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What about the 18-21 year olds without daddy issues (as in just attracted to your personality regardless of age gap)?
/r/seduction28/07/26 07:36 AM
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I think he means before he even approached them. But it happens often enough that women with resting bitch faces light up and smile the moment you approach and talk to them.
/r/seduction16/07/26 08:19 PM
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Dunno...just try different things, watch seduction content, observe your own triggers and how they affect you, get feedback from coaches, etc.
/r/seduction14/07/26 12:16 PM
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Or just reflect on what you've been doing (wrong) and try something else, lol
/r/seduction13/07/26 07:08 PM
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This is great, but (maybe on a more advanced level) you can still approach with pickup lines in a way that communicates that you acknowledge these lines are corny by actually exxagarating them in a way that shows her that you're just fooling around, fully outcome independent and grounded, from what I've seen this often works.
/r/seduction07/06/25 07:51 PM
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I often did the thought experiment of: 'IF I could...would I date and/or fuck celebrities over a normal woman with the same looks?' And honestly unless they're famous for work that I really admire the answer is just no.
/r/seduction07/06/25 05:59 PM
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The thing is, celebrities have a harder time knowing if people actually like them, or just want them for their status or money. That's why celebrities usually date other celebrities or people with status. That's a fair point. Anyway, OP just said 'very hot', and honestly in my own rating system being a celibrity with millions of followers often makes a woman less attractive, not more, maybe because I have subconsiously come to associate fame with arrogance and entitled attitudes and all that, or…
/r/seduction07/06/25 05:44 PM
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Well that sure clarifies things, I know many normal guys (in all those metrics you mentioned) dating and having sex with 10/10 looking women that aren't supermodel celebrities, just by having good game, but even with celebrity women I can only imagine many of those women want men that are not celibrities because they want someone down to earth and basically someone who can give them a break from celebrity life, normalcy, if she can find someone who's not famous but sees her as the person she is …
/r/seduction07/06/25 04:54 PM
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What is a 10? How do you define a 10? Or is it subjective to a significant degree what is a 10? And once we established what a '10' is, how do you know that they all want the pro athlete, multi-millionaire or celebrity guy?
/r/seduction07/06/25 04:33 PM
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If it helps I'm M[28] 5'7 (in country with tallest people on earth), bald, and unemployed for a couple of years without finished education (tried a lot of things tho) mainly because of autism and OCD (which manifests as obsessive thinking about existential fears and whatnot), don't have a lot of friends either and socialising is difficult, I do follow therapy along with several group sessions to learn more about autism and mood management. I have also recently applied for dating coach sessions (…
/r/seduction01/07/24 12:59 PM
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If you haven't actualized, you're broke, fat, horseshoe bald, have lose touch culturally, and haven't seized the opportunity to keep growing as a person... you're going to have a bad time. If you don't care as much being valued for things like your hair, body size or money compared to other things, the women that wouldn't be attracted to you because you lack in those departments wouldn't really matter in the first place, would they? I notice this sub and people in the seduction sphere in general…
/r/seduction27/01/24 02:32 PM
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But..i don't know tbh, it's getting weird out here Weird in what way exactly? You mean women having higher dating standards in terms of career that a man has? . Also maybe you can do something on the computer that makes some money? Like having a source of income is ok, not a job per se. Lol, a few years ago I made and sold some t-shirt design with a funny vegan message, I had to buy a lot of shirts to lower the printing cost per t-shirt...I sold quite a few but not nearly enough to cover the cos…
/r/seduction19/09/22 05:32 PM
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Yeah, i understand, that can suck, it's like being out of the loop for an inside joke. Exactly, people be laughing hard (which also often overstimulates me because of my autism), not only before I get the joke...but before they even (at least in my mind) finish the joke...xD People have done vegan keto too, keto means relying on fats for fuel, so you have nuts and seeds, avocados, olive oil and coconut oil, make some salads, some steamed broccoli and veggies and actually it can really get you in…
/r/seduction19/09/22 05:13 PM
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Well since I am declared incapacitated I hope having a job is not a minimum requirement for all women, lol, but having a direction in life, working on something, moving towards something, being passionate about something, caring about your health, having good game etc. yes, I can't blame them for wanting that. Also, it kinda sucks for men that when you see a beautiful woman and you're blown away by how she looks to the point it makes you behave differently around her etc. even though you know it…
/r/seduction19/09/22 04:36 PM
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Funny thing is that most of our lives are very similar, don't care if you're black or white, man or woman, old or young. We have the same needs that we want fulfilled. So of course you have things in common, past struggles, wanting to be happy, chasing a passion or a career, appreciation for different type of art. Hopefully moral values too, like trying to make the world a better place but realizing we need to understand it better first. True, but there are also lots of things I don't have in co…
/r/seduction19/09/22 04:22 PM
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Ah yes, I like that approach, also I can imagine that it's the smarter women who don't tend to get stuck as much on their first impressions of you and can change the way they see you (their ability to perceive you in certain ways might be more flexible so to speak), so maybe that's the determining factor (among others) here...not sure if that's true tho...but one can speculate, haha.
