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holy shit this woman is a crazy asshole.
/r/PussyPassDenied05/04/17 02:42 AM
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Pass or no, you don't fuck with a goose. Those are some mean-ass fuckin' birds.
/r/PussyPassDenied28/03/17 12:17 AM
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Thanks. I am glad someone gets what I am trying to says. Equal representation in the law is great. Both sexes need balances made for them in western cultures, but to me this issue goes much deeper than simply "who is the father?" people make mistakes, you can forgive them if you want or not. The last person who should be getting punished or screwed over is the child though. If you can be the positive role model that helps to raise a child and they look at you as their father, regardless of the s…
/r/MensRights30/04/14 07:35 PM
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Well aware, but the welfare of the child needs to be considered too. They didn't ask to have mommy running around on daddy or to born. It is not as simple a cut and dry solution as who is and who is not the father at that point. Which them becomes a philosophical question. After years of raising a child like your own, do you want to find out if it's not? That would really fuck someone up, especially the child. Mensrights are all well and good, I am a big supporter of it all. If you're going to f…
/r/MensRights30/04/14 06:33 PM
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I don't disagree there, not by any means. What I take issue with is how this guy is going about it. If it is causing problems in an otherwise healthy relationship then there needs to be proper procedure and educate about the whole thing. Springing it on your wife, who just got done going through labor, may be suffering to the adjustment of being a new parent and causing more uncertainty in the situation isn't helping anyone, especially the child. If that means making it a mandatory part of the i…
/r/MensRights30/04/14 03:50 PM
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Yeah, it is still baseless judgment of character, dude. Sorry, I didn't tell you, you weren't going to do anything, I just said that if you were to spring this on a woman that it would make you look paranoid (global definition you, not specifically you. I was attempting to put you in this family's current situation.) I don't know you personally and cannot make that direct jusgement. You provided no immediate and important situational information. You mentioned nothing about discussing it with yo…
/r/MensRights30/04/14 02:18 PM
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People like me huh? Well let me give you some background about me before you make baseless judgment. I have gotten a paternity test, the kid was mine, but I had questions because I didn't know about him for the first 22 months of his life. What you're doing is absolutely not the samething that this husband in the article is doing. Why? Because you discussed it like an adult. This man didnt and is now requesting this with no evidence, after they are married and after the child was born. That is a…
/r/MensRights30/04/14 01:28 PM
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You have obviously discussed this with them. That's great, but do you think most men will? This guy in the article clearly didnt, and most dudes would even be afraid to ask. You have at least thought about this, but I would wager that you're in the minority. Hell there are plenty of guys whose wives have cheated on them and then given birth to another man's child without them knowing for years. Your long term girlfriend already knows you have the expectation, great. You are ahead of the curve th…
/r/MensRights30/04/14 12:55 PM
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You're still defaulting to the child not being yours. By asking the question despite having no reason to suspect anything makes you look paranoid and will not be good for your relationship. Why? It is simple, your wife will think you don't trust her and she is right. It isn't just about the child. It is about trust your partner to raise that child with them. Of you question the very basis right out of the gate it is going to cause trust issues in the relationship that will be difficult to overco…
/r/MensRights30/04/14 12:34 PM
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I find this odd, I had two male elementary teachers back in the early 90's. They were great with boys. They seemed to understand and were much more active and hands on teachers. I had quite a few female teachers and most of them just expected boys to sit down and shut the hell up. In fact, two of these female teachers 1st and 3rd grade teachers wanted my parents to put me on drugs to "control" me better. My parents thankfully declined. Funny thing is one of those male teachers turned out to be g…
/r/MensRights30/04/14 12:09 PM
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The guy is paranoid. Assuming that she is telling the truth, which we have no reason to think otherwise, then he is simply being a dick. I don't think men should be defaulting to "the child is not mine Unless you prove it is!" mentality, especially when int his case the guy chose to marry the woman and from what we know, has been faithful to him the whole time. So yeah, this guy just sounds like a paranoid person who needs to speak to someone. It could simply be that he is having trouble dealing…
/r/MensRights30/04/14 11:55 AM
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It's nice to hear a eloquently written letter based in facts and observations rather that hate-filled dribble from the community on this woman. She's cashing in, plan and simple, but all the spiteful and hateful comments do nothing more than to strengthen her stance. There is way too much of that shit going around and all it does is give her examples of what she's "fighting against." The gaming community at large needs more representative statements like this open letter and once it's been addre…
/r/MensRights20/03/14 10:17 PM
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What a fucking idiot.
/r/MensRights21/02/14 12:18 PM
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"If you believe this you're a fucking idiot" 101. Best class ever.
/r/MensRights18/02/14 10:36 PM
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The reality is, even if you have statistical information that disproves this, and I have no doubt you do, there is plenty of information to explain the figures he is quoting; he is going to continue to use it. He is doing this to keep the support high for his party. Women are the majority and the dems are going to use whatever information is in their favor to keep support for their party high. It's not true and it makes American businesses, specifically those run by men, look scummy as fuck, but…
/r/MensRights29/01/14 07:04 PM
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While I am admittedly ignorant on this particular subject, it sounds like this statistic is totally divorced from reality.
/r/MensRights27/01/14 01:14 PM
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Pro tip from a guy who works at an ivy league university. Some of the dumbest people I have met in my entire life do, in fact have PhDs. Just because someone is a college professor doesn't mean they know what they are talking about.
/r/MensRights16/01/14 06:09 PM
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I am well aware of what the laws around marriage are. They are not fair and in many cases can be used as a hammer, instead of the steady and fair way to manage a split. But, those are the laws that surround the breaking of a marriage, not the marriage itself. It is not the best solution for everyone. It is probably the biggest decision that you can ever make and people take it far too lightly, but that is an issue with the individuals, a failure in their lifes choices. marriage as an aspect of s…
/r/MensRights26/12/13 02:36 AM
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Yeah, I actually like boy shorts of a girl... I was just using that one as sort of a catch-all example. Really, what is sexy is not what a woman wears but how she wears it. The confidence that she has and the way she carries herself. When my girl feels sexy, she looks sexy... Whether she is rocking that beautiful red dress she has or is in a pair of sweat pants and wearing my hoodie around the apartment.
/r/MensRights26/12/13 01:03 AM
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Dude, Johnny has a bit of a point. You are coming off a bit strong, and you're engaging in some serious hyperbole by comparing marriage to slavery. In the western world, where arranged marriages are not a part of our culture, and adults can decide for themselves, marriage is definitely not in any way, realistically comparable to slavery. It is cool if it isn't right for you, I doubt it is right for me or a lot of people, but reel in that fish a bit. Comparing it to slavery and showing it in the …
/r/MensRights26/12/13 12:53 AM
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Same here. I am not at all against the idea. I think there are a lot of horror stories about marriages, but that isn't the evil institution of marriage. I think a lot of people are misplacing the blame in this case. Marriage is a perfectly reasonable solution for two committed adults who are willing to be just that, adult about their relationship. My parents have been marries 33 years. They are happy and in love to this day. In fact, I come from a family that is full of successful marriage stori…
/r/MensRights26/12/13 12:18 AM
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Preferences are just that and you do make a good point in that regard. However, as far as fathering children, you shouldn't be thinking so far ahead or basing you breeding habits off of a law like affirmative action. What you should be thinking about is if you love the woman you're with, if you're both capable of being good, loving parents while you raise the child together. You make it almost sound like you're trying to game the system. Sure they may have advantages, they may not. Children are …
/r/MensRights26/12/13 12:01 AM
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Well, that's a stupid ad. Yes, you shouldn't be wearing nasty, ratty underwear. Women wear them too. My girlfriend doesn't wear thongs, she thinks they are uncomfortable. I am not going to buy them for her or make her wear them that's stupid. I am certainly not going to wear a thong either. But shit, if you are trying to be attractive to tour partner and nearly nude, at least wear something to make your junk look nice. I am curious to see the solution this we site offers for "sexy" under options…
/r/MensRights25/12/13 11:48 PM
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Pointless and stupid.
/r/MensRights25/12/13 11:36 PM
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Seriously, who the fuck cares. People are attracted to what they are attracted to and that is all there is to it. Little can be done to control one's desire like that, it is a biological response. As long as that attraction is not hurting anyone and within the bounds of rational law, fuck the haters. I prefer Asian women over all others for some reason. I am not a "creep" I don't leer at them, or come on to every Asian girl I see. It isn't like some magical spell we are under, I just have prefer…
