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I had a huge Buddhist phase and cannot remember being taught this. What are you referencing? This sounds like a modern retelling.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 08:28 PM
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What did I not comprehend?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 04:12 PM
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There’s no way you genuinely think 50 percent of men are closeted bisexuals. No serious research supports this and even the most generous modern estimates with the most favorable definitions are nowhere near those numbers.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 07:13 AM
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You’d be right as Kinseys research is awful and suffers from terrible methodology, sampling issues, terrible logic and interpretive issues. It is objectively true that Kinsey’s work is deeply flawed and its treated as what I’d call “respectable nonsense” in academia as he’s a pioneer of the field itself. He’s a terrible researcher though, but his cultural environment was a mess so he’s graded on a curve. He really was one of the few people brave enough to conduct and publish this sort of researc…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 07:10 AM
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No one is triggered, why do you keep assuming some strange emotionality because someone expressed a disagreement? All I’m reading from you right now is more cope in order to uphold your worldview. Also, I studied this in school. Imagine telling someone who studied physics that when confronted with a flat-earther, he should just say “yeah maybe” and if he doesn’t leave it at that, that’s some proof of being triggered or insecurity. Mind you, to begin with, I am so far from conservative in my thin…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 12:00 PM
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They always are. Imagine being me, actually having studied this stuff in school, and seeing people spread the most egregious misinformation on earth in order to push an agenda. It’s so bad on Reddit, that you even have cases of bisexual people, who are uniquely oppressed through bi-erasure, trying to tell lesbian people, for example, that they don’t actually exist. It’s all incredibly ironic, as if they are trying to justify their own existence as normal people when it’s entirely unnecessary.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 11:52 AM
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You’re projecting your experience with sexuality onto everyone else as a cope because you want to feel more normal. Your insecurity has impaired your theory of mind. I understand why bisexuals do this, but it doesn’t mean it’s scientific. Also, I find it funny to see a bisexual engage in erasure. The irony is not lost to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 11:42 AM
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It's not insane. For exclusively gay and straight people, it is black and white. For bisexual people, it's not black and white. With all due respect, stop regurgitating pseudo intellectual nonsense you heard about sexology in reddit spaces, you are doing yourself and others a disservice.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 08:01 AM
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This oversimplified shorthand phrasing that ‘sexuality is a spectrum’ or ‘non-static’ is a consequence of people misrepresenting and bastardizing Kinseys already terrible research. People should really stop repeating it so dogmatically, it honestly verges on being misinformation when asserted without proper contextualization and even then, it’s not unanimously accepted as the best model. To say, “sexuality is a spectrum whether you like it or not”, as if this abstract modeling tool used within a…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 08:56 PM
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Reddit is an incredibly biased and rather extreme place, don’t feel alone. This is true especially on the subject of sexuality. You need to view everything that is said here with extreme suspicion. You’ll have people citing garbage models and disputed data that Kinsey produced decades ago and asserting it as fact. These comments will get a bunch of upvotes as well, which gives the illusion of reasonableness.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 08:46 PM
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Modern research does not support your claim(s). Sexual Orientation, Controversy, and Science - J. Michael Bailey, Paul L. Vasey, Lisa M. Diamond, S. Marc Breedlove, Eric Vilain, Marc Epprecht, 2016
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 04:24 PM
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Alfred Kinsey is a joke and is a deeply controversial figure, both himself and his research. Quite frankly, that study you linked is garbage with terrible references and methodology. Have you looked at any of the review of his work and the subsequent research built off of it?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 03:45 PM
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There’s no reason to assume sexuality operates and manifest the same across the genders.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 03:41 PM
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I feel like you’re trolling me. By definition meaning because of what something is. The action itself, by virtue of what it does, is a dominating action. This is literally what I said: It is the action or process of making your way through something. This, by definition, is a dominant action. I sort of don’t understand your confusion. Penetration by its definition is a dominant action. This is not defining dominance itself, in its totality, as “going through something”. Penetration is simply one…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 09:23 PM
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I answered this question in my other reply to you three hours ago. Check your notifications.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 12:59 AM
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Right, having power over someone, but what does that actually mean? Is it just being able to get them to do what you want? I don’t think that’s the case and it ignores a lot of nuances to think that way. I think the problem with your view is you overemphasized the psychological aspect and have abstracted away from the physical process taking place in considering who actually has power over the other. That’s the disconnect. For instance, one could be psychologically submissive whilst materially d…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 10:20 PM
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It is the action or process of making your way through something. This, by definition, is a dominant action. I sort of don’t understand your confusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 10:06 PM
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It’s not a matter of perspective, the woman in that case is simply enjoying submission. There is power in being able to satisfy your desires, but that itself isn’t power over the circumstance in reality. Whether or not you feel dominant or submissive, or whether or not you being pleased, is largely irrelevant to whether or not you actually are dominant or submissive in the circumstance. If we extrapolate out from sex and consider other social interactions, whether it’s business or war, you’d not…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 08:21 AM
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You over-explained everything and got too wordy. Penetration itself is a form of domination over the body. There may be other factors in the circumstance that change which person is dominant in totality, but that specific action is inherently a dominating one, by definition. The reason this seems unintuitive to people from liberal cultures is because the psychological component of sex has been emphasized. If your agency is being satisfied, or if you are being pleased, that itself is taken to be …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 07:48 AM
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I’m curious, how are you defining submissive? What is your perspective on the matter?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 07:36 AM
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Wouldn’t it be the opposite?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 08:35 AM
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Effective debate tactic but absolutely is disingenuous
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 11:04 AM
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Most men aged 18-29 are not in committed relationships currently according to Pew Research. I saw your other comment and I am curious to the exact source?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 04:22 PM
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Your parents are outstanding people but their hardship isn’t yours. Unless you were disowned very young, or your parents became doctors long after they had you, then you grew up very advantaged which is important context when you want to talk about trauma, smart choices and skill issues
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 12:54 PM
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The gender war will never end even if those things exist. The drama between men and women isn’t a uniquely modern phenomenon
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 04:13 PM
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Agency in the way people discuss it is largely a moral view. You can’t refute it in any objective sense and you seem to be defining it very narrowly
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 02:49 PM
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I’m so curious and I mean no offense—given your flairs and other beliefs, how are you sex positive? Maybe you define ‘sex positive’ differently?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 02:44 PM
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Neither are bad. The problem with this conversation is that people define stoicism and other individualistic worldviews in different ways, and it leads people to not only talk past each other, but also to have negative views against an idea of stoicism and self reliance that no one who is educated actually upholds or advocates for. A 52 year old man refusing to see a doctor for example, isn’t a negative consequence of stoicism and self reliance as a philosophical practice—it is just an example o…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 02:36 PM
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While a lot of men are incredibly weird about their beliefs regarding sexual behavior, I think you are misusing the word hypocrisy here. What do you think it means to be a hypocrite?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 11:28 PM
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Thanks, I’ll read through it later
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 08:47 AM
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Out of pure curiosity, could you cite the studies your referencing?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 07:18 PM
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This is cope answer by you, ironically. A lot of men do have self esteem issues but I genuinely don’t think those self esteem issues are the primary drive behind why they are offput by women who sleep around. Not everything is caused by insecurity - that is a very narrow minded view of the situation and quite honestly just incorrect historically
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 02:44 PM
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How are you defining red pill and blue pill ? What do you think they mean ?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 02:41 PM
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The study you cited is not good, and the source of his samples come through polling on twitter which is obviously data of low quality - not all data is equal; it also doesn't help that alexander himself is extremely biased but I will not go into that right now and I will stick with the fact that your source doesn't support your claim, regardless of whether or not it is true that men want or don't want virgins. There are stronger studies on this and I have no idea why you would cite horrible rese…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 10:26 PM
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Stop using actors or even celebrities in the arts as a reference point for the dating pattern of “high value man”, it’s a hasty generalization; the vast majority of them of extremely atypical dating patterns and views towards life in general, and of course this results in unconventional behaviors Honestly, high value men is stupid concept to begin with, but it’s usually said in reference to doctors, lawyers, etc… Not celebrities with fringe mindsets - too many leaps of logic going on in this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 03:51 PM
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Your opinion here is very obviously morally loaded.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 04:18 AM
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85 percent of the comments in this thread are so divorced from reality lol They either tell a half truth, completely off the mark, and/or ideologically motivated. Yes, it is true that promiscuous women often do not suffer any consequences in their dating life in terms of being unable to find a partner, but this isn’t because men do not care - it is because it’s there’s nothing men can do about it - n count preferences in modern America are just unlikely to be actualized because: Women can just l…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 04:17 AM
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Compersion is by definition servile so even without the intentional degradation aspect, many straight men would view it with contempt regardless.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 04:00 PM
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Why would you continue to think of yourself as straight when you’ve demonstrated the capacity to be attracted to men ?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 02:44 PM
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Nowadays the new popular argument on Reddit is that not only can you become gay by choice, everyone is a little bisexual lmao Seems like a regression in what I thought were very agreeable progressive politics.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 02:41 PM
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This really depends on how you define masculinity, which in of itself sort of determines whether women influence it or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 10:03 PM
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Jesus Christ y’all make defending this preference difficult; brother, being a murderer is in no way comparable to being a slut… And to answer your question, obviously women are going to being upset about men having a preference that will limit their options. While not entirely analogous, it’s the same shit with short men being mad at women with height preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 08:00 PM
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Absolute zero evidence for that either.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 06:01 PM
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They pulled it out of their ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 05:15 PM
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If you truly believe that then you’re delusional Edit: All these downvotes just prove to me how detached from reality Redditors are, i gotta get off this website. I’ve outgrown you weirdos
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 05:14 PM
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There is this new age delusion that everyone is bisexual and it’s extremely disrespectful as well as unscientific I’ve seen lesbians get bullied in real life over this shit
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 05:12 PM
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I think he’s making more of an argument regarding how male preferences are not able to be actualized, rather than saying it’s okay for them to have that preference in the first place
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 02:30 PM
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Calling men out for being rude isn’t the same thing as shaming men for having preference Are you okay ? Wtf are you even taking about here
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 12:26 PM
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It depends, in my experience on this sub Reddit at least it’s for the following reasons: Some people shame as a manipulation tactic so that they can broaden their own dating pool. Some people genuinely believe straight male preferences are often immoral Some shame men because of their own insecurities and vent their unhappiness in this way. And finally some shame men’s preferences because they are ignorant and don’t actually understand what the concepts of hypocrisy and double standard actually …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 11:40 AM
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Ironic
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 03:18 AM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 07:40 AM
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Lol I know what you mean An even more insane feeling is after you put 1000s of hours into a subject and develop this intuition for problem solving that makes you feel like Einstein
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 05:34 AM
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It’s not necessarily hypocritical.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 05:32 AM
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Where are you getting this from
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 08:46 PM
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Buddy, you seem to flip flop between definitions of hypocrisy
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 07:00 AM
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Puppy love, basically.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 11:30 PM
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Maybe, which coast are you from ?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 11:29 PM
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I don’t think that’s true? The only data that I’ve seen is that bisexual people are more likely to be polyamorous and are also more likely to be promiscuous, but I’ve never seen any data that bisexual people are more likely to cheat
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 06:45 PM
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Isn’t this what most people normally do? I can’t imagine anyone sucking a dick and still considering themselves a virgin unless they are Mormons or Catholics
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 06:43 PM
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Men should learn to not care about being “allowed” to have preferences Stop giving a fuck what others think about your boundaries. If she doesn’t respect them, move on, she’s not for you. As long as you know in your heart it doesn’t stem from insecurity, why do you need affirmations from other people about your preferences ?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 11:43 PM
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What is your evidence that it’s mainly insecurity? Do you have a study your referencing for commonly cited reasons for the preference? Or, did you just pull it out of your ass?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 11:41 PM
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The scenarios you list don’t actually happen all that often and are grossly overstated by media, they are Hollywood tropes. In reality, MD-RN pairings are much more scrutinized than other pairings within hospitals, so while flings do happen it doesn’t lead to much beyond that, especially in the current political climate Maybe the particular hospital you worked at was like that, but there is actually some data on this
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 11:36 PM
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Sounds like you’re okay with cuckoldry, you just don’t want to be bullied about it
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 11:33 PM
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Without a clear set of principles, or moral system to evaluate, it’s hard to say whether or not it’s hypocritical Could you define progressive ?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 11:29 PM
