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| 1 | Last night I had an unbelievable good time and almost stole a pick up artist’s (who looked like mystery) girl | Dankob | /r/seduction | 29/10/17 07:45 AM |
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| 1 | Field report: 6 Days Solo in Prague with no dating apps; observations, girls and nightlife.Maybe u are my sign :p that I need to step up. No approach in this society often means no girls either... they are so used to getting approached. if u wouldn't approach u wouldn't meet anyone either. Dating app here in Norway is brutal. | /r/seduction | 24/07/25 08:20 PM |
| 1 | Field report: 6 Days Solo in Prague with no dating apps; observations, girls and nightlife.Cool. My problem is I don't approach even if I get a smile or have a connection dancing or something. I also get my special satisfaction via porn idk if that affects the desire. I don't have a big sex desire. But I do need to do smth, need to meet a girl or two as am in mid thirties. Was more adventerous when younger starting out. I do know the theories. | /r/seduction | 23/07/25 12:55 PM |
| 1 | How To Not Be Boring On DatesYeah I wanted to say this is a good tip. And keeps it very playful. If u keep making fun assumptions all the time, she will anticipate u making an assumption and even laugh before u say anything 😅😅 | /r/seduction | 16/07/19 08:36 AM |
| 1 | FlirtingMore true in real life where u can brush it off I think. | /r/seduction | 30/06/19 05:30 PM |
| 2 | Why do girls say they don't like gym pictures on Tinder, when that seems not to be the case in the majority of girls?Ah. Beanpole. Got it, sort of. | /r/seduction | 30/06/19 02:36 PM |
| 1 | Why do girls say they don't like gym pictures on Tinder, when that seems not to be the case in the majority of girls?Sex can turn into a relationship. He may want or get into one. Maybe u wont choose him, but many might. And any of them can turn into relationship. | /r/seduction | 30/06/19 01:32 PM |
| 1 | Why do girls say they don't like gym pictures on Tinder, when that seems not to be the case in the majority of girls?Many ways to make urself hot as a guy though :) looks is just one way, that's definitely possible to change. | /r/seduction | 30/06/19 01:28 PM |
| 1 | Why do girls say they don't like gym pictures on Tinder, when that seems not to be the case in the majority of girls?Wrong. If his friend was ugly and weak, people wouldn't care as much. So. Since he was good looking they cared. | /r/seduction | 30/06/19 01:23 PM |
| 0 | Why do girls say they don't like gym pictures on Tinder, when that seems not to be the case in the majority of girls?Saying ur a douche - its attention. Not the content that's important. | /r/seduction | 30/06/19 01:20 PM |
| 8 | When you stop and think about it, it's crazy how much society pushes this idea that you are not good enough for beautiful women...I wouldn't assume such a thing. She's still a human being. She may have less challenges and more interests from society but she definitely will have challenges that looks can't do anything with. No matter how beautiful. And personality isn't based on looks. I mean they have a personality. Which gives them their value in the end. Edit: you're thinking too much sexually. You can get a lot from a girl mentally. She can help in many ways to make ur life better, outside of sex. And not only that but … | /r/seduction | 28/05/19 12:12 PM |
| 1 | If you are able to invite girls over to your place, make sure to have optimal logistics when you are there.Well I'd ask her what it is as I am curious in general. | /r/seduction | 19/12/18 10:22 PM |
| 6 | If you are able to invite girls over to your place, make sure to have optimal logistics when you are there.To be honest if they reject me due to pills then she's not very understandable and I wouldn't want to be with her. But if all u want is ONS then maybe it's different. | /r/seduction | 19/12/18 01:55 PM |
| 10 | If you are able to invite girls over to your place, make sure to have optimal logistics when you are there.Damn that's exactly what I did not want to hear. Well ur right. Even tho she would find out in the end but she doesn't need to know the first date at home or something.... altho I like being honest and open. I think I'll hide it next time just in case she cares. | /r/seduction | 19/12/18 12:39 PM |
| 0 | If you are able to invite girls over to your place, make sure to have optimal logistics when you are there.I don't care about pills. I have a genetic condition so if she has any questions I will answer it. It's usually on the table for quick access and reminder for me. | /r/seduction | 19/12/18 08:40 AM |