/r/MensRights05/12/13 11:04 PM
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Huh... It's almost as if something passed over my head... Like a point or something... Weird.
/r/MensRights13/08/13 10:08 PM
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That is the weirdest vagina I have ever seen.
/r/MensRights13/08/13 07:08 PM
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She just has cock on the brain...oh and is a god damned moron.
/r/MensRights13/08/13 07:08 PM
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I dunno... As a straight dude who resembles the second picture more closely, I think would rather look like the first image... Only if i could stop drinking all that delicious beer.
/r/MensRights13/08/13 07:07 PM
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We aren't talking about laws dude. This whole thread is about her being unsatisfied and her boyfriend being unwilling to do anything to change that. No one is talking about forcing anyone into anything. You are injecting information that is 100% irrelevant to the topic at hand. This has nothing to do with rape l, it has nothing to do with the way the legal system views sex and it certainly has nothing to do with treating sex differently than any other facet of a relationship.
/r/MensRights26/07/13 12:10 PM
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Wow you are reeeeeally.missing the point. She isn't telling him to do anything. She is asking him to do something that will gasp make her happy and satisfy her. She isn't lording his laziness over him like "do this or else!!" she is not being satisfied so she is asking for him to do something to maybe change that and he flatly refuses. You have an incredibly warped view of relationships. Sex is a part of the overall picture in a romantic relationship, it isn't something you can conveniently stri…
/r/MensRights26/07/13 11:57 AM
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Wow here we go with the rape and prostitition-thing again, which again literally has not one single thing to do with this comment. Maybe the guy is a selfish asshole. Not even single problem is a mens rights issue. HE could simply be a sexually lazy and self absorbed asshole. Believe it or not shit men do still exist. You quite clearly can't seem to separate her asking for want she wants in a sexual partner from "owing" or "forcing" sex on someone. You know what I find "cute" about this is that …
/r/MensRights26/07/13 11:30 AM
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If you're leaving your partner unsatisfied d than it is a problem. If you're not willing to meet them halfway then you're just being a shitty and selfish lover. No, you quite obviously cannot legally owe someone sex, but sex just like literally every single other part of a relationship only works as an equal give and take scenario. If you're not willing to do that then you shouldn't be in a relationship and you should expect to get something you're absolutely not willing to give. So, in that sen…
/r/MensRights25/07/13 10:29 PM
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This isn't an mra issue. Personally, this guy sounds like a self-absorbed dick. If she is sucking his cock, which she clearly is then she has every right to ask that the favor be returned. Frankly, if you're not willing to sexually satisfy your partner you're not a man, you are a little boy and should not be having sex. She isn't asking for him to be dominated, she isn't asking for crazy shit. She is asking that he do some of the fucking work when fucking... If you're not willing to meet your pa…
/r/MensRights25/07/13 09:45 PM
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Well, look at what she uses to describe why she doesn't want one. He comes from a well off family, he has worked longer and makes more money than she does, from the sounds of it has his ducks in a row and a good retirement started for himself. She says she is from a working class immigrant family who had nothing but has more than they obviously started with. Everything she is worried about is strictly from a monetary standpoint. She doesn't mention she fell head over heels for the guy and is mad…
/r/MensRights10/07/13 08:47 PM
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Why the fuck did you even tell her that? You have no reason to say "hey if you keep it up I am going to report you." just fucking report her and be sure to tell the police or the person you report her to that the reason you didn't do it right away is because she threatened to blackmail you (illegal by the way.) Stop being terrified of this manipulative little bitch and take control of the situation. She gives women a bad name and deserves to have her mud slinging ass thrown in jail for a day or …
/r/MensRights15/06/13 07:31 PM
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While I don't disagree that he should be seeking legal counsel, you did see the part about him being in a war zone right? Probably not too many lawyers in his neck of the woods... In those situations an internet connection is usually more easily obtained... He should probably google a lawyer.
/r/MensRights15/06/13 07:24 PM
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I don't think it is a "problem" at all. Men have more freedom now that women are independent and incredibly successful in society. This takes a lot of pressure off men as a whole. We are no longer expected to be the bread winners, we aren't expected to find a nice girl settle down and have a family before we are 30... It is simple, freedom of choice creates new groups of "men." Some men will get married and have kids because that is what they want. Others' will start their own business and barel…
/r/MensRights15/06/13 07:20 PM
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bingo, in fact many artists; paint, draw, perform, etc. scenes or images to draw attention to them, not because they are supportive of that what's being depicted but to make a social statement about it. This one speaks to double standards and the "man's place" in the house hold and what's considered appropriate.
/r/MensRights27/12/12 05:02 PM
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That's just what those patriarchal scientists and engineers want you to believe. The perfect missile is actually shaped like a vagina.
/r/MensRights20/12/12 01:05 PM
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This is becoming incredibly common. The notion that it is alright for women to hit men and be able to get away with it, without the man defending himself is going the way of the dinosaur. It may be, because I live in a fairly progressive town but I've heard lots of twenty and thirty something's say things like "Well, if she didn't want to get hit she shouldn't have slapped him." or "She deserved it, you can't do that to people and get away with it." While I think law enforcement certainly is beh…
/r/MensRights20/10/12 05:56 PM
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Probably a bit of both really, both of my parents also own up to their mistakes and constantly try to please one another. The "romance" is definitely not dead. My dad works about 70 hours as well, but they still find time to do things together as a couple. They also respect one another and tackle family problems as a team. My mother is incredibly understanding about my father's work schedule and my dad has always been emotionally supportive and there when my mom needed him. He drops everything t…
/r/MensRights18/10/12 02:57 PM
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There's are dissolutions on each side. My parents have been happily married for 32 years. Sure, not everything was always peachy, but everyone has problems. I think marriage is great for some and terrible for others. There are even people that marriage works for, they just picked the wrong damned partners The problem with marriage isn't deciding you want to be with someone for the rest of your life, the problem is the shitty nonsensical laws that have cropped up around it. I am not going to be s…
/r/MensRights18/10/12 02:04 PM
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I found the part about men formulating terrible counter-arguments particularly entertaining in this post. It is almost the same thing as calling someone stupid for shooting themselves while you're looking down the barrel of a loaded gun.
/r/MensRights05/10/12 02:26 PM
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Calling you that is one thing... Telling everyone you attend school with is another story all together. This would be like me walking into your office and claiming you're a racist, xenophobic pedophile without any proof. It may not get you fired, but it certainly will make your work place a more unpleasant environment... Hell people have been fired for less even. While high school isn't a big deal, there are people that get out into the real world that believe slander and outright lies are the b…
/r/MensRights29/09/12 05:44 PM
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Slander is not free speech, going around saying that she is a Neo-Nazi and passing it off as fact is slander and not protected by the first amendment.
/r/MensRights29/09/12 05:40 PM
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Her behavior, and that type of hostility, has no place in a high school. ....no place in civilized society.
/r/MensRights29/09/12 05:39 PM
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Bingo, it doesn't sound like it was shut down by valve admins because of some crazy ingrained double standard within the gaming culture, but because the guy running the group was a fucking dick. I would say it deserves to be shutdown, especially if he was sending those messages to people. I'd be embarrassed to have that troglodyte on my friends list.
/r/MensRights03/08/12 01:59 PM
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Yes you hate women...Not everyone does. The reason i follow mens rights is because i have a son and i worry about his future, about the way he may be treated in school and the chances he could miss out on due to institutionalized double standards and sexism. I am interested because i believe in true equality of people, regardless of sex, race, or religion. I don't hate women at all, the exact opposite. I fucking love them. Some of my best friends are women, and feminists... we get along swinging…
/r/MensRights16/05/12 03:35 PM
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This is hardly a mens rights issue, this is a "I fucking hate clubs but go anyway because that is where my friends and women i like to date go... so i am whining about it,"list. Don't like clubs, the people or the staff? Simple, don't go to one. I hate clubs, i have been to maybe 5 in the 7 years i have been able to drink legally (in the US.) There are plenty of wonderful drinking establishments around and frankly, from my experience you meet much more interesting people when you aren't at a clu…
/r/MensRights14/05/12 01:31 PM
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My last relationship ended as soon as I started opening up, I'll be very careful about opening up the next time. I can understand this. Quite literally my relationship ended when I opened up and asked for emotional support.
/r/MensRights10/05/12 03:44 PM
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Yup, i sure am. I've met a lot of women that act like this.