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What do you do for work
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 01:13 AM
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Even if I do find some of them virgin hunters here annoying, that’s a disingenuous characterization
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 01:02 AM
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We have the same discussions on PPD every week in general, n-count isn’t unique
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 01:01 AM
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It isn’t only an American thing, uniquely progressive Europeans have a tendency to overstate the progressiveness of their country on Reddit Granted, the guy you responded to seems to be from Germany, and I have only lived in Spain, Italy, and France, but that’s enough for me to be comfortable in saying it isn’t just an American thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 12:55 AM
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Which country in Europe are you from?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 12:54 AM
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Throuple as in poly?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 12:49 AM
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Wtf else would we be talking about, aside romantic relationship in regard to n count preferences Stop playing dumb lmao, no way you genuinely think dudes feel that women lose worth as humans cuz they sucked a bunch of dicks unless you live in like Saudi Arabia
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 10:50 PM
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Felt like I just read something off tumblr
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 06:30 PM
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Who said anything about relationships ? I took “dating” to just mean playing around
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 02:52 AM
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Lmao or just go to a legal brothel in Europe
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 02:27 AM
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I see What was your old user ? I feel like I talked to you before and edo Japan or some shit but I’m not sure
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 01:43 AM
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It’s kind of weird and sad how this is a notable development for you
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 01:38 AM
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I sympathize, I hate the idea of competing for women and courting in general, it all seems super submissive to me, not a fan
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 01:36 AM
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Your username seems extremely familiar, especially with the flair, were you banned or something ?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 01:33 AM
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Make a post, no one is reading all that in a community thread
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 01:26 AM
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Saying ‘nectar’ makes you look unhinged and creepy, just say pussy bro
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 01:24 AM
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Social construct is a phrase that should be thrown in the trash.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 08:22 PM
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Look up average height in sweden
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 08:18 PM
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The cultural shift within the last 6-7 years has been insane, especially after that SJW and anti-SJW era. Everyone seems to have gotten much more extreme. Men feel the women of today aren't worthy of such treatment, not saying its right or wrong but that is the difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 08:17 PM
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Men in general rationalize this preference a lot in order to make themselves feel better because there is nothing they can do about it, but the average women has a n count of 4-5 unless you are still a teenager/early 20, so I am just like - what did you expect? The only problem I ever have with men who have this preference is when they wait so long to ask the women they are involved with what their body count is. I saw post where a dude was like 4 years deep into marriage and then broke up with …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 08:15 PM
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No, my ex was a software engineer, and it was a plus in our relationship. I studied philosophy and mathematics in College but because of her I became so interested in computer science that not only do I study the subject informally now, I am considering going back to school in order to get another degree - I might do an entire career shift quite honestly; overall, she was one of my better relationships and sort of set the standard for what I want in a women intellectually, and I don't really see…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 11:13 AM
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Bodycount matters a lot to men. 90% of guys think a high body count is disgusting and would never knowingly date a women over a certain threshold. The other 10% are simps who either go along with a relationship with a women with a high body count because the woman is very physically attractive and they wouldn't get sex with such a good looking woman otherwise. Or they are immature dudes who just want sex and don't care much about seriously finding a good wife. This is pretty uncontroversial, eve…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 11:07 AM
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I would say this is generally true if you are young and live in a western nation Marriages need external factors holding it together just as much as internal ones like love and friendship. This is my biggest black pilled take
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 07:38 AM
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Being a virgin is not bad, but it is just that you have this weird energy and tone in your writing Being indifferent to n count is one thing, but preferring your girl have been piped out by at least 5 men is weird
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 01:07 AM
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Because male views on promiscuity have been extremely consistent throughout history, even pre abrahamic, I’m pretty sure there is some biological component. Though, I don’t think we can say much as to the reason why this exist in the way it does beyond this
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 01:04 AM
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Not really unless you never went to college and aren’t making friends at work Most of the friends you make in college aren’t even from getting wasted
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 01:30 PM
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I agree with everything you said on the surface but the way you are framing this is incredibly disingenuous as it seems like you are implying that men are upset that women have the freedom to reject them, instead of men being upset at the fact that standards are now through the roof because of this freedom and they can’t match up It’s an important distinction even if it seems minute, one is rapey entitlement and the other is just lamenting, and if you are just lamenting that you can’t get your d…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 01:27 PM
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I thought the same thing but didn’t want to say it, because when I think of lean and defined I think of women like this: https://www.instagram.com/p/CsFX7qhAz8E/?igshid=NTc4MTIwNjQ2YQ== It could also just be that the women he showed is in her 50s so her muscles are producing a weird effect
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 12:41 PM
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So no matter how she looks as long as she is small you think it’s feminine ?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 10:31 AM
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There are plenty of people into that but quite honestly, she looks like a man in a wig, so your preference might be on the extreme end and in the minority. When I think of lean and defined, I don’t think of absolutely ripped like her
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 10:18 AM
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Would you date Chris Evans?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 09:53 PM
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I think her gym bro preference is dumb but who cares if it is exclusionary, this is dating we are talking about here, it is inherently exclusionary unless you are just into everything: fuck anything, date anything
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 09:49 PM
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Trust fund babies, golden spoon up their ass and tendency to be a killjoy or relies solely on money to enjoy life. The only trust fund babies I know in real life are actually super depressed, weirdly enough - especially the ambitious ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 09:48 PM
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Will I ever sleep with an attractive, young woman in my lifetime? Probably not Just go to Europe or something and visit a legal brothel if you care that much
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 09:46 PM
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What do you mean by “ physically flexible “ lol Edit: OH, I recognize your user - I know exactly what you mean. I agree with every single part of you comment except that part lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 05:44 PM
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People confuse value judgements with moral judgements all the time, which leads to things that aren’t necessarily double standard(s) to be considered so by a lot of people on PPD The same with hypocrisy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 05:38 PM
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Do you mean he was just crazily obsessed or do you think he is actually a sociopath
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 05:59 PM
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People fall out of love and if there are no kids to raise, what use is the marriage outside of tax benefits? Marriage as an institutions seems rather meaningless to me outside of raising children and other financial reasons. Do you have some religious view? Like there's really no point in all this ceremony and vowing and legalese if it's not binding. The vows and ceremony seem like performative bullshit to me but to be fair, people really do believe they'll uphold it when they say it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 05:57 PM
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Have you tried it?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 01:15 PM
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Sex differences in rates of psychopathy: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3767421/ “ One of the strongest findings in ASPD research is its male preponderance, with a 3:1 ratio of men to women (Compton et al., 2005).” Sex differences in reactions to stress: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3425245/#:~:text=FIGHT%2DOR%2DFLIGHT%20V%2F,by%20neuroendocrine%20and%20behavioral%20evidence. “ There is a difference in the stress response exhibited by men and women. It is characteri…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 01:14 PM
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I just read that comment you cited and quite honestly u/umdquestionsburner is making a good point. For those who are interested in the full text here it is below: Quote from u/umdquestionsburner : The more I’ve lingered around this community, the more I think the concept of hypocrisy and double standard seems rather meaningless when it comes to dating. Humans are sexually dimorphic, so women will almost always desire a trait in men that they themselves do not possess, and vice-versa; so, the que…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 02:12 PM
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Is the person whose getting fucked in the ass doing the same thing as the person who is doing the ass fucking ? These two people aren’t doing the same thing even though they are both having sex, which is the point. You are stuck on abstract, unspecific phrases like “having sex” that give the illusion that both parties in doing the same thing with the circumstance, in principle, is not engaged with in the same way by both parties
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 06:59 PM
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Probably something to do with masculinity and a desire to conquer or whatever the fuck I think he is right that it isn't technically a double standard but it is still toxic I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 04:11 PM
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The actions being carried out are different depending on the party, they aren't doing the same action even though they are both having "sex", so it technically isn't a double standard. I thought he was pretty clear.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 04:11 PM
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You know what’s crazy? I was just reading the Wikipedia page about double standards to see what it meant after having a discussion with one of my buddies, and that expression is used incorrectly quite a bit. For those interested: https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Double_standard This whole double standard thing seems like a semantic game.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 12:48 PM
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Your making an assumption of inadequacy, n count preferences don’t necessarily stem from that
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 11:53 PM
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I really don’t understand why this so confusing, people are egotistic and move from their own perspective. There is no logical contradiction in not being willing to wait for sex with women whole you assume to have already had sexual experience, and wanting a virgin for an LTR You also seem to be conflating different groups of men here and different opinions ? Have any of you taken a logic course ? What do you even think logic means ? Do you know what validity is ? You can say it’s unrealistic to…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 04:17 PM
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Except the hound isn't allowed to maul the fox anymore in western countries, so there is no advantage to its strength; and, with this loss of leverage, the attention that was once dangerous, is now something you can manipulate because men no longer demand, but instead; appeal, court, and plead. Society is way healthier this way with women protected, but to deny women are not privilege in dating in modern America is delusion, likely caused by your cognitive biases - it just is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 11:50 AM
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In modern society, yes they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 06:40 PM
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Being so desperate for pussy that you comprise on your standards, it fucks up shit for everyone and gives women a disproportionate amount of power in dating An impossible wish but I wish it could happen nonetheless
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 05:09 PM
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I don’t believe he is claiming that his how the war started
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 11:12 AM
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You really had me in the first half and then you started going crazy lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 11:37 PM
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There might be a few more small ones but those are definitely the main three One I’ll add is single fatherhood isn’t looked down upon anywhere near as much as single motherhood
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 04:28 AM
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He’s in denial lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 08:26 PM
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It is submissive Every man I know into submissive things refuses to admit it’s submissive lol I know a guy who gets pegged and loves the Amazon position and he just swears it’s not submissive lmao, it’s a big joke in our friend group, buddy is delusional about who wears the pants in the relationship and thinks he’s super masculine cuz he has a beard, we love him anyway. Let’s just be honest, mechanics and sexual anatomy determine positional arrangements where you are more dominant and in more co…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 11:51 AM
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Their logic for most of the situations they list can essentially be boiled down to: 1. two wrongs make a right 2. Necessary for some other goal they’ve deemed more important then faithfulness and loyalty 3. To spare bad feelings If you agree with this, you probably shouldn’t date monogamously, or even date at all, since there are a variety of circumstances that you’d meet pretty regularly where if you apply this logic you’d violate so many rules; and honestly, I am not even sure what their funda…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 11:20 AM
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One random study, which we cannot see the peer review for, not included within a set manual for diagnosis ( so no evidence of any sort of consensus ) is not evidence that you are correct ? That isn’t how science works…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 08:17 PM
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According to what manual? The DSM? It has been awhile since I studied this in school, but I don't recall that being one of the core characteristics of narcissism
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 09:04 AM
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I gotta see the study on this one, that sounds insane
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 05:35 AM
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Pretty sure they would willingly give whores some dick, the argument is they are unworthy of relationships lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 07:11 AM
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He’s an average looking dude in the face but he is jacked, like top 5 percent physique I think he is an actual 7, like not a 7 you give to be nice but legitimate example of someone who looks average
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 07:10 AM
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Men want polygamy, where he can fuck girls on the side and his main girl remaining exclusive to him - did you even read the study you cited ? It doesn’t really support the conclusions you drew from it - the study also included non hetero relationships which twist up the study as these are very different scenes, with very different dynamics The study is garbage
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 03:23 PM
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I can’t remember the name of the guy, but there was actually a video on this, where each of the men who do well in these “niches” all actually have similar, key characteristics that make them attractive - give me one second, I’m gonna go look for it now. Edit: Ok, I remember it was QOVES studio, now I just gotta comb through some videos
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 04:53 AM
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Poor guy
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 10:29 PM
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A. I don't care for all the bullshit, not tryna waste my time.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 06:24 PM
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15 dudes is an entire highschool basketball team
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 08:11 PM
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define " respecting women " People always mention this phrase, but what is actually meant here?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 03:51 AM