| 4 | Scored a 9.5, felt on top of the world, went back to her place. Then, absolutely humiliated myself. I'm thinking of seriously hiring an escort now to teach me what I don't know.I'm pretty sure he has been horny one day, looked at porn and thought "damn I wish I could do that to a girl". Or that he one day had his own feelings or dreams on how he would want to touch her body. It's much easier in the moment tho, when one gets horny and u have thoughts of how u want to touch her or do to her. | /r/seduction | 18/03/18 11:26 AM |
| 24 | Scored a 9.5, felt on top of the world, went back to her place. Then, absolutely humiliated myself. I'm thinking of seriously hiring an escort now to teach me what I don't know.Great reply, actually. There's no thinking just doing | /r/seduction | 18/03/18 09:28 AM |
| 3 | Sex is not the prize you think it is.Pro lol. | /r/seduction | 17/01/18 12:03 PM |
| 4 | First day of the year and another chance I throw down the toilet.Just keep practicing socializing | /r/seduction | 02/01/18 05:00 PM |
| 3 | I have a great life and good confidence... except when it comes to girlsWell Have more fun. Be in the moment. Notice something she’s doing and join her. Or try to make her join u. If ur good at talking to strangers then continue being urself doing what u do, just don’t forget to cause sexual tension and jokes. Try not to focus on getting the girl, that just causes anxiety in ur head. In other words if ur having fun and ur happy with urself, show that and try not let anxiety take over. Hope it’s helpful. Good luck | /r/seduction | 08/12/17 11:04 AM |
| 1 | 28 years old female virginYou’re parents have taught u wrong. And u know it urself. So what are u ashamed or afraid of? You’re not a kid anymore. Just Enjoy urself, (responsibly) | /r/seduction | 30/11/17 12:52 AM |
| 0 | Advice for girls/womenYes I have some amateur advice based on my experience. Don’t try to be sticky or try too hard on the guy. It would Just turns him off. Be attractive or put o attractive clothes, makeup etc. And use ur humor/intelligence! :) | /r/seduction | 21/11/17 11:03 PM |
| 1 | Get My Shit Together Or Get Better with Girls First?Girls come and go. Learn to be social, hunt for pleasurable talks with anyone not just girls with intent to pick up. Get new friends who will lift u up, not who pull u down. And fix, if possible, other aspects of life too. U need some confidence boost. U can do it urself to urself. U know what to do, if it feels right do it. | /r/seduction | 20/11/17 08:52 AM |
| 4 | I frequently have girls excited to meet with me in person, then the couple days off before we meet up for our scheduled date they seem to get bored and cancel on me.I Don’t think that would help. | /r/seduction | 20/11/17 12:31 AM |
| 2 | I’m so lonely and depressed, and full of self hatred. Should I just go see an escort?You need to be honest with ur self and most importantly with people. Don’t be afraid when they talk or ask about girls. Say the problem u have say whatever issue u have. Don’t hide it what’s the point of hiding it? U only live once, perhaps they suddenly will say something that u will appreciate or learn or grow from. So yeah just be honest, ull be fine. Don’t only be honest on reddit I mean. :) | /r/seduction | 29/10/17 08:04 AM |
| 1 | How the fuck do you talk ?Pretty sure he meant indirect talk involves small talk which he doesn't like | /r/seduction | 08/06/17 10:27 PM |
| 2 | Psychologist Steven Pinker talks about innuendos and veiled language. A video not specifically about game but helped me understand game on a deeper level.Yeah easier because it avoids miscommunication. I agree with the second part :) | /r/seduction | 26/02/17 10:50 PM |
| 2 | Psychologist Steven Pinker talks about innuendos and veiled language. A video not specifically about game but helped me understand game on a deeper level.Yeah but as the relationship progresses and lasts for x amount of years, i think the need to be indirect is less. | /r/seduction | 26/02/17 10:58 AM |
| 1 | Stop focusing on getting a girl to like you and focus on yourself! YOU need to be the magnet that attracts women to you.Their* | /r/seduction | 29/01/17 10:58 AM |
| 1 | Do girls really get that offended over small stuffYou are right, but only if it's over text (because they cannot see or hear our expressions). But i hope u don't mean we have to change ourselves in real conversation and talk about our "emotions" and how we felt, cuz that I disagree with | /r/seduction | 18/01/17 08:56 AM |
| 3 | Do girls really get that offended over small stuffMaybe this is right and we shouldn't care about the girl if she doesn't like the joke. Maybe it's for the best, and she doesn't enjoy our type of humor. In the end we find someone who can laugh at this and who has a more open mind | /r/seduction | 18/01/17 08:54 AM |