/r/MensRights10/05/12 12:43 PM
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Yeah, that sounds like par for the course. My ex did the same thing "you're damned if you do and damned if you don't." Trying to be sensitive other needs? "Why don't you take charge more!?" So i do "you are insensitive and don't understand my needs!" Life time bachelor is looking better everyday...
/r/MensRights09/05/12 05:39 PM
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I had the same problem, though the only emotion I was "allowed" to express was basically anger. She would ask me what is wrong and that was about it; I would get no support. I freaked out about 9 months after we started dating because the mother of my son got remarried, they wanted to adopt him. Now, this is something that made me incredibly sad. I basically just laid a around for a few hours and cried, because well... someone wants to take my boy away... what sympathy did I receive? An awkward …
/r/MensRights09/05/12 05:14 PM
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we have to stop condemning and putting blame on women. You know, I can agree with this. We should be condemning the woman, this is one person not an entire gender... now that we have that cleared up, I am also curious to see what kind of "disability" she has, since it is not mentioned and she was clearly left to be a single parent; it is probably safe to assume the disability is not all that severe.
/r/MensRights27/04/12 05:15 PM
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The abridged version, yes. haha.
/r/MensRights25/04/12 11:21 PM
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Agreed, all the success and self improvement isn't worth a thing if you've got no one you care for, man or woman.
/r/MensRights25/04/12 10:38 PM
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I didn't become an asshole, I cannot bring myself to take that step, but I have changed myself drastically in the last 6 months. I am not quiet or reserved, which is very difficult because that has always been my natural behavior. I have become cocky, and very assertive, which people mistake as being a dick and I still don't get the attention. I am still a beta, just not as much as I used to be. I am not unsuccessful, at 27 years old I make 50k a year, am a hard worker and have really started wo…
/r/MensRights25/04/12 08:10 PM
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I kind of get a kick out of this... the voices are often crude and misogyynist. But they tell it as they see it. That's because half of these guys were the nerd and losers who could not get a woman to save their lives in their early 20's so they spent their time working so they could get ahead. Women in college told basically told men like this that women wanted the loud, alpha male even if he was a raging asshole. So, after Mr. Quiet and friendly makes some good money and can clean up his act h…
/r/MensRights25/04/12 06:36 PM
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They aren't just the messengers though, the writer is employed by CNN, either directly or is an agent for the organization through free-lance work. They are 100% responsible for this getting published.
/r/MensRights24/04/12 07:03 PM
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Shit man... Anyone else have flashbacks of what it's like to be 14-16 years old, being the outcast in school with only a few friends? I wished I'd gotten a talk like this around that time. This kid is lucky to have friends like these guys.
/r/MensRights24/04/12 06:30 PM
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I wouldn't even say this was rape, I mean, I have been drunk in situations like that and was woken up in a very similar fashion. I was however, waaay to drunk to be having sex (had the spins like crazy.) I pushed her off of me gently and said "No, I'm not feeling well" Or something like that... probably sounded incredibly wasted. This, to me sounds like a really fucked up situation that could have been entirely avoided had the man... you know... not crawled into bed with his roommates girlfriend…
/r/MensRights24/04/12 03:18 PM
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I am not sure what's worse, this insulting piece that makes any man who wants true equality with both men and women out to look like reactionary idiots or almost ALL of the shitty comments listed below... I don't think there was one comment that wasn't spitting venom at someone. This is why nothing gets anywhere. Illogical feminists fear the "balancing of the scale," and idiot men who hate women seem to get the most attention, or miss the fucking point of why a MRM exists in the first place... I…
/r/MensRights10/04/12 04:13 PM
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No problem man, even if you're not particularly interested in the cause I appreciate you coming here looking for answers, since most of the time an outsider comes in and rips us apart for being women haters, or people that "don't understand the real issues!" I wish I could help you understand a bit better and maybe get you to care more, but frankly you're 20 years old, and you know at 20 years old I didn't give much of a shit for this stuff either, let alone really notice that it was evening goi…
/r/MensRights15/03/12 09:56 PM
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Quickly Ive found out that these issues do not impact me even in the slightest How old are you? This is an honest question, because I have been reading your responses and I do find them very odd... Not because you don't really care about feminism or mensrights, but because there has yet to be 1 single shred of evidence that you even care about social injustice... You should care because you could end up in my shoes, or someone whose had it much worse. You seem to be generally apathetic to everyt…
/r/MensRights15/03/12 08:25 PM
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no one can "make" you care, either an injustice bothers you or it doesn't. Western society is, in general lopsided. I see men's rights as a part of Egalitarianism. While I am well aware that women don't have it easy all the time, men have been getting the short end of the stick for awhile, not in everything, but quite a few things. For me, it bothers me that feminism is considered; by-in-large "A movement for equality" which is just wrong, it is equality for women. It isn't the same as equality …
/r/MensRights15/03/12 07:41 PM
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I don't mind paying for my date if I have asked them out, what i do mind is being asked out and then expected to pay. That's just shitty to do to another person, regardless of sex; saddling them with the bill. MY ex and I often split the bill, or if 1 person paid last time the other would pay the next time.
/r/MensRights09/03/12 04:09 PM
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I believe proper educate actually dictates that the person who asked someone out on a date is the one that pays. If the man asks, he pays. If she asks, she pays.
/r/MensRights08/03/12 05:32 PM
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I know this feeling man, I found out recently that I owed 125 bucks on a support payment simply because the State didn't start garnishing my wages when the paper work was submitted... I don't know why it was only $125.00, since i pay more than that... So, it's like they missed 1/3 of the payment. The only thing I can figure out is some state worker fucked up, but hey... Totally my fault for thinking that putting a system in place that guarantees I won't miss a payment causes me to miss a payment…
/r/MensRights02/03/12 07:34 PM
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This is the first step. Everything else is completely up in the air until those test results are back.
/r/MensRights02/03/12 05:49 PM
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Might as well call it like it is, right? You hide the meaning behind enough "comfortable language" it tends to lose its meaning.
/r/MensRights02/03/12 03:06 PM
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Sounds about right.... i work 40 hours a week am a freelance writer, most nights i am not done with "work" until 8-9 pm... forget the fact that all my bills are paid, i never miss a car payment or rent, and am generally very proactive and productive... but as soon as i sit down for a few hours at the end of my night to play some video games I'm a fucking child? Yeah, this writer can go get fucked. You know where all the good men went? They got sick of being fucked around by selfish, entitled lit…
/r/MensRights28/02/12 06:05 PM
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I love the movie and the book, but I always hated using it as a quote (mostly because it's overdone.) In this case though, I feel like it fits perfectly.
/r/MensRights25/02/12 04:30 PM
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If she really wants to know why we as men are "Angry" all she needs to do is watch this little rant in Fight club. played out? Probably a little, but it's pretty accurate. We are the middle children of history, boys and we've got nothing great to call our own. It was all taken before we could lay claim to it, taken by social policy, by Government and by corruption. This isn't the fault of feminism, this is the fault of greedy old men that won't stop until they either die or control it all. We ar…
/r/MensRights23/02/12 03:16 PM
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Be that as it may, any policy made in haste is generally a very poor policy. My point is, you can't blame women for something a man most likely made. Some people are going to take advantage of those policies, or worse; like this guys case there is going to basically be an invisible wall between co-workers of the opposite sex. Doesn't sound like a too healthy work environment. The women are not at fault here, the people making the policies are at fault. One woman (singular,) could have been the c…
/r/MensRights22/02/12 08:22 PM
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Seriously, people are way too fucking sensitive about everything these days.
/r/MensRights22/02/12 02:48 PM
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You got downvoted for this? Why... it is true. Most of these knee jerk policies were, in fact created by men! I have worked with some really awesome women that i could joke around with... and were quite offensive in a hysterical way.
/r/MensRights22/02/12 02:46 PM
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Look man, you don't need to justify this to anyone. The people that give her and you shit for it are ignorant, close-minded fuck-offs. If she WANTS to be a stay a home wife that's her choice. You aren't forcing it on her and honestly, "Home maker" is a respectable position to hold. I grew up in this traditional family setting (my mom had a part time job.) But, this is basically what she was. My Dad didn't force it on her, she wanted to have a stable and comfortable environment for me to be raise…
/r/MensRights10/02/12 05:21 PM
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Unfortunately, there are women-hating men the hide behind the MRA subreddit, just like there are man-hating women the hide behind the guise of feminism. Call it what you want but it's pretty easy to see the sexist bullshit on both sides and all it does is make things worse. Hell, just a few days ago i had a man suggest that i was wrong to actually think equality is the right think to be working for... thankfully the short-sighted buffoon was downvoted... but there are times where i see shitty co…