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There is nothing wrong with racial preferences in of itself, but anytime the reason for the preference is anything other than something like " I like the general features and skin, its just what I am attracted to ", it gets a little suspect and end up being really weird... In general, the reasons I see commonly listed by asian women for their preference in white men tends to actually be some weird self hatred, racist belief , and unfounded disdain for asain men ( live your life however please, d…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 03:00 PM
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Alright, well are you yourself, south east asian? There is a pretty big difference in appearance between white men and south east Asians lol, your preferences are wide spread
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 09:47 AM
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No racial preference, or at least not a strong enough of a preference to where I’d exclusively be interested in only dating one race Dating has been weird for me, but not bad - I live in a pretty diverse area, but I get a disproportionate amount of interest from white women compared to any other race, and it gets even more intense when I tell them I’m half Korean, which makes it obvious I’m being fetishized as like some way to experience an oppa fantasy and BBC fantasy, in an all in one package …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 07:32 AM
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Yup lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 07:12 AM
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I see, alright, I was just curious lol I am Half Korean Half black - not a combo you see very often, but both tend to be fetishized a lot, it’s been a very interesting experience dating within the past few years
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 07:09 AM
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Fetishization of East Asian men as a result of increase in Kpop popularity by pretty much every race except East Asian women ( ironically )
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 06:49 AM
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Are you half East Asian ? The reason I ask this is because of recent racial preference trends, and the sort of people who tend to have them lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 06:44 AM
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Are you Asian ? Nothing wrong with a racial preference, just curious
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 06:34 AM
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Your preferences sound like the stereotypical Kpop fan
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 06:31 AM
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I am not demonizing him for making the assumption or trying to make a show of it, I just thought it was funny - relax
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 09:23 AM
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I understand, I was a solider once upon a time, I just thought it was funny how he thought you were a women when he read your stance on violence lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 01:07 AM
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he read your stance on pacifism and thought you were a girl lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 01:01 AM
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All love is conditional for you - for you in particular
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 12:48 AM
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social assortative mating occurs because of proximity, not because men care about class
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 04:47 AM
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In my experience, the guys are always equally promiscuous and extroverted, or like super bland and boring type guy whose been wowed by the girl cuz it’s not what he’s used to Whether or not these sorts of guys are desirable is more of a question for women tho; though, majority of men wouldn’t respect the guy, since a man’s women is considered an extension of himself ( I’m not saying it’s right or wrong, just the messenger )
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 10:25 PM
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lol what the hell is jungle fever ( lmaooo I just searched it up ) Asian got yellow fever, black people get JUNGLE FEVER LMAOOO - it couldn't just be black fever or brown fever? This is the funniest shit I've read in weeks
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 08:29 PM
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Is the reason you didn't sleep around because you feared judgement?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 08:11 PM
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Every bi or gay guy I know never cared about body count, in any capacity, only as like a short hand way to guess likelihood of STDs, but that could just be resolved with a test; I think caring about body count is primarily a straight male thing
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 08:10 PM
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Yea basically, but it sort of supports one point she made - promiscuous women do find partners, it just tends to be with that type of deviant guy, the sort that preys own emotional damaged and vulnerable 19 year olds, and not normal men
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 08:07 PM
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I recognize her username from a previous post discussing what life is like for women with high n counts, and she admitted that her husband is a cuckold and she has slept with other men while they were together ( with his permission ) at sex parties Apparently, he is an older guy who scooped her up when she was 19 - interesting isn't, reddit seems to be full of people with atypical sex and romantic lives
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 07:45 PM
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ew
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 08:28 AM
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“BDSM which can serve psychological purposes “ Lol, I don’t think that this is a point that is going to push a women who is on the face regarding this issue, to now be open to dating a man whose paid for sex - it will probably do the opposite
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 11:15 PM
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Only if its open on one side, and that is the man’s end, TRP does not advocate for you to exercise options at the cost of your women getting fucked, since that is regarded as an implicit act of submission The disdain for men who let men have sex with their girlfriend is viscous in real life, and even more viscous in TRP communities
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 06:21 PM
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He means that a lot of the men participating on this sub are cuckolds nowadays I’ve observed something similar, seems like a lot of swingers, poly, and guys in open relationships have made their way into this sub Reddit in general is a super progressive platform, so these sorts of people were already in high numbers to begin with tho
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 06:06 PM
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What do you think the word irrational means
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 02:12 PM
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Most of humanity is fucked when the singularity happens, if something like ever does happen
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 10:53 PM
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From all the comments I’ve seen from you regarding your dating preferences, you have some of the most atypical sexual and relationships desires I’ve seen in my life from a women, so I don’t think referencing yourself when speaking in general really means anything Women aren’t a hive mind, you having unique desires supports that, but idk why we act like some things are not true in general when it comes to the preferences of men and women
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 08:38 PM
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Not many women died fighting for their own rights relative to men fighting for men’s own rights ( not even close considering men are waaaay more violent with these things lol ) , but some women did die in activism Just off the top of my head, there was the incident where that women stood in front of the kings horse and got ran over; I understand this is just one example, but there should be hundreds throughout history ( yes not much all things considered )
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 08:33 PM
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I think they care about n count in of itself, these guys have that conquer women mentality to the extreme, by far some of the most misogynistic dudes I’ve ever met, but since we found some common ground i guess we can leave it there
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 08:19 PM
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I really disagree, they care a lot This is of course anecdotal and you can choose to ignore it, but I work at a high end bar at night in NY serving drinks for a lot of high powered investors and stuff like that, it’s one of those places where I even had to sign an NDA to work there, and it’s an opportunity to ease drop on a lot of conversations. Reputation matters to them to an extreme degree - so even if they don’t really care intrinsically, they could never have other people look down on them …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 07:39 PM
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I think the point they make isn’t that women won’t find anyone if they’ve slept around a bit, I think it’s that women who have slept around disqualify themselves from ever getting that Prince Charming status man , which seems true from what I seen in my personal experience, especially for families with old money - the thing is tho, the vast majority of women aren’t getting that Prince Charming caliber man even if they didn’t sleep around, so it’s not like they are really losing much I do agree t…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 07:29 PM
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Pretty sure it’s a side effect of n count preferences and an unfulfilling early 20s for men. You have guys who never got laid in college feeling like they are just getting left overs now that they are in their 30s, dealing with the trash “Chad” didn’t want - these men don’t want to settle down with those sort of women, and unfortunately, they take the “ all women are whores until proven otherwise “ approach so they end up a little prejudiced to all women in that age range I’m not saying it’s rig…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 07:16 PM
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This study is flawed apparently and bunch of BS, I watched an aba and preach video where they reference this common talking point, and cited a study to the contrary of this - I read through the entire thing, so it’s not just me regurgitating stuff ( I’ll link the video and then you can assess the citations on your own ) Apparently, women are not actually happier single, they are just not as fucked as men tend to be emotionally when single since they have stronger support net works. So basically,…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 06:58 AM
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Being principled in of itself is virtuous. If the only time you are moral and act with integrity is when there are no disadvantages, then what you really are is just a virtue signaling opportunist I’m not perfect either, but some of y’all really don’t care and manipulate without remorse, and I think that’s pretty fucked up It makes me less sympathetic towards your suffering in dating when I know if the shoe was ever on the other foot you’d be the type of person to not care at all, and only prior…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 06:40 AM
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Distinction without a difference, your point is only trivially true
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 06:35 AM
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We do not determine what is objective merely through general overlap, and distinctions between objective and subjective are still made in science, so your point seems meaningless You sound like someone whose taken one introduction to philosophy course and discovered relativism lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 06:30 AM
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It’s not his business to say, so it was good of him to mind his business, but I really don’t know how to feel about keeping a significant portion of yourself hidden so that you can be partners with someone, you deny your partner the chance to make an informed decision about what they want. I know bi men don’t care, at the end of the day all anyone ever does is work towards satisfying their own desires, even if they have to lie, I just think it’s all pretty fucked up
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 06:23 AM
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Your a swinger? I’m Surprised
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 08:24 PM
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To each his own but I will never understand the appeal of femboys, are people legitimately into that ? Just seems like heteroflexible guys into twinks lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 07:30 PM
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I really don’t think this story would have gotten trump those votes bro Maybe if the true extent of Biden cognitive decline was revealed, trump could’ve won, but it just seems like no one gives a fuck about this hunter Biden shit
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 07:05 PM
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I really don’t think it would have made much of a difference in the outcome of the election , people voted for Biden because they hated trump, not cuz they liked Biden Them finding out that Biden has engaged in nepotism for his son isn’t enough to make them hate him more than trump lol I think this is hunter biden story is pretty trivial for most people… I mean, even democrats didn’t really care THAT much when Donald trump put all his kids in great positions using his power lol Nobody really get…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 06:56 PM
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Nah you are not SOL, it’s just as you age things get a little tougher, but there is pretty much always a guy who is willing - he might just not fit your standards. Women rather not date then date a guy they are gushing over, which is completely okay, it’s just one of those picks your poison type of things.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 06:01 PM
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If you possess a characteristic uncommon amongst the population, and you know what regard that characteristic is generally held, and you keep it hidden for fear of being rejected, you are lying through omission - I don’t think bi men or straight men should do this, you aren’t being held to a different standard. Answer my previous question more directly please, do you think it’s okay for trans women not to disclose to partners ?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 05:54 PM
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Is this a serious line of questioning? I think you are being disingenuous. The levels required to meet reasonable levels of informed consent are different for relationships than they are for random hook ups, obviously. I think your being purposefully obtuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 01:06 PM
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I don't use online dating
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 12:57 PM
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I think everyone should be honest about everything so that their partners can have informed consent, for both sex and relationships If you disagree, I guess thats just a difference in morals
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 12:55 PM
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not before (which suggests that he’s not too feminine). Learning new information that would lead you to update your assessment of whether or not someone is too feminine is not really evidence that it isn't the real reason... Some peoples assessment of what is feminine is not limited to just outward appearance and behavior, but also what goes on in their head; I can't imagine learning that your partner might desire to get on his knees for another man, or get railed from behind inspires the most m…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 12:53 PM
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So you think its okay for people to lie if being honest means your dating pool would be decreased? Do you think it is okay for transwomen to keep it hidden from men that they are trans, cuz if not, their dating pool would dropped to an abysmal size? Idk bro, seems kinda sketch
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 12:50 PM
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I honestly see the feminine thing as the most cited reason for why women might be off put by bisexuality, with that insecurity thing being secondary I think the insecurity thing is unfair to bisexual men, but I don't really see the problem with not wanting to date bi men cuz they think their feminine
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 12:46 PM
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His reasoning is dumb, but women are more likely to be bisexual, whether this is the result of cultural conditioning or a difference in how male and female sexuality tend to function, or a mix of a both is still a hot topic of debate Men are also more likely to be entirely homosexual than women are to be entirely lesbian ( simply put, there is more gay men than lesbians )
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 12:44 PM
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The feminine association probably does more damage than anything, girls just hate the idea that you might desire to suck a dick or get fucked in the ass, even a lot of bi girls don't like bi guys ( ironically); but, the second most damaging one is probably insecurity on the girls part that he will cheat There not really any studies disproving this idea that bisexual men cheat more, but there isn't really any studies proving that bisexual men cheat more either, so it just leads to this prejudice …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 12:33 PM
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Are you actually in an open relationship, or is the flair a troll? You let other men fuck your girl? There seems to be an overrepresentation of cuckolds on Reddit lol, I have seen like 30 on PPD alone
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 11:34 AM
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lmao i don't have any stake in this, but I don't think modern people are going to care much about how ancient cultures defined masculinity lol If you are bisexual you desire dick right, there are only so many ways to express this attraction, most of which turn out to be submissive, and if the attraction itself is off-putting to a women, then functionally, you end up removing bisexual men from your dating pool almost categorically - I think women use their own experience with attraction as a refe…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 09:36 AM
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I don't think he is TRP
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 11:21 AM
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snuck onto earth is the funniest shit I've read in weeks
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 06:43 AM
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Really? What about making your way through fields or dough? Yes, being able to make your ways through things requires power, through machinery or through physical labor I'd associate it with disempowered labour if anything. There is the particular act, and the circumstances surrounding the act - the person was dominant in the act, even if they are in a submissive position when taking account the broader picture. It's a very tenuous link, penetration in itself doesn't give or take away power Yes …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 01:28 PM
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Yes we do, what world do you live in ? From warfare to machinery and engineering, penetration, and being able to penetrate, has always been associated with power - as far back as even the ancient romans, penetration has been regarded as a domineering action. It just seems like your coping at this point, just accept it .
