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Same! I wasn’t even attracted to the “alpha men” in general, I don’t like that type of guys. But i was very, very lonely, and I had no experience with social interactions. So adopting this persona of not like other girls was just a way of feeling unique and reflecting I didn’t actually know many girls, and it sort of went along with what my conservative family wanted.
/r/ExRedPill07/07/21 05:29 PM
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Certainly so, but regardless, trying to please everyone leads nowhere, and respect should be the base of any interaction you have with any other person, be it woman or not, with romantic intent or not, don’t you think?
/r/ExRedPill27/06/21 12:29 AM
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An important thing to remember: Women are not a hive mind, and they are individuals with different preferences each. Different ages mean different generations and therefore they consider different things to be the norm depending on what surrounded them. This also applies to different locations and so on. There are no set rules for dating beyond “don’t be creepy, and treat the other person with respect” The rest is completely up to you, and whatever you consider is the proper step in the place yo…
/r/ExRedPill26/06/21 11:50 PM
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Sadly
/r/ExRedPill08/06/21 03:44 PM
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True, but honestly I think both masculinity and femininity can be found in most people, just at different amounts, so it is silly to value one over the other.
/r/ExRedPill08/06/21 03:14 PM
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Its not even really favoring one over the other, just confining them to certain sort of tasks. Which would’ve been beneficial in the past, but are sort of useless today.
/r/ExRedPill08/06/21 02:48 PM
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Sometimes we may regress a bit, being ex something is a process after all
/r/ExRedPill05/06/21 12:51 AM
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Toxic masculinity, as far as I understand it, are all the attitudes that stem from forcing yourself to be “masculine” that are actually just violent or hurtful and don’t have that much to do with actual masculinity. Like being unable to handle your emotions because you have never even learned how to do it in a healthy way, or believing that being masculine makes you superior to others, or certain beliefs that make your status as “masculine” fragile enough to find it threatened by stuff that isn’…
/r/ExRedPill28/05/21 02:37 PM
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Ah, perfecto te hablo en español mejor. Igual soy latina así que, me es mejor así. Y sabes estoy de acuerdo con lo que dices, por eso decía que la verdad es que eso no aplica para todos, pero si para un pedazo representativo de gente. Pero no creo que sea la mayoría tampoco. -Lo del control personal es precisamente personal, pero es de lo que debes aprender si quieres funcionar en sociedad. -y en definitiva sip, no digo que todas las mujeres sean así , pero en mi país (México) hay muchas persona…
/r/ExRedPill25/05/21 09:53 PM
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Ok, here I go: -The wall is sort of real, but only if you are looking to have biological kids and it doesn’t matter much to your looks if you care for yourself. it really isn’t relevant if you do, but we all age, men and women. -Men have more of an instinct to “spread their seed” (however it doesn’t excuse cheating or anything of the sort, because we aren’t animals in the wild, and they have (or are in theory supposed to have) self control). -Women in third countries like mine usually do look fo…
/r/ExRedPill25/05/21 09:29 PM
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I was a curious teen that wanted to empathize with the problems of others, I had no friends and interacted with no one at all. I started seeing how awful many women were and decided I wanted to be the opposite. I ended up looking at stuff like return of kings as motivation to not get fat and ugly, and decided I would get married as soon as I became an adult, as men wouldn’t want me after my 20’s. I also got into some weird things like the nymphet side of tumblr. Luckily I never got groomed or an…
/r/ExRedPill25/05/21 08:36 PM
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That’d probably be centrism. Im going to be honest with you, I agree with most of your points. I consider myself politically libcenter, and culturally a moderate progressive. I agree with lgbt rights (I am bisexual myself) But I don’t like a lot of the hyper-sexualization the media presents and I disagree with hookup culture. I am prochoice but I think abortion should be a last resort used in extreme cases. I believe guns and weed should be legal, but I would never consume weed and I don’t like …
/r/ExRedPill19/05/21 05:49 PM
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Fair enough
/r/ExRedPill19/05/21 02:42 PM
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Why did you reply to your own post?
