| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 85 | This sub treats men and women like hive minds | Debate | Dangerous-Specific26 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/25 08:27 PM |
| 81 | The Patriarchy Is Dead In Most Western Countries | Debate | Dangerous-Specific26 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/25 01:59 AM |
| 22 | The “male loneliness epidemic” is self inflicted | Debate | Dangerous-Specific26 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/25 08:12 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 1 | This sub treats men and women like hive mindsThose ppl are crazy imagine if man v bear was anti immigrant or black ppl that would be nuts it’s wrong to say that about 50% of ppl | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/25 09:06 PM |
| 1 | This sub treats men and women like hive mindsPeople on this sub don’t really talk to the opposite gender I assume If you say what’s on the sub in real life that’s what people think of you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/25 08:48 PM |
| 1 | This sub treats men and women like hive mindsIt’s very mean and nasty and rude but that’s ok since I don’t have to hang out with girls like that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/25 05:34 PM |
| 2 | This sub treats men and women like hive mindsFor sure I’ve met a lot of girls lowkey dissing me for being a guy for no reason but I do live in Chicago and it is pretty liberal here | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/25 12:29 AM |
| 1 | This sub treats men and women like hive mindsThis sub seems bad for mental health and dating | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/25 11:58 PM |
| 1 | This sub treats men and women like hive mindsIm not gonna read a whole book for an internet argument man | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/25 11:43 PM |
| 0 | This sub treats men and women like hive mindsI mean if you live your life like this that seems miserable | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/25 11:34 PM |
| 2 | This sub treats men and women like hive mindsI saw a summary that seems really cynical to me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/25 11:24 PM |
| 1 | This sub treats men and women like hive mindsTf does being smelly have to do with all of this??? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/25 10:13 PM |
| 2 | This sub treats men and women like hive mindsYeah i scroll out of boredom lol 💀 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/25 10:12 PM |
| 3 | This sub treats men and women like hive mindsFor sure i used to be on r/malementalhealth when i was super depressed and it just made my depression worse since it was guys dragging each other down like crabs in a bucket | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/25 10:12 PM |
| 2 | This sub treats men and women like hive mindsThis is what i mean ppl are very different Some women are party girls and some are prudes Being a “bear woman” is insane to me, there are dangerous guys and there are guys too afraid to even talk to girls I’m sorry but from that flair i think you should talk to men and make guy friends | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/25 10:11 PM |
| 4 | This sub treats men and women like hive mindsThe stuff at the top of this sub doesn’t help with dating it’s just demoralizing thinking about the opposite sex like that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/25 10:08 PM |
| -1 | This sub treats men and women like hive mindswhat is red pill theory i dont think this is inflammatory i just think a lot of stuff on the front page of this sub is insane | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/25 10:04 PM |
| 4 | This sub treats men and women like hive mindsPatterns exist for sure but if you said a lot of the stuff that makes it to the top of the sub in conversation in real life people would assume you don’t talk to the opposite sex a lot | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/25 10:03 PM |
| 1 | Dont expect women to fix men’s issues when they dont like women’s solutions.Socializing is a learned skill | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/25 09:08 PM |
| 7 | Dont expect women to fix men’s issues when they dont like women’s solutions.Online dating can be rough as a guy if you don’t take many pictures of yourself and don’t have a flashy job title; I also find online dating to be inherently shallow in general so I like meeting ppl in person better but it does work for some | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/25 10:41 AM |
| 5 | Dont expect women to fix men’s issues when they dont like women’s solutions.There are a lot of guys out there who have solitary hobbies like scrolling on their phones or playing video games and then complain about how lonely they are If you put in the consistent effort to be social and productive you’ll live a more fulfilling life and have no problem picking up girls | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/25 10:31 AM |
| – | A man should never be vulnerable with his partner, since women can't handle men's emotionsAll I can control is my own effort I put myself out there to meet people who I like that treat me well that I can be open with I think a huge factor towards being successful in life (dating or career or otherwise) is the people you choose to surround yourself with | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/25 10:15 AM |
