DannyboyRN Archive

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0	Social Media to Men: Abusive Wives are HILARIOUS!!! That was a great episode of PsycHacks!! Dr. Tarban always does a good job of "saying the quiet part out loud". Just think if boys were programmed value their own self worth and didn't grow up into a culture that accepts poor female behavior as the norm, or of bending the knee to our "better half".	/r/Divorce_Men	30/05/25 06:32 PM
1	The Accusations are hard to understand Hey OP, your post is very, very similar to the put-downs I received from my multi-cheating, mentally disordered Ex-wife . . . Same, although at the end I was doing almost 100% of the kid care because of her unwillingness to get help with her depression. (guilt and deflection when I complained). She was actually the mean one (ie cheating, put-downs, and fights) Said that I favor one of our daughters over the other one (totally untrue) She hated that I had and have a great relationship with my won…	/r/Divorce_Men	09/03/25 05:22 AM
1	Jobs I married a XRay/CT Technician. One with a lot of baggage!	/r/Divorce_Men	31/05/24 04:02 AM
19	Jobs Fellow male nurse here. I can literally picture myself in the scene you described at work. Dealing with life, death, CNA's who no-show to work, and agency nurses who are making bank but need hand holding. I chose to finish my BSN, and get a better paying job to put bread on the table . . . She chose to repeatedly cheat (women in healthcare are some of the worst), she chose to walk away from our relationship. Yet every time she experiences a little financial stress due to her poor decision-making…	/r/Divorce_Men	23/05/24 02:47 AM
7	Post Divorce ED and dating Cut out the porn immediately, or cut way back.	/r/Divorce_Men	09/03/24 09:45 PM
4	How long have you guys stayed single? Divorced three months ago. Within a week of divorce being finalized a gal from my social circle hit me up, but she has some red flags I am choosing to avoid. I got saddled with a large amount of credit card debt that my ex-wife accrued during the marriage. The responsible thing in my mind is to continue to live with my family so that I can put all of my extra money towards paying that off. The downside is the shame of having to tell a potential date that I live with my parents. "hey baby wanna g…	/r/Divorce_Men	05/03/24 03:28 PM
11	Cowards Because they want to still have that stable house to come home to. They are cake eaters.	/r/Divorce_Men	06/02/24 12:50 AM
1	Did you see red flags in your inlaws, specifically your ex-MIL? To clarify, the mother-in-law is the Bipolar one, not my ex. Eventually my FIL revealed to us the MIL's diagnosis. Didn't come into play during custody decisions as my ex has healthy boundaries with her Mom.	/r/Divorce_Men	05/02/24 05:15 AM
8	Did you see red flags in your inlaws, specifically your ex-MIL? Red flags galore. When my ex and I were dating, her folks would have these knock down, nasty fights over things like misplaced kitchen utensils. The MIL would go into the manic phase of her Bipolar disorder > become spend-o-holic > rack up $20,000 of Cc debt, that my FIL would then work a ton of overtime to pay off. As our marriage crumbled, my ex turned to online shopping as her unhealthy coping mechanism. I am still paying off those bills. Fun story: The ex-MIL was prescribed Amphetamines for …	/r/Divorce_Men	04/02/24 07:55 PM
12	What do young women care about these days? I guess having a baby together wasn’t enough. Being a father to her son wasn’t enough. Moving across the country for her wasn’t enough. Buying her gifts wasn’t enough. Getting married wasn’t enough. Buying a family home wasn’t enough. Good riddance to both of those ungrateful bottom feeders!	/r/Divorce_Men	02/02/24 09:11 PM
3	Did anyone see any warning signs from in-laws that were ignored? Oh yeah. I ignored their behavior (along with the ex-W's own many red flags). Her folks would fly into nasty unnecessary arguments over very minor things. They created a broken person with little to no coping skills. Soon after I filed the FIL contacted me to demand that I stay with her 5 more years (until our youngest graduates high school). I couldn't take her crap for another month.	/r/Divorce_Men	31/01/24 11:16 PM
4	I think I’m done Women Power: they don't need no man . . . until there's an extra bill to be paid, snow to be shoveled, or a wedding to be paid for.	/r/Divorce_Men	31/01/24 11:07 PM
16	For Those that did ALL the housework She chose to keep the house. It's been entertaining to hear her complain about how much work it is to keep the house clean. Also, I think they door dash on the daily. It's been incredible to no longer be a debt slave to an out of control spend-o-holic.	/r/Divorce_Men	30/01/24 01:28 AM
3	Stopped our divorce, 3 months later my wife changed again. Sounds familiar. My now ex wife's mental stuff spiraled for years. There were periods of years at a time where she would live on the couch in a state of depression & anxiety while I did 95% of the house work, kid care etc. The last pharmaceutical add on was Adderall to combat her chronic low energy. These years were sprinkled with her cheating. Filing for divorce was the best decision of my adult life. Don't piss away more years of your life, OP, with this woman who is in denial.	/r/Divorce_Men	28/01/24 01:34 AM
1	Who has gone to a female therapist during divorce and what was your exoerience like? I've been to five female therapists in the course of my marriage tanking, then separating, and now divorced. 4 out of 5 were marginally helpful. I would prefer to see a male therapist in the future. One problem is that very few men go into the social sciences. Female therapist #1: wife was cheating, relationship was going to hell. I reach out to her for help. I sat there and listened to me for one session before referring me to Female therapist #2. Female therapist #2: didn't want to focus on th…	/r/Divorce_Men	15/12/23 05:33 PM
3	Can you be forced to pay for your child's college education? In the state that I live in, Only for children of divorce, college tuition is paid 1/3 by Mom, 1/3 by Dad, and 1/3 by the child; up to a certain cap (related to in-state tuition). This blew my mind. I had previously thought my kids would just get loans for whatever amount we couldn't afford.	/r/Divorce_Men	27/11/23 04:46 AM
0	I’ll just leave this here… Holy shit! Hopefully the next judge will be more fair than the old geezer	/r/Divorce_Men	23/10/23 11:36 PM