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| 117 | 6s/7s throwing themselves at me but struggling to pull 9s/10s | Field Report | Dannyyy21x3 | /r/seduction | 26/06/25 03:39 PM |
| 18 | Having a "womanizer" energy a good or a bad thing? | Conversation | Dannyyy21x3 | /r/seduction | 30/06/25 01:41 PM |
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| 1 | Having a "womanizer" energy a good or a bad thing?Exactly, I think that would be ideal. But as I said, I cannot point out what it possible could be that makes people say that and I want to know so I can work on it! | /r/seduction | 01/07/25 06:07 PM |
| 1 | 6s/7s throwing themselves at me but struggling to pull 9s/10sOops, someone got triggered 😬 Calm down now! | /r/seduction | 01/07/25 04:18 AM |
| 1 | Having a "womanizer" energy a good or a bad thing?I would think the first one, and I believe most people imply that when they call someone a “womanizer”. The word definitely has a negative connotation in polite society! | /r/seduction | 30/06/25 04:00 PM |
| 1 | Having a "womanizer" energy a good or a bad thing?What? Okay then. Hahaha | /r/seduction | 30/06/25 03:35 PM |
| 0 | Having a "womanizer" energy a good or a bad thing?No, you assumed. I told you exactly what you wrote in multiple comments to make me think what I think. Read it again! Summar: I am just saying that you seem overly negative and rigid that makes me think that there is something wrong. | /r/seduction | 30/06/25 03:14 PM |
| 0 | Having a "womanizer" energy a good or a bad thing?I am not over 30.. spent all that time and got it wrong. You silly man! Hahaha Even if I were over 30 and immature, how do those two things make this automatically bad. If I were 29 and immature, would it suddenly be good. How tf did you even manage to get triggered by my post to just start spewing hate lol Try and make sense next time! | /r/seduction | 30/06/25 03:10 PM |
| 0 | Having a "womanizer" energy a good or a bad thing?You seem extremely rigid. You think there is only one way someone should behave mo matter what the situation is, which is entirely wrong. One's demeanour should be apropos to the setting, and you should be mindful about your surroundings. You could be really funny and really intelligent but you shouldn't always be funny and intelligent all the time. At a job interview, take advantage of your intelligence while in a social setting, tap into your funny side. Re your insecurity, you have to figure … | /r/seduction | 30/06/25 03:05 PM |
| 1 | Having a "womanizer" energy a good or a bad thing?I’d say you deal with your insecurity issues before you point at me, Freud. You have absolutely nothing beyond ad hominem, even unable to answer unrelated questions without indulging yourself. Lol | /r/seduction | 30/06/25 02:15 PM |
| -1 | Having a "womanizer" energy a good or a bad thing?Do you not think a human being can have a multi-faceted personality and they only prefer to show a particular facet in a particular setting? | /r/seduction | 30/06/25 02:10 PM |
| -2 | Having a "womanizer" energy a good or a bad thing?Yes, Master! | /r/seduction | 30/06/25 02:03 PM |
| 3 | Having a "womanizer" energy a good or a bad thing?I try not to, but love is a dangerous game. Hahaha | /r/seduction | 30/06/25 02:00 PM |
| 2 | Having a "womanizer" energy a good or a bad thing?Yes sire, duly noted. My question here is two-fold i.e. i) Is it a good or a bad thing (in terms of seduction) ii) What could it be that gives it away since it is beyond me and even if I am trying to act normal, people can see it! Thank you for your input anyway! | /r/seduction | 30/06/25 01:59 PM |
| 5 | Having a "womanizer" energy a good or a bad thing?I completely agree, and I definitely do double down on it and wear that badge with honour lol. Its just that in professional settings or around family it can be a bit weird when someone calls me a womanizer. | /r/seduction | 30/06/25 01:58 PM |
| 1 | 6s/7s throwing themselves at me but struggling to pull 9s/10sFair enough. Other's have given pretty much the same advice, and I too think that this is my problem. This might be the bottleneck that I need to sort out i.e. being unfazed by a woman's looks and treating them all the same! | /r/seduction | 30/06/25 01:56 PM |
| -1 | Having a "womanizer" energy a good or a bad thing?someone who actively seduces women as a hobby.. you could look it up in the dictionary too! | /r/seduction | 30/06/25 01:52 PM |
| 0 | Having a "womanizer" energy a good or a bad thing?How am I looking for approval?? I want to know if this is a good thing for seduction because if it is not, I would like to work on not giving that energy. I would like to work on it anyway because I have had people tell me that in front of my parents and I could see the disappointment in my parents' eyes lol. Also in professional settings, I certainly DO NOT want to appear as a "womanizer". English society is extremely prudish! | /r/seduction | 30/06/25 01:51 PM |
| 1 | 6s/7s throwing themselves at me but struggling to pull 9s/10sIts just difficult to not get affected by someone you genuinely find drop-dead gorgeous. Even generally I am quite moved by beauty, it could be cars or clothes or men.. literally anything beautiful afects me as a person. You can gauge from that how affected I might feel when I talk to a good looking woman. I have sometimes rejected myself when coming across a beautiful woman (gorgeous, like London gorgeous, and had dated celebs etc) only to be told that she'd been "eyeing" me all night and waiti… | /r/seduction | 30/06/25 01:48 PM |