| 1 | A man should never be vulnerable with his partner, since women can't handle men's emotionsI’m vulnerable with my girl and it’s fine When I see all these posts on Reddit about women not being able to handle men being emotionally open I kinda get confused since if a girl treated me that poorly then I would break up with her | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/25 10:06 PM |
| 1 | The Patriarchy Is Dead In Most Western CountriesBack in the day women couldn’t work work jobs or own land or even take out a loan There was a period after that where women got treated worse by banks or in their careers but now it is basically as equal as possible Women do get treated worse in some ways but also better in other ways so it basically is as balanced out as much as it can be | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/25 10:26 PM |
| 1 | The Patriarchy Is Dead In Most Western CountriesHow would you say it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/25 07:20 AM |
| 1 | The Patriarchy Is Dead In Most Western CountriesYou can take out a loan I was born financially privileged but my girl came from nothing and is a doctor now JD Vance came from an abusive drug addicted single mom and is gonna be the next Vice President In America you can make it regardless of gender if you WANT to I wasted years having a victim mentality before seeing my gf go from nothing to living a better life than most made me realize I was just holding myself back | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/25 12:23 AM |
| 1 | The Patriarchy Is Dead In Most Western Countries? China isn’t communist anymore Poland was super communist back in the day it was hard to even get enough food for most | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/25 10:14 PM |
| 1 | The Patriarchy Is Dead In Most Western CountriesHow can women not study to be doctors or lawyers or engineers etc? If you want a good life you can have it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/25 09:38 PM |
| 1 | The Patriarchy Is Dead In Most Western CountriesPlenty of little things against men too We get judged a lot more for how financially stable we are for example there aren’t really any pretty homeless girls Overall it is pretty much as equal as it can be at least in countries like America | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/25 07:05 PM |
| 2 | The Patriarchy Is Dead In Most Western CountriesWomen at the top have it great too I would argue the people who have it the best are actually trophy wives of powerful men since they get to go to the spa or gym of whatever all day while he works hard | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/25 07:02 PM |
| 1 | The Patriarchy Is Dead In Most Western CountriesMy girl is a doctor. I am studying to be a lawyer. We both are taking a path to success that involves 0% luck as long as you put in the work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/25 04:02 PM |
| 1 | The Patriarchy Is Dead In Most Western CountriesI think that’s more racism than sexism If you’re poor in America you should work to increase your income | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/25 03:18 PM |
| 1 | The Patriarchy Is Dead In Most Western CountriesI don’t think feminists can complain about abortion being banned when millions of women voted against it If 80% of women voted for Kamala it would be different but 47% for Trump means that abortion is a divisive issue among women themselves Saying this as a man who voted for Kamala but my girl and sister support Trump | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/25 03:17 PM |
| 7 | The Patriarchy Is Dead In Most Western CountriesSince im a man i cant say that women and men both have the same path to success? My gf is a doctor and i am studying to be a lawyer. Anybody can be successful in America; neither gender is held back anymore | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/25 03:13 PM |
| 1 | The Patriarchy Is Dead In Most Western CountriesUs men are judged a lot more for how successful we are If you are a broke man who doesn’t work and relies on your wife for money you are a loser If the opposite that is seen as ok | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/25 03:09 PM |
| 1 | The Patriarchy Is Dead In Most Western CountriesI’m sorry you were treated like that. It’s admirable that you still pushed forward despite being treated like that. You seem like a real feminist and I mean that as a compliment. My grandma told me about how she was denied a lot of loans back in the day since she was a woman. Great how being treated like you or her is looked down upon today. He is for sure great at marketing and tapping into anger. Trump supporters I know talk about how he is against woke and how the economy was better under him… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/25 03:07 PM |
| -3 | The Patriarchy Is Dead In Most Western CountriesIf you study hard then work hard you can have a path to success that is 0% luck My girl is a doctor and I am studying to be a lawyer; we will have more money that most people since we are putting in the work that most people don’t | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/25 03:00 PM |
