| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 158 | No way to win | Marriage/Children | Dangerous-Sir777 | /r/MensRights | 31/10/23 04:08 AM |
| 16 | No way I can win | Dangerous-Sir777 | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/10/23 04:12 AM | |
| 0 | Yea | Dangerous-Sir777 | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/10/23 04:11 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 1 | She keeps surprising meFeel free to pm me too man. | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/07/25 12:30 AM |
| 4 | She keeps surprising meI get it man. I’ve been divorced for two years. I let probably the last year and a half effect me the way this is effecting you. My ex-wife has a guy living with her and my kids now. They are five and 10. I let it ruin my life. I did a bunch of stupid shit. Seeing a therapist is essential. For me I had to put the alcohol down because I was acting a damn fool. But I understand not knowing who she is anymore. We always drank together, but last year she got a DUI. It definitely shakes your world up… | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/07/25 03:57 PM |
| 1 | Friends with your ex wifeThey aren’t. Haha At all. | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/12/23 02:59 AM |
| 2 | Friends with your ex wifePreach | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/12/23 06:47 AM |
| 1 | Friends with your ex wifeYea brother. Yesterday sucked. | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/12/23 06:45 AM |
| 1 | Friends with your ex wifeDamn man. We’re in the same boat. She gave me all the furniture. We split the equity on the house. I have no family besides her and my children. She moved in through Mom. She has the kids. She has no rent. I have to pay $1100 a month child support. She will not stop and listen to reason. She is letting our lawyer bills grow and grow so fuck your wife, fuck my wife. All the equity that I got from the home, it’s almost half gone because of divorce attorneys. If you aren’t friends, your enemies. It… | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/12/23 06:41 AM |
| 2 | My Xmas EveningThis motherfucker knows what’s up. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/12/23 05:18 AM |
| 0 | How do I not be the creepy old guy?Pm me. I’ll mail you some Xanax. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/12/23 04:43 AM |
| 2 | How do I not be the creepy old guy?That fucked me up for a minute. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/12/23 04:41 AM |
| 6 | How do I not be the creepy old guy?That’s the only time I’ve done it. And it was a really nice restaurant so there weren’t TVs. I sat in a booth and messed around on my phone a little bit and I looked around. I smoked a joint on the way there. Like I said, there were zero fucks to be given. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/12/23 04:39 AM |
| 27 | How do I not be the creepy old guy?I just turned 44. I’m going through a custody battle and divorce on my birthday. I went to one of the nicest restaurants in town wearing Carhart overalls and a sweatshirt got a big ass ribeye about four beers. It was the first time my life that I had gone to a restaurant by myself. And I loved it. I don’t give a fuck what anybody thinks anymore. Fuck them. If you aren’t doing anything wrong, don’t worry about it man. Enjoy life, it’s an ugly world we live in. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/12/23 03:21 AM |
| 3 | Holidays Sucked...Atleast your kids are grown. I’m going through a fucked up custody battle. One of my good friends wife just left him for another man. We both have very young kids. Until today, I thought we had been irresponsible around the kids at times. Basically I had lunch with my friend and his parents at his house and the kids were there. His wife came to bring something for the son. Next thing I know these motherfuckers are fighting in the front yard. He’s hanging out the goddamn window being dragged down… | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/12/23 03:16 AM |
| 2 | No way to winThe judge said she wants me to be in my daughter’s lives. She said no to the restraining order. I’m seeing them more. It’s just insane how family court automatically thinks the mother has no fault in failed marriages. | /r/MensRights | 22/11/23 07:53 PM |