/r/MensRights08/02/12 08:52 PM
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I believe you're missing the point, my confused friend. It is cool, people change and i understand that. She didn't mention these changes of heart though, and when i tried to talk about it she completely ignored the question... If she felt her life were going in another direction, and in a long term relationship with someone it kind of needs to be mentioned. Even if we couldn't have worked things out, it would have gone a lot better... But for her to ditch me when I really needed someone I was c…
/r/MensRights06/02/12 09:33 PM
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Sounds familiar...
/r/MensRights06/02/12 09:30 PM
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you can't be man, I know it's hard... reeeally fucking hard, but don't hold onto that bitterness. It's hard to let go of, but just live your own life man, things that happened to you may be out of your control, but right now, you can control things. I was bitter too and about 2 weeks ago I really made an effort to not be and it was hard. Those feelings still creep back in when I am alone at night with my own thoughts, but that's just self-doubt. Your bitterness will push others away from you, do…
/r/MensRights06/02/12 09:29 PM
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That's the thing, we've been raised to be STRONG COMMITTED PROVIDERS. I freely admit that I have trouble living for myself. I don't see the point in having no one to share my successes (or failures with for that matter.) Which, is a shortcoming on my part and I am working on that... finding self-worth and self-satisfaction is not all that easy these days as a man... But, I am learning to share things with my close friends, people I've known my entire life. They may not be romantic relationships,…
/r/MensRights06/02/12 09:26 PM
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Right, I completely agree with that statement. The problem is most of them are like that now. They are madly in love with you until they need to make the smallest of sacrifices, then all of a sudden it's "I need to focus on myself."
/r/MensRights06/02/12 07:44 PM
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I have no problem being strong, my parents; especially my father taught me that. But when things got hard for him he always had my mom. My parents have been married for 31 years, in a mostly happy marriage (lets face it, life isn't always full of roses.) But they are together and are loving parents as well as a loving couple to this day... As an adult whose closing on 30, it's refreshing to see. Since, as a child all my friends parents were getting divorces. Women say we men are afraid of commit…
/r/MensRights06/02/12 06:43 PM
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I have no problem getting married, the problem I have is finding a woman who is worth it. I dumped everything I had into a 2.5 year relationship, was learning a lot and growing. I ran into some hard times recently, with myself after dealing with my ex's hard times (dog dying, the stresses of grad school etc.) I stuck to it and helped her, even though her attitude and negativity completely rubbed off on me... Well, eventually all that shit caught up to me and when I turned to her for help and sup…
/r/MensRights06/02/12 05:57 PM
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this is exactly what I thought when I saw the photo... Someone should tell these idiots that men have lips too... and specifically the symbol of lips most people pretty much associate with the Rolling Stones, at least from my generation and older ones. I could be wrong.
/r/MensRights31/01/12 03:55 PM
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yup. Damn, do i find myself missing that girl though...
/r/MensRights11/01/12 10:55 PM
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As a man whose had his heart torn out in the last week... no relationships or sex is sounding pretty fucking good right now. I do not think these guys are entirely wrong about the way they've approached the situation.
/r/MensRights11/01/12 04:01 PM
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This has been in the media before. In this case, yes they interviewed an otaku, but the reality is that these men are simply focusing on other things. Can we really blame them either? Even if you cut out all the bullshit between the sexes and what is "required" for each side to in their cultures the incentive to put yourself out there is not all that good, especially when you've got good friends. My girlfriend of nearly 2.5 years just dumped me last week. No real warning and all she could give m…
/r/MensRights11/01/12 03:56 PM
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give the dog a bath, you lazy white trash, fuck offs.
/r/MensRights21/12/11 05:46 PM
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It goes both ways too. I find myself only having sex when my girlfriend wants it. Now, i can understand when she says no and is not in the mood, but whats the deal with only doing it when they are ready but when we want it, we've got to wait until they are ready... then when a woman demands it we have to oblige or it's a big offense... I find this all very confusing. We are sexist pigs if we are attracted to (and god forbid) want to be sexually active with a woman, but then if we don't want sex …
/r/MensRights21/12/11 02:37 PM
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that's true, not every prank is, but when you put someones dick in your mouth without their consent it is. Wouldn't you feel violated if someone pulled out your tits while you were passed out drunk?
/r/MensRights06/10/11 04:32 PM
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Yeah this is definitely crossing the line. taking your dick out and putting it in her mouth is absolutely not the same as writing "Dick" on your forehead. Why the hell should you care if she killed herself? She embarrassed you in front of people. While it sucks that she did it, you shouldn't feel like you need to feel bad for someone who died who was a shitty person. Suicidal or not, she molested you and just because she's dead doesn't mean those images will ever go away. Reporting it won't do a…
/r/MensRights06/10/11 04:28 PM
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This sort of thing really sounds like the law is trying to protect the minor, even from themselves. A young woman lies and a man sleeps with her, on the premise that she is of consenting age and it isn't considered in court? That's like someone lying about having Diabetes, getting an insulin shot from a doctor, then charging the doctor with murder because someone was lying to them... It just doesn't make any sense.
/r/MensRights03/10/11 05:24 PM
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Oh, i don't disagree, messing with hormones cannot be a great idea especially with the limited knowledge we have about the body and long terms effects, i just mean that if there is outrage with one it should apply to the other. Why is it acceptable for women but not men? Why is it that men are testosterone driven monsters if they were to get it but women aren't estrogen controlled assholes? Personally, it just doesn't sound like a good idea for either sex to me, i just don't get why it is someho…
/r/MensRights27/09/11 06:48 PM
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So it is fine for women to get hormone therapy, but when a man does it be cause his testosterone levels dip, or may need it for health reasons it's all of a sudden like putting up the feminist bat signal? Yup, no double standards here... forget the fact that there are artificial chemicals that mimic estrogen and can cause severehealth health issues for men... no no, testosterone is the problem, here.
/r/MensRights27/09/11 05:56 PM
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But you know I can hold out a lot longer You're right honey, I can't hold out very long... So, I'll just be jackin' it to that internet porn.
/r/MensRights26/09/11 07:42 PM
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I am just going to throw this out there, and you can either agree or not, but a lot of what i just read has absolute dick to do with feminism... all those thing listed are about equality, getting along and sharing the fucking load is what a healthy relationship is based on. "Feminist" don't own this shit, respectful, intelligent people; regardless of gender own this and have known how well it worked before this played-out bullshit, battle of the sexes even got started. This article makes it soun…
/r/MensRights22/09/11 02:29 AM
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I have found that if you are caught and are friendly, you are less likely to get the "oh god, you creep!" Reaction. Things catch my eye and interest me, whether it be a skirt a girl is wearing or a nice painting. Everything is designed to catch peoples attention, regardless of sex once people realize that, it is much more difficult to be legitimately offended. I will wave, or comment on an article of clothing, even a simple "hello" and a friendly smile tends to make people feel more comfortable,…
/r/MensRights21/08/11 07:12 PM
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straight bullshit, that's how. If this were a man he would have been locked up for as long as they could possible, not that I disagree, but this woman needs to get the exact same treatment. This poor boy had no idea what was going on, he is going to need a bunch of therapy, I am sure and she gets 120 days in jail? This shit is twisted.
/r/MensRights19/08/11 04:06 PM
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I thought of the very same line after i made that post... a bit crass but very truthful.
/r/MensRights17/08/11 04:54 PM
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probation for mangling her new born sons dick? What the fuck?! Send this stupid bitch to jail.
/r/MensRights17/08/11 03:08 PM
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According to test scores around the country, women excel in math and the sciences, yet ever after this shift women still don't gravitate to those fields. It comes down to what interests people, in the end. You may be good at something but it doesn't mean you have to do it as a career.
/r/MensRights17/08/11 03:00 PM
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That sure is a good way to get someone to kill themselves. "What's that, you were raped and because of that you now have a child you weren't expecting? Shit, you need to pay for that rape-baby!"
/r/MensRights16/08/11 03:15 PM
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I can't help but secretly hope this this blew up in her face, but i doubt it.
/r/MensRights15/08/11 02:26 PM
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All a part of making a well rounded human being. Of course the father contributes to the emotional development, just like the mother contributes to intellectual development, but if the study suggests the fathers are showing kids more new things and having they try things they've never done before that is expanding on their experiences and giving them knowledge... Of course a father nurtures their child. I wasn't saying that the mother was 100% nurturing while the father's rule is 100% intellectu…
