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| 9 | Women grossly exaggerate the prevalence of drink spikingNobody: OP: anyone else think women need to worry less about their drinks being spiked? Lmao OP, you're on a list now. The fuck is this | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/24 10:53 PM |
| 1 | Debate : People dont understand that Money and status makes you GENUINELY more sexually attractive as a Man.Yeah, charisma is equal to excellent social skills. But in no way does "domination" occur socially, it occurs as a dynamic in a social setting. In other words, your boyfriend or girlfriend complimenting you and making you feel good with their personality has nothing to do with domination itself, even if they're expressing social skills that are relatively better than the average person's. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/24 09:40 PM |
| 6 | Debate : People dont understand that Money and status makes you GENUINELY more sexually attractive as a Man.Being around charismatic people feels good. Even if your partner isn't "dominating" social situations, it's fun to be around them by yourself if they're charismatic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/24 05:26 PM |
| 21 | There is no place for men to meet womenim a single guy who occasionally goes out by himself to bars to meet women and im somewhat attractive (ive had multiple LTRs and a lot of hookups/fwbs). and every time i go out, women are almost never there by themselves. theyre in groups talking to each other or sitting together looking bored. so even as a guy who has a lot of experience with women, meeting them at bars/clubs seems really difficult. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/23 03:17 PM |
| 2 | Even after a lot of self-improvement and personal growth, adult single men are increasingly entering the dating environment with a lot of resentmentGirls in high school liked me because I sat next to them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/23 03:47 PM |
| 4 | Even after a lot of self-improvement and personal growth, adult single men are increasingly entering the dating environment with a lot of resentmentI was ugly in high school and it was far easier to get with women back then. they had no standards. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/23 05:36 PM |
| 2 | Are there men in your life who are good overall but fail at dating? What does this say about modern dating?I respectfully disagree. I grew up being bullied relentlessly specifically because of the way that I looked. It took me years as an adult of painstaking social interactions and subsequent analysis of them to unpack ways to improve my social skills until I developed the confidence to navigate conversations with women. Insecurity is not natural, but that doesn't mean confidence can't be developed. I did it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/23 06:49 AM |
| 2 | Is the bar really “in hell”?Because the bar is wherever one sets it, then yes, one would be at fault for getting burned after placing it in hell. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/23 11:38 PM |
| 3 | Is the bar really “in hell”?If it's in hell for all men, that sounds like women are fucking up badly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/23 09:17 PM |
| 5 | Which privileges aren’t women able to see?just FYI - the data you're citing is from a study that happened 33 years ago. Also, OP said men's sentencing is longer on average, not for every specific crime. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/23 12:21 AM |
| 6 | Q4M question for males: you meet your dream girl, but then she ages and is no longer the girl you met?wealth can be passed down, wealth typically grows symbiotically with time. looks though, are mostly RNG and extremely fickle. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/22 04:57 AM |
| 2 | Sugar babies are much worse than prostitutesdid you just copy and paste one of the top comments? lmao you weirdo. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/22 04:46 AM |
| 1 | Modern women don't respect modern men because they have allowed material conditions to deteriorate in the west.Yet women can now do the same "life things" and are unhappier than they've ever been. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/22 10:05 PM |
| 1 | Modern women don't respect modern men because they have allowed material conditions to deteriorate in the west.Most white collar jobs are not fulfilling, and they are at a minimum 40 hours a week. On top of all the other tasks required to simply exist today, white collar jobs are not the emblem of freedom and fulfillment that women used to think they were. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/22 07:36 PM |
| 1 | Modern women don't respect modern men because they have allowed material conditions to deteriorate in the west.Obviously, everyone used to "work," but I'm not talking about any type of labor when I say work, I'm referring to the more modern sense of white collar jobs as you mentioned. The types of jobs women protested to be able to have because it offered freedom and fulfilment compared to being a house wife. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/22 04:06 PM |
| 0 | Modern women don't respect modern men because they have allowed material conditions to deteriorate in the west.Women wanted to work because historically work represented freedom and fulfilment. This is no longer the case for the majority of jobs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/22 07:14 AM |