| 10 | So my wife, idk what she is actually, wanted space and now we are taking a “break”I’ll tell you my honest opinion. It’s gonna be easier for me to say that for you to do. But you have to make sure that you consistently can financially support your family. Most importantly yourself. She’s going to be OK. The kids will be OK. But fuck that, you want the kids in your life, right? So get your house in order, and take control of your situation. Deep breaths. Be smart about everything, don’t text crazy shit. You got this shit man. Fuck the bullshit. | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/11/23 03:25 AM |
| 2 | I’ve cried a total of 30 minutes since my divorce began in the last 6 monthsThese woman are crazy. Fucking evil. Good for you not beating yourself up and being depressed about the divorce. It’s fuckin weird having your best friend turn into to your worst enemy. | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/11/23 02:40 AM |
| 4 | Met another womanIt doesn’t. Make that clear from the beginning and throughout whatever happens with you. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/11/23 08:07 PM |
| 6 | Met another womanMe too man. Me too. Good luck with everything. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/11/23 08:05 PM |
| 1 | No way to winThe hell is this? | /r/MensRights | 04/11/23 04:51 AM |
| 2 | No way to winDamn man. Do you know who I am or something. Haha. That’s exactly what happened. | /r/MensRights | 04/11/23 04:31 AM |
| 2 | No way to winYea man, she is living with her mom and stepdad with my kids. | /r/MensRights | 03/11/23 06:49 PM |
| 1 | No way to winI do have a lawyer. | /r/MensRights | 02/11/23 07:06 PM |
| 3 | No way to winThanks man | /r/MensRights | 31/10/23 06:56 PM |
| 5 | No way to winI talked to my paralegal today about all of this. | /r/MensRights | 31/10/23 06:50 PM |
| 0 | No way to winI really don’t give a fuck anymore. Just to be honest. | /r/MensRights | 31/10/23 06:48 PM |
| 2 | No way to winWell said | /r/MensRights | 31/10/23 06:46 PM |
| 2 | No way to winWhy do they do that? | /r/MensRights | 31/10/23 06:44 PM |
| 1 | No way to winI’m gonna try to keep it up. I don’t know if I can. | /r/MensRights | 31/10/23 11:21 AM |
| 6 | No way I can winI’m not a felon. I have a good government job. I’ve never been abusive to anyone. Ever. I get along with everybody. She just turned on me. I’m going to try to stick it out. I’m going to try to do what is right. But there’s only so much I can take. | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/10/23 11:17 AM |
| 2 | No way I can winThanks brother | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/10/23 11:14 AM |
| 3 | No way to winI see what you’re saying. If I pay my attorney fees my court fees. What the fuck are they gonna do to me? Seriously? I have to stay in Memphis because I’ve got this dumb bitch pregnant in Memphis? That’s bullshit. They take me to jail. I have the money I’ll pay the Fuckin Charles support. I want to be my kids anyway, she’s making it where it won’t happen. I understand what you’re saying. I’m not your typical fucking asshole. I know what the fucks going on, and I know what to do to protect myself… | /r/MensRights | 31/10/23 08:06 AM |
| 8 | No way to winJust curious, how’s this common? | /r/MensRights | 31/10/23 08:02 AM |
| 6 | No way to winWould it make a difference? | /r/MensRights | 31/10/23 07:59 AM |
| 2 | No way to winIt looks like I’ll be paying court cost and attorney fees. Plus child support. How are they gonna come arrest me? I can do whatever the fuck I want man. | /r/MensRights | 31/10/23 07:58 AM |
| 3 | No way to winThey can’t do dick if I’m paying child support. I can be any where in the world. Am I wrong? You say know it all….. enlighten me | /r/MensRights | 31/10/23 07:48 AM |
| 1 | No way I can winKind | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/10/23 07:09 AM |
| 1 | No way I can winThank you for the card and reassuring words | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/10/23 07:09 AM |
| 12 | No way to winI could do that. But she already has me under supervised visitation. She’s got me by the balls man. I’m not happy with the town I live in, I don’t really like my job, if I’ve lived in the city, and my kids are taken away from me, I will move away. People keep saying that I’ll go to jail for saying that. Fuck it. Take me to jail. I never said I wouldn’t pay child support. That’s all that I’m supposed to do. I can live anywhere I fucking want to. I can be in Thailand and give this bitch her fuckin… | /r/MensRights | 31/10/23 07:07 AM |
| 11 | No way to winThank you for the kind words. I just don’t know if I have the strength to do that anymore. I know that sounds like some pussy shit. She has literally killed my soul. | /r/MensRights | 31/10/23 06:00 AM |
| 6 | No way to winAll I have is my in-laws. My daughters, which I can’t talk to you. All my family is dead and gone. | /r/MensRights | 31/10/23 05:59 AM |