/r/MensRights05/08/11 03:53 PM
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Seriously? The mothering instinct which you called "coddling" is emotional support and the roll the father playes in teaching and exposing the child to new things is more centered around intellectual progress and development. In fact the post you commented on from noodleworm basically says just that.
/r/MensRights05/08/11 02:43 PM
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It's a mothering instinct, there needs to be a balance between the two. A child can easily be overwhelmed when introducing a lot of new information and concepts. It is helping as long as the child isn't being too sheltered. A developing person needs just as much emotional stimulation as they do intellectual.
/r/MensRights05/08/11 02:08 PM
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I say it is completely unavoidable, because the cops needed to assess the situation, yes the story was missing quite a bit of information, but I am thinking that's because either the police failed to make a good statement (which happens a lot.) or the writer just didn't cover everything they needed to, (Which regrettable happens easily as much if not more.) how did she end up outside if she'd left as he asked? Why did she want to get back in right then and there? I figured she left, he locked th…
/r/MensRights03/08/11 02:41 PM
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Police Officers are supposed to be professionals. They are also trained to take what people say at the scene with a grain of salt, especially at the scene of an domestic dispute, police know that they get lied to all the time... Police are trained in this and in fact, are told NOT to go into those situations aggressively, that's because it makes matter much fucking worse. Also, going into a home with your gun drawn, or drawing it once you're inside? Give me a fucking break... This is not how you…
/r/MensRights03/08/11 01:48 PM
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Once a cop shoots an unarmed, half asleep guy in his own home? Yeah I think that's all the information that's needed in this case. Even if this woman had told the cops that the husband was "dangerous" or "angry" It's still the police officers job to assess the situation, not some pissed off wife who has no training with this sort of situation. The bottom line here is that a police officer went into someones home, and then shot them unprovoked, man or woman this shit should not be happening anywh…
/r/MensRights03/08/11 01:22 PM
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Shot and killed by a fucking cop in his own home... Yeah, and "terrorists" are who we need to be worrying about. The cops and the people who want to kill us seem to be the same people lately. Canada seems to be developing the same sort of problems we have... awesome, the paranoia and stupidity is spreading.
/r/MensRights03/08/11 12:21 PM
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Deadbeats do exist, there are deadbeat men and women. A person that doesn't take an active interest in the growth and development of their child is a deadbeat.
/r/MensRights28/07/11 01:21 PM
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old coffee grounds?
/r/MensRights14/07/11 06:26 PM
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"He continues to partake in media or activities that objectify/degrade women," seriously? Women do this MORE than men on average. How many men do you know that watch "16 and pregnant" or "keep up with the Kardashians?" or the worst of all "Toddlers in Tiaras," every man I know thinks that show is deplorable. Media exploiting both sexes is the problem here. Look at all the commercials about family products, there are plenty of ads for cleaning supplies where the woman is the hero of the house and…
/r/MensRights14/07/11 03:05 PM
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agreed. I find that people interrupt women do it to everyone, not just women... What about women who interrupt men? Does that mean that they are also sexists? It would seem from this writers point of view that the answer is "no."
/r/MensRights14/07/11 03:00 PM
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I would just like to point out that plenty of women have posted rage comics, reinforcing stereotypes for men and I don't think I've ever seen a cross post of those comics on MensRights, I am sure it happens, but it's probably rare... Hell, most of the time they are hysterical. Sure, they can be sexist, but they are jokes. Those jokes aren't meant to offend. They are jokes, no more and no less. People getting pissed off about things like this aren't doing any good for anyone. Ultimately, these pe…
/r/MensRights14/07/11 02:55 PM
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maybe the Bud Ad department from 1993...
/r/MensRights13/07/11 12:19 PM
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Trollin' like a pro.
/r/MensRights01/07/11 12:29 PM
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A "more feminine touch," Wow, what a bitch. I guess by her logic then I guess only a man should be performing surgery, since it's bloody and messy, and full or organs. It's a pretty nasty process and women just aren't hearty enough to deal with it... except if you had said that to prove a point you would have been called a sexist.
/r/MensRights13/06/11 09:11 PM
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Abuse of power? yes, absolutely... Rape? Definitely not. She deserves to lose her job and even not be a teacher for the rest of her life but everyone that was at the "party" was of age. Just because a few of the guys may regret it later doesn't make it rape. A bad decision =/= rape.
/r/MensRights26/05/11 06:10 PM
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I think she should certainly lose her job, since she can't be trusted around her own students, but these boys weren't boys at all, they are legally men. I am with you on this one... What was exhibited here isn't a crime, it's just plan stupidity.
/r/MensRights26/05/11 06:05 PM
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The thing at the top of the list being "not having penis cooked over open flame."
/r/MensRights18/04/11 04:46 PM
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I always thought everyone was taught active listening. I remember going through exercises in elementary school that taught exactly that. I always figured it was just up to the individual to use them or not. But, I am glad people are willing to make listening a gender based issue. It totally takes a load off my back, I don't need to listen anymore... Awesome!
/r/MensRights05/04/11 02:15 PM
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That guy deserves to be ridiculed, he's an asshole.
/r/MensRights01/04/11 04:31 PM
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I love how certain states have laws that require someone to know they will be on tape. It kind of defeats the purpose, since if someone has any brains in their head at all they won't do anything on that tape to incriminate themselves. It kind of defeats the purpose, doesn't it?
/r/MensRights31/03/11 04:34 PM
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You know, I do feel bad for the kid, but sometimes people get a raw deal in life. If the mother of the child were half as responsible a she needs to be to raise a kid, maybe she wouldn't have gone sleeping around on her husband and gotten knocked up in the first place. This, to me just seems like another case of men being made to fit the bill for a woman's mistakes. It's not boosting the child's self-esteem as much as it is giving this woman a bunch of free money for being completely and utterly…
/r/MensRights31/03/11 04:10 PM
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Interesting read and as good break down. I see "carefully" worded, and even spoken anecdotes like this all the time. I have a female friend who is very bad about using this. things are always "happening to her," opposed to her being a part of what has happened. It's really sad to see this accepted in society, while the man is turned into the villain simply because he is involved. It's almost implied that women are supposed to used selective language to absolve themselves from any direct involvem…
/r/MensRights31/03/11 03:46 PM
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no, but it certainly makes that bitch a gold-digger.
/r/MensRights28/03/11 06:45 PM
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Well, if you really wanted to be an asshole I would suggest taking all your dirty laundry to her and saying "If garbage is a boys job then you have to do my laundry, because that's a girls job."
/r/MensRights16/03/11 04:04 PM
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Damn, it must be nice to have the ability to wiggle your tits in someones face, drop a few tears and have them fall for your bullshit hook line and sinker. This poor guy, all he wanted to do was get his work done and now he's got a bunch of shit sitting on top of what is already an incredibly stressful time of year for students. Fuck these pigs, someone should give them a taste of their own medicine.
/r/MensRights14/03/11 08:20 PM
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I doubt it will catch on, besides the bottom line is that she is an adult, she should know better. It doesn't matter if he touched her first, she clearly wanted him to touch her, if that weren't the case this shit wouldn't have happened.
/r/MensRights08/03/11 07:03 PM
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Any point made was lost in generalization of people on both sides.
/r/MensRights03/03/11 07:41 PM
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I agree that men are sick of dating, but I'll be damned if she didn't miss the real issues. This makes every man between the ages of 20-30 sound like all he wants to do is jerk off to internet porn and play video games. Do some guys feel this way, yeah, probably, but most of them are just sick of the double-standards and the seemingly preferential treatment that women get in the eyes of the law. It could also be that men are simply sick of playing the bad guy all the time. It's always the men th…
/r/MensRights28/02/11 06:27 PM
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Haha, yeah... That is true and simply because they need help does not give them a right to act how they see fit. Unfortunately, plenty of Americans see this as entertainment, instead of as a waste of time. I think the biggest crime here is Americans and people all around the world are validating this. American kids love it and want to be like these pieces of shit and the rest of the world loves to watch it because it totally feeds into the "stupid American" mentality. Edit: in short I'd like to …
/r/MensRights14/02/11 08:47 PM
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I was wondering if the author of this piece meant the Psychiatric version of help, not "someone call the cops and protect this stupid, spoiled, asshole," help. The reason cops weren't called is simple, ratings... Should the guy have destroyed her stuff? Definitely not, however if she's going to slug someone she'd best expect retaliation. Frankly, she's lucky that guido asshole didn't punch her in the face... I doubt it's real anyway... It's just over-produced bullshit.