| 1 | The Patriarchy Is Dead In Most Western Countriesthere are many female doctors and lawyers and CEOs and engineers and entrepreneurs that have more money and power than most men Some even made millions or even billions from divorce which is really funny in a sad way | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/25 02:56 PM |
| 1 | The Patriarchy Is Dead In Most Western CountriesFor sure I am talking about in America mostly and also Poland since I know those 2 countries well If you live in Iran or Afghanistan as a woman you probably have a horrible life unfortunately | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/25 02:54 PM |
| -1 | The Patriarchy Is Dead In Most Western CountriesHow is her situation unique? Any woman or man in America can study hard to be a doctor or lawyer for a 0% luck path to financial stability | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/25 02:53 PM |
| 0 | The Patriarchy Is Dead In Most Western CountriesBeing sexually assaulted is a horrible thing that happens more to women that’s not an advantage at all; women are also seen as more approachable and less of a threat so have an advantage when it comes to building social capital For sure most men can just study to become a doctor or lawyer and live a better life jsut like most women; as a man who failed out of college and is now studying to be a lawyer it was 100% my fault when I failed out | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/25 02:51 PM |
| 0 | The Patriarchy Is Dead In Most Western CountriesBeing a doctor or lawyer is a path to success that is 0% luck it is mostly just studying and effort | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/25 02:48 PM |
| 2 | The Patriarchy Is Dead In Most Western CountriesShe just studied and then passed I would go as far as saying that being a doctor or lawyer is a path to succeed that is 0% luck except being born in a good country like America | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/25 02:48 PM |
| 1 | The Patriarchy Is Dead In Most Western CountriesStuff like that should be changed that is absolutely unfair. Another example of something that should be changed is that crash dummies are all male sized so women die more in car accidents due to cars’ safety features being designed around men. It’s just cringey when some women online act like they are still mostly oppressed when they have some enormous advantages too. For example us men are judged a lot more for how much money we make. For example mom kind of just sits at home all day and watch… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/25 02:47 PM |
| 2 | The Patriarchy Is Dead In Most Western CountriesHome country was communist Poland so it wasn’t possible there She came legally | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/25 02:40 PM |
| 15 | The Patriarchy Is Dead In Most Western CountriesYou sound like a redneck talking about black crime statistics 💀 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/25 05:36 AM |
| 9 | The Patriarchy Is Dead In Most Western CountriesMillions of women voted for Trump I don’t think as a guy I’m in a position to tell them they’re wrong | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/25 05:34 AM |
| 4 | The Patriarchy Is Dead In Most Western CountriesI agree with the first sentence but not the rest | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/25 02:56 AM |
| 2 | The Patriarchy Is Dead In Most Western CountriesWhat do you mean? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/25 02:55 AM |
| 2 | The Patriarchy Is Dead In Most Western CountriesI don’t think it’s matriarchal since men and women both have unique challenges and advantages plus everybody is different I think maybe slightly tilted towards women since they mature quicker so they have a bit of an advantage in school but many boys do well in school | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/25 02:55 AM |
| 0 | The Patriarchy Is Dead In Most Western CountriesHow much harder was it for a woman back then versus now in your opinion? I voted for Kamala but my girl and sister support Trump; most people I who I know who voted for him did so for the economy and cultural issues | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/25 02:54 AM |
| -9 | The Patriarchy Is Dead In Most Western CountriesFor sure My grandma had to boil the same bone to make soup to survive when she came to America in her late 40s then died with many millions despite not even knowing English since she worked 3 jobs until she could start her own business Reddit seems to hate the idea that hard work leads to a better life for some reason | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/25 02:51 AM |
| -13 | The Patriarchy Is Dead In Most Western CountriesRacism still exists obviously But the whole patriarchy argument is that women are held down by men It used to be hard for women to get a degree and have a career in finance or even to get a loan but now it is basically the same path for either gender to live a good life I think maybe slightly slanted towards women since girls mature quicker so they have a slight advantage in school | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/25 02:49 AM |