| 4 | No way to winI’ve just heard that term from you | /r/MensRights | 31/10/23 05:57 AM |
| 5 | No way to winBy far the best response. Yeah man, it sucks real bad. I don’t know if I have the energy to fight her. Like I said earlier, I have spent well over 10 grand in lawyer fees, and that is got me nowhere. She listens to every word her lawyer says. my attorney acts like he hates her attorney, in reality these motherfuckers are probably going out having drinks at night. Laughing at us. I know the system works. I’m just at the point where I refuse to spend all my savings to fight her over something that… | /r/MensRights | 31/10/23 05:53 AM |
| 9 | No way to winI’ve just learned the term gaslighting, and there should be a picture of her ass right next to it. I’m going to have to look into silver bullet. I’ve never heard of that. Thanks for your comment though | /r/MensRights | 31/10/23 05:46 AM |
| 10 | No way to winThank you for the kind words and information. I think she’s broke me enough that I’m just going to leave. I don’t mean any type of self harm. It’s just time for me to go from here. | /r/MensRights | 31/10/23 05:39 AM |
| 16 | No way to winThanks for the reply. Would you mind pm’ n. Me? | /r/MensRights | 31/10/23 05:37 AM |
| 38 | No way to winThis woman is driving me crazy. She is gaslighting me to the point where I feel like I am literally insane. If she wins custody of my kids, the only thing I can think of is to leave. It may be the pussy way out. I don’t know what else to do. She will drive me to the brink of suicide. And love every minute of it. | /r/MensRights | 31/10/23 05:21 AM |
| 38 | No way to winI appreciate it. But she has literally turned my kids against me. My daughters used to be my best friends. We talked about everything. And we can’t talk on the phone, unless it is being supervised for some bullshit reason. I don’t see the court taking my side. Being that I live in the southern parts of the United States. I had the equity of my home, I will sell everything I have, and I think I’m just gonna travel. | /r/MensRights | 31/10/23 05:15 AM |
| 9 | No way to winThanks for your reply. Yeah man, She won’t give up. The state I live in, she has a higher ground, and she’s holding all the cards. She has control of my life. Like I said, she’s gaslighted me and she’s a narcissist. I am being total my Being mind fucked by this lady. I’ll see how court goes next week. Like I said, if there’s a restraining order put on me, which I have never been violent, I have never been angry I have never threatened. I’ve never touched any of these women, my daughters and wife… | /r/MensRights | 31/10/23 05:01 AM |
| 6 | No way to winThanks man. I’ve heard the same. Your kind words mean a lot right now. | /r/MensRights | 31/10/23 04:55 AM |
| 7 | No way to winSo to keep things nice and short, fuck you fuck Jail. You don’t know a goddamn thing about me. | /r/MensRights | 31/10/23 04:50 AM |
| 1 | No way I can winWhere are you from? What does salvo mean? | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/10/23 04:43 AM |
| 1 | No way I can winHave you ever been married? 14 years of marriage? Ha ha. Who started what? We fucked up 14 years ago we said I do. Anybody that does the same is dumb as fuck too. No reason to include the fucking government in your personal relationship. That’s all it is. There’s over 80% chance it won’t last and you’ll end up spending $10-$30,000 in lawyer fees, especially if you have children. period. I’ll still pay my child support, I’m going off the map though. She won. She took everything. And we’re not liv… | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/10/23 04:40 AM |
| 2 | No way I can winThat’s a decent question. I suppose we both did. | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/10/23 04:35 AM |
| 8 | No way to winDid you read it? Not being mean. I have a damn lawyer. He’s bleeding me dry like a vampire. He seems to be worried about my well-being, then bills the shit out of me. If he doesn’t follow through in the mid month. I’m selling everything and I am going traveling. I don’t know where the hell I’m going. But I’m going. | /r/MensRights | 31/10/23 04:26 AM |
| 2 | No way to winI appreciate it. I’m not doing anything illegal. I will pay my child support. I have the money. If I can’t have my kids I’m just gonna leave. | /r/MensRights | 31/10/23 04:24 AM |
| 3 | No way to winI put this under humor, because the star only category I can find it fitting. | /r/MensRights | 31/10/23 04:10 AM |
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