| 8 | How do I deal with GF's ex visiting from another country?I believe there can be friendship between them but that turning cold is a little weird. Maybe she's uncomfortable and got her feelings mixed up. I wouldn't jump to the conclusion she will have sex. But I don't know her and u so it depends. | /r/seduction | 02/07/16 11:19 AM |
| 1 | When somebody shows you who they really are, believe them!I guess I want to think that too? But I don't believe they are like that to people close to them and a guy they like for example? That wouldn't make sense, that many beautiful women are rude mean etc and are intrinsically mean people. It's the shield | /r/seduction | 27/06/16 09:54 PM |
| 1 | Was friend zoned on a "date", but completely turned it around.I like that u came back to kiss her. Haha. Would have done the same, just to not let the regret eat inside me. | /r/seduction | 22/06/16 10:48 PM |
| -1 | Sometimes I get tired...Haha damn right that's what I'm noticing. Not only that but so many of them when u ask what music they like is "all types". So general. Or when I ask about hobbies they often say nothing special. But I think many genuinely obviously do have hobbies, but many don't. | /r/seduction | 20/05/16 09:34 PM |
| 1 | Sometimes I get tired...I thought I was the only one who rly care about how she smells lol. Like its a big factor. Such a turn on if she smells good. | /r/seduction | 20/05/16 08:08 PM |
| 2 | Sometimes I get tired...Women without any hobbies u mean? | /r/seduction | 20/05/16 07:56 PM |
| 2 | How to transition from submissive to assertiveHmm let me suggest you ask her to do something for you too! And then you would feel less submissive when you feel the reciprocity ;) Cuz it goes both ways, also you test her how much she is willing to do for you. | /r/seduction | 07/05/16 05:41 PM |
| 1 | I have no idea how to actually get laid. No where to start. Virgin at 20Where’s your male spirit at? I feel I’m the most handsome guy on earth even though I know its probably not true (like if every women took a vote on pics of different model guys I probably won’t come on top lol). Try to be comfortable with yourself. I can imagine how hard it is to try to be with a girl when you don’t like you look. At least be the best that you can be in terms of looks and then accept that. Then overcome your approach anxiety. There’s no other way. Be more social, talk to people … | /r/seduction | 06/05/16 01:44 AM |
| 1 | I have a serious big problem. I am attracted to every girl.Enter a relationship with one of the women ur attracted to. Then you'll learn if it's smth u like or not and eventually what type of woman suits you. If u can't be stable still then it means ur not ready for a relationship. Until then just try to have fun? The time will come. Try to get to know them deeper, share ur interests and even debate. You'll know what type u connect with more and what qualities u desire in a woman once u know their opinions. If u can imagine urself being in a relationshi… | /r/seduction | 06/05/16 12:27 AM |
| 1 | r/seduction - can I get some tips as a woman?Well I'd commit if she was attractive (to me at least), smart and we have good chemistry and I can have a sense of who she is deep down like she isn't hiding anything. Because I don't want to be with someone I feel I can't connect with. We have a good time together and she seems trustworthy. Basic stuff really. Also she isn't crazy and very moody (that's a no no for me), I don't like useless stress and drama, but that's more of a personal criteria :) My first time posting here in this sub, altho… | /r/seduction | 06/05/16 12:12 AM |
| 1 | Some fun things to talk about on first datesThey're probably young, I wouldn't be so harsh to them :) when they become more mature they would understand that it would be fun for older age groups too or maybe even more fun | /r/seduction | 05/05/16 03:12 PM |
| 1 | How do you get over the constant rejection?U don't need women to survive? Sure not right now but eventually you need one to make babies with. Plus the additional fact of having a partner, etc. I think they are necessary for me at least. | /r/seduction | 05/05/16 01:35 PM |
| 1 | My outer game is steadily improving, but my inner game is tanking. What's going on?Best advice IMO is be your self. Especially if you say you’re more confident in life. Don’t be shy to share your interests. Be open. if ur date or whatever doesn’t like it or doesn’t like you when your being urself you move on. Don’t force it. You can also try making more friends and be social without any other intention (like having sex). This would open you up a bit and you learn to be yourself and share your interests to other people, and eventually to a potential mate. | /r/seduction | 05/05/16 12:44 PM |
| 1 | Foreplay tips?Touch her, kiss her. Just do what feels natural to you, it depends which stage u are with the girl too. | /r/seduction | 05/05/16 12:22 PM |
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