| 4 | The Patriarchy Is Dead In Most Western Countriesplease go outside | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/25 02:47 AM |
| 6 | The Patriarchy Is Dead In Most Western CountriesThere are always gonna be some horrible people in the world but I think structurally society is mostly as equal is possible between genders at least in America | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/25 02:47 AM |
| 1 | You cant claim “Men take responsibility more” in a sub where men cant be blamed for anything.Guys on this sub don’t talk to girls in real life then complain they can’t get a gf ☠️ If you improve your social skills then go to bars it’s easy to get a gf since a lot of guys are too nervous to even approach girls these days It’s crazy how some OF girls are making millions of dollars a year off of guys like that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/25 08:22 PM |
| 1 | In the modern dating age, the first step is the women "choosing the man", often times before he is even aware of it. In this way, women are the true initiators and selectors and men have far less power over the outcome.Just go talk to girls you are over complicating it My girl thought I was weird when she first met me but then we became friends after talking for a bit then started dating | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/25 12:43 PM |
| 1 | So how do you build social skills from zero?You can’t go from zero to one hundred I used to be a recluse (autistic 25M) and tried going to a nightclub alone and got overwhelmed I started out reaching out to old friends from school and talking to family friends and going to get drinks with them Now I have friends and a GF and would be able to get a GF again if I was single Am currently working on getting better at taking to people when not drunk and getting a degree so I can go to law school You got this just don’t overthink it and push yo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/25 12:31 PM |
| 1 | It’s not unreasonable to ask your partner to stop watching pornI think watching porn is a sign your relationship is unfulfilling like why not just go have sex | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/25 12:27 PM |
| 1 | Younger generations feel entitled to what their parents took for granted when it comes to relationships, much like buying a house, and they need to lower expectationsI think it’s actually easier to get a gf these days since girls get approached less often because we’re all too terminally online You see a lot of posts on Reddit comparing about dating apps since guys are not used to just talking to girls in real life and seeing what happens | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/25 12:26 PM |
| 0 | Everyone is wrong about the reason for declining fertility rates.You’re wrong too (respectfully 🫶) it’s that people don’t get bored being alone at home anymore I was in a small isolated town once and wondered why people there didn’t shoot themselves out of boredom until I saw everybody there had like 5 kids If you ask old people how they met their husband/wife it’s usually something completely random like they met on a bus or at a party or whatever People my age (M25) have a tendency to be online too much so our social skills suck so we meet less people | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/25 12:22 PM |
| 2 | The Provider Man Model No Longer Works in Modern Western Relationships. It's a scam.I don’t like the idea of working hard while my girl kind of does nothing most of the day so my type is miss independent I think it’s really funny how many girls consider themselves feminists until the bill for dinner comes ☠️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/25 12:19 PM |
| 1 | Modern dating and relationship culture puts the burden of good sex entirely on men, and according to this narrative a woman can never be bad at sex, only uninterested.It’s always been on men to approach it’s just that people have worse social skills in general these days so men are too nervous to approach I went clubbing in Vegas on New Years and it was funny seeing all the pretty girls just standing around eventually settling for guys who were old and creepy since most guys my age (I am 25) didn’t even try making a move | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/25 12:07 PM |
| 1 | It is up to Women to be proactive in the dating market nowadaysWhy not just go talk to girls if they don’t approach you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/25 12:05 PM |
| 1 | How true is the myth that conservative women cheat less than their liberal counterparts ?I think us men lack a sixth sense women have; even if she doesn’t know she knows he is cheating she knows something is up | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/25 12:04 PM |
| 1 | For Men, Single Life Is the Solution—Not Something to FearUs men are too horny for that lol Dating apps don’t work for me since I don’t take many pictures of myself and don’t have a flashy job title so I just talk to girls in real life and see what happens I think most guys complaining about the “male loneliness crisis” are just spending too much time on their phones and playing video games instead of just being social | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/25 12:03 PM |
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