/r/ExRedPill19/05/21 02:26 PM
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My point still stands. You don’t deserve to be alone, but you have got to get a therapist to talk to if you are seriously considering suicide. They will be able to help way more than I could ever hope to here. I don’t know in what type of subreddits you’ve been getting those comments but dude, they are wrong, death isn’t something you should wish onto anyone. If you are asking for my opinion it probably means you are actually at least a tad hopeful for a different reaction. Do get some help my p…
/r/ExRedPill16/05/21 03:28 PM
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You need a healthy outlet for those feelings. No one deserves to be alone, regardless of what you may think. However company can come in many ways, from friendships to family to partners. I hope you find someone my guy.
/r/ExRedPill16/05/21 03:16 PM
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Not sure of mexico counts as the west, but toxic masculinity is certainly a thing here. Macho culture is a big deal for men today, and while a lot of them are getting more into healthy masculinity, it’s still not the majority.
/r/ExRedPill23/04/21 12:02 AM
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I do believe many here go the other way completely because they see it wasn’t the “truth” (and they expect to receive a perfect version of what “truth” is via a set ideology) So they seek the opposite. However I don’t think going blue pill is the answer either. They have to learn to have a critical mind and stop getting spoon fed these ideologies. Sure some red pill things are true, and sure, same thing with blue pill ideas. But none bring the actual solution. And that leaves you in a weird plac…
/r/ExRedPill22/04/21 09:08 PM
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Aragon is the pinnacle of healthy masculinity in my opinion. He is a strong man, and yet he is sensible, inspiring and loving. I really like characters with healthy masculinity, they are very positive role models for men of all ages.
/r/ExRedPill22/04/21 01:42 PM
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If you do not agree, you are free to write another response. I am simply giving a recommendation, however that doesn’t necessarily mean it is right for everyone. You shouldn’t expect solutions to everything from strangers in the internet. If you have nothing to add, then I’d invite you to stop insulting random people online for not being in agreement with yourself.
/r/ExRedPill15/04/21 12:49 PM
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You sounded a bit sarcastic in your first comment. If that is not the case, then that is an example of how you may come off as something you do not mean. You need to get a good therapist first and foremost, since trauma can really fuck up everything in your life, and if you want to be able to move past your abusive past, you need guidance. Now it is good you are trying to be introspective, not everyone has that ability, so congrats on that! But to be successful socially you first have to work on…
/r/ExRedPill15/04/21 12:24 AM
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But did you really? Or maybe you came off as threatening/ creepy/ off? Women are very perceptive of body language because many live in constant vigilance.
/r/ExRedPill14/04/21 11:55 PM
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It probably depends on where in the world we are talking about, since culture can certainly influence our perception. I will only talk about mexican women since I am myself am one and I can only speak according to my own culture and perception. Younger women are expected to get married as soon as they find a stable partner, regardless of how old they are (the sooner the better according to many though). So you end up with a lot of women married before their 25th birthday, most of whom are raised…
/r/ExRedPill14/04/21 10:57 PM
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Redpill only applies to straight people as far as I can tell. Queer people have different dynamics that don’t fit in that binary view. And men like confidence in women as long as it isn’t “arrogance” (the perception of what that is varies though). And that applies to both, but since men are expected to be the “lead” then it is more important on their side, or at least many think so. However, I think people in general have a hard time distinguishing between arrogance and confidence, so you end up…
/r/ExRedPill13/04/21 10:02 PM
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I your partner spent all day saying “I am so ugly, you must hate me” “i always look so fat and my skin is disgusting “ “why don’t you go and get someone that actually deserves you?” “No men really like me, I bet you don’t either” “do you hate me?” “You don’t love me, and never have, right?” And that was everything she ever said regardless of how you treat her and how she is actually like while refusing to change anything about her attitude, I think you’d probably grow tired of it sometime.
/r/ExRedPill13/04/21 10:00 PM
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Sure, it happens all the time. But that has nothing to do with the other points you mention.