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 01:11 PM
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To penetrate, is to make your way through something - that is power, and is inherent in the act.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 01:08 PM
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lmao this is the silliest things I have read in weeks - also demanding that you be dominated is still submissive lmao In my time on PPD, I have similar convos with you about this topic, and you just absolutely refuse to ever admit that pegging or being penetrated is submissive lool
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 12:39 PM
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Definitely gross, but most men just stop thinking about it as they age The more pussy you get, the more experience, the more easily your able to put that into the back of your head and never think about the fact that she sucked off different guys; plus, if your 20 and up, pretty much every girl has experience so even if you just want to hook up, there is no avoiding it unless you become a volcel
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 12:33 PM
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If conquering in of itself isn't fulfilling enough for you, then you might not be cut out for that sort of lifestyle brother lol Napoleon, Julius Ceaser, Genghis Khan, etc... all got an insane hard-on for glory, glory alone was enough for them; they did have families, but it was a secondary concern, even for napoleon who very much loved his wife ( apparently ) What you get out of conquering is power, the things power offers, and the ability to conquer more - its a sociopaths enterprise lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 12:30 PM
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futunari is gross, and its a shame that I even know what it is lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 12:28 PM
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With what part
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 08:54 AM
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Your boyfriend is abnormal, he is not representative of most men; its one thing to not care about body count, that happens - but I have never in my life seen a man wish his girlfriend was fucked by more men... I can't even imagine a man saying " hey babe, I wish you took more dick when you were 15 so you could be more experienced for me "... That is some weirdo shit
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 06:09 AM
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The link I provided has a list of definitions and it includes both, which is sort of the point I was making. Inb4 "well as a man i dont respect it" Probably
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 08:13 AM
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You have an uphill battle my friend, hopefully you'll find a guy
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 07:23 AM
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Well, to be fair, he is using the word correctly in the modern sense https://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=cuck Nobody refers to cuckoldry purely in the strict, fetish sense anymore, language evolves and changes with time
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 07:20 AM
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you missed his point
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 06:23 AM
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The idea of so many other men having dominated and fucked what would be my girlfriend is gross to me My reason for this preference never had anything to do with some sort of data, the reasoning had always stemmed from my emotions.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 03:15 AM
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no, I would not - her sleeping around in of itself is off putting to me
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 03:10 AM
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I have dated 2 bisexual girl in my life, and each time, what you describe here with your experience happened to me; I left both of them when they told me they fell in love with someone else, but it didn't make me prejudiced or anything and I'd still date bisexual women. I can’t say she was or is better than my husband. She is just…different. She’s a woman, she’s soft, she smells differently. We have another kind of bond than my husband and I do. This is one of the major reason why heterosexual p…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 07:17 AM
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I don’t think you understand what hypocrisy means lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 02:50 AM
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You are being purposefully obtuse
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 01:45 AM
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You have a boyfriend, who is asexual? I am reading that correctly, right? So, he doesn't experience sexual attraction in any capacity, but is dating you purely out of romantic desire?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 08:35 AM
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No, I never said “ I don’t think it’s crazy for men “, I don’t have any opinion on whether or not it’s crazy cuz I don’t care… why is this incompressible to you? I also never made any prescriptions for men, so there is no second standard here; and , if double standard to you simply means that you think there is an unjustified difference in application, I already provided to you the reason for this difference, which is that I am not interested in men - which is completely rational. I have a singu…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 05:43 AM
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The reason why I mentioned that I am not interested in men, is because that is the basis for my indifference towards men’s sexual history, which is why it matters; you asked me whether or not I think it’s crazy, and I am telling you that I am indifferent, and don’t have an opinion on whether or not its crazy or reasonable - because, again, I don’t care. I don’t bother to form opinions on things I don’t care about
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 05:39 AM
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I’m not interested in men, so men’s sexual history doesn’t matter to me - I am indifferent
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 05:35 AM
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Ah hell nah Lmaoo 100 guys is crazy
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 04:13 AM
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You couldn’t ask women out because of your issues ? I’m not trying to be judgement or anything, but I’m just curious, is this the first women you’ve slept with ? Edit: Nvm, I saw a post you’ve made in the past talking about how you used to be an incel; my friend, you might want to delete that post because you are actually the AFBB stereotype, and the people here will bully you for it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 04:07 AM
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I am pretty sure that what OP is expressing disdain and contempt for isn't men who have MFF threesomes, but men who have MMF threesomes. See his comment about " bluepill masochistic cucks " at the end of the post.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 12:44 AM
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Yea, I’m getting to your other reply, I’m combing through like 8-9 notifications while tryna read new post lol I’m pretty sure we had a long comment thread about Japanese culture during the edo period as well
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 06:49 AM
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What is this sexuality feminist take about, like sex work stuff ?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 06:47 AM
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Why
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 06:34 AM
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Why should men care whether or not this hegemonic construction of masculinity is harmful to women ? This might sound like a dickhead question, but the contention I have is - why is it necessary to define masculinity in relation to the interest of women?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 06:33 AM
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Something women often don’t understand here is that “ gay “ is just a placeholder for “ bitch “, which has its own set of problems; but, when men call other men gay as an insult, it’s usually to do with a lack of masculinity rather than their actual sexual orientation
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 06:26 AM
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He said hypergamous, not promiscuous
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 04:36 AM
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What are you basing this on
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 03:56 AM
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Not a popular take , but not one that would get you crucified either - seems pretty tame
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 03:55 AM
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Being in touch with your emotions... Knowing your limitations and when it's more sensible to back down from a fight. I have not come across any conceptions of masculinity in history that has advocated for being ignorant to your own personal weaknesses, emotions and limitations, or one that encourages rushing into things without thinking; even during the days of the Roman Empire, which had one of the most psychopathic iterations of masculinity, being aware of a personal weakness and then conqueri…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 04:59 AM
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Ah I see, you dated years ago lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 01:52 AM
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Ok and? I literally just said I wasn't saying that feeling that way was justified, I am just saying that I don't understand why its so confusing to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 03:43 PM
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It is just egocentrism, there is no contradiction here ... I am not saying its right or wrong, but I really don't understand what is hard to understand about guys being upset and resentful when women fuck other men but not them lol If he isnt getting fucked, the girl being sexually active is meaningless to him as an individual
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 02:20 PM
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I wouldn’t want 50/50 if my partner earned noticeably less than me. Doesn’t sound fair at all. No, it can be fair, it just depends on your standards of living and the amount you have in bills per month; for example, if the man is a millionaire and the women is only making 50k a year, a 50/50 split could still be reasonable if they were living in an area where rent is 1600 month. It only becomes an issue when the millionaire man, wants to continue his millionaire lifestyle, but then ask the women…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 02:32 PM
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A dildo isn't a fake penis, it's a toy that's shaped like the inside of a vagina ... Are you being serious with this ?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 11:41 PM
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They don't care, the vast majority of heterosexual people just don't care about homosexual sexual-relationship dynamics unless its for some fetish or they have a child who is gay, as horrible as that might sound.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 11:40 PM
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I hate being around people who qUeStIoN everything and feel they are sOpHiStIcAtEd. Like, fuck off. I really understand this feeling lmao, I have a friend who mindlessly introspects ( yes, I know how that sounds ), questions each and every single social norm, and demands everyone evaluate the underlying reasons for their gut reactions as to be in line with what they think is most moral. I know that isn't directly related to what you are talking about, but man, I thought I was the only one who is…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 11:37 PM
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The one where it clearly shows most people are on the spectrum at not all the way straight? There is no study that demonstrates this, this is one of the worst misconceptions that I have seen in lefty spaces these days. When a sexologist discusses this, they say that a spectrum as a model can be used to account for the differing expressions of human sexuality across the populace - that is it, they are not saying that most people are not all the way straight... I blame this short hand phrasing in …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 07:56 PM
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Most liberal men have an aversion as well , I think Reddit has an issue where they severely overestimate how progressive the country is regarding those things; and, even in big cities like New York, there are large sections that are still extremely averse to male-male sexual behavior - not all big cities are the same. You'd have to go to places like SanFran and Atlanta to see that sort of acceptances in real life and not just online virtue signaling
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 08:07 AM
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Jeff was already a successful investment banker before he started Amazon, he achieved the position of senior vice president at D.E. Shaw & Company ( which now manages 60 BILLION in assets ) at 30 - he was already a fledgling millionaire, even at the early stages of the company… If Jeff never started Amazon, and just took the easy route by staying at D.E. Shaw, he would still be disgustingly rich today, the guy was pretty much destined for luxury lmao I have no idea why people act like she gave s…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 02:36 PM
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I have similar opinions to you, kinda - but I gotta say, over 50 different men is just too much for my fragile heart lmao I think the jealousy would overwhelm me, idk how you managed to get past that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 06:06 AM
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Only one. Statistically, most women are not sluts anyway, so this sort of thing happens way less than you'd expect just cuz of that; personally, I can overlook a reasonable history without any difficulty, we are grown and understand people fuck, so I can get past it - however, I have a massive turn off when it comes to threesomes. If she ever fucked two + dudes at once, its a no go for me - whether its logical or not logical or whatever, I don't really know, I just can't handle that from an emot…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 06:05 AM
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So you would only be with a virgin. Are you a virgin? Never said this - no I am not. Why isn’t your dick gross then? I simply don't find it gross, because its mine, if that reason is not sufficient for you - I don't care. To me, you would have touched a bunch of vaginal secretions, spit, shit, blood, and urine. If anything, you’re grosser, no? If that is how you feel that is how you feel.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 06:37 PM
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Women shouldn't be punished for biological differences. Creating legislation for financial abortions is not punishing women for biological differences, as they are still able to determine whether or not they bring the child to term; honestly, there is something ironic about how you think this is punishing women for biological differences, when the reason men are placed into this position is because biologically, they are not the one bearing the child. So, even if I accept your premise, the one b…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 05:44 AM
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You clearly think you are clean but everyone else is dirty. That’s odd. No, I think other men's cum is disgusting, that is not odd for a heterosexual man lmao ( not to say all straight men feel this way, just that its a common disgust ) - this isn't incomprehensible, you are just being obtuse and wanting to classify things as weird cuz you don't like what I am saying. You can get tested to make sure she is clean. Whether or not a person is " clean " isn't limited to STDs, I would never knowingly…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 05:41 AM
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Basically, what you are saying is we should sacrifice men’s rights for the greater good of society ?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 12:47 AM
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The goal of financial abortions is not to punish women…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 11:57 PM
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Are you not able to see the other point of view here ? Do you not see anything that you feel is unfair to the man ? Misogyny is just a buzz word at this point for some of y’all, you throw that word at anything so you don’t have to consider the arguments