/r/MensRights14/02/11 08:07 PM
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Women, they be gold diggin'
/r/MensRights08/02/11 05:10 PM
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pro-justice... in a system that is supposed to be "innocent until proven guilty" using the word victim automatically implies the person being accused is the perpetrator. I think this would benefit anyone in any criminal case, not just rape or sexual harassment cases.
/r/MensRights07/02/11 09:33 PM
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some hit and miss adds in here. I think the car commercial with "little vader" was cute, any kid could easily be confused by this. That being said, there were certainly some commercials that made men look like complete and utter morons.
/r/MensRights07/02/11 08:23 PM
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haha, wow THat probably calmed everyone down. Serves them right, though. If you're acting stupid something stupid is going to happen to you.
/r/MensRights03/02/11 06:05 PM
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Quite true. I doubt I would get involved if they were complete strangers, unless things were incredibly out of hand, but under most circumstances I wouldn't have much of a problem defending people, especially when the odds are stacked against them.
/r/MensRights03/02/11 05:53 PM
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You were making sense until you went and brought "male privilege," now it just makes you sound like you expect men to be perverts. Not cool.
/r/MensRights03/02/11 04:39 PM
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I agree, in this case though. If I were in this position and my girlfriend was getting attacked by two girls at once I'd jump in. If you're going to fight unfair, well I can do that too. I've got no problem slugging someone who has it coming to them, man or woman. In an unrelated topic, is that girl fucking stupid? That guy was pulling both those bitches around by their hair and then she walks up to him and tries to slap him by herself? That guy would have flattened both of them and he clearly c…
/r/MensRights03/02/11 04:33 PM
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I disagree with their subjects. 25 couples (50 people) All white and they didn't mention anything about their age. It might be fair to assume they are late 20's or early 30's, but they could easily have used older couples who remember raising their children. Theres' nothing stopping them from using married couples in their 50's or 60's, I'm sure. This would also greatly change the data that had been gathered. Also, their research group is so abysmally small the data yielded from this study is a …
/r/MensRights26/01/11 07:45 PM
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that's a pretty solid deal.
/r/MensRights26/01/11 07:40 PM
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Someone should break the harsh truth to these women. If they don't get up and go to work every morning working 9 or 10 hours a day their job is to take care of the house. There is a name for a person who doesn't work or take care of the house while their other half is making money. They are called dead beats.
/r/MensRights26/01/11 07:39 PM
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She says she quit her full-time job to write a book. However, that's not a very good excuse. I know a few writers with a family and a full time job. They still manage to get published. Maybe not full books, but short stories, news articles and they are working on books, trying to finish them to get published. To me it sounds like there are things she hates to do so she just makes her man do it, I am sure she isn't one who mows the lawn or changes the oil in the car. She could be a nice woman, bu…
/r/MensRights26/01/11 07:35 PM
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My uncle got circumcised when he was in his mid-twenties. He did it as a favor to his wife at the time. As I understand it, it was the most painful procedure he'd ever had that wasn't necessary. The pain medication they gave him didn't even take the edge off so we found him at the local bar, about half a miles from where he was living. Even in the drunken state he was in he still couldn't walk and not because of the booze. When he actually had to move the only way I could describe it was an exag…
/r/MensRights26/01/11 06:49 PM
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just like it's awful that men are put in jail on false rape allegations. It works both ways, what's good for the goose is good for the gander. If women want equal rights they get equal responsibility for their actions. Sure the girl is young, only 15, but she had to realize that saying a boy raped her when he really didn't was wrong. If you're able to play the system like that you're able to be tried as an adult for being caught for your crimes.
/r/MensRights25/01/11 09:53 PM
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Ah yes the No True Scotsman fallacy rears it's ugly head again.
/r/MensRights19/01/11 08:42 PM
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She has no idea if she slept with him or not, not to mention from the (vague) details she does give that it sounds more like a drunken hook up she regrets (that is if anything did happen.) Waking up half naked does not indicate you've been raped. She has no idea what happened at all at any point, apparently. So she instantly thinks she's been raped? Sounds fair.
/r/MensRights17/01/11 08:21 PM
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Yeah, I can understand the mystical attraction, part. There are just some women, for whatever reason you are uncontrollably attracted to. I think that's what he meant by "The Goddess." But, I don't know if it's necessarily something to build a religion on. He is certainly correct about your average feminist being completely wrong about man sexuality, though. This article certainly could have been a lot better if he left out the spiritual mojo bullshit. Our sex drive really isn't as simple as "wa…
/r/MensRights17/01/11 05:32 PM
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I can't help but be completely confused by the broken logic of western culture in this regard. "I dress in revealing clothing that makes you want to look at me, but if I catch you, it's you're a perv," as if it's the man who makes the woman wear that clothing every morning.
/r/MensRights17/01/11 05:24 PM
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Wow, so apparently the proper response to someone grabbing their crotch and saying something nasty means you call the cops? God damn it.
/r/MensRights17/01/11 03:00 PM
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Oh yeah, I've gone through the family court system and it was a nightmare. I live in a blue state and was treated like a criminal who committed unspeakable felonies. Shit, I just hope your daughter has the guts tos tand up to her mother. The woman has no line of defense, she can't even claim to be "protecting" her child, since what she's being exposed to is infinitely more damaging than young and consensual sex! She could be a virgin and like you said there are a variety of reasons it could be b…
/r/MensRights13/01/11 09:30 PM
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Jesus, man this is so far passed the line I don't even know what to say, seriously, this is a father's nightmare. To have people poking and prodding their child when they dont' want it and not being able to do anything to help. Even more fucked is the fact that the orders are coming directly from someone she's supposed to trust completely. Is there a chance you can ask family courts in her State to return custody to you? It's a long shot, but what you've described is basically sexual abuse from …
/r/MensRights13/01/11 09:17 PM
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I think your teenage daughter needs to come live with you. This sort of shit is going to fuck her up. It sounds like your daughter and ex don't get along so this situation is only going to teach her that her mother is not to be trusted and is crazy (which, I'd say is true at this point.) Seriously, this is some of the worst parenting I've ever heard of. Edit: anyone else with children completely fucking outraged by this? There aren't words to describe this, but it's almost guaranteed to fuck you…
/r/MensRights13/01/11 09:00 PM
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You've got to remember, in the American Justice system the woman is ALWAYS the victim, especially when they aren't victims. If it's not a man's fault, it is no ones fault and certainly can't be a woman's fault.
/r/MensRights13/01/11 07:09 PM
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Thank you, it's nothing I've really had to face before. You mentioned that your father cries more now that he is older. I've seen the same from my Dad, even before his father died he was just getting more emotional in general. I don't blame my Dad for the conditioning. He's certainly a good man and I can't fault him for wanting his kid to become a strong adult. There are benefits to being like this, being the "fortress," as you call it can be comforting. Being able to be there for people makes m…
/r/MensRights12/01/11 09:50 PM
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I can't say as I was ever shepherded away from people like that, but that's because I tried my very best as a young boy not to cry. I would if I were by myself, but if other people were around oI would just suck it up and be a little asshole instead. It is more socially acceptable for a young boy to be a little snot than it is for him to cry. I remember crying when I was 9 or 10, I don't remember about what, it wasn't all that important I don't think, but my Dad was just shhh'ing me the entire t…
/r/MensRights12/01/11 08:13 PM
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exactly... The fact that she didn't know her tire was on fire is a bit hard to understand. I mean shit, when a tire is burning you know, it produces black, noxious smoke. Did she see that smoke and think "Oh that's normal."
/r/MensRights12/01/11 06:59 PM
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nope, I was curious about this... How could the grandmother not notice that the vehicle she is driving was on fire... FIRE! That shit is obvious. I don't think I would trust that woman with my kids after she missed something so obvious.
/r/MensRights12/01/11 06:35 PM
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as far as I know there isn't a r/double-standards subreddit. It was at least an interesting read.
/r/MensRights11/01/11 04:22 PM
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I have a tendency to disrespect any person who is deserving of ridicule. That rule never changes.
/r/MensRights07/01/11 07:30 PM
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this goes for many women. For me, it all comes down to the fact that you don't get my respect until you've earned my respect. I don't care if you're a man or women.
/r/MensRights07/01/11 07:27 PM
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haha of course, I'm always up for a good Shire joke... especially when it's at the expense of Jersey.
/r/MensRights05/01/11 03:34 PM
6

