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I've known this subreddit for a while and I've never demonized men here or anywhere else. I only commented on a situation that happens, where even with all the criteria and demands in the world for choosing a partner, things can turn bad over time, and that doesn't mean the woman is "to blame" for not noticing a flaw in him before getting married. And while choosing a partner is a responsibility, I only considered it "luck" when many options of older men who seem good appear for a woman to choos…
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/26 07:29 PM
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If you've already decided you don't want children, this needs to be communicated immediately, regardless of the age of the person you're with. As mentioned here, men who have already had children are an option. I don't see any reason for "desperation" like in the case of many women who still intend to have children and are over 35. There's nothing incredible or absurd about your preferences; I don't think you've been too demanding. What have you been doing to find this future partner? Where and …
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/26 07:18 PM
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At least I never said that "men are evil".
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/26 06:33 PM
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You're right, it's not pedantry at all.
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/26 05:23 PM
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And what we see most often is misogynistic, older men blaming women who are victims of domestic violence and even femicide, claiming that it's their fault for "choosing wrong" and that they should have noticed something wrong right away with their future husbands and the future fathers of their children, that "women only like criminals, scoundrels, etc.", even though many women who are victims of domestic violence chose older, provider, and conservative men to be the fathers of their children, j…
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/26 04:36 PM
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I didn't say that choosing is luck, I said that having many options to choose from is what's lucky, you misunderstood.
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/26 04:23 PM
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I'm still a fan of Hendrix in music, but personally I've stopped admiring rock stars as much as I used to. I gave rock and its performers the same importance I gave to classical music, something I thankfully no longer do. Regarding the Vietnam War, many conscripts suffered greatly, returning traumatized and ill. Your husband must have witnessed many very difficult and traumatic situations.
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/26 03:41 PM
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I say luck because there aren't always many good older men available for everyone in every setting, and women shouldn't blame themselves as if it were their "choice." That's why when they don't appear, the only option is not to get involved with anyone and wait for someone of the same age or many years older to come along. I also choose who I date when someone comes along with whom I have affinities, like reading books, etc. But these affinities rarely appeared for me with older men, but rather …
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/26 03:07 PM
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Your boyfriend has this sad history stemming from his parents, but he's grown up, he's an adult now, he's in therapy, and he has a very understanding, caring, and supportive girlfriend who provides positive reinforcement. Because of this, he should make an effort to improve, since he has a lot of support from you. He also has his own responsibility to evolve. My "exception" case is bizarre. I have a controlling mother who never wanted me to date a man with good financial means, nor did she want …
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/26 02:39 PM
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So you had better luck with older men, it depends a lot on luck and environment. In your case, you had more options of men to interact with and have relationships with, I didn't because it was a predominantly female course.
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/26 02:19 PM
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Both situations are complicated, since the other man is married even if his ex-wife is on good terms with you. It's best to wait for this divorce to be finalized. Excuse my curiosity, but what are the ages of the people involved? Don't worry about what other people think of this man's physical appearance; the important thing is that you like him and feel good with him, but wait for this divorce to be finalized. The only negative thing is if this relationship is only for financial and emotional s…
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/26 02:15 PM
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The problem is that you said your boyfriend only reacts to negative reinforcement. Your history with your mother is pretty standard; most mothers want their daughters to get involved with men who are financial providers, even without any love involved. I think I was the only exception, not that my mother is a "feminist," quite the opposite, but this is about you, not me. And if your boyfriend lied, he needs to apologize to you instead of just reacting to threats of breaking up.
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/26 01:30 PM
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Wow, I had a very different experience back in college. The older men who talked to me were much more sexually aggressive, while the younger ones were more relaxed and respectful of me.
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/26 01:11 PM
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In the past, women had no choice; they could only marry, bear children, and be financially supported by a man, usually several years older. Today, women have more options, although those who still dream of having children but don't foresee finding a man to marry and have children with need to invest more in financial independence earlier in life because of menopause, a reality that hasn't kept pace with sociocultural changes.
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/26 01:09 PM
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Speaking of Jimi Hendrix, there was a time when I idolized rock and rock stars like Jimi Hendrix, among others. Today, this genre and its stars no longer fascinate me as they once did, after discovering many horrible things about them (mainly involving pedophilia, misogyny, and even cases of racism) and everything else associated with this genre. War, on the other hand, has always been a matter of historical interest for me, but not necessarily to idolize military figures, which is common in thi…
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/26 01:04 PM
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I'm a woman and I've never cared about a man's money, but about feeling more comfortable with someone and less judged for certain things, which is why I felt more comfortable with younger men than older ones. Not all women are "born rich," and not all women, even when younger, fit into beauty standards.
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/26 12:48 PM
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Your comment was downvoted, but I agree with you. I've always had better luck with younger men, although nowadays I don't care about age anymore, and I couldn't care less. As for "chivalry," many men in the past were only "gentlemen" with women they found attractive, not with all women.
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/26 12:45 PM
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I'll tell you something: when I was a child, I suffered sexual abuse from a pedophile man who seemed elderly and of the same ethnicity as me. I'll skip some details. I grew up as a shy, depressed girl with precocious puberty, ADHD, and level 1 autism, with several health problems and low self-esteem, in a dysfunctional white/mixed-race family in a rather backward, rural town. At the same time, I was very dreamy; sometimes I dreamed too big, sometimes I fell headlong into the cruel reality I live…
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/26 12:41 PM
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For pedophiles, any woman over 17 is considered "old." As for Twitter, I've never followed misogynists, so I rarely see misogynistic nonsense attacking women; this whole social media thing depends a lot on which profiles you follow. There was a time when I even preferred younger men; they were more respectful to me than older ones. Today I prefer older men, from my age group upwards, although I don't make the slightest effort to meet them or have relationships with them, because I only find men …
/r/RedPillWomen17/06/26 11:56 PM
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This guy, besides being a misogynist, is cynical, because he attacks every woman, accusing women of all sorts of bad things even though he has a woman by his side.
/r/RedPillWomen17/06/26 09:29 PM
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As you yourself reported, before you met he had already stated that he had never had long-term relationships and that they were always disposable, with casual dates. This statement alone should be a good warning sign. Sexting suggestive messages with a stranger may not be a good idea for someone intending to start a relationship; it's fine when you're already relationship, but it's even better to avoid it when it's a complete stranger. As for the app, when you say it's more geared towards casual…
/r/RedPillWomen15/06/26 01:10 PM
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But there's a big complaint about this 27-year-old guy that he's become colder and more indifferent, so he's not in such an advantageous position compared to the 18 and 19-year-olds.
/r/RedPillWomen12/06/26 12:36 PM
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I think one year is too short a time for a relationship to be boring, indifferent, and cold.
/r/RedPillWomen12/06/26 12:35 PM
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There is no shortage of conservative men, and they gather in various groups, including on Reddit, have Instagram accounts, and are part of groups where they meet in person, seeking out conservative and submissive women. Such people are easily found in churches.
/r/RedPillWomen07/06/26 06:07 PM
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First dates tend to be more relaxed and casual, and the novelty and expectations are often exciting.
/r/RedPillWomen14/03/26 12:00 AM
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