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 11:46 PM
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I use the public toilet afterall You aren't putting your mouth on public toilets. You shitting and pissing in people’s mouth? Missed the point of the analogy. If cumming in her mouth is so gross, why do you wanna do it? What makes your cum cleaner? Are you not able to comprehend a guy being okay with his own cum, but not the cum of another man? If sex is so gross, why do men want to have sex with multiple women? Never said this, what are you even talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 10:37 PM
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Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 07:27 AM
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I mean, while I do think OP is probably a weirdo considering all of the other things he’s said, that comment in particular really ain’t all that weird This analogy, is just an analogy, I’m not actually equating women to plates, just trying to illustrate the disgust so that you can better understand Would you eat off a plate that has had 50 people shit and piss on it, even if it was washed ? If you can without an ick , power to you , a lot of people wouldn’t be able to - this is comparable to the…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 07:26 AM
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No one cares what you have empathy for, no need to make the edit
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 07:17 AM
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Yes, and if a promiscuous man does not find sleeping around immoral, and yet still prefers a women who has not slept around because he is territorial or something, he is not a hypocrite, which is the point I was making - you could argue he is sexist ( I would disagree ) , but again, not a hypocrite. Not all reasons for why a guy wouldn’t want a girl with a promiscuous past has to do with some sense of morality; and also, the reason why I mentioned gender is to do with the other portion of your d…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 04:41 AM
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Value is a subjective measurement. If someone is not operating within your ethical framework, your conclusion that it is "morally" neutral is entirely irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 08:44 PM
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Being worried that she'd feel she missed out is just insecurity in the other direction lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 08:30 PM
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I don't think its too difficult to understand that a man would prefer his wife not be fucked by another man if possible ? Most men in the US aren't even going crazy over virginity specifically anyway, since most guys have come to terms with the fact that girls are gonna fuck around at like age 16, but it isn't some incomprehensible preference.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 08:28 PM
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Keep that same energy when people shame you for your preferences and behaviors lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 08:24 PM
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As you pointed out earlier, because humans are sexually dimorphic, even sex itself is not the same activity for a male, as it is for a female - it isn't the "same" behavior; so, the only sense in which the word "hypocrite" is even worth mentioning, is to do with morality. For this definition here: Hypocrisy is the practice of engaging in the same behavior or activity for which one criticizes another Technically, a heterosexual man criticizing a women for sleeping with men, is not hypocrisy, sinc…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 05:43 PM
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If your response is going to be "niether", why even bother commenting - the entire point of the scenario is that you have to pick one or the other. This is like playing would you rather, and just saying nah, I wouldn't choose either BRO, WE KNOW BOTH ARE BAD, THAT IS THE POINT OF THE GAME, WE WANT TO KNOW WHICH ONE YOU THINK IS WORSE
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 10:23 PM
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No, the point being that you are discounting the interest of men for the benefit of women, why should men sacrifice what they care about in dating just so that women can feel better? There is a great deal of data on how women's preference for taller men leads to very poor mental health outcomes for short men, and yet women are not met with the same amount of vitriol for this preference as men are for their preference against promiscuity - dating is an area of life where something simply being "h…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 10:01 PM
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Harmful to who - women, right ? Do you see where I might be going with this.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 12:10 AM
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In general, men care…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 12:00 AM
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When I was a teen my Non virgin friends did better than me and as an adult the promiscuous ones did better than me. My real life has shown no indication of n count mattering. If it mattered I would have done better than my prettier promiscuous friends but none of that mattere This is bit of simplistic view, there might be other elements your friends might possess that are great enough to outweigh the negatives that previous promiscuity might bring when dating, like if she was super attractive; o…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 04:42 PM
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When she said "doesn't seem too bad ", this was in reference to the time they were together I think, and not the amount of sexual partners
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 04:39 PM
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Yea lol To be fair, it does take a level of scientific literacy that does take some effort to learn about and understand. I didn't really understand that an entire study could be complete bullshit until I went to college and took an intro to philosophy course, and a course on formal logic ( which isn't directly related, but it helps with the sort of abstract thinking necessary to parse unclear methods ) Not directly related to what we are talking about, but what studies on dating do you think ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 08:14 PM
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You are missing the point, you said in this comment here: Option C: Most people don’t care including myself. The basis for your conclusion here that most people do not care is flawed, given the people you are interacting with are extremely progressive, so to extrapolate to whether or not "most people" care based on your fringe environment is a hasty generalization.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 08:01 PM
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Modern sociology and related fields are absolutely fucked, the methodology is almost always garbage, and the experiment is often not reproducible; and also, as you point out, the data sets gathered for these studies is often trash, which leads to inferences made on premises that haven't been sufficiently justified.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 06:53 PM
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You are being obtuse, both you and I know that women who are willing to date a man that is bisexual tend to be far more progressive than the general population, which is my point; extrapolating to the general population using your niche experiences as a basis is stupid, you are reasoning from edge cases. Openly bisexual men do tend to date "different" women than the vast majority of straight men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 02:44 PM
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Do you think that the men and women you've dated not being concerned about sexual history might be the result of a selection bias on your end ? You are bisexual, if this is open information, the people willing to have relations with you are going to be more progressive in the first place - I wouldn't extrapolate from this to general populations. Every single guy I know cares, and I live in a liberal city, so these mentions of anecdotes don't really mean much, but I guess that is just what we do …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 02:33 PM
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You know that is not how we generally see this principle mentioned in conversation, we usually see some variation of " the past doesn't matter" Though, even if I say that it is, then it is a pretty convenient rationalization for women who have that concern isn't it ? It just so turns out that they can justify their aversion to virgin men, all the while lambasting men who don't want a girl whose been around the block.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 02:20 PM
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No, if the principle that you support is '" sexual history does not matter ", it would be hypocritical in both cases on that basis
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 12:43 PM
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I think reason number 6 is the most common reason that you will see in men; this is anecdotal of course, but I actually started to talk to all of my guy friends about it, even the more progressive ones, and I just asked for complete honesty. Nearly all of them just said that they are territorial, possessive, and absolutely hate the idea of another man's dick touching what belongs to them ( basically, not their words, but that is pretty much what it is ), it being in the past is a pretty meaningl…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 06:51 PM
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God bless DNA test lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 08:27 PM
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answer my question first, and then I will answer yours..
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 11:15 PM
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Is that not entitlement, by definition? I don't think being entitled in that sense is wrong, but I mean, it is what it is; I think everyone experiences some sort of entitlement towards their partners since they want to feel loved, and I think we are often not entirely honest about those feelings since they can sometimes be - well, not very pretty to say outload.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 09:56 PM
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Even as a dude, other dudes perplexed me. I’m pretty certain some of these dudes want a prude virgin as a gf and shame other women in general for promiscuity, but would harass other women in private to be promiscuous for them? In advance, I am not defending the conduct of "nice guys", but I just want to say a few things. This isn't perplexing at all, nor is it even a contradiction, it is just egocentric; this is not to say that you are doing this OP, but I have no idea why people are so perplexe…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 06:15 PM
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Feel free to not answer, the question is slightly invasive - but, are you single?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 10:32 PM
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Oh wow, I actually don't care about n count anywhere near as much as most dudes, but the men in that thread are actually all borderline cuckolds, some of those responses are craaaazy I actually think that amount of non-jealousy, and even endorsement of your girlfriend getting fucked by a bunch of men might IRONICALLY be a turn off to a girl since there is like no sense of mate guarding, which right or wrong, is kinda like a weird way people measure how much someone cares about them/loves them Mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 09:50 PM
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lmaooo Well uh, your boyfriend is certainly unique then
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 09:24 PM
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A way to test whether or not that is something he truly believes, is to give him an extreme hypothetical to see if he'd remain consistent. Ask him if he'd be okay with marrying a women who has slept with 100000 men, and has no STD's or mental health issues - if he even hesitates to answer, then he was not entirely truthful about it not bothering him. If he in principle, truly believes that a women's past is of no consequences to him, his conviction should be strong enough to where it would be a …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 07:28 PM
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Citation
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 07:21 PM
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i love how the whole point of the first section you simply responded to with “ok?”. that’s the entire crux of the issue that makes it different. How is what you said there the crux of the issue that makes it different, OP ( the person who made the post ), asked, " why all the anger when a guy who is probably promiscuous doesn't want to date a women who is the same? " No where in this did they include the assertion that this promiscuous man says that women who sleep around are objectively worse t…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 02:34 PM
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let’s go ahead and nip this one in the bud- a preference for something does NOT automatically mean you think of something as lesser. This isn't an area you can disagree with, a preference, by definition, is a greater liking for one thing over another, you are viewing whatever it is you like as greater over the alternative; again, the implication of this is you view the alternative as lesser. if i want to date someone who plays chess, it’s because i play chess. If you want to date someone who pla…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 01:55 PM
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it’s not that we’re really mad about an individual guy feeling like that. a lot of it is the overarching societal double standard. I actually super don't get this either, im gonna rant a bit, it might seem incoherent, but it is because I am expressing my general irritation when it comes to discussions of preferences, and what is a valid preference or what is not a valid preference. Discussions of dating double standards are often stupid, since most people do not actually understand what it is, s…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 12:36 PM
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You didn’t read, your distinction between “idea” and “term” is redundant, I discussed both instances in my first paragraph. - keep up. How am I portraying myself as a victim, enlighten me? You are saying stupid things, and I just wanted you to know that you are saying stupid things, your weird need to categorize me as some sort of self victimizing guy just makes it look like you are projecting lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 05:31 PM
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Male aversions to female promiscuity in partners existed before the sort of purity culture that abrahamic religious ethics established, and we know this through ethnographies - yes, this includes desires for women who have never had sex with men, even if it is not described in terms of purity; and, what “ purity culture “ as a phrase is specifically referring to, is an American Evangelical sub culture that is extremely recent in human history, so you are wrong as to the origins of this preferenc…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 05:15 PM
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Yes, you used a few buzzwords and made a conjecture as to the origins of the existence for a particular preference - you aren’t really saying anything of merit It’s just a “ women preference good, men preferences bad “, which is a non argument
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 04:57 PM
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So “my preference good yours bad”, basically.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 04:36 PM
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The second one
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 01:16 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 02:32 PM
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I am a little surprised at how old some of the commentors are; I thought Reddit skewed early 20s to late 20s - early 30s, I guess it changes depending on the general subjects for a sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 10:37 AM
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Not sure if you are trolling here, but I'll bite lol If that is what conservatives usually define female as, they'd be wrong, even if they lucked into the correct position that a women is " human adult female " If I am remembering things correctly, technically, an organism sex is defined by the type of gamete reproductive anatomy is organized around/produces; and, there has never been a reported case of an intermediate gamete or third gamete, only female and male - so, sex is binary in that sens…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 03:20 AM