| 2 | 6s/7s throwing themselves at me but struggling to pull 9s/10sLondon mostly but travel a fair bit so all sorts of cities. Traveling does bring a lot of advantages (and disadvantages). Having a British accent helps in the US for example. | /r/seduction | 30/06/25 06:08 AM |
| 1 | 6s/7s throwing themselves at me but struggling to pull 9s/10sOr maybe I just need you as my wingman? Hahaha But thanks for the input bro, appreciate that! 🫡 | /r/seduction | 28/06/25 06:43 PM |
| 1 | 6s/7s throwing themselves at me but struggling to pull 9s/10sHaha fair enough. And since we are readjusting the scales for women, i think its fair I apply the same to myself and demote myself to a lowly 7! Hahaha But I definitely get what you are saying about having more to lose. Maybe its insecurity or ego or a mix of both and thats why they are less likely to apporach a guy unless I happen to be the absolute man of their dreams.. So I guess I need some introspection and a bigger pair of balls lol | /r/seduction | 28/06/25 07:07 AM |
| 1 | 6s/7s throwing themselves at me but struggling to pull 9s/10sSure we can redjust the scales, its all subjective and comparative anyway. I tend to use nominal distribution when using this scale rather than absolute traits to define what a man/woman might be. For me the most good looking guy/girl in the vicinity would be a 9/10, but sure we can call it a 7/8. But then that would render having 9/10 on the scale useless because if no one is a 9 or a 10, then why even have it on the scale? My point is that if a particular set (I say 6/7 but we can agree to 5/6… | /r/seduction | 28/06/25 06:33 AM |
| 1 | 6s/7s throwing themselves at me but struggling to pull 9s/10sYeah that’s definitely a thing, I agree with you. But short-term flings don’t require that sort of a vibe. I think pure attraction and some tension is what is needed for that. | /r/seduction | 28/06/25 01:41 AM |
| 0 | 6s/7s throwing themselves at me but struggling to pull 9s/10sYou made a lot of assumptions there my boy. But i’d say your mother is a solid 6.5, so yeah i guess i do get 6s/7s! Regarding “local clubs”, go to NYC/London and you’ll see an 8 in every nice bar. Idk what shithole you live in! | /r/seduction | 28/06/25 01:33 AM |
| 1 | 6s/7s throwing themselves at me but struggling to pull 9s/10sYeah bro I mixed up 2 comments- apologies! But yeah I don’t mean to trivialise your experience, I am sure you have experienced what you say you have. And obviously it is a fact that women (and men) have types but at the same time, you can break through a lot of the barriers by culturally connecting with the women. We learn everyday 💪🏻 | /r/seduction | 27/06/25 06:22 PM |
| 1 | 6s/7s throwing themselves at me but struggling to pull 9s/10sNYC obsessed with skin colour? I find that hard to believe bro. The place is probably the most multicultural city in earth! While I completely agree that racism exists to some extent (although i have never experienced it first hand), as a man of south asian descent I refuse to believe that a woman in a place like London (where i live) or NYC would turn me down for skin colour. What I have found is that most of the times its the culture, rather than the skin colour. If a non-white person went to … | /r/seduction | 27/06/25 05:31 PM |
| 1 | 6s/7s throwing themselves at me but struggling to pull 9s/10sNo don’t be vulgar, it is definitely not about that! 😉😂 | /r/seduction | 27/06/25 05:17 PM |
| 2 | 6s/7s throwing themselves at me but struggling to pull 9s/10shaha yeah i have been doing that bro, but the heart wants what it wants lol | /r/seduction | 27/06/25 09:23 AM |
| 1 | 6s/7s throwing themselves at me but struggling to pull 9s/10sSure, i’ll assign letters from now on | /r/seduction | 27/06/25 12:29 AM |
| 4 | 6s/7s throwing themselves at me but struggling to pull 9s/10sFair enough - thanks man! 🫡 | /r/seduction | 26/06/25 04:11 PM |
| 0 | 6s/7s throwing themselves at me but struggling to pull 9s/10sI was just being humble there, what I meant is that I believe i am a decent 8/9! But you have raised valid points. Are there any resources you could point me towards regarding scarcity mindset and how to conquer it? I would like to understand more! | /r/seduction | 26/06/25 03:53 PM |
| 3 | USA way easier than Britain?It’s a beautiful place, kind of like a slightly polished version of New York. Every neighbourhood has a different vibe. So much history and culture, and every bar in London has at least three absolute 10/10s on a Friday/Saturday night! I can bet you any money, any bar you walk into, there will be a girl who will just take your breath away (looks wise at least) | /r/seduction | 18/03/25 02:15 PM |
| 1 | USA way easier than Britain?Yes, definitely struggled with that in LA. New York City is great though (and I have been told San Fransisco too) | /r/seduction | 18/03/25 01:03 PM |
| 7 | USA way easier than Britain?Not their English, their knowledge of England (the Anglo-Saxon country). They would tell me how they have been to England and they loved Hyde Park in London, or that they were fans of the royals or their fav actor was from England etc etc | /r/seduction | 18/03/25 01:02 PM |
| 44 | USA way easier than Britain?Having a London accent in any English speaking country (US, Canada, Aus, NZ) gives you a huge boost. In USA everyone (men and women) wanted to speak to me and show off their knowledge of England. Just an amazing ice breaker and women find it attractive so deffo works in your favour. It worked for me even in Scotland where I did not expect it to make me stand out - it is what it is! Re women in US vs UK, I think people are just generally colder in the UK than the US. People are more chirpish and … | /r/seduction | 18/03/25 10:39 AM |
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