huh? With the "oranginess" of her skin I would have suspected she was much more closely related to an oompa loompa.
/r/MensRights05/01/11 03:27 PM
6

that's because Americans like to watch her. As long as you're famous and you continue to offer some form of entertainment (especially at your own expense.) You're practically bullet-proof. This goes for anyone on television, not just women.
/r/MensRights05/01/11 03:15 PM
6

really? Is she even classified as Human?
/r/MensRights05/01/11 03:14 PM
2

I wouldn't be surprised if it was staged... besides, what is he supposed to do, slap her right back? That just makes things worse. If it was staged it was just a ploy to get ratings. I wouldn't press charges if I were him because I wouldn't have felt threatened by something like that... If she hauled off and punched him, that's a different story. Ultimately, it comes down to the man pressing charges against her. The network isn't going to do anything because right or wrong it gets them ratings w…
/r/MensRights05/01/11 03:13 PM
3

I like it this way. Even if people are bitchy, whiny, overly sensitive idiots as long as I don't have to see their stupid face I am fine. Once I have to look at them it reminds me that people like that do indeed exist.
/r/MensRights05/01/11 03:04 PM
7

It's funny that you mention this. My girlfriend and I were talking about this last night. Specifically how women will wear revealing clothing, then complain when you're looking. I've had friends who had women yell at them for "checking her out" when the guy was simply looking over in her general direction. I then said I would love for this to happen to me so I could look at the woman with a straight face and say "Those pants make you ass look fat."
/r/MensRights05/01/11 03:02 PM
1

The wording of the questions could have been done a little better.There were a few words that could easily have been interpreted as condescending, but honestly I don't think that would have made much of a difference. I still think he would be attacked simply for asking the questions. The people who commented first didn't even attempt to answer the OP's question.
/r/MensRights17/12/10 07:29 PM
1

I think the questions being asked are legitimate, but the OP probably should have picked their words a little more carefully. He did meet hostility with more hostility, which doesn't help, but that doesn't change the fact that the questions themselves are still valid and the first few posts were nothing but him being flamed for the questions. They didn't offer any information, just belittling the poster.
/r/MensRights17/12/10 07:22 PM
2

I just see a sexist who hates men in this video and is hiding behind "feminism," to make it acceptable.
/r/MensRights17/12/10 01:53 PM
1

That's something most parents don't even mention to their kids in situations like that.
/r/MensRights16/12/10 08:33 PM
2

the scary fact is I've heard women talking like this too. No one I would remain friends with. There are also plenty of people online that have given similar stories. It's scary to think that women will actively try to pull this shit and even worse because they can legally get away with it.
/r/MensRights16/12/10 05:59 PM
3

This makes you an incredibly upstanding human being. As someone whose gone through the family court system in New York State it was an absolute nightmare and the mother and I are on good terms with each other! I can't imagine what it would be like if she hated my guts. The judge insulted me, attacked my life choices and basically blamed the entire situation on me, despite the mother not even telling me I'd had a child for nearly 2 years. It's good to see not everyone is just looking to get money…
/r/MensRights16/12/10 05:50 PM
1

See, what you're not getting is women get different treatment from the law. It's because women are always the victims. This is especially true when they aren't victims. You didn't know behind every bad deed committed by a woman there is a man?
/r/MensRights16/12/10 05:34 PM
19

Troll judge strikes again!
/r/MensRights22/10/10 12:12 PM
7

did you just suggest that she getting run over by the bookmobile?
/r/MensRights22/10/10 12:11 PM
2

This little girl deserves whatever is coming to her.It's time for her to pay for her actions, a lesson she clearly never learned.
/r/MensRights22/10/10 12:11 PM
1

"72-vegans... oh man, I read that one wrong... shit..."
/r/MensRights12/10/10 01:46 PM
1

In this case, I think the 14 year old little prick would learn a valuable lesson by doing the exact same thing to him., let the 7 year old kid push it over, too.
/r/MensRights12/10/10 01:45 PM
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I think, first of all they need to check the definition of the word "Victim." The two kids, were consenting to one another, which really doesn't make either of them victims at all... too young to have sex, yes... a victim? No.
/r/MensRights12/10/10 01:41 PM
5

you're right about that.
/r/MensRights11/10/10 04:39 PM
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seems like anything sends a cop into douchebag mode.
/r/MensRights11/10/10 01:38 PM
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Wow... way to waste even more of the money we don't have. Let the good people of Zimbabwe manager their own dick mutilations.
/r/MensRights14/09/10 07:45 PM
1

one of my worst fears is bleeding to death from my junk... ::Shiver::
/r/MensRights13/08/10 04:02 PM
2

I do agree, that are certainly pockets of sexism in the work force, but at the same time women CAN do anything, just because one person is sexist in that industry doesn't mean they all are. And, in this case I just don't think it's an expectable excuse. It may be different for me, I work at a university, in the science department and there are a good amount of women, it's not an even 50/50 but, its probably fairly close. I am not seeing much, if any sexism in my departments, this may be because …
/r/MensRights23/07/10 06:22 PM
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I am surprised that the threat of being raped by another man isn't a better deterrent for people thinking of committing a crime grievous enough to be put in jail.
/r/MensRights23/07/10 01:19 PM
1

haha I think we've got ourselves an old-fashioned Troll-off.
/r/MensRights23/07/10 01:16 PM
3

they are just trolling, ignore them, it's clearly someone just trying to get a reaction out of the community, and they have succeeded. The greatest thing about a lack of censorship is stupid people are allowed to say what they want, as loud as they want. Eventually, when they realize that no one is listening to them, they shut their ignorant mouths. By you getting all fired up about these posts you're just giving them validation. Let them yell, and yell, until they are blue in the face, these pe…
/r/MensRights23/07/10 01:11 PM
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Well, if we're talking about Sweden their political stance is incredibly socialist, so the stance that they take is that everyone has a little bit of responsibility in raising that child, that's where your lower wage comes from, your responsibility to the greater good for the nation.Obviously, Americans don't understand this, fuck American's don't even understand that they are responsible for raising their own children. With that in mind, if you don't want kids, please don't have any.
/r/MensRights23/07/10 12:47 PM
0

If a woman dreams of having a "feminine job" I fail to see the problem. If that is what she wants, that is her choice, she shouldn't be forced into being an engineer, or a scientist. You talk about it like the dream of serving a family is a bad thing. If a woman dreams of having a "Manly job" as you state, that's obviously fine, too. But, it's a personal choice, don't make it sound like every woman who decided to be a house wife, or mother never had any choice. If there comes a point where she d…
/r/MensRights23/07/10 12:25 PM
1

Even if people find out that she is lying, it is still going to stick with the man. People aren't going to bother to look into the details of the court case they are just going to see "Accused of rape." A crime like that, people automatically seem to pass judgement. Even if the woman is sent to jail, the man's name is forever tarnished.
/r/MensRights22/07/10 02:44 PM
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I wouldn't call it rape. I would call int an incredibly dick move. But, if all it takes is a lie or two, to get someone into the sack than that person wasn't far off from sleeping with you, anyway.
/r/MensRights22/07/10 02:39 PM
1

Oh yeah, I think it is more a case of delusion then being a good liar, or committing to the idea that you're going to divorce someone. A lot of people in this position just claim ignorance.
/r/MensRights09/07/10 02:43 PM
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hahahaha oh my, you really don't get it. I am saying that people like this exist... I've met them, you don't have to believe me, that's up to you. But you saying they don't exist because you haven't met them is more flawed. I have what you would consider anecdotal evidence, but all I am saying is that people like this exist, I know they do because I have met them. I have talked to them, they were in my high school, I saw them everyday. Again, you don't have to believe me, that's entirely up to y…
/r/MensRights08/07/10 07:57 PM
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Admitting it to me, verses them talking loudly at a bar? If that counts as admitting it, then yes... It's not like they were complete strangers either. They were girls that went to my school... Didn't have jobs (1 had a kid. the other didn't.) Both married, both didn't work. both preferred it this way, and yes... I have also seen them fight with their significant others (in the same bar, too.) A lot of it fits the M.O. of this true or not image that was posted. So how do I know they exist? Becau…
/r/MensRights08/07/10 07:46 PM
0

you would still need a confession, either admitting it is true, or admitting that someone made it up. I think this picture was found from searching the internet... haha
/r/MensRights08/07/10 07:37 PM
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haha, yup you certainly don't get what I am trying to say in the slightest. You automatically assume it's fake. However you can't confirm this either, can you? No... No you can't unless you made it, or unless you're one of the three women you would have no way of knowing. I am taking the safe route and saying that it could be real, or it could be fake. I simply do not know. If it is real then these are some bad women, if not then the person clearly has an issue with recently divorced females. Ag…
/r/MensRights08/07/10 07:35 PM
1