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Lmao yea, I have no clue why she thought linking some random comment she made, that doesn’t include evidence of her doing any of those things, like it proved she male activist with deeds greater than all men on this sub combined 😂 I can’t take some of y’all on this sub seriously sometimes
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 06:26 AM
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lol I am work now, but sure, when I get off I will comb through that entire thread just for you ( since the women in that thread are who I was referring to ), and link to you several examples of those sort of women who think both. If you ever use any sort of heuristic in the future, or make an assumption ( no matter how reasonable ) I am going to make sure to be a petty nerd and comment speculation under each and every comment you do that lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 10:06 PM
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I'm calling you on that leap, exactly, that came from your ✨ imagination ✨ The assumption is plausible, you are being a pedant. Imagine seeing a RPwomen post about submissiveness and then going to another sub and saying "it's hypocritical of women to want to be submissive while they also want a career and independence" Not at all comparable to what I have said, you've taken an absurd, implausible statement conflating different groups of women, and tried to make it analogous to the observation I …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 09:48 PM
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Lol is this what we are going to do? Clearly, I am using a heuristic - progressive straight women ( generally ) do not like it when men have preferences against female promiscuity, taking issue with what they believe is puritanical systems and other forms of sex negative thoughts is a staple talking point - Reddit also has a very liberal swing, even moreso on r/dating_advice ; so, it is plausible to me, that many of these progressive women in those threads who express preferences against bisexua…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 09:26 PM
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I just linked you a thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 09:17 PM
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It is the same people. https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/xicn32/women_would_you_be_turned_off_by_the_knowledge/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android_app&utm_name=androidcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button Even in this thread, you have bisexual women who express preferences against bisexual men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 09:14 PM
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Women raging against preferences and concerns men might have about sexual history, while at the same time refusing to date bisexual men who have gotten fucked by men, because they got fucked by men ( which is a concern for sexual history ), is one of the more hilarious things that I have seen recently. It is some sort of meta-hypocrisy about what preferences are person is allowed to hold, or what preferences are legitimate
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 09:05 PM
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Goddamn you and the girl you are arguing with are ruthless 😂 I LOVE THE ENTHUSIASM Good entertainment , this is what PPD is for
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 09:04 AM
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Happens all the time, people will search up some topic they have an opinion about on Google, and then at the end of their search they will write “ Reddit” - this will pull up a bunch of post and threads related to that topic, they open it up, read some shit that triggers them, and they start replying to people lol I’ve had people reply to me on post from like 6 months ago
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 07:26 AM
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lmao facts I come here to FIGHT AHHHHHHHH fuck I look like being positive, I only want problems - arguments only, no help, no peace
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 07:14 AM
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How do you know he attempted to dox you ?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 06:35 AM
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Could you describe this core philosophy that you agree with ?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 03:58 AM
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I am not a huge TRP guy, but this isn’t the argument you think it is - as a demographic, women benefit far more from the state, and white women in particular benefit the most from affirmative action. This is more of an unfair playing field sort of thing, and OP seems to be upset by the lopsided environment; so, it’s more of him being pessimistic about the average man’s ability to succeed in this new environment with unequal privileges, which I don’t think is misandrist.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 03:39 AM
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A lot of the women who participate on this sub are: sex workers, high n girls, very progressive, or old. So, it’s to be expected that they will have these sorts of reactions, you should come into those threads expecting negative energy, these are the exact kind of people who’d have vitriolic reactions to body count aversions - and also, it’s r/PurplePillDebate - people came here to fight We are also on Reddit, which has a very liberal swing to begin with, so it selects for the sort of people who…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 02:08 AM
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Tomayto, tomahto
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 01:05 AM
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Well we are arguing over small details right now, we both agree that sexuality is biological so there isn’t any point in getting into it more than this
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 12:58 AM
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bisexual men tend not to care at all, I actually have some polling data, which aren’t anecdotes but I can’t find the study right now and I am too lazy to look for it, take it with a grain of salt if you want; anyway, queer people tend not to care nearly as much as heterosexual men ( or even heterosexual women for that matter ), so if that is the social circle you run it, it makes sense that your experiences are what they are. This is a standard example of selection bias, where the people you’ve …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 12:54 AM
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Well, the scientific method is fallible by design ( at least in how it is currently thought of ), hypothesis must be falsifiable, so we have to be careful about speaking in absolutes, so I don’t think you’ll get many scientist who’d make a full sale endorsement on determinism ( in general, not just with regard to this issue); but yes, the overwhelming majority of people who actually study sexuality favor a biological argument, and it isn’t even close. This issue of sexual orientation being influ…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 12:37 AM
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Well, it depends on what you mean when you say that, there are certain attractions that a heterosexual male might have for a female that are influenced by culture ( goth aesthetic, for example ), but this is not an influence on sexual orientation; till this date, no social environment hypothesis has been substantive enough to where we can say with confidence, that social environment has any influence on sexual orientation. This isn’t a biological determinism argument, nor is it saying that it is…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 12:13 AM
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Lmao OP definitely seems like he’s slightly obsessed with it, which I can see how that could be sad; but, being concerned about sexual history as a general preference is completely fine - isn’t sad at all Only an issue if it gets into retroactive jealousy territory
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 10:10 PM
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I’ll need a citation for that saying ideal number is 8-10, preferably the methodology used in collecting the data is included as well
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 11:12 PM
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Well, if were to just be steak and rice, you might be able to get away with it, but eggs might be a little questionable.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 08:37 PM
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Beta within the AF/BB dynamic, I said I don't think it makes him beta as a person - it is just the role he'd fit if I had to force him into one. Reading through the comments, OP was a virgin anyway, so this whole theory thing doesn't even apply to her situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 08:22 PM
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What study? Anecdotally, you'd be hard-pressed to find a man who says he wants his girlfriend to have fucked more guys, so I really doubt it'd be disadvantageous to have slept with less men lol The way the questions are asked in polls like this is very important. If you had asked " would you prefer no man to have ever had sex with your girlfriend ? " - the vast majority of men would say yes, and it would even extend to the past. If you had asked " what sexual history could you accept in a partne…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 08:19 PM
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I am not a TRP guy, but I think you may be misunderstanding the argument somewhat. I recently read the alpha fucks/beta bucks theory. Apparently if the woman is setting rules it means that she's not attracted to the guy. It is not just that she is setting rules, it is that she is setting rules and barriers for guy1 that she had not set for guy2; and, if these lack of rules and barriers for guy2 resulted in guy2 getting laid without investing nearly as much as guy1, then guy1 investment in courti…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 05:09 AM
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No, it’s not that they are trying to make everyone fight them , it is that the traits necessary to reach it to the top are often categorized under “toxic masculinity”: lack of empathy, unfeeling, ruthless, dominant, aggressive( not necessarily violent ), stoic These are traits that make doing what is necessary easier, so yea, while raising boys to have a more healthy balance between feminine and masculine traits is better for society, you aren’t really instilling within him the qualities necessa…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 12:41 AM
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Yea maybe, I think its an ego thing as well Getting bent over like that is seen as submissive, and considering that straight men conform to traditional notions of masculinity more often, they'd probably be averse to pegging even if they didn't think it was gay The romans used to throw an absolute fit over this sort of sexual power dynamic and they didn't even have the same aversion to homosexuality that we do today
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 10:13 PM
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If we are thinking of the same study, the preference for lower n-count women persist in men with sexual experience, its just not as much of a dealbreaker anymore, and doesn't exist to the same degree - but, if given the choice between two histories in a partner, you'll find that it is still there I wish these inquires were a little more comprehensive, honestly - data and studies regarding desires and opinions all tend to be shit
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 10:01 PM
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You are probably 6’3 with shoes anyway, I am 6’1 last I got measured with no shoes ( 6 foot and some change, insanely close to 6’1 but god didn’t want to bless me with that ); but anyway, I wear Air Max all the time which have a pretty big heel ( 38mm air bag ) , so I end up standing at 6’2 lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 07:39 PM
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It depends on the act. BDSM and other non vanilla things in that arena are fine, but skat is an absolute dealbreaker - orgies is a deal breaker as well Fortunately those two things are very rare for a girl to get involved in, so it’s never an issue anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 07:36 PM
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There is one dude who actually does link actual journal articles about studies, with that section ; or at least something similar ) - ima see if I can find his user, but he post it all the time, you might even know who I am talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 07:34 PM
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It’s not weird, nor is it contradictory ( not saying you are saying that ), it’s just egocentric- there is a difference in principle between the two things, in that one belongs to me, and the other doesn’t ( I actually don’t care much about n count, just using ‘me’ as a placeholder ). I actually think it’s even more weird that you find it so odd that a man would be okay with his dick, and not some else’s dick, but whatever. Anyway... You are not going to be averse to your own body ( in most case…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 07:22 PM
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I think the rationale is more of - “most women in your age group are going to have past experiences, so unless you want the insufferable experience of having to deal with immature 20 somethings, better start learning to accept a reasonable past” The “gun” is circumstance lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 11:42 AM
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I was super promiscuous at one point in my life and did a lot of freaky stuff lol, and anecdotally, every man that I ever knew who was into being pegged was bisexual; of course it’s technically possible to be straight and be into that, but I think you’ll have a hard time convincing straight men to get bent over and get railed by a plastic penis While possible, slightly unbelievable that a straight man would do that This is an extreme comparison, but it reminds me of this guy I knew who said he h…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 11:32 AM
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Did you read the whole article? Yes. Some scientists view both social and sexual monogamy in humans as a societal structure rather than a natural state." Me: I mean dear lord, the live science article just contains some off hand quotes from a few academics, and consideration and summary of some of these perspectives - it’s not an argument one way or the other, it’s detailing an inquiry, posing a question... Saying that some scientist believe something doesn't mean that the thing they believe is …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 06:26 PM
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Where are y’all from
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 06:21 PM
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Ok, so while that revenge fantasy thing guys here think happens so often for women who sleep around is a mostly a myth When I was working in a bar in NY, I heard so many stories of past poly involvement being very hard to hide if you stay in the same area, and any time a potential monogamous partner finds out about that history they completely freak out and run away So a lot of these girls just leave the city when they get too fed up Lmaoo
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 06:15 PM
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You: Humans are animals that don't mate for life, like swans and wolves and whatnot. LiveScience article: “ Only 3 percent to 5 percent of the roughly 5,000 species of mammals (including humans) are known to form lifelong, monogamous bonds , with the loyal superstars including beavers, wolves and some bats.” You in first comment: "Marriage goes against human biology, which is why it so often doesn't work out" Me: I agree with it mostly being economic for most of history, that I have seen evidenc…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 05:50 PM
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You just linked me a magazine article written by media staff with unknown credentials, and an article in live science that doesn’t substantiate your claim Is this your standards for evidence ? I mean dear lord, the live science article just contains some off hand quotes from a few academics, and consideration and summary of some of these perspectives - it’s not an argument one way or the other, it’s detailing an inquiry, posing a question... Even in this article, in the first few pages, it says …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 05:12 PM
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Are you just pulling all of this out of your ass? Citations please