/r/ExRedPill12/04/21 09:38 PM
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Was mostly referring to the one you linked that came from the Irish Times, since it is quite vague. And while this other study is more solid, it doesn’t necessarily contradict everything I just said. Have you read the complete study? It mentions fitness as an indicator of fertility in males which is not surprising. And then later on, it mentions women prefer both fit males and males that seem like the best long term partners. But some make some trade offs for one or the other depending on what t…
/r/ExRedPill12/04/21 07:32 PM
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Perceived muscle mass don’t necessarily correlate with actual strength, now with that out of the way, if a group of women perceived those men as such it may be due to a lot of factors, from body language to styling. The study you link seems quite informal, which can affect the veracity of the perceived results. It’s not as black and white as you think Omnibus College. Besides, one study with such a small sample size can’t be that reliable regardless, don’t you think? Look around you and look at …
/r/ExRedPill12/04/21 07:24 PM
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Proposing is different to actually proving it. The wording here is very important. And that last question is one I have responded multiple times during this thread. You can go and look up those answers from before if you are still curious. You keep going in circles pal, and while I get you are trying to expand your view, you aren’t allowing yourself to consider different answers.
/r/ExRedPill12/04/21 07:07 PM
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That is simply sexual dimorphism my pal. That is why women on average can’t get those big biceps you mention. Women have a harder time building muscle mass. So “good biceps “ look quite different in women than in men. So straight people are attracted to fitness within the sexually dysmorphic standards.
/r/ExRedPill12/04/21 07:01 PM
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Oh I bet you actually think they are, when they are within the normal bounds of fitness the average can obtain. Look at these examples : here here and here Those are fit women with very trained muscles. Sure, some women can build more muscle mass but those cases are very rare. And well, even if that is not the case, everyone has preferences.
/r/ExRedPill12/04/21 06:32 PM
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I think you are making a big jump in logic. That is a logical fallacy. Muscles do not equal aggressiveness, and being fit is attractive to all genders. Muscles simply look different in women than on men. That jump in logic can be a slippery slope, so I’d recommend you to investigate the reasons behind why people find health as something attractive (hint: its due to fertility). So no, it doesn’t prove red pill, but it also doesn’t really mean it is not true on other aspects.
/r/ExRedPill12/04/21 06:27 PM
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What do tattoos have to do with being aggressive? It is just paint under the skin. Doesn’t necessarily mean much. Women like fit guys, because health is beautiful, but that doesn’t necessarily mean “ripped”. And men certainly are attracted to fit women! But muscles look different in men vs in women. A woman who is overly fit is rare, and people on average don’t like things that are outside the norm, besides, to be extremely fit a lot of women have to sacrifice their fat, which is what gives them…
/r/ExRedPill12/04/21 06:21 PM
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Please look at my other response, and consider what I said. While you might not agree, you cannot deny a bunch of women answered your question with a certain amount of evidence + personal experiences. Are you going to say women do not understand what they want then?
/r/ExRedPill12/04/21 06:10 PM
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True, but that doesn’t contradict my point! Look at the poses those guys that appear in those magazines are making, they are almost always in non-threatening ones, here are some examples from cosmopolitan: here here and here They do not look aggressive or “violent” if you get what I mean. I do not know the movie Magic Mike, so I cannot comment on it, but I do know American Psycho. But looking at the actor is a natural thing, don’t men like to look at beautiful women too? It really doesn’t contra…
/r/ExRedPill12/04/21 06:07 PM
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Awesome!
/r/ExRedPill12/04/21 03:15 PM
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Well, i suppose different things can help different people. But I am glad you got some motivation out of this! Good luck man!!
/r/ExRedPill12/04/21 03:09 PM
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Hope so!
/r/ExRedPill12/04/21 03:06 PM
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I don’t think you were replying to me, but I agree with that, op should’ve had that in mind.
/r/ExRedPill12/04/21 03:01 PM
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Tf is an ass-response?