/r/seduction19/09/22 04:01 PM
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Interesting also what you said about having a cool life, I also wonder sometimes if it's worth approaching a woman to flirt with and take it further when your life and what you can talk about with them isn't that interesting and/or relatable to most women - I for instance have autism and OCD and spent lots of time alone trying to make sense of the world by lots of abstract thinking (partly a copingmechanism to feel safe) and as a result became less relatable to most people and I'm even declared …
/r/seduction19/09/22 03:07 PM
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Thank for sharing, well since u/sidbunch6 for example seems to have an experience opposite to yours I wonder what's the most important differentiating factor here, types of girls you happen to meet or attraction method.
/r/seduction19/09/22 03:02 PM
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I see...so even if she doesn't like you at first and is not attracted to her first impression of you, if you shift to another part of your personality and become more confident during the interaction and just start to flirt better or (for the long term) improve yourself she can change the way she sees you, right?
/r/seduction19/09/22 11:40 AM
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I see...so even if you shift to another part of your personality and become more confident during the interaction and just start to flirt better....that doesn't change the frame she has of you that was established in the first 30 seconds (you say 'almost instantly') or something, right?
/r/seduction19/09/22 11:13 AM
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How and after how much time of meeting each other do you 'know' the feeling isn't mutual and can't ever be mutual? After one (superficial) interaction in which you show only a tiny part of your personality?
/r/seduction19/09/22 10:53 AM
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I think this could be helpfull: https://youtu.be/qRnX09SYiDs 'flip the script of cause and effect' So it's about assuming selfworth and confidence by using your own standards ('owning the frame' essentially), but on a deeper level it's about asking yourself why you're lacking core confidence - which isn't about achievements or approval but it's often about (subtle) childhood trauma and such (Julien has many free videos on that) - and for permanently changing that it requires diving deep into the…
/r/seduction13/09/22 08:01 PM
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Also, I can imagine women finding honesty and the fact that you are aware of your own nervousness and owning it in front of her attractive, but you're right, it depends on the kind of woman and context (like are you making her feel safe or not) I guess...
/r/seduction05/09/22 11:34 AM
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I guess I like women more who can appreciate when I'm being honest and having courage and don't just interpret it as "weird nerdy guy who doesn't know how to talk to women" anyway - it definitely shows some social intelligence on their part - so that turns out good, haha. But you're right, it's not normal/natural to be nervous for the act of approaching and talking to women, it's from social trauma and conditioning (that can be let go of with experience + inner work, release meditation and such)…
/r/seduction05/09/22 06:57 AM
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Ok, but let's say that you are nervous and you know it's easily noticable, isn't it the best thing to just be honest to her about it and say you're nervous approaching and talking to her (and maybe also say you've never or seldom done something like that before)? Seems to me that's a huge weight of your shoulders and that the conversation will go a lot smoother from there...but maybe it depends on the context...
/r/seduction05/09/22 06:24 AM
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I'm also a newbie but a little nervous wouldn't be too bad right? Maybe some women would even interpret it as courage (approaching her despite nervousness), which I believe is an attractive trait.
/r/seduction04/09/22 09:48 PM
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Ok, fair enough, I guess women can differ from each other in that regard then, but again, it also depends on the kind of rejection, not every 'rejection' signals 'leave me alone' it can also mean 'the way you're behaving now isn't attractive, try better' or - as one of the comments in the linked post said - "that the woman is unprepared to get approached and rejection was their default algorithm in such situations", but I understand you're referring to genuinely not being interested in further i…
/r/seduction25/08/22 10:01 AM
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As someone on the autism spectrum I'm often confused by those kind of social situations. So I can imagine being pestered with those 'why' questions after you rejected them would be very annoying... However, I'm wondering...can there be a way where such man is genuinely interested in your feedback and ask you directly what made you reject them and do it in a way that it's okay for you? Or do you mean by 'gently let a man down' or 'saying no to their advances' that you want them to walk away from …
/r/seduction24/08/22 06:45 PM
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As long as you're both consenting adults and you're respecting each other and care for each others' needs and wants and if needed seriously take into account any problems that might arise from the age gap and you respectfully discuss it with each other and it's not abusive in any way there is absolutely nothing wrong with any age gap whatsoever (and if you think there is, then please tell me what it is, you can't say abusive because I already negated that). Not every age gap implies a skewed pow…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 05:13 PM
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All right all right, I see your point...I guess we both have a point then....why does all this shit have to be so damn confusing....?? ugh..