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 05:02 PM
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I see what your saying, I just think this issue boils down to men not wanting to wife women after they’ve been with a bunch a dudes, and women not wanting cater to men’s desires since it doesn’t serve their general interest - they feel it’s a losing deal; both of these perspectives are understandable, the issue is they are at conflict with one another, since women are going to pursue other things since the deal is bad ( like fucking hot guys and racking up that count lol ) The hilarious thing is…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 04:45 PM
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Pussy Cartel is a new one lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 01:48 PM
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I just read a thread of a dude who is a cuckold ( the modern use of the term ), and my lord, I do not think I will ever be able to comprehend the thought process of men who are okay with their girlfriend sleeping with other men These guys fundamentally, just have different brain wiring https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/xbkpqv/some\_guys\_prefer\_to\_be\_marriage\_material\_some/
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 01:34 PM
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Daily thread has only been open for like 20 minutes and you already want to fight lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 01:25 PM
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How long did the relationship last
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 01:24 PM
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I picked up a second major in Asian Studies by accident just because I enjoyed Japanese literature so much and kept taking those classes in addition to the ones for my primary major. I see, given your user, it seems your a grad student now then? Or am I just too much of a normie to notice a reference here. The juxtaposition between hearing constantly that "men are naturally disgusted by this type of woman" while reading stories, written by men, of being deeply in love with them, was jarring. Eh …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 01:06 PM
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Yea I thought the same, but a friend who worked at the Hamilton in DC said it’s the same exact shit there, it’s no different then the shitty Greek turtle he was a waiter in The service industry is wild brother, the people at higher class places do the same shit, they just have better willpower and can show up and perform on time DESPITE being hungover
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 12:19 PM
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Never understood this. If I was in my mid 30s, I would try and adapt to my situation so I could have a good life. It seems that the further one ages, the further they double and triple down on their things that there's a less and less chance they'll get as they get older. It is more so that people come to understand the few things that they truly value, and if they are not able to get that out of their current circumstances, they will not change those values; they will instead double down on the…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 08:50 AM
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I don’t think he cares much if the pussy is good, that’s the whole point
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 08:14 AM
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Facts , this is heuristic thinking , but I think this probably explains the absolute tragedy that is dating in Japan Men just calling it quits, I really hope this isn’t a consequence of increasingly modern conditions, and is something we can fix without regressing
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 07:55 AM
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Will do. Edit: This isn't really to do with what we are talking about, but I am slightly curious as to what your opinion on this is lol Do you think its wrong for a man to prefer a women who has been with as little men as possible? I am not going to argue against your answer, I promise lol - you just seem more well read than the average person here so I am interested in your thoughts
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 06:40 AM
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Not all succeeded obviously, but enough aspired for it to be a recurring element of cultural texts. I still have problems with this sort of thinking. 1: Recurring element in cultural text. 2: Existed in significant enough capacity for it to be recurring in literature 3: Therefore, how men in general saw them as romance/courtship prospects can be inferred from this literature. A variable not accounted for in this logic, is barely 20 percent of the population of Edo was even literate by the end of…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 06:20 AM
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Whether male jealousy "naturally" extends to an aversion to women with prior sexual experience is. Take the historical case of courtesans for example. In Edo literature if a man fell for a courtesan his first priority would be to pay off her debt so she could leave the profession and wouldn't be available for other men anymore. However, the fact that her occupation consisted in least in part of entertaining other men sexually did not disqualify those women as romantic options. This is interestin…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 05:15 AM
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Many cultures have zero evidence of prizing virginity in women until contact with one of the Abrahamic religions. How much is many? Citation? From what I understand, we know this sort of sexual jealousy in males has been near ubiquitous in even pre Abrahamic societies ( through adultery laws and ethnographies ); the most interesting of which, are both Greece and Rome, where things can get particularly severe despite the incredibly different sexual dynamics. We also know that for some reason, gen…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 04:43 AM
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Lmao bro you sound weak as hell
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 05:31 PM
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I think I might be insane with how willing I am to participate in the same conversations over and over again on this sub, but today is a moment of clarity - I don't think I can engage with this subject for the 100000000000000000th time.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 10:18 AM
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W points
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 07:53 PM
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Well, he’s clearly bisexual lol, so he wouldn’t understand why it might be off putting
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 07:20 PM
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Nah she actually might just be yoked, I went through her post history and is just built like a normal, athletic women
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 06:35 PM
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Lmao no
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 06:30 PM
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I agree, I should’ve made it clear I was not disagreeing with you, just offering some data that makes the assumption of the average college girl being 25 less absurd 25 still be slightly on the upper scale even if 23 is the average, you are right
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 02:24 AM
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23 is the average age traditional full time students graduate who start at 18. 30-50 percent of students at most colleges are actually over 24 The age stats for average age at graduation are pretty shocking, you’d never notice it, but a lot of people on campus are older than you’d initially assume https://collegeonomics.com/what-is-the-average-age-of-college-graduates/ You can comb through the sources the article uses at the end of it
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 02:18 AM
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This might be a little too evidence based for this sub Reddit
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 02:07 AM
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304 = hoe
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 02:04 AM
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Because it’s socially taboo and the women is going to think he is a creep if he is to ask up front about it, which is counter productive to the reason why he is dating in the first place - to get women Just because it is not asked to you does not mean the concern doesn’t exist, your experiences as a women are going to suffer from a selection bias regarding the prevalence of this preference, as men are going to interact with you a certain way Behind close doors, when it is just us guys talking, t…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 01:56 AM
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I’d agree that in this day and age in America, most men dont have an active preference for virginity, but most men absolutely do care about women having low body counts - I am not sure why this is the hill you want to die on.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 01:40 AM
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Because asking about sexual history in this modern climate is very socially taboo, and will ruin your chances of getting with a women, so men decide not to ask; and, women lie about it all the time anyway, so there isn’t a point in being upfront with it Whether or not something is asked isn’t the metric for whether or not the concern exist, that doesn’t logically follow. it is a concern, it’s just that the consequences of asking in the dating stage are too much, the girl is just gonna think he’s…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 12:53 AM
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Most women not being high n gives you the illusion that it isn’t a concern, it is - it just so happens to not be relevant cuz most women aren’t in these streets like that
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 12:48 AM
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Seven for college age women ? Could you link the study ?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 12:46 AM
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Ah I see, I wasn’t paying attention - I’d reject the premise then, but if I entertained it, you’d be correct
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 12:46 AM
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I’d still argue the vast majority of men care in America, do you live in a very liberal city? I am at work, but I was bored enough to make a google doc of all the reputable sources for polling data regarding male preference against promiscuity in modern times, and I saved it on a USB - I will cite it when I get home
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 12:43 AM
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I agree with the first part, however - the majority of men would prefer a low number count, you can find polling data by country, region, or even something more abstract like “culture”; and, in anywhere that is not Western Europe, Canada, and the US, the preference against promiscuity becomes particular severe, where chastity might still be a requirement. The issue is, people on TRP overstate how willing a man is to throw away an entire relationship over a sexual history. Men care, men care a lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 12:37 AM
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Because reality is, they can’t help it - sexuality isn’t a choice, but I often see bisexual people say that, it’s a common projection of their own personal experience with sexuality onto others Straight and gay people aren’t limiting themselves, they don’t have the capacity for it to begin with
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 12:02 AM
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Yea I couldn’t be bi, maybe some dudes aversion to sex with men is weak enough where they could dissociate and get a nut off if they tried; but, I think I’d throw up and die, like I’m not even being dramatic, sex with men sounds absolutely horrible to me
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 11:58 PM
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I would put it around there too, and it’s not even a happy 5 a lot of the time either, a lot of the girls I know said they regret like 50 percent of dudes they got with It’s kinda interesting really, despite this new sexual liberation thing going on and all the extreme manifestations of it you see in media ( especially Reddit ) - a lot of girls are actually pretty afraid still that their sexual history might ruin their chances with a guy they want to date in the future, so they end up being very…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 11:51 PM
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You’d be wrong considering I am very promiscuous myself, and don’t really care about n count You have some real feminine energy with how you immediately pulled out that insecure card lmao Look, idc bro, we can agree to disagree, but you are playing dumb if you can’t acknowledge most straight men would be happier if their girlfriend didn’t fuck other guys
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 11:26 PM
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Your missing the point bro smh , we are talking about what most guys want, not whether or not they are insecure for wanting it You just randomly pulled out that insecure card like it was a reflexive reaction
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 11:01 PM
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Yea I was agreeing with you until you disagreed with the comment you just replied to I don’t think most guys have some sort of active preference for virginity unless they are like 16, they just don’t want the girl to have been in these streets and everything is fine; but, given the option of having their wife or girlfriend having not fucked any other dudes but them, vast majority would definitely take that Only time guys want a girl experienced is for a quick fling when they want her to fuck lik…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 10:58 PM
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Yea I agree , I knew this dude back in highschool who was gay, and his sexuality in of itself led to him getting bullied, he had an all around shit child hood specifically because he liked men No dudes would be friends with him, and girls essentially treated him like he was a handbag, just an accessory friend; so, I feel incredibly BLESSED to be straight, makes everything super simple I don’t think being gay is bad, but I have no idea why anyone would want to have struggle with adversity if they…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 10:51 PM
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Buddy, stats on average dick size exist, even for specific regions lmao, she doesn’t have to be all up in some meat to get an approximate
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 01:47 PM
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Sexual contact between individuals involving penetration is where I draw the line, which is the definition of sexual intercourse provided by Oxford languages.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 11:02 AM
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Whatever makes you feel better about yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 04:55 AM
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No, it isn't "fake", that isn't how language works, definitions change over time; even that conception of virginity you have that is only to do with PIV is not how it was originally interpreted, so is that "fake" too? There are several different definitions of virginity, and you are free to not care about the one I am using, but it isn't any more "fake" than the one that you are referring to. So yes, every girl whose sucked a dick is not a virgin to me, sucking dick is having sex, and the hoops …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 11:14 PM
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https://web.archive.org/web/20080822040701/http://health.discovery.com/centers/sex/sexpedia/intercourse.html Sexual intercourse, or coitus, refers in a strict biological sense to the insertion of the male's penis into the female's vagina for the purpose of reproduction. Sexual intercourse is found among all mammalian species. Intercourse has traditionally been viewed as the natural endpoint of all sexual contact between a man and a woman. However, the meaning of the term has been broadened in re…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 11:03 PM
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https://www.google.com/search?q=virginity&rlz=1C1JZAP_enUS924US924&sxsrf=ALiCzsYHPKfJ1YSWIgysjE5fj1KFL0tllA%3A1662675671107&ei=12oaY-ybBq6JptQPocSO-AQ&ved=0ahUKEwis44LGnYb6AhWuhIkEHSGiA08Q4dUDCA4&uact=5&oq=virginity&gs_lcp=Cgdnd3Mtd2l6EAMyBAgjECcyBwgAELEDEEMyCAgAELEDEJECMgcIABCxAxBDMgcIABCxAxBDMgcIABCxAxBDMgQIABBDMgUIABCRAjIECAAQQzILCAAQgAQQsQMQgwE6EQguEIAEELEDEIMBEMcBENEDOg4ILhCABBCxAxDHARDRAzoKCAAQsQMQgwEQQzoKCC4QsQMQgwEQQzoICC4QgAQQsQM6DgguEIAEELEDEIMBENQCOgsILhCxAxDUAhCRAkoECEEYAEoECEYYAFAAW…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 10:23 PM