| 5 | Modern women don't respect modern men because they have allowed material conditions to deteriorate in the west.And that means morality is subjective, which is the basis for philosophy and literature. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/22 07:11 AM |
| 6 | Modern women don't respect modern men because they have allowed material conditions to deteriorate in the west.Child rape is not objectively wrong, it's subjectively wrong on a universal scale. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/22 07:10 AM |
| -1 | Your mother didn’t “lie” to you. Women didn’t lie to you. They genuinely thought they were telling you the truth….and that most girls were not they themYou just described shallowness lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/22 10:57 AM |
| 3 | Your mother didn’t “lie” to you. Women didn’t lie to you. They genuinely thought they were telling you the truth….and that most girls were not they themSame upbringing. Having to figure out socializing on one's own is brutal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/22 10:42 AM |
| 9 | If women approached men more, would there be less men identifying as incels?If you're a 6'2 handsome man, you don't need any people skills to get laid. That's what incels are saying, not that short men can't ever get laid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/22 10:32 PM |
| 1 | Battle of the Sexes or Battle of the Egos?Watch the documentary. She hired a makeup artist and vocal trainer to adjust her appearance over the course of months until she passed. Eventually she got to the point where people assumed she was male and went on lots of dates with women (most of whom did not know she was a man until she told them after the date) and became friends with a group of men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/22 05:46 PM |
| 6 | Being boring, uninteresting, not having a lot of things to talk about, not having hobbies, etc can be a bigger turn off than being ugly.Everyone knows being attractive is helpful. But not being tall and handsome does not mean you're "gonna have a very lonely life." That's just stupid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/22 03:34 AM |
| 0 | Should cheaters be automatically dumped?There are plenty of relationships where someone cheated once and then didn't do it again, though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/22 03:30 AM |
| 1 | No guy wants to be "husband material" over "hookup material"Yeah that story is horse shit | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/22 02:56 AM |
| 6 | Porn Use Bad for Men; Good for WomenI like watching guys who I think look like me. I also like watching POV. I like to be able to relate to it as much as possible | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/22 06:34 PM |
| 0 | Can someone explain men who criticise women who sleep around while also being angry they’re not having sexPeople go through promiscuous phases. I don't know why you are painting casual sex as this thing that takes place only in a dark secret world, though. Also not sure why you're talking about what people used to think about sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/22 08:38 AM |
| 2 | The Rise of The Single Lonely MaleMost marriages end these days, and there has been ever more of a push for "cooperation"? How about people embrace their biological tendnencies within reason - women not all being queens, men not all being king kong - and say, women agree to take on more domestic responsibility in general, stay fit, and not complain that they can't have absolutely everything that men get AND more? How about men also not be horndogs 24/7 and fuck everything they see, and have some standards. That would likely help… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/22 05:45 AM |
| 4 | The Rise of The Single Lonely MaleIf relationships had two submissive people, or two dominant people, they wouldn't work. Secondly, being your "authentic self" is often toxic. Most people are selfish and have to be taught not to be that. If anything, being your authentic self is unhealthy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/22 05:10 AM |
| 3 | The Rise of The Single Lonely MaleYou just summarized what the article said, which is exactly what I am saying. Women don't want to be seen like that, yet here we are. Where we are disagreeing is that I think women feel entitled to having it all - a career, going to college, every right and responsibility that men have historically had. And they don't want 80% of men, either. So what exactly will make the average woman happy? Clearly, it isn't the average man. You're saying that women shouldn't be held to this standard: not fat,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/22 04:56 AM |
| 1 | The Rise of The Single Lonely MaleMen being in a sexless relationship doesn't change their nature. Men in sexless relationships - I also know a few men in this situation - often complain about it, or it leads to the end of the relationship. Men willingly picking a sexless relationships is quite a rarity. Secondly, I completely agree that women gatekeep sex, that is their biological imperative. However, I don't agree that men hounding women for sex has anything to do with modern dating. Men have always hounded women for sex, even… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/22 04:52 AM |
| 2 | The Rise of The Single Lonely MaleWhy would a woman need to settle with a sad sack of shit? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/22 04:45 AM |
| 3 | The Rise of The Single Lonely MaleWhat do you mean by "of interest to women"? The article references a survey that explicitly describes what most women claim to want - emotional availability. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/22 03:24 AM |