/r/seduction13/08/22 10:44 AM
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Maybe you're right but again I'll be playing devil's advocate here, so please don't interpret it as me being cocky and thinking I know it all (I don't, I'm autistic, 26, barely have a social life and never kissed a girl in my life, probably because I also have a form OCD which involves me obsessively overanalysing the shit out of everything), I just want people to really ponder this perspective: Why is becoming friends first a waste of time as opposed to getting into the attraction stuff first o…
/r/seduction12/08/22 09:14 PM
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Simple! Because wanting to date/bang your cute friend who "doesn't like you that way" is an experience that just about every single straight man on Earth has experienced since the beginning of time. If it was common for guys to have sex with their friends then no PUA would give tips on how to do it. So that means it's doable right? At least all those coaches present it as it is something doable...that a women's mind isn't as 'rigid' as 'once just a friend always just a friend'...that she's more …
/r/seduction23/07/22 04:17 PM
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Thanks, and yes I agree with that .
/r/seduction23/07/22 03:51 PM
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@StatisticianAnnual13 Was just about to post this but then the person who this was intended for deleted his comments, I still want to leave this here under your comment if you don't mind because your comment ALSO (sorry guys xD) has most in common with his...but I can't respond to your comment directly...sorry (not only am I new to seduction I'm also new to reddit, lol) 😅: If the friendzone is something you can't escape then I still wonder why I see so many dating/attraction coaches give us tips…
/r/seduction23/07/22 03:44 PM
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Was just about to post this but then the person who this was intended for deleted his comments, I still want to leave this here under your comment if you don't mind because your comment has most in common with his...sorry 😅: If the friendzone is something you can't escape then I still wonder why I see so many dating/attraction coaches give us tips on how to escape the friendzone (?) And why are there so many people who have been friends for years before becoming attracted to each other and get i…
/r/seduction23/07/22 03:21 PM
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I agree, like I said: pick up (i.e. attraction) can give you transferable skills. But when it comes to finding a girlfriend I don't see the point in creating attraction before becoming friends. You make a good point about being direct and honest about your intentions but being attracted to someone on a surface level is something else as having a romantic interest as the former is rather fleeting and the latter is something you can only have if you know her well enough (for it to be potentially s…
/r/seduction23/07/22 02:31 PM
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Ok, that clarifies some things for me, thanks, (I personally wouldn't be interested in casual sex, at least I can not imagine that being fulfilling and I'm afraid it would still make me attached to her in some way). Not sure I agree with the statement 'once in the friendzone, always in the friendzone' though, seems to me you can escape it by slowly letting her change how she sees you. So I suppose the best and (I guess kinda natural) strategy in general could be to first become friends so you ge…
/r/seduction23/07/22 01:46 PM
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Thanks, so why do people want to create attraction immediately you think? Why are people so terrified of the friendzone like it's something they can never get out of? Why is there this thing called pickup? I mean I understand it can be fun and gives you transferable social skills, but why do people want to find a girlfriend like that? I'm actually trying to see things from their perspective because it seems weird to me that someone like me with zero experience in the attraction game and relation…
/r/seduction23/07/22 01:03 PM
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Honestly, I (a guy) am new to this seduction stuff and I'm totally confused as to why people want to create attraction immediately instead of being friends first so you learn to know each other first without all the attraction stuff - which kinda makes you see each other trough pink glasses - in the way so you see each other in a wider scope of aspects and get a better foundation to build a romantic relationship if you still want that (all the psychology research articles I read seem to confirm …
/r/seduction23/07/22 10:34 AM
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If you want to be confident and not give a fuck about how she interprets it then what better thing to do then approaching her anyway (in the car for that matter) even though you didn't do it the first time, lol. I mean...if the issue is lack of confidence, and you know she's aware that you're aware that approaching her now would likely come accross as creepy because you didn't do it earlier, wouldn't paradoxically the most confidence radiating thing (to her) be to approach her anyway since you S…
/r/seduction20/07/22 12:04 PM
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