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I literally just linked you the definition of virginity; oral sex is also intercourse, by definition
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 09:53 PM
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No, a virgin is: a person who has never had sexual intercourse. Oral sex is sexual intercourse, it just isn't penetration - you aren't a virgin if you've sucked dick, by definition - each dick she sucked is a body in my eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 09:11 PM
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Buddy, not all expectations and preferences are double standards, I didn't comment on the skinner thing because it was pointless, it had nothing to do with my argument. I am not blaming women for having a double standard, I am pointing out that dating is full of double standards so to get mad at one in particular is usually only done when someone is ass mad that it leads them to be excluded from a dating pool... The reality is, as long as the double standard in question is something both parties…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 08:49 PM
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nah, you had a dick in your mouth you are not a virgin lmao I knew a girl who was religious but sucked like 40 dicks and though she was still some virtuous virginial saint, the shit some of these philosophies will do to someone lmao Next level mental gymnastics
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 08:44 PM
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I don't think you know what a double standard is my friend, something does not need to be absolute, in all people, for it to qualify as a double standard. But not all women prefer taller ten, that’s not the exception, it’s the norm. The vast majority of women require their man be taller than them, that is the norm; that expectation of partner height is not something men care about anywhere near the same level, which is a double standard
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 08:38 PM
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You should have done that in a separate reply to me, because now the entire comment chain doesn't make any sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 08:37 PM
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Honestly, I don't wont to get too annoying in these comments, but technically, a double standard is the application of different sets of principles for circumstances that are in principle, the same. Male and female dating strategies and approaches are dissimilar ( reproductively, in desire, and in market control ) enough at the population level when observing trends, to the point where describing the situation as the same for both parties would be incorrect; so again, if two things are not the s…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 08:32 PM
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You edited your comment, you said originally: " It's weird that so many men are squeamish about this "
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 08:24 PM
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Yea, its basically this - David Hume would be proud of this: People are motivated emotionally, not rationally.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 08:20 PM
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I find it weird that women care so much about height, but it is what it is - I accept it I think this fuss over preferences is just a big headache in general ( not to say you are ), why can't people just live and let live
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 08:17 PM
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I agree with most of what you are saying, but this actually isn't true: Men and women both have to worry about STDs about the same amount https://www.cdc.gov/std/health-disparities/stds-women-042011.pdf
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 07:24 PM
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Then i guess we will all continue playing this toxic game. dudes lying to girls to fuck girls making the guy who is courting her wait cuz she’s afraid to get lied to ( which is fair ), but for some reason just needs dick so, so bad she can’t hold off ( this is where I stop following the logic - I don’t understand it, but that’s probably just my bias ) the guy finding out that was happening, feeling like a chump he becomes one of those trash guys who lies because he wants to be the one who gets p…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 05:49 PM
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That is a false dichotomy, stop fucking the old dude for the period you are looking for romance with other men; don’t sleep with the new man you just met until you are sure of the relationship status moving forward. I reject the premise you started with, no person is insanely horny brain to the point that they can’t control themselves despite wanting sex, it’s not inevitable; unless of course, they are hyper sexual, in which case that’s a bullet dodged. Even if grant you this, we will just conti…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 05:35 PM
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Thanks for a non-aggressive reply, it really helps make discussions easier! Yea for sure, there is a lot of vitriol on this sub reddit, which makes these conversations difficult. As long as practiced safely, consensually and precautions taken it is not harming anyone to sleep with a lot of people. Of course, but I think something people also forget is, this is just an ideal. If we look at the available data we have regarding this, we see that often times that this ideal version of casual sex, th…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 08:14 PM
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Most men learn to accept what is reasonable, I am an older man as well, and you'd still find it very difficult to find a man who'd be able to accept an absurd history in a women even if he likes her a lot Men will completely blow up and destroy a relationship if he were to find out that she used to participate in foursomes and fivesomes, have train rains on her, and weekly bukkakes, even if he loved her a lot. As an older guy, if there's one thing I've learned the hard way, it's that you only ge…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 07:13 PM
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that women somehow decrease in value when they are ‘used’ I feel like we all teeter around the fact that preferences necessarily regard one things as superior to another; so, in preferring something, you are implicitly regarding the alternatives as things with lesser value. If we think of a trait like height in a vacuum for a moment, a women who prefers a tall man over a short man is viewing that short man as lesser as far as her romantic desires are considered - this is completely okay, most wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 07:12 PM
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That's totally irrational arational*
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 07:05 PM
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I've been a destiny fan for a long time ( since StarCraft ), but he really isn't the greatest with dating advice for men, and though he acknowledges much of what men go through, I tend to dislike his prescriptions, and how he finds some of their concerns unimportant. For example, I think its completely okay for a guy not to be okay with a high body count women, Destiny thinks this is stupid - he doesn't come with that same energy for a lot of female preferences either, so it feels like he is not…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 06:51 PM
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God damn, I'd have to catch a fade with someone
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 06:32 PM
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This is just bro pseudoscience on my part here, with some conjectures to add a little spice, but I feel like that biological/genetic imperative shit is really probably why many straight men get so extremely jealous about sexual history, like its some sort of subconscious psychological revulsion and anger. Like yea we humans are of higher sentience and not entirely chained by our biological impulses and proclivities, but I really don't think women understand the absolute STRENGTH of the aversion,…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 06:26 PM
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If you're friends with these people, in a prestigious position yourself, and (most importantly) go drinking with them, yes, they will tell you about their sex lives and sexual preferences. I suppose, but idk, I have seen rich men dead drunk talking with their friends about shit like that, and very rarely have I ever heard any of them talking about how they like being submissive in bed; but, I suppose its possible I am missing things since I am just eavesdropping, and you are in a more intimate p…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 04:39 PM
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I used to work in my city's financial district, and met/knew a lot of high-powered investment bankers and the like. Dated one or two as well. These guys were VERY MUCH disproportionately likely to have submissive fantasies. If you only dated one or two, how would you know that they are disproportionately likely to have submissive fantasies, wouldn't you just be making a hasty generalization? I find it very unlikely that these men you have met who are in high positions are going to be openly talk…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 04:04 PM
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Honestly we don't have much disagreement, we pretty much agree on everything. I wrote a long response about people lying to themselves and how that socially "dominant" guy is not actually dominant and its a mask blah blah blah, but it would lead to an unnecessarily long thread for no reason when I am just being pedantic. Sniper at war. An assassin. Someone who has killing as a job and strictly divides personal and professional life. Yea these dudes have to be constantly brainwashed by each other…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 03:58 PM
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Inference from data and theoretical models that I learned in class, but again, you can take that with a grain of salt, or just disregard it all together if you want - I am at work and will not at all go through old text books for citations. This also comes from personal anecdotes and other experiences being very promiscuous myself - you see a lot of shit. I am interested, what is your experience? You might have a similar selection bias as to what I mentioned in replying to another comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 03:52 PM
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I don’t think it’s particularly fair that you use people’s bedroom antics as a reason to disrespect them in real life; if you found out your male boss was a cuck or liked to visit dominatrixes would you voice that in the office? Somehow I don’t think so. Yea, men might not voice it, but that boss is instantly losing all respect from a LOT of guys ( right or wrong ) - shit, a lot of women would lose respect for him, that is the sort of thing when public that might even stunt his career growth in …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 03:38 PM
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Yea, that is a selection bias, you are given in the illusion that this is a common thing because it might be common in the fringe circle that you run in; but, you have to always keep in mind, your circle is already fringe. Ask the average straight male if he'd ever be okay being pegged, you'd get a resounding no Also let us be real, men who are actually showing up to kink events as a sub with a dominant women are not dominant men in other aspects of their lives - I have been at several of these …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 02:54 PM
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Yea not gonna lie, I've been in these streets a long time, did a lot of really wierd kinky shit, and I gotta say - every poly couple I have fucked with, people into extreme BDSM, CNC, and all other type of wild shit have been below average or ugly in appearance. I myself am barely average. People into these fringe sexual things do really tend to be ugly lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 02:37 PM
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Hmm, I agree with most of what you say here, but while people are multi-dimensional, these "dimensions" are not entirely separate from one another. So, proclivities and interest in one area of life leak into others often, I'd say it is far more likely for a socially dominant man to carry over those values into the bedroom; most people are horrible in compartmentalizing with these more fundamental character traits, so these extreme paradox's in desires very rarely exist. Contradiction is normal, …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 02:24 PM
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I have seen men not wanting to marry previously divorced women, but I have never seen this one lol I guess I am not up to date on the new fuckery that is the dating scene
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 12:10 PM
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Hey listen, there are actually things you can do to get a bigger dick if this is something that is causing you to feel suicidal about, its actually a myth that you are destined to be with what your born with - the issue is, most of these things carry extreme risk with only one or two safe methods. I am not encouraging one way or the other, whatever you decide to do at the end of the day is your own decision, I am not responsible; but, don't give up before even considering all of your options. Yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 11:14 PM
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Not directly related to the post, but if any men here are fat as fuck and think they have a small dick, I really recommend losing weight A lot of that shit is covered up by pubic fat my boy, losing weight doesn't make your dick bigger, but it reveals what was hidden, a lot of shaft can be covered by excess fat - and, being skinnier even gives the illusion that it is bigger than it is since thigh and belly fat are reduced; and also, poor blood flow results in weaker erections my guy, getting heal…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 11:02 PM
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Yes, but it is more common for american men to go down on a girl than it is for korean men from what I understand, but I don't have any studies or anything You can go on youtube and watch some girls from korea talk about the dating culture and how they moved to america, and how its better here for them
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 10:46 PM
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Yea, almost every women I know that I am somewhat close with, to the point where she'd be comfortable sharing these things, has told me about at least 3-4 extremely uncomfortable and regrettable sexual interactions, that have even given them anxiety to this day when opening up to a new partner. This is honestly where I am most sympathetic to women, the amount sexual assault and abuse women go through with casual sex is actually wild; so, its interesting to see how its sold as this empowering thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 10:32 PM
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Lol yea this isn’t true, a man isn’t ever gonna be explicit with his preference for low notch count women in this modern political climate, especially when speaking to another women. I also think you are misunderstanding something - men won’t go near virgins in only one instance, if they are looking just to fuck and don’t want a girl all clingy since he’d be their first, he doesn’t want to deal with the annoyance; guys want girls who fuck like porn stars for flings, and will pretend to be all se…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 02:03 PM
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Lmao, my comment was removed for what ?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 01:57 PM
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Ego Men don't like the idea of another nigga having fucked his girl, in any capacity - its not hard to understand, it is not incomprehensible.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 04:45 AM
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“well based on people’s responses, this trait is associated with this trait,” but they can’t tell you “promiscuity affects people in xyz ways” because they can’t prove causation Sure, but a correlation is still indicative of a predictive relationship between two variables, and if it is high degree it is especially notable; so, I think you are being a little pedantic here, you understand what he means. Most people here are not familiar with statistics, it doesn't hurt to just extend some charitab…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 09:58 PM
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lmao OP really thought he had some ground breaking insight
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