/r/ExRedPill12/04/21 02:50 PM
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Man, I wrote a whole-ass response bc I thought it was real. :/
/r/ExRedPill12/04/21 02:49 PM
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Look pal, I see you asked this exact same question in other subreddits, so I guess it must be very important to you. The thing with being an incel isn’t that not having sex is bad, but the attitude that is often associated with them. (Regardless of if it is correct or not, people think incels are quite misogynistic and dangerous, since repression leads to violence in many cases). If you want to communicate with women, you have to stop viewing them as “other”. Sure there might be some attitudes t…
/r/ExRedPill12/04/21 02:41 PM
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Look at how men are portrayed in women’s magazines, they aren’t showing off their muscles, they look more approachable and sort of warm? Look at this comparison between how the same actor is portrayed in a man’s magazine vs a woman’s: here Ignore the article just look at the difference there. Edit: found the pictures in reddit, decided to leave that here instead Women certainly like muscles! Because they look healthy and indicate the person cares for their appearance and health, not due to that …
/r/ExRedPill12/04/21 02:11 PM
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Girls do like nice people though, if you were “too nice” you probably weren’t as nice as you think. When you act “arrogant and superficial “ you are simply projecting confidence regardless of if it is real or not, and that is something everyone likes regardless of gender imo. The ideal situation would be to have that confidence but being genuine too. You have to find some truth, definitely , but I think that is something you have to work for and it takes time. Sadly no pill has the absolute trut…
/r/ExRedPill09/04/21 05:14 PM
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They often call fundies and trads “trad thots” so not even them...
/r/ExRedPill31/03/21 01:46 AM
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Thank you! Thats very kind of you! I suppose your girlfriend might only need a small push in that direction?
/r/RedPillWomen15/03/21 09:31 PM
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Good advice! Thank you!!
/r/RedPillWomen15/03/21 08:50 PM
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Thank you so much! I just joined them. Thanks!!!
/r/RedPillWomen15/03/21 05:05 PM
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Oh I see, thank you! It sounds interesting. I’m afraid I don’t think I can travel to the US right now, but maybe someday. I will look up Jennifer Moleski, thank you!
/r/RedPillWomen15/03/21 03:57 PM
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Im afraid I do not know what 22Con is, may you help enlighten me? And thanks for the advice
/r/RedPillWomen15/03/21 03:45 PM
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Luckily, he has a lot of male friends that he is able to talk to every day. He is quite the social butterfly, haha. But I wanted to know what can I do for him, to understand his issues better and to support him.
/r/RedPillWomen15/03/21 03:44 PM
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Oh he has already! We have seen some videos together, but I want to go beyond that. Any more advice? Thank you!!
/r/RedPillWomen15/03/21 03:43 PM
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Thanks for the subreddit recommendation, just joined!
/r/RedPillWomen15/03/21 03:42 PM
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That’s quite a broad spectrum of things, but I get what you mean. Thank you! Is there anything else I should research?
/r/RedPillWomen15/03/21 03:41 PM
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Indeed I have! But I hadn’t heard about the rest. Thank you! I will check them out!
/r/RedPillWomen15/03/21 03:40 PM
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To be honest I’m not sure myself. I just want to be better informed to be able to do something and support him all I can. So anything is welcome. Thank you!
/r/RedPillWomen15/03/21 03:39 PM
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I have already seen Jordan Petersons videos before, good to know it is a good start!
/r/RedPillWomen15/03/21 03:38 PM
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I hope so. I know it hurts him a lot. Thank you for answering!
/r/RedPillWomen15/03/21 03:37 PM
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Not really, is it a good idea to do so?
/r/RedPillWomen15/03/21 03:18 PM
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Thank you! I wasn’t sure where to post this honestly, I will certainly check there. I appreciate it a lot!!
/r/RedPillWomen15/03/21 03:17 PM
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My boyfriend is the coolest person ever, he is handsome and cute and he has adorable curly hair. He is underweight but that doesn’t really bother me. We met in highschool and we’ve dated for around three years now. Im not sure if he is in the top 20% but he is definitely number 1 for me. We both look a bit alike, so I suppose we are each others looks match.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 02:29 PM
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I mean, my parents won’t allow me to study something that doesn’t have the potential to give me a lot of money, and rn I’m in a relationship with a guy who is studying to be a historian, which sadly doesn’t pay very well where I’m from. I’d have no trouble being the breadwinner if it came to it, but as long as we both help each other out I think we’re ok. It may be a generational thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/21 01:46 PM
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