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| -2 | don’t waste your energyOkay but why can’t this be true? I’ve yet to meet someone that doesn’t end up seeming husk way. I don’t meet women who are in perfect relationships. I don’t know where all these mantras come from that really make real life feel so disappointing and sad. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/19 07:44 AM |
| 7 | What are some red flags that he’s not worth your time?I'm going to add: Gamers (computer or system). I am a bit of a gamer myself, and I've never dated a man who was a big gamer, but my brother really is and it seems to just absorb so much life. It's like an addictive world of fantasy that can be almost better than real life to some guys and they can't transition well to living without it, like porn for some men. Some girls can take it, but I couldn't. Victim mentality from previous relationships. Got to show self-awareness, and we all feel like vi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/19 05:43 PM |
| 5 | What are some red flags that he’s not worth your time?Megan, is that you!? Haha, I had a friend who experienced this and the guy was like "I could chop you up into little bitty pieces." Oh god. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/19 05:35 PM |
| 3 | What are some red flags that he’s not worth your time?I'm gonna add on because I feel gradient is what is what madandunabashed is likely trying to get at, there are different kinds of hot: -Natural and not overdone, someone who is just a lovely beauty but is relateable. -The type who you can see is really really trying to be hot, like with a lot of artificial help like fillers, procedures, etc. Or who seems vain and very image-focused. You know it when you see it, someone who is just really trying to put off that "sex symbol" vibe. It's different. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/19 05:33 PM |
| 5 | What are some red flags that he’s not worth your time?do you find are the issues w/ those types of men? I don't know how to explain this feeling, but sister, I feel like I found my people! No one talks about these issues, but they are SO REAL. Thank you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/19 05:26 PM |
| 1 | "One of the guys" girlRead "Cool Girl Monologue" from 'Gone Girl'. https://genius.com/Gillian-flynn-gone-girl-cool-girl-monologue-book-annotated | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/19 05:11 PM |
| 4 | I called him outLook. You may feel like you've done something good in dropping to his level, and your heart was in the right place, but your execution leads to ugly things. You're thinking very very short term. What will come from you snapping and calling him names and him constantly making you feel invalidated? He doesn't respect you more, that is indeed totally sugarcoating the situation. He won't change because you called him this, and next time you'll have to say it again, or something more colorful, and ev… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/19 05:07 PM |
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