna find someone. I'm 4'11" and I never focused on finding a girlfriend, went to school for music performance and education. But I found one anyway, and she's doing art and coding. You can put yourself out there, but unless you are looking for hook ups, you're height shouldn't matter, especially to the person you find that truly loves you. It all depends on you and what you want, but focus on you and other people will notice. D… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/20 11:39 AM |
| 0 | The western world is actually the best and safest place for menWhen did I say I never wanted to, I just want it to be my choice, whether I do go in or not. Plenty of my friends have joined, and it shows through their dedication that they had the will to go through it. I would love to but I physically don't see me lasting even boot camp, not because I don't want to, but because, physically, I don't think I am capable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/20 04:47 AM |
| 1 | The western world is actually the best and safest place for menBeing forced into the military i don't think will solve anything. Most people I know only do the military for the financial benefits anyway... and even from what my friends told me, sometimes people do it for even worse selfish reasons rather than financial gain for say family or whatnot. Not that there aren't noble people that do go into it. And even then my friend told me about all the people that commit suicide just cuz of the mental turmoil they go through in the process, and my friend speci… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/20 07:14 PM |
| 0 | Feminist shaming tactics needlessly cause lasting sexual repression or guilt in a subset of men most sympathetic to feminist concerns.I don't think she's arguing this for others overall. This is just how she experienced it. I can see some lesbians hearing how feminism looks at male desire toward women and applying it toward themselves because they like women too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/20 10:58 PM |
| 2 | Feminist shaming tactics needlessly cause lasting sexual repression or guilt in a subset of men most sympathetic to feminist concerns.I think its more so about her desire towards females rather than her own sexuality as a female. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/20 10:43 PM |
| 0 | If women find less men attractive than men find women attractive, shouldn't women make the first move?Well I still think that its ok for either, cuz to me it seems like part of the issue is that the man would take advantage of the girl yeah? I mean I still think that if the guy doesn't seem threatening or dangerous, why not. Its not like every guy is looking to just plow a girl that asked him out till the next right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/20 09:49 AM |
| 1 | If women find less men attractive than men find women attractive, shouldn't women make the first move?Idk, both girls that I've dated have asked me out. This read to me kinda like all woman should, which i would say why SHOULD either make the first move. In my head if someone like someone, make the first move. Why does it matter either way. I don't understand why there should be an expectation from either side. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/20 09:28 AM |
| 1 | Is the happiness and fulfillment of bottom tier men dependent on the suffering and misery of women?Hehe I have to date a taller woman as a guy who is 4'11" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/20 03:20 AM |
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