| 7 | The Rise of The Single Lonely MaleHistorically, men have rarely selected women for their ability to provide for themselves, which is what buying more books, going to college and volunteering, networking , etc. improves. I am simply stating my observations, feel free to disagree if you like but that won't change what's going on in the world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/22 03:20 AM |
| 10 | The Rise of The Single Lonely MaleThat guy talked about personality and then about cooking. Those are separate. Women improving themselves through all the ways you mentioned means very little to men, realistically. Most men simply want a woman that is not fat, submissive, and agreeable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/22 02:34 AM |
| 2 | The Rise of The Single Lonely MaleSeeking help is different than actually changing one's behavior. Why women seek help more than men do is a different topic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/22 02:30 AM |
| 4 | The Rise of The Single Lonely MaleIf women kept their same general traits but did not have the ability to offer sexual access, men generally would have nothing to do with them. To your last point, I'm an attractive man who has had hookups. I don't blame men for hooking up with women easily because women are the gatekeepers (to sexual access, as you mentioned) and it is generally up to them whether it happens or not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/22 02:15 AM |
| 2 | The Rise of The Single Lonely MaleOP asked what can be done about it. I offered a solution and explained its importance. Chill. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/22 02:13 AM |
| 13 | The Rise of The Single Lonely MaleThe solution is that women should go to therapy, not just men. Why is it that men have to fix the issues society has pushed upon them and not women? The article mentions that women have an overwhelming majority of options. This is only true for casual encounters, not relationships. But the majority of men want a relationship with a woman so they can consistently have sex with her, and hopefully a family. Women are both naturally and taught to be picky with men, and yet they will give away what t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/22 11:44 PM |
| 1 | Height statistics from Bumble; Is this your exp in OLDWhat does any of this have to do with women liking tall men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/22 04:12 PM |
| 1 | Height statistics from Bumble; Is this your exp in OLDNo one is disputing that hypergamy sucks for the average or below average man, but trying to downplay the traits that women find attractive is reaching. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/22 10:27 PM |
| 2 | Height statistics from Bumble; Is this your exp in OLDThis is a serious cop out brother. How many tall handsome men out there bear children like the one you described ? The slim chance a tall man gives birth to a man like daughter should be her reason for dating a short man? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/22 07:08 PM |
| 1 | Sugar/Transactional Dating is eventually going to become normalizedI know women born to millionaire families who constantly bring up sugar babying. Women, especially rich women, fucking love money. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/22 06:45 AM |
| 3 | Sugar/Transactional Dating is eventually going to become normalizedBro, prostitution is common, but not normalized. There's a stigma to it, even in our sex positive age. If you learn a girl is a prostitute or a sugar baby, you might think negatively of her. Op is saying in the future women will tell people they're sugar babies and no one will bat an eye. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/22 06:39 AM |
| 7 | I think the idea that men have it easier time getting relationships is incredibly false.Out of curiosity, how old are you? In your early 20s? Because this idea of waiting is nice and all, but will become a lot less common in your 30s. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/22 07:30 AM |
| 4 | The reason that the disparity in sexual privilege between men and women is so obfuscated not because there's any real doubt about it, but because of the solutions it impliesRequires a lot of time and effort to satisfy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/22 04:28 PM |
| 1 | The reason that the disparity in sexual privilege between men and women is so obfuscated not because there's any real doubt about it, but because of the solutions it impliesThat is my current plan lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/22 04:28 PM |
| 2 | The reason that the disparity in sexual privilege between men and women is so obfuscated not because there's any real doubt about it, but because of the solutions it impliesI've had pretty tremendous success with dating in my past. However I became single less than a year ago for the first time since I started dating and, even though I can score, it's a hellscape. I would gladly bow out of dating... I kind of already am. Even the highly desireable women I connect with on apps seem like a gigantic headache to actually date. They're so high maintenance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/22 09:35 AM |
| 4 | The reason that the disparity in sexual privilege between men and women is so obfuscated not because there's any real doubt about it, but because of the solutions it impliesWhen OP said women are attracted to a small subset of men, I assumed he was implying sexual attraction, which is based almost purely on looks. Yes, women end up on relationships. Sexually unattractive men do, too. All the time. But it doesn't change the fact that on a primal, sexual level, which you see at clubs, the gym, anywhere really - women are only sexually attracted to a small subset of men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/22 07:55 AM |