completely and utterly understandable haha.
/r/MensRights08/07/10 07:16 PM
3

I thank you for pointing out my misspelling, i missed that on the read through, however... in this case it was supposed to be "Expect" not accept or except. so, you've pointed me in the wrong direction. Thanks for your attempt.
/r/MensRights08/07/10 07:09 PM
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It's not okay to make things up as truth, however you're assuming that it is fiction, which you cannot safely assume. There is nothing supporting it either way. Yes, it could be a man who made it, it also could be real. In this case it since it's not citing a specific person, it's not libel. I am simply stating that it could be either, without sources there is no way to know that, that information is, or is not truth, besides. Since it doesn't indicate who is involved, or who created it, it's re…
/r/MensRights08/07/10 07:04 PM
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What? No, I think you're missing the point... I think you're focusing on the plagiarism, while I am focusing on the fabrication of information being passed off as news.
/r/MensRights08/07/10 06:54 PM
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Well, im not fabricating anything... and I am not specifying individual people. So, no. Besides, lying in film verses lying to the public about things being passed off as news are a completely different things. People expect film, and books to be embellished, even slightly, while they expect news to be as accurate, and unbiased as possible.(at least that's what news would be in a perfect world.) I did actually go to school for Journalism. I wouldn't recommend writing anything and labeling it as …
/r/MensRights08/07/10 06:50 PM
5

lol, and the man didn't? From this article, I think it's safe to assume that these woman, or at least the woman who is talking about divorcing her husband has never really had a job. So her having to work all of a sudden makes her incredibly unhappy... I would consider the man working, and bringing home the money that allows her to stay home at the house a service... The problem is that the courts typically lean in the direction of the woman, even in cases where the man whats a divorce because, …
/r/MensRights08/07/10 06:27 PM
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Well, if you're making a movie about it, and it is based on a true story I would hope the person writing it would have specific instances to base it off of, in which case it still firmly falls into the category of fiction, not because it's impossible, but because there are no personal experiences derived to write the book/movie. Haha, I don't think "we assume" is good enough to roll with, in this case.
/r/MensRights08/07/10 06:19 PM
8

Yes, because that's where we all live, in fairy tale land... I don't think it's unreasonable to say that you can have a happy marriage that doesn't end until someone inevitably dies without a prenupt. But, I also come from a family whose parents are married, and a vast majority of my extended family is still married on both sides of my family... None of them got a prenupt and they are prefectly fine. I don't expect every marriage to have a good ending, but you're rather jaded if you don't think …
/r/MensRights08/07/10 06:15 PM
3

When was it out of style? I am expecting now, and I am a man...
/r/MensRights08/07/10 05:53 PM
1

I think that may fall into the category of suicidal information, as in once that 20 year bubble bursts and you find out for the last 20 years that your life as, essentially been a lie you may try to kill yourself.
/r/MensRights08/07/10 05:49 PM
5

Yeah, and once he is out of the marriage maybe he can finally get some sex.
/r/MensRights08/07/10 05:45 PM
12

Not necessarily, New York State has you paying until the child is 21, at least, and if the mother really wants to push it, and the kid is in college, working towards a masters or PhD then you can be looking at paying support until the child is 25... Which is bullshit, I am 25 now, live on my own, pay my own bills, the only support I get from my parents at this point is understanding, and some money that I need to pay back. I also have a child and have gone through the family court system. It is …
/r/MensRights08/07/10 05:43 PM
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And, at the same time the prenupt gives the clear indication that at least one person in the relationship is worried that it will fail, and everything will fall apart.
/r/MensRights08/07/10 05:39 PM
8

Even if this is made up, the situations aren't. I've met woman like this, women that think they don't have to work, and simply because their marriage hits a rough patch can back out and take half the man's money. There are gold diggers who marry for money, and money only with the plan that they will get their hands on it. Either through death, or divorce. So, could the image itself be a product of fiction? Yeah... But, I can pretty much guarantee that at least one woman in the United States has …
/r/MensRights08/07/10 05:38 PM
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a majority... especially if children are involved.
/r/MensRights08/07/10 05:31 PM
-4

Holy shit, now there are three cuntastic women right there. I hope they all die of AIDS.
/r/MensRights08/07/10 05:30 PM
2

It's all double-standards, a perfect example of those sexual predators you're talking about is female school teachers. I have have seen quite a few stories in the last 12-14 months about a female teacher having a sexual relationship with a minor. They get a slap on the wrist for the most part, but if it were a man he'd be through the "justice" system so fast his head would spin. BUt, it probably goes deeper than that, too. Our justice system has also been in the habit of viewing women as the vic…
/r/MensRights24/06/10 11:49 AM
8

This isn't all that surprising, I've seen women beat on their boyfriends, for god sakes. and Carchamp1 is right, a lot of the time if the man calls the cops the woman is going to turn it back around on him, and say that he started it... The man could be battered, and bloody, and I would guess that 9/10 times he would be the one taken to jail, not her. I think a lot of society has trouble believing that women are capable of this, the last statistics I saw were that less than 10% of the prison pop…
/r/MensRights23/06/10 05:45 PM
3

Yeah, you're right, to me it just comes across as very cynical... Like, her marriage failed because she listened to marriage councilors and friends, and their information wasn't right. I understand the "don't fuck with me and I wouldn't fuck with you" mentality, however that is pretty much how relationships are supposed to work. I fuck with my friends, i tease them, play jokes on them, and they do the same with me... But, thats not the same type of relationship as a marriage. I do admit that I i…
/r/MensRights18/06/10 03:06 PM
6

Haha, I really don't think this woman has any clue what she is talking about. I am not going to take marriage advice from a person who is divorced. This article that she wrote seems cynical, and bitter. She is talking about the things she tried as if people sell them as a full-proof plan for success... The simple fact is that this woman, and her ex-husband were not right for each other, that is clear. If they were able to get along then something would have worked... I've never met a person that…
/r/MensRights18/06/10 02:08 PM
9

It sounds like the dude that punched the woman is a piece of shit, in this case I don't care that he is locked away from 21 years, however I think it's absolutely crazy that someone who is a part of a conspiracy to end another persons life receives such a minimal punishment.... I think it's significantly worse than punching Nana in the chops.
/r/MensRights16/06/10 01:10 PM
3

Well, it's certainly not business attire, so I can see why it would be like that, but still in the summer when your skin can't breath it's pretty uncomfortable.
/r/MensRights09/06/10 03:52 PM
4

Yeah, in that case you simply say "I never said I was turned on by it, I said it was distracting." I've seen a lot of women wear clothing in professional environments that they shouldn't not because it's unprofessional, but because it's distracting... Once you've see a 185 lbs woman wearing a tube top, having her uber-muffin top spill out, you can't get that nasty image out of your head. It's not a turn on, but it's distracting as shit. every time I close my eyes I see that nightmare you call a …
/r/MensRights09/06/10 03:11 PM
5

Well, I think a lot of it has to do with management. Some of these people are older, I think the men don't know exactly where to draw the line for sexual harassment, or what would be considered "sexist" in the work place. I think the thing that kills me the most, is women will wear incredibly revealing clothing at work, enough to where a person can't help but notice, regardless of sex. If it's mentioned you're treated like a perv who is checking out the work staff. That isn't the case, it can ju…
/r/MensRights09/06/10 02:43 PM
6

I worked at a place like this, my boss tolk me two weeks before i quit that i had to buy new clothes to look like the rest of the admin staff. (I was the network administrator.) He wanted me to wear ties and things like that while I crawled under desks to run cable, and rip apart computers. The females in the company got to wear what they want. my ex who worked there would wear ratty t-shirts and jeans with holes in them a lot of days to work, and she actually met with clients, while I, at most …
/r/MensRights09/06/10 12:05 PM
6

Stupid sexy Flanders....
/r/MensRights09/06/10 12:01 PM
1

ah, true. it wouldn't be slander, since the photos are proof of that. I don't know if she could get hit with an actual legal charge, civil... probably.
/r/MensRights08/06/10 09:33 PM
4

She could efinitely get nailed for slander, even if she owned the cell phone she doesn't own the data on that is on the phone. Depending on what state she is in, and what sort of laws that state has about the privacy of data she could get in trouble for that, too (maybe even legal trouble.) There have been a few states that have sided against the owner of the phone, stating that, even if you pay for the phone, and the person is an adult, that phone was purchased with the idea that it would "belo…
/r/MensRights08/06/10 05:13 PM
2

it's not illegal, but there are grounds for legal action, invasion of privacy, and things like that certainly are grounds for civil action. In this case, because this nosey bitch of a woman cause a lot of problems for this guy she could be in some serious trouble. It'd be entirely different if the girl were 16, but she's not... So, it's really up to the guy who got screwed... Personally, I would do what I could to hold her, and the school board responsible for a decision made with information th…
/r/MensRights08/06/10 04:44 PM
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Seriously? Isn't the mother the one who should be in some hot water here? First of all she is looking at her daughters cell phone, who is a 20 year old adult. Secondly, she brought things to light that should belong in private. It sounds to me like this football couch has a whole lot of legal action he could take against a few different people, the scholl and the mom being the initial targets.
/r/MensRights08/06/10 04:41 PM
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