| 2 | Roe v. Wade Mega-ThreadThat's pretty fucked, although at least Louisiana allows for ectopic pregnancies and other medical emergencies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/22 10:49 PM |
| 1 | Roe v. Wade Mega-ThreadI didn't realize that. Which ones? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/22 10:03 PM |
| 2 | Roe v. Wade Mega-ThreadWhile our country was founded by Christians, they got many things wrong. Slavery. The subjugation of women (they couldn't vote, had no rights, etc. - I don't see how that's much different than your idea of what a secular based society would be like). Secondly, nations all over the world have grown out of the "law of the jungle" with religions outside of Christianity. Thirdly, and the most obvious one, is that the founding fathers decided on a separation of church and state. This is because relig… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/22 07:12 PM |
| 6 | Roe v. Wade Mega-ThreadIn Italy, women can get abortions for up to 90 days. After that, the abortion is legal if the mother's life is in danger. Those limitations are more restrictive than the laws in many states. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/22 07:04 PM |
| 2 | Age, body count, and # of kids for women are the equivalent of height, face, and dick size for men in terms of effect on one's dating prospectsLook up incel surgeries, some of them are miraculous. And it's just ugly dudes, not actual deformities. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/21 05:49 AM |
| 7 | How common is casual sex among friends?I've had sex with about 10 women (30 y/o M) since I started having sex about 8 years ago. 6 were from online dating, 1 was a hookup at a bar (actually some of the best and worst sex I've ever had - fun primal drunk sex followed by awkward interactions the next day and then never talking again lol)... 3 were people I met IRL and then we formed relationships. Only one of these 3 was a friend beforehand. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/21 01:30 AM |
| 2 | Should Someone Be Prosecuted For Lying To Obtain SexThis was unnecessarily mean but I like the wording of it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/21 08:02 AM |
| 5 | Do you put your money where your mouth is when dating?I think everyone knows what a good partner should be like actually. On paper, at least. Someone you can trust, play with, and understand. Then people get horny or emotional, and all that shit goes out the window. I feel as though many people just don't have the dick discipline or the vagina virtue to actually focus on looking for qualities in a partner that are not based on impulse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/21 07:12 PM |
| 4 | The world needs more voluntary celibate role modelsBro literally everyone on the planet cares about art, science, sports or politics to some degree and by definition those things cannot be completed unless we go extinct | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/21 12:58 PM |
| 2 | When women are willing to sleep with men without commitment, do you think it makes harder for all the other women to get a long-term partner?I'm a good looking guy and have had plenty of sexual partners, including one that I dated seriously and exclusively for 5 years. I'm 30 now and single. I currently get a ton of attention from women compared to 10 years ago, but even now 90% of them want to date or have a relationship if that comes with sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/21 09:58 PM |
| 4 | CMV: no one is sexually attracted to money, accomplishments or intelligence.We're you really born in 97? I used to think this same way in my early 20s. I was convinced women didn't like men and if they did then they didn't like me. And the best thing for me was getting the fuck off the internet. Then I started randomly approaching women around campus and out and about at night at bars and parties and just generally working on my social skills. I can pretty much get along with anyone now in any setting. And I've fucked a lot, many of those times the woman initiated it to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/21 05:28 PM |
| 2 | Why are so many men complaining about women not being as pretty under the makeup when our society has put so much emphasis on their beauty and their need to maintain it?😳 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/21 02:10 AM |
| 13 | Most women want something serious once they are above 30 while men want nothing serious when above 30. Why?I'm American born and raised and lived in Sweden for 6 months on exchange. In a big city. I thought it was odd how different their views toward socializing were. You never talk to someone on the bus or light rail over there. Or at the grocery store, or in the street. But in clubs, bars, parties, parks on a sunny day, etc. It's no different. And I was there as a young 20s guy, and everyone I met my age was trying to date. I dont think they enjoy solitude. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/21 01:38 AM |
| 4 | Women aren't attracted to dad-bods. Women are unattracted to the expectations of fit men.I'm 2 weeks late to this but I still feel like it's worth saying this comment was perfect. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/21 